Hi Richard: I am 63 and I wish I had some one like you to talk to when I was 21. Your doing a tremendous service to young men out there, savings lives. Keep up the good work.
I’m 21 and I’ve been watching Rich and Rollo for 3 months now. Absolutely life changing, my priorities are my physique, finance and game. My goal is to make 6 figures by 25 and make my first mil by 35 via real estate (I’ve also started studying the work of Robert Kiyosaki). Throughout this journey I shall spin plates and remain my mental point of origin. Thank you Mr. Cooper
Agreed. I am recently separated from my wife of 21 years that I married when I was 21 years old and was a father by 24. I should have explored a lot more of myself in the 20s, you know spinning plates, travel, spinning more plates. Currently going through this emotional dumpster fire but I’ll be fine!!! Chase excellence, spin plates and enjoy your 20s!! Fuck and your 30s!! Cheers brothers 🍻
What I’ve learned this year is don’t settle for anything less than a women who is 100% for you. If she doesn’t want to be in your life, no problem find someone who will. Make a set of boundaries that you are comfortable and reasonable with and don’t break them for anybody. If they cross a boundary that isn’t immediately lethal, give them one chance after explaining your issue with it, if they do it again kindly exit them out of your life because you don’t need that bullshit
Just to add, exit them out of your life with style, dont act as if you are wounded for leaving the relationship, make the other party feel guilty for what they have done that lead to the breakup. (Not redpilled)
Nail on the head. My mother would lie down in traffic for my Dad, it's impressive. Whereas my wife would throw me under a bus. I learned this lesson after it was too late, and I have my work cut out now, but that's fine I'm putting in the work. What is wonderful is that my son will receive this proper education.
The only thing I would change is never give a second chance. If you have made clear what your expectations are, and she agrees to those expectations, but chooses to test your boundaries, then she made a conscious decision. Every time I gave a second chance it never ended well because I set a standard that she will now expect.
@@GBU61 yeah I agree I put in if it’s not immediately ending the relationship. Sometimes people do make mistakes that are honestly or they don’t know that they crossed a boundary so if it’s nothing major I’d let them know
People think Rich and the whole redpill movement is radical and Anti Marriage and Anti-Women. This video Shows Rich isn't against it. He just warns brothers. He lays out the facts for them to make an informed decision based on facts. Papa Rich is the Dad us young men never had. Thanks for this. Stay Hard my brothers.
Rich is cool but he’s a poor mans rollo. Plus I can def name better dudes who can give better advice about women nature and other things such as AMS. Rich is cool but except when his thing seems too conspiracy theorist
My advice to Young Men Who want to Get Married and Have a Family: 1. Get Money 2. Build Muscle 3. Learn Game 4. Hold Frame 5. Learn the marriage laws and regulations in your state/country!
“Hold frame”.. lol. Regurgitation of someone else’s vocab, classic. Why can’t you copycats just use the phrase “be a man”, it’s the same shit. Being a man and standing for what you want is all frame is. You don’t need to “hold” anything. Just be a man, y’all act like that’s something so hard to do 😂
@@x3-178 I knew some virgins that got married early to quite decent guys. However these girls ended up falling in the social media trap. It's not as easy as 'marry a virgin'.
Those likes/matches on tinder mean absolutely nothing. I can get 99 plus matches in a week, but 99.99 percent of them are bots/scammers/fake accounts. Dont flatter yourself.
@@harvestingseason2725 nah, rn men are checking out and because or corona women are more alone than everr and less free attention. he's 6'1 and jacked. he got his pick of it. tinder is free, but u can pay to get even beter service.
@@harvestingseason2725 If you actually plan on having success on Tinder, YES, you should upgrade to premium. But you must first know what your up against. If you're not willing to pay a photographer to have professional like pics taken of you from your best angles etc, then you're gonna get thrown into the 80% pool where you will fight over the 20% of scraps left over from the 80% of wmen who chase the top 20% guys. It's a minefield if you don't put the time, money and effort into it. I honestly wouldn't advise it.
@@SpiderBite90x hate to hear that sir. I was dumb enough to ignore the red flags. Mine dropped hers after we were married. Then after a kid gets on the ground it’s over. I was married for 20 years.
I'm no expert but don't just pick a girl based on her looks. Pick someone who you can see yourself long term with even if things are going to get hard sometimes. Some body you can trust and rely on.
One of my rules is that even if were just dating it's monogamous. We both owe each other the respect of focusing on one another until we've decided where we stand.
@@peter11947 Everyone I've ever met with that outlook has been seriously lacking in the integrity department... But who knows maybe your an exception to the rule. A lot of people owe me and many others a lot of things. I owe a lot of people as well.
@@peter11947 the problem with that scenario is that any potential relationship was doomed from the get go as one of them was a worthless liar... a deal breaker right of the bat. Had they been honest with the one that wanted to be monogamous during the dating phase that person could have decided to just go their own way, as the incompatibility would be obvious from the get go, insteaf of selfishly being strung along by the first person who is clearly lacking in morals and was never relationship material to begin with.
You still think that the world has your back and that people have your best interest at heart. People only care about themselves and do what’s best for them. You should do the same bro
Even after two years you just never know. I was with a girl for nearly 4 years and she checked out. Just stay on the defensive and make sure you have a plan before you end up in a bad spot
Exact same situation. But when I look back, I’ve grown allot in many aspects since she has left me almost 2 years ago, and I’m actually proud of myself for it. I still have some ways to go like quitting bad habits for example but I’ve improved never the less. It gets better bro, just give it time
@@ryanlarbi8157 I know it'll get better. I think of it this way I was sent to jail for 3 months i'd still be locked up if the police got their 3 year mandatory minimum. Everyone goes through rough times, but it always comes down to which fork in the road you decide to take after getting dealt a shitty hand.
Men please remember you don't owe women a damn thing! They need marriage more than men. Let her earn the position of being a wife. And don't feel like you have to rush to get married. Men don't owe women marriage because of how long you've been with her. He said he should give himself a 2 year vetting period before considering her a candidate to be a wife. I would say longer but of course you don't want to wait too long if you want to have kids. Women can act to get what they want and switch up after they've gotten what they want. This isn't being cynical. It's being fully aware of the kind of mindset you're dealing with.
He is from Toronto, Ontario. In Canada. I have seen him in Toronto Star newspaper, for his small business he started up. He has money, but maybe his networth is like $3 million USD; Max!
The only dynamic in which a young man should get married, is if he and the wife to be have an excellent family dynamic. A family with traditional values.
I'm 26, no kids, got a vasectomy and 6 vials frozen for when I choose (probably never) All up it cost me less than $1000 and like $400 a year for storage Invest in yourself kings
That is balls! I'm sitting on a bag of frozen peas now...just 3 kids in, 2 baby mamas, and down another 3 year relationship, heartbroken. But I have a bad ass startup. I need to lose myself in it.
