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  • @OrthodoxChristian809
    @OrthodoxChristian809 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Why aren't people like this leading the world?

    • @finnibertlunchiken7792
      @finnibertlunchiken7792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      They are, but theyre doing it from the low places.

    • @mejohn101
      @mejohn101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      they certainly are leaders in mine

    • @Tullece
      @Tullece 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      There will be a time when these teachers are seen as leaders, at the moment though there is too much greed, ignorance and material lust so people look to wealthy/famous/beautiful people as leaders. The winds of change are always blowing though.

    • @chirathmaddumage1141
      @chirathmaddumage1141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Tullece well said my friend

    • @lunaamerkel1756
      @lunaamerkel1756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It depends on us. We are our own leaders and teachers because we make our choices.

  • @vanessar88
    @vanessar88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    i’m 13 and have anxiety, he has tremendously helped me understand and cope with my emotions like on another level. Why in the world doesn’t everyone watch him, if everyone had this type of knowledge the world would literally be so peaceful

    • @sumitkhatri3530
      @sumitkhatri3530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You should be proud of the fact that you are aware in this little age....
      Take care 💕

    • @troecurov3
      @troecurov3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because knowing things doesn't help. That's why.

    • @vanessar88
      @vanessar88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@troecurov3 Knowing things helps if u actually take that knowledge and use it to better yourself

    • @RickarooCarew
      @RickarooCarew 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vanessar88 ... good on you.. age has very little to do with being able to understand truth... some people look for it all their lives...
      for anxiety... read a book... turn off your TV... you won't miss anything.. except things you can't change.. far far away...
      we can only change ourselves, sister.. it starts with the stuff Master Rinpoche talks about... and the Dalai Lama... these guys are... very very wise... Rinpoche = enlightened being... I'm listening to them every day.. I'm 13.. going on 70 in a few months.. I promised myself never to grow up about 65 years ago... ok so far
      ✌️ Peace ❤️♾️❤️

  • @ronbar5342
    @ronbar5342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As Albert Einstein said: “If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough”. Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche is a gifted teacher. I have attended/listen to these kinds of lectures for years. In my humble opinion, he is the best. I would recommend him especially for beginners/intermediate.

  • @celestes.7187
    @celestes.7187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    You can tell when someone is teaching from direct experience vs merely relaying what someone else said. 🙏🏼

  • @SanWongY
    @SanWongY 7 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    "One day, emotions become my friend, my teacher." Thank you Namaste 🌸

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SanWongY I love that quote too! :-) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

    • @SanWongY
      @SanWongY 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Simple Happy Zen Thank you for letting me know : ) . And also guiding me back to Mingyur Rinpoche's explanation, as I re-listen, there is still so much more to digest and internalise. Thank you Simple Happy Zen, Namaste ^_^ The name is beautiful too

    • @swingingcrow124
      @swingingcrow124 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SanWongY instead of Namaste, ‘Tashi Delek’ would serve better since Rinpoche is Tibetan

  • @dennettshane1929
    @dennettshane1929 7 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    He really is a good teacher.

    • @isabellevantol5486
      @isabellevantol5486 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you very much

    • @authentic_101
      @authentic_101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, he really is :)

    • @richardcarew4708
      @richardcarew4708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      teachers are special people.. although it's not true that some people are more equal than others.. in our various pursuits some are better than others.. A Einstein said if you can't describe it simply you don't understand it well enough 😉..
      Master Youngey Mingyur Rinpoche has a very deep understanding of his various subjects.. that's why I am here.. thanks y'all..
      and thank you Master.. I am your most humble servant, sir 🙏Namaste

  • @finnibertlunchiken7792
    @finnibertlunchiken7792 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This is simply awesome. I have seen very few people even attempt to explain this sort of thing. They often do a horrible job of explaining it because they don't seem to fully understand it. He does a great thing here. It's not a cut and dried process. It takes work to break the cycle of reactive emotions and thoughts. Giving energy to alternate neural network s instead of playing the game they demand is the right way to go. This is how you overcome negative emotion.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      finnibert lunchiken That's right, we keep on practicing! :-) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

    • @justaspace1079
      @justaspace1079 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn yeah cuz observing Difficult Emotions so hard Last night I thought am gonna die ♥️

  • @jonathanjordon4769
    @jonathanjordon4769 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mingyur Rinpoche is a really good teacher but also a really kind person as well.

  • @didierlason6453
    @didierlason6453 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A man of true wisdom. Enlightened indeed. If the world world were to listen to his teachings, imagine what the world would be like? Blessings and love to all.

