Dude said, "Why would a childless man, who is in the top 15% of all earners, want a women with 2 kids, and her baby daddy is in jail......😭😭Goodnight yall
Modern Code Words: Starting with " I feel like" " I hear what you're saying, but" " I believe" "I understand, however" " I don't think" " Can I ask you a question" "Well...I think" " That's true, but" " I'm trying to be respectful" " I've never seen your show" "A friend referred me to your show" " I understand, but" " Well...I dont see it that way" " If you knew me, you'd understand" "People I know or knew" " I was with a high value man, but..." " I've dated high value men, but..." " I don't think that's fair..." " I want to introduce a different perspective..." " I have options too..." "I appreciate your show, but..." " Well...look at it this way..." " How do you know..." " Yes & no..." " Me personally...." " Femininity depends on..." " What do you mean by..." " I dont have to..." " I was engaged, but" " I filed for divorce" " I broke off the engagement" " But kevin...." " Okay mr samuels" " Do you have problems with black women" " Well...men do it too" " Why do women have to need men" " Who hurt you..." " You hate black women" " I'm speaking my truth..." " I know plenty of women that did etc, but" "I knew what I was doing, but" " That's a great point kevin, but" " I have a question for you" " Not all men are great men, but" " I'm not trying to make excuses for women but" " I dont think I'm overweight..." " Some women won't ever be skinny or healthy, So I believe" " As a woman myself, I don't think" " Yeah, but alot of black men are broken" " Black women still love black men, even though..." " I had kids with him, but he was crazy" " Well...I was young & dumb.." " Do you think...etc...no judgement though.." " Well...when a woman does it..etc.." " I felt like it was a toxic situation I was in" "I decide when I want to get married" " My father taught me how to be a wife...but I'm still learning" "May I say one thing" "I was done with the relationship.." " He cheated.." "Marriage wasn't a big deal on my end.." " I don't personally believe that a man should...." " Well, I never had to or needed a reason to" "Some women don't see marriage that way" " You know what I'm trying to say" "That's just me..." " I haven't met the man that made me want to...." " Yes we do need families, but.." " So, what's the difference..." "I'm not going to let a man..." "Mmm-hm...ok..well.." "But kevin, you don't know the whole story.." " I'm trying to tell you, but.." " Ima let you talk..." " Can I speak now...can I say something..." " I have kids, but..." " Well...to you..." " Guess my age..." " I find it funny..." " But some men like big women" " I want what I want..." " I'm the exception..." "Well...I was young & dumb..." " Well....what do men say..." "I think it's just weird...." " I'm overweight, but I've been working on it..." " Well...that's a European standard of beauty..." "Why is it, when men...." " He was a narcissist..." " I can be submissive..." " Why should I be submissive..." " For the right man, I can..." Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!
What is masculinity? I heard someone say, "He's too feminine" about a heterosexual guy just because he took the time to groom himself. I didn't see what the problem was.
@@AroundTheWayGirl88 Dont act tough, look like a construction worker, cant cook, modern feminist, etc. If you are a female and you dont even know that, go do some research.
We all have to be both depending on the situation. There are times where we need our men to pull from his feminine energy especially when your woman needs comfort.
@@HalalJoker I don't have to look it up Harvey. I'm aware of what it means. However, I also know that some people have a skewed view of such things. I wanted his opinion/definition.Thanks for yours.
Being raised by women I was only ever taught "how to treat a woman". No one ever helped me understand what a woman is supposed to do for me. In practice this helps me understand my responsibilities as a man, by understanding a woman's responsibilities to me. Thank you.
I don’t really have issues with women but this show made me more aware of what I find attractive in them and what I want out of them as I never put thought as to what I want from a serious relationship.
The two of you gentlemen are perfect examples of another difference between men and women. Both of you are listening and finding something different to take from this, finding a way to not only possibly improve yourselves but your lives. As where the majority of women are looking to argue or deflect. Good luck to you both!
Hey there Mr. Martin. I am a 50 yr old woman. I was not blessed with children but I will give you a piece of advice that my grandma gave her high value son. He is an aviation tech and owns a HVAC business. When it come to women NEVER date down. If you have good credit she should have good credit, if you don't have kids she should not have kids, what is she offering you besides her body? And if she is offering that to you think of all the other men she gave that up too. Looks are deceiving. Wait on God and observe because no one can keep a lie going for long. She will reveal herself after while. Be blessed 💕
Honestly, she seems like a good woman that is terrible at picking men. I guarantee you she picks based mostly on “vibe” or height or some other woman measurement tactic.
@@freudianslip2192 doubt it. She's putting on an act for the camera. We know nothing about her bad side. Since it's her perspective she's never going to tell us her negative.
@@freudianslip2192 No, she's not terrible at picking men, she wants perfection and wants to be in control. She's also VERY sassy and selfish and was only thinking about herself and not the needs of her children. She had a husband who was willing to work with her with children, but NEVER appreciated it. She lost because of it, but what the future holds for her we'll never know.
She lied on her ex husband. She instantly made up something that made him seem immature and irresponsible. He wanted to run his household and she didn’t cooperate.
One thing KS doesn't acknowledge is that even though women making a lot of money isn't a big deal to men the way it would be to women. However, money is power regardless of who makes it. She made more money so I'm sure she felt like she should dictate how it's spent. I think she just chose poorly but she doesn't seem as bad as the title made me think. Comparing her to most women with 2 kids who call in she isn't so bad especially when she don't even care if he HVM or not.
I actually really like this young woman. She calls him “Mr. Samuels” and is respectful to both him and to herself, she’s reflective, and honest both with and about herself.
A woman with two kids can go around saying she doesn’t need a man with kids. Other women will support that “ yasss sis, know your worth.” But soon as a man say he won’t date a single mother “ he is a misogynist, who hurt you ? Not a real man.” See the patterns.
I don't see a problem with either preference. Being a step-parent is no joke. I've been a step-mom, but my kids have never had a step-dad. I will not remarry until my youngest turns 18.
@@romanorleans504 um, I do have a choice...I don't have to wait. I married my ex husband when his son was 3. Plenty of people grow up with step-parents. I'm just not interested in marrying until my youngest is of a legal adult age 🤷🏾♀️.
Woman with two kids (for a man in prison) says she doesn't want a man with kids because of baby mama drama. Ma'am you are the textbook definition of baby mama drama. Can't make this shit up.
Lmao! I don’t know bro…it could go either way. The way I see it, sure a woman can be earning $100k+ but that doesn’t mean she’s smart enough to pick a good guy. 😂🤣
No it makes sense and it speaks on his key factor! Men don't care bout woman that makes money smh because it's not our only it is there... but high earning men that makes money become family money! Which means what's his is hers and what's hers is hers !
The irony is that women often say all they want is honesty from a man. What they mostly mean is that they want men to agree with them. Anything else causes an allergic reaction from them.
We do love it and embrace it 🙌🏾🙌🏾 all of us weren’t coddled as little girls .. some of us take our dose of reality like adults .. fix what’s not working and move forward 🙏🏾❤️ respectfully
I ran into a woman like this a few years back. She had two kids and I have zero. She said she wouldn't date a man with kids and I'm thinking to myself "how are you going to have a standard for a man that you can't maintain yourself?" That's when I decided to never talk to single mothers again.
