Andrew Tate Explains Why Men Should NEVER Get Married

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    The exclusive sit-down between Patrick Bet-David and Andrew Tate in Madrid, Spain. This was the first interview that has happened since Andrew Tate was banned off social media platforms. In this clip they talk about how to use emotions to drive yourself.
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  • @Pallo87
    @Pallo87 ปีที่แล้ว +6904

    Everything a woman does for you is for her survival.
    Everything a mother does is for your survival.
    -Mike Tyson

    • @brianholguin6338
      @brianholguin6338 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      🔥

    • @vantablack6809
      @vantablack6809 ปีที่แล้ว +265

      It's funny how we are wired biologically.The same woman who would make you happy for her survival will put her life on line for her kid.

    • @LetterSignedBy51SpiesWasA-Coup
      @LetterSignedBy51SpiesWasA-Coup ปีที่แล้ว +427

      Beautiful but false. Women will usually choose themselves over their children too.

    • @allananderson949
      @allananderson949 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      My mother was a woman

    • @oodlesnnoodles8670
      @oodlesnnoodles8670 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Stop listening to these celebrities, they are human like you & have opinions like you that can lead you to your demise. Follow your heart & your scriptures.

  • @andradeb2695
    @andradeb2695 ปีที่แล้ว +4012

    Picking the Right Wife in the West is like trying to find a needle in a haystack

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara ปีที่แล้ว +422

      No it’s like trying to find a needle in a stack of needles

    • @ydiabO
      @ydiabO ปีที่แล้ว +247

      @@darbyohara sometimes I thank God that I wasn't born in the west.
      I was born and raised in a place where women respect themselves and their men, and I'm truly thankful for that.
      Cheating and divorce are things which we rarely hear about in our communities.

    • @mimimohameed4460
      @mimimohameed4460 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@ydiabO where do you live

    • @kalencwil3924
      @kalencwil3924 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Go to El Salvador or southern America

    • @scarletlady3727
      @scarletlady3727 ปีที่แล้ว

      People cheat EVERYWHERE…they just don’t openly talk about it….I come from Pakistan which is a Muslim country where women are submissive , traditional and 90 percent don’t work and stay home….YET , many Pakistani women I know over there have cheated on their husbands…including me

  • @thelegendarianoflegend5278
    @thelegendarianoflegend5278 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    100% correct. There is nothing we (men) crave more than respect in our own household.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You don't get respect because you ask for it, you have to act like you actually want respect , and commanding and thinking your wife's opinion doesn't matter but only yours ,is not going to get you anywhere near the word respect,

    • @musaib34
      @musaib34 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@purplelove3666she can give her opinion. But man has the final say.

    • @hynesp1
      @hynesp1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Poor lad tate. Hes never been loved.

    • @ngqiqolanga3489
      @ngqiqolanga3489 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Also in life as whole man..we want respect

    • @christianmagno984
      @christianmagno984 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@purplelove3666you are another feminist Marxist

  • @NDScope
    @NDScope หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    A sexless marriage is every mans nightmare and he should leave immediately. The minute she starts holding sex hostage the relationship is over imo.

    • @iangallagher5633
      @iangallagher5633 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Expensive decision though, if you're married.

    • @johnholmes6741
      @johnholmes6741 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sexless marriage only applies to the man. The woman is getting plenty

    • @Ptpop
      @Ptpop วันที่ผ่านมา

      Damn! It’s so true.

    • @joginderroberts-downing6740
      @joginderroberts-downing6740 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Who would want u for a husband

  • @Irishkill11
    @Irishkill11 ปีที่แล้ว +1989

    Marriage did nothing for me other than give me two wonderful kids. My ex wife only saw me as a work droid. Even though divorce was financially devastating to me, the frustration she has over my happiness makes it all worth it. Sometimes I think the broken home was bad for my kids, but now they don’t see a broken man.

    • @donjaun8435
      @donjaun8435 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Thats some beautiful shit

    • @sspbrazil
      @sspbrazil ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I went through the same and I agree, love my kids and have better respect for my ex-wife as she does for me.

    • @Harshharsh111
      @Harshharsh111 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      .

    • @jabronisauce6833
      @jabronisauce6833 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Marriage didn't give you kids, sex did lmfao priorities no point pretending it's better than it is lol

    • @Hunnidproof888
      @Hunnidproof888 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bless you mane 👑💯

  • @jeffreyterrio5665
    @jeffreyterrio5665 ปีที่แล้ว +1064

    Guess I lucked out marrying a woman from Mexico. She is the exact opposite, been married 13 years and she has a heart of gold. Not just to me, to all people and animals. Its unreal, she is as genuine as it gets and an angel from heaven

    • @Triththaus
      @Triththaus ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Heck yeah brother I been married for 24 Years and she is my angel. Many congrats to you and your wife. 👍👍

    • @sirsalt123
      @sirsalt123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately women from Mexico this generation are just like the women up here in the U.S. they’re starting to follow the same way of thinking and are also becoming gold diggers. Everything has to turn to shit with Gen Z woman regardless which country she is from

    • @sirsalt123
      @sirsalt123 ปีที่แล้ว

      Western Hemisphere feminist, GenZ and millennial women are now trying to switch roles and make men submissive I assume it’s also happening in Europe and Asia. Kudos to Africans and Middle Easterns who aren’t falling into this trap of bullshit. I too refuse to be a submissive simp

    • @k.duelist4913
      @k.duelist4913 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      If she in Mexico, make sure you guys stay there. Bringing them to the States could be a bad move

    • @Theredpillar
      @Theredpillar ปีที่แล้ว +60

      ​@@sirsalt123 Muslims are based. They didn't gave up when western media targeted Qatar for not allowing LGBTQ people in Stadium. They are Strongest mf.

  • @LatrellSprewell15
    @LatrellSprewell15 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Im 47, never been married and never will be. Wouldnt want it any other way

    • @DavidJ-ty5jm
      @DavidJ-ty5jm หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      AWESOME 🎉

    • @jasonsmith530
      @jasonsmith530 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Gangsta

    • @LallanAlexHockstetter
      @LallanAlexHockstetter 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      “LATREEEEEEEEEEELLLLL SPREEEEEEEWEEELLLLLL”

    • @micclay
      @micclay 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      46 never married. Have there been times when I've wondered what it would have been like? Yes. Am I jealous of my 2 brothere that are married to bitches? Hell no. I have a full head of brown hair and am in better shape than most men 20 years youger than me. I dont think my singleness is coincidence.

  • @LB-ku6ry
    @LB-ku6ry 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +188

    I’ll make dinner. And pack a lunch too. I’ve been married 38 years. I’m an old lady now, but have been blessed by being a homemaker with clearly defined roles. It was my grandmother that taught me the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. She taught me how to cook and be a good wife and homemaker. It’s old fashioned now a days for sure. I pray that you find the woman of your dreams who knows how to cook and keeps a tidy home. God bless you. Oh and that she respects you and feeds you well with real food from the earth that nourishes your body and soul. ❤

    • @Ariana-wv4pf
      @Ariana-wv4pf หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      God, what a sad existence. I'm not here to worry about a man's stomach. 😂😂😂

    • @richardy2071
      @richardy2071 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      This sounds like a beautiful life

    • @antowalk2743
      @antowalk2743 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      God bless you

    • @breatheeasily4013
      @breatheeasily4013 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@Ariana-wv4pf Yet you worry about filling your boss man pockets.

    • @jaymerlan7621
      @jaymerlan7621 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      God bless you and your marriage.

  • @Ineedpeace7130
    @Ineedpeace7130 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    He is 100% correct about the family sitcoms. Men on these shows are reduced to bumbling idiots, while the woman is always the smart one, the attractive one while the men are usually out of shape, losing hair and is always the one that did something wrong and the wife looks at him with disappointment and have to talk/teach their husbands to behave.

    • @susanlovesjava4961
      @susanlovesjava4961 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Same with a lot of commercials, they make the guys look like complete pansies.

