5 Things You Should Never Tell A Non-binary Person

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  • As a non binary person, I've been told a lot of things about being non binary from cis people. So I figured why not make a video about 10 things you should never tell a non binary person so people can know what not to say to enby folks. Be sure to leave a comment down below something you've been told about being non binary.
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  • @lanalana2065
    @lanalana2065 ปีที่แล้ว +973

    I only have two words: Lint Roller

    • @kameimercy3589
      @kameimercy3589 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      About to say the same thing....😂🤗

    • @KTConna
      @KTConna ปีที่แล้ว

      Never tell a non binary person they need a lint roller.

    • @emmamitchell5332
      @emmamitchell5332 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @LuccianoNova
      @LuccianoNova ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You should tell a non binary person that

    • @bakugoubean2924
      @bakugoubean2924 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂

  • @BlueMoonFoxi
    @BlueMoonFoxi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    “You don’t look non binary”
    “Sorry lemme just-“
    *becomes the nb stereotype of afab, young adult with piercings and a wolfcut*

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      For real tho.
      💛🤍💜🖤

    • @M3ad0w.Th3.Fr3ak
      @M3ad0w.Th3.Fr3ak หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@RogueEnbi 🟡⚪🟣⚫

  • @theevilmasterVD
    @theevilmasterVD 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    If I were you, I'd delete all these transphobic ignorant comments. I know it's a lot, but it's better than tolerating all this meaningless hate. They must be silenced

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I would do that as well. If the only thing we can do is report the bad comments for bullying or harassment ect. Not even sure it does much.

    • @baldemarcastillo675
      @baldemarcastillo675 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cough... Hitler...

    • @theevilmasterVD
      @theevilmasterVD หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@baldemarcastillo675 I don't get it. So rightfully silencing people who hate, discriminate and cause harm to innocents is being a genocidal dictator?

    • @baldemarcastillo675
      @baldemarcastillo675 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theevilmasterVD No, and one cannot expect those who cannot not see past their own thoughts fathom the sheer reality on which their beliefs are wrought from.
      You say you rather silence over tolerating?.... we isn't tolerance all that we as humans have less in common than that in animals?
      Yet you are choosing to react as how any animal would, who has no sense of tolerance and just silence the opposition.
      Well Hitler had the same idea.. but he didn't just choose to silence, he chose to erradicar a race.
      I hope with the virtuous ideology you grasp so strongly to can realize we can easily share thoughts and emotions of that of a dictator.

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน

      @baldemarcastillo675 If this was real life, sure, but this is for one channel on the internet. The internet. Go touch some grass. You're not getting gassed, raped, killed for sport, or forced into labour.
      By the way. If you want to talk about being silenced. In America 45 anti trans bills have been passed. Actual real life bills. Unlike what this comment is suggesting, which is to simply delete harmful comments, to make it a safe place for the LGBTQ+.
      You are truly desgusting to compare the mistreatment of Jews with you, a majority. While us, the minority, are the ones who are actually being silenced.

  • @gray7094
    @gray7094 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    some people in these comments are annoying. why do you care so much if someone else identifies as nb? whilst you might not really understand how they feel, people are entitled to basic human decency. sure you have the right to free speech, but what is the point of putting someone down and making them uncomfortable, for no reason? just as you have the right to free speech, they have the right to identify however they want, and the right to tell you what comments they don’t appreciate. if you don’t like the content just leave, it’s that easy

    • @CD-221
      @CD-221 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nope. The delusion has spread into our media, school systems, public restrooms etc. and they wish to corrupt the minds our children with their delusion.
      The reality is there is Only male and female, and they cannot transition.
      Saying sex is not real, and men can be women, will take away the rights and benefits women have worked towards in society. Wake up. Sex is not transitional. Unless your a sea horse. But we aren’t !

  • @YINZLOVEMUZAN
    @YINZLOVEMUZAN 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    6. Don’t tell them to stop because it’s just a trend
    Ps. Where are my non-binary friends?
    👇

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Im here.
      💛🤍💜🖤

    • @The_Dragon_Den6073
      @The_Dragon_Den6073 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Omg tysm! That's what my mom keeps saying to me! (I'm fluidflux)

    • @M3ad0w.Th3.Fr3ak
      @M3ad0w.Th3.Fr3ak หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Here!

  • @TheSailorDogMom
    @TheSailorDogMom ปีที่แล้ว +149

    I just call everyone dude.

    • @HyperNovva
      @HyperNovva ปีที่แล้ว +14

      me too haha

    • @ezrel6477
      @ezrel6477 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Honestly, that’s fine, because in most contexts “dude” is gender neutral. But if someone is uncomfortable with that, make sure you are respectful.

    • @qomm8071
      @qomm8071 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ezrel6477 That comment was extremely offensive. Do better, you`bigot.

    • @TheSailorDogMom
      @TheSailorDogMom ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@ezrel6477 I will always use dude. If whoever doesn't like it, I am probably not friends with nor would I want to be.

    • @TheSailorDogMom
      @TheSailorDogMom ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ezrel6477 and honestly I wasn't asking your permission. Thanks anyways dude. ✌🏼

  • @elizaluizezile
    @elizaluizezile ปีที่แล้ว +227

    “You don’t look non-binary” HOW DOES ONE LOOK NON-BINARY? What does that mean

    • @SkootletheSnek
      @SkootletheSnek ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Their wrists aren’t cut up and they don’t have purple-dyed hair-
      (Don’t worry this is a joke I’m NB myself)

    • @hotsagittariusmilfnearyou7390
      @hotsagittariusmilfnearyou7390 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Im curious how did you know you were enby?

    • @dongiano
      @dongiano 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're right. One doesn't "look non binary". That was a made-up part of the list.
      Also, it doesn't matter if they're "nonbinary", they still 99% of the time look like the gender they were born as.
      Because nonbinary doesn't exist. It's a fabricated excuse to join in on the twans victimhood movement

    • @Catty779
      @Catty779 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@SkootletheSnekyou aren’t offended by everything either? Thank Allah, Vishnu, God, Zeus, Jupiter, Helios, Mars, Osiris, Jesus, Virgin Mary

    • @averyottesen6343
      @averyottesen6343 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I got the opposite problem, a friend who’s non-binary but doesn’t look it so I forget. Not trying to tho.

  • @G33P_.
    @G33P_. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The amount of hate in this comment section it’s disgusting tbh

  • @Fandom521
    @Fandom521 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Why are people so upset about having to use they/them pronouns. They are just what someone goes by. It's the same way you call someone a she or he

    • @jrcwwl
      @jrcwwl หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly, so that's what I will call them, she or he, as any idiot knows, there are ONLY two genders, you are one or the other. So yes why would anyone be upset, using your own words, if I say he or she.

