Learning To Say NO - Dave Rant

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  • @Elena-er7zp
    @Elena-er7zp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +966

    We wanted to get pizza delivered tonight because it's a holiday and we deserve it.
    After watching this, I'm boiling a 88 cent pack of spaghetti, making my own sauce with 3 lbs of tomatoes I bought on markdown for 99 cents and defrosting some ground beef that I bought on clearance. That's what's for dinner tonight. Not some $20 pizza.
    Always love coming to TH-cam to watch these rants when we have moments of weakness.

    • @findAplaceToCallHome
      @findAplaceToCallHome 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      How is the plan going? After about 6 months of recklessness I feel I'm finally getting back on tracj

    • @CarasGaladhon
      @CarasGaladhon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      And it was probably much healthier 🙂 good luck

    • @markm318
      @markm318 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      $1 mac & cheese and 88¢ green beans with some diced onion for me.

    • @gigimargal9234
      @gigimargal9234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This is a great tip!!! 😱❤

    • @zyilund
      @zyilund 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I always say, oh no.... I need this. Lol

  • @theresab8501
    @theresab8501 7 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Learning to say "no" is the best thing I ever learned. I said yes way too many times to people and things. Looking back I realized I used my cc's because I had given my extra cash away expecting pay back. SMH. Amazing how quiet my life is since I started saying NO... Luv it! On baby step 3! Restarting 401k/Roth (baby step 4) late September. Feels great!

    • @shanaythornton4718
      @shanaythornton4718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations Theresa!

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well done.
      Keep on keeping on.
      Stay blessed.

    • @MsJoyce31202
      @MsJoyce31202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And they ALWAYS will pay you back during Income tax time. 😉🤨

  • @TheRisky9
    @TheRisky9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    The most important person that I ever had to say "No" to is myself.

    • @alexandrar.4900
      @alexandrar.4900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TheRisky9 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @23evulp8
      @23evulp8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      so true...

  • @BigJ4708
    @BigJ4708 8 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    My wife introduced me to your program and videos about 30 days ago and I'm on baby step 2 now. Thank you for waking me up and realizing how much money I was throwing away each week off my paycheck. I've saved my emergency fund and just paid 750 dollars towards my smallest dept. I can do this and now see a path to financial freedom thanks to you. I really appreciate it.

    • @TheRamseyShow
      @TheRamseyShow  8 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Christopher, we just show you how. YOU are the one who is taking control of your money. Great job man!

    • @WoodT92
      @WoodT92 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How do you access the baby steps?

    • @s.n.pietrobon8130
      @s.n.pietrobon8130 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Christopher Mallory How is it going now Christopher? It's a year later, wondering if you are still sticking to it. I am just beginning my journey.

    • @JohnnyCleggUK
      @JohnnyCleggUK 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Woodly Tisme: Just google them - they are on his website.

  • @TheToadChild
    @TheToadChild 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Dave's grumpy days are my best motivational days.

  • @tjarena
    @tjarena 9 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    Live like no one else, SO LATER, you can live like no one else.

    • @tyrellmaten5281
      @tyrellmaten5281 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Tom Arena another way i like to think of this is that you must do what others don't so that you can have the life that other won't

    • @9cgx
      @9cgx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Tom Arena and... "GIVE" like no one else. Everybody conveniently leaves that portion out.

    • @TheToadChild
      @TheToadChild 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tom Arena The greatest mantra ever!

    • @sychophantt
      @sychophantt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So Im supposed to wait until I am old and in my worst physical state to start living life?

    • @irvincruz7992
      @irvincruz7992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sychophantt ur a idiot

  • @naimahharris3596
    @naimahharris3596 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    After 7 minutes of hearing Dave say, "No" it actually empowered me!.

  • @tomkotch3726
    @tomkotch3726 7 ปีที่แล้ว +739

    Tomorrow I knock off TWO credit cards! Feels good.

    • @housephone9090
      @housephone9090 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Congratu freakin lations my dude:D

    • @Santiagola24
      @Santiagola24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Way to go!

    • @bitTorrenter
      @bitTorrenter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just increased the limits on 2 of the 3 cards I have. The pleasure is short lived.