@Black Panther the 5th one is the former step daddy who thinks the kids are his still lol(no seriously there are dudes like this out here and it's freaky)
Well, this is beginning to happen in their communities, too! It’s the curse of feminism they unleashed upon the world! It’s called karma, the big payback..revenge ( James Brown)🤣🤣🤣✊🏽
Yea but I don’t think she was in the wrong by not letting her ex control her finances . She said she was paying bills and dude prolly wanted a ps5 lmao
@@Gang-mq1bf she literally said that she wouldn't have left him if she would've know he's her last, that says a lot about how she was searching for no problems or nuances in ANOTHER human
And at relatively young ages..there is one who once said she earns 6 figures at 26 🤔.. a man starts to earn 6 figures roughly at 45, but these women start earning at 25 doing non stem occupations
The nerve of these marginal, entitled flawed women with kids A obese woman doesn't want a obese man A Short woman doesn't want a short man A ugly/unattractive woman doesn't want a unattractive man A poor woman doesn't want a poor man. And the insanity goes on and on...
The problem is that many people want to be stars in their own right, and social media allows for that. But a bust-down is still a bust-down, no matter what.
Kevin is very accurate with this conversation. My mother was a high earning woman, and I have no memories of her attempting to act masculine or dominant. My father passed, and she always had men trying to marry her. She finally married her husband, and even though she made twice his income, she relinquished control over the finances to her husband. I even asked her if she loved him, and she said that she knew he would be good to her and take care of her. That was enough for me, and I supported her wisdom. Btw, 20+ years later, they're happily married and enjoying retirement together.
Please don’t think I am being overly critical of this situation, however I can’t help but cringe when you made it clear your mother didn’t love her second husband. That man clearly loved her otherwise he wouldn’t have married her. As a man being seen as a provider and caretaker would not be anywhere near close enough to warrant marriage.
@@macmachineNo it’s not. Especially not if you find someone that has your best interests at heart. Majority of the time, men are far better at holding onto money because we don’t do the emotional spending of women. That’s why majority of the time inheritance and things passed down come from the father and not the mother. I know plenty of mothers that have blew through their children’s inheritance after the father passed.
@black guy me too. But that’s because the people that control the images control minds. Even I’m not immune to it. I’ve jus been through a few things so I know a little better. Keep thinking for ya self homie. And salute...
Woman with 2 kids with a BD in prison says she wants a man with no kids...and initiated a divorce with another man..And wants a man with no kids because of no drama.. DELUSIONAL
Ftdcp: I agree, though it seemed as if many were suggesting that single men with kids should take on single moms with kids, sort of like The Brady Bunch I guess! I sure wouldn’t recommend it!🤣🤣🤣
@@beinghelpful682 *51% of Black Men don't have kids, so why are Black Women getting pregnant by Men with children by multiple women already that they aren't there for? 80% of Women want 20% of Men. The other 80% of Men are chasing the bottom 20% of Women.*
Young lady, white women have nothing to do with this conversation. I'd love to see the majority of us black women rockin our own hair, eyelashes and eyebrows but I know it's wishful thinking but people could actually know what we look like.
I’ve been a step father before and man that was the worst .. Never seen somebody be so ungrateful before ever in my life who did absolutely nothing for me
This is why vows in marriage are stated, better or worse, sickness & health, richer or poor, til death to you part. Ppl be in La La Land at their own wedding.
@@marcellissamuels4516 I was comparing her to the other women that would go on this show and didn’t have the capacity to even do that. They just knew what they knew and couldn’t take in new information. I was just giving her credit for that. RIP the GOAT 😪
"...I don't want baby mama drama..." However, you expect a man to deal with your convicted felon baby daddy? Girl, you better just get your dogs/cats picked out now. Mr, Samuels, please que TAPS.
Idk if this is a backhanded compliment or not but compared to most who call in I found her very tolerable LOL. I don't think she'll die alone. She looks well kept and doesn't necessarily need a man making a lot of money. She comes off as the type who would be willing to face reality asap to avoid being alone. Keep in mind I'm comparing her to the overweight women with 2+ kids who are loud and obnoxious. She'll be aight.
@Mr. Jones, I am sure she could get a suitor for a couple of months. Looks fade, and like her ex's record, kids are forever. At best, her next man will be 4th on her priority list. The juice is diffently not worth the squeeze.
I'd much, much, much sooner deal with a single mom than even a childless woman who's basically marking time because her dude is in the joint. It's not unheard-of for convicted murderers to be released on parole, technicalities or whatever... guys who actually DID that work. Hard pass...
This is what I like about Kevin. He doesn’t judge the woman for what she wants. He forces women (through discussion) to see the hypocrisy in their thinking. You are completely entitled to want whatever you want. Whether or not you are deserving of it, is another thing.
OMG!! I live in OKC and I remember those girls back in the day. They've jumped a girl that was a dancer, she was light-skinned with naturally long hair, and cut it off!! A bunch of jealous girls. It was deplorable.
Funny how women who never grew up with their real father always talking about what a real man is. How you gonna talk about what a real man is when your momma , your sister and grandmother are all single mothers. Shit is really sad.
That’s so true, being a step father is so under-appreciated. And he will still get blamed for the failed relationship...All the risk and blame with zero reward...and yet there’s still men out there that will step up to that...
It’s crazy because what he said about BW not wanting to submit to their man just opened my eyes more. My uncle’s wife is Asian and she makes well over 6 figures and my uncle is a sheriff making somewhere in the 50k-60k range and she submits to him. They’ve been married for 15 years now
Some what similar - my wife is Asian. She and I each make a bit over 100k. Her parents instilled in her what the role of a woman and a man is. She is very submissive/cooperative. We argued once within 17 years. No matter how tired she is - when she gets home - she changes and starts cooking. She refuses to spend money without asking my permission first. She waits on me hand and foot. She rarely talks back... if I ask her to do something - she does it. I have dated other races before my wife and there is certainly a trend... not that it applies to all women - though this feminist stuff and attitude is real. If I did not meet her - then I may not have gotten married because these women today... God help us. Oh - and she doesn't do Social Media.
She broke up her family and didn't even think about her son's broken heart until it was too late .. now she wants to go back with her ex but he already moved on .. just another Tuesday in the world of feminist! 😥
Facts ive dated a women from PR . Talking about treating men like King’s my god , she would get offended if I simply washed my own clothing.. I couldn’t make a sandwich without her stopping me and finishing. Even thou she moved to states in middle school she still had strong Puerto Rican culture and upbringing.. hell they all do be honest
It's easier for her to say she was in a 3 yr relationship oppose to the truth she had 2 kids by a random man she barely knew. Bc if we subtract the months pregnant and the time for her vagina to heal between pregnancies. She only knew this man for a couple of months before giving him 2 kids.
Yep. “Accept my children & save me but you better not bring your own into the mix. I don’t want to care for anyone’s child but my own & that’s just my preference. You’re a piece of shit though & not a real man at all if you don’t sign up to be a stepparent to MY kid(s)”
The whole point they started this conversation with, was that men and women rank each other differently. Men expect women to be fit and gorgeous, women do not expect that from men.... why is this situation any different? Very hypocritical
@@Lulu2u Men are visual. Their attraction starts by what they see. Women more emotional and thus more attracted to conmecting , vibing, a man's status, sense of humor. Not to say women dont care about looks but its not always the deciding factor.
@@jakaryreason5246 if a woman has children thats already enough work as it is, how is it selfish for her to not want to add any more kids? I only want two kids, would I be selfish if I got my tubes tied after that? No
Lies ... lies... lies... all day every day until the end of time! If that statement was true she was going to be with the children's dad trying to make things work because the best environment for the children is a 2 parents household. Ohhh and in case you want to go down the 'but he is in prison' road which i strongly wouldn't recommend can I just point out at the simple fact that if her children come first she wouldn't choose the father of her children to be a fucking criminal? Just some food for thought...
