I've said it before and I'll say it again: Give a man a studio apartment, internet, and some Ramen noodles, he'll figure out a way to be happy. Give a modern woman a mansion, and everything she asks for, she'll figure out a way to be miserable.
Let's be honest. She probably was "bored" with the relationship and felt like she can do better. What women don't understand is sometimes "bored" can equal peace. Like I can be perfectly happy with my woman at the house watching power together but to women it's "ughhh we don't ever do anything"
people dont embrace peace and boredom enough. its always better than fun mixed in with chaos and toxicity. people dont know how to entertain themselves and enjoy living.
And when you do do something. Right after you DO that thing. It’s back to we don’t anything AGAIN. They have recent memory loss. You can take your lady to Jamaica and before you even land back in the states, she’ll say we don’t ever go anywhere lol smh
After 14 years and 2 toddlers, wife dipped on me because she never got to “experience” life. I started as a cable guy. I’m a lawyer now. We grew up struggling together. The pain from the betrayal is indescribable. The removal of my kids from our home to her mother’s is the most painful part.
sorry to hear you got played like that bruv. i have a question for you, did you always want to be a lawyer or did you become a lawyer to please her? were you happy as a cable guy? was she happy with you being a cable guy? i don't mean to sound mean here but it sounds to me like she pushed you to make more money, waited till you made more money to have the kids then dipped with your money and your kids. she played you like a god damn fiddle if she was the one pushing you to make more. sounds like she had all this planned out.
Never seen a man caring about their race this much. I'm middle Eastern and not at all offended. He's speaking facts I hope all Women from all races hear this and understand it.
Yeah, he cared deeply for black women and black men. Healthy and fulfilling marriages are the backbone of a community. Yet most of the modern women didn't want to hear the truth and apply it to change their outcomes.
She was most likely getting the sex elsewhere the entire time so she didn't care as long as he kept spending his money on her. No she's not fit for marriage.
Women intentionally set out to be mothers without husbands, then later cry about the struggles and ask for help. 😩 Open your eyes, You're creating the men you complain about.
It breaks my heart to know we didn't give this absolute beautiful spirit of concerning direction for the black community his flowers while he was here and that the women who bash him have no idea what the hell he was trying to accomplish
This is masterful. Firm, full of facts, calm. Rip Kevin. You are dearly missed. As a middle aged white woman, I’ve been married 23 years and i have learned a lot watching you. I still want to be a better wife to my hard working husband, he deserves it and I will try til my dying day to please him. Wake up ladies. Ty KS
Oh gosh I didn't know. This guy is a national treasure. Frankly I want to watch more of him, so I can learn how to keep women from pulling bs (shifting blame etc). Women are good at manipulating; took some suffering for me to learn not be gaslit, Kevin could have saved me from that.
I feel the same way. I have been married for nine years, and when I watch Kevin's videos I realize that I can be a better wife. I am married to a man who loves me and our daughter more than anything.
I was once engaged to a woman who had a problem with the fact that "we didn't fight and argue over irrelevant stuff". That was when I knew this aint gon' work. I value my peace more than all the sex in the world. Women seriously underestimate our desire for PEACE.
If we based everything on happiness me and my husband of 18 years would have been divorced at least 2 or 3 times by now. Marriage is indeed work but it has been worth it.
You let him hit it raw. You didn’t have second thoughts. Now you a single mom. You said imma have this kid. Don’t care if he’s here or nah. Now you a single mom. There ain’t no good men but these bitches stay pregnant.
My husband and I have been married for 14 years. Sometimes things get so comfortable that it may seem boring to some women. To me, it means we have reached a certain level of contentment and respect with each other. I adore this man more than ever and I can't imagine being with any one else.
Same here sis. (I keep saying we're coming up on thirty years, but I JUST found out that we both forgot our anniversary for the 29 th time!) "Boring" equals no drama peace and security. (I can't wait to tell the hubby we both forgot again! It's the longest running joke in our church lol!)
I can never forget that scene in A Beautiful Mind. Alicia Nash went through so so much to be Mrs. Nash, dealt with John‘s Schizophrenia for years. He even physically attacked her during one episode which I considered reason enough to leave him at the time. But she knew what kind of a man that she married and she stood by him through all of the frustration and pain as she vowed to. They grew old together, and he got better. I bawled in the end when he won the Nobel Prize and he thanked her for supporting him through every thing. That’s what marriage is, no one can tell me that it’s just a piece of paper.
My ex divorced me because we only had a 2 bedroom house and when I got hurt at work she had to go full time and for 2 months she made more than me for the first time in 7 years. I paid 90% of her college. She was also a stay at home wife and didn’t have to work. After the divorce, she married another guy who gave her a 4 bedroom house and everyone around her, especially women congratulate her for upgrading. Nobody shames her that she broke the covenant… she still goes to the same church we were at. I thought marrying an independent woman was fun but nobody counseled me the difference between a wife and a mercenary. My second marriage covenant/wife was #1 on my list. Independent woman was my #1 deal breaker…
Never pay for a woman's school. Man or woman, need to have a vehicle, her/his own place (not living with parents or siblings) and she needs to have her/his own job/employment for the past 3 years
Kevin couldn’t be more right. I am a 21 yr old female watching this and using this as a guideline for what I don’t want to happen to me. He couldn’t have said it more perfectly. No money and education can suffice enough to replace relationships and family. Thank you Kevin for having this show. It really is an eye opener for young black woman.
True. Remember, if he can support you and your family and is loyal to you - he's more than good enough. As long as you're supportive and loyal, he'll be fine with you.
I love hearing my husband say that I belong to him. That’s a complete turn on. My husband gets whatever he wants. Submission, favor, respect, honor & great lovin. 10 yrs & counting…💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Now that's how it's supposed to be.. sadly I haven't found a woman worth saying that to.. I'm with a girl I'm pretending to like.. I'm thinking bout cutting her lose..and her sex is pathetic.. the starfish type
Props to the lady for sticking through it. Looks like she was finally seeing what she did was wrong and how she messed up. When you go into a relationship looking for love, lust and sex you’ll always lose in the end. A relationship is more than just physical, it’s partnership.
Its not a partnership for a alpha male only a beta like you. A alpha is a leader that gets followed by hes wife we protect her emotionally physically and financially. She talks when talken too my final word is my final word. my decisions she follows she can give advise on my decision but my word is final. This is not a partner its love between a powerful man and hes wife.
@@ronaldo-cp1fo Wow that’s hella cringe kid, calling yourself an alpha. Nobody needs a mindless individual following them around like a lost puppy with separation issues. That’s a pet, not a wife. You need to reevaluate what you consider a partnership, stop listening to Fresh n fit and listen to those who have successful marriages, real heads of households, and learn what a real man is. No real man calls himself an Alpha.
My mother died alone. 6 kids 6 different baby fathers. She was so so soo masculine it was as if we were raised under a Female hyena and all the men were just there to be told what to do. I thank Jehovah for Kevin cause this is much needed. I learned more from Kevin than my own damn father🤦🏿♂️
All I can say is, WOMEN please listen! I wAS married at 22 and STILL for 15 years NOW! This man is giving Us good, free advice. I’ll continue to watch to keep my marriage. But HAPPINESS COMES LATER LADIES AFTER THE WORK!
Sorry sis. You know our women n how difficult it is to get through that skull. They say one thing but will have a baby spilt in half bc they can’t get what they want.
I’m not black. But I value the way this man communicates, handles himself, encourages men to be men and women to be women. Honestly, I feel there are so many feminine men of every race it’s nice to have a man who is acting as an ambassador for us who are trying to be masculine and honorable.
If the man had bad character, that would’ve been the first thing she said. The fact that she paused when asked about character and decided to lie is the biggest red flag any future man in her life needs to see. That’s you she’s gonna trash in front of millions next when you don’t hit it good enough.
Im middle eastern and my husband is black, and he s happy with me because being a submissive loyal wife is even a part of our culture and religion, and it makes us know our role and our duty in life, we women should not have to fight for leadership because rythme of life is opposite of what feminism want , and against nature too It s not going to work out you ll suffer you can not be man and women at the same time, take your role and be proud of it Young women don’t put good man to the side when h r young because you want to have fun, because that good man deserves you when you still virgine and when you still young he does not all other men
Damn. Now it makes sense to me. You worded an ick of mine so well, Lili. I had once read a story about a woman who was 20-21 or so, and she found the perfect dude, even her spiteful to boyfriends parents liked this amazing boyfriend. He was everything to them. And she acknowledged she absolutely adored him, but she felt like she wanted to see the rest of the world. So she left him, on the premise of coming back later and finding a different man that could be there for her just as much as he would be. I never got an update on the situation My tummy feeling was that she was leaving an extraordinary man to chase an adventure. She gave up the best man possible and suitable in her life for an adventure. And since she was free to do so, she got on it and gave up the best husband material, even for her parents who never liked a single guy My feeling was... how can you do that? How can you leave your guy like that? You deserve better, man. But I felt selfish when I thought about that Now reading on your story, I'm like, of course! That's it! It's because things work for different people, and it'd probably explain why I'm not attracted to a certain style of women. I don't want to be controlling, I want to give them their freedom, but if they can't control their urges, then how do I know when they're going to flip flop on me? A boring lady who's only interested in getting the best for the family, asking about our days and the children's and man's wellbeing is someone I love to be around with. Ironically, I've found this in an African-American... US lady... while I'm from the Netherlands. It's insane how she was like, "This is my boyfriend, and I can be happy with him." She did not believe in the fairy tale. She was actually that person that you're describing to me. You deserve the best of the whole goddamn world and I'm happy your culture knows how to respect men. Amen!
Either that or she’s been lusting after an imaginary man. There’s all these ridiculous women’s stories and books with some perfect ten guy with 6 pack abs, tons of money, dangerous, who loves some woman like a telenovela. All that passionate kisses and declarions of love. That isn’t reality. Maybe she thinks it is. I’m certain she could have trained the good man she had to know what she likes in the bedroom. He probably would have loved it if she told him what she wants And would have happily participated, unless it’s something extremely weird. What guy doesn’t want a woman to tell him she wants to be adventurous in the bedroom? See the issue is that women like her expect men to just know!
