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  • @Elias_98
    @Elias_98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8885

    Women want traditional men while being “modern” but if men say we want traditional women, we get called misogynists 😂

    • @diablo2punk
      @diablo2punk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      Right 😆

    • @TMills-wi8hv
      @TMills-wi8hv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      🎯

    • @SirYeetus
      @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +436

      They want their cake & eat it too. What they don't understand is, biology doesn't bend to her will. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships & she needs to conform in order to keep a man.

    • @a.wilkerson2nd334
      @a.wilkerson2nd334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Facts

    • @DeeNice2023
      @DeeNice2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Facts

  • @macman9689
    @macman9689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +707

    see how Kevin energy is throughout this session? because the woman is actually LISTENING and not ready to be combative and argumentative and can actually answer a frenchtoast question.

    • @angelicangell4975
      @angelicangell4975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      🤣 cute adding Kevin's
      "FRENCH TOAST"
      Love it!🤗

    • @LekramNosnevets
      @LekramNosnevets 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Kevin is definitely rubbing off on his viewers... French toast!!!🤣🤣🤣

    • @jesterarts734
      @jesterarts734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@LekramNosnevets ..."Unmute yourself"... lol I'm joking.

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is what we love seeing, a woman that can have a good conversation. I have watched this interview twice and I still like how this lady presented herself.

    • @macman9689
      @macman9689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @subjugation G0lDen GOD Worshipping that word salad escapes me. talk to me like i'm a 4th grader🙂

  • @Influencial_ross
    @Influencial_ross 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Most women listen to respond but this young lady listened to understand and wasn’t stuck in her ways I love everything about her and wish her the best

  • @the1andonlylele
    @the1andonlylele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    She’s a good woman. She’s going to find her match very soon.
    She beautiful, (naturally beautiful)
    She’s confident (even when Kevin tried to take shots but she’s confident where his shots didn’t affect her)
    She can listen to comprehend instead of listening to respond and cutting him off..
    She has southern charm.
    Has a great job and is willing to move
    I’m not siding with Kevin on this one. This woman was the best one yet

    • @acisner2
      @acisner2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

    • @daphnehorton4969
      @daphnehorton4969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      alert...drop college and PHD's to get a man...ALERT ALERT

    • @lastmanoftomorrow2840
      @lastmanoftomorrow2840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He does have a valid point you don’t need a PhD if the man is carrying 75% of the bills why is that hard for women to understand

    • @daphnehorton4969
      @daphnehorton4969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lastmanoftomorrow2840 soooo if he leaves her then what????

    • @winstonthomas4576
      @winstonthomas4576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would do some bad things to her, in a good way! Lol she is sweet. She probably works too much.

  • @leveragelifestyle8581
    @leveragelifestyle8581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Haha she said, "you think so"? "I think this is boiling down to finances". She's a doll but she suffers from the same thing most women do, once the numbers come in they don't want to admit they want a man with money.

    • @MrJasonSlade
      @MrJasonSlade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yo, l bust out laughing at that part. I'm like, this man been trying to tell you that for 20 minutes and it's just now kind of sort of hitting you that your expectations in the marriage have financial implications! And then she kept changing her answers because she started to realize this is about money, but didn't want to make it about money. So in the beginning when she says yes I only want to pay for 20% of the finances, she realized well then you need a man that makes a bunch of money, so she later changes it and says no I'm trying to work full time and put kids in daycare. She was exhausting to watch...

  • @travenbillberry7138
    @travenbillberry7138 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lord she fine as hell. He being way nicer to her lol 😂

  • @ReviRuling
    @ReviRuling 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    They don’t reason with Logic, they just do things that sound good to impress their mother or girlfriends! It’s very egotistical

    • @sagittariansage_2271
      @sagittariansage_2271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Its not egotistical...its bow women are wired. They are more wired for relational things and how they are related to and perceived in the community. Its not ego. Sir, try to understand deeper first before you judge.

    • @sagittariansage_2271
      @sagittariansage_2271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How*

    • @Dahlen4Dummies
      @Dahlen4Dummies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sagittariansage_2271 their ego could be different than ours. I think you are a distinction without a difference.

    • @waynejohnson3714
      @waynejohnson3714 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Preach!!

    • @Mr-R.R.
      @Mr-R.R. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sagittariansage_2271 women cannot reason with logic?

  • @anonymity2882
    @anonymity2882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Now that he mentions it, once I hit 30 I feel like dating a woman my age is too old for me.
    I do give her mad props for being respectful and receptive....

  • @croneyr
    @croneyr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    She is so beautiful. Such good energy. Gotta love that accent.

    • @H0DLTHED0R
      @H0DLTHED0R 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Back off, I saw her 1st!

    • @croneyr
      @croneyr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@H0DLTHED0R haha...help yourself. Shes not my type. But regardless..shes beautiful with great energy.. Just send me an invite to the wedding!! 😆

    • @H0DLTHED0R
      @H0DLTHED0R 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@croneyr I'll think about it.

    • @edwardbanks239
      @edwardbanks239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would definitely ask her out.

    • @ms.sharpe8820
      @ms.sharpe8820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@H0DLTHED0R lmao

  • @josephcarson8396
    @josephcarson8396 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a lovely young woman, well spoken polite happy with herself.

  • @jabarievans9604
    @jabarievans9604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    The funny thing is if you asked the same questions on to a 22 year old bottle service girl, she would have a clear answer for every question that KS asked in this video...

    • @AvonAli
      @AvonAli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You low key right.

    • @gimj1_8
      @gimj1_8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      KS already said dealing with modern black women is so complex.

    • @steadmoney3431
      @steadmoney3431 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Deb antonioni I hit bottle girls and nurses. It’s how tight your game is. That’s all that mattered

  • @joreladams5719
    @joreladams5719 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Still can't directly and simply answer a question.

  • @Amanda-x9c4c
    @Amanda-x9c4c 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They end up with two cats and an ankle biter. And when the mis match of animals fight, they act like they're taking care of the children. The delusion is real.

  • @SirYeetus
    @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5170

    Women fail to understand that high value men don't care for her income/PHD, he has his own money. The man is looking for a young, feminine, motherly, supportive companion, NOT ANOTHER DUDE.

    • @SAK85
      @SAK85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +316

      Could not agree more! I believe women DO fundamentally understand this BUT modern womanism [aka feminism] has also brainwashed a lot of woman into thinking otherwise.

    • @alyssaswann9784
      @alyssaswann9784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      I think women want to be in to support their family just in case and in the mean time. Their career ends up being their own backup plan.

    • @wowz3793
      @wowz3793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

      @@alyssaswann9784 well that’s not what high value men want. We want her attention 100% on the family. So she can get with that or buy a dog 🐶

    • @mrsalviboy94
      @mrsalviboy94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      What needs to happen is men have to tell women this concept, most modern women have been inductronated to be "free, successful, competent & masculine" that's what men were born for... a mature man will be wise and mature enough to mold her mindset towards what he ideally wants, the man has to be at least 5 years older but ideally 10 in my opinion.

    • @NEXO_JA_The_Emcee
      @NEXO_JA_The_Emcee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      even mid value " average man" doesnt care about that , only low value bums that leach

  • @Slim_Charles
    @Slim_Charles ปีที่แล้ว +227

    Lmao imagine that. She called HIS show, mannered herself with the according respect, spoke politely and directly, listened and didn’t interrupt, and the interaction was a productive one. She acted in a normal-ass civil manner and Kevin responded in kind. 😂 funny how that works.

    • @anthonyjackson1853
      @anthonyjackson1853 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      😂 agreed. Kudos to her... She seemed like a nice girl. Slightly misguided, but someone worthy of being a wife.

    • @DeCurtaRican
      @DeCurtaRican 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I found her to be attractive, and her attitude was a difference-maker. I also like her smile.

    • @helenestiernstrand6575
      @helenestiernstrand6575 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wonder how she acts normally🤔

  • @isadoramg5153
    @isadoramg5153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +718

    As a doctor, I remember when I met my husband he said: “would it be so bad for you if you didn’t work? I have plenty for both of us”. I was caught off guard, because I was raised being certain that I would have to always work my ass off to be successful, a boss woman. Now I dedicate myself mainly to support his career, take care of us, with good food, good environment and helping people around me as a physician. My career is not my priority, and I am glad for that. I feel much satisfied now and I believe I live a much more meaningful life with my man 🤗

    • @S0nyToprano
      @S0nyToprano 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      A good Christian marriage means a wife is submissive to the success of her man. Glad you figured that out! Bless you and your marriage!

    • @thegoshenproject77
      @thegoshenproject77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You were/are 1 wise woman…🙏🏽

    • @karmeniessa6694
      @karmeniessa6694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I bet he was praying you say yes its OK and not make him freak out hahah. Happy for you guys

    • @isadoramg5153
      @isadoramg5153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@karmeniessa6694 yes! Honestly, it was weird for me at first because I actually thought that my value was in my career. I was able to learn differently, thankfully! Blessings to you

    • @BratvaTV
      @BratvaTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Up until "women's lib" 150 years ago, woman's #1 job was being a mother. Men did virtually all the outside work and women took care of the home. It wasnt until a couple of feminists shoved the entire gender out into the workforce for the sake of "liberating" the poor housewife/slave. Now youre all independent, but about 100k years behind and physically not capable as much. You can thank feminism for making y'alls life so hard and helping breal up the family unit.
      The wife of the Doctor benefits just as much as the doctor. And they have someone to raise the children
      Thw wife being the Doctor, may have more money, but an non existent mom. Whats the point.