It’s funny, everyone thinks that’s the ultimate answer to a happy fulfilling life is wife and kids. It’s work, on top of work, on top of work. And there’s no guarantee, clearly. The world is so different today, and I don’t see it getting better anytime soon. I had a vesectomy at 30 because I knew I never wanted kids. One of the best decisions for me mentally and spiritually. Live your life guys, it can end tomorrow. Cheers
1. Speak to a divorce lawyer (a guy) for your state BEFORE you consider marriage. Note also laws can change 2. If both aren't religious and haven't defined the obligations (duty) of marriage, which is what marriage is, then ask yourself, as a man, what do you gain from marriage? 3. If she has a high body count, tats, piercings, only fans account, Instagram 'model' acvount, avoid like the plague. If she drinks heavily, smokes, or is a party animal... Do not wife her up 4. It will cost you $14k to 18k per year to pay for one child after tax, and that excludes education, medical care or time. 5. If she cheats on you, what protection does the law give you if you try to walk away? (ie watch out for cohabitting laws) 6. Never date single moms, post wall garden tools, never date girls who like Chads, Tyrones, Abduls, Jamals... You are being used as a simp provider 7. Ask yourself is her presence a benefit to your life? Will it help you in your goals? Sufficient to the extent you will want to share your life with? 8. Remember the law is against men and does not act in the interest of the child, so be careful who you decide to wife up.... Remember she doesn't have to do anything after marriage, and relations are not an obligation legally, she does not have to listen to you, she does not have to help around the house, nor bring uo kids..... 🤔....... Ask yourself do you want to get married?... The guy there is a beta simp and he will be taken to the cleaners... Women are much smarter at the game than him.... They also know the law protects them
I got dumped a few months ago, first 2-3 months after that were bad, but the funny thing is that I used to do unconsciously all the stuff you recommend in your videos, before I even knew that. And after almost 3 years realized, that my girl is full of blsht influenced by her pretentious females friends and when I challenged her behaviour, that was the moment wshe decided to end things with me, although I planned to propose to her initially. Just be aware of your self value guys, don't let the women stump on you, and test them, just the way they test us all the time. This guy will be fine, and once the women realize he has his own standards, women will go crazy in fitting his frame - which is basically the best thing you can get in order to be willing to enter a working LTR
Like the Saint and The sinner teaches you have to learn to vet women for her appropriate role. If you knew this girl wasn't GF material why did you elevate her to that position? How long did you make her work to earn the title of your GF? Most guys make gfs out of women that are side chics at best.
@@destroyerofsimps6574 what can I tell you, for the first time I met a chick that seemed cool, funny, easy-going and probably really liked me initially. You lose your head once a man experiences that and tend to ignore all red flags. Cant say that I was not happy, things started to go south with covid, obviously, we spent just too much time together
Solipsism for men is the key. Never be a slave to a womans desires. Don't let her passively shame/guilt you into going against what you want or need. Good job unplugging my friend. Know your value. We are trained by this gynocentric society that we have no value. That is bullshit. Thier is nothing more valuable then a strong, intelligent, sophisticated, capable man. It scares the crap out of most women and those are the ones you want to stay away from. Because fear is just another word for insecurity. If she ever insults your interests, family/friends get the hell away from her before your SUNK COST is too high and you get into a rut which is where alot of women are comfortable because even though the relationship is dying they are addicted to the drama it brings. NEVER DATE/MARRY A SINGLE MOTHER. It's like helping someone push a broken down car. The first block is ok and then you realize your day has become pushing someone elses broken down car they never changed the oil in and all you wanna do is get the hell outta thier. Lol. I personally have been in both situations.
@@jelmo3732 because married people (that stay married) tend to be richer, their kids are better educated and they have more and better sex and are happier overall! I would say marriage is not for the faint hearted and you have to love and respect your partner warts and all. If your woman isn’t as “high quality” as you thought (and you have two years of “in love”hormones which will shield you from seeing objectively), then encourage her and do high quality stuff with her and feel the pride as you watch her grow. That surely is an inspiring idea, isn’t it?
@@juliaphillips2518 I do agree. What bothers me is how people DECIDES to get married, and still doubt their marriage. Marriage is a life time investment, and just like u said, and backing out ur investment is not ideal. It is a risk. If people have no plans on building their future then i think it’s safe to not marry, unless if u want to build a future with ur SO.
@@jelmo3732 yes. I hear you. It is easier to blame the other person than to have to work on yourself once you are married. It takes honesty, courage, humility and vulnerability to work on yourself and your relationship.
If a man has no interest in having children, then he has no reason to marry. And if he has no reason to marry, then he can avoid all of the BS trials and tribulations associated with courtship. Short and longer term relationships with women should be treated as a diversion and nothing more. Focus your efforts on your career, building up your net worth, improving your body and mind, and supporting charitable activities you believe in. The remaining 5% of your time you can devote to a woman. And it's her job to fit into your life and not the other way around!
here my advice as a 42 year old man. don't!....best decision i ever made. i don't have the hassles or aggravation that i see on all my friends faces who are married with children. best thing you could do find a life companion, get a couple dogs and ride off into the sunset.
I'm a girl so I can't talk In your name but honestly wouldn't wanne be I' Your place. I don't know how bad situations in America are. But my family is big and warm. I can't imagin being alone having no kids in future. Don't you feel lonely sometimes?
This guy was 30 when he decided to loose weight and improve his finances, he is 31 and he is a total chad now. There are no excuses for improving yourself
About the time to wait before wedding: you are totally on point about the 2 year minimum, but I would add that it's not only the time to understand if she is enacting a persona; it's also a good time to actually match each other's behaviors. People do change, but only if they really want to. The other advice would be " have a hobby you enjoy and spend lots of time on it while dating" , it's the way to understand if she is a psycho or not. I'm on my second wife and can really see all the mistakes I did the first time now my life is just wonderful andy wife and kids are amazing, but she had to change some behaviors in order for me to pull the trigger about 3 years later. As zi said, women can change but only if they really want to, my current wife really wanted a great family not just a husband and it has paid off great.
the hobby thing is huge. If she gets mad at you for spending time doing something productive instead of spending time with her/replying to her texts or whatever then you know to get out of there.
He also said he was 8% bodyfat now, which is hilarious because that's the level professional bodybuilders are at when they are on stage. I'm amazed how much these red pill guys just lie and exaggerate about everything.
@@jugular911 yeah red pill can be toxic and brainwash. Many of those guys are mama boys. While rp is mostly true there is also good women in this life.
@@jugular911 he said 8%, 240#, at 6’1”. Thats IFBB pro material. My close friend is an IFBB pro and doesn’t even have those stats near contest shape at 5’11”. He’s on more than “therapy” (TRT) then. Notice how he didn’t give his T number.
Thanks for this man I’ve been thinking starting a family now that my career is on track (IBEW electrician). I’m 25 but I need to wait until I have more experience honestly
Having lots of likes on tinder doesn't always mean much. I'll get 100 before I delete my account and only like 10 are good. It probably depends on your city too.
So why are you swiping on 90 girls you aren't interested in? The algorithm is going to just throw those types of wmen at you if you do that. Waste of time and energy.
It depends on its algorithm itself. I've got 99+ likes & 73 matched before i deleted my account. And then i try to make a new account for fun, which is with the same profile, and got very low amount of likes, in just for 7 months in the same city. There are always external aspect
@@MMA-CLIPS2 Likes are not matches. My point is that you can't judge Tinder success just by number of likes. I bought premium to see the likes and most are single moms, fat, etc. I had a 3 year relationship from Tinder so it still works but you can't assume having 100+ likes means anything because it doesn't. Question for you: Right now I'm talking to a hot girl on Tinder but she has a girlfriend and shes going to stay with the girl and have a boyfriend at the same time. They are both very hot. Is this a good idea?
Greetings Rich from Kyrgyzstan! I am your fellow Canadian brother who decided to flee from Trudope tyranny. I just bought your book and started reading it today. This is just to say Thank you for sharing your life experience and knowledge!
You would not take financial advice from a poor man, but you take relationship advice from a divorcee... God help the next generation. Doing some fine work there Rich, letting your bitter resentment pave the way for your daughters future. Bravo sir.