@@sammyD62 Funny thing is, we’re not African and the negroes in Africa don’t even identify themselves as being African. Can’t identify to something that has been handed from your so called oppressors.
Still can't believe you're gone, Mr. Samuels. Yesterday I was listening to your live stream. Today you're gone. Thank you for trying to make the community better, the men stronger and the women marriable
Sad isn't it bro. I can start a whole conversation in relation to your comment. Oh LORD, the stories I have 😨. Alot of black men, young and old, talk to me about this matter and ask "why?" I tell everyone of them, "unless you are lightskin and/or a bad guy making money living life wild, don't bother with our sistas" . How I know this, I work in the medical field so I see and hear some things.
Just got married to a traditional and conservative woman from Morocco 🇲🇦. I am in Morocco as I write this.. The entire family gave me the lord and king treatment.. Her father and uncles are highly respected and honored. This woman makes me melt with her femininity and I will do anything for her. Wore a tailored blue suit with a red bowtie that set it TF off. Praise be to Allah!
This type of dialogue has made me realize how us women have done each other a disservice by not calling out these ridiculous mindsets. Illogical, irrational and overly emotional thinking has been seen accepted widespread among us. For either fear of going against the grain by speaking out against foolishness or seeming to go against women. When in all actuality we'd really be saving us from ourselves.
I dated a black woman while back ago and couldn’t believe how disillusioned she was. Didn’t last very long but I do remember her saying how she’s going to be a boss lady or a queen something. It was then I decided I’m done dating black women. Nothing to do with skin color it was the mentality that was a big turnoff
I think you should be more specific...like a black American woman...or black Briton..etc. The word black is too encompassing as it includes Africans.....not that they are angels though
EXACTLY!!!! I thought by doing everything right I would be able to add to the community. I went to school, did not have any kids out of wedlock, met a woman spent 5 years with her married her had a kid when we where "ready" and she decided she was not happy and said it was my fault. I explained to her that I can not provide her happiness and that it comes from within. She swore that her happiness is my job and left. I found a white woman who loves the SHIT out of me (cook's, cleans is a GREAT monther and has a job) I'm blessed enough to make over 150K a year with an Engineering firm and thought I was doing everything right only to be left by my so called queen..... she is now a sigle mother who has our sone 50% of the time and tells me she thought we would get back together HAHAHAHAHAH yeah you hold this L and I'll see you later!
I think this is the main thing women need to hear. A lot of women are not happy with themselves so they think a man will make them happy.. and he may for a while but then she’s unhappy and she thinks marriage will make her happy .. and it does for a while but then she feels unhappy again and she thinks a baby will make her happy… and it will for a while and then she blames her unhappiness on the man, the marriage, the kids and leaves thinking being single again will make her happy (probably because she sees all her single friends living their “best” life and feels like she’s missing out on something)…. And it doesn’t.. I told a girl this before who was like this. You ask God for stuff thinking it will make you happy and you get it and still complain and sabotage it…. You will NEVER be happy because you will never be able to out run YOURSELF… you have work to do sis ! Congrats on your new wife and life 🥰
@@dpeagles because sometimes even coming back is a way to avoid the accountability of their actions when they realize they have sabotaged themselves. Some people literally refuse to deal with self
God bless you brother, you did what a lot of our black brothers are afraid to do, left your comfort zone(black women) hopped the fence and saw the grass was much greener with a white woman(another race in general). Well wishes to you and your family. And yo bm can kick rocks talking about some "i thought u were gonna come back." 🤣🤣✌️
I dumped my ex when she admitted she left her husband and divorced him (a doctor who earned $400K and was religious and great character) after 10 years because "she deserved better"... 🏃♂️
I’ve been told the same thing after being with someone 8 years.. I’m engaged looking forward to marrying the woman I’m with now. And the person who told me I didn’t satisfy her after 8 years is still single after 8 years of us being separated. 🤷🏽♂️ is sex SERIOUSLY that important that you’d throw everything away? 🤔
If it was someone not being satisfied, then it is on them to communicate and teach their partner the proper way. But if it is someone in a marriage who has been starved of intimacy and sex...bail, not because sex is so important, but because that is a sign of a selfish or abusive person who uses sex and intimacy as a weapon.
It ain't the sex, she just wanted to try something new. That's that masculine energy that they have been thought. So that's why I say Women are just like Men if given the same options and training. So it comes down to morals, life experience, etc etc etc. But Kevin was definitely trying to start restoring some values.
Exactly why do ppl be putting sex first place why i just do not get it i have had amazing sex but i would trade amazing sex without hesitation for a respectful hard working MAN hands down. Sex can always be improved always there's so many things out there for that
@@m2goofy760 women do that but still should be addressed through communication, yet you also bail if there's children, you really listening to KS!? Sex being withheld needs therapy & communication as there's deeper underlying issues, just bailing is weak...
Mr. Samuels is so perceptive. My wife and I have been married 44 years. There are time she complains about our boring life. When she does, I actively pursue something she enjoys, even if I hate it. She has been my sweetheart for decades and she still wants to hold hands and such stuff that most of us guys could care less about. Husbands want respect and sex, in that order. Women want security and romance. These different needs seldom dovetail. Mothers, single or married...you are doing your daughters a terrible disservice if you give them just plain wrong expectations, either by your words or your actions, about men and marriage.
@ironmike nothing wrong with what you said but it tends to align more with your life and not everyone's life is the same. Many people have different reasons am sure that alot of people will agree with you online but the reality is we love for different purposes and being from u.k I can tell you over a few things k.s has mastered a few things by not downgrading women but by making them see the wrong and yhh the truth hurts.
A bit of perspective: I've been: -living in the SAME apartment for almost 10 years...and I'm not bored of having a roof over my head. Or using the same fridge to keep my food, or the same toilet to relieve myself or the same bed to rest.... -Cashing my salary on the SAME bank over 8 years...and I'm not bored of using the same ATM's, or pin code. -Quite healthy and strong for MOST if my life (thank God)...and I'm not bored of it......Etc.etc.etc. I'm not bored of opening the SAME faucet with TWO FINGERS!!....and get some clean fresh water anytime 24/7.....and not needing to walk a mile etc..to some river, everyday, carrying a container, etc.etc So many benefits that we enjoy daily....and we take it for granted... Being ungrateful , it's a disgusting trait.
@@nobione08 Appreciated. Sometimes, when it's cold outside or it rains, I like to stand on the balcony for a while, until I feel cold...then I think: -I can keep the rain/cold away just by closing the windows,...and by taking 2 steps backwards I'm under a roof.........in a heated space...with running hot water, clean towels, clean clothes, enough food in the fridge to feed 10 people maybe..etc.etc. It might be a bit extreme, and some could say even "masochistic", but is just a simple "reality check" technique (how will I feel not having such and such confort or benefit available?) As a result, not only I feel at peace, but even if a bad situation occurs, the shock won't be that hard, as I have the possibility of it present in my mind. It allows me to stay alert, be thankful, feel truly content, able to appreciate and enjoy things continuously as if they're new.
Most Black American women are psychologically stuck in adolescence, so they want to always be in a state of joy and entertainment. By college White, Asian, Jewish, Arab, Latina women want set up a BORING safe, stable life with a man and start of family. While for Black women, the adventure is just beginning, the carousel music just started playing.
I’m not black but I love our black brothers and sisters and in my opinion Kevin is aiming to fix things on a high level. We all are blessed to have him and his guidance towards a better society for all. Thanks for all that you do brother. May God bless you 🙏
As a blk man who has spent 33 years on this earth, I fully agree to what mr samuels is saying. Blk men have a plethora of options when it comes to dating. In my teen years I tried with blk women but I was considered a nerd,spoke white,not ghetto and too educated for a blk male. Well after striking out in the blk community I found myself in Germany at the age of 19 with every other race prizing me for those same attributes. I ended up marrying my German wife at age 24. 2 kids later and I’m still proud of my decision. Don’t think you are limited blk men. So many other races prize you when your own don’t. Perfect example of “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure!”
This deserves 1k homie, congrats from 1 black brotha to another. I been seeing and saying this for years. So.e middle eastern and Hispanic love us and share our views of life. Our women want us only after we cross our finish line and GOD forbid drama isn't apart of our lifestyle, good luck trying to keep her loyal to you.
I’m sorry but “a product of your environment” is a cop out. My mom was a single mother until she remarried when I was in elementary school. I’m grateful for my stepfather because my biological father passed away and I never knew him. Instead of letting these things produce fear, I strived for better and stayed positive as I wanted to be a wife and mother (in that order). I am married with 3 kids born in wedlock and I will do whatever it takes to instill positive family values in my children and I’m happy I have a husband who values the same. A two parent household is so important.
The amount of patience Kevin has is astounding. You can tell how most of us men are not physically and mentally able to put up with this level of insanity.
She left him for sex. Dude made more money than her, was obviously attractive enough to hold her attention for a decade and her deal breaker was the sex? Something that can be improved upon through communication and practice? He had her time, attention and the resources to provide but she was still discontent because she thought she could do better. That's incredibly foolish, but many women would congratulate this behavior. Yet they complain " where are all the good men?".
@@satorsaeed it's forbidden in all religion and the reason u understand very well all abrahmic faiths ( Jew Christian Islam ) and dharmic faiths ( Hindu , Jain Sikh and Buddhist )
I've been married for 23 yrs. If women think that they're gonna be having circus sex forever, you're out of your damn mind! Life takes over and that takes a back burner for both people. Im 45 and he's 47. I lost both parents and he's lost one. Cancer runs deep in both families and we don't even have kids! Older adults need us everyday...we just hold each and hope for one more day with each other. When KS says die alone, women should think long and hard about what that means!!
Tell em sis. I've been married for 11 years. My wife was sick for 2 years. Even now we have to plan weeks in advance, hire a nanny, and book a hotel so that we can have some alone time. Nobody's life is perfect.