    • @dorkbrandon4422
      @dorkbrandon4422 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Now this discussion has come up its made me hate Malcolm in the middle

    • @tehgzizlauw1787
      @tehgzizlauw1787 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@dorkbrandon4422it's not just Malcolm in the middle, it's all of them. Family guy, Simpsons, South park etc etc

    • @francoiselemeur7325
      @francoiselemeur7325 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my you are now getting a taste of your own medecine?
      How does it feel?

    • @texas5009
      @texas5009 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@francoiselemeur7325 watermelon flavor 🍉.

  • @noblepolygon8694
    @noblepolygon8694 ปีที่แล้ว +2594

    I married a woman from an old world culture (Southern Italian). There is a deep respect for a man that produces. Even at family dinners the men get served first (after the kids), while the women all prepare the meal. No one in her family is divorced.
    My wife wakes up, makes coffee, dinner. We’re remodeling a house we just bought and she asks my opinion on everything even if for certain things she’s made her mind up. I go on vacation by myself 2x a year and there’s no static.
    She runs the house, works part time from home but I make the majority of the money. I’m glad I married someone from a culture where men are respected and trust me the respect is mutual.
    Edit: I came back to this clip and want to just add something to the comments.
    - I was an E2 (I think about $20k yr) in the Navy when I met her. When I got out she made a majority of the money while I started my business. She works part time now because I did very well. She basically works for fun / pocket change. Also why she makes dinner every night.
    - She has two sisters but both taken. One’s a doctor, the other is a software engineer.
    - in her culture, kids eat first so the adults can sit together after and have a quiet meal.
    Anyway, the point is that there are good women out there. Don’t just believe every woman are like the kind you hear about on the internet. The same for the ladies. There’s solid guys out there, a majority of us are not here to oppress you and would as Tate says would die for you if necessary.

    • @nali878
      @nali878 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      this is the key, the only thing i dont agree with is kids eating first, they should eat last.

    • @nightwishisthegreatestband6355
      @nightwishisthegreatestband6355 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      @@nali878 why? They're children.

    • @specialk4125
      @specialk4125 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Damn man where’d you find her?

    • @lg206
      @lg206 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You should have put the last sentence first. She works part time. She does not have to work full time. Thats the part that men aren't accepting.

    • @heisenberg2966
      @heisenberg2966 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      No, Thank God, you married a Woman that makes less than you. If she worked Full-Time, do you honestly-think, she would be doing ALL THOSE THINGS FOR YOU?

  • @trophy8174
    @trophy8174 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    I have a good friend who is literally crippled by divorce and he did absolutely nothing wrong. He tried to make the relationship work but she didn’t want to and went to another state to be with some guy she met on Facebook while they were married. This sort of sh** is scarily common and happens more than you think. My friend owes her alimony, half of a mortgage, she took off with a car he bought for her, all the jewelry he bought for her, the business they started went under, the dog, half of his income and a lot more. Why does he have to suffer when she is the one who started it!! It’s so unfair!!

    • @jameskent836
      @jameskent836 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      She will get her karma at the right time and the right punishment they always do

    • @infinitytoes7424
      @infinitytoes7424 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Work hard and give your all
      Yes we men are very flawed but women the minute they don’t see as perfect and get bored, run to another’s man’s arms! 🤬 BS.. stay strong brothers!

    • @xHeeroYux
      @xHeeroYux 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The dog 💀

    • @ravenclaw_3160
      @ravenclaw_3160 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ho(e)w did she get the dog? And why?

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He shoulda had some crypto.

  • @jameskrobar7814
    @jameskrobar7814 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    That is exactly why I left my ex-wife and kids mom. We were together 20 years. Over the years, she morphed into a feminist and her respect for me went out the window. Nothing I did change the situation. I ended up leaving her and my life has been absolutely awesome ever since.

    • @achmaddmitri9090
      @achmaddmitri9090 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Did she cut her hair short

    • @jameskrobar7814
      @jameskrobar7814 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@achmaddmitri9090 nope.

    • @AmranKhan
      @AmranKhan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@achmaddmitri9090lmao

    • @Mustc313
      @Mustc313 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Happy woman. threw out the trash

    • @Joe-qm4yv
      @Joe-qm4yv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​@@Mustc313more like he left trash behind he left her 😂

  • @badasscop4459
    @badasscop4459 ปีที่แล้ว +3356

    As a man who works hard, dont cheat, take care of my wife and kids, cleaned the home and cooked, respect from my wife was gone and so did I. I neverr knew this until I heard it here. Respect is very important, may even say the most important thing.

    • @sehoujay
      @sehoujay ปีที่แล้ว +664

      You cleaned the home and cooked? 😂buddy, you weren't the husband, you were the wife 🤣

    • @28goldenboy
      @28goldenboy ปีที่แล้ว +117

      You should take the manosphere red pill.

    • @turtlex4866
      @turtlex4866 ปีที่แล้ว +331

      You are both wife and husband. What is point of marriage?

    • @Rence38
      @Rence38 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      Dude she literally thought you were gay 😂 that’s why she didn’t feel the need to respect you 🤦‍♀️

    • @badasscop4459
      @badasscop4459 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@sehoujay i know right

  • @Cub__
    @Cub__ ปีที่แล้ว +744

    He's absolutely correct, respect is everything to a Man. A man will fall into misery when no one respects or notices his efforts and sacrifices.

    • @arcpuffin
      @arcpuffin ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That’s fine, but why does respect from a woman have to come in the form of being inferior or being your servant?

    • @Cub__
      @Cub__ ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@arcpuffin No one ever said that, your Ego is gonna be the death of you.
      Stay humble.

    • @arcpuffin
      @arcpuffin ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Cub__ by Tate saying the man should have authority and then him constantly bringing up having dinner cooked, he is ABSOLUTELY stating that we should show respect by being inferior and servant like.

    • @Cub__
      @Cub__ ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@arcpuffin There's absolutely nothing "Inferior" or servant like by taking care of the man you care about, that's all in your head and how you perceive it (which doesn't get a Woman anywhere.. especially not closer to happiness) it's important that a Man protects and cares for his woman just as it is for a Woman to serve and take care of her Man. The bible states very clearly how important it is for a Wife to listen to her Husband at all times.
      The issue here is you continue looking at relationships between Men and Woman in the lens of "Equality" thinking and wanting to be such when in reality we aren't and never will be, we are very different and on a general scale posses many strengths that the other doesn't (such as a Woman being very nurturing) and a Man doing the heavy lifting.. life is all about balance, God made us different for a reason.
      Take care.

    • @1tarikross161
      @1tarikross161 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      a weak man will

  • @stevenworton
    @stevenworton หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    If your family is bullying you into getting married move out stop talking to your family you'll be a lot happier

  • @richardjarquin9498
    @richardjarquin9498 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I dated a woman who appeared shy and giggly. She heard comments like “your easy to love” “your so sweet” she treated everyone kindly. Behind closed doors she’s a fucking psycho and disrespected me so much. Everytime I called her out on something she would find ways to flip it. Whenever I proved her wrong she would just say “do you need some space “ ….”no bitch I need you to take accountability “

    • @zahirthompson2989
      @zahirthompson2989 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      And this is the reason why I don't trust overly nice people 🤷‍♂️. They usually ones that are hiding something or are borderline psychopaths behind close doors.

    • @eyeswideopen7777
      @eyeswideopen7777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Gemini?

    • @richardjarquin9498
      @richardjarquin9498 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eyeswideopen7777 no she is pisces but I am. A gemini lol

    • @eyeswideopen7777
      @eyeswideopen7777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@richardjarquin9498 they're similar in many ways, dual minds

    • @eyeswideopen7777
      @eyeswideopen7777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zahirthompson2989 it's a mask

  • @MF_DOOMer
    @MF_DOOMer ปีที่แล้ว +1204

    It feels great to finally have a voice for Men.