  • @suryadas6987
    @suryadas6987 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dear Mingyur Rinpoche, I am Indian/Hindu and I am really appreciating your instructions. Thank you so much! You are a super good instructor. You are explaining very simple and clearly and the lessons are so very effective and working. Much respect and gratitude for you! 🙏 Pranams, dear Rinpoche. 📿🕉🙏 Jai Guru Dev!!! 🙏🕉📿

  • @wanderingtsering
    @wanderingtsering 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The best analogy I have ever heard! Thank you Mingyur Rinpoche la. 🙏🏼

  • @suhualeow1136
    @suhualeow1136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One day, you and your emotion will become very good friends. I really look forward to that day. Encouraging to hear this statement uttered by Mingyur Rinpoche. I'll hold on to that hope.

  • @suhualeow1136
    @suhualeow1136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don't jump into the river (of emotions) and be carried away (by it). You can't stop the river either. So, just WATCH the river. Power of awareness. Mindful of how the body feels. Practise to extend the time between the rise of emotion and impulsive action.

  • @stevenl378
    @stevenl378 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you my great teacher

  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Wonderful video, Jongey Mingyur Rinpoche can always explain things so well! Very inspiring. Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

  • @jessicataylor5656
    @jessicataylor5656 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this video. Great analogies and such an inspiring and hopeful tone. I recently became aware of just how much difficult emotions were impacting my life and relationships. I have a pattern of feeling foggy, confused and helpless when swept away with difficult thoughts and the strong emotions that follow them. Against my best intentions, I find myself getting caught up on the same things time and time again, suffering even more because I so badly do not want the cycle to continue. This is such an important topic and I feel it should be taught to children, too. It is going to take practice, but I can not think of a more deserving goal. Thank you 💛🙏

  • @sheemoheeput9544
    @sheemoheeput9544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Had a rather difficult moment with family gatherings tonight. So this video was on point. Hoping to become friends with my emotions

  • @akkrajewska3745
    @akkrajewska3745 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love how he packs so much clear practice instruction in just a few minutes of instruction. What an inspiring teacher.

  • @goofystories
    @goofystories 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This world needs more people like you

  • @milkmanswife93696
    @milkmanswife93696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have to remind myself of this again and again

  • @briankivuti
    @briankivuti ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this very clear guide 💗 ive been practicing watching this experience, but hadn't known that the shift in focus between the different points would help. That was very helpful, thank you.

  • @Catalystresource
    @Catalystresource 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a simple and profound practice explained so well❤

  • @gopaltheleokrishnan7881
    @gopaltheleokrishnan7881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I listen to him always - easy way of explaining everything

  • @medhaliyanage3550
    @medhaliyanage3550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First time I heard about monkey mind and It helps me a lot every day Sir.Thank you.Budu Saranai

  • @jimmylama8328
    @jimmylama8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou rinpoche 🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏

  • @audiovisualbooksbyaparna9624
    @audiovisualbooksbyaparna9624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How beautifully you explain , it is marvelous , thanks.

  • @richardcarew4708
    @richardcarew4708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    always a pleasure, sir... and, always right on Time.. thou art beautiful and I love thee ❤
    thanks for sharing your amazing wisdom 🙏
    Peace 🙏✌☮🕊Namaste ✌✨

  • @SW-wf3gy
    @SW-wf3gy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wonderful :) Thank you so much!

  • @Практикующийжизнь
    @Практикующийжизнь 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. Great suggestion.

  • @tic857
    @tic857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    suddenly remembers and applies the "Rip tide scenario". If you get caught in the rip tide, gather yourself, swim or flow with it until you reach calmer waters, then make your way back to shore.

  • @feelgoodminds
    @feelgoodminds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Worth Video and Worth Watching!!!

  • @kch3019
    @kch3019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks much. Very much appreciated

  • @injujuan8993
    @injujuan8993 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So true. Thank you, Sir! You are just beautiful 🦋

  • @ilonkaleibfried2142
    @ilonkaleibfried2142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watch the river 🙏😁 power of awareness 😊🙇‍♀️

  • @Souldivided
    @Souldivided 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this simple explaining and short video. Then comes years of practice.........LOL.

  • @i.a.-infiniteawareness4991
    @i.a.-infiniteawareness4991 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏

  • @chaithanyasurya2224
    @chaithanyasurya2224 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your speeches helps me a lot thank you so much

  • @Eaglez27
    @Eaglez27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So good, thank you Rinpoche!

