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Women won't date a man who lives with his mother, but they'll happily date a high value man that lives with his wife.
Dayum.....lol! 😂😜🤣
Yep!!
or a jail bird
🤣😂🤣😂
And they will get freaky with a Pookie, Ray Ray, or thug who is with his mother.
I just thought of what I think is a great analogy:
Imagine that there's a running back who had a great college career. He does well in the nfl, and after his rookie contract is over, he decides to sign one year deals, in order to keep his freedom....
A few good teams want to sign this running back, who's in the prime of his career, to a max contract. But he would rather bounce around the league, choosing teams based on the weather in that city, the night life, business opportunities etc. He scoffs at the idea of commiting to a long term deal, because he's having fun...
Along the way the running back picks up some injuries. He gets older, he's picked up some bad habits from being on losing teams. He's still a solid player, but the abilities that made him an exciting player are diminishing...
Now this running back is pushing 30. He realizes that teams are calling his agent less and less. Concerned about his future, he now only wants to sign with a team who will offer a long term, max contract. He believes that his stats from early in his career makes his injuries and bad losing habits irrelevant. But teams aren't really interested in giving him the contract that he thinks he deserves. There are younger players who are more athletic, more exciting, that these teams would rather spend their money on.
Now some bad and average teams ARE offering this guy contacts, but he only wants to play for a team that is a championship contender, for the maximum amount of money. So he sits out an entire session as a free agent. He won't settle for what the market is offering, because he's knows his value...
Even though the offers he gets are from teams that that he doesn't want to play for, he looks at the attention that these teams are giving him, thinking that it's a sign that he is still high value. So the player starts to become bitter towards the championship level teams. Starts complaining in the media about one team or another, and how they don't REALLY want to win because they won't sign this 30yr old running back to a max contract...
That's how women are.
Perfect analogy
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Perfect lmao
😳😳😳😳😳 Bruh, this is amazing! I love when commenters give their input and it makes you think about it. Reflecting at its best.
You hit the nail on the head with this one.
Why people discredit this guy is beyond me. He speaks logically and his purpose is clear.
The truth is hard to hear
Because for as many true things as he says, he says a lot of senseless and bigoted things too.
Truth hurts and the men mostly have a bad view on him are the ones who marry those Rottweiler with 2 kids want to be your boss and be the boss of their money.
Cause people take out of context clips of him as his entire schtick when in reality he's just matching the energy he receives
@@davidv6588 what does he say that’s bigoted?
Her wanting to transform a plumber to a franchise owner or something is scary.
She could train as a plumber, then start her own franchise. 🤣After all, she has so much to offer!
Because she STILL thinks he's just not quite good enough yet.....But she's willing to "fix" him.....
You picked up on her game. A lot of these dudes in the comments haven’t
Damn right it's scary.. and once he has a franchise she gon want him to have multiple franchises... honestly it's sad
@@jasonmarshall7547it’s like most men hear a woman or see her but they’re not really listening or “seeing” her. And it’s cause they try not to judge or look too much into it.
To be 💯 it’s a lotta men more afraid of being/dying alone than being fearful of having the wrong one. Which is also why so many men before us got the wrong end of the stick during the relationship/marriage.
I’ve dated women that made more than me but I’ve always HAD more money than them because I manage better. Income doesn’t tell the whole story.
Fact. I've been there as well. It sound good when they tell you but that bank account a whole nother story
Hate to break it to you but she used yo ass.
my life in a nutshell...
I had that in reverse. I made less the men but they were bad at money management. Smh. I've always said that, if I got into another relationship the man has to be good with money management. If he is good with his money, no matter how much he makes, we can work together
Yes sir!
You can't set standards higher than your baby daddy, damn that's a word 🙌🏿
Too deep for most to sleep through
@USMC DEVIL DOG what about men with kids?
Profound af.
@@godsgirl7201 9.5 times out of 10 the child is with the mother... So what if he is a single father? He doesn't have to find a babysitter every time he needs to go on a date. He doesn't have to be back at a certain time because the child needs to be in bed etc etc.
Men have more flexibility if they do have children already. But most high value men don't have that problem because they with they wife.
Preach! I’m using this one!!!!!!!!!!
To everyone reading this, Jesus loves you.
This was funny :-) As a divorced man I can see this scenario before me... I remarried with a woman with two daughters - 9 and 11 - and what Samuels says is 100% correct. It's a minefield and looking back I was stupid to get involved. It all worked out, but it could so easily have gone south.
Her MANLY energy and way of talking is quite disturbing. Does she not know that 99% men globally will be digusted by it?
Facts! have been there and when they say something other than what actually happened, it's quite disturbing and you feel like you're out on a FN island alone and you know you did nothing incorrect. Crazy risky!
@@rejectionistmanifesto8836 Manly energy? Don't see that however, high value thing says MONEY is what matters.
@@jlmusic1469 what kind of women are you dating? If you think these type of man like women are acceptable, what does your father (assuming he is not a beta) think of it and does he say he is ashamed of you?
She actually summed it up perfectly. Spent her 20's designing her life for independence as a "strong black woman"...now she 38 and realizing ooooh shiiit, I may actually need a companion :(
Facts. If she feels she deserves a high value man then let her keep waiting for him. See how long it takes her to get one.
Yep! Delusion is real with this one!
Y'all be hitting in the top with these facts
Yep she don’t realize that she was more valuable back when she was in her twenties broke than in her forties making 6 figures
That’s why I stopped abruptly at 29 & now have a high value man.