    • @RasKalevthesouljourner
      @RasKalevthesouljourner ปีที่แล้ว

      Even though all female supremacist media banned him, we are still winning

    • @learningnew732
      @learningnew732 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      But Ms Susan Banned him on TH-cam, his official channel was full of uplifting stuff

    • @AliHamza-sv4ni
      @AliHamza-sv4ni ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah poor ol men. The oppressed little babies since the dawn of time.

    • @hewasaskaterboyshesaidseey5927
      @hewasaskaterboyshesaidseey5927 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AliHamza-sv4ni yes. Men were the ones dying. Protecting and doing every other thing to make lives more comfortable to others.

    • @CAPTALISM
      @CAPTALISM ปีที่แล้ว +37

      And that’s exactly why they banned him. Need to keep men depressed and docile. Especially from a young age.

  • @solomonmartinez5550
    @solomonmartinez5550 ปีที่แล้ว +996

    The part where he said, “I would die for you. Could you please cook dinner?”
    Bro that hit so hard

    • @boratlion8613
      @boratlion8613 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      That hit very hard, the trade is SO imbalanced, what men give abs get in return.

    • @davegowie6237
      @davegowie6237 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Hit so hard

    • @shmoofgang
      @shmoofgang ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂💯💯

    • @jruthagod3535
      @jruthagod3535 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dawg it hit different🫠

    • @doublehd159
      @doublehd159 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      You can even hear it in his voice when he delivered it. He summoned the internal plea that every man feels inside who are only trying to do right for their family.

  • @moneyninja3852
    @moneyninja3852 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    I'm one hundred percent pro-marriage and I am in a happy marriage myself. However, I married a Japanese woman for this very reason she does exactly what he is saying in this video. She absolutely respects me and I love it

    • @Theredpillar
      @Theredpillar ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Are u in japan or any western country ?

    • @rasthehead
      @rasthehead 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I'm pro-marraige under the condition of a pre-nup. No pre-nup, no marriage. Fair.

  • @playpal9950
    @playpal9950 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    It’s crazy how accurate this all is. There has been an incremental shift toward making it so that you’ll only have two options: either be in a disrespectful, bitter relationship or don’t be in a relationship at all. Any other option is being eroded away until those two are all that remain.

  • @zincsupplylow7519
    @zincsupplylow7519 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    God damn! Will Smith is the most extreme living example of this mans point.

    • @who_is_dis
      @who_is_dis ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Not really - he's a celebrity example for sure, but way more men have way less frame.

    • @kingslayer69got79
      @kingslayer69got79 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Feel bad for him cause he is trying, but now I think he has lost it a bit.

    • @IN-tm8mw
      @IN-tm8mw ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kingslayer69got79 that's what makes it tragic.

    • @ARISTOTL3333
      @ARISTOTL3333 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@who_is_dis the thing is his wife and whole family are celebrities

    • @bluesky7288
      @bluesky7288 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Are you kidding, his wife Jada totally rules him. He can't ever leave her, he is so dependent on her rule

  • @PsychoAlfaSchizo
    @PsychoAlfaSchizo ปีที่แล้ว +946

    My mother was shaming me once about not finding a girl to settle down with. So I asked her to name one benefit or one advantage of being married as a man.
    She looked at me for 2 minutes and changed the conversation.

    • @radhiadeedou8286
      @radhiadeedou8286 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Children

    • @cudd2287
      @cudd2287 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@radhiadeedou8286 children to a shitty woman tho....

    • @germanmolina1245
      @germanmolina1245 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      These women nowadays, the majority definitely belong to da streets.

    • @MAR7LO
      @MAR7LO ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @Jck law how is it that divorce laws are against men yet most laws are written by men? Such as abortion laws.

    • @cephtheobserver
      @cephtheobserver ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I asked mine why would i buy something i easily get for a few coins, the conversation ended.

  • @chadguindon6909
    @chadguindon6909 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I never wanted to be a boyfriend let alone a husband to anyone. I knew that since I was 7 years old. I'm now 39 and I am super proud of my decision to live my adult life as a single man. Look at all the problems men face after a divorce, they lose too much money and everything they worked for. I'm glad I'm not in that position.

    • @castlequay2327
      @castlequay2327 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      having children and grandchildren brings joy. perhaps you could adopt if you want to stay single.....there are so many children who need a father thats a good role model.

    • @castlequay2327
      @castlequay2327 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      For rich people cooks and cleaners can be paid help. For men of average income thats their wife.

    • @andreahogan648
      @andreahogan648 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very very smart move on your part.

    • @deathmetalcakefarts2751
      @deathmetalcakefarts2751 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@castlequay2327they can bring joy but 90% of the time kids are a headache and drudgery let’s be real for a minute I’ve looked after kids my entire life don’t bullshit this guy living his dream life

  • @richrocketlll
    @richrocketlll 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I was once married but never again. She was my biggest mistake I ever made. I could never do anything right when I was with her. But now no one tells me I wrong. So I must be doing something right finally.

  • @chaimnisan2841
    @chaimnisan2841 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    So true. My grandfather was a stoic working man, both a sailor and factory worker. He worked his ass off and never got any respect from my grandmother. She was nothing but good to me, but my grandfather suffered in his marriage even though he made everything happen: he fixed the car, built the shed by himself, did the physical labor etc.
    He stayed with her because he’d be damned if my dad was going to grow up without a father. What in immense sense of duty. I hope he knows somehow that I stand in awe of him.

    • @MooskiiiTV
      @MooskiiiTV ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He was a beta

    • @juswolf22
      @juswolf22 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably because he cheated on your granny and she never let it go

    • @nakitapalmer656
      @nakitapalmer656 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand....😪😪😪

    • @mmkw5621
      @mmkw5621 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@MooskiiiTV He worked his ass off and was there for his kid, how is that beta?

    • @AhmedAli-hu4vb
      @AhmedAli-hu4vb ปีที่แล้ว +19

      A lot of fathers do that they see their sons and don't want to grow on their own so they stay with their wife's

  • @Chid098
    @Chid098 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    Men need respect, Women need love. Men see respect as love, women see love as respect. if both sexes can understand this, things would be much easier.

    • @fuadmelikov515
      @fuadmelikov515 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You are right man👍🏽

    • @williamcon-ui2201
      @williamcon-ui2201 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      in this modern generation you simply cant. the amount of respect you will get will depend on the amount of money you give or what you give to the table.

    • @Game-kr3cn
      @Game-kr3cn ปีที่แล้ว +4

      nowdays i am hearing from ladies. They need respect first than love. meaning they dont want to cook anymore? :)

    • @kimberlypettway9692
      @kimberlypettway9692 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg the profoundness!!!

    • @farinfasfarinfinfinhas7903
      @farinfasfarinfinfinhas7903 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Those are just empty words. Very pretty but useless

  • @VonGoldfinger
    @VonGoldfinger 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I came to this same conclusion when my ex burned my house down.
    “You’re perfect, except this one thing.”
    That thing was me not submitting to her and holding her lazy ass accountable. I’m so glad that she cut me loose.
    I wish her new simp husband the best of luck.

  • @jamescraft8979
    @jamescraft8979 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is SO true. Now I know why I got divorced!!! The respect for me was gone , and it’s at a subconscious level that things start to happen , first , a spark ,in dreams, …..then in small ideas awake , and finally there’s no going back.

    • @mark9294
      @mark9294 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely. Happened to me as well. I couldn’t believe it. Before I realized it it was too late and the trap snapped shut

    • @oysterchampion8998
      @oysterchampion8998 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What were the dreams?

  • @kingkai7981
    @kingkai7981 ปีที่แล้ว +2209

    Honestly as a 43 year old divorced man, I can relate... Andrew tate is right👏

    • @Gogsgc
      @Gogsgc ปีที่แล้ว +29

      L

    • @arai6147
      @arai6147 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gogsgc Logsgc

    • @lathamrowe
      @lathamrowe ปีที่แล้ว +71

      100%

    • @melonsmasher8252
      @melonsmasher8252 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      W

    • @Jaye_e1000
      @Jaye_e1000 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Respect to a man in a marriage is like what love is to a woman, if not more so. We are overdue to hear the importance of what respect means.

