I Don't Want To Be A Slave and Look Better Than

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  • @SamanthaP48
    @SamanthaP48 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13950

    Imagine how a man would describe-> Staying home with his family, all bills paid etc. Men literally work their ENTIRE lives (many times until death) hoping to have some time at the end to enjoy the family he financed for 40 yrs+. She she says -> Slave. Smh. More like -> Freedom.

    • @ownthispwn
      @ownthispwn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1179

      can’t make this shit up 😂

    • @dks80721
      @dks80721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +482

      It's sad.

    • @No1Bigbear
      @No1Bigbear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +490

      Hi...after what you said here ...if your single, you won't be for long...😁...Hugs from the Bigbear! Thank you for posting!

    • @SamanthaP48
      @SamanthaP48 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1028

      @@No1Bigbear - Thx Big Bear. I just celebrated my 10 yr Wedding Anniversary. (13 total) More here to relish in the “I told you so’s.” -> I’ve been told I did it wrong ALL my life (Still am) so this is extra entertaining. 👀🙂

    • @stevelumumbashabazzz5087
      @stevelumumbashabazzz5087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1272

      My father started working when he was 20 years old he married my mom when he was 23. He worked all his life until he passed at 52 years old. when he died he left my mom property, cars, huge amount of cash, insurance cash etc... so imagine a woman like this dumb chick come out of nowhere and call my mom a slave for being married to man who spent his whole life working and didn’t even have the opportunity to enjoy the money that he made during his lifetime? 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @lokeise7endeuce10
    @lokeise7endeuce10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2834

    She doesn’t respect her father so she’ll never respect her man.

    • @steelheart9582
      @steelheart9582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      This comment should be pinned

    • @RobinShane
      @RobinShane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Big facts. It starts in the home.

    • @QJones-lx9tz
      @QJones-lx9tz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Facts

    • @jaycesmith7899
      @jaycesmith7899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I'm sure her mom was ear hustling her because she's the only girl. My mother in law never talked down on my wife's father or step father, so she has respect for me, her dad and her stepdad.

    • @tonyjones1560
      @tonyjones1560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Even worse, she'd come into a new relationship with a child (or two) and look down on the new guy expected to take 'em all as a package deal...

  • @smartcookie3500
    @smartcookie3500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6281

    As a flight attendant, she is willing to serve hundreds of total strangers, but is unwilling to serve her husband and children, whom she "loves".

    • @dieslethefitnessfragranceg4177
      @dieslethefitnessfragranceg4177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      RIGHT!

    • @dandan4132
      @dandan4132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Bingo!!!

    • @rachellejoachim2652
      @rachellejoachim2652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      I guess since you put it that way. true also

    • @mmluon
      @mmluon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Very astute. You are definitely a smart cookie🙂

    • @Curtchrisdagod
      @Curtchrisdagod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Billionaire comment right here!👍🏾💯🤝🏾

  • @janenns9831
    @janenns9831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1562

    I married a hard working farmer who works up to 22 hours p day during harvest season and he depends on me to take care of the house, kids , have his clothes clean and have meals and snacks ready … it’s my privilege to serve him and my kids … feeding the world ! It’s an honour to be under such a great leader like my husband. It isn’t slavery , it’s an honour

    • @Crackrocksteady
      @Crackrocksteady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Your a gem. I use to work 16 hrs a day 5 days a week. And my wife would expect me to come home and still do everything while she sat there after sitting on her ass answering phones all day while I did hard Manuel labour

    • @mrbojangles7996
      @mrbojangles7996 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Mam, you are beyond a rare breed! You'll live longer, your children will be successful and your husband will cherish you! God bless you both 🙏🏽

    • @brianfclayton
      @brianfclayton ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Good for you Jan and good for your husband!

    • @Yodd
      @Yodd ปีที่แล้ว +23

      lies. no1 works 22h a day.

    • @NewHueyX
      @NewHueyX ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Dang, do you have any sisters?? Keep doing what you doing!

  • @conservativequeen9097
    @conservativequeen9097 ปีที่แล้ว +769

    The death of this man is the biggest loss of the Black and every other community!! 😢😢😢precious advice 🙌🏼

    • @thalightwithin4458
      @thalightwithin4458 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You're real for that 💯

    • @DGSpro
      @DGSpro ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He died in his prime good woman So that all could see his greatness, immortalised for our benefit.
      Praise be.

    • @muriloninja
      @muriloninja ปีที่แล้ว +11

      They think he was harsh when in reality he was their biggest supporter, telling them they are better than this BS programming they have accepted and perpetuate! I have been on a binge since discovering him yesterday and it's a real shame he has passed. So sad! RIP!

    • @smellme6313
      @smellme6313 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes definitely not just the black community but for all 🤙🏼

    • @Youtubepremiumaccountuser
      @Youtubepremiumaccountuser ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I strongly disagree with you. He was a father for tens of thousands of men in white Europe. RIP 😢

  • @hervekalundu2978
    @hervekalundu2978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2102

    She disrespected her father and called her mother a slave on TH-cam, she believes a man should work for her and can't even come to a cooked meal, she also thinks she's a 8-9.

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      She don't care about that.

    • @michealmajor7883
      @michealmajor7883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      COMPLETELY DELUSIONAL!

    • @titanjake8640
      @titanjake8640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      She is getting a dog...

    • @monmalin
      @monmalin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@titanjake8640 She looks like a cat lady

    • @gwills9337
      @gwills9337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      trashy lady

  • @PetRelative
    @PetRelative 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2088

    Bruh this got me in tears she just brushed over the fact that her Dad took care of her and children that weren't even his. When we have dudes out here that don't even take care of they own children. Yo momma was blessed to even have a man like that. He could have easily found a woman with no children and simply took care of just them. But he loved your momma enough to make even more kids and raise all of you. Dafuq is wrong with these people?

    • @EmpressxAllison
      @EmpressxAllison 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      This comment really got me 💕

    • @hornetguy9063
      @hornetguy9063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      Mind blowing, right? By putting a roof over the head and food on the table for four (!) kids that weren’t his, he’s given this chick’s mom more than she can ever possibly give back. The nerve of this girl to judge her father

    • @lkb1228
      @lkb1228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      For real. She's showing her father so much disrespect that it hurts my head

    • @priestbishop3
      @priestbishop3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I think she said 4 kids that were not his and only 2 that were!!!!! He took care of 200% more than he fathered!!!

    • @classditcha3121dug6
      @classditcha3121dug6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Facts bro, most women in this generation say they want a good man but they actually want the exact opposite, they are intimidated by good men so they find every reason to slander them, I can feel the resentment she has for her dad and I can almost guarantee it comes from him being an alpha male in every aspect

  • @yungreem88
    @yungreem88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +958

    Listen if she can disrespect her own father...I can't imagine what she'll do to her spouse

    • @kenobi639
      @kenobi639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Big facts

    • @talesfromthestreet4448
      @talesfromthestreet4448 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Huh!!!

    • @adammckevin6330
      @adammckevin6330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Word

    • @4truecarlovers
      @4truecarlovers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Always based my move on her relationships with their father and uncle's... If they don't have a good one or don't have one I'll pass... Then the way they talk about thier exes...

    • @jeffro8616
      @jeffro8616 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro period

  • @aarondigby5054
    @aarondigby5054 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    This woman is insane, her dad was raising her mother's children before she was even born and to throw shade at him and her mom, so damn disrespectful on every level.

    • @Tolon97
      @Tolon97 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I haven't watched it fully and maybe it was touched on, but it sounded like the mum cheated and the dad found out later on. She said "it was not even a factor at first until later on." My interpretation of that is that the dad didn't know the kids weren't his until he found out later on

    • @bryanbennett1730
      @bryanbennett1730 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Tolon97damn... Four of them! 🤔

    • @kebokev7519
      @kebokev7519 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Typical delusional modern woman. Her opinion is skewed so it doesn't mean crap. She looks at everything subjectively and thinks she's right about everything. She will never be a wife.

    • @weluvmusick
      @weluvmusick 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She brings a pretty face and a body to the table along with a bunch of jacked up opinions not much more

    • @chrishayes5755
      @chrishayes5755 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      17:12 I swear it's dealing with women like this that the sped up Kevin's death. You can just feel that her retardation is taking a heavy toll on his mental state.

  • @nickys6656
    @nickys6656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2587

    As a 40 yr old, in shape, homemaker with 2 toddlers and a husband who works 60+ hours a week providing a comfortable lifestyle for his family I’m insulted that she would consider my stay at home occupation as “slave” work.
    Stay happily single lady!

    • @MrCanelover
      @MrCanelover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Go ahead and keep showing them how its done...

    • @user-ky6jw2yt2h
      @user-ky6jw2yt2h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Got a sister??...With no kids??

    • @nickys6656
      @nickys6656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@user-ky6jw2yt2h Lol, nope, just brothers.

    • @olanrewajuolawalewilliams1423
      @olanrewajuolawalewilliams1423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Please we do not think of you in that way at all.

    • @dominicsanders9599
      @dominicsanders9599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I don't think she's happily single or else she wouldn't be here...but she's seems to think she's right in her assessment which is sad....