I hate the way people just throw, "I'm a entrepreneur ". You can be a entrepreneur and be dead broke.
its all that instagram hype that creates this sense of accomplishment of calling yourself an entrepreneur
SHe never mentions entrepreneur in WHAT industry.
@@mohammadmursalin6817 they never do
@Path Finder lol yep the real ones know 💯
@Path Finder she low key snitched on his ass .He gone tear her a new one!
This is so true what Kevin said about men accepting step children. My mother was widowed with 5 of us at home from ages 4-16 yrs old. There was no finer man in the WORLD but the man who became my daddy for my life. 🙏🏻 The Lord took him home at 91 yrs old.
I will ALWAYS be grateful for what this man gave us kids and particularly my mom 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Its.good to see him getting the appreciation.
Its.good to see him getting the appreciation.
Well, used to be that women with kids understood the burdens a new man would take on, and understood that if the marriage would work, they'd need to present a united front to the kids, and he'd need to have authority commensurate with his responsibility. Also used to be that divorce was really looked down on, and women weren't initiating 80% of divorces (90% if college educated.)
And men who never had kids by a certain age might figure they wanted a family but, expecting to die at 65, 70 if they were lucky, it wouldn't be fair to marry at 45 and have their first kid at 50.
So a widow with 4 kids would be incredibly grateful that a man would give her a chance. Used to be that kids were more likely to behave respectfully, and kids whose father had died could recognize how much a step-father could elevate their lives and future prospects. The new husband could eventually earn a place, not merely as head of the household, but as a genuine second father.
Still can happen, but it's a much harsher uphill fight for men with far greater, far likelier risks and fewer benefits.
Widow is different than divorced.
Your story is different as your mom was widowed no ex husband in the background...that kids still want their father and will want a new father.....
i have never been more proud of myself for being married at 19 years old. i had no one to teach me all the rights and wrongs of womanhood, so im blessed to have met a man who had a good heart and head. hes so smart and knows what he wants, its nice knowing he chose me
Blessings to you all!!!!
Same here!!! Happily married 15 yrs.. ❤️❤️❤️
So your only achievement is getting married??
@@olivia-kn2mc and so what if it is? I know mine is .. my husband and our son is the best thing that has ever happened to me … changed my life for the better !!
@@kylieeeramirez7838 I bet if you asked your husband this same question he wouldn't say you or your son becuz honey that's not an achievement. What my point is that women need to stop saying that just "getting married and having kids is an achievement". It's not it's just what most of the human race has gone through from the beginning of times its nothing new and it's most definitely not an achievement.
(I AM JUST ASSUMING THIS CUS MOST OF THE COUPLES ARE LIKE THIS)
The difference in between you and your husband is that his goals 1st were to get a degree and get that bag but you on the other hand may have been dreaming of "It would be so good to have a husband and have kids that's my only dream" and so you (also most of the women) just pass high school and do some low degree or even not that I some cases and proced to get married and that's it. That's your life. If anything nasty were to happen your husband has no problem he works what about you?
Women need to stop looking for just marriages and making babies the world population isn't gonna drop if you 2 don't make 1 or 2.
(These both paras were not only for you but for many women out there)
This woman is a breath of fresh air compared to many of his other callers
Facts 💯
@Riser classic Black woman smile”. Lmao
@@TV-ob1if how is this funny whats funny about having a nostalgic smile??? Classy being original???
@@TV-ob1if 💀💀
Right??? It seems like he finds Women who are not Intelligent & has No Clue of what's going on!!!
She's patient, listen to the other's opinion, and explaining herself and not arguing, this is constructive
Several times over this video so far I have thought: "wow he is really breaking this down, we are getting somewhere." I learn alot from listening to him break things down.
She's a cool girl, I agree my man.
Yes, he could provide really long elaborate examples and break them down, because should was able to keep up. She is quite intelligent, which indeed, allowed for some amazing examples. This was rich.
Yeah, she's patient but still ugly
@@bernardocisneros4402 But she wasn’t satisfied w a man that made 70k a year. She immediately said that she would help him start a business and make more money wo even considering whether he would want to do that. Maybe he likes what he does and is happy w his work/life balance. Maybe he doesn’t want to work more hrs or take on the extra responsibilities. Maybe more money isn’t important to him bc he values his free time and knows his strengths and limitations. She insinuated that he must make more money for her to be satisfied. Why does it matter? All so they make the same? Bc she doesn’t want to pay more of the bills even though men always pay for dates and have always provided for the household? But now she doesn’t want to. This is so common amongst modern women.
High value is not a man who is rich , it’s a man who keeps his word and is kind . a protective man. A responsible man .
Amen to that!
Money does play a huge part. A fry cook who is faithful, good character, responsible and protective is not a HVM. Even by KS standards. Get your money up!!!
Well, the female gender will never agree with u
They don't want that
I understand where you're coming from but, then when you have the majority of women say they don't want brokies... The money does matter
I been with my husband 26 years he’s a manager at a truck wash and makes over 70 thousand a year. And he worked his way up
That's awesome. Good for you guys and best of luck to the both of you 🙏
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 and love you are proud of him as you should be!
Awesomeness 😊
but kevin would lie too women and tell them its not enough money.
She doesn't realize that a man who competes all day out there on the job doesn't want to come home and then have to compete with his woman. A man wants to come home to a safe place where he can peel off the armor, put the sword and shield in the corner, and relax. That's not an easy to thing to find or build these days..
Right.
AMEN AMEN AMEN a hunnid mo times bruh.
I use to try an articulate this to my ex.
