every segment with mr. "ladies is it weird" felt like nails on a chalkboard but the stitch language part took me tf out, caught me off guard and will haunt me for days now
I'm lowkey embarrassed to admit that the Stitch language made me feel nostalgic, because I was OBSESSED with Lilo and Stitch as a kid and would speak in the Stitch voice a lot when I was like 7 lmaooo
"Ladies is it weird that ..." YESSSSSS , if he was my boyfriend i would be freaked tf out , ladies is it weird that I find it creepy af instead of stimulating ?
I love how an integral part of the fantasy is that the girl patiently waits until his game is over, like picture her just hovering there for 35 minutes
@@AAAAAA-613 yes it did unfortunately! no one was hurt but they lost a lot of merch and belongings in the fire. but kurtis posted recently that they got a new tour bus and were able to continue the tour :)
@@BunniesAreAdorable my dad once asked me if Id feel better if he beat the people up that crossed my boundaries and abused me. Maybe Im crazy but just him saying that made me feel better already
@@peggy_bobeggybecause 1D has more than just white fans, but they only used white girls as the pov for viewers so it kinda felt like they were leaving out the people of color fans :/
@@sallyversace it feels like it goes further, tbh. Not only what he thinks women want, but also blatantly projecting what he wants. I feel kinda bad for the guy. Seems lonely. But, also, I'm still really uncomfortable with his videos. He's like...either trolling us all. Or, he actually thinks those comments from 12 year old girls is an indication of how he's perceived by all women. In which case, yikes. Edited bc I realized that the sandwich part i mentioned (since took that out of my comment) was Kurtis. Oh boy. 😅
this is the kind of dude that wants to act like the sweetest, most sensitive guy and as soon as you say you don't wanna go on a date with him he tells you you're worthless and don't deserve to live
"I tied my long, golden hair into a messy bun and threw on my favorite cropped top that hugged my hourglass figure tightly. I always hated looking at myself in the mirror, I stared at my icy blue orbs while they stared back at me examining my body. I hated how small and petite I was. I hated my sharp jawline, flat stomach, clear skin, naturally straight,white teeth.I hated that I wasn't like other girls, I hated makeup and shopping, i loved reading and eating pizza and playing video games. After hating on everything about myself I rushed downstairs to see my alcoholic guardian that hates me. They said to pack my bags because they've sold me to a popular boy band so that they could buy more alcohol"
i dont know if its just me but this man is fucking terrifying. everything about him is so strangely chilling anytime i hear him say “ladies” i get full body chills. if i saw this man in public id run as far away as i could
hard same. the first couple videos were all i needed to be convinced he is an abuser. he’s sending the message that the bare minimum is special and other men won’t do it. he’s the only one who can provide the emotional intimacy that is required in any relationship. that is absolutely an emotional manipulation tactic. he disturbed me so much i kept covering the screen and talking out loud to myself to drown out his voice lol
he’s also specifically targeting women who are victims of previous abuse because they’re the only ones who might actually believe that what he’s advertising isn’t normal behavior. predators seek out easy prey.
@@laceyrainbolt5432 what in the hell are you talking about. Thats really horrible what you just said dude. The guy is cringe not a danger to society, seriously you need to grow up and watch what you say about other humans cus that is some insane accusations you just threw out over some silly cringe behavior. he is targeting, at worst, lonely people who want silly cliche cute things in their life. Speaking as a "victim of previous abuse" you are deeply ignorant to throw around words like -abuser-. STOP diminishing the meaning of serious shit by using it on BASIC ass cringe behavior. he is uusing "pick me" behavior, not "abusive manipulation against victims". ffs
As a genderfluid person i can say that when i feel femenine, this man buys me all my clothes, and when i don't, he breaks into my house and steals every single piece of clothing i have
Help I’m non-binary but I look so femme he won’t stop buying me dresses my home is completely inundated by dresses I’m drowning I can’t find the door to escape my house please I’m
“Since I’m on the road I unfortunately don’t have time to make more complex videos” proceeds to act no less than 3 characters in a skit as a girl actively seeking hugs
Fun fact: I only watch Kurtis’ videos so I can hear Barbie say “balls” all the time. Edit: this might be the most likes I’ve ever gotten on a comment and it’s about Barbie saying “balls.” 💀
It’s crazy that Kurtis thinks this video isn’t a big video - cuz the work and amount of editing in this is so much especially for on tour and in a hotel room
this man's out here fully writing his own fanfic in asmr on twitch stream I'm dying this is the zoomer male version of all the tween girls who wrote twilight smut in 2008 😂
Kurtis: sorry i dont have time for a more complex video Kurtis: *acts out multiple Hollywood level skits & writes a disney song foy a tink tonk boi* You're doing God's work Kurtis
I'm tempted to say that Kurtis's new boyfriend comes across as a classic "pick me" boy. But I'm endeavoring to be a better person and I can see this guy makes our Mayor happy, buys him all the clothes that exist, and got him matching Disney onesies so bless you both and mazel tov
17 is super young. Once you're old and sad like me, you'll be much less shocked by people saying *much* worse things. The internet is a truly awful place.
i don't think it's weird to compare yourself or someone else to the behavior of another animal? like golden retrievers are known for their open affection, friendliness, and loyalty so he's saying he'd give this hypothetical girl the same affection and loyalty a golden retriever would give their person it's a weird way of saying he's a bit too into women showing the littlest bit of physical affection but the dog comparison is one of the least weird parts of the video lol
I need to find this guy on twitch Edit: found him and watched his reaction stream to this video. He laughed a bunch and clearly found it funny, his chatters though- yikes. They were not happy to see their boyfriend being poked at. They had things to say about Kurtis’ mullet 😂😂😂 and also called his fans “toxic” for not understanding and being mean in the comments. Lol
Its always incredibly strange when the person themselves is completely fine with and seemingly self aware with their content being cringe but their fanbase takes it painfully seriously
Idk these things don't really sound like the bare minimum. The bare minimum/basic respect should be met in 100% of relationships and well, i wouldn't want him doing basically any of the things he described. I think these are actually pretty romantic scenarios if you're into that kind of stuff, to me it's mostly creepy/uncomfortable lol
@@jsas2047 It doesn't feel romantic to me either honestly... Sounds like something I'd see in a fanfiction tho. The random dancing thing was cute, and I'd smile if I saw it in a book is all lol
@@cryforhelp7270 truee i mean the Disney stuff can be cute if you're also a Disney adult but.. I'm not, so this is definitely not the bare minimum/standard for my relationship (or relationships in general, I'm pretty sure most people aren't disney adults lmao).