    • @Eliot_.TheGay
      @Eliot_.TheGay 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jrcwwlthat comment wasn't hate.. It's saying that people shouldn't get so mad about they/them pronouns. Just use them. It's literally just a word.

    • @jrcwwl
      @jrcwwl 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Eliot_.TheGay So is he/or she "just a word" based on their God given gender, which by the way isn't up for determining ourselves. So if it's literally "just a word" then why the fuss if someone won't go along with this laughable insanity. Just "use them", he/she, which is far easier by the way, as we won't have to sit their wondering how each person identifies. One day we'll all look back on this ignorance and laugh, or at least I will, and the one's partaking in this lunacy will feel ashamed.

    • @Eliot_.TheGay
      @Eliot_.TheGay 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jrcwwl I personally don't understand why people get so upset on leonous myself. If someone misgenders me I just correct them. Most of the time they don't know. It's when they do know and they purposely misgender people. If you know the pronouns someone uses, use them. It's not that hard.

    • @jrcwwl
      @jrcwwl 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Eliot_.TheGay Stop with this "mis gender" term. The rest of us are correct by saying he or she, him or her. Don't get upset at the rest of us who refuse to go down this rabbit hole of insanity. And insanity is exactly what it is. I will repeat myself, I will call you he or she end of story, the ones who don't like it, all I can say is deal with it. We have our rights not to lower ourselves to this laughable nonsense. I'll use your own words, "it's not that hard, use he or she based on their gender.

  • @Akaria.Luvs1
    @Akaria.Luvs1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I’m not forcing my pronouns on anyone. I am just not comfortable with she/her, and if people refuse to use those pronouns on purpose then I’m not talking to them.
    Like it’s just a word people. ITS JUST A WORD 😭

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THANK YOU

    • @jrcwwl
      @jrcwwl หลายเดือนก่อน

      So is she and her---like IT'S JUST A WORD. I'm sure the rest of the world will be heart broken if you stop talking to them. LMAO!!!

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน

      The difference is 1 word is detrimental to their mental health, while the other isent.​@@jrcwwl

    • @joecoffey4199
      @joecoffey4199 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Those terms are acceptable to me.

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Akaria.Luvs1 I respect that. ❤️

  • @CalebCoolman
    @CalebCoolman ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Honestly, there’s no point in telling people to “stop being who they are” because face it, there’s nothing stopping them. We should just let each other do our own things, and then discrimination wouldn’t be an issue.

    • @valens.glassgrave
      @valens.glassgrave ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly.

    • @dongiano
      @dongiano 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trans people don't support anything or anyone except other trans people.
      They used MY people - black people - to further this BS by putting our color on your rainbow flag. Then you could accuse people of racism or coon-ery for not supporting them.

    • @lorilee698
      @lorilee698 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's right cuz sometimes you just can't fix stupid! You gotta let them find out they aren't THEY/ THEM but me/ myself/and I!! Be set Free in Jesus Mighty Name!! He is The Only Answer!!

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lorilee698Jesus never answred my prays. Frankly praying to someone who died years ago, and aparently living in the sky watching our every move, who can aparently grant wishes. Well that my friend sounds stupid to me. Unlike you I dont go around saying people are stupid for believing it. I have respect towards thy neighbour.

  • @autumnfall8829
    @autumnfall8829 ปีที่แล้ว +637

    There's no such thing as "nonbinary"

    • @SkootletheSnek
      @SkootletheSnek ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Mr. Stark? I don’t feel so good…

    • @autumnfall8829
      @autumnfall8829 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@pretzelcat581 respect begins with yourself and coming to terms with reality.

    • @Ms.Hamels.Class1234
      @Ms.Hamels.Class1234 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I guess I don't exist then 🤷 😕 oh well!

    • @autumnfall8829
      @autumnfall8829 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Ms.Hamels.Class1234 lol, ok ma'am

    • @Strawberry-shortcake-luv
      @Strawberry-shortcake-luv ปีที่แล้ว +31

      ​@@autumnfall8829idk maybe you should come to terms with something more advanced then 4th grade science class :)

  • @GrislyBlaspheme
    @GrislyBlaspheme 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Guys, nobody is forcing you to use their pronouns.
    If you don’t want to use them, go ahead. Just know that it’s disrespectful to that person you are misgendering.
    We don’t tell you our pronouns to force you to comply, we present our pronouns so that you have the choice to respect us.
    Respect is up to you. Just to remind you all, being disrespectful to others is a sin in the Bible. Please remember ‘love thy neighbor’.

    • @AveryKat4
      @AveryKat4 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Fr. as a trans-masc/ftm (haven’t started t yet, too young xD) I’m also enby 🤠✌️🏳️‍⚧️ I don’t force people to use my pronouns, but I do prefer he/him/his/they/them/theirs/xe/xem/xirs/it/its/itself

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 as someone figure out their gender/Prounouns, thank you sm.

    • @emopandaslayer
      @emopandaslayer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Delusional ​@@AveryKat4

    • @AveryKat4
      @AveryKat4 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@emopandaslayer oh dear.. stop talking about yourself in that way!

    • @emopandaslayer
      @emopandaslayer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw burn! how will I ever recover 😪😪 🙄

  • @HowAmericaGotItsName0527
    @HowAmericaGotItsName0527 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm non-binary, and I have the growing apprehension that when I'm out to my family/publicly, I won't get good reactions. And I'm very nervous that I'm going to get bad reactions from anyone who replies to my comment 😐

  • @ralphblack
    @ralphblack ปีที่แล้ว +243

    Number one thing you should never do to a binary person. Don't tell people what to say.

    • @alkazar625
      @alkazar625 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes 👏

    • @jimreplicant
      @jimreplicant 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cool so dont tell me what pronoun to use no one cares about your delusions

    • @IronFreakV
      @IronFreakV 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Because if you do you're just giving them reasons to question you, were they otherwise would have no reason to care

  • @plucas9324
    @plucas9324 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    5 things you shouldn't tell normal people:
    1) you MUST use they/them for me
    2) you MUST share my delusion, and ACTUALLY BELIEVE that I'm neither male nor female.
    3) I'm NOT mentally ill
    4) You MUST give me attention, attention, attention.
    5) This is NOT just a passing fad, and I WON'T get tired of it when the novelty wears off.
    and a bonus
    6) I'm not doing this because I think I'm SOOOOO special.

    • @Noob_froggy
      @Noob_froggy ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Ok so asking for respect makes you delusional? What part of this makes you upset? Live and let live.