    • @Peepsyx3
      @Peepsyx3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No

    • @itubedv
      @itubedv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s been two years since you posted this, are you debt free know 🤔

  • @MrYumerican
    @MrYumerican 10 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    One definition of maturity is learning to delay pleasure-Dave Ramsey

    • @NoOneReallySpecial
      @NoOneReallySpecial 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      "Do we need it? No. Do we want it? Yes." If people would just separate fun from necessities, they'd be able to survive. My husband and I have been able to pay debts and have fun stuff, cause we pay necessities first and then, when we want to have fun, we buy stuff on sale or save up and then buy. We don't buy new games, etc.

    • @lovethemflowers
      @lovethemflowers 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I gotta write that down . . . and send it to my immature sister!

    • @lovethemflowers
      @lovethemflowers 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The definition of maturity Dave Ramsey read.

    • @georginaramsden4640
      @georginaramsden4640 ปีที่แล้ว

      Felt that 👍 I’m only 5yrs late but better then never lol

  • @Kenoji8
    @Kenoji8 7 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    Dave is like the family's rich uncle that no one talks to because "Oh, well, he's crazy because he found a way to get out of debt and doesn't mince words when he sees us getting under in our finances." But if you listen to this rich uncle, you will find a treasure trove of invaluable tools and methods to help you to obtain a financially peaceful future if you are willing to make the sacrifices.

    • @Peepsyx3
      @Peepsyx3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No

    • @24cull24
      @24cull24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This is what my wife and I used to argue about. Saying "No". We're only 24 but our families always ask us for money because of how much we make and the moves we're making financially. We share the lessons we get from these videos and how we're able to afford our new car and our new house but they don't care about that. They just want the money we bust our tails for every day. What sucks is that my wife gave in because she's just a sweetheart and doesn't say no despite knowing our goals and despite knowing I'd be upset. Point is, saying no and sharing the things they don't want to hear is powerful.

    • @emmanueloshaddai3259
      @emmanueloshaddai3259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      he's the rich uncle

  • @caedesroller1917
    @caedesroller1917 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Thank you for reminding me that NO is a wonderful word. I stopped buying expensive things and I enjoy buying things from the dollar store.

  • @catt99mahal8
    @catt99mahal8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Learning to say “NO” to myself got me out of $120k debt, with 3-6 months emergency fund, and bought my house, And I’m still saying, “NO” on $10 lunch.

  • @TheFiremonkeyman
    @TheFiremonkeyman 7 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I wish I'd learned the difference between "Having the money" and "being able to afford it" at a much younger age.

    • @2bituser569
      @2bituser569 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TheFiremonkeyman tell my wife that lol

  • @rcmag13
    @rcmag13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I love this one Dave! This culture has lost its way in some cases, glorifying football and weddings more than protecting the family or saving for retirement. A necessary dose of truth!

  • @christinerawls6960
    @christinerawls6960 8 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Hardest word in dictionary to say but smartest word. We thank you, Dave Ramsey!!!!

    • @LGnLA
      @LGnLA 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯💯💯

  • @gdaygday1209
    @gdaygday1209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Here i am binge watching, changing habits and my life for generations to come......smiles wide!

  • @Santiagola24
    @Santiagola24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    The "yes" culture. Saying "no" is seen as rude. Don't say yes when you want to say no. Saying no is being assertive not aggressive. It's backing your beliefs and desires.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was excluded from a group of women friends at work in the first year of my career because I couldn’t afford to spend on lunches, outings, and events the way they did. At 56 I’m an everyday millionaire and I can quit working anytime. Idk about them.

  • @pjr6537
    @pjr6537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wish I could like this a million times! He's right on point with this society in general. Everyone is so offended and sensitive, you'd think at times, you were talking to overgrown 2nd graders.

  • @janethlvasquez1842
    @janethlvasquez1842 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Today I said NO! to a company offering me a 0% interest CC for 10 months......It felt very...very... good! 💪💪

    • @Jordan4601
      @Jordan4601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Janeth Lorena Vasquez Toro that's not difficult at all why are you excited

    • @jaywatty8728
      @jaywatty8728 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kirby Dan 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @2bituser569
      @2bituser569 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know people who got 0% interest card. Transferred interest bearing debt and paid it off interest free on the remaining balance. Dave would flip over that but mathematically it makes sense if you can use it to your advantage. Pay it off asap and cancel card.