Ya know this dude is definitely not the worst of the bunch, kinda weird how he poses it as a question like “is it weird that-“ instead of just being like “dude I’d love to just have romantic cute moments with a girl” because like, I don’t see anything wrong with saying how you want to do wholesome romantic things
@@jayflight5351 I bet you're right on the money. Phrasing the narration/caption in social media content as a question is a classic tactic for increased interaction. Typical examples are "is it weird that...?"/"What would you do if...?"/"Have you ever seen...?"/"How cool is...?".
@@jayflight5351of course; so all the 14yr old girls go „what nooo that‘s NOT weird! You are perfect!“ or „I want that too, can you imagine? Let‘s be weird together“
he seems like the type to text you twelve times in a row lile "are you mad at me?" "idk what i did wrong but im sorry" "please answer me dont be mad at me" when you dont answer for half an hour because youre at work
Omg I used to do this when I was raised as a man and now that I'm like. Evolved, men will do it to me as well and I'm like omg is this what it was like????
if i had a nickel for every time kurtis wrote a song about being a boyfriend, i’d have two nickels. which isn’t a lot, but it’s weird that it happened twice, right?
Not gonna lie, having a job where you find out who needs a hug because they are having a bad time seems really cool. Not enough people get hugs when they need them
I think this is so famous because of how normalised toxic relationships are. It's the same thing as the romance genre. Most of the things there are easily doable but in a world where girl being more emotionally tasked in a hetero relationship is normal, the mutual affection in the genre seems like a fantasy.
@@Yggdrasil9872I cringe so hard looking back at when I thought Love Actually was romantic 😫 mans is straight up obsessed and still didn’t leave her alone after she married his best friend
and the fucking energy of someone donating RIGHT as he's starting a tiktok is incredibly jerma-esque it's insane!!!! i can legit see jerma remaking one of these as a bit and getting it interrupted by chat for 30 minutes straight
Can I just say that the fact that he buys me a new piece of clothing every day is really annoying. I don’t have any space in my drawers anymore. I’ve tried to talk to him before, but he kept sending me clothes. I’m under some real stress from this and I’ve been talking to my therapist about it. She totally understands, she has the same issues with him
it is kinda sad though that this guy is emotionally thirst trapping others by being a decent guy. none of the things he said are weird and it is a bit tragic that a guy being open and emotionally vulnerable with his gf gets millions of people swooning. the bar for good boyfriends seems to be literally on the floor :/
@@staciemae oh yeah definitely!! this guy absolutely gives me the creeps and i in no way intended to defend him (although i see that you could understand it like that), i just meant to say that i find it sad how we seem to be so used to men being absolute rude assholes that someone can get famous by exploiting basic human decency. like,, if most men weren’t so awful this guy would have not be this successful at all
@@ellekawe I don't necessarily think that it's just guys being rude asshats (though that happens a lot) but just that it's easier to fantasize about having a significant other while not thinking about any of the negatives. The thirst videos will usually focus on what they will do for you, but a real relationship requires you to do stuff for them too. Not to mention real relationships sometimes encounter friction and compromises. Actually getting a partner requires you to go out and look/talk to people and risk getting rejected. Therefore it's easier to just imagine a boyfriend than actually putting yourself out there and trying to get one.
While I do agree with that, I think he’s basically playing a bit of a character since he’s basically doing thirst traps for large audiences. Idk though. I think it’s kind of like how love interests in romance novels are often toxic, because it can be fun to fantasise about things even if those things would be unpleasant irl. Some people (not you) have been acting like he’s definitely done something awful, and I think it’s because his behaviour feels too familiar. I do think we can criticise the content though while not assuming anything bad about him. I’ve definitely shared your experiences with guys who act like this irl, and I personally don’t like how it’s presented as desirable.
“Instead of lifting his shirt to show you his abs, he’ll lift up his shirt to show you his heart” I’m cackling at how I said heart at the same time as Kurtis 😂😂😂😂
This is so cringe. If he was that great at being in a relationship, he wouldn't have to emotionally thirst trap online: he'd be too busy being amazing to his girlfriend.
“Ladies I have a serious question for you. Is it weird that I’m in your house right now? I personally see nothing wrong with it but people keep telling me it’s weird.”
Lol to be 100% fair he might suck at the "getting a girlfriend" part because he comes on too strong and skips right to the "being your boyfriend" part that he might actually be good at. But yeah no still a fair point and you're probably right lmao
ladies i have a serious question for you. is it weird to love your romantic partner? is it weird to want to treat your romantic partner like a romantic parter? idk, people always tell me its weird. so, is it?
13:22 - 13:23 has the most threatening energy I have ever seen. Kurtis, due to the harsh lighting casting an even harsher shadow, has this soulless look and even the shine of his eyes are GONE. 10/10 it fits with the shallowness of the song absolutely perfectly. Cinematic masterpiece.
this guy reminds me of the old adage "a good person doesn't feel the need to tell everyone what a good person they are". I dunno, I'm sure he's a perfectly nice guy, he just seems a bot too eager to show everyone what a great boyfriend he'd be...
I can easily see this guy being predatory towards women with low self-esteem, so I hope he isn't. I'm sure these tiktoks can be genuinely comforting for some people
I will never be able to get over how Kurtis looks in the thumbnail, how is no one pointing this out. I'm scared and I can't tell if it's photoshopped or smth. I'm actually genuinely afraid.
