Maybe you could show people how to do a candle ceremony to severe ties? Sometimes letting go is verrrry hard and by doing a physical act with intention it can remove the energetic ties. People really need intentional action and thought as to why the relationship has to end. If you use the candles on a new moon the universe blesses that severing of the cords with your intention to end it as the universe is literally restarting anew in sync with you. Blessings✨
Incredible person who is reading this. Want to let you know that EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. Blessings upon blessings come to you daily. Everything you need it’s on its way to you! Be ready to receive! You are healthy. You are strong. You are capable. True wealth is coming for you. You are blessed beyond measure. You are loved so much by many. Receive this TRUTH! Bless you always with everything great you deserve. You are greatness! ~❤️Nat
💯 I stopped abandoning myself and started setting boundaries and engaging in self care. Then my ex called me lazy and selfish and he broke up with me! Fine. If being with him required me to abandon myself, then good riddance to him!
You can forgive a person for all the hurt that they put you through, but don’t be gullible enough to take them back and find yourself in the same position all over again. 💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
You didn't stumble upon this comment by accident you have a unique gift within you. You have something to share with the world. You may not know what that that gift is but you have it. Greatness awaits you! Much love ✌❤
I never listened to you before but thank you..a man a truly care for just gave me the silent treatment it's been 2 months...we live in a small town so its hard to avoid him so I actually packed up my car drove 7 hours to a beautifull location..staying here because I needed the break from seeing him. Wow never commented before either..I'm slowly but surely letting go but not being there right now is good for me.
Going through a really difficult time, have been in a toxic cycle with someone I love. It's so painful for and I have to let to but I've been struggling. Your video came at the perfect time🙏
This is nuts I just discovered you yesterday and this is what I was attempting to do today Laws of attraction and confirmation for sure that I am on the right path !
I really needed to hear all you said, especially now when I am in this dark place of my life filled with so much pain. Thank you, it has helped me a little bit for sure!
An idea came to me on this when I sat down to meditate. I’ve been taught to visualize my energy field expanding in meditation. Seeing how big I can make my electromagnetic field. Less matter, more energy. So, I feel like it’s not about bringing your energy in, rather don’t narrow your energy in on someone else. Doing that concentrates our energy, making it dense and dim… well at least when the focus is in lack of the person. That doesn’t attract. Food for thought.
When I was a child I grew up with a physically abusive mother and stepfather. As an adult, I tried very hard to heal myself. I tried to have conversations about the past with my parents but every time I did they would tell me to just get over the severe physical abuse and just move on. They told me I was being negative. Eventually, I knew the best way for me to heal was to go noncontact. At first, they sent me polite e mails but when I didn't respond the e mails turned angry. I kept a promise to myself not to respond to them no matter how triggering the messages became. I have gone about eight years without messaging them or speaking to them. It has been very healing for me. I am finally finding myself and loving life.
im in the same situation. Both my step father and mother abused . Control situation can have detrimental emotional effects. I hate them but wish to mature and forgive as they say but keeping no contact difinitely sends a message, they know what they did!
Aaron you really came at the right time, I am going through a marital separation and I just realized I am not living for me, I was waiting around for my spouse to come back. Even the one time we stopped talking I was still waiting around for a text. I kind of just stayed home and waiting for her next move and if she wanted to see me. I kept the house as is and again just kept waiting around and up to today I felt so absolutely drained.
I've had to go no-contact a couple of times... thanks for making this video! It helps, especially when changing the dynamic between you and that person isn't possible at that time.
Im just out of an 8 month relationship, and had my heart crushed ,listening to you is giving me hope. I also have to remember the heart doesn't break even. The positive part is I've had 0 contact with her . Thank you
Damn haha perfect timing, just went through a breakup and I’m working on my self because it’s what is best for myself and even for my ex, thanks for the advice and motivation!!
I'm so happy having my former partner back , after being separated for months . All thanks to Mr Ehijator whom help me to get back my ex again , I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Extremely grateful for everything you do Aaron. You have allowed me to let go and finally move on from not only my relationships but also my business ventures. You’re a god-send, thanks so much!
