Infertile Husband Told Me To Keep It Quite While His Mom Blast Me in Infront Of Family As A Barren
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The story revolves around a 26- year-old woman (OP), who has been married to his boyfriend for the past 4 years. Out of the four years, they had been trying for a kid for three of them but to no avail.
Despite numerous fertility treatments, they haven't been able to conceive. Recently, OP discovered that her husband is the reason they have not been able to have a child but she keeps it a secret from him and their family, hoping to find a solution first before giving his husband this devastating news.
OP’s relationship with her mother-in-law, has always been strained. She constantly belittles OP, blaming her for not having children. During a family gathering, OP’s MIL introduces her friend's daughter to OP’s husband, suggesting that they two may hit it off and should get together sometime, while OP was standing right there. When OP confronts his MIL for her behaviour, she humiliates OP by throwing divorce papers in her face and calling her "barren" in front of everyone. Op’s husband, already interested in the new partner his mother suggested, takes his mother‘s side. Humiliated OP leaves.
A week later, when OP calls his husband to clear things out, his husband suggests that maybe it would be good for him to look for partners who can give him and his family offspring. Furious, OP leaves.
The next day, OP retrieves his husband's infertility report from their medical records. She drafts an eviction notice for her MIL, giving her three days to leave their house. OP’s parents gave the house to her and her husband as a marriage gift. Though the house was a gift to both, the lease had OP’s name on it, making her the rightful and sole owner of the property. OP mails the signed divorce papers, eviction notice and John's infertility report to her husband, MIL and sends copies to all their relatives.
The family is shocked by the revelation. OP’s MIL who has always blamed OP, is exposed and humiliated. OP’s husband is initially upset with OP for airing their private matters, but he soon realizes his mistake.
Guilty, OP’s husband and MIL go to OP’s house to ask her to reconsider the divorce but she was adamant in her decision. She tells her MIL that she has no plans of staying married to his impotent son and slams the door hard on their face.
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So, it's okay for the MIL to "Air out the dirty laundry of OP being infertile to the whole family" but not okay for OP to do the same with her now ex-husband? I wonder if that Commentator was the ex-MIL?
So it is OK for the mother-in-law to broadcast that her daughter-in-law isn’t fertile but not for the daughter-in-law to clarify things.
OMG! I just made a Comment similar to this!
The mil is evil
It's easier to blame the victim than hold the other accountable for their actions which led to what op did... She leveled the playing field and they didn't like it!
@@marioncunningham5182 Yep, so disrespectful! Only creepy MIL's get to do that! She decided OP wasn't upset enough so MIL took every chance she got to humiliate her. Curious as to why those MILs always think it's the wife in these stories.
Man... how can people be mad about her sharing the info with EVERYONE they share the info on with her? They were blaming her publicly and relentlessly. She just set the record straight with all the people she was embarrased in front of. Don't dish it out if you can't take it.
I disagree with the commenter. The MIL and husband were perfectly fine with persuading OP to stay in a childless marriage. They most likely would have done the same to the future wife and DIL if OP had not exposed them.
Don't be a doormat in your next relationship 💯‼️‼️
OP is nicer than I. I would’ve SLAPPED the report and paper in both MIL and Ex’s faces. Expose him as much public as I could get, as that dbag was probably out with that other girl during separation.
How is exposing his infertility a low blow when that is what his mother has been doing to OP all along. Now that the shoe really is on him, everyone is just supposed to say silent? Yeah, give me a break.
That last comment was ridiculous, MIL repeatedly aired OP’s supposed infertility every chance she got so why shouldn’t OP do the same in return. Play stupid games and win stupid prizes.
Op should tell hubby and MIL the real reason she hasn't conceived is because the husband's low sperm count and it's his fault they are childless and throw the signed divorce papers in their face! And tell them she's gonna find a man who can give her a child.
He picks the worst commenters to read. 1 MIL air her perception of OP's fertility in front of the whole family. 2 Husband backed her up. OP just set the record straight.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is get revenge. The mother-in-law sure thought so. Telling all the relatives that she had a worthless daughter, not who couldn’t get pregnant. I got a real bang out of it when that daughter told all the relatives and the mother-in-law that, her husband was infertile. It served her right that she told her that because she is nothing but a bitty who is interfering in their life and harassing her at every opportunity. I don’t think it was wrong in one bit that she told everybody everything because everybody was already involved because of the mother-in-law And the son did not defend his wife and when that happens, you get what you get. It serves the mother-in-law right that her son isn’t going to have a child because it doesn’t sound like he would pass on good sperm anyway even if he had it. So I thought that comment about keeping therelationship information private was a big joke from that last writer. It is not up to us. What a wife or husband want to share with the snoopy family and now they know the truth and what beehive the mother in law really is.
Question: When MIL were making these comments, why didn’t the husband just tell his mother to knock it off?
More like F-off!
What do you mean what do you do? Stand up for yourself and say it’s your son not me.
Op, that was epic. But they deserve much worse. That commenter sounds like a miserable old bat. I wish Op would update us when she remarries and has her 1st child. The only woman Op's ex deserves is his mommy. Let them two be miserable together. Sending blessings your way, Op.
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I guess I just don't understand how she went through fertility treatments when it was him who had issues. How did the lab get that so wrong. And why once they got retested did hubby not know HE was the problem. Who would go years of humiliation by one's MIL without actually revealing who was actually the problem?