  • @duanemcclure8108
    @duanemcclure8108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1891

    My mother was strategic about marrying my father. They grew up in the same city, she said he always kept a job, attended church, and aimed high. They went on 5 dates and he became an Electrical Engineer and she a school nurse. They’ve been married for 55 years. She did the pragmatic thing and got a great life and I thank her for choosing a man wisely. Thx mom!

    • @deepheezy
      @deepheezy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ❤️❤️😊

    • @cottoncandyaddict
      @cottoncandyaddict 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      This makes my heart happy, good job Momma☺️tell her we say hi lol

    • @neoloanderson6676
      @neoloanderson6676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Does she love him?

    • @duanemcclure8108
      @duanemcclure8108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      @@neoloanderson6676 all the way from the beginning through the stages of dementia. It’s a deeper love than romantic, it’s a biblical love of respect and honor.

    • @neoloanderson6676
      @neoloanderson6676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@duanemcclure8108 Thanks for your reply 😊

  • @H0DLTHED0R
    @H0DLTHED0R 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2090

    I find her very attractive physically. No make up, natural and well mannered and spoken.
    She'll end up fine, I feel.

    • @XRPinstitute
      @XRPinstitute 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      This is all her second wind. You should have seen her at 22.

    • @gloriahodge255
      @gloriahodge255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree 👍

    • @chrispines1510
      @chrispines1510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      All these crypto user names warm my heart.

    • @XRPinstitute
      @XRPinstitute 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@chrispines1510 pockets probably feel pretty good too 👀

    • @venturesoface
      @venturesoface 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@XRPinstitute you know her fam?👀

  • @jesusmatters4222
    @jesusmatters4222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2469

    What a fine woman she is...not loud, rude, obnoxious, etc and has a sweet personality. She didn't interrupt or talk over you, and actually listened. This is a woman who is ready to be loved and desired by a real man...

    • @ninapolley5363
      @ninapolley5363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      true dat!

    • @snatchadams69
      @snatchadams69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I feel like that's pretty accurate

    • @MrMogulMoney
      @MrMogulMoney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Took the words outta my mouth! She won't have a problem finding someone for too long...

    • @venturesoface
      @venturesoface 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      She fine but I'm not moving to south haven lol

    • @billmwika7428
      @billmwika7428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Because you can tell she's spiritually aware of her existence and what's going on around her and she's actually prepared to listen and learn. Basically she's not one of these city girls or what ever they call themselves. Them disgusting drag queen looking demons

  • @anonymousopinion6209
    @anonymousopinion6209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    She's not condescending disrespectful or combative. I'm rooting for her.

  • @agnesnalikksa6342
    @agnesnalikksa6342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    As a teenager, my grandma and I watched the movie " Pretty woman" with Richard Gere.I will never forget what my grandma said whilst we watched. I know now that a really high value man doesn't care about the achievements of a woman because . "A successful man can turn any woman into a successful woman in 15 seconds. " The dude took a ho off the street and made her a high value woman in a sec. PHDs don't mean shit to the high value man you want.

    • @Thiiink
      @Thiiink ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ooooooffffff

    • @brightemerald3924
      @brightemerald3924 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This is a fantasy. Not real life.

    • @jwraywray3748
      @jwraywray3748 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      A King MAKES a woman a queen

    • @womenexplained
      @womenexplained ปีที่แล้ว +1

      couldn't have said it any better and i feel women know this but they just wanna have the phds etc so the can sort of rub shoulders with their men when push come to shove

    • @cuteblue2212
      @cuteblue2212 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In my old workplace I know a very handsome, young doctor married a stripper. I heard they are happily married with kids.

  • @HipHopBeatSource
    @HipHopBeatSource 3 ปีที่แล้ว +964

    Her southern demeanor is refreshing. There is hope for her. She's is willing to listen.

    • @TruthTalk1221
      @TruthTalk1221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I agree! She seems sweet and shes trying to learn

    • @haneefahabdullah6725
      @haneefahabdullah6725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      who are you GOD

    • @neicynunnery
      @neicynunnery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes she does and the man need to listen when she speaks. That's how it works.

    • @seanow8180
      @seanow8180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@haneefahabdullah6725 no habibti. Level up to her or catch feelings at one sentence written online by someone that you don’t know.

    • @nequestions1996
      @nequestions1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah she listens, that's the biggest thing right there.

  • @aishageorge3056
    @aishageorge3056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1832

    My father is 16 years older than my mother and they met when she was 20 and he was 36 and they've been married for 43 years. She didn't work until 35 and retired at 50 and they live in a huge house in the Caribbean. I'm kicking myself for not following in her footsteps, I felt she oppressed herself but who's laughing now...😕

    • @MrCanelover
      @MrCanelover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

      Well it's great that at least you recognize your errors unlike a lot of others. And from the looks of your pic alone, it looks like you still may have some time to get it together. Good luck!

    • @lefty206
      @lefty206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      I respect your honesty. It's all about learning these lessons in life before it's too late!

    • @SirYeetus
      @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      It's that indoctrination that feminism teach these young girls. Today's women don't understand that with all this "empowerment", you still need to be responsible for your own actions.

    • @elijahpeace5133
      @elijahpeace5133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      My Father is 20 years older then my mother they was married for 57 years but he pass away. Raised 4 kids. Life is good just miss my Father. But life is a Blessing.

    • @dor.isalla
      @dor.isalla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @aisha george Beautiful soul,its never to late to be great!! Never forget that!!

  • @bryantreed6661
    @bryantreed6661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +519

    Shes soo cute. I love girls like her. Feminine, nice personality, no tacky weave on her head, no tattoos , bad attitude etc...

    • @benbucket127
      @benbucket127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      How the hell you know she got no tattoos ?

    • @anotheryoutubeaccount8122
      @anotheryoutubeaccount8122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      None wrong wit tattoos

    • @Rontlc3317
      @Rontlc3317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@anotheryoutubeaccount8122 tattoos aren’t wrong but they make you look hard as a woman n as you age it makes you look like you had a rough life.

    • @SasukeUchiha-xy4vj
      @SasukeUchiha-xy4vj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Her hair isnt real tho bud

    • @dapperfan44
      @dapperfan44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@anotheryoutubeaccount8122 Tattoos are gross.

  • @saber3784
    @saber3784 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Really don’t like how much hate this man got when he was living. He seemed to genuinely have a vested interest in improving the black community. RIP

    • @lunarvision
      @lunarvision 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Says everything about the broken haters.

    • @vegbeg9170
      @vegbeg9170 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Those are the ones that get the most hate.
      Idk when people got it into their heads that improvement ia supposed to be pleasant

  • @KingGlinton
    @KingGlinton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +877

    She has mastered the art of LISTENING which is why the conversation went so smooth.

    • @katamix30
      @katamix30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      She is a listener, which is one key trait of a wife. She will be alright.

    • @franram7426
      @franram7426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Lives require it. She has to listen to and coordinate with veteran ER doctors every shift. She has to listen to her patients that come from the bottom to the top too. In 5 minutes she has to find the problem of EVERY patient and their total health history.
      She is a PROFESSIONAL listener.

    • @bigcohiba298
      @bigcohiba298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Listening. Is almost a skill at this point

    • @thomasking7881
      @thomasking7881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She A educated Blaq female a six figure female in a early 30s A Nurse Practitioner she can fill in for Doctor

    • @tomare6479
      @tomare6479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thomasking7881 no she cannot. She is a cute, in shape, Nurse practitioner, and she grew up in the south. A black doctor has been through rough shit and wouldn’t be this good a listener. They’ve been passed around which is a part of the training and they are not this kind of person generally. I say this as a stereotype as a black male doctor.

  • @robertjenkins7661
    @robertjenkins7661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    I am actually pulling for this young lady. She's charming, very rare indeed.

    • @litpk4580
      @litpk4580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She ain’t young though

    • @timlynch6271
      @timlynch6271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Litpk she is young

    • @litpk4580
      @litpk4580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@timlynch6271 30 is not young

    • @brianhenderson9164
      @brianhenderson9164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She's from Mississippi bruh. Women from Mississippi are made different.

    • @brianj7367
      @brianj7367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@litpk4580 not to an 18 year old

  • @toricollins6516
    @toricollins6516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +960

    She was so much easier to watch than most. You can see the gears turning in her mind. I hope she finds happiness.

    • @gabeeskridge8291
      @gabeeskridge8291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Indeed which is a HUGE reason she will link with a quality man. If she's not too Debased.

    • @blackboyfred3787
      @blackboyfred3787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      True ! She was actually listening instead of trying to debate

    • @franram7426
      @franram7426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@blackboyfred3787
      Her job is listening. She has 5 minutes to get a full medical history and find the problem in an ER setting or people die. It takes acute listening to every detail, processing that information, making quality decisions and moving forward...... every shift..... patient after patient after patient....
      People that go to an ER can only go 3 places....
      1) Home
      2) Admitted up stairs.
      or
      3) The funeral home.
      She's got 5 minutes or less to figure out if they are going to 1 or 2 and start getting them OUT of the ER. If they're trying to go to #3..... GET THE EMERGENCY ROOM PHYSICIAN ! ! !

