My dad is such a great Christian that he rages when hearing Bible verses. So I played the Bible aloud and some preaching. He couldn't say what he really felt since he was playing a role as a Christian. Ultimately he couldn't take it and ran away. Door was locked when he came back. Those demons in him can't contend with the Holy Spirit. My dad knew he does everything the opposite of what God says. Hearing the words of God drove him out. He used "honor thy father and mother" to do wickedness and now the light is being shined on his darkness. All the lies and hypocrisy laid bare before all the earth.
My religious narcopath ex hated when I tried to listen to Christian music (he would go and turn it off) yet had black metal (satanic filthy lyrics) on his playlist. One of many Antichrist things he did yet preaches on a Sunday. Boggles my mind and made me believe in demons. God gave me a powerful dream that removed all my blind spots and brought me some of his servants and funds help to help me escape. I’ve been recovering Under his wing ever since. Some days the pain of trauma can feel unbearable but God is with me at all times. He saved my life again and will do everyday until my last. Amen.
Same with me. I never knew my family was full of narcissistics. I couldn't ever imagine hurting them or leaving them, but i am assured this was God's work to keeping me protected far away from them. Not once but twice for me. I was very dumb and sweet, it got me to edge, but i was saved. Miracles do happen! God is great ❤😊
I am so grateful to have a community of survivors. The evil and darkness from the lying destructive aggressive spirit is pressing and can push down but not completely. The spirit of hope and wisdom and strength is growing so big in me that I actually feel joy even in the middle of a court battle started by my narc sister. Please pray for me in my battle and for freedom from her abuse.
Praying for you❤ us survivors will NEVER let another hurt us like the way we’ve been hurt before. Stay strong! Know your worth and we’re in this together! 🙏🏻🌹💕
You'll not be defeated, but you'll be liberated. May God continue to give you added strength as you go through this battle. Love, blessings, and strength from Jamaica 🇯🇲 ❤
Personally, I see us more as warriors than survivors. We've battled through hell and came out. Many of us came out carrying our children with us. We may have survived the battle but we had to battle like hell to achieve that victory. And in many cases, no one knows the battle we have fought and won.
when you discard a narcissist, it's just capitalizing on an opportunity to better yourself. which is exactly what they tried to do to you in their time with you. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
For months, haven't engaged, worked on self care and I feel so free already! He always says, I can't survive without him. He tried to start an argument and said he might as well pack a bag and leave. I said, I will help you pack!!!! I can't believe I said it but I did and it felt sooo good!!!! He just stared at me so strange and I walked away!!!! For once in his life he was speechless!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I had a similar experience as you, and I remember how when I saw the bewildered expression, I felt like I took my power back. I felt so happy and was proud of myself. It felt so good to finally take my power back and stop him. It is such a great feeling. Good job!❤
They are nothing without your own fear 😊. They never had anything in the first place, they had a skillset for manipulation but it wasn't complete without your participation. Once you take away your participation, you flip the vulnerability and add it to your personal power. Then they can't get anything done. All the best and you have us!
I was isolated but now I am living my life with a new energy 😊my personality and power of thinking was destroyed but I didn't let them to consume me and your channel was the back bone of my new life after recognizing them
You are right on all levels. I'm setting boundaries and speaking with authority by using my life voice, death voice, and God voice. Thank you for your help. It makes a big difference to those of us going through narcissistic abuse. The narcissist body is shutting down because of his own toxicity. It seems as if both our mothers and myself are going to outlive him.
Some days I can't believe how far I've come. I don't think I will ever get over the pain and betrayal. I don't let his harsh words take root in my heart. I am at peace because I truly loved him and gave him my heart. And I know he could never live through what he put me through. I am content that despite it all I am healing and my heart is at peace. Thank you Danish for these encouraging points.
You win by moving on and living your best life. Sometimes an occassion comes up that gives a glimpse to family or friends that the narcs lies are fundamentally out of sync with reality. It is up to them what to decide about that. It was decades, but a few have contacted me and begun a relationship again--but secretly--now understanding the risks.
Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
My heart goes out to you. I can relate with the torture of a broken heart. I left my 25 year marriage over 8 years ago because he wasn’t faithful. I still haven’t been with anybody else yet he chooses his mistress. I thought we could work through this, but he can not resist the sin of lust and temptation, so as hard as it is it’s time for divorce. Please take advantage of this alone time for yourself. There’s some really good guided sleep meditations to relieve stress, depression,anxiety,or just plain relax. I hope you feel better soon.😁🌹☀️
U will get ur energy back trust me. Start small, by taking care of urself, ur skin,ur hair,ur fashion. Go for walks every evening, eat well,cook,garden,. Go get a certificate etc
GOOD JOB !! We need to hear MORE about what we have done and can Be and Do....to not be Controlled/Owned by the Narcissist. When they said "You are Nothing"....Trust the Opposite. You are "Everything to them"...and they are the Nothing. Whatever they say, Switch it....and now you're got the correct answer. And USE the correct answer, for your own Growth and Safety. Amen !!
We have brought so much PEACE saying goodbye. They have screwed my family over so many times and it’s been over a year now we said goodbye and cut ties. After 20 years of lying and manipulation. Never EVER again. Even if they came crying, apologizing….no way. But then…..does a narcissist ever apologize? Absolutely not. ✌️ ⛓️💥 👋
Yes i did ALHAMDULLILAH and thanks to you too I found your reels when I was completely guilty and thinking that i was mentally unstable but now i know about narcissistic illness thanks
From a Narcissist mother 😢 to a narcissist husband of 15 yrs now X ..i once thought I'm alone in this world until i met Danish here and this amazing community .. cheers🎉 to us we are free.. we are winners.
Thankfully I recently moved out from my narcissistic family and still grabbed in the sadness of being abandoned but I understood everything what you have said and there is no going back.
Thank you Danish l did follow all your clips narcissist abuse l learnt a lot you opened my eyes today l’m free from my narcissist partner it wasn’t easy to live him he had threats to kill me and our baby but in the end l ‘ m a survivour🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
4. I can’t express how happy I am to have found your videos, Dr. Danish… Thank for sharing this amazing content and for encouraging us to be part of this community .
This message is lovely, makes me feel good abt myself. With the narcs for a few days because im not yet 18, gonna leave in a few years. Thanks Danish bro
Its so true just found out who he really are after 1 year, figure out he live in iilution, mentally ill , lies, cheated, fake his,stories, his emotions manipulate, after i speak confront he covert disapear, i think he know i know, he afraid of me
my mom always said from very young age that I am ugy and nobody will love me or marry me but when I became adult and had my own friend circle, they all said that I am rather so pretty and cute and now i know that it was only a tactic to shame and belittle me.
They wanted me to have no one to TELL. They wanted me to not understand what happened to me. The community of survivors taught me. They wanted me to give up my house, give them all my money and they would give me further instructions
When someone demands your house and money and then will give you further instructions. How do you feel? It feels like a weaponed bank robber. Give me the house the money wait for instructions. It's a bank robbery. Of your life!
My life has been completely destroyed by a narcissist. Eventually developed the courage to pursue divorce. I am surprised that each and everything that you speak about has already happened to me.
Thank you so much Danish for this video and I'm going to continue watching you because you is the best baby the best and I'm so proud of you and God will not be part of myself too but you know God first and you and and myself that I moved on breaking the cycles that's exactly what I'm going to do in God's presence and God want me to do it and move on or not thank you Danish
So spot on! I gray rock my narc mother and have not physically seen her in 3 years and it’s been great! She’s now pushing to “get together”. I’ve been able to avoid holidays w/them r/t work. It’s amazing the stress I feel w/just the idea of meeting her for lunch. Not realizing till I was 58 that she was a narc, my children were allowed to have a relationship w/her. Sadly, to my detriment. Not really sure how to proceed w/her w/o it hurting my relationship w/my children for being “selfish and mean” if I out and out refuse to meet w/her. The icing on the cake 2 of my children have nothing to do w/me r/t the alienation tactics of the ex and my mother. So it’s perfectly fine for them to be no contact w/me, however, if I did that to my mother I will be judged and labeled by them. Frustrating😡🤦🏻♀️
@@lucyt-c8092- I’ve been blunt and then the monkeys start flying. Your advice is spot on, thank you. Just need to figure it out in my head. Not seeing her physically for three years has made it easy to grey rock her on the phone. I honestly didn’t think meeting for lunch at a diner would be an issue. I was caught off guard how much it has been stressing me.
