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  • @shubhadarupvate
    @shubhadarupvate 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Such a big lesson taught yet seems so simple.He's amazing

  • @dineshpant4098
    @dineshpant4098 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Though I am a Hindu by birth but I am a Buddhist by heart and nature. Lord Buddha's continence fascinates me. Recently visited Mcleodganj, the aura of His Holiness Dalai Lama's Temple is still fresh in my mind. I love watching all these videos. Great.

  • @grishayampolsky
    @grishayampolsky 7 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    haha that paper thing was priceless.
    Mingyur is a very good explanaitor and also funny

  • @sonam8347
    @sonam8347 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I love ur way of speaking.. I do respect ur innocence. Sir....now I love to follow whatever u said... My heart wants to follow ur rules as a disciple.. in the world full of distractions I found u as my saviour ..bless us...

    • @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13
      @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sonam sharma "ATHTHAAHI ATHTHANO NATHO KOHI NAATHO PAROSIYAA" so you should follow buddha's teachings and you will be your own saviour.

  • @GOETHALS1000
    @GOETHALS1000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the cutest way to make somebody understand something .......... amazing person ...Thank u for your videos .

  • @simpleandsavored9210
    @simpleandsavored9210 7 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    words of the wise, lots of failure in the beginning is actually success in the long-term.

  • @exequielbayo59
    @exequielbayo59 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this guy so much, his teaching are simple and inspiring. Thank you, thank you!

  • @finnibertlunchiken7792
    @finnibertlunchiken7792 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love Mingyur Rinpoche. What a great teacher. Love his videos.

  • @daleincisions
    @daleincisions 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I like the fact that he's talking into millennial problems right now , like the smartphone thing very on point

  • @luisurena9876
    @luisurena9876 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you. 💚💙🌱🙏 I love how Rinpoche explains things.

  • @brahma1905
    @brahma1905 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I change my habit after watching your wonderful video.tq

  • @madeehakanwal6072
    @madeehakanwal6072 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    mind blowing learning techniques

  • @BaptisteLandry
    @BaptisteLandry ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you mingyur rinpoche for all shares, very difficult to change habits because we also have the bad habit of try changing what we want as fast as possible.

  • @raffaeltroost2660
    @raffaeltroost2660 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so helpful Mingyur Rinpche, thank you so much. You are always radiating with happiness I love it. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @luciesimackova4805
    @luciesimackova4805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Briliant! So clever and simple

  • @rajivnayan4545
    @rajivnayan4545 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One thing I have to say that i never seen you guys like that because u have 0 % arrogance and u r giving ur knowledge without any selfishness
    Thank you so much

  • @snowflakes8229
    @snowflakes8229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    very satisfying part is playing with paper. i have watched many times .great sir

  • @ericjorgearnezinochea9679
    @ericjorgearnezinochea9679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The paper analogy was on point.. because it folded back at the last second. Dont power through your bad habits. its a losing battle. Try to change your enviroment to make those habits less appealing. Other strategy is to replace those bad habits with good or (temporally) less damaging ones.

  • @tracylawlor4214
    @tracylawlor4214 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've watched this over and over because He's so adorable....

  • @Mohan27041968
    @Mohan27041968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is one of sweetest and Happiest Monks I ever seen.. So lovable...

  • @adv.prasad_pawar
    @adv.prasad_pawar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Golden words that everyone can follow in his life to chage the unwanted things....!

  • @ajaythomaslukose1635
    @ajaythomaslukose1635 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Beautiful demonstration.

  • @syedmuzaffarali2006
    @syedmuzaffarali2006 7 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Knowledge worth 100 books in 2minutes

    • @beingangmo1999
      @beingangmo1999 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice

    • @KrishmanyuThakur
      @KrishmanyuThakur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If the same thing was said by someone who was not a monk BELIEVE me you wouldn't have said that

    • @jamesnguyen7069
      @jamesnguyen7069 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      6 minutes

  • @PradeepMenon666
    @PradeepMenon666 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What a great person! :) There is only good will in his words here

  • @mach2262
    @mach2262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Really mind blowing at the simplistic yet effective lesson!!! 🤩🥰🙏

  • @pheakros5564
    @pheakros5564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very good metaphor for discovering ways to change habits. Thank so much.