@@liamsteamwalsh8421 emotional cuts deeper than surface level sexual thirst traps. if that's not an obvious fact to you you're probably from a different planet and that's fine
These videos really are way funnier if you interpret them as him talking to every single girl. Like, yes, yes it would be weird if you made my voice your alarm, we don't know each other, why do you love me
@@detectivedance just a cacophony of voices that he wakes up to every single morning . like just the voices of so many girls saying random shit all strewn together and he just wakes up smiling cause it's oh so romantic . truly serial killer behaviour 🤸🏻♀️
EXACTLY thats what i was thinking the whole time... like is he imagining his ideal girl or literally every girl that he doesn't know but could theoretically date...all at once??
Imagine if he made his alarm to be the voice of every single girl on the planet. He wakes up to hear what is basically a horrifying amalgamation of more than a billion voices, like those biblical angels saying B̴̦̎ͅȨ̴̜̫̟̰̻̠̯̈͑̍̈́̓͐͘ ̴̨̛̻͎͖͖̙̙̿̀̎͊̓̚Ņ̴͚͗͂̽̔͌̅͒Ó̴͎̪̥̐͊͂T̸̛̘͈̒́̈̃̎͘ ̴͈̞͖̀͝͠A̵͍̘̅͌͂͛̆̽F̷̮̯̝̩̻̟͑̍͆̀R̴̨̙̙͚͍̞͒̉̏̿̑̈̚ͅA̵̳̙͈͂̍̆͝Í̶̥̙̳͍̱͓̔͝D̵̡̨̮̱̤̫̞͆̄̈́̊́͌͗̇ͅ
every segment with mr. "ladies is it weird" felt like nails on a chalkboard but the stitch language part took me tf out, caught me off guard and will haunt me for days now
I'm lowkey embarrassed to admit that the Stitch language made me feel nostalgic, because I was OBSESSED with Lilo and Stitch as a kid and would speak in the Stitch voice a lot when I was like 7 lmaooo
@@KreeZafi I loved Lilo and Stich but this was too much for me 💀💀💀
It's the "think about it" right after that makes me immediately wanna just click away LOL
"Ladies is it weird that ..." YESSSSSS , if he was my boyfriend i would be freaked tf out , ladies is it weird that I find it creepy af instead of stimulating ?
Resurrected cringe culture
I love how an integral part of the fantasy is that the girl patiently waits until his game is over, like picture her just hovering there for 35 minutes
Bold of you to say its only 35 for this guy
like that meme of the guy doing housework and he's like "it's all a part of the foreplay".
My husband used to be a dota2 player. I was waiting for like an hour
Ikr it’s like “I’m so selfless! I make my wife wait for me to finish the game before I return her affections!”
i knowwww that part killed me, the "you wait patiently" 😂
This man writing his own self insert fanfics, I respect it
i dont
@@bucketman5138 you know what, i respect that too
@@addieloomis218 lmao
Hes doing imagines but with himself and yn
@@vogelvrouw cutting out the middle man
Why does it always look like kurtis is stuck in a bowling alley in the 80s offering kids cigarettes
Underrated comment
Stoppppp 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg why is this right though?!
No no. Cocaine
Nah man he’d give kids the stink eye while he smokes in the bowling alley
@@KingOfGaymes he would definitely cough and plug his nose when he walks by someone who is sweaty (and look at them judgementaly)
I’ve never heard the term “emotional thirst trap”, but it’s straight up the perfect way to describe these kinds of videos holy shit
@Türkiyeyi seviyorum how deep is your love
Damn the bots working overtime 💀
Man I'd make good money if I had a voice like his 🥲
@@fricketyfracktraintrack as deep as the bottomless pit I have in my backyard that I use to dispose of bodies.
it is called manipulation as he makes that bs up.
i love how committed you are to never letting that horrible Ninja tweet be forgotten
@im calling saul deez
Where
LMAOOO YESS
which tweet?
@@echomoth9270 4:44 he’s mocking the tweet lol
Kurtis casually mentioning his tour bus burning down in every video from now on is actually both so sad and funny
it's absolutely fucking hilarious i hope he continues with it
Wait, did that actually happen???
i thought it was a joke first time he said it but i do think it's the funniest fucking thing even tho it actually burned down
@@AAAAAA-613 yes it did unfortunately! no one was hurt but they lost a lot of merch and belongings in the fire. but kurtis posted recently that they got a new tour bus and were able to continue the tour :)
@@annah2284 oh no! At least everyone was fine and they were able to keep going
he’s definitely the ‘where’s my hug’ kind of dude
Nah he's the " you wouldn't date me bc I'm so ugly"
These are not mutually exclusive, and they usually lead into each other. @@brianaverly6391
“Babe don’t kys you’re too sexy haha “
@@brianaverly6391he’s both ngl
He's also the "women only want bad guys..." kind of dude
the second this guy said "actively seek out hugs" i knew he says "where's my hug?" reflexively to every woman he is even slightly acquainted with
ew...we used to call those ppl a human vacuum cleaner, because they suck the life force out of your life using emotional manipulation to "get hugs"
Also the "Hey gurl..." "Um...." "Did you know" "That you look beautiful?" from 2012 Facebook memes
*edited to correct typo*
Omg yes... I know too many people like that
Yes. I don’t like those people it makes me feel uncomfortable luckily my dad is protective!
@@BunniesAreAdorable my dad once asked me if Id feel better if he beat the people up that crossed my boundaries and abused me. Maybe Im crazy but just him saying that made me feel better already
as a woman i can confirm that yes every single piece of clothing i have has been personally chosen for me by this man
As another woman I can confirm that this internet stranger buys my articles of clothing.
as a lady*
its true, I'm the clothing
@@amandaburton5868 what's the difference? /Gen
yes, he buys all of the shitty clothes i have come to possess as well
he doesn't want a girlfriend, he just wants to be a fashion stylist
Why does this have 3k likes but no comment💀 I'm confused
Nah fr
@@katthestranger don't question it.