  • @mikedionr
    @mikedionr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    Woman: "How does a woman know if her price is to high?"
    Answer: "If no one is buying what you are selling."

    • @emailgmail4169
      @emailgmail4169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I like that one.

    • @Iamjoeycross
      @Iamjoeycross 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      That’s it duhhhhh lady who thinks she’s an 8. This video was the worst. You are flight attendant and I fly a lot. I would not wife her up even if she had the outfit on. I’ve seen way more prettier flight attendants and they don’t talk to me like this with her mentality and attitude. She’s 33 and still single. I always say, the reality of your life is how you keep score. If you make it past 30 and not wifed up yet AND not even dating the types of men who you say you want and they take you seriously. The problem is YOU. Go buy a dog or several cats.

    • @Jamfar777
      @Jamfar777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Messing with a flight attendant is already a liability, it's like messing with a nurse. She is fat, she thinks being a traditional housewife is slavery, she is disrespectful to her father's sacrifice. Like how many struggles does this woman want? She wants to be alone for life.

    • @oceanhedonist265
      @oceanhedonist265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brilliant 👏

    • @MrMoorejm34
      @MrMoorejm34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Jamfar777 it wasn’t even her stepfather! She’s that disrespectful to her actual dad lol

  • @SirYeetus
    @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2083

    Being a traditional housewife is NOT slavery. I know women who are RELIEVED of being freed of financial responsibility & just focus on home.
    Bet she watches Derrick Jaxn. 🤨

    • @myluvisdivine8085
      @myluvisdivine8085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

      The freedom of not having to stress about finances, being extra involved in my children’s school/education, being able to provide home cooked meals for my husband when he gets home from working a 12 hour shift (at 3:00 in the afternoon) is something that I wouldn’t trade for anything in this world. I have been a stay at home wife and mother for almost 11 years and I ain’t never been nobody’s slave.

    • @gainesdominique
      @gainesdominique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I always see your comments... Have a good day whoever you are

    • @ianreddick6066
      @ianreddick6066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      My mom is a single mother and tells me all the time how she wishes she would be a traditional housewife.

    • @DeezNutzMMA
      @DeezNutzMMA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@myluvisdivine8085 You're husband is a lucky man

    • @taipan8021
      @taipan8021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You think a Woman wrote "Fantasy Island"? For sure they're always going there

  • @acethedonn_
    @acethedonn_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1288

    “ I want to be able to stay home and raise the kids “
    “ Being a house wife is a slave “
    You can’t make this stuff up 🤣🤣🤯

    • @simonlul9504
      @simonlul9504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      She's been used for 15 years her body needs a break now

    • @Msdivaduh1
      @Msdivaduh1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Sis is clearly slow lmao

    • @gabrielibowen1
      @gabrielibowen1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Bruh lol. Feminism has done so much damage to modern women. It's sad

    • @acethedonn_
      @acethedonn_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@gabrielibowen1 Bru i didn’t even mention she says she wants the man to be working an providing for her 🤯🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @ryank6322
      @ryank6322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It shows that they have an issue not with *being* a housewife but with the word itself! It like we need a new word to help these women escape their social media programming!

  • @familyv3701
    @familyv3701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2899

    I am a traditional house wife, and I love serving my husband and our children.

    • @johannesswillery7855
      @johannesswillery7855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      Enjoy your blessed life!

    • @rassolo4286
      @rassolo4286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      U wear your 👑 well ⭐

    • @briantucker7173
      @briantucker7173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Shout out to you 🖤

    • @noblejosher4185
      @noblejosher4185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      I hope you have a happy marriage

    • @SirYeetus
      @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      You're one of the rare ones out here lol respect.

  • @TheBobbyMetcalf
    @TheBobbyMetcalf ปีที่แล้ว +140

    they always mishear "dress size?"

    • @Valantis12345
      @Valantis12345 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because women are deceptive. They are liars.

    • @kathyyoung1774
      @kathyyoung1774 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      They pause when asked that question because they are deciding on a lie.

    • @melt2947
      @melt2947 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Every woman knows her exact dress size

  • @MichaelEllisYT
    @MichaelEllisYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1913

    Feminist mentality:
    Working 40+ hours a week for a boss who would fire you without a second thought: Freedom
    Building a home for a man who loves you and caring for children who can't imagine the world without you: Slavery

    • @Meta_Meech
      @Meta_Meech 2 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      The most underrated comment on social media

    • @berthamarinaalvarez6789
      @berthamarinaalvarez6789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Slave???. BLESSED.

    • @ScottDreyfus
      @ScottDreyfus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      5'7" 175....I don't want to look sick...you are supposed to weigh between 120 and 140. You could lose 50 lbs and not look sick. Newsflash 67 inches tall and 175 doesn't wear a size 10 anything accept shoe. She's a men large and at least a size 14 to 16. Delusional Narcissist are gross.

    • @philrichjr
      @philrichjr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lie white men sold to our women.

    • @The_mrs86
      @The_mrs86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Drop 🎤

  • @82Supreme
    @82Supreme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2190

    This woman reminds me of my ex girlfriend. She lost her job due to corona and I simply said "look since you lost your job, just cook and clean" she said "so you want me to be a slave"? I was so pissed off that she would equate housework with slavery. She stated well I shouldn't have because I was grown and she wasn't going to be cooking all the time because she didn't like to cook mind you she home 24/7 at this point. One day after washing the clothes before work I ask could she fold the clothes she said yes, I come home they not done that when I wrote an eviction notice and kicked her out. I can't believe I tried to negotiate with a terrorist lol

    • @crushingzero
      @crushingzero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      Lol these women are insane

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Wat?!!🚩💀

    • @carlkpsplucky5554
      @carlkpsplucky5554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      Imagine if you married her

    • @johnathanwill1945
      @johnathanwill1945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Someone shows you who they are believe them

    • @blademanx
      @blademanx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      so you kicked her out. How does cohabiting laws work over there lol...in UK i dont know if you could boot a gf out that easily. I may be wrong. Was she just a lodger? Where you knock on the door or you sharing the same room? Just wondering

  • @FireAngelChris
    @FireAngelChris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    What made me disgusted was she didn’t acknowledge her father contribution to the family. This so disturbing. What message are modern woman sending toward up and coming boys who will become fathers ?? Are they suggesting that their value to the family is insignificant??

    • @michealmajor7883
      @michealmajor7883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      She doesn’t value men

    • @x97s
      @x97s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      She doesnt care abt men

    • @kasiersoze7569
      @kasiersoze7569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yh she doesn’t appreciate what many don’t have, learning from examples that haven’t happened to them, I’ve seen this a lot 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @stanis8431
      @stanis8431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Let not your heart be disturbed @fire.. better yet, revel in the opportunity KS provides to many by skilfully unraveling the inner machinations of these deluded minds.

    • @caeasylivin
      @caeasylivin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Deal breaker

  • @iamamerican9203
    @iamamerican9203 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I can't like this video enough!
    Women lost a gift when this man passed.
    He always told the truth, 💯

  • @skyline8222
    @skyline8222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +851

    🤣😂 This girl sitting here dissing her mum while she’s married for 32 years and she’s on TH-cam looking for advice on how to find a man

    • @kingboss2158
      @kingboss2158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      In a bath robe 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @martymarl4602
      @martymarl4602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@kingboss2158 LOL...i could not get past that....if this is how she presents online aka to the world, how would she be behind closed doors? geeze

    • @ngugz24
      @ngugz24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      You can't make up this stuff!! 🤣

    • @jakedovey1586
      @jakedovey1586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen! Get over it and stop dissing your parents! Life is tough!

    • @RPGyourLIFE
      @RPGyourLIFE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤣🤣🤣 you can't make this shit up

  • @magnummax78
    @magnummax78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +743

    This broad had me looking at MY woman differently.😳
    She’s never gotten out of pocket with me, and provides me the refuge of peace I require to stay on my grind. When I asked her (after we watched this), “Do you feel like my slave?”
    She looked me dead in the eye (at that moment, I remember thinking she doesn’t do that enough), and said, “HELL NAH! I am your WOMAN! That is the role I enjoy, and I’d fight to keep.”
    I’m glad we watched this together, because it made my decision.💍

    • @bigmac9726
      @bigmac9726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Prayers and blessings for yalls future

    • @leftfield780
      @leftfield780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Facts shit crazy son

    • @magnummax78
      @magnummax78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@bigmac9726, thanks, my brother.👍🏿

    • @raeannaroylance5401
      @raeannaroylance5401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ALL he wants is for me to make him a sandwich?!
      🥪 with an 🍎 and 🥛 and 🍪
      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @rd_z5657
      @rd_z5657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Have a good life man.

  • @Kenyanballa91
    @Kenyanballa91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    Even when Kevin stated her father raised multiple children not his own she damn near scoffed at that. If you can act like that after that man stepped up, you’ll never be satisfied

    • @brandonking772
      @brandonking772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Exactly. Goes with what Cooper says about women with Daddy issues. If she doesn't/didn't respect her father what makes you think she'll respect you (especially in marriage) - and like that we men are out the door for good!

    • @Jamfar777
      @Jamfar777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Man that shit blow my mind.

