I have been disabled since I was 50, wearing basically sweatpants for 10 years. I have been slowly building a wardrobe. I actually had something nice to wear out to a hockey game. Married 33 years. Thank you!🥰
This was so fun! You could continue this as a series! Haha various date outfits 😃 or date with two besties, first time you meet the family, Etc 🤷🏼♀️☺️
I love this date night look video so much! As someone who believes “Mama’s still got it” and is ready to get back out there, I need a little help with making sure I don’t look like I am trying too hard, but being classy & intentional with my wiser, sexier self! 😉 I’ll second a previous commenter with requesting this be a series. Thank you Erin!!!
Love this video Erin.....I have been married for 37 years, and it is still lovely to dress up for date night, thank you so much for sharing these looks with us, you have excellent taste in clothing, take care girl 💖
Love the suggested date-night outfits. I think men love when women wear red or pink and I like the idea of wearing red or pink near the face (instead of black) since they are softer/brighter colors for your complexion.
Thank you, Chris! I wear a lot of black because that is how I feel most confident. Red and pink are great if those are the colors that make you shine! xo
I was a single Mom for 30 yrs before I decided to date again at 55. I remember the outfit I wore to meet my now Mr for 2.5 yrs now. Skinny jeans, sandals great top that had some cut outs without being to sexy. I will say the best item one can sport that beats everything hands down is CONFIDENCE!
Oh this is perfect! I am dating again and that first look is perfection! It's sexy but it's also smart...it just screams strength! Look #2 shows just how beautiful you are. OMG. Your figure is perfection and this outfit is so rock-n-roll....and even without the boots, it would be a knockout. The high-rise jeans with that belt just scream high fashion...you have it together. That is my favorite and what I want to wear. Look number #3 is the only one that missed the mark for me.The cut of the top for me in your sleeved arm was undefined and ruined the look for me. I think date night can have color also. I love your talent to create crisp lines and curves. Thank you so much for this Busbee xxoo Susan
For anyone interested WHBM is having a sale. The black coated skinny jeans were sold out but I ordered some very dark blue ones for $39.99. Loved the video Erin! I’ll be getting back in the dating world soon after having a very long term relationship. I loved all the looks and they are fantastic suggestions.
Great video. I’d love to see a video where you introduce us to your team. I know you refer to “we” often, and I think it would be cool to know who’s who. Thanks! ❤️
I am married, but still found the video very inspirational. I will surely get an inspiration from your video when I next go for our date with my husband thank you🙏🌹♥️
Great advice Erin! I once had a date with a guy I met through an online dating site who actually printed off my profile, brought it with him and proceeded to “interview” me. Needless to say we never got past look #1 🤣🤣
I love those looks! And what I love the most is that even though they are tailored towards those who might be starting dating again, all the looks are full of tips that we all can use! ♥️
Thank you...Just be yourself...At 66, you know what you want from life and what kind of person you want to spend that time with. Just have fun meeting new people. xo
What fun. I will be celebrating my 59th anniversary this summer...ideas??? I cannot wear a shoe or boot higher than 2"......suggestions? Please make this a series by the season or occasion. Enjoyed.
Hi Erin !! Great looks !! You can never go wrong with black for date night !!! Love the number 3 too !! Wish it would go on sale !! I will keep my eye on it hugs and TFS ❤️xoxo
I'm not back in the game but I'm always looking to impress the man I've loved for over 30 years. We've been making more of an effort to break away from the hum drum everyday routine and have special date nights so I appreciate the inspiration!! Thanks Erin...this is great for us old established couples too. XO
Erin...thanks! I'm "back in the game" after many years and this is perfect timing. It's interesting how times have changed. I remember getting advice years ago to never wear a blazer (to corporate) and stick with dresses. What I realize now, it's about confidence and feeling amazing in whatever you're wearing. I can't wait to try out some of these outfits!
I really like all of the looks but must admit that I would not have worn any on a date unless it was the first date at a coffee house, a casual bar or restaurant during the day. The second or third date was usually dinner at a nice restaurant (jacket required for the man) and I do not think that any of the looks would be appropriate for that kind of date. I am wondering if very nice restaurants in some cities are just more casual today??
