10 Flat Shoes Elegant Ladies NEVER Wear

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  • @Grazie7
    @Grazie7 ปีที่แล้ว +1528

    The problem with most of the alternatives is that they don’t properly support the ankle, joints, back, and foot. Clunky shoes may not look good, but many of them are more healthy. Being bent over or limping at 60 because you decided to wear “elegant”shoes when younger isn’t elegant or attractive either.

    • @newenglandgirl9523
      @newenglandgirl9523 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      Yes and pointy toe shoes are horrible. None of us have feet shaped like that.

    • @SE-hh4vx
      @SE-hh4vx ปีที่แล้ว +64

      ​@@newenglandgirl9523 my hallux valgus hates pointy shoes it's painful if you have it!

    • @ohsostylish60
      @ohsostylish60 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      You can still find comfortable shoes that are stylish.

    • @cherrypinkblue
      @cherrypinkblue ปีที่แล้ว +152

      I don't understand why people click on her videos if her "elegant" advices trigger your healthy lifestyle. Sure you can choose what's "healthier ". Most of her recommendations aren't that "unhealthy", the ballet flats or mules have some more variation to choose from.

    • @zzsofi1552
      @zzsofi1552 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      @@cherrypinkblue I'd really love to find an elegant AND comfortable shoe so I will click on any video about this topic. Still I have no idea if a shoe like that exists. (Ballerinas are not comfy and supportive at all, at least for me.)

  • @zammak-fk2ol
    @zammak-fk2ol ปีที่แล้ว +1521

    I am 16 and have been watching your videos for months ,it motivated me ,I now pay attention in class even if I don't like the subject

    • @hazar2354
      @hazar2354 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      Good for you. Try to get high grades and go to uni 😊

    • @zammak-fk2ol
      @zammak-fk2ol ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@hazar2354 I will ,thank you

    • @aemarpratsew9355
      @aemarpratsew9355 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Hi, I am 16 as well. Just interested, does your family support your leveling up journey? How are you coming along with it? I would be happy to hear from you and I wish you the best.

    • @chantellewilson9497
      @chantellewilson9497 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This is so wonderful ladies 💕

    • @read500
      @read500 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      But dont go to uni. Become an electrician

  • @flower-ss2jt
    @flower-ss2jt ปีที่แล้ว +466

    If the choice is between walking in a supportive shoe or sitting in an elegant shoe - the supportive shoe wins every time.
    Ballet flats look great but are so thin soled I cannot wear them. If you have foot problems it is also near on impossible to wear backless shoes even if they are Gucci. Your foot needs a strap at the back to keep your foot in the shoe.

    • @aadtie5633
      @aadtie5633 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Ballerinas look cheap.
      I would never buy them.
      Look very childish.

    • @flower-ss2jt
      @flower-ss2jt ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@aadtie5633 I tend to agree with you - although if you are just standing they look OK.

    • @elipotter369
      @elipotter369 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I've found brands that do ballet flats style shoes with thick soles. Well.made, leather, have been wearing & walking in for years.
      I get the heels resoled when they wear down at an excellent but cheap franchise store.
      You can also get a whole extra sole put on.

    • @TheSuperGeo
      @TheSuperGeo ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well, I wouldn't take literally what Anna reccomends, she just gives examples. You can always look for a more comfortable, but similar version of her suggestion. For example, whatever she mentioned, but with an ortopedic sole, for better support! 😁👍

    • @flower-ss2jt
      @flower-ss2jt ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elipotter369 Yes, I have found ballet flats with a good sole from Hotter. Thank you.

  • @jennifertreller3729
    @jennifertreller3729 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Some of the men I work with watched your video and totally disagreed. They said that they hate any women's shoes that cause their wife to need to walk more slowly, or any shoes that cause their wife to be unable to participate in an activity, such as a half day of shopping.. This includes all mules. Podiatrists hate mules because they require your toes to work in order to keep them on. This changes your gait pattern to a forward shuffle - something less than elegant. Many of the "elegant" shoes shown have no support. There is no elegance in having your poor footwear choice showing on your face. I do not dress for men. I am considered to be elegant. I wear carefully chosen footwear that supports my feet and allows me to participate in whatever activity I want. We are women, we are not dolls.

    • @MaryamKhan-vf3zo
      @MaryamKhan-vf3zo หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jennifertreller3729 Totally agree & love your pov.

  • @TLOH7
    @TLOH7 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Elegance is way much more than the shoes you wear. Elegance comes from posture and personality. You can still wearing sneakers and look elegant, but it takes deep work.

    • @poppyseeds1844
      @poppyseeds1844 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Who cares? If the sneakers are clean that's fine, Judges.

    • @alicebrown854
      @alicebrown854 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sneakers-yes, but it also also depends on what type of sneakers, also remember that they cover your feet, and many other un-elegant shoes don't. That's why you can pull out some sneakers models as 'elegant enough', but not many other shoes she described.