  • @peacefulpisces5336
    @peacefulpisces5336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Trying to practice this very challenging

  • @sabrinashultana4512
    @sabrinashultana4512 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    he is wonderful

  • @mahmud7718
    @mahmud7718 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    thank you sir. i am learning a lot from you. i am so grateful to you

    • @smileforyourself4303
      @smileforyourself4303 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      do also watch , if u prefer, a quest for new life - Three Genius | Triguna | Svyasa International yoga film |2017| /Q3gohvCjDn4 .......only on youtube!!

  • @kch3019
    @kch3019 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this video, it explains so well

  • @DhammaDeepam
    @DhammaDeepam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It mean's don't respond to emotions😊 Thank You my mentor 🙏🏼

    • @liamc1102
      @liamc1102 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thegreatecb Watch how you speak to people, my friend. You don't want to be controlled by your ego.

  • @missiermadushalakshan740
    @missiermadushalakshan740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks from heart...🙏🙏🙏

  • @ktc1667
    @ktc1667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank u mingyur rinpochie

  • @pietrocr7
    @pietrocr7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you rinpoche

  • @jalajamenon8664
    @jalajamenon8664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Master🙏

  • @muthannagarikaran8355
    @muthannagarikaran8355 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks again for your help so

  • @martinlutherking8169
    @martinlutherking8169 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice. Thankyou. I am grateful

  • @leewawson344
    @leewawson344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awareness // Observing =flowing 🔆 peace 💙 #Namaste 🔆

  • @MatthiasLenardt
    @MatthiasLenardt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    True...so true.

  • @felixfelix4218
    @felixfelix4218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is realy good

  • @alexanderadavar6439
    @alexanderadavar6439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mingyur for President please

  • @Ariesbuddha
    @Ariesbuddha 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this man xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • @stanzinnorboo1336
    @stanzinnorboo1336 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you rimpochey khen. How to tackle negative false imagination, how to avoid it from popping in mind.?

  • @irenekent4335
    @irenekent4335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you very much so helpful

  • @userxsd_33
    @userxsd_33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @ashleyalessandrocampos394
    @ashleyalessandrocampos394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks lol I love how he says watch river.. sometimes I fall in and try to stop it 😂

  • @shresthadavitazen666
    @shresthadavitazen666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you rimpoche 😊

  • @prestonstephebson7270
    @prestonstephebson7270 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much

  • @rachellee1999
    @rachellee1999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing

  • @Gringavaitecontar
    @Gringavaitecontar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Love that video 🌸

  • @mahmud7718
    @mahmud7718 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love him

  • @editeisabelfaria2014
    @editeisabelfaria2014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Obrigada Mestre!

  • @MonkeyDSanji-tx5qe
    @MonkeyDSanji-tx5qe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you.

  • @peacefulpisces5336
    @peacefulpisces5336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A way to stay stable

  • @geuko
    @geuko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant!

  • @onepathmypath2935
    @onepathmypath2935 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    THE Buddha with a lively face.

  • @anishghoshchowdhury340
    @anishghoshchowdhury340 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you Master _/\_

  • @Sunraysunshine
    @Sunraysunshine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can we use this teaching when not meditating. In workplace.

    • @AJoyfulMind
      @AJoyfulMind  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, it can be used anytime anywhere!

  • @candyqueen996
    @candyqueen996 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He is such a great teacher.:^) how should I deal with the emotion of liking someone? (A crush). I know this leads to suffering, however sometimes i cannot just watch without always thinking about the crush or "desiring" to talk with them..

    • @therevealingsoul9866
      @therevealingsoul9866 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rachel Queen let yourself be guided by that emotions because feeling for someone truly will not lead you to get scattered. I am actually going through the same phase and I am in the process of healing

  • @namdeonawale4686
    @namdeonawale4686 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderfull ,excellent

  • @shockwave9969
    @shockwave9969 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude you are very smart!

  • @mahes7981
    @mahes7981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks sir

  • @12elpida
    @12elpida ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bless you

  • @insight7483
    @insight7483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou 🙏

  • @justaspace1079
    @justaspace1079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi So I got this thing when I foucous on my breathing other senses keep flowing to my rhythm and from there, I do not know what to foucous on any more Help????!

    • @AJoyfulMind
      @AJoyfulMind  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      More information is here. th-cam.com/video/HBX92PT3264/w-d-xo.html

  • @chaplesrikanth7875
    @chaplesrikanth7875 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you soo much

  • @videnz2664
    @videnz2664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I try to watch the River but i still fall in after a while

  • @priyasinha9369
    @priyasinha9369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to become a buddhist. I want to study Buddhism. I want to meet you dear monk. My mind is not free.