@@katthestrangerthere's nothing to respond to straight facts with 😂
@@katthestranger10K with 5 comments including me lol
"Only if your skin is white" made me choke on my water. 🤣
@@liamsteamwalsh8421 lol no lies detected.
i remember feeling so bad for my poc sisters who were 1D fans when that vid came out 😭
Tbf if you listen to one direction you’re probably white
@@weavesnatched7957 wait am i stupid but why was the 'being white' part said?
@@peggy_bobeggybecause 1D has more than just white fans, but they only used white girls as the pov for viewers so it kinda felt like they were leaving out the people of color fans :/
“Ladies, is it weird that I think you’re all the same and want exactly the same things?”
Yes. Yes it is.
This is what bothers me about it too, like its directed at all women because we're just a monolith
@@sallyversace it feels like it goes further, tbh. Not only what he thinks women want, but also blatantly projecting what he wants. I feel kinda bad for the guy. Seems lonely. But, also, I'm still really uncomfortable with his videos. He's like...either trolling us all. Or, he actually thinks those comments from 12 year old girls is an indication of how he's perceived by all women. In which case, yikes. Edited bc I realized that the sandwich part i mentioned (since took that out of my comment) was Kurtis. Oh boy. 😅
@@jf2801 um... I thought the sandwich bit was Kurtis satirising him? Or did I miss something?
some guys forget that we're human beings too. and it really sucks.
@@jf2801 what? The sandwich bit was a ninja reference
this is the kind of dude that wants to act like the sweetest, most sensitive guy and as soon as you say you don't wanna go on a date with him he tells you you're worthless and don't deserve to live
Yup, "But I'm PERFECT how could ANYONE not want to date me, you must be stupid!" 😂
yes!! the nice guy energy is strong with this one
he’s incredibly cringy and weird
he seems like one of those dudes that are like "where is my hug at?? 🤓🤓"
@@JujusCandy Alex Meyers reference?
Listening to kurtis half heartedly talk about how great tour is while looking like he's about to pass out is so funny to me
The bots omg
Relatable
Hi! you finally found a human in the replies, Suprising right?
@@Juliet-ow1wy i fell for it lol the one with the kurtis picture and name 💀 im so done
@Kurtis Соnnner 🅥 kick rocks
These were all so hard to watch but the last one has me physically recoiling
I collapsed into myself like a dying star the voice was my ultimate undoing
@@DiMagnolia omg astrophysics joke
so... you don't wanna be his boojiboo? 🥺
I’m going to permanently have the phrase “let’s watch another tink tonk” in my head forever
I love tink tonk
@Thank me later 🅥 where's the video where he gets exposed for giving people polio
it’s not the first time he’s said that but each time i hear it i can’t unhear it
what's with all these spam bots
Alright, somebody own up, who ordered the Spam Bot Special?
Kurtis reciting the Ninja “braless wife” tweet is my personal rickroll
@Wrath 🅥 shut up
Fr
i want him to replace his intro with that tweet
Honestly my favourite lmaooo
I forgot that was Ninja lmao
I was crying over a boy who didn’t love me until I watched this video. Now I have the ick. Not all hero’s wear capes. Thanks Kurtis!!
Some wear a mullet
If this is being loved, I want no part!
Kurtis has the power to break the spell from any boy lmao
Same
I had never experienced the ick until this video. Turns out I don't like new experiences 💀
Finding a Kurtis Conner video you haven’t watched, is like finding a twenty dollar bill in your winter coat you haven’t worn for 9 months.
Especially when there's a song in it too
Relatable
don’t be silly kurtis, we all know the indoor boyfriend is the most perfect
Word
Obviously 🤭
yes
I am so sorry for your replies
What a reference
Kurtis's skits are like a dream, you don’t know wtf is going on until it's over
I dunno, I watched the whole thing and still have no idea wtf is happening
i had a dream that i was swept away by a tornado... this felt the same
Yes, in the skit where he was confessing a kink that lead into the "I'm the joker" twist was so wild lmao
Fever dream*
Or you think you know until the end😭
hearing that boy asking all those things is like reading a fanfic out loud, just cursed imo
the “imagine if” bit was just a one direction imagine from 2013 i got war flashbacks
"I tied my long, golden hair into a messy bun and threw on my favorite cropped top that hugged my hourglass figure tightly. I always hated looking at myself in the mirror, I stared at my icy blue orbs while they stared back at me examining my body. I hated how small and petite I was. I hated my sharp jawline, flat stomach, clear skin, naturally straight,white teeth.I hated that I wasn't like other girls, I hated makeup and shopping, i loved reading and eating pizza and playing video games. After hating on everything about myself I rushed downstairs to see my alcoholic guardian that hates me. They said to pack my bags because they've sold me to a popular boy band so that they could buy more alcohol"
@@rae4007 Amazing 10/10 would read again
My theory is he is an alien and is trying to find out what's normal
"Is it normal? No, really, is it? I don't know I'm so tired"
like that one and key and peele sketch
"what is thaaat" or smth like that
autistic me growing up LMAO
ummm no shit sherlock? he’s stitch, weren’t you listening 🙄
(/s)
no wonder he wants to larp as stitch
Kurtis saying he cant do high production videos because he’s on tour then proceeding to make a whole song is funniest thing
well its a song, not a video
And a 16 minute video with so much editing
Our goodest boi has some serious ADHD vibes
infp vibes babyyy 🤟
@@cbabaintnice pfp
i dont know if its just me but this man is fucking terrifying. everything about him is so strangely chilling anytime i hear him say “ladies” i get full body chills. if i saw this man in public id run as far away as i could
hard same. the first couple videos were all i needed to be convinced he is an abuser. he’s sending the message that the bare minimum is special and other men won’t do it. he’s the only one who can provide the emotional intimacy that is required in any relationship. that is absolutely an emotional manipulation tactic. he disturbed me so much i kept covering the screen and talking out loud to myself to drown out his voice lol
he’s also specifically targeting women who are victims of previous abuse because they’re the only ones who might actually believe that what he’s advertising isn’t normal behavior. predators seek out easy prey.
