Women fail to understand that high value men don't care for her income/PHD, he has his own money. The man is looking for a young, feminine, motherly, supportive companion, NOT ANOTHER DUDE.
Could not agree more! I believe women DO fundamentally understand this BUT modern womanism [aka feminism] has also brainwashed a lot of woman into thinking otherwise.
What needs to happen is men have to tell women this concept, most modern women have been inductronated to be "free, successful, competent & masculine" that's what men were born for... a mature man will be wise and mature enough to mold her mindset towards what he ideally wants, the man has to be at least 5 years older but ideally 10 in my opinion.
As a doctor, I remember when I met my husband he said: “would it be so bad for you if you didn’t work? I have plenty for both of us”. I was caught off guard, because I was raised being certain that I would have to always work my ass off to be successful, a boss woman. Now I dedicate myself mainly to support his career, take care of us, with good food, good environment and helping people around me as a physician. My career is not my priority, and I am glad for that. I feel much satisfied now and I believe I live a much more meaningful life with my man 🤗
@@karmeniessa6694 yes! Honestly, it was weird for me at first because I actually thought that my value was in my career. I was able to learn differently, thankfully! Blessings to you
Up until "women's lib" 150 years ago, woman's #1 job was being a mother. Men did virtually all the outside work and women took care of the home. It wasnt until a couple of feminists shoved the entire gender out into the workforce for the sake of "liberating" the poor housewife/slave. Now youre all independent, but about 100k years behind and physically not capable as much. You can thank feminism for making y'alls life so hard and helping breal up the family unit. The wife of the Doctor benefits just as much as the doctor. And they have someone to raise the children Thw wife being the Doctor, may have more money, but an non existent mom. Whats the point.
They want their cake & eat it too. What they don't understand is, biology doesn't bend to her will. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships & she needs to conform in order to keep a man.
Lmao imagine that. She called HIS show, mannered herself with the according respect, spoke politely and directly, listened and didn’t interrupt, and the interaction was a productive one. She acted in a normal-ass civil manner and Kevin responded in kind. 😂 funny how that works.
What a fine woman she is...not loud, rude, obnoxious, etc and has a sweet personality. She didn't interrupt or talk over you, and actually listened. This is a woman who is ready to be loved and desired by a real man...
Because you can tell she's spiritually aware of her existence and what's going on around her and she's actually prepared to listen and learn. Basically she's not one of these city girls or what ever they call themselves. Them disgusting drag queen looking demons
My mother was strategic about marrying my father. They grew up in the same city, she said he always kept a job, attended church, and aimed high. They went on 5 dates and he became an Electrical Engineer and she a school nurse. They’ve been married for 55 years. She did the pragmatic thing and got a great life and I thank her for choosing a man wisely. Thx mom!
@@neoloanderson6676 all the way from the beginning through the stages of dementia. It’s a deeper love than romantic, it’s a biblical love of respect and honor.
My father is 16 years older than my mother and they met when she was 20 and he was 36 and they've been married for 43 years. She didn't work until 35 and retired at 50 and they live in a huge house in the Caribbean. I'm kicking myself for not following in her footsteps, I felt she oppressed herself but who's laughing now...😕
Well it's great that at least you recognize your errors unlike a lot of others. And from the looks of your pic alone, it looks like you still may have some time to get it together. Good luck!
It's that indoctrination that feminism teach these young girls. Today's women don't understand that with all this "empowerment", you still need to be responsible for your own actions.
My Father is 20 years older then my mother they was married for 57 years but he pass away. Raised 4 kids. Life is good just miss my Father. But life is a Blessing.
Lives require it. She has to listen to and coordinate with veteran ER doctors every shift. She has to listen to her patients that come from the bottom to the top too. In 5 minutes she has to find the problem of EVERY patient and their total health history. She is a PROFESSIONAL listener.
@@thomasking7881 no she cannot. She is a cute, in shape, Nurse practitioner, and she grew up in the south. A black doctor has been through rough shit and wouldn’t be this good a listener. They’ve been passed around which is a part of the training and they are not this kind of person generally. I say this as a stereotype as a black male doctor.
@@blackboyfred3787 Her job is listening. She has 5 minutes to get a full medical history and find the problem in an ER setting or people die. It takes acute listening to every detail, processing that information, making quality decisions and moving forward...... every shift..... patient after patient after patient.... People that go to an ER can only go 3 places.... 1) Home 2) Admitted up stairs. or 3) The funeral home. She's got 5 minutes or less to figure out if they are going to 1 or 2 and start getting them OUT of the ER. If they're trying to go to #3..... GET THE EMERGENCY ROOM PHYSICIAN ! ! !
I was with this girl last night who got absolutely upset when I mentioned you. She doesn’t like your tone and the fact that you were been married twice. She doesn’t realize that hearing the hard truth and learning from it will actually get her the results she’s looking for. You’re helping a lot of women AND men. We need mentors like you to shoot it straight.
Don’t give up on her not liking Kevin. At first, a lot of women are appalled. It’s the Feminist indoctrination that we’ve been through. I watched Kevin’s “you are average at best” clip. I was intrigued, so I ended up watching the entire show. I then caught a live show. I now wish Kevin had been around when I was younger. I tell women to keep an open mind, and watch 2 shows before you make up your mind to like Kevin or not. It just takes time to realize Kevin drops wisdom here and there that women who don’t want a HVM or are older can still benefit from.
Good show. As a ‘Becky’ I was taught about finances, the value of a man, and what a good man was. I didn’t follow what I was taught though. Instead, like this caller, I focused on my career while I was single in my 30’s to make me more money, now I’m sitting around at 49, with a house full of dogs, no kids, and paying 100% of my bills because I was too busy to make time for a man. I’m telling ya ladies, listen to this man; he knows what he’s talking about.
I admire how focused, an attentive this young Lady is. Her reactions an disposition speak volumes about her as a Woman. A man would be happy to have her. She the type of woman that could slow a man down an actually change him in ways for the betterment of himself, an them altogether. Very few women possess the ability to do this.
Spoken like the son of a single mom or absent father. It’s not a woman’s responsibility to change a man for any reason, a quality man is responsible for himself.
This women has a pleasant demeanor but at the end of the day she still doesn't seem to get the point. It would be sad if she never got married but it's very realistic.
see how Kevin energy is throughout this session? because the woman is actually LISTENING and not ready to be combative and argumentative and can actually answer a frenchtoast question.
This is what we love seeing, a woman that can have a good conversation. I have watched this interview twice and I still like how this lady presented herself.
@@heber2418 yeah.. why's she gonna slack and you work and pay for everything? 50/50. Or if she wants to she can pay more than 50.. but you ain't gonna come in this equal world we live in and not expect to pay atleast 50%
As a teenager, my grandma and I watched the movie " Pretty woman" with Richard Gere.I will never forget what my grandma said whilst we watched. I know now that a really high value man doesn't care about the achievements of a woman because . "A successful man can turn any woman into a successful woman in 15 seconds. " The dude took a ho off the street and made her a high value woman in a sec. PHDs don't mean shit to the high value man you want.
couldn't have said it any better and i feel women know this but they just wanna have the phds etc so the can sort of rub shoulders with their men when push come to shove
As a father, this really concerns me. As fathers it is imperative that we educate and develop our daughters. This is just sad. Fail to plan, plan to fail.
This is the smartest comment I read so far.....IT STARTS WITH US!!....we focus so much on raising our boys that we tend to forget that being a father to your daughter is VERY IMPORTANT too.....just like myself I'm currently going through it and BEEN going through it with my daughter since her early teens....she's 18 now and although we're not perfect I can honestly say that Kevin's videos has taught me a lot and helped me improve the relationship between us....we have to pound it in their heads that Instagram and Facebook etc is all a fantasy and not REAL LIFE!!....she must understand "accountability" and her role and purpose as a young woman or she's going to have a ruff life just like most women...especially black women.👍🏾
It’s in our African tradition that young boys and young girls get taught about the opposite sex nature, how to treat them their roles in a family,it goes even further to how to please them in bedroom so when they grow up they are relationship competent. Yours truly, an African
My husband is 8yrs older than me. I was 20 and he was 28 when we met. We've now been married 19yrs. I didn't listen to my parents, family, or friends when they were saying "he's too old". He was in the Military with rank and benefits. Now he's retired and I am too! Oh I'm now 43!
Let me add to this, before we married during premarital counseling, (yep, we did counseling and you should too) I said I didn't want to work after having children. He stated he was financially able to carry the load; he was an Officer in the Army with several years of active duty service. However, there's expectations that comes with not working such having sex when he wanted, dinner being ready when he came home, keeping my figure up ect. He kept his promise and I did as well.
It really shocks me that almost every woman on his show is “college educated “ but literally 90% of his show is him just repeating himself and asking the same 10 questions 20 different ways each is more simple then the previous
She's cute. She struggled but she was respectful and several points really landed. If she's wise she'll reflect on this and make the changes to have the life she wants.
She was so drop dead gorgeous.. made me wish I was 5 years older lol she has a bias but her open mindedness is so beautiful. How the hell is she single?!?!
I’m only 25 minutes in and I’ve already concluded that what she’s looking for is a “What’s mine is mine and What’s his is mine” type of marriage. Notice how she continues searching for loopholes?
@@melbournedixen1356 ...He's probably trolling. A lot of men would say she's cute and seems to be easy to get a long with. Probably would make a good wife.
Kevin please... start a match program. This sister is a winning wife in the making. And their are black men out here that would LOVE TO COURT her for marriage. No lie, I would love to meet her.
It would've been a good idea for sure 💯 I feel like it would've found success for sure 👍. A No-Nonsense matching app for high value people, and for idealistic relationships that mirror the ideals that Kevin preaches in every video 💯
I'm so happy as a woman you said that... my cousin was dating a guy from New york, dude made 400,000 a year, & she told him I would not be happy with you working all the time...she makes 200000 in DC... IF you get a man making that much you gotta sacrifice, he's a go getter..
