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Turns Out My Husband's Mistress & His StepDaughter Have Been Using My Kids As Their Unpaid Labour
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Op is a F(40s) who recently got divorced. Her husband moved on two months later with another woman who has two kids (4 and 2). His new wife is pretentious, and ambitious but lazy and he does everything for her. Op has to share custody with her ex for 3 days of the week. There is among others, an incident where her daughter is being bullied at school and the stepmom neglects to tell op. Tensions rise and Marissa tells op that she started dating op’s husband while they were still together which leads to op uprooting Marissa’s Garden. A couple of weeks later, op’s son Zac gets burnt while at her husband’s house but he refuses to take responsibility for his negligence. Months later, op leave her son with her ex for a week while she and her daughter leave town. On her way back she finds out that Ivan and Marissa went on holiday and left the kids. Op goes to the house and finds out that her son is babysitting. Op informs CPS and her ex and his wife lose custody of their kids. Furthermore, op gains full custody of her son and daughter.
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Wow I would have filed a restraining order on Step-mom when she hid that my child was being bullied because she allowed my child to be physically mentally and verbally abused and did not tell the legal guardians of the children....in the US she could face criminal charges for that.
Those poor kids. I'm glad they are better now
He’s a 12 year old he’s not an adult. He can still a learn responsibilities, but not the way they were going about it.🤬
Teaching kids adult roles, I agree with. Those roles are - cleaning their own room. Taking out the garbage. Mowing the lawn etc. Never does it mean leaving them with looking after 2 toddlers without adult supervision for days.
Hope they haven't moved so they can sneak their kids back into their lives as the grandmother would probably find looking after 2 toddlers hard work and be happy to hand them back.
true, now, there are exceptions, my friends gran went down some stairs and broke her pelvis not her hip her bloody pelvis, the parents were gone for 3 days, my buddy and his twin sister were 12-13ish at the time, now the parents didnt leave them/us alone, my parents and 2 other friends parents checked on us, and their kids all stayed over, nothing like this story...
i also hate to say it but.... as a tween i had to teach a few friends parents/siblings how to "wrap ass" because, despite being an only child... i could change a diaper and use cloth diapers that, it turned out 2 of the parents had subs gifted to them but no body showed htem how to use cloth diapers.. buddies mom came to change the baby and found i was using the cloth diaper and was just flabbergasted a kid knew how to wrap ass.. when she couldnt.. made me teach her and her husband using an old doll she found in the attic.. that i pointed out to her, clearly had been used for this practice before from the pin marks in that are... her grandmother came over for xmas saw the doll and started to explain that was bought for her an her husband to practice diapering babies before they had their first, when she found out that i used it to teach the parents to wrap ass she couldnt stop laughing and i got multi hugs from the old woman... she found it very amusing i could wrap ass at my age as an only child, yet .... her kids who had multi kids themselves had never learned... or asked for help learning... and just wasted the diaper subs relations gave them.. for their previous kids... heh..
you never leave a 12yo in charge of little kids for extended periods though.. not alone.. hell even in that emergency rush to get 6hrs drive south... my friends parents asked if mine might be willing to let me stay over and check on us, i called they talked, and we were given money to go rent some movies and order pizza, we did that but, i could cook by then so i also just made us stirfry and such since it genuinely was not something i found difficult, or dangerous... i was raised helping great granny, granny, mom, etc cook, this poor kid wasnt even given any skills to cope....
first thing i would be doing for him honestly... teach him to cook, or if she cant cook, take a cooking class with the kids who are old enough, my friends mother just asked me to tech her and my buddies sister to cook, her mom didnt cook because she worked all the time same as her dad and, she genuinely wanted to learn, buddy and his sister both were reluctant to have me teach them but... once they got over the 'my friends my teacher' crap.... they can all cook well above average now... and they raised their kids to cook, my great granny felt that everybody should know how to cook... if i ever get lucky enough to meet somebody and have kids.. im gonna be teaching them to cook... as well as teaching them as many new things as possible, any many life skills as possible... i know even when i was in school in the 90's it wasnt about creating thinking reasoning people but about creating useful wage slaves... but its gotten so much worse..
they removed home-economics because its "sexist".. when i took it in jr.high and hs.. the class was at least 30% dudes who just wanted to learn useful skills... often it was closer to 50/50..