Because it seems fake as hell and you wonder what he's really like under the surface 🧐
@@laceyrainbolt5432 what in the hell are you talking about. Thats really horrible what you just said dude. The guy is cringe not a danger to society, seriously you need to grow up and watch what you say about other humans cus that is some insane accusations you just threw out over some silly cringe behavior.
he is targeting, at worst, lonely people who want silly cliche cute things in their life. Speaking as a "victim of previous abuse" you are deeply ignorant to throw around words like -abuser-. STOP diminishing the meaning of serious shit by using it on BASIC ass cringe behavior.
he is uusing "pick me" behavior, not "abusive manipulation against victims". ffs
It’s his expression too, he is so smug and self satisfied while he oozes this toxic sludge.
Kurtis: tour is a lot
Also Kurtis: *creates 100 hilarious skits over a single tiktok AND the new disney prince anthem*
@yes that's a bot
@@justyuan0907 that user is also a bot
Disney prince anthem?
Legit what I was thinking :D He puts so much effort into his vids, even the ones that have simpler concepts
@@Alex-hd4yr oh damn
As a genderfluid person i can say that when i feel femenine, this man buys me all my clothes, and when i don't, he breaks into my house and steals every single piece of clothing i have
I should have really realized I was a trans dude earlier when he bought my sister clothes but if I took any of them he’d set my closet on fire
Help I’m non-binary but I look so femme he won’t stop buying me dresses my home is completely inundated by dresses I’m drowning I can’t find the door to escape my house please I’m
@@DiMagnoliaoh no they just died from drowning in dresses
@@oliverthedum2129 "dresst" in peace 😔
@@toceeno874 😭😭😭
I'm so proud of you Kurtis for finding yourself such a wonderful boyfriend!
Seems like I am the only human here, The AI is taking over and this is the first step
Why are there so many bots in this reply section????? Aaaaagh
@@perplexed1783 yes it is >:^)
@@businessmudkip4548 don't stop them...they're scamming each other!! xD
I'm so gay for him 😌🎉
“Since I’m on the road I unfortunately don’t have time to make more complex videos” proceeds to act no less than 3 characters in a skit as a girl actively seeking hugs
and makes a full musical number lmao
imagine being irl friends with this guy, i wouldn't be able to look him in the eyes without making fun of him
@Zyzz The bot itself is betraying his kind wow
id call him budgyboo in public and then explain to any woman he met that he wanted her to crush him sexually.
@Zyzz the bot betrays his own kind
This is not a man who has friends in real life.
@@carlgrimcs that account is also a bot, it posted a link right above that comment, it's trickery, perhaps even witchcraft
i have matching onesies with my girlfriend and i will never get this out of my head now thanks alex
if you don’t call her boojiboo while wearing the matching onesies i’ll be very upset
i nearly gagged at the video then realizing i have a matching onesie with my boyfriend
Fun fact: I only watch Kurtis’ videos so I can hear Barbie say “balls” all the time.
Edit: this might be the most likes I’ve ever gotten on a comment and it’s about Barbie saying “balls.” 💀
These replies are killing me 💀
He's used it so many times yet it still gets me every time 💀
The way I scream every time it’s played
It has truly been the only thing keeping me here since the extra greeting stopped
i personally come for the bratz girl saying "ew" but "balls" is a pretty good one too
cringe culture isn’t dead. It’s just searching for its next victim. Like the queen.
Rip, your comments are full of bots
damn, britain was too cringe that it killed the queen.
@Emotional Damage For a second I thought you were one of the bots lmao
these bots also killed the queen
my face watching that guy😦😳🫣😵
It’s crazy that Kurtis thinks this video isn’t a big video - cuz the work and amount of editing in this is so much especially for on tour and in a hotel room
Yeah it just felt like a normal video. Very funny and light hearted. And the song at the end 👏👏
honestly id say this is one of his best videos yet
Yes, I feel fully fed
i thought he has editors
this man's out here fully writing his own fanfic in asmr on twitch stream I'm dying
this is the zoomer male version of all the tween girls who wrote twilight smut in 2008 😂
The Spider-Man kiss was actually in a One Direction fanfic😭😭 I’m pretty sure y/n was dating Harry
you've put it into words
Congratulations, Kurtis! I hope your girlfriend doesn't mind.
Polyamory
Love the suzuya pfp
@@genericname2747 yes
jesus christ the bots… is this what it’s like to be early
@Kurtis Соnnner 🅥 😩
The “actively seeking out hugs” skit was so fucking funny truly peak comedy
Kurtis: sorry i dont have time for a more complex video
Kurtis: *acts out multiple Hollywood level skits & writes a disney song foy a tink tonk boi*
You're doing God's work Kurtis
ok
oK
If this isn’t a complex video then every other TH-camr needs to step up.
ok
Is it w e i r d that I watched this video twiceee?! XD
Fun fact he used to make shower thoughts videos before doing this
explains the way he talks in to the microphone
me and my sister saw you in Chicago; we laughed, we cried, we peed, we pooped. Y’all were incredible 10/10 - thank you for a delightful show.
That’s good to hear. I’m having trouble pooing, so I guess I’ll definitely get a ticket now.
Pee time 😊😮
ayeee i was there too, i can’t believe everyone pooped on the floor at the same time
I saw him in Chicago as well!! Laughed so hard I almost lost my voice 😁😁
@@lavenderlaceration they were all so good :,,,,)
I’ve never been more uncomfortable. Thanks, Kurtis!
This video shaved several decades off of my life
Every time I think I’ve been the most uncomfortable in my life, Kurtis raises the bar.