Be quiet. She said she wants to work! And never said she wants a man earning $400k. You all are ridiculous acting like all couples make $400k to take care of a family
She seems like a genuinely nice person. She didn't once try to one up Kevin, she was honestly listening. She just needs to get out of that backwoods town, before it's too late. When you grow up in those small towns, the dudes she went to school with were her only options. What he said was on point, you move there after your married.
She bad and classy. And she understands that she has to submit to a man. Most women dont want to submit but want to respect there man. Doesnt work that way
@@TheGamingHarbinger That's beyond a feeling, just an absolute fact. Dating is a numbers game for men, so lower numbers means lower game and therefore lower success. Definitely get to a more populated area while you're at the age you can experiment and play the field actively.
This was a great call. She is a very attractive woman. I have been to Southaven, MS twice for a concert. She is honest and she listens. Kind eyes. A lot of women have been conditioned to do what she do (education and more education). She is 31 now. If she focuses and maintains her femininity and cooperative nature, she will be a wife and a mother. One of the smoothest conversations I have seen.
Guys, we got to give the lady applaud for good conversation. no screaming and yelling. active listening and strategic response. she is really getting advice.
Nah... She doesn't get props for not being abrasive. That's called communicating like an average, functioning adult. Also, she's a bullshitter and, on multiple occasions, couldn't give a simple, straight answer. She just happened to be relatively pleasant during the exchange.
@@Goval400 How so? How is taking time to invest in a brother who gives advice for free too much time? If you have the energy to watch the videos and the content the same energy needs to go towards supporting the creator.
I loved the transparency of this video. 1st time ever hearing another man say that a man's brain don't click till 30 besides my husband..the realness is muchly appreciated. My husband and I are almost a decade apart. I love it bc I have learned so much from him being older and I keep things very exciting for him being younger. We mesh very well together I thank God for him, couldn't imagine being with anyone else going through this new dating pool. Must be frustrating for this new era 🥴
She would be just fine in Memphis if she put in the work to find the right men. I'm over the river in Arkansas in a town of 80,000 and I hang out with millionaires all day at the country club. The problem with black women isn't that the men don't exist. They just do absolutely nothing to find them and please them.
@sherry siba You don't know how to please a man? Well....it isn't telling us about your day or the latest gossip on your cousin Becky. Men have been very straightforward for thousands of years about what pleases us. It has been included in the jokes of many comedians. Mr. Samuels here talks about it daily. You really don't know how to please a man?
@sherry siba When you are old enough, sex, food, silence. Learn to cook. Learn to give him peace and quiet. Learn to obey. Or don't. And be single. Men are not complicated and do not ask for much. If you want a good man, be prepared to have the basics nailed.
Yes I find him to be an ahole. He speaks rudely to unattractive women. I found this channel not sure how it got I. But I wished young women would go to the woman of substance for advise and their fathers for validation. This broken vessel cant advise any woman on anything because he speaks through hurt. BE CAREFUL . Stop add these characters to your life whom you asked God to remove.
@@testedtried1233 yet you literally watch all of his content and comment on it💀 you come back just to disagree. Just go to another channel. You KNOW he’s right so you come back because deep down you know its the truth. God isn’t going to fix your problems only YOU can mr.pastor🤣
Like the fact that she looks naturally (absent all the makeup & foot long eye lashes) attractive and seems more agreeable, reasonable than most of the ones he's talked to..
I agree. She just needs an older man who knows how to lead. She don't know alot but she is beautiful and seems to be very cooperative. When her man leads, then she can be more focused on the feminine aspect of things that she is missing right now. I was very encouraged by the dialogue. Best of luck to her.
@@clarencetodman7369 I follow Kevin. Agree with most of his assessments concerning delusional women. Though she hasn't taken an optimal path for starting a family, she belongs to the exceptions that confirm the rules. An older man would be lucky to have her, but she doesn't NEED one. I believe her when she says she's willing to work with her man. Kevin is right that she shouldn't wait any longer. And if she looks now for a man she could build with, I'm sure they will work it out and be just fine.
@@cetti4405 When I said older, I only meant older that her. One year, 10 years, that don't matter as much in this case. Someone that she can look up to. A man that has a clear direction for the family. He needs to be further along than she is so that she can rest in her femininity. She can't respect him and rest in her femininity if she has to build with him. To me, building with a man is for younger women. But I respect and appreciate your perspective.
@@clarencetodman7369 You could be right, but like I said, exceptions confirm the rules because not everyone ticks the same or follow what most may deem a logical formula. But I appreciate yours, as well...
@Jonathan MOORice Ok, if you see it that way. I see it different. She pretty much concurs with him, but tries to express that she wants a different life than most of the others. But, whatever....
She listens and seems to be cooperative and also seems to grasp what he’s saying and the fact that she’s not wearing makeup speaks volumes to her true beauty. She’s top tier.
strangers WILL NOT be raising my children within the first years of their lives when they cant even speak for themselves. Hell no. Im staying home caring and being the primary educator of my child. Manipulation and abuse are too serious out here. Not to mention corona like he said.
Do you have kids? Small children will wear you out. Nannies and Au Pairs are a god send. This doesn’t take away from you being a good mother! Mommy’s health is important for the entire household.
@@katpod86 no I don’t have kids, but my daughter passed away 2008!!!! I don’t know if that question was replied to me! But ol girl from the video is cute af! She can have my children any day!!!! lol 😂
I stayed home with our children until they were in lower elementary grades. I read to them, took them places, cooked nutritious meals, etc. It was a sacrifice, but well worth it. Our daughter got a tuition paid college scholarship. Hopefully Our son should be able to do the same. I’m working now and help pay bills and save for retirement. It’s not easy but teamwork gets it done.
I’m a 59 year old women and if there are women that disagrees or angry at this mans intellect about knowing about us then you need your head examined. I’ve been listening to him for over a year and he spits nothing but facts on this whole relationship thing. Not to sure about the 21-25 year old but some are angry because he speaks financial, economic and social values that makes one really question their own relationship habits. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Speak on Kevin.
I'm a 48 yr. Old widow. I'm from Mississippi so I'm very feminine and was submissive to my husband. This is the first video I've watched. The comments however, kind of confirms what I thought. I can't expect anything as men are looking for younger women. I have adult children so my biological clock has rang and is done. Even 60 and 70 year olds are looking for younger women. I guess I should start looking for a dog.
I work at a hospital and black southern women are some of the most unbelievably upbeat, optimistic, sweet, lively women I’ve ever met. Their bedside manner with there patients is something else its damn near impossible to be in a sour mood around them, I don’t like to generalize but every one of these ladies I meet from the age of 22-70 who work there are such friendly and warm people its a pleasure working with them.
Nah, now that I think about it. They absolutely do mature faster; think about it every male wants a younger female so they evolved that way for the sake of offspring. As far as sound reasoning and logic, they haven’t had to evolve past a certain age and level of potency because the man interacted with the world more.
I love when Kevin is able to vibe and have a genuine conversation with a woman. When they are combative and egotistical from the beginning, his energy is way more blunt and serious. This woman will be just fine, great energy, pretty, head on straight. She'll be ok in the man department. She just can't allow all of her free time to be buried into her work. That's a mistake alot of us make.
adjustable 6 , well mannered but far from natural the red prop and that hat hair skews the look and gets her to an adjustable 6 , remove the props and then re calculate she also hid her fingers very well aka hands and nail cost and the usual Tatoo's it would be nice to see her true natural look she could be hiding 200 lbs below that face . also be hard to fathom this woman not having kids at her age adjustable 6 with 2 kids if she isnt a 230 lb woman with tats and nails the hat hair is a given she did show that unless you blind and think that is real hair .
She seems sweet but misguided. She's definitely attractive enough to draw a decent guy's attention. If she takes Kevin's advice, then she might find her match. I hope it all works out for her.
Kevin is WAY too nasty with women, even if he's right. This woman is sweet and kind and lovely. I wish her infinite blessings and hope she gets what she desires
A lot of us also had either no dad or a weak dad these days, and it’s been life and smart older guys that have told us what we need to be doing. I just turned 35 and I’m mentally miles away from where I was when I was 30.
Shaun Hensley I literally can get a high paying job just from connections at this point. I’m 35. And I’m totally overpowered for a man in his 20’s to compete against for that reason.
@@hornetguy9063 Help me out im a young gee looking to be financially free don't really care about being high value to pursue a female I want it for myself studying a business degree
I’ll admit things did not start clicking to me until I was 30. It seem liked as soon as I turned 30 I started to become more focused than I have ever been, I’m 32 will be 33 next month with two rental properties and my own business with no kids. I know where I want to be by 40 and I know what type of woman I want to start a family with. On top of it my father was in my life and that plays a major part b/c I took after him of having my own business, I do exactly what he does but better because of technology, and quite a few black males don’t have that so that individual mindset probably won’t click until much later passed 30.
I like how she says “allow him” and “give him” It shows the mindset she has and what level she puts a man. Good luck to all these single woman. They really need it.
The financial questions are brilliant. The way they answer shows unrealistic expectations. Instead of any of them saying a selfless answer, they always show a high level of selfishness. That’s how he knows what he’s dealing with.... and they still don’t get it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest no what you mean is there easier to control and white men aren’t easier then black men. We give you guys chances another race wouldn’t. No other race is even checking to date any of you.
This was a great conversation. I am really pulling for this sweet young woman. She engaged Kevin in an open and engaging way. I hope she is able to get married to someone who will cherish her feminine traits and traditional mindset.
My friend showed me an article today of a woman who froze her eggs (for the low low price of $19,000) in her late 30’s, continued her hunt for “mr right” while doing her career woman thing, gave up the ghost when she was almost 45, found a sperm donor and unfroze her eggs, only for none of them to be viable. If I was black pilled like Aaron Clarey, I would probably be laughing my ass off. But since I’ve that stupid Christianity in me that makes me not enjoy suffering in others, I feel bad that she was sold a life of lies. Hopefully she can find something that will bring her satisfaction.