@@blasiankiki7831 I never said it couldn't be done. Our minds are just focused on something else everyday. Now, don't get it twisted, we both know how to make it happen in 10-15 mins flat! Im referring to the KS video where she left a good man for sex. Or lack there of....
Ive been watching this man for 2 years straight and my life perspective has completely switched the positive male role model i never had i know we all have to die one day but he went way too soon 💯💯💯
The great thing about Kevin is his ability to simplify the kaotic mess of a life these women lead while blaming it on the man . This video is an excellent learning tool to aide men in making proper decisions while vetting these crazy women.
@@coricb94 yeah he was off with this because all that would happen culturally the Black American culture will continue but the black genetics will be bred out however I think his point is to shock black women into reality and not actually believes in the black man can only hack black kids not mixed kids etc, one drop rule etc.
Grass is always greener. Instead of working through the hard stuff in life TOGETHER, my exwife of 12yrs decided that starting new relationships other men was more important than working together.
It's weird and amazing at the same time to see how women also bond together around his comment section, showing that he might have had a large group of delusional women he was attending to... but definitely not everyone. And to say something bad about myself: feeling the need to comment even though you've shown great value in listening to the same words I listened to in the video 😂
"I'm not Haaaappy" is the final call of a woman at the wall about to destroy her life to pursue childish impulses. Women who do this deserve where they end up sad, lonely, and miserable. She left a guy who busted his ass and likely put up with her issues and boss girl bs for a decade. She left because she wasn't "happy", she looks really happy now boohooing in her car full of regret. Hopefully, he's living it up rich buried in some 20-year-old tight-bodied girl every night whose pleasant. Gentlemen as a 40-year-old almost six-figure dude who came from nothing it hurts when they leave but women like this are holding you back and it's a blessing in disguise. Every ex who left me has BEGGED to come back, I never let them. 3.9B women on the planet, she's not special you just don't know enough women. This man Kevin knows what he's talking about unlike 90% of the idiots spewing advice.
Two things he knows more than 99.9+ and the next time you want to say something about how many women on this planet don't say 3.9b there are children and old ladies and women in relationships. just say at least it's in the millions
I feel that. I'm not the type to force a relationship, but when we talking 1/10th of my lifespan being spent on this relationship on top of being in the late game of adulthood. You staying right where you are.
That's the reason why you don't cheat. She cheated and it's led her life into chaos. She was okay with the sex for ten years until she cheated. I know she cheated because it took her this long to realise she could not go on with their sex life. When you are faithful, it's yourself you are doing a favour not your partner.
As much as woman see this it should help but it’s like they just don’t give a f*** aa I always say a woman will sleep in a dumpster on the side of the road JUST TO HAVE HER OWN WAY! SMH 🤦🏾♂️
This is extremely high value content. I love the honesty from Kevin. He has no problem telling women how it is and i absolutely frikkin love that. Keep up the honesty. Tell them how it is.
I stumbled on this and I have to say, that was a fascinating conversation. Kevin, I hope that after she hung up, she spent the next 3 hrs pondering what you said and started looking at what she could do to change. She seemed like a quality woman, her priorities just need to be shifted and she could be a wonderful wife and mother, but as you said, not if she wants to be "independent" and chasing the fairy tale.
I was just about to make a comment somewhat mirroring your sentiment, brother. Initially, I find myself having a modicum of sympathy for women like her because we can see the trajectory they're on. However, that pity quickly evaporates once it becomes apparent she refuses to do the heavy lifting to get the outcome she wants. So sad.
The woman is the extreme version of someone with daddy issues and a toxic mother who grew up just to be like her. Growing up hating men because her daddy wasn’t around and idolizing her mom because she “stuck around”. There’s no hope for her because the time she seeks the therapy she needs, she’ll hit the wall.
I got a close friend that makes $250,000 a year. He had a girlfriend that lived with him for four years. All she had to do was wake up and get whatever she wanted. She left him because she was bored now she will be poor the rest of her life.
Ohhh ok. Yeah money isn’t everything. You didn’t say how he treated her or anything about that….at least she didn’t stay with him to use him. Sometimes ppl jus aren’t compatible.
His “character” was good enough that she spent 10 years with the man. The majority of us women believe that there’s always another chance of finding a man and not growing old alone. And because of that belief, we become extremely bitter when it doesn’t transpire!
@@prettyboy1970 oh your poor thing, we’re you raised by a single mother? Because your feelings are showing through. No not every woman and I’ve spent a lifetime trying to convince women about that falsehood. Good luck
Well the cute ones or ones with "assets" always have a belief that they can snag a great man who will take care of them at any time of their life. On the other hand A woman that society has deemed "ugly" or "undesirable" knows that if she she is fortunate to get a breadwinner willing to take care of her, she better not dump him for risk she will spend many years alone. What makes attractive women think they will always be in position to find a man who will take care of her is the attention they get from men at a young age. Attractive young females come across many good males at birth(daddy spoils her) then when she is in middle school the males there are coming after her hard. When so many males are throwing attention/validation and gifts to a woman without her having to do much but be pretty, it's easy to float into a mindset that their will always be at least one breadwinning man waiting to make her life easy. Truth is, As she ages, most breadwinning men her age have been tied to another woman who drained something from him(his money, his mind, his spirit) and he doesn't want to take on another woman like that. And an older woman is stubbornly set in her ways. Unfortunately it's a feminist mindset which is very unattractive to older men. Besides that, if he has kept his body presentable, a lot of younger women are open towards him. I personally have had no problem attracting women and at age 50, I have attractive older women orbit me or straight out shoot me their phone number ....but it's their mindset that prevents me from calling. The independent feminist mindset that women have been groomed by since they were little girls has "Hardened " women and is very unattractive.
@@bullydakidd2023 since the dawn of Instagram filters and social media, ugly chicks think they are pretty too. There is no longer any difference. Besides, the hypergamous mindset is a woman's natural instinct, it is not some sort of personality trait that develops, it's always there waiting tk be activated.
Kevin's observation about black women and non-black men is 100% on target. I've noticed on the dating apps, I have approximately a +2 SMV pull as a non-black man when dealing with black women. A black woman who is a solid 8 is as easy to pull as a white 6.
Women don’t see how much we bring into society and their lives in general. They don’t do shit for us, but give us headaches and bills. But men don’t need women, we just want them.
Black women heard the line “black women are goddesses” so many times that they actually believe they’re queens and above God. Kevin you have the patience of Job trying to save this community but there’s no hope. Our “leaders” are leading us off a cliff..
You are so right Brother. The Bullshit about this Queen crap has these women dillusional. Common sense would tell anybody 20 million Slave decendants are not Queens.
over 80 percent born to single baby mamas - Depressing i feel like all hope is gone. there is no rebab for this evil that has gripped the blk family. the devil sunk its teeth into the black family in 1965 and wont let go I FEEL SO LOST & HOPELESS
The sister code is so powerful. She thinks it's logical that bw are more important than the Black community. Even when it's explained that Black men could make Black Families without bw. She'd rather stick to the sister code than except reality & logic.
@What Ever A rebellious woman is always a detriment to the community. She will place her own selfish desire to “do her own thing” above the best interest of everyone around her.
Criminals have told judges this before sentencing. "I sold drugs, stole, became a drug addict, murdered BECAUSE I AM A PRODUCT OF MY ENVIRONMENT." They don't understand that millions of others grew up in that same environment but through tough times fought hard to become "successful" without having to sell drugs, use drugs , steal, or murder"
‘We die younger then you do. We are not going to wait until y’all are ready’. He was right. I hope he got the most out of his life when he still could.
"I am a product of my environment" means "it's everybody else's fault that I am who I am". No, it's not true. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for your own actions.
you cannot fix yourself, if your it is every one else's fault, and honestly no one else cares enough to "fix the problem" for you. accepting responsibility is the only real path to a better future, regardless of whether or not it is actually someone else's fault, you can only move forward by accepting full responsibility.
I miss this man already and he's not been gone long! It would be nice and probably a big hit to have some of these women back to see where they're at today! Just an Idea but I'm sure the veiws would be off the charts!
This was not a sex issue that ended this relationship. It does not take ten years to figure out the sex isn’t satisfying. She is super picky and thinks it’s cute. I always say, BW don’t have standards, they have unrealistic prerequisites!! She is leaving something out and using bad sex as her default! Would love to hear his side of the story.
I know the truth.....she was a "Big Block" for the last 10 years and recently just had Gastric Weight-loss Surgery....now he ain't good enough cause she feeling herself.
@@blackbilldancerva3177 Shit is wild. A good friend of mine ex wife had that surgery and after she healed completely, she divorced him. Shes getting attention from men that wouldn’t even look her way when she was four hundred and fifty plus pounds. Took him three years to get over her.
Never prioritize your woman she comes second, third, fourth fifth. Never first, put yourself & business over her & she’ll want to join the ride. With this global market it’s how you got to move well if you want to be married or in a relationship long term with women. Nowadays they want a best friend who they can have sex with & do things they do wit girlfriends. They want a partner well women who are well off do.
Facts I've been telling people this....and they never believe it....until I lay it all our for em. Most of them don't really want to be in a real relationship. They want to be able to live a single styled life...while requiring a man's commitment. That's where the deal is falling apart
"if I had a man who offered 75% of what I wanted, I would submit" girl! You had that. The man you had offered everything except one thing and that was sex.
What I find funny is that at 37 she believes she will find that man...oh and that he will somehow see 75% of what he wants in a woman with her mindset. The delusions... sigh
What I find funny is that at 37 she believes she will find that man...oh and that he will somehow see 75% of what he wants in a woman with her mindset. The delusions... sigh. Femininity is not a switch you turn on and off.
The 16:20 mark is all men, black or white, need to know. Kevin: "Is the black community continuing more important than the black woman?" Woman: "No." This is gold, because it applies to women of every color if they were raised in America's feminized culture. Men, protect yourselves from these modern women. And protect your brothers if you see them getting themselves in trouble with these women. And if you're a man, every other man is your brother, regardless of his skin color. Stick together and look out for each other.
