Traditional match making has not failed. The truth is those born after 1990 have already made up their mind that arranged marriage would be a disaster. This could be because of their parents' boring relationship or some other trauma. However, the truth is, today's generation has made up their mind about Traditional matchmaking without even trying that Traditional approach. One change that has to come in arranged marriage is the increase in courtship period to atleast 2 years. The courtship can happen under parental supervision. That is one change that has to come in the arranged marriage. Nobody can decide about another person in just 1 or 2 meetings. I still feel arranged marriages still work if you are open to it and recent statistics have shown that love marriages are ending up in divorce a lot more than arranged marriages.
No hook ups, no drugs, no smoking, no drinking. Still, I haven't achieved anything in life. 😂😂. Kam se kam yeh sab experience karne walo k pass blame karne k liye koi to hota hai.
For men, dating is like dying of thirst in the desert. Not a drop of water in sight. For women, it’s like dying of thirst in the ocean. Water is everywhere, but it’s mostly toxic and full of salt.”
None of these apps can ever replace organic connections and conversations. No wonder people are experiencing mental and emotional fatigue. Humans are designed for social connections, meeting people on ground & networking and not for staring at a screen and swiping.
Still, the desi crowd is a huge letdown. There is no organic connection to begin with. Attraction is either there or not, nothing organic about it however you come across the person.
Hi Sangeeta, You've beautifully put this across ♡ Apps are killing the feeling. Love and romance is such a beautiful, heavy topic but people just don't want to experience it.
Options are killing us. Not just in dating, if a human has multiple options in any area of life, they will always keep expecting for better without deciding on one. It's a sad reality.
My main concern is how to survive all of these financial and political crisis, especially in light of the US political power scuffle. The government has really called things more difficult for its citizens, and we can't sit back and bear all the consequences of the bad governance.
I'm glad you made this video, I can recall when I was homeless and faced with many things in Life until $75,000 biweekly began rolling in and my Life went from A homeless nobody to a different person with good things to offer!!!!!!❤️
Wow😱 I know her too Judy Marion Then is a remarkable individual who has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life. Her unwavering wisdom have been invaluable assets, enriching my journey in countless ways.
Raj Shamani, day after day your content is becoming more n more intellectual and great.The best part of your podcast is you always focus on the topic..content N while doing it u never consider the person has to be a celebrity..as long as he/she is bringing value to the discussion, that person is part of your podcast. Great work buddy 👏👏👏
@@MrBlackjack456 that depends on how individually you perceive things in general. For people at large including me, this podcast highlights issues of today’s dating apps which till date no one has talked abt in public domain. Kudos to you again Raj Shamani 👍🏻
I disagree. There are more opinions than facts which are over generalised than what actually is on this podcast. Nothing to learn here compared to one’s own experiences, observation and perception.
General rule for happiness in relationships - Stay away from people who use these apps. Mindset of people using these apps is only hawas, no commitment. Jai Shri Ram 🙌🏻
These podcasts are nothing but someone’s point of view on any given subject…considering these as reference points of reality is a mistake people should avoid. I mean what is “Genuine hook up”?
I don't really understand how he is creating content about the events that I'm encountering in my life. First fitness, then cheating culture, then this matrimony thing.
It's not app or people problem It's bigger than that When your mind is trained from everywhere to get sexually driven for everything then that is the result you get....whatever you bring it, will lead you to that.. or you have high regulations from starting
No one wants long term in dating apps. Like guys putting long term or claiming that they are looking for long term and then going on a date then they say they are looking for casual ?! I mean all guys i have talked to or met wanted casual
Women have plenty of men but end up not liking anyone and men have limited options and end up not getting liked. So eventually both are lonely. What an interesting time we are living in!
was really looking forward to Juleo's launch - we thought another service provider like ours but disappointed listening to the discussion....come on dating service providers - lets build a service that has sanity.