Ladies, let me let you in on what we hear when we hear things like "I want my man to pay the major bills": "Sometimes I will pick up the groceries, and occasionally a light bill, and I want to be praised for it." There are no such things as major and minor bills. There is the household budget. A note on daycare: infant daycare, in most major cities, is $1,000/week.
Yep. No dude twill sign up for that ish. I know a nurse practioner. She's nice as can be and is her head is hard as a rock. She refuses to submit to anyone.
@@neicynunnery bibical, god said that he would give you a wife and i to not chase a woman. So i live by that, women always come at me(not boasting) i simply do me and make sure im right mentally, physically and spiritually. Anything else is an add-on to me. I dont have sexual desires so i dont find it useful to be with someone other than to be friends
@@neicynunnery i speak to them with respect and treat them like a human being. Guys think too much when approaching women and women are naturally talented at picking up on that. So i just simply speak to them as if i see someone who i could hang out with, not trying to smash. That would just discourage her to not further the conversation in the future. Funny story. I disrespected a waitress. (Before i did, i knew how she spoke and carried her self) so i kept making judging remarks at her like “Why you so dry, get wild, slap me damn” “wow this food terrible, but its ight tho(small laugh)”. “give me a water, please please, feel like ima die” After dinner. I asked for her number while she was cleaning. She told me “why you didnt ask before dinner” i laughed😂 Me being 17 picked up the 21 year waitress lol but she ghosted me kuz i aint have a car at the time😂she didnt have one either so i aint care
Can you imagine wanting to build a house, and not understanding the skills needed, cost, time frame, or what material to use. How is that going to work out? I hope she learned something and gets what she wants out of life.
Well stated brother. As we real professionals cal: “backwards planning!” Most women don’t know and have never heard this unless they are prior military.
I was thinking how building a house is too different from what she wants. Then I began to remember what I was like before I learned to build furniture. I went in with the mindset to complete a task step by step with limited tools. Now I see your point.
My Mom and Dad were married 35 years before they passed away. My Dad made six figures and my Mom worked by choice. My Dad led the family and my Mom followed.
My white classmate told me in high school she was choosing her college based on the type of men that went to that school. She chose a major, and school that was prominently male and why… she said bc she wanted to make sure she could find a man of means.
@@STOPPEDINCOLORADO What you said makes no sense. If a woman wants to get run through, her major is irrelevant. If somebody goes to engineering, medicine or law specifically, it's because they want to get with an engineer, doctor or lawyer in the future.
"I want the man to be assertive enough to chase me" As much as I appreciate the honesty and traditionalism, asking a man to do that in modern society is the same as asking a man to risk his career and reputation; it's not just rejection he's risking anymore.
However, she’s has no intention of ever wanting to be a homemaker. She’s nothing close to traditional as she says she is, unless of course it’s something that benefits her solely.
This was a great conversation… respectful on both ends. Even though she’s only 30 she didn’t over talk him, didn’t get defensive or confrontational and more importantly she LISTENED for understanding. Most women could learn a lot from her demeanor!
Black women problems is black women not black men we just stayed humble meanwhile our women turned around and looked down on us, it’s sad really. Go ahead and be lonely with a degree.
Nothing new it’s been going on for 50 years now. Really longer than that I suggest all black people to do some basic history (read Daughters Of The Trade & The Man Not) The contempt of black men has been going on since chattel slavery. It was just a different culture and hid better under the silent generation and previous generations before them.
I talked to my bro today. He recently married the woman who he's been dealing with for decades. Bro told me about his struggle. He told me that he started off making 8 dollars an hour on his current job. He is now making 28 an hour. He used to drive a car with no heat. The girl he married stuck with him throughout it all. Now she is reaping the rewards. I texted her and congratulated their nuptials. I remember them living in some not so desirable spots. He told me there were times when he had 20 dollars to his name but all the bills were paid. He also raised her 2 sons from a previous relationship as his own. The boys were very young when they met. He is the only father they know. I salute bro.
It sounds like they both needed and found value in each other. I love hearing stories of decent people staying with their significant other and building a life. Congrats to them.
I'm a white middle aged dude and I find that nurse very attractive. She has a good personality as well. Her speaking style (her accent) needs to be more sophisticated to get higher level men, though. She should find a vocal coach.
She didn't shame, curse, insult, get hypo-aggressive & actually LISTENED. She can get wifed in a heartbeat, just gotta be strategic & put in work. Best guest of all time 🏆
Lawd knows this brother is so right on this. Every time I broke up with someone or was at a lull in life, I went back to school and got a degree. Young sisters he ain’t never lied. I am not in any of your age groups. However, I’ve learned a lot listening to Kevin. I understand and I am accountable for the decisions I made as a young woman. Dayum. Sad this info wasn’t available for me and so many other women when we were young.
I was taught these principles throughout my life, by my parents. But still ended up wasting alot of time with sisters who were resistant and full of game at any level. So I couldn't replicate the structure needed , that I had grown up learning from. My mother had these conversations with me all the time. It came down to the mindset that kept my dreams of building in marriage down, and I wasn't settling because I choose Masculinity and leadership. ....just sad. But I am so happy that I got a chance to see it revealed to so many. I was very disappointed with our sisters conduct and behavior, but kept trying anyway. Now it doesn't matter, I am just happy to have experienced the undeniable truth.... finally! Thank you and RIP Mr. Samuels.
She’s super beautiful!! Also, it’s really hard to conceptualize the responsibility of caring for others in a financial manner. It’s also hard for women to conceptualize motherhood and how they will feel about raising children until they are in it.
This sister seem like a good good woman, she is respectful, she listens, not loud, intelligent, ambitious and attractive. I just really hope she finds a good man.
she said that she does not want to be a homemaker, and that she loves her work, and would drop off the baby at a day care. I am a HVM according to KS, and this persona is a big avoid for me.
Global Go Getter my friend used to work for a woman with a full time nanny, and the woman would “schedule” 30 minutes a day to spend with her infant. That kid is going to grow up looking to his nanny as his real mother. Like the entire point to marrying a “high value man” for a woman is that he can provide the income and strategic leadership to the home, while said woman can make sure the children receive the best life possible. Daycare is a nonstarter for a lot of these guys.
They got me f*cked up if they think I’m letting my child in daycare. That’s something you should do if both parents *have* to work to make ends meet. If you can survive off one parents income, or maybe both parents are retired, then why would you put your child in daycare?
I am a 63 year old woman. If only I would have been given this kind of truth at a young age. Unfortunately, when I was young, I thought I knew everything (based on societal norms, etc.). Now, I watch you, and am able to recognize your absolute truth: these lovely young ladies would do well to listen and to stop pressing forward with their own stubborn ideas as their guide. Their lives would be much happier in the long and the short run. Many less "train wrecks".
@@youngdrey1 facts bro ,we need more stories like hers .as well as women her age that are married because,most these young chicks taking advice from bitter feminist ,who actually envy them.
@GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest The advice I was referring to was acceptance of the man's leadership, being submissive, and being unselfish. Also, not expecting total perfection from a man in order to stay with him...it's beyond unrealistic to expect that from anyone. Also, toss in the advice about staying in shape, for a multitude of reasons.
Yea call and tell your landlord you dont FEEL like paying the rent. He isnt going to say "aw ok thats fine you can live rent free". Hes going to evict you.
Mr. Samuels, Everything you said was 100% accurate!!! Thank you for leading the way and being honest with us Black Women. It is certainly needed in our community.
Can’t believe some women are mad at the girl more than HIS ASS!! Make it make sense!! Lol he’ll lose some support but I doubt most of his supporters will leave his side
@@mr.keptitreal ,she's pretty. Non makeup on her Face and she's pretty. She was probably wearing Makeup on her Face. The reasoning for the pimples and darker spots.
@@mr.keptitreal her face isn’t that bad to me she’s cute she’s in her 30s now but she ain’t bad I would definitely date her if I was close to her age lol
Kevin was really trying to get her to see how she hasn’t even thought about the logistics and finances of being a mother. Let alone a wife.... women have to Mentally and physically prepare for the life we need. We assume it’ll Just come
Half of us are not taught or don't see any suitable examples of this, because the woman around us are hurt, abused, alone or suffering, we learn everything too late and by then, the men we need for what we need them for, don't need us 🤦🏾♀️
He was incredibly rude and dismissive the entire time, and he would use some weird ultimative extremes, to discredit her, and he would rudely cut her off anytime she tried to explain her stance or reasoning.
His interaction with her was far different than in other interviews. More calm and pleasant. Her kind spirit mellowed him out. Either that or the brown he was sippin on 😂😂😂😂
Agreed. But I would also say that many of the women who are on here with him are very defensive. They defend everything they do and have done. It is never, I was wrong for anything, just what I did was right because some man did this somewhere. Not all of the women, but many that I have seen.
She’s a good woman. She’s going to find her match very soon. She beautiful, (naturally beautiful) She’s confident (even when Kevin tried to take shots but she’s confident where his shots didn’t affect her) She can listen to comprehend instead of listening to respond and cutting him off.. She has southern charm. Has a great job and is willing to move I’m not siding with Kevin on this one. This woman was the best one yet
I've just recently found this channel so I've probably missed a lot, but the beginning of this conversation really gave me hope, I'm 35 and I've gotten established in my career the last few years or so and starting to feel like I'm about ready to settle down, but I've been getting a bit down on myself lately thinking I'm getting too old to find someone to start a family with, I really appreciate that!
@@jamaaldaynitelong8367 absolutely. I know his main focus is the black community but he’s also very much speaking to all men and women at large. And he speaks in a way that’s easy to understand.
This is a normal average but beautiful woman and I would be happy and satisfied given she had the right feminine qualities. But would she be happy with the normal average black man or feel like she’s settling? That’s why black women are single
Great Point....She would say she settled for the average man who could bringing in $70,000 a year....this is the Truth. She thinks she is better than Men who would have to foot most of the bills any damn way.
how can you be average and beautiful at the same time? that makes NO sense. 5 is average is a 5 beautiful compared to a 10? that sounds like sitting on the fence talk to me.