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Well fuckin said !!!!!
She was so receptive. You could actually see her thinking about what he said before she answered. I'm not used to seeing that, lol.
true
She was actually a pleasure to watch converse
@@Mrfukalot1984 I agree. I really like this woman. There's something very magnetic about her.
@@sarahg2653 Think about these "magical 20 something" year old's who are not as receptive as her. She still has a chance but it seems slim base off her wanting to change her man to raise to her level.
lol i guess some women love chameleons
I've never seen Kevin have a guest so respectful and willing to listen, comparatively. She's on the right track, at least.
She learned to work with men in corporate and act like man
Was thinking the same.
The first woman on this channel that had me smiling ear to ear. She seems cool n laid-back,with a lovely personality. 😍 Kid or no kid she will make someone very very happy!!!!
If a person is getting by into a relationship so that the other can make them happy, then they are doomed to failure. One should only get into a relationship if they are already happy and want to share it, not because they want someone else to make them happy.
You’re lying that kid killed it her live is proving it. What man wants a successful single mother in her 40s
But will she be happy is the question
I personally believe so .
she seems kool but if she dates a plumber she wants him to do better, and maybe he likes where he's at in his point in life.
She was the most mature interviewee I've seen so far!
She was. I actually appreciated how she "listened to comprehend" instead of listening to reply.
@ Jamal Brown. KS is the interviewer. She is the interviewee (the person being interviewed). Get it right bro.
...And she was flirting with him too. :-D
I agree
@@JK-jt3lr lol facts!!
As a white, English man in his 50’s, I have been both astonished and amazed in the couple of weeks of watching content from this channel. The cultural difference between women I encounter in England and black American women are in many areas vast! However, the grossly inflated sense of worth, appearance and value are amazingly aligned. An unemployed, poorly educated, uncultured and uncouth 4/10 lady here with 3 children under 16 will still dismiss anything she deems to be less than an 8/10 or higher man with a sneer and an eye roll. Of course, once in a blue moon, one of these men will stay a night before fleeing in horror at what the dawn and sobriety reveals! Anyway, I digress. I feel moved to say after viewing maybe 50 of these interactions, this lady was a class above. I for one would actually place a value on the cultural aspects she speaks of as well as her whole persona being so refreshingly different to the norm on this channel. Thank you for reading 🙏🏻.
Very factual.
I had the opportunity to travel because of the militsry. I was lucky enough to be born into an academically minded family. I remember my first time in Europe,. I ended up with some girls from Wales. They were attractive, educated and well rounded. They were feminine. I was shocked to my core. I never imagine women like this existed in droves. Granted, I married an American woman but I knew what I wanted. We got married in our 30s. She had zero kids. This is a woman that would drive 15 min. just to bring me an unasked for plate of food. She is supportive and calm. She's a great mom.
As I write we are sitting on the back patio, smoking, drinking and listening to KS.
We all have to create our good life and that includes the people we choose
Good Sir
The lack of logic in the female mind is astounding.
From my own experience alot of single mothers have children with class g males. The woman are usually class d, with make up etc.. Appear like class B.
But set a standard of Prince Harry social & wealth status while demanding Brad Pitt looks.
Funny thing 85% of women are fighting for this 1 in 300 mil. Men.
There are 2 crashes I'm waiting for.
Global economy and the 100 women who grab up these few men.
I'm ready with a belly laugh.
As a early 60s English man I totally agree, this young lady was lovely if a little dillusional, I tell both my son's regularly to stay away from single mothers of which there are plenty of these days..
Am I the only one that read this in a British accent?
@@JonnyDrives I actually wrote it in an English accent too 🤣
Massive respect to all the step-dads out there. I'm so greatful to my step-dad of 16 years. Just because they aren't your biological children doesn't mean you can't change their life for the better and have a great relationship.
Mad respect to your step dad, but also thank your mother for making a good Choice!
Takes two to tango!
Cheers 😽
Edit: well from reading your comment again, it was a great Choice!
You are the exception, most of step children are not grateful to their step father
I am extremely grateful for both of my step parents. My step dad never had any children of his own. Regardless, I am aware that my brother and I added next to nothing to my step dads life. The only thing he gained from our relationship was to become closer to our mom thru being good to us
Yeah well the problem is fella that most of these broads want you to help them raise their kids financially and thats it. I dated a chick for years but I knew I was never going to marry her and never ever move in with her nor move her into my house because she had a problem with me saying anything disciplinary towards her two kids. I'm like right...so I'm going to pay the bills, feed and clothe your kids but if they get disrespectful to me in my own house I can't say ish to them? F outta here. That's not gonna work for me. Shes proly somewhere in traffic kicking rocks with air Jerusalem sandals on because I bounced. I will never seriously date a woman with kids especially when I have none myself. They can keep their baggage and their kids..no offense to you my G.
@@chiefhowlingwolfhannibal7360 Agreed my brother !
I must admit, this woman is possibly the most agreeable and understanding. Hopes she finds a good man
@aaron just admit you came up with something 🤣
@aaron blindly? 🤣 meanwhile I read the entire thread and you still have zero evidence of her saying what you said she said. Great way to deflect. I’m not blind, you are. You’re blind with anger towards women, if not just black women. 🥶
She is going to make a fine addition to the MILF market...that's all left for these types
I wish her luck.
Yes, I hope she finds someone nice.
I respect the maturity and lack of ego on this one. She wasn't defensive, even in the face of being, seemingly, uncomfortable.
She cool for real
@@splintetemasterrr8514 I agree
I got good vibes from her. She might have a chance.