  • @den8127
    @den8127 ปีที่แล้ว +1594

    I agree with the ¨not elegant shoes¨ however I personally disliked most of your ¨elegant¨choices… they look like my grandma’s shoes! (and I’m 50!!!) 😅

    • @va8120
      @va8120 ปีที่แล้ว +213

      Anna might say your grandma has elegant taste 😄

    • @klaudinegarcia8932
      @klaudinegarcia8932 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Same! 😂 The only elegant shoes I loved are the ballet flats! 💕

    • @laurenhall2547
      @laurenhall2547 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      Agreed, all this 'advice' is very old fashioned. Sorry, but Anna hasn't got a clue. God knows where this 'image consultant' certification comes from as it's clear she does not professionally work in fashion (how galling that she's trying to make money from a course around her supposed 'expertise', yikes). The slingbacks and dress combo 🤮 and removing the metal hardware from the loafers makes them look ridiculous. Nowadays it's passé to wear ultra-feminine clothing all over - it's much more chic to give your outfit a bit of an edge through contrast: formal / informal or masculine / feminine. I work in a high-wealth industry and ALL the women are actually pretty casual but still chic. Many wear loafers (with metal hardware), designer sneakers and birkenstocks. They prioritise comfort and know it's not mutually exclusive with style. Besides they don't have anything to prove. Unfortunately Anna comes across as someone who pretends she mixes in these circles but doesn't know what she's talking about. Also the fact that all this is geared around 'getting a man' rather than doing it for yourself is...probably the most old fashioned aspect of all. Gross.

    • @lovemesomeslippers
      @lovemesomeslippers ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The old styles are back! Too soon for me.

    • @juniy7388
      @juniy7388 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Your grandma should be really classic well dressed woman!

  • @charitylandis2208
    @charitylandis2208 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I’ve picked up so many tips from her. But, sometimes it feels like ‘elegant’ turns into boring. I don’t want to fade into the background. I love animal print, I love sparkle.

  • @jeanbean1390
    @jeanbean1390 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    I'm turning 60 in June and I need a supportive, comfortable shoe that has room for my foot. Elegance be damned. My health is worth more than what others think of me.

    • @d.b.9101
      @d.b.9101 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It’s fun to look at these shoes but I too need a more practical shoe

    • @sadkitten1649
      @sadkitten1649 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Then why on earth did you even watch this video? What did you expect..! 😂

    • @jeanbean1390
      @jeanbean1390 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@sadkitten1649 I expected something more than uncomfortable shoes.

    • @lisamurphy3291
      @lisamurphy3291 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      In most cases, you don't have to sacrifice elegance to find a shoe that is supportive and comfortable.

    • @pinksnoopydancer
      @pinksnoopydancer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I would have liked to see some shoes that can be worn to walk outside, or inside. Really need some cushioning on the bottom or inside.

  • @livchristianson1358
    @livchristianson1358 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    True elegance is about being comfortable in your own skin and being kind. This includes appreciating people who wear things you don’t like without categorizing them as “inelegant.” Personally I do have a classic, feminine style and don’t own any of the things on this list, but whenever I see the titles of these videos I can’t help but wonder why people insist on making these lists and categorizing people. Kindness and openness to differences is beautiful. Wanting to be above someone else for any reason, isn’t. Love yourself and others, and you are beautiful!

    • @frankvelez4997
      @frankvelez4997 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hi I'm Loretta De Los Rios using Frank's account to make this comment with his permission. That is not so. You can tell me just because one feels good wearing a hot dog hat to a wedding because they feel good in there skin is elegance. Let's be real!,& honest here. Anna is not being mean that's ridiculous what you are saying. I know women that just because they want to be a certain color hair because they feel good they look ridiculous . If we really care for people we will advise appropriately. 🙏You definitely took this video out of context. Now you are accusing her of acting like she is better than anyone else. That's absurd. This is Fashion. And this is her advise! that is It. !🙏🤲✝️

    • @SandyBowyer-xz3jo
      @SandyBowyer-xz3jo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are so right in your comment ❤️ .

    • @medicgrant2932
      @medicgrant2932 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I think you're right. Elegant people don't point out what they find to be "flaws" of others. It's trashy and tacky, but truly elegant people know that. They know not to speak about other people and their choices, just because they disagree. Elegance, is ignoring what bothers you and living an I bothered existence regardless.
      She could just say she wants to be elegant.
      😂🤣😭🤦🏻‍♀️ Instead, she has people brainwashed into believing that she is.. then they replicate her and embarrass themselves.
      🤦🏻‍♀️🥴

    • @IrisBuker
      @IrisBuker 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I buy bag mine in *suluxs* amazing quality. I'd rather spend money on travel, not things.

    • @StephanieProvencher-ys2uq
      @StephanieProvencher-ys2uq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      perfectly explained as always, anyways next time you should try with *suluxs* , you should do a colab with them, they are best!

  • @Mememeep
    @Mememeep ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I'm 30 and I already passed my phase where I wanna sacrifice comfort for style. I also don't care about impressing other people with how I dress. As long as I dress respectfully and appopriate, I am fine.

    • @elaynerc
      @elaynerc ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Exactly. I like her channel but don't always agree. I prefer to be comfortable over anything else. Also: why do I have to care what men think? That was a weird reference. If class is about satisfying men and sacrificing my comfort, I rather be classless.

    • @mikasauchiha6785
      @mikasauchiha6785 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same.

  • @reginamemoriesforever-vc8ql
    @reginamemoriesforever-vc8ql ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Anna, we must not be dependent on how attractive shoes are to men… I understand the concept you’re trying to convey but not every style decision must go through the filter of how attractive they are to men. Do you agree? Love your work.

    • @Redwhiteblue-gr5em
      @Redwhiteblue-gr5em ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it’s a factor because heterosexual women want men to like how they look. But if you are a Woke leftist who hate men I can understand

    • @RR.LL.3B
      @RR.LL.3B ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well yeah men don’t like ballet flats but I would still wear them

    • @tinkerbell7877
      @tinkerbell7877 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why not? What do you have against men?

