“Women don’t like argumentative men.” This! ❤ We don’t. It is DRAINING A lot of men are just not marriage material and the thought disturbs their demons 😟
I once told a guy that he's very good-looking (and he was) and I wouldn't have a problem hooking up with him when I'm ready and boy... he was maaad. Especially when I said I'm not dumb to think that I am the only one he's talking to. He never denied that he was talking to other women but instead said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore because I have a nasty soul. I love being right sometimes. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@christopherbrown5409 because he was hooking up with other girls? why should she want to? i thought men valued women who value themselves and don't give it up? if men want women with low body counts why should they be mad if she says no to s3x? he should in theory look at her better?
@@dangerzzzone2925idk maybe there was some kind of boundary respect going on like she knew he was sexually active with the other girls and was willing to wait her turn if he broke it off with the other girls. But not every girl wants to immediately be the other woman. 🤷🏻"Hook up" doesn't always mean sneaky link.
The Internet has helped women so much. They don't even have to do anything and the men tell on themselves. We've really learned a lot about their insight and how they see us by their own behavior and their comments. It's much worse than any of us thought it was and we thought it was pretty bad to begin with so that says a lot.
I love that men tell on themselves all over the internet. It's still much worse than than I thought, they are all rotten to the core. But at least now I know the truth.
I have ASD. Do you hate me for having low nonexistent emotional intelligence? Emotional intelligence doesn't even exist. You're just talking about intelligence and social skills.
@@Josh-sz8ip she's just talking about empathy, and its just how society teachs men. its not about your autism, makes sense if you function differently, women have it too. I doubt all the men in the comments crying about it are autistic.
@@Nonnitot no, men always do. E.g. emotional displays, men realise that breaking down in tears and other kinds of public "falling apart" distress those around them and unsettle the people who look to them for emotional support so men try to be strong and stoic Ironically this gets described as lack of emotional intelligence Similar story with men not frequently saying compliments to each other - gets described as being emotionally dead but actually relates to being genuine where a statement like that is hard earnt, infrequently said and then remembered for life
If these guys heard the same dialogue from a woman about 'your woman wants to be your everything, you shouldn't even act like you THINK about other women to protect her ego' they would instantly classify that woman as 'crazy' and 'controlling'...yet we're supposed to put up with that, if not outright anticipate it. Yikes.
I remember this story were girl was involved in fwb with multiple guys but then she meet op. She was extremely into him but i think her experience with men makes her push not to jump into bed on first time. They took it slow and till the time she start having relationship with him she completely cut contact with everyone and want to relationship with him. Later he got to know about this and he was angry that how dare she make him wait while she was ready to sleep with others easily. He wasn't happy by the end that while other men could easily goes under her pant he had to wait while she wants a relationship with him properly. They broke up but the ultimate truth is men don't like there own medicine at all. It wasn't a compliment for them or they see this wow at all.
Dude, she realized she had a bad relationship pattern and decided she didn't want to repeat that pattern with a guy she genuinely liked. He totally took that the wrong way. She just wanted to build something long-lasting with him and didn't want it to fizzle out like her past relationships. She completely changed her behavior for their relationship's long-term benefit and he totally misread her intentions. What a dummy. She dodged a bullet.
Your willfully refusing to acknowledge the midset of men, no man will ever want to marry the girl that looked down on him and rejected him through his 20s, banging absolute a holes amd criminals lol, only for him to settle down to a sexless marriage where he just their to pay the majority of bills etc. No guy likes being made to wait like a good dog knowing dozens of guys, usually lesser men, are given the green light stright away. Its emasculating and a massive, instinctive turn off for men that is here to stay im afraid
You are right, it’s not a compliment to a woman. Unfortunately, older women, like my grandmother, would absolutely take it as a compliment. In fact, she sat all of her granddaughters down at some point and made sure we understood that “the boys are gonna go with the fun girls today, but when they are ready to settle down they will come back and marry the good girl.” It apparently was a compliment to women when their only option in life was to get married. I remember being so grossed out when she said that, but there was nothing I could say to make her understand. In her world, respect meant marriage.