  • @madanpoudel8878
    @madanpoudel8878 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i have not been influenced as this guy is making me from his action and words!!!
    thank you so much

  • @tarundubey5847
    @tarundubey5847 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A priceless advice from a beautiful soul....Thank you sir....Lots of Love....

  • @skyvalentine9694
    @skyvalentine9694 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this guy. And his way of speaking. and his simple but effective analogies. Ans his humorous way of explanation. A true Buddhist Master you can learn from.

  • @bluesea8227
    @bluesea8227 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hello , I have an illness since I were born . I met alot of doctors but it's not gone away. Doctors said I have nothing wrong with my body . I did x ray ... etc a lot of that. It's 16 years today. and I come here for self healing. I hope I can see the light after I broke my self in many pieces. thanks you !

    • @richiekong6843
      @richiekong6843 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can do it. Don't ever give up even not yet meet expectation. Love yourself and your body will self healing.

    • @rudhradevraj8774
      @rudhradevraj8774 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dont know that god will or will not bless you but if you work for your self than you will surely emancipate from your misery and will experience the eternal bliss.

    • @ranveersaha4992
      @ranveersaha4992 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get well soon

    • @brostenko5203
      @brostenko5203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Might be useful for whoever can accept it.
      Leave the thought about self centered; What's wrong with my illness or body, why I'm not healed? Why none doctor could cure me? Are they stupid doctors?
      It can folow building anger in your mind where those negative thoughts effect to your body cells which produce consequently worsen and slow down your healing.
      Instead ....
      Develop positive thoughts such as loving kindness compasion to everyone.
      It sound naive but when you are sick and could still care others by praying for who have suffering / illness, hopefully they could get happiness / healing.
      Your postive thoughts Automatically produce good cells in your body.

    • @istoppain62
      @istoppain62 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Give it a try don’t stop. Work on inside and there is nothing wrong there

  • @sumsum5830
    @sumsum5830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sir pls pls do more videos
    It's going to be a blessing to the mankind

  • @veereshsipraygodentireworl7032
    @veereshsipraygodentireworl7032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love to rinpoche , he is extradinary teaching

  • @CaptainAMAZINGGG
    @CaptainAMAZINGGG 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm so in love with this man omg he's the cutest ever. :') he is like all of the joy.

  • @medioguiri
    @medioguiri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I nod enthusiastically while watching this ... on my smart phone ☺

  • @ajitmenon8246
    @ajitmenon8246 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Love your videos...they are very good and helpful! Also, good demonstration of how habits are!

  • @karmatshomo3510
    @karmatshomo3510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wondfull and lovely teacher so greth

  • @johnnytortuga5795
    @johnnytortuga5795 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The analogy with the folded paper is perfect.

  • @other785
    @other785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're so affable and adorable. Thankyou Paul. :) So simply explained. Lots of love and light to you.

  • @auroraa3613
    @auroraa3613 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Always feel so relaxing listening to monks.Dhanyawad! I am grateful for the opportunity that i could get a chance to listen you.

  • @chistayachistaya
    @chistayachistaya 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your explanation is so simple but so convincing

  • @Catalystresource
    @Catalystresource 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very effective yet simple explanation. ❤

  • @kareng1952
    @kareng1952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Determination and patience are 🔑 to kicking habits. The more entrenched the habit, the greater the determination and patience should be.👍🏻

  • @Kanzu999
    @Kanzu999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So simple, yet so wise.

  • @色勒
    @色勒 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So relatable.
    This really helps me with the mind set.
    Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

  • @ningtopshakya4680
    @ningtopshakya4680 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much Rinpoche la ❤❤❤❤

  • @moniqueesau5024
    @moniqueesau5024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your insightful advice.