She doesn’t want a man with baggage but wants a man to accept hers. As well as all the other bullshit that’s gonna come along the way.... I just don’t see this happening
Kevin allowed this woman to go with her story just to prove to you guys that he ain’t making this shyt up! Them sisters be out there! Ask lots of questions, then run like your hair is on 🔥 when you meet one! 🤣🤣🤔
Exactly. I'm glad Kevin asked that great question. You see single mothers want a man without kids but would tell their sons to never date single mothers like them. This to show you that they don't respect and love men for who they are but what can they provide for them but they love their sons unconditionally. They're very hypocritical
@@thedeanogaming see the problem is they don't want no man without kids but they want the men to spend the money on her and her kids that's the problem. They don't want the man with kid's to spend money on there own kids but there kids sad. That's the game
@@jameshollman9238 exactly. At this rate I don't feel sorry for her. I only feel sorry for her kids in which they might grew up to be beta male simps. She said she wants a dude with zero kids and she knew how messed up that is to want a man with no kids. She don't deserve a guy who no kids.
You also don’t want hurt and angry teenage boys going through puberty around you when they getting more into combat sports, bodybuilding and (unfortunately) rap music which pushes violence. Recipe for injury and heartbreak.
@@shellyhunt4910 and therein lies the problem- women like the OP assume he has to earn the right to lead AFTER she marries him. It goes without saying that not every man is the right one to lead the woman in question. But too many women want the relationship but refuse or chafe at the notion of relinquishing control, and that becomes a model of attrition, not success. They should be vetting him to lead BEFORE marriage, and then let him do so afterwards.
She wasn’t too bad honestly she listened and agreed with a lot of Kevin’s valid points. She has some real hope and if she learned from her past she’ll make a good wife
Damn and the conversation started so good too! As soon as she said “2 kids but doesn’t want a man with kids”, and “baby daddy incarcerated “, it went down hill
A man can get her to be cooperative and submissive, they just require the level of aggression in their personality which tends to get them imprisoned XD.
This episode was so, so much better than the others I've seen thus far. To sum it, I would say it was more informative and much, much less entertainment and 'bottom of the barrel' ruckus. Extremely informative. Thank you so much.
That’s interesting, she makes more money so she gets to spend it how she sees fit, but when the man earns more money it’s “our” money and she gets to control the flow of the finances.
yeah meanwhile in the real world women control the huge majority of spending... she is saying that it is 'our' money because she knows damn well that she will spend that money like there is no tommorow.
Kevin, its is great to see a bright woman who is interested in learning and being more reasonable. I truly enjoyed your conversation. She was respectful and not talking over you which so many black women seem to do here. She was enjoyable to hear....this gal is going to get what she wants and deserves because she is willing to learn and make changes. She is more realistic than most i have seen on your show. Its nice to see an open minded woman who has ideas which are sensible and she addresses you as “mr.” she doesn’t want a man with kids....she will compromise on that for the right man....because she is smart and wants to be a better person. She has made mistakes but she is learning. Keep up the work of helping these woman understand the reality of life. You are doing a super job!
@Daimon Mario Perez real shit. The saddest part is that it's not just the women who call into these podcasts. It's a lot of these women in real life who have the same type of mentality when you observe their behavior and see no accountability. I even have a cousin who has 2 kids, 2 different fathers, never married, and is now dating with a 15-year-old and 2 year old. She's dating a childless man and she wants no more children. The dude she's dating would be fulfilling the role of the biological father, without ever having any biological kids of his own. It's crazy because she doesn't speak highly of the 2 men who impregnated her, but still chose to have their offspring. But, a man who is the stepfather, sacrificing everything, using his time/resources, and footing the bill can't even get 1 kid with her. It's selfish. She had the 1st kid at around 26 and the 2nd kid at 40. Neither of the men are involved with her or the kids. The oldest child has been asking where her father is and why he's not involved and deep-down, is upset about it. What makes things worse is that she knew her 2nd child's father already had 3 baby mamas before she got pregnant and now she's the 4th baby mama at 42 years old. How can you be willing to get pregnant at 40 years old by a man who you may as well say "ain't shit" and still chose to risk your life in childbirth to have a lesser man's 4th illegitimate child? But, all of a sudden, you won't have just 1 child for a man who's willing to possibly marry you, become your husband, be present, and take care of 2 other men's kids? I don't get why some single mothers say it's a "huge ask" to give the stepdad a child (his own biological child), but it's not a "huge ask" for him to spend years handling another man's responsibility? She constantly complains about her situation and the females around her coddle her and don't tell her the truth. The most delusional thing is not completely the choice she made, but the lack of accountability and self-awareness for it. It's unfortunate because I bet her kids will always blame their fathers, but will not hold their mother to the same level of accountability, if at all. She's a part of their suffering too, if not more.
@Prince Nelson nah i believe her. She comes off like those women who will get in an argument and use her making money against u. She wears the pants in the relationship
@@HUNGRYFLOWER98 what pants do she wear exactly? If she control him she wear the pants yall makin yall own definition for stuff just like vice versa if i tell my girl what to do i wear the pants in the relationship she would b the bread winner of the relationship
My father tells me this everyday ; marrying the wrong woman is the absolute worst thing a man can do to himself
Your father is correct. But did he teach you how to find the right woman. My problem is that I always find the wrong women.
You don’t get tired of commenting on every red pill video? Lol go get some buns bro
@@vincent763 Dayum....lol! 😂😜🤣
Really? EVERYDAY?
@@juniorleslie4804 exactly!!! To many parents don’t teach their kids how to make better choices and how to judge people better. Smfh
I know Kelly Rowland is somewhere smiling every time Kevin says she's prettier than Beyonce lol
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you know that's right, Smiling and nodding her head.
She definitely is....Bey is fake😖😝
How is Beyonce fake ? Just wondering.
She has better features than beyonce. If kelly would bleach you could see that.
Dude said, "Why would a childless man, who is in the top 15% of all earners, want a women with 2 kids, and her baby daddy is in jail......😭😭Goodnight yall
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Goodnight! Bro you wild 😂💀💀
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Her: " I don't want baby mama drama"
Also her: "The father of my children is incarcerated".
lmfao
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Can’t make this up smh
I have yet to see that acknowledged as negative drama by ONE woman who proudly boasted that that children's father is in prison. It's astonishing.
Projecting
Dating a single mother is like arriving to a party after everyone left & you have to clean up the mess. 👀👀👀
Facts. Lol 😂😂😂
OMG!!!
You need to submit that to Hallmark. Thats a card family members can send to their foolish relatives.
You hit the nail on the head!!!
Genius
Exactly!!!!
That analogy is spot on, champ....lol! 😂💪🏾😜👍🏾🤣
How ironic that she doesn't want a man with baggage yet she will expect that he will take care of kids that's not even his....good luck with that 😂
Dwl lol
Women with that mindset won't get far.
Well shit reasonably that'll mean there's 3 kids Altogether at the very least
Love this username and what he got to say. Always makes me smile.
@@Zathren Who's, who? Lol
Modern Code Words: Starting with
" I feel like"
" I hear what you're saying, but"
" I believe"
"I understand, however"
" I don't think"
" Can I ask you a question"
"Well...I think"
" That's true, but"
" I'm trying to be respectful"
" I've never seen your show"
"A friend referred me to your show"
" I understand, but"
" Well...I dont see it that way"
" If you knew me, you'd understand"
"People I know or knew"
" I was with a high value man, but..."