That's gross. If you're attracted to men, I hope you find, or found, a partner who wasn't sleeping around and actually wanted healthy committed relationships.
That is how the older women in my family were. The things they used to say to my cousins and I were SO slimy, it is nice to know I was not alone getting the ick at it but unable to make them see reason or understand how disgusting that was. Ughhh, I hope the BEST for Everyone seeing this!! No more nonsense, we are smart and intuitive and it stops with us, SO proud of us for making it to these conversations and taking the learning on board!! 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 Much Love to A Free Future!!
And then they bring out the main argument - “men and women are not the same” 😂😂 its exhausting honestly. How do you even deal with someone who thinks like that
@@Chinchapakdumdum men and women are the same in some aspects but different than others. In this case male and female sexuality isn’t the same at all. That’s kind of obvious. Do you think you experience the world as a man. That you have the same wants and desires as an average man? I’d say your point is far more needing of justification 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Omg i used to be frends with this one guy who used to flirt and was down to hook up with anyone but would always say stuff like " i am going to date and marry a girl only if she is a virgin and decent , a girl who doesn't have a history of hook ups or many relationships ".......when i heard him say that i was disgusted af ..the hypocrisy omg !!!!!!......and i slowly exited the friendship....he is such a misogynistic person.
@@greensciencegeekyeah he thinks he’s an oofy doofy now. She’s not with him because she’s attracted to him but because he provides resources and stability.
The power to define and label (also known as abuse, read some Patricia Evans books) women has been something men have reserved for themselves so they're just absolutely PISSED that women might also turn around and put them into boxes. If she had told this man hes not marriage material but she keeps him around for the sex and company anyway would similarly drive him and his male enablers bonkers.
“You’re being emotional, irrational, it’s not that deep” - LOVE THIS. I cannot even count the number of times a man has told me this. Looks like they were just projecting. 🤷🏻♀️
Two different kinds of men. The man she said It to wasn't the kind of man to say it to women, which we know since HE DIDN'T SAY IT to her. You're looking at men as a monolith. Try to unlearn this sexist tendency.
I think they might be surrounded by dogs. Men who want worship and adoration seem to prefer dogs because dogs tend to offer those qualities. Even when people abuse them 😢.
I have an really funny? anecdoc on an immature and emotional man : he's my brother, 23 or smth, he ate my bar of chocolate even though it's not a normal grocery store one and that it was hidden. i bought another one a week later and because he's not a good man overall, i wrote "don't touch fcker". i was in my room the day after and i hear "who's done it?! It's (my name)? (My name) you fcking whre!" with some other insults sprinkled on top. Yaddi yadda, my mom comes in my room and tells me that he got mad because he saw that i insulted him. Bonus : my mom told me that he said "i'm not gonna hit her" and stormed in his room. What a tantrum for a whole ass adult, and he only controlled himself not to hit me? For 1 insult on a chocolate bar???
they're born more emotional, weaker immune systems, he's naturally transgendered (flips from female to male at puberty), and has to hack the mother to be seen as female in the womb or else he'll be killed more likely then live via natural rejection. Also you need to understand emotions before you can have logic these guys only have disassociation and fantasy he's either disassociated from his emotions or he's 1000% in his emotions and can't speak or identify muchless sooth them. And he has the dual masters of his dick and his ego and males say you can't have two masters so he's up shit creek here cosplaying as logical.
I am a teacher and the days the girls are absent are the worst. Boys and men are so emotional I cannot fathom where the stereotype came from that women were the emotional ones. My goodness, men are the biggest babies.
@@marajones1828boys are not men. We are more sensitive. It's testosterone and dht that makes us able to withstand stuff women would get hysterical or outright kill themselves. Women delude themselves out of psychological harm a lot more than men. Autistic people, which have an masculinized brain can't delude themselves. And suffer continuous gaslighting just by putting up with neurotypicals. I wouldn't like you being my teacher. You are the kind that left me to starve in daycare.