    • @NSGLiv
      @NSGLiv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tell that company to offer you a job

    • @yunusquddusofficialactor
      @yunusquddusofficialactor 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Janeth L Vasquez powerful no

  • @DrogoBaggins987
    @DrogoBaggins987 9 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    My parents lived through the most prosperous era in history in the richest country in the world and made a lot of money in their lives but ended up with nothing because they never grew up enough to delay gratification for even a little while.

    • @clair233
      @clair233 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mine are the same

    • @SummeRain783
      @SummeRain783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s sad. I think many people do that

  • @patriciadennis2113
    @patriciadennis2113 7 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    His rants are awesome.

  • @gpmiranda873
    @gpmiranda873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Everytime I feel myself slipping from the plan I watch this. Thanks uncle Dave.

  • @placeholder_name321
    @placeholder_name321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People don't have enough freaking backbone to say "No". Love it.

  • @GadeaOne
    @GadeaOne 9 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    can't wait to be out of debt SMH. $4.4k left

    • @GalbertKun
      @GalbertKun 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Alonso Gadea Keep it up Alonso, you can do it!

    • @uisblackcat
      @uisblackcat 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Alonso Gadea Way to go! Keep it up! Debt is dumb. Cash is king!

    • @GadeaOne
      @GadeaOne 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I recently paid off my student loan. $6,000 in ~ 5 months. Thanks guys for the support! Feels great not having any debt upon graduating. =D

    • @GadeaOne
      @GadeaOne 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thanks to Tax Returns, some FAFSA, selling things i no longer used, side jobs, and a raise at work. It really is a mindset

    • @kgotter
      @kgotter 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Alonso Gadea Great job!
      48K more for me :( just started my first budget

  • @debrawilliams7983
    @debrawilliams7983 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I said this word to myself before I bought my first flat-screen TV. Waited until I could afford it at the right time at the right price. Appreciated it more too!

    • @i.m.7710
      @i.m.7710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If I ever wanted to buy a flat screen tv, which I don't and have never bought, I would get one free or cheap on Craigslist.

  • @LuvandGlamour
    @LuvandGlamour 10 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Yes Dave. I agree. Learn to say NO.

  • @jeffc5974
    @jeffc5974 7 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    No football game is worth $1500.

    • @bakermayfield9716
      @bakermayfield9716 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jeff C agreed

    • @mmatrix3998
      @mmatrix3998 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      y'all sound broke

    • @stewdog22
      @stewdog22 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      If my team was in the super bowl and I had the money for it, I would throw down for that. Otherwise I completely agree. People in general waste a ton of money on sporting events

    • @marcosmercedesn
      @marcosmercedesn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Those games look better on TV

    • @eduu2
      @eduu2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Soccer world cup cost much more.
      A popular seat is over 5k, not even vip , vip cost 15k

  • @vincentbryan1962
    @vincentbryan1962 8 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I found it awkwardly and really hard when I have to say "no" to homeless people. Because my heart wants to give all the time but I'm not where I want to be financially. It's hard to say no. But one of Dave Ramsey's quotes that I really love is that you live like no one else, so later you can live And GIVE like no one else" this really helped me. Sometimes not helping people and giving them money, gives them the power to help themselves.

    • @outdoorsnevada4138
      @outdoorsnevada4138 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      vincent bryan
      It is true. If you gave $ to everyone you saw asking for it you would have none. I have $30 in my car in 1's. I use that money each month to help people on the streets. It helps them in some ways but I don't go broke either. Just budget for it if you do want to give. I give and I feel I am blessed for it because any time I have hit hards times someone would help.

    • @kgarba9253
      @kgarba9253 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Isaac Spencer good for you bro keep the drug trade afloat

    • @2bituser569
      @2bituser569 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kevin Garbaccio take them to cheap restaurant buy them a meal don't give $ or cards they resale gift cards too.