" I've dated high value men, but..."
" I don't think that's fair..."
" I want to introduce a different perspective..."
" I have options too..."
"I appreciate your show, but..."
" Well...look at it this way..."
" How do you know..."
" Yes & no..."
" Me personally...."
" Femininity depends on..."
" What do you mean by..."
" I dont have to..."
" I was engaged, but"
" I filed for divorce"
" I broke off the engagement"
" But kevin...."
" Okay mr samuels"
" Do you have problems with black women"
" Well...men do it too"
" Why do women have to need men"
" Who hurt you..."
" You hate black women"
" I'm speaking my truth..."
" I know plenty of women that did etc, but"
"I knew what I was doing, but"
" That's a great point kevin, but"
" I have a question for you"
" Not all men are great men, but"
" I'm not trying to make excuses for women but"
" I dont think I'm overweight..."
" Some women won't ever be skinny or healthy, So I believe"
" As a woman myself, I don't think"
" Yeah, but alot of black men are broken"
" Black women still love black men, even though..."
" I had kids with him, but he was crazy"
" Well...I was young & dumb.."
" Do you think...etc...no judgement though.."
" Well...when a woman does it..etc.."
" I felt like it was a toxic situation I was in"
"I decide when I want to get married"
" My father taught me how to be a wife...but I'm still learning"
"May I say one thing"
"I was done with the relationship.."
" He cheated.."
"Marriage wasn't a big deal on my end.."
" I don't personally believe that a man should...."
" Well, I never had to or needed a reason to"
"Some women don't see marriage that way"
" You know what I'm trying to say"
"That's just me..."
" I haven't met the man that made me want to...."
" Yes we do need families, but.."
" So, what's the difference..."
"I'm not going to let a man..."
"Mmm-hm...ok..well.."
"But kevin, you don't know the whole story.."
" I'm trying to tell you, but.."
" Ima let you talk..."
" Can I speak now...can I say something..."
" I have kids, but..."
" Well...to you..."
" Guess my age..."
" I find it funny..."
" But some men like big women"
" I want what I want..."
" I'm the exception..."
"Well...I was young & dumb..."
" Well....what do men say..."
"I think it's just weird...."
" I'm overweight, but I've been working on it..."
" Well...that's a European standard of beauty..."
"Why is it, when men...."
" He was a narcissist..."
" I can be submissive..."
" Why should I be submissive..."
" For the right man, I can..."
Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!
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Her: "I don't want baby mama drama"
Translation: " I don't want a man with kids because i want all of his money and attention on me and mine"
Underrated comment, Painful truth nobody can rate it higher. Good job Sir
A lot of men with kids feel this way too that’s why they got after women without kids
@@SweetestGyrl And it's nowhere near to the level women with kids do it,
@@SweetestGyrl you know that's a lie.
Lol.
"I don’t want a man with kids" because "I don’t like the baby mama drama”....says a baby mama 😳😳🙄🙄
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Yeah! It’s pretty ironic! 🤣🤣🤪
Well I'm older I never gave my son's father drama because my Mother raised me not to we are friends to this day
Funny
Her: I got to be less masculine.
All Guys around the world: No, don't be masculine at all.
What is masculinity? I heard someone say, "He's too feminine" about a heterosexual guy just because he took the time to groom himself. I didn't see what the problem was.
@@AroundTheWayGirl88 Dont act tough, look like a construction worker, cant cook, modern feminist, etc. If you are a female and you dont even know that, go do some research.
We all have to be both depending on the situation. There are times where we need our men to pull from his feminine energy especially when your woman needs comfort.
@Adam A. Oh ok, I thought the Yin Yang was good and evil. I never thought of it as Female/male. Ill read up on it.
@@HalalJoker I don't have to look it up Harvey. I'm aware of what it means. However, I also know that some people have a skewed view of such things. I wanted his opinion/definition.Thanks for yours.
She says I don't want a man with kids because there might be baby mama drama but then says her kids father is in prison 🤦🏽♂️😂 you can't make this up.
Well maybe he’s not getting out 🤣😂🤣
100,723 reasons to avoid black women
Ikr
These women get on here and just lie for no reason 😒
@@bowdownbedwenches4563 omg your profile 😂💀
Look a woman who actually LISTENED and was non-combative. Talk about a breath of fresh air.
Being raised by women I was only ever taught "how to treat a woman". No one ever helped me understand what a woman is supposed to do for me. In practice this helps me understand my responsibilities as a man, by understanding a woman's responsibilities to me. Thank you.
I don’t really have issues with women but this show made me more aware of what I find attractive in them and what I want out of them as I never put thought as to what I want from a serious relationship.
The two of you gentlemen are perfect examples of another difference between men and women. Both of you are listening and finding something different to take from this, finding a way to not only possibly improve yourselves but your lives. As where the majority of women are looking to argue or deflect.
Good luck to you both!
@Cordero Martin I agree bro
Hey there Mr. Martin. I am a 50 yr old woman. I was not blessed with children but I will give you a piece of advice that my grandma gave her high value son. He is an aviation tech and owns a HVAC business. When it come to women NEVER date down. If you have good credit she should have good credit, if you don't have kids she should not have kids, what is she offering you besides her body? And if she is offering that to you think of all the other men she gave that up too. Looks are deceiving. Wait on God and observe because no one can keep a lie going for long. She will reveal herself after while. Be blessed 💕
Lol
"Ive never had a problem co-parenting"
well ma'am he's in jail
That is why she has no problem! 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
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Honestly, she seems like a good woman that is terrible at picking men. I guarantee you she picks based mostly on “vibe” or height or some other woman measurement tactic.
@@freudianslip2192 doubt it. She's putting on an act for the camera. We know nothing about her bad side. Since it's her perspective she's never going to tell us her negative.
@@freudianslip2192 No, she's not terrible at picking men, she wants perfection and wants to be in control. She's also VERY sassy and selfish and was only thinking about herself and not the needs of her children. She had a husband who was willing to work with her with children, but NEVER appreciated it. She lost because of it, but what the future holds for her we'll never know.
She lied on her ex husband. She instantly made up something that made him seem immature and irresponsible. He wanted to run his household and she didn’t cooperate.
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True Facts !!!
Right on!!
@@Maxrepfitgm Being a leader has nothing to do with who makes more if the both of you are making money in the end
One thing KS doesn't acknowledge is that even though women making a lot of money isn't a big deal to men the way it would be to women. However, money is power regardless of who makes it. She made more money so I'm sure she felt like she should dictate how it's spent. I think she just chose poorly but she doesn't seem as bad as the title made me think. Comparing her to most women with 2 kids who call in she isn't so bad especially when she don't even care if he HVM or not.
I actually really like this young woman. She calls him “Mr. Samuels” and is respectful to both him and to herself, she’s reflective, and honest both with and about herself.
Yes I agree 💕💐💕
I had the same reaction...
I Agree, she’s kewl to hang with it seems
She seems young and she makes so much. Kudos to her
I think she was completely false in the video.
A woman with two kids can go around saying she doesn’t need a man with kids. Other women will support that “ yasss sis, know your worth.” But soon as a man say he won’t date a single mother “ he is a misogynist, who hurt you ? Not a real man.”
See the patterns.
Yup💯
I dont date women with kids...
I don't see a problem with either preference. Being a step-parent is no joke. I've been a step-mom, but my kids have never had a step-dad. I will not remarry until my youngest turns 18.
