How To Stop Kids From Whining - Stop Tantrums
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 พ.ค. 2014
- Vicki Hoefle, Parent Educator and Author, shares advice for parents on how to get your children to stop whining. For more expert pregnancy and parenting advice, visit www.kidsinthehouse.com
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I really, really don't like whining. But I know that kids tend to resort to whining when they're tired, hungry, or bored.
Here's the FIX:
· Baby's Tired : Set age-appropriate nap schedules for every day, and be sure to Stick_to_them!
- 45 min. - 1 hr. at 10AM.
- 1-1/2 - 2 hrs. about 1 hr. after lunch.
Bring sleeper pillows & blankie if you'll be 'on-the-go' during scheduled naps to make it easier to maintain regular rest schedules!
· Baby's Hungry : Pre-plan meal times; Add quick, easy snacks for times in between meals, that help to regulate and promote steady blood sugar. Veggies, with chewy, & crunchy texture are great; Add a protein to get a longer lasting, & more satisfying snack (it digests more slowly and steadily than carb sugars), such as:
-peanut butter on celery, 'real' yogurt tubes w/o fruit, carrot stix or broccoli heads & dip, small baby food selections,
-tofu, chix or turkey lettuce wraps
-cheese-stuffed grape tomatoes or mushrooms, green beans (cooked al denté).
Avoid simple carbs, sugar, or processed foods (crackers, sweetened drinks, or fruits) - these promote spikes in blood sugar, causing dramatic crashes on the rebound, avoid if possiblet! Choose portable containers, and don't forget handi-wipes!
· Baby's Bored : This requires pre-planning of age-appropriate activities.
Use these in Dr.'s waiting rooms, on public transportation, and in restaurants. Coloring books, and small crayon boxes, hand-held games of skill, cross-words, tracing, Books, electronic devices for a limited time! Group games like, "I spy", or "Chinese telephone", group card & dice games. Carry these along in activity bags for handy access!
· Another cause of whining may be the child is ill. Carry an e-thermometer to check for fever, have child-sized tylenol or ibuprofen meds, & ginger or peppermint 'meds' for belly aches!
And, finally : Be firm and clear with your child about 'No Whining' policy, and stick to them! Consequences must be immediate, consistant, and effective! Use these tips to help prevent whining, and don't forget to ask your child for their input on ideas, too!
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Just treat our kids not as kid but as adults same as you from the start my kids all went to collage and are successful have houses jobs and my grandkids are the same exact way when you speak to anyone In my family kid or adult they have the exact same attitude toward everything if here something to be learned learn it or fail again and my 7 year old grandson is more mature than any kid to high school even some collage kids I work with and way smarter than of them
@@alexanderjohnson8577 except dont treat them to the same adult garbage most populations choose to eat... processed garbage
Dude how long did you take to write this?
I find the absolute most difficult is to know when whining is allowed, would you allow whining when hungry, tired or sick? OR all whining is off. And Please can I ask what is your consequence for whining? I have no idea what to so, time out? My twins have whines and cried to get what they want for a year and a half, many times I cant even be around them it hurts my ears like literally rings in them and I have to put them in the cribs and take a breather.
Put a bag over the kids head put em in a dark closet and never open it again. I got it :)
Lmao
It's the best idea ever Thankyou so much am going to kill my brother now
HAHAHAH XD
Lmao 😂
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So what about when she’s not even looking at me and whining? She doesn’t know I’m trying to ignore her. And sometimes I don’t have time to wait for her to stop and tell her to come do something with me, like when we’re going somewhere and she’s whining about getting in her car seat or while we’re driving. I can’t escape her.
I think you didn't got the main idea of what she is talking about. It is not about looking at your kid or not, kids whine because they expect perants to show up, even if your kid were in another room your kid will whine because they expect you to show up.