Wish I could fully go with that. History (recent) tells me to be selective with my inner circle. There are a group of peeps that went to great lengths to ensure these issues that plague black people.
Ha I'm not getting into all that gender team bs. You do you imma do me. Some of us just trying to get better paying jobs and upgrade their lives. Then again I ain't top 20% so I guess most of this stuff doesn't really apply to a dusty like me lol
This woman is beautiful and has a gentle spirit. My heart breaks realizing that feminism and social media has almost surely ruined her chances for a real family & legacy.
She is a disloyal 304. Nothing more. All bla bla bla is bull shit. Left her man for sex. If you know a little bit about woman's nature you'd know she cheated for a while until the next guy was ready for a relationship. New guy only wanted the ass and not the 304 woman. Rinse and repeat
Now this was a good conversation. I'm 30 and single. And I don't want to be. I never thought I'd be single at this age....but I grew up in one of those households where we were taught, get your degree, worry about boys later, stay away from men, etc. I was a very obedient kid, and never took the time to go through that "rebellious" stage of bucking the system or thinking what if. It hit me really hard around 3-4 years ago that wow.....I CAN want something different. I DO have control over my life and what I want for myself. I am NOT ashamed of wanting to be in a relationship and get married. Since then, I've been actively working towards positioning myself for marriage. It has lifted a different weight off of my shoulders and I see more clearly now than I ever have. I wish I'd had this awakening much sooner, but at least I'm being proactive now. Being married does not have to mean losing yourself to your family and your husband. It should actually ENRICH your life. But thats where you have to do the work to ensure it actually happens and not just leave things to chance. Ladies, BLACK ladies especially.....please please wake up. Before it's too late. For your sake, for our sake, for our COMMUNITY'S sake.
That is so sad that so many black parents give their daughters that advice and don't care when they are unmarried later in life having to manage a household alone as a single woman It's hard for a woman to be alone in her 30's 40's 50's.
Marriage to a good husband never makes a woman lose herself. If anything it makes her better. A woman's purpose on this planet is a man. Your husband completes you.
You definitely still have time. I know the pressure is on, but better to realize now than later. At 30, I was still in pursuit of knowledge and putting serious commitment on the backburner.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: Give a man a studio apartment, internet, and some Ramen noodles, he'll figure out a way to be happy. Give a modern woman a mansion, and everything she asks for, she'll figure out a way to be miserable.
Wow
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Sad but true.
@michael that’s so f in true
Damn straight
Let's be honest. She probably was "bored" with the relationship and felt like she can do better.
What women don't understand is sometimes "bored" can equal peace. Like I can be perfectly happy with my woman at the house watching power together but to women it's "ughhh we don't ever do anything"
Unrealistic era. Routine equals success! Instant gratification mindset is the norm nowadays
Precisely
Bro you got it 100% right
people dont embrace peace and boredom enough. its always better than fun mixed in with chaos and toxicity. people dont know how to entertain themselves and enjoy living.
And when you do do something. Right after you DO that thing. It’s back to we don’t anything AGAIN. They have recent memory loss. You can take your lady to Jamaica and before you even land back in the states, she’ll say we don’t ever go anywhere lol smh
After 14 years and 2 toddlers, wife dipped on me because she never got to “experience” life. I started as a cable guy. I’m a lawyer now. We grew up struggling together. The pain from the betrayal is indescribable. The removal of my kids from our home to her mother’s is the most painful part.
sorry to hear that man you will find a woman will love and respect you
sorry to hear you got played like that bruv. i have a question for you, did you always want to be a lawyer or did you become a lawyer to please her? were you happy as a cable guy? was she happy with you being a cable guy? i don't mean to sound mean here but it sounds to me like she pushed you to make more money, waited till you made more money to have the kids then dipped with your money and your kids. she played you like a god damn fiddle if she was the one pushing you to make more. sounds like she had all this planned out.
And that’s why I won’t be getting married anytime soon or ever
Sorry to hear this man , i can’t imagine how you feel
50% custody?
@@texasgoddess323 3/7
Never seen a man caring about their race this much. I'm middle Eastern and not at all offended. He's speaking facts I hope all
Women from all races hear this and understand it.
Yeah, he cared deeply for black women and black men. Healthy and fulfilling marriages are the backbone of a community. Yet most of the modern women didn't want to hear the truth and apply it to change their outcomes.
Both women and men should listen.
in the middle east for the most part (at least in my country) the fathers teach their daughters and keep them in check on the line.
BW are lost...save yourself the pain and misery...MGTOW or passports..this is the way
@@lukmanalghdamsi3189same with the Hispanic community
Took her TEN YEARS to figure out the sex was trash?
Is she remotely competent to even marry??
Bet the time she slept with a different person who’s good in bed. Then compared that good one to the person who was committed to her for 10 years.
sad part is she thinks 37 year old her has the same value as 27 year old her, so many black women do.
She sweet but she has some cheat in her I can see it lol
@AZME Perhaps. Hard to tell tho when it was the first thing that came out of her mouth.
She was most likely getting the sex elsewhere the entire time so she didn't care as long as he kept spending his money on her. No she's not fit for marriage.
Women intentionally set out to be mothers without husbands, then later cry about the struggles and ask for help. 😩 Open your eyes, You're creating the men you complain about.
dropping gems
Amen🙏🏿 bro why is it that grown up women can not understand this .......I mean it's so got damn simple but they want to fight it to the death
They love to say "mom first" lol...I'm like how peanut Jr even get here mam...that was ur husband
Big facts!
Yessss!!!!
It breaks my heart to know we didn't give this absolute beautiful spirit of concerning direction for the black community his flowers while he was here and that the women who bash him have no idea what the hell he was trying to accomplish
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*Human community
@@---H_M Sounds nice but the Godfather was focusing on the black community
They had plenty idea. But they’re insatiable and hate to be told what to do even if it’s the right thing
This is masterful. Firm, full of facts, calm. Rip Kevin. You are dearly missed. As a middle aged white woman, I’ve been married 23 years and i have learned a lot watching you. I still want to be a better wife to my hard working husband, he deserves it and I will try til my dying day to please him. Wake up ladies. Ty KS
👏🏾👏🏾KS RIP
Oh gosh I didn't know. This guy is a national treasure. Frankly I want to watch more of him, so I can learn how to keep women from pulling bs (shifting blame etc). Women are good at manipulating; took some suffering for me to learn not be gaslit, Kevin could have saved me from that.
Thank you for gettin’ it & for lovin’ ur husband 👑♥️👑♥️
I feel the same way. I have been married for nine years, and when I watch Kevin's videos I realize that I can be a better wife. I am married to a man who loves me and our daughter more than anything.
It’s an eye opener to see that you follow KS when you shouldn’t even know who he is.
I was once engaged to a woman who had a problem with the fact that "we didn't fight and argue over irrelevant stuff". That was when I knew this aint gon' work. I value my peace more than all the sex in the world. Women seriously underestimate our desire for PEACE.
Good for u Man. 💯💪🏾
@Kᴇᴠɪɴ Sᴀᴍᴜᴇʟꜱ▫️ I do not engage scammers.
@Sharon N. Lizarraga think youve taken a wrong turn somewhere.
This.
How can people deliberately choose drama over happiness is beyond me
Us men have accepted alot from modern women , but hearing it from the source over and over again stays enlightening.
We have to adjust and the majority of us will.
Confirms my sanity for sure. Been saying this some BS for a decade.
Sensitive men need to wake up n be men we kings👑
Not all blah blah blah. I love the constant reminders. I fall for women too easily, so seeing them talk in a way i would never hear helps a lot.
@@smexyapman seeking counseling or therapy to diagnose the root of that psychosis would also help
It’s women like her that give us the opportunity to appreciate what they take for granted 💯
Great answer!!!!! Other women are picking up what black women leave behind! ..speaking from experience being a black male
@@brennangilbert3332 oh, word?😅
lol
It is women like her who caused most men to nit want to marry. Now you will be single forever. Don't encourage this bull shit.
Yes
If we based everything on happiness me and my husband of 18 years would have been divorced at least 2 or 3 times by now. Marriage is indeed work but it has been worth it.
from what i see the rewards come later in life. The broken families hate when others stick together I just experienced it this weekend.
You let him hit it raw. You didn’t have second thoughts. Now you a single mom. You said imma have this kid. Don’t care if he’s here or nah. Now you a single mom. There ain’t no good men but these bitches stay pregnant.
If you go out of your way to be a single mother, you can’t come back later and complain about how hard it is being a single mother.
They str8 clowns
When you complain, you make yourself a victim. Leave the situation, change the situation, or accept it. All else is madness. - Eckhart Tolle
I mean you cant but they will lol just like people who dont vote still complain about people in power
KABOOM!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
Facts!!!!!!
My husband and I have been married for 14 years. Sometimes things get so comfortable that it may seem boring to some women. To me, it means we have reached a certain level of contentment and respect with each other. I adore this man more than ever and I can't imagine being with any one else.
damn that's poetic......Most Men really want this. What do women really want?
We need to clone your brain and put it in other women. Congrats!
Same here sis. (I keep saying we're coming up on thirty years, but I JUST found out that we both forgot our anniversary for the 29 th time!)
"Boring" equals no drama peace and security.
(I can't wait to tell the hubby we both forgot again! It's the longest running joke in our church lol!)
Amen!!
I can never forget that scene in A Beautiful Mind. Alicia Nash went through so so much to be Mrs. Nash, dealt with John‘s Schizophrenia for years. He even physically attacked her during one episode which I considered reason enough to leave him at the time. But she knew what kind of a man that she married and she stood by him through all of the frustration and pain as she vowed to. They grew old together, and he got better. I bawled in the end when he won the Nobel Prize and he thanked her for supporting him through every thing. That’s what marriage is, no one can tell me that it’s just a piece of paper.