@@Mindurbusiness1234 you say that like you have a choice you have to wait till the child is 18 smh
@@romanorleans504 um, I do have a choice...I don't have to wait. I married my ex husband when his son was 3. Plenty of people grow up with step-parents. I'm just not interested in marrying until my youngest is of a legal adult age 🤷🏾♀️.
Woman with two kids (for a man in prison) says she doesn't want a man with kids because of baby mama drama. Ma'am you are the textbook definition of baby mama drama. Can't make this shit up.
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Don't forget when the street dude baby daddy comes home he will be smashing.
Nah he's married. He probably will be full of violent drama towards the new man.
Bruh the irony!
That's crazy not ready for a husband
It’s amazing that almost every woman on this show is a business owner making over $100K, but their baby daddy is in prison. We believe you ladies 😂
Lol
Facts
That cheap wig she got on she doesn’t make 100K
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Lmao! I don’t know bro…it could go either way. The way I see it, sure a woman can be earning $100k+ but that doesn’t mean she’s smart enough to pick a good guy. 😂🤣
I swear all the women that call his shows are “six figures earners”.
Ikr🚶♂️
Until they get off the phone!!😂😂
LA salon tho...I believe it.
No it makes sense and it speaks on his key factor! Men don't care bout woman that makes money smh because it's not our only it is there... but high earning men that makes money become family money! Which means what's his is hers and what's hers is hers !
Good point!
This guy is like a dose of truth to black woman and they hate it when they should love and embrace it!
The irony is that women often say all they want is honesty from a man. What they mostly mean is that they want men to agree with them. Anything else causes an allergic reaction from them.
They can’t handle being humbled but they need it so badly
We do love it and embrace it 🙌🏾🙌🏾 all of us weren’t coddled as little girls .. some of us take our dose of reality like adults .. fix what’s not working and move forward 🙏🏾❤️ respectfully
@@rm5282 I can agree with you there.
They love to hate it
I ran into a woman like this a few years back. She had two kids and I have zero. She said she wouldn't date a man with kids and I'm thinking to myself "how are you going to have a standard for a man that you can't maintain yourself?" That's when I decided to never talk to single mothers again.
We just want peace. 4 kids by 5 men isn’t peace, it’s war.
Lmbo
@Black Panther Four kods by five men could also mean 3 and 2 possibles (not sure who the actual father is)
@Black Panther the 5th one is the former step daddy who thinks the kids are his still lol(no seriously there are dudes like this out here and it's freaky)
Well, this is beginning to happen in their communities, too! It’s the curse of feminism they unleashed upon the world! It’s called karma, the big payback..revenge ( James Brown)🤣🤣🤣✊🏽
what does this have to do with the video?? lol
KS this is one of the best conversations I’ve watched. I compliment the young woman because she was truly engaged in your advice.
I appreciate the fact that she was on here trying to learn and grow.
Facts
Yea but I don’t think she was in the wrong by not letting her ex control her finances . She said she was paying bills and dude prolly wanted a ps5 lmao
@@Gang-mq1bf she literally said that she wouldn't have left him if she would've know he's her last, that says a lot about how she was searching for no problems or nuances in ANOTHER human
@@bratindas5814 talk to em… n she agreed…
@@emandaboss1 yup 👍
It’s interesting how almost every woman who calls into Kevin’s show makes over 6 figures
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And at relatively young ages..there is one who once said she earns 6 figures at 26 🤔.. a man starts to earn 6 figures roughly at 45, but these women start earning at 25 doing non stem occupations
I don't believed must of them
Exactly!
@@leeroyhustle while barely being able to use proper grammar😂
The nerve of these marginal, entitled flawed women with kids
A obese woman doesn't want a obese man
A Short woman doesn't want a short man
A ugly/unattractive woman doesn't want a unattractive man
A poor woman doesn't want a poor man. And the insanity goes on and on...
No Ham No Burger...
Thats hypergamy & reality man. Last time tradition (Arranged Marriages) help to curb hypergamy but now its a free for all buffet.
The problem is that many people want to be stars in their own right, and social media allows for that. But a bust-down is still a bust-down, no matter what.
I want this &.... I want that....and some man WILL buy it for me.........
The nerve!!! It’s so crazy 90% our women our like this
Kevin is very accurate with this conversation. My mother was a high earning woman, and I have no memories of her attempting to act masculine or dominant. My father passed, and she always had men trying to marry her. She finally married her husband, and even though she made twice his income, she relinquished control over the finances to her husband. I even asked her if she loved him, and she said that she knew he would be good to her and take care of her. That was enough for me, and I supported her wisdom. Btw, 20+ years later, they're happily married and enjoying retirement together.
Please don’t think I am being overly critical of this situation, however I can’t help but cringe when you made it clear your mother didn’t love her second husband. That man clearly loved her otherwise he wouldn’t have married her. As a man being seen as a provider and caretaker would not be anywhere near close enough to warrant marriage.
Nobody, man or woman, should ever relinquish their money to their partner. It's a recipe fir disaster and exploitation.
@@macmachineNo it’s not. Especially not if you find someone that has your best interests at heart.
Majority of the time, men are far better at holding onto money because we don’t do the emotional spending of women.
That’s why majority of the time inheritance and things passed down come from the father and not the mother.
I know plenty of mothers that have blew through their children’s inheritance after the father passed.
Protect Yo Money & Yo Seed Brothers It’ll Save You A Lifetime Of Headaches. 💯
Church
Nuff said
Facts!!!
Bingo
@@illwill19ny And thats the gospel
“I don’t want a man with kids” but she’s someone’s baby mama! The nerve of this chick 🤦🏾♂️
She basically contradicted herself.
With a track record of filming divorce if shes with a real man.
Her BD is in JAIL. She makes 6 figs and dated a guy who went to jail. Make this make sense pls
The nerve lmao!!!!
There are so many women out there that are like that
Kelly Rowland is fine af. She’s one of the most beautiful women I’ve seen in person. And I saw her at a target with her hair tied no makeup on.
You a lucky man!!
I believe you too because ALL the fine boujee sistaz shop at 🎯
@@franklinbrandon5283 I was with my wife at the time and even she was looking hard🤦🏾♂️. Ain’t been in a walmart since 😆
@@b.o.1951 Lmbo lol 😂
@black guy me too. But that’s because the people that control the images control minds. Even I’m not immune to it. I’ve jus been through a few things so I know a little better. Keep thinking for ya self homie. And salute...
You know, once that guy gets out of jail, he's coming to the house 😂.
A woman's cooperation is highly linked to her respect for the man.
Correct. Men must get ourselves in order and attract the correct type of woman.
Correct
Her love, respect and submission to that man. Yes .
Yep true...
I think she already felt that way
"You don't want baby mama drama" even though you are a baby mama with drama.
The lack of self awareness is mind boggling
Even baby mamas don't wanna deal with baby mamas
@Apollo Mayaimi nice analogy
How is she not self aware when she said exactly what the problem was herself?
@@caseyadeyemi8817 exactly the point he's making if she's self aware of the drama that she has why would a man with no kids give her the time of day ?
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Woman with 2 kids with a BD in prison says she wants a man with no kids...and initiated a divorce with another man..And wants a man with no kids because of no drama.. DELUSIONAL
Us childless men do not want them
@@alphapimp0073 I'm with you there. They won't grasp your post.
@@BlackHawk0674 Yeah bro these women need to go back to their baby daddy
@@alphapimp0073 Yep, that's the best they are gonna do. I'm also apart of the "henry" and childless gang.