I can't help but feel the main misunderstanding at the heart of this is about sex. Like...men who are terrible people are great at sex, but good, solid men aren't? And they believe themselves to be the 'good, solid' men. So what are they saying about themselves?
I think the messaging men receive is that men who have access to a lot of women are top tier, marriage is mid tier, no women is bottom tier. So calling them the marriage type is calling them mid😂 The reason why women initiate divorce more is because we were sold the bigger lie (that marriage is actually top tier) and men are mad that we can be picky about marriage because we're taking away their consolation prize for not being playboys. We've downgraded many of them from mid to bottom (aka marriage to incel).
Also a woman signing up to have sex with ONE man for the rest of her life is supposed to be worse than her having a one night stand with him and never calling him back (meaning it was bad, or she was just using him for pleasure)? Most married men have more sex than their single counterparts too, so it's not even about women not "putting out" after they've gotten married. It's also a compliment that someone literally wants to spend their entire life with you, only be intimate with you, have kids with you etc. but I guess males aren't always rational thinkers.
@@christopherbrown5409 it doesn't garuntee that men won't be trash husbands and take their mask off and have the audacity to wonder why their wife doesn't want to touch him after already being used in every other aspect. You are so so sad bro. Get help.
@@marv34001 It makes sense that women are valued after how much and reliably they can slave away, but for men to be valued after how much of a whore they can be?? I don‘t want to be in your head if that kind of stuff makes any sense to you. 😅
Married men know sexual attraction matters for women too. She just told him he isn’t sexually attractive enough to be with if he wasn’t a good provider, leader, protector (husband)
@@nickthompson1812he is very much not any of those things. And even if he were, why is he angry about being a "husband material"? I'm sure he only chose her because he thinks that she is wife material,.......😂
@@canesugar911lmaoo thiss!!! But based on what I read from most males that commented in Twitter and reddit, seems like they would never understand this logic because all they know is "women have to accept being objectified by males and all the rules only applies to women and not us"
@@nickthompson1812most men aren’t protectors and providers. Women don’t expect that from men in 2024, since 50% of women earn the same amount of more than their man and the the other 48% earn a little bit less than their husband. Plus beauty fade away. When your wife will be 50 with 3 children and post partum body, it means that you won’t love her anymore because she isn’t young and attractive anymore?
The thing is, wife material implies both the attractiveness AND the stability, and lots of men do enjoy being called husband material in return for that reason. But what OP said was something most people, men and women, would take as "you're not that attractive to me sexually, but I'll settle for you because you're stable/loyal"
@@jonquilgemstone if being attractive means more to you then being considered a dependable, reliable person, that's your issue. I am not so vain as to think that there are not more attractive people in this world. Being someone that can be counted on, is a fat bigger compliment. I'm sure there are plenty of single parents (men and women both) that wished they had held out for a partner or at very least a co-parent that was dependable. Being hookup worthy is not a compliment. It means you are good for one thing only.
@@jonquilgemstoneyou men live in delulu land. We women, now damn well that we are not all Monica Belluci but you would like to be perceived as George Clooney. What’s being bad about not being considered the top 1% attractive people?
Whenever the XYs start nattering about "evolutionary biology" I can't pay attention to their conversation. They're going to strategize their way to Single Town and they should live there.
Men would not be able to take the same amount of misogyny that woman take on a regular basis. Like if you treat a man like he treats you, he’ll feel offended and demand respect. This video did help me understand why my ex-boyfriend hated the fact that I used to say a celebrity who I knew I would never have any chance of meeting and or talking to was attractive more so than him.
@@maybemablemaples2144 that's not what she DIDN'T say either. Also, y'all add meaning and "context" to men's words all the time. Why can't we return the favour?
