My experience - his other lady is mad at him and he’s having to console her. He doesn’t have the emotional energy for you. If a man goes cold, it’s time for you to go cold too.
I’ve been single for about 7 years (stopped counting 🤣) and have not met one single emotionally mature, emotionally available single man who is also seeking a partner with intentionality of a commitment/partnership! … sex, companionship and connection is their limit. I’ve decided that I will not accept that, I’d rather focus on my business, do my daily meditation, affirmations, exercise, listen to a couple of Johnathon Aslay Videos, Abraham Hicks and Bob Baker Self Love videos daily and be solo, than be in a frustrating or unfulfilling connection with someone snd be codependent! I think there are no emotionally mature men in Zimbabwe… I’ll have to import an American 😉
I agree with if he's ignoring and/or avoiding, do the same. I was at a big event last night and he was there and basically he did not spend one ounce of time with me. I sat off alone by my car to wait for fireworks display. He saw me and waved, but took off to someplace else or I think with a friend of his young daughter. Due to this, when we are at a mutual activity, I'm going to full on ignoring and avoiding him. He had an opportunity to be alone and talk and yet, again, he runs away. Whatever chaos is going on in his life, I don't care. If he does say we're friends, you don't do that shit to a friend.
I think about you a lot. Something I heard many years ago about grief that stuck. "Where there is great grief, there was great love." It never goes away. He's always with you, in your heart. Hang in there. Wish I could give you a big hug in person. Sending you extra love today ❤.
No one really knows the depth of grief. 3 years can be as bad as it happened last week. Until you have had enough, enough Of grief and you realize that that there is really answered questions like my divorce caused this or if only I would of... Guilt guilt guilt. That climbing over the guilt is tougher than anybody knows. Jonathon as one who suffered horribly for 3 long years I can tell you that helping others is one of the best ways to release The GRIEF. I can see that you are grieving over so much loss,and yet your helping others. Your riches are there believe it or not. When you have had enough and you find a spiritual truth that convinces you that he is very much alive and that death Is only death to the ego and you step out of the heaven and hell religious answers that we get locked into. 🔒 you have to search and keep searching till you find Your truth about Life. It's the hardest journey we take. Much love to you Jonathon.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Jonathon. I can’t imagine the depth of grief you’re experiencing. I’ve come to the conclusion that with great love comes great grief. I wish we could physically share each other’s grief so the burden of that dark, dark emotion could be diluted- at least long enough to catch one’s breath. I admire you for reaching out to others with love and knowledge during your season of grief pain. BIG hugs to you.
“What we have once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us,” I love this Helen Keller quote. Your son is with you always, everyday, ever hour. My thoughts are with you today, Jonathon.
I'm so sorry for this anniversary of Salty's passing. We're all here supporting you with a giant group hug! Like on the Mary Tyler Moore show times 10000!!!!
God bless sweet Connor ❤️ 🙏🏽 he looks like such a sweet young man. I’m so sorry for your loss. As a woman, when I meet a man with a trauma like yours it makes me extra soft/vulnerable towards him and makes me want to nurture his pain. That’s just how I feel as a woman. It’s a tenderness that can’t be soothed but I hope you find the right person who will be that shoulder for you Jonathon ❤️
Closing your heart does not really protect you from anything, it just cut off from your source of energy... only serves to lock you inside! Practice keep your heart open!! U.souls Be the Rainbow in somebody else's clouds.... Maya Angelou. You are a Rainbow dear Jonathon. 😘
He was going through a nasty divorce and I came along ... jeepers... it hurt to block him and detach. I know he was expecting me to hang on for what ??? To wait. I got this far in my aloneness sobriety and to wait when he wasn't on the same page to begin with. Good news is he was a mirror... unfortunately i still have a void to work on... How does the void go away... I feel like no matter how much I work on myself and stay alone/single.... i still come up short.some days are good and some days are just fucking void..