@@BlackHawk0674 Facts. The only women we will deal with is single childless women.
I've only just found Kevin the last couple of days and this conversation felt really fruitful. She was willing to have an open dialog
This is the most hypocritical thing ever women with kids want a man without kids
It ain't hypocritical...
it's *un-logical*
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Yep! Those are the ones single men with kids should avoid!🙄
@@patriciacoley3801 those are the ones that all men should avoid.
Omg 😆
Ftdcp: I agree, though it seemed as if many were suggesting that single men with kids should take on single moms with kids, sort of like The Brady Bunch I guess!
I sure wouldn’t recommend it!🤣🤣🤣
I've never looked at a girl and thought, "How much does she make?"
Exactly! But we do look at women at wonder how much baggage they have.
@@noncustody facts
Gotta agree 100%
I never thought that about a man either.
@@fatimagreen1055 I have never encountered a woman to settle with a man earning less than she does. Ever.
“Who raised these feminine, weak Black men that you have a problem with?” The million dollar question that gets a zero dollar answer🤔
Dang complete circle! Mind blown
More like Endless Loop
The answer is absent Black fathers. Oh wait…they didn’t raise anyone at all.
W O M E N
@@beinghelpful682 *51% of Black Men don't have kids, so why are Black Women getting pregnant by Men with children by multiple women already that they aren't there for? 80% of Women want 20% of Men. The other 80% of Men are chasing the bottom 20% of Women.*
She don't want you to have kids because she wants you to concentrate on her kids providing for her kids
All of the women that call Kevin's show make 6 to 7 figures and are business owners and have PHD's.
And they are all lying
If this is true, then it's a tell tell sign its not the men
EXACTLY!! Umhmmm
lol 😂 that's their narrative 😂
Bruh 🤦♂️
I think Gucci said it best
“When you’re broke you’re ugly, when you’re up you’re handsome”
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Young lady, white women have nothing to do with this conversation. I'd love to see the majority of us black women rockin our own hair, eyelashes and eyebrows but I know it's wishful thinking but people could actually know what we look like.
Preach
Raw beauty is best. Illusion is dangerous among black women.
Most of us men want our women natural …..most of us don’t like that fake stuff
Nothing wrong with wearing your natural hair out or braided under a weave. Just be a good woman and support your man.
Good luck with that
I’ve been a step father before and man that was the worst .. Never seen somebody be so ungrateful before ever in my life who did absolutely nothing for me
So sorry for that.
“Yup, I found a good one. A felon’s baby mama. This will go great” - no man ever
"no man ever" ..bro, don't ever underestimate simps
@@caesar3909 :(
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What does her kid's father being a felon have to do with HER and her value as a woman?
@@keishamikem it’s a reflection of her being a horrible decision maker to say the least.
I'M A GUY IN MY 20S BECAUSE OF KEVIN
I GOT BRACES
WORKING OUT MORE
GETTING MY FINANCES IN ORDER
BE REALISTIC ON WHAT I LOOK LIKE AND ATTRACT
Keep it up, you’ll be a happy man in your thirties on up.
Goals bro
Good luck young man.
Thanks Guys I don't live in America just be the best VERSION of yourself Physically mentally emotionally and financially. 6 figures isn't a necessity
I’m 40 with braces... I decided that before I met Kevin... his info just reassured me that I’m on the rt path
This is why vows in marriage are stated, better or worse, sickness & health, richer or poor, til death to you part. Ppl be in La La Land at their own wedding.
“...Obey...” is the real dealbreaker for BWs.
you forgot honor and obey
Speak 🗣 that TRUTH for the PEOPLE in the BACK.......
That’s a understatement... don’t know the meaning of being a husband or wife. Focused on the wedding
@@R_W_Goodson Factz. And I’m still trying to figure out when “obey” became such a trigger word. For women.
She’s solid. She took all the critique and thought about it. I love that
Dude if thats what you got out of this . I have some beach front properties in Arizona i want to sell you..
@@marcellissamuels4516 what cause I’m giving her credit for being able to take in and listen to critique? That’s how you grow.
@Steve Celestin Lmao... Ok, np, but that is a really big difference than saying that woman was solid. Those are 2 very different things
@@marcellissamuels4516 I was comparing her to the other women that would go on this show and didn’t have the capacity to even do that. They just knew what they knew and couldn’t take in new information. I was just giving her credit for that. RIP the GOAT 😪
@Steve Celestin Ok thx for the clarification.. And good point we cant always have negative view of our women.
She will be just fine as a single mother. She's extremely combative, and argumentative. Too much stud energy.
is submission intrinsic to femininity to you?
@@omb3d80 Of course it is. Apart from that, women can only respect men that they see as dominant.
I wish her luck finding her wife.
@@dagda3000 Factz!
@@jasonBGI 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"...I don't want baby mama drama..." However, you expect a man to deal with your convicted felon baby daddy? Girl, you better just get your dogs/cats picked out now. Mr, Samuels, please que TAPS.
In her 30s smh thinking she has the same options of a young women..... Insane
@@OFFTHEDOMEApparel Social media makes fefails delusional
Idk if this is a backhanded compliment or not but compared to most who call in I found her very tolerable LOL. I don't think she'll die alone. She looks well kept and doesn't necessarily need a man making a lot of money. She comes off as the type who would be willing to face reality asap to avoid being alone. Keep in mind I'm comparing her to the overweight women with 2+ kids who are loud and obnoxious. She'll be aight.
@Mr. Jones, I am sure she could get a suitor for a couple of months. Looks fade, and like her ex's record, kids are forever. At best, her next man will be 4th on her priority list. The juice is diffently not worth the squeeze.
I'd much, much, much sooner deal with a single mom than even a childless woman who's basically marking time because her dude is in the joint. It's not unheard-of for convicted murderers to be released on parole, technicalities or whatever... guys who actually DID that work. Hard pass...
This is what I like about Kevin. He doesn’t judge the woman for what she wants. He forces women (through discussion) to see the hypocrisy in their thinking.
You are completely entitled to want whatever you want. Whether or not you are deserving of it, is another thing.
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100 and whether you CAN get it or not is another thing
OMG!! I live in OKC and I remember those girls back in the day. They've jumped a girl that was a dancer, she was light-skinned with naturally long hair, and cut it off!! A bunch of jealous girls. It was deplorable.
Funny how women who never grew up with their real father always talking about what a real man is. How you gonna talk about what a real man is when your momma , your sister and grandmother are all single mothers. Shit is really sad.
Tragic asf
If those married family members married to the Wrong man, that's still a tragic problem.
Wow
I couldn't have said it better my self.
Bruh!
@@orettasmith6871 not as tragic as when their knee goes out at 3 in the morning on the toilet and no one in sight to help
That’s so true, being a step father is so under-appreciated. And he will still get blamed for the failed relationship...All the risk and blame with zero reward...and yet there’s still men out there that will step up to that...
That's bc there's still good men who are with women for love and spiritual connection.
@@beinghelpful682 love is overrated give me loyalty
@@beinghelpful682 you mean simps, correct?
@@beinghelpful682 since when do men look at each other and say “ alright fellas let’s go look for love and spiritual connection “ 😂
@@solidman7510 the two are not mutually exclusive, so you're in luck.
We need a HBO show about the Ho-Busters. 😂👌
Not even real lol
@@winterspink World Star (angrily slams the laptop shut) and exits the live…😫
😂😂😂 it would be must see TV 💯😭
Excellent commentary. A much needed conversation and realization💯
It’s crazy because what he said about BW not wanting to submit to their man just opened my eyes more. My uncle’s wife is Asian and she makes well over 6 figures and my uncle is a sheriff making somewhere in the 50k-60k range and she submits to him. They’ve been married for 15 years now
Dame!!!!!