My ex divorced me because we only had a 2 bedroom house and when I got hurt at work she had to go full time and for 2 months she made more than me for the first time in 7 years. I paid 90% of her college. She was also a stay at home wife and didn’t have to work. After the divorce, she married another guy who gave her a 4 bedroom house and everyone around her, especially women congratulate her for upgrading. Nobody shames her that she broke the covenant… she still goes to the same church we were at. I thought marrying an independent woman was fun but nobody counseled me the difference between a wife and a mercenary. My second marriage covenant/wife was #1 on my list. Independent woman was my #1 deal breaker…
You dodged a bullet with the first one there Vinny
Never pay for a woman's school. Man or woman, need to have a vehicle, her/his own place (not living with parents or siblings) and she needs to have her/his own job/employment for the past 3 years
Wow 🙏
The Lessons we have to learn in life. Makes us very wise men. Platforms like this will teach the younger generation not to do what we been through.
Be a swinger ✌️
Kevin couldn’t be more right. I am a 21 yr old female watching this and using this as a guideline for what I don’t want to happen to me. He couldn’t have said it more perfectly. No money and education can suffice enough to replace relationships and family. Thank you Kevin for having this show. It really is an eye opener for young black woman.
No amount of money and education *
@@jellyj1269 Me and my wife started watching his videos at age 23 and it had help us out through our marriage since we got married last year.
True.
Remember, if he can support you and your family and is loyal to you - he's more than good enough.
As long as you're supportive and loyal, he'll be fine with you.
I love hearing my husband say that I belong to him. That’s a complete turn on. My husband gets whatever he wants. Submission, favor, respect, honor & great lovin. 10 yrs & counting…💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I know what you mean 😏 🥰
Now that's how it's supposed to be.. sadly I haven't found a woman worth saying that to.. I'm with a girl I'm pretending to like.. I'm thinking bout cutting her lose..and her sex is pathetic.. the starfish type
You have a cousin like that? Lol.
Shyt,, you got any sisters🤣, nah but for real that's priceless...
@Sasha Taylor … What’s suppose to happen? Lbvs
We have each other’s info, passwords, email info etc … 🤷🏽♀️
Her: I want to see the black community prosper.
Also her: I don’t want to make the sacrifices and investments to see it prosper.
Modern feminists are for the nuclear family
You can't make this shit up..smdh
Pure Gold
Literally the worst of the worst kinda women
Modern Black women in a nutshell
"For a man to lead he needs a woman to follow" Truth.
RIP Kevin you were THE GOAT
Props to the lady for sticking through it. Looks like she was finally seeing what she did was wrong and how she messed up. When you go into a relationship looking for love, lust and sex you’ll always lose in the end. A relationship is more than just physical, it’s partnership.
Its not a partnership for a alpha male only a beta like you. A alpha is a leader that gets followed by hes wife we protect her emotionally physically and financially. She talks when talken too my final word is my final word. my decisions she follows she can give advise on my decision but my word is final. This is not a partner its love between a powerful man and hes wife.
@@ronaldo-cp1fo Wow that’s hella cringe kid, calling yourself an alpha. Nobody needs a mindless individual following them around like a lost puppy with separation issues. That’s a pet, not a wife. You need to reevaluate what you consider a partnership, stop listening to Fresh n fit and listen to those who have successful marriages, real heads of households, and learn what a real man is. No real man calls himself an Alpha.
@@randomhobbyist99 go find a woman as a partner see how you get on nice guy
Yeah she's a trooper. Could've easily cut it short. But the truth is like medicine. And medicine usually doesn't taste good
He never let her explain...?
My mother died alone. 6 kids 6 different baby fathers. She was so so soo masculine it was as if we were raised under a Female hyena and all the men were just there to be told what to do. I thank Jehovah for Kevin cause this is much needed. I learned more from Kevin than my own damn father🤦🏿♂️
My mom from 40-70 was alone they won't learn. Alot of women won't see till too late.
Same. Respect.
Yea I've learned more too.
Brutal honesty... good thing you see her mistakes...
Calling your mother a female Hyena says a lot about you. You can state your opinion without this awful name-calling.
All I can say is, WOMEN please listen! I wAS married at 22 and STILL for 15 years NOW! This man is giving Us good, free advice. I’ll continue to watch to keep my marriage. But HAPPINESS COMES LATER LADIES AFTER THE WORK!
Tell them again!
Amen to that!
that's what they don't get, they want instant gratification and a constant roller-coaster of emotions and excitement.
Can you imagine what this woman could have built with that man over 10 years.?
Sorry sis. You know our women n how difficult it is to get through that skull. They say one thing but will have a baby spilt in half bc they can’t get what they want.
"You belong to me and the child belongs to you, and I belong to God". Classic! RIP.
One of the best conversations I've ever heard...RIP my brother
I’m not black. But I value the way this man communicates, handles himself, encourages men to be men and women to be women. Honestly, I feel there are so many feminine men of every race it’s nice to have a man who is acting as an ambassador for us who are trying to be masculine and honorable.
Facts💯
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Truth.
From a black man. Same problems bro. All our women are tripping.
This comment 🎯🎯🎯
If the man had bad character, that would’ve been the first thing she said. The fact that she paused when asked about character and decided to lie is the biggest red flag any future man in her life needs to see. That’s you she’s gonna trash in front of millions next when you don’t hit it good enough.
Most men just have their turn with women got to just enjoy the ride
They will constantly move the goal post to be right and make the man the bad guy.
Try 4444 ru
At least she seems perfectly honest about her qualifications to buy a frog and die alone
Faxxxx
Felt like listening to KS today, his spirit will live on for a very long time, what a voice of reason he was! Rest well Mr.Samuels…
Im middle eastern and my husband is black, and he s happy with me because being a submissive loyal wife is even a part of our culture and religion, and it makes us know our role and our duty in life, we women should not have to fight for leadership because rythme of life is opposite of what feminism want , and against nature too
It s not going to work out you ll suffer you can not be man and women at the same time, take your role and be proud of it
Young women don’t put good man to the side when h r young because you want to have fun, because that good man deserves you when you still virgine and when you still young he does not all other men
Did you mean feminism or femininity? because it is exactly what feminism wants
black African cultures are like that as well
@@TheLala0077 when and where lol? smh
Damn. Now it makes sense to me. You worded an ick of mine so well, Lili.
I had once read a story about a woman who was 20-21 or so, and she found the perfect dude, even her spiteful to boyfriends parents liked this amazing boyfriend. He was everything to them. And she acknowledged she absolutely adored him, but she felt like she wanted to see the rest of the world. So she left him, on the premise of coming back later and finding a different man that could be there for her just as much as he would be. I never got an update on the situation
My tummy feeling was that she was leaving an extraordinary man to chase an adventure. She gave up the best man possible and suitable in her life for an adventure. And since she was free to do so, she got on it and gave up the best husband material, even for her parents who never liked a single guy
My feeling was... how can you do that? How can you leave your guy like that? You deserve better, man. But I felt selfish when I thought about that
Now reading on your story, I'm like, of course! That's it! It's because things work for different people, and it'd probably explain why I'm not attracted to a certain style of women. I don't want to be controlling, I want to give them their freedom, but if they can't control their urges, then how do I know when they're going to flip flop on me? A boring lady who's only interested in getting the best for the family, asking about our days and the children's and man's wellbeing is someone I love to be around with. Ironically, I've found this in an African-American... US lady... while I'm from the Netherlands. It's insane how she was like, "This is my boyfriend, and I can be happy with him." She did not believe in the fairy tale. She was actually that person that you're describing to me. You deserve the best of the whole goddamn world and I'm happy your culture knows how to respect men. Amen!
This woman cheated on her man . There’s no way you suddenly leave someone after 10 whole years because the sex was trash lol
She wanted dirty Rodney, but he was broke with to many kids.
Unless the sex was better with....
Someone else. Unbelievable when all these women complain about men cheating.
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She said it was “on and off” for ten years. She’s riding the carousel of different men but takes breaks with a man who’s sex she doesn’t like.
Either that or she’s been lusting after an imaginary man. There’s all these ridiculous women’s stories and books with some perfect ten guy with 6 pack abs, tons of money, dangerous, who loves some woman like a telenovela. All that passionate kisses and declarions of love. That isn’t reality. Maybe she thinks it is.
I’m certain she could have trained the good man she had to know what she likes in the bedroom. He probably would have loved it if she told him what she wants And would have happily participated, unless it’s something extremely weird. What guy doesn’t want a woman to tell him she wants to be adventurous in the bedroom? See the issue is that women like her expect men to just know!
As a Pan-Afrikan that was a VERY solid question "how can you put the black woman's sole interests above the black community's survival". Bars!
Curious, why did you mention "PanAfrikan" in ur statement?
@@br3wskee to highlight the priority of community being instrumental to Pan-Afrikan ideology.
@@sammyD62 absolutely correct!!!! Saved me the trouble. Much appreciated!
@@sammyD62 Funny thing is, we’re not African and the negroes in Africa don’t even identify themselves as being African. Can’t identify to something that has been handed from your so called oppressors.
@@junwill703 curious, what do the negroes in Africa identify as?
Still can't believe you're gone, Mr. Samuels. Yesterday I was listening to your live stream. Today you're gone.
Thank you for trying to make the community better, the men stronger and the women marriable
What's heartbreaking is realizing how many of them really think like this after all we went through....we can't even have our own women.
Sad isn't it bro. I can start a whole conversation in relation to your comment. Oh LORD, the stories I have 😨. Alot of black men, young and old, talk to me about this matter and ask "why?" I tell everyone of them, "unless you are lightskin and/or a bad guy making money living life wild, don't bother with our sistas" . How I know this, I work in the medical field so I see and hear some things.
Why would you want one?
Just got married to a traditional and conservative woman from Morocco 🇲🇦. I am in Morocco as I write this.. The entire family gave me the lord and king treatment.. Her father and uncles are highly respected and honored. This woman makes me melt with her femininity and I will do anything for her. Wore a tailored blue suit with a red bowtie that set it TF off. Praise be to Allah!
Congrats man...
Is she a stay at home wife
Alhamdulillah!
@@tonyawilliams6983 no she is a chemist and a mathematician
@@ulyssesflaggiii2121 thanks bro
This type of dialogue has made me realize how us women have done each other a disservice by not calling out these ridiculous mindsets. Illogical, irrational and overly emotional thinking has been seen accepted widespread among us. For either fear of going against the grain by speaking out against foolishness or seeming to go against women. When in all actuality we'd really be saving us from ourselves.