    • @hahano4281
      @hahano4281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Kevin’s dad is a better man than I. I flat out refuse to deal with a single mother.
      That man is an inspiration of empathy and love we should all aspire to.

    • @twdjt6245
      @twdjt6245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You don’t know what her dad is like towards her mom though. He could’ve been verbally or physically abusive to her, a habitual cheater etc. Yes, men who “step up” are capable of being bad husbands. Only those who lived in that household and her mother know for sure. Does that mean she should judge every other man based on her parents’ relationship though? No. I think this is another woman who could benefit from therapy. Seems like she has daddy issues.

    • @kingd-lite3674
      @kingd-lite3674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@twdjt6245 If her father was verbally and physically abusive, and a so called habitual cheater, trust me she would have said that with the quickness since women love to put men in a negative light. Notice how she couldn’t give a clear cut answer as to why her mother was a slave... it’s because she’s just regurgitating the feminist lies and rhetoric that they’ve been pushing for decades now.

  • @formula112967
    @formula112967 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    Just because God called on KS for a more important job, that doesn't mean we shouldn't be still hitting the like button and subbing....GET THOSE LIKES UP PEOPLE!

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      haha

    • @BigTomInTheBasement
      @BigTomInTheBasement ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish he had an heir to collect on this income.

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@BigTomInTheBasement he has a daughter

    • @tayokarate
      @tayokarate ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol he was called while clawing a ladies kitty

    • @charms85
      @charms85 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh😢, thanks for the reminder, I kinda have been watching one video to the other.

  • @ITSKURTDOGG
    @ITSKURTDOGG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +523

    The most problematic part of this conversation is that she didn't acknowledge her father for doing anything

    • @whyjenniferwhy8846
      @whyjenniferwhy8846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Right... her own FATHER! Smh

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I noticed that too. Selfish, ungrateful b****! So she essentially NEVER saw her father's worth at NO point in her life? Damn shame! ☹️

    • @towhomitmayconcern8866
      @towhomitmayconcern8866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Probably because he was the only stern disciplining force in her life. She tried her best to not show utter disdain for him

    • @ramonep7973
      @ramonep7973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep exactly!

    • @mindexpanding1
      @mindexpanding1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think she said something about a stepdad and step brother’s ?
      If that’s the case her biological father didn’t step up. Too many unknowns, her mother must be a possible loser to raise her.

  • @mwebb7292
    @mwebb7292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2004

    I'm a housewife. I have 4 children. I clean, cook, sew, freak, and cut the yard. My husband brings home the bacon and I cook it. I keep his belly full and his sac empty. I get called old fashioned. But we're Happy. Oh yeah I exercise regularly cause he appreciates it.

    • @nasx618
      @nasx618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +254

      Good bless you ma'am. Your husband is a lucky man.

    • @s1lvrinferno
      @s1lvrinferno 3 ปีที่แล้ว +363

      his belly full and sac empty lmao I love it

    • @kasaientertainment5361
      @kasaientertainment5361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      what a blessing....RESPECT

    • @ah00dii85
      @ah00dii85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      God bless you queen, more women needs to be like you. Women don’t get it, this type of fundamental qualities will have yo man come home 💯 I will guarantee you that or at least have a mutual understanding it’s really that fucking simple my gawd

    • @gentlemanscorner6377
      @gentlemanscorner6377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Hey. Do you teach other women your ways... you go girl!!!!!

  • @bait3027
    @bait3027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1021

    The more she spoke of her dad, the less I felt for her. If her dad’s deeds were considered insufficient, her husband’s efforts will be unappreciated

    • @pennyproud1621
      @pennyproud1621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She crazy as hell and delusional. A man would be hurting his self to water time with her..

    • @Joskemom
      @Joskemom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      She would make a horrible wife.

    • @tedzink4574
      @tedzink4574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Unappreciated is a horrible thing to be subjected to.

    • @khadijahk.5322
      @khadijahk.5322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That part!

    • @kenneyp.9456
      @kenneyp.9456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She’s gunna get her karma pretty soon

  • @luisangelEXALTA
    @luisangelEXALTA 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    This man was a gem not only to the black community but to society as a whole .
    To be honest, his advice was something i always longed for growing up in a single mom household, it made me realize my wanting a traditional woman was why my first marriage didn’t work out.
    In my early 40s i was able to meet a traditional, 25yr old “village” hispanic girl, slim, natural beauty and loves to take care of me and we plan on marrying this upcoming year, i’d give her the world, you are sorely missed Mr. Samuels 😢❤

    • @barryj3266
      @barryj3266 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I also had an unsuccessful marriage to a modern woman. I never struggled so hard to meet those expectations. After that failed I thought I would not find a traditional woman, but then I discovered the Philippines and my new wife is exceptional. She is sweet, feminine, flourishes in our marriage. She is a stay at home wife, and she honors our marriage, and me every day. In return I would gladly lay down my life for her. I never thought this life was possible.
      Congrats, my friend. Live well and take care of your wife.

  • @MeresankhJ
    @MeresankhJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    When she says she sees on social media women being taken care of and mistreated she’s talking about rappers baby mamas. So that tells you where her mind is at.

    • @kylemathis1562
      @kylemathis1562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Real Housewives TV shows

    • @tahkeem_tha_dream3585
      @tahkeem_tha_dream3585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      The mentality of these females that grew up on social media is disturbing. Modern day people specifically women uphold and live by social media memes above bible verses. Smh sad

    • @MeresankhJ
      @MeresankhJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That’s why she can’t articulate her point because she’s talking about hood rappers that have baby mamas and live the ghetto life but with money. That’s probably how she sees most men in general. I know plenty of housewives and they don’t experience the pookie life that hood rappers baby mamas do. I wouldn’t be surprised if she dated hood dudes

    • @dianaw4584
      @dianaw4584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yup social media has ppl messed up and honestly I don’t use social media as an accurate depiction

    • @YoungYahtz94
      @YoungYahtz94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah you if looking to social media for relationship goals you are going down the totally wrong path

  • @raymeester7883
    @raymeester7883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +946

    The crash of the Derrick Jaxn economy is hitting the market hard.

  • @tbwpiper189
    @tbwpiper189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    "Women have control over sex. Men have control over relationships." Brilliant.

  • @THEGIRLNEXTDOOR1000
    @THEGIRLNEXTDOOR1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    I give it to Kevin. He was one of a kind. Rest in peace sir.

    • @mac78xxx28
      @mac78xxx28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @Pow3rGaming
      @Pow3rGaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just discovered that today because I just discovered his videos a couple weeks ago. I'm so sad I didn't discover him years earlier.

  • @fungishukie5516
    @fungishukie5516 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I used to be a hater, been listening to his long form for a few days and he is only trying to help us women. Its ok to daydream and wish for the best outcome but we need to have a handle on reality. Fit, feminine, cooperate etc. I am changing my mindset . ❤ thanks KS

    • @LifesGood-nu6rd
      @LifesGood-nu6rd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🙏🙏🙏👋👋👋👋👏👏👏👏

    • @disandestiny3655
      @disandestiny3655 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow now you are a woman hope you hold other women accountable the world will be a better place

    • @texasstrong9605
      @texasstrong9605 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good for you!

    • @keving8404
      @keving8404 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      See… I agree with you. I believe he truly was coming to his point from a place of love for black women specifically and the black community in general.
      He wasn’t trying to degrade women. He was trying to encourage them to be better.

    • @veeman1961
      @veeman1961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agree. His early demise is a loss to all, not only BM. RIP Godfather.

  • @N0BEAR
    @N0BEAR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    As a man who is a traditional provider, I thank God I found a woman who loves her "traditional" role. She brings me lunch, makes dinner, loves and respects me, not because I expect it, but because she sees how hard I work to put food on the table. Neither one of us disparages the other's role, and we know we are using our strengths to provide for the family. This lady doesn't seem to understand what a marriage is.

    • @blackreign351
      @blackreign351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Lucky man. Sucks we live in the world we do now. Today’s women man smh

    • @Clark-yp2db
      @Clark-yp2db 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hope I can find a woman like that. Your lucky dude cheers!

    • @jonathanmarvens
      @jonathanmarvens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Given the times that we live in, it sounds like you got yourself a unicorn my guy. I wish y’all the best!

    • @FireAngelChris
      @FireAngelChris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This brother is blessed

    • @whitecat5695
      @whitecat5695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Clark-yp2db said

  • @shannonb4506
    @shannonb4506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1878

    It’s a sad state of affairs when someone equates being a homemaker with being a slave rather than a blessing.

    • @michaelmaroney1660
      @michaelmaroney1660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Its indeed hard work and among the most honorable professions.

    • @ltphantomknight8942
      @ltphantomknight8942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Because they are selfish and entitled, they want to be provided for but dosent is want to work for it. Being a homemaker is a difficult job and with every job comes a salary and that's the dynamic although very simplified

    • @TitanWave1
      @TitanWave1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactly ..I am sure her own mother would be insulted .

    • @wildewildestrawberries
      @wildewildestrawberries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly.