Here’s some advice from my mom. She’s been happily married to my dad for 30 years, still snuggle in bed, go on dates, laugh and talk in the kitchen making dinner together. Some advice from her for true relationship goals and it’s pretty damn simple: “anticipate what the other person needs, if my dads cooking my moms prepping, if my moms doing the laundry ironing and folding, my dads lugging the baskets up 2 flights of stairs for her. My mom isn’t technologically inclined so my dad handles that. My dad can’t sew his patches on his uniform or tie his tie or cut his hair so my mom handles that. If you spend so much time worrying about what’s fair and going tit for tat it’s pretty likely that isn’t your future. To each is own, you’ll always have money to fill the void so there’s that.
@@dwaynejoyce1357 I was referring to mail order brides, Rich guys cam Marry a hot girl from another country that just wants to move to America, They must remain married for 2 years to be able to stay so they have to be on good behavior that long, so a rich guy cam consider it a 2 year lease and get a new one every 2 years. It's a win win. They get to come to the USA and he gets a different hot girl every 2 years!
Does not matter who you marry in these last days. No matter what the law favors the woman more than the man. Get a prenuptial agreement and just try your best to love each other but, make sure when she decides she’s Had enough and desires to take off that, you are fully legally protected.
85% percent of women file for divorce. The divorce rate is 50%, probably higher. You are set to lose at least half of everything you worked for, including your house if you divorce. You will have limited access to your children. "It won't happen to me". Think gents, think.
wait until late gen x , gen y , gen z numbers are left this is why pre nups ( watch lead attorney channel ) and vet her at least 2 years before having kids and marry
Divorce rate is above 50%. The other people guy stay married are usually not happy in their marriage. Some of them won’t divorce due to religious reasons, they don’t have enough money to live out of the household both of them, they are afraid to be alone…
52 and had to learn all this stuff the hard way. Now thanks to the internet young men don't have too. Before you young men say your Dad's should be telling you this stuff remember it's the women in his life he'll draw reference from. It's your mother he will be talking about. There's a lot he won't want to say and a lot you won't want to listen to so don't be hard on the old guy. It's a bit of a catch 22. Rich weather you agree or disagree with him gives a fair and honest perspective of some of the difficulties ahead and strategies available. It information I would have gladly absorbed as a young man.
@Richard Schiffman unfortunately he probably had a poor mentor too. Not making excuses for him but you should not be making excuses for you either. Invest in yourself. Get therapy. Get to the gym and get yourself red pilled. Alphas are the master of their domain. You start by mastering yourself. Ask yourself what outcome you want ? Life is all about the outcome. Yes your right you father failed with you. So your right but how does that serve you. Outcome my friend. Pick the outcome you want for you and emerse your energy and brain solely in that direction. Can't change the past. Can change the future. I said what I said above as my father gave me very little guidance. He was s good man though. But when it came to women and business he was only ordinary at best and I was to dumb to ask anyway.
Not a hater at all and I'm all for self-development but as someone who woke up at 6am and went through a process including working out when I see this guy there is no way he is 8% body fat. That level is what pro body builders get at when they compete and it is neither sustainable nor healthy but that's only my opinion and kudos to him and anyone putting the sweat to good use cause that's what it is all about.
By far, in my opinion anyway, the best advice to remember here…….make sure you are with her for a minimum of two years before proposing. Every close friend of mine got married after less than a year….. and every one of them found out that they married the girls sales representative.
When men bring up any concerns about marriage to a women they always put the guy in a take it or leave it situation. They will say all those guys that got divorced just married the wrong person lol but how does a guy really know or can predict the next 20 years with a female. It's just not smart to bond yourself that close to a creature you can't fully trust or predict. If and when they self destruct you're just caught in the explosion
Women inherently date up Andrew. Check out Andrew Tate's interviews. Women have shared high value men since the dawn of humanity. I mean, is she chaste? can she make a lemonade in summer ? probably neither
Just want everyone one of you contemplating marriage in 2021! to remember the day you were warned that you’re about to make the most obvious, idiotic, predictable mistake of your life. Congratulations gentlemen!
If you are living in America and you want to get married, the best thing you can do is move far away from there. Not just because of the law, but the mentality of women as well.
Things have become so totally rigged against men and Fathers I don't think there is any advice that makes sense anymore. Consider this, would you want a business partner who has an 80% chance of bailing on you, and not content to just leave, they also take everything you owned from the time you were 5 years old, including your house and your children, and do everything they can to destroy YOU and put you in jail. No, of course you would not want a business partner like that. Don't do it!
It is a balancing act. The more attractive, the less trustworthy. The more they want " things ", the less they want you. A good man will do anything for his wife and children, a bad wife will hardly notice ...
Life advice before getting into marriage and getting kids is to try to raise a dog and those two years will be a good perspective to see if your potential "the ONE" is capable of raising a dog and how much effort she will put into. It will be very good indicator or red flag to carry on the main "PLAN". Just my opinion and advice which could help a lot before getting into FCKD''up LTR and useless time waste of one mans life. Greetings from Latvia !
I don't agree with this theory some people wouldn't feel that sense of urgency to be responsible of a animal. When in fact a women would feel that way to a small baby or a toddler because of the biological instinct and impulse to bear children and not animals.
GREAT ADVICE. I got a dog with my ex and within 1 month she wanted nothing to do with it. She couldnt handle coming home from work and taking care of something. She wanted a dog to just lay with her all day. Kicked her to the curb quick
Take it slow bro.....no human can hide their true self forever.....women are the ones that are in a rush always, not the man....pay attn to that and why.......good luck bro!
Im a man that was on child support when I was only making 55 k a year and in my state they took a 20 percent flat net percentage of my income, thank god its over. Homeboy making 6 figures which will likely grow getting locked in at god knows what percentage with 3 to 4 kids. thats a life ruiner. Just dont.
Thanks for the amazing info, strokes my ego a bit to know that I was my pregnant wifes fIrst partner let alone her first serious relationship. All the glory to GOD.
He thinks because there are a bunch of Mormon girls around his area he’ll be able to date one lmao that’s not necessarily how it works with them. This guy changed his outer frame per se (got in shape) but clearly he didn’t change his mindset. You can tell he’s still not as masculine and his body frame shows.
This guy actually didn't start off that bad. He's already 6'1" and decent looking. Losing fat is nowhere near as difficult as being a short, scrawny ectomorph who has to graft away to gain barely any muscle, and then have to try and "grow taller" and change his own face.
6ft and lost a tone of fat now I want to get big bro been packing on muscle I’m just turned 20 and I live on an rough estate and mum earns 12000 a year below poverty line with three kids. I’m now gonna finish university doing biomedical science and earn £65k a year and then hopefuly set up a business with friends and make over 100k a year bro
Rich says there are no unicorns. I think Andrew Tate described it best. "There are no perfect women, just good blueprints." You mold her into what you want her to be. Patrice O'neal said you have to train a bitch also. Now I don't look for unicorns, just good blueprints (values).
The Issue is you have to look for a woman with good values who also happens to be young and with a low body count. Women past mid 20s and with high body counts become untrainable.
@@destroyerofsimps6574 I've experienced that too. It's not even so much about high body counts , but the amount of relationships they have began and ended. A women hasn't slept with every guy she's dated or gone on a date with. Think of the amount of guys a women has entertained, the average cute girl probably in the hundreds. Death by a thousand cuts.
Oh, and Richard, you’re a fucking Godsend man, thanks for what you’ve done and continue to do. You reach so many you’ll probably never even know. Myself included.
Lol. How good the advice you can get from a person from a broken marriage? Same like the advice :how to prevent a bankruptcy, from a bankrupt attorney.