“I don’t have the time to make a complex video”
*writes and films a song, fully edited*
I love you Kurtis
as a lesbian this man makes me physically recoil back in my seat when i watch any of his tik toks and i find it hilarious
As a straight woman, same 😂
I am a man who doesn’t know his sexuality(fun), he makes me wanna crawl out of my skin, run away to a different country, and take 5 1/2 baths
My organs are shriveling up and turning to dust just hearing his voice
Onggg@@lillienicholas4581
real omg@@placeholderdoe
I'm tempted to say that Kurtis's new boyfriend comes across as a classic "pick me" boy. But I'm endeavoring to be a better person and I can see this guy makes our Mayor happy, buys him all the clothes that exist, and got him matching Disney onesies so bless you both and mazel tov
😂😂 I was about to ask what’s the name for an indoor Chad then I saw a Chad had responded 😂😂😂
never thought in my 17 years i would hear a grown man call himself a golden retriever
Have you not heard of furries
17 is super young. Once you're old and sad like me, you'll be much less shocked by people saying *much* worse things. The internet is a truly awful place.
@@calvinlee8103 it's truly a cesspool but I still be spending all my time here
i don't think it's weird to compare yourself or someone else to the behavior of another animal? like golden retrievers are known for their open affection, friendliness, and loyalty so he's saying he'd give this hypothetical girl the same affection and loyalty a golden retriever would give their person
it's a weird way of saying he's a bit too into women showing the littlest bit of physical affection but the dog comparison is one of the least weird parts of the video lol
girl you got so many more years...... thats not even the beginning
I need to find this guy on twitch
Edit: found him and watched his reaction stream to this video. He laughed a bunch and clearly found it funny, his chatters though- yikes. They were not happy to see their boyfriend being poked at. They had things to say about Kurtis’ mullet 😂😂😂 and also called his fans “toxic” for not understanding and being mean in the comments. Lol
So they accused Kurtis' fans of being toxic while exhibiting toxic behavior themselves? 🤔 Yep! That sounds like Twitch! xD
@@e.k_liadon haha yeah
Its always incredibly strange when the person themselves is completely fine with and seemingly self aware with their content being cringe but their fanbase takes it painfully seriously
possibly brainwashed
To be fair to those toxic chatters, I have seen some popular toxic comments here too. Glad the guy took it well and could have a laugh.
"actively seeking out hugs" means "as opposed to passively accepting the hugs that I creepily force on you"
I think just any physical contact initiated by a woman gets this guy going.
click on the like button. dont worry about what i wrote previously
I have All the Abs
Idk these things don't really sound like the bare minimum. The bare minimum/basic respect should be met in 100% of relationships and well, i wouldn't want him doing basically any of the things he described. I think these are actually pretty romantic scenarios if you're into that kind of stuff, to me it's mostly creepy/uncomfortable lol
@@jsas2047 It doesn't feel romantic to me either honestly... Sounds like something I'd see in a fanfiction tho. The random dancing thing was cute, and I'd smile if I saw it in a book is all lol
can't relate
@@cryforhelp7270 truee i mean the Disney stuff can be cute if you're also a Disney adult but.. I'm not, so this is definitely not the bare minimum/standard for my relationship (or relationships in general, I'm pretty sure most people aren't disney adults lmao).
The “double it, triple it, double it, double it” killed me. Haven’t laughed that hard in a while😂
Double it, I need all of it
Yes it’s me
th-cam.com/video/MKglQNRmhHI/w-d-xo.html
@shad shad I don’t like it, it looks like a cement block with a top hat
Me too
i was literally coming to comment this im still cracking up
Ya know this dude is definitely not the worst of the bunch, kinda weird how he poses it as a question like “is it weird that-“ instead of just being like “dude I’d love to just have romantic cute moments with a girl” because like, I don’t see anything wrong with saying how you want to do wholesome romantic things
Probably gets him more comments
@@jayflight5351 I bet you're right on the money. Phrasing the narration/caption in social media content as a question is a classic tactic for increased interaction. Typical examples are "is it weird that...?"/"What would you do if...?"/"Have you ever seen...?"/"How cool is...?".
@@jayflight5351of course; so all the 14yr old girls go „what nooo that‘s NOT weird! You are perfect!“ or „I want that too, can you imagine? Let‘s be weird together“
The ‘is this weird’ rant turning into a joker monologue has me rolling
kurtis: “at the end of the day, this content is harmless”
me: *violently throwing up every time he says “is it? 😌🤪”*
LITERALLY I can't believe Kurtis was able to watch the clips and laugh, I was looking away and gagging the entire time
EXACTLY i just really hate the concept of praising someone for the bare minimum
I literally hate his voice so much I wanted to throw up
@@isopodcritter fr, i can’t cope 😭
the chances of this content being harmful is low. but not zero
he seems like the type to text you twelve times in a row lile "are you mad at me?" "idk what i did wrong but im sorry" "please answer me dont be mad at me" when you dont answer for half an hour because youre at work
Blech I just had so many flashbacks to high school
Gross gross gross gross gro-
No literally
except he would probably say "i'm sowwy 🥺"
Omg I used to do this when I was raised as a man and now that I'm like. Evolved, men will do it to me as well and I'm like omg is this what it was like????
if i had a nickel for every time kurtis wrote a song about being a boyfriend, i’d have two nickels. which isn’t a lot, but it’s weird that it happened twice, right?
3 if you count blood-related!!!
🎶DOOFENSCHMIRTZ EVIL INC- CORP-O-RATED🎶
Phineas and ferb
Ah, Doofenshmirtz
@@garfield_tv oh shit yeah
I love that at 05:30 you can see the clock changing time behind him lol. It took him 6 minutes to say two lines.
I feel like this guy would make a killing if he did those boyfriend rp asmr things. Right up his alley.
I thought this WAS him doing that lol
isnt that what hes doing lol?
@@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494 Same
Oml noOOOOOAJSKEISJ I can definitely see that happening
He's got the voice for it
This is just the right amount of tomfoolery. I felt rather silly when watching this video, and hope to see this level of goofiness again
Same
just a silly goofy mood
Not gonna lie, having a job where you find out who needs a hug because they are having a bad time seems really cool. Not enough people get hugs when they need them
professional cuddlers are a thing!
Suprised your comment didn't get blasted with bots, Ig they hate hugs
Right? I'd love that.
i need a hug
Unless they're professional football players who are sick and traumatized from getting tackled
Guys with dedicated and practiced Stitch voices are such a personal red flag I swear to god
This is an entire type of guy???