Without the kids, he and his horrible wife can have the life they want and I hope they never get pregnant
What crazy people. Holy moly.
My Mother babysat when she was 11 but she was born in 1930. She and her siblings lived through the Depression.
I’m glad you called CPS I can’t believe they left a 12-year-old with two very young children for a couple days🤬
Oh, & I’d take the bully and their parents to court, sue them penniless, & make them move far away, never to bother us again
Those two are disgusting who leaves a child alone!!!
A 12 yr old boy left to babysit a 4yr old and a 2yr old for an untold amount of time and specifically bribed and told not to tell OP. Then they had the gall to get upset with OP bcuz they got caught. Why is it when irresponsible AHs got caught, made to pay for what they've done, it is always everyone else's fault and not theirs. Maybe Marissa can find Zen with some meditation and a little yoga.
@@robingibson6561 people like them disgust me. I was at least 16 before my sister started babysitting her kids for nothing and those two are nightmares. Oh well be back in a couple hours 5 hours later and I already want to run away I never babysat their kids again. If your a parent your a parent you don’t get to live like a bachelor make a family vacation if you have no one to watch your kids . You have big responsibility when you have children.
@@robingibson6561 tell me about it my sister did that to me when I was a kid. We never been on good terms. And on top of that has thrown me out over nothing countless times. Ran away from their home once cause they were abusing me mentally and physically. I got my lip split because of them. Now I got her kid and I hate his guts. He’s nasty can’t do anything himself and he’s 15. My 6 year old can clean a bathroom and take the trash out on her own accord. Everyone looks down on me because I don’t have a job. And I’m on disability I constantly get made fun of for it. But I sit back and think just because I’m this way isn’t a bad thing for example I’ll get to be there for everything first break up school plays her wedding I’m always going to be there even if I have to walk lol. But my nephew burned their house down and they bring a bit load of drama with them the kid even stole from me!
@@emilyspoon8238 I'm sorry to hear all you've been through but nephew would be someone else's problem. He burned down a house, why isnt he in custody. Don't put yourself in danger trying to be nice.
@@robingibson6561 it really wasn’t my choice as I live with my mom. Hopefully he’ll be out soon he’s bound to mess up cause he’s also a a weed smoker. I won’t be surprised if he tries to pick the lock to my moms door.
The flower is pronounced like
Lie lac. We have it all over here in Maine and New Hampshire and it smells like heaven. ❤❤️
We have them here in Indiana too.
You did the right thing calling cps !!! So mad 😡 feel so bad for Zac
I can't believe Op ex husband and his mistress using these kids to train them how to become parents but that's just not how it works these two toxic people they don't care about these kids or anyting they just care about escaping about responsibility so they wouldn't have to deal with it that makes me mad Who they are 😠😠😠
Ex & crazy wife sound perfect for Sciencetology.
I feel so close to OP
To answer Mr reditos Question if I was in that situation I would have immediately got of my kids out of the hands of the ex-husband and his new wife the very moment I started noticing that things were going on with my kids that they weren't telling me about especially when that picture of a wife had the audacity to laugh about the fact that my child well-being was nothing more than a joke to her that would have been it for me
I’m glad the grandmother got custody of her grand children
Same here.
HER PLAN 2 GET CHILDREN OUT OF HER LIFE !!! I FINALLY COMING TOGETHER
I started babysitting at 12 , but I wasn't forced to do anything and never all weekend. And I'd never leave my child with people I didn't trust.
She's lucky OP didn't punch her. I would have!
His wife deserve to be yelled at and your ex is a horrible person
Basically, the stepmother and your ex-husband are paying him off bribing him when they’re the ones who should get proper childcare for all of them.
Go for a full custody, and he only gets them on one weekday he’s not protecting his kids
Just an FYI - lilac is pronounced lie-lack
Step 1 of parentification... TEACH THEM HOW TO BE PARENTS... Why so many disgusting people so lazy nowadays? *Back In My Day They Told The Babies How To Pay Rent In The WOMB* 🤣 Cash Or Credit but we don't accept apple pay
Did the girls who bullied her get suspended?