    • @ceciliaherpai2788
      @ceciliaherpai2788 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      YES!!!!
      normal people must do what they want, but not the other way around

    • @wrathoftheflyingspaghettim850
      @wrathoftheflyingspaghettim850 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​​@@Noob_froggynobody ever said wanting respect makes someone delusional. The thing they are calling delusional is the literal delusion that this persons mental illness gives them. People shouldn't be expected to blindly accept and respect delusional thoughts just cause everyone is so terrified of ever letting anyone feel the slightest hint of negative emotions. It used to be a crazy person was just a crazy person and their nonsense ramblings were treated as nonsense ramblings instead of aggressively validated and encouraged. People that don't accept this aren't acting the way they are out of simple disrespect, they are doing it because they aren't willing to live by your delusional idea of what reality is. They know what the real world is and how it works and they know this person is in their own little world instead of reality and that shouldnt be blindly accepted and respected. It should be treated so they can hopefully be able to accept reality some day.

    • @starthe_notfurry_
      @starthe_notfurry_ ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Some people feel different about themselves than others and if you don't want to accept people for who they are then don't interact with them, calling them mentally ill is frankly disgusting and I don't think you should be on the internet if you're going to keep bashing people for not being carbon copies of you

    • @piiinkDeluxe
      @piiinkDeluxe ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Spot on

  • @JustLavender57
    @JustLavender57 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My story:
    When I finally worked up the courage to tell my friend my new name and pronouns she gave me a look and said, “okay”. But she never did it. I reminded her about it all the time since she said she would do it. But she never did. I finally asked her why she used my dead name after saying she would use my new one and she said, “I like your dead name better. You shouldn’t change it.” I stared at her in shock before ending the conversation there. (Now she does use my name instead of my deadname.)

    • @kevinturner9549
      @kevinturner9549 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nonsense

    • @xamtastic
      @xamtastic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel bad that your friend had to deal with you

    • @JustLavender57
      @JustLavender57 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn’t really care, I just decided to talk to her about it. If she said no I wouldn’t have bothered. Why waste your time commenting? What’s it going to change?

    • @xyredits320
      @xyredits320 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@xamtasticim sure the friend is fine. what are you getting at

    • @JustLavender57
      @JustLavender57 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@xyredits320 My friend is fine. Thank you. 😊

  • @Noursinette_
    @Noursinette_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    i dont think people realize that by saying non-binary is narcissism, then being vegan is also
    both things require people to ever so slightly bend to something a part of your identity. If that's narcissistic, then vegans, vegetarians, etc, are also completely narcissistic.

    • @biozesuck
      @biozesuck 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is. Veganism is about fake moral superiority. So it climate activism.

    • @Keurgui1
      @Keurgui1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Vegans/Vegetarians are literal lifestyles. This non binary bullshit is,at best, a glorified fashion statement.

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good point.

    • @n1kogrindraws447
      @n1kogrindraws447 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually tell people that being nonbinary is narcissistic is queerphobic and transphobic thing to say

  • @calistafalcontail
    @calistafalcontail ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I can tell delusional people, who deny the objective reality of biological sex and gender, anything I want. People can say to me whatever they want too....thats life. The way you deal with it is in your power.

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sex is fact, gender is a social constract. There are no studies related to Nonbinary people being delusional. But there are studies of trans people with gender dysphoria. Many Nonbinary people experience gender dysphoria and the only known way of easing the dysphoria is transitioning socially and/or medically. Gender dysphoria is a serious issue recognised by doctors.
      This is reality. Just because you dont understand the concept of Nonbinary, doesn't mean we are delusional.
      Just like how just because you dont understand complex mathematics, it doesnt mean mathematicians are delusional.

    • @n1kogrindraws447
      @n1kogrindraws447 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I mean the reality that sex and gender is a spectrum?

  • @nerdygamerguy8378
    @nerdygamerguy8378 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here are five things from normal people who don't care:
    We don't care
    You need help
    Get a job
    Get a real education
    Stop shoving this ideology down our throats

  • @Crybaby_4everr
    @Crybaby_4everr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    People keep on telling me they won’t call me by my name and saying they want to call me by my dead name. It sucks, no one calls me by my name OR pronouns (they/them) and I feel depressed.

    • @kevinturner9549
      @kevinturner9549 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Non-binary isn't a real thing, no one has to use special words just for you.

    • @theevilmasterVD
      @theevilmasterVD 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't listen to this evil demon above me. You are perfect the way you are and there are people who love you. You just haven't found them YET.

    • @kevinturner9549
      @kevinturner9549 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@theevilmasterVD If the truth is offensive to your ideology, rethink your ideology. Non-binary isn't a gender.

    • @kevinturner9549
      @kevinturner9549 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theevilmasterVD Person is male or female, simple fact.

    • @theevilmasterVD
      @theevilmasterVD 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kevinturner9549 Well, thankfully, facts doesn't need close-minded people's opinion to be real. It's not like NB people would be simply Thanos-snapped out of existence when someone says it's not real. It exist and they're there to prove it. You're just delusional in believing you're right and limiting yourself to an outdated and discriminatory pov.

  • @ms.jessadventures
    @ms.jessadventures ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I wish I could tell ppl how i want to be treated and what to say to me but instead I know that I'm in control of my feelings and nobody will change how I truly feel.

    • @piiinkDeluxe
      @piiinkDeluxe ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @HakunaMatatalol
      @HakunaMatatalol 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sure if that's how easy it is. But in reality WE CANT MAKE PEOPLE DO THINGS JUST BECAUSE WE WANTED TO BECAUSE THEY ARE THEIR OWN. If they can't accept the delusions of these people and their constant need of attention, well 🤷

    • @iluvvvice
      @iluvvvice 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i identify as a fish my pronouns are fish\fishself

  • @MayhemMcGhie
    @MayhemMcGhie ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Five things you should never tell anybody:
    1) what to do
    2) how to speak
    3) how to think
    4) what language to use
    5) how to conform
    Seriously, stop telling people what to do. It’s getting old, and this is literally the most annoying thing coming from the alphabet mafia.

    • @average-neco-arc-enjoyer
      @average-neco-arc-enjoyer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      So you're the only person that can tell others what to do then?

    • @AliceOseman_isagod
      @AliceOseman_isagod 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What is the alphabet Mafia ????

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmmmm... A little Hippocratical don't you think??
      Also, your wrong. Not for the "how to think' or " how to speak" or anything, just that you should let people be people. If they want you to say they/them, xem/xir, bee/beeself, just let them be. We are all valid.