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Well you definitely hit the nail on the head mam...hopefully this logic can spread
Thanks for your so true wise words!
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Thank you!!!!!!
I dated a black woman while back ago and couldn’t believe how disillusioned she was. Didn’t last very long but I do remember her saying how she’s going to be a boss lady or a queen something. It was then I decided I’m done dating black women. Nothing to do with skin color it was the mentality that was a big turnoff
Agreed black women Really believe we have to accept them just because they are black! They honestly believe they are perfect 🤦🏾♂
@@Raider_Sage If they are like white women they are perfectly ugly in character.
Good for you. Congrats
Terrible idea chip on shoulder syndrome,masculine,con artists
I think you should be more specific...like a black American woman...or black Briton..etc. The word black is too encompassing as it includes Africans.....not that they are angels though
Man 🤦🏾♂️ RIP to KS. He was doing great things for Our community. I learned plenty from the Man. Salute 💪🏾
EXACTLY!!!! I thought by doing everything right I would be able to add to the community. I went to school, did not have any kids out of wedlock, met a woman spent 5 years with her married her had a kid when we where "ready" and she decided she was not happy and said it was my fault. I explained to her that I can not provide her happiness and that it comes from within. She swore that her happiness is my job and left. I found a white woman who loves the SHIT out of me (cook's, cleans is a GREAT monther and has a job) I'm blessed enough to make over 150K a year with an Engineering firm and thought I was doing everything right only to be left by my so called queen..... she is now a sigle mother who has our sone 50% of the time and tells me she thought we would get back together HAHAHAHAHAH yeah you hold this L and I'll see you later!
I think this is the main thing women need to hear. A lot of women are not happy with themselves so they think a man will make them happy.. and he may for a while but then she’s unhappy and she thinks marriage will make her happy .. and it does for a while but then she feels unhappy again and she thinks a baby will make her happy… and it will for a while and then she blames her unhappiness on the man, the marriage, the kids and leaves thinking being single again will make her happy (probably because she sees all her single friends living their “best” life and feels like she’s missing out on something)…. And it doesn’t.. I told a girl this before who was like this. You ask God for stuff thinking it will make you happy and you get it and still complain and sabotage it…. You will NEVER be happy because you will never be able to out run YOURSELF… you have work to do sis !
Congrats on your new wife and life 🥰
Wow. They always think they can come back.
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@@dpeagles because sometimes even coming back is a way to avoid the accountability of their actions when they realize they have sabotaged themselves. Some people literally refuse to deal with self
God bless you brother, you did what a lot of our black brothers are afraid to do, left your comfort zone(black women) hopped the fence and saw the grass was much greener with a white woman(another race in general). Well wishes to you and your family. And yo bm can kick rocks talking about some "i thought u were gonna come back." 🤣🤣✌️
I dumped my ex when she admitted she left her husband and divorced him (a doctor who earned $400K and was religious and great character) after 10 years because "she deserved better"... 🏃♂️
Run faster than your legs can carry you brother. Women like her are poison
Futuristic thinker.
crazy
I have to ask. What, in her warped mind, did she think was “better” than what she had?
@@ViralAgent1 Chad.
It doesn't matter what race you are, this man just talks sense.
I’ve been told the same thing after being with someone 8 years.. I’m engaged looking forward to marrying the woman I’m with now. And the person who told me I didn’t satisfy her after 8 years is still single after 8 years of us being separated. 🤷🏽♂️ is sex SERIOUSLY that important that you’d throw everything away? 🤔
If it was someone not being satisfied, then it is on them to communicate and teach their partner the proper way. But if it is someone in a marriage who has been starved of intimacy and sex...bail, not because sex is so important, but because that is a sign of a selfish or abusive person who uses sex and intimacy as a weapon.
It ain't the sex, she just wanted to try something new. That's that masculine energy that they have been thought. So that's why I say Women are just like Men if given the same options and training. So it comes down to morals, life experience, etc etc etc. But Kevin was definitely trying to start restoring some values.
Exactly why do ppl be putting sex first place why i just do not get it i have had amazing sex but i would trade amazing sex without hesitation for a respectful hard working MAN hands down. Sex can always be improved always there's so many things out there for that
Guys do it all the time. Cheat, so yes.
@@m2goofy760 women do that but still should be addressed through communication, yet you also bail if there's children, you really listening to KS!? Sex being withheld needs therapy & communication as there's deeper underlying issues, just bailing is weak...
Mr. Samuels is so perceptive. My wife and I have been married 44 years. There are time she complains about our boring life. When she does, I actively pursue something she enjoys, even if I hate it. She has been my sweetheart for decades and she still wants to hold hands and such stuff that most of us guys could care less about. Husbands want respect and sex, in that order. Women want security and romance. These different needs seldom dovetail. Mothers, single or married...you are doing your daughters a terrible disservice if you give them just plain wrong expectations, either by your words or your actions, about men and marriage.
Thank you!!!!!
Yes🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Beautifully said, sir. Your marriage is among the most profound accomplishments of your and your wife’s lives.
@ironmike nothing wrong with what you said but it tends to align more with your life and not everyone's life is the same. Many people have different reasons am sure that alot of people will agree with you online but the reality is we love for different purposes and being from u.k I can tell you over a few things k.s has mastered a few things by not downgrading women but by making them see the wrong and yhh the truth hurts.
You just created a simple formula Women willing to give S/R get the Men who give R/S.
A bit of perspective:
I've been:
-living in the SAME apartment for almost 10 years...and I'm not bored of having a roof over my head.
Or using the same fridge to keep my food, or the same toilet to relieve myself or the same bed to rest....
-Cashing my salary on the SAME bank over 8 years...and I'm not bored of using the same ATM's, or pin code.
-Quite healthy and strong for MOST if my life (thank God)...and I'm not bored of it......Etc.etc.etc.
I'm not bored of opening the SAME faucet with TWO FINGERS!!....and get some clean fresh water anytime 24/7.....and not needing to walk a mile etc..to some river, everyday, carrying a container, etc.etc
So many benefits that we enjoy daily....and we take it for granted...
Being ungrateful , it's a disgusting trait.
People don’t know what they have till it’s gone. Stay blessed
@@liggmabawls5634 Appreciated, it's true.
Peace to you.
@@Alejandr0varsay awesome perspective
@@nobione08 Appreciated.
Sometimes, when it's cold outside or it rains, I like to stand on the balcony for a while, until I feel cold...then I think:
-I can keep the rain/cold away just by closing the windows,...and by taking 2 steps backwards I'm under a roof.........in a heated space...with running hot water, clean towels, clean clothes, enough food in the fridge to feed 10 people maybe..etc.etc.
It might be a bit extreme, and some could say even "masochistic", but is just a simple "reality check" technique (how will I feel not having such and such confort or benefit available?)
As a result, not only I feel at peace, but even if a bad situation occurs, the shock won't be that hard, as I have the possibility of it present in my mind.
It allows me to stay alert, be thankful, feel truly content, able to appreciate and enjoy things continuously as if they're new.
Most Black American women are psychologically stuck in adolescence, so they want to always be in a state of joy and entertainment. By college White, Asian, Jewish, Arab, Latina women want set up a BORING safe, stable life with a man and start of family. While for Black women, the adventure is just beginning, the carousel music just started playing.
I’m not black but I love our black brothers and sisters and in my opinion Kevin is aiming to fix things on a high level. We all are blessed to have him and his guidance towards a better society for all. Thanks for all that you do brother. May God bless you 🙏
As a blk man who has spent 33 years on this earth, I fully agree to what mr samuels is saying. Blk men have a plethora of options when it comes to dating. In my teen years I tried with blk women but I was considered a nerd,spoke white,not ghetto and too educated for a blk male. Well after striking out in the blk community I found myself in Germany at the age of 19 with every other race prizing me for those same attributes. I ended up marrying my German wife at age 24. 2 kids later and I’m still proud of my decision.
Don’t think you are limited blk men. So many other races prize you when your own don’t. Perfect example of “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure!”
german girls love black men thats how it was when i was in army
Well said and I definitely agree. I’m 33 as well.
This deserves 1k homie, congrats from 1 black brotha to another. I been seeing and saying this for years. So.e middle eastern and Hispanic love us and share our views of life. Our women want us only after we cross our finish line and GOD forbid drama isn't apart of our lifestyle, good luck trying to keep her loyal to you.
I needed to see this, thank you Sir.
I’m sorry but “a product of your environment” is a cop out. My mom was a single mother until she remarried when I was in elementary school. I’m grateful for my stepfather because my biological father passed away and I never knew him. Instead of letting these things produce fear, I strived for better and stayed positive as I wanted to be a wife and mother (in that order). I am married with 3 kids born in wedlock and I will do whatever it takes to instill positive family values in my children and I’m happy I have a husband who values the same. A two parent household is so important.
It meant something to read you're grateful to your step-dad. They hardly ever get the credit they've earned.
A mother before your married guess that didn't work out
You're my hero Amber. I desire the same in my life.
@@adampowell711 she said in wedlock not out of wedlock. Meaning she was married first.
@@adampowell711 She said 3 kids IN wedlock. Not out of wedlock.
The amount of patience Kevin has is astounding. You can tell how most of us men are not physically and mentally able to put up with this level of insanity.
most?!?....All except a very small percentage ... Kevin is one of the few ...very few
I guess it's his year's of experience in this field lol
@@adampowell711 even gold rusts after a period of time...kevin has something far more than experience...it's life
Absolutely! I know I don't have it in me. He different.
It's not patience for this woman.
The patience is for you. And all of us here watching his content.
He is teaching. His patience is for the audience.
This shirt is so heart breaking. We're so broken and divided it aint even funny. Majority of women think like this. The condition runs deep
Folks really didn’t listen to this man at all. My heart goes out to men
She left him for sex. Dude made more money than her, was obviously attractive enough to hold her attention for a decade and her deal breaker was the sex? Something that can be improved upon through communication and practice? He had her time, attention and the resources to provide but she was still discontent because she thought she could do better. That's incredibly foolish, but many women would congratulate this behavior. Yet they complain " where are all the good men?".