So after listening to some of your videos I asked the man who proclaims to "love" me.... I asked him if he'd read a book with me to help us co create our future together... and he flat out said no and then started ghosting me, lol... deep sigh. Glad I asked the question. Thank you, Jonathon.
You bring up so many great points in this video. I was given well-meaning but, in the end, terrible dating advice in my 20s. Hence my still being single and childless at 39. And on a side note, I hope you find positive distractions today. Loss is so rough. Much love and many hugs from here 👍😘
What an amzing soul you are Johnathon, coming on here on your son's anniversary , i remember you mentioning him before i feel very sad for you hearing this.. god bless you, that love in your heart will allways stay, there's no love like a parents love Big big hugs sent your way n thankyou for coming on here in this day 💖💖💖Xxxx
Let me start by saying that I’m so sorry for your tremendous loss. Prayers for your heart and family. Being a widow of 3 years, I did start dating and decided to take more time to work on myself and also learn dating skills again, after 33 years with one person. Your content has reaffirmed to me that I have been taking the right path. Thank you for your no nonsense approach and your time spent to help us ladies! Starting over at 53 is difficult and I know working on myself will give clarity for the future. Hugs to you ❤️
Griefing means we are so loved! Thinking of your dear heart today and sending many hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I am hoping the memories of have of Conner today will fill your heart with wonderful memories and you smile for all the blessings he gave you 💖♥️
Hi Jonathon, I was tuned in during my morning workout:). Yes, I’ve done it (ie hot & cold). Thinking back to the times I’ve done it. If I’m really attracted to a woman I generally put my best foot forward…so to speak in the beginning (ie hot). Sometimes, after learning more about someone and more about how we interact with each other, etc…I may not see a future with this particular person (cold). Maybe doing a better job of vetting up front…as you mentioned might help avoid some of this.
I don't get sexual/ intimate with my dates. Even though I'm a very sexual person, I am waiting.....My practice is to go slow, take time to know the man..go slow, PRAY about if I should proceed to date/ court. This is working beautifully for me. No hot & cold behavior and these are very high quality men. Then again, I am a follower of Christ and I'm over 40! Not a religious fanatic..just following Our Lord.
God bless you Jonathon and your Connor 💙 I know that you can lean in and allow yourself to love someone. I recently allowed myself to fall in love and although he decided that we didn't have a future together, he left me with a gift. That gift was that I was able to open my heart to a man. Now I feel free! And, I WILL love again 🤸♀️💙 and so will YOU!
So sorry ....again....today must be so incredibly hard, and yet here you are, reaching out to your followers and speaking wisdom, compassion and invaluable information. God bless you, in special ways, today🙏🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜
Your ability to share a loss of a child denotes your truth strength to help others . May you find your peace , my condolences. Side note - agree with the questions during dates . It’s not just fun . Fun can wait
Thank you for being so vulnerable and brave…by continuing to help and share with your viewers on this very difficult day. As a follower of Christ, a great comfort to me is knowing that to be absent in the body is to be present with the Lord. Sending up a prayer for you.
Jonathon you are such an amazing person to take the time to share it all makes sense what is going on with that guy. Chaos and childhood trauma and losses in his life. I want to help him but I don't know how so I wait for him to talk. Hoping you're celebrating Connors love story every chance you can and the sadness that fills your heart I hope you have some private time to grieve. Thinking about you today
I am so sorry about your loss, is a really touching video. I pray that God gives you the strength and peace about your sons early passing., that your life and his be always together. 💐🌷🌷🌷
Thank you Jonathan your advice is so spot on and I'm learning so much from you especially to ask those important questions up front! Sending you love and hugs on this difficult day 🤗
You can talk about your son anytime you want. He's still your son. You still and always will love him and miss him. Have a wonderful 4th and big hug to you.
Thank you for telling us abt. The anniversary of Connor’s passing. But in your videos it’s clear to see that you were a good dad. Look at how you go forward i this works as a role model and teacher of how to be wonderful human being. You’re admirable. Take care to get you through today.