  • @DapperDonzX
    @DapperDonzX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1215

    The elder Shahrazad Ali is absolutely right about modern black women in today's society.
    So this modern woman wants a traditional man to pay the bills, provide protection, be the disciplinary in his house and this delusional modern woman don't know what a traditional wife is. She thinks it's a “slave” to be a traditional wife but wants all the benefits from a traditional man. She doesn't know how to cook on top of it all. Fellas please be mindful who you are dealing with. Protect your seed, protect your money, protect you mind. Stay on your purpose.

    • @Giovanni-El-johnson
      @Giovanni-El-johnson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      this hit me hard

    • @johnjhnson82
      @johnjhnson82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      And it was only women resisting Queen Ali smh. We gotta fix the women before we can advance

    • @tonyjones4225
      @tonyjones4225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Brother I read that book the other day shahrazad was absolutely right but you know what most women don’t like her anyway but men love her for being honest and calling women on the games of manipulating men and destroying their family and home I tried to get my wife to listen to her all she heard was it’s ok for men to cheat and that’s not what she said at all😐

    • @johnwhitfield5376
      @johnwhitfield5376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen to that bro... RESPECT...

    • @johnjhnson82
      @johnjhnson82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@tonyjones4225 same here man. My lady is slowly coming around but its a daily effort

  • @sillyheadphone
    @sillyheadphone ปีที่แล้ว +111

    this woman’s dad is truely a super hero. No guy wants other kids that ain’t his own. Beauty wise, she’s just a 1, in Asian men’s view.

    • @Mojavestalker
      @Mojavestalker ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahhahaha

    • @surakitabu
      @surakitabu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂

    • @dariushines306
      @dariushines306 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anti-Black racism is embedded in most Asian communities and countries. So, there's that.

    • @surakitabu
      @surakitabu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dariushines306 you just had to turn it into a race thing!!..smh!

    • @dariushines306
      @dariushines306 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@surakitabu Actually, the person who qualified beauty from the Asian perspective is the one who brought race into the conversation. I guess you didn't try to call that person out because that wouldn't fit the narrative you're trying to create. Smh.

  • @Key_1111
    @Key_1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    Kevin motivates me to lose weight I swear. I easily have 100lbs that does not need to be there! I'm only 5'4! No excuses! He is right. Let's be honest ladies. We don't need to be as big as we allow ourselves to be!

    • @jameshyde022
      @jameshyde022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Feminism has taught women that it's better to get angry at men for not accepting that extra 100 pounds than to lose the weight. Men gain an extra 100 and let's see what happens.

    • @chicoandthem4n
      @chicoandthem4n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yes. And think about it like this, it's seems daunting to start to loose weight but remember a little bit every day counts. The eating and exercise can't be overdone because you will loose faith or strength over time and give up. It's important to change your mind before the actual lifestyle. Giving healthy eating a try and slowly introducing it into your life vs completely changing what you're used too. Then when you make enough strides you will find a balance of eating good all the time and treating yourself to your favourite desserts once a while, baby steps is more important looking far down the road

    • @wildwomanawakening9471
      @wildwomanawakening9471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Truth hurts but these days, not enough people are giving it like Kevin. I wish I had an uncle or brother like this growing up

    • @jameshyde022
      @jameshyde022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@wildwomanawakening9471 I think we all would benefit from having someone like this in our lives. How would you like to find out at 40 that because people that should have protected you, from your own bad choices if necessary, didn't want to say anything that might be uncomfortable in the moment, Lol, this wrong think has resulted in you walking around with a booger hanging out of your nose for 20 years.

    • @calit5861
      @calit5861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes! You can do it 🤗🤗🤗💪🏾

  • @classditcha3121dug6
    @classditcha3121dug6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2153

    The fact that she sat there and slandered her dad who seems like a stand up guy says a LOT about her character

    • @mr.kinkade2049
      @mr.kinkade2049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      Complete and total lack of humility or gratitude.

    • @mikeyybeezoo
      @mikeyybeezoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      The face she made at 18:18 she still
      Nuh get it lol

    • @tbrightideas42
      @tbrightideas42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Men become stepdads to more children in the home than women do, and we never get credit for that. I got a homie who got with a chic with 5 kids by 5 dudes and had a 6th by him...allegedly.

    • @SanchoBohemian007
      @SanchoBohemian007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@tbrightideas42 he needs to leave that. No man should raise another’s kid. That’s not being a man. No matter how much this feminist want to encourage that crap.

    • @jihadoglesby
      @jihadoglesby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Facts

  • @KevinP32270
    @KevinP32270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +880

    i was floored when she said her mom had 4 kids from 2 other men before her dad married her. i'm so happy kevin defended him. the women was a delusion. smh.

    • @joejoerunya8908
      @joejoerunya8908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Right. He could’ve told her Mom to kick rocks! She’s actually lucky!

    • @trutrek913
      @trutrek913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Kevin said he was a superhero for doing that for her mom, she was surprised to hear someone say that about her dad, but not her mom.

    • @esau93631
      @esau93631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I can only imagine the BS that guy has gone through. And to think it was his own blood child saying this about him. Her mother is exactly where she wants to be. Her mother seems to be smart enough to know that what she has is probably is the best she will ever get out of life at this point. So momma is already smarter than this entitled brat.

    • @Mari-ye7dt
      @Mari-ye7dt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whats the issue w having children from other relationships, men do too?

    • @macmoney88
      @macmoney88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Mari-ye7dt it’s not the same. When a woman chooses to have a child it’s her choosing to reproduce with another man. A man can easily knock a woman up without trying to have kids and just tryna get a nut in. So basically other kids represent that woman’s choice to commit to another man. It can be kind of a harsh reminder for the ego of a male

  • @TheJuggKnight
    @TheJuggKnight 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I watched this a couple years ago. I’m so glad all the comments called this lady out! Rest in Power Mr Samuels 🙏🏽

  • @HighStakesBBall
    @HighStakesBBall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2387

    Her reaction to her step-dad is proof that being a step-dad is a thankless endeavor.

    • @urbanwarchief
      @urbanwarchief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Especially during these times

    • @Mojodash1
      @Mojodash1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      fact

    • @maggoteater2290
      @maggoteater2290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Especially when you get a woke step daughter

    • @diva2127
      @diva2127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      It's her biological dad

    • @billfeld5883
      @billfeld5883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      That was her father !! Even worse his step children probably love him more than she does.

  • @kevcdallas
    @kevcdallas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    Don’t want to be “slaves”? Being taken care of and not working is being a slave? Where do people get these thoughts 💭. Pray church

    • @johannesswillery7855
      @johannesswillery7855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      No shit!

    • @vladimir11c
      @vladimir11c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Bvv are just making it easy for Becky, Mi ling, Marisol, Anu, to snatch their HV BM. They're doomed man. She really just compared being a housewife to chattel slavery.

    • @monteiro1345
      @monteiro1345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@vladimir11c no lies detected

    • @freeagent9753
      @freeagent9753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SYSBM

    • @SirYeetus
      @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I guess being freed from financial responsibility and just focus on herself & the household is sooooooo bad.
      I blame Derrick Jaxn for this.

  • @Kdential
    @Kdential 3 ปีที่แล้ว +448

    In case you read this sis. It’s actually the opposite! it sounds like you’re looking for a slave. You don’t respect men and you want them to go out into the field and work for you and you give them nothing in return. That is the literal definition of a slave master.

    • @macewindu1073
      @macewindu1073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      That's exactly right. She doesn't want to work and wants a man to provide yet wants to contribute very little. She sounds so lazy and entitled and talks bad about her father who took on 3 kids from other men 🙄

    • @originaleverythingelseisca5977
      @originaleverythingelseisca5977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I agree, I can see the disdain gir her father and therefore for other men.

    • @earlfrost5671
      @earlfrost5671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Couldn’t have said it any better myself 💯🦾🦾🦾

    • @ShaeStar0
      @ShaeStar0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bingo!

    • @andresmith4637
      @andresmith4637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🎯💯🎯💯🎯

  • @JS-mg1mk
    @JS-mg1mk ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She really said that weighing 130lbs at 5'7" would make her look "sickly"? Are we that delusional about what our body size should actually be?

  • @brianmaye9827
    @brianmaye9827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    Wow! Her actual dad took care of 3 kids that's not his and gets burned by his own daughter. I'm speechless. She never criticized the other men that her mother. I'm flabbergasted. I'm stuck on how she never gave her father any praise.

    • @wavey912
      @wavey912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Me too, I felt the same way towards her own father.

    • @WWJD-MIA
      @WWJD-MIA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      That was really messed up of her. I love my granddaddy. I didn’t know he was my mom stepdad until I was older. He was and is the best. Never disrespect a person who raised you when they didn’t have to.

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      “Its what Im seeing in the MEEEdia and...” The media is her king 👑. Know who runs the media? Satan aka Prince of the Air(waves)

    • @jevonsims900
      @jevonsims900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She thinks of her father as a slave driver who only got with her mother cause she was vulnerable and desperate.
      She'll always see her mother as a victim instead of a lucky and blessed woman.