Making 6 figures isn't enough. I live in Toronto,.Ontario. Canada. where Rich lives in. I GROSS $113,000 to $119,000 Canadian over past 7 years. Depending on how much over time I do. I NET, $70,000-$74,000 Canadian. After income tax, pension, union dues, benefits!
@@25-8 Must be some white collar jobs with the amount of WOKEism in corporate sector work for a few years in Investment Banks or in Tech and then retire with nice money.
Have a plan and a direction for your life a woman that's worth your time will get on it with you and pull in the same direction. Women today are so lost they need the structure that men can provide for them. One major thing that I don't hear nearly enough. It's not enough that she's doing the right things. She has to do it willingly and with a great attitude. Anything less and she will eventually resent you for it
I disagree with the Virgin logic, I've had a couple - really being the third guy is ideal. Logic is when they're virgins typically the pedestalize sex and they will eventually go into FOMO because they don't really get it. 2nd guy is usually never a commited relationship and is usually just explore and understand sexuality without pressure, then when they feel empty third guy gets a woman who is hungry for satisfaction and your the best sex almost by default as long as you dont suck. All my pair bonding I've been the 3rd guy. Also, all this has to happen before shes 25, after that you're gonna have a hard time finding mindless devotion and you'll have to settle for being the practical choice.
He better be stronger then he seems, l was 23 married a Christian woman that had only been with me had 3 kids and designed and built her 2 new homes before she was 30 and she got to stay home and I was good to her and provided well lasted 17 years until she hit midlife and left me and our 3 Young children for a total loser and even died 2 year's later chasing him hit a truck headon and killed her,, then another Christian woman 13 years and raised 2 of her sons kids the last 6 years and she flipped out with menopause and left and never let me see the kids again, like I said you better be really mentally strong for a woman goes through many changes through life and now over 65 percent of marriages end in divorce filed by her. And don't think a religious woman will make any difference.
Great points. #1 its women that have a "mid life" crisis & have more affairs than men. Especially "emotional " affairs with a co-worker. "work hubby" while Hollywood & Fake MSM lie & claim its men. Classic "deny & deflect" #2. Menopause can be 1000x worst than what is described on Google or in medical books.
@@gilbertjubinville9712 many of married friends walk around as if hit by lightning since there wife hit menopause and say they never would have married who she has became and all envy my peace and solitude.
Men can get married on their own terms. A man and woman can make a custom contract that both parties agree with, but under no circumstances ever apply for a marriage license. A man and woman don't need to make the state principal in a contract.
I'm a 24 year old man and I have always just wanted a nice family... its just in me. But man in 2021 it hard to find a legit partner to build a kingdom with. Also I'm a week in and I already got women staring at me left and right... I understand the game now. Rich you are saving these Kings out here man Thank You.
Hi Richard: I am 63 and I wish I had some one like you to talk to when I was 21. Your doing a tremendous service to young men out there, savings lives. Keep up the good work.
I’m 21 and I’ve been watching Rich and Rollo for 3 months now. Absolutely life changing, my priorities are my physique, finance and game. My goal is to make 6 figures by 25 and make my first mil by 35 via real estate (I’ve also started studying the work of Robert Kiyosaki). Throughout this journey I shall spin plates and remain my mental point of origin.
Thank you Mr. Cooper
@@Noah_Jefferson Be careful with STDs and the honey trap.
@@Noah_Jefferson cheers mate !!
Can't blame yourself mate...the Internet wasn't around back in the day
Agreed. I am recently separated from my wife of 21 years that I married when I was 21 years old and was a father by 24. I should have explored a lot more of myself in the 20s, you know spinning plates, travel, spinning more plates. Currently going through this emotional dumpster fire but I’ll be fine!!! Chase excellence, spin plates and enjoy your 20s!! Fuck and your 30s!! Cheers brothers 🍻
I like this Andrew guy, he seems real genuine. Nice work he’s done on himself. Inspiring.
What is his channel on TH-cam, I coud not find.
What I’ve learned this year is don’t settle for anything less than a women who is 100% for you. If she doesn’t want to be in your life, no problem find someone who will. Make a set of boundaries that you are comfortable and reasonable with and don’t break them for anybody. If they cross a boundary that isn’t immediately lethal, give them one chance after explaining your issue with it, if they do it again kindly exit them out of your life because you don’t need that bullshit
hundred percent agree man
Just to add, exit them out of your life with style, dont act as if you are wounded for leaving the relationship, make the other party feel guilty for what they have done that lead to the breakup. (Not redpilled)
Nail on the head. My mother would lie down in traffic for my Dad, it's impressive. Whereas my wife would throw me under a bus. I learned this lesson after it was too late, and I have my work cut out now, but that's fine I'm putting in the work. What is wonderful is that my son will receive this proper education.
The only thing I would change is never give a second chance. If you have made clear what your expectations are, and she agrees to those expectations, but chooses to test your boundaries, then she made a conscious decision. Every time I gave a second chance it never ended well because I set a standard that she will now expect.
@@GBU61 yeah I agree I put in if it’s not immediately ending the relationship. Sometimes people do make mistakes that are honestly or they don’t know that they crossed a boundary so if it’s nothing major I’d let them know
People think Rich and the whole redpill movement is radical and Anti Marriage and Anti-Women. This video Shows Rich isn't against it. He just warns brothers. He lays out the facts for them to make an informed decision based on facts. Papa Rich is the Dad us young men never had. Thanks for this. Stay Hard my brothers.
Honestly facts man big ups papa rich
How Rich could be against it while he was simping for simgle moms two years ago? Ahahah
Rich is cool but he’s a poor mans rollo. Plus I can def name better dudes who can give better advice about women nature and other things such as AMS. Rich is cool but except when his thing seems too conspiracy theorist
Cooper did get his fingers burnt nearly suicide enough said
My advice to Young Men Who want to Get Married and Have a Family:
1. Get Money
2. Build Muscle
3. Learn Game
4. Hold Frame
5. Learn the marriage laws and regulations in your state/country!
You don’t need muscles. Get her knocked up but never marry her. She delivers your Kid, there you have your family without contractual terms.
“Hold frame”.. lol. Regurgitation of someone else’s vocab, classic. Why can’t you copycats just use the phrase “be a man”, it’s the same shit. Being a man and standing for what you want is all frame is. You don’t need to “hold” anything. Just be a man, y’all act like that’s something so hard to do 😂
I got 2. 3. 4. Down. I just need #1 lol
Just marry a virgin
@@x3-178 I knew some virgins that got married early to quite decent guys. However these girls ended up falling in the social media trap. It's not as easy as 'marry a virgin'.
Those likes/matches on tinder mean absolutely nothing. I can get 99 plus matches in a week, but 99.99 percent of them are bots/scammers/fake accounts. Dont flatter yourself.
Don't u have to pay like a monthly fee or some sort of subscription to use that dating app? I've never used a dating app thats why I'm asking
@@harvestingseason2725 nah, rn men are checking out and because or corona women are more alone than everr and less free attention. he's 6'1 and jacked. he got his pick of it. tinder is free, but u can pay to get even beter service.
@@harvestingseason2725 If you actually plan on having success on Tinder, YES, you should upgrade to premium. But you must first know what your up against. If you're not willing to pay a photographer to have professional like pics taken of you from your best angles etc, then you're gonna get thrown into the 80% pool where you will fight over the 20% of scraps left over from the 80% of wmen who chase the top 20% guys. It's a minefield if you don't put the time, money and effort into it. I honestly wouldn't advise it.
@@harvestingseason2725 no
Premium is only for the fat people@@MMA-CLIPS2
Need to raise the minimum dating for LTR needs to be 2.5 years. Sometimes a woman can keep the mask on a little longer than 2 years.