    • @marteumar8429
      @marteumar8429 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bitter feminist detected

  • @rishikasarma9577
    @rishikasarma9577 ปีที่แล้ว +1072

    Miss Anna, can you please make a video on "Classy elegant jewellery for elegant ladies" ? It would be really helpful!

    • @sstrwbry
      @sstrwbry ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes! Or appropriate earrings or something!

    • @Ravenna17
      @Ravenna17 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Absolutely! But also, what necklace goes good with certain necklines?

    • @solarplexuschakra4877
      @solarplexuschakra4877 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YES PLEASE

    • @fa9183
      @fa9183 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@an_mey what about piercings?

    • @WeaponizeCelibacy
      @WeaponizeCelibacy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! I've been requesting this for months 📿💍

  • @jasminecontreras7341
    @jasminecontreras7341 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    My jaw dropped when I saw the alternative for the “cleaning slides” $781 for some mediocre sandals? Idk about everyone else but I’m not willing to pay that much just so everyone knows I’m wearing an expensive brand

    • @terri348
      @terri348 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree!

    • @TSD0416
      @TSD0416 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You’re not alone. I buy my shoes at Walmart

    • @jesss6800
      @jesss6800 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree too

    • @HeiserPoalino
      @HeiserPoalino 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it is the wiser more intelligent thing to do *suluxs* , buy replicas and the money saved you can invest it in a business or keep it... at the end of the day, it is just a bag after all, a thing to put stuff in. And in this times of inflation and uncertainty it is always better to have money on hand.

    • @mavistransportationmavis477
      @mavistransportationmavis477 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totally agree

  • @sunshine6970
    @sunshine6970 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Most of my friends complimented me on how I dress and how I present my self as a woman , thanks to you Miss Anna . I am motivated and more confident now with myself 😊

  • @rayonlaser2213
    @rayonlaser2213 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am a guy and I have been watching your videos for 2 years. Lots of excellent takeaways even for us. Thank you 😊

  • @thaiswinmill2153
    @thaiswinmill2153 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I used to wear mostly ballet flats and walked 5 miles a day in nyc. Then I got plantar fasciitis on both feet and I wear dansko or other supportive shoes all the time.

    • @layla-dv2kt
      @layla-dv2kt ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Oh same! Just looking at ballet flats hurts my feet now.

    • @sarcodonblue2876
      @sarcodonblue2876 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Apparently no man would want a women who wears shoes that are good for her feet or if she has foot on knee issues ,😅😅

    • @Nameless-fh1nx
      @Nameless-fh1nx ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I used to wear ballet shoes and loafers to work and walked 5 miles a day too. And guess what my knees started to hurt (I’m only in my 20s). I only wear sneakers now and no going back to cute but uncomfortable shoes

    • @emiliaescobar7652
      @emiliaescobar7652 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I used to wear all kinds of classy, sexy shoes, now in my 60's with foot problems, had to look elegant without the pain!

    • @alenajade27
      @alenajade27 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Elegant ladies don’t walk 5 miles in elegant shoes. They have a private driver. They walk 5 miles in the gym or hiking or doing sports - that’s different and there they wear proper running shoes

  • @heatherwatson6413
    @heatherwatson6413 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Your “is this a shoe for bondage?” Comment made me laugh out loud. Love how you bring humor to your videos!

  • @daisylu1203
    @daisylu1203 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    My life long style motto: Just because a famous person wears a certain item or has a certain hairstyle, does not mean they have good taste or that it looks attractive. I have not always dressed with latest trends but I always feel that I look feminine as well as elegant. I think the most attractive that women have looked in the past 75 years was most of the 60s styles. Makeup, and some hair was often over done but clothes and shoes, mostly right on spot.

  • @audrey6026
    @audrey6026 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    And why do men's opinion seem to be such a big argument for us women wearing or not wearing these shoes here? Plus recommended shoes in this video are always boring even ugly sometimes tbh, not saying that the slandered ones here are necessarily beautiful but still I don't think that being elegant means having zero fun nor originality with our outfits... Maybe more discernment, modernity and less underlying condescension would be welcomed for this type of content.

  • @anyH20
    @anyH20 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    To me the main difference is casual vs. formal. The "elegant" shoes are much more formal. I don't dress formal and am on my feel a lot, so need support.

  • @thefayyazis
    @thefayyazis ปีที่แล้ว +263

    I agree with ballet flats. They are so versatile and comfortable. A staple in my wardrobe is a pair of nude ballet flats with a pointed toe. I think the pointed toe elevates them and makes them even more versatile.

    • @sienkiewiczmonika1161
      @sienkiewiczmonika1161 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Hallux valgus and fallen arches entered the chat.
      Seemingly comfortable and safe, they are not a good choice for feet and legs. The problem is the thin sole, which does not provide cushioning, they are not profiled, so they do not support the feet. They can cause foot deformities, calluses and knee pain.

    • @michellemcgill9328
      @michellemcgill9328 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Arch support inserts. It doesn’t seem like I would need them with high arches but I do. I often wear a different type and height shoe to change it up and not stress my feet.

    • @payattention31
      @payattention31 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you walk a long time with ballet shoes, does it hurt? I never had any.