I agree...she wasn't combative...just a tad bit delusional and out of touch
I enjoy scrolling through comments. Yours was fascinating. Women communicate covertly. And vast majority of human communication is non-verbal. Check out 30:10. This eye roll spoke volumes. Full defensive mode. I hope what you said was a cynical joke.
Those damn Red Bulls 🤬🤬. RIP
I can appreciate her as a person. She definitely seemed receptive to what Kevin was saying, even if she had a little resistance at times. I hope she can really sit down and analyze her requirements for a man.
I said the same. She is one of the more pleasant guest on this show
The biological clock says tick, tick, tick
I can appreciate her more as a place.
She's attractive, intelligent and actually has a brain. Already doing better than 90% of women right there. She just needs a reality check.
She dont need just a reality check. She needs to start to be honest to her self . She need to be honest about her past.
It starts by the sentence, she was dating not seriosly because she focused on her career. Thats compete BS. That is not the reason. Because focus on career and dating serios at same time is easy possible. etc..a and it goes on...
@@rapsack7058 Faxx
She seems nice because she knows she’s talking to someone who is going to cut her down so size
90% of western women.
She average. She is a 5
My wife picked up our house bills when I decided to start a business that didn't start to earn steady income for 2 years. (I didn't plan it that way but were limited with covid ) We have had some stress tests but she stuck around when no one else would have, that's why she's my wife and that's what I call a high valued woman.
Nice. Go give that women a good hug and kiss. She deserves that.
This!!!! ☝️ YESSSS! 😁
You have what is called A GOOD WOMAN.
I don't. A man would never have made an issue with paying the bills for his wife, so a wife should never have made paying the bills an issue for her husband
@@madeasimmons9746 society teaches that men should be the providers, no matter the race. Thats why any guy out of work with wife/family, I always advise them to get a job quick, even if its lower pay or part time. Cause he's gonna get it from his family, her family, her friends, if he goes 6mths unemployed....
SOOO much knowledge and insight being shared even after his passing.. damn man we need more of this. Rest In Power!
She’s the best one ever, I genuinely like her, sweet genuine girl, hope she makes it
I can rock with her..
@@johnspicer4841 right? She’s got a good attitude, not too entitled, actually educated and done something with it, makes money and isn’t too materialistic. Agree bro
she's a bird brain with a smile...
some men do appreciate what some women make
Seriously need to give our men credit, accept him where he is and make him feel like a man everyday & he will treat you like a Queen !
Spot on...
You can’t make us feel like men. We are men. What you can do is leave us alone and support us and you will get better results.
Not really girl. They get confident enough to grow a bigger ego and bigger balls to do wrong by you
Exactly. Personally I need a woman that makes me feel good. Not a woman that wants me around just to make her feel good.
You have to make yourself irreplaceable. Or you are no different than most other women.
i dont believe this is a conscious choice.. i think this whole thing is embedded deeply into humanity's DNA and from it, it grows like a flower into the subconscious and manifests itself as personal, however generic preferences, a trend or bias so to speak..
in other words, what im saying is - women are wired to be attracted to (relatively) superior men..
conscious choice can not beat subconscious / (DNA) programmed preference.
In the Caribbean one thing my father taught me, when a woman purchase or construct a house 🏠 on her own, then finds a husband. She always say it's her house. Even if the house was constructed by both parties together, all women still states it's their house.. If the house was constructed and built by the man alone before he met the woman.. She then states it's our house. Lol
I'm from the bahamas and this is very true lol
100% truth.
Ne jamais emménager chez une Femme.
Mec, je garde ta citation et je te remercie.
I personally wouldn't do that but being Caribbean, that's true lol
💯
When I was single, anytime a woman say they got kids, i was out like a thief of the night
This dude has really opened my eyes
Kevin gave this woman the upmost respect, and she definitely earned it
"Put yo penis up"
haha i love Kevin
She is one of the most receptive women I have seen on his channel
She wants to listen & she understands what he is saying but she can't let go of what is inbred within her. She may have a chance if what she is showing is her true nature & attitude. Good luck lady.
She's very down to earth...and is willing to listen. She'll be alright
Oh yeah, same thing I said. She just need an older dude to lace her with game. That’s probably her best move
@@orderofgrandpuba 100%..
Agreed. Nice person and not a loser like so many of the ladies who call into his show
She mentioned her father giving her advice. You can tell she probably has a good relationship with Dad...
She’s almost 40.... she’s not in her early/mid 20s... she doesn’t ‘need a man to lace her with game’ unless them feet ready pat that concrete.. she seems genuinely nice, & listens more than she talks.. she’s in the age range where her personality is full habit & wont be easy to change out of that. That’s facts. She just needs to go to some type of “singles” conference or something & find a man who she can spend the rest of her 30/40 yrs with 💯🤷🏾♂️
whenever girls are respectful, kevin basically becomes their dad and helps them more than anyone.
Kevin served her reality on a silver plate! RIP Kevin. You are sorely missed.
She looks good for her age but that MASCULINE ENERGY is a major turn off women always wanna mold men but want men to TAKE THEM AS THEY ARE
she does look good for her age i thought she was in her mid to late 20's ...but energy is everything with women for me, idc how fine you are if you come off as bitchy or masculine i dont want you
@Salem The Cat Which Part of what she said makes her agressive? For me she seems friendly and funny
She looks good for her age...... But, put her 25yr old pic next to her now and you'll see a big difference. 💯
As a 36 year old well-to-do asexual virgin, I'm happy living a single life. No honey equals more money and less stress. 🤷🏽♂️
Exactly.