    • @MacSmithvox
      @MacSmithvox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She seems like a quality person.

    • @HiroForever
      @HiroForever ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s cuter than an apricot scone with a scoop of ice cream on the side

  • @garialmarsh6721
    @garialmarsh6721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Kevin please... start a match program. This sister is a winning wife in the making. And their are black men out here that would LOVE TO COURT her for marriage. No lie, I would love to meet her.

    • @macman9689
      @macman9689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      uh he has a FB group of HVM looking for women that qualify for them. 3 engagements and a marriage in last 9 months

    • @ActionJackson669
      @ActionJackson669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It would've been a good idea for sure 💯 I feel like it would've found success for sure 👍. A No-Nonsense matching app for high value people, and for idealistic relationships that mirror the ideals that Kevin preaches in every video 💯

    • @runryerun8789
      @runryerun8789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      8 months later and there are Asian men like me who'd love to meet her too.

    • @ginap5656
      @ginap5656 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Where you able to connect with her? I'm curious 😊

  • @kevind2409
    @kevind2409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +723

    Damn i'm feeeling like this is a good woman yall. Besides the fact that she is BEAUTIFUL she is smart, a good listener and she is patient.

    • @ninapolley5363
      @ninapolley5363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      exactly

    • @erikly01
      @erikly01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree

    • @heber2418
      @heber2418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      yea but that 75-25 is going to keep her single she needs to adapt aint no woman going to hang me dry financially! 75-25? she out her damn mind

    • @oliviasuperville1020
      @oliviasuperville1020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A good woman to manipulate. Men just younger gullible women to be in charge of.

    • @dahlizz99
      @dahlizz99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heber2418 yeah.. why's she gonna slack and you work and pay for everything? 50/50. Or if she wants to she can pay more than 50.. but you ain't gonna come in this equal world we live in and not expect to pay atleast 50%

  • @spry100
    @spry100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +507

    She's cute. She struggled but she was respectful and several points really landed. If she's wise she'll reflect on this and make the changes to have the life she wants.

    • @michaeldavis2021
      @michaeldavis2021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I disagree I think most of what he was sharing went right over her head.

    • @Princetapping
      @Princetapping 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      She was so drop dead gorgeous.. made me wish I was 5 years older lol she has a bias but her open mindedness is so beautiful. How the hell is she single?!?!

    • @Dasanie
      @Dasanie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She’s beautiful, smart and so levelheaded. No clue how she’s single. Idc if I’m 7 years younger, I’d shoot my shot lol

    • @erich4624
      @erich4624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Dasanie relax she was a 6.5

    • @raidermanic872
      @raidermanic872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@erich4624 bullshit she's at least an 8

  • @deandrepurifoy4240
    @deandrepurifoy4240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    It really shocks me that almost every woman on his show is “college educated “ but literally 90% of his show is him just repeating himself and asking the same 10 questions 20 different ways each is more simple then the previous

  • @jigsaw2297
    @jigsaw2297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    She's feminine..fit and cooperative...top tier

    • @thehiprabbit6091
      @thehiprabbit6091 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆 🤮

    • @melbournedixen1356
      @melbournedixen1356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thehiprabbit6091 what is wrong with you? 🤦🙄

    • @thehiprabbit6091
      @thehiprabbit6091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@melbournedixen1356
      What’s wrong with you??????

    • @mantraveling4877
      @mantraveling4877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@melbournedixen1356 ...He's probably trolling. A lot of men would say she's cute and seems to be easy to get a long with. Probably would make a good wife.

    • @Cashmomey
      @Cashmomey ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s to old

  • @DC-qk8ue
    @DC-qk8ue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    As a father, this really concerns me. As fathers it is imperative that we educate and develop our daughters. This is just sad. Fail to plan, plan to fail.

    • @x-mess
      @x-mess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Exactly

    • @Peace2dagawdz
      @Peace2dagawdz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      We have been left in this world to fend for ourselves. No teaching. No guidance. Nothing

    • @BigJay773
      @BigJay773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      This is the smartest comment I read so far.....IT STARTS WITH US!!....we focus so much on raising our boys that we tend to forget that being a father to your daughter is VERY IMPORTANT too.....just like myself I'm currently going through it and BEEN going through it with my daughter since her early teens....she's 18 now and although we're not perfect I can honestly say that Kevin's videos has taught me a lot and helped me improve the relationship between us....we have to pound it in their heads that Instagram and Facebook etc is all a fantasy and not REAL LIFE!!....she must understand "accountability" and her role and purpose as a young woman or she's going to have a ruff life just like most women...especially black women.👍🏾

    • @Jedimasterbry
      @Jedimasterbry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      It’s in our African tradition that young boys and young girls get taught about the opposite sex nature, how to treat them their roles in a family,it goes even further to how to please them in bedroom so when they grow up they are relationship competent. Yours truly, an African

    • @vondamiller5463
      @vondamiller5463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @blas4me50
    @blas4me50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    She seems like a genuinely nice person. She didn't once try to one up Kevin, she was honestly listening. She just needs to get out of that backwoods town, before it's too late. When you grow up in those small towns, the dudes she went to school with were her only options. What he said was on point, you move there after your married.

    • @westsidewoodledge8892
      @westsidewoodledge8892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She bad and classy. And she understands that she has to submit to a man. Most women dont want to submit but want to respect there man. Doesnt work that way

    • @xxstract28
      @xxstract28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She’s nice because she isn’t that smart. Souther bell mindset. And no school doesn’t mean you’re smart

    • @davisholman6518
      @davisholman6518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@xxstract28 She is VERY naive. I don’t think she has a clue what she wants. Very sad because she is a nice person.

    • @TheGamingHarbinger
      @TheGamingHarbinger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree for the most part. I live in a town with roughly 100,000 and I feel like it definitely hinders your dating options.

    • @ScentSense
      @ScentSense 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheGamingHarbinger That's beyond a feeling, just an absolute fact. Dating is a numbers game for men, so lower numbers means lower game and therefore lower success. Definitely get to a more populated area while you're at the age you can experiment and play the field actively.

  • @harrylove4908
    @harrylove4908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I admire how focused, an attentive this young Lady is. Her reactions an disposition speak volumes about her as a Woman. A man would be happy to have her. She the type of woman that could slow a man down an actually change him in ways for the betterment of himself, an them altogether. Very few women possess the ability to do this.

    • @cognitionup5211
      @cognitionup5211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Correct!

    • @Influencial_ross
      @Influencial_ross 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said king

    • @itsmatt2105
      @itsmatt2105 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It's not a woman's place to change her man, it's her job TO ALIGN, SYNCHRONIZE, CO-ORDINATE AND COMPLEMENT her husband.

    • @sandwich-breath
      @sandwich-breath ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Spoken like the son of a single mom or absent father. It’s not a woman’s responsibility to change a man for any reason, a quality man is responsible for himself.

    • @runryerun8789
      @runryerun8789 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This women has a pleasant demeanor but at the end of the day she still doesn't seem to get the point. It would be sad if she never got married but it's very realistic.

  • @givenmahlangu1266
    @givenmahlangu1266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    This is the first video I’ve seen where the conversation is not awkward to watch and I actually could listen to both sides.

    • @lyrakeliipaakaua5908
      @lyrakeliipaakaua5908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Yea she has manners and class.. this girl is a winner.. btw I love your name.. Given.. that is beautiful

    • @H0DLTHED0R
      @H0DLTHED0R 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It was refreshing.

    • @sj8880
      @sj8880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree!

    • @LouStreets
      @LouStreets 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He has a ton of em

    • @kevinsgreat5
      @kevinsgreat5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I appreciate this dialogue for sure, but the "awkward" moments for you, are therapeutic to me, as a black man.

  • @saintgianni
    @saintgianni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1059

    I was with this girl last night who got absolutely upset when I mentioned you. She doesn’t like your tone and the fact that you were been married twice. She doesn’t realize that hearing the hard truth and learning from it will actually get her the results she’s looking for. You’re helping a lot of women AND men. We need mentors like you to shoot it straight.

    • @olaakande5581
      @olaakande5581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      They don’t bat an eyelash when u say Steve Harvey was married 3X

    • @SirYeetus
      @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Because she don't like what she hears, which is the TRUTH. She want that "sweet nothings" talk like what Derrick Jaxn does

    • @realisticworld6013
      @realisticworld6013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Run away simba and never return

    • @benten1453
      @benten1453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Should of asked her " if not kevin , who does she reccomend " and see she has no answer .
      Clearly they all know the problem but never the solutions.

    • @MissyRichmond
      @MissyRichmond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Don’t give up on her not liking Kevin. At first, a lot of women are appalled. It’s the Feminist indoctrination that we’ve been through. I watched Kevin’s “you are average at best” clip. I was intrigued, so I ended up watching the entire show. I then caught a live show. I now wish Kevin had been around when I was younger. I tell women to keep an open mind, and watch 2 shows before you make up your mind to like Kevin or not. It just takes time to realize Kevin drops wisdom here and there that women who don’t want a HVM or are older can still benefit from.