    • @michellemcgill9328
      @michellemcgill9328 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@payattention31 yes

    • @payattention31
      @payattention31 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michellemcgill9328 you mean with the arch support insert?

  • @francescaicaza5148
    @francescaicaza5148 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I would add espadrilles to the "good list" specially for summer time, there are some very good quality ones that look very elegant, not all of them of course

  • @heathermanning5368
    @heathermanning5368 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Maybe it’s just me but i could never wear slides , Especially with socks! Love Clark’s shoes for comfort

  • @JNAllenstv
    @JNAllenstv ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I like the chain detail on the loafers. My Coach loafers look really nice with the chain. I never go out the house looking anything but expensive.

  • @usualsuspect5197
    @usualsuspect5197 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Moi, j'adore les chaussures "gladiateur " . J'en avais une paire de couleur jaune. Super .

  • @aprilp2875
    @aprilp2875 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Anna! Please do a video on elegant beach wear. I’m not sure what shoes to wear because I want to look elegant but I don’t want to spend a lot of money on shoes that will get dirty.

  • @glitterkissbex
    @glitterkissbex ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I doubt many ladies would have $800 to spend on a pair of shoes. Some of us are very elegant ladies who unfortunately don't have the budget that you enjoy.

    • @elipotter369
      @elipotter369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There are usually nicely styled shoes available at the $200 mark, & lots of sales.

  • @susanhigh3978
    @susanhigh3978 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Many of the shoes and sandals you dislike you are styling with a dress that does not work with them. More casual clothing would work better and make them look much nicer. Some of us need comfort and you can style these shoes in a stylish way. Yes you are going for elegance, but make make it sound as if those shoes have no place in our wardrobe which I disagree with.

    • @ifyouknowyouknow6964
      @ifyouknowyouknow6964 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some of this would mean something if fashion wasn’t preying on us
      They basically tell us what to like .

    • @bobbieschroder6231
      @bobbieschroder6231 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Anything that gives the foot a clunky or chunky appearance is not elegant. To be perfectly honest, even some of the shoes that Anna likes are too bulky-looking, for my tastes.

    • @carmensavu5122
      @carmensavu5122 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@bobbieschroder6231 Yeah, like the slippers (I don't care what you say, those are not sandals) she chose instead of the gladiator sandals had very wide straps just in front with nothing in the back to balance them. They make her feet look even wider than the gladiator thin straps.

  • @zinajo9615
    @zinajo9615 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    We dont have to be attractive and elegant all the time. Sometimes we need something comfy and for long days

  • @songbirdmahb
    @songbirdmahb ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am known by my friends and family as someone who dresses pretty elegantly, classy and with good taste. I am 55 and can't afford designer shoes but there are just as good and cuter, more functional shoes out there. I agree with about 80% of the selections here or at least the reasonings. I have a hard time wearing flats without arch support. So some of these flats or slingbacks are really impractical from any standpoint. I would be more comfortable wearing high heels. Fyi..I love the fisherman shoes and not all men think they are grandma shoes. It really depends on the function or event the shoe is worn to. Not all choices should be for some fancy outing.

  • @karungarimaina7613
    @karungarimaina7613 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    🤣When Anna started moonwalking, all I could hear was, ‘Annie are you okay?...🎶🎶’ Great tips as usual👏🏾

    • @Em_Elizabeth
      @Em_Elizabeth ปีที่แล้ว

      🎶Anna Bey are you okay🎶

  • @Bluehoshiflower
    @Bluehoshiflower ปีที่แล้ว +575

    Me: wants to be a pretty lady
    Also me: there is no way in hell I will give up my Doc Martens lol

    • @princessGosia
      @princessGosia ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Anita, do not stop loving them :) I wear them too, and I style them so feminine ❤

    • @thegillmachine
      @thegillmachine ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Some of the Mary Janes styles aren’t so bad if you’re younger! They have a bit of femininity to them and aren’t nearly so clunky looking but the downside is they could also be too youthful. You may find they work better with feminine outfits than the chunky boots if dr martens are the route you’re taking

    • @kathejohnson4241
      @kathejohnson4241 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nothing beats them for a walk with my dog on a rainy day!

    • @LadyCamilleE
      @LadyCamilleE ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thegillmachine i always have Mary Jane’s in my closet! There are great walking varieties too.

    • @shelbysittig1047
      @shelbysittig1047 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish to find more Mary Janes. They are my go tos for a beautiful and feminine shoe.

  • @Ilina_Velkova
    @Ilina_Velkova ปีที่แล้ว +262

    Hey Anna, I would looove to see a video from you explaining how to be elegant wearing sport clothing/shoes. I think this will be so helpful for those of us who love to be comfortable, but at the same time elegant 😊

    • @shreyasigarg8163
      @shreyasigarg8163 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah me too

    • @Swifftylady17
      @Swifftylady17 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ditto

    • @dianapohe
      @dianapohe ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I think that's sort of against the kind of style she teaches. On multiple videos she stated that she believes one should mostly wear occasion-appropriate clothing, so sport clothing only while doing sport (and not in your everyday life, or while travelling or flying or at home), equitation clothing only when riding, and so on.
      Videos like this one are made to give alternatives 😊
      Then of course, this is only if you want to follow what she says. Of course you can decide to still wear sport clothes in your daily life 😊

    • @26Sundrops
      @26Sundrops ปีที่แล้ว

      @JosieLDN is very elegant and loves exercise! She mostly does vlog style videos, but she also has a blog, e-newsletter, and shopping lists you can browse. She knows where to buy the best athletic wear that is high quality and gorgeous.