I made a mistake reading most of the comments from them and whewww The amount of males commenting in this video, that reddit posts and Twitter is disheartening. But it's so funny seeing them got triggered this bad tho, they really can't take their own medicine
"A man wants to be your everything." Too bad. They're not. They are just one part of life. Women date and hook up just like men do. They can deal with it or not, that's their problem. If he wants to manufacture outrage from her compliment that's on him.
@@christopherbrown5409 "I, ____, take you, ____, to be my wife (or husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according to God's holy law, and this is my solemn vow." I guess these vows don't mean a thing to men like you anymore
That’s part of it but not the core reason. Though I acknowledge that woman care more about that it seems. The guy is worried he’s being primed for cuckoldery.
Yeaaaaah, and when those catered to in a power structure get the same abuse visited upon them that they've normalized visiting upon others, they get exceptionally angry because" That's NOT SUPPOSED to happen TO ME! I CAN DO IT TO YOU, YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO DO THAT TO ME!"😅🙏👍❤️ The menz are throwing tantrums. Let them cry.😂
Oh no, they can't even maintain their own double standard, oh no boo hoo they tell on themselves with those negging words. They are using a strategy when they say those things, I love that you are here instead of settling for someone below your league. League, it's a fking sports term 😂 they're fake, they made it up. "Leagues" don't exist 'Levels of Maturity' exist and that can't be seen with the naked eye. That person who told you that is shallow or using slime tactics. I'm glad you are here instead, you don't need that nonsense! 🍎☘⚘😇🌷🌿🍒 Here is an emoji Bouquet for you today!!!! It's supposed to be Fruits and flowers, with an angel but I have an old phone so who knows how it will look lol!! 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 Much Love and Hugs to You!!
I once said to a guy online, I'm only a 3. I'm not unattractive, but I lack a feminine look. I have a big head, short hair, bulky body. Then the guy told me, I should just look for a 2 or a 1, but OF COURSE I'm too high and mighty and won't chose those guys. LMAO He didn't say: Look for a 3 or a 4, nope. I'm sure the guy would still look for a 8, even though he was only a 4. Talking about those stupid numbers: I'm successful, talented, earn good money. A 2 on the male scale would be an overweight guy in his mother's basement who has no job and plays video games all day.
Men usually try to get women out of their league to break the rules for him. He will try to humble a woman and will not accept his own feelings of insecurity
aren't these the same guys who always scream that "if i say something that can be interpreted in one of 2 ways, and one of those ways upsets you, i meant the other one"?
It's because we are natural born leaders and meant to connect with nature. Men don't have that ability so they have no second thoughts about destroying anything. But don't forget that nature and science is always on women's side. The amount of sp3rm men produce is decreasing, Y chromosome is disappearing. Many women today feels the urge to only have daughters. 2 billions ago, males didn't exist and female created them for genetic diversity. There was a time were males didn't exist and was where we started from. If XY's only purpose is to genetic diversity, we had enough already., and maybe in the future we'll go back to not having males at all. In the nature, the creature that harms females in their own species have been target for elimination because they're useless. I'd say, Natural Selection is HAPPENING.
@@BlackRaven000 exactly. I sincerely believe this is why some men are so violently homophobic - the idea of another man wanting to treat them like a _woman?!_ They can't handle that. Must. Assert. Dominance.
Except the women men do settle down with it's because they find the attractive and like them as a person. What she's saying is that she doesn't like him outside of what he brings to the table and would pick other men over him sexually.
@@C-R-l-M-S-O-N Either they both are insulting or both are a compliment. You think there aren't men out there who lowkey hate their wives and aren't attracted to them but settled because they can't get someone hotter and want a free maid to enslave in the home? Delusional
@@C-R-l-M-S-O-N yeah right. Explain why 89.5°/• of OF users are married men and 32 million use Ashley Madison. They marry ones they aren't attracted to, keep them trapped inside to raise their children and take care of domestic tasks they don't want to do, while they step out with women they desire. Women and children are appliances to them. The children exist to carry on their 'legacy.' Sick stuff.
