INNER CHILD HEALING & ROOT CHAKRA

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  • @eyes1168
    @eyes1168 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was a truth teller. My whole life I was always "too powerful", my personality was "too big" and my parents would always glamorize the behavior of other trauma kids who obeyed their parents or dissociated or were hyperindependent, I always wished to be more like them... I came out the womb angry, like I knew I deserved better and I kept fighting and fighting but it made me feel so guilty and alone, I'd fall asleep to the fantasy of ending it at age 9 to calm myself... and what's crazy is that I had a relatively easy life, I'm still learning to validate myself. I'm 17 now and even though I "grew up fast" I'm grateful for the wisdom prioritizing truth has given me

  • @seanrademeyer3104
    @seanrademeyer3104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is all so true! Great message.
    I am the black sheep.
    I am in my power.
    I will not go back anymore to be accepted by my family. I can still love them from a safe distance for me.

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That sounds like good boundaries to me! You have so much courage!

  • @zenaiko33
    @zenaiko33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Why you don’t have millions of subscribers is beyond me. Your guidance has helped me immensely, and further to that, my boyfriend watched this video last night and he’s been crying ever since. You truly make a difference, Candace! 💗🦋

    • @esoteric9moment
      @esoteric9moment ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YT algorithm is tapped

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@esoteric9moment how to fix this??

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much beautiful!!!!! ✨✨✨

  • @jonnyaesthetic
    @jonnyaesthetic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The moment I realized I was a 38 year old man with 5 year old challenges blew my mind. With all my skills, talents, and abilities how could I struggle with feelings of financial and emotional security? Well this video just changed my life forever. Thank you!

  • @stacyknapp5548
    @stacyknapp5548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    After years of therapy without any progress, I finally started healing after grounding and working on my root chakra. I actually felt my "self" come back into my body! And after that therapy made sense. Before healing my root, therapists would tell me that I was codependent and just needed to set boundaries, but without a sense of self, how could I even know where to start? Tons of insight here. I'm gonna listen again!

  • @simonwinberg8604
    @simonwinberg8604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is exactly how i feel :(( i make myself so extremely small for the sake of my parents approval. Im 29 now and im severly isolatef and exhausted and i feel so much shame! I dont feel safe :(

  • @_Trakman
    @_Trakman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i've never found anyone who DIDN'T invalidate my truth, at some point, other people ALWAYS do it.
    i haven't found anyone who doesn't SHAME DEFLECT onto me and freak out and not be able to handle my truth
    this keeps me trapped at such a young age, i'm in a reality that no one else can connect to
    it keeps me stuck as a baby with huge developmental trauma, rejected by all, especially WOMEN

  • @cliffordjacobson9534
    @cliffordjacobson9534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The crossed boundaries and hurt done by my mother , her insistence Of me behaving, being quiet and stay a child is classic enmeshment. Difficulty I have having healthy relationships with women will not happen till This root trauma is addressed and healed. This is right on! Thank you 🙏

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wonderful awareness!!! The “original wound” is where it’s at! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @cym4095
    @cym4095 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just joined and am looking forward to meeting my Tribe!!! I needed this more than you know, glad I listened to my intuition.

  • @amadahyrose
    @amadahyrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oof. The lightbulb went on about all the years of self-sabotage, about not being able to accept compliments, and about feeling undeserving or fearful of good things. Taking the day to validate my inner child. Thank you. ❤️

    • @amadahyrose
      @amadahyrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And my wounded mother's favorite threat was to disown me, verbalized with glee in direct proportion to my horror. As a mother now, I'm especially sickened by this and how I always took on this threat as something I deserved. Yep, hsp and scapegoat. I feel very tender toward my child-self as I reflect and validate. 💕

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful to hear! You deserve whatever you dream of 🌈

  • @joannrobinson6363
    @joannrobinson6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gratitude 💕✨

  • @soulwayhome3427
    @soulwayhome3427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations 100.000 🎉🎉🎉🌞🥰🙏 blessed angel

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so excited! Thank you so much.