I live in a very casual town where most restaurants, even the nicest ones are more casual. This has also been my experience in most cities where I have spent time. If you live in a place where the restaurants are more formal you will have to adjust accordingly.
Hi Erin all these looks are gorgeous!!! Not in the game, but still definitely trying these looks. Also, can you link the plaid blouse you’re wearing, the one linked is different (love the slight puff sleeve on the one you have on) ❤️
I love look #1. Pretty much my standard outfit (minus the dickie. I don't have a blazer with a dickie). You have changed my life with the high rise jeans recommendation. I can't believe the difference it makes. Thank you. xo
Very cute outfits! I’m not ready to get back in the game just yet, but you never know. Would you do us flats-only peeps a favor & do a video on flats and lower heels?
Great ideas, Erin. I'm dating someone after years and the examples you have to us are very useful! What about a video for day dates like a picnic, going to a museum or just a nice Sunday breakfast?
Nice video. The looks are beautiful on YOU. I can still wear skinny jeans and cool tops without those back breaking stiletto heels. Some of us have to wear flats or Chelsea boots or even orthotics and can still look amazing. “Getting out there” is possible with cute flats, great stylish loafers , or mid heel pumps. Thanks for your great videos 👍🏽
Requesting how to dress with the long sleeveless open vests. I still see them in stores and hope they are fashionable. Also I am in my 50’s and hiding the extra weight in my mid section but live in a warm climate.
If you are using a long vest as a third layer make sure that the layer underneath is not too big. You want to show your shape a bit and use the vest to conceal any problem areas. xo
Good idea for a video but it feels super specific to your body shape/look. I’d suggest you do something broader, looking at women with different body shapes with suggestions of what would work for them
Hi Erin nice date night outfits my favorite is the first look and the entire outfit looks so gorgeous like the camisole as well it gives it that feminine look and the black pumps always a winner with any outfits. Love the video like the setting as well and fabulous love xo
Hey Erin why don't you do a date look based on occasion, I don't know museum, cinema, sports, day lunches, going partying with other couples, etc. Also I would love a lady to look like a lady, wear a flirty dress or two. :) Cheers!
You look so unreal beautiful in your video! You’re just amazing and I love to watch you there. But Erin, this has nothing to do with my my reality. F.e. most the of women in “our age” cannot show their arms, we haven’t slim legs or a slim waist. With your video we don’t feel like these looks are something we can apply in our lives. Erin, you’re not only a beautiful, intelligent, funny and diligent woman (and I’m pretty sure you’re even much more than this). But when you give advices to women that “still have it”, let us an opportunity to feel it too!
Thank you, Pilar. I have subscribers of all shapes, sizes, and ages. All I can do is show you what I would wear for specific occasions. It is up to the individual watching to adjust each look to fit their specific body and needs.
@@BusbeeStyle Yes, I can speak as someone who met their husband at age 60 and managed to dress sexy and classy enough, on our first date, to keep him very interested! That was almost 14 years ago, and the styles were different, but I managed to put together an outfit that was very on trend and one that he always remembers!
Thank you! You can substitute any skinny jean that works for your body. The Dickey Blazer does come in sizes up to 24. Here is a link: rstyle.me/+ox2_T64YE6rAmSWRk-shOQ
This is so helpful! In one of your previous videos I saw the coated jeans in petite- I ended getting the same ones on Postmark- new with tags- for $25!! It was meant to be ❤️ love them- thanks for the recommendation! Hope you feel better soon!
HI Erin - such a fun video - found myself giggling with you! While not on the market, definitely like dressing for date nights with my hubs. Great ideas. Look two - aka hot mama - is my favourite.
I didn’t want to sound nosy but I recently noticed you not wearing a ring. That’s kind of what clues me in, if it’s suddenly gone. I’m sorry to hear this happened, but I went through it too. Who wouldn’t want to date a hottie like you 😄
Looks like these outfits still apply in 2023. What do you think? How about for pushing 60 but people think I am 35-40, haha! No joke. Seriously though, my confidence is so low; my attire could lift me. I wear 4" chunkier or block heels with platforms, not sure if I can handle stilettos.
I have been disabled since I was 50, wearing basically sweatpants for 10 years. I have been slowly building a wardrobe. I actually had something nice to wear out to a hockey game. Married 33 years. Thank you!🥰
Love this! Even for those of us who have been married awhile... we need ideas!