    • @monikasea
      @monikasea 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I am going to distribute meals not give money.I donate clothes to womens house

    • @fferguson2013
      @fferguson2013 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same and will give if necessary after my expenses are paid

  • @rachelh3441
    @rachelh3441 10 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I am making my husband listen to this one when I get home!!!! He can not say no to our 3 & 5 year old and it is horrible.

    • @gilo1223
      @gilo1223 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Rachel H update?

    • @sarahbucket8037
      @sarahbucket8037 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      they are divorced.. lol

    • @gbone1812
      @gbone1812 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sarah Bucket that's messed up

    • @user-hd8ej8yx9p
      @user-hd8ej8yx9p 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Update?

    • @kevin1seven923
      @kevin1seven923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I bet ur mad they like him better

  • @melaniexoxo
    @melaniexoxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    I love saying "no" at work when people hit me up for money for baby showers, their kids school sale, going out to lunch etc etc. Boy do people hate you though.

    • @nageshagordon1369
      @nageshagordon1369 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      lambchopxoxo so ture

    • @taerod1285
      @taerod1285 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Become their boss and they won't invite you lol.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Always Be True To Your Own Self
      PREACH!

    • @mandykelly6704
      @mandykelly6704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @juditharsenault2131
      @juditharsenault2131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My niece was having a baby shower for baby #2. My sisters wanted me to kick in money. I said no, she has everything she needs from baby #1. They weren't happy with me but oh well.

  • @cattsmahal1005
    @cattsmahal1005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “NO” is a complete sentence! 👏👏👏

  • @ad-ross
    @ad-ross 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is exactly what I need to be listening to. Subscribed.

  • @keithclark8030
    @keithclark8030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dave is right. I'm single and have to say No more to myself. I have bills that could have been paid off sooner with a emergency fund, I didn't do either one. Then I had things happen, like hospital stay, car accident and a few other things. Now I'm hurting. Should have listened years ago. It's tough, but now I am making progress. It will take some time, but I am committed to doing thing right to get everything paid off (-the house) the next few years. If anything else happens, I will be in serious trouble because I waited to be serious about this.

  • @vanessakohuch4633
    @vanessakohuch4633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The best motivation when you feel off track is a Dave Rant. Thank you Dave

  • @apollox5953
    @apollox5953 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I don't understand those who disliked this informative video. I mean, what's wrong about controlling yourself to squander your money on things that you don't really need?

    • @evarincon8750
      @evarincon8750 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Apollo Oculus I don't know, honestly. I can only speak for myself; I think a person can learn finical responsibility. I am unsure if financial responsibility is related to believing system not just a pattern. Blessings to anyone reading this. I pray you prosperous and learn financial stability.

    • @melaniexoxo
      @melaniexoxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with him about saying no to ourselves, but on the flip side no one is guaranteed tomorrow. I mean what is saying yes to yourself once for 500 ... as long as its only once. At times I think he is OVERLY restrictive when it comes to spending, then again the majority of people have almost never said no to themselves in their lives, so I understand why he's so strict. I didnt thumbs down tho... just didnt rate.

    • @roguenify
      @roguenify 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Downvoted for his political diatribe about taxes and having to pay government. Not everyone shares his cynicism about government employees. Also, Dave's wealth is estimated at $50 million. What is he crying about?

    • @calleywang6203
      @calleywang6203 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@roguenify he's crying that he might have to pay taxes

  • @lincolncity9
    @lincolncity9 7 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I'm used to the word 'no', my wife has been using that word for years. No and headache.

    • @misterhot9163
      @misterhot9163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lincolncity9 lol that's funny and sadly true!!

    • @i.m.7710
      @i.m.7710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sounds like you need a much, much, much better education on that subject. 🤔

    • @rosiecruz5926
      @rosiecruz5926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @CarolynP376
      @CarolynP376 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @liverpooldublin9317
      @liverpooldublin9317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought it's only my problem...

  • @Cyps36
    @Cyps36 10 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I know it`s frustrating Guys but Dave`s right, your team will not be there for you during financial hardship will they? So much sweeter going after you`ve completed step 3, doing the adult/mature thing to protect you family.
    Good luck Guys.