@@michelemiktus2312 ..because YOU are a decent human being being ! and …years of crazy narc stuff will trigger you… stay strong and be good… you have been doing it… and every day you get better and smarter …
@@lucyt-c8092- thank you! Thank you for filling in the puzzle piece for me, I wasn’t looking at it as triggering me. Of course it is🤦🏻♀️ Ok, now I can deal w/this from that approach. I really appreciate you helping me work through this, thank you!
I discarded him he knew I would be at my mums she had cameras outside he would stalk me there bashing on our windows as I said we had him on camera and he still denied it well karma got him in the end and he’s now doing time
For all the survivors here, welcome and congratulations for not giving up on yourself 🙏🏾🎉🎉🎉
🎉😊🎉😊🎉😊TY 😊 ❤🎉🎉🎉
It is Literal EVIL. Yes. Literally.
DARKNESS AND EVIL.
Thank you. It's been a literal fight for Survival.
Yes
You are correct but I just couldn't do it on my own...I believe it is my Creator who pulled me out from the pit of brokenness...
My dad is such a great Christian that he rages when hearing Bible verses. So I played the Bible aloud and some preaching. He couldn't say what he really felt since he was playing a role as a Christian. Ultimately he couldn't take it and ran away. Door was locked when he came back.
Those demons in him can't contend with the Holy Spirit. My dad knew he does everything the opposite of what God says. Hearing the words of God drove him out. He used "honor thy father and mother" to do wickedness and now the light is being shined on his darkness. All the lies and hypocrisy laid bare before all the earth.
My religious narcopath ex hated when I tried to listen to Christian music (he would go and turn it off) yet had black metal (satanic filthy lyrics) on his playlist. One of many Antichrist things he did yet preaches on a Sunday. Boggles my mind and made me believe in demons.
God gave me a powerful dream that removed all my blind spots and brought me some of his servants and funds help to help me escape. I’ve been recovering Under his wing ever since. Some days the pain of trauma can feel unbearable but God is with me at all times. He saved my life again and will do everyday until my last. Amen.
Same with me. I never knew my family was full of narcissistics. I couldn't ever imagine hurting them or leaving them, but i am assured this was God's work to keeping me protected far away from them. Not once but twice for me. I was very dumb and sweet, it got me to edge, but i was saved. Miracles do happen! God is great ❤😊
Thank you Danish. For opening my eyes and mind. I left the narc 10 months ago I’ve never felt better. I have you to thank ,
🎉🎉🎉🥰🥳🎉🎉 Happy for you!
Brother u look absolutely amazing. U r helping lot of people who have suffered narcissistic abuse.
I am so grateful to have a community of survivors. The evil and darkness from the lying destructive aggressive spirit is pressing and can push down but not completely. The spirit of hope and wisdom and strength is growing so big in me that I actually feel joy even in the middle of a court battle started by my narc sister. Please pray for me in my battle and for freedom from her abuse.
Praying for you❤ us survivors will NEVER let another hurt us like the way we’ve been hurt before. Stay strong! Know your worth and we’re in this together! 🙏🏻🌹💕
@@sharisunshine7540Thank you so much. Prayers are our weapon and everyone counts.
Praying for your strength and courage to stand your ground 🙏 ❤️
You'll not be defeated, but you'll be liberated. May God continue to give you added strength as you go through this battle. Love, blessings, and strength from Jamaica 🇯🇲 ❤
Personally, I see us more as warriors than survivors. We've battled through hell and came out. Many of us came out carrying our children with us. We may have survived the battle but we had to battle like hell to achieve that victory. And in many cases, no one knows the battle we have fought and won.