@ Antonio Burton - I'm interested, what do you mean by "submit", can you give examples?
Some what similar - my wife is Asian. She and I each make a bit over 100k. Her parents instilled in her what the role of a woman and a man is. She is very submissive/cooperative.
We argued once within 17 years. No matter how tired she is - when she gets home - she changes and starts cooking. She refuses to spend money without asking my permission first. She waits on me hand and foot. She rarely talks back... if I ask her to do something - she does it.
I have dated other races before my wife and there is certainly a trend... not that it applies to all women - though this feminist stuff and attitude is real. If I did not meet her - then I may not have gotten married because these women today... God help us. Oh - and she doesn't do Social Media.
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@@bingram2011 well you got a unicorn brah, don't let her go!
Don't worry, Ma. I don't want a single mother of two either
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No cap 🤣
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She broke up her family and didn't even think about her son's broken heart until it was too late .. now she wants to go back with her ex but he already moved on .. just another Tuesday in the world of feminist! 😥
Exactly!!!!
Carlos and Julio standing at home depot and lowe's get cooperation from their women all day long
Carlos and Julio cheat on their women
What man doesn't?
Facts ive dated a women from PR . Talking about treating men like King’s my god , she would get offended if I simply washed my own clothing.. I couldn’t make a sandwich without her stopping me and finishing. Even thou she moved to states in middle school she still had strong Puerto Rican culture and upbringing.. hell they all do be honest
@@jdagreat4595 Dammmmmmn braah. :O She'd get offended if you washed your own clothing... where can I get one? :'D
Bc their women are undocumented as well and can't speak English. Soon as Maria learns English and can work legally she's out.
Baby daddy will get out of prison, and then the real drama starts.
Her longest relationship is 3 years. Meaning she gave a man 2 kids who she had dated for less than 3 years.
Yebo sis.
It's easier for her to say she was in a 3 yr relationship oppose to the truth she had 2 kids by a random man she barely knew. Bc if we subtract the months pregnant and the time for her vagina to heal between pregnancies. She only knew this man for a couple of months before giving him 2 kids.
And he's in jail
Unless she has twins…
@@tonimartin8547 fax , no printer case closed.
Take a good long look everybody. The modern woman in a nutshell! Wants stepfather/husband but no step-kids?!
Yep. “Accept my children & save me but you better not bring your own into the mix. I don’t want to care for anyone’s child but my own & that’s just my preference. You’re a piece of shit though & not a real man at all if you don’t sign up to be a stepparent to MY kid(s)”
The whole point they started this conversation with, was that men and women rank each other differently. Men expect women to be fit and gorgeous, women do not expect that from men.... why is this situation any different? Very hypocritical
@@Lulu2u It's different,selfishness and preferences are 2 different things.
@@Lulu2u Men are visual. Their attraction starts by what they see. Women more emotional and thus more attracted to conmecting , vibing, a man's status, sense of humor. Not to say women dont care about looks but its not always the deciding factor.
@@jakaryreason5246 if a woman has children thats already enough work as it is, how is it selfish for her to not want to add any more kids? I only want two kids, would I be selfish if I got my tubes tied after that? No
I’m so glad a lot of women are starting to listen to KS...I hope it spread like wild flowers.
Not a lot ..... yet there’s still some hard heads out there 🤔🤣
We're listening, but it's not like our critical thinking skills shut off. KS is right abt some stuff, wrong abt other stuff.
This woman was at least receptive and willing to receive information and criticism. Pleasant to hear. I have hope for her.
"If I take your earning ability away from you, what will you be?"
🤔Thats deep!!!!
"My kids come first," said no woman worth dating, ever.
Says 60% of lame chick's on dating apps
Lies ... lies... lies... all day every day until the end of time! If that statement was true she was going to be with the children's dad trying to make things work because the best environment for the children is a 2 parents household. Ohhh and in case you want to go down the 'but he is in prison' road which i strongly wouldn't recommend can I just point out at the simple fact that if her children come first she wouldn't choose the father of her children to be a fucking criminal? Just some food for thought...
Don't worry ....coming in 4th 5th or 10th is understanding😐😐😐
Question: Is it expected for a single father to put his child/children before a woman that he's dating?
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She doesn’t want a man with baggage but wants a man to accept hers.
As well as all the other bullshit that’s gonna come along the way.... I just don’t see this happening
Kevin allowed this woman to go with her story just to prove to you guys that he ain’t making this shyt up! Them sisters be out there! Ask lots of questions, then run like your hair is on 🔥 when you meet one! 🤣🤣🤔
He might come home a grown man and want to be in his kids life is she supposed to say no because she has a husband ? No
Crazy thing is a lot of woman don’t grow up and look for a man to fix their problems when they meet them a lot of women have a irrational attitude
Me either
This woman was the more reasonable I've seen in this show so far she even said she’s going to work on her agreableness that is a huge win.
Ok, she’s delusional. The baby daddy is in prison, and other men will be around them kids....MANE! But she doesn’t anticipate drama. Ok.
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Kevin asked her " Do you want your kids to bring home women like you? Very Deep
Exactly. I'm glad Kevin asked that great question. You see single mothers want a man without kids but would tell their sons to never date single mothers like them. This to show you that they don't respect and love men for who they are but what can they provide for them but they love their sons unconditionally. They're very hypocritical
@Black Panther yea I see that. She want her kids to bring home women like her. That be a bad mistake
@@thedeanogaming see the problem is they don't want no man without kids but they want the men to spend the money on her and her kids that's the problem. They don't want the man with kid's to spend money on there own kids but there kids sad. That's the game
@@jameshollman9238 exactly. At this rate I don't feel sorry for her. I only feel sorry for her kids in which they might grew up to be beta male simps. She said she wants a dude with zero kids and she knew how messed up that is to want a man with no kids. She don't deserve a guy who no kids.
Her 'hesitation' & saying for the "most" part (instead of yes), speaks volumes.
What women don't understand is that it's not about them, it's about the damn kids. The amount of narcisstic women never ends.
Thank you👍👍
His conversation with this young lady was soooooo refreshing & you can tell she was taking it all…. Very good conversation 100%
Despite the past decisions this was still a good conversation and she was respectful and willing to admit the mistakes.
Exactly kinda felt bad for her
I’d rather walk through asphalt barefoot in 100 degree weather than spend one dollar on a single mother.
LMAO 😂
Damn ! 😂
I had to stop and laugh 😅🤣😂
Freshly laid asphalt
Boy I needed this laugh. 🤣😂🤣100% support from me.
Wait until her Sons get older
You will NOT want your Sons to bring home no bossy masculine woman who doesn’t respect him 💯
You are so right... No real woman would want that for her son
You also don’t want hurt and angry teenage boys going through puberty around you when they getting more into combat sports, bodybuilding and (unfortunately) rap music which pushes violence. Recipe for injury and heartbreak.
@@magotheguy173 lol wtf
Facts sis
@@magotheguy173 what? 🤦🏽♂️
I am encouraged because she is willing to change. She comes across as confrontational but she has potential.
“ i want a husband but I can’t let him lead…” then sorry lady, you can’t be a wife.🤷🏻♂️
It has to be the right one for me for him to lead
@@shellyhunt4910 and therein lies the problem- women like the OP assume he has to earn the right to lead AFTER she marries him. It goes without saying that not every man is the right one to lead the woman in question. But too many women want the relationship but refuse or chafe at the notion of relinquishing control, and that becomes a model of attrition, not success. They should be vetting him to lead BEFORE marriage, and then let him do so afterwards.