Yes!! Like me!!
This was so fun! You could continue this as a series! Haha various date outfits 😃 or date with two besties, first time you meet the family, Etc 🤷🏼♀️☺️
Oh, that’s fun!!
I love this date night look video so much! As someone who believes “Mama’s still got it” and is ready to get back out there, I need a little help with making sure I don’t look like I am trying too hard, but being classy & intentional with my wiser, sexier self! 😉 I’ll second a previous commenter with requesting this be a series. Thank you Erin!!!
Thank you! Now just need the date!
Cheryl Carl my exact thought!🥴
Love this video Erin.....I have been married for 37 years, and it is still lovely to dress up for date night, thank you so much for sharing these looks with us, you have excellent taste in clothing, take care girl 💖
Thank you! I love to dress up for my husband as well! xo
Excellent tip: you smile is the BEST accessory.
That's what I'm talking about 🥰 Those were great outfits. Just because we're over 40, doesn't mean we start wearing moomoos.👵🏾👵🏿👵🏽
Exactly! xo
😂 no moomoos
Thank you for this great content! I’ll be 43 and re-entering the dating scene this summer! 💞💓💕
I'm so glad that you found this helpful! xo
Love the suggested date-night outfits. I think men love when women wear red or pink and I like the idea of wearing red or pink near the face (instead of black) since they are softer/brighter colors for your complexion.
Thank you, Chris! I wear a lot of black because that is how I feel most confident. Red and pink are great if those are the colors that make you shine! xo
Love your channel even more..faux leather.compassion for animals.
You revamped my style..went from frumpy to compliments!
Thank you!!.
I was a single Mom for 30 yrs before I decided to date again at 55. I remember the outfit I wore to meet my now Mr for 2.5 yrs now. Skinny jeans, sandals great top that had some cut outs without being to sexy. I will say the best item one can sport that beats everything hands down is CONFIDENCE!
Confidence is everything! xo
No dresses?I kinda think that guys like to see a woman in a dress, especially a red dress.
Actually am a tomboy and am trying to find a video that actually fits my style this video is the one for me
Enjoyed it so much seriously 😘 can you continue the series please and do what to wear when meeting the parents and family ❤️
Oh this is perfect! I am dating again and that first look is perfection! It's sexy but it's also smart...it just screams strength! Look #2 shows just how beautiful you are. OMG. Your figure is perfection and this outfit is so rock-n-roll....and even without the boots, it would be a knockout. The high-rise jeans with that belt just scream high fashion...you have it together. That is my favorite and what I want to wear. Look number #3 is the only one that missed the mark for me.The cut of the top for me in your sleeved arm was undefined and ruined the look for me. I think date night can have color also. I love your talent to create crisp lines and curves. Thank you so much for this Busbee xxoo Susan
Thank you! I love the top in the third look, but I understand that it's not for everyone. xo
For anyone interested WHBM is having a sale. The black coated skinny jeans were sold out but I ordered some very dark blue ones for $39.99. Loved the video Erin! I’ll be getting back in the dating world soon after having a very long term relationship. I loved all the looks and they are fantastic suggestions.
FABULOUS TOPIC!!! Please do more of this topic!!
Okay! Thanks...
I LOVE this video idea! Such good options that we can all use - whether we’re dating or just going out with Hubby.
Thank you, Dania! xo
It would be helpful if you would show looks with alternate shoes...high heels vs booties, etc.
I love all the looks with some moderate changes in shoe wear I would wear them everyday and look amazing 💋
Thank you, Kianna! xo
Great video. I’d love to see a video where you introduce us to your team. I know you refer to “we” often, and I think it would be cool to know who’s who. Thanks! ❤️
Great suggestion! Thank you! xo
I am married, but still found the video very inspirational. I will surely get an inspiration from your video when I next go for our date with my husband thank you🙏🌹♥️
Great advice Erin! I once had a date with a guy I met through an online dating site who actually printed off my profile, brought it with him and proceeded to “interview” me. Needless to say we never got past look #1 🤣🤣
Good Lord!!!