Almost every black woman I've dated in the past, was like being in a war . Smart , sexy , well educated fighters . No feminine energy. Even the ones that look sweet and walk feminine still had that fire in their chest like a dude on steroids . I'm stubborn though, because I love black women and I didn't give up . I found my boo . She was a little rough but she smoothed right on out because she was teachable. Now we're married and the very best of friends. Took a lot of work, but it was worth it . Submitting doesn't mean becoming a slave, it means becoming a cooperative mate with your significant other.
I understand you’re plan, with that issue. Great relationship aren’t built over night. But what I noticed in must great relationship, everyone know their role in the relationship, and that’s the making of a great relationship.
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Women fail to understand that high value men don't care for her income/PHD, he has his own money. The man is looking for a young, feminine, motherly, supportive companion, NOT ANOTHER DUDE.
Could not agree more! I believe women DO fundamentally understand this BUT modern womanism [aka feminism] has also brainwashed a lot of woman into thinking otherwise.
I think women want to be in to support their family just in case and in the mean time. Their career ends up being their own backup plan.
@@alyssaswann9784 well that’s not what high value men want. We want her attention 100% on the family. So she can get with that or buy a dog 🐶
What needs to happen is men have to tell women this concept, most modern women have been inductronated to be "free, successful, competent & masculine" that's what men were born for... a mature man will be wise and mature enough to mold her mindset towards what he ideally wants, the man has to be at least 5 years older but ideally 10 in my opinion.
even mid value " average man" doesnt care about that , only low value bums that leach
As a doctor, I remember when I met my husband he said: “would it be so bad for you if you didn’t work? I have plenty for both of us”. I was caught off guard, because I was raised being certain that I would have to always work my ass off to be successful, a boss woman. Now I dedicate myself mainly to support his career, take care of us, with good food, good environment and helping people around me as a physician. My career is not my priority, and I am glad for that. I feel much satisfied now and I believe I live a much more meaningful life with my man 🤗
A good Christian marriage means a wife is submissive to the success of her man. Glad you figured that out! Bless you and your marriage!
You were/are 1 wise woman…🙏🏽
I bet he was praying you say yes its OK and not make him freak out hahah. Happy for you guys
@@karmeniessa6694 yes! Honestly, it was weird for me at first because I actually thought that my value was in my career. I was able to learn differently, thankfully! Blessings to you
Up until "women's lib" 150 years ago, woman's #1 job was being a mother. Men did virtually all the outside work and women took care of the home. It wasnt until a couple of feminists shoved the entire gender out into the workforce for the sake of "liberating" the poor housewife/slave. Now youre all independent, but about 100k years behind and physically not capable as much. You can thank feminism for making y'alls life so hard and helping breal up the family unit.
The wife of the Doctor benefits just as much as the doctor. And they have someone to raise the children
Thw wife being the Doctor, may have more money, but an non existent mom. Whats the point.
Women want traditional men while being “modern” but if men say we want traditional women, we get called misogynists 😂
Right 😆
🎯
They want their cake & eat it too. What they don't understand is, biology doesn't bend to her will. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships & she needs to conform in order to keep a man.
Facts
Facts
Lmao imagine that. She called HIS show, mannered herself with the according respect, spoke politely and directly, listened and didn’t interrupt, and the interaction was a productive one. She acted in a normal-ass civil manner and Kevin responded in kind. 😂 funny how that works.
😂 agreed. Kudos to her... She seemed like a nice girl. Slightly misguided, but someone worthy of being a wife.
I found her to be attractive, and her attitude was a difference-maker. I also like her smile.
Wonder how she acts normally🤔
What a fine woman she is...not loud, rude, obnoxious, etc and has a sweet personality. She didn't interrupt or talk over you, and actually listened. This is a woman who is ready to be loved and desired by a real man...
true dat!
I feel like that's pretty accurate
Took the words outta my mouth! She won't have a problem finding someone for too long...
She fine but I'm not moving to south haven lol
Because you can tell she's spiritually aware of her existence and what's going on around her and she's actually prepared to listen and learn. Basically she's not one of these city girls or what ever they call themselves. Them disgusting drag queen looking demons
My mother was strategic about marrying my father. They grew up in the same city, she said he always kept a job, attended church, and aimed high. They went on 5 dates and he became an Electrical Engineer and she a school nurse. They’ve been married for 55 years. She did the pragmatic thing and got a great life and I thank her for choosing a man wisely. Thx mom!
❤️❤️😊
This makes my heart happy, good job Momma☺️tell her we say hi lol
Does she love him?
@@neoloanderson6676 all the way from the beginning through the stages of dementia. It’s a deeper love than romantic, it’s a biblical love of respect and honor.
@@duanemcclure8108 Thanks for your reply 😊
I find her very attractive physically. No make up, natural and well mannered and spoken.
She'll end up fine, I feel.
This is all her second wind. You should have seen her at 22.
I agree 👍
All these crypto user names warm my heart.
@@chrispines1510 pockets probably feel pretty good too 👀
@@XRPinstitute you know her fam?👀
I never heard about this guy until I heard he passed. I am sorry I didn't hear about him sooner. I love how bold and truthful he was.
bold is a bad word in 2022 lol
Meet too bro I never heard of him until he passed! Rip
My father is 16 years older than my mother and they met when she was 20 and he was 36 and they've been married for 43 years. She didn't work until 35 and retired at 50 and they live in a huge house in the Caribbean. I'm kicking myself for not following in her footsteps, I felt she oppressed herself but who's laughing now...😕
Well it's great that at least you recognize your errors unlike a lot of others. And from the looks of your pic alone, it looks like you still may have some time to get it together. Good luck!
I respect your honesty. It's all about learning these lessons in life before it's too late!
It's that indoctrination that feminism teach these young girls. Today's women don't understand that with all this "empowerment", you still need to be responsible for your own actions.
My Father is 20 years older then my mother they was married for 57 years but he pass away. Raised 4 kids. Life is good just miss my Father. But life is a Blessing.
@aisha george Beautiful soul,its never to late to be great!! Never forget that!!
She has mastered the art of LISTENING which is why the conversation went so smooth.
She is a listener, which is one key trait of a wife. She will be alright.
Lives require it. She has to listen to and coordinate with veteran ER doctors every shift. She has to listen to her patients that come from the bottom to the top too. In 5 minutes she has to find the problem of EVERY patient and their total health history.
She is a PROFESSIONAL listener.
Listening. Is almost a skill at this point
She A educated Blaq female a six figure female in a early 30s A Nurse Practitioner she can fill in for Doctor
@@thomasking7881 no she cannot. She is a cute, in shape, Nurse practitioner, and she grew up in the south. A black doctor has been through rough shit and wouldn’t be this good a listener. They’ve been passed around which is a part of the training and they are not this kind of person generally. I say this as a stereotype as a black male doctor.
She was so much easier to watch than most. You can see the gears turning in her mind. I hope she finds happiness.
Indeed which is a HUGE reason she will link with a quality man. If she's not too Debased.
True ! She was actually listening instead of trying to debate
@@blackboyfred3787
Her job is listening. She has 5 minutes to get a full medical history and find the problem in an ER setting or people die. It takes acute listening to every detail, processing that information, making quality decisions and moving forward...... every shift..... patient after patient after patient....
People that go to an ER can only go 3 places....
1) Home
2) Admitted up stairs.
or
3) The funeral home.
She's got 5 minutes or less to figure out if they are going to 1 or 2 and start getting them OUT of the ER. If they're trying to go to #3..... GET THE EMERGENCY ROOM PHYSICIAN ! ! !
She seems like a quality person.
She’s cuter than an apricot scone with a scoop of ice cream on the side
Really don’t like how much hate this man got when he was living. He seemed to genuinely have a vested interest in improving the black community. RIP
Says everything about the broken haters.
Those are the ones that get the most hate.
Idk when people got it into their heads that improvement ia supposed to be pleasant
I was with this girl last night who got absolutely upset when I mentioned you. She doesn’t like your tone and the fact that you were been married twice. She doesn’t realize that hearing the hard truth and learning from it will actually get her the results she’s looking for. You’re helping a lot of women AND men. We need mentors like you to shoot it straight.
They don’t bat an eyelash when u say Steve Harvey was married 3X
Because she don't like what she hears, which is the TRUTH. She want that "sweet nothings" talk like what Derrick Jaxn does
Run away simba and never return
Should of asked her " if not kevin , who does she reccomend " and see she has no answer .
Clearly they all know the problem but never the solutions.
Don’t give up on her not liking Kevin. At first, a lot of women are appalled. It’s the Feminist indoctrination that we’ve been through. I watched Kevin’s “you are average at best” clip. I was intrigued, so I ended up watching the entire show. I then caught a live show. I now wish Kevin had been around when I was younger. I tell women to keep an open mind, and watch 2 shows before you make up your mind to like Kevin or not. It just takes time to realize Kevin drops wisdom here and there that women who don’t want a HVM or are older can still benefit from.
Good show. As a ‘Becky’ I was taught about finances, the value of a man, and what a good man was. I didn’t follow what I was taught though. Instead, like this caller, I focused on my career while I was single in my 30’s to make me more money, now I’m sitting around at 49, with a house full of dogs, no kids, and paying 100% of my bills because I was too busy to make time for a man.
I’m telling ya ladies, listen to this man; he knows what he’s talking about.
*On Everything*
Thanks for sharing your life lessons and I hope this lil girls will listen to you
God bless you ma'am
Damn, sorry for your loss
Thanks for your honesty.
Her southern demeanor is refreshing. There is hope for her. She's is willing to listen.
I agree! She seems sweet and shes trying to learn
who are you GOD
Yes she does and the man need to listen when she speaks. That's how it works.
@@haneefahabdullah6725 no habibti. Level up to her or catch feelings at one sentence written online by someone that you don’t know.