@@shellyhunt4910 yeah well with 7 billion people in the world you don't got enough time to find that person before the wall hit... Soooo DOG or CAT? 🤔
@@corteznelson9873 hahahahahaha
@@shellyhunt4910 before you said yes I should know
In this moment. I cannot say what's wrong or riiiiiiiiiiiiiight.
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It’s not hard to fool meeeee
So tell your good lieeeeeeees 🎶
To theeee end of the niiiiiight
Yes
She wasn’t too bad honestly she listened and agreed with a lot of Kevin’s valid points. She has some real hope and if she learned from her past she’ll make a good wife
I agree, and she’s also good looking!
@@Ms_Chelsea313 Yeah, she had a good vibe and would acknowledge when what she said was whack! I think with some self work she'll find someone decent.
Too old
@@copaseticguerra9646 Lol, yeah well no $hit.
@@RasKalevthesouljourner Sure she is.
What a beautiful exchange and lesson. Way to go, Kevin!
Damn and the conversation started so good too! As soon as she said “2 kids but doesn’t want a man with kids”, and “baby daddy incarcerated “, it went down hill
I love how they have an actual exchange and she tries to hear him out... I wish her the best. She seems at least open to the truth.
No...she is displaying extremely deceptive behaviour.
These "I feel like" and "I think" sayings never cease to amaze me. I can't stop laughing. These women are off their rocker.
I know right, I could make a drinking game out of those phrases.
How else do you say “in my opinion”
@@KingofDefiance
Rite! And I said what I said to say this, who cares about someone else opinion when truth/fact is being presented?
@@MisterE1976 gotta take a shot when anyone says "as a woman"
🎶You Let Him Hit It Raw
With No Thoughts At All🎶
Now You A Single Mom🎶
I like that shes willing to sit & listen tho...this is a dope convo
Its for show she anit listening for real
She's trying BS
Good thing she is beautiful
She got all the baggage, mouth, history of bad choices and entitlement issues. Delusional asf.
Can't make this shit up!
Because they don't live in the real world, they still believe they are living in slumberland with nemo
You mean the matrix, right?🤣
@@patriciacoley3801 😂 we all in that matrix.
A man can get her to be cooperative and submissive, they just require the level of aggression in their personality which tends to get them imprisoned XD.
Say it louder for the people in the back 🗣🗣🗣
FOR LIFE
Now that's the sad truth!
💪🏿istg
lol
"I don't want baby mama drama but I'm happy to introduce my HVM to my ex-felon BF!" make this make sense!!
“YoUr NoT mY dAd.” Says every kid to a step daddy 😂
They say the opposite to step mothers. It’s the natural of the beast.
This is true happened to me 😂😂😂😂
Then say, I don't know him and neither do you...
Yes indeed 💯💪🏿
Nailed it. Though the step dad is expected to utterly finance the kid. He’ll NEVER get the position of respect as he should with his own kids.
Keep up the great work Kevin!
Kevin is my hero. The nuance and skill to educate and entertain at the same time are outstanding.
You are right on time that’s very well stated… The guy is very good.
This episode was so, so much better than the others I've seen thus far.
To sum it, I would say it was more informative and much, much less entertainment and 'bottom of the barrel' ruckus.
Extremely informative.
Thank you so much.
Ks really reflects the energy he gets . This woman was masculine but she was polite and Kevin was also polite. It shows what the common denominator is
Ghana man.
That’s interesting, she makes more money so she gets to spend it how she sees fit, but when the man earns more money it’s “our” money and she gets to control the flow of the finances.
yeah meanwhile in the real world women control the huge majority of spending... she is saying that it is 'our' money because she knows damn well that she will spend that money like there is no tommorow.
@@frikabg Yep, women do 73% of the consumer spending. Controls 90% of a family's financial spending.
Nothing about her says 6 figures
The ending to this is solid.
"You could of bought a puppy."
"I did."
"You can't make this sh!t up."
for the last time people, its "COULD'VE"! u know... from "could have"
Thanks for your feedback, I could of double checked that.
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@@johnnyutah7989 istg ʕ - ᴥ - ʔ
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Kevin, its is great to see a bright woman who is interested in learning and being more reasonable. I truly enjoyed your conversation. She was respectful and not talking over you which so many black women seem to do here. She was enjoyable to hear....this gal is going to get what she wants and deserves because she is willing to learn and make changes. She is more realistic than most i have seen on your show. Its nice to see an open minded woman who has ideas which are sensible and she addresses you as “mr.” she doesn’t want a man with kids....she will compromise on that for the right man....because she is smart and wants to be a better person. She has made mistakes but she is learning. Keep up the work of helping these woman understand the reality of life. You are doing a super job!
It’s all an act...the respect she shows Kevin will not be extended to other men.
Black women: Why are men judging us by the standards of European women?
Also black women: "Lemme get that 21" weave-and a bottle of skin lightener..."
South Korean beauty shop owner: "Hurry up and buy." 🤣
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Man Kevin, you hit it right on the nail. " Men don't want to deal with ungrateful BABY MOMMAS" !!!!
@Daimon Mario Perez real shit. The saddest part is that it's not just the women who call into these podcasts. It's a lot of these women in real life who have the same type of mentality when you observe their behavior and see no accountability. I even have a cousin who has 2 kids, 2 different fathers, never married, and is now dating with a 15-year-old and 2 year old. She's dating a childless man and she wants no more children. The dude she's dating would be fulfilling the role of the biological father, without ever having any biological kids of his own. It's crazy because she doesn't speak highly of the 2 men who impregnated her, but still chose to have their offspring. But, a man who is the stepfather, sacrificing everything, using his time/resources, and footing the bill can't even get 1 kid with her. It's selfish. She had the 1st kid at around 26 and the 2nd kid at 40. Neither of the men are involved with her or the kids. The oldest child has been asking where her father is and why he's not involved and deep-down, is upset about it. What makes things worse is that she knew her 2nd child's father already had 3 baby mamas before she got pregnant and now she's the 4th baby mama at 42 years old. How can you be willing to get pregnant at 40 years old by a man who you may as well say "ain't shit" and still chose to risk your life in childbirth to have a lesser man's 4th illegitimate child? But, all of a sudden, you won't have just 1 child for a man who's willing to possibly marry you, become your husband, be present, and take care of 2 other men's kids? I don't get why some single mothers say it's a "huge ask" to give the stepdad a child (his own biological child), but it's not a "huge ask" for him to spend years handling another man's responsibility? She constantly complains about her situation and the females around her coddle her and don't tell her the truth. The most delusional thing is not completely the choice she made, but the lack of accountability and self-awareness for it. It's unfortunate because I bet her kids will always blame their fathers, but will not hold their mother to the same level of accountability, if at all. She's a part of their suffering too, if not more.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 You've said it all 😏😏😏😏😏
Sounds like she had a problem with how much money he made. She defeated her own initial argument.
@Prince Nelson nah i believe her. She comes off like those women who will get in an argument and use her making money against u. She wears the pants in the relationship
@@HUNGRYFLOWER98 what pants do she wear exactly? If she control him she wear the pants yall makin yall own definition for stuff just like vice versa if i tell my girl what to do i wear the pants in the relationship she would b the bread winner of the relationship
This was an informative chat about black history. My thanks to the (late) Mr Samuels and the hair stylist.