  • @deshanpillay3064
    @deshanpillay3064 ปีที่แล้ว +1262

    This man is 110% correct

    • @Dad_of_War
      @Dad_of_War ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's impossible to be 110% correct

    • @franciscopereira5760
      @franciscopereira5760 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Dad_of_War fk of feminist

    • @_baller
      @_baller ปีที่แล้ว +26

      111%

    • @GR-ir2bu
      @GR-ir2bu ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Dad_of_War that’s 120% wrong.

    • @boxer786ful
      @boxer786ful ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He's emphasizing the point by saying 110%. Stop trying to be a smart ass

  • @Enonymous99
    @Enonymous99 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s amazing to me how some women can look down on their man that’s protecting them
    Just be thankful, loving and supportive, he doesn’t have to do everything he does for you

  • @elenadiaz2867
    @elenadiaz2867 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    This is so true! On the movie Barbie, Ken is disrespected by Barbie.

  • @EE-in2uv
    @EE-in2uv ปีที่แล้ว +150

    “Disrespect is dangerous”

    • @mwamengele
      @mwamengele ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mike drop!

    • @JayJules12992
      @JayJules12992 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Disrespect is when you know your opposer has broken the social contract and the craving for hell to break lose kicks in

    • @KG-ii2yx
      @KG-ii2yx ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JayJules12992 you talk so much, but when faced with a gang of thugs would you still say the same thing??

    • @JayJules12992
      @JayJules12992 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KG-ii2yxyeah sure, I could tell it to anyone I suppose since I thought it was a pretty clean quote that I just came up with myself just a little bit ago that speaks to the very truth any man experiences when disrespected.

    • @dingus6317
      @dingus6317 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KG-ii2yx Just shoot them

  • @adicristian3104
    @adicristian3104 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    People can hate this guy all they want, he makes some good points.

  • @dirtbiker651
    @dirtbiker651 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    As a married American man, I think my wife likes me, but she does not respect me! As a successful investor and business man, i see how my wife treats me different when I bring in lots of money and little money. Love and respect are NOT the same things!
    I’m trapped in a cold marriage where she would take everything if I left! Trapped!!

    • @onceagaindc
      @onceagaindc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fucking terrible..

    • @TurreTuntematon
      @TurreTuntematon หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not everything. Only half. Thank good I had prenup and divorced now.

    • @rup54
      @rup54 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are entitled to a happy life. See a lawyer.

    • @B_A_Images
      @B_A_Images 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Go watch some of Andrew's videos about getting stuff out of your name, she can't take what belongs to a foreign corporation...

    • @patrickprendergast9589
      @patrickprendergast9589 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      o no traped

  • @_baller
    @_baller ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Most people should NOT get married, it's not a requirement in life, love is rare as hell, it's just a partnership at best

    • @crayfish3629
      @crayfish3629 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It was even a warning in the bible...it’s not a must but if you wanna marry no problem 🙏🏾

    • @localreviewking134
      @localreviewking134 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love is everywhere; here we go i send you some love here and now.

    • @annewilliams4931
      @annewilliams4931 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Marriage is security for a women - I know I've been with my husband 41 years now and although we lived together for 2 years at first I told him that I would not have children until we were married and he respected that!

    • @maitely992
      @maitely992 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@annewilliams4931 I am a woman and I don’t believe that. Marriage is no security, divorce exist. The only security that exist is “true commitment” and a genuine partnership, which to be honest, doesn’t need papers. I suggest all women to get a job, always be financially independent and then marry if it means something to you ❤️

    • @_baller
      @_baller 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@maitely992 the fact women are getting “financially independent” is why marriage will fail, there’s nothing making a woman commit to marriage except financial security

  • @OM-or3im
    @OM-or3im ปีที่แล้ว +233

    I recently told my boyfriend that the reason my parents were married their whole lives is because there was deep respect on both sides. I am Eastern European and many of my American girlfriends don’t respect their partners. I agree with him on the issue of respect being key in a long-lasting relationship.

    • @bgoodorhell4u
      @bgoodorhell4u ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s only time before your American girl friends teach you how to disrespect your guy. Wait just wait. 😎😎

    • @connorjohn5013
      @connorjohn5013 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m eastern european married male. The problem is on both sides. Females won’t respect weak males. Males won’t respect weak females. Both genders got weak.

    • @mikearchibald744
      @mikearchibald744 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Domestic violence is called the silent epidemic in north america. If you think that lack of respect doesn't go both ways you listen to too many podcasts.

    • @filthycasual9381
      @filthycasual9381 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@mikearchibald744 False accusations of DV is an epidemic, which are still counted as cases of DV according to feminist stats. Actual DV against men, by women, is also an epidemic according to CDC stats on intimate partner violence.

    • @mikearchibald744
      @mikearchibald744 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@filthycasual9381Well, considering there is no way to actually prove a false allegation and considering how few actual complaints actually make it even to the investigative stage let alone court, thats not something that can really be taken seriously.
      The epidemic side for actual domestic violence comes from hearsay comments from nurses who claim that they see a LOT of injuries they THINK is domestic violence, as well as police reports on domestic violence calls.
      The 'false accusation' claim is based on the actual calls and complaints, which women then don't follow up because they are told there is little chance of successful prosecution.
      So thats not even a serious argument. The claims from men is a little more sensible, there are actually usually localized statistics for certain years where the number of men calling exceed women, but then those regional temporary claims are usually adopted as a "here's what the stats show', when in fact they only show one stat in one location.
      What we KNOW is that actual homicides in domestic violence cases are almost EXCLUSIVELY men, or fairly clear cases of self defense, for which women , particularly indiginous, still see jail time for.
      The simple fact is that its FAR easier for men to get away than women. Ideally of course ANY case of domestic violence should be taken seriously, ideally any person who experiences violence should have a place to get away to. That doesn't exist, and the complaints from womens group is loudest, you can assume that its because they are just more biased and just as many men are beaten up by their spouses if you want, but thats a pretty absurd claim to me.

  • @independentvoter8710
    @independentvoter8710 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    That's why my only marriage lasted 3 months. She immediately changed after we got hitched. I left her because she had no respect for me.

  • @cesarb8536
    @cesarb8536 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Disrespecting a man very dangerous.

  • @powertothetubers456
    @powertothetubers456 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    If you're a wealthy man, it makes no sense to get married. Imagine working your whole life to become a part of the Top 10%, just to have half of your possessions taken away, because of a divorce, and that has nothing to do with spousal support and child support 😱

    • @kingbucketz182
      @kingbucketz182 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Only way is to get married before you’re wealthy, or marry a woman who loved you before you became successful.

    • @powertothetubers456
      @powertothetubers456 ปีที่แล้ว

      @king Bucketz Now if you do it that way I can't be mad at that

    • @saifkhudairi6465
      @saifkhudairi6465 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@@kingbucketz182
      That's literally when she takes half your money, (it's the money you've made, while married).
      Come on boys !! How does an Iraqi know how your laws work more than you ??!

    • @Smiley0725
      @Smiley0725 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You can start a family outside the West, while you work over here, raise a family in a country these middle income countries where the lawsarent this shitty yet

    • @mark9294
      @mark9294 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@kingbucketz182the problem is they can of course stop loving you at any point

  • @donnapartow
    @donnapartow ปีที่แล้ว +92

    He is so spot on about what culture is doing to men.

  • @jonathanh2o621
    @jonathanh2o621 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Prior to committing to an external relationship with someone,.. know thyself. Knowing ourself is the path to a system of CORE VALUES!

  • @Leondrius
    @Leondrius 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The fact that men still need this explained to them is wild.

  • @umaisv1352
    @umaisv1352 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    I've been married for 13 years but there is still a lot to learn for me in a marriage. Videos like these help me see the other side of my relationship with my husband.

    • @galaxykode9243
      @galaxykode9243 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I think your husband have a keeper keep treating buddy. Right

    • @markpitchford7375
      @markpitchford7375 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      The fact that you care enough to listen speaks volumes.

