5 Things To AVOID if you have Short Legs (Like Me)

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  • @Dearlybethany
    @Dearlybethany  3 ปีที่แล้ว +641

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      @dataplan2780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Where did u buy ur outfit that u r wearing? Plz b specific... I want that exact outfit
      Thank you

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      @badassbuckets1435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

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      @hajahah8459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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      @jonniemaemiddletonlotte6747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @hanamioctavia3121
      @hanamioctavia3121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi.. May I know what your jeans size?

  • @shakila810
    @shakila810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25111

    I like how she doesn't waste time and talk to the point

    • @probablynot1368
      @probablynot1368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      I enjoy her calm voice. She speaks clearly and with confidence. I also enjoy the photo and video examples of what she is discussing.

    • @lifeisbeautiful_nz
      @lifeisbeautiful_nz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      She showed fashion
      more than her face while talking...👍👍👍

    • @IshaSharma11
      @IshaSharma11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      E

    • @mariabelencoronel4879
      @mariabelencoronel4879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @AkayThePoet
      @AkayThePoet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I thought the same! I'm tired of TH-camrs spending 5 minutes talking about themselves! Get to the point. I'm sorry, ain't got time for that, I literally watched this whilst just heading out to the gym! This is the kinda content I need. Short, sharp, concise. Well Done!!!

  • @shokotan360
    @shokotan360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11631

    Trust me, when I started wearing high rise jeans I felt more confident than ever. Seriously I'll never reach for low rise ever again

    • @ginavanulzen6681
      @ginavanulzen6681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

      Exactly the same as me. I hated jeans as a teen then I realised it was just the fit and type

    • @mina7199
      @mina7199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sameeeee

    • @bethsebyfanai8852
      @bethsebyfanai8852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here

    • @YumiPojo
      @YumiPojo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here!

    • @holychloeguacamole4134
      @holychloeguacamole4134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same with me. It really helps.

  • @rawchicken8644
    @rawchicken8644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6741

    I swear to god petite ppl needs more recognition in the fashion industry, I always have to get my pants tailored so it suits my waist AND my length at the same time. I can never find a perfect pants.

    • @valeriarossini543
      @valeriarossini543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      fr!! I have a pair of stunning high waisted flairs that I can only wear with heels or they drag on the floor :/

    • @user-pk1ix1lb3y
      @user-pk1ix1lb3y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      and i’m on the taller side (and i’m not THAT tall) and i have to buy my pants and some skirts in the “tall” section otherwise nothing fits 😥

    • @ThePumpingiron27
      @ThePumpingiron27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Petite girls need representation!! I'm 5'3 and growing up, every single pair of pants I owned would get holes at the ankles because they would drag on the ground.

    • @endless_del
      @endless_del 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@ThePumpingiron27 im also 5'3 and this is the exact reason i only ever wear/wore skinny jeans. they bunch up at the ankles so i don't have to cuff or hem them lol

    • @sofiagarcia7359
      @sofiagarcia7359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@ThePumpingiron27 they really do!!! i’m 4’10 and one of my favorite style of pants are flared jeans and i can’t find any that fit me that is not in the kids section

  • @oscarwilde9581
    @oscarwilde9581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +747

    I love the advice to ignore fashion trends if they do not suit your body type. This is why the Gen Z destruction of skinny jeans was something I completely ignored. If it looks good, it will never go completely out of style, particularly when paired with in-season trends or simply classic looks.