I happened to stumble on your videos 3 days ago and I've been really getting I I them. This last video is one that I really need to hear. I have and am learning so much. I have thought this information but not put it the way you explain it. My life is changing for the better. 98 days sober and going strong. Thank you buddy.
Im going through this past days when she told me, she wants a break, then i gave it to her, and these past days i go through anxious and overthinking about her. When I watch this video. I got hope and clear my anxiety, doubt in my mind, Thank you so much
Allow your heart the space it needs to manifest your highest desires into existence. When you really just let things be, and detach from all outcomes, you give life the opportunity and space to work in your favour. When there is space you can manifest even more and finally receive what you have been waiting for. I set another intention for anyone who reads this, I promise what you desire is on its way. I am sending you love and strength. You are Appreciated & Loved You are Accepted and Supported. Trust in yourself and Trust in life. ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction TH-camr💜
What erks my soul is someone who you've given multiple chances too. You've expressed to them how they're behavior has bothered you, and yet again they repeat that same behavior. They have been blocked and end up making a new account to contact me. They also had a friend of theirs contact me. I let them back in ( my fault ) saw no changes in them and same behavior. I am livid and now several days STILL recovering from the mistake I've made.
The lean in and out - is called disorganized attachment style. Or anxious avoidant. What about if you are forever energetically tied to your children’s father/Mother?
I have an ex who I had two children with. Luckily he never wanted to know his kids out of anger toward me. We are fb friends after 17 years of him being married n now divorced. Over time I'm not sure but the control/power/attachment will dissolve and you will never even come close to having feelings for them or to go back. He jokes around about it n I feel nothing. That shipped sailed. But it took the space of healing n moving on to get past him or the idea of what we could have been. Not sure how u can create this space for yourself but know even tho u have kids you won't forever be caught up in this energy dynamic. ❤️
You are so amazing Aaron 🙌🙌🙌🙌. The simple example is, my cats run from me when I chase them. They come to me naturally when I am calm and don’t chase them
used to have a huge attachment to a person though I never wanna admit it. Go through multiple stages of back and forth energetically. After doing many inner work and raising my vibration, don’t feel like needing anyone now. Attachment is the best lesson to learn for mastering letting go and detaching from ideas.
Thank you Aaron! Your words are an inspiration and a blessing. Exactly what I needed to hear to have the courage and ability to go "no contact" It is much needed in my life at this very moment. xoxo
I don't believe in attachment styles, I am not every day the same, everyone is sometimes anxious, secure, and avoidant. Focusing that someone has a particular attachment style is like a self-fulfilling prophecy. I did that with my ex, I totally destroyed our connection. everyone talks about that theory like everyone is us pushed out. Despite this being said, love this content.
Thank you Aaron you've help me so much! I truly appreciate you. BEYOND Happy for you and Heather too. You guys compliment each other beautifully 💕. 🙏Namaste
That moment from 6.12 minutes to 6.38 minutes...is the most important i wanted to hear...now it feels great to understand that it's a common issue and thus it definitely has a solution too...so glad to come across you...Thank you..❤
That is why i had to kick my ex out. I wasnt trying to be mean but he no longer wanted anything to do with me... he was about to move out in a month but i couldn't take it anymore. I kept having feelings and still wanted us to work things out, he already had made plans of where he was going to move... i did everything in my power to win him back, i got a hair cut, brought the dog i was babysitting to my home for him to see, bought him lunch, and no matter what i would do nothing worked. He was a completely different person in the end, he had already made up his mind. I knew i could'nt keep seeing him in my own home because i was still projecting energy towards him. He would still cook for me from time to time but i couldn't take it anymore. I finally told him he had to go, i needed my energy back. So on the last day he stayed at my place he never came out of his room... he was very nasty and began sending me awful text messages. He even threatened to punch me if i ran into him while he was moving out!!! I stayed out of his way but in the end i saw who he really was... never again
I identified myself sometimes avoidant and other times anxious... but both 100% in. Or I'm anxious or avoiding but independent which one is a full blast in anxious or avoidant. Maybe you can make a video about what is fu!@# happening when this occur. Thanks. Success 👊💪
Isn't it really horrible that the person that claimed to love and care for you can't put their ego aside and say "Merry Christmas"? People seriously need to get over themselves. I'm a sappy pisces, I'm not a fighter but I'll fight for love...but above all imma fight for love of MYSELF!