  • @AnthonyyV
    @AnthonyyV 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like how you say, what are parents did to us, we do to ourselves. Being rejected because they were triggered is a trauma I’m dealing with now. But I remind myself, that the pain it gave me is exactly what I must feel to heal, learn and be better than that generational pain. 🙏🏻

  • @amberv4223
    @amberv4223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW. This is INCREDIBLE. I had terrible immune issues in my twenties. I kind of started to realise it was trauma related.

  • @wmelssenvogel
    @wmelssenvogel หลายเดือนก่อน

    All I can say is WOWOWOW! This is amazing info, thank you!

  • @vilikoskinen3269
    @vilikoskinen3269 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is a huge game changer in my healing work from codependency. People and therapists say, "create boundaries" or "don't crawl back under the shoes of other prople" or "stop being doormatt". Now for a long time I am much better in touch with myself and what happened to me. Thank you so much!

  • @taralynn2919
    @taralynn2919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Candace Love you so much simply amazing human.

  • @deanmoulton8994
    @deanmoulton8994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderful insight, beautiful Candace. You look great in any color.

  • @bethan3747
    @bethan3747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    CANDACE every time you deliver such profound central truths from such a simple angle that hits me like a truck !! I am so grateful for you !!

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awwww thank you so much!! I’m glad you are here 😇😊

  • @esoteric9moment
    @esoteric9moment ปีที่แล้ว

    Validating our inner child with you peeps :) ❤

  • @mamadramasla30
    @mamadramasla30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have helped me out so much since I found your videos I've come a long way thank you

  • @leora_sar
    @leora_sar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Holy sh**! This is so right!

  • @ambertinney5932
    @ambertinney5932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I literally had to pause your video to not miss what you have to say. Also to say, i literally started crying because i know i was suppose to hear this message. I feel called out but in the best way! Thank you for bringing more awareness to me through your video. I feel like i found the missing piece to the next step in my journey.

    • @justjules6975
      @justjules6975 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This made me cry too🥺xx♥️

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is wonderful news!!! Great work Jules

  • @marthawatkins7184
    @marthawatkins7184 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant!!!!!
    This is totally me.

  • @Mansions.
    @Mansions. ปีที่แล้ว

    Your so good Candace. I so appreciate your message.

  • @lydiarosebrita4901
    @lydiarosebrita4901 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this, I've been in therapy for years but I recently realised I had only ever spoken from the perspective of my adult self - as opposed to my child self - who was the one who experienced the major traumatic events in my life. So I've decided to dedicate therapy sessions to my inner child from now on. When you know better you do better!!

  • @monicaespinoza1806
    @monicaespinoza1806 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤WOW THANK YOU SO MUCH, you are my angel, today I woke up triggered and feeling awful, and I started asking myself and it was me not feeling SAFE, and I ask the Universe for a message for me and VOILA your youtube, I am so grateful never was so clear about my wound, how it works and how to really heal it. Its not that I discovered you today, but I haven't listened to you in a while except following your IG. But I am so so THANKFUL FOR YOU WONDERFUL AND SOOOOO HELPING VIDEOS. You gave me the message I asked for. ❤❤ Candace

  • @bunnyoncloud
    @bunnyoncloud ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much!! you lit many bulbs in my head

  • @owlnswan4016
    @owlnswan4016 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much, Candace. This is great...

  • @jodiebellamy5077
    @jodiebellamy5077 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really amazing insightful perspective thank you 🐥

  • @Mel-os3ld
    @Mel-os3ld 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your video came to me at right time.. thank you 😇🙏💜

  • @sarahstarr
    @sarahstarr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it!