    • @yihuda7459
      @yihuda7459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I feel bad for him .... his own selfish daughter disrespecting him in social media.…one day she will regret it

  • @kwesiwilliams1188
    @kwesiwilliams1188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    She doesn't respect her own father that's been with her mother for 32 years, why would any man think that she would respect him.

    • @ikemathieu6946
      @ikemathieu6946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But we don’t know what her dad is like, she may have valid reasons to dislike her father.

    • @tahkeem_tha_dream3585
      @tahkeem_tha_dream3585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @UCG9cJsGovWXWN3Ys6a-98uA He married a woman with 4 kids by 2 different men. If their was a license to cheat that would be the reason. He married leftovers with damaged goods.

    • @hanselbeckfordjr7530
      @hanselbeckfordjr7530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FACTS

    • @deez583
      @deez583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She is a black woman it is natural for them to blame it on men, even if he was a good dad they will find something bad about him cause he is a black man.

    • @sivan3125
      @sivan3125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🙌🏾👏🏽🔥

  • @erika815
    @erika815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1104

    I'm a housewife.. this woman seriously thinks I'm a slave? Excuse you. As long as the housework gets done, I choose how my day goes. It's way more freeing than when I had a job. Plus I have alot more free time to do whatever I want like volunteer at church or pick up a new hobby. My husband loves it and our marriage is better than ever.

    • @michaelmaroney1660
      @michaelmaroney1660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      I'm sorry you had to hear such an undignified insult from a low class "woman" like this. And thank you for being the REAL backbone of a good society.

    • @Sasha-zi4eq
      @Sasha-zi4eq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Eki Seork there is nothing wrong with her life style but how does it make her a “real woman”?

    • @markn7459
      @markn7459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@Sasha-zi4eq that’s easy, she’s doing what she was naturally made to do. Which is be a mans backbone. To be a submissive wife not an equal partner. She started a family. Pretty sure she cooks and cleans and takes care of kids while he takes care of them. It’s simple

    • @Sasha-zi4eq
      @Sasha-zi4eq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@markn7459 not all women are naturally “submissive” though. Those are real women too. But I’m sure you already know that.

    • @Sasha-zi4eq
      @Sasha-zi4eq 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @TC that’s…not what I said😂

  • @Boc3phu5
    @Boc3phu5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I dated a girl that would cook for me. I never understood why. But now I do.

    • @mary14892
      @mary14892 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      She was looking for a husband she was showing you her values.

  • @toricollins6516
    @toricollins6516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1446

    “She’s got more than U do.”
    “What’s that?”
    “A husband.”
    Ouch. I felt that.

    • @LIFEISCONQUEST
      @LIFEISCONQUEST 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lmao, right!?!?😩😆

    • @SupremeCommanderBaiser
      @SupremeCommanderBaiser 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      She didnt though.

    • @BooBooJohnson195
      @BooBooJohnson195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You hear me. Lmmfao

    • @AA-td1yw
      @AA-td1yw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Girl..we all could be married if we wanted to.

    • @louisj4645
      @louisj4645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@AA-td1yw lol u think!!?

  • @anthonymoore203
    @anthonymoore203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    She lost me when she showed the contempt she has for her father. To me he’s a stand up dude for raising two kids that wasn’t his💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

    • @johnmilner5485
      @johnmilner5485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      4 kids that ain't his.

    • @felipealem6590
      @felipealem6590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Homie is an Angel.

    • @IWAHProsper
      @IWAHProsper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly she thinks her father was mean when in actuality he probably wasn’t gonna tolerate any bullshit from her mother, after all he’s taking care of kids that aren’t his and her mom understands her pickings were slim and he was the best deal than and now. That judgement of her dad led to her overall contempt for men and her overly inflated sense of self.

    • @maxpowers111
      @maxpowers111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Further proof that a man should NEVER raise another man's children.

    • @ronaldwoodson326
      @ronaldwoodson326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol lol ya right mr moore let her tell it , it did not mean shit umh lol lol show him this i bet he would not agree 🤔🤫🤐

  • @guiguijol
    @guiguijol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +852

    « I don’t want to be a slave but it’s ok if my husband is »
    Literally.

    • @ScienceTHE-RULER87
      @ScienceTHE-RULER87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Exactly, how F'ed up is that?

    • @abiyah3176
      @abiyah3176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Literally

    • @slapittywapitty8173
      @slapittywapitty8173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      She'd make not just a bad wife, but a BAD MOTHER. Please, my brothers: Don't NOBODY put-a-baby-in THIS _____!

    • @shadesofdeegray
      @shadesofdeegray 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She doesn’t respect her mom.....very sad

    • @ScienceTHE-RULER87
      @ScienceTHE-RULER87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@shadesofdeegray wow...she doesn't respect her parents. Miraculously you didnt even acknowledge her Father 🤦‍♂️...And the SAGA continues....

  • @havenpowell278
    @havenpowell278 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    His advice is so honest and truthful. Miss him 😢

  • @williamr.9429
    @williamr.9429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    I make 6 figures, own my own home, take yearly vacations and have 3 kids with my wife. My wife works part time at a family business to "get out of the house" (but doesn't have to). My wife Cooks, Cleans, takes Care of our children and is damn good at it. We are VERY HAPPY! We Serve each other.

    • @sayeed7255
      @sayeed7255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you do for a living?

    • @williamr.9429
      @williamr.9429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@sayeed7255 I work for the city that I live in (government job) and own a rental property.

    • @williamr.9429
      @williamr.9429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      My wife is Puerto Rican. I didn't want an "American woman". She demonstrated wholesome values. I saw how she was with her family. Had to snatch her up. I know a lot of men who pursue women who are not American. American women domt usually have these values.

    • @williamr.9429
      @williamr.9429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Ryan Paul I replied forgot to tag u
      I met her at a Doctor's office. I didn't need her to have some crazy successful career. Because I worked on myself all these years to be the provider. I think that whole independent woman mindset leave these women single

    • @williamr.9429
      @williamr.9429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Ryan Paul you are very right. Latin American women are very good quality women. 👌

  • @dsp_91
    @dsp_91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    Being a housewife is NOT ABUSE, how do you link slavery to being a housewife?! Remove me from this planet, I've had enough 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @IDCBTW-dm5zn
      @IDCBTW-dm5zn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Me too I can't with these Stupid/ignorant people they confuse me with how much they can't accept reality. It's like they're day dreaming 24/7 Lmao

    • @shamibrown2287
      @shamibrown2287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Rotflmao I cant😂😂

    • @vladimir11c
      @vladimir11c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Bvv are just making it easy for Becky, Mi ling, Marisol, Anu, to snatch their HV BM. They're doomed man. She really just compared being a housewife to chattel slavery.🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @PassportG
      @PassportG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vladimir11c crazy.

    • @mimi11011
      @mimi11011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao @ remove me

  • @69jackboi
    @69jackboi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    This is that ungrateful attitude that men don’t like that turns us off. She just brushed off the fact that her father committed to her mom who had kids with two different men that she wasn’t married to. Her mom is lucky as hell. Her mom knows that hence why she plays her part and is still married.

    • @triplemoyagames4195
      @triplemoyagames4195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yup

    • @sivan3125
      @sivan3125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That shows how deep the Delusion is. I wouldn't be surprised if her father didn't work two or three jobs to "PROVIDE" for her UNGRATEFUL A**!

    • @sivan3125
      @sivan3125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Diana the Nobel Scribe Male and Female Children?

    • @lamontejackson5713
      @lamontejackson5713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

    • @robherringjr5018
      @robherringjr5018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Women like her think it's normal for a woman to have multiple kids out of wedlock and think that the man should be grateful to take on her baggage. Not thanking her mom hit the Lottery to eventually be married to the man for 32 years

  • @alexmuenster2102
    @alexmuenster2102 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Mr. Samuels really hit it out of the park with this one!

  • @stefhan8013
    @stefhan8013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    the scary part of all of this, is she don't even realise how much she disrespect man

    • @ClayMiAOniTunes
      @ClayMiAOniTunes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@okene we do

    • @AveMcree
      @AveMcree 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@okene Well, he's not from America and English isn't his first language.. Relax

    • @zoe4life85
      @zoe4life85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right!!! Lol🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @rashawnfredricks4700
      @rashawnfredricks4700 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Realize*

    • @ciarrajohnson3849
      @ciarrajohnson3849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Scrabble accepts European and American spellings of such words, so it doesn’t matter. I’ll spell “color” (or anything else) with or without the U and I’m from Pittsburgh😄😄Anyway....Bless Kevin forever❤️❤️Bet Miss Slave can’t play Scrabble💯

  • @josephwatts9013
    @josephwatts9013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +448

    My mom died at 72, after being married to my dad for 44 years, she had a full time job! She worked at keeping us clean, fed, house cleaned...you name it...pops is now 84 worked his entire life, as a plumber by day and a custodian by night...I would never be so arrogant as to say that when my mother left this earth, she lived her life as a slave! I actually believe she was grateful to have been able to raise 4 children without ever having to step foot in a daycare

    • @evan5854
      @evan5854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Bless your momma and dad. Seems like they did a good job raising their kids

    • @TeenaDavis101
      @TeenaDavis101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯💯

    • @Curious7210
      @Curious7210 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +

    • @therealdealholyswillreside1571
      @therealdealholyswillreside1571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      your Moms sounds like a real one my dude, RIP to Her ❤🙏

    • @Nichelleloves
      @Nichelleloves 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      God bless your mother & peace to her soul! More women should aspire to be like her.