She may be the most levelheaded woman I've seen on this show. She seems like she is very kind and just wants to be better. She's going to be fine.
Kind of late.. but not impossible.
True ,she was just guided in the wrong light as a child growing up
Until she started talking about Blue collared men.
I agree. And she is smart, so she is going to adapt.
@@RoDiggity3743 Yeah but she’s just repeating the same stereotypes we all heard.
Women don’t complain about blue collar when she the life you living.
ill be coming back to these videos for YEARS TO COME!!
This man was amazing, understood by many. RIP 🙏
She’s not only super pretty but she isn’t trying to justify and downplay. Massive respect
"Super" pretty is a strech, shes attractive but not SUPER PRETTY.
@@yuritheimmortalmma I mean that’s subjective to be honest. She realized that her biological options are ticking. If she had this thought process at 18 she’d be much better off.
@@S1lverspike only simps and thirsty guys would say shes "Super" attractive
Super huh??
@@yuritheimmortalmma that's his opinion! Wtf
I like this woman, she isn't so argumentative she actually listens and accepts reality.
Props to her, i reckon there might be hope for her.
I totally agree with you, She has HOPE
She wasn't with her child father when the baby was born is a red flag for me. Its like the man didn't want or couldn't be around her even when his child was entering the world .
Pshaw, she wasn't accepting reality. Barcelona: She was twisting and turning trying to find a way to make it real and work, but ultimately couldn't. Her reality was as skewed as all the others.
I agree, I'd give her a fair shot, even though I dont earn 6 figures. Her 6 figures could very well be 5 here in England and everyone earns that
She likes old men and works in business. She knows how to hold her tongue.
Every time this woman takes his criticism and correction, absorbs it with a good attitude and has resolve to change, her value goes up.
wrong !!!
Agreed
She seems like a really good person. I liked the way she conversed with him without getting defensive. I wish her the best in finding her mate.
Hard for women to split their money but they have no problem taking his.
That's true for some women
@@cslaton921 most, nearly all******
FACTZ 🗣
@@HowToTouch is "nearly all" based off of the women you have encountered?
@@cslaton921 99.9999%
I don’t think she wants a mate, she want an investment partner
And the ability to cash out on the back end when things go sideways.
@@MikeS-7 yup what you said
Naw, don't do her like that. I'd love a companion that was just hungry to make something with me. Wouldn't need sex again.
@@mamicraycray9817 i completely agree but what she was looking for wasn’t a marriage partner just a business partner. she was great but i honestly don’t think she fully understands what she wants or what shes asking for.
@@mamicraycray9817 i agree, we all need loads of work. she was great and generally interested in finding improvement for herself. i just get so discouraged listening to women who have gotten it all wrong struggle and then not even be able to admit where they have gone wrong. it’s discouraging to see. i don’t know how i got on this particular algorithm but I’m seeing a ton of women with extremely high self esteem but literally no reason to have high self esteem. as an older woman i worry a whole generation is lost due to broken families and unrealistic expectations. i hope more women listen to this man. he is course but he us accurate
The last time a woman told me "I prefer someone cultured and who reads books",
I asked her what was the last book she read and she actually said "The bus schedule".
I laughed all the way out of the coffee shop and left her there by herself. 😂🤣
That's an image thing in their head, when ur bright and well versed women become intimidated and start that dumb ass competition script.
"The racing form!"
This is a woman I would consider, she is patient, she understands her position and she is willing to adapt, she understands she has baggage and she is willing to make it up in other ways. The thing is that we all make mistakes in life, but most women don’t learn, they still feel entitled and the older they get, the more demanding they get.
body count is a hell of baggage
The 25yr. Daughter and the 45yr. Mother is competing for the same Man in today’s world.
lol
That's the truth right there!
You ain’t lying
No lie
Truthfully lol
"that man will be putting into your baby daddy's legacy."
heavy
I never thought about it like this but it’s definitely facts!!
@@Ty.S93 facts
Now I know why Mr. Samuels had a heart attack. I see him drinking a lot of red bulls. Those damn things are bad for a person , especially the heart. He is someone that was ahead of his time, brilliant and engaging. Sir, you are missed.
He got a sponsorship from Red Bull. That's when we started seeing them around so much more than before.
tbf, we don't really know that he's actually like drinking all of them. Just see him sippin from time to time.
But, your point definitely stands, in general. Can certainly be bad for health.
@@roycewalters I agree with you thank you for being open.
@@Irishlen64, HEY INTERNET!!!
Do you people all see this?! This was a decent and fair and adult discussion about a topic. This is exactly how debates and arguments used to work. It is still possible even on the Internet!
Thank you, [@lee p], for being a NORMAL but quality person. Hehe
@@roycewalters Thank you very much You made my day saying that !!!!
I totally agree. I have tried to tell my son the same thing.
There he goes right at the beginning, sipping on those red bulls. That's probably what did him in. You're definitely going to be missed Kevin. Godspeed to you.
You Gotta be drinking water with those red bulls ... no Male enhancement neither ..old ass can’t handle all that
I thought the same, man drinks redbull like I drink water
I wonder if got that silly v a x
One of the best KS conversations I've watched. Fly high my brother 🕊
she seems like a nice person
yes. she does seem like a good hearted woman
All snakes do. Until ...
@@muralidharanramachandran189 Sir, if you are not wise enough to have discernment and know a good person when you see one, then you deserve to get bit when you do. Open your eyes, not everyone is out to hurt you. You also don't deserve grace, mercy or the benefit of the doubt from others. May they feel your best intentions are evil as well...