I had to parent my youngest sister when I was 7, but no kid should be given this responsibility. I'm all for paying a 16 year old sibling to watch a younger sibling but only for short times. no more than 8 hours.
Nice moves Mom
Kind of makes me wonder if this poor woman actually had anger issues or if she was just convinced of this by a manipulative ex husband. I say this simply because I do not believe that she was angry enough against such stupidity.
It's one thing to leave a 12 year old to take care of younger siblings or whatever for a few hours maybe especially if they are responsible and you taught them how to change diapers and care for them them and can be trusted but leaving them alone for multiple days? Yea no.
I also want to put this it's refreshing to finally hear a story where there's a parent who has the balls to basically do something about their situation with their kids and not act so helpless where they immediately just jump to asking the internet for help I felt like that's what was so refreshing about this story because I like how the original poster took no crap from her ex-husband and his new wife Plus on top of that I'm just glad you know she got her kids out of the hands of her ex-husband and his wife because they are not fit to be parents and I'm not going to lie I think it's kind of a shame that the husband would rather you no favor his new wife more over his kids and even her kids because that's just so sad to see somebody we that on concern for the safety of not just their children's but the children of the person they're married to now but like I said before I'm glad that the original poster did what she did to shine the light on the ex-husband and his wife and show everybody the type of terrible people they are and also how they literally don't deserve to have children in their care
My shock was that CPS actually did something right.
I know right
Not only leaving a 4 yr old behind but a 2 yr old. None the less with a 12 year old boy. Who was the younger child from is ex. What does he know about baby sitting. He had no one to even live with that was younger than himself until his father remarried. That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard in my life.
Wow if my child has gotten burned I'd of raise hell and I wouldn't have left my child with him EVER AGAIN
Why can’t people coparent together step parent or not step parent those were things the mother needed to know she is there a bio mom
Many years ago when my kids were super young I was visiting my older brother. At first I thought it was super sweet that his youngest son wanted to help take care of them until he "proved" his ability to do it by telling me how he took care of his younger siblings all the time and always put down pillows when lifting the baby out of the crib. I kept my stuff together long enough to reassure him that it's his dad (while visiting he helped out and he is so gone for babies that it would be cruel to deny him) and my job to do the icky part of taking care of my kids and all he needed to do was play with them and be an awesome cousin. And then after the kids were in bed my brother and I talked and I think he said something to his ex wife and I didn't hear any more stories like that. Kids should not be taking care of babies this "father" got less then he deserved for punishment.
Don't ever let somebody else tell you friend family so not to worry about it and push it aside and let it be how dare they😢
REALLY ?????? GIVING THEM A. VACATIONS !!!! BOTH LAUGHING 😂 AT. FREE NANNY !!
Wait what ? Housekeeping? Frak that what a brat treating Ops kids like that
PUT LISTENING DEVICES ON BOTH CHILDREN & CALL CPS , 2 CHECK ON HOW CHILDREN ARE LIVING
Amazing how ppl get custody just to terrorize the other parent 💯❗‼️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽 Amazing how step children are literally demonized, abused and enslaved 💯❗‼️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽 I love my parents and BLESSED by their union. My Mom is gone but my dad is still here but misses "Luva" daily and loves being around his 4 daughters so he can see her😍🥰 GOD BLESS ALL THOSE THAT DON'T HAVE THAT 🙇🏽🙇🏽♀️🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏🏻
Kids are only kids once, let them be kids.
So mad at the dad and the step mom they are not suited to be parents
Where were the criminal charges?
This HAS to be a lie. Who leaves a four year old and a TWO year old with a twelve year old child, that is crazy.
Also, wouldn't kids at that age have a panic attack if their parents went away?
12 year Olds CAN baby sit for a couple of hours, but not for days alone.
imagine being ANGRY your child got hurt because you left all your kids alone
When I was a 13 yr old (Im 53 now) I was in charge of 5 children for 12 hrs a day on the weekends. I think I got 20 bucks a day. My 13 yr old self thought I was rich making $40/weekend. This was the 80's. Back then $20 went a lot farther.