  • @MrNckissfan
    @MrNckissfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +990

    I’m only 25 minutes in and I’ve already concluded that what she’s looking for is a “What’s mine is mine and What’s his is mine” type of marriage. Notice how she continues searching for loopholes?

    • @vanhuvanhuvese2738
      @vanhuvanhuvese2738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      that why she is single the guys read it and leave

    • @MrNckissfan
      @MrNckissfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@vanhuvanhuvese2738: She’s especially trying to salvage the whole “You can have it all” concept.

    • @georgepierce2273
      @georgepierce2273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Yeah, I'd peeped that too. She was being low Key with it.

    • @thedadyouneverhadchannel3544
      @thedadyouneverhadchannel3544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      They ALL are the leaches.

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes exactly

  • @paulettemcquay4026
    @paulettemcquay4026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I never heard about this guy until I heard he passed. I am sorry I didn't hear about him sooner. I love how bold and truthful he was.

    • @Thiiink
      @Thiiink ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bold is a bad word in 2022 lol

    • @fivestarthagod1824
      @fivestarthagod1824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Meet too bro I never heard of him until he passed! Rip

  • @motherof2wifeof18
    @motherof2wifeof18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    My husband is 8yrs older than me. I was 20 and he was 28 when we met. We've now been married 19yrs. I didn't listen to my parents, family, or friends when they were saying "he's too old". He was in the Military with rank and benefits. Now he's retired and I am too! Oh I'm now 43!

    • @hansolo5420
      @hansolo5420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @hansolo5420
      @hansolo5420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Family will hate and tell lies because they dont have it.

    • @motherof2wifeof18
      @motherof2wifeof18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Let me add to this, before we married during premarital counseling, (yep, we did counseling and you should too) I said I didn't want to work after having children. He stated he was financially able to carry the load; he was an Officer in the Army with several years of active duty service. However, there's expectations that comes with not working such having sex when he wanted, dinner being ready when he came home, keeping my figure up ect. He kept his promise and I did as well.

    • @rael6974
      @rael6974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@motherof2wifeof18 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

    • @ChrisJames-gv9wy
      @ChrisJames-gv9wy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Only 8 years difference, still under 30, yet they thought he was "too old." You were right to not listen to them, they're confused.

  • @aaronjames5383
    @aaronjames5383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    She so attractive and feminine. Really hope it works out for her!!

    • @billieclaxton4488
      @billieclaxton4488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes she is

    • @E.P.7131
      @E.P.7131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She is!

    • @mr.speyside5240
      @mr.speyside5240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That southern twang.

    • @VIAKAYLIAA
      @VIAKAYLIAA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Mujahid Rahmaan that was very unnecessary.

    • @teaspells9994
      @teaspells9994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, she looks like she will make a great mother as well

  • @erickqwesibentilmanie2382
    @erickqwesibentilmanie2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    The more I watch KS show, the more I realize most women are not practical. It’s pretty interesting

    • @richmondboahene6536
      @richmondboahene6536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      They Delusional asf

    • @LowKeyDee1620
      @LowKeyDee1620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Not at all. It’s sad glad I’m married

    • @zvengeancezealot3540
      @zvengeancezealot3540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I’m a woman and I completely agree with you

    • @solodolo_mma3971
      @solodolo_mma3971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      The more i watch, the more I want to stay single.

    • @yzmike
      @yzmike 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Frfr bro 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @alanmorris3601
    @alanmorris3601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    You're a sweet attractive young woman.
    Don't overthink it, just find a guy you like and take it from there.
    I wish you every happiness.

  • @NinaRaine
    @NinaRaine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1350

    She will be the same one complaining about him never having time for her or the kids because he’s always working

    • @t.scales2202
      @t.scales2202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Hell yea.

    • @callenjohnson81
      @callenjohnson81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      I'm so happy as a woman you said that... my cousin was dating a guy from New york, dude made 400,000 a year, & she told him I would not be happy with you working all the time...she makes 200000 in DC... IF you get a man making that much you gotta sacrifice, he's a go getter..

    • @richmondboahene6536
      @richmondboahene6536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@callenjohnson81 whiles 90 Percent of women want him. He will leave her

    • @detroitvcw
      @detroitvcw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      🤦🏾‍♂️ they never think it through...its the Walt Disney fantasy for me

    • @leesareena4198
      @leesareena4198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Be quiet. She said she wants to work! And never said she wants a man earning $400k. You all are ridiculous acting like all couples make $400k to take care of a family

  • @taneshareedkinard8144
    @taneshareedkinard8144 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    My white classmate told me in high school she was choosing her college based on the type of men that went to that school.
    She chose a major, and school that was prominently male and why… she said bc she wanted to make sure she could find a man of means.

    • @STOPPEDINCOLORADO
      @STOPPEDINCOLORADO ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Or get ran thru

    • @dflava3805
      @dflava3805 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@STOPPEDINCOLORADO nice healthy mindset you've got there

    • @MA-wq2ih
      @MA-wq2ih ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pursuing her MRS degree....

    • @RandaWise
      @RandaWise ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's what the movie Mona Lisa Smile was pretty much based on. back in the 1950s that's why lots of WW went to college.

    • @Kraska93
      @Kraska93 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@STOPPEDINCOLORADO What you said makes no sense. If a woman wants to get run through, her major is irrelevant. If somebody goes to engineering, medicine or law specifically, it's because they want to get with an engineer, doctor or lawyer in the future.

  • @alyssaswann9784
    @alyssaswann9784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    strangers WILL NOT be raising my children within the first years of their lives when they cant even speak for themselves. Hell no. Im staying home caring and being the primary educator of my child. Manipulation and abuse are too serious out here. Not to mention corona like he said.

    • @getmoneye101c
      @getmoneye101c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I definitely agree!!!!

    • @katpod86
      @katpod86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Do you have kids?
      Small children will wear you out. Nannies and Au Pairs are a god send. This doesn’t take away from you being a good mother!
      Mommy’s health is important for the entire household.

    • @alp.9672
      @alp.9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Return Of the black kings lol right

    • @getmoneye101c
      @getmoneye101c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@katpod86 no I don’t have kids, but my daughter passed away 2008!!!! I don’t know if that question was replied to me! But ol girl from the video is cute af! She can have my children any day!!!! lol 😂

    • @hplifestylelessonsandfun9131
      @hplifestylelessonsandfun9131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I stayed home with our children until they were in lower elementary grades. I read to them, took them places, cooked nutritious meals, etc. It was a sacrifice, but well worth it. Our daughter got a tuition paid college scholarship. Hopefully Our son should be able to do the same. I’m working now and help pay bills and save for retirement. It’s not easy but teamwork gets it done.

  • @TheLifeofKam99
    @TheLifeofKam99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +686

    I noticed that his female callers who are more attractive and have less baggage are more willing to listen and are less argumentative.

    • @brandondixon478
      @brandondixon478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      They don’t get triggered from decisions they didn’t make while young

    • @amenhotepmaat3657
      @amenhotepmaat3657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kevin what the name of the liquor you are sipping on

    • @dct124
      @dct124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      It's no different in business. Far easier to work with corporate clients than Joe down the street.

    • @marks984
      @marks984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Less argumentative (“I hear you”), but they’re not heeding.

    • @Introverted_Extrovert99
      @Introverted_Extrovert99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@amenhotepmaat3657 I’m assuming you’re joking? It’s red Bull by the way.

  • @deanchur
    @deanchur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    "I want the man to be assertive enough to chase me"
    As much as I appreciate the honesty and traditionalism, asking a man to do that in modern society is the same as asking a man to risk his career and reputation; it's not just rejection he's risking anymore.

    • @toyz7941
      @toyz7941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The American culture... Tsk tsk

    • @mad4song01
      @mad4song01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      However, she’s has no intention of ever wanting to be a homemaker. She’s nothing close to traditional as she says she is, unless of course it’s something that benefits her solely.

    • @_CPerk
      @_CPerk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She wants to be chased While not making herself available. Smh

  • @qquet5
    @qquet5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I loved the transparency of this video. 1st time ever hearing another man say that a man's brain don't click till 30 besides my husband..the realness is muchly appreciated. My husband and I are almost a decade apart. I love it bc I have learned so much from him being older and I keep things very exciting for him being younger. We mesh very well together I thank God for him, couldn't imagine being with anyone else going through this new dating pool. Must be frustrating for this new era 🥴

  • @lorenzobandztv6389
    @lorenzobandztv6389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    When the student is ready, the teacher appears

    • @DatNygma
      @DatNygma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm assuming that stand for 🤡

    • @muskduh
      @muskduh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Meme of the day

    • @Xardion55
      @Xardion55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      _"So what's lesson number three?"_
      _"To get to lesson number four."_

    • @jerdavis9489
      @jerdavis9489 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is a great student for a Master Teacher

    • @JeromeProductions
      @JeromeProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep.

  • @kenderay99w.60
    @kenderay99w.60 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    She is a pretty girl. Well spoken , smart , ladylike qualities. I feel like she needs to move to a bigger city and she’ll be fine.