  • @HimanshuSingh-rr4mm
    @HimanshuSingh-rr4mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you too...!!!☺

  • @yoagi999
    @yoagi999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spirit sent this right to me when I asked what else I need to work on 😂

  • @giveahoot6045
    @giveahoot6045 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video 🙏

  • @eternal_ks
    @eternal_ks 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are amazing , you get it all . I hope I’ll have good finances to get your courses ❤❤❤❤

  • @lenawall363
    @lenawall363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so mutch work and it's hard. 🤗

  • @annflynn7252
    @annflynn7252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This means everything to me.

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love you so much Candace, thank you for your light work. So much light and so much beauty are in your life and coming in your life. Enjoy every bit of it, you deserve it x infinite. Much blessing xo

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Angel! I really appreciate your kind words 😇

  • @ashleyrose8711
    @ashleyrose8711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dang, this one so concisely wrapped up a lot for me
    😱

  • @gregm3224
    @gregm3224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whar ever planet we're from Candice can we go back? LMAO

  • @gregm3224
    @gregm3224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Funny thing is that your 100% right, but few people can wrap their heads around it. I dunno where you come from Candace but you get it. Because you get it, your awesome

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Greg! I totally get it. I looked around for many years trying to find others who got it. When they didn’t, I just decided to spread the truth and see what happens haha!

  • @YGabi333
    @YGabi333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best and deserve more recognations!!🙏🏾Thank you for clearing this up!!

  • @stelliumX5
    @stelliumX5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m determined to HEAL!!! This is my story! ❤️❤️

  • @jessenoelle262
    @jessenoelle262 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    *Raised hand waving wildly* Me!! I'm resonating with this right now!
    Great vid, thanks for sharing this! 🙏 It really helps a lot to hear a solution- focused talk about this topic, rather than just a list of all the gut-wrenching symptoms I already know I have.

  • @jordanthornton
    @jordanthornton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations on 100k! Huge achievement in this space, love to see it!

  • @stevemiller8895
    @stevemiller8895 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you say it it takes away from the relationship between you and your feelings the responsibility of being the parent to your inner child .
    If we emphasize the relationship with the feelings and issues ETC that represent our inner child then we bring some Humanity to those feelings when you speak of "gaslighting your truth" that could be very well expressed as abandoning your experience or abandoning your inner child or rejecting your inner child because not wanting to deal with the discomfort of the feelings or the issues, with one action we are guilty of creating an onslaught of issues, as we abandon betray neglect reject devalue degrade unlove our wounded inner child and we become what we have failed to acknowledge about ourselves and the action that we place Upon Our woundedness.
    so all of the issues stated above now play a role in formation of our personality as we now become that which we place upon ourselves.
    This is why we should treat our inner child with the highest priority and with the greatest respect especially our woundedness.
    Bc like you said how you were treated is how you are going to treat your inner child., if in fact you are not self aware and have not forgiven or let go of those things to process and we know that if you are treating your inner child like that then you will treat others in your exterior experience in the same manner we all become what we don't acknowledge and accept in the same fashion we also become what we do acknowledge and accept.

  • @staceydelong2938
    @staceydelong2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! This video really opened my eyes. Thank you! I relate to nearly all your videos.

  • @Sportside311
    @Sportside311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahhh, so goood. Excited for chakra class too 💪💪💪

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha I’m excited for it as well! It’s fun building

  • @nechamiabraham7753
    @nechamiabraham7753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is all explained so profoundly and I so so resonate with your words of pure truth ✨

  • @minicarbaum
    @minicarbaum 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was amazing. Thank you