  • @Mr.Plutonium
    @Mr.Plutonium 3 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    "My mother is a slave to my father - she says". Minutes later: "My father took care of my siblings that came from two other men". 🤷‍♂️

    • @mmmmm-ne6zn
      @mmmmm-ne6zn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I LITERALLY can not believe how she put her OWN FATHER!!!! To that level... the disrespect

    • @theprodigy4202
      @theprodigy4202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Like the godfather (KS) always says, "you can't make this shit up"

    • @scasey1960
      @scasey1960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn!!

    • @Engagenumberone
      @Engagenumberone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Unfucking believable. The balls on this woman.

    • @user-ll5bm3dz7p
      @user-ll5bm3dz7p 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A 6 was being generous

  • @heatherferguson9589
    @heatherferguson9589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    My mom was a traditional housewife. Dad never wanted her to work. They ended up having 7 kids and he had to work 2nd job after his full time job. My dad was so exhausted all the time. He also was a volunteer fireman too and would go out on calls. I dont know how he did it.

    • @ridgerunner3364
      @ridgerunner3364 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Commitment, honor, duty and a woman that truly supported him! That is how he done it.

  • @adriennewilliams5408
    @adriennewilliams5408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +860

    I long for the “slavery” she’s talking about. I watched my Grandmother happily serve my Grandfather until his last days. That is love and it’s beautiful to me.

    • @el-Cu9432
      @el-Cu9432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm glad I had grandparents who took care of each other.

    • @brandinshaeffer8970
      @brandinshaeffer8970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      just watching this made me check on my husband 3 times to see if he needed anything!

    • @jennyj0007
      @jennyj0007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This word has been barstardised by the media. If she knew the real meaning of slavery, she wouldn't have said that in a flippent way.

    • @theirmanager5204
      @theirmanager5204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @emceehammer8468
      @emceehammer8468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, at least you still have your dignity

  • @2Tall03XX
    @2Tall03XX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    My dad’s first wife had this mentality. She’s still single to this day.

    • @NBaa2123
      @NBaa2123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes thats what i like to hear...send her this videos pleeaaassseee😂

    • @NBaa2123
      @NBaa2123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes thats what i like to hear...send her this videos pleeaaassseee😂

    • @2Tall03XX
      @2Tall03XX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@NBaa2123 even then I doubt it’ll do any good. At this point she’s well into her 60s or 70s.

    • @NBaa2123
      @NBaa2123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jeremy Harris ohh

    • @NBaa2123
      @NBaa2123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jeremy Harris my bad

  • @KeraLousGarden
    @KeraLousGarden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    A traditional housewife takes care of the home, the kids, the hubby. She manages the home and finances. She cooks daily, she cleans, organizes, does laundry; she plans and creates experiences and memories for her family. . She works 24/7.
    These women want to be provided for but don’t want the responsibility that comes with it.
    I use to think Kevin was tripping, but these idiots that keep calling him, makes his point precisely! Kevin has confirmed how blessed I am.

    • @sisteryael9802
      @sisteryael9802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes Sis we are all that!!!

    • @truthtube1000
      @truthtube1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She said her mother also worked.

    • @skatermom8259
      @skatermom8259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes I agree completely. I’m blessed too to be a SAHM (and do my part). I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

    • @r3dg471
      @r3dg471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I have seen women literally upgrade mens careers and both of their living situations by being a traditional woman, a proverbs 31 kind. Being a good spouse is so vilified to no one’s benefit.

    • @patrusso7278
      @patrusso7278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      KL. You are 100% correct. Sadly Most women today are not good wife material. They dont want to do all you do. Your husband is a very lucky man.

  • @xoswatson351
    @xoswatson351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Being a stay at home mom/homemaker for 4 years has been such a blessing…purpose ❤🎉

  • @mindy1670
    @mindy1670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    I have never saw my mother as a slave. My mother past away some years now. My parents were married about, almost 50 years. My father worked fulltime, my mother was a house wife, with 7 children, yes, we all have the same parents. My mom was the cook, the maid, the seamstress, the doctor, ect... My mom cooked everyday, from scratch, sunday dinner was the best. My dad was a truck driver he worked nights. As girls growing up, 4 girls, we help cook and my mom made sure my dad had his dinner warm when he woke up for work. She would iron his shirts, jeans, slacks for the week. Growing up my mom made dresses for us girls. My grandmother sewed quilts for us as kids and teens. I come from a family where you cook and serve your dad first and sometimes fixed my brothers plate and take it to them. Ok, so my point is some of these skills most modern women don't have, some were never taught, don't care to learn, or as she stated view it as slavery. As a housewife you wear many hats. My mother told me its all done because she loves her family. My mother knew her role as wife and mother. My dad was a provider, he provided the house we lived in, he worked, paid the house bills, food, clothes ect... This is not to say my parents never had marital problems. You see my point. I could go on and on. I agree with what he's saying.

    • @menardtexsampson3745
      @menardtexsampson3745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      🥰🥰🥰💯💯💯💯👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @tlove14u
      @tlove14u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Your mother didn't see herself as a slave, she held down home so your dad could provide

    • @Killjoy4106
      @Killjoy4106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      R.I.P to your mother. You are right

    • @scott.w8938
      @scott.w8938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      It's funny, many of us will be slaves to that dollar and the white man that wants us to work for and pay for his education to do his work that makes him rich but won't be so called slaves to our families, loved ones. They're not worth the sacrifice/work to learn to love them, ourselves (with nothing) or eachother. Does that make sense?

    • @imandalton4227
      @imandalton4227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well said

  • @Reesestoked
    @Reesestoked 3 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    This chick really had the nerve to say “slaving”. Me taking care of my family and loving my husband well is NOT slavery it’s selfless love. In return, my husband works hard and provides every bit of my needs and then some and we are so happy. Girl, if you think being a housewife is a slave, why you calling Kevin looking to be one!? Weirdo.

    • @xtrey19x
      @xtrey19x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      She’s not looking to be a housewife. She just wants a sucker to finance her lifestyle. When she’s done having children she wants the option to break up the family and leave. Then she’ll be one of these 40+ single mothers who think they deserve a ready made wealthy man.

    • @taram9409
      @taram9409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen. I thought the same thing. She is being so disrespectful towards her mother.

    • @sq1thelyricalmiracle
      @sq1thelyricalmiracle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Peace Sis Cherese Stokes.
      The facts of the most brilliant remedial exchanges to/for the failing modern female speak for themselves,(KS is the Truth!) What is truly amazing @ the core level is to finally witness the reprimanding of outcast behavior, demonizing the Devine position of WombManhood by those found guilty of delusional & ungratefully entitled spoiled modern catastrophe call Independent Fe-fails, by a Mature Sister. THANX Sis Cherese, All hands on deck to return the original family to Greatness. The efforts wont go unnoticed. THANX

    • @mikeandmars2345
      @mikeandmars2345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Weirdo 😂 😂

    • @gothlymoor9472
      @gothlymoor9472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Preach!!!!

  • @davidb.4334
    @davidb.4334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    It's magical how he keeps so much patience with all these space cadets.

    • @Lynx196.9
      @Lynx196.9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For real

    • @robertmcwilliamstv
      @robertmcwilliamstv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      haha! Wow!

    • @Oldwhiteguy
      @Oldwhiteguy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s a gift b

    • @kareemdavis1793
      @kareemdavis1793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 at space cadets this unstable creature was a e walk

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She over there tipsy trying to flirt and fake the funk

  • @hollowmatic
    @hollowmatic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    Notice, how EVERY time he asks their age, height, occupation, they reel the answer off with inflated confidence… the moment they hear “dress size” they seem to lose their hearing

    • @steelreign8219
      @steelreign8219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I said the same thing Lol All of a sudden they can't hear

    • @fredrickm17
      @fredrickm17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sooo

    • @Andrew4181975
      @Andrew4181975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I like that he says " dress size " not just what size. Women don't know how to be women anymore.

    • @KevinP32270
      @KevinP32270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      haaa lol. yes i noticed that as well.

    • @corneliuswashington9218
      @corneliuswashington9218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😅😅😅😅 exactly !!!! Then when he convicted her with SOUL TRAIN !!! He really is a genius !!!

  • @DowJonesDave
    @DowJonesDave 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    As a seller, her question is easy. You know your price is too high when there are no buyers....it's so simple lol.

    • @calbertcannon5566
      @calbertcannon5566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol men her price is so dam low no one wants a beat up ass car

    • @cameronevans9516
      @cameronevans9516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She’s not cute but she is chubby

    • @KDH-o3v
      @KDH-o3v 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe she should play some trading simulations than she gets the trick

    • @904justify
      @904justify 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @theslayathomemom
    @theslayathomemom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +908

    I am a PROUD stay at home mom. A daughter and a son by my husband. Yes being a stay at home/homeschool mom can be tiring but I consider it a vacation from the work force which I have also experienced. I take pride in keeping my home clean and a warm home cooked meal ready for my husband when he walks in the door from a 12 hr shift! Sorry sis but I AM NOT a slave!