Love, hugs and light my dear Jonathon!! Thanks for being here on such hard day!! I really appreciate... I hear you. Have order most the books included yours so looking forward to read!! Ps done with Attached and Eight dates now U.Souls. A big kiss from a Brazilian in Australia.
Ugh I feel like crying 😪 I lost my kids but not in the same way at all. I haven’t seen my eldest two kids in a year, they moved to America with their dad a year ago and I haven’t touched them in a long time. Covid has ruined any chance of uncomplicated visitation. I want to fly over and surprise them but when I do not know x
I’m so sorry that you lost your precious son, Connor. If you pay attention, he’s around you and giving you signs that although his physicality is gone, he’s still in your day-to-day life. I hope you talk to him. He hears you and it helps you to continue to heal.
After purchasing your book on Audible yesterday and finishing it, I feel like I have a greater understanding now when you're teaching me during your videos. Thank you for doing what you do precisely the way you do it!
I appreciate your videos and am finding them helpful. Today’s especially so- I lost a daughter a few years ago - the anniversary date is July 2nd. Losing her changed me. I am more compassionate and stronger too with a serious side that runs deep. Some people are not interested in depth which is okay with me. Wishing you well.
As a man, I’m certain I don’t lack emotional intimacy and deep desire for connection. What I lack is desire to get married, live together or have kids. And too many women assume that if you don’t want the second part that means you can’t possibly be interested in an emotional connection. As if you have to sign up to be extorted to have a deep connection with a woman..yeah maybe that’s the main issue.
Much love Jonathon ❤️❤️❤️ such a great video!!! I love when you make videos outside!!! Takes me back to when I lived in Hawaii and that nice mellow vibe by the water 😎
Thank you for this video 🙏🏻 gladly appreciate you . This makes total sense I appreciate his honesty , but it hurts when he deletes you of social media due to lack of commitment but we are still in a relationship on social media private , the time will tell. Keep shining Jonathan
Thank you for all your support and thoughts! You once did a video where you had a drawing of what men can handle and what women can handle in a relationship. It was also something about men going cold after the initial start. I really liked that visual and wanted to share it with a friend but couldn’t find it again. Do you remember which one that was?
I am really like listening and learning what Jonathan Aslay , My heart goes out to Jonathan today , l am a mother that lost my son as well l do know what l am talking about!
So sorry for your loss…. I loved the advice because I run into the hot and cold all the time and I tend to just give up and move on to the next ‘victim’! Inside joke…. Take care and God bless.
It doesn’t have to be hard make it an easy day!! It will make next day better.. make this day a day to reflect and laugh with the memories. I know easier said than done.
Gosh I wish I listened to this video 2 weeks ago when I was on my third date. I knew something was missing in our interaction and now of course 2 weeks later he hasn’t initiated contact. He’s withdrawn because I believe we both were connected and having fun but not intentional. I attempted to be emotionally intelligent but got swept up. My friends tell me I’m too serious when I seek to have these conversations early on. You seem to encourage it….
Jonathan thank u so much for ur guidance in these relashionship topics, r so much help & at the same time thank u to share about ur loving son Connor, we r here also for u sending love & light, real love is timeless, limitless, shapeless & keeps growing & that is ur son for u in ur heart 💜 🙏🏻
Many hugs for u today. Unless someone is a basket case, as the tammy wynette song goes stand by your man through good and bad times should be true. Not disappearing acts unless someone really does not want to be with u.