  • @mirandalumiere8980
    @mirandalumiere8980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Candace, this question is related to your work in general. I just typed it here because its your latest video, in hope the question gets noticed sooner. I greatly appreciate your TH-cam channel and I resonate with most things you are saying. Thank you for putting this material out there. However, one existential question comes to my mind and I would appreciate if you would share your thoughts on that.
    What to do if you are a HSP in environment where you are poor, a wage slave and barely surviving materially in this world? Where you have zero support system materially to fall back on in spite of having been hardworking, with higher education and multiple talents and always taken head on every challenge in life? In spite of having tried to get access to better paid jobs, in spite of having proved yourself as a good worker whenever you have been given the opportunity to do so? Unfortunately to earn living you have to deal with the toxic mainstream society and this system has treated me badly so many times in my life that I have lost count. And you have to crawl back because unless you are a heiress you need to earn at least basic money for food and bills. And I have tried hard to find the work that aligns with me in a right way and brings some reasonable income but I have not manages to achieve that.
    If you live in a constant worry for how to pay the bills and buy food next month, and having zero hope for support from societal systems, friends or relatives (based on many previous experiences). Also if you are already an older person, your health is weaker and so tired from life long fight for just a basic survival in this material world? To do inner spiritual work you would need some kind of basic material security, what if you have none? What to do if you live in environment where you a lot of time are simply scared for your physical survival on a basic level and are also completely alone in that environment also?
    I have asked help from Universe, but it seems it does not hear me. If you offer your services, i would not be able to afford them, because 30 min of your consultation is the money I live on for 2 weeks. (This is not to say your consultation is not worth it, it is absolutely worth the price , I am just saying that to save time as in case you offered your consultations. ).
    Do you have any advice to HSP-s who struggle with material survival in spite of being hardworking, made all the effort to improve their situation etc? Advice that would actually help them to improve real life situations because unless you have reasonable income you wont be able to relax and listen to spiritual advice or even to pay for internet to watch TH-cam channels.
    PS. And thank you again for all your videos on TH-cam.

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is such an important question. You are right! The real world is brutal at times. Thank you for sharing some of your story! It sounds like you do all you can to try and make it the best you can and that is very honorable. I do not come from money so I understand. I was lucky enough to make good money early on taking the road less traveled. The advice I would give is to lean on God and build a personal relationship with source energy. Society is not as powerful as spirit. This takes time but you have a guiding light within you that knows the way when you are clear on your dreams! I also offer many free videos and EFT’s etc that you can use for your growth. I have a monthly membership program where I coach and have years of tools and practices in there for you at $47/ month. You can join, get as much as you want, then cancel if need be. I have a newsletter with free blogs and practices to do each week. Just go to my website and subscribe. I believe you are in your way 😇

  • @oliviatabor7939
    @oliviatabor7939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Candace

  • @corner23
    @corner23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every. thing. you. said. So good!!

  • @Brimarieddddddddd
    @Brimarieddddddddd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh wow. You were speaking truth to something in me that’s been so unseen. Thank you Candace this was right on time as usual 😳👏🏽

  • @mialao9557
    @mialao9557 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an angel. This video was so powerful for me today. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @lohrss
    @lohrss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Candace thank you... this is ALL very true. ...This is the deeper healing we all need to delve into. Congratulations on 100K!!!!!

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right on sister!! Love to you!

  • @nancydicarlantonio4307
    @nancydicarlantonio4307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely Amazing ! Right on target! 🎯 Love you so much Candace 🙏😇💕😘

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so glad it spoke to you Nancy!!

  • @ZeniaLarsen
    @ZeniaLarsen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have just found your channel and I'd like to say that I do like a lot of your approach - also a relief to watch a woman with the usual "new agey" stuff showing real emotions and not trying to present herself like she's pure spirit (and so enlightened that those human emotions don't exist in them anymore - sorry, have run across that kind of people one too many times) ... Where was I? Yeah, I appreciate how you sound authentic, and a lot of what you say resonates with me. The one question or "warning sign" I sensed from your video is to be careful, too, not to treat your inner child as an object that needs to be fixed in order for you to thrive. I'm not accusing you of doing that, I just felt that concern and since my impression is that we are in a space where speaking our truths is appreciated as inspiration rather than threats, I wanted to comment.
    So, it's a little hard to explain but it's something like "we need to heal our inner children because they hurt and because we really love them - not because these harmed little brats are blocking our path to success.
    Hope it makes sense. Stop gaslighting your inner child out of love, not out of a desire for enlightenment or chakra restoration. If enlightenment, chakra restoration or whatever does happen in the proces (which intuitively sounds right) then great. But I believe that the main motivation should be love and care - those qualities /abilities that we miraculously kept alive and never gave up on no matter what shit the world threw at us.