  • @BK00.7
    @BK00.7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haha the paper eg was so great, I understand it in sec, it's really hard to change the habits but he gives best way to break it. I love his ways of explaining 👏

  • @mahirahmed6388
    @mahirahmed6388 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    good ASMR.

  • @sarathyone1
    @sarathyone1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks master for this wonderful video. What we thought is a difficult job made easy, with this simple and powerful process

  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very inspirational and so funny! We can learn a lot. :) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

  • @phurbulhamo2815
    @phurbulhamo2815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg excellent thank u so much may Buddha bless u always

  • @monotoshghosh7971
    @monotoshghosh7971 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow...the demo is excellent. Hope it will surely help me..thanks

  • @shakuntalachhotu3598
    @shakuntalachhotu3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautifully explain.....

  • @veronicachani6222
    @veronicachani6222 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. this is very useful in my case.

  • @richardcarew4708
    @richardcarew4708 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Master Rinpoche, I too have been a book reader.. and I never watched television.. so.. a book a day was my habit most of my life.. 5 books going all the Time.. the internet came along, at first it was just universities and text only.. access to all the libraries in the World.. far out man.. Smartphone technology brings the internet to every person on Earth.. it's the greatest combination since cans and soup... it's mostly free information.. all those books.. science in actual science papers.. I have been sick for 23 years in bed.. I read.. and look for new information.. because that's what makes me happy... television teaches people to be passive observers.. shut the mind off in favor of someone else's thoughts and ideas.. it's definitely habit forming.. much more than anything else in our society.. it's global.. it's not accurate information.. but if you have no other information.. how can we know?.. and.. you know.. all the kids are doing it, right?.. must be OK.. at least with a smartphone you request the information you receive..
    random thoughts 🤔.. thanks for yet another great teaching video.. and this opportunity to say.. turn off your television.. please.. you will be glad you did 🙏Namaste ✌

  • @shyonacharjee5621
    @shyonacharjee5621 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent depiction of changing habit.Habit changes not suddenly but gradually through consistent effort

  • @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13
    @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Saadhu saadhu saadhu .the paper thing is a miracle

  • @jassimlatheef1884
    @jassimlatheef1884 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is just awesome!!

  • @dilipaweeratunga
    @dilipaweeratunga ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the video I found Venarable Bhante. In 2017🙏

  • @subhad6930
    @subhad6930 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you soo much..namo buddhay..

  • @shiraliagrawal83
    @shiraliagrawal83 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He is amazing teacher🙏

  • @10thgrademath66
    @10thgrademath66 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's really valuable words😀..it is very motivational🤓

  • @karmayeshe8935
    @karmayeshe8935 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lama Chenno🌷🌷🌷

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lomachenko?

  • @sadabnihal675
    @sadabnihal675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's just awesome ... A great teacher....💕💕

  • @sheilakirwan6900
    @sheilakirwan6900 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sweet and simple ...thank you Rimpoche

  • @kunjbiharibudania4866
    @kunjbiharibudania4866 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    sir you're so funny and simple thanx for the advice thank you very much✌

  • @BreakFreeAddiction
    @BreakFreeAddiction 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    well, when a habit becomes addiction, thats when this doesnt work. I love this example by the way and your videos have soo much value. Thanks for sharing.

    • @DTTaTa
      @DTTaTa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      BreakFree Addiction it does work, just takes more patience ;)

    • @baberuthny3
      @baberuthny3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes it does, just need to accept the addiction, observe it, let it go, be, and repeat.

    • @martfildes9675
      @martfildes9675 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You have eyes, but you did not watch dear. Try again and again and again.

    • @kramraliuga5589
      @kramraliuga5589 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I recovered from 7 years of drug addiction. Now I’m trying to break the habit of smoking cigarettes, I have 4 left, after that I will try and quit. I might fail, but I’ll try again, until I stop. So as I did with drugs.

