3 UPDATES: Stepsister Who Got me Kicked Out Of My House When I Was In High School By Manipulating...
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- 3 UPDATES: Stepsister Who Got me Kicked Out Of My House When I Was In High School By Manipulating My Parents Finally Reaches Out To me To Apologise After I Announce My Engagement But Then I Do Some Digging And Find Out That THIS Is Why She Wants To Make Amends With me… So I Talk To My Fiancé And Now She's Crying Because She Just Lost Everything!
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I (26F) have been engaged to my fiancé who we’ll call “Jeff” (26M) for about two months. I met him through a dating app four years ago and we have been inseparable since then. Jeff and I are soulmates, he is the only person in my life who has never let me down. I haven’t had an easy life, my parents got divorced when I was two years old. my dad walked out on us, and he never looked back. He did Pay child support, but that was about it, he never bothered to actually come, meet me, or see how I was doing. My mom (48F) was also not a great mother, to be honest. She was more involved in other activities when I was younger, rather than actually raising me. I was practically raised by nannies or babysitters when I was slightly older. my mother was really young when she had me and her priorities were really different. She didn’t care much for being a mother and mostly spent her time going out with friends or on dates. She was an out-and-out socialite and didn’t have time for me.
OP should reach out to her mom.
'mom you were wrong when you kicked me out, you were wrong when you said I'd be nothing. here "insert screen shot of Jess confession" here is your proof. have a great life with your spineless husband and your pathological lieing step daughter. goodbye'
No, that's out of the question. OP just stay no contact with her mother, and move to another state to start life afresh.
I’m surprised OP’s mom isn’t in jail for kicking out a minor. I’m sorry OP had to deal with that toxic environment and her mom has her karma coming for her when her precious stepdaughter betrays her and she’ll realize that she threw away her biological daughter for nothing and has no one but herself to blame on why she is not apart of OP’s life anymore.
@@C1984_FR that last year between 17 and 18 is a bit of a grey area, cps tends not to get involved because by the time the courts get round to doing anything the minor has aged out so unlikely anything would happen to the mother due to OP being so close to 18 ( a better thing to do would be for OP to contact the IRS to inform them she left at 17 incase her mother was still claiming her on her taxes)
There was a girl exactly like Jess when I was in high school. She bullied her step bro and did her best to turn the school against him. Since he was a sweet guy - while she was demon spawn - one girl in our group convinced us to help the guy. So, we made it our mission to show the school what a nasty, phony c#nt she was. We borrowed several tape recorders from the library ( yes, I'm OLD) and began sneakily recording her whenever she was near us. We got SO MUCH dirt on her within the first week. She talked so much trash about pretty much everyone she was 'Friends' with.
After we got the proof, we put it all on one cassette (we also made several copies, just in case), snuck into the intercom room, put the cassette and player in front of the mic, turned on the intercom, hit play, then left, locked the room, then crazy glued the lock.
The result was fast and brutal. She became a pariah in school by the end of the day and our guy friend was never messed with again.
Unfortunately, the police don't always enforce this. It really comes down to the officers involved. Some of them will just consider it a family issue and enforce it to reflect their feelings on the issue.
It's probably not set in America, seeing as OP actually found a stable relationship on a dating app.
She would've let her call cops and then drug test would've made everything clear 😅
Yeah, because justice always prevails , right? right? /s
I said that above and also tell the cops to FINGER PRINT all those beer bottles and other items. Only the sister's prints would have been on them.
@@Zurround TBH I would not take the risk ..too many ppl got in trouble because of bad police work. And they could explain it away by stating "sure our prints were on it as we touched them when we found them and we know she is always weearing gloves" or some crap
@@robertx8020 You are probably right but man, imagine if what I said HAD played out. My guess is that the OP's mother would blame the OP for the situation and causing her "golden child" to have a criminal record.