@@janepaige928 GIRLLL, the way so many males in this comment section got triggered about this video and that girl's post is alarming. They're just proving your point lmao
hypergamy, hypergamy, hypergamy, She needs to get a clue about the difference between men and women. The women obviously has been involved in hook up culture - cannot make a wife that has been run thru. Look at the # of porn actresses that R drug addicted, depressed, cannot stay married and die at an early age.
Projection. This is feminist behavior 101. Find the worst possible interpretation of someone's words and then respond under that presumptuous interpretation.
The fact that these men immediately jumped to provider when she said husband..... This is why the ones who can't find a woman are crying all over the Internet about the money they make and they are still single while the men who did find a way to tie women down in marriage are probably close to losing their wives and they don't even realize it.... They do not get that they are actually going to have to learn to be decent human beings or learn to do their own laundry and give birth to their own kids because women are providing from themselves. Women are also taking care of everything else, including their husband's children...so why do they need men? If they are awful humans, what does a woman need them for? 🤷🏻♀️
Being considered wife material is almost an insult. I love when they say "there's women to look at and women to marry" so sir, you think your wife is ugly?? Why don't u want to look at her 😂😂😂
Wrong, obviously a man doesn't want his wife and mother to his children to have been banged by scores and scores of men. Even progressive liberal guys like myself, weary of right wing red pill stuff, would hesitate. Almost all men will. It really sounds like you don't understand men. No man wants to be the boring unattractive guy she has chosen to pay the bills with, you wouldn't want to be in that position either. Men respect and love the wife material the most as a general rule actually. Of course, before marriage, they want to have sex and a promiscuous girl would be the best person to do it with... who else? And good reason to be worry of marrying her if she's very promiscuous because men are always looking to get with women she'll always have easy options everywhere. Also it's mainly wives who stop initiating sex in marriage not men, that's beyond question
I've even heard then say things like american women are fat and they stuff there face I went all week without much of anything to eat that's the weird part about it there not even good at insulting women anymore they just lie and say shit to start an argument.
I once said something similar to guy & he interpreted it as I was deeply in love with him. Took at as a declaration. Where as I hardly knew him & just wanted to take it slow..men can be just so crazy & delusional how they get it all twisted in their minds.
Great video! Keep calling out the hypocrisy! There is so much hypocrisy in patriarchy. Also, patriarchy and its defenders are inherently illogical. "All women are crazy(insert any other insult here)" but "not all men"? This is stupid logic and thats barely scratching the surface.
these males think philosophy and religion are universal and it's just by men, for men, to men hardly a universal thing about it cuz you'd have to have women do their own philosophy and religions in a vacuum and see what matched there is very little universal due to one gender exists at the other's expense and mostly it's the women's expense.
I was wondering why this video has so many comments, because usually the decenter channels have a much smaller following than the red pill channels, and then I realized: red pill has entered the chat and they are having emotions.
Or the This is why you are alone with no man. Again that belief that your value and worth is attached to having a man, any man, a piece of a man or the crumbs of a man.
LOVE your take! Even cats at this point don't even want to be around these miserable, argumentative, sassy men. They like to project cats on women but cats love us gworls because we understand boundaries & consent. They'll die alone with some cactus plant that was gifted to them (because even with regular houseplants they can't handle the maintenance). 😂😂
Seriously, this is the kind of response I would expect from chronically online weirdos. All of the men I know, including my husband, would consider being told they are husband material as a great accomplishment. For normal people, it means that you are viewed more highly than other men.