    • @diana.290
      @diana.290 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think elegance and sportswear contradict each other.

  • @kaunas88
    @kaunas88 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with almost everything that Anna is saying in terms of avoiding the fashion horrors/extremes and sticking with classic elegant attractive designs. It is classic because it has stood the test of time.

  • @Seldarius
    @Seldarius ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Birkenstocks have their uses as work shoes and casual wear. The enclosed ones with back strap are the go-to shoe for German nurses and doctors. They are also usually recommended for people with foot problems as they give much more support than most flats and are often worn as house shoes or for casual outings. (Germans tend to walk a lot, so good support is important.) I‘m not sure when and why they became a fashion accessory, but I’m fairly certain they were never meant to be. 😁

  • @rowentree3999
    @rowentree3999 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ballet flats just do not work for my feet. I need some arch support! I actually quite like loafers, oxfords, and those retro style shoes (if the material and detailing were different).

  • @minjuai
    @minjuai ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’ve been watching you since I was 14 and now I’m turning 19. Your videos have helped me to make the best decisions with purchasing clothes and shoes 🙏🏾

    • @massis9069
      @massis9069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish I learnt all of this when I was your age. Congratulations for leaning towards this type of content.

    • @minjuai
      @minjuai ปีที่แล้ว

      @@massis9069 🙏

  • @heathermanning5368
    @heathermanning5368 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I found that if you are doing a lot of walking and want to wear a dress but be super comfortable wear Sketchers mary janes or similar mary jane type sneaker shoes! I wore mine to an amusement park and they were so comfortable! 💜no foot pain whatsoever!

  • @applesnicolle5144
    @applesnicolle5144 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Miss Anna, your HAIR is the best🎖 here!!

  • @maureens9536
    @maureens9536 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like a lot of your suggestions in other videos, but honestly, every pair here that is comfortable was replaced by something better looking but likely very uncomfortable. Can't walk for any length of time in these things!

  • @WesleySutherland
    @WesleySutherland ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love leopard print in calfskin and the right tones of brown ❤

  • @sarahterry2140
    @sarahterry2140 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I love my fisherman sandals from The Row - I dress for myself (not for men) and get many compliments on them. If you know, you know.

    • @amberevol
      @amberevol ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I appreciate some of her style advice but I honestly cringe every time she uses men's opinions like it should influence what we wear. I love when my girlfriends like my outfits n shoes, I honestly couldn't care less what men want to see me in.

    • @MadonnaGrogan
      @MadonnaGrogan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dress for your self

  • @Seleste777
    @Seleste777 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I can see how these are better options aesthetically but many of the options that you provided are very thin soled which might not work for people with foot issues. What are some options for people who have orthopedic issues ie plantar fasciitis?

    • @elipotter369
      @elipotter369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Look around the shopsnin your area. I see heaps of options in mid level shoe brand stores & better dept stores (still have trouble getting ones to work on my difficult feet though)!
      Sometimes small independent shops have good choices too

    • @lisar915r9
      @lisar915r9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Vionic makes nice shoes for women with feet issues.

    • @lisar915r9
      @lisar915r9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also the German brand Ara makes nice ballet flats.

    • @LostInThought4ever
      @LostInThought4ever ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can’t give you any ideas on the loafers or mules that she suggests. I have plantar fasciitis too and I only wear flats if I’m only going to be on my feet no more than an hour or two. But if you get a sneaker that is very similar to the Louis Vuitton’s she likes, they work really well. Make sure the sole of the shoe is sturdy, not too bendy, and thicker to absorb more shock. And I always make sure my sneakers have removable inserts so I can put in the plantar fasciitis inserts. I have several pairs that are similar and they work well for me. I know we don’t all have the same feet, but maybe give them a try. Also, a slight heel, like maybe half an inch to an inch helps too.

    • @starsying
      @starsying ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Look for the brands Aerosoles, Ecco and Clarks

  • @chandrawitts3304
    @chandrawitts3304 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I bought a pair of those chunky, housecleaning slides for my last vacation in Bali. Saved my life walking around the rainy and muddy streets in Ubud. I even had to wear them to restaurants lol

  • @maggiejean_nahas
    @maggiejean_nahas ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The dad shoe is so unflattering oh my goodness!! Thank you so much for inspiring me for footwear it's not easy shopping for shoes!

  • @sue7621
    @sue7621 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love my ballet’s and all my elegant shoes sling backs kitten heels etc
    I’ve just bought a pair of Russell and Bromley loafers and I love them!

  • @sienkiewiczmonika1161
    @sienkiewiczmonika1161 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Seemingly comfortable and safe, balet flats are not a good choice for feet and legs. The problem is the thin sole, which does not provide cushioning, they are not profiled, so they do not support the feet. They can cause foot deformities, calluses and knee pain.

  • @roxanaurquiza2030
    @roxanaurquiza2030 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Gracias a ti mejoro mi inglés y aprendo a ser más elegante y tener un mejor estilo. Gracias, Anna! 🤍

  • @_Amy
    @_Amy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Other than the white sneakers, most people can’t wear the recommended shoes if they are going to be on their feet for a while. They are all great to wear to an event or short occasions but not practical

    • @GotoMaki4Micah
      @GotoMaki4Micah ปีที่แล้ว

      to be an elegant woman, you never walk. you get chauffeured around everywhere in a limousine. walking is for peasants.