They wear it to their grave
Mine wore it for 9 years.
@@SpiderBite90x hate to hear that sir. I was dumb enough to ignore the red flags. Mine dropped hers after we were married. Then after a kid gets on the ground it’s over. I was married for 20 years.
Women show their true face after 2 weeks,it's not obvious, it's like a little slip up that leaves you confused, look for those moments
Mr Locario teaches to vet a woman for 5 years before you even consider marriage.
I'm no expert but don't just pick a girl based on her looks. Pick someone who you can see yourself long term with even if things are going to get hard sometimes. Some body you can trust and rely on.
Sure go do that. Still never get married, broads pull the bait and switch everyday
Yeah but boys nowadays see themselves long term with beautiful girls only.
Always look at how she treats her dad and how she respects him if she has no father figure walk away
@@spookycrane9318 That's not terrible advice honestly.
I dated a girl I wasnt really attracted to but was a good girl. It doesnt work. You need to be attracted to them as well.
One of my rules is that even if were just dating it's monogamous. We both owe each other the respect of focusing on one another until we've decided where we stand.
@@peter11947 Everyone I've ever met with that outlook has been seriously lacking in the integrity department... But who knows maybe your an exception to the rule.
A lot of people owe me and many others a lot of things. I owe a lot of people as well.
@@peter11947 the problem with that scenario is that any potential relationship was doomed from the get go as one of them was a worthless liar... a deal breaker right of the bat.
Had they been honest with the one that wanted to be monogamous during the dating phase that person could have decided to just go their own way, as the incompatibility would be obvious from the get go, insteaf of selfishly being strung along by the first person who is clearly lacking in morals and was never relationship material to begin with.
Good luck with that. Try to get her to give up her IG account. Modern women like being popular with as many guys as they can.
You still think that the world has your back and that people have your best interest at heart. People only care about themselves and do what’s best for them. You should do the same bro
Totally agree with you. Why would I want to date A man with too many notches and accept him dating many others. What is he going to be like?
Even after two years you just never know. I was with a girl for nearly 4 years and she checked out. Just stay on the defensive and make sure you have a plan before you end up in a bad spot
Yeah time isn’t on anyone’s side
Exact same situation. But when I look back, I’ve grown allot in many aspects since she has left me almost 2 years ago, and I’m actually proud of myself for it. I still have some ways to go like quitting bad habits for example but I’ve improved never the less. It gets better bro, just give it time
@@ryanlarbi8157 I know it'll get better. I think of it this way I was sent to jail for 3 months i'd still be locked up if the police got their 3 year mandatory minimum. Everyone goes through rough times, but it always comes down to which fork in the road you decide to take after getting dealt a shitty hand.
Men please remember you don't owe women a damn thing! They need marriage more than men. Let her earn the position of being a wife. And don't feel like you have to rush to get married. Men don't owe women marriage because of how long you've been with her. He said he should give himself a 2 year vetting period before considering her a candidate to be a wife. I would say longer but of course you don't want to wait too long if you want to have kids. Women can act to get what they want and switch up after they've gotten what they want. This isn't being cynical. It's being fully aware of the kind of mindset you're dealing with.
You are absolutely correct but let me add that no man should ever marry if he has no interest in becoming a father.
So true
@@Dasher49225 I'd say six years is minimum necessary to see if she is wife material
@@Dasher49225 I heard of a fellow that dated his wife 19 years before he married her. I said now that's a smart s o b there
@@briancooper6608 the women is clearly an idiot for waiting that long. If I had a daughter I would tell her to never date a man for that long.
Rich allegedly has all this money but is using prison headphones
Lol
what do you think rich's net worth is ?
When I see someone rocking their Beats by Dre headphones, I remember that quote about a sucker and their money...
That’s how rich stays rich 😂😂
He is from Toronto, Ontario. In Canada. I have seen him in Toronto Star newspaper, for his small business he started up. He has money, but maybe his networth is like $3 million USD; Max!
The only dynamic in which a young man should get married, is if he and the wife to be have an excellent family dynamic. A family with traditional values.
There is no excellent dynamics in relationships, people are different and something will clash and will be arguments its normal.
Facts look at how she treats her parents especially her dad and that’s exactly how she’s going to treat you!
I'm 26, no kids, got a vasectomy and 6 vials frozen for when I choose (probably never)
All up it cost me less than $1000 and like $400 a year for storage
Invest in yourself kings
That is balls! I'm sitting on a bag of frozen peas now...just 3 kids in, 2 baby mamas, and down another 3 year relationship, heartbroken. But I have a bad ass startup. I need to lose myself in it.
Im 23 and I habe decided that I don’t want kids nor marriage not even a girlfriend. I am considering getting a vasectomy.
The illuminati didn't even have to try with you punk
Dont ruin it not bro, your doing soo well, dont let a woman destroy your life
It’s funny, everyone thinks that’s the ultimate answer to a happy fulfilling life is wife and kids. It’s work, on top of work, on top of work. And there’s no guarantee, clearly. The world is so different today, and I don’t see it getting better anytime soon. I had a vesectomy at 30 because I knew I never wanted kids. One of the best decisions for me mentally and spiritually. Live your life guys, it can end tomorrow. Cheers
I got mine done at 28. I'm 52 and don't regret it one bit!
A man that doesn't want kids doesn't want a legacy to be continued.
@@wenky_facewenky6257 and that’s okay. I can live with that. Cheers 🍻
That’s very true
@Hamza Bozos and I respect that as well. Two each is own brother.
Damn this video just popped out and it happens to be the best timing in life for me because I have been thinking about this a lot on the last days
Do NOT get married...do not be the guy walks into the court and figures out the truth in court! Listen to Rich
Same brother
I was engaged I got cold feet, I would think long and hard mate, advise against it
Ask Jesus for guidance, my friends. God bless.
1. Speak to a divorce lawyer (a guy) for your state BEFORE you consider marriage. Note also laws can change
2. If both aren't religious and haven't defined the obligations (duty) of marriage, which is what marriage is, then ask yourself, as a man, what do you gain from marriage?
3. If she has a high body count, tats, piercings, only fans account, Instagram 'model' acvount, avoid like the plague. If she drinks heavily, smokes, or is a party animal... Do not wife her up
4. It will cost you $14k to 18k per year to pay for one child after tax, and that excludes education, medical care or time.
5. If she cheats on you, what protection does the law give you if you try to walk away? (ie watch out for cohabitting laws)
6. Never date single moms, post wall garden tools, never date girls who like Chads, Tyrones, Abduls, Jamals... You are being used as a simp provider
7. Ask yourself is her presence a benefit to your life? Will it help you in your goals? Sufficient to the extent you will want to share your life with?
8. Remember the law is against men and does not act in the interest of the child, so be careful who you decide to wife up.... Remember she doesn't have to do anything after marriage, and relations are not an obligation legally, she does not have to listen to you, she does not have to help around the house, nor bring uo kids..... 🤔....... Ask yourself do you want to get married?... The guy there is a beta simp and he will be taken to the cleaners... Women are much smarter at the game than him.... They also know the law protects them
😅😅😅😅
I got dumped a few months ago, first 2-3 months after that were bad, but the funny thing is that I used to do unconsciously all the stuff you recommend in your videos, before I even knew that. And after almost 3 years realized, that my girl is full of blsht influenced by her pretentious females friends and when I challenged her behaviour, that was the moment wshe decided to end things with me, although I planned to propose to her initially. Just be aware of your self value guys, don't let the women stump on you, and test them, just the way they test us all the time. This guy will be fine, and once the women realize he has his own standards, women will go crazy in fitting his frame - which is basically the best thing you can get in order to be willing to enter a working LTR
Like the Saint and The sinner teaches you have to learn to vet women for her appropriate role. If you knew this girl wasn't GF material why did you elevate her to that position? How long did you make her work to earn the title of your GF? Most guys make gfs out of women that are side chics at best.