Oh dear!! 😅😅
OMG! That is a bit crazy. xo
Marjorie Chisholm-Larouche omg are you serious wow 🤣🤣
Yes its really creepy what you hear about online dating
Outfit #2 makes me happy! I would definitely wear that. Absolutely LOVE the top!!
Thank you, Robin! xo
I love those looks! And what I love the most is that even though they are tailored towards those who might be starting dating again, all the looks are full of tips that we all can use! ♥️
Yes! Tailored for those back in the game after a long break, but they work for anyone who goes on dates!
Thank you erin....every Wednesday and Sunday i look forward to your videos
Thank you, Fatima! You are so kind! xo
love the coated denim look
Thank you! xo
here I am back in the dating scene... thank you I am going for the look
You got this, Sharon! Hope the tips were helpful! xo
Love the 3 day approach. Also love the balance of the leather sheen and solid.
Thank you, Shawn! xo
Thank you for these helpful and well thought out tips ⭐️ I can use these for party outfits.
Thank you, Wendy! You sure can! xo
I just love all your videos. What advice can you offer to a 66year young woman back in the dating scene?
Thank you...Just be yourself...At 66, you know what you want from life and what kind of person you want to spend that time with. Just have fun meeting new people. xo
What fun. I will be celebrating my 59th anniversary this summer...ideas??? I cannot wear a shoe or boot higher than 2"......suggestions? Please make this a series by the season or occasion.
Enjoyed.
Hi Erin !! Great looks !! You can never go wrong with black for date night !!! Love the number 3 too !! Wish it would go on sale !! I will keep my eye on it hugs and TFS ❤️xoxo
Thank you! That is a great top...one of my favorites! xo
Great video Erin, loved each look, you are so beautiful!
Thank you, Mariann! xo
Refreshing, love this video, it must be nerve wrecking dating over 45 and up 🤦🏻♀️you all are brave. You can also choose to have fun with it!
Any woman wearing a tight pair of dungarees is a head turner thats a no brainer.
I'm not back in the game but I'm always looking to impress the man I've loved for over 30 years. We've been making more of an effort to break away from the hum drum everyday routine and have special date nights so I appreciate the inspiration!! Thanks Erin...this is great for us old established couples too. XO
You are so right! It is important for us to dress to impress our life partners as well. xo
Great ideas! Loved all these looks.
Thank you, Dianne! xo
Erin...thanks! I'm "back in the game" after many years and this is perfect timing. It's interesting how times have changed. I remember getting advice years ago to never wear a blazer (to corporate) and stick with dresses. What I realize now, it's about confidence and feeling amazing in whatever you're wearing. I can't wait to try out some of these outfits!
That's great! I'm so glad that you found this helpful! Go out there with confidence! xo
4:08 That black top is gorgeous! Love it
Thank you, Karina! xo
I love all three outfits. specially three
Thank you! xo
“Mommas still got it!”😂
Thanks for the helpful hints!
I'm so glad! xo
Thank you so much!
Always love your videos. Thx Erin
Thank you, Becca! xo
That extra highrise looks so good on you.
Thank you, Debbie! xo
Only on Short people...
I really like all of the looks but must admit that I would not have worn any on a date unless it was the first date at a coffee house, a casual bar or restaurant during the day. The second or third date was usually dinner at a nice restaurant (jacket required for the man) and I do not think that any of the looks would be appropriate for that kind of date. I am wondering if very nice restaurants in some cities are just more casual today??
I live in a very casual town where most restaurants, even the nicest ones are more casual. This has also been my experience in most cities where I have spent time. If you live in a place where the restaurants are more formal you will have to adjust accordingly.
Just in time 🤗😊
I'm so glad, Edith! xo
Need more of this, but for hot weather climates. Thank you!!
Love outfit 2 ..awesome look
Thank you, Angie! xo
Great outfits! You look beautiful 💐 your glowing. 👌😊
Thank you so much, Alesha! xo
Thanks for sharing this.
Hi Erin all these looks are gorgeous!!!
Not in the game, but still definitely trying these looks.
Also, can you link the plaid blouse you’re wearing, the one linked is different (love the slight puff sleeve on the one you have on) ❤️
Here you go! rstyle.me/cz-n/d2z9um58an
I love look #1. Pretty much my standard outfit (minus the dickie. I don't have a blazer with a dickie). You have changed my life with the high rise jeans recommendation. I can't believe the difference it makes. Thank you. xo
Thank you, Diane! xo
Very cute outfits! I’m not ready to get back in the game just yet, but you never know.