  • @monicaalva2423
    @monicaalva2423 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    NO! .... lol Love Dave Ramsey! ... There is a lot of truth in what he says. He is being practical.

  • @sonyapope6850
    @sonyapope6850 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is one of my favorite rants.

  • @Tcgrande77
    @Tcgrande77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dave, you are the best. I love how raw and honest you are.... the addition of your witty humor and sarcasm is great. Love you!

  • @courtneyhowe8832
    @courtneyhowe8832 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Feels good to say NO!

  • @Ria7020
    @Ria7020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you very much, for bringing clarity on debt subject and teaching us in our society to say “ NO”
    So much needed

  • @victoriapfingsten3402
    @victoriapfingsten3402 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Dave Ramsey for President

    • @srs9973
      @srs9973 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He would shut down American Distress and Master Card too 🤣

  • @angieharris8015
    @angieharris8015 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can't get enough of listening to you, because of your common-sense. You're comedy (though truthful)

  • @smithraymond09029
    @smithraymond09029 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found Dave Ramsey accidentally when one of his videos popped up on "suggested" videos list. Long story short, I heard his seminar and thought he was talking directly to me. It was a born again moment. I buckled down and paid off a tax bill that had been lingering around for 6 long years. It took a measly 5 months once I decided to throw everything I had at the lousy $12,000 debt. I had to say "no" to a lot of things: trips, nights out, giving gifts on birthdays and Christmas.

  • @ChristinaKwarteng
    @ChristinaKwarteng 8 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    LOL I am cracking up at work! "NO"

  • @christinakuders6577
    @christinakuders6577 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Saying no can be hard because sometimes it puts guilt in you but you have to say no and set boundaries regardless. When you say no be firm with it. Don’t feel guilty about setting boundaries and saying no. Dave Ramsey is already making it easier for me to say no!

  • @vab7274
    @vab7274 7 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    This is so funny... my 4 year old tell me all you ever say is No, No, No! mommy when will you say yes to me? I told her when I complete my plan with Dave Ramsey...

    • @2bituser569
      @2bituser569 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      CLAUDIA NIETOLUCIO say yes when they ask if they can get a job lol

    • @tr7397
      @tr7397 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Daniel Bennett
      Hahahahahahahahahaha 👍

    • @gidleyreporting
      @gidleyreporting 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      "Well, ask me if you can clean your toys up." Yes!)

    • @gidleyreporting
      @gidleyreporting 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Tell her she's just not asking the right questions;)

    • @shanaythornton4718
      @shanaythornton4718 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @yakopro49
    @yakopro49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Once I learned to say no, I lost all my friends, gained full self respect, became a better saver, and love God genuinely with all my heart

    • @cl8wnm5n
      @cl8wnm5n ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you 👏

  • @keithp2480
    @keithp2480 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm a die hard packer fan but remember the quote by Vince Lombardi that the important things first are religion and family then the Packers. Taking care of the family also means being smart with money. I cut out NFL Sunday ticket from my budget to pay off debt and believe me that was hard but it's also hard being in debt.

  • @ir10031981
    @ir10031981 10 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    people who can't delay pleasure are usually the ones who end up getting their stuff repossessed. sheesh!

    • @laurenandreas5950
      @laurenandreas5950 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ir10031981 And calling Momma to give them a loan they will never pay back!!!

  • @humblopinion
    @humblopinion 10 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I'm a nerd: I counted 37 "no"s in under nine minutes. Classic!

  • @UNIT294
    @UNIT294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The look on Dave's face after reading the first sentence is priceless.

  • @StasTalksStocks
    @StasTalksStocks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love these rants! Dry humor is on point too haha

  • @wturner777
    @wturner777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    If you cannot pay your bus fare like everyone else, you cannot ride the bus. NO!!!

  • @Letsbreal2023
    @Letsbreal2023 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    No..the nasty word. love it dave😂

  • @laurenandreas5950
    @laurenandreas5950 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t understand why some people learn and some seem incapable of learning. I learned the lesson of credit cards when I was 20 and bills took most of my paycheck. It was awful when the only thing to cut was the groceries and cheap food isn’t very good. I swore to never go back, then I married the wrong man and had to learn it again. Now I’m debt free and nothing will ever change that!!!