I can now see as an adult & mother of 2 that that couple was taking advantage of me & my age.
I never had to watch those kids overnight. 12 hrs a day was plenty though.
It was a different time. Back then no one batted an eye to a 13 yr old babysitter. 🤷♀️
Parents did that all the time. I had several families that I would sit for between the ages of 13 to 15.
As an adult now, I can see that both patents had to work as many hours as they could to raise 5 kids.
Different times I tell you....different times
Once a mistress, always a mistress.
Who leaves a 12 year old to take care of a 4 year old and a 2 year old for days that is definitely child neglect and abuse
If you can't rise kids then they shouldn't have kids, just because the father went and knocked up the girl he was cheat with, doesn't mean he then gets to use his children as substitute parents because him in his new wife can't be asked to do it
The only people who give adult roles to children only do it bc they have less of a idea how to parent, they don't want responsibility but they expect a 12 year old to be the parent. You should have to go to a parenting trade school and be mentally cleared by a shrink before your even allowed to think about kids, how proud the stepmoms and ex family must be knowing they enslaved a minor in a age where such things should never happen
As far as the LAW is concerned the step mom only has ANY RIGHTS that the mom allows her to have.. The step mom has NO RIGHTS with her step kids as long as the mom is alive and responsible. They are not her kids and she has all ready proved that she is not mother material.
That whole scenario could've went wrong. If you want to teach a 12 year old responsibility, teach them to dust and vacuum.
from the images I had the impression that the boy who was left home to take care of the younger one(s?) was about 12 and he had to take care of a 4 year old and a 2 year old. Was I wrong? Anyway, you can't go on holiday and leave that kind of responsibility on the shoulders of a minor.:(
He was 12, he was left in charge of the 4 and 2 year old toddlers.
Wait so the sister was knowing about the brother who was caring for the 2 youngest but abandoned him to do all the child care and cooking and did nothing or say nothing about it
My Ex son in law has a daughter who just turned 15 , for the past 3 years she has been being mommy to her sister in laws neice & nephew since thier birth.
They all live together with his 1st ex wife and her mother and 3 of his grandkids , as well as his 16 year old son. Now DHS was called and the sister in law and husband lost thier little children. He won't file for custody bcuz he is dying with cancer, lost his mom last year to it. There is no one else. But the daughter wouldn't move out before bcuz she felt the kids would be neglected but not anymore. Some ppl use kids as slaves even in thier own home . My ex daughter in law was one when my son met her, her mom would sit in a chair watching TV all day and she would make her daughter bring her tea, cook supper and bring her a plate , go to bed and start the next day the same .
This child did it all while her mother sat on her ... ! When my son married her she didn't wanna move out bcuz her mom might need her . Well saddly that became a big part of thier divorce.
I'm so sorry.😔 What happened, afterwards?😟
I missed the part that her son was only four🤯🤯😳
Story one you are a good mother your ex-husband is not a good parent. I really hope your kids can see how much you care about them and can’t get rid of the attitude they get from their fathers house.
OK, deep breath. The 2 stepchildren are 2 and 4, Zac however is what...about 12? Still not a great idea! That being said, I was running a house and tending to my little brother (1) when I was 10 years old. However, I was trained to do so, and even then, it was only long enough to go do the shopping on a Saturday! Plus our paternal grandparents lived right next door! Zac it seems does not yet have those skills. I understand teaching responsibility, however even my parents didn't leave town with me in charge until I was 18! By that time, my brother was 9 and they took my baby sister with them for the week! Jeepers! Yes, teach responsibility, and yes teach your children life skills, but use some good sense! Some kids are better at it than others! (my dad did say that I was born 40....)
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Thank you ❤ 0:31
EX- PROMISED MARRISA. THAT YOUR CHILDREN WILL BE HER SERVANT & FREE NANNY , FREE HOUSEKEEPING & JUMP 2 HER BECK & CALL. KIDS WILL DO WHAT EVER SHE ORDERS CHILDREN 2 DO !