If he criticizes or condescends you, say the exact same thing back to him. The only way they learn is if they experienced the same kind of pain that they inflict on to others with their stupid jokes and negging
@@mishi144 misogynistic? Having standards means you hate the opposite gender. I’ll be sure to let women know to curve their misandry when they get abused by men
@@mishi144 yeah a man of quality that loved her in that way would have been honored. All she did was bring to light the type of man he truly was. for the man to have been offended he likely was looking for hook ups a short fling when idea of marriage comes up these men run. The friends that are likely like-minded would also react negative thinking he got the short end of the stick they fear see a marriage minded women as clingy suffocating going to ruin their fun of sleeping around. The guy was likely dating around not serious, and they hope the women on their rotation is on the same page. Because if it was his dream girl he would have reacted with excitement. Same with saying you're a virgin scares men so fast because they are only looking for access to your body with no strings attracted. Men with marriage in mind aren't disgusted with virgins waiting for marriage
Men and women are different. Who knew? Rules don’t apply equally to both genders, even today. look at domestic violence, divorce, alimony child support, abortion. Women are now “ men shouldn’t make laws regarding women” like what? We benefitted you but you still hate us.
Thank you for covering this topic 🙏 I wish I could say that I can’t believe this is still a conversation, but people really do speak to one another like this 👀
Exactly. He wanted to feel like he was the one choosing, like he was at the wife store picking out the best wife-appliance he could afford. Owners choose the chattel, not the other way around.
@@brandy4530 ohhhhhh that was SERIOUSLY well said. 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 We need to look at "marriage" thru a realistic lens, and describe it how it really is. We need to NOT conflate "Healthy Partnerships" with "Marriage" They are NOT the same and one is set up in that very way, like you said. Blood is boiling, imma stop yapping. 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 Much Love to You, you've absolutely Got It!!!
Yes, it helps to hear these things reinforced by someone with confidence, after a lifetime of being told and believing I have no worth. 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 Thank You!!! Healing so much from our convos in these spaces!!! 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 Much Love to Every One of You!!!!
As a man....yep. I have to agree with you on the whole. It is hypocritical. I think i know why some men could find it insulting, but its just because they're interpreting the woman's comment through their male brain. Her comment could be taken to mean that she thinks he's undesirable sexually and she just wants him for his money and resources, which for a man would not be a great thing. But i think its just a misunderstanding.
I love the ending where for a minute you flipped the conversation and patronised men like they have been doing. Lmao it was so satisfying and hilarious. 😂😂❤
No, it really is that you cannot accept any form of criticism. You got the msg growing up you aren't good enough, so when your partner says anything about improvements in the relationship, you get triggered to that place that you aren't good enough. Since you have total disconnect from your emotions, and society condones blaming women, you go into offensive, making it impossible to build a life together.
@blueskies90210 also, you literally just treated that guy as if he's not smart enough to explain his own reality. MOST MEN HAVE TO DEAL WITH BEING TREATED AS THE INHERENT PROBLEM.
People who use debunked 'evolutionary biology' to support their opinion remind me of a train hurtling down a track to a washed out bridge, all the while denying they won't make it across the canyon. Don't judge me for being fascinated & horrified at the same time.
As soon as I heard the evolutionary BS I laughed. It's crazy how people put this much effort in justifying their bad behavior instead of improving themselves as people.
From what I understand this is the Madonna/farm tool excuse men make when they go out and drive up women's body counts on top of their own and have the absolute audacity to say he wants his wife to be a virgin. 😂 *men* are the ones stating this "biological need" b.s. like excusing their cheating but will straight up delete his wife if she does the same, its *all* illogical double standard, we *know* it is. because supposedly, women can't use the same excuse. Because *now* its an insult and degrading to men. Even despite historical evidence pointing towards women being in very horrible positions if they *didn't* vet well for a proper husband. So if anything I can see it actually mattering for women, not biological but as a social species and understanding our own society that women must do this for protection. men are just doing it because they want a partner they *can* put in whatever position he wants to and she doesn't have the experience and/or economic ability to get away from him.
One of my favourite movies is I Am Not an Easy Man (2018) and I like your videos because it brings the same logic of "when tables are turned, men get mad". 😂
i don’t understand why men specifically got in an uproar, when they quite literally have the same categorization method for women on the 1-1 inverse. women you F, women you marry/take to meet your parents/whatever the man values. she said he was the type of man she wanted to go the distance with. go through life married with. and a marriage between a non-asexual couple includes regular physical attraction + intimacy. companionship, compromise, communication, collaboration. the deepest trust you can have/share with another person. lifelong commitment to each other. most men only envision divorce & the financial ramifications therein, when the concept of marriage is brought up. when if you are just an attentive all-in partner with your wife, and just idk ask her what she wants + actually follow through CONSISTENTLY in earnest + are marrying a woman you ACTUALLY LIKE, you probably won’t get divorced.