😏 🎉
I'm definitely winning in this & i hope whoever is reading this is breaking through as well 🎉 We will not stop rising!!! ❤ We are FREE 🙌🏻
Yes so true! I escaped 8 months ago and although extremely difficult, it's sooooo much better!
when you discard a narcissist, it's just capitalizing on an opportunity to better yourself. which is exactly what they tried to do to you in their time with you.
cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
Yes I have already defeated the narc and I'm living my best life
For months, haven't engaged, worked on self care and I feel so free already! He always says, I can't survive without him. He tried to start an argument and said he might as well pack a bag and leave. I said, I will help you pack!!!! I can't believe I said it but I did and it felt sooo good!!!! He just stared at me so strange and I walked away!!!! For once in his life he was speechless!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Must feel great 🥲
I had a similar experience as you, and I remember how when I saw the bewildered expression, I felt like I took my power back. I felt so happy and was proud of myself. It felt so good to finally take my power back and stop him. It is such a great feeling.
Good job!❤
They are nothing without your own fear 😊. They never had anything in the first place, they had a skillset for manipulation but it wasn't complete without your participation. Once you take away your participation, you flip the vulnerability and add it to your personal power. Then they can't get anything done. All the best and you have us!
if you're still with him, you need to get out. It's still affecting you just being in his orbit.
@@cyndimoring9389 easier said then done but I know the air is toxic. Thank you
Praise God for Danish, for this blessing of community of teaching learning, and protection.😊
I was isolated but now I am living my life with a new energy 😊my personality and power of thinking was destroyed but I didn't let them to consume me and your channel was the back bone of my new life after recognizing them
You are right on all levels. I'm setting boundaries and speaking with authority by using my life voice, death voice, and God voice. Thank you for your help. It makes a big difference to those of us going through narcissistic abuse. The narcissist body is shutting down because of his own toxicity. It seems as if both our mothers and myself are going to outlive him.
Some days I can't believe how far I've come. I don't think I will ever get over the pain and betrayal. I don't let his harsh words take root in my heart. I am at peace because I truly loved him and gave him my heart. And I know he could never live through what he put me through. I am content that despite it all I am healing and my heart is at peace. Thank you Danish for these encouraging points.
You win by moving on and living your best life. Sometimes an occassion comes up that gives a glimpse to family or friends that the narcs lies are fundamentally out of sync with reality. It is up to them what to decide about that. It was decades, but a few have contacted me and begun a relationship again--but secretly--now understanding the risks.
So true, that just your “smile” validates your words!
I appreciate you!!
May God bless you always, Danish!🙏❤️🕊🌟🎶🌹💖
Excellent video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
My heart goes out to you. I can relate with the torture of a broken heart. I left my 25 year marriage over 8 years ago because he wasn’t faithful. I still haven’t been with anybody else yet he chooses his mistress. I thought we could work through this, but he can not resist the sin of lust and temptation, so as hard as it is it’s time for divorce.
Please take advantage of this alone time for yourself. There’s some really good guided sleep meditations to relieve stress, depression,anxiety,or just plain relax. I hope you feel better soon.😁🌹☀️
But all my energy is drained while fighting for myself. And eventually I ended the relationship. Still feel exhausted.
Hear that...
U will get ur energy back trust me.
Start small, by taking care of urself, ur skin,ur hair,ur fashion. Go for walks every evening, eat well,cook,garden,. Go get a certificate etc
GOOD JOB !! We need to hear MORE about what we have done and can Be and Do....to not be Controlled/Owned by the Narcissist. When they said "You are Nothing"....Trust the Opposite. You are "Everything to them"...and they are the Nothing. Whatever they say, Switch it....and now you're got the correct answer. And USE the correct answer, for your own Growth and Safety. Amen !!