    • @DisciplinedLion
      @DisciplinedLion ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Great to see this comment. Keep going !

    • @Yonathannaptali
      @Yonathannaptali ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love you

    • @gauge6513
      @gauge6513 ปีที่แล้ว

      You dont have a job do you?

  • @derrickjordan5969
    @derrickjordan5969 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    I have 4 uncles. All are good men. They work their asses off, provide for their wife and children yet they don’t even sleep in the same bed as their wives… My aunts constantly nag at them that they are not doing enough around the house, their car needs fixing etc etc… it’s a sad sight to see. I’d rather continue to live single, travel overseas and focus on being the best me than to get married and live a miserable existence.
    I feel bad for them but they choose their fates.

    • @jimj2683
      @jimj2683 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I am sure they deep down want to divorce yet it is only fear holding them back.

    • @adrianruvalcaba2896
      @adrianruvalcaba2896 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      All 4 of your uncles don't sleep on the same bed as their wife? Seems very unlikely since it's not very common. I agree with what you're saying tho a lot of men are choosing not to marry.

    • @RasKalevthesouljourner
      @RasKalevthesouljourner ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Weak men. No real man would deal with that disrespect.

    • @Cub__
      @Cub__ ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@RasKalevthesouljourner Well it's men that're usually scared of being alone so they accept the terms that come with marriage thinking "It is what it is" it's sad indeed.

    • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
      @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They need to ask their father and mother why they gave birth to four men who don't treat their wives right.

  • @kawasakiwhiptwo5821
    @kawasakiwhiptwo5821 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    57 years old. Never married,no kids.
    I don't think I could be happier.

    • @WayneARobertson
      @WayneARobertson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Your the smartest man here

    • @Earl_TheSquirrel
      @Earl_TheSquirrel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Kids are good. Relationships are not

    • @kawasakiwhiptwo5821
      @kawasakiwhiptwo5821 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Earl_TheSquirrel Wouldn't mind having a child. It's just that don't mind not being a father.

  • @theironmarshmallowg3932
    @theironmarshmallowg3932 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I agree. There is nothing in it for men. Im getting divorced and im giving up a house i bought and paid for, fixed up and put my blood sweat and tears into. The system favors women 99% of the time.

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Freedom is everything.

  • @Setsotama
    @Setsotama ปีที่แล้ว +563

    "At least she's smiling at me, this one hasn't smiled at me in years"
    That hit me in the soul... just a iota of kindness would be enough to make a man's day and that's what a lot of modern women aren't getting

    • @whynot1548
      @whynot1548 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Troll Alert

    • @faezahazmi
      @faezahazmi ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@whynot1548 you mean you?

    • @lidiagizaw3828
      @lidiagizaw3828 ปีที่แล้ว

      she cant smile at u when she's exhausted and u arent helping with shit

    • @comicrandomness3289
      @comicrandomness3289 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@faezahazmi message was deleted

    • @TechWeLove
      @TechWeLove ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup, this statement from Andrew Tate was gold.

  • @luismongemora2190
    @luismongemora2190 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    We need this man back in all social media platforms ❤

    • @yamafanboy
      @yamafanboy ปีที่แล้ว +11

      no what you need to do is switch to rumble. He's not banned from all social media he's just now on the positive social media platform... rumble.

    • @kntran8637
      @kntran8637 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yamafanboy thanks man, I’ve been trying to find him over the past few days

    • @BabySkinCondom
      @BabySkinCondom ปีที่แล้ว +1

      honestly what we need to do is get rid of social media platforms because they're largely responsible for creating a generation of toxic, self-absorbed, narcissistic women

    • @kevinfernandez9999
      @kevinfernandez9999 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truth social?

    • @ItApproaches
      @ItApproaches ปีที่แล้ว

      No, we need less people on social media. Social media can die off. Giving all humans a platform to speak their opinions as truth is toxic and pathetic. Most humans are utterly retarded.

  • @KristianGrig
    @KristianGrig 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Married with children" is a prime example of such a show !! Identical down to every single detail !

  • @w.s.2102
    @w.s.2102 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im so glad I'm not married anymore.... i served a 20-year sentence, and the past 4 years of bachelor's life have been the best years...... my future is wide open now, and the world is truly my oyster

  • @garrycoates2147
    @garrycoates2147 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I must say this talk by Andrew hit me very hard. Forty years of work, marriage with children wears you down. Your family sees you age and sometimes fail. With society's programming they lose respect for you because there is almost no positive reinforcement. Everything you do is expected and frankly taken for granted. Hopefully as my children get older they will see things differently as I did with my father. He knew I loved and respected him before he died...

    • @annewilliams4931
      @annewilliams4931 ปีที่แล้ว

      And you wife is not worn down after 40 years - open your eyes and grow the f@ck up little boy!

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And then they play the victim saying you're not the one respecting them. So all you do is just give while getting nothing in return

    • @alexisvillar4647
      @alexisvillar4647 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As a young married man , I read post like yours to remind myself to always put myself first. I didn’t always want to be this way. I wanted to give everything to my wife and children. However, I noticed how the nicer I was and the more giving I was to my wife , the more she saw it as expectations rather than sacrifices. So, I no limit myself not sacrifice myself for the well being of my marriage. If I want something I go get it! Is that simple. I continue to meet my responsibility as a father and love my children unconditionally but I did not forget to love myself

    • @yomanyomandx5609
      @yomanyomandx5609 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@alexisvillar4647u are 💯

    • @AlexandraK1
      @AlexandraK1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alexisvillar4647 You are of course right, but communication here is key. If this is how you feel, you need to tell her! If your woman loves you, she'll understand, I hope.

  • @darbyohara
    @darbyohara ปีที่แล้ว +406

    The single most important thing a man MUST have in any relationship is RESPECT. Especially a married relationship

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes!!!! Respect!

    • @stbsole
      @stbsole ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You should have established that respect boundary before you even get in a relationship. Plus you need to constantly cultivate respect with those close to you. It’s not a one and done thing. We as men sometimes get complacent in relationships and forget ourselves and what her/his respect and fall in love with us.

    • @RF-tx1vi
      @RF-tx1vi ปีที่แล้ว

      What is respect in a relationship? Is giving another guy choosing signals whilst in a lt disrespectful

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RF-tx1vi yes

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xyz0zyx exactly

  • @2sgv497
    @2sgv497 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I asked my dad(parents divorced when i was 7 and i grew up with mom, sometimes saw my dad bit he is a simp in his new wife witch got 2 kids from past marriage) how i should live my life? What is bad and what is good? His answer was: nobody knows what is good and what is bad. This was the most disappointment i have ever had because when i was teenager i though my dad is a wise man, and i felt myself lost alone like lost ship in a sea without beacon, i don’t know what is bad and what is good for me. He didn’t teach me anything about life, women and relationship and masculinity, which in my opinion is the main task as a man. Now my dad living a dog’s life, supports his wife’s grown up child, rising his own daughter. She manipulates him as fck. She even told sometime-im major of the family, and her parents don’t even shut her up.
    Tate is a father for men who grew up in a situation like mine, with fathers who are simps, nerds, and don’t even know what is to be a man. I despise my own father because he is a not a man, despite the fact he did a lot for me in career sense, but never be a mentor. Just speaking ATM.
    Thank you Andrew, for sharing true masculine role of a man in this complicated life for a men who was left alone like me.

  • @jhause9404
    @jhause9404 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    TRUE STORY: I had a dad I was checking be disrespected by his two hot daughters and then his wife told him hes worthless bc he couldnt buy more (he paid over $1000 btw). He later argued with them and they left him in the cold to pay. He told me, a cashier, "These women don't care about me, just my money." I never forgot how low he looked going on vacation lol

    • @johnmellyn2700
      @johnmellyn2700 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Translation please

    • @the1337contrarian
      @the1337contrarian 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@johnmellyn2700 He probably works at some sort of resort like place where tourists go. He observed a man and his family (two attractive daughters and a wife) mistreat him in public. I can picture it now. If your wife is a shitty person to you, then your daughters will most likely grow up thinking the same thing. Unless, of course, this father was a cheater/abuser in some way. Then that could also be another reason why they show public resentment.