Katy Perry composed a wonderful song about men like this 👀😂😂 (Hot n Cold) : You change your mind Like a girl changes clothes Yeah you, PMS Like a bitch I would know And you over think Always speak Cryptically I should know That you're no good for me 'Cause you're hot then you're cold You're yes then you're no You're in then you're out You're up then you're down You're wrong when it's right It's black and it's white We fight, we break up We kiss, we make up (You) You don't really want to stay, no (You) But you don't really want to go You're hot then you're cold You're yes then you're no You're in then you're out You're up then you're down We used to be Just like twins So in sync The same energy Now's a dead battery Used to laugh 'bout nothing Now you're plain boring I should know That you're not gonna change 'Cause you're hot then you're cold You're yes then you're no You're in then you're out You're up then you're down You're wrong when it's right It's black and it's white We fight, we break up We kiss, we make up (You) You don't really want to stay, no (You) But you don't really want to go You're hot then you're cold You're yes then you're no You're in then you're out You're up then you're down Someone call the doctor Got a case of a love bipolar Stuck on a roller coaster Can't get off this ride You change your mind Like a girl changes clothes 'Cause you're hot then you're cold You're yes then you're no You're in then you're out You're up then you're down You're wrong when it's right It's black and it's white We fight, we break up We kiss, we make up You're hot then you're cold You're yes then you're no You're in then you're out You're up then you're down You're wrong when it's right It's black and it's white We fight, we break up We kiss, we make up (You) You don't really want to stay, no (You) But you don't really want to go You're hot then you're cold You're yes then you're no You're in then you're out You're up then you're down ***Also, big huge hug for you Jonathon. 🥰***
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My experience - his other lady is mad at him and he’s having to console her. He doesn’t have the emotional energy for you. If a man goes cold, it’s time for you to go cold too.
I’ve been single for about 7 years (stopped counting 🤣) and have not met one single emotionally mature, emotionally available single man who is also seeking a partner with intentionality of a commitment/partnership!
… sex, companionship and connection is their limit. I’ve decided that I will not accept that, I’d rather focus on my business, do my daily meditation, affirmations, exercise, listen to a couple of Johnathon Aslay Videos, Abraham Hicks and Bob Baker Self Love videos daily and be solo, than be in a frustrating or unfulfilling connection with someone snd be codependent!
I think there are no emotionally mature men in Zimbabwe… I’ll have to import an American 😉
I agree with if he's ignoring and/or avoiding, do the same.
I was at a big event last night and he was there and basically he did not spend one ounce of time with me. I sat off alone by my car to wait for fireworks display. He saw me and waved, but took off to someplace else or I think with a friend of his young daughter. Due to this, when we are at a mutual activity, I'm going to full on ignoring and avoiding him. He had an opportunity to be alone and talk and yet, again, he runs away.
Whatever chaos is going on in his life, I don't care. If he does say we're friends, you don't do that shit to a friend.
Talk about triangulation
I think about you a lot. Something I heard many years ago about grief that stuck. "Where there is great grief, there was great love."
It never goes away. He's always with you, in your heart. Hang in there. Wish I could give you a big hug in person. Sending you extra love today ❤.
No one really knows the depth of grief. 3 years can be as bad as it happened last week. Until you have had enough, enough
Of grief and you realize that that there is really answered questions like my divorce caused this or if only I would of...
Guilt guilt guilt. That climbing over the guilt is tougher than anybody knows.
Jonathon as one who suffered horribly for 3 long years I can tell you that helping others is one of the best ways to release
The GRIEF. I can see that you are grieving over so much loss,and yet your helping others. Your riches are there believe it or not. When you have had enough and you find a spiritual truth that convinces you that he is very much alive and that death
Is only death to the ego and you step out of the heaven and hell religious answers
that we get locked into. 🔒 you have to search and keep searching till you find
Your truth about Life. It's the hardest journey we take. Much love to you Jonathon.
Dating in mid-life is challenging. For me, the toughest part is figuring out how to combine two well-established lives.
Very difficult for a parent to accept the loss of their child. Your sadness and love for your son touches me.
Be kind to yourself today..
🌟🫂🌟
You are so right, men don't want relationship being in the 40's. They still play mind games and it sucks.