    • @SS-dm5iy
      @SS-dm5iy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She would be just fine in Memphis if she put in the work to find the right men. I'm over the river in Arkansas in a town of 80,000 and I hang out with millionaires all day at the country club. The problem with black women isn't that the men don't exist. They just do absolutely nothing to find them and please them.

    • @SS-dm5iy
      @SS-dm5iy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @sherry siba You don't know how to please a man? Well....it isn't telling us about your day or the latest gossip on your cousin Becky. Men have been very straightforward for thousands of years about what pleases us. It has been included in the jokes of many comedians. Mr. Samuels here talks about it daily. You really don't know how to please a man?

    • @SS-dm5iy
      @SS-dm5iy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @sherry siba When you are old enough, sex, food, silence. Learn to cook. Learn to give him peace and quiet. Learn to obey.
      Or don't. And be single. Men are not complicated and do not ask for much. If you want a good man, be prepared to have the basics nailed.

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Why do men avoid marriage nowadays? For the same reason people in jail avoid picking up the soap.

    • @ricostyles7775
      @ricostyles7775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂💀💀💀💀

    • @H1GHD3FF
      @H1GHD3FF 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That soap will stay there

    • @alp.9672
      @alp.9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol that’s the funny thing about this channel.
      Marriage ain’t worth it these days and it’s not just black men thinking this.

    • @escapeartist6546
      @escapeartist6546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣 this joke never gets old

    • @elijahashman9716
      @elijahashman9716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lateefshabazz1016
    @lateefshabazz1016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    She gives me a lil hope lol. I love the way she presented herself.

    • @kirkhugginsjr9317
      @kirkhugginsjr9317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @tonyt1769
      @tonyt1769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Certainly. These types of women are golden if she is as solid as this behind closed doors.

    • @kelligarcia312
      @kelligarcia312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

  • @alexmason8557
    @alexmason8557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    Where all my super straight mofos at. Class started, hurry up😁

    • @NOYBZ
      @NOYBZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What's this super straight thing? I've been seeing it all day

    • @alexmason8557
      @alexmason8557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@NOYBZ it's a saying I came out as "super straight" as my sexuality = only and strictly attracted to biological females

    • @SirYeetus
      @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@alexmason8557 It's sad it has to come to that unfortunately. I've seen many times LGBT members shaming men for being straight.

    • @Nreleel
      @Nreleel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alexmason8557 yo I like this

    • @JCredible86
      @JCredible86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Orange and black gang gang

  • @diligencehumility6971
    @diligencehumility6971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    Man: *Logical and observable point made...*
    Woman: *Yeah, BUT I FEEL like....*

    • @TheChadShow9
      @TheChadShow9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😭

    • @sylvesterhurt447
      @sylvesterhurt447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BRUH

    • @ghariiscool
      @ghariiscool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Men: we live on planet earth
      Women: Yeah but...

    • @encryptedwolf7623
      @encryptedwolf7623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THIS. Which is why I'll only deal with them short-term...

    • @romeoo5272
      @romeoo5272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yea call and tell your landlord you dont FEEL like paying the rent. He isnt going to say "aw ok thats fine you can live rent free". Hes going to evict you.

  • @77loneranger
    @77loneranger 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This woman has manners and listens. May she find a husband.

  • @cetti4405
    @cetti4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    Like the fact that she looks naturally (absent all the makeup & foot long eye lashes) attractive and seems more agreeable, reasonable than most of the ones he's talked to..

    • @clarencetodman7369
      @clarencetodman7369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I agree. She just needs an older man who knows how to lead. She don't know alot but she is beautiful and seems to be very cooperative. When her man leads, then she can be more focused on the feminine aspect of things that she is missing right now. I was very encouraged by the dialogue. Best of luck to her.

    • @cetti4405
      @cetti4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@clarencetodman7369 I follow Kevin. Agree with most of his assessments concerning delusional women. Though she hasn't taken an optimal path for starting a family, she belongs to the exceptions that confirm the rules. An older man would be lucky to have her, but she doesn't NEED one. I believe her when she says she's willing to work with her man. Kevin is right that she shouldn't wait any longer. And if she looks now for a man she could build with, I'm sure they will work it out and be just fine.

    • @clarencetodman7369
      @clarencetodman7369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cetti4405 When I said older, I only meant older that her. One year, 10 years, that don't matter as much in this case. Someone that she can look up to. A man that has a clear direction for the family. He needs to be further along than she is so that she can rest in her femininity. She can't respect him and rest in her femininity if she has to build with him. To me, building with a man is for younger women. But I respect and appreciate your perspective.

    • @cetti4405
      @cetti4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@clarencetodman7369 You could be right, but like I said, exceptions confirm the rules because not everyone ticks the same or follow what most may deem a logical formula. But I appreciate yours, as well...

    • @cetti4405
      @cetti4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Jonathan MOORice Ok, if you see it that way. I see it different. She pretty much concurs with him, but tries to express that she wants a different life than most of the others. But, whatever....

  • @genxmom1491
    @genxmom1491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    My Mom and Dad were married 35 years before they passed away. My Dad made six figures and my Mom worked by choice. My Dad led the family and my Mom followed.

    • @earl-larsen
      @earl-larsen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      King and queen philosophy is undefeated!

    • @elieminam4749
      @elieminam4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Followed" 😶

    • @cinnamonmarshae5230
      @cinnamonmarshae5230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@elieminam4749 yes followed, the man must lead , no submission no man.

    • @elieminam4749
      @elieminam4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cinnamonmarshae5230 How would you define 'submission'

    • @cinnamonmarshae5230
      @cinnamonmarshae5230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@elieminam4749 taking care of the way a woman should, no slavery shit being there when he needs you.

  • @bigstacks1463
    @bigstacks1463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +714

    She seems sweet but misguided. She's definitely attractive enough to draw a decent guy's attention. If she takes Kevin's advice, then she might find her match. I hope it all works out for her.

    • @Blodia1990
      @Blodia1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Kevin is WAY too nasty with women, even if he's right. This woman is sweet and kind and lovely. I wish her infinite blessings and hope she gets what she desires

    • @trackmusic252
      @trackmusic252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@Blodia1990 why do you say that can't talk to them like kids that part of the problem now sorry telling anything they want to hear. And good simps.

    • @garrickwhittington5445
      @garrickwhittington5445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Those are facts
      Hope it works out for her too!

    • @blkgranit333
      @blkgranit333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes! But she's probably like alot of black women, she will have a hair problem, her hair hidden is a red flag

    • @bigstacks1463
      @bigstacks1463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@blkgranit333 I don't think so. She just has a headwrap around her braids.

  • @ArianTyson
    @ArianTyson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This was a great call. She is a very attractive woman. I have been to Southaven, MS twice for a concert. She is honest and she listens. Kind eyes. A lot of women have been conditioned to do what she do (education and more education). She is 31 now. If she focuses and maintains her femininity and cooperative nature, she will be a wife and a mother. One of the smoothest conversations I have seen.

  • @leeolie3728
    @leeolie3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    If you read between the lines these lovely ladies want a man their age so she can compare accomplishments and go tit for tat against him. They fear an older man who has his ish together only because they see that as a disadvantaged position on their part.

    • @MRKOCAINN
      @MRKOCAINN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I never thought about it that way 🤔. This makes a lot of damn sense, salute 💯

    • @freetheworld2671
      @freetheworld2671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      naah, she just wants that good good, and he suppose to be six figure, aka she wants it all.

    • @lisasmith1817
      @lisasmith1817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thats a good point!

    • @FLCLimaxxx
      @FLCLimaxxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      exactly. it use to be normal for women to want older men primarily. now they want a beta who is their age so they can wear the pants.

    • @yohananeliyah
      @yohananeliyah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Always good to see contributions from smart men who turn up on KS videos. The sharpening that goes on is more than what he says on the show. Salute. ✊🏿❤️🖤💚

  • @terrileist
    @terrileist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    Good show. As a ‘Becky’ I was taught about finances, the value of a man, and what a good man was. I didn’t follow what I was taught though. Instead, like this caller, I focused on my career while I was single in my 30’s to make me more money, now I’m sitting around at 49, with a house full of dogs, no kids, and paying 100% of my bills because I was too busy to make time for a man.
    I’m telling ya ladies, listen to this man; he knows what he’s talking about.

    • @thetraveler1182
      @thetraveler1182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      *On Everything*

    • @tinahegyes5294
      @tinahegyes5294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Thanks for sharing your life lessons and I hope this lil girls will listen to you

    • @chavonmackey57
      @chavonmackey57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      God bless you ma'am

    • @alphagod7625
      @alphagod7625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Damn, sorry for your loss

    • @Candor49
      @Candor49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Thanks for your honesty.

  • @gunna4l200
    @gunna4l200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    She’s actually a good catch, whatever man finds her is going to be very lucky

    • @the_creative70
      @the_creative70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes she’s definitely a catch!

    • @royrichardson9164
      @royrichardson9164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where is she!!!!