With a personality like that it’s unfortunate she has the card stacked against her due to circumstances.
@@jaylow57 I'm sure it's an overweight 50+ y/o old regular man that would go for it
My wife made 3x what I made. She was a traditional wife but I had to keep the kids and give up my job to create a business I could take the kids to. We worked it out just fine. Honestly with her advise, encouragement and support i have 3 businesses that will allow her to retire now that our kids are grown. We married after 3 months and its a wonderful life for 25 years. I insisted from the start that we go to church and give 10%, don't go to bars or clubs, don't get into debt and to save. We've traveled to 45 states and God has blessed us. We give Jesus all the credit and he is who our focus is on.
God 1st always! Great story man
You are the 1%
My husband and I are currently working toward this transition and your testimony is giving me such encouragement. I'm a stay at home mom but I've been growing two real estate businesses with the intention of my husband leaving the workforce and us running our businesses together. As believers ourselves, we really had to allow God to establish a vision that worked for OUR family even if it went against "tradition" in the Christian sense. I really commend you as a man for allowing God to do the same. Thank you for sharing your story and God bless your family. I pray my husband and I will see the fruits of our labor in the years to come.
She got any sisters 🤣😭🤔
The Good Lord Jesus is the only way a family can survive in this sodom and ghamora 2.0 society we live in today.
This the best one here! We’re rooting for you sis!!
Want you want and what you can have is very different. I was widowed in my 40's with a six year old son. He is grown now and I am still unmarried. What I wanted and what I could have didn't match so I have focused on my family and career. It's not settling to make realistic choices. I made more than my late husband but he was an amazing man and father. I chose to focus on what I was given and blessed with then and now. Look at what you have not what you haven't got.
Words of wisdom right here !!!!
Man: "I want to live comfortably and enjoy my hobbies in peace."
Woman: "You need to bust your butt , make a big business , and not do your hobbies so that you can build US a life I can brag to my friends about! Now get to work so we can buy stuff we don't need to impress people I don't like!"
Wife asked me, "why so many guns and tools? You buy so much of them, so expensive your hobby."
Answer to her: "For the same reason you have so many bras, shoes and purses." "Would you rather me spend that money on girls at the bar with my friends?"
Wife's reply, "Ok, I guess Home Depot and gun shop is ok."
She has never questioned or complained to me regarding those 2 items since then and even participates with me in shooting! Good woman! LOL
This is the one!!!! Nailed it!!!!
GUNS & TOOLS = HEAVEN ON EARTH!!!!!
I have never resonated with something so much in my life. All a man wants to be at peace doing what ever hobbies he enjoys living a comfortable life. Like why we gotta drop everything to fit their expectations.
@@moseskabogo1292 Thank you so much for saying that. It makes me happy to know that I am not alone with this. The idea of "you do you" seems foreign to many (most) women, and many (most) men feel shame for thinking that the way they want to live their lives is somehow wrong. We need to provide for ourselves and our families, for sure.... But why a million dollar house in a ritzy neighborhood? Why a BMW instead of a Honda? (Unless you happen to like BMWs, but you get what I am saying) Cheers to us for coming to terms with this.
She’s actually really pleasant. I think she’ll be fine if she dates older men who already have children.
She made the deal with the devil for her career but she doesn't want to accept the consequences.
Yea, I feel she'll be alright if she takes the advice given.
I concur.....She has to date in her age range with kids... Stay away from the men are not fathers. It’s possible but very difficult
@@bowmaredebrouchee4753 That's a little harsh on account of the fact that she most likely wasn't told of the consequences. The feminists who sold this generation on the "have-it-all" idea only spoke of consequences when they lied and said that there were none.
Theres not enough black women like her thats why black men go to white women
Thank you very much Allen ( I believe that's your name. Kevin's best friend) for keeping this content at the forefront of social media. We need this to remain front and center.
Is that who handles his page now?
This was probably one of the best calls I have ever seen so far. She needs to come down on some expectations but overall seems far more well adjusted than any other I have yet to see. Props there!
The fact the she’s willing to LISTEN and hear the advice says a lot about her. She’ll be alright
I hope so but more men are waking up so I’m unsure.
Yeah I need to see it to believe it!
Based on a lot of the other ladies we have seen here, she’s showing some good qualities. She’s not triggered by the honest answers KS is giving her
@@kemetazubuike8958 I always got women from middle school when i was broke to now and ive always tried to red pill men. Funniest part is its bad for women because now men who never got girls, late bloomer, nerds ( which make alot of high earning men) are realizing if they just grind and stay on purpose theyll get whoever they want. So thats less attention and resources from younger men on their grind and then when those men get older they dont want the baby mama or the girls who were the shit at their age they want better because they kept their heads down and worked hard.
She's gonna have to be alright: she's past the Danger Zone, 38 with a child already.....🙄
Looks and personality aside, she about 10 years LATE for this conversation....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Time to call PETCO for a 🐶.......
This was a master class, with an excellent teacher and an open minded, willing student.
WELL DONE.👏🏽
Great dialogue
No it wasn't, she didn't get not 1 lesson learned that she should have
yeah i like her i hope she can find a good husband
@@skirdennodayz6702 I respect your opinion sir. Judging from the likes on my comment, it seems others agreed with my opinion as well, but there is no harm in voicing a counter opinion.