I'm stunned you've met more than one (bc I've met zero so far, not including this Alex guy)
Yes omg 😭
I think this is so famous because of how normalised toxic relationships are. It's the same thing as the romance genre. Most of the things there are easily doable but in a world where girl being more emotionally tasked in a hetero relationship is normal, the mutual affection in the genre seems like a fantasy.
Oh my god I’ve never thought of this. You might be onto something
why must you @ me like that!?
@@liamsteamwalsh8421nah. i think you feel personally attacked by some of the comments here
agreed!
@@Yggdrasil9872I cringe so hard looking back at when I thought Love Actually was romantic 😫 mans is straight up obsessed and still didn’t leave her alone after she married his best friend
Kurtis reenacting the thirst trap with Jerma's chat overlay was just perfect. I see that PSYCHO everywhere
and the fucking energy of someone donating RIGHT as he's starting a tiktok is incredibly jerma-esque it's insane!!!! i can legit see jerma remaking one of these as a bit and getting it interrupted by chat for 30 minutes straight
@@vissersixty-nine6246 very similar vibe to the FNAF chill stream bit
Can I just say that the fact that he buys me a new piece of clothing every day is really annoying. I don’t have any space in my drawers anymore. I’ve tried to talk to him before, but he kept sending me clothes. I’m under some real stress from this and I’ve been talking to my therapist about it. She totally understands, she has the same issues with him
underrated comment
I love kurtis’s commitment to reference that ninja tweet in every opportunity he gets
it is kinda sad though that this guy is emotionally thirst trapping others by being a decent guy. none of the things he said are weird and it is a bit tragic that a guy being open and emotionally vulnerable with his gf gets millions of people swooning. the bar for good boyfriends seems to be literally on the floor :/
There’s something off about him. Also if you’re putting yourself out there on the internet you should be prepared to be criticized.
@@staciemae oh yeah definitely!! this guy absolutely gives me the creeps and i in no way intended to defend him (although i see that you could understand it like that), i just meant to say that i find it sad how we seem to be so used to men being absolute rude assholes that someone can get famous by exploiting basic human decency. like,, if most men weren’t so awful this guy would have not be this successful at all
@@ellekawe I don't necessarily think that it's just guys being rude asshats (though that happens a lot) but just that it's easier to fantasize about having a significant other while not thinking about any of the negatives. The thirst videos will usually focus on what they will do for you, but a real relationship requires you to do stuff for them too. Not to mention real relationships sometimes encounter friction and compromises. Actually getting a partner requires you to go out and look/talk to people and risk getting rejected. Therefore it's easier to just imagine a boyfriend than actually putting yourself out there and trying to get one.
I believe it’s just for 14 year olds. Noone over 18 would give a flying V about that
It’s pandering and gross
People I have met that act like this end up being super controlling and abusive behind closed doors
Yup! Love bombing to the max!!
True, people who are nice don't have to go around telling everyone how nice they are
While I do agree with that, I think he’s basically playing a bit of a character since he’s basically doing thirst traps for large audiences. Idk though.
I think it’s kind of like how love interests in romance novels are often toxic, because it can be fun to fantasise about things even if those things would be unpleasant irl. Some people (not you) have been acting like he’s definitely done something awful, and I think it’s because his behaviour feels too familiar. I do think we can criticise the content though while not assuming anything bad about him. I’ve definitely shared your experiences with guys who act like this irl, and I personally don’t like how it’s presented as desirable.
💯💯💯
True
This man makes me want to run away with enough force to turn an indoor boyfriend into an outdoor boyfriend
DAWGGG U MADE ME LOL
So trueee😂
This was an excellent comment
Polnareff? 🐢
this made me audibly exhale from my nose
what a lovely reminder that i'm a lesbian
Hahaha
Ladies, is it weird that i want us BOTH to wear the Angel onesie? 😳💞
"Oh my God men are horrible and I..
Wait, not my problem!"😂
“Ladies, is it normal that I’d transition just to be your boyfrie...” don’t you dare dude, don’t you dare
SAME 😅
This has to be parody. I can't live in a world where this dude is doing this unironically.
agreed
And he’s famous for it 🥴🥴🥴
he doing it to manipulate impressionable girls
Congratulations Sherlock you cracked the case
@@harvey8138 my faith is restored and mother will be so proud once I print this comment section out for her.
This guy is the embodiment of a pick me… so many more reasons to die single.
Im sorry for ur replies apart fron the ppl making fun of the bots (which i think may also be) bots but eh they r fine
omg a pick me guy lmao
“Instead of lifting his shirt to show you his abs, he’ll lift up his shirt to show you his heart” I’m cackling at how I said heart at the same time as Kurtis 😂😂😂😂
That actually sounds terrifying if you take it literally.
Me too!!
This is so cringe. If he was that great at being in a relationship, he wouldn't have to emotionally thirst trap online: he'd be too busy being amazing to his girlfriend.
“Ladies I have a serious question for you. Is it weird that I’m in your house right now? I personally see nothing wrong with it but people keep telling me it’s weird.”
Lol to be 100% fair he might suck at the "getting a girlfriend" part because he comes on too strong and skips right to the "being your boyfriend" part that he might actually be good at.
But yeah no still a fair point and you're probably right lmao
ladies i have a serious question for you. is it weird to love your romantic partner? is it weird to want to treat your romantic partner like a romantic parter? idk, people always tell me its weird. so, is it?
Yes
F**k, it might be
As a woman, idk dude I think that’s kinda weird… /j
Ew, that’s not normal. Please get help
that was pretty serious
He's cornering the romance novel market and should not be underestimated
LMFAOOOOOO
Shiiiii we ain’t complaining 😌😏
this
When I feel down, I just remember that Alex has my back 💙 and that he's probably trying to buy me clothes
feel down? you mean actively seeking out hugs?
is it weird that he wants to wear a matching angel onesie with you 🥺
i know it's innocent at the end of the day but tiktoks like that really piss me off, very manipulative
This video made me want to get a restraining order against every Alex in the world including myself.