Yeah she listens, that's the biggest thing right there.
I admire how focused, an attentive this young Lady is. Her reactions an disposition speak volumes about her as a Woman. A man would be happy to have her. She the type of woman that could slow a man down an actually change him in ways for the betterment of himself, an them altogether. Very few women possess the ability to do this.
Correct!
Well said king
It's not a woman's place to change her man, it's her job TO ALIGN, SYNCHRONIZE, CO-ORDINATE AND COMPLEMENT her husband.
Spoken like the son of a single mom or absent father. It’s not a woman’s responsibility to change a man for any reason, a quality man is responsible for himself.
This women has a pleasant demeanor but at the end of the day she still doesn't seem to get the point. It would be sad if she never got married but it's very realistic.
see how Kevin energy is throughout this session? because the woman is actually LISTENING and not ready to be combative and argumentative and can actually answer a frenchtoast question.
🤣 cute adding Kevin's
"FRENCH TOAST"
Love it!🤗
Kevin is definitely rubbing off on his viewers... French toast!!!🤣🤣🤣
@@LekramNosnevets ..."Unmute yourself"... lol I'm joking.
This is what we love seeing, a woman that can have a good conversation. I have watched this interview twice and I still like how this lady presented herself.
@subjugation G0lDen GOD Worshipping that word salad escapes me. talk to me like i'm a 4th grader🙂
She's not condescending disrespectful or combative. I'm rooting for her.
Damn i'm feeeling like this is a good woman yall. Besides the fact that she is BEAUTIFUL she is smart, a good listener and she is patient.
exactly
I agree
yea but that 75-25 is going to keep her single she needs to adapt aint no woman going to hang me dry financially! 75-25? she out her damn mind
A good woman to manipulate. Men just younger gullible women to be in charge of.
@@heber2418 yeah.. why's she gonna slack and you work and pay for everything? 50/50. Or if she wants to she can pay more than 50.. but you ain't gonna come in this equal world we live in and not expect to pay atleast 50%
As a teenager, my grandma and I watched the movie " Pretty woman" with Richard Gere.I will never forget what my grandma said whilst we watched. I know now that a really high value man doesn't care about the achievements of a woman because . "A successful man can turn any woman into a successful woman in 15 seconds. " The dude took a ho off the street and made her a high value woman in a sec. PHDs don't mean shit to the high value man you want.
ooooooffffff
This is a fantasy. Not real life.
A King MAKES a woman a queen
couldn't have said it any better and i feel women know this but they just wanna have the phds etc so the can sort of rub shoulders with their men when push come to shove
In my old workplace I know a very handsome, young doctor married a stripper. I heard they are happily married with kids.
This is the first video I’ve seen where the conversation is not awkward to watch and I actually could listen to both sides.
Yea she has manners and class.. this girl is a winner.. btw I love your name.. Given.. that is beautiful
It was refreshing.
I agree!
He has a ton of em
I appreciate this dialogue for sure, but the "awkward" moments for you, are therapeutic to me, as a black man.
As a father, this really concerns me. As fathers it is imperative that we educate and develop our daughters. This is just sad. Fail to plan, plan to fail.
Exactly
We have been left in this world to fend for ourselves. No teaching. No guidance. Nothing
This is the smartest comment I read so far.....IT STARTS WITH US!!....we focus so much on raising our boys that we tend to forget that being a father to your daughter is VERY IMPORTANT too.....just like myself I'm currently going through it and BEEN going through it with my daughter since her early teens....she's 18 now and although we're not perfect I can honestly say that Kevin's videos has taught me a lot and helped me improve the relationship between us....we have to pound it in their heads that Instagram and Facebook etc is all a fantasy and not REAL LIFE!!....she must understand "accountability" and her role and purpose as a young woman or she's going to have a ruff life just like most women...especially black women.👍🏾
It’s in our African tradition that young boys and young girls get taught about the opposite sex nature, how to treat them their roles in a family,it goes even further to how to please them in bedroom so when they grow up they are relationship competent. Yours truly, an African
❤
My husband is 8yrs older than me. I was 20 and he was 28 when we met. We've now been married 19yrs. I didn't listen to my parents, family, or friends when they were saying "he's too old". He was in the Military with rank and benefits. Now he's retired and I am too! Oh I'm now 43!
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Family will hate and tell lies because they dont have it.
Let me add to this, before we married during premarital counseling, (yep, we did counseling and you should too) I said I didn't want to work after having children. He stated he was financially able to carry the load; he was an Officer in the Army with several years of active duty service. However, there's expectations that comes with not working such having sex when he wanted, dinner being ready when he came home, keeping my figure up ect. He kept his promise and I did as well.
@@motherof2wifeof18 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Only 8 years difference, still under 30, yet they thought he was "too old." You were right to not listen to them, they're confused.
Most women listen to respond but this young lady listened to understand and wasn’t stuck in her ways I love everything about her and wish her the best
Shes soo cute. I love girls like her. Feminine, nice personality, no tacky weave on her head, no tattoos , bad attitude etc...
How the hell you know she got no tattoos ?
None wrong wit tattoos
@@anotheryoutubeaccount8122 tattoos aren’t wrong but they make you look hard as a woman n as you age it makes you look like you had a rough life.
Her hair isnt real tho bud
@@anotheryoutubeaccount8122 Tattoos are gross.
I am actually pulling for this young lady. She's charming, very rare indeed.
She ain’t young though
Litpk she is young
@@timlynch6271 30 is not young
She's from Mississippi bruh. Women from Mississippi are made different.
@@litpk4580 not to an 18 year old
I noticed that his female callers who are more attractive and have less baggage are more willing to listen and are less argumentative.
They don’t get triggered from decisions they didn’t make while young
Kevin what the name of the liquor you are sipping on
It's no different in business. Far easier to work with corporate clients than Joe down the street.
Less argumentative (“I hear you”), but they’re not heeding.
@@amenhotepmaat3657 I’m assuming you’re joking? It’s red Bull by the way.
It really shocks me that almost every woman on his show is “college educated “ but literally 90% of his show is him just repeating himself and asking the same 10 questions 20 different ways each is more simple then the previous
She's cute. She struggled but she was respectful and several points really landed. If she's wise she'll reflect on this and make the changes to have the life she wants.
I disagree I think most of what he was sharing went right over her head.
She was so drop dead gorgeous.. made me wish I was 5 years older lol she has a bias but her open mindedness is so beautiful. How the hell is she single?!?!
She’s beautiful, smart and so levelheaded. No clue how she’s single. Idc if I’m 7 years younger, I’d shoot my shot lol
@@Dasanie relax she was a 6.5
@@erich4624 bullshit she's at least an 8
I’m only 25 minutes in and I’ve already concluded that what she’s looking for is a “What’s mine is mine and What’s his is mine” type of marriage. Notice how she continues searching for loopholes?
that why she is single the guys read it and leave
@@vanhuvanhuvese2738: She’s especially trying to salvage the whole “You can have it all” concept.
Yeah, I'd peeped that too. She was being low Key with it.
They ALL are the leaches.
Yes exactly
She's feminine..fit and cooperative...top tier
😆 🤮
@@thehiprabbit6091 what is wrong with you? 🤦🙄
@@melbournedixen1356
What’s wrong with you??????
@@melbournedixen1356 ...He's probably trolling. A lot of men would say she's cute and seems to be easy to get a long with. Probably would make a good wife.
She’s to old
Kevin please... start a match program. This sister is a winning wife in the making. And their are black men out here that would LOVE TO COURT her for marriage. No lie, I would love to meet her.
uh he has a FB group of HVM looking for women that qualify for them. 3 engagements and a marriage in last 9 months
It would've been a good idea for sure 💯 I feel like it would've found success for sure 👍. A No-Nonsense matching app for high value people, and for idealistic relationships that mirror the ideals that Kevin preaches in every video 💯
8 months later and there are Asian men like me who'd love to meet her too.
Where you able to connect with her? I'm curious 😊
She will be the same one complaining about him never having time for her or the kids because he’s always working
Hell yea.
I'm so happy as a woman you said that... my cousin was dating a guy from New york, dude made 400,000 a year, & she told him I would not be happy with you working all the time...she makes 200000 in DC... IF you get a man making that much you gotta sacrifice, he's a go getter..
@@callenjohnson81 whiles 90 Percent of women want him. He will leave her
🤦🏾♂️ they never think it through...its the Walt Disney fantasy for me
Be quiet. She said she wants to work! And never said she wants a man earning $400k. You all are ridiculous acting like all couples make $400k to take care of a family
She so attractive and feminine. Really hope it works out for her!!
Yes she is
She is!
That southern twang.
@Mujahid Rahmaan that was very unnecessary.
Yes, she looks like she will make a great mother as well
She seems like a genuinely nice person. She didn't once try to one up Kevin, she was honestly listening. She just needs to get out of that backwoods town, before it's too late. When you grow up in those small towns, the dudes she went to school with were her only options. What he said was on point, you move there after your married.
She bad and classy. And she understands that she has to submit to a man. Most women dont want to submit but want to respect there man. Doesnt work that way
She’s nice because she isn’t that smart. Souther bell mindset. And no school doesn’t mean you’re smart
@@xxstract28 She is VERY naive. I don’t think she has a clue what she wants. Very sad because she is a nice person.
I agree for the most part. I live in a town with roughly 100,000 and I feel like it definitely hinders your dating options.
@@TheGamingHarbinger That's beyond a feeling, just an absolute fact. Dating is a numbers game for men, so lower numbers means lower game and therefore lower success. Definitely get to a more populated area while you're at the age you can experiment and play the field actively.
This was a great call. She is a very attractive woman. I have been to Southaven, MS twice for a concert. She is honest and she listens. Kind eyes. A lot of women have been conditioned to do what she do (education and more education). She is 31 now. If she focuses and maintains her femininity and cooperative nature, she will be a wife and a mother. One of the smoothest conversations I have seen.