2023..fill my own cup,I am letting friends go, as I do all the contacting and I am wasting my energy...I need time to tap into my own love and not NEED validation...
Everything said in this video 100% true to my life. You’re a magnificent being. I recently got my first tattoo (I can’t wait to get more). I’m in love that I went and got it. Anyway keep up the great work! ✌️
Your attachment style is fluid depending on your partner. An Avoidant who gets with another Avoidant can become Anxious as their Avoidant partner can be more Avoidant and end up pulling them into the Anxious attachment style.
My new 21 Day Confidence Love Challenge starts on July 1st!! Join here: ➡ www.confidencelovechallenge.com
Can we rewatch this after 7/1?
Aaron, how do we permanently keep the energy in our body?
(I’ve done the candle meditation for 21 days)
@@jessie0078 if you sign up for the VIP you can rewatch them. I did it on a few of his other programs and it’s good stuff.
Maybe you could show people how to do a candle ceremony to severe ties? Sometimes letting go is verrrry hard and by doing a physical act with intention it can remove the energetic ties. People really need intentional action and thought as to why the relationship has to end. If you use the candles on a new moon the universe blesses that severing of the cords with your intention to end it as the universe is literally restarting anew in sync with you. Blessings✨
True
If you're reading this I'm praying something amazing happens for you today.❤️🙏🏼
Man. If there's a person made a positive difference in my life. It's you
I agree
Definitely
Mine too! No man else!!!
Aaron has been on a roll lately frfr 💯🏆
I disagree completely. I think the person who has made the most positive difference in your life is YOU!
Incredible person who is reading this. Want to let you know that EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. Blessings upon blessings come to you daily. Everything you need it’s on its way to you! Be ready to receive! You are healthy. You are strong. You are capable. True wealth is coming for you. You are blessed beyond measure. You are loved so much by many. Receive this TRUTH! Bless you always with everything great you deserve. You are greatness!
~❤️Nat
I needed that thank you love back to you as well
I needed that. Thank you 💜
thank you
@@themanwiththeplan7777 You’re welcome, my friend :) Be well!
@@sheenalynne8244 You’re so welcome Sheena! You’re awesome :)
"Stop abandoning yourself!" That did it for me!
💯
I stopped abandoning myself and started setting boundaries and engaging in self care. Then my ex called me lazy and selfish and he broke up with me! Fine. If being with him required me to abandon myself, then good riddance to him!
"stop abandoning ourselves" ❤
You can forgive a person for all the hurt that they put you through, but don’t be gullible enough to take them back and find yourself in the same position all over again.
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
You didn't stumble upon this comment by accident you have a unique gift within you. You have something to share with the world. You may not know what that that gift is but you have it. Greatness awaits you!
Much love
✌❤
What a kind post Jake! Thank you….
Never make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings🖤👁💫
I never listened to you before but thank you..a man a truly care for just gave me the silent treatment it's been 2 months...we live in a small town so its hard to avoid him so I actually packed up my car drove 7 hours to a beautifull location..staying here because I needed the break from seeing him. Wow never commented before either..I'm slowly but surely letting go but not being there right now is good for me.
Wishing you the best with your journey
You are strong! You are brave! I love how you love you! ⚡⚡⚡🕊️✨
🤜🏾✝️🛐☮️🤛🏻
❤️ hope you're doing gud
This is literally resonating with what is happening in my life. Wow
Ditto frfr 🕊️
🤜🏾🧲🌏✝️🛐☮️🤛🏻🤍✨
same
I have to let go because I have to love myself more. I've forgotten my goals, and it's not too late to start it over again. I'll date me.
Going through a really difficult time, have been in a toxic cycle with someone I love. It's so painful for and I have to let to but I've been struggling. Your video came at the perfect time🙏
This is nuts I just discovered you yesterday and this is what I was attempting to do today
Laws of attraction and confirmation for sure that I am on the right path !