@@robertx8020 Right. Like the "Kids for Cash" scandal in PA where a couple of judges were sending every kid in court to juvenile detention for long sentences without bothering to check the facts of the case. And the reason is because they were getting kickbacks from the guy who owned the detentions centers when they sent kids there.
OPs mother is a horrible person which is why she never thought to even drug test both the girls. She obviously loved her stepdaughter more than her own daughter.
My son was staying at my sister's house for a week. My sister found weed and an empty 40oz of beer in her son's room. My nephew immediately blamed my son. I knew my son, and I 100% knew my son would never do drugs or drink. So, the following day, I drove up to my sister's house, and we took the boys for drug tests. I was not surprised when my son tested clean, but my nephew didn't. Now, they were 15, and I wasn't angry at my sister, as she wanted to believe her son. She did get her son into a program, and he has been clean since. My son is now almost 24, and he and his twin sister still have never so much as had a beer, smoked a cigarette, or taken any other type of drugs outside of prescriptions. I believe this is because I have been sober for 25 years (became sober when I got pregnant), and I have always taught my children about the dangers of addiction and how it tends to run in a person's family.
you better work it congrats on your sobriety!!! And what a wonderful update. I hate being blamed for things even when asking to verify the truth and no one tried to so I just cut them out of my life. Didn't think it was worth it to try to verify the truth of a situation, then they're not worth the time to be in my life.
it also seems like you have good communication with your kids, a lot of parents seem to forget that listening is the important part. and your honesty about your past most likely has impacted the relationship positively
Pretty much all of OP's issues were her own fault. She admits she had no friends.
If you meet an A-Hole in the morning, you met an A-Hole
If you meet A-Holes all day long, you are probably the A-Hole.
Was step-dad wealthy and that's why mom married him because she's a gold digger.
Lol your kids are good liars or your oblivious.
OP should have dared her to call the police and tell them to dust for prints and take a drug test. Then report to CPS
If you've been losing clients left and right and a single contract can now make or break you, I think it has more to do with your business skills and production capabilities than anyone holding a grudge. What I hind the most interesting is that people blame the person who could save them but chooses not to for all their woes rather than the one(s) responsible for said woes in the first place. Not helping isn't the same as actively hurting. Remember, manipulators love to try and convince you that not doing something is the same as doing something. Not being polite isn't the same as being rude. Not being friendly isn't the same as being hostile. Don't let them ever convince you that the absence of something is actually something.
This is why people who don't want children shouldn't have them.
OP's mom is a real 'winner' I almost laughed when mom kicked her out accusing her daughter of things mother was doing (ruining the family etc). NTAH about the cancelled contract. OPs husband was thinking of cancelling it anyway due to high prices for junk products I think knowing how OPS stepsister was connected just made OPs husband decide to cancel the contract sooner.
The mother will get a sad wake-up call, when she never receives any invitations to OP's wedding, nor, ever gets to be there for the birth of OP's first baby.
"you have to treat her like your sister"
when is she going to start treating me like her sister?
I will never understand why a mother would take the word of a step child before her own child. The mother should be in jail. She's a hard B,,,,,. 😢
Op should of told egg donor to call the cops. Her finger prints were not on them, only mom and stepsister. Plus she didn't have any drugs in her system. Heck there was more evidence it was egg donors than op.
Yeah but there could also be 'three withnesses' 'seeing her use the stuff'
Unfortunatelly life isn;t a movie where the innocent always wins ..plenty of examples of that in RL
@robertx8020 doesn't fully work that way. Police would need to do a drug test and she would come back clear. Plus it's mom's house so it would be on her for possessing it. Not saying all cops are good but simply saying I saw this without any evidence doesn't hold up in court. Though I do agree bad situations do exist in real life with bad cops.
I'd have demanded she call the cops, then see what Jess' reaction would be.
I understand her. I left the when l was ,14. I was sick, turned yellow and needed certain things, including juice. My father's girlfriend moved in and put locks on the fridge and cabinets. Even took half my room, for her kid and anything of value.