    • @Loveydove85
      @Loveydove85 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😊

    • @ohioisonfirre
      @ohioisonfirre 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      True! I have to admit I almost fell for wide leg jeans trend, but then I compared how I look in skinny jeans vs wide leg and realized that skinny is the best choice, no matter what's trending

  • @Sou_va7
    @Sou_va7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    I like how she says the actual things we need to know and not the obvious thing other people keeps telling. This is the first time I realized I can look hella fine and not just sit in the corner wearing clothes which doesn't fit. Thanks a lot lady✨✊

  • @asayy2450
    @asayy2450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6731

    She should do audible readings. Her voice is so soothing

    • @Dearlybethany
      @Dearlybethany  3 ปีที่แล้ว +473

      Dream job :)

    • @uhmokay5995
      @uhmokay5995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      @@Dearlybethany you should! we'll support ü :)))

    • @user-du4vh
      @user-du4vh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@uhmokay5995 yessssss

    • @missdanger4048
      @missdanger4048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Really, I was gonna say something about it right after I clicked on the vid

    • @nataliesartchannel355
      @nataliesartchannel355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree 👌🏽

  • @carlagheorghiu9906
    @carlagheorghiu9906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6284

    As a short girl, I really like the fact that I don't like any of the iteams I should avoid. 🤣

    • @Dearlybethany
      @Dearlybethany  3 ปีที่แล้ว +378

      haha perfect!

    • @cristinasalguerogonzalez2189
      @cristinasalguerogonzalez2189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      Very probably because it fit us horrible 😂😂

    • @hami544
      @hami544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Dearlybethany please provide link of that black maxi dress

    • @paulahezron9785
      @paulahezron9785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly😆

    • @raven-kn6lv
      @raven-kn6lv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Exactly. 😂🤝
      We tried them and saw that they don't fit us that's why we don't like them

  • @icedtae559
    @icedtae559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1912

    Love how she considers other body types and not just short and skinny

    • @zenixu4860
      @zenixu4860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      666 likes ain’t ruining that

    • @SteakCutFries
      @SteakCutFries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      👏👏👏👏👏
      I am 5ft1&1/2 and weigh 175lbs after weighing 110lbs until my 20s, 140lbs after my first 2 kids, and now I'm stuck at 175 after my 3rd C-section 2yrs ago and my body is just not the same. It's been really hard to adjust and to see myself clearly and to know what to wear and how to dress for this new horrific shape. This video helped me within literal seconds, I'm about to go watch her other vids and probably subscribe - straightforward, adult, inclusive, to the point

  • @Realtor365
    @Realtor365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1059

    I’m 5’8” w/short legs & long torso.. I’ve struggled for years to figure this out.
    These simple tips are life-changing!
    Thank you! 🙏

  • @jonmathisen6871
    @jonmathisen6871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Don't know how I ended up here, and I have zero interest in clothes. However, need to appreciate this video - probably one of the most to-the-point videos I've seen on YT ever. No nonsense, factual and explaining. And a very pleasant voice!

  • @tessam11
    @tessam11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2466

    So excited to finally find someone else with short legs and a long torso!! So many people I watch for fashion (or just in general) mention having long legs and a short torso so it’s really nice to see a body shape like mine represented here!

    • @magnusleaksofficial
      @magnusleaksofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I have it too!

    • @bethm7518
      @bethm7518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m the same! This is so handy

    • @katiehicks9920
      @katiehicks9920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too! I would love any suggestions for one piece bathing suits for long torsos!

    • @janetteehan8230
      @janetteehan8230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@katiehicks9920 strapless, one shoulder, deep V- and if you have a small waist and round hips, a high cut leg helps

    • @jessicawu_99
      @jessicawu_99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here!!!

  • @Dearlybethany
    @Dearlybethany  3 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    I'll soon be announcing something I've been working on pretty much exclusively the first half of this year. Click the bell icon to make sure you don't miss the news! 💛

    • @yumemirai5781
      @yumemirai5781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can't wait

    • @emilyyu5808
      @emilyyu5808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How exciting!! Eagerly awaiting this announcement :)

    • @stupor_mundi
      @stupor_mundi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      exciting! so curious now

    • @shumeepatra
      @shumeepatra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Please do a light minimal make-up tutorial. 🙏🏻 💖 Lot's of love from India. 🇮🇳

