Cognitive Dissonance

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  • @HollyBird29
    @HollyBird29 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Omg! Thank you so much! I never ever understood this!!!! He would lose his s*** scream yell embarrassed everyone in the room and then storm out like a 3-year-old! And within 10 to 15 minutes he was back acting like he didn't just ruin the entire party!

  • @theunderscoreoflife762
    @theunderscoreoflife762 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yeah mine kissed me then drugged me before I went to drive for Lyft for the night. I’m assuming he wanted me to crash & die since he ironically had just sent me a link to a song called 11 minutes by Yungblud & Halsey where she is on her way to him but crashes the car & dies. I will never underestimate how evil someone can be. Even with as innocent as he appeared. Wolf in sheeps clothing. A raging narc hiding behind religion. Thank you for your work in this area and for leading the way for other narcs to get help. It takes more strength to do what you are doing Ben. Be proud. Take care! 🙏🕊♥️

  • @Hannah-jw8do
    @Hannah-jw8do ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This reinforces why I left. I did not want my daughter to think that was love!

  • @cristinlacey
    @cristinlacey ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mine slammed my face into a coffee table then brought me the towel to hold on my bleeding face and drove me to the emergency room where I had to lie about what happened. To this day it's treated like it never happened. (We share a child so he's still around for that reason only. ) I didn't know narcissists exist then. So..avoiding that OVERT very in your face and extremely in your face full of yourself person...I fell for a COVERT narcissist still never knowing what a narcissist was. Getting woken up to this realization was shocking and changed every way I look at the world. It's absolutely insane how people treat people. This video is spot on truth!!

  • @idrawattention900
    @idrawattention900 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've gone through this in friendships..

  • @MrGearoid65
    @MrGearoid65 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes that's what he did to me. I thought I Was the crazy one and eventually blew up in frustration at this on off, on off behaviour. That was what he was looking for, so he could say to everyone else that I was the problem and this is how I am ostracized now. Horrendous.

  • @rbdb8953
    @rbdb8953 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you

  • @loudlibrarian5920
    @loudlibrarian5920 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg! This is why I’m out! This
    Happened one too many times

  • @donverga8044
    @donverga8044 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seems like people living day by day

  • @chelceasurgenor598
    @chelceasurgenor598 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband does this all the time! 😖

  • @jeannetteroundtree2389
    @jeannetteroundtree2389 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing this!

    • @jeannetteroundtree2389
      @jeannetteroundtree2389 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really feel like this a lot! And then it get me feeling super crazy and I eventually snap.. then he feels like ok things are back to normal and he feels better because I’m now the one who is snapping and he is the calm one so he’s not wrong.. I’m so done feeling crazy!

  • @sibanimajhi
    @sibanimajhi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everyone's like yeah I faced this and I am here like this is me (minus the violence)

  • @jenniferhaynes8625
    @jenniferhaynes8625 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my childhood this happened within my family. Funny,how a few decades later I meet many narcissists.

  • @Wo.Main_Character_Energy
    @Wo.Main_Character_Energy ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😭😭😭
    I suffered this for years. I thought I was stupid that I didn't know how to get over things and become normal. He told me by dragging the issue I would ruin the present also and trigger him again when he was trying hard to focus on present

    • @idrawattention900
      @idrawattention900 ปีที่แล้ว

      BROOOO wtf all toxic guys do thaaat!! 🙄🙄 It's annoying the games guys play & they always do it 2 the nicest girls.

  • @dwd080376
    @dwd080376 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ummm.. i think theres a fourth confusing way it makes you feel ☠️

  • @officerfarva3666
    @officerfarva3666 ปีที่แล้ว

    You described my ex’s relationship with his narc sibling.

  • @Dr.MoneyMonday
    @Dr.MoneyMonday ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s his TH-cam?