Thanks Aaron! I love the way you said:" its not their job to make us happy.."
This was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you Aaron! 🙏🏻🥰
I really needed to hear all you said, especially now when I am in this dark place of my life filled with so much pain. Thank you, it has helped me a little bit for sure!
Now I comprehend this! This is the first time for me that this aspect of personal energy has been explained properly!
This concept of pulling back the energy has changed my life. And its only been a 2 day discovery !!! Thank you so much
How to pull back energy
Didn't expect a video like this at the same moment when I'm suffering right now. Thanks!
me either lol .
take an ice cold shower every morning.
An idea came to me on this when I sat down to meditate. I’ve been taught to visualize my energy field expanding in meditation. Seeing how big I can make my electromagnetic field. Less matter, more energy. So, I feel like it’s not about bringing your energy in, rather don’t narrow your energy in on someone else. Doing that concentrates our energy, making it dense and dim… well at least when the focus is in lack of the person. That doesn’t attract. Food for thought.
That’s bc of time we give to others.We give them our energy. To be in our life, or doing something with another. Ect.
When I was a child I grew up with a physically abusive mother and stepfather. As an adult, I tried very hard to heal myself. I tried to have conversations about the past with my parents but every time I did they would tell me to just get over the severe physical abuse and just move on. They told me I was being negative. Eventually, I knew the best way for me to heal was to go noncontact. At first, they sent me polite e mails but when I didn't respond the e mails turned angry. I kept a promise to myself not to respond to them no matter how triggering the messages became. I have gone about eight years without messaging them or speaking to them. It has been very healing for me. I am finally finding myself and loving life.
I hope ur life becomes so amazing zat u dont have time to remember the bad things zat happen
@@hawazeynu4530 Much Thanks. :)
im in the same situation. Both my step father and mother abused . Control situation can have detrimental emotional effects. I hate them but wish to mature and forgive as they say but keeping no contact difinitely sends a message, they know what they did!
And guess what .. ?? They've called me negative my whole life!!
@@susievelasquez5553 Same here. I wish my parents well but I need to focus on my mental health and spiritual wellness.
Aaron you really came at the right time, I am going through a marital separation and I just realized I am not living for me, I was waiting around for my spouse to come back. Even the one time we stopped talking I was still waiting around for a text. I kind of just stayed home and waiting for her next move and if she wanted to see me. I kept the house as is and again just kept waiting around and up to today I felt so absolutely drained.
I've had to go no-contact a couple of times... thanks for making this video! It helps, especially when changing the dynamic between you and that person isn't possible at that time.
Did u go back?
Im just out of an 8 month relationship, and had my heart crushed ,listening to you is giving me hope. I also have to remember the heart doesn't break even. The positive part is I've had 0 contact with her . Thank you
Damn haha perfect timing, just went through a breakup and I’m working on my self because it’s what is best for myself and even for my ex, thanks for the advice and motivation!!
I'm so happy having my former partner back , after being separated for months . All thanks to Mr Ehijator whom help me to get back my ex again , I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Simply put:
Focus on Yourself
Extremely grateful for everything you do Aaron. You have allowed me to let go and finally move on from not only my relationships but also my business ventures. You’re a god-send, thanks so much!
I happened to stumble on your videos 3 days ago and I've been really getting I I them. This last video is one that I really need to hear. I have and am learning so much. I have thought this information but not put it the way you explain it. My life is changing for the better. 98 days sober and going strong. Thank you buddy.
Your crystal collection is dayum!!.. the selenite and amythyst behind you, just wow!!! love, thanks for the video
Would like more explanation on pulling energy back and being in your frame.
I started following you a couple years ago and I’m so impressed with how you continue to grow as a teacher.
This is perfect timing cuz I’m on day 6 of no contact and u just uploaded this! Thank u sm 💗
Love that title in the background: "People feel what you feel!"
🐝🙏💝
Im going through this past days when she told me, she wants a break, then i gave it to her, and these past days i go through anxious and overthinking about her.
When I watch this video. I got hope and clear my anxiety, doubt in my mind, Thank you so much
Just had a lunch with friends from Penn State (graduated 1976)...Really solid positive gathering in honor of a friend who passed.