    • @joeysoG
      @joeysoG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      ❤️❤️💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

    • @Shespretty08
      @Shespretty08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Queen 👑

    • @BigLEE82_7
      @BigLEE82_7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Kudos Sis, great job 🙌🏿💪🏿

    • @ozanoutcast
      @ozanoutcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      More power to you!

    • @BallisticBen247
      @BallisticBen247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You gots a sister?

  • @ximenakelley
    @ximenakelley ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This video has inspired me to update my recipe collection

  • @myfathersson3751
    @myfathersson3751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Her mom was a baby momma , her father accepted the kids but she's looking down on her dad??!!?😔😔😔😔

    • @jahrules8674
      @jahrules8674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @urban kranjec
      He shouldn't have signed up for that.
      Hes an idiot. She doesn't respect what her step father did.

    • @soulbrother1143
      @soulbrother1143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@okene being a father period, is a thankless job...

    • @topshelfbullys7889
      @topshelfbullys7889 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like she’s jealous of her half siblings to me

    • @topshelfbullys7889
      @topshelfbullys7889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jahrules8674 worst part is it’s not her stepfather. It’s her Biological dad and she’s putting down her biological dad for taking care of her half siblings

    • @Justamanliving
      @Justamanliving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A TWO time baby mama 🥴

  • @tnix1
    @tnix1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    “He’s gonna get my love and support”. But the man who raised, fed, clothed, and put a roof over your head isn’t deserving of your respect.

    • @MRSTyMcC
      @MRSTyMcC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Fact

    • @11buttnaked
      @11buttnaked 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Chu’ch!

    • @JacobFury
      @JacobFury 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oooh this is my favorite comment!

    • @takingbackprofits1280
      @takingbackprofits1280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And other kids that he wasn't biologically responsible for!

    • @11buttnaked
      @11buttnaked 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@takingbackprofits1280 Ain't it sad?

  • @karateday
    @karateday 3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Old friend of mine said it best.....”when you’re young and trying to date, she don’t want you. She want the guy with the hazel eyes and the slick car. But ten years later, when she have 4 kids from 3 different guys, YOU the RIGHT MAN NOW!”

    • @dafloridaman
      @dafloridaman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts!

    • @wizmanballin8498
      @wizmanballin8498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Say it again!!🗣️📢

    • @Mcbevhills
      @Mcbevhills 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yes but now I'm 39 and all my options look like fitness models. She has no chance

    • @Wasie55
      @Wasie55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Mcbevhills hahahaha they wanna use their youth and spend it with older rich men, so of fucking course us youngins are working to get to that point so we can enjoy the fruits of our labor before we settle down. Can’t be picking up those fruits left on the floor either their spoiled

    • @vernonpaigejr.1517
      @vernonpaigejr.1517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wizmanballin8498 I be seeing them some years later. LOL. I'm like naw, not now.

  • @el_promabior5736
    @el_promabior5736 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Why would black America hate this guy?
    Looks like he was a blessing to them.

    • @mikefulp1
      @mikefulp1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s called propaganda and brainwashing! It’s highly effective and it is used 24-7. Basically 90% of the US have broken brains. Who pushed all this feminist bs - Main Stream Media look at the talk shows - they are the ones telling women to hate and destroy everyone who disagrees with them (watch Today Show, The View, or any of those Housewife Reality Shows - this is where the behavior comes from).

    • @jelanitarik8452
      @jelanitarik8452 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Those of us with sense absolutely appreciate what he’s done for us.

  • @cordelle929
    @cordelle929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    The godfather speak only one language, FACTS

  • @tw7127
    @tw7127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    Kevin “dress size”?
    “I’m sorry”
    Girl, you heard him.🤣 The questioning pause indication is very telling, that you need time to think of a lie.

    • @candace4187
      @candace4187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Truthfully if she's 170 she's in at least a 12 or 14 definitely not a 10.

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I thought the SAME thing! They ALWAYS come with that b.s., as if they didn't hear him, because they know they're lacking. Funny! 😂

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@candace4187 Right.

    • @steelesharpensteele6252
      @steelesharpensteele6252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pure facts

    • @tw7127
      @tw7127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marciawade9101 right lol we have the same last name Wade.

  • @angelinafoster8747
    @angelinafoster8747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    She gave herself a 9, called old fashion housewives "slaves", and said that being skinny is looking "sick"... Come on, be realistic please lady.

    • @charmainewalker8627
      @charmainewalker8627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Says the women who turns up in a robe and looks as if she just wakes up. Not even put yourself together to go live. These women make real women look bad. Social media has made these delusional as they are all chasing after a false life which doesn’t exist. They all have this bloody Disney Princess idea. Relationship takes work on both sides period

    • @darrylrevok9936
      @darrylrevok9936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She's a 9.
      On a scale of 1 to 100

    • @ElDracula89
      @ElDracula89 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean I agree with the skinny part 😂💯

    • @ChristopherADavis-ik5oh
      @ChristopherADavis-ik5oh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Angelina Foster ... That's a fat girls' protective (offensive/defensive) identity wall.

    • @masmodiba
      @masmodiba 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The allusion is at an all time high.

  • @Galatica3000
    @Galatica3000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Her dad is a superhero, taking on a woman with kids from two men. Her mom appreciates this man and played her part in return. This woman reasoning is off the charts crazy.

  • @ChangingFrEQuencies
    @ChangingFrEQuencies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    I’m 19 yrs married and this made me sad😞 We have to value our men especially when they are showing they value themselves and us enough to get themselves together to be great compliments, protectors and providers for self, family,community💯

    • @paytondagreat3533
      @paytondagreat3533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Your husband is a lucky dude....

    • @moosezk9681
      @moosezk9681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’m happy there’s woman like this

    • @motovich3092
      @motovich3092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If he ask you for marriage he respect u , because marriage is what women want . I can almost guarantee than you will give him alot if trouble at age 30 or so. Women dont appreciate.

    • @truestdude
      @truestdude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Preach Queen

  • @silver.surferr
    @silver.surferr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    “You don’t even bring the basic things... if y’all had 4 kids you’ll be the 5th one” ... damn. Real f*ckin shit

    • @sbuwieguwie20
      @sbuwieguwie20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol that one killed me

    • @user-kb1ur9ky8b
      @user-kb1ur9ky8b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Time stamp? 💀😭

    • @howdareyou5800
      @howdareyou5800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I mean... women can work now... but if you giving him more mouths to feed plus yours... then...

  • @draleighd
    @draleighd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    This is the reward her dad gets for dating a single mother.

    • @GEMINIRED300
      @GEMINIRED300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Preach!

    • @TeenaDavis101
      @TeenaDavis101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      That's why men are hesitant when it comes to single mothers.

    • @stephangeffen
      @stephangeffen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I know it sounds bad what you said, but it's true. I don't date single mothers.

    • @duncanthedelinquent493
      @duncanthedelinquent493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That’s why you don’t date single mothers

    • @Shanard242
      @Shanard242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Zion Williamson lol his step dad worked so his mom could stay home since he was a kid an he wasent even mentioned by Zion lmfao

  • @montazmeahii6029
    @montazmeahii6029 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When he told her she should lose some weight and she said she didn't want to look sick shows the misconception in our culture of healthy weight. I'm glad he recommended she look at footage of women from the past. She could also look at women from other countries. This also reminds me of women on dating apps who say, "I'm thick and curvy and that ain't gonna change. If you can't handle that, swipe left."

  • @ayannakristoph6422
    @ayannakristoph6422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    I got married at 24. My husband and I just celebrated our 20th anniversary. My 2 children are grown and in college. I was a homemaker my whole marriage. I raised my babies and was able to take care of our home. It is the joy of my life. I’m thankful to my husband to support our family so that I could do that. It’s not slavery!

    • @miketapta7498
      @miketapta7498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thank you ma'am. Please, mentor younger women if you can

    • @Lonewolf-zb2wr
      @Lonewolf-zb2wr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s good to see a woman show some love and appreciation for what a man brings to the table!
      Because there is a big drought on men that’s willing to do so because of the modern women mentality, so what women needs to understand is.
      if you’ve got a good and hard working man, let him know how important and valuable he is to you because he shows you that every time he walks thru that door!!

    • @addy1285
      @addy1285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's not slavery. But It's not a luxury either. It's a tough job. Tougher than most jobs out there. It's like doing multiple jobs all at once without getting paid. The reward is the fulfillment or happiness you feel raising your kids and taking care of the family. But it's NOT a luxury! I disagreed with him at that point!

    • @ltphantomknight8942
      @ltphantomknight8942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good on you for those 20 years! And you're right it's not slavery it's supporting you're partner and being the anchor for the household.

    • @Giokosmik
      @Giokosmik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If someone dreams on having a family successfully then it's a dream that came true but if someone is delusional then family is a poor, very poor choice.
      You have my respect and my congratulations Ma'am. Husband and father of two.