    • @DansonforJoy
      @DansonforJoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exciting! 🥰

  • @woolypuffin392
    @woolypuffin392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2064

    I wont buy low rise ever again. Doesnt matter if they come back in fashion or not 🤣

    • @she.ina255
      @she.ina255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      right💀

    • @bansikasinha6020
      @bansikasinha6020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I own 4 jeans that are low waist...but last year I purchased one high waisted jeans and since then I haven't wore my other 4 ones 😂 *crying in loss of money

    • @am32074
      @am32074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bansikasinha6020 you can resell them in threft shop or donate them :)

    • @wawahamdan1159
      @wawahamdan1159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I have small waist so low rise makes me feel very uncomfortable. High rise pants gives that perfect grip to my waist so yeah, will never ever go back to low rise cutting

    • @thatshot9658
      @thatshot9658 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They’re back

  • @Cleopatraonfire
    @Cleopatraonfire 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Great tips..as a short female, need all the tips I can get to make myself look visually taller. Also love the fact that you go straight to the point…instead of fluffing around for 5 min.

  • @todaysrules6730
    @todaysrules6730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    At 5' 2", all sound advice!!! Thank you! I have been doing all of what you suggested, for years! Thanks for explaining why they work! One more thing I might add, is for petite women to stay away from outfits with large patterns and prints, especially florals!

    • @clarissaperez5849
      @clarissaperez5849 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Can you please elaborate?

    • @kitty_s23456
      @kitty_s23456 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@clarissaperez5849large patterns - the pattern will look bigger and you (the wearer) will look smaller

  • @nenufairy1929
    @nenufairy1929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Love her voice, so soothing, and she goes straight to the point.

  • @rainablaza
    @rainablaza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    Finally found a youtuber whom I have similar body shape! Long torso, short legged, pear shaped. 😅 Thank you for this! ❤️

  • @goodjujuu
    @goodjujuu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    At 5’7” I usually surprise people who think I’m 5’10” because of my long torso. These tips are very helpful because my legs are shorter compared to the rest of my body

    • @romeog9347
      @romeog9347 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wearing 6 inch heels would compliment your sexy legs:)

    • @ayumisae6864
      @ayumisae6864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @ShanyShannon
      @ShanyShannon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      People always think I am much taller because I sit up straight with my long torso.

    • @elpychhaks216
      @elpychhaks216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

  • @LegalVampire
    @LegalVampire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Thanks for this! I find it so annoying when some people get mad at people who give advice on what different body types should wear. Because yeah, of course we can all wear whatever we want, but some of us want to wear the things that will look best to the human eye on our proportions. There's nothing wrong with picking clothing types that complement our body types.

  • @dianamvd
    @dianamvd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I'm 5"6 so not petite but I love your tips about body proportions because we have such similar bodies. I also have short legs, long torso, a pear shaped body with thick thighs and large hips. I love my body but I hate my short calves. Your tips are really helpful

  • @wanderintzumpi8123
    @wanderintzumpi8123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +527

    I'm happy to hear I'm not the only one with this body shape... 😭

  • @Kelbel5995
    @Kelbel5995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1410

    I lived through low rise pants in the early 2000s--NEVER AGAIN haha. Long live high rise pants!

    • @jyotjagiasi6407
      @jyotjagiasi6407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pls.. make video on short and staut women...which dress suits the best.. 5ft.. and less..

    • @TruthTriumphs777
      @TruthTriumphs777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @White Rabbit I like girls in low rise pants. What's the big deal?

    • @waterfall6328
      @waterfall6328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m petite and used to wear low rise flared jeans in high school back in early 2000s. Tried a pair on recently since it’s the trend and oh my looks so weird 😂

    • @HumanimalChannel
      @HumanimalChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg, me too!
      This WAS after the heady 502 high waisted heights of the 90s... but still... very low rise was IT ...and embarrassingly i have a long torso too. Bonita high waist or Mid rise ONLY

    • @silyadaylis
      @silyadaylis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Manse 🙌

  • @maltk1798
    @maltk1798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I am so glad I found you today! Finally, someone with the same body shape and similar height!! Thank you this is very helpful :) I've been doing myself injustice these past few years.