    • @cicicave1279
      @cicicave1279 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@average-neco-arc-enjoyer Just so you know, they're literally not telling others what to do. They're simply stating facts.
      Ofc everyone is different, but I 100% believe that there is a huge psychological aspect as to why some are trans or non-binary. Everyone experiences insecurities from time to time and it's totally ok to be trans or non-binary, but there's much deeper insecurities from my perspectives within these individuals to the extent that some push it for their own self-acceptance due to have no or very limited self-acceptance for themselves.
      I'm aware not everyone who is trans or non-binary is That pushy with things like that, but there are plenty of others who attempt to make it into their whole identity/personality & that's why I believe there's a psychological aspect to it.

    • @average-neco-arc-enjoyer
      @average-neco-arc-enjoyer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cicicave1279 "they're literally not telling others what to do." they opened with "five things you should never tell anyone" and as such were telling us five things we should do. The first thing they told us to do in the recommendation was to "not tell anyone what to do" implying they are the only one who should have that ability because otherwise it would create a contradiction.

  • @Rotyoto
    @Rotyoto ปีที่แล้ว +11

    1 think you should never tell a normal sane person, "you should use the language I want you to use" how about that.

  • @Jackary1232
    @Jackary1232 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Its free speech. I can say whatever i want to anyone.

    • @Jackary1232
      @Jackary1232 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @just..the..cyllyz Indeed, we shouldn't be fearful of what you say, but due to our snowflake society we live in, we do fear what we say.

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Jackary1232well, it's actually, the consequences are just people lacking respect in you. So if you do have basic human decency, you probably will use the pronouns.
      When we say " oh, actually could you please use they/them?"
      We aren't forcing you. You could still use other pronouns. But just know, that is something that will make people not respect you either 😊

    • @Darren-c6x
      @Darren-c6x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Jackary1232exactly for saying one word that a 13year old don’t like u are banned off of everything

  • @GenieAndRay
    @GenieAndRay ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I don't know why these comments are so mean, so from one non binary person to another, you are: AMAZING, SLAY, PERFECT
    Just be you, don't listen to anyone else. Homophobes can go rot in their sad bubble. It's all about educating people about this stuff, and you're doing the right thing!

    • @Scar-jg4bn
      @Scar-jg4bn ปีที่แล้ว +25

      It's not homophobic to call out nonbinary nonsense. The very concept of nonbinary is homophobic and misogynistic.

    • @SkootletheSnek
      @SkootletheSnek ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ⁠@@Scar-jg4bn Feeling like neither a boy nor a girl is misogynistic???? AND homophobic? Non-Binary is a part of the LGBT itself! I think it’s safe to say, you’ve lost me there-

    • @black_boiler7978
      @black_boiler7978 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@SkootletheSnekthen what is a woman? if we can't even define a woman how are we supposed to talk about feninism?

    • @SkootletheSnek
      @SkootletheSnek ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@black_boiler7978 I’m not talking about feminism, I’m just saying how does feeling like a boy or a girl misogynistic? It was a genuine question-

    • @black_boiler7978
      @black_boiler7978 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@SkootletheSnek well it's misogynistic in a sense that sexism is still very much present in our world. From rape to being payed less women are still opressed in the world and we as a society have to battle it. And we do so with a movement that used to be called feminism (new feminism is just bs). And if we cannot even define what this movement represents or who it stands for it will cease

  • @TopGigaChad96
    @TopGigaChad96 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    This is what happens when you have to much time on your hands. Do something meaningful and you'll stop caring about what to make your identity.

    • @TopGigaChad96
      @TopGigaChad96 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @Gigi-ho2qk Some if not most people cannot think for themselves and rely on someone else to give them their opinions. So obviously they will do whatever the powers that be want them to do.

    • @shaynedmp2001
      @shaynedmp2001 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It seems to me like a person's identity is a really important thing, kinda the number 1 thing a person should figure out is who you are

    • @shaynedmp2001
      @shaynedmp2001 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @TopGigaChad96 so you're trying to say that a movement which promotes finding your own identity instead of sticking within the predetermined roles society has for you is people not thinking for themselves? Sounds pretty backwards to me

    • @JosephFerris-w6r
      @JosephFerris-w6r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im not nonbinary, but i am born male, and as I've gotten older, im starting to think that I possibly have gender dysphoria. I always passed it off as body image issues, but im realizing that theyre always due to my gender and how my body doesnt match how i feel. When i see my shadow or my picture/reflection from a far distance ive noticed i always thought of myself and saw myself as a woman, despite being male. But then I close the distance and see my masculine feautures, and it causes me distress that i dont look like one.
      It's not about having too much time on my hands. Yes, going out and doing things can distract me from my feelings, but ultimately, they're always there. Even when im doing things and keeping myself busy they can come up. And they're not always there when im alone and not doing anything.
      Dysphoria isnt necessarily constantly on my mind, but its always able to pop into my head. Like something happens, someone says something or i see myself and its a painful reminder that my body doenst match how I feel and see myself on the inside and its a horrible feeling that stresses me out.
      Whether I am home alone or I am busy doing things my dysphoria can trigger. It happens when i see my picture, reflection or shadow. It happens when I notice that im different than my female friends or that im not normal like my male friends. It happens when i shave and see my 5 o clock shadow. It happens everyday when i have to choose an outfit and I see my body hair, my broad shoulders, my lack of curves & my masculine face. And I cant dress the way I want because dressing like a women feels right to me, but I dont look like a women so if i did that id look like a clown and like a stereotypical faggot.
      And then all of that bleeds into the rest of my life and my confidence. I'm not confident because i dont feel right in the way I am, and everytime i try to exlpore with more feminine looks its obvious that im a man wearing womens clothes. I cant do things like swimming or team sports because its a painful reminder of my biological sex. A lot of people dont want to be friends with the weird faggot effeminate boy and all these things just hurt my confidence more and creates a negative feedback loop that traps me.
      Ultimately yes being busy can help distract me, but my dysphoria is always present and plays a huge role in what i can even do if the first place. I dont know if ill ever transition in my lifetime, id have to see if i can get better without it and also see therapist to see if there other solutions to my problems, but yeah. I care about my identity, because im consistently in distress from my biological sex and secondary sex characteristics that coexist with it, not fitting the way i feel and see myself. Its not because i have too much time on my hands.

  • @poppyfielding5349
    @poppyfielding5349 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I prefer to tell people what I want to say and not be told what to say. You speak your truth and let others speak theirs

    • @The12345gt
      @The12345gt ปีที่แล้ว

      There is no such thing as "your truth" there is only the truth and the truth is that non binary isn't a thing. These people desperately need a personality and some hobbies and maybe stay off of Twitter for awhile

    • @Strawberry-shortcake-luv
      @Strawberry-shortcake-luv ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mean I don't want to argue to much but if I called you by the opposite pronouns tell me. Would you be angry bc most of the population would be.