It’s disastrous parenting that’s producing evil spirits. Parental control on their sons is negligible & they turn a blind eye to male addictions like gambling, smoking, drugs, porrn, alcohol, fast cars, nonstop gaming, mobile addiction, watching crime series, violent abusive fights, ragging, bullying, aggression Tv shows Bigg Boss, anxiety, depression, domestic violence . This indiscipline, lack of character building, creates monsters who are let loose on women; these parent made predators are a grave danger to females. red flags he mentioned are very superficial, as females run away from men who have bad habits
Spot on👌 This is the main reason And I have actually seen when parents raise a guy properly they develop empathy for other people too Just like women It's not like only women are capable of developing empathy and kindness 😒
Spot on👌 This is the main reason And I have actually seen when parents raise a guy properly they develop empathy for other people too Just like women It's not like only women are capable of developing empathy and kindness 😒
I have interviewed with the founder Varun. He is really passionate and optimistic. Hope he makes big in the buisness. And solves problems of modern dating.
In the starting of 10 mins 3 times you have started speaking in the mid of the guest let him complete i hope you don't do it in your next podcast you are fabulous and we love your content and its our duty to tell you where uh have done the mistake lots of love from bihar
Lagta hai Raj Shamani bhai ki sardi kabhi sudharti hi nahi.. 😁😁 Whenever I hear his podcast in the background with my headphones I always hear him snorting all the time 🤧😀😄, like just before this podcast I saw his previous podcast of wow momo. In that podcast also I heard him snorting a lot while talking 😄 Get well soon bhai ✌🏻
I m 26 year old nd single ...its not like i achieved something very great in life but i know my friends who went into relationships had countless heartbreaks , low self esteem, a round of therapy sessions...they all r more mature than me but it came at a very heavy price.
Any body at the age 18 😂 single and keep expectations in your mind that if i choose a better pattern or gf we grow together and support each other for our success
Everyone says they have a secure app with govt ID verification etc. but once the revenue starts coming in no one removes people from the app. It’s all non sense.
I prefer what Raj says than the speaker! Bazaar is meant for dating apps - than even private matchmaking is the same - Something like "An Expensive Bazaar with a tour guide"
Juleo sounds interesting and if they can build a descent size community, rest everything will fall in place for building a sustainable business as market size is massive, worldwide!
Bro this is super informative, one of my friend having account on jeevanaathi and connected to girl followed by insta they talked and girl is ready for one night stand 😅 wtf is happening to our society
I agree. Guys, don't take rejection very well. A guy called me a judgy b*tch when I told him I don't see it going anywhere after 2 days of chatting. Another guy told me I'm rejecting him cause I have self-worth issues after a week of chatting. I'm scared to be on dating apps now. 😅😂
I think now only way to find someone is via. Comments section... where you agree to someone's pov or find it absolutely your type. There you can try and initiate things. 🤣🤣 since i have tried matrimony sites which legit turned into hookup oriented profiles. And i can't just get serious with men on dating apps who are out there for just FUN. 🤷♀️
I met a guy that's for arrange marriage. But he told he want to discuss about sexul compatability. Even I was open I started speaking openly about my view. But turned out he need only sexaul talks from me. I don't understand at all about men.
Nothing can replace old school love no matter what.......How can anyone choose the most imp thing i.e soulmate through any fellow app?? How can someone get attached to a stranger whom he/she has never met before?? Dating apps can never help you in searching for a husband or wife whom u never met in real in person before......Dating apps are just making u characterless n destroying today's generation.....People should understand this harsh reality🙏🙏
Girls have alot of options either offline or online 1 girl can easily data 3 guys at time and thats reality that is why guy is always cry in breakup not because she left him cuz he invest alot in her
Yes he saying correct u can't trust male or female which u connect in matrimony sites because u know u simultaneously search other best matches also its a like a Bazaar...
Raj bhai you cut the guy when he was telling the ways to avoid traps where law, police etc are all together . You should have come back to that point & let HIM complete that section 😢
As per the research or theory....Raj has to mentioned the details of researchers/papers with endorsement once he put it in percentage statistics to the podcast...Numbers are illusive
Aaj main small town girl hone par proud feel kr rhi hun km se km chhote towns ki kaafi hadd tak girls insb chizo se dur hain dating smoking drinking n all 😓
Click Here To Download The Juleo App: join.juleo.club/rs
Raj Ap Guest Sa Questions short pucha kro
Ak hi ques ko ap bahut ghuma ka lamba kar k puch ta ho
Let the guest speak.... you're cutting them without letting them complete the sentences... it's very annoying.