It’s because they perceive being “marriage material” as being a second tier “beta male”, they have it in their head women date and f**k around with alpha males because women ultimately desire these men the most but that women will then settle for a beta male once they’re willing to trade in this s*xual satisfaction for a stable provider “beta” who she can raise kids with. Thusly, being told they’re marriage material is being told they’re a beta, not an alpha and thusly are not the man a woman genuinely s*xually desires, which they find humiliating. These insecure men desperately want to believe they’re the alpha s*x god that women desire more than any other man, as that’s what validates their ego more than being the “beta” chosen for marriage. The fragile egos of these men is built entirely around their sexual desirability. Of course, it goes without saying that there is no actual basis for this alpha/beta male narrative, it’s completely unfounded nonsense made up by incels, but so many men have deluded themselves into believing there’s scientific credibility to “evolutionary biology” (there isn’t, it’s pseudo science that has already throughly been debunked by real scientists) but their belief in it is why they describe women like how you would an animal in a nature documentary, talking about how women have these basic, predictable instincts regarding mate selection. Basically, these men are only mad at women based on incel’s biology fanfiction that incorrectly contextualises the motivations behind who women choose to date. There’s also immense cognitive dissonance present in the way these men think, because despite their own insistence that women are biologically hardwired to want to initially f*ck “alphas” only to later marry “betas”, they also project a moral framework onto this that makes women immoral for this “natural” mating selection. It’s so stupid that it’s secondhand embarrassment inducing, but these terminally online redpill men genuinely believe this crap and judge women based on this 😬
Patriarchy created a world in which most women could only get resources through men, but that also created a world in which many men could only get sex through marriage. This led to all of the messaging and propaganda for girls to be making marriage to be this default goal that we all must strive for and quickly. Now that the messaging is changing average/below average men can't rely on social enforcement to get girls to marry young. They're mad cuz they have to try so much harder now
Everyone gets categorized, the problem was that the woman insulted him. She didn’t just say he was great, and you know that. Many marriages are sexless and lacking attraction. She told him that basically there are men who don’t have to work to have sex with her, and he isn’t one of them. That’s insulting.
Ugh! Just be single and happy! Stop with the promotion of domestic servant to the females! Women loose their freedom in the bondage of marriage! Marriage benefits men more than women. Just live your lives, folks! Stay single and live in peace!
Except men DO typically like being called husband material. What OP said was different because it's the equivalent of men saying "hook up with hot girls, marry the homely girl because she's loyal". Saying what OP said would never be considered a full compliment by anyone, just backhanded at best. If she had just called him husband material, he would have taken it as him being the full package. If she had worded it literally any other way, he might have taken it differently. But anyone, man or woman, would feel insulted by the way she said it.
Funny, I literally just spent the other night looking up what men mean when they said “that’s a girl you marry, not date” because I didn’t understand why
@@christopherbrown5409Bro it's obvious you consume rage bait content that's mostly aimed in favor of men and you're telling me you've NEVER heard of that phrase. Stop capping.
They are such babies. Same way they get their heart broken once and go on decade-long rampage, whereas women get their heart broken the MAJORITY of the time with disappointing men.
@@marv34001Brother, the only one being obsessed with a supposed Chad is you. Jealous your dream boy left in the sheets with women instead of you? Its okey, do not blame yourself. Very specific type of man you are searching for though, but who am I to judge? Congratulations coming out by the way! I hope you find your Chad you are looking for. 😽
@@peachwhite-333 uh, what the fuck are you talking about. Like I see you’re trying to be witty. But that type of insult doesn’t mean anything to me. You’re just babbling, this is white woman babble
Only guys can hear a true compliment tgat she wants to be with him for life and somehow that's a bad thing to him? Wow, this is why I am done with the opposite sex and relationships in general. A giant waste of time. Center yourself in your life.
the poor girl thought she had a boyfrined who was worth marrying... the fact that he got offended with her genuine compliment is a red flag and she didn't destroy anything. he did.