Guys, we got to give the lady applaud for good conversation. no screaming and yelling. active listening and strategic response. she is really getting advice.
A pleasant rarity...
The bar set too low
I agree. You can see the way she was staring at her screen. She really came for answers!
She was cute as well
Nah... She doesn't get props for not being abrasive. That's called communicating like an average, functioning adult.
Also, she's a bullshitter and, on multiple occasions, couldn't give a simple, straight answer. She just happened to be relatively pleasant during the exchange.
she's polite, can have a laugh and keep a conversation going. definitely in good spirits. best of luck ✌
Everytime Kevin posts I log on all 3 of my accounts and hit the thumbs up. Brothers keep the same energy promote this brother
Do that for my channel lol
Done good advice
@@fie_biggestfan whats your channel yo. Mine is Keystoanotherworld i write music beats etc.
U got too much time in your hands chief
@@Goval400 How so? How is taking time to invest in a brother who gives advice for free too much time? If you have the energy to watch the videos and the content the same energy needs to go towards supporting the creator.
I loved the transparency of this video. 1st time ever hearing another man say that a man's brain don't click till 30 besides my husband..the realness is muchly appreciated. My husband and I are almost a decade apart. I love it bc I have learned so much from him being older and I keep things very exciting for him being younger. We mesh very well together I thank God for him, couldn't imagine being with anyone else going through this new dating pool. Must be frustrating for this new era 🥴
She is a pretty girl. Well spoken , smart , ladylike qualities. I feel like she needs to move to a bigger city and she’ll be fine.
She would be just fine in Memphis if she put in the work to find the right men. I'm over the river in Arkansas in a town of 80,000 and I hang out with millionaires all day at the country club. The problem with black women isn't that the men don't exist. They just do absolutely nothing to find them and please them.
@sherry siba You don't know how to please a man? Well....it isn't telling us about your day or the latest gossip on your cousin Becky. Men have been very straightforward for thousands of years about what pleases us. It has been included in the jokes of many comedians. Mr. Samuels here talks about it daily. You really don't know how to please a man?
@sherry siba When you are old enough, sex, food, silence. Learn to cook. Learn to give him peace and quiet. Learn to obey.
Or don't. And be single. Men are not complicated and do not ask for much. If you want a good man, be prepared to have the basics nailed.
It’s refreshing when he speaks to a woman likes this. She is 👌🏾💯.
Yes I find him to be an ahole. He speaks rudely to unattractive women. I found this channel not sure how it got I. But I wished young women would go to the woman of substance for advise and their fathers for validation. This broken vessel cant advise any woman on anything because he speaks through hurt. BE CAREFUL . Stop add these characters to your life whom you asked God to remove.
He’s not all that... idiot
@@testedtried1233 yet you literally watch all of his content and comment on it💀 you come back just to disagree. Just go to another channel. You KNOW he’s right so you come back because deep down you know its the truth. God isn’t going to fix your problems only YOU can mr.pastor🤣
@@testedtried1233 Women getting info from other single women about relationships is real smart🤦🏽♂️ The Therapist NEEDS to be a man.
@@soulsayso1243 And that's why they single
Like the fact that she looks naturally (absent all the makeup & foot long eye lashes) attractive and seems more agreeable, reasonable than most of the ones he's talked to..
I agree. She just needs an older man who knows how to lead. She don't know alot but she is beautiful and seems to be very cooperative. When her man leads, then she can be more focused on the feminine aspect of things that she is missing right now. I was very encouraged by the dialogue. Best of luck to her.
@@clarencetodman7369 I follow Kevin. Agree with most of his assessments concerning delusional women. Though she hasn't taken an optimal path for starting a family, she belongs to the exceptions that confirm the rules. An older man would be lucky to have her, but she doesn't NEED one. I believe her when she says she's willing to work with her man. Kevin is right that she shouldn't wait any longer. And if she looks now for a man she could build with, I'm sure they will work it out and be just fine.
@@cetti4405 When I said older, I only meant older that her. One year, 10 years, that don't matter as much in this case. Someone that she can look up to. A man that has a clear direction for the family. He needs to be further along than she is so that she can rest in her femininity. She can't respect him and rest in her femininity if she has to build with him. To me, building with a man is for younger women. But I respect and appreciate your perspective.
@@clarencetodman7369 You could be right, but like I said, exceptions confirm the rules because not everyone ticks the same or follow what most may deem a logical formula. But I appreciate yours, as well...
@Jonathan MOORice Ok, if you see it that way. I see it different. She pretty much concurs with him, but tries to express that she wants a different life than most of the others. But, whatever....
She listens and seems to be cooperative and also seems to grasp what he’s saying and the fact that she’s not wearing makeup speaks volumes to her true beauty. She’s top tier.
You're a sweet attractive young woman.
Don't overthink it, just find a guy you like and take it from there.
I wish you every happiness.
strangers WILL NOT be raising my children within the first years of their lives when they cant even speak for themselves. Hell no. Im staying home caring and being the primary educator of my child. Manipulation and abuse are too serious out here. Not to mention corona like he said.
I definitely agree!!!!
Do you have kids?
Small children will wear you out. Nannies and Au Pairs are a god send. This doesn’t take away from you being a good mother!
Mommy’s health is important for the entire household.
@Return Of the black kings lol right
@@katpod86 no I don’t have kids, but my daughter passed away 2008!!!! I don’t know if that question was replied to me! But ol girl from the video is cute af! She can have my children any day!!!! lol 😂
I stayed home with our children until they were in lower elementary grades. I read to them, took them places, cooked nutritious meals, etc. It was a sacrifice, but well worth it. Our daughter got a tuition paid college scholarship. Hopefully Our son should be able to do the same. I’m working now and help pay bills and save for retirement. It’s not easy but teamwork gets it done.
I’m a 59 year old women and if there are women that disagrees or angry at this mans intellect about knowing about us then you need your head examined. I’ve been listening to him for over a year and he spits nothing but facts on this whole relationship thing. Not to sure about the 21-25 year old but some are angry because he speaks financial, economic and social values that makes one really question their own relationship habits. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Speak on Kevin.
I'm a 48 yr. Old widow. I'm from Mississippi so I'm very feminine and was submissive to my husband. This is the first video I've watched. The comments however, kind of confirms what I thought. I can't expect anything as men are looking for younger women. I have adult children so my biological clock has rang and is done. Even 60 and 70 year olds are looking for younger women. I guess I should start looking for a dog.
I work at a hospital and black southern women are some of the most unbelievably upbeat, optimistic, sweet, lively women I’ve ever met. Their bedside manner with there patients is something else its damn near impossible to be in a sour mood around them, I don’t like to generalize but every one of these ladies I meet from the age of 22-70 who work there are such friendly and warm people its a pleasure working with them.
So true, I work with a lot of these ladies as travel nurses and they are genuinely sweet, respectful
, helpful and they work really hard.
Thank you for the vote of confidence. I have been nursing for 36 years single since 2006. I wish I could meet a nice man
She doesn t understand a man who is 32 - 35 is not checking for her at age 30. He is looking for the 23 - 27 year old.
She needs to date man who are in their late 30’s & early 40s Bc she seems like a pleasant woman. She needs to get on it
Nah I'm 32 and I'm looking for a 20 year old
@@jeremiahlewis4630 lol
@Savanna St. Laurent That's that feminism indoctrination talking. 20 years old is old enough to decide for herself who she wants to be with or not.
@@olaakande5581 perhaps she is a decent woman Memphis doesn't have a good track record it is the baby momma capital.
That whole “women mature faster than men” thing, might be very outdated in this day and age
I agree, but I would say the percentage has decreased.
Nah, now that I think about it. They absolutely do mature faster; think about it every male wants a younger female so they evolved that way for the sake of offspring. As far as sound reasoning and logic, they haven’t had to evolve past a certain age and level of potency because the man interacted with the world more.
I never believed that crap
@@xEMOANHATARON it was never true
If they mean that a talent for manipulation and deceit is proof of maturity, I have no argument against it.
The more I watch KS show, the more I realize most women are not practical. It’s pretty interesting
They Delusional asf
Not at all. It’s sad glad I’m married
I’m a woman and I completely agree with you
The more i watch, the more I want to stay single.
Frfr bro 🤦🏾♂️
I love when Kevin is able to vibe and have a genuine conversation with a woman. When they are combative and egotistical from the beginning, his energy is way more blunt and serious. This woman will be just fine, great energy, pretty, head on straight. She'll be ok in the man department. She just can't allow all of her free time to be buried into her work. That's a mistake alot of us make.
I love the appreciation of this young lady’s natural beauty in these comments!
adjustable 6 , well mannered but far from natural the red prop and that hat hair skews the look and gets her to an adjustable 6 , remove the props and then re calculate she also hid her fingers very well aka hands and nail cost and the usual Tatoo's it would be nice to see her true natural look she could be hiding 200 lbs below that face . also be hard to fathom this woman not having kids at her age adjustable 6 with 2 kids if she isnt a 230 lb woman with tats and nails the hat hair is a given she did show that unless you blind and think that is real hair .
She seems sweet but misguided. She's definitely attractive enough to draw a decent guy's attention. If she takes Kevin's advice, then she might find her match. I hope it all works out for her.
Kevin is WAY too nasty with women, even if he's right. This woman is sweet and kind and lovely. I wish her infinite blessings and hope she gets what she desires
@@Blodia1990 why do you say that can't talk to them like kids that part of the problem now sorry telling anything they want to hear. And good simps.
Those are facts
Hope it works out for her too!
Yes! But she's probably like alot of black women, she will have a hair problem, her hair hidden is a red flag
@@blkgranit333 I don't think so. She just has a headwrap around her braids.
Where all my super straight mofos at. Class started, hurry up😁
What's this super straight thing? I've been seeing it all day
@@NOYBZ it's a saying I came out as "super straight" as my sexuality = only and strictly attracted to biological females
@@alexmason8557 It's sad it has to come to that unfortunately. I've seen many times LGBT members shaming men for being straight.