  • @ELSITAFERNANDEZ
    @ELSITAFERNANDEZ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have those exact $250 beige flats for 10 bucks from another store and they are my favorite. Classic, elegant, match every outfit so comfy, i bought 5 pairs

  • @jollygood8828
    @jollygood8828 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The problem with most of these shoes is that.....they exist. Having said that I live in london and walk about 8 miles most days. So for me no feminine shoe or sandal cuts the mustard, it has to be trainers all day every day. If I'm wearing a dress I will take a pair of low heels with me.

  • @mariannab.5884
    @mariannab.5884 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    There are some great suggestions here! Likely most people will be able to find an alternative that works for them. But I have to take issue with the "repel a man" or "attract a man" discussion. The attractiveness of a woman, if that's even something that needs to be discussed, comes from so many things. And what two people find attractive in one another cannot be measured by "elegance" or a "style". I mean, what century are we living in? Long gone are the days when women had to twist themselves in knots in order to "get" a man. One of the first women to take that stand? Coco Chanel. She had lovers, but she made her own way on her own terms. These days, we make our own money, own our own homes, invest, adopt and raise children on our own, and make our own rules for a happy life. How about a discussion of how MEN need to make themselves more attractive to US.

  • @jelenamilic883
    @jelenamilic883 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I like loafers, but when my husband saw them for the first time, he said, "That's exactly what my grandmother used to wear".🤦‍♀️😂I'm 1.74 tall and loafers fit me much better than ballet flats, in wich I look ridiculus. Loafers look better on most women. I completely agree with all the other examples in the video 🤮🤣.

    • @northgeorgiamom8956
      @northgeorgiamom8956 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes. Not giving up my cute loafers!!

    • @Em_Elizabeth
      @Em_Elizabeth ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honestly I didn't think the loafers looked bad at all, especially compared to the other shoes.

    • @hakuna8374
      @hakuna8374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He isn"t very polite. Your well being should be the most important thing.
      If my hustand told me that he would get a mind you own shoes reply.

  • @JustMamman
    @JustMamman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm glad I'm not weird. I also found most of these shoes ugly and disagreeable but then I thought It was just a 'me' problem. Thank you Anna for making me know I'm elegant😊

  • @kariay50
    @kariay50 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Approximately two years ago I purchasd a pair similar to the #1 style. I was not aware they are referred to as "The Dad sandal". They are burgundy with a black outer sole. I have recieved a several complements on the color and style of the sandal. I did not puchase to follow a trend. I purchased because they are very comfortable and support my ankles. As I am getting older comfort is very important to me. I have a pair of ballet flats which are a cute style but not comfortable.

  • @Jenekks
    @Jenekks ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Great tips Anna! It used to be that the unattractive shoes were the most comfortable shoes. Now I'm finding so many more choices, where the shoes are not only attractive but comfortable especially for those of us with major foot problems.

    • @LisaMarieAdams
      @LisaMarieAdams ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Any recommendations on brands that fit both those criteria? 🙏

  • @chicagogyrl4846
    @chicagogyrl4846 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The gladiator sandals are cool for a rock concert! Or, for someone sporting a Goth look.

  • @vanessab.6682
    @vanessab.6682 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My mom told me that about chains. Well, her reasoning wasn't about classy or not classy. She said you know what Vanessa if you buy purses with gold chain straps, it's only going to make your purse that much heavier, so be careful with gold chain strap purses.

  • @gayeanne7633
    @gayeanne7633 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'll probably wear elegant shoes on occasions I need to look elegant, but as for my normal lifestyle, those shoes opposite the elegant ones are my go-to, easy to wear, and comfortable, especially on long walks and my way of living 😅

  • @courtneyandrews9035
    @courtneyandrews9035 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think everyone would love a video about boat, beach or lake shoes! Also you could do a video about style and keeping in mind the activities for the day at each location.

  • @carac8527
    @carac8527 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It’s like you read my mind. Excited to watch.

  • @tanyavalishvili2247
    @tanyavalishvili2247 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Okay but the first “appropriate option” is soooo granny 😅 and I do love a good dose of Anna Bey! ❤️❤️

  • @juvolp1052
    @juvolp1052 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came into this video prepared to disagree with everything and roll my eyes but urgh…I stand corrected 😬 you’ve convinced me Anna! Good stuff

  • @Franluvsyuh
    @Franluvsyuh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the video! While these options are all lovely for a light day of walking, what would one wear for comfortably walking 10,000 steps? By “comfortably” I mean won’t cause plantar fasciitis or knee pain. I am visiting Europe and would love shoes that can handle uneven cobblestoned streets.

  • @jessicalynnstrom
    @jessicalynnstrom ปีที่แล้ว +59

    On crazy downtown walking days I’m still wearing sneakers. I have plantar fasciitis and I just would be in horrible pain walking in list of those :/

    • @LauraAmanda8888
      @LauraAmanda8888 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That's awful ! I get the same kind of pain just walking a few hours in ballet flats. It's terrible. Better to wear supportive shoes!

    • @ColleahG
      @ColleahG ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same! I have plantar fasciitis and would need some tips that are a little more practical. I am seeing a chiropractor, as well and doing foot massages daily. Comfy shoes are a must for me.

    • @dianav.5837
      @dianav.5837 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed! I work on my feet all day. I need supportive shoes.