    • @thehiprabbit6091
      @thehiprabbit6091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@the_creative70
      For the zoology society

    • @SySyPlayDay
      @SySyPlayDay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thats so beautiful i hope she find love and joy from a strong leadership's in her husband

    • @thehiprabbit6091
      @thehiprabbit6091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SySyPlayDay
      😆 she’s gonna be a baby mama

  • @ShawShank-kr9wq
    @ShawShank-kr9wq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I work at a hospital and black southern women are some of the most unbelievably upbeat, optimistic, sweet, lively women I’ve ever met. Their bedside manner with there patients is something else its damn near impossible to be in a sour mood around them, I don’t like to generalize but every one of these ladies I meet from the age of 22-70 who work there are such friendly and warm people its a pleasure working with them.

    • @cuteblue2212
      @cuteblue2212 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true, I work with a lot of these ladies as travel nurses and they are genuinely sweet, respectful
      , helpful and they work really hard.

    • @valeriecasey964
      @valeriecasey964 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the vote of confidence. I have been nursing for 36 years single since 2006. I wish I could meet a nice man

  • @hiceecyril8089
    @hiceecyril8089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    This sister seem like a good good woman, she is respectful, she listens, not loud, intelligent, ambitious and attractive. I just really hope she finds a good man.

  • @scottgrey6961
    @scottgrey6961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +865

    She doesn t understand a man who is 32 - 35 is not checking for her at age 30. He is looking for the 23 - 27 year old.

    • @olaakande5581
      @olaakande5581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      She needs to date man who are in their late 30’s & early 40s Bc she seems like a pleasant woman. She needs to get on it

    • @jeremiahlewis4630
      @jeremiahlewis4630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      Nah I'm 32 and I'm looking for a 20 year old

    • @alp.9672
      @alp.9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@jeremiahlewis4630 lol

    • @SirYeetus
      @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      @Savanna St. Laurent That's that feminism indoctrination talking. 20 years old is old enough to decide for herself who she wants to be with or not.

    • @charlesirby9571
      @charlesirby9571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@olaakande5581 perhaps she is a decent woman Memphis doesn't have a good track record it is the baby momma capital.

  • @stacywilliams3303
    @stacywilliams3303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    Derrick jaxn have been canceled 🗑 ladies get your answers from Kevin.

    • @steverl22
      @steverl22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      The love the LIES!!! They rock with derrick til they end up with 4-5 cats 🧐

    • @renerougeau7238
      @renerougeau7238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Can’t believe some women are mad at the girl more than HIS ASS!! Make it make sense!! Lol he’ll lose some support but I doubt most of his supporters will leave his side

    • @viharm2960
      @viharm2960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      whaaaat???? this is some news.

    • @mwt5040
      @mwt5040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They gonna excuse his infidelity watch 🤣

    • @jakethethird1584
      @jakethethird1584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@viharm2960 Yeah, do some googles lol. You'll find it, he's in TROUBLE.

  • @chefterryp.1537
    @chefterryp.1537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This Black Woman is absolutely gorgeous! The school thing is so freakin true. My daughter(28 years old) is running back to school. I want her to be educated, but I want her to get married rather than waste more of her childbearing years with her head buried in a bunch books.

    • @El_Ophelia
      @El_Ophelia ปีที่แล้ว

      What about what *she* wants?

    • @modernhumanity7
      @modernhumanity7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If parents can see a huge cliff looming in the child’s future, it’s their job to at least warn their child about it. In this country, you can’t hold a gun to your late 20’s child head and say “you can’t study.” In my parents’ country, I believe a father’s letter could likely stop his daughter from attending university. He could definitely stop her from leaving the country. Anyway, my point is that parents in the West are letting their children fail either socially, academically, financially, or all three. A healthy balance between freedom and guidance is good. This parent SHOULD warn their daughter about the consequences of not husband-hunting now.

    • @Firenmage433
      @Firenmage433 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can’t want a child long after 40. You can go to school anytime 😂

  • @ZenofhdTV
    @ZenofhdTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +715

    That whole “women mature faster than men” thing, might be very outdated in this day and age

    • @ERoss338
      @ERoss338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I agree, but I would say the percentage has decreased.

    • @xEMOANHATARON
      @xEMOANHATARON 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Nah, now that I think about it. They absolutely do mature faster; think about it every male wants a younger female so they evolved that way for the sake of offspring. As far as sound reasoning and logic, they haven’t had to evolve past a certain age and level of potency because the man interacted with the world more.

    • @DarkKnight-yr5pz
      @DarkKnight-yr5pz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I never believed that crap

    • @jeremiahlewis4630
      @jeremiahlewis4630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@xEMOANHATARON it was never true

    • @kaiserpuppydog7174
      @kaiserpuppydog7174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      If they mean that a talent for manipulation and deceit is proof of maturity, I have no argument against it.

  • @Giopowered
    @Giopowered 3 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    Men dont like competition. We will not fight to chase u. U act difficult, we move on

    • @neicynunnery
      @neicynunnery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well u should chase. Don't hurt to. U don't want her if u font chase her.

    • @Giopowered
      @Giopowered 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@neicynunnery bibical, god said that he would give you a wife and i to not chase a woman. So i live by that, women always come at me(not boasting) i simply do me and make sure im right mentally, physically and spiritually. Anything else is an add-on to me.
      I dont have sexual desires so i dont find it useful to be with someone other than to be friends

    • @neicynunnery
      @neicynunnery 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Giopowered and that OK too . so how do u respond to them? Do u like the chase?

    • @Giopowered
      @Giopowered 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@neicynunnery i speak to them with respect and treat them like a human being. Guys think too much when approaching women and women are naturally talented at picking up on that. So i just simply speak to them as if i see someone who i could hang out with, not trying to smash. That would just discourage her to not further the conversation in the future.
      Funny story. I disrespected a waitress. (Before i did, i knew how she spoke and carried her self) so i kept making judging remarks at her like
      “Why you so dry, get wild, slap me damn”
      “wow this food terrible, but its ight tho(small laugh)”.
      “give me a water, please please, feel like ima die”
      After dinner. I asked for her number while she was cleaning. She told me “why you didnt ask before dinner” i laughed😂
      Me being 17 picked up the 21 year waitress lol but she ghosted me kuz i aint have a car at the time😂she didnt have one either so i aint care

    • @neicynunnery
      @neicynunnery 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Giopowered I feel u.

  • @Sashique86
    @Sashique86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I'm really confused. What's the point in investing so much time and money into your education / career and then expect your future husband to pay for everything? 🤨

    • @MRKOCAINN
      @MRKOCAINN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Please make it make sense 😓, I didn’t get that either...

    • @12th.jahlil
      @12th.jahlil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Its so they can set themselves upto a level and make it easier to turn down anyone who hasnt done anything above them

    • @adewilson132
      @adewilson132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@12th.jahlil which makes the market harder for them cause they automatically classify at least 90% of men as not good enough for them.

    • @Realgenelive100
      @Realgenelive100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s for her security just in case she don’t find the man she’s looking for

    • @12th.jahlil
      @12th.jahlil 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, but oh well. Thats what happens when you set your life up chasing a significant other rather then what you actually want to do/are good at.@@adewilson132

  • @cahawks
    @cahawks ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She listens and seems to be cooperative and also seems to grasp what he’s saying and the fact that she’s not wearing makeup speaks volumes to her true beauty. She’s top tier.

  • @mr.culturefreedom2073
    @mr.culturefreedom2073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +850

    These highly educated sistas can't answer a question to save their lives.

    • @samus6256
      @samus6256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      These highly educated women are not educated in life. They are educated in Education and that has zero real world education. That being said no one is amazing at relationships, no one is. They think they know how things work between the sexes but they don't.

    • @ForeignFlexTv
      @ForeignFlexTv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      No highly enrolled, and bs degrees hence psychology 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @INeedLoad
      @INeedLoad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Yes, this was painful to watch.
      It dragged on 10-15 more because she would not answer the questions directly.

    • @JeromeProductions
      @JeromeProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Fr

    • @austntexan
      @austntexan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cant, or won't? It's all women btw.

  • @Successbond760
    @Successbond760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    Black women problems is black women not black men we just stayed humble meanwhile our women turned around and looked down on us, it’s sad really. Go ahead and be lonely with a degree.

    • @YourLocalRussianNegro
      @YourLocalRussianNegro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Yup. AND they the same ones saying they are the BACKBONE of the black community 😒
      If they are the backbone, they're doing a shitty job.

    • @SirYeetus
      @SirYeetus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      They were taught since they were little to compete with & disrespect black men.

    • @eman3414
      @eman3414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @eman3414
      @eman3414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@YourLocalRussianNegro True 👍

    • @YungJay216
      @YungJay216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Nothing new it’s been going on for 50 years now. Really longer than that I suggest all black people to do some basic history (read Daughters Of The Trade & The Man Not) The contempt of black men has been going on since chattel slavery. It was just a different culture and hid better under the silent generation and previous generations before them.

  • @MrHighProfyle
    @MrHighProfyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Sending this video to my daughter because maybe she'll take it better come from the Godfather. His process is much more patient than mine. It's definitely a teaching video for me as well.

    • @AskAW
      @AskAW 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe you should take lessons so she can hear from both. It's not too late to develop yourself into the father your daughter needs.

    • @MrHighProfyle
      @MrHighProfyle 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AskAW Absolutely.