    • @vegito179
      @vegito179 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Reason iam terrified of marriage and having daughters 🥴

  • @ColdIce99
    @ColdIce99 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    Lived over a decade of my life like that. This man is speaking nothing but the truth.

    • @whynot1548
      @whynot1548 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fake account, u are

  • @jayemz7384
    @jayemz7384 ปีที่แล้ว +875

    Andrew tate has taught me more about life than my lecturers and any type of teacher that has ever taught me.

    • @dudedude365
      @dudedude365 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Keeping learning, many people still ignoring him as a bad guy which he isn't, let these poor live poor and die poor

    • @patrickw9706
      @patrickw9706 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here. And I only watch non stop for 3 days.

    • @whynot1548
      @whynot1548 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did he tell u what ur gonna say to ur daughter when she comes of age and falls in love with someone?
      Are u gonna tell her that according to the Romanian bullshitter(Andrew Tate), she has to let herself be whored around cuz thats what she's designed to be?

    • @vader745
      @vader745 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      thats because unlike many teachers especially in the "education system"... he's not a left wing woke clueless joke

    • @elicohen5073
      @elicohen5073 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Truth

  • @mr.nibblenips4231
    @mr.nibblenips4231 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Took me years (my late 30s) to realize my mom is a bully, a trouble maker, and a narcissistic pig. Oh, and a hypocrite too. Now I know why my self esteem and confidence was always low. Now I know why most men don't give an eulogy at their mom's funeral.

    • @Rina25tir
      @Rina25tir 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Talking shit behind your mom's back on TH-cam, in some dude's video, anonymously. Maybe your mom was horrible, ok, go confront her. But you are not a man, you are a worm.

    • @michaelzero5278
      @michaelzero5278 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It was never your fault you can heal and be better vision of your self.

    • @gopal108b5
      @gopal108b5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Be proud that you've recognised this. Some men refuse to see their mums for who they really are sometimes just because she carried him for 9 months . Some men turn those 9 months into a life sentence serving their narcissistic mother.
      My ex and I were genuinely so happy - but we split up because of his twice divorced mother- who was also responsible for his divorce before we met. He'd rather lose us than deal with his mum- he's 48 . So well done to you for setting yourself free.

  • @marmeg1118
    @marmeg1118 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He’s right. How the hell can a woman be home all day and not even have a meal for her husband and her kids. WTH? It’s also true that when you ask a man for guidance when you don’t know about an issue or task, they love helping out and really feel loved and valuable.

  • @alexwest4253
    @alexwest4253 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    He just described my entire 23 year marriage that ended in divorce. Never again unless I could find a woman who somehow missed the Matrix programming.

    • @debtcommander7953
      @debtcommander7953 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      A wise man stops at “never again,” and forgets the “but only if, etc”

    • @moudcruz2112
      @moudcruz2112 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sorry for you

    • @Sonofagreatdad
      @Sonofagreatdad ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Still married but ditto

    • @omaralkayal7598
      @omaralkayal7598 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You really look like a nice person and a good man as well
      I hope everything in your life gets better

    • @yayadosh
      @yayadosh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's sad. I hope you will find a woman that really desires you 😊

  • @simonkalibwani5832
    @simonkalibwani5832 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    "I would die for you. Please just cook dinner" 🤣🤣🤣Sounds like a fair trade!

    • @alm.2000
      @alm.2000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No it dosn’t. Because you wouldn’t and you won’t. Idiotic males acting like we’re living in jungle in pre historic times so he’s dYiNg fOr HiS wOmAn lmao stfu

    • @mrluvit8232
      @mrluvit8232 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣

    • @radhiadeedou8286
      @radhiadeedou8286 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A hypothetical situation that will likely never happen against something you actually do everyday for the rest of your life? 🤔

    • @alm.2000
      @alm.2000 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Narushat Impostora Why do you want a woman to be your servant and depend on you for income? Control freak much? Offended and a sexist that knows this way you have her trapped so she can’t easily leave you. Admit it.

    • @Fishbro
      @Fishbro ปีที่แล้ว

      @Narushat Impostora People think the world is fairies and peaches with no sense of danger. Live in Chicago, LA or NYC and if you live in the hood you'll quickly see how dangerous it can get.

  • @adamday2067
    @adamday2067 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tate is 100% right.

  • @jayvee121071
    @jayvee121071 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have been asking for divorce for a while and when my wife finally gave it to me, I had extreme guilt, pain, blame and anger with myself for asking for it. For the last year, I’ve been reflecting and I no longer feel guilt because this video is exactly and specifically what I have felt and cried, raged and at times went to the brink of insanity thinking I was completely at fault. I hated myself for being a weak man and crying, but I felt trapped with no solution. As men we feel trapped because our wives will not listen to what’s important to us and do not care about what we consider crucial in a marriage but at the same time, want us to understand and do exactly what they need to be happy. It’s hypocrisy to the highest level. It didn’t take much and my anger was more about that. It was so simple to fix our marriage. Great video. I am getting divorced and this made me know I’m not alone. Thank you so much.

  • @babyamom2004
    @babyamom2004 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    There is no choice between love and respect. There is simply no love without respect! The pillars of love are: admiration, respect and loyalty. Everything else is fake and not love.

    • @fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874
      @fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i mean you can't love someone without respect but you can respect someone without loving them if that makes sense. Like for example i respect andrew tate but i dont love him i dont know him personally. does that make sense?

    • @-Abduuu
      @-Abduuu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874 Tate fans don’t love him. They Respect him.(including me)

    • @HenryDube72
      @HenryDube72 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@goochipoochie there definitely is, what's not there is unconditional love. Love definitely is transactional, conditional and commoditized.

    • @fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874
      @fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@-Abduuu like wise. i could just never find myself like "loving" someone who i've never even met whether its Tate or anyone else for that matter. People nowadays over use the word love and its completely dilluted. You dope for keeping it real.

    • @-Abduuu
      @-Abduuu ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fucksusan.fuckcensorship.874 the west and the woke people on the internet are so delusional, respecting and appreciating someone’s work, and they call us ‘Tate fanboys or ‘Tate boyfriends’ and think it’s d*kriding. I’m actually lucky for not being born in west and not having western cultured parents

  • @stefannasser6839
    @stefannasser6839 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    He’s damn right!!!!! Listen to every word he is spot on!!! People need to understand this

    • @laturista1000
      @laturista1000 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly most men get pussy whipped real easily. Everyday there's another man getting married to a bridezilla. She makes all the decisions he just listens and obeys her every command. LOL

    • @oneelrockwell79
      @oneelrockwell79 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts!!!!

    • @danoneall4013
      @danoneall4013 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is as factual as Fox News, Hannity & Tucker.

    • @evelinapass7024
      @evelinapass7024 ปีที่แล้ว

      No no respekt Every ok legend?

  • @XerxezsX
    @XerxezsX 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    In today's marriage the wife cooking is cereal for breakfast (sugared milk) a 2 minute microwaved burritos for lunch, microwaved hot dogs for dinner, if you're lucky you'll get microwaved pizza 😂
    Meanwhile all your money goes to her so she can paint her finger nails, paint her toe nails, paint her hair, paint her face, paint her eye brows and get fake eye lashes and buy a bunch of shoes 😂

    • @cle-chi
      @cle-chi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      facts spoken here

    • @Toomuchforyall24
      @Toomuchforyall24 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do people not ask each other basic questions like can you cook . That’s on you choosing a lazy woman ask question

  • @misterpogi23
    @misterpogi23 ปีที่แล้ว +724

    THIS HITS ME SO HARD.
    I've had to tolerate being walked on and disrespected for 12 years. It's still going but I've been making moves and changes to get myself out of the situation.