That's why premarital sex is forbidden in Islam
Get married first then enjoy your life together
@@satorsaeed it's forbidden in all religion and the reason u understand very well all abrahmic faiths ( Jew Christian Islam ) and dharmic faiths ( Hindu , Jain Sikh and Buddhist )
@@veerswami7175 yes that's correct, and the main reason for this dilemma is some people chose to disobey God almighty
@@satorsaeed well in Islam you can get married, divorced, rinse repeat. Only difference between marital sex and premarital sex in Islam is 2 witnesses
@@jameswesley3096 No, you have to pay dawery and no one is going to give you his daughter unless you are really good person
I've been married for 23 yrs. If women think that they're gonna be having circus sex forever, you're out of your damn mind! Life takes over and that takes a back burner for both people. Im 45 and he's 47. I lost both parents and he's lost one. Cancer runs deep in both families and we don't even have kids! Older adults need us everyday...we just hold each and hope for one more day with each other. When KS says die alone, women should think long and hard about what that means!!
Tell em sis. I've been married for 11 years. My wife was sick for 2 years. Even now we have to plan weeks in advance, hire a nanny, and book a hotel so that we can have some alone time. Nobody's life is perfect.
Well said
Nah, you can have circus sex straight to your 50s .. you have to prioritize it…
@@blasiankiki7831
I never said it couldn't be done. Our minds are just focused on something else everyday. Now, don't get it twisted, we both know how to make it happen in 10-15 mins flat! Im referring to the KS video where she left a good man for sex. Or lack there of....
@@cherylvaughn2215 ok.. I was gonna say get it done sis. I know life gets hectic sometimes but get that in there! 😂
Ive been watching this man for 2 years straight and my life perspective has completely switched the positive male role model i never had i know we all have to die one day but he went way too soon 💯💯💯
Productive conversation. She wasn’t combative or overbearing and wasn’t constantly trying to overtalk.
The great thing about Kevin is his ability to simplify the kaotic mess of a life these women lead while blaming it on the man . This video is an excellent learning tool to aide men in making proper decisions while vetting these crazy women.
It take a wise person to learn from their mistakes but it takes a wiser person to learn from the mistakes of others
Well said.
Very true. I'll just add that remember, crazy women come in all colors. 😅
@@lanceevans1689 this is true. That's why u gotta have the same principles no matter who u're dealing with
strange spelling of *chaotic
“Is the black community continuing more important than the black woman?”
“No”
Damn. We’re done for.
Kevin is backwards
@@coricb94 yeah he was off with this because all that would happen culturally the Black American culture will continue but the black genetics will be bred out however I think his point is to shock black women into reality and not actually believes in the black man can only hack black kids not mixed kids etc, one drop rule etc.
...and the Klan thanks you, I'm sure.
And this is why they are poor leaders. You can't lead only thinking about yourself
That was shocking to hear.
Grass is always greener. Instead of working through the hard stuff in life TOGETHER, my exwife of 12yrs decided that starting new relationships other men was more important than working together.
RIP Mr. Samuels!!! I miss watching his live shows. We need more like him
It's weird and amazing at the same time to see how women also bond together around his comment section, showing that he might have had a large group of delusional women he was attending to... but definitely not everyone. And to say something bad about myself: feeling the need to comment even though you've shown great value in listening to the same words I listened to in the video 😂
"I'm not Haaaappy" is the final call of a woman at the wall about to destroy her life to pursue childish impulses. Women who do this deserve where they end up sad, lonely, and miserable. She left a guy who busted his ass and likely put up with her issues and boss girl bs for a decade. She left because she wasn't "happy", she looks really happy now boohooing in her car full of regret. Hopefully, he's living it up rich buried in some 20-year-old tight-bodied girl every night whose pleasant. Gentlemen as a 40-year-old almost six-figure dude who came from nothing it hurts when they leave but women like this are holding you back and it's a blessing in disguise. Every ex who left me has BEGGED to come back, I never let them. 3.9B women on the planet, she's not special you just don't know enough women. This man Kevin knows what he's talking about unlike 90% of the idiots spewing advice.
Two things he knows more than 99.9+
and the next time you want to say something about how many women on this planet don't say 3.9b there are children and old ladies and women in relationships. just say at least it's in the millions
No loneliness with peace in Christ 😆
She's just giving excuses for her infidelity that's what makes like minded individuals feel comfortable with themselves
I thank TMH for my wife of 10 years we are still learning, thank you Mr Kevin you where an incredible inspiration for me and my wife!
RIP Kevin !! He was the truth!!
After 10 years being ENGAGED we would have had to make it work ! That’s a whole DECADE of life 🤷🏽♀️
I feel that. I'm not the type to force a relationship, but when we talking 1/10th of my lifespan being spent on this relationship on top of being in the late game of adulthood. You staying right where you are.
That's the reason why you don't cheat. She cheated and it's led her life into chaos.
She was okay with the sex for ten years until she cheated. I know she cheated because it took her this long to realise she could not go on with their sex life.
When you are faithful, it's yourself you are doing a favour not your partner.
Facts. Thats time u cant get back. We’re gonna make this shit work and start a family! Lol
She wanted her back beat out
@ᴋᴇᴠɪɴ sᴀᴍᴜᴇʟs 🤔
As much as woman see this it should help but it’s like they just don’t give a f*** aa I always say a woman will sleep in a dumpster on the side of the road JUST TO HAVE HER OWN WAY! SMH 🤦🏾♂️
Ego too strong...u can't tell them to humble urself and listen to a real man
100%
FACTS...CANT MAKE THEM HAPPY
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂that’s a good one your definitely right
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This is extremely high value content. I love the honesty from Kevin. He has no problem telling women how it is and i absolutely frikkin love that. Keep up the honesty. Tell them how it is.
I stumbled on this and I have to say, that was a fascinating conversation. Kevin, I hope that after she hung up, she spent the next 3 hrs pondering what you said and started looking at what she could do to change. She seemed like a quality woman, her priorities just need to be shifted and she could be a wonderful wife and mother, but as you said, not if she wants to be "independent" and chasing the fairy tale.
As Kevin always says, the older women get, the higher their "standards" become...thus, the more delusional they become.
Black men are just going to go make more Tiger Woods, Derek Jeters, and Alicia Keys and leave that mess alone
@@hottfam2574 Facts.
@@hottfam2574 Exactly. There are options out there and men need to exercise them.
And then bitter when it doesn’t work out and blaming everyone else including exes for “wasting their youth”
Facts smh 🤦🏾♂️
I don't think you have ever had a caller who was this much of an example of the show's topic. This was great and sad. Smh.
I was just about to make a comment somewhat mirroring your sentiment, brother. Initially, I find myself having a modicum of sympathy for women like her because we can see the trajectory they're on. However, that pity quickly evaporates once it becomes apparent she refuses to do the heavy lifting to get the outcome she wants. So sad.
And look at this man profil picture, handsome, young and most likely eligible. But for what woman?
@@NeilPBrady Thank you! ✊🏽
@@barryrisper1166 💥💥💥💥💥
The woman is the extreme version of someone with daddy issues and a toxic mother who grew up just to be like her. Growing up hating men because her daddy wasn’t around and idolizing her mom because she “stuck around”. There’s no hope for her because the time she seeks the therapy she needs, she’ll hit the wall.
Wow… He went deep… This conversation was so enlightening.
I got a close friend that makes $250,000 a year. He had a girlfriend that lived with him for four years. All she had to do was wake up and get whatever she wanted. She left him because she was bored now she will be poor the rest of her life.
Ohhh ok. Yeah money isn’t everything. You didn’t say how he treated her or anything about that….at least she didn’t stay with him to use him. Sometimes ppl jus aren’t compatible.
@@ldbwa1050i was going to say that. I think it is better that she did that instead of using him for 10-20 years then leaving him
His “character” was good enough that she spent 10 years with the man. The majority of us women believe that there’s always another chance of finding a man and not growing old alone. And because of that belief, we become extremely bitter when it doesn’t transpire!
You women have this belief that evru man in the world wants YOU. Anyone always think the grass is greener on the other side.
@@prettyboy1970 oh your poor thing, we’re you raised by a single mother? Because your feelings are showing through. No not every woman and I’ve spent a lifetime trying to convince women about that falsehood. Good luck
Well the cute ones or ones with "assets" always have a belief that they can snag a great man who will take care of them at any time of their life. On the other hand A woman that society has deemed "ugly" or "undesirable" knows that if she she is fortunate to get a breadwinner willing to take care of her, she better not dump him for risk she will spend many years alone.
What makes attractive women think they will always be in position to find a man who will take care of her is the attention they get from men at a young age. Attractive young females come across many good males at birth(daddy spoils her) then when she is in middle school the males there are coming after her hard. When so many males are throwing attention/validation and gifts to a woman without her having to do much but be pretty, it's easy to float into a mindset that their will always be at least one breadwinning man waiting to make her life easy.
Truth is, As she ages, most breadwinning men her age have been tied to another woman who drained something from him(his money, his mind, his spirit) and he doesn't want to take on another woman like that. And an older woman is stubbornly set in her ways. Unfortunately it's a feminist mindset which is very unattractive to older men. Besides that, if he has kept his body presentable, a lot of younger women are open towards him.
I personally have had no problem attracting women and at age 50, I have attractive older women orbit me or straight out shoot me their phone number ....but it's their mindset that prevents me from calling. The independent feminist mindset that women have been groomed by since they were little girls has "Hardened " women and is very unattractive.
That part
@@bullydakidd2023 since the dawn of Instagram filters and social media, ugly chicks think they are pretty too. There is no longer any difference. Besides, the hypergamous mindset is a woman's natural instinct, it is not some sort of personality trait that develops, it's always there waiting tk be activated.
only 2 minutes in and already know it's a bad look
I see you Ave keep making that heat brother 🌶🌶🌶. God bless fam.