Traditional match making has not failed. The truth is those born after 1990 have already made up their mind that arranged marriage would be a disaster. This could be because of their parents' boring relationship or some other trauma. However, the truth is, today's generation has made up their mind about Traditional matchmaking without even trying that Traditional approach. One change that has to come in arranged marriage is the increase in courtship period to atleast 2 years. The courtship can happen under parental supervision. That is one change that has to come in the arranged marriage. Nobody can decide about another person in just 1 or 2 meetings. I still feel arranged marriages still work if you are open to it and recent statistics have shown that love marriages are ending up in divorce a lot more than arranged marriages.
🌹🙏 hare Krishna 🙏 radha radha radha 🙏🌹
Uuu ans 17:26 your day@@vaishnavijadhav8459
No hook ups, no drugs, no smoking, no drinking. Still, I haven't achieved anything in life. 😂😂. Kam se kam yeh sab experience karne walo k pass blame karne k liye koi to hota hai.
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
how old r u dude
It is not something to be very proud of.
Sahi kaha h
For men, dating is like dying of thirst in the desert. Not a drop of water in sight. For women, it’s like dying of thirst in the ocean. Water is everywhere, but it’s mostly toxic and full of salt.”
Very well put 😅
I don't think so 😕😕
Beautifully articulated!!❤
Raj shamani's content becoming more & more Intellectual day by day 📈📈
Absolutely... i mean such informative podcast it is ❤
And lengthy and time consuming as well
None of these apps can ever replace organic connections and conversations. No wonder people are experiencing mental and emotional fatigue. Humans are designed for social connections, meeting people on ground & networking and not for staring at a screen and swiping.
Exactly
Point.
Still, the desi crowd is a huge letdown. There is no organic connection to begin with. Attraction is either there or not, nothing organic about it however you come across the person.
@evan3087 I somewhat agree yet disagree to your opinion. Organic connections are never defined or bound to a certain territory or a so called 'Class'
Hi Sangeeta,
You've beautifully put this across ♡
Apps are killing the feeling.
Love and romance is such a beautiful, heavy topic but people just don't want to experience it.
Options are killing us. Not just in dating, if a human has multiple options in any area of life, they will always keep expecting for better without deciding on one. It's a sad reality.
That billionaire friend is Nikhil Kamath who got ghosted.
where did you hear that?
He's good looking?
By Rhea?
"Out of the three of us, two have never met someone of the opposite gender. It's so awkward, we're still figuring out if eye contact is a myth!"
Lame stat and title to drag the viewers to watch lol😅
That's a lie for sure
Raj doesn’t allow the guest to speak a lot of times.
Yes.. ye guests ko bulata hai aur khud hi ka podcast banata hai😅
even i observed the same
He only began this platform to make some amount and step out. So obvious he doesn’t have the quality to interview people
Yes
It’s Ego effect.
Don’t worry, he will learn it otherwise life will teach him.
My main concern is how to survive all of these financial and political crisis, especially in light of the US political power scuffle. The government has really called things more difficult for its citizens, and we can't sit back and bear all the consequences of the bad governance.
I'm glad you made this video, I can recall when I was homeless and faced with many things in Life until $75,000 biweekly began rolling in and my Life went from A homeless nobody to a different person with good things to offer!!!!!!❤️
That's lovely 🌹if I may ask, How did come up with so much biweekly?
It's Judy Marion Then doing she changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.
$_700k and yet still counting on. Judy Marion is the kind of person one needs in his or her life to be honest❤️❤️❤️>>>>
Wow😱 I know her too Judy Marion Then is a remarkable individual who has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life. Her unwavering wisdom have been invaluable assets, enriching my journey in countless ways.