    • @patilabhinav7941
      @patilabhinav7941 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you are married to that leech
      1.Sell your assests and give that money to your trusted friend or dad.
      2.Use some of that money to hire a good divorce lawyer.
      3. Forget about kids they are Government property or atleast try to show them the bad side of their mother.
      4. Act fake and be nice infront of her and if possible get some pics of her cheating.
      5. Identify as a woman if you are in a very anti male state like California,ohio , Washington and newyork.
      6. Get unemployed six months before divorce ( for that save money and live at your friends house and give money to him for rent).
      7. Make your wife get a job (even onlyfans is good).
      8. Slam the divorce papers and don't talk to her let your lawyer talk to her.

    • @LifeIsGood1992
      @LifeIsGood1992 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      🙏 wish you a healthy recovery

    • @misterpogi23
      @misterpogi23 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@LifeIsGood1992 Thanks my friend! Average man stay up. We need to step it up and evolve into a high value man.

    • @LifeIsGood1992
      @LifeIsGood1992 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@misterpogi23 just ignore women and you'll be safe, healthy and wealthy, that's my own motto

    • @Nx553
      @Nx553 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You can have a better life. I never thought I could, I was in a very similar situation for 8 years until one day I realized I'd had enough and left her, packed my stuff and moved out Friday, started a new job Monday. 6 months later my life definitely isn't perfect, but I'm a LOT better off than I was. I got my life back, I don't spend every minute justifying my very existence to someone who treated me like dog shit. There's no woman that's worth that treatment, I wish you well bro.

  • @brycecampbell4845
    @brycecampbell4845 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Our country has completely gone off the rails. In the US there is no reason to be married as a man.

  • @rodricktumusiime
    @rodricktumusiime ปีที่แล้ว +207

    We need Andrew Tate back on media platforms

    • @Iwontreadyourreply
      @Iwontreadyourreply ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He’s everywhere, not hard to find

    • @charlottetaylor4471
      @charlottetaylor4471 ปีที่แล้ว

      The human trafficker and rapist?

    • @_eyesauce9147
      @_eyesauce9147 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      hes back on twitter, youtube(he doesnt upload though, only community posts), and on rumble

    • @annewilliams4931
      @annewilliams4931 ปีที่แล้ว

      No we really don't - he's a sexist, misogynistic clown!

  • @antoniomark7745
    @antoniomark7745 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    That title is NOT what he said.... he talked about the importance of RESPECT

    • @anon7596
      @anon7596 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      but it got you to click didn't it. now you know how the game is played.

    • @matthewrodriguez8682
      @matthewrodriguez8682 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s for clickbait

    • @NANGSGARAGE
      @NANGSGARAGE ปีที่แล้ว

      You got Rick rolled 😅

    • @nani8701
      @nani8701 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro you seem like you're new on youtube

    • @-Abduuu
      @-Abduuu ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anon7596 the ppl who make these out of context clips clickbait the viewers into thinking Tate is a bad person. “They were told to hate me” - Tate

  • @bigcel42
    @bigcel42 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is CRAZY. I have never seen this before and never really have clicked on a video from this guy yet this is SPOT ON, PRECISELY ACCURATE INFORMATION. This is the truth that I’ve told to my boys yet women do not want to here it. This is wild, he told it exactly correct. Wow.

  • @infinitytoes7424
    @infinitytoes7424 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was about to leave a nasty comment about Tate.. but what he said is 100 percent true 😂😢

  • @Landis_Grant
    @Landis_Grant ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I lost 1/2 of my assets to a woman who asked for a divorce after I solely raised our two kids, cleaned and maintained the house, did the grocery shopping, etc., all by my lonesome.

    • @billyrj973
      @billyrj973 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t you have to be guilty of Infidelity or something to lose half of your stuff

    • @mpetty9947
      @mpetty9947 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@billyrj973 Nope. Sometimes they get a lot more than half too.

    • @leemagaming696
      @leemagaming696 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Whyd u get married u could have had all of that without it and if she left u she wouldnt be getting anything u worked for

    • @mpetty9947
      @mpetty9947 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@leemagaming696 Now days we know the extreme danger, because of You Tube. When I got married it never even entered my mind I could lose everything. HELL no, it was not worth it.

    • @eyeswideopen7777
      @eyeswideopen7777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You got conned

  • @georgettagancarz1798
    @georgettagancarz1798 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Andrew is correct a woman should respect her husband but respect is also earned.
    In the television sitcoms, he is correct women are viewed as more powerful, but there is a reason for this scenario, although it isn't always correct. Most television shows that have two working parents, both have careers. The man works, and then comes home to relax, while the woman works, and then comes home to work. Meaning, cooking, cleaning, getting the children ready for bed or school. I don't know many working families, where both parents work, and the woman comes home to relax, but this is not always the situation. Sometimes, the man works, and comes home, and takes care of the children.
    In marriage both parties have to respect each other, compromise, sacrifice, and divide the necessary activities. This is needed, so no one feels unloved, used, or burnt out. You have to love your partner for who they are, and don't focus on who they are not.
    People love, and give differently, so this must be respected and acknowledged. For example, a husband might moe the lawn, and although he is not fixing dinner, this is him giving. You must realize how your partner loves you, because it might not be exactly how you picture love. See example above.
    Marriage can work but, you must be willing to grow and accept changes together. You are two different people and those gifts should have room to flourish, and sometimes merge together. Meaning, couples need breaks. Time for your private hobbies. If your husband wants to go fishing, bowling, watch the games with his male friends, let him bond. And the same for your wife, who may want to go to the movies with her friends. Couples should have time for their own space too.
    The bottom line is, a marriage will work, when both sides are respected and loved. A husband and wife both need the above, with trust thrown in the mix.
    Great interview. I love hearing, and learning the sides of the male perspective. Makes me appreciate you guys more. 🙂

  • @carlosmendoza8312
    @carlosmendoza8312 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Andrew Tate deserves the Nobel Peace Prize! Much respect.

  • @ridouaneelghazy2330
    @ridouaneelghazy2330 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    This man is a gift for this fu**ed up society

    • @danielmcfarland6116
      @danielmcfarland6116 ปีที่แล้ว

      The man is a self loveing asshole that any woman should avoid

  • @safiya798
    @safiya798 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Respect is earned. If you allow someone to walk over you, they don't respect you. That is your fault for not standing up for yourself. Don't blame the woman, blame yourself.

    • @jrod1591
      @jrod1591 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That’s exactly what is happening now. Marriage rates at an all time low. There is nothing marriage gives men that they can’t get in a relationship.
      If a man is working hard and providing, is that not a reason to respect someone?
      Either way. Women are getting what they are asking for and ironically women’s happiness (per studies) are at an all time low.

    • @ryanl1293
      @ryanl1293 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@jrod1591 Among men respect is the baseline, women need to fight their own nature to respect someone truly. Women can be more appreciative though, but modern culture is trying to program that out of them.

    • @selzwawy4181
      @selzwawy4181 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @safi what about the kids, the system in every country almost if you leave the house will take everything from you including the kids and give to the ex-wife
      if she is careless lazy for the kids and the house let kids failing at school, so as Andrew said you will lose a lot and will be tied to pay for next 20 years, either you work or not.

    • @sam-ww1wk
      @sam-ww1wk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Disagree. My experience is if you don't bow down they fight back till the death. There is no way to earn respect from a woman partner, they will only seek that from a person they are cheating with.

    • @Blade_runner-dh4dw
      @Blade_runner-dh4dw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sam-ww1wk you just hacked one of their HUUUGE secrets bro. thats deep keep it up

  • @johnkarls2132
    @johnkarls2132 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is so correct on everything he's said!!! Men want respect more than anything in the world. Women will always be cherished and loved if they respect their guy!!

  • @georgevue8175
    @georgevue8175 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    64 years old with 2 marriages under my belt. Both started great got 10 years of awesome until BOOM, they got bored of me, cheated & took me for everything in court.