What a cute kid Connor was...handsome like his dad, and his personality sparkles in his eyes. 🤗🙏
I’m so sorry for your loss, Jonathon. I can’t imagine the depth of grief you’re experiencing. I’ve come to the conclusion that with great love comes great grief. I wish we could physically share each other’s grief so the burden of that dark, dark emotion could be diluted- at least long enough to catch one’s breath. I admire you for reaching out to others with love and knowledge during your season of grief pain. BIG hugs to you.
So beautifully written and inspiring to read.
Thank you Margaret xxx
“What we have once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us,”
I love this Helen Keller quote. Your son is with you always, everyday, ever hour.
My thoughts are with you today, Jonathon.
I'm so sorry for this anniversary of Salty's passing. We're all here supporting you with a giant group hug! Like on the Mary Tyler Moore show times 10000!!!!
God bless sweet Connor ❤️ 🙏🏽 he looks like such a sweet young man. I’m so sorry for your loss. As a woman, when I meet a man with a trauma like yours it makes me extra soft/vulnerable towards him and makes me want to nurture his pain. That’s just how I feel as a woman. It’s a tenderness that can’t be soothed but I hope you find the right person who will be that shoulder for you Jonathon ❤️
If he’s getting cold, give him some space and maybe he’ll be back.
He was always hot never went cold but I found out he was cheating. His actions never showed he was.
Closing your heart does not really protect you from anything, it just cut off from your source of energy... only serves to lock you inside! Practice keep your heart open!! U.souls
Be the Rainbow in somebody else's clouds.... Maya Angelou.
You are a Rainbow dear Jonathon. 😘
He was going through a nasty divorce and I came along ... jeepers... it hurt to block him and detach. I know he was expecting me to hang on for what ??? To wait. I got this far in my aloneness sobriety and to wait when he wasn't on the same page to begin with. Good news is he was a mirror... unfortunately i still have a void to work on...
How does the void go away... I feel like no matter how much I work on myself and stay alone/single.... i still come up short.some days are good and some days are just fucking void..
I could have written exactly this.I don't know about you,but I'm tired of getting hurt.
Yes Ladies, I agree with both of you! I am exhausted from all the hurt and disappointment!
Me and you are in the exact boat :(
Thank you Jonathan - it's so incredible to hear a man talk about his real feelings in such a candid way!! 💌
So after listening to some of your videos I asked the man who proclaims to "love" me.... I asked him if he'd read a book with me to help us co create our future together... and he flat out said no and then started ghosting me, lol... deep sigh. Glad I asked the question. Thank you, Jonathon.
I didn't even mention a specific book, just "a book" lol.... :( so sad. I wished for more.
@Brenda Renkema :) thankfully I realize the issue is with him and I'm groovy :)
Thinking of you today Jonathan. Pray that God fills you with his peace and love ❤️🙏🏽
My heart breaks.. my sister lost her 15 yr old son. My godson. Only 3 months ago. I really feel your pain. RIP Conner an angel in heaven. Thank you xx
So sorry for your loss. Sending hugs from UK 🙌
You bring up so many great points in this video. I was given well-meaning but, in the end, terrible dating advice in my 20s. Hence my still being single and childless at 39. And on a side note, I hope you find positive distractions today. Loss is so rough. Much love and many hugs from here 👍😘
I’m really sorry you lost your son. Thank you for taking time out of your day to give this advice. It is very appreciated 🙏💛
Thinking of you today. Grief comes in waves and you are allowed to feel whatever you are feeling today. Sending you love and light ❤️❤️
Thank you
What an amzing soul you are Johnathon, coming on here on your son's anniversary , i remember you mentioning him before i feel very sad for you hearing this.. god bless you, that love in your heart will allways stay, there's no love like a parents love Big big hugs sent your way n thankyou for coming on here in this day 💖💖💖Xxxx
This literally just happened to me. I still dont know why. Not one thing about me changed. 🤷♀️
Lost of loved ones is an emotional grieve only time can heal! Thank you for your videos Sir they are all very educational.👌
Let me start by saying that I’m so sorry for your tremendous loss. Prayers for your heart and family. Being a widow of 3 years, I did start dating and decided to take more time to work on myself and also learn dating skills again, after 33 years with one person. Your content has reaffirmed to me that I have been taking the right path. Thank you for your no nonsense approach and your time spent to help us ladies! Starting over at 53 is difficult and I know working on myself will give clarity for the future. Hugs to you ❤️
Hi Johnathon,from Australia.