You went NC I hope?
if you're losing clients left and right, it can't really be just because of your sister
I get the feeling that the stepsister is going to try something at OP’s wedding.
She'll get sued again!
Well, before that happens, OP should just put her wedding on hold, move with her fiance to another state and have a courthouse ceremony to legalize their marriage, then, resume her wedding in Italy, Paris, Hawaii, or on a cruise, who knows?
Cinderella gets her prince, and the evil stepsister doesn't sell containers. A satisfying modern ending.
I'd have gotten proof of step sis' drinking and drug use because I expect people like Jess to pull crap like this.
Lol op 100% had her husband cancel the contract. No shade because I would have done the same thing though.
My last words to mommy dearest would have been, "I hope that being a failure as a parent is something you are proud of, but that is exactly what you are." Thank goodness she found someone who hasn't failed her.
It didn't matter if the step sister tested positive for drugs, and she didn't, her parents would blame her. This is the definition of a scapegoat. Pay for what others do.
Also: What idiot bad mouths their paying customers? This makes certain that no-one will work with you in the future.
Story one
What did your mother think she was doing throwing you out of the house you where a minor,and you didn't deserve to be treated so badly she believed your step sister she failed as a mother and I hope you get your own back she got back in touch because she wanted access to Jeff she would have tried to destroy your marriage because your husband has more money
She wanted into your life I wonder how long will it be before your mother gets in touch, she would only want money I think your husband should reply to her husband and tell him that the product was cancelled purely because the quality was terrible and the price was high she expected some kind of profit from your husband's business and the lawyer will teach her to not mix your personal feelings and your business
I would say your mother is going to get back in touch sometime in the future you should send her your stepsister confession and tell her she lucky you didn't take action about that as well but you don't involve business and personal life
Yeah, I would've been confused by an apology like that too. I would've been like, "Ok, great, glad you got that off your chest, but our past is the kind of junk you try to forget, not fix. Hope this brought you some peace, never speak to me again."
Just send step sister a message saying she sold drugs in high school she can go back to that
Her family never apologized or made amends? Also, I would have WELCOMED having the cops called if I was the OP because the sister's finger prints would have been all over the evidence items and if they gave me a test for substances I would come up clean but the step sister would not.
If Jess had been the OP & told the story, everyone would be saying how unfair & vindictive the estranged step-sister was🧐
Yes, that's how lying works. Also how exactly would she have planted false evidence in a positive light. People would not be saying unfair, they would be saying the story is missing information.
This comment ia literally supporting a bully. You're probably one yourself.
I hope OP will ask her best friend's parents to be her parents at the wedding
She should have let her call the police and have drug tests for both of them, plus a string taking to for her mother about child abandonment
Honestly OP'S mom is the one who caused most of the problems in this OIL AND WATER un-blended family. Bet she regrets it all now that OP is happy and successful and neither needs or wants mom or the rest of them.
I am wondering if the OP's mother is aware of the deception regarding the 'reefer madness' incident causing her daughter to be kicked out. Has anyone seen an update about this anywhere?
If Amy’s parents were “rich enough” to support OP indefinitely, I find it very odd that she and Amy had to share a room. Like, wouldn’t a family with that much money have a guest room?
I bet the mom never informed the bio dad of the situation and he would keep sending money. Here's what I think mom hates op. Op is her affair baby. The dad left but got stuck paying child support or was getting that from bio dad.
I'm surprised the mother didn't try and get involved to bully op. I bet sister got caught later on. Though after how tough the father in laws lawyer is, it might scare off the rest of ops family.
(Before updates) NTA OP. You didn't stop your fiance and his father from working with your step sister's husband, as you explained. You did not say that you even answered the email. If Jess is libeling you on social media, just state that you did not do what you are being accused of and will take legal action if Jess does not stop saying you did. If Jess's husband wants to know the reason for the end of the contract, he could just ask.