@@alexmason8557 yo I like this
Orange and black gang gang
I love these INTELLIGENT conversations over the conversations that are confrontational. They are very informative.
he is so correct about men in the 30's and the light now clicking on because most of us werent trained like that or matured fast enough.
A lot of us also had either no dad or a weak dad these days, and it’s been life and smart older guys that have told us what we need to be doing. I just turned 35 and I’m mentally miles away from where I was when I was 30.
Shaun Hensley I literally can get a high paying job just from connections at this point. I’m 35. And I’m totally overpowered for a man in his 20’s to compete against for that reason.
@@hornetguy9063 Help me out im a young gee looking to be financially free don't really care about being high value to pursue a female I want it for myself studying a business degree
I’m 33, and I tell my wife everyday I don’t know how I survived my 20s🤣 I was dumb as ish 🤦🏽♂️
I’ll admit things did not start clicking to me until I was 30. It seem liked as soon as I turned 30 I started to become more focused than I have ever been, I’m 32 will be 33 next month with two rental properties and my own business with no kids. I know where I want to be by 40 and I know what type of woman I want to start a family with. On top of it my father was in my life and that plays a major part b/c I took after him of having my own business, I do exactly what he does but better because of technology, and quite a few black males don’t have that so that individual mindset probably won’t click until much later passed 30.
I like how she says “allow him” and “give him”
It shows the mindset she has and what level she puts a man. Good luck to all these single woman. They really need it.
The financial questions are brilliant. The way they answer shows unrealistic expectations. Instead of any of them saying a selfless answer, they always show a high level of selfishness. That’s how he knows what he’s dealing with.... and they still don’t get it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Noneoftheabuv it shows realistically they just love the idea of the man, not the actual man ..
@GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest By 'Wm' do you mean 'white man' ? If so.... nah brah! All men are waking up.
@GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest no what you mean is there easier to control and white men aren’t easier then black men. We give you guys chances another race wouldn’t. No other race is even checking to date any of you.
@@unavailablebbjh8720 Amen. White guys would disqualify her ASAP and wouldnt care.
“Because we’re grown ups, everything IS about finances” couldn’t have said it better
Facts!!!😂😂😂
This was a great conversation. I am really pulling for this sweet young woman. She engaged Kevin in an open and engaging way. I hope she is able to get married to someone who will cherish her feminine traits and traditional mindset.
She’s actually a good catch, whatever man finds her is going to be very lucky
Yes she’s definitely a catch!
Where is she!!!!
@@the_creative70
For the zoology society
Aww thats so beautiful i hope she find love and joy from a strong leadership's in her husband
@@SySyPlayDay
😆 she’s gonna be a baby mama
Mama has told them to go after their education and not a man. They become educated professional singles for life.
Their mommas still compete with their daughters. So they'll say stuff like that so the daughters will be lonely and alone.
FACTS
My friend showed me an article today of a woman who froze her eggs (for the low low price of $19,000) in her late 30’s, continued her hunt for “mr right” while doing her career woman thing, gave up the ghost when she was almost 45, found a sperm donor and unfroze her eggs, only for none of them to be viable.
If I was black pilled like Aaron Clarey, I would probably be laughing my ass off. But since I’ve that stupid Christianity in me that makes me not enjoy suffering in others, I feel bad that she was sold a life of lies. Hopefully she can find something that will bring her satisfaction.
Living a Hollywood fantasy vicariously through they kids instead of preparing them to make the next generation better.
@@hornetguy9063 Damn thats brutal
Ladies, let me let you in on what we hear when we hear things like "I want my man to pay the major bills": "Sometimes I will pick up the groceries, and occasionally a light bill, and I want to be praised for it."
There are no such things as major and minor bills. There is the household budget.
A note on daycare: infant daycare, in most major cities, is $1,000/week.
Yep. No dude twill sign up for that ish. I know a nurse practioner. She's nice as can be and is her head is hard as a rock. She refuses to submit to anyone.
Financially, it doesn’t make sense. And if he’s the top earner, he can pay for a better woman. It’s easier to just get a hooker and call it a day.
Kevin says men should pay for everything though
You mean a thousand a month? Lol
@@mr.culturefreedom2073 good luck with her man
This chick is actually sharp! There is hope for this one. 🙏
Men dont like competition. We will not fight to chase u. U act difficult, we move on
Well u should chase. Don't hurt to. U don't want her if u font chase her.
@@neicynunnery bibical, god said that he would give you a wife and i to not chase a woman. So i live by that, women always come at me(not boasting) i simply do me and make sure im right mentally, physically and spiritually. Anything else is an add-on to me.
I dont have sexual desires so i dont find it useful to be with someone other than to be friends
@@Giopowered and that OK too . so how do u respond to them? Do u like the chase?
@@neicynunnery i speak to them with respect and treat them like a human being. Guys think too much when approaching women and women are naturally talented at picking up on that. So i just simply speak to them as if i see someone who i could hang out with, not trying to smash. That would just discourage her to not further the conversation in the future.
Funny story. I disrespected a waitress. (Before i did, i knew how she spoke and carried her self) so i kept making judging remarks at her like
“Why you so dry, get wild, slap me damn”
“wow this food terrible, but its ight tho(small laugh)”.
“give me a water, please please, feel like ima die”
After dinner. I asked for her number while she was cleaning. She told me “why you didnt ask before dinner” i laughed😂
Me being 17 picked up the 21 year waitress lol but she ghosted me kuz i aint have a car at the time😂she didnt have one either so i aint care
@@Giopowered I feel u.
Can you imagine wanting to build a house, and not understanding the skills needed, cost, time frame, or what material to use. How is that going to work out? I hope she learned something and gets what she wants out of life.
Well stated brother. As we real professionals cal: “backwards planning!”
Most women don’t know and have never heard this unless they are prior military.
"Passively a criminal"
That is a good reference.
She hasn't and she won't.
I was thinking how building a house is too different from what she wants. Then I began to remember what I was like before I learned to build furniture. I went in with the mindset to complete a task step by step with limited tools. Now I see your point.
My Mom and Dad were married 35 years before they passed away. My Dad made six figures and my Mom worked by choice. My Dad led the family and my Mom followed.
King and queen philosophy is undefeated!
"Followed" 😶
@@elieminam4749 yes followed, the man must lead , no submission no man.
@@cinnamonmarshae5230 How would you define 'submission'
@@elieminam4749 taking care of the way a woman should, no slavery shit being there when he needs you.
My white classmate told me in high school she was choosing her college based on the type of men that went to that school.
She chose a major, and school that was prominently male and why… she said bc she wanted to make sure she could find a man of means.
Or get ran thru
@@STOPPEDINCOLORADO nice healthy mindset you've got there
Pursuing her MRS degree....
That's what the movie Mona Lisa Smile was pretty much based on. back in the 1950s that's why lots of WW went to college.
@@STOPPEDINCOLORADO What you said makes no sense. If a woman wants to get run through, her major is irrelevant. If somebody goes to engineering, medicine or law specifically, it's because they want to get with an engineer, doctor or lawyer in the future.
"I want the man to be assertive enough to chase me"
As much as I appreciate the honesty and traditionalism, asking a man to do that in modern society is the same as asking a man to risk his career and reputation; it's not just rejection he's risking anymore.
The American culture... Tsk tsk
However, she’s has no intention of ever wanting to be a homemaker. She’s nothing close to traditional as she says she is, unless of course it’s something that benefits her solely.
She wants to be chased While not making herself available. Smh
This was a great conversation… respectful on both ends. Even though she’s only 30 she didn’t over talk him, didn’t get defensive or confrontational and more importantly she LISTENED for understanding. Most women could learn a lot from her demeanor!
Black women problems is black women not black men we just stayed humble meanwhile our women turned around and looked down on us, it’s sad really. Go ahead and be lonely with a degree.
Yup. AND they the same ones saying they are the BACKBONE of the black community 😒
If they are the backbone, they're doing a shitty job.
They were taught since they were little to compete with & disrespect black men.
Exactly
@@YourLocalRussianNegro True 👍
Nothing new it’s been going on for 50 years now. Really longer than that I suggest all black people to do some basic history (read Daughters Of The Trade & The Man Not) The contempt of black men has been going on since chattel slavery. It was just a different culture and hid better under the silent generation and previous generations before them.
She is one of the few that you would have sympathy for if she doesn`t end up with what she (realistically) is looking for.
I talked to my bro today. He recently married the woman who he's been dealing with for decades. Bro told me about his struggle. He told me that he started off making 8 dollars an hour on his current job. He is now making 28 an hour. He used to drive a car with no heat. The girl he married stuck with him throughout it all. Now she is reaping the rewards. I texted her and congratulated their nuptials. I remember them living in some not so desirable spots. He told me there were times when he had 20 dollars to his name but all the bills were paid. He also raised her 2 sons from a previous relationship as his own. The boys were very young when they met. He is the only father they know. I salute bro.
Big facts. Unspoken hero. Tell him Mr Good Dad said salute 👏🏾
Incredible!
It sounds like they both needed and found value in each other. I love hearing stories of decent people staying with their significant other and building a life. Congrats to them.
He should've found someone without kids. Perhaps he will teach that to her kids.
I'm a white middle aged dude and I find that nurse very attractive. She has a good personality as well. Her speaking style (her accent) needs to be more sophisticated to get higher level men, though. She should find a vocal coach.
She didn't shame, curse, insult, get hypo-aggressive & actually LISTENED. She can get wifed in a heartbeat, just gotta be strategic & put in work. Best guest of all time 🏆
I can tell that she’s a good one. Let her do some critical thinking about what matters the most. May the universe bless her!
True, I think she just needs a little more time to figure herself out with the right guidance & then she will be alright.
She's a beauty too
Look like it.