Nta. A 4 yr old babysitting. Hells to the no. Stepmother and stepdaughter are abusive and insane. He was cheating before you divorced. She sounds self absorbed. The ex is neglecting the children and abusing them. Your ex is stupid.
Umm talking to the kids and parents are going to make it worse.
Yeah why are parents so cringe
Wait you want to show your four-year-old responsibilities and taking care of another human life I think those two need to have a reality check
OP sounds like she’s a bit bipolar.
Uprooting her veg isn't the best revenge. It's infesting them with pests. If they are uprooted and dead that is a quick death. With pests you introduce a slow death if they don't treat it. Then when they let their guard down you can introduce more. Or water them with some salt water. Don't kill them in one go. Make it gradual so they see their work go to waste and there's always something new. They will try to remedy things and probably end up making it worse. That's a slow burn revenge.
Everyone sucks in this case. OP is immature and dad is meh.
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1:49)Are there self help books for serial readers of self help books?
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The father is at fault. He married that horrible woman. OP I would have snatched her by her hair and thrown her out the window. You have some real control
Op you didn't fail. You aren't clairvoyant. You believed in what you thought to be the character of the father of your children. You believed them when they said they were OK, they wanted you to believe that. You're not the villian in any way, you did what you were supposed to every step, went right away, called cps right away. It was the father and step mom that are in the wrong. ONLY the father and step mother. The children were following the instruction of a trusted adult, a parent no less. The older sister should've known better and spoken up sooner, but who knows how she'd been threatened or manipulated into silence. The only people to be held accountable are the father and his wife. You're a good mom who loves her kids, and doesn't assume the worst in those around you. If you get those anger impulses under control, you'll be squeaky clean. They're better off with you. Dad should get supervised visits going forward. He needs to learn why that's so unacceptable. It doesn't matter that 300 years ago girls were married at that age, it was wrong then and it's still wrong. You don't have the life experience to know how to keep composure and react appropriately as the responsible adult in a crisis situation. THAT'S why children don't babysit babies. Not bc they can't sit there while all is well; but because they don't know how to handle unplanned emergencies. What if he didn't know that random beeping noise that seemly stopped 2 days ago was the fire alarm battery dying, bc hes a kid, why would he know that? What if that was a gas stove, and God forbid he started a fire with that oil, and used water to try to put it out😮. Could've burned the house down, just trying to make a snack. It's because kids don't know what can go wrong, you can't foresee dangers you don't know exist, or solve problems with solutions you haven't learned yet. For that matter, it would seem many adults lack that foresight as well... That's terrifying. Who in their right mind leaves a 4 and 2yo with a prepubescent for DAYS?
I don't see a issue with her son learning to cook as long as it's with supervision as for other adult roles again don't see a issue long as they ain't in danger. I know at 12 I baby sat occasionally to my cousin who was 4 but it was only for a few hours, even remember baby sitting my nextdoor neighbours kids (they were both under 6) for the night when I was 13 cos she had gone in to early labour and there was noone else she could call but my parents were next door if I needed them and all I needed to do was be with them no cooking or anything else involved. I certainly wouldn't of been allowed to baby sit for a long time without someone being very close by (eg when I baby sat my neighbours kids), her ex and his new wife clearly only wanted free labour and wanted to have a life where there was no kids to be looked after.
@8:57 lilac is pronounced lie lack. ;)
I've seen other people mention the mispronouncing of words becoming more frequent.
@@prettygirlSC34 Drives me insane. Great story telling but abysmal pronunciations.
Nta. The kid got badly burned due to their negligence. All you did was move some plants. Ppl move plants all the time. Only bad ppl cause burns on children and starve them.
I’d take the ex-husband and his new wife to court; have a great lawyer on my side; sue the ex & his Mrs utterly & completely penniless & destitute; taking everything he gave her & keeping it all; using it all for me & my kids. I’d have CPS take their kids away, put them with a better family; then shove them in jail, never to see the light of day again
Bullying is the number one problem in schools, with teachers either ignoring it or don't care. With an ex president like Trump who is probably the worst bully, nothing will change
The stepmother will live without two tea cups. Don’t serve nice cups if you don’t want them, ruined or broken.