    • @poppyfielding5349
      @poppyfielding5349 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe I didnt articulate what I meant. I was talking about the fundamental right to freedom of speech, not just my right but yours also. If a person requested that I use specific pronoun during converstion then of course I would be respectful and do that. My belief is we must always embrase the right of everyone to freedom of speech it is not something that can be forced onto another.@@Strawberry-shortcake-luv

    • @HakunaMatatalol
      @HakunaMatatalol 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@poppyfielding5349to be referred as they/them, ferret/ferrets, goblin/goblins etc. as their preferred pronouns is such a sht show. You can't possibly be on your right mind. I get that y'all are not comfortable with your own body but many of us do too.

    • @xamtastic
      @xamtastic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Strawberry-shortcake-luvIdgaf what "pronouns" you use on me because it's nonsense. Biologically i'm a male and so i'm "he". If anyone, including me, says differently they're very delusional

  • @amandarickover3737
    @amandarickover3737 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Yall can't control how ppl react to you!!!!

    • @ScaryGirlLauren_
      @ScaryGirlLauren_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well we can at least try to get positive reactions instead of being sh!t on for an identity.

    • @Noob_froggy
      @Noob_froggy ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is why we communicate! Saying what you are and aren't comfortable with is how you communicate!

    • @dongiano
      @dongiano 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ScaryGirlLauren_why should you all at least get positive reactions? You're still people who, trans or not, can be pieces of sht and don't get to demand respect from anyone. Quit trying to convince people that these clips are about respect. They're about special treatment. Everyone, including you and them, knows it's true.
      You know who deserves respect? Workers. Hard workers. Oh, military soldiers. Present, responsible parents.
      Being trans doesn't make you entitled to ANYTHING. It's weird because when you look around, people are cordial and polite to each other, particularly in public. Yet trans activists go around verbally demanding to be treated special, and then cry victim of mistreatment when people don't like you.
      You guys need to find a new method to your madness because the trend of twans victimhood is making normal people sick of trans people.

    • @thomo2127
      @thomo2127 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@ScaryGirlLauren_I mean you kinda gotta realise not everyone is gonna respect you and go by what you want them to call you respect is earned the world doesn’t revolve around you being confused

  • @EliJoe207
    @EliJoe207 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So I think I might be non-binary, but I’m fine with a more feminine name. It’s just the she/her that throws me off

  • @BJMediaTransit8516
    @BJMediaTransit8516 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    You should also NOT be making assumptions of a non binary person’s gender, and you should definitely use the names and pronouns they ask you to use.

    • @mr.joshua204
      @mr.joshua204 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The people pretending they have no gender need to get a life

    • @timl1481
      @timl1481 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How about in an emergency evacuation situation, I bet you would want to be clearly identified if your life depended on it!

  • @adeleharvey8470
    @adeleharvey8470 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well lifes tough you can't always get what you want.and we all don't agree on life but we live it anyway

  • @ChrisFerrara-yi6cy
    @ChrisFerrara-yi6cy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so telling someone they’re perfect the way they are instead of resorting to surgery and hormones and anything else to change yourself instead of hating yourself and searching for something that you don’t even know it is, that’s wrong?? i don’t i heard this wrong and wanting people to change their use of the language isn’t selfish it’s narcissistic

    • @n1kogrindraws447
      @n1kogrindraws447 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's wrong because the nonbinary people with dysphoria will stay the nonbinary people with dysphoria. It doesn't go anywhere and the best solution is gender affirming care. They want to feel that other people are safe for them and accepting them whether they want to change their apperience or not. People also want to feel that their body is theirs and not others people to control and tell what to do

  • @jamesgoodman4457
    @jamesgoodman4457 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's attention seeking

    • @craig1538
      @craig1538 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely.

  • @noirr.3
    @noirr.3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    as a nonbinary person who is literally just scrolling down these comments in some form of desperate need to educate these people, i'm so sorry about them. live your life how you want, lynn! :D
    oh, and as for the people who may or may not come flocking in refusing to respect my and others identities, meh. you do you. you dont have to believe in us, but you could at least respect us?? it's not that hard to be a decent human being ngl
    (and one more thing. yall freaking out about us being so "sensitive" over being misgendered, and "overreacting")
    (lmao, would you not react similarly? calling someone by the wrong gender implies that you know they more than they know themselves. how would you react to being called a gender that you're not?)
    (see all those people using they/them to refer to someone who they don't know the genders of? that's because they don't want to piss people off. you might accidentally call someone a boy and they'll fire up at you saying that they're female. it might be their fault for not mentioning it, but it could also be your fault for assuming.)
    (i do not mean to target anybody, i'm just trying to educate yall. okay? thumbs up?)
    (yes, i know. it might be hard to assume or instantly expect to know what gender someone may be. which is why i'm asking that you don't assume.)
    (and to those who did and didn't read it, have a good day nonetheless!!

    • @liedetecter496
      @liedetecter496 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You made a whole nonsense of a sentence to make some bullshit up wow you deserve and oscar for that👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @macusaurelius1313
    @macusaurelius1313 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yeah, good luck with that.
    The one thing Non Binary should never tell Binary is, what you want us to believe.

    • @meiscoolbutmo
      @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If your brain was half as big as your mouth you would realize not everything is black and white

  • @SpinEnileC
    @SpinEnileC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    But those 1,2,3,4,5 are facts. You want us to lie?

    • @timl1481
      @timl1481 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please do not confuse opinions with so called 'facts'

    • @Darren-c6x
      @Darren-c6x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@timl1481 fr

  • @evanduquette
    @evanduquette ปีที่แล้ว +163

    The cat hair all over your sweater says everything.

    • @Ve5pine
      @Ve5pine ปีที่แล้ว

      It just says they have a pet idiot

    • @rasmuskock8077
      @rasmuskock8077 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      That they're a cat lover???

    • @evanduquette
      @evanduquette ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rasmuskock8077 "They." If you don't get it, you don't get it.

    • @rasmuskock8077
      @rasmuskock8077 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@evanduquette Just say you don't like cats and move on

    • @Dhnswh
      @Dhnswh ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They have a cat?

  • @hazey379
    @hazey379 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Having a list of things not to say to you is the one of most selfish and self centered thing I can think of…

  • @meiscoolbutmo
    @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You forgot "are you a boy or girl" that's a hurtful one

    • @SA20445
      @SA20445 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh no reality is "hurtful". Boohoo. 🤣 Buck up and deal with it.

    • @meiscoolbutmo
      @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your opinion is incorrect.@@SA20445

    • @xyredits320
      @xyredits320 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SA20445 calm down unc

  • @lindawardell4886
    @lindawardell4886 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I will talk to everyone the same as I always have.