Would you do us flats-only peeps a favor & do a video on flats and lower heels?
Thank you! I did this video featuring all flats: th-cam.com/video/zyXr27d6Hu0/w-d-xo.html
Love this so much thx
Great ideas, Erin. I'm dating someone after years and the examples you have to us are very useful! What about a video for day dates like a picnic, going to a museum or just a nice Sunday breakfast?
Thank you, Miri! That's great! Great idea! xo
Nice video. The looks are beautiful on YOU. I can still wear skinny jeans and cool tops without those back breaking stiletto heels. Some of us have to wear flats or Chelsea boots or even orthotics and can still look amazing. “Getting out there” is possible with cute flats, great stylish loafers , or mid heel pumps. Thanks for your great videos 👍🏽
Love this! Can you do one with color and not neutrals?
Thank you! xo
Ohhh this video is just in time! Thank you 🤗🌻
I'm so glad! xo
Thank you
I am no longer a busy mom but a busy lawyer! I do have the cheetah skirt but not in satin..any ideas for the top?
What handbag was that? I think it was the same for all three. Also, these looks are great for dates with spouses, too!
Krista Harris 👋🏼 it’s the Chanel Boy bag. She did a video recently talking about it. Hope you have a nice day 🤗. From, Kristina
Chanel boy bag: rstyle.me/+Y-eKzAPFuxdIB0Fj8wEGpQ
Question. Are the high waisted jeans the best to show curves?
I believe so! xo
Requesting how to dress with the long sleeveless open vests. I still see them in stores and hope they are fashionable. Also I am in my 50’s and hiding the extra weight in my mid section but live in a warm climate.
If you are using a long vest as a third layer make sure that the layer underneath is not too big. You want to show your shape a bit and use the vest to conceal any problem areas. xo
These are lovely outfits, but even the cost less items are pricey. But good examples of what you could wear, thank you!
Don't feel like you need these exact pieces...try and recreate the looks with clothes that you already have! I bet you can do it! xo
Good idea for a video but it feels super specific to your body shape/look. I’d suggest you do something broader, looking at women with different body shapes with suggestions of what would work for them
Glad you enjoyed this one! I do have a body shape playlist that you might like: th-cam.com/play/PL6xMaBj8Zyg_HmEOvouHi4LZAqczgb5aL.html
Hi Erin: I ordered the Bailey 44 jacket off your link and I just love it! Very cozy and soft and the fit is fabulous! Thanks for the suggestion!
That's fabulous! Thank you so much for sharing! xo
Loved This Video Erin!! Your Style is Soooo Classy!! Love Your Channel!! Thank You Soo Much For a Fantastic Video!! xox
Thank you, Jackie! xo
Hi Erin nice date night outfits my favorite is the first look and the entire outfit looks so gorgeous like the camisole as well it gives it that feminine look and the black pumps always a winner with any outfits. Love the video like the setting as well and fabulous love xo
Thank you!!!
Loved this video! Would love to see more.
Thank you, Elizabeth! xo
Just wondering why you didn't show a dress or skirt outfit?
These are the outfits/looks that I would wear on a date. A dress would be lovely if that is your preference. xo
Thank you for your advice Erin...👏
Thank you, Esther! xo
You look gorgeous and those mountain views!!
Thank you, Jacqui! xo
Love the sunglasses in look 2 and 3 but it does not look like the same ones in the link. Please advise. Thanks.
Thank you, Suzette! Mine are an old pair that are not available. I linked something similar. xo
I asked for this months ago . Yay ! It's hard not to look like trying to hard ! And especially for first date when first meeting someone from online
Thank you! I'm so glad that you found this helpful! xo
Hey Erin why don't you do a date look based on occasion, I don't know museum, cinema, sports, day lunches, going partying with other couples, etc. Also I would love a lady to look like a lady, wear a flirty dress or two. :) Cheers!