They asked me what's I thinking. I said I think how to live when without you😂.... that's destroyed?
Exactly what he did isolated me no communication with any body I'm fighting my way out I will win and survive
We have brought so much PEACE saying goodbye. They have screwed my family over so many times and it’s been over a year now we said goodbye and cut ties. After 20 years of lying and manipulation. Never EVER again. Even if they came crying, apologizing….no way. But then…..does a narcissist ever apologize? Absolutely not.
✌️ ⛓️💥 👋
This community helps so much. It was just chaos and drama
"Dependency doesn't create happiness" , Doctor Phil said that
Yes i did ALHAMDULLILAH and thanks to you too I found your reels when I was completely guilty and thinking that i was mentally unstable but now i know about narcissistic illness thanks
From a Narcissist mother 😢 to a narcissist husband of 15 yrs now X ..i once thought I'm alone in this world until i met Danish here and this amazing community .. cheers🎉 to us we are free.. we are winners.
Thank you, Danish
Yes I did it
And my children too
I'm praying that we all thrive in the end
Thankfully I recently moved out from my narcissistic family and still grabbed in the sadness of being abandoned but I understood everything what you have said and there is no going back.
Thank you Danish l did follow all your clips narcissist abuse l learnt a lot you opened my eyes today l’m free from my narcissist partner it wasn’t easy to live him he had threats to kill me and our baby but in the end l ‘ m a survivour🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much for that affirmation, Danish😍. We survivors should remember this every day. May God bless us all❤️
Thank you for your wise words. You stopped me from going back to them
❤✔💯
This is SO uplifting!!!! Thank you for highlighting our accomplishments!!!!! 💖💖💖
I watched twice, waiting for the 5th way 😂. But it’s OK bc We are winning against the narcs. Happy Sunday, everyone!!
Thank you Danish, for giving us hope and encouragement in your uplifting videos! Youre our champion! 💪🌟😃
The smile and the words of hope and encouragement have spread a sense of positivity and confidence... Thank you very much, Danish! 🌷🙏🏻
Surviving is exhausting
..but I'm doing it
4. I can’t express how happy I am to have found your videos, Dr. Danish… Thank for sharing this amazing content and for encouraging us to be part of this community .
Success is the best revenge. It works every time.
Walking away from a 28 year marriage with a narcissist was the hardest thing I ever did- it was also the healthiest!
This message is lovely, makes me feel good abt myself. With the narcs for a few days because im not yet 18, gonna leave in a few years. Thanks Danish bro
Well said Danish. Describes my relatives treatment of me for years since childhood. I am in my 50s now.
I need to find myself again.
I so love myself fools cud never lead me if they get 1 minute certainly not longer😆😆😆🤣
Absolutely, true for each of the 5 ways. But I stayed, 25 yrs. 😢
BE BLESS BROTHER DANISH. THANK YOU VERY MUCH
Would love more of this kind of video. Very encouraging
Thank you for aware me🎉
I like these kind of encouraging videos from Danish the most powerful and inspiring😊
Its so true just found out who he really are after 1 year, figure out he live in iilution, mentally ill , lies, cheated, fake his,stories, his emotions manipulate, after i speak confront he covert disapear, i think he know i know, he afraid of me
Thank you. This is so true!
So encouraging!😊 Thank you!💜
Thank you. I do feel better now❤❤❤
I needed this , this morning
That smile says it all Danish
my mom always said from very young age that I am ugy and nobody will love me or marry me but when I became adult and had my own friend circle, they all said that I am rather so pretty and cute and now i know that it was only a tactic to shame and belittle me.
God bless you always with good health and happiness
They wanted me to have no one to TELL. They wanted me to not understand what happened to me. The community of survivors taught me. They wanted me to give up my house, give them all my money and they would give me further instructions
When someone demands your house and money and then will give you further instructions. How do you feel? It feels like a weaponed bank robber. Give me the house the money wait for instructions. It's a bank robbery. Of your life!