It s work for me my toddler is always whinning so i ignored him.then he cried more so i ignore him again i put myslef listening to the music then after a minutes he stop crying and said mommy i want some juice then i react for that and talk to him that whinning is not good if he is crying like that then no one bmver listen to you if he is going to tell what he wants then evryone is gonna listen to him..thats my experienced to my toddler..
aya bb what is your baby egg
I’m 11, i have to use this on my cousin. Her mom gives into her so I have to teacher her. I told her I was going to check was time she would leave. I said, “lets go ask mommy when youll leave!” In a sweet voice. She said “I DONT WANT TO LEAVE!”. She jumped around, whined and fell on the floor. When she cries there arent tears. She looks at people wanting them to do something.
Literally searched for this after my 3 year old has whined alllll morning. Fixed the problem almost instantly! Wow! Thank you!!!
But my kid still screams. Even when he gets his outside cage time for 5 minutes.
Lol 😂 😂
What if hes not joking 😂
Us a belt
That’s hilarious
Yeet your kid
This is what I have been dealing for 4 crazy years and still going on. And it really really drives me crazy I don't know what to do.
Same here my son is 3 year old
whining is like nails on a chalkboard for me
Lotus 444 😂😂 thats a vry strong comparison
nope whining is worse
Ooooooooooof by far nails on a chalkboard is way worse for me
Whining is worse. 🤣🤣🤣
That simple she said. So if they start throwing things across the room, just ignore? I work with kids who act like that. I'm sure they learned it somewhere but do I just ignore?
Of course this depends on the child but I would definitely take their toys away until they learn to be nice. Let them know that throwing is not acceptable. Especially if you've already made sure they were fed weren't sick and weren't tired if it was something that important they need to know that's not how to get your attention
@@jeanetteh.8393you can't pack up the entire house they will allways find something to throw or use hands to hit
"...put a bag over the weed, and put it in a dark closet..." I was almostwilling to literally do this. :P
"..and in the child's brain, something clicks..." MY BRAIN JUST CLICKED!!!
How can a two minute video be so profound?! !My second child has cried since day one and now that he is over one, and running the show, its hard to take back the reigns. Thank you so much for this video!!!!!
How is your child going now..becouse older kids behaviour is much harder to deal with than toddlers.
@Heavens-Humanaterian-Army he is the sweetest, most loving boy. He is very kind to others and generous. He still has big emotions which can make him overhwelm him, but he is much more relaxed knowing that he is not in charge; the pressure isn't in his shoulders. he is emotionally regulated and self aware. Another parenting book I love is Good Inside by Dr. Becky Kennedy. She also did a podcast episode on Dr.Huberman's podcast. Its on TH-cam and its an incredible resource as well. Highly recommend! Especially for older kids.
Thankyou so much!!!! My grandson acts as if he hates me. He literally has fits along with screaming at the top of his lungs on a constant basis when I'm there. His mother holds him all the time when I'm there yet she says she doesn't. I leave with a migraine every time I'm there because of the chronic crying. I truly struggle with it.
I'm so sorry his mother have trunded him in to that...its sad you don't get to enjoy your grandchild because of poor parenting.
You know what, I saw a baby Elephant throwing a temper tantrum, and, all the adult Elephants just kept walking by the baby Elephant, completely ignoring the baby. And, the baby Elephant finally just stopped, and caught up to the other Elephants.
Ignoring doesn’t work on mine.
my sister keep crying I GOT SO OOOOO ANGRY EVEN I WATCH THIS I STOP HER THANK YOU
Great content !!!! Very useful !!! Thank you so much ....Implementing immediately asap
It does really work but when my mom home she broke my rules ...
I’m watching this to and sending screenshots to troll my raging friend
I found the easiest way to get them to stop is to say I want to whine too. And just start whining over stupid things whine "I want a unicorn that farts rainbows" or "I want to swing from a cloud" really stupid stuff like that. Me and my cousin took her daughter's to the park and we were getting ready to leave when her youngest started whining that she didn't want to leave, I was tired and so was her mom and it just popped in my head, what would happen if I stated whining at her. So I started, then her mom started, yes we did get looks from people passing by because here was two grown women whining about unicorns and clouds. But it worked, almost immediately, she stopped and looked at us then the people staring and got so embarrassed that she never whined again, we had explained that that's how we feel when she whined. Plus for some reason it was a great stress reliever and me and my cousin walked away laughing and smiling about it.