  • @carmenatudorei8930
    @carmenatudorei8930 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Anna, your gentle laugh in the middle of "debate" says everything! No further explanation is required for something you don't like 😊
    I absolutely love your soft way of saying things straight forward ❤

  • @ladydeathstrikeX
    @ladydeathstrikeX ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I would never understand those Yeezy's. I mean they do look comfortable but as Anna said, I too would use them as washroom slippers.

  • @monah5532
    @monah5532 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So, none of these shoes except for the running shoes, are healthly for spine, knees or arches. I used to work in Paris, and I can tell you that the French have fabulous, stylish shoes that will allow you to walk comfortably for kilometres over uneven cobblestones and up and down many flights of stairs. There are proper arches, shock-absorbing, non-slip soles and little heels, elegant colours and details. There is a reason Parisian women are rarely overweight yet never go to the gym.

  • @pamjarcy4075
    @pamjarcy4075 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like your style and taste! So true the things you said. Ballet flats are number one as well as classic flats. Or even with a simple bow (not the huge ones). And yes one sling or strap not multiple ones. The industry and media just don’t help. They force women to wear only cheap and masculinated junk. So many stores don’t even sells shoes anymore and just sneakers; you have to go online to get decent shoes that aren’t out of this world expensive; but even there it’s harder and harder to find good varieties.

  • @vladarLarynx
    @vladarLarynx ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love this video. I love wearing heels but I love having an option for flats, especially when I want to walk a lot, which happens often as the weather gets warmer. Thanks for sharing this. Love your content!

  • @bamafencer12
    @bamafencer12 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    There is a time and place for Birkenstocks, I won't give them up. Great list Anna!

    • @feelthejoy
      @feelthejoy ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yep, Birks are classic and preppy. I’m never giving up my Birks!

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 ปีที่แล้ว

      They look like crap. Not feminine at all

    • @maddieb2763
      @maddieb2763 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@feelthejoy They look awful, sorry to say. But if you like them, go ahead.

    • @feelthejoy
      @feelthejoy ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@maddieb2763 I mean they’re in style where I live so I’m really not pressed. They’re cute and my bf wears them too.

    • @maddieb2763
      @maddieb2763 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@feelthejoy Above all, we have to wear whatever suits us best so if you like them, it's fine. It's like what Anna said about animal print, some people love it, some can't stand it. Fortunately we have a lot of different options to choose from. 😊

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love the juxtaposition of a classy, flowy, loose dress and humble shoes. I prefer that casual look over jeans and polished flats. I dress to fit the occasion, but I love sneakers, Birks, and clogs with a feminine and comfortable dress.

  • @ShivangiNaithani
    @ShivangiNaithani ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Anna educating us and making us laugh at the same time 😂

  • @mirelam9601
    @mirelam9601 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sneakers are a good option. They have now different colours and types so they go with everything. I have sneakers all the time.

  • @amyV10844
    @amyV10844 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If the rest of your outfit is elegant ,it’s nice to have a trendy ,in style shoes to make it look modern. Princess Diana wore chunky dad shoes , cowboy boots, jeans, bomber jackets and other casual clothing and she was a fashion and elegance icon. If it’s good enough for her ,it’s good enough for me 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m not wearing grandma’ patent leather church mules sorry..

  • @WenyeDang
    @WenyeDang ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I see more ladies at work are wearing Rothy’s. They are not cheap (not as expensive as luxurious brand either). They are super comfortable, very light weight, elegant and professional looking, machine washable, made from 100% recycled materials. Highly recommend!

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are actually cute. 149 tho

  • @GuDa-f5e
    @GuDa-f5e ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't really like most of the alternatives either. And some of them even less than those which are meant to be not appropriate, especially number one. But it entertains.

  • @ireneiturriaga2397
    @ireneiturriaga2397 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the Birkenstock due to foot problems, all the shoes 👠 you have shown I love but difficult to wear ALL. No foot 🦶 support kill my back, knees and feet

  • @jonahandthewolf
    @jonahandthewolf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Elegance quite depends on how you define it! I think it's Elegant to respect the subjectivity of taste ofc and also elegant to wear things you feel comfortable in. I also find nude backed dresses elegant personally but some people may not!
    I have those more chunky sandals with the straps, and I like them a lot for comfort and basic style, they're elegant to me in a way. I do like those slingback shoes also :) they would be a nice option -if- I did want a finer shoe instead of my sandals
    Loafers are my favourite.
    I take your advice where it applies to me. Thank you for the flat options!

  • @bethbeebout2738
    @bethbeebout2738 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    My man calls Birkenstocks ‘birth control shoes’😂

    • @Godsmasterpiece1993
      @Godsmasterpiece1993 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hahahahaha! I can’t stop laughing!!!

    • @aaliyahalicia8383
      @aaliyahalicia8383 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @laurarosenbergart
      @laurarosenbergart ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂 it works other way around too.. my ex had them all the time and it was such a turn off for me. 😅

    • @fidgetkib8142
      @fidgetkib8142 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "Jesus sandals" My God I HATE those. Lol

    • @Stefyyyx
      @Stefyyyx ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't blame him!

  • @charmainethomas8755
    @charmainethomas8755 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for doing this. I was a pump wearer and unfortunately was paralyzed on one foot and only an wear flats. It’s been a struggle.

  • @jeandennison8702
    @jeandennison8702 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I love the Birkenstock platforms. They may not be "elegant" but they are cute, IMO on a dainty foot like mine. Women with small feet can get away with chunky shoes.