  • @NADA-ok2ce
    @NADA-ok2ce ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My dad hated everyone loved Raymond. I figured out why in my early 20s. I agree with him. He was my hero and we respected him.

    • @jayvakil1935
      @jayvakil1935 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When Andrew mentioned bumbling idiot ..that's the first show I thought of...spot on !

  • @rouij.9208
    @rouij.9208 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The media called out this guy for being misogynist but he's just spitting facts.

  • @freebird5458
    @freebird5458 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My father always provided for us growing up. He worked hard all through my childhood. My mother worked hard as well and they shared the duties of running a household with children. They both worked so it was never stereotypically that my mother did all the cooking or cleaning. It was shared. But it was always very obvious that Dad is the man of the household. He is the protector of the family. Just simple things he would always be called upon to do or asked his opinion of. When we found a wasps nest in the shed and me and my sister were in the shed and we were too terrified to go past it my brother called for dad. He would deal with the wasps nest. When I thought I was drowning (I wasnt) at the bottom of a slide that i was terrified of on a family outing and was thrashing about in the water, Dad came to get me. Just simple things when you need a hero figure my dad is that guy.
    He does all the man things around the house like fixing things putting shelves up. He has his shed with all his tools and you don't touch his tools.
    He would be in charge of what we watched on television. He never allowed us to watch the TV soaps because he believed them to encourage people to engage in bad behaviour for the sake of creating a drama. He is in charge of the TV remote.
    When we get out of my mums car she's always like "be careful not to bash the doors into your dad's car" because to damage HIS car would be a big lack of respect. You are always aware to respect his things at all times.
    He had shared duties with his wife but he had authority at home and respect from his children. We knew if dad said something he meant it and his decision was final.
    We love dad and respect him. He was never a really harsh disciplinarian because he didn't have to be. We respected him so we did what he said out of love and respect for him not out of fear.

  • @charlienoriega
    @charlienoriega ปีที่แล้ว +4

    TATE telling the TRUTH!!! Thank you, Andrew!!! Describing today's reality perfectly!!! THANK YOU!!!

  • @bryceherring946
    @bryceherring946 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    Very well said by Andrew Tate, great answer and he is speaking alot of truth here, and no surprise the answer is very simple and obvious but hes not afraid to say it and be honest.

    • @smyzo
      @smyzo ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a simplistic view to manipulate simple minds like yours. LOL at how pathetic you losers are who simp this dude. What's more pathetic than simping another dude?

  • @mickygarcia4251
    @mickygarcia4251 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I have money, the ability to come and go as I please, and I never have to explain myself to anyone. I am the master of all I survey. There's no way I'd let any of this change.

  • @santo9032
    @santo9032 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with Andrew about disrespect. I can’t stand disrespect especially in my own. Disrespecting on me in my own place is death sentence.

  • @straightblast100
    @straightblast100 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    His words resonated with great meaning. I was raised by a narcissistic mother in a single parent home. Father destroyed by a war...and a narcissistic wife.
    The challenges were overwhelming. Every communication was a calculated, disrespectful attack on my self-esteem.
    I find myself wondering...how many men are in prison because of this issue? Where was that line for each of them? before they SNAPPED.
    I waited until I was 45...and married a woman who had every characteristic EXACTLY the opposite of her.
    I am one of the lucky, and through introspection and self-education...found peace and growth.
    Science Of Mind

  • @sandragomez316
    @sandragomez316 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    He’s right. My husband works hard labor. Soon as he gets home i meet him at door, take off his work boots & serve him homemade meal we eat together. I appreciate all he does & truly respect my hubby.

    • @mex1canpapi..233
      @mex1canpapi..233 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lucky lol

    • @charlottetaylor4471
      @charlottetaylor4471 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But a lot of women work full-time too. Should they take each other's shoes off?

    • @eilenkatarinalunde2969
      @eilenkatarinalunde2969 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love this ❤ THIS is how we should treat our men!

    • @alexisvillar4647
      @alexisvillar4647 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@charlottetaylor4471 do you pay half of all the bills ?

    • @markpitchford7375
      @markpitchford7375 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charlottetaylor4471 Let us know when you take responsibility for paying any of the bills, forever.

  • @danmack1852
    @danmack1852 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    This is so true and I speak from experience. Dedicated my life to my ex , gave up friends, hobbies etc. Went to work, came home cooked, cleaned, looked after the kid's. Just to be constantly disrespected and belittled. So I left, if there is no respect (both ways) then it's never gonna work!

    • @joblakelisbon
      @joblakelisbon ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Why would you make the money, cook and clean? Aren't the last two her job if she's a housewife?

    • @danmack1852
      @danmack1852 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@joblakelisbon and look after the kid's.
      Because sometimes you'll do anything for a peaceful life. But what I realized is, it wasn't a happy life! And I never wanted my children coming from a "broken home". But leaving was better then them growing up in a toxic atmosphere and their dad being miserable. Now they get the best of me.
      Sometimes your blinded by love, but without respect it means nothing!

    • @DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist
      @DefinitelyNotAMachineCultist ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@danmack1852 You did the right thing. I've seen way too many people stick together with children as the excuse, even though being divorced would be a _less_ bad existence for their kids.
      Constant bickering, constant inability for the kid to focus on anything without earmuffs or headphones, constant violations of their personal space.
      Bonus points if parents redirect aggression towards the kid.
      Kids that grow up in that environment quickly realize: _"This_ is what's waiting for me too?"_
      At least in your case, your spouse wasn't toxic towards the kids directly from the sound of it.
      Custody would have been a hell of a battle if she was.

    • @connorjohn5013
      @connorjohn5013 ปีที่แล้ว

      You licked her ass clean buddy. And did not demanded nothing back and you are surprised that she lost respect? You made yourself a slave for her and demanded respect? Women doesn’t work like that.

    • @mechalovessquirrels18
      @mechalovessquirrels18 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@danmack1852 Yes, you do many things to avoid conflicts and have peace. Unfortunately its never appreciated and you are belittled

  • @stephentubbs1624
    @stephentubbs1624 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I always say, " Disrespect will get you killed! ".

  • @powerage17
    @powerage17 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    100 percent !! Men leave because of RESPECT...and woman have a knack on how to devalue a man by disrespecting them

  • @anthonyd507
    @anthonyd507 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This as an eye opener. I didn’t realize that I have thought this way my entire life until I heard someone else say it without qualifying anything and without apology.

  • @alanarzate93
    @alanarzate93 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    5:52 I like how both of the them look across at each like "yeah this man is speaking straight facts"

  • @malcolmnicoll1165
    @malcolmnicoll1165 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “Appeasing women's relentless demands is like feeding fish to a cat and expecting it to become a vegetarian.”
    -Niccolo Machiavelli

    • @laterrydorsey303
      @laterrydorsey303 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did Machiavelli really say this?

    • @oreoolafgaming3756
      @oreoolafgaming3756 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@laterrydorsey303 who knows ? but if, it just shows you that women were always the same creatures they are today.^^

  • @petertran784
    @petertran784 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm 45y.o. male and still single and happy 😊

    • @nicktan4530
      @nicktan4530 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is it a choice ?

  • @vincentleoni6334
    @vincentleoni6334 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Andrew always spitting facts, there might never rise another man like him. My respect for him deeply 🙏

  • @damiens6465
    @damiens6465 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Too much honesty! I see why he’s being attacked.

  • @billmckelvey5003
    @billmckelvey5003 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tate hit the nail on the head about disrespectful women!

  • @Davedesert
    @Davedesert ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Speaking of being respectful in public. My dad used to say never to get involved in road rage even when provoked because, “He might be on his way home to kill his wife.” He was right. You never know when someone is about to snap. Leave ‘em alone.

  • @sdunned7842
    @sdunned7842 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    5:16 I am at my absolute worst, skinny kid, no money, cheated on multiple times, I went to a psych ward because I cussed out my boss, and I have a lot of emotions that put me in a very dark place, feeling like I'm about to snap... just him, having this understanding, just one person, acknowledging this fact of life about respect, and disrespect, made my day.