    • @sarahlysobey2917
      @sarahlysobey2917 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All he did was disparage her accomplishments as a nurse practitioner. I guess you want your daughter sitting on her ass hoping that a man will take care of her ( which mostly all black men won't do). I hope you can afford her bills and yours cuz this is some bullshit ass advice.

    • @stevewoodson4635
      @stevewoodson4635 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Genesis 1%1period

  • @FlipmasterFED
    @FlipmasterFED 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This woman has a chance of finding someone. Just needs everything that was discussed sink in and then take action

  • @holisticcatalyst
    @holisticcatalyst 3 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    she said that she does not want to be a homemaker, and that she loves her work, and would drop off the baby at a day care. I am a HVM according to KS, and this persona is a big avoid for me.

    • @MrSamPhoenix
      @MrSamPhoenix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I caught that too, she still has the mindset of a nice 19 year old.

    • @globalgogetter4469
      @globalgogetter4469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      EXACTLY the type of female I would never get with. trust a stranger with OUR children?? HELL nah!

    • @hornetguy9063
      @hornetguy9063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Global Go Getter my friend used to work for a woman with a full time nanny, and the woman would “schedule” 30 minutes a day to spend with her infant. That kid is going to grow up looking to his nanny as his real mother.
      Like the entire point to marrying a “high value man” for a woman is that he can provide the income and strategic leadership to the home, while said woman can make sure the children receive the best life possible. Daycare is a nonstarter for a lot of these guys.

    • @sweetwonkahallelujah7016
      @sweetwonkahallelujah7016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      America is becoming very expensive to live in nowadays and many of these females want a FINANCIAL PLAN that happens to come with a husband

    • @neverbackdown1918
      @neverbackdown1918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They got me f*cked up if they think I’m letting my child in daycare. That’s something you should do if both parents *have* to work to make ends meet. If you can survive off one parents income, or maybe both parents are retired, then why would you put your child in daycare?

  • @roderick2722
    @roderick2722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    I like her, she’s cute and she gives off a soft feminine vibe!

    • @jarreddizzle
      @jarreddizzle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Rare nowadays. They don’t even exist in California anymore.

    • @mr.keptitreal
      @mr.keptitreal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cute? She looks masculine to me with bumps and dark spots all over her face.

    • @lastdays3148
      @lastdays3148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@mr.keptitreal ,she's pretty. Non makeup on her Face and she's pretty. She was probably wearing Makeup on her Face. The reasoning for the pimples and darker spots.

    • @anti-social206
      @anti-social206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@mr.keptitreal 🤢🤢do better

    • @Kylan_Brown
      @Kylan_Brown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mr.keptitreal her face isn’t that bad to me she’s cute she’s in her 30s now but she ain’t bad I would definitely date her if I was close to her age lol

  • @Melissa.Simmons
    @Melissa.Simmons 3 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    It’s refreshing when he speaks to a woman likes this. She is 👌🏾💯.

    • @testedtried1233
      @testedtried1233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes I find him to be an ahole. He speaks rudely to unattractive women. I found this channel not sure how it got I. But I wished young women would go to the woman of substance for advise and their fathers for validation. This broken vessel cant advise any woman on anything because he speaks through hurt. BE CAREFUL . Stop add these characters to your life whom you asked God to remove.

    • @michellewall6748
      @michellewall6748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He’s not all that... idiot

    • @soulsayso1243
      @soulsayso1243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@testedtried1233 yet you literally watch all of his content and comment on it💀 you come back just to disagree. Just go to another channel. You KNOW he’s right so you come back because deep down you know its the truth. God isn’t going to fix your problems only YOU can mr.pastor🤣

    • @soulsayso1243
      @soulsayso1243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@testedtried1233 Women getting info from other single women about relationships is real smart🤦🏽‍♂️ The Therapist NEEDS to be a man.

    • @gregorybrown5419
      @gregorybrown5419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@soulsayso1243 And that's why they single

  • @poonlikka6174
    @poonlikka6174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She is one of the few that you would have sympathy for if she doesn`t end up with what she (realistically) is looking for.

  • @averagecuber1739
    @averagecuber1739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Everytime Kevin posts I log on all 3 of my accounts and hit the thumbs up. Brothers keep the same energy promote this brother

    • @fie_biggestfan
      @fie_biggestfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do that for my channel lol

    • @hansolo5420
      @hansolo5420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Done good advice

    • @hansolo5420
      @hansolo5420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fie_biggestfan whats your channel yo. Mine is Keystoanotherworld i write music beats etc.

    • @Goval400
      @Goval400 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      U got too much time in your hands chief

    • @averagecuber1739
      @averagecuber1739 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Goval400 How so? How is taking time to invest in a brother who gives advice for free too much time? If you have the energy to watch the videos and the content the same energy needs to go towards supporting the creator.

  • @michaelm9621
    @michaelm9621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Can you imagine wanting to build a house, and not understanding the skills needed, cost, time frame, or what material to use. How is that going to work out? I hope she learned something and gets what she wants out of life.

    • @Gr8nessnMe070
      @Gr8nessnMe070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well stated brother. As we real professionals cal: “backwards planning!”
      Most women don’t know and have never heard this unless they are prior military.

    • @alansullivan3
      @alansullivan3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Passively a criminal"

    • @nexusdrop7863
      @nexusdrop7863 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is a good reference.

    • @Jay-Jones
      @Jay-Jones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She hasn't and she won't.

    • @crzxm
      @crzxm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking how building a house is too different from what she wants. Then I began to remember what I was like before I learned to build furniture. I went in with the mindset to complete a task step by step with limited tools. Now I see your point.

  • @knowledgeseeker3068
    @knowledgeseeker3068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    he is so correct about men in the 30's and the light now clicking on because most of us werent trained like that or matured fast enough.

    • @hornetguy9063
      @hornetguy9063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A lot of us also had either no dad or a weak dad these days, and it’s been life and smart older guys that have told us what we need to be doing. I just turned 35 and I’m mentally miles away from where I was when I was 30.

    • @hornetguy9063
      @hornetguy9063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shaun Hensley I literally can get a high paying job just from connections at this point. I’m 35. And I’m totally overpowered for a man in his 20’s to compete against for that reason.

    • @wealthacquire703
      @wealthacquire703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hornetguy9063 Help me out im a young gee looking to be financially free don't really care about being high value to pursue a female I want it for myself studying a business degree

    • @cruisecontroltvdlcgraphixs4545
      @cruisecontroltvdlcgraphixs4545 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m 33, and I tell my wife everyday I don’t know how I survived my 20s🤣 I was dumb as ish 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @dmack1988
      @dmack1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ll admit things did not start clicking to me until I was 30. It seem liked as soon as I turned 30 I started to become more focused than I have ever been, I’m 32 will be 33 next month with two rental properties and my own business with no kids. I know where I want to be by 40 and I know what type of woman I want to start a family with. On top of it my father was in my life and that plays a major part b/c I took after him of having my own business, I do exactly what he does but better because of technology, and quite a few black males don’t have that so that individual mindset probably won’t click until much later passed 30.

  • @JayPlays792
    @JayPlays792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The fact that she kept laughing proves she doesn't take any of this seriously because no matter what they're mind set is basically kicking the cat .. The attitude is well somebody will ... The single parent house hold is thee downfall of society.. Y'all can't get out your own way.

  • @scottgrey6961
    @scottgrey6961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    Mama has told them to go after their education and not a man. They become educated professional singles for life.

    • @Jcg2nd
      @Jcg2nd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Their mommas still compete with their daughters. So they'll say stuff like that so the daughters will be lonely and alone.

    • @globalgogetter4469
      @globalgogetter4469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FACTS

    • @hornetguy9063
      @hornetguy9063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My friend showed me an article today of a woman who froze her eggs (for the low low price of $19,000) in her late 30’s, continued her hunt for “mr right” while doing her career woman thing, gave up the ghost when she was almost 45, found a sperm donor and unfroze her eggs, only for none of them to be viable.
      If I was black pilled like Aaron Clarey, I would probably be laughing my ass off. But since I’ve that stupid Christianity in me that makes me not enjoy suffering in others, I feel bad that she was sold a life of lies. Hopefully she can find something that will bring her satisfaction.

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Living a Hollywood fantasy vicariously through they kids instead of preparing them to make the next generation better.

    • @leeolie3728
      @leeolie3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hornetguy9063 Damn thats brutal

  • @vesahood84
    @vesahood84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    My husband is 10 years older than me. We met when I was 24 years. We’ve been together for 32 years and married for 28 years.

    • @mpumelelobeyers957
      @mpumelelobeyers957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Instead of you tell & writing plays for women on the game on keeping a husband, u'd rather comment on yt *SMH*

  • @jonathanhankins8356
    @jonathanhankins8356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had no idea how well society put black women to work until I saw this channel. I knew they were the highest educated demographic, but I didn't realize how brainwashed they were into thinking it was the ticket to a traditional life. Crazy stuff.