  • @johnmacleod4481
    @johnmacleod4481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If we are carried further downstream there is a propensity that we may not survive the strong currenr beit of water thought or emotion

  • @SumitSumit-xf3vm
    @SumitSumit-xf3vm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can i watch my thoughts during meditation?

    • @redglazedeyez6652
      @redglazedeyez6652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

    • @ugyen1955
      @ugyen1955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SUMIT NAIK yes , u. Meditation when you are aware of your thoughts , it’s called watching your thoughts

  • @abuhenauzzal
    @abuhenauzzal 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent

  • @ayonadin6812
    @ayonadin6812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gud info

  • @anonymoustor
    @anonymoustor 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to watch emotion? I am not able to understand it please help.

    • @AJoyfulMind
      @AJoyfulMind  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch the documentary where it is explained th-cam.com/video/HBX92PT3264/w-d-xo.html

  • @alessandroabaza4118
    @alessandroabaza4118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks..

  • @moumous87
    @moumous87 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m already in the river... the river is following me, catching me 😢

    • @smileforyourself4303
      @smileforyourself4303 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      moumous, do also watch , if u prefer, a quest for new life - Three Genius | Triguna | Svyasa International yoga film |2017| /Q3gohvCjDn4 .......only on youtube!!

    • @andresalfaro2790
      @andresalfaro2790 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Observe, justo observe what you feel (I can say it is frustration, by what you wrote)

  • @sourabhlaheri8604
    @sourabhlaheri8604 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    sir will you please make a video for breakup motivation .🙂

    • @Souldivided
      @Souldivided 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It´s the same. Emotions is emotions, no matter what they are about.

    • @shunyams9369
      @shunyams9369 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Learn to forgive. It is very easy. And see your break up and relation as one chapter of a book.

    • @drsr4560
      @drsr4560 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Personally, I find that the ability to forgive is not always easy. Generally, forgiving is an act worth striving toward, no doubt.

  • @malemaline
    @malemaline 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hm so we shouldn't watch the emotion? I thought we are supposed to feel it to heal it.

    • @AJoyfulMind
      @AJoyfulMind  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's explained in the full documentary! th-cam.com/video/HBX92PT3264/w-d-xo.html

  • @janyhunnea8452
    @janyhunnea8452 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @guitarcomposer8253
    @guitarcomposer8253 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    don't react and ignore...

  • @justaspace1079
    @justaspace1079 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So watching my breath would help How?

    • @AJoyfulMind
      @AJoyfulMind  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch the documentary where it is explained. th-cam.com/video/HBX92PT3264/w-d-xo.html

  • @Exist247
    @Exist247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ✨️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @phubdem6024
    @phubdem6024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🙏🌸

  • @prakashmudaliar7578
    @prakashmudaliar7578 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I was mediation some picture thought came into my mind.what I do that time

    • @AJoyfulMind
      @AJoyfulMind  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Remain in awareness and let it go, don't be attached to it.

  • @vipinv4911
    @vipinv4911 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @a-gnosis
    @a-gnosis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If mind is space and thought/emotion are clouds, I must be in a hurricane.

    • @drsr4560
      @drsr4560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      open-minded skeptic Sorry to hear that. I see you replied 2 weeks ago. I hope by now you’re storm’s long passed.

    • @a-gnosis
      @a-gnosis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Dr SR - It seems better at the moment (hoping it is dissipating and is not merely the eye of the storm). In any case, thanks very much for your empathetic comment - I wish we could all offer that to one another more often, and hope better times are what bring you here.

  • @ashokkumar2010hp
    @ashokkumar2010hp 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry I am not able to comprehend this.

  • @studentofspacetime
    @studentofspacetime 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rinpoche!

  • @redglazedeyez6652
    @redglazedeyez6652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Meditation can confuse awareness. Meditate without meditation you will see results

    • @drsr4560
      @drsr4560 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      redglazedeyez ????

    • @redglazedeyez6652
      @redglazedeyez6652 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drsr4560 what i meant was formal meditation can confuse your ability to recognize your own awareness. You must practice in informal meditation to get the best results.

    • @drsr4560
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      redglazedeyez
      Ok, thx for clarifying. Insofar as meditating less formally can be conducive to a more relaxed attitude, I can see how it could be a better way to do it