Raj Shamani, day after day your content is becoming more n more intellectual and great.The best part of your podcast is you always focus on the topic..content N while doing it u never consider the person has to be a celebrity..as long as he/she is bringing value to the discussion, that person is part of your podcast. Great work buddy 👏👏👏
You mean this podcast is intellectual and not an advertising of a dating app?
@@MrBlackjack456 that depends on how individually you perceive things in general.
For people at large including me, this podcast highlights issues of today’s dating apps which till date no one has talked abt in public domain. Kudos to you again Raj Shamani 👍🏻
I disagree. There are more opinions than facts which are over generalised than what actually is on this podcast. Nothing to learn here compared to one’s own experiences, observation and perception.
Bazzar is very polished word he ment KOTHA
It is rand bazar in modern version
Bazar are not kotha. We should not try to mix. Kotha can be a special category of bazar.
Vaishyalaya is another word for bazaar
Remeber vaisya = bussiness
Bhai bazaar pe to hum roj sabji aur fish kharidne jate hai😢
Aab bazaar ko kotha bana diya tum logo ne
Kothe par ek paise leta h aur ek deta h. Ye barter system wala bazaar hi h, kotha nhi?
I dont understand people are comenting without seeing the full video 😮😅
Ye true literally video has uploaded 15mins before
Really people don't understand and start commenting sad 😕 😢
Ahh yes you caught them right 😂😂
PR team hai
But you also straight forward cement to comment section without seeing the video right 😅😅
General rule for happiness in relationships - Stay away from people who use these apps. Mindset of people using these apps is only hawas, no commitment. Jai Shri Ram 🙌🏻
Indeed..
I am 23 and never ever have touched any drug, alcohol, ciggarette
And still single what kind of life i am living😢😢
Happy life 😂
Healthy life ..
Don't worry consuming hedonism is not good for health
Loser life
Daaru peele
Catfishing and ghosting are two main reasons of bad love life of many people on these apps. 😢
Absolutely...It's insanely abnormal human behavior
Dating app for senior citizen 😂😂..
Let him speak Raj. You’ve invited him to your show, so let the man speak. Stop interrupting at every chance you get
These podcasts are nothing but someone’s point of view on any given subject…considering these as reference points of reality is a mistake people should avoid.
I mean what is “Genuine hook up”?
Finally someone came who's solving a real problem with first principles from the ground up! Kudos.
World is so fucked up..😕
It's sad to see that people nowadays are surrendering their life's to apps. Apps are not something that can be placed so much trust on.
Bhai tuhi guest ban jaa , usko bhi bolne dee bhaii 😂
Your podcast is like Movie never boring 🙂❤
@@RiteshChandravanshi-n9d I think you are mentally ill man. Please do a mental health checkup for yourself. Why are you so aggressive 😮?
@@RiteshChandravanshi-n9d Bachpan mein gira tha kya sar ke bal?
#proudtalent
RAJ is sharing more insights than guest.💁♂️
Ladke ladke se baat kr rahe hain ladki banke 😂😂😂good… guys deserve this
Matlab? Did anyone hurt you?
Prove u r a female 🤣🤣
@@Leanmachine148guys do whenever they came in relationship like game
Thanks for doing this story ,it's serious issue,honestly it's brothel sites
What he said "public bazar, I agree with that, everyone is not comfortable to be there 😊
I don't really understand how he is creating content about the events that I'm encountering in my life. First fitness, then cheating culture, then this matrimony thing.
It is not him. Google knows what you are looking for and only presents that content to you.
It's not app or people problem It's bigger than that
When your mind is trained from everywhere to get sexually driven for everything then that is the result you get....whatever you bring it, will lead you to that.. or you have high regulations from starting
No one wants long term in dating apps. Like guys putting long term or claiming that they are looking for long term and then going on a date then they say they are looking for casual ?! I mean all guys i have talked to or met wanted casual
Raj please invite EX MARCOS PRAVEEN TEOTIA SIR in next podcast . 26/11 hero . guys like karo jada se jada We want sir in next podcast
people give false answers to the genie and people are smart enough to create drama.
for the gen z point the max age of a gen z is 27 and most people at 27 dont look for marriage they like literally start looking for marriage at 27
24:15 Nikhil kamath I guess
Aaj tak koi dating app use nii kiya ------ is baat ka ghamand hai.💀💀
Never using any dating app/platform again.