  • @kagan1587
    @kagan1587 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm a little baffled, as I would have thought all of theses things would go under common sense, but considering my experience being trans... ya, this needs to be said.

    • @The12345gt
      @The12345gt ปีที่แล้ว

      Naaw the mentally ill wants everyone to bow to their delusions. We should of course carry this over to everyone. Yes those voices you hear are normal and beautiful, yes you should do what they tell you no questions asked. You live your truth baby
      Yes you are horrifically fat and ugly. Starving yourself is really the only option you have. Food is for the evil right wingers. You day queen you don't need no food.

  • @bobbyb7979
    @bobbyb7979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't care about your nonbinary rules. I care about facts.

  • @CosmicGardener
    @CosmicGardener 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    An example for everyone being annoying.
    I don't like being called Julie, It is not and has never been my name, yet everyone tries to call me that at first.
    Wouldn't you also be annoyed if every time someone referred to you or introduced you to others they got it wrong? As if they know your name better than you do?
    I know it's one letter off and it comes off as ridiculous to care and I'd rather not spark any issues by correcting anyone but its been like this msot of my life and I have reached a point where its not jsut classmates I won't see next year its co-workers and friends id like to know for a longer time and I'd rather they actually know my name.
    I would personally rather not, but it is still important to me. It's annoying for everyone involved. But being respected as a human being is worth the discomfort of speaking up for ourselves and correcting people when they shove us into a box we dont fit in. Even if it's as small as one word or letter being wrong.

  • @Moose745
    @Moose745 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Bruh, as soon as you start a conversation with "I'm non-binary", I'm pretty sure people will jump to the 6th point which is, just say nothing at all and cringe

  • @Charlotteurlocaltherian
    @Charlotteurlocaltherian 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Once at school a i think 6 year old asked if i was a boy, a person a grade older than me defended me and said “dont ever ask if a woman is a boy its very rude” that moment i was like “am I a demi girl ? Am i non binary?” So rn im struggling to figure out if im non binary or a demi girl.

  • @Bl00dy_teeth
    @Bl00dy_teeth ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I want surgery to look/be less female I am non binary and this is true.

    • @nerapavane7132
      @nerapavane7132 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl, get a grip! And see a psychiatrist (a real one)!

  • @Bleeoshzuan
    @Bleeoshzuan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Someone's subjective reality does not trump objective reality.
    Humans should be respectful.

    • @CD-221
      @CD-221 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The woman in the video is the one who is living in subjective imaginary reality. The objective reality is men and women are different biologically. There are men and women, and they are not transitional.

    • @n1kogrindraws447
      @n1kogrindraws447 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are just a bigot who don't want to educate themself and try to understand that sex and gender is a spectrum and in fact different it's a scientific fact.

  • @brittanycameron6036
    @brittanycameron6036 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We are all human. End of story

    • @Darren-c6x
      @Darren-c6x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fr

  • @oneCubanlove
    @oneCubanlove ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You will feel better when you grow up, we all been confused and felt uncomfortable when we were kids, I wish you well and please be strong

    • @oneCubanlove
      @oneCubanlove ปีที่แล้ว

      @@a-dk2en sure, whatever makes you happy to believe 😉

    • @n1kogrindraws447
      @n1kogrindraws447 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you understand that they are adult people?

  • @ilikepeanuts8131
    @ilikepeanuts8131 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    True being non-binary myself I agree

    • @adamkennedy7297
      @adamkennedy7297 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No your not stop lying

    • @Milk4EverToast
      @Milk4EverToast ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@adamkennedy7297dude has the audacity to tell someone else's identity, like bitch you lying.

  • @raphaxxX83
    @raphaxxX83 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    as a non-binary this is true

  • @clapperboard5543
    @clapperboard5543 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I have never seen an attractive they/them

    • @meiscoolbutmo
      @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Maybe that's why you are single

    • @clapperboard5543
      @clapperboard5543 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@meiscoolbutmo i am not a they/them so your joke only supports they/thems being unattractive lol

    • @ieatcaribou7852
      @ieatcaribou7852 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      and sadly you never will, lol.

    • @KidaleSmith
      @KidaleSmith 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I've never seen a set of they/them, and here I thought in the English language those words were plural 😅

    • @Allin1Xavi
      @Allin1Xavi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@meiscoolbutmoA sane person has enough sense to see pass through this nb bs so cry about it

  • @pommiebears
    @pommiebears ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Can I tell a non binary to get a pet hair tool for their sweatshirt? Or, is that off the list too? 😂

    • @GuysImautistic
      @GuysImautistic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Npc but make it cis

    • @RogueEnbi
      @RogueEnbi หลายเดือนก่อน

      It would be more polite to suggest the use of a lint roller (hair tool), but yes, you can tell that to anyone.

  • @izil1fe
    @izil1fe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First (and last) thing i will tell you:
    You are INSANE !

  • @xevazouloo2505
    @xevazouloo2505 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think you should not talk with this people at all.

  • @zz_starlette_zz-910
    @zz_starlette_zz-910 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And the your not two people 👹👹👹
    Like bro ik they/them can mean more than one person but it can mean one person 😭😭

  • @thewizardsinn
    @thewizardsinn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I'll tell non-binary people whatever the hell i please

    • @AveryKat4
      @AveryKat4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ok, tell me whatever the hell you want 😂

    • @regg1363
      @regg1363 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@AveryKat4u are not non-binary

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ur 8 years old ​@@regg1363

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cosmicmate lol yes there is.

    • @AveryKat4
      @AveryKat4 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@regg1363 he/him/his/they/them/theirs/xe/xem/xirs/it/its/itself ^^

  • @annboykin7446
    @annboykin7446 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I will tell you anything I want to

  • @M-M-EXTRA
    @M-M-EXTRA ปีที่แล้ว +25

    and you’re quite clearly a young woman!

    • @Dmmsmwmamanmmwmw
      @Dmmsmwmamanmmwmw ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No. That’s racist 😂

    • @kennethpalmer4734
      @kennethpalmer4734 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Dmmsmwmamanmmwmwlmfao😅

    • @dongiano
      @dongiano 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Dmmsmwmamanmmwmw😂

    • @ENTJ2323
      @ENTJ2323 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Dmmsmwmamanmmwmwracist?👽

  • @omarcardona9912
    @omarcardona9912 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thats a NO for me girl

  • @RinconOtaku
    @RinconOtaku 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So! We don’t talk or interactive with non binary

  • @StruggleEndure
    @StruggleEndure 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This woman is confused

  • @danielcoronado1757
    @danielcoronado1757 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    I'm on a mission to find a non binary person. And tell them all five.😂

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ?

    • @dontleavemeplease
      @dontleavemeplease 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      As a nonbinary person,this is offensive.