    • @annettewilliams1986
      @annettewilliams1986 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good job Lauren!!!similar to my story. People can make you or break you.I guess you have to be tired of BEING tired of debt to fight for Finincial Peace!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Doobieboo213
    @Doobieboo213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching this makes me reflect back on how many times I haven't said no and tried to beat around the bush.

  • @QuiverofArrows
    @QuiverofArrows 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the beginning of my marriage the word No was seen as an insult, setting boundaries was seen as offensive by the people closest to us. But over the years my husband and I have learned that the people who were being this way were the unhealthy ones not us. Don't let anyone family/friends or strangers walk all over you or guilt trip you into toxic unhealthy relationships.....just say No and let them deal with themselves.

  • @Geraldine295
    @Geraldine295 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant! I've got quite good at saying " no". It's amazing how many people here in the UK will find the money for new mobile phones, yet more clothing, nights out, holidays, new car, etc but panic at the thought of losing their job because they have no savings. I know a lot of people who spend their money as fast as it comes in because they are constantly enduring themselves like overgrown kids. And then people wonder why so many kids have grown up with a massive sense of entitlement!

  • @dakillah6018
    @dakillah6018 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dave you are a real man. Thank you Dave.

  • @SummeRain783
    @SummeRain783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “Snot flying everywhere, tears going everywhere, laying in the floor, spinning around like they’re breakdancing in the cereal isle of a grocery store” 😂😂😂

  • @D.ron.87
    @D.ron.87 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've been working on paying off my debts, and every time I think about buying something I can't afford, or signing up for monthly payments on something I have Dave Ramseys voice in my head saying 'NO! You can't afford it, you're fricken broke!'

  • @robals744
    @robals744 7 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    58 bankers didnt like this advice.

    • @24cull24
      @24cull24 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahaha

  • @chrisspeer990
    @chrisspeer990 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This word no is a word that I need to learn how to say . Over the years i have worked and saved and invested hard as well . The down side is my family always asks me for money and i have helped them . BUT I HAVE REALIZED now that it has only made them weak and more dependent on me ..

  • @temitopes5579
    @temitopes5579 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I learned how to say NO 5 years ago. Excited about my baby steps. Thank God for your wisdom Dave.

  • @tthomaselli2
    @tthomaselli2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dave Ramsey said it, best at 7:36-7:49...
    The number of people I know who play the "I deserve it." card would surprise you.

  • @rachelmce1389
    @rachelmce1389 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Haha! I was listening to this and my 17-month-old son started shaking his head and saying, "Noooooo! Noooooo!" X-D I feel like that's the ONLY word I say all day, but maybe that's a good thing!

  • @matthewbrady327
    @matthewbrady327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m not gonna lie, saying no to someone is difficult for me. But after watching this, I believe that’s when someone needs to hear if it’s an inconvenience for me.

  • @LittlePinkPiggy1
    @LittlePinkPiggy1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anytime I feel spendy I look for a Dave Ramsey Rant. The perfect remedy.

  • @cajunkeels
    @cajunkeels 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Girlfriend: can we go out to eat tonight? It's our anniversary.
    Me: No.
    Girlfriend: *breaks up with me and I save a lot of money

    • @sadisticgirl_
      @sadisticgirl_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you're joking but I actually know a girl who did that👍😔

    • @zeekaywalker9232
      @zeekaywalker9232 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @A to G to U
      Probably for a good reason?!
      I mean going out on the anniversary is far different then always going out and wasting money... especially going out/doing something on your anniversary doesn't have to be expensive.
      You can do a lot together that doesn't cost a fortune.
      Did you even do anything together with/for your girlfriend?
      Because girls ain't leaving usually that easy after a no...at least as long as there hasn't been something already boiling long term in the background.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @srs9973
      @srs9973 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Will I die Single then? 😑😑😑🥹🥹

    • @cajunkeels
      @cajunkeels 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@srs9973 Maybe not if she doesn’t mind frugality.