Have a blessed weekend.🙏🏽❤️
@@michellebelk9951 I want to apologise, can make my point in a better energy level. Sorry. If you count how many times Kevin had to explain the same point, to an adult well educated woman, and also count how many times she dismissed his teachings and point of view with, "Yes, but" and did nos stop to listen and understand the data and logic behind, that is just not normal. Since I do know that there are way more things do discuss beyond this defence attack most woman have as a natural, but toxic, behavior.
if you listen many os Kevin videos, and many like it, there are patterns of behavior, and they all point to same facts and objectives, and can not go over them to start a real talk to chance things for the better of us all.... I am getting a divorce myself, she does not listen, talk alone, questions and answer by herself, and guess... yes it is alllll may fault, so ok, take care of yourself them, I am leaving, and thennnn she wants back, but I am done fighting in my own home and no support notthing. Sorry for the long chat here. Have a wonderfull day and life.
So appreciative to have come across this content. Rest in power Mr. Samuels and thank you.
Great content, also I definitely like this woman's attitude. She was not argumentative, negative or trying to fight back. She accepted the advice in a positive manner. Thanks because not all of us have an attitude when the truth is told. You will find a great man.
He went in Deep, and I respect the fact that She was receptive. To each their own
Man I sat here and actually heard Kevin talk for more that 2 minutes without being interrupted.... Whatever her stock is being on this has raised it higher, I can say I hope she gets a good dude cause she seem to have the capacity to chill and listen, even her arguments were intelligent
Yes!!
This is the first woman on his show I resoect in full totatility
@@RaizelSX she actually listen when she realize her argument is weak and doesn't work with real life
What he is saying is so spot on! I was a dumb young person. I had no role models as a kid. I ended up pregnant at 19. I had a daughter. I realized right away my situation. I never thought anyone owed me anything. My husband came along and he is a good man and he wanted me and my daughter too. I felt lucky and thankful. I realized he was giving me so much. A beautiful gift to me and my daughter. So when my cousins who are women and single and think I need to run his life I say no. He is a grown man I don’t run his life. That’s not how our relationship works. Appreciate your men ladies.
Good on you for not listening. Most woman’s biggest enemies are other females or their “girlfriends”.
True, dat!
@@nootnootpengui8015 lol single girlfriends have the most advice!
@@Thatguyyoudontknow594 older single women that have no business giving advice to younger women telling em to “live your best life while your young”. 😅
@@nootnootpengui8015 exactly
She went to asking KS, “Don’t you feel like…???” Once a woman mentions feelings, it’s GAME OVER…checkmate!
This is the first listener I have seen on this channel so far, so composed and attentive. Not the usual yelling!
I think this lady is a keeper. She's miles ahead of the others that Kevin has interviewed.
Pffff😂 bro........a "keeper"? I can smell bs a mile away she masculine asf......hell no
She should be she about to be 40
What? Yeah if you like taking care of another man's child and dealing with restrictions and being looked down upon.
This lady is a keeper? Because she understand the basic sense of a conversation😂 that’s the least you can ask of a women ffs
you probably have more wisdom than those who replied.
Shes one of the best women kevin has ever instructed. She is willing to learn what it takes to have a relationship.
Agreed! She has the potential to be a good woman/wife. At least she does listen
She is kind of ignorant though and doesn't seem to get it like most of 'em. She is much less egoistical but doesn't change the fact that she's still resistant to things that seem very obvious for most people.
Do you really think she’s learning anything? You can clearly see that she’s triggered and everything is getting through one ear and getting out through the other and nothing is starting.
@@2099ramirez that's the same thing I was going to comment lmao
She was wearing earplugs in her ears all she was doing was agreeing with everything he said but everything went over her head but good luck baby girl
This was one of the best videos, I've watched of him WHOM I LOVE! He hit the nail on the head explaining his logic! I really wish I was up on his videos before he passed! RIP Frfr!
She is very poised. I love the dialogue. They aren’t agreeing on everything, however it was an extremely adult conversation. I wish all the women that come on Mr. Samuels show were this intellectually honest and poised.
Compared to some of these other calls Kevin has had she seems alright
Yeah she was cool.
She cool that's why he talked to her so long.
Look at my replies elsewhere. I think she is a winner. But keep in mind that I was raised by a loving stepfather and have always been willing to date women with children..
She don't want 95 percent of the men in the comment section tho so her being cool means nothing to someone who isn't making 6 figures and she don't want a man who answers to a boss. She's wants to be able to up and go on a vacation out the country whenever she feels like it. A man with a boss will slow her down.
She came with the right type of energy and wasn't overly combative or butthurt when he served her the truth....and it made for a pleasant interaction. She seemed like a good natured woman but like many women made the mistake of having a child out of wedlock.
She is the most rational woman I've seen Kevin dialogue with. This is refreshing.
No where near the delusion of some of the ladies and also no where near as confrontational. A bit hard headed at times though LOL.
I was gone say the exact same thing
Great video! Gonna miss these.
This conversation was refreshing and nice. He actually used humor and she listened. She is very smart.
I’m a criminal defense lawyer. Everything Kevin says is true.
Hell, I'm a FedEx Courier driver and think the same way.
Does being a criminal defense lawyer, gives you extra credibility? Lol 😂
@@123carlon did you listen to what Kevin said about false child abuse allegations? Yes, I do know a lot about that.