Bless Connor. He will always be
Close by and connected in energy and love ❤️❤️❤️
HUGS
Hugs to you Johnathan! Yes your son will always be close to you and you will see him again someday!
My heartfelt condolences .. hug yourself a little tighter today 🌺🙏🏽
Griefing means we are so loved! Thinking of your dear heart today and sending many hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I am hoping the memories of have of Conner today will fill your heart with wonderful memories and you smile for all the blessings he gave you 💖♥️
Thanks so much
I feel sad everytime you mention your son Connor 🙏 Deep condolences
i’m so sorry for your loss.
Connor is super proud of you and i know he loves you. Peace and richest blessings to you Jonathon.
God bless you! Thank you for being selfless on this day. Connor is in heaven and so proud!!
Omg love you! Xoxo I love watching your Chanel and I have learned so much you’re such a blessing. Healing takes time!
Jonathan thank you for sharing your pain with us
Virtual hug 🤗
Happy 4th Jonathon 🇺🇸🎉 Conner is proud of you! 💝
Hi Jonathon, I was tuned in during my morning workout:). Yes, I’ve done it (ie hot & cold). Thinking back to the times I’ve done it. If I’m really attracted to a woman I generally put my best foot forward…so to speak in the beginning (ie hot). Sometimes, after learning more about someone and more about how we interact with each other, etc…I may not see a future with this particular person (cold). Maybe doing a better job of vetting up front…as you mentioned might help avoid some of this.
Yes and I doubt you ghost them though... right?
I don't get sexual/ intimate with my dates. Even though I'm a very sexual person, I am waiting.....My practice is to go slow, take time to know the man..go slow, PRAY about if I should proceed to date/ court. This is working beautifully for me. No hot & cold behavior and these are very high quality men. Then again, I am a follower of Christ and I'm over 40! Not a religious fanatic..just following Our Lord.
@@JonathonAslay Right! I don’t just disappear into the night without a word.
God bless you Jonathon and your Connor 💙
I know that you can lean in and allow yourself to love someone. I recently allowed myself to fall in love and although he decided that we didn't have a future together, he left me with a gift. That gift was that I was able to open my heart to a man. Now I feel free! And, I WILL love again 🤸♀️💙 and so will YOU!
@@danilaroche1156 I need to learn your mindset, I will 38,but often lost patience and don't want to be played.
Wow I like the outdoors look. How wonderful that view is. Thanks for sharing 😊
So sorry ....again....today must be so incredibly hard, and yet here you are, reaching out to your followers and speaking wisdom, compassion and invaluable information. God bless you, in special ways, today🙏🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜
Thank you so much!
I don't care whether he goes from hot to cold ! I just wanna love myself.. Thnx for ur videos..
Your ability to share a loss of a child denotes your truth strength to help others . May you find your peace , my condolences.
Side note - agree with the questions during dates . It’s not just fun . Fun can wait
Hugs Jonathan.. You are amazing.. 🤗
Thank you for this video. I really appreciate that you spoke calmly and with enthusiasm. Your message came across loud and clear.
Your sincerity is so refreshing. Thank you for the great content.
Thank you for being so vulnerable and brave…by continuing to help and share with your viewers on this very difficult day. As a follower of Christ, a great comfort to me is knowing that to be absent in the body is to be present with the Lord. Sending up a prayer for you.