Alex Meyers is cool.
only kurtis could get me to sit through those excruciating tiktoks
13:22 - 13:23 has the most threatening energy I have ever seen. Kurtis, due to the harsh lighting casting an even harsher shadow, has this soulless look and even the shine of his eyes are GONE. 10/10 it fits with the shallowness of the song absolutely perfectly. Cinematic masterpiece.
Practically deserves an Oscar in the short film category
Omg nice catching that. Its like he is slowly coming for you 😂
I'M SO GLAD I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO WAS REALLY CREEPED OUT LMAOOO
this guy reminds me of the old adage "a good person doesn't feel the need to tell everyone what a good person they are". I dunno, I'm sure he's a perfectly nice guy, he just seems a bot too eager to show everyone what a great boyfriend he'd be...
I can easily see this guy being predatory towards women with low self-esteem, so I hope he isn't. I'm sure these tiktoks can be genuinely comforting for some people
bait him and try
Right? That's what I was thinking, too
@@caprimann87 LMAOO
or minors. really hope not tho. hope he finds a gf and he's not awful
I'd be willing to bet he has a significant other and just does this because it's easy money for him. It's like softcore onlyfans
I actually found out I’m trans because I never received clothing from this guy. True story.
This is very funny. well done
Nice that’s he’s respectful like that
😭😭😭😭😭😭
Barney? Is that you?
oh you too? 🧐
I absolutely love it when people actively seek out breathing air
BAHAHAH sorry for ur replies btw
OmG yOu are SOOOO weIrD 🤪🤪🥵
Its so hot when they inhale oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide
I will never be able to get over how Kurtis looks in the thumbnail, how is no one pointing this out. I'm scared and I can't tell if it's photoshopped or smth. I'm actually genuinely afraid.
it’s scary
it's definitely photoshopped or has those smile filters on it
i think it's faceapp
THSNK YOU IVE BEEN LOOKING IN THE COMMENTS SEARCHING FOR SOMEONE TO BRING THIS UP
God damn it Kurtis, you’ve gotten me with the Ninja braless wife tweet like 20 times
he says he’d do all these things for this girl. someone date him to see if he’s actually a man of his word.
Yea ,I really wanna see a lady step up
Ain't nobody want his ass 💀
No you do it I'm scared
@@savannaho3664 not even for a million dollars
I already have a boyfriend so I have an excuse to not do that lol
my soul ascended when he started the Stitch voice. you just cant predict all this man has to offer and that's why i cant look away
Underrated comment
I'm wearing a lovely outfit from him right now. It's so perfect! He really knows how to pick an outfit that suits my personal style. 🥰💜
😂
Imagine actually dating this guy and trying to explain this to your friends💀
but would he actually post this shit if he had a girlfriend? 💀
@@wiselordasianjesusthegreatest thank youuu
Repress the urge to vomit long enough and you get a new wardrobe ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@liamsteamwalsh8421because this is fucking weird. a thirst trap is shallow.
@@liamsteamwalsh8421 emotional cuts deeper than surface level sexual thirst traps. if that's not an obvious fact to you you're probably from a different planet and that's fine
Around 13:20 I started to feel personally threatened, like Kurtis was looking directly into my soul telling me how great of a boyfriend he'd be
Lmao
IM DDYINGG
11:30 how the freak did kurtis go from being a pick-me-boy to the joker so smoothly
society
When you think about it they're one in the same
i knew kurt could sing😭 beautiful disney vocals smbd hire him lol
This might be a “quick video” cuz he’s on tour but I legitimately haven’t laughed this much in a long time
Right??? Is it just me or have his vi os gotten even funnier lately? Like they jokes and punchlines in the skits & the bits are so cleanly well done
@@toaster400_ YES
I was at your show yesterday and wow it was so good I haven’t laughed that hard in so long dude I’m really proud of how far you have come
OMG HE HEARTED MY COMMENT IM SO HIGH AND CONFUSED
Kurtis mentioning his tour bus burning down is the new extra greeting we deserved
Why is Kurtis actually such a good singer?? like ever single meme song he makes act sounds so good every time
These videos really are way funnier if you interpret them as him talking to every single girl. Like, yes, yes it would be weird if you made my voice your alarm, we don't know each other, why do you love me
I love this
would he make every single girl's voice his alarm, just all of them layered on top of each other ??
@@detectivedance just a cacophony of voices that he wakes up to every single morning . like just the voices of so many girls saying random shit all strewn together and he just wakes up smiling cause it's oh so romantic . truly serial killer behaviour 🤸🏻♀️
EXACTLY thats what i was thinking the whole time... like is he imagining his ideal girl or literally every girl that he doesn't know but could theoretically date...all at once??
Imagine if he made his alarm to be the voice of every single girl on the planet. He wakes up to hear what is basically a horrifying amalgamation of more than a billion voices, like those biblical angels saying B̴̦̎ͅȨ̴̜̫̟̰̻̠̯̈͑̍̈́̓͐͘ ̴̨̛̻͎͖͖̙̙̿̀̎͊̓̚Ņ̴͚͗͂̽̔͌̅͒Ó̴͎̪̥̐͊͂T̸̛̘͈̒́̈̃̎͘ ̴͈̞͖̀͝͠A̵͍̘̅͌͂͛̆̽F̷̮̯̝̩̻̟͑̍͆̀R̴̨̙̙͚͍̞͒̉̏̿̑̈̚ͅA̵̳̙͈͂̍̆͝Í̶̥̙̳͍̱͓̔͝D̵̡̨̮̱̤̫̞͆̄̈́̊́͌͗̇ͅ
This is the most validated thing. I now know I am a transgender man bc this guy never bought clothes for me. He always knew ❤️
An unfortunate way to find out but I’m proud you discovered it sooner than later 😔💔
you and me both ♥️
Underrated comment.
Gender affirmed!
The way Kurtis explains that he can’t make the type of videos he would like to while on tour at the beginning of this masterpiece. Such a humble guy
"Is it weird that I want your voice to be my alarm?"
Yes, yes it is.