Oh my, OP is a narcissistic, violent, delusional, unfit parent. That level of self confession makes me question any validity of truth from now on, with the 'save the day' mentality afterwards where OP explains how aweful things were. I feel bad for anyone's lives that have crossed OPs 😢, especially the kids.
Yup her violent outburst is telling
@@bautistalover and the fact she KNEW her last one was 2 years ago, and saying she had been doing good since then.
And the fact that the dad had pretty much full custody. Judges don't do that unless there is a justified reason to keep kids from their mother. And I truly doubt that OP never once thought that her ex husband was cheating with Marissa. Ya right. She prob thought that from the beginning.
@@calliew311 of course. This OP isn’t the saint she makes herself out to be. She doesn’t need custody of those kids either.
Wow.... I can see why op marriage fell apart from her so called flaring temper. If I was married to a cheating moron like that guy, I'd lose my temper too. The husband and the lady he married would make a pothead seem like Einstein, they left such small children alone for 5 days!? Not even a animal leaves its young alone for that long when hunting.... I'm just happy that op got her kids back and the grandma got her grandkids away from her irresponsible daughter. The only thing that concerns me is how the sister ignores her brother, most teenagers though annoyed with their younger siblings wouldn't normally ignore them to the point of them getting burned in the kitchen making food for the rest of the younger siblings. Though not my place but I believe that ops daughter needs focused therapy with a dash of family therapy. In the end though karma kicked the ex where he deserved it and op came out on top
Let me say this, there is no excuse for cheating . But the ex wife's nasty control is what pushed him there. She is critical of anything she can't control or exploit to her advantage
Even going as far to remove the children from their father because she is bitter as hell. From the insults, destruction of property ,verbal attacks
Could you IMAGINE living with such a person
I'd leave her too . She only wants the children to make her ex's life harder ( child support , extra money to enroll the kids in things because it will cost the ex money from the wife (she alrwady.started.off with putting g down the ex's new with business venture) Because she can't control.him she wants to destroy him.This isn't toxic . ..it psychotic
When men (single ones) read this type of stuff, it makes them resolve to stay single. If I were single reading this..I'd feel the same .
Love when the blame their anger issues on others. I understand OP is the wronged individual, but the fact that she uses I have a bad temper...
So I love the stories, but it feels like these stories are written for the youtube videos. does anyone else get that feeling?
Ok this story is BS. Why? Because Cps & police officers can’t take kids unless they have a court order, 2nd Cps can’t allow kids to stay with someone else while , it’s going to court. Have to be investigated & temporarily court order to be allowed to stay. I know this because I’ve had dealings with CPS. CPS will lie on you also. They lied on my daughter. My 12 year old daughter took care of a 1 year old for the weekend, but of course she knew how to take care of babies because she had a baby brother & she was mature. Most girls start babysitting at 12.
Your 12yro took care of a 1yro for a Weekend?? Who in there right mind leave a baby with a baby?,
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The title of this doesn't match the story.
😢wow . OP did the right thing and as far as the ex husband and his,wife well i believe they should NEVER have children again. A little jail time (1 year for everytime the children were left to babysit the younger children).
this father, was a buddy of mines mother and step-father... real shitbags.. we actually got a gal who worked for cps whos niece we knew to come over and "discover" the kids were left alone for weeks at a time as parents took trips/vactions/etc.. she avoided prison because shes a woman... well till she admitted in court that she only demanded custody because she didnt want him to have the kids or be happy, and she never wanted the kids or family with him... she got out after 27 years, and proceeded to get herself thrown back in for showing up to her kids-kids school and trying to "pickup" the kids... theres a perm protection order against her for her own kids that was expanded to cover their families due to her behavior when in prison... instead of prison this time she went to the nutfarm-prison and is still there.. NONE of her kids or family ever visit her... the auntie who use to feel bad for her stopped when she realized the level of derangement and denial the womans suffering from... and that the doctors wont ever be letting her out and said as much...