MIL had slandered OP Infront of family for years so i believe she was justified in providing proof of her fertility to the family
No secrets op
Everyone seems to be missing the point here, including OP. She should have immediately discussed the test results with her husband!! In her misguided attempt to "preserve his feelings", she doomed her marriage. Communicate People!!
I can't disagree with your comment. I had the exact same thought. OP, was way too door mat-ish. I would NEVER let my MIL talk to me or about me like that. My MIL was an absolute angel.
I think, for op, revenge is the best. She, her MIL, had berated her for over 2 years and told everyone that OP was not able to have children. I think OP had every right to do that to her mother-in-law. Also, after what her husband did at the last meeting, she had every right to take it out on him as well. Finally, she shows his real colors. I normally do not go for the Revenge thing. I think it's pitiful, but this time, I think it was necessary. Sometimes, people need to be taken down a notch or two! God's blessings on you and your new life, OP!
I'm sorry but hell no OP's mother in law is out of line and beyond disrespectful. Her husband isn't any better because he is comfortable with his mother torturing his wife. Get a divorce, and move on no one is worth this bullshit you deserve better
Why not she kept saying that her daughter in law was infertile and even found him a new wife I would have the same I say good for her.❤
I completely disagree... what's the difference if she does to them what they did to her
I agree with OP 100% Mother-in-law was always broadcasting her supposed infertility issues to all of the family and that was okay with everyone. Now when OP does it it's not okay? I think turnabout is fair play especially when you were wronged and bullied as OP was. In this case she was just correcting the narrative that had been given to the family and providing proof so that it could not be undermined. I hope OP can now move on and find a genuine person.
Regarding the last comment, oh please. The MIL made it the family business in the first place. I personally wouldn't have told them anything until he got engaged then I would have sent the test results to his future wife and a note about what a crap show she's going to be getting into. Even better would have been not to tell him anything, until you were remarried and pregnant then I'd send the papers and a birth announcement.
It is no one's fault, especially since the woman is always blamed the mother in law, who doesn't want to hear her son, can have any problems
Under 20 seconds gang
“Broadcasting your husband’s infertility at a family gathering was a low blow.”
Uh, where was that opinion when MIL was the one who was broadcasting OP’s infertility for all of the family to hear and their family gatherings, without having ANY confirmation that she actually had anything wrong with her?! These commenters have a p!$$-poor memory and it seems to me quite likely that some of these disgusting family members, who were quiet as OP was getting ripped apart by her MIL in public, have found this post and are trying to punish her for telling the truth and standing up for herself. They need to get lost and stay out of business that doesn’t concern them!
Omg...the audacity of the comments! OP went to far airing her EX mama boy of a husbands laundry? Are you kidding me?! OP suffered abuse at the hands of that man and his disgusting cow of a mother but OP went to far?! Insanity
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Totally disagreed with that comment. MIL broadcasts her supposedly “infertile” for years. Then threw divorce papers in her face publicly in front of so many people while pushing another girl in her son arm.
Whoever comment this was either dumb or sexist or the ex MIL or ex husband.
What OP did was the perfect revenge- she did what they did to her.
a unpopular here it's actually hard to agree or disagree completely with op but i will draw the on this subjects hold on before anyone calls me
names here okay ... i think op not telling her husband about his infertile tests was both possibly a blessing depending on how you see i guess
clearly this did go in her favor but not telling her partner in first place was also a mistake too by telling him right away they could have had possibly
talked about the problems in their right then their at that point where she could had a one on one with husband and you could have shown his true
colors at least in their own home not front of his crazy short sighted mom or in front of his whole family & letting karen rubbing it in OP face & well he
could have questioned op's for fertility test was even real being fake blaming him for their lack of a family or realizing that he needs to think about things
their relationships if having their own biological kids matters that much him i know it doesn't change his infertile issues but the fact that jerk was willing
to take his mom's crazy insane idea seriously in front of his whole family no less in his wife who didn't this stupid level drama out in the open for everyone to
see & in front validating his crazy mom was just so horrible of him if anything this shows how okay he was with his mom was treating his wife their both
horrible people & at least they need a serious reality check they did get in the end but i still think OP's marriage was going to end no matter what & for
the better i kinda wised her ex-husband just waited after the dinner party or at least waited a few days maybe the next morning if this was something he
could not lie to himself & OP anymore if he had a any morals left his head but nope ...do i think OP should have kept the fact that her ex was the infertile
one between them at least them & a few Friends & MIL & her family but honestly OP airing out their was just hard for me to understand how i felt about it
i won't fool myself getting revenge is not worth it but I'm not OP now i guess wanting to share Very openly the real truth since the in laws where fine with
it was fair play in their family i just wised OP walked away from the marriage or accepted He husband was Foolish Idiot blaming Her for their infertile
with out realizing it takes two to create a baby but having his mother messing with his head his whole life & their Marriage the guy possible didn't
have the mental space to think about it his mother made it really hard to that even come as possibility every chance MIL took it & belittle OP over
everything & plus no Wonder why this possibility didn't come up as nature thought that it could have been her husband Having Down stairs ....
Well At least OP is away from those Crazy people & maybe their one Tiny silver by letting the Truth out makes easier for future woman who wants
to get married to OP's ex over bearing Family possibly to see the writing on the wall if other family number change own their view points on this
subject & the possibly future woman warning ahead time if OP's ex doesn't change his Actions
Its more OPs fault than anyone else. If she had just told her husband when she got the results, none of this would happen .. drama queen
What difference would it make when the mil was the bigger issue