  • @trenae77
    @trenae77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’m long legged, but the tips you give still work with my wardrobe! Like you I’m pear shaped, and the high waist/empire waist garments draw attention away from my ‘hot zones’ and actually emphasize the length of my legs 🥰

  • @summermic9654
    @summermic9654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    OMG I'm swearing by this channel. Who else here is binge-watching Dearly Bethany? She is so warm and I love the aesthetic ❤️

  • @dorotheaprall6396
    @dorotheaprall6396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    It’s funny : i do not have short legs, but nevertheless, I listened until the end, because you explain so well and add very convincing pictures. Weil done !

  • @MinerlisAbreu9710
    @MinerlisAbreu9710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I am a short legs, long torso woman as well. I'm glad that I was already following most of the rules in this video. I absolutely hate low rise. One: makes legs look short. Two: I have a big butt and they give me that gap in the back where it shows my butt crack. So, low rise trend will never come back into my wardrobe.

    • @SAHMmiller
      @SAHMmiller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You probably have exactly the body type I have. There's no way I'll ever wear low rise again! They're so unflattering on me....also nobody needs to see my ass crack 😂

  • @kyliee8586
    @kyliee8586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thank you! I guess I’m not “petite”, as I’m 5’6”, but I have short legs and a long torso, which makes it very hard for me to find clothing that doesn’t make my legs look even shorter and elongate my torso more. High-waisted everything is such a lifesaver!

  • @HuongNguyen-cl7ec
    @HuongNguyen-cl7ec 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This is the first video of yours that I watched and honestly, it's so comfortable to watch.
    Your voice is clear, smooth and easy to follow.
    Your intro is straightforward.
    And the content is well made with clear examples.
    I like it ❤️ thank you.

  • @yk202ky
    @yk202ky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I’m loving the content Bethany! Your tips are actually useful for a petite person like me and have been able to implement it into my wardrobe. An icon!

    • @Dearlybethany
      @Dearlybethany  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks friend! So glad it's helpful 💛

  • @sssinfullyyours
    @sssinfullyyours 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3237

    Even if I do this, my legs are thicc and still can’t look longer. 🤣

  • @leejinkijjang
    @leejinkijjang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Oh this is so helpful! I do have shorter legs and longer torso. I do realized that I look better in an empire waist or higher waisted dress. The same with jeans. Thank you for this video!

  • @jayceeleigh7629
    @jayceeleigh7629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm literally watching this just for my friend! So she van be confident whenever I'm with her or when we take pictures.🥺❤️

    • @Shruti_kanha
      @Shruti_kanha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww, so sweet of u❤

  • @a.thomas501
    @a.thomas501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE the way she goes straight to the point. I absolutely love a tunic and I would not be caught dead in an empire waist ANYTHING.

  • @christinecho779
    @christinecho779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +791

    I’m 5’3” and I’ve naturally been following these tips! You are spot on-these styles really don’t suit me. The low rise Jean thing I hated! Especially because everyone’s buttcrack was on display every time we bent over.

    • @ibtihalnoor1058
      @ibtihalnoor1058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm also 5'3" 😞

    • @johnjacob4030
      @johnjacob4030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm 4'7

    • @Pukupage
      @Pukupage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I wish I could be 5'3"......