Jonathon you are such an amazing person to take the time to share it all makes sense what is going on with that guy. Chaos and childhood trauma and losses in his life. I want to help him but I don't know how so I wait for him to talk.
Hoping you're celebrating Connors love story every chance you can and the sadness that fills your heart I hope you have some private time to grieve. Thinking about you today
Thank u for this video. My deepest condolences on your loss.🙏🌹
True talk . My heartfelt condolences for the loss of ur young son . Stay strong. 🤗🤗❤
TY
Its true I never experienced men in my age range to even get to know me better
Love your compassion.. it's a beautiful trait ❣
This is one of my favorite of yours!!
I understand your loss❤️. May you be healed soon . It's difficult. Just know he is in the light ,always near you .
I appreciate that
Thanks for the info
I’ve had this guy come on hot twice then die off
Not keeping his word on calling and making a plan.
So frustrating
Thank you for sharing so openly, I find a lot of value in your videos. And deepest condolences on the loss of your son!
I am so sorry about your loss, is a really touching video.
I pray that God gives you the strength and peace about your sons early passing., that your life and his be always together.
💐🌷🌷🌷
Always excellent content and beautiful delivery!! Love u JA! 💕
Thank you so much - I wish all the luck in the world and that your day was not so heavy. Greetings from Germany. C.
Thank you Jonathan your advice is so spot on and I'm learning so much from you especially to ask those important questions up front! Sending you love and hugs on this difficult day 🤗
Always love your advice Jonathan..keep up the good work..send you a bug hug too😊
You can talk about your son anytime you want. He's still your son. You still and always will love him and miss him. Have a wonderful 4th and big hug to you.
Thank you for telling us abt. The anniversary of Connor’s passing. But in your videos it’s clear to see that you were a good dad. Look at how you go forward i this works as a role model and teacher of how to be wonderful human being. You’re admirable. Take care to get you through today.
Love, hugs and light my dear Jonathon!! Thanks for being here on such hard day!! I really appreciate... I hear you. Have order most the books included yours so looking forward to read!! Ps done with Attached and Eight dates now U.Souls.
A big kiss from a Brazilian in Australia.
Ugh I feel like crying 😪 I lost my kids but not in the same way at all. I haven’t seen my eldest two kids in a year, they moved to America with their dad a year ago and I haven’t touched them in a long time. Covid has ruined any chance of uncomplicated visitation. I want to fly over and surprise them but when I do not know x
I’m so sorry that you lost your precious son, Connor. If you pay attention, he’s around you and giving you signs that although his physicality is gone, he’s still in your day-to-day life. I hope you talk to him. He hears you and it helps you to continue to heal.
Big hugs Jonathan, you are so brave xx
So enjoy hearing from you.
Connor is in my heart as well.
After purchasing your book on Audible yesterday and finishing it, I feel like I have a greater understanding now when you're teaching me during your videos. Thank you for doing what you do precisely the way you do it!
Wow, thank you!
I appreciate your videos and am finding them helpful. Today’s especially so- I lost a daughter a few years ago - the anniversary date is July 2nd. Losing her changed me. I am more compassionate and stronger too with a serious side that runs deep. Some people are not interested in depth which is okay with me. Wishing you well.
As a man, I’m certain I don’t lack emotional intimacy and deep desire for connection. What I lack is desire to get married, live together or have kids. And too many women assume that if you don’t want the second part that means you can’t possibly be interested in an emotional connection. As if you have to sign up to be extorted to have a deep connection with a woman..yeah maybe that’s the main issue.
Connection is not the same as commitment. Do you prefer to live in the moment?
Much love Jonathon ❤️❤️❤️ such a great video!!! I love when you make videos outside!!! Takes me back to when I lived in Hawaii and that nice mellow vibe by the water 😎
Hi Jonathon, I so enjoy your weekend patio videos, you seem more gentle and relaxed. Good work 😊
Thank you for this video 🙏🏻 gladly appreciate you . This makes total sense I appreciate his honesty , but it hurts when he deletes you of social media due to lack of commitment but we are still in a relationship on social media private , the time will tell. Keep shining Jonathan
I just went through this exact dynamic. I let him go. It was painful but what can you build with someone navigating so much uncertainty?