@@MichaelLoweAttorney I’m a healthcare worker and me2
@@MichaelLoweAttorney brilliant response people don't listen 🤣
I am a step-father of 4 step kids that are now grown and 1 that was mine before I became a stepfather and he is grown. My biological son never lived with me but grew up with his mother in a different state. My step kids never got any support from their dad so I covered all finances. Many times I had to hear those words "Your not my dad I don't have to listen too you". There was nothing good about being a stepfather. I stayed because I love their mother and she has been a great wife. Very traditional woman who doesn't try to control things. She likes the traditional family. I am telling you it is not worth getting involved with a single mother. I made my choice and I am telling you to do the opposite of what I did but I have 31 years experience under my belt about what its like being a step-father and it is not worth it.
I must be lucky. My step daughters love me.
Facts, I'm dealing with it now myself
Four kids hell no maybe 1.
That pawn shop analogy 😂
She stuck to conversation and tried very hard… bravo 👏👏👏👏👏
I honestly believe she learned a lot, rather she applies it in her life- will be up to her.
God bless the caller and peace to Kevin’s soul 🙏
Basically what I see Kevin trying to do especially with a lot of Black American Women is teach them "Humility". Humility also coincides with Femininity. A humble woman is a feminine woman. Having unrealistic standards and you're a baby mama is not being humble or realistic. Men can smell a arrogant, hard to deal with woman a mile away. If these women would humble themselves and date men that they are actually compatible with, they'd have a much easier time, and could find a man that actually wants to be with them and marry them. Meaning stop thinking you deserve some 6 or 7 figure mythical baller millionaire, and get you a nice 5 figure man that actually likes you.
Exactly. I got married within a year of genuinely putting this into practice
I agree, many of these women are so arrogant and entitled and it's NOT attractive at ALL. And also they act too familiar with Kevin, in my opinion. It doesn't seem appropriate.
Yes! Humility is a *necessary* condition of femininity; which is why those who aren't humble project toxic aggressive energy...
@@jbb8261, Congratulations! The being *genuine* part is what many women looking to be more feminine, miss! Those wanting to adjust to a more successful pair bonding strategy, need to realize that there's a 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘦 distinction between *being* feminine, and *acting* feminine...
And vice versa
Kudos to this woman. No sassy words, no backtalk, no attittude (compared with the others I have seen so far). I hope she gets what she is looking for.
In my opinion, she's as snobbish as can be.
@@SeattlePioneer nah man, she’s far ahead compared to the other people he’s been on calls with. It’s just the Southern style you aren’t used to.
@@josephekundayo6776
Well then, I don't get it.
She looks to me as if she has a LOT of spending she wants to do, but not earning that money herself.
A nice smile doesn't cut it for me....
She’s a keeper.
Super entitled is more like it. Spoiled and snobby.
Kevin you give me hope. Thank You Sir.
She’s got a lot going for her. I hope she finds what she wants. It’s simple with Kevin: show respect - get respect. This was a very informative video - class act all around.
She took that constructive criticism like a champ. Literally the saving grace of older women.
Facts was highly impressed.!
It went in one ear and out the next.
You can see that she’s successful. She’s a good listener and very intelligent. Kevin didn’t even have to say “don’t over talk me” once.
Lool
the bar is so low for these wom3n 😆
KS was so raw and honest
Thanks for sharing your wisdom K.S.!
Rest in peace my friend!
To me this is the definition of a "Strong Black Women" that alot of these little girls try to claim or portray.
She took all criticism in a very confident, charming way....laughing about it and agreeing with it most of the time.
I know Kevin actually enjoyed talking with this Women.....Im sure she will find someone for her and both will be happy, all the best to her!
No one likes to be called a Strong Black woman...fyi
@@BELYNDATUBE yet they love saying it. Fyi.
@@BELYNDATUBE what are u talking about
One in 4 black women will ever marry, being a single mother her chances are very slim.
@@galavantgambitgaming some
He is an entrepreneur he does well for himself but he has a lifestyle that isnt in line with my daughter, translation: drug dealer
Thank you
Lol, as soon as I saw that "damn, what should I say to make him sound presentable" smile It was clear as day that she was going to come up with some bullshit.
Oooh snap😅
Not necessarily, he could own a strip club, a porn production company, a smoke shop, it's not 1992 anymore.
@@manb4war She wouldn't have pulled Matrix moves to dodge a legitimate business, keep it real
Great talk this time, from both of them, yes very constructive.
I really enjoyed watching this dialogue between Kevin and the caller. They both spoke equally with little to no talking over each other and the called took all comments well as opposed to others who are quick to catch an attitude as soon as Kevin says something to them they don't want to hear. This was a mature two way convo.
Single mother = friend zone.
Woman with no children = end zone.
Bruh
Truer words have never been said.
Many single mothers don't realize they're in the friend zone, because men tend to still *sleep with* women in our friend zone...
@@shawnstone1164 he needs to put that on a shirt
Muh man outche running plays and chit 😂
if she's always around top earners, why isn't she getting chosen to be wifed up.. The answer is always staring at them, they just choose to ignore it
TIFF THETAXLADY elaborate???
@Marten Dekker thanks, lol
@@ao6677 "if she's always around top earners, why isn't she getting chosen to be wifed up.."
Because women confuse SMV with RMV which is always a point or two lower. SMV gets you the "D", RMV gets you the ring.
@@lilpookietaz2834 You meant : What the heLL did she just say??🤔😁🤦🏾♂️
@@radioflyer985 Fact
She was the best caller I've seen on this channel yet. She was willing to listen to his perspective and she took his points seriously. It was very good. She definitely learned some things. This is the kind of woman who's intelligent, but merely needs a different perspective to get a better picture of the situation.
This was a pleasant interaction. Miss you Kevin!