@@ghariiscool no she aint cmon she hiding that bigass head she average at best and she 30 pretty much done at this point
She displayed potential for greatness. She listened and was humble
This woman has a chance of finding someone. Just needs everything that was discussed sink in and then take action
Damn ones of Kevin’s best episodes. More women like her should call in
It really was
Lawd knows this brother is so right on this. Every time I broke up with someone or was at a lull in life, I went back to school and got a degree. Young sisters he ain’t never lied. I am not in any of your age groups. However, I’ve learned a lot listening to Kevin. I understand and I am accountable for the decisions I made as a young woman. Dayum. Sad this info wasn’t available for me and so many other women when we were young.
Agreed
I was taught these principles throughout my life, by my parents. But still ended up wasting alot of time with sisters who were resistant and full of game at any level. So I couldn't replicate the structure needed , that I had grown up learning from. My mother had these conversations with me all the time.
It came down to the mindset that kept my dreams of building in marriage down, and I wasn't settling because I choose Masculinity and leadership. ....just sad. But I am so happy that I got a chance to see it revealed to so many.
I was very disappointed with our sisters conduct and behavior, but kept trying anyway.
Now it doesn't matter, I am just happy to have experienced the undeniable truth.... finally! Thank you and RIP Mr. Samuels.
My husband is 10 years older than me. We met when I was 24 years. We’ve been together for 32 years and married for 28 years.
Instead of you tell & writing plays for women on the game on keeping a husband, u'd rather comment on yt *SMH*
She’s super beautiful!! Also, it’s really hard to conceptualize the responsibility of caring for others in a financial manner. It’s also hard for women to conceptualize motherhood and how they will feel about raising children until they are in it.
This sister seem like a good good woman, she is respectful, she listens, not loud, intelligent, ambitious and attractive. I just really hope she finds a good man.
she said that she does not want to be a homemaker, and that she loves her work, and would drop off the baby at a day care. I am a HVM according to KS, and this persona is a big avoid for me.
I caught that too, she still has the mindset of a nice 19 year old.
EXACTLY the type of female I would never get with. trust a stranger with OUR children?? HELL nah!
Global Go Getter my friend used to work for a woman with a full time nanny, and the woman would “schedule” 30 minutes a day to spend with her infant. That kid is going to grow up looking to his nanny as his real mother.
Like the entire point to marrying a “high value man” for a woman is that he can provide the income and strategic leadership to the home, while said woman can make sure the children receive the best life possible. Daycare is a nonstarter for a lot of these guys.
America is becoming very expensive to live in nowadays and many of these females want a FINANCIAL PLAN that happens to come with a husband
They got me f*cked up if they think I’m letting my child in daycare. That’s something you should do if both parents *have* to work to make ends meet. If you can survive off one parents income, or maybe both parents are retired, then why would you put your child in daycare?
I am a 63 year old woman. If only I would have been given this kind of truth at a young age. Unfortunately, when I was young, I thought I knew everything (based on societal norms, etc.). Now, I watch you, and am able to recognize your absolute truth: these lovely young ladies would do well to listen and to stop pressing forward with their own stubborn ideas as their guide. Their lives would be much happier in the long and the short run. Many less "train wrecks".
🙏🙏💯💯
Call Kevin show and tell your story
@@youngdrey1 facts bro ,we need more stories like hers .as well as women her age that are married because,most these young chicks taking advice from bitter feminist ,who actually envy them.
@GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest The advice I was referring to was acceptance of the man's leadership, being submissive, and being unselfish. Also, not expecting total perfection from a man in order to stay with him...it's beyond unrealistic to expect that from anyone. Also, toss in the advice about staying in shape, for a multitude of reasons.
Why do men avoid marriage nowadays? For the same reason people in jail avoid picking up the soap.
😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
That soap will stay there
Lol that’s the funny thing about this channel.
Marriage ain’t worth it these days and it’s not just black men thinking this.
🤣🤣🤣 this joke never gets old
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Man: *Logical and observable point made...*
Woman: *Yeah, BUT I FEEL like....*
😭
BRUH
Men: we live on planet earth
Women: Yeah but...
THIS. Which is why I'll only deal with them short-term...
Yea call and tell your landlord you dont FEEL like paying the rent. He isnt going to say "aw ok thats fine you can live rent free". Hes going to evict you.
When the student is ready, the teacher appears
I'm assuming that stand for 🤡
Meme of the day
_"So what's lesson number three?"_
_"To get to lesson number four."_
She is a great student for a Master Teacher
Yep.
Mr. Samuels,
Everything you said was 100% accurate!!!
Thank you for leading the way and being honest with us Black Women. It is certainly needed in our community.
Derrick jaxn have been canceled 🗑 ladies get your answers from Kevin.
The love the LIES!!! They rock with derrick til they end up with 4-5 cats 🧐
Can’t believe some women are mad at the girl more than HIS ASS!! Make it make sense!! Lol he’ll lose some support but I doubt most of his supporters will leave his side
whaaaat???? this is some news.
They gonna excuse his infidelity watch 🤣
@@viharm2960 Yeah, do some googles lol. You'll find it, he's in TROUBLE.
I like her, she’s cute and she gives off a soft feminine vibe!
Rare nowadays. They don’t even exist in California anymore.
Cute? She looks masculine to me with bumps and dark spots all over her face.
@@mr.keptitreal ,she's pretty. Non makeup on her Face and she's pretty. She was probably wearing Makeup on her Face. The reasoning for the pimples and darker spots.
@@mr.keptitreal 🤢🤢do better
@@mr.keptitreal her face isn’t that bad to me she’s cute she’s in her 30s now but she ain’t bad I would definitely date her if I was close to her age lol
Kevin was really trying to get her to see how she hasn’t even thought about the logistics and finances of being a mother. Let alone a wife.... women have to Mentally and physically prepare for the life we need. We assume it’ll Just come
I completely agree with this!
Half of us are not taught or don't see any suitable examples of this, because the woman around us are hurt, abused, alone or suffering, we learn everything too late and by then, the men we need for what we need them for, don't need us 🤦🏾♀️
He was incredibly rude and dismissive the entire time, and he would use some weird ultimative extremes, to discredit her, and he would rudely cut her off anytime she tried to explain her stance or reasoning.
GALLLLL 😍 😍 😍 TALK OKKK YES
@@neoloanderson6676 this isn't the same for men??? Only women undergo trauma throughout life?
This was a great interview. This women is very respectful and open. She has hope if she makes the right moves
His interaction with her was far different than in other interviews. More calm and pleasant. Her kind spirit mellowed him out. Either that or the brown he was sippin on 😂😂😂😂
He’s always like this when “feminine” women call in
He said in a interview before that he matches the persons energy towards him
You mean that Red Bull he pour in a glass? lol
Agreed. But I would also say that many of the women who are on here with him are very defensive. They defend everything they do and have done. It is never, I was wrong for anything, just what I did was right because some man did this somewhere. Not all of the women, but many that I have seen.
@@dcclark8870 its always a "but men get away..." With what? Your feelings?
She’s a good woman. She’s going to find her match very soon.
She beautiful, (naturally beautiful)
She’s confident (even when Kevin tried to take shots but she’s confident where his shots didn’t affect her)
She can listen to comprehend instead of listening to respond and cutting him off..
She has southern charm.
Has a great job and is willing to move
I’m not siding with Kevin on this one. This woman was the best one yet
Facts
alert...drop college and PHD's to get a man...ALERT ALERT
He does have a valid point you don’t need a PhD if the man is carrying 75% of the bills why is that hard for women to understand
@@lastmanoftomorrow2840 soooo if he leaves her then what????
I would do some bad things to her, in a good way! Lol she is sweet. She probably works too much.
She gives me a lil hope lol. I love the way she presented herself.
Lol
Certainly. These types of women are golden if she is as solid as this behind closed doors.
I agree
I've just recently found this channel so I've probably missed a lot, but the beginning of this conversation really gave me hope, I'm 35 and I've gotten established in my career the last few years or so and starting to feel like I'm about ready to settle down, but I've been getting a bit down on myself lately thinking I'm getting too old to find someone to start a family with, I really appreciate that!
This was one of his most productive videos that I have seen. It wasn't combative. It was just informative.
for kevin, it was a cool, nonconfrontational video, it seemed to present a different energy.
And I say again. The culture needs this man! 👊🏿
America needs this man.
@@jamaaldaynitelong8367 Nope!!!! Absolutely NOTTT !!!!!
@@jamaaldaynitelong8367 absolutely. I know his main focus is the black community but he’s also very much speaking to all men and women at large. And he speaks in a way that’s easy to understand.
Absolutely! Yes!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is a normal average but beautiful woman and I would be happy and satisfied given she had the right feminine qualities. But would she be happy with the normal average black man or feel like she’s settling? That’s why black women are single
Yep. Pass
@@leeolie3728 facts hard pass
Great Point....She would say she settled for the average man who could bringing in $70,000 a year....this is the Truth. She thinks she is better than Men who would have to foot most of the bills any damn way.
I have a black buddy who thought this too. He's hating life right now.
how can you be average and beautiful at the same time? that makes NO sense. 5 is average is a 5 beautiful compared to a 10? that sounds like sitting on the fence talk to me.
You go girl you are charming, truthful, cute, humble and a beautiful all round personality..... Good luck dear ! !
Almost every black woman I've dated in the past, was like being in a war . Smart , sexy , well educated fighters . No feminine energy. Even the ones that look sweet and walk feminine still had that fire in their chest like a dude on steroids . I'm stubborn though, because I love black women and I didn't give up . I found my boo . She was a little rough but she smoothed right on out because she was teachable. Now we're married and the very best of friends. Took a lot of work, but it was worth it . Submitting doesn't mean becoming a slave, it means becoming a cooperative mate with your significant other.
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Naw, I'm done teaching women. Nowadays, they've got to come ready made with batteries included! ;-D Or I'll just use my passport again!
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I understand you’re plan, with that issue. Great relationship aren’t built over night. But what I noticed in must great relationship, everyone know their role in the relationship, and that’s the making of a great relationship.
@@phillyraider4927 theres no such things a roles in a relationship