I'd have demanded a drug test.
22:49 OP: “for some reason Jess believes I did this on purpose to get her back”.
22:07 also OP: “when I found out her husband was actually dealing with us, I decided we would cancel our contract… u don’t think could ever have anything to do with that woman again”.
Jess is right. OP absolutely is doing it on purpose. And there’s nothing wrong with that. I just have zero idea why the OP wants to pretend otherwise. It’s odd.
Well, it seems the contract was already collapsing because the whole thing was a bait and switch to begin with. Use high quality products to secure good prices, then cut the quality while raising prices within the confines of what the contract allows. Then perhaps the whole reason they contacted OP in the first place was to give them a reason to cancel the contract that would seem petty and potentially be legally actionable the bad press could then be used to coerce a continuation of the contract. And, because the communication existed, they have an out on any defamation case because the defamatory statements are technically true... Which means if their response is "See you in court," the post stays up, barring an injunction. And OP's husband is in for a protracted legal battle that will cost more than resuming the contract.(Now this is based on how it could go down, not how it did go down.)
It's good they kicked her out. If she didn't have an exit strategy already then she probably would of stayed for a few more years with that terrible family. Happens too often with abused kids with low self esteem.
OP I am so sorry your parents failed you your stepfather failed. Jess is not the only person in that house That is their child. I can’t wait till karma hits her.
NTA. The SS husband was already losing customers due to poor quality. And OP was not in charge of business decisions, Jeff and his Father are. Obviously the SS was sucking up thinking it was an advantage for her husbands biz. Jeff obviously felt the email and SS involvment was wnough to clinch the business decision. Not like they jad not already taken steps to look for other contracts.
OP should not feel guilty, karma just bit the SS hard
You should have involved the police when she blamed you for drugs. A simple drug t st would show none in your system. Then sit back and let the cops deal with your family.
You should have let your mom call the cops so they could check the fingerprints on the beer and bag of weed. I bet Jess and your mom’s prints would be all over these items and she would go to jail too.
You've turned out great!!❤
Thank you! 😊
22:47 you did do it on purpose. You said so yourself. It may not have been the only reason but it was the final nail
So what?>
I was about to post a nasty comment that OP should not have invited her nasty mom + equally despicable step dad + step sis to OP's wedding. But it looks like we have a sensible OP here who is not crazy about having mom attend at all costs!
OP def ITA. OP reads Jess' mind, gets her bf to drop Jess' husband's company bc she doesn't like his wife. Rich bf sues for defamation even tho it's TRUE. I sure wouldn't do business with OP. (if it were a real story😉)
Exactly! She sucks
Sure buddy
Fortunatelly most ppl in real life don't side with garbage ..but just go ahead ..if you were real /s
Did anyone see this on Reddit?
Reddit is showing the real face of women, not that BS narration about women being Angel 😇
'the real face of women ' ...lol your bias is showing ...
It also shows the 'real face of men' (stepdad) but I guess you want to ignore that /s
rGirl Relations, your stories are to long. A lot of unnecessary background, and words
I hope Jess sees this story & sues w/this new info. OP admits Jess was right abt why the contract was dropped. (if it were real😉)
So what? You would lose ..but I guess you're used to that
@@robertx8020 Where's the defamation? OP admits that she did exactly what Jess accused her of. OP destroyed them over kid stuff 10 yrs earlier. Insane. 🤯
you mean, that the husband was already in talk to drop them? jess and her husband were doing shit with there buisness and it was time to drop them.
@@soleneleveque4408 This was initiated by OP for petty childhood crap. She says this. The excuses for dropping came later. Tortious interference, anti-SLAPP (IANAL)
@@soleneleveque4408OP initiated this for petty childhood conflict. She says this. The excuses for dropping came later. Tortious interference, anti-SLAPP (IANAL)