MoreDelusionalBrainClowded🗑
This woman could of been married by now and pregnant 🤰🏽 but she rather bash her ex of 10 years trust me I know it’s more too this story 📖
Very very bad🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
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Kevin's observation about black women and non-black men is 100% on target. I've noticed on the dating apps, I have approximately a +2 SMV pull as a non-black man when dealing with black women. A black woman who is a solid 8 is as easy to pull as a white 6.
I used to LOATHE this man, now I’m all ears!!! These are lessons that I need.
When Kevin said " We carry the spark of life " I felt that deeply in my soul.
the all spark
U think the cook for making the turkey and not the oven
Me too. I have 3 children and it’s a fact
GOD TALK 🤲🏿
Women don’t see how much we bring into society and their lives in general. They don’t do shit for us, but give us headaches and bills. But men don’t need women, we just want them.
Black women heard the line “black women are goddesses” so many times that they actually believe they’re queens and above God. Kevin you have the patience of Job trying to save this community but there’s no hope. Our “leaders” are leading us off a cliff..
Lol I won’t forgive you for what you did to Casca and the Band of the Hawk.
But facts nonetheless
You are so right Brother. The Bullshit about this Queen crap has these women dillusional. Common sense would tell anybody 20 million Slave decendants are not Queens.
over 80 percent born to single baby mamas - Depressing
i feel like all hope is gone. there is no rebab for this evil that has gripped the blk family. the devil sunk its teeth into the black family in 1965 and wont let go
I FEEL SO LOST & HOPELESS
There is no black “ leader”. When there was that was 50 plus years ago and they’re all dead
Watching Kevin is like that home depot trip when you finally get to do that fun project you've been waiting to do all year!
popcorn and cigars.
The sister code is so powerful. She thinks it's logical that bw are more important than the Black community. Even when it's explained that Black men could make Black Families without bw. She'd rather stick to the sister code than except reality & logic.
The calm and seriousness of his "die alone " phrase has me tickled to my toes 😂😂😂
The sad thing is.....She will. And millions just like her.....
Accountability is like kryptonite to modern women 🤦♂️
A year later... and I'm here for the comments!😂 Ooohhh, how I miss uncle Kevin. ❤
Good job my brother, the work must continue
Who!! Will continue to burn the fire.
Who!! will step forward. One love
"a woman like me, who chose to be independent, is a detriment to the community"
exactly. rebellion in all forms is a detriment to the community
It take a wise person to learn from their mistakes but it takes a wiser person to learn from the mistakes of others
Rebellion does not always cause detriment but can cause a positive change instead half the time
Exactly
@What Ever A rebellious woman is always a detriment to the community. She will place her own selfish desire to “do her own thing” above the best interest of everyone around her.
Just like a rebellious child running wild.
The statement “i am a product of my environment” just shows how severe lack of accountability is with this woman 🤦🏿♂️
Yes remember God gives is agency
It's bad. They have romanticized the victim card and I'm not sure if there's a way out of it.
Criminals have told judges this before sentencing. "I sold drugs, stole, became a drug addict, murdered BECAUSE I AM A PRODUCT OF MY ENVIRONMENT."
They don't understand that millions of others grew up in that same environment but through tough times fought hard to become "successful" without having to sell drugs, use drugs , steal, or murder"
@@ss-vn1uv, reported!
Keep preaching to these women, Kevin. Thank you for your videos
‘We die younger then you do. We are not going to wait until y’all are ready’. He was right. I hope he got the most out of his life when he still could.
"I am a product of my environment" means "it's everybody else's fault that I am who I am". No, it's not true. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for your own actions.
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you cannot fix yourself, if your it is every one else's fault, and honestly no one else cares enough to "fix the problem" for you. accepting responsibility is the only real path to a better future, regardless of whether or not it is actually someone else's fault, you can only move forward by accepting full responsibility.
Many women have already met their husbands, but they blew it!
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And they come back around flirting after having 3-5 kids from no marriage.
Most
Yup!
That is straight fact they put him in the friendzone and get ran thru then come looking for him 10 years later with 2 to 3 kids.
I miss this man already and he's not been gone long! It would be nice and probably a big hit to have some of these women back to see where they're at today! Just an Idea but I'm sure the veiws would be off the charts!
Awesome job, more women need to hear this!
This was not a sex issue that ended this relationship. It does not take ten years to figure out the sex isn’t satisfying. She is super picky and thinks it’s cute. I always say, BW don’t have standards, they have unrealistic prerequisites!! She is leaving something out and using bad sex as her default! Would love to hear his side of the story.
I know the truth.....she was a "Big Block" for the last 10 years and recently just had Gastric Weight-loss Surgery....now he ain't good enough cause she feeling herself.
@@blackbilldancerva3177 Shit is wild. A good friend of mine ex wife had that surgery and after she healed completely, she divorced him. Shes getting attention from men that wouldn’t even look her way when she was four hundred and fifty plus pounds. Took him three years to get over her.
@@Introverted_Extrovert99 shit!!!!
Sex isn't meant to satisfy women anyway!
Most women looking for a companion, travel partner, and not a husband. Basically a good time, but not for long time though. Time always runs out
Never prioritize your woman she comes second, third, fourth fifth. Never first, put yourself & business over her & she’ll want to join the ride. With this global market it’s how you got to move well if you want to be married or in a relationship long term with women. Nowadays they want a best friend who they can have sex with & do things they do wit girlfriends. They want a partner well women who are well off do.
@@Youinnerstandme definitely
Facts
I've been telling people this....and they never believe it....until I lay it all our for em. Most of them don't really want to be in a real relationship.
They want to be able to live a single styled life...while requiring a man's commitment. That's where the deal is falling apart
Key word good time!
15 minutes in this jam showed me how DEEP, FOCUSED and on point his arguments are. DEEEEEEEEEEEP!
Kevin is ruthless on these woman I love it they deserve it though way to high on themselves ego out of this world
"if I had a man who offered 75% of what I wanted, I would submit" girl! You had that. The man you had offered everything except one thing and that was sex.
And what's weird about the sex thing is that it took her 10 years to figure out that it wasn't good🤔
What I find funny is that at 37 she believes she will find that man...oh and that he will somehow see 75% of what he wants in a woman with her mindset. The delusions... sigh
What I find funny is that at 37 she believes she will find that man...oh and that he will somehow see 75% of what he wants in a woman with her mindset. The delusions... sigh.
Femininity is not a switch you turn on and off.
Damned good observation.
Hello miss Amiracle Finds. I don't know who you telling that female put sex and money first you sure got joy hahaha 🤣
The 16:20 mark is all men, black or white, need to know.
Kevin: "Is the black community continuing more important than the black woman?"
Woman: "No."
This is gold, because it applies to women of every color if they were raised in America's feminized culture. Men, protect yourselves from these modern women. And protect your brothers if you see them getting themselves in trouble with these women. And if you're a man, every other man is your brother, regardless of his skin color. Stick together and look out for each other.
Wish I could fully go with that. History (recent) tells me to be selective with my inner circle. There are a group of peeps that went to great lengths to ensure these issues that plague black people.
Nah certain men want to pay women to impress them🤦🏾♂️
Ha I'm not getting into all that gender team bs. You do you imma do me. Some of us just trying to get better paying jobs and upgrade their lives. Then again I ain't top 20% so I guess most of this stuff doesn't really apply to a dusty like me lol
Sadly there are modern woman everywhere now. Woman from other country is way more feminine and submissive.
I feel you , I’m with you . Not getting hung up on petty stuff
He was slowly but surely waking our women up
This woman is beautiful and has a gentle spirit. My heart breaks realizing that feminism and social media has almost surely ruined her chances for a real family & legacy.
Face full of makeup and wearing a wig....how do you know if she is really beautiful or just wearing a beautiful disguise?
@@m2goofy760 That was deep
She is a disloyal 304. Nothing more. All bla bla bla is bull shit. Left her man for sex. If you know a little bit about woman's nature you'd know she cheated for a while until the next guy was ready for a relationship. New guy only wanted the ass and not the 304 woman. Rinse and repeat
Wow do I feel bad for you.
No she’s not beautiful stop lying to yourself.
The cognitive dissonance is real in modern black women. Protect this man at all costs. I appreciate you Kevin.
Elevator don't go all the way to the top. Smh. Their done!!!!! 😂
They're so used to bucking the rules it's on reflex now
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He's not protected anymore...
Now this was a good conversation. I'm 30 and single. And I don't want to be. I never thought I'd be single at this age....but I grew up in one of those households where we were taught, get your degree, worry about boys later, stay away from men, etc. I was a very obedient kid, and never took the time to go through that "rebellious" stage of bucking the system or thinking what if. It hit me really hard around 3-4 years ago that wow.....I CAN want something different. I DO have control over my life and what I want for myself. I am NOT ashamed of wanting to be in a relationship and get married. Since then, I've been actively working towards positioning myself for marriage. It has lifted a different weight off of my shoulders and I see more clearly now than I ever have. I wish I'd had this awakening much sooner, but at least I'm being proactive now. Being married does not have to mean losing yourself to your family and your husband. It should actually ENRICH your life. But thats where you have to do the work to ensure it actually happens and not just leave things to chance. Ladies, BLACK ladies especially.....please please wake up. Before it's too late. For your sake, for our sake, for our COMMUNITY'S sake.
That is so sad that so many black parents give their daughters that advice and don't care when they are unmarried later in life having to manage a household alone as a single woman It's hard for a woman to be alone in her 30's 40's 50's.
Marriage to a good husband never makes a woman lose herself. If anything it makes her better. A woman's purpose on this planet is a man. Your husband completes you.
oh well get over it
that happy wife happy life is dead, it's team work, either they riding or they getting passed on
You definitely still have time. I know the pressure is on, but better to realize now than later. At 30, I was still in pursuit of knowledge and putting serious commitment on the backburner.
This is legendary! Kevin is laying it out. Respect!
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This woman is the best communicator that I have seen on KSams show. She answers questions and doesn’t waste words. Not many like that in the field.