    • @romeog9347
      @romeog9347 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dont forget your 6 inch heels :)

    • @boom-wb3dm
      @boom-wb3dm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ya, i hate seeing buttcracks through those low waisted pants. 😆😆😆

  • @kh.pishaktombisingha8351
    @kh.pishaktombisingha8351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    She looks so aesthetic... Love her and her personality... 💛

  • @franslam7398
    @franslam7398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    The one thing about clothes that I learned from having short legs is high-waisted everything. And I'm not even short, I'm 5'6, just proportionally my torso is quite long. This video will be interesting to discover any new tips :)

    • @ariadnafriski_
      @ariadnafriski_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You just 5'6? While I am just 150cm since I was 12 years old :)

    • @jtbaby31
      @jtbaby31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You just 5'6? While me 4'3, 29 years old 😁

    • @romeog9347
      @romeog9347 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All you need to do is wear 6 inch heels:)

    • @lubyricabt9639
      @lubyricabt9639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jtbaby31 ohmygoddd u r soo cute. I am 4' 11 at 25 years old

    • @madeliner1682
      @madeliner1682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm 5' 8.5", so slightly above average height, but still have a slightly disproportionately long torso. It runs in my mom's side of the family

  • @CrimsonWolff
    @CrimsonWolff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I felt so lost in the early 2000s with the low rise, even when I was so skinny! I love this so much.

  • @chimiwangmo4056
    @chimiwangmo4056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She is very calm and looks like actress too.

  • @biancazangheri9291
    @biancazangheri9291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    adored this video, the way you pair fabrics and textures is so unique!

  • @kitschmygrits4836
    @kitschmygrits4836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I avoid capris length and i never wear shorts unless they're short dress shorts with nice stockings and dainty pointy shoes. Thank you for those great tips for what to avoid!

    • @kpopworld8974
      @kpopworld8974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shorts makes your legs look longer tho

    • @xtinejoy
      @xtinejoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kpopworld8974 It actually depends on the length of the shorts. Short-legged people, me included, can go for boy or Jamaican shorts or full-length pants. Everything else in between will not work well.

  • @lizxyplays5331
    @lizxyplays5331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how she just got to the point and the video was so simple and small not like the other videos they were 10-15 minutes long and a 3 minute long intro, thanks for making such a great video and I hope I can’t take ur advice and finally look tall in jeans

  • @imablink5536
    @imablink5536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ive been watching a few videos about short legs but this is the only one i actually liked the outfits for, so nice

  • @m.donez8
    @m.donez8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Being 5’1, 7/8 leggings are a lifesaver! They’re always the perfect length!

    • @romeog9347
      @romeog9347 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should wear a minimum of a 6 inch heel with your outfits:)

  • @shaec6522
    @shaec6522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Been a subscriber since Bethany has only got less than 100k subs now I’m so amazed how she really grew her channel 🥰 i love her advices as a petite lady. I learned a lot and changed my style to even better ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Stranger_Strange_Land
    @Stranger_Strange_Land 3 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    I'm 4'11"
    _everything_ is short
    But, mid rise is best for me. The high rise makes me resemble Steve Urkle since my torso is as small as my fist....
    Thanks for all the tips!

    • @miniaturecreature
      @miniaturecreature 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Can relate ❤️

    • @anikag7198
      @anikag7198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Like seriously, each time I think my high rise jeans look good on me I forget and see in the photos my body looks like a short chunk with no torso and I’m like. Wooooooww eeewww why can’t I have a longer torso so my shoulder and hips would look great and not attached into one😑

    • @petrinasmith6853
      @petrinasmith6853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      me too. Short legs and short torso.

    • @SudhirKumar-zp7gg
      @SudhirKumar-zp7gg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Can literally relate to you I am 4'11 too😂

    • @onlytecna9498
      @onlytecna9498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I am 4 ‘11 too

  • @jeannejorgensen1230
    @jeannejorgensen1230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video. I’m 72 years old, 5’ 5” and have a long torso and short legs too. All of your suggestions I did manage to figure out over all these years and they are all correct. The worst was leggings and long tops! Took me awhile to figure out why some ladies looked great in these but I didn’t! It was my short legs!! I’ve done more hems over the years because of this. Any longer tops I get, I take them up immediately! Wearing heels with slacks always looked best and prevented bunching up at the bottom. I don’t wear heels any more (my ancient feet) but make sure my slacks don’t bunch up. And those low-waisted dresses I loved. But…again a no no! I loved empire waists. All of this without realizing why! So, short-legged ladies…heed this lady’s advice and forget about what’s in fashion at any given moment. Fashions change, so your time will come!! Lol