  • @wowz3793
    @wowz3793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    When i was in undergrad, the bw on the same level as us wouldn’t even look our way. They wanted us to be rich in school when Becky knew the outcome. We going to school for electrical engineering and she in school for marketing. 8 years later i drive a hellcat and they in a Honda trying to freeze eggs without no man , wondering where all the good men at 💭

    • @RC-ld3cn
      @RC-ld3cn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I had a similar experience while in school for EE. I met a BW in EE and she just wanted to be friends, so I started dating Becky (white) who was majoring in history. I asked Becky what she planned to do with a history degree, and she said she was attending college to find a good man marry after she graduated college. Recently I looked up the BW EE, and she has a MBA, no man, single, and has 2 cats. Becky has 2 kids, is a stay at home mom, and married to a senior manager at AT&T.

    • @jamesanderson3913
      @jamesanderson3913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Been in the diesel mechanic field for 19 years. Caterpillar and Detroit diesel experience. Hydraulic lines, fuel issues, electrical diagnosis, shut off faults, compression shortcomings, etc. Still get viewed as a broke bum by BW bc they have no idea!! Benz 25 spaces down out of sight in the parking lot of a restaurant then they look stupid talking abt "Well I didn't know"....

    • @earthchild04
      @earthchild04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Black Woman Karma!!

    • @AshantiShae
      @AshantiShae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      “Beat it chick”

    • @daniellegore9279
      @daniellegore9279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@RC-ld3cn So are you dating or married to a "becky" now? Just wondering because I am friends with a lot of white girls and from my experience only like 20 percent of them were into black guys enough to actually be long term with them. However, If you're a black athletic or an actor then you'll have white girls all over you lol. I love interracial dating in general and I just want to know what you're experience with dating a white girl was like when I came to being long term.

  • @g4do
    @g4do 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Almost every black woman I've dated in the past, was like being in a war . Smart , sexy , well educated fighters . No feminine energy. Even the ones that look sweet and walk feminine still had that fire in their chest like a dude on steroids . I'm stubborn though, because I love black women and I didn't give up . I found my boo . She was a little rough but she smoothed right on out because she was teachable. Now we're married and the very best of friends. Took a lot of work, but it was worth it . Submitting doesn't mean becoming a slave, it means becoming a cooperative mate with your significant other.

    • @jassmith560
      @jassmith560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Umm

    • @thenaughtyamericanexpat
      @thenaughtyamericanexpat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Naw, I'm done teaching women. Nowadays, they've got to come ready made with batteries included! ;-D Or I'll just use my passport again!

    • @RBG-ez7pd
      @RBG-ez7pd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @phillyraider4927
      @phillyraider4927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand you’re plan, with that issue. Great relationship aren’t built over night. But what I noticed in must great relationship, everyone know their role in the relationship, and that’s the making of a great relationship.

    • @jassmith560
      @jassmith560 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@phillyraider4927 theres no such things a roles in a relationship

  • @stevenlyons4410
    @stevenlyons4410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    They want men to chase them, but when he isn’t tall enough or doesn’t make a certain amount he gets me2’d or friend zoned. Welcome to modern dating.

    • @jassmith560
      @jassmith560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Is dat bad

    • @yohannmessam
      @yohannmessam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I dont see anything wrong with that.. step ur game up or go for a lower quality woman its real simple

    • @rontalks8953
      @rontalks8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@yohannmessam na it is something wrong with that...what he's basically saying is that they want a man to chase and pursue them..but if he ain't at of a certain physical over the top feature...he gets dogged out or put to the side.. The hypocrisy is real

    • @mgtowj4195
      @mgtowj4195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Even if he is tall enough or makes enough he still gets me 2 look at Deshaun Watson and Chris Cuomo @SteveLyons and

    • @theshach100
      @theshach100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Women seem to be attracted to the sane type of dudes

  • @jimallen8238
    @jimallen8238 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was a great conversation. I am really pulling for this sweet young woman. She engaged Kevin in an open and engaging way. I hope she is able to get married to someone who will cherish her feminine traits and traditional mindset.

  • @Fujiwae
    @Fujiwae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    I like how she says “allow him” and “give him”
    It shows the mindset she has and what level she puts a man. Good luck to all these single woman. They really need it.

    • @Noneoftheabuv
      @Noneoftheabuv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      The financial questions are brilliant. The way they answer shows unrealistic expectations. Instead of any of them saying a selfless answer, they always show a high level of selfishness. That’s how he knows what he’s dealing with.... and they still don’t get it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tyroneking6883
      @tyroneking6883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@Noneoftheabuv it shows realistically they just love the idea of the man, not the actual man ..

    • @nexusdrop7863
      @nexusdrop7863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest By 'Wm' do you mean 'white man' ? If so.... nah brah! All men are waking up.

    • @unavailablebbjh8720
      @unavailablebbjh8720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest no what you mean is there easier to control and white men aren’t easier then black men. We give you guys chances another race wouldn’t. No other race is even checking to date any of you.

    • @MrRedbone19
      @MrRedbone19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@unavailablebbjh8720 Amen. White guys would disqualify her ASAP and wouldnt care.

  • @TheUndefeatedOfTheEast
    @TheUndefeatedOfTheEast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    She's attractive she still has time. She just need guidance, she might have to drop some of her single friends.

    • @matchhunter6941
      @matchhunter6941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Meanwhile she's riding the cc😂

    • @livinroomlongshanks
      @livinroomlongshanks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She's not that hot, bro.

    • @purplegirl8036
      @purplegirl8036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@livinroomlongshanks Why does she have to be hot to date some average guy?

    • @TheUndefeatedOfTheEast
      @TheUndefeatedOfTheEast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @ScYoungboy864 - interesting, the only thing you took from that was her attractiveness? You were better off going about your day and skipping this comment.

    • @handles_are_fucking_stupid
      @handles_are_fucking_stupid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@purplegirl8036 She doesn't have to be hot but if she wants a high-value man she has to look much better than most other women out there. No high value wealthy powerful man looking for some 30 something sista with a do-rag on her head and a ghetto accent/attitude. This is really what Kevin be trying to say just not in so many words.

  • @gc8972b
    @gc8972b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    she's polite, can have a laugh and keep a conversation going. definitely in good spirits. best of luck ✌

  • @kendall0079
    @kendall0079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    Guys, we got to give the lady applaud for good conversation. no screaming and yelling. active listening and strategic response. she is really getting advice.

    • @Xardion55
      @Xardion55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      A pleasant rarity...

    • @canibezeroun1988
      @canibezeroun1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      The bar set too low

    • @cherylvaughn2215
      @cherylvaughn2215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree. You can see the way she was staring at her screen. She really came for answers!

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She was cute as well

    • @emoney3522
      @emoney3522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Nah... She doesn't get props for not being abrasive. That's called communicating like an average, functioning adult.
      Also, she's a bullshitter and, on multiple occasions, couldn't give a simple, straight answer. She just happened to be relatively pleasant during the exchange.

  • @dispositionguise7467
    @dispositionguise7467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    You have to love these “traditional” women who want to marry rich men but end up spending a decade in school becoming doctors.

    • @snapgram3475
      @snapgram3475 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓

    • @jonvibes1k
      @jonvibes1k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *Nurses

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @themaharishi8160
      @themaharishi8160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      A few hours at the gym beats out a few years of higher education every time. Women simply need to be in shape and act decent to get any man they desire. I've even seen a whale land a great man by simply cooking for him and doing nothing else right.

    • @MrCarty-qx9dg
      @MrCarty-qx9dg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She over here Jedi mind tricking dudes, lol.

  • @michaelsimmons3114
    @michaelsimmons3114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Fellas if a woman is stressing you, not easy to great along with and argumentative, cut bait, find you a better one!

    • @rybackfrankie8679
      @rybackfrankie8679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen !

    • @jesseadams8051
      @jesseadams8051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If she agrue with you more than she sex you...leave her!

    • @t1m3l0rd
      @t1m3l0rd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This alone should be recited every monday in schools.

  • @hgkal808
    @hgkal808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Vivica Fox trashed this man today. SHAME! He was an absolute treasure to his community. The topics in this conversation need to be taught in every inner city Home Economics class. Stronger relationships and families was the KS legacy, not hate and foolishness. Well done faithful servant, we'll see you in the Kingdom.

  • @folu12
    @folu12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I turned 30 September 2020 and he couldn't be more right.
    I have had a fire lit since turning 30, all I'm doing is for my future family now. Light literally flicked on.

    • @BrianRenardDavis
      @BrianRenardDavis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      29 Is when it clicked for me bro.

    • @twooley5402
      @twooley5402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah I am turning 29 and the light has gone off and I am focused...I am running out of time.

    • @creepycrawly9519
      @creepycrawly9519 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@twooley5402 everyone’s running out of time, don’t falter one bit

    • @silviopop3897
      @silviopop3897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think there’s something wrong with me. I’m 20 rn. I’m still living with my parents but I’m already worrying about stuff like this. I’m working a lot and hopefully by the end of this year I’ll own around 100k in stocks and crypto. I already found a purpose for my life and I have a plan for it. Any tips for when I get older? I would really appreciate it 😁

    • @omofumaighodalo432
      @omofumaighodalo432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@silviopop3897 Settle any resentment you may have towards your parents and forgive them (this will bring you into God consciousness). Move out as soon as possible, face the hardships with a good attitude, work, keep doing what you are doing if you don't know what is next( stay in the present), Pray and listen in your heart, not in your head to God.
      Finally don't seek for a spouse , seek what is right above all, and the right one will be added to you.