    • @Staaaarrrrrrrrrr
      @Staaaarrrrrrrrrr ปีที่แล้ว

      No way sorry. Ive seen women with dainty feet wear them and still looks hideous :)

    • @sarahterry2140
      @sarahterry2140 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      More if you have nice ankles and know how to style them.

    • @caribbeantigress
      @caribbeantigress ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I disagree, small feet look terrible on chunky shoes, like wearing a tugboat. I wear size 11 with strong, muscular legs, and I look fantastic

    • @burghbrat3319
      @burghbrat3319 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes we CAN. The shoe might not be elegant, but if the foot is, we can wear anything.

    • @burghbrat3319
      @burghbrat3319 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@caribbeantigress And I'm a 6.5 with strong, muscular legs. Slim ankles, too. I can wear any shoe, including chunky soles and ankle straps.

  • @rudogwang6060
    @rudogwang6060 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hhaha, Anna, I totally agree with you. We use those red sandles for shower and bath in China. I can't believe people wear them for an outing.

  • @jcmhanel1
    @jcmhanel1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am pro animal, mainly faux leopard print, but tasteful. Nothing huge like you were showing that looks like plastic.
    I am so glad you’re pointing all these things out! So helpful!

  • @EnniSuorama
    @EnniSuorama ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As someone who has insanely small feet (size EU 34) and is very distinctively pear shaped, chunky bottom shoes that are slim on the ankle are one of the most attractive shoes on me since it balances out my much larger upper thighs and butt. With very small, dainty shoes I look totally unproportionate.

    • @linapeeva
      @linapeeva ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg, I also have size EU 34! It's such a struggle to find good shoes!

  • @lightylicht4373
    @lightylicht4373 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I had always varicose veins, never could wear high heels. Flats are so comfortable

    • @julieme7927
      @julieme7927 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True but there are pretty flats and uglier flats. Having said that, wear the things you enjoy x

  • @Transforma_tu_futuro_ahora
    @Transforma_tu_futuro_ahora ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In Spain, ballerinas are very common, I also wear them, it will be three years that I live here in the United States and I still wear my clothes and shoes the same as I did in my beautiful Spain 🙈

  • @astrocat88
    @astrocat88 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg!! I love how you admittedly cut the extra straps off the shoe!!❤❤❤😂

  • @sranyak
    @sranyak 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Anna, you took the words right out of my mouth, if the print is done in good taste. 💞

  • @Ravenna17
    @Ravenna17 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Here’s a new idea! Dressing for your age, what would you say is elegant for women in their early 20s? I still wear pleated mini skirts/skorts that’s never gonna change. To me they just look better than shorts. I pair them with form fitting short sleeve or sleeveless tops wearing ballet flats or sandals.

  • @jenricardo9905
    @jenricardo9905 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was a funny one! I just came back from a classical music concert and actually was surprised and impressed by the number of people who were wearing nice elegant clothing. And there were many young people. I think the world still has a chance to make it pretty again.

  • @l.ameenaa4669
    @l.ameenaa4669 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I have sore feet so I wear running shoes to at from work. I keep them on regardless of how they look.

    • @annsmith7939
      @annsmith7939 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I used to have them also until I found different things in the therapeutic areas and now the swelling is minimized

    • @zwischenburkaundbikini2418
      @zwischenburkaundbikini2418 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am sure there are shoes out there that are both comfortable and nice looking.

    • @hakuna8374
      @hakuna8374 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We should always wear comfortable shoes! I don't care what anybody thinks of my shoes.
      She is so limited and superficial! If you are in pain why would you harm yourself even more?

  • @nene5857
    @nene5857 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There is a time and place for elegant shoes & then there are times for dresses down fun shoes. Wear what works for you!!

  • @tiffystrangebirdbrown6844
    @tiffystrangebirdbrown6844 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sleek styles like little canvas Keds can be cute occasionally. Sketchers had/has a super sleek slipper that was trendy immediately before COVID hit. They are more elegant than the newly trendy, mocasin like "Dudes."

  • @genevabrantner365
    @genevabrantner365 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    The rubber 'cleaning shoes' look like the same shoes we issued to inmates in jail. Yes, I worked in a jail.

    • @nahambohilma8598
      @nahambohilma8598 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol, really ?So we are out here looking like semi- jailbirds lol

    • @amazingyummy2
      @amazingyummy2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha exactly

    • @fredahwiwu5219
      @fredahwiwu5219 ปีที่แล้ว

      I live in Uganda not only were the men wearing them but the women too ooh lord

  • @youngfrijoles
    @youngfrijoles ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was not expecting your moon walk 😂

  • @prabhjyot6807
    @prabhjyot6807 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One thing I realized after watching these videos is that elegant ladies make their choices in life keeping in mind the interests of men.

  • @aiyanaela6480
    @aiyanaela6480 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anna Bey I loved it when you chopped away the chain on the loafers what a nice touch

  • @candelabra7764
    @candelabra7764 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the video I have NEEDED. Shopping for flats that are both comfortable and nice looking is harder than it looks.

  • @CPT_B
    @CPT_B ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Another fun and helpful video! Thank you Anna. There were some strange shoes and most of the alternatives, while some were expensive, seemed appropriate. I like to wear heels at work but during the summer when you're out & about all day, you just have to go with a good pair of flats and no one wants to sacrifice style. Also I love the Teddy cameo again, such a cute puppy 🐶