This is a Hugh breakthrough Danish. You did it. You said it my brain was listening and put the puzzle pieces😂 together. Yeah
Yes we all made it💪💪❤️🕊
That's actually true!
Thank you for the videos.
God bless you.
From JANESVILLE, WI
Beautiful explanation 👌
God with us ❤
Surely, some of us don''t make it out Alive. They are "gone" now. I was worried about that just yesterday...
All resonates with my narc family
Thank you so much for all your videos, it helps a lot
💪🏾 thank you.
Very correct 👍🏼
Very true...!!
Everything is true. 👍🏻👏🏻
My life has been completely destroyed by a narcissist. Eventually developed the courage to pursue divorce. I am surprised that each and everything that you speak about has already happened to me.
Amen 🙏🏻 to that.
Yes❤thank you Angel Danish❤
Nailed it theydid more than thatcall my dad you're good you pretty much got it down pat😊
Undeniable❤
Unfortunately I haven’t achieved any of these things through being forced to coparent with him
Amen 🙏🙏 I am my strength
Thank you so much Danish for this video and I'm going to continue watching you because you is the best baby the best and I'm so proud of you and God will not be part of myself too but you know God first and you and and myself that I moved on breaking the cycles that's exactly what I'm going to do in God's presence and God want me to do it and move on or not thank you Danish
Thanks very much great advise appreciate you 😊
Thankyou Danish, he did some damage for the life of the relationship, then I stopped it. Dead in its tracks.
Well done to me❤
Yes bhaiya u r right. I destroyed all this n he is in shock
Thanks mh
Done!!👏👏👏
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
True 😊😊
So true
Right
Let no one misunderstand this issue. This IS LITERALLY A BATTLE BETWEEN GOOD AND EVIL, IN THE STRICTEST SENSE OF THE WORD.
Facts
So spot on! I gray rock my narc mother and have not physically seen her in 3 years and it’s been great! She’s now pushing to “get together”. I’ve been able to avoid holidays w/them r/t work. It’s amazing the stress I feel w/just the idea of meeting her for lunch. Not realizing till I was 58 that she was a narc, my children were allowed to have a relationship w/her. Sadly, to my detriment. Not really sure how to proceed w/her w/o it hurting my relationship w/my children for being “selfish and mean” if I out and out refuse to meet w/her. The icing on the cake 2 of my children have nothing to do w/me r/t the alienation tactics of the ex and my mother. So it’s perfectly fine for them to be no contact w/me, however, if I did that to my mother I will be judged and labeled by them. Frustrating😡🤦🏻♀️
How about being very blunt ? “ No , I am not coming to dinner at her house . I would go lunch with kids / grandkids without her .”…
@@lucyt-c8092- I’ve been blunt and then the monkeys start flying. Your advice is spot on, thank you. Just need to figure it out in my head. Not seeing her physically for three years has made it easy to grey rock her on the phone. I honestly didn’t think meeting for lunch at a diner would be an issue. I was caught off guard how much it has been stressing me.
@@michelemiktus2312 ..because YOU are a decent human being being ! and …years of crazy narc stuff will trigger you… stay strong and be good… you have been doing it… and every day you get better and smarter …
@@lucyt-c8092- thank you! Thank you for filling in the puzzle piece for me, I wasn’t looking at it as triggering me. Of course it is🤦🏻♀️ Ok, now I can deal w/this from that approach. I really appreciate you helping me work through this, thank you!
I discarded him he knew I would be at my mums she had cameras outside he would stalk me there bashing on our windows as I said we had him on camera and he still denied it well karma got him in the end and he’s now doing time
Yesyesyes! 🤸🏼♀️🤸🏼♀️🤸🏼♀️🤸🏼♀️
USA learning slowly 🙏💯♌️🙌🙏🙏❤️❤️♌️♌️
Yes 🎉 🙏🏾
I doubt I will get truth or justice in this lifetime
True
🙏🏽
Thnks❤
Amen 🙏🏻
Who here has Narc Children?
Yes I am already moveon nd try to get back on myself but now he use my child against me .
YESSSS❤❤