@@destroyerofsimps6574 what can I tell you, for the first time I met a chick that seemed cool, funny, easy-going and probably really liked me initially. You lose your head once a man experiences that and tend to ignore all red flags. Cant say that I was not happy, things started to go south with covid, obviously, we spent just too much time together
Solipsism for men is the key. Never be a slave to a womans desires. Don't let her passively shame/guilt you into going against what you want or need. Good job unplugging my friend. Know your value. We are trained by this gynocentric society that we have no value. That is bullshit. Thier is nothing more valuable then a strong, intelligent, sophisticated, capable man. It scares the crap out of most women and those are the ones you want to stay away from. Because fear is just another word for insecurity. If she ever insults your interests, family/friends get the hell away from her before your SUNK COST is too high and you get into a rut which is where alot of women are comfortable because even though the relationship is dying they are addicted to the drama it brings. NEVER DATE/MARRY A SINGLE MOTHER. It's like helping someone push a broken down car. The first block is ok and then you realize your day has become pushing someone elses broken down car they never changed the oil in and all you wanna do is get the hell outta thier. Lol. I personally have been in both situations.
Greetings from Eastern Europe, Rich. 🍻
What an amazing asset to have Richard on our side guys.
Good bless Richard.
Better make sure you and her have an actual lawyer to draft a prenup and have her sign it 5 months before the wedding.
and videotape it
Why do u need marriage if u are planning to divorce them? Just dont get marry and live together
@@jelmo3732 because married people (that stay married) tend to be richer, their kids are better educated and they have more and better sex and are happier overall! I would say marriage is not for the faint hearted and you have to love and respect your partner warts and all. If your woman isn’t as “high quality” as you thought (and you have two years of “in love”hormones which will shield you from seeing objectively), then encourage her and do high quality stuff with her and feel the pride as you watch her grow. That surely is an inspiring idea, isn’t it?
@@juliaphillips2518 I do agree. What bothers me is how people DECIDES to get married, and still doubt their marriage. Marriage is a life time investment, and just like u said, and backing out ur investment is not ideal. It is a risk. If people have no plans on building their future then i think it’s safe to not marry, unless if u want to build a future with ur SO.
@@jelmo3732 yes. I hear you. It is easier to blame the other person than to have to work on yourself once you are married. It takes honesty, courage, humility and vulnerability to work on yourself and your relationship.
If a man has no interest in having children, then he has no reason to marry. And if he has no reason to marry, then he can avoid all of the BS trials and tribulations associated with courtship. Short and longer term relationships with women should be treated as a diversion and nothing more. Focus your efforts on your career, building up your net worth, improving your body and mind, and supporting charitable activities you believe in. The remaining 5% of your time you can devote to a woman. And it's her job to fit into your life and not the other way around!
Exactly my strategy. She wants me? She gets on my program, not the other way around.
You are correct my friend! You can publish that. On the front page of all newspapers 😂😂😂
Best advice speak to a Lawyer in your state and look at worse case scenario and understand what you might be in for.
here my advice as a 42 year old man. don't!....best decision i ever made. i don't have the hassles or aggravation that i see on all my friends faces who are married with children. best thing you could do find a life companion, get a couple dogs and ride off into the sunset.
Lose the dogs and you're 100% right
And if they're Siberian Huskies and it's snowing, they'll be your ride into the sunset!
@@AmbuBadger 😂
I'm a girl so I can't talk In your name but honestly wouldn't wanne be I' Your place. I don't know how bad situations in America are. But my family is big and warm. I can't imagin being alone having no kids in future. Don't you feel lonely sometimes?
Find a life companion? Without marriage? Which vvoman will agree to that? 99.9% would want family+kids
This guy was 30 when he decided to loose weight and improve his finances, he is 31 and he is a total chad now. There are no excuses for improving yourself
About the time to wait before wedding: you are totally on point about the 2 year minimum, but I would add that it's not only the time to understand if she is enacting a persona; it's also a good time to actually match each other's behaviors. People do change, but only if they really want to. The other advice would be " have a hobby you enjoy and spend lots of time on it while dating" , it's the way to understand if she is a psycho or not. I'm on my second wife and can really see all the mistakes I did the first time now my life is just wonderful andy wife and kids are amazing, but she had to change some behaviors in order for me to pull the trigger about 3 years later. As zi said, women can change but only if they really want to, my current wife really wanted a great family not just a husband and it has paid off great.
the hobby thing is huge. If she gets mad at you for spending time doing something productive instead of spending time with her/replying to her texts or whatever then you know to get out of there.
Dude gave himself a 5 for being broke at 37% body fat. Now that is confidence.
He also said he was 8% bodyfat now, which is hilarious because that's the level professional bodybuilders are at when they are on stage. I'm amazed how much these red pill guys just lie and exaggerate about everything.
@@jugular911 yeah red pill can be toxic and brainwash. Many of those guys are mama boys. While rp is mostly true there is also good women in this life.
I don't think 8% is that insane of a number... Besides, he said he's on TRT so I don't think 8% is that impossible to achieve.
@@philip8600 He's in therapy, not TRT. He's also seeing a nutritionist and owns an MMA gym.
Doubt he's 8% bodyfat though. Likely 10% to 12%.
@@jugular911 he said 8%, 240#, at 6’1”. Thats IFBB pro material. My close friend is an IFBB pro and doesn’t even have those stats near contest shape at 5’11”. He’s on more than “therapy” (TRT) then. Notice how he didn’t give his T number.
I like this guy, 6'1 240lbs isn't 8% bodyfat but he seems smart and well spoken and knows what he wants. Does Andrew have a channel of his own?
More dishes more bishes
Thanks for this man I’ve been thinking starting a family now that my career is on track (IBEW electrician). I’m 25 but I need to wait until I have more experience honestly
Having lots of likes on tinder doesn't always mean much. I'll get 100 before I delete my account and only like 10 are good. It probably depends on your city too.
So why are you swiping on 90 girls you aren't interested in? The algorithm is going to just throw those types of wmen at you if you do that. Waste of time and energy.
It depends on its algorithm itself. I've got 99+ likes & 73 matched before i deleted my account. And then i try to make a new account for fun, which is with the same profile, and got very low amount of likes, in just for 7 months in the same city. There are always external aspect
@@MMA-CLIPS2 Likes are not matches. My point is that you can't judge Tinder success just by number of likes. I bought premium to see the likes and most are single moms, fat, etc. I had a 3 year relationship from Tinder so it still works but you can't assume having 100+ likes means anything because it doesn't. Question for you: Right now I'm talking to a hot girl on Tinder but she has a girlfriend and shes going to stay with the girl and have a boyfriend at the same time. They are both very hot. Is this a good idea?
I agree.
Greetings Rich from Kyrgyzstan! I am your fellow Canadian brother who decided to flee from Trudope tyranny. I just bought your book and started reading it today. This is just to say Thank you for sharing your life experience and knowledge!
Rich seems so poised and happy, love to see it
You would not take financial advice from a poor man, but you take relationship advice from a divorcee... God help the next generation. Doing some fine work there Rich, letting your bitter resentment pave the way for your daughters future. Bravo sir.