  • @JeckoSTARlaloo
    @JeckoSTARlaloo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Just so you know, it's really helpful! AND STRAIGHT TO THE POINT! ❤️

  • @rosemell
    @rosemell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I'm also a fan of high-waisted pants because I'm only 5'3. Thank you for making this video, it's very helpful 😁❤

    • @shreekim942
      @shreekim942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What? That’s still tall😭😭

    • @rosemell
      @rosemell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shreekim942 But I look small because I'm thin. If you will see my photo you will know.

  • @mming4351
    @mming4351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It's crazy how only a couple of inches in height can make all the difference with theses styles and cuts...nice video.

  • @chelseawould8275
    @chelseawould8275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This content is such a great match for my body type, and, oh my gosh! I so love the texture and timbre of your voice 🥰

  • @christinaguzman722
    @christinaguzman722 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bethany -- I'm not a petit gal, but I was interested in your style perspective and clicked on your video ! Wanted to let you know your set/desk styling is one of the best I've seen on TH-cam ....and.... you are lovely, soft yet well spoken, and the video was the perfect length time. Great work Lady !

  • @maryamm_7
    @maryamm_7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can we just appreciate the fact that she's soo pretty

  • @abigailgarcia1997
    @abigailgarcia1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    YOU HAVE MY BODY SHAPE AND THE SAME HEIGHT OMG! I'M SO THANKFUL FOR FINDING YOU!😭😭😭

  • @Cauldron6
    @Cauldron6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I have short legs and a long torso so this advice is essential!! Great video.

  • @DoeRaeMe
    @DoeRaeMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I literally learned how to dress from you! I never knew any of these things before I found you on TH-cam! So 🙏
    I’m 5’2” and u have opened up a whole new world for me♥️

  • @CarmenRoss-xu3jr
    @CarmenRoss-xu3jr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video shows that fashion is not only about clothes, but also a way to express yourself and connect with the world around you. Thank you!

  • @AndreaGerakSinger
    @AndreaGerakSinger 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, all five points are perfect, thank you! Another trick I learned from a French fashion book 25 years ago: avoid long sleeves, because those will draw the eyes downward and kind of cut the body around your hips. Wear instead top with sleeves like you have on in this video, or shorter.

  • @yellobee4362
    @yellobee4362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i'm so glad that most of the suggestions are things i already enjoy wearing!

  • @AudreyLMcFarland
    @AudreyLMcFarland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Very clear and concise! Love the tips, the samples of What Not to wear and What to Wear! and done in under 5 minutes!. Sweet!

    • @mayloo2137
      @mayloo2137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What Not to Wear is a title for a reality show that was on air, maybe 15-20 years ago. The main stars were clothing stylists Stacey London and Clinton Kelly, with a hair stylist and makeup artist to complete the group. The fashion 'victim' was given a certain allowance ($2000? at the time) , and Stacey and Clinton would take them clothes shopping.
      After that, there would be hair and makeup, and a final reveal. What I liked about the show was they didn't try anything fancy, and the person was given practical advice about how they could continue their 'transformation'.

  • @allih8021
    @allih8021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is such great advice! As a short person with stubby legs and a wicked long torso, this is so helpful. Some of these I'd figured out for myself but others were new. (And sorry not sorry, not giving up tunics. Especially during WFH! LOL) Thanks for great, quick, actually USEFUL content!