+angeladq Hahaha, that is hilarious. Thanks Agenela for your input. Be sure to check out our channel and share our other videos with your friends.
i don't know uh.. but i love uh lady for just telling me how to save myself in this situation...
Everyone in this video are so sweet, talented, and beautiful!! I love them all!!!!😍♥️
Soothing voice....
Thanks!
u are purely pure pure
You saved my life, thanks u!
My daughter just gets more angry and more angry and throws a bigger fit when I ignore her. No matter what I try she doesn't learn. I'll ignore, I won't give her her way....nothing. she just gets worse. I never dealt with this with my 3 boys. Even though one threw massive fits and was sensitive. He still was easier than her. She yells at everyone, hits everyone especially me , whines and throws fits. I am at a total loss. Girls so much harder than boys. On top of having a 12 year gap between my youngest boy and her. I had more patience with her as a baby and now I am to the point of just breaking down in tears because she is so defiant and angry. I want to enjoy her but I'm not. And that's really why I cry.
I know exactly how you feel. I’ve tried ignoring, spanking, time-out, taking things away. Nothing is making the whining stop and I seriously don’t want to be around her.
Hey ladies, how are things now? Going through the whining stage with my twin toddlers. Feel like I’m going insane.🤯
OMG twin toddlers here too and NOTHING works. Its really really hard to stand whining month in and out, my girl has been whining for over a year. Day care is having trouble too and I just need to crack this somehow. How has it gone for you? Anything that worked?@@pmpetch99
@Mp-wc2chStop with your bull or you'll be reported. Watch and see.
Have you taken her to a doctor? Maybe she is on the autism spectrum and needs special care. Something is definitely very wrong. Good luck.
the worst thing kids do
however from birth guys ,from birth i made sure they would NEVER whine nor cry for no reaon, i did what this nice lady said from the start
my kids are very independent now
Yeah that is too easy. Kids have a lot of will power.
my child whine more in public and cries at 7 yrs old and i found out why its because when he was a little baby he did not cry as much more less he did not say as much so now he is making up for it and i hate it!!! I did ignore it in public but people looking at me like wtf tend to your child why he crying and some older adults come to his aid and im like why is the happening right now all i need is to get him to stop by not sheltering and giving him attention but it never works out. what to do??????
Did you ever figure it out, and did he get better?
Great info, nice vid
What should I do what if my wife and my mother in-law don't want to ignore the kid when she whining and they upset with me when I told them to do that. My daughter is 20 months now. Please give me an advice. Many thanks.
Instructions not clear. Put a bag over the kids head and locked her in a closet, but she didn't stop whining and now the cops are here. Please halp.
Istructions not clear i put a bag over the kids head put it in the closet like you said and then i got sent to jail like wtf
So I have a three year old niece that screams bloody murder and we have tired many methods but what can we do?
I treated my kids like and adult from the start they never whined after 3 years old never ran to me crying they dealt with their own issues effectively with and adult demeanour since the age of 5
I keep saying “im not going to beat my kids like i got beat”......and then i met my step daughter... and im highly reconsidering
Redbeans & Rich emphasis on the “step”, not your place unless she don’t have a daddy
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Best advice ever!!!
eucagwar thank you!
you smack them >:)
AbriTheAmazing dat child abuse
laughhappyflufffluffycotton rose no it isn't
it is
why u whining - @laughhappy
If that's the case, that one time I accidentally stabbed a kid while babysitting was "dealing with whining."
Edit: he lived
Does this work with 14 month olds??
Hi
This is just making her cry more cause now she thinks I'm ignoring her
Deidre Taylor That is the goal. She needs to detox from it. Hold on strong and keep ignoring her until she eventually stops. Make sure once she stops you give her attention.
I am 11 and I am watching
good trick
Whining is more sadness-like, while shouting is more anger-like.
I have a stupid brother. He has alot of cars so he makes like a row and if you just WALK past it or even TOUCH it he will start whining and crying.