  • @nievediaz6102
    @nievediaz6102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +601

    I started watching Kevin a couple of months ago and his logic is so on point. I’ve learned to be realistic with myself and what I want and more importantly what I can give. I don’t only pray for a good man but for me to be a good enough woman for the home I yearn for.

    • @masmodiba
      @masmodiba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So on point!!

    • @rockon8174
      @rockon8174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Be the person you want to spend your life with and you will resonate a connection.

    • @masmodiba
      @masmodiba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@rockon8174 that is so powerful 👏

    • @AfricanThorr
      @AfricanThorr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s deep , I’m here for you 😉

    • @joelbeauchamp6687
      @joelbeauchamp6687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May God bless your soul and bring forth your hearts desire🙏

  • @PHIllip324
    @PHIllip324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1567

    Remember kids: Don't let a woman with no father tell you what a real man is.

    • @gcromer903
      @gcromer903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Woooow. That part.

    • @mathewx6897
      @mathewx6897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      She is worse, doesnt even respect the man

    • @otimmo
      @otimmo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Don't let ANY woman tell you what a real man is.

    • @k2229
      @k2229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn...

    • @letmepickmynameidiot4832
      @letmepickmynameidiot4832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      She has a father though.

  • @DavidSelf3
    @DavidSelf3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kevin is such a beast... Clear and concise.

  • @Hearth123
    @Hearth123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    I will never understand how serving an employer is power and serving your family is slavery
    I'm a very traditional housewife, cooking, cleaning, Homeschool the kids, etc and it's not slavery 😂 I'm so blessed to serve my hardworking husband like he serves me by providing.

    • @viewfromvenice2912
      @viewfromvenice2912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you are a very special lady and intelligent to say that. that lady is far from that

    • @pimpmyride7278
      @pimpmyride7278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s deep.

    • @gedeontchato534
      @gedeontchato534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your reasoning

    • @adrianfres2185
      @adrianfres2185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best comment ever

    • @vanessavazquez5167
      @vanessavazquez5167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t know any person that says serving your employer is power 😂😂

  • @MR.DREAM333
    @MR.DREAM333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    This LADY is crazy AF...she wants a trick not a husband. She's not fine enough to have these thoughts.

    • @keashaqueen715
      @keashaqueen715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😳lol

    • @tyrusgaines6923
      @tyrusgaines6923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      but fellas lets look at the whole thing here the reason why OUR women an like that is because. Is because haven't took our place our if we are in the house WE don't play our role so. the ladies have been playing both roles for so long until now they forgot how . how to be that loving submissive lady she WAS made to be COME on gentleman PLEASE WILL THE REAL ADAM PLEASE STAND UP lets take our place an rule our KINGDOM like WAS MADE TO DO FELLAS .

    • @nananyantakyi1549
      @nananyantakyi1549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@tyrusgaines6923 The government took the man out of the household

    • @eddutome
      @eddutome 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol 🤦🏿‍♂️😂😂

    • @FF-fd4tm
      @FF-fd4tm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She's DROP DEAD GORGEOUS! I had a Suga daddy that took care my son's (not his). In my thirties. And I don't look half as good as she do. So believe me looks don't matter!

  • @mambofuego5101
    @mambofuego5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    This woman’s condescending attitude towards men, especially towards her father, will make her a monster to any man.

    • @stringtailor
      @stringtailor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She genuinely believes that her mother, with multiple baby daddies prior, was doing her father a favor by being in his life.

    • @l.thargraves6098
      @l.thargraves6098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She needs to buy stock in Petco.

    • @mambofuego5101
      @mambofuego5101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      L.t Hargraves 🤣🐶

    • @Jazzclub101
      @Jazzclub101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would run for the hills

    • @Piface2099
      @Piface2099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not to mention her attitude towards women too - she literally casually trashed her own mother, grandmother, great-grandmother at the beginning there, props to this guy for calling that out because it's literally an ego the size of a fkn Macy's Parade balloon

  • @zoneoutking1
    @zoneoutking1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is crazy🤦🏾‍♂️ I can’t believe she said this on the internet

  • @chevonneclay1277
    @chevonneclay1277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    Hello… here from the U.K. 🇬🇧 My dad didn’t want me and I grew up having a very toxic view about men as a result of that but watching you has given me that closure from a father figure that I’ve been yearning for. You have helped me to value and love men and not view everyone as the same. You’ve also taught me the honour of a woman catering to her husband. I’m so utterly thankful for your work. You’re like my virtual dad xxxxx

    • @shanepatrick641
      @shanepatrick641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      If only more women saw these videos….
      The truth and reality.

    • @thecapedcrusaderofgotham4133
      @thecapedcrusaderofgotham4133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      This needs way more likes and to be pinned. Ma’am, you don’t know how much it means for men to find a woman that will admit that she was wrong and has been misinformed. The accountability of a woman to simply say a heartfelt sorry means the world to us. Carry this energy and date with a purpose and you will have little trouble in dealing with real MEN.

    • @petesfohn5659
      @petesfohn5659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Get your fathers/others opinions of your childhood, as mothers usually lie about the dude THEY LEFT....

    • @sq1thelyricalmiracle
      @sq1thelyricalmiracle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Peace & honor Sis Chevonne,
      Keep living & learning, it will define the reason for luving. It takes a big soul to revisit causing respect to apply to a previously discarded declaration. Proud to see Chevonnes growth.

    • @gustavojuarezpantoja6016
      @gustavojuarezpantoja6016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That was so sweet

  • @blackwarwolfdls8303
    @blackwarwolfdls8303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    I feel bad for any guy who hasnt discovered this man yet.

  • @Henri76
    @Henri76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    @18:40 it's funny everytime Kevin asks "dress size" these big women always have hearing loss lol

    • @samhouston1646
      @samhouston1646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Always!!!!!

    • @sonofthesun3672
      @sonofthesun3672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆

    • @doomane
      @doomane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wen sum1 repeats a ? U ask they thinking of a lie..."Sometimes"

    • @IngeBall
      @IngeBall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What?

    • @MrFoulksy
      @MrFoulksy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ahahahhahaha facts

  • @rafalhellointeriapl
    @rafalhellointeriapl ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This man was a saint. What a patience...

  • @Marcie_does_it
    @Marcie_does_it 3 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    How lucky her mother was to find a husband after being a baby mama twice over. If I were her mother I would worship that man! Stay in your place, young lady. Your mom sounds like a blessed woman, lol.

    • @TopHat_VR828
      @TopHat_VR828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Well said

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      superblessed

    • @terrellg.421
      @terrellg.421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Appreciate you sister..facts🔥

    • @Orthodox_mang
      @Orthodox_mang 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Fax* 📠

    • @sequoiablackwood
      @sequoiablackwood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Especially over 32 years ago, that’s in the late 80s. That was a different world back then, that man is a hero. He most likely went through some things with his family as well for even picking her. Most women of that time would have gone through life unmarried with two kids from two different dudes. This girl needs to take a seat.

  • @FailsafeZero
    @FailsafeZero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    "You guys used to talking about men in some of the foulest ways, and then you say you want them"
    Damn, that really hit for me.

    • @steelmongoose4956
      @steelmongoose4956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      At a practical and financial level, marriage is already a terrible idea for men. And then you consider the army of entitled, narcissistic women who think that no man is worthy of them...

  • @torachan23
    @torachan23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +818

    It’s disgusting how these “modern” women disrespect traditional housewives on a daily basis.
    They can’t hold a candle to the type of women traditional housewives are.

    • @matthewmenard9695
      @matthewmenard9695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Hell, a lot em can't boil water

    • @libbymills4432
      @libbymills4432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      You got that right! Can hardly cook, clean, organize, budget, make a house a "home", properly raise children, be feminine, you name it. I pray for our young people, it's all been twisted around! Good luck...

    • @queenieflowers1420
      @queenieflowers1420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I cannot tell you how many women tell me that they can't do what I do. Which is being completely responsible for the care and well being of my family.

    • @alisabelove6254
      @alisabelove6254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I hear ya, I've been told how lucky I am to have man who provides for me...
      I cook., I clean, do all the shopping, care for children, neighborhood children, care for aging parents, and now grandchildren. I worked three jobs in the beginning so my husband could go to college debt free, I keep a garden, care for farm animals, AND own a small business. Plus I work out and make plans that help my husband relax and enjoy life. I have a wonderful life but I'm not lucky, I planned it that way and worked hard everyday to keep it going.

    • @matthewmenard9695
      @matthewmenard9695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Modern woman have been taught to be treated like a SPOIL kid.
      " To much Disney Channel"

  • @bezelbee3046
    @bezelbee3046 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just here to say rip ks and thank you for trying and doing your best to enlighten the black women in our community on how to be better and letting them know we are not their enemies even though they are their own and blame us 😬🙏🏾 future

  • @know1special703
    @know1special703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    She looking at her mother like she a slave when in fact her mother was probably just grateful.

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      A lot of their mothers are telling them not to be like them when they grow up because they stayed home during the 80s and 90s watching that same media like Oprah and Ricki Lake that stirred them up and fed into the resentment and gender battles see today. That television and radio is powerful.

    • @turdferguson7105
      @turdferguson7105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And her immaturity laughing every second shows you the mentality of most female adults.