Here’s some advice from my mom. She’s been happily married to my dad for 30 years, still snuggle in bed, go on dates, laugh and talk in the kitchen making dinner together. Some advice from her for true relationship goals and it’s pretty damn simple: “anticipate what the other person needs, if my dads cooking my moms prepping, if my moms doing the laundry ironing and folding, my dads lugging the baskets up 2 flights of stairs for her. My mom isn’t technologically inclined so my dad handles that. My dad can’t sew his patches on his uniform or tie his tie or cut his hair so my mom handles that. If you spend so much time worrying about what’s fair and going tit for tat it’s pretty likely that isn’t your future. To each is own, you’ll always have money to fill the void so there’s that.
When the price of leasing a wife for three years comes down I'll get married to the latest model. She will need to come with free maintenance though.
Lool, what about the down payment for a wedding ??
Haha, you can lease a foreign model now, it's a 2 year lease, but you gotta have a little Money and a house
Maintenance always costs and the higher more expensive the model the servicing $$ goes up.
@@dwaynejoyce1357 I was referring to mail order brides, Rich guys cam Marry a hot girl from another country that just wants to move to America, They must remain married for 2 years to be able to stay so they have to be on good behavior that long, so a rich guy cam consider it a 2 year lease and get a new one every 2 years. It's a win win. They get to come to the USA and he gets a different hot girl every 2 years!
@@MX-CO I was referring to the original message not yours in particular but get your point
This guy being 6'1 and worried. I guess me being 5'6 have no chance
Don’t get married, be freeeeeee.
Dude you're a 10 now. You're doing amazing I look up to you man. Keep it up KING!
"If you think hiring a professional expensive. Wait until you hire an amateur." Red Adair
Does not matter who you marry in these last days. No matter what the law favors the woman more than the man. Get a prenuptial agreement and just try your best to love each other but, make sure when she decides she’s Had enough and desires to take off that, you are fully legally protected.
Prenups are useless
Prenuptial agreements are not full legal protection.
Prenups dont work anymore.
85% percent of women file for divorce. The divorce rate is 50%, probably higher. You are set to lose at least half of everything you worked for, including your house if you divorce. You will have limited access to your children. "It won't happen to me". Think gents, think.
Don’t say “gents”
It's time to implement sharia marriage laws,
@@wenky_facewenky6257 how about no.
wait until late gen x , gen y , gen z numbers are left this is why pre nups ( watch lead attorney channel ) and vet her at least 2 years before having kids and marry
Divorce rate is above 50%. The other people guy stay married are usually not happy in their marriage. Some of them won’t divorce due to religious reasons, they don’t have enough money to live out of the household both of them, they are afraid to be alone…
52 and had to learn all this stuff the hard way. Now thanks to the internet young men don't have too. Before you young men say your Dad's should be telling you this stuff remember it's the women in his life he'll draw reference from. It's your mother he will be talking about. There's a lot he won't want to say and a lot you won't want to listen to so don't be hard on the old guy. It's a bit of a catch 22. Rich weather you agree or disagree with him gives a fair and honest perspective of some of the difficulties ahead and strategies available. It information I would have gladly absorbed as a young man.
Not all young men, improve themselves still
@@dylanexplores18 not all young men are the same. People with low IQ can't be thought anything.
@Richard Schiffman unfortunately he probably had a poor mentor too. Not making excuses for him but you should not be making excuses for you either. Invest in yourself. Get therapy. Get to the gym and get yourself red pilled. Alphas are the master of their domain. You start by mastering yourself.
Ask yourself what outcome you want ? Life is all about the outcome. Yes your right you father failed with you. So your right but how does that serve you. Outcome my friend. Pick the outcome you want for you and emerse your energy and brain solely in that direction. Can't change the past. Can change the future.
I said what I said above as my father gave me very little guidance. He was s good man though. But when it came to women and business he was only ordinary at best and I was to dumb to ask anyway.
Marriage is a woman’s insurance policy for her declining assets. Already made up my mind as an 18 year old to not ruin my life like that.
Not a hater at all and I'm all for self-development but as someone who woke up at 6am and went through a process including working out when I see this guy there is no way he is 8% body fat. That level is what pro body builders get at when they compete and it is neither sustainable nor healthy but that's only my opinion and kudos to him and anyone putting the sweat to good use cause that's what it is all about.
This one helped out a lot. This guy is the same age as me and wants the same things. Utah seems like a good place to be a chad!
By far, in my opinion anyway, the best advice to remember here…….make sure you are with her for a minimum of two years before proposing. Every close friend of mine got married after less than a year….. and every one of them found out that they married the girls sales representative.
When men bring up any concerns about marriage to a women they always put the guy in a take it or leave it situation. They will say all those guys that got divorced just married the wrong person lol but how does a guy really know or can predict the next 20 years with a female. It's just not smart to bond yourself that close to a creature you can't fully trust or predict. If and when they self destruct you're just caught in the explosion
Women inherently date up Andrew. Check out Andrew Tate's interviews. Women have shared high value men since the dawn of humanity. I mean, is she chaste? can she make a lemonade in summer ? probably neither
Battle of the satoshis
Lemonade in the summer?
Wildly simple, dangerously effective advice
Just want everyone one of you contemplating marriage in 2021! to remember the day you were warned that you’re about to make the most obvious, idiotic, predictable mistake of your life. Congratulations gentlemen!
For real. Once your aware of female nature....marriage is not a serious option
Yep. You tell em
If you are living in America and you want to get married, the best thing you can do is move far away from there. Not just because of the law, but the mentality of women as well.
Things have become so totally rigged against men and Fathers I don't think there is any advice that makes sense anymore. Consider this, would you want a business partner who has an 80% chance of bailing on you, and not content to just leave, they also take everything you owned from the time you were 5 years old, including your house and your children, and do everything they can to destroy YOU and put you in jail. No, of course you would not want a business partner like that. Don't do it!
It is a balancing act.
The more attractive, the less trustworthy.
The more they want " things ", the less they want you.
A good man will do anything for his wife and children, a bad wife will hardly notice ...
Life advice before getting into marriage and getting kids is to try to raise a dog and those two years will be a good perspective to see if your potential "the ONE" is capable of raising a dog and how much effort she will put into. It will be very good indicator or red flag to carry on the main "PLAN".
Just my opinion and advice which could help a lot before getting into FCKD''up LTR and useless time waste of one mans life.
Greetings from Latvia !
I don't agree with this theory some people wouldn't feel that sense of urgency to be responsible of a animal. When in fact a women would feel that way to a small baby or a toddler because of the biological instinct and impulse to bear children and not animals.
I'm not cohabitating with any man. Maybe for modern ladies that could work but I'm very traditional.
@@cristinap273 Theory and advice are two fundamentally different things. Write it down for the future reference.
@@okar2k yes, that could work for some people I implied.
GREAT ADVICE. I got a dog with my ex and within 1 month she wanted nothing to do with it. She couldnt handle coming home from work and taking care of something. She wanted a dog to just lay with her all day. Kicked her to the curb quick
I see u Andrew!!! Good stuff!! Keep goin. Thanks coach. Changing lives out here
Take it slow bro.....no human can hide their true self forever.....women are the ones that are in a rush always, not the man....pay attn to that and why.......good luck bro!
Rich is the equivalent of the return of Christ for young men and the red 💊
Keep up the fantastic work Rich 👏🏻
you need to chill the f out, lol christ comparisons
Marriage is a means to an end (kids). The mean (marriage) is not the end itself. Many confuse the two almost interchangeably.
Im a man that was on child support when I was only making 55 k a year and in my state they took a 20 percent flat net percentage of my income, thank god its over. Homeboy making 6 figures which will likely grow getting locked in at god knows what percentage with 3 to 4 kids. thats a life ruiner. Just dont.