Thank you for all your support and thoughts! You once did a video where you had a drawing of what men can handle and what women can handle in a relationship. It was also something about men going cold after the initial start. I really liked that visual and wanted to share it with a friend but couldn’t find it again. Do you remember which one that was?
Hugs from ARGENTINA 🇦🇷🤗🤗🤗
I am really like listening and learning what Jonathan Aslay ,
My heart goes out to Jonathan today , l am a mother that lost my son as well l do know what l am talking about!
So sorry for your loss…. I loved the advice because I run into the hot and cold all the time and I tend to just give up and move on to the next ‘victim’! Inside joke…. Take care and God bless.
It doesn’t have to be hard make it an easy day!! It will make next day better.. make this day a day to reflect and laugh with the memories. I know easier said than done.
TY
Connor will be in my prayer today
awe... thank you
Hope you do something’s to support yourself for this challenging time. Be well
Yes I am going to, thank you...
All the Best from Poland🤗
Thank you...
Ja też z Polski...pozdrawiam
Have you ever gone hot to cold ?
Yes I have...
I needed this. Thanks
Sorry for your loss ❤️
TY
We love you !! Youre my rock when need to hear advice
Thank you Jonathan I learned a lots from your advice about dating 😩♥️🥰
John im so sorry about your child
Love what you are doing Jonathan. From India
Thank you...
Gosh I wish I listened to this video 2 weeks ago when I was on my third date. I knew something was missing in our interaction and now of course 2 weeks later he hasn’t initiated contact. He’s withdrawn because I believe we both were connected and having fun but not intentional. I attempted to be emotionally intelligent but got swept up. My friends tell me I’m too serious when I seek to have these conversations early on. You seem to encourage it….
Jonathan thank u so much for ur guidance in these relashionship topics, r so much help & at the same time thank u to share about ur loving son Connor, we r here also for u sending love & light, real love is timeless, limitless, shapeless & keeps growing & that is ur son for u in ur heart 💜 🙏🏻
He looks like you!🙏
Love that...Disfunctional moonwalk...lol
Many hugs for u today. Unless someone is a basket case, as the tammy wynette song goes stand by your man through good and bad times should be true. Not disappearing acts unless someone really does not want to be with u.
Lies, triangulating, devaluing, these do matter lady.
You DO NOT just stand by your man. I pity the fool.
Under those circumstances you do not stand by him I agree
Its so frustrating.. thank you john
How do we ever have time???all men need to hear you..also women
Your correct!!!
Katy Perry composed a wonderful song about men like this 👀😂😂 (Hot n Cold) :
You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
Yeah you, PMS
Like a bitch
I would know
And you over think
Always speak
Cryptically
I should know
That you're no good for me
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) You don't really want to stay, no
(You) But you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
We used to be
Just like twins
So in sync
The same energy
Now's a dead battery
Used to laugh 'bout nothing
Now you're plain boring
I should know
That you're not gonna change
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) You don't really want to stay, no
(You) But you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
Someone call the doctor
Got a case of a love bipolar
Stuck on a roller coaster
Can't get off this ride
You change your mind
Like a girl changes clothes
'Cause you're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
You're wrong when it's right
It's black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up
(You) You don't really want to stay, no
(You) But you don't really want to go
You're hot then you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in then you're out
You're up then you're down
***Also, big huge hug for you Jonathon. 🥰***
TY
Hahahaha omg I freaking LOVE that song!!
@@BexnRN 😂😂 same!
So much love and loads of kisses to you and Connor today 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
#saltycrew 👍🏼
I get a kick out of the new daddies in their 40's 50's 60's ...