  • @julietsweetman2
    @julietsweetman2 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Been on this plan for the past 3 months half way done .thanks sir

  • @moanabell3550
    @moanabell3550 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of my favourite Dave rants!

  • @funtucsonman2838
    @funtucsonman2838 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great speech. Delay gratification now in order to later be wealthy, retire, or to be prepared for an emergency.

  • @CountryBlessingz
    @CountryBlessingz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Spiritual, Financial Advisor now! 🙏💚💜💰

  • @Paperboympr357
    @Paperboympr357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This will make you go from ordering a pizza to being a delivery driver instead 😆😂😂

  • @lynnstrickland8176
    @lynnstrickland8176 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I LOVE THIS! NO! NO! NO! DAVE RAMSEY RULES!

  • @J90JAM
    @J90JAM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No is a decision, yes is a responsibility.

  • @kathleenmcbride1471
    @kathleenmcbride1471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is HILARIOUS and 100 percent accurate.

  • @trustbreak
    @trustbreak 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing rant. Working sales I heard a guy tell me I need to Remove "no" from my vocabulary. My response was simple, and because of it he came back and bought from me, No. No is a simple and boundary setting word that does not mix feelings. Perhaps that is why it is politically incorrect; it actually tells you something instead of beating around the bush.

  • @selenamac
    @selenamac 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Noooooooooooo! ❤ Dave Ramsey!!! His rants are hard hitting!!! He gives the best advice!!!!

  • @mandykelly6704
    @mandykelly6704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "deserve" the worst word ever created.

  • @tomvonneefe4269
    @tomvonneefe4269 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    No! Such a powerful word.

  • @jeremiahedwards7357
    @jeremiahedwards7357 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My favorite word! $1,500 for a single game...that's insane. You could purchase a sports package, super sized flat screen T.V. and still have money left over at the end of the game. I think it would be worth just as much to have friends over and watch the game with pizza and snacks.

  • @tthomaselli2
    @tthomaselli2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    2:35-3:20.; I'm rather fond of this word & it feels good every time I say it.

  • @Ninabeana1313
    @Ninabeana1313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Say NO to Dave Ramsey, about paying for his course! You can find all of this information for free online from him, Graham stephan and quite a few others.

  • @pinaopina
    @pinaopina 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    No no no no no no no no...... 😂😂😂😂😂👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 my kids and my husband heard that a LOT. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @abigailgall
    @abigailgall 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Dave you are the only one making sense these days

  • @QueenStylin
    @QueenStylin 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I went to Green Bay. But I did it before I knew about Dave. I regret nothing. But not returning until I am in a better financial situation.

  • @Tyler_DeBord
    @Tyler_DeBord 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No I’m gonna vote you out because you can’t say NO! I heard that!! I love this rant!

  • @haydenandkelly99
    @haydenandkelly99 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you. You nailed it!

  • @nw8000
    @nw8000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just say NO you can do it

  • @AestheticBible
    @AestheticBible 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dave Ramsey, a practical cure for entitlement thinking.

  • @brianevans6328
    @brianevans6328 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I told a group of young people one time at church that one of the most important words they would ever learn to use is the word NO, and that one of the most important people that they would learn to say NO to is themselves.

  • @tthomaselli2
    @tthomaselli2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:45-7:54.; Well said, Dave...
    Good words to live by.

  • @6lu5ky86
    @6lu5ky86 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing opportunities fly under your radar every day. It's impossible to be in attendance for all of them. Positive constraints on your expenditures will provide you with opportunities that you can enjoy. You just have to say "no" several times, and when you finally say yes (when you can afford it) the world can be your oyster. I try to remind myself of that every day.

  • @jakevote8978
    @jakevote8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I come back and listen to this one often as I grow

  • @tthomaselli2
    @tthomaselli2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    6:47-6:50.; The same, here, Dave...
    "No." changed my life, a long time ago.

  • @massimom9685
    @massimom9685 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Big Dave Ramsey fans from Canada and I must say, by far the funniest clip I’ve seen of him! Love it!

  • @sarrahconley3923
    @sarrahconley3923 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Reading all your books. Had to read so much to give them more common sense knowledge. It's helping my brother and sister too.