Great video. Great advice and kudos to the caller on his transformation
Thanks for the amazing info, strokes my ego a bit to know that I was my pregnant wifes fIrst partner let alone her first serious relationship. All the glory to GOD.
Excellent Rich, absolutely EXCELLENT! 💪🏻💪🏼💪🏽💪🏾💪🏿
Great advice but above all of that...if you don't include the One who designed the marriage arrangement in your marriage it's bound to fail.
I agree completely , Gotta have God in there!!!
💯 Agree
Theres a lot of believers with failed marriages... Thats reality folks.
@@w60496 Perhaps because they married the wrong person to begin with.
Wait, this guy says he's been doing combat sports since he was a teenager yet he weighed 300lbs?
Be me on tinder for a year have 40 matches, this guy day 1 90 matches so I'm now gonna grind harder thank you for the drive
@@Where_Is.H thanks man I appreciate this
He thinks because there are a bunch of Mormon girls around his area he’ll be able to date one lmao that’s not necessarily how it works with them. This guy changed his outer frame per se (got in shape) but clearly he didn’t change his mindset. You can tell he’s still not as masculine and his body frame shows.
Richard gives really good advice and his words of wisdom will help so many guys.
Do the work people. It’s so easy to get girls.
Just Get taller!
good analogy, digging dirt to find gold. very obvious not a lot of people are right for you.
Thanks for covering this!
Whats your income? - 6 figures... says everyone.
This guy actually didn't start off that bad. He's already 6'1" and decent looking. Losing fat is nowhere near as difficult as being a short, scrawny ectomorph who has to graft away to gain barely any muscle, and then have to try and "grow taller" and change his own face.
Money and game bro. My short friends do pretty well for themselves but they are built. Do the work holmie.
Stop fucking complaining, not gonna give u anything, work hard and u will succeed in everything
I struggle to gain weight as well, but I workout and have and am strong for my size. Women dont demand huge muscles. Money beats huge muscles any day
Stop making excuses and get to work.
6ft and lost a tone of fat now I want to get big bro been packing on muscle I’m just turned 20 and I live on an rough estate and mum earns 12000 a year below poverty line with three kids. I’m now gonna finish university doing biomedical science and earn £65k a year and then hopefuly set up a business with friends and make over 100k a year bro
Congrats on bro putting the work in. 💪🏼
Great video. Richard is a real blessing for men .
Incredible respect for Andrew. I'm in the same boat, but I'm a little over half your age.
My strongest confidence killer is my mirror.
Rich - you're the best. If I had a son, I would send him to you to get educated.
Thanks for the great information, Rich! XD
Being 6'1" and not overweight is the game changer.
Very helpful advise. Thumbs up Richard
I want a family. It’s never going happen.
Glad keanu reeves agreed to be interviewed..👍🏿
Lol!!!
Rich says there are no unicorns. I think Andrew Tate described it best. "There are no perfect women, just good blueprints." You mold her into what you want her to be. Patrice O'neal said you have to train a bitch also. Now I don't look for unicorns, just good blueprints (values).
The Issue is you have to look for a woman with good values who also happens to be young and with a low body count. Women past mid 20s and with high body counts become untrainable.
Congratulations, you've been brainswashed.
@@stephanea5364 Thanks.
@@destroyerofsimps6574 I've experienced that too. It's not even so much about high body counts , but the amount of relationships they have began and ended. A women hasn't slept with every guy she's dated or gone on a date with. Think of the amount of guys a women has entertained, the average cute girl probably in the hundreds. Death by a thousand cuts.
Anybody remember the movie Waiting? Dude in white looks like the guy who came in to the restaurant at the end and knew the waiter.
Oh, and Richard, you’re a fucking Godsend man, thanks for what you’ve done and continue to do. You reach so many you’ll probably never even know. Myself included.
Don’t just do it!! Don’t get married…You can have kid(s) without having to tie yourself down…Don’t just do it!!
Never thought I'd see another Utah guy on Rich's channel - hope that bro is kicking ass!
Lol. How good the advice you can get from a person from a broken marriage? Same like the advice :how to prevent a bankruptcy, from a bankrupt attorney.
lol dang..true.
Making 6 figures isn't enough. I live in Toronto,.Ontario. Canada. where Rich lives in.
I GROSS $113,000 to $119,000 Canadian over past 7 years. Depending on how much over time I do.
I NET, $70,000-$74,000 Canadian. After income tax, pension, union dues, benefits!
You make a lot compared to the avg american income, what's your occupation?
Absolutely correct
@@25-8 Must be some white collar jobs with the amount of WOKEism in corporate sector work for a few years in Investment Banks or in Tech and then retire with nice money.
Have a plan and a direction for your life a woman that's worth your time will get on it with you and pull in the same direction. Women today are so lost they need the structure that men can provide for them. One major thing that I don't hear nearly enough. It's not enough that she's doing the right things. She has to do it willingly and with a great attitude. Anything less and she will eventually resent you for it
Don't expect men to keep their traditional roles, when women don't. It's not my job to make these trainwreck women of today happy.
I disagree with the Virgin logic, I've had a couple - really being the third guy is ideal. Logic is when they're virgins typically the pedestalize sex and they will eventually go into FOMO because they don't really get it. 2nd guy is usually never a commited relationship and is usually just explore and understand sexuality without pressure, then when they feel empty third guy gets a woman who is hungry for satisfaction and your the best sex almost by default as long as you dont suck. All my pair bonding I've been the 3rd guy. Also, all this has to happen before shes 25, after that you're gonna have a hard time finding mindless devotion and you'll have to settle for being the practical choice.
No disrespect but, this guy sounds like a buff beta. He needs to read the book again.
He said he use to be fat, so in his mind he probably still sees himself as a fat guy.
He’s got no frame
He wrote the book, dumba$$.
@@MMA-CLIPS2 Pay attention!
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Thanks for the video 👍
He better be stronger then he seems, l was 23 married a Christian woman that had only been with me had 3 kids and designed and built her 2 new homes before she was 30 and she got to stay home and I was good to her and provided well lasted 17 years until she hit midlife and left me and our 3 Young children for a total loser and even died 2 year's later chasing him hit a truck headon and killed her,, then another Christian woman 13 years and raised 2 of her sons kids the last 6 years and she flipped out with menopause and left and never let me see the kids again, like I said you better be really mentally strong for a woman goes through many changes through life and now over 65 percent of marriages end in divorce filed by her. And don't think a religious woman will make any difference.
Great points. #1 its women that have a "mid life" crisis & have more affairs than men. Especially "emotional " affairs with a co-worker. "work hubby" while Hollywood & Fake MSM lie & claim its men. Classic "deny & deflect" #2. Menopause can be 1000x worst than what is described on Google or in medical books.
@@gilbertjubinville9712 many of married friends walk around as if hit by lightning since there wife hit menopause and say they never would have married who she has became and all envy my peace and solitude.
@@georgespangler1517 You should have married TRAD Muslim women.
I’m on this exact pathway ✊🏽
I need that guys workout regime... IMMEDIATELY!!!!
He is on TRT tho, dont expect the same result
Men can get married on their own terms. A man and woman can make a custom contract that both parties agree with, but under no circumstances ever apply for a marriage license. A man and woman don't need to make the state principal in a contract.
So happy for this guy
I'm thankful to the lord I married a non-American virgin bride who gave me 2 sons and now pays my bills!!
I'm a 24 year old man and I have always just wanted a nice family... its just in me. But man in 2021 it hard to find a legit partner to build a kingdom with.
Also I'm a week in and I already got women staring at me left and right... I understand the game now. Rich you are saving these Kings out here man Thank You.