This is just like training dogs lol love it
it doesn't work like that
We have tried this, doesn't work
*It didn’t work*
my 4 year old baby brother cries always at 2am
Just deal with it
My brother has a child, we live together. When the baby whines, they just shout at the baby, nothing else. I cant do anything to stop them since they are elders
I was slapped when I kept on whining. It helped. My parents were right because I could be very annoying.
Really you got kids
Do you have a solution for my problem? My neighbor Whines and I can’t go too sleep at night
My bro wines like a baby he had a tanrum over a cookie
that's the worse suggestions I took ever, it makes the kid can't rely on you and can't trust you for his needs and want, they despair.
Yes. Simple but she has to go to school, the bus is coming and she still screaming crying, i cannot have the patience to wait for her tantrum to leave. I gotta be hurryyyyy, yell at her or miss the bus,
Talking is so simple everyone knows that moms have to stay calm, but kids always put you in some crazy situations
she wont stop 😕
I think many people lack critical thinking. She is merely saying to ignore whining behavior and when the kid speaks normal, then immediately react to normal behavior. There are many variations to this method, and many other ways. Most toddlers lack vocabulary to explain needs. Whining is easy. They want something. Then there is whining because you said "no". I am not against physical discipline. It has a time and place. You actually don't even have to hit a kid hard. Even a small smack on the bottom very lightly with a stern voice will make any kid cry. Many parents go overboard because of frustration and don't realize their strength. There is no one parenting method that works. A parent that never spanks there child but has great communication skills can have a kid that turns out fine, or horrible. Usually external sources and influences and lack of engagement in kids life result in child hanging with wrong crowd...a whole other subject.
This why my sister did sign language with her boys. So,they could tell her what they wanted because from 18-to 22 months babies can't communicate their wants and needs. Sign language gives a child the ability to communicate and they never whined.
So when the kid is whining we put a bag over the head and put it in a dark closet and never open it again? Lol
Is shes talking about us?
1:21 put a bag over your kid and throw em in a closet lmao
trying to listen to this video why this girl is winning and I cant hear lmao bare whispering
Never thought about my children as a weed or putting a bag over their head
The whining is the weed not the child
My brother want chips but he already ate chips but it worked now I can control him
LMAOO
just like training a dog
There’s another way, you punch it till it stops whining
I am hoping this is a joke
so i need to put my child in a plastic bag and lock it away?
Damn this makes a lot of sense
People are like "smack the kid" uhm no. A 1 year old doesn't know that them trying to communicate with their parents/guardian is stressful on the adult. They're simply trying to communicate. They don't just "cry for no reason". There's always a reason. Weather it's being hungry or not wanting to be alone. Maybe they're scared. It's a parents job to take care of the child and make sure they're ok. If you can't handle the crying don't have kids. One of my babies are 1 year and the other is 2 months. I have my hands full CONSTANTLY. I've never resorted to hitting. We sleep trained our 1 year old and he was self soothing by 4 months. It's all about how you parent them and hitting just results in violent children cause you're teaching them that it's ok to hit.
Did she just give permission to put a bag over your kids head?
no she did not say that.
Kids In The House I was joking. Lol
nickquik
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Thanks cause we got stuck babysitting A bratty baby that won't sleep
And baby sitter of the year award goes to...
Once my dad spanked me with a belt so hard I needed skin grafts. He's in jail now.
Many people say spank them spank them.... Its like dude no. Thats not the solution. Thats just a easy scape goat and sometimes actually most of the time they start crying harder not to mention if your in public people look at you like your a physco. I saw a african american lady smack her kid like crazy and i was like wow some people should not have kids..... Dont be a bully try something else its 2017 there is better ways to disciplining your child
Timothy Strunk Great advice.
I think you're right but I don't see why u had to mention the persons race ? & it's okay to spank, not abuse there's a difference some people hit out of anger, kids should get spanked for right reasons and not just coz u want to shut them up so I agree but not all the way
My view, mild taste of their own medicine as a last resort. For example, if your kid smacks another kid in school and they won't listen, a lighter smack. But don't go crazy if your kid stabs someone with a pencil. Get psychiatric help.
Just don't have kids
It seems it's mainly boys with the problems.