Happy to see you are evolving spiritually Aaro n and your enlightenment enlighten me and other people by listening to you
Allow your heart the space it needs to manifest your highest desires into existence. When you really just let things be, and detach from all outcomes, you give life the opportunity and space to work in your favour. When there is space you can manifest even more and finally receive what you have been waiting for. I set another intention for anyone who reads this, I promise what you desire is on its way. I am sending you love and strength. You are Appreciated & Loved You are Accepted and Supported. Trust in yourself and Trust in life.
~Much Love from a Law of Attraction TH-camr💜
AMEN 🙌
What erks my soul is someone who you've given multiple chances too. You've expressed to them how they're behavior has bothered you, and yet again they repeat that same behavior. They have been blocked and end up making a new account to contact me. They also had a friend of theirs contact me. I let them back in ( my fault ) saw no changes in them and same behavior. I am livid and now several days STILL recovering from the mistake I've made.
Everything that is not ok for ur mental health stay way stay way
u are worthy and valuable
No contact is a WIN/WIN !!!
The lean in and out - is called disorganized attachment style. Or anxious avoidant.
What about if you are forever energetically tied to your children’s father/Mother?
I have an ex who I had two children with. Luckily he never wanted to know his kids out of anger toward me. We are fb friends after 17 years of him being married n now divorced. Over time I'm not sure but the control/power/attachment will dissolve and you will never even come close to having feelings for them or to go back. He jokes around about it n I feel nothing. That shipped sailed. But it took the space of healing n moving on to get past him or the idea of what we could have been. Not sure how u can create this space for yourself but know even tho u have kids you won't forever be caught up in this energy dynamic. ❤️
Thank you 🙏🏾 so much for sharing this. I really need to bring my energy back and not abandon myself 😊❤
You are so amazing Aaron 🙌🙌🙌🙌. The simple example is, my cats run from me when I chase them. They come to me naturally when I am calm and don’t chase them
Thank you Aaron! Super relevant to my current situation at the moment.
Thank you again for your positivity! 🙏☀️
used to have a huge attachment to a person though I never wanna admit it. Go through multiple stages of back and forth energetically. After doing many inner work and raising my vibration, don’t feel like needing anyone now. Attachment is the best lesson to learn for mastering letting go and detaching from ideas.
Block ❤ On everything, amnesia, let go! Focus on your life
Thank you Aaron! Your words are an inspiration and a blessing. Exactly what I needed to hear to have the courage and ability to go "no contact" It is much needed in my life at this very moment. xoxo
THIS is so on point for me at the mmoment. Thank you so much Aaron!
Master of “The Game”.
I don't believe in attachment styles, I am not every day the same, everyone is sometimes anxious, secure, and avoidant. Focusing that someone has a particular attachment style is like a self-fulfilling prophecy. I did that with my ex, I totally destroyed our connection. everyone talks about that theory like everyone is us pushed out.
Despite this being said, love this content.
Every single one of your videos has helped me so much with everything. Thank you Aaron, sincerely!
This is a good one. Aaron Doughty is both succinct and explanatory in this one.
Aaron do you have a video on how to bring your energy back
Some tools
When you spent your whole life giving it's not an thing easy to do
it would be great if you could do a video about getting over being ghosted. I guess it might be similar to this one.
The Cling ONS. It’s ALL Esoteric ✨🕊✨
Thank you Aaron you've help me so much! I truly appreciate you. BEYOND Happy for you and Heather too. You guys compliment each other beautifully 💕. 🙏Namaste
🌞Thanks, Doughty. Learning so much, and sharing it! Blessings from Austin 🙏
Omg tey telepathy. It'd mind blowing
That moment from 6.12 minutes to 6.38 minutes...is the most important i wanted to hear...now it feels great to understand that it's a common issue and thus it definitely has a solution too...so glad to come across you...Thank you..❤
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great man who brought us back together
"Wh'tsapp him for help*🙏"
@✛2348073317460❤️≧﹏≦適港, 港决很
From 6:00..i was like 😳
Wow dude this video couldn’t have come out at a better time. ✌️ ❤️ 🙏
Yeah it came on right time when i was having relationships problem
totally understand this talk. thank you Aaron. I've watched your videos sense 2017... I appreciate you
She came back. And I forgot the rules now she's gone again. I'll have to fix it properly this time
OMG 😢😢😢
You Saved my life
Thank you so much ! You're videos helped me overcome so much. Im happy every single day, more open as ever.