    • @homoerectussemenallyretent6638
      @homoerectussemenallyretent6638 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thnx

  • @Earthsuitlife
    @Earthsuitlife 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful and so succinct. Thank you.

  • @onepercentruleeveryday
    @onepercentruleeveryday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    habit changing takes time but it’s rewards come tenfold:) our habits create our destiny

  • @arafatansari9548
    @arafatansari9548 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir i liked yours speeches..and process and personality.

  • @AJHoll
    @AJHoll 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Wow that example with the Paper is an absolutely spot on example for me when I first started No-fap, I tried so many times and failed as many times, but now after 2 years of constantly trying, my metaphorical paper is straighter than it has ever been

    • @tasvak3452
      @tasvak3452 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      H Meister so how long have you been nofapping?

    • @omly85
      @omly85 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can relate,i've only fapped once in the last 2 years.It was very hard to do but i'll never go back or give my power away like that again.

    • @emanuellopez8578
      @emanuellopez8578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      r/cursedcomments

  • @mayankrajprajapat8542
    @mayankrajprajapat8542 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So so delight full you are.

  • @jalajamenon8664
    @jalajamenon8664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Master🙏🙏🙏

  • @kiransinghmar
    @kiransinghmar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing explanation

  • @vivekmohank2982
    @vivekmohank2982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lots of love from heart sir.this video means a lot to me..

  • @yerdans
    @yerdans 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great vid,been wanting to build a reading habit and I think this helps a lot,thank you

  • @danjabujas3653
    @danjabujas3653 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    well, I didn't get my answers, but it was a pure joy to watch him "play" with that piece of paper. Thank you for that! :)

    • @MrCmon113
      @MrCmon113 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was saying that one should start small and expect failure.

  • @Draxanderful
    @Draxanderful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What paper is that? So beautiful

  • @DoctorObviously
    @DoctorObviously 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is EXACTLY how kicking off an addiction works too.

  • @gk411
    @gk411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful, that is lovely..om 🙏✌📿🌻🍃

  • @jom.a.md.s.h.2206
    @jom.a.md.s.h.2206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Namo Buddhay 🙏🙏🙏

  • @love123_ultra5
    @love123_ultra5 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love his voice

  • @rashmikapatel6836
    @rashmikapatel6836 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cutest and fun Buddha I've seen so far

  • @pieterduivenvoorden3866
    @pieterduivenvoorden3866 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for teaching...Namo,Namo.Namo

  • @MrCmon113
    @MrCmon113 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most important is patience and non-judgement. When you are lost in judgement, you are not thinking of how to improve. Instead you are lead into avoidance of problems.

  • @Aprilatemypie
    @Aprilatemypie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Thank you. ❤️

  • @sarmisthahalder1669
    @sarmisthahalder1669 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanku sir and please bless us to improve our thoughts

  • @biswaMastAadmi
    @biswaMastAadmi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    on way to become buddhist

    • @thesage90
      @thesage90 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Working on it as well

  • @djcelcatalan7614
    @djcelcatalan7614 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats a good example teacher

  • @dreamyeyes09
    @dreamyeyes09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this

  • @missdaytonas
    @missdaytonas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love him

  • @ayeshask3638
    @ayeshask3638 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent sir thank u so much

  • @hitonozhimomi2137
    @hitonozhimomi2137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahhh I love this guy mann thank you .

  • @jaymehta2560
    @jaymehta2560 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing .Thank you

  • @tatato1345
    @tatato1345 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is adorable

  • @audreyburton5367
    @audreyburton5367 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you.

  • @wandanevada4287
    @wandanevada4287 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Factual .Let us beware of catching new bad habits which can imprison us and get rid of old unhealthy habits .Thx.

  • @editeisabelfaria2014
    @editeisabelfaria2014 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Obrigada Mestre!

  • @sumondhy1967
    @sumondhy1967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank

  • @JANICEWIGAN
    @JANICEWIGAN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice content!!