  • @suchou8197
    @suchou8197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m petite so it’s so helpful with all your tips and especially having you demonstrating what to wear . Thank you 😘

  • @barbaragrider9136
    @barbaragrider9136 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am 78 and not petite but have short legs. As.one who has searched for the right clothes.for.decades, I found this.video to be excellent and to the point. I wish I had been given this advice decades.ago.

  • @edireftemsi511
    @edireftemsi511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    What a beautiful video. Your voice is à therapy, for real it’s so relaxing.

  • @eugeniabraz5409
    @eugeniabraz5409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am not petit (5’6) but my shape is similar to yours. I had forgotten or ignored all of those tips from my youth when I gained weight. I just bought whatever I could find that fit. Now that I have lost weight and care a bit more, I have rediscovered these guidelines and you give me inspiration for outfit ideas and I look like i have lost even more weight than I have. Thank you for your gentle guidance and validation.

  • @phatcat3705
    @phatcat3705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Glad this popped up in our recommendations (this is a shared account). My mother has the exact same issue (e.g. short/petite, with shorter legs but long torso) and has always had a hard time trying to find clothes and shoes (always with heels, of course) that would flatter her build, since everything these days seems to be made for tall people, but she always asks for my opinion whenever she buys herself new outfits and I never know what to say. I'll definitely have to show her this video. Thanks.

  • @caidyc
    @caidyc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where have you been all my life? Seriously I sooooooo appreciate you! Thank you. THANK YOU!

  • @aname9417
    @aname9417 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like your personality and demeanor. There are so many fashion TH-camrs who I watch one video of and can barely stand them. But you got straight to the point and gave helpful advice and didn’t spend a ton of time talking about yourself or why you havent posted when I have no idea who you are lol will be watching more and subscribing!

  • @karmazangmo6557
    @karmazangmo6557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your voice is probably the sweetest and the softest I have heard my entire life. I just subscribed your channel because I want to hear more from you lol.

  • @juzzgail6
    @juzzgail6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love that she mentioned inverted triangle shapes😭💕

  • @Mynnie72
    @Mynnie72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    5s in and I'm in love with you. I've been trying so hard to hide my body because I also have short legs. I'm not happy with that fact. But you make me feel more confident so thank you so much. BTW, you look great in those outfits

  • @andreavalle3987
    @andreavalle3987 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loveee the fact that you’re pear-shaped! I needed this so much in my life, I find that a lot of people I see online have a different body shape and it is hard to emulate some styles if when I try them I end up looking awful

  • @sheylacherryholmes1550
    @sheylacherryholmes1550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love it! Short and to the point. Without rambling too much 😘

  • @DZ-iv4bw
    @DZ-iv4bw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I agree with everything! As a short leg woman myself, I always wear high waist pants/skirts with crop tops.

  • @barff95
    @barff95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is quality content!! Love the comparisons and examples shown, Bethany! Could you do a video showing some chic outfits for home-wear and lounging around the house? It would be so cool to see that.

  • @TaySamey
    @TaySamey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m pretty petite and have the shortest attention span known to man, your video really hits all the right points for me in pacing and helpfulness!!! Absolutely subscribing =) 💖 Thanks so much girl!

  • @alexandrajanebanday7435
    @alexandrajanebanday7435 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad I found this youtube channel. It's factual from beginning to end. It is worth our views.

  • @leasaswartz6879
    @leasaswartz6879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have short legs and am a rectangle body shape. Thanks for all the good tips.

  • @elenymm
    @elenymm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Watching this made me happy because I realized that I figured these tips out on my own, through experience. That makes me have more confidence in my styling instinct because it turns out that I do know what looks good on me. :)

  • @RaineHoltz
    @RaineHoltz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Ugh, that dress at 2:43 with those shoes. Flawless.