You look so unreal beautiful in your video! You’re just amazing and I love to watch you there. But Erin, this has nothing to do with my my reality. F.e. most the of women in “our age” cannot show their arms, we haven’t slim legs or a slim waist. With your video we don’t feel like these looks are something we can apply in our lives.
Erin, you’re not only a beautiful, intelligent, funny and diligent woman (and I’m pretty sure you’re even much more than this). But when you give advices to women that “still have it”, let us an opportunity to feel it too!
I get you!
Thank you, Pilar. I have subscribers of all shapes, sizes, and ages. All I can do is show you what I would wear for specific occasions. It is up to the individual watching to adjust each look to fit their specific body and needs.
@@BusbeeStyle Yes, I can speak as someone who met their husband at age 60 and managed to dress sexy and classy enough, on our first date, to keep him very interested! That was almost 14 years ago, and the styles were different, but I managed to put together an outfit that was very on trend and one that he always remembers!
Date 2's boots brings me great joy! 😊💖 . . . Do any of the items come in plus size or are there dupes?
Thank you! You can substitute any skinny jean that works for your body. The Dickey Blazer does come in sizes up to 24. Here is a link: rstyle.me/+ox2_T64YE6rAmSWRk-shOQ
This was a great video
You are awesome Erin, you are my Sunday highlight, great looks as always!🥰👍
Thank you so much! xo
Nicely done! Personally, with all of that snow in the background, I would have been wrapped up in a faux fur coat and warm scarf!
Thank you, Catherine! xo
I love your style Erin. I also appreciate your videos. Just subscribed to your newsletter!👍🏼
Thank you so much! I hope you enjoy my newsletter. Thank you for subscribing! xo
My Mother would turn over in her grave seeing this wardrobe but I luv it
This is so helpful! In one of your previous videos I saw the coated jeans in petite- I ended getting the same ones on Postmark- new with tags- for $25!! It was meant to be ❤️ love them- thanks for the recommendation!
Hope you feel better soon!
Great find! Thank you! xo
The FIRST one...PERIOD 😊
I'm glad that you liked this look. xo
What is the shoulder bag you have here and also in some of your other videos? It is so chic and versatile.
Thank you! It's the Chanel Boy Bag. Here is a link: rstyle.me/+0WlvMInVDd3NkiHz1Ip9Iw
Love these looks! I’m going to try some of them, thanks!
Please do! Glad you liked these looks! xo
As always, you looked beautiful in all three outfits, but I kept thinking how cold you must be in the wind with snow on the ground.
Thank you! Yes, it was pretty cold photographing these looks! xo
HI Erin - such a fun video - found myself giggling with you! While not on the market, definitely like dressing for date nights with my hubs. Great ideas. Look two - aka hot mama - is my favourite.
Thank you! You could definitely wear any of these looks for a date night with your husband. I do! xo
I didn’t want to sound nosy but I recently noticed you not wearing a ring. That’s kind of what clues me in, if it’s suddenly gone. I’m sorry to hear this happened, but I went through it too. Who wouldn’t want to date a hottie like you 😄
Thanks Erin, for this perfect- in- every-aspect video!
I am curious about the beautiful location...
Good sunday vibes for you!🌻🌻
Thank you! The photos were taken in my home town of Telluride. xo
You look amazing
Thank you, Meghan! xo
Very good! You have excellent taste. ❤️ Don`t forget the red lip on date night.
Thank you! xo
🖐🏻Hi Erin,
YES ~ WOW ~ YES 👠YOU ARE AMAZING ERIN❗️
YOU HIT THE NAIL 🔨ON THE HEAD WITH THIS VIDEO✅
TERRIFIC SUGGESTIONS ~ 100%. THanks again, 🙋🏼 🇨🇦
Thank you! xo
very helpful video
Really cute ! Concept ❤ so needed after 3 babies 😀
i think erin is my sister from another universe 😍😍😍
45, out of the game x 4 years.. Thank you!
Looks like these outfits still apply in 2023. What do you think? How about for pushing 60 but people think I am 35-40, haha! No joke. Seriously though, my confidence is so low; my attire could lift me. I wear 4" chunkier or block heels with platforms, not sure if I can handle stilettos.
Yes these are still great tips to try out in 2023! If you don't feel good in stilettos, skip them... You have to feel comfortable and confident! xo
@@BusbeeStyle Thank you!