  • @sugrandspyce
    @sugrandspyce 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This resonates 🤍🫶🏼🤍

  • @connectedartstudio
    @connectedartstudio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spot on!!

  • @adrienne3272
    @adrienne3272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was right on time

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I will only treat myself the way i was trente-deux as a child

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your êyes

  • @winxclubstellamusa
    @winxclubstellamusa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What will the chakra course be called? Is it out yet? It sounds super interesting.

  • @omar4105
    @omar4105 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey darling 🌹

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do to myself what was done to me as a child

  • @hhz723
    @hhz723 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where can more info of the chakra course be found? 😊

  • @Aaa-dp9vv
    @Aaa-dp9vv ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sabrinasabrina916
    @sabrinasabrina916 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:50

  • @Lachlans-i2s
    @Lachlans-i2s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🔥🔥🔥🌋🌋🌋my parents will disown me yup😥😥🙏🙏-lachlan

    • @rongike
      @rongike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      not if you disown them first 😎

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hear you & see you! It’s a strong Truth you must have!!

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rongike brilliant

  • @MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJ
    @MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi Candace, in short, U R AWESOME, thank you for such great content everytime....i have one request, pretty please, one day, talk about how to save our kids during parenthood. i have two boys (AJ is 7, CJ is 3)...how can i deal with any trauma/insecurities/behavior correctly and be confident that my boys are over it on the same day?....how do i know if i had dealt with it correctly and that it won't be a problem for them as adults later on in life?.

    • @MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJ
      @MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      as a father, i wish my parents had even tried to learn how to deal with my traumas correctly, thats why im very interested in doing it right for my kids....please, ur only fan from Yemen is humbly requesting your help. :)

    • @ZeniaLarsen
      @ZeniaLarsen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Our children will get their share of traumas, that's a fact of life, and it might sound off but own the fact that you will be responsible for some of them. Why? Because fear of hurting our children might get us so focused on ourselves that we fail to be directed toward them. If you accidentally step on the toes of your child, the child might feel pain but the care and comfort that follows will make it no big deal. It's sort of the same things they need when being hurt emotionally. I only have one child, she'll be 20 in a few Months and I've lost count of all the times I've f... up but she's grown into this unbelievably bright and brave young woman - with her own quirks and insecurities that she carries with such dignity that it's truly inspirational.
      I don't know you and you don't know me but I just have this feeling that the mere fact that you worry like that is a sign that you have nothing to worry about :) Being correct was never the point. Clumsy love is way better than cool correctness

    • @MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJ
      @MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ZeniaLarsen thanks for replying. i like that your words gave me a lot of comfort, yet i am worried still.lol.

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tell yourself the truth

  • @kathrynmcginty2382
    @kathrynmcginty2382 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMGGGGGG

  • @user-jj8et2mo1j
    @user-jj8et2mo1j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    去年に JESUS, 今年の8月に創造主が来てくださいました♥
    感謝しております🙏✨ 😊👍

  • @momione11
    @momione11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️

  • @MarivthyelCelestialWaterDancer
    @MarivthyelCelestialWaterDancer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The trauma is the issue here... and I donno if theres a cure for it. This is very problematic 🤔

    • @rongike
      @rongike 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can't cure what happened, all you can do is own it and accept it. shit happened, life is not perfect, far from it.

    • @DivinevirgoFeminine
      @DivinevirgoFeminine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Forgiveness is never for the person who caused the trauma. Forgiveness is for you and your inner peace.

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is absolute a cure. It is called healing and integrating the inner child 💙

  • @psychetropicrelease
    @psychetropicrelease 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've never related to much to something in my whole life....what....

  • @soudipanah
    @soudipanah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @enchantedbyemily
    @enchantedbyemily ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