Truth thanks Aaron. I don't like games. I want to be whole first before adding someone to my life.
Energetic no-contact! Thanks Aaron
This is good … I’m in part avoidant attachment style
That is why i had to kick my ex out. I wasnt trying to be mean but he no longer wanted anything to do with me... he was about to move out in a month but i couldn't take it anymore. I kept having feelings and still wanted us to work things out, he already had made plans of where he was going to move... i did everything in my power to win him back, i got a hair cut, brought the dog i was babysitting to my home for him to see, bought him lunch, and no matter what i would do nothing worked. He was a completely different person in the end, he had already made up his mind. I knew i could'nt keep seeing him in my own home because i was still projecting energy towards him. He would still cook for me from time to time but i couldn't take it anymore. I finally told him he had to go, i needed my energy back. So on the last day he stayed at my place he never came out of his room... he was very nasty and began sending me awful text messages. He even threatened to punch me if i ran into him while he was moving out!!! I stayed out of his way but in the end i saw who he really was... never again
I identified myself sometimes avoidant and other times anxious... but both 100% in. Or I'm anxious or avoiding but independent which one is a full blast in anxious or avoidant. Maybe you can make a video about what is fu!@# happening when this occur. Thanks. Success 👊💪
Sounds like you may be a fearful avoidant attachment style? :)
Thank you thank you thank you! Well said, and just what I needed ❣️
Love how you always pop up with exactly what I need to hear /am looking for without even looking ❤️😊
The urge not to send merry Christmas and happy new year messages to them💀💀
Same here lol
Isn't it really horrible that the person that claimed to love and care for you can't put their ego aside and say "Merry Christmas"? People seriously need to get over themselves. I'm a sappy pisces, I'm not a fighter but I'll fight for love...but above all imma fight for love of MYSELF!
You are an AMAZING MAN! Thank you for your videos. They have been life changing for myself and others!
This makes a lot of sense to me right now
Just the ideas I was thinking about these days...thanks a lot💗🙏✨
Perfect timing! I needed this.
You have just saved my life with this one. ❤
I am good enough the way I am. Love that. TY
I needed to hear this...thank you.!!!
Hugs to everyone🙏
She approched me a couple of times so i think i'm doing ok
Can you please please make a new video about gratitude
WELL-SAID BRO.I M A HERMIT FOR LAST 22YEARS
Great Aaron, your work is Amazing, Thankyou!!
2023..fill my own cup,I am letting friends go, as I do all the contacting and I am wasting my energy...I need time to tap into my own love and not NEED validation...
You have a beautiful home❤️❤️
Wow ty this was amazing watching from orlando
Less attach to outcome is good.
True quality knowledge brother
Everything said in this video 100% true to my life. You’re a magnificent being. I recently got my first tattoo (I can’t wait to get more). I’m in love that I went and got it. Anyway keep up the great work! ✌️
Yeh this is so true I missed my ex for a few years and the week I moved on literally the week he started ringing me … but I didn’t want him by then ..
But how to really let go naturally without intentions?
Aaron what if you have children together? And we’re married? Please advise how to deal w this and gain my energy back.
Thank you Aaron❤️!I’m bringing my energy back…
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!! Thank you for being you!!
This so true I thought about my ex all the time the next day I decided to let go. The nexday she contacted me after over two weeks of no contract.
Your attachment style is fluid depending on your partner. An Avoidant who gets with another Avoidant can become Anxious as their Avoidant partner can be more Avoidant and end up pulling them into the Anxious attachment style.
That's interesting I didn't know that could help me
I detached then I started thinking of him and then don’t know if it’s him thinking of me or just me. 😂
Lol same here 😂
Ditto 🤷
Me too
Hello, I am grateful for all your videos! 🙂🙏 Thank you so much!
Love this!!