    • @dontleavemeplease
      @dontleavemeplease 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@kevinturner9549 as nonbinary,I'm reporting you for breaking the community guidelines.

    • @kevinturner9549
      @kevinturner9549 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Red_Quartz Honest. It's a subjective feeling, we don't have to play along.

    • @kevinturner9549
      @kevinturner9549 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dontleavemeplease Doesn't change what I've said.

  • @19dwi89
    @19dwi89 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    These kinda people most of escaped the circus

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ah yes, non-binary people are from the circus hmm????
      I guess I gotta go find all my friends and go to a circus...
      Too bad. I know quite a few non-binary people, and as it turns out, nom of them are from the circus!!! Neither am I... You should fact check before posting stuff on the internet sweetie😊

    • @kevinturner9549
      @kevinturner9549 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@NothanxbuttyyyNon-binary isn't real.

  • @Thatonebeekeepervr
    @Thatonebeekeepervr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just decided I’m nonbinary today and I can already relate.

  • @Leon--Kennedy
    @Leon--Kennedy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Narcissism at its finest

  • @roguetrooper5288
    @roguetrooper5288 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    No such thing as non binary.

    • @Ireland_needs_monies
      @Ireland_needs_monies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Agreed

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol okay sure Ur both probably 9 years old and saw this from other comments and thought " those got alot of likes!! I wanna get slot of likes!!"
      So sure honey 😂

    • @craig1538
      @craig1538 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      True. These people are attention seekers.

    • @Nothanxbuttyyy
      @Nothanxbuttyyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No, they are. They are very much real.

    • @AshleyChurchill-zs9mi
      @AshleyChurchill-zs9mi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯

  • @jasperhollow664
    @jasperhollow664 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    6th thing: I stole your toaster.
    The nbs need to provide the aro/aces with garlic bread.

  • @OnsWereldSuiderland
    @OnsWereldSuiderland ปีที่แล้ว +10

    There's only Heterosexual, A Sexual, Bisexual and Homosexual.
    Everything else is just drama. Its sad actually that you have such a need to be seen that you have to invent new characterizations just so you can stand out from those around you.
    Drama, Sad Drama to be sure, but Drama none the less.
    None of that was meant in a nasty way, I really do wish you well.

    • @qomm8071
      @qomm8071 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would agree with some of that.

    • @lucidrubix3627
      @lucidrubix3627 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You expect the entire world’s population to fit into those four categories?? People who don’t fit into those boxes are valid. They have a right to a more accurate and comfortable label for themselves. Don’t be so close-minded.

    • @lerapol
      @lerapol ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lucidrubix3627 Well, if you'd mind explaining maybe what other terms there'd need be to explain any other type of experience of sexuality that isn't already covered by all those other terms?

    • @Allin1Xavi
      @Allin1Xavi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lucidrubix3627But it’s never enough with them cause all they doing is adding more boxes and labels. If the education system gonna require a goddang bible of pronouns to memorize in the future, I wouldn’t even be surprised. What’s the limit to these so-called boxes? 100? 500? 1000?

  • @edd2184
    @edd2184 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey it's your money do whatever the hell you want to do with it. When it comes to your body. Pierce it, dye it, tattoo it, and modify it.
    Also have the emotional maturity to stand on your own two feet, and not have the need for society's constant social approval...
    When you do s*** like this what you're saying is "I don't really believe in my existence, but if you do"

  • @o0ajeeb0o
    @o0ajeeb0o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have one question
    - How non binary look like ?

    • @naughtyducky6325
      @naughtyducky6325 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Big glasses, short fringe, 99% of the time female, piercings, wears dunderrees, often has mullet.

    • @amermaidwithinternetaccess1627
      @amermaidwithinternetaccess1627 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@naughtyducky6325 add to that dyed hair, cut up wrists, dead and souless eyes, either overweight or skinny and limp from lack of excercise, very pale, and always white. Also no fashion sense whatsoever.

    • @Alex_Fierro2772
      @Alex_Fierro2772 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@naughtyducky6325Oh look! A stereotype! Oh wow how amazing! You done you dry ass nugget?

  • @steelewearinc6140
    @steelewearinc6140 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I identify is an honest person so you will be called what I honestly want to call you. And that’s not words you make up.

    • @RichTheFlop
      @RichTheFlop ปีที่แล้ว +2

      not using someone's preferred pronouns is not "honesty" its disrespect.

    • @Jcon4002
      @Jcon4002 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@RichTheFlop Forcing delusional thinking on others isn't respect, you're a male or a female a he or a she.Nobody was identifying as non binary or calling themslves they/them before the 2010s it's a trend popularized by social media

  • @mattnickle
    @mattnickle ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What is non binary and what should I call you?

    • @yazmat96
      @yazmat96 ปีที่แล้ว

      Train

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'll assume you're being sincere, as I've only known about this stuff for a few years now. Though most people are born male or female, some are "neither" or "both." When this shows as physical differences, the person is intersex. When it's in the soul, the person is non-binary. Dude, bean, and they/them are okay things to call people. For example, Lynn Saga is a good bean.

    • @HotDogTimeMachine385
      @HotDogTimeMachine385 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nonbinary is when you don't really like being called neither man nor woman.
      Lynn goes by they/them pronouns.
      Did you know that they/them is one of the oldest pronouns and has been used for single people longer than plural people.

    • @itzTeTe
      @itzTeTe ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Non binary people are people who do not see themselves as male or female representing, OR they see themselves as BOTH male and female, With non binary people they do not conform to gender norms, they just want to be seen as themselves and don’t want to be defined or restricted by gender and gender norms. There is honestly a lot of freedom with living like this and there are people with a more conservative view who don’t like that, don’t understand this or don’t want to because it is different from what they know as normal, personally I do not see myself as non binary BUT I understand the societal pressures of being a woman or man and wanting to step away from that. Not being defined by what is between your legs or what is on your chest opens doors for people to know them as an actual person hope I explained this well ❤️

    • @rikubrown8109
      @rikubrown8109 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@missnaomi613 "intersex" you mean hermaphrodite?

  • @sherrylakesidedesignssherr2876
    @sherrylakesidedesignssherr2876 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Changing pronouns is just ridiculous. If you want to be anything other than what you are, do it. But don't expect people to "know" what to call you. You may feel in the middle of both genders, which is fine. You do you. If you have the anatomy and look of a woman, people will automatically call you her. It's just common sense.

    • @MiFFiL
      @MiFFiL ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The point is when you know they are non-binary. When you know try and make an effort to call them what they are. It's okay to forget, I do it all the time. But when you are making an effort to respect their pronouns and them as a human. My cousin's partner kept correcting my family and was getting upset because it's been like 3 years since they came out and they were still not really understanding.