Dating app k ppls r worse than fake ones
This is why I deleted all of my account
Women have plenty of men but end up not liking anyone and men have limited options and end up not getting liked. So eventually both are lonely. What an interesting time we are living in!
atleast women have something to feel good about themselves which is excessive male attention, men have loneliness only.
Raj Please Get CA Vijay Sarda on your channel, It will be the beat video for CA/CMA/CS students.
He only brings people who want to promote their business
All these are very well known facts - looks like Raj Shamani Brother is living under the rock..
Raj shamani looks like Ranjendra Kumar.... famous actor of 1950s-60s
was really looking forward to Juleo's launch - we thought another service provider like ours but disappointed listening to the discussion....come on dating service providers - lets build a service that has sanity.
This is very intellectual conversation this is the current situation in the marriage market.
Matrimonial sites are fraud .
It’s disastrous parenting that’s producing evil spirits. Parental control on their sons is negligible & they turn a blind eye to male addictions like gambling, smoking, drugs, porrn, alcohol, fast cars, nonstop gaming, mobile addiction, watching crime series, violent abusive fights, ragging, bullying, aggression Tv shows Bigg Boss, anxiety, depression, domestic violence . This indiscipline, lack of character building, creates monsters who are let loose on women; these parent made predators are a grave danger to females. red flags he mentioned are very superficial, as females run away from men who have bad habits
Similarity
Spot on👌
This is the main reason
And I have actually seen when parents raise a guy properly they develop empathy for other people too
Just like women
It's not like only women are capable of developing empathy and kindness 😒
Spot on👌
This is the main reason
And I have actually seen when parents raise a guy properly they develop empathy for other people too
Just like women
It's not like only women are capable of developing empathy and kindness 😒
Pagal aurat..🎉
Nobody talks about the pressure society puts on men, but complain about addictions.
I have interviewed with the founder Varun. He is really passionate and optimistic. Hope he makes big in the buisness. And solves problems of modern dating.
This only adds more perceptions...
Lovely insights Varun.. Raj is brilliant with his questions and his research regarding the stats is brilliant..
It was really helpful. Thanks a lot. ❤❤❤
Dating apps like Tinder are a scam. You keep on swiping but never get a match. Even if you do things don't progress.
When he criticized Jeevansathi, I knew a new app promotion is coming. Very well engineered promotional video.
What he said about Jeevansathi like marriage apps being used for casual sx is true though.
I also love cello gripper pen, from my school days, Its awesome just like your videos. Subjects are great to listen. Thanks
Humesha ki tarah naya topic ❤ in an amazing way
Congratulations 🎊 🎉for 4M
In the starting of 10 mins 3 times you have started speaking in the mid of the guest let him complete i hope you don't do it in your next podcast you are fabulous and we love your content and its our duty to tell you where uh have done the mistake lots of love from bihar
Lagta hai Raj Shamani bhai ki sardi kabhi sudharti hi nahi.. 😁😁
Whenever I hear his podcast in the background with my headphones I always hear him snorting all the time 🤧😀😄, like just before this podcast I saw his previous podcast of wow momo. In that podcast also I heard him snorting a lot while talking 😄
Get well soon bhai ✌🏻
Bicep of Raj is looking amazing...😍
Of all the amazing and really insightful podcasts of Raj....this was definitely the most fun !! :D :D
more digital less social...harsh reality...."social media" isnt so social afterall
This was genuinely good 👍🏻👍🏻😮
This was useful. Thanks!
I m 26 year old nd single ...its not like i achieved something very great in life but i know my friends who went into relationships had countless heartbreaks , low self esteem, a round of therapy sessions...they all r more mature than me but it came at a very heavy price.
Varun had said " aahhh " more time than his hair😂😂
Any body at the age 18 😂 single and keep expectations in your mind that if i choose a better pattern or gf we grow together and support each other for our success
We've become materialistic people where there is no emotional bonding
Great episode 👌👌
Everyone says they have a secure app with govt ID verification etc. but once the revenue starts coming in no one removes people from the app. It’s all non sense.