  • @curly_noodles9307
    @curly_noodles9307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg, i always feel insecure of my short legs and long torso. 😑 Thank you Bethany, you are gorgeous as always ✨

  • @jayceeleigh7629
    @jayceeleigh7629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm literally watching this just for my friend! So she can be confident whenever I'm with her or when we take pictures. Loveyoubestie🥺❤️

  • @ChanningAyers
    @ChanningAyers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg, I laughed Out Loud bc your Rule#1 is True!! I can’t stand the way low rise looks on me! 😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @shushbi
    @shushbi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is extremely helpful. Also the fact that you are also a pear-shaped makes me happier as I have the same body shape. Thank you for this!

    • @warderic3560
      @warderic3560 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't only have a nice shape but also pretty

  • @cherricxla5619
    @cherricxla5619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love how TH-cam just knew that I needed this and decided to put it in my recommended🤣

  • @patriciaquina6983
    @patriciaquina6983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This video helps me so much! Finally I found someone who has almost the same body measurements as mine.

    • @lilacaloe
      @lilacaloe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here!

  • @lethokuhlemasondo983
    @lethokuhlemasondo983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She has a beautiful voice 😭❤️

  • @dreamof_me
    @dreamof_me 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How have I never seen your channel before? I have short legs and a naturally short stride length but a super long torso like I could comfortably have a ruler as my princess seam. I really appreciate this video so much

  • @agathedethe5985
    @agathedethe5985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your last monochrome outfit looks really great on you !! Love those textures, colors and accessories

  • @pp-jt7mb
    @pp-jt7mb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This is so relaxing

  • @user-me22
    @user-me22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i’m exactly the same omg. long torso short legs. i’ve always hated it. i’ll definitely take these tips on board. i think i’ve subconsciously done most anyway.

    • @sixxkisses
      @sixxkisses 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same lol cuz some things just dont look right

  • @1010divajap
    @1010divajap 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't imagine anything more helpful than what I just watched. Thank you so much for such great information spoken so well.

  • @FriaSolaresDaFluffyOne
    @FriaSolaresDaFluffyOne 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your calmness and being concise is so professional and classy!!!! Arghh! Luv from Philippines!

  • @anastasia-fr1gn
    @anastasia-fr1gn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Your videos are always so soothing and great with information! I’ve gotten so much more confident in my clothing choices following your tips. Being small has always made me feel so limited with outfits. Now I’m starting to choose not only more flattering pieces but more mature and timeless as well. Because summer is coming up and a lot of us will be going to festivals it would be amazing if you did something like a festival outfit guide. I have trouble pairing pretty but practical pieces to wear outside. Will definitely be subscribing!

    • @Dearlybethany
      @Dearlybethany  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks Anastasia! Great video idea 🤗

  • @rb1062
    @rb1062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Enjoyed this, Bethany. My wedding dress was high waisted with a short embroidered top over it. It made me look tall, elegant and slim. No mean feat!!!

    • @JNMKlover
      @JNMKlover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MY wedding dress settled just under my ribs. And I LOVE that dress!

  • @luciefremeau-fernandez9676
    @luciefremeau-fernandez9676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Loved this video!! It would be really fun to see you do a "before and after" where you wear the "what to avoid" to show us why it's not optimal, and then where you swap into the look that incorporates your tips. It would be a really great visual to help get the point across (and it's always more fun to see it on a "real person" vs on a celebrity... they always seem to look perfect haha)! Loved the video.

    • @Dearlybethany
      @Dearlybethany  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought about doing this but I’d have to buy all the things I taught to avoid because I don’t own them haha

    • @luciefremeau-fernandez9676
      @luciefremeau-fernandez9676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Dearlybethany Hahaha that is totally fair!! Love your channel and thank you for all the great videos :)

  • @kirstenpennington3485
    @kirstenpennington3485 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a short legged gal, and have been looking for solutions for my clothing style. This is helping a ton, thanks so much! ♥️

  • @user-bro0921
    @user-bro0921 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That fact that you got right to the point, were very sincere and gave grate tips made me have to subscribe ❤

  • @xxMARIExxxx
    @xxMARIExxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Your voice is so soothing
    I could listen for hours :)