    • @Milk4EverToast
      @Milk4EverToast ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's why you:
      1, wear a pronoun pin
      2, correct them

    • @mattmay4112
      @mattmay4112 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MiFFiL they’re not understanding because it’s a bunch of made up thinking with no logical basis or bounds. It’s literally playing pretend but they don’t believe it’s pretend. That’s mental illness

    • @Noob_froggy
      @Noob_froggy ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is the point of sharing your pronouns. People can't read minds and know exactly what you want, this is why you communicate things. Such as pronouns, gender, likes and dislikes, favorite foods, and any info!

    • @himwhoisnottobenamed5427
      @himwhoisnottobenamed5427 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Noob_froggy Except nobody insists that others share their likes/dislikes, the way she’s insisting that we call her “they.”

  • @Arte.DeLeon
    @Arte.DeLeon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Any advice for when your partner says that you’re selfish for wanting him to use they/them pronouns? Even after explaining that it doesn’t change our relationship, doesn’t change HIS sexuality, sex and gender are different, and even before we were dating I was using they/them/she/her and I just want to only use they/them from now on?

  • @jasonmanley6981
    @jasonmanley6981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bruh never trust anyone who leaves their windows task bar lookin like that

  • @FvckruSSia-c6m
    @FvckruSSia-c6m ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can identify as a woman to enjoy all priviledges. Thank you woke people.

  • @urrobloxgf
    @urrobloxgf ปีที่แล้ว +6

    these comments kill me 💀💀💀

  • @heatherhammerquist6239
    @heatherhammerquist6239 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Unless you have multiple personality disorder I will not use they/them, which is a third person plural pronoun in the first person singular. The neutral first person pronoun is IT.

    • @amess3921
      @amess3921 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Singular "they" pre-dates singular "you." It literally takes a single google search

  • @dochics1053
    @dochics1053 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I painted my toe nails just 1 pinky cause people bad looks

  • @davidpar2
    @davidpar2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Not your decision to make, honey. Not that I would ever say any of these pre-conceived things, I’d just tell you to grow up, but your desire to live a life of make-believe and the fact that these things you don’t want people to say are “uncomfortable” to you are _your_ problem, not any one else’s.

  • @MrLuddis
    @MrLuddis ปีที่แล้ว +8

    you should never tell a person what they should never tell anyone.

  • @caseyhowland7291
    @caseyhowland7291 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Step one avoid them at all costs

    • @meiscoolbutmo
      @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Step two realize that you screwed up and are stuck in the stone age

    • @Alex_Fierro2772
      @Alex_Fierro2772 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey I mean then we don't have to deal with you and your mindset you must have found in a museum for how outdated it is!

    • @AzariahMarinaStarcaster
      @AzariahMarinaStarcaster 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sure. We don't want to talk to you anyway. 😂

  • @lordronn472
    @lordronn472 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a delusion

  • @daniellecoulter1879
    @daniellecoulter1879 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Get a job.

  • @randytidmore8021
    @randytidmore8021 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Number one there's no such thing as a non binary person

    • @Mixtape_Fish
      @Mixtape_Fish 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      As a non-binary person I can confirm that I don't exist

    • @randytidmore8021
      @randytidmore8021 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mixtape_Fish You are delusional

    • @Catty779
      @Catty779 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is rare, a non binary person who is not offended by everything 📸 👨🏻‍🔬

    • @randytidmore8021
      @randytidmore8021 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mixtape_Fish No your delusional

    • @Mixtape_Fish
      @Mixtape_Fish 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My ✨non-existant magic✨

  • @PrincevincentiusEL
    @PrincevincentiusEL ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Lint roller for that cat hair please 😢

  • @DBoy176
    @DBoy176 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You don’t look non binary

  • @DeToxik
    @DeToxik 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What?
    There's objectively no such thing

  • @pennsylvaniamedicalcannabi1607
    @pennsylvaniamedicalcannabi1607 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well I guess you should actually tell them to look around a little bit more because anybody who has changed their gender really doesn't seem to be happy with it a year or so later

    • @meiscoolbutmo
      @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      By "anybody" do you mean 1%

  • @newtothehobby5686
    @newtothehobby5686 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I thought binary was ones and zero's on my PC, XX Chromosome is female XY is male, I dress like a man but I'm a woman, it doesn't mean I'm a man. I'm so confused, what's even more confusing is wtf she is talking about, I need therapy after watching this video. If I dress like a bumblebee and say I'm a bumblebee it doesn't actually make me one. My opinion is my right, your opinion is your right but it doesn't mean you are right

    • @TopGigaChad96
      @TopGigaChad96 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Somebody had to say it.

    • @CD-221
      @CD-221 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are simply a female. The way you dress and style yourself is irrelevant.
      These people are under a strong delusion by the little g god of this world.

  • @pwit5367
    @pwit5367 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m assuming she’s a cat girl

    • @meiscoolbutmo
      @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are nonbinary

  • @axelbruv
    @axelbruv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She has a point.

  • @robertomendez187
    @robertomendez187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nope. No. You can’t control others speech. PERIOD. IT’S CALLED THE FREEDOM OF SPEECH

  • @FemFantastic2.0
    @FemFantastic2.0 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Don’t tell them hello at all. Please ignore desperate people.

  • @dennisapplegate7553
    @dennisapplegate7553 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Number 6 your crazy.

    • @meiscoolbutmo
      @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Number 7 you ignored the lesson in first grade where they taught you about growth mindset

  • @BishWithAKnife
    @BishWithAKnife ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What are things you should never tell a Bi-Pan person?

    • @itzTeTe
      @itzTeTe ปีที่แล้ว +6

      “You have to pick a side” 😐 like I don’t get that… I can’t love everyone?

    • @nerapavane7132
      @nerapavane7132 ปีที่แล้ว

      Words?

    • @BishWithAKnife
      @BishWithAKnife ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nerapavane7132 I’m serious..

    • @BishWithAKnife
      @BishWithAKnife ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itzTeTe I agree. A LOT.

    • @nerapavane7132
      @nerapavane7132 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BishWithAKnife So am I, use normal language. This madnes will subside at some point.

  • @littledinosaur4040
    @littledinosaur4040 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is 5 things you should say.

    • @meiscoolbutmo
      @meiscoolbutmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dinosaurs are extinct

  • @KL-zg7lu
    @KL-zg7lu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You wouldn't assume a baby's gender: I've used they/them for a long time.
    I require a balance of hormones, such as a depo-provera shot. Not anyone's business what I need to take to feel my best.
    I've also taken low dose testosterone once in a while.

    • @cosygoose1813
      @cosygoose1813 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You do realise that isn't how hormones work, right? You don't just take them.