Chatting option is a Curse in dating apps.
After listening these kind of things about my generation, I am extremely happy that i am Safe from these kind of Shits.
I prefer what Raj says than the speaker! Bazaar is meant for dating apps - than even private matchmaking is the same - Something like "An Expensive Bazaar with a tour guide"
Sir Raj please casual hook ups ko aise support nhi kiya kijiye iska bht galat matlab nikala ja sakta hai
cool one
Juleo sounds interesting and if they can build a descent size community, rest everything will fall in place for building a sustainable business as market size is massive, worldwide!
I really appreciate your hardwork, your content is always amazing especially about armed forces nd military one👍👍
This episode was not worth. I didn't get proper answers of the things I was looking for
"If you're single watch this video" : Bro i clicked on the video without even wasting a second 😅
No one can save a sinking ship 😊
This conversation needed a female voice as well. Felt skewed to be honest. Why are women underwhelmed by quality?
Bro this is super informative, one of my friend having account on jeevanaathi and connected to girl followed by insta they talked and girl is ready for one night stand 😅 wtf is happening to our society
I agree. Guys, don't take rejection very well. A guy called me a judgy b*tch when I told him I don't see it going anywhere after 2 days of chatting. Another guy told me I'm rejecting him cause I have self-worth issues after a week of chatting. I'm scared to be on dating apps now. 😅😂
Raj has done his homework properly 😂
Anyone else noticed that Raj is talking more than the guests?
Maa kasam jisne like nhi kiya woh exam me pakka fail hoga 😅
Bhai hum like kr diye hmko pass kra dena😂
So I like the video
kal hi exam ha ,💀
yeh dheko validation ka choda '
Le bhai Like de diya abb e sarap utha le bhai, bhai mede 😂
Apne time me ye guest bht handsome rhe honge the way he talks I feel
Good content ❤
Dating apps are irrelevant from beginning 😢 bc reality is people are expecting more and more
I think now only way to find someone is via. Comments section... where you agree to someone's pov or find it absolutely your type. There you can try and initiate things. 🤣🤣 since i have tried matrimony sites which legit turned into hookup oriented profiles. And i can't just get serious with men on dating apps who are out there for just FUN. 🤷♀️
Chat free nahi hai, kyuki log directly contact kar sakte hai isliye, they not earning that's why
I met a guy that's for arrange marriage. But he told he want to discuss about sexul compatability. Even I was open I started speaking openly about my view. But turned out he need only sexaul talks from me. I don't understand at all about men.
Nothing can replace old school love no matter what.......How can anyone choose the most imp thing i.e soulmate through any fellow app?? How can someone get attached to a stranger whom he/she has never met before?? Dating apps can never help you in searching for a husband or wife whom u never met in real in person before......Dating apps are just making u characterless n destroying today's generation.....People should understand this harsh reality🙏🙏
Ye podcast nahi hai, ye ad hai iske app ka
Aaj Raj shamani ji Dating expert bane hain
It was so engaging 😊
Girls have alot of options either offline or online 1 girl can easily data 3 guys at time and thats reality that is why guy is always cry in breakup not because she left him cuz he invest alot in her
Your each of the content is very informative, watching from Bangladesh.
Yes he saying correct u can't trust male or female which u connect in matrimony sites because u know u simultaneously search other best matches also its a like a Bazaar...
Raj bhai you cut the guy when he was telling the ways to avoid traps where law, police etc are all together . You should have come back to that point & let HIM complete that section 😢
As per the research or theory....Raj has to mentioned the details of researchers/papers with endorsement once he put it in percentage statistics to the podcast...Numbers are illusive
Aaj main small town girl hone par proud feel kr rhi hun km se km chhote towns ki kaafi hadd tak girls insb chizo se dur hain dating smoking drinking n all 😓
Are mam gaon ki girl bhi aise hai internet NE big or small town sbko level playing field bna diya hai
This is right 👍