@@berlainebobb5759 not always girls can be too
Here for my little sister to zip her mouth lol
First figure out if the child has a reason to whine. Have you lost yourself in your electronic world and forgotten to feed her? Is she tired? Lonely? How good a job are you doing as a parent?
Her finger click was epic just saying
Like a weed huh? Get the mower.
Yea ok come to my house right now 😒
you turn your back,do your business,while the kid will try different ways to get attention.and guess what is one other perfect way?throw things on the ground,break stuff.i am sure you wont ignore that since one day he will break something made of glass and cut really bad and cry.ofcourse , you will ignore it "oh,there she is,whining again.." .. while your kid bleeds on the floor.next day you're with child support at the door and you struggle to keep your kid's custody..that if not he gets really bad health ,than you must think how not to go to jail.so easy for some ppl to talk when they don't know how many types of kids there are out there.
I put a plastic bag on my kid. It worked. The whining stopped.
BABY JAIL!!! AKA PACK AND PLAY!!! PUTT TINA INSIDE A PACK AND PLYA BABY JAIL!!!
they learn
This is absolutley NOT possable if you have neibours who want there peace and quiet and a history of calling cops and complaining to your realestate to try and get you thrown out..do you have an option to stop manipulation screaming...and i mean intence screaming deliberately
This doesn't work. If I ask my children to do something, whining ensues. If I ignore it, my kids will have gotten away with not cleaning their roon.
Diana Rodriguez Once they stop whining HELP them clean their room.
Please help me 🥵
Don’t even act like only children whine honestly I don’t see a problem with it everyone including adults whine about something when it bothers them now excessive whining is what I don’t like but I’ll just make fun of them and make that same little voice they make to drive them crazy that’s what my mom does to me too it’s honestly funny
Did she just advocate murder 😅🤣🤦♂️
If you want your kid to stop whining, you turn around and yell back at them in their face and let them know they're not in charge.
Wow! Worst advice ever!! Ignore it, and walk away, and than they begin to scream like psychos.
Clearly this girl doesn't have kids...
Heather Mc one good spanking would stop all this
one good spanking would stop all this
DIOS MIOS how can a 2 year old "realize whining doesn't work" when they can't even realize crapping their pants is disgusting?!?
Glad you have it all figured out, Madame Bragadocious.
Soooooo it does work better if you ignore it from a younger age, bc if u wait till they are 2 or 3 maybe even 4 it will be harder to control.
Actually, this does work....if the whining is just brattiness. If they are whining because they are hungry or tired it doesn’t because that is something we need to fix. Although, when a child is just trying to get their way, be bratty, etc, this is very effective. The fastest I’ve ever seen my child straighten up and stop, I had begun to laugh at the tantrum and turned and walked away. It stopped within 30 seconds and she came and apologized to me. She was three at the time. And honestly, I think that was the last tantrum she had.
screw this, the old school way always worked, "go get the belt!" problem solved
Old school method that’s 99% will work.
# 1 Find or buy a brown leather belt
# 2 Nail a nail to which you can hang the belt by it’s buckle preferably in a common area playroom/living room.
#3 When child cry use these words: stop crying before I give you something to cry about. Be firm and stern.
If child doesn’t comply pop them on the hand. Repeat as necessary. This may take a few days but eventually they will stop crying for no reason.
Fetus deletus
So put a bag over my kid and put her in the closet? Full disclosure, didn't finish the video
I don't like whining, but I really can't hear her when she whispers in this video. Lots of good advice, but please speak up.
This teaching is misguided and harmful to kids. Imagine complaining about your frustrating day and your spouse pretends like you don't exist? Ignoring a child is never a way to teach anything. Connecting with a child is the way to teach. Help them calm down then teach them how to ask for things. Yes, it will take longer than we want it to because learning and maturing take time. We are the ones who need to stop whining that teaching kids that nurturing real growth and maturation takes too much of our time- so we're gonna train kids like puppies instead.
Wow, The Kids are whining.
this technique is not effective on a lot of kids. i think it depends on the child's personality. if the kid is innately difficult, probably better to spank them... legally lol