If that's all it took to destroy this relationship, then it wasn't built on a solid foundation in the first place. She should cut her losses now and stop wasting her time with someone who is this insecure.
Why do you women hate insecure men? Just curious. I got bullied and realised after that chicks would just hate and laugh at me just for showing emotions.
0:55 ahhhh so the same line used in women and was told to be a compliment, isn’t actually a compliment. Did they finally admit the words they say is BS. 😂😂😂😂
Ha! You said something here I absolutely 100% agree with.. men never think for one second it could ever be their f'n personality we are turned off by. Cause let's just keep it 💯 most women can score cash and aren't looking for a beta provider. We will even overlook quite abit of physical flaws just as long as he's good vibes. Cause at the end of the day us women just want someone to vibe with. A lot of men ain't hearing it cause of Ego and insecurity so they follow some redpill schmuck grifters.Some pay me $10k by my course so you can be hated and awkward and turn off women like we do. This has gotta be misery loves company thing idk.
This reminded me of a conversation I had recently with a friend half my age. Her and I were sitting at a restaurant and I was expkaining my dating process. I told her that when I date men, I put them into one of 3 categories. "Nothing", "Just for Fun", and "husband material". I went into great detail about what each category meant and why. And the percentage of men that generally end up in each category. Let me tell you, it made the men at the very next table uncomfortable to hearing me have this conversation with my friend. The very same men, who very likely did the same thing with women. Bc all humans do this. We're not going to marry every person we end up in bed with or date. Just one. If you even decide marriage is your overall end goal. Edit: pkease forgive any misspellings you may find. I typed this out while having a nosebleed.
If ur poly u might end up in a non legal "marriage" wit 2 or 3 lol Side note we need 2 let ppl decide how many ppl dey want 2 marry, sure der can b a "reasonable" cap 2 avoid fraud but what does it matter, if I want 2 marry my wife n mayb l8r a husband Anywho dats just a side note n ur sentiment still applies 2 poly, not everybdy u f u want 2 marry n or have a long term relationship wit, agreed, just a few of dem lol I have a hand disability i use phonetic shorthand 2 shorten da amount da amount of typin, thus limitin da amount of pain dis is a copied message
@@oreocarlton3343 I'm being deeply dishonest by being honest in recognizing that not all men make good husbands, or that they can't do anything for me based on my needs and wants, and that some only are looking for bedroom fun? Interesting. I'm going to need an explanation for that one??
@@Rose-kj7rz if you are going for any of the 3 categories, its being dishonest not to go all out on one category but calculating and later switching, if you want to get married, why are you sleeping with anyone?
@@oreocarlton3343 are you really implying that my freedom to choose what I want, when I want (like men do) is an issue? Why should you care anyway? I'm never going to meet you. I'm never going to date you. You're just a stranger on the internets. And I don't owe you answers to how I choose to conduct my personal life and who, or if I choose to sleep with anyone. Have a good day.
Seriously trying to sell homo relations as anything healthy is craaaaazy. I've seen it my entire life and that's just Marketing. Y'all's as f'd up as everybody else if not more so sit down.
If my girl told someone that she was with me because I'm kind and didn't mention my looks, I'm out. Period. I want to be with someone who is with me for my looks. I work hard in the gym for my six pack, 17 inch ultra defined arms, 6 feet tall and long Mohawk braided down the center. I get cat called by women who walk by with their friends
7:57 Let’s not forget that a lot of them are good diggers! They’ll easily be a pest that will best and rest on your dime if you’re foolish enough to be tricked into giving them a soft life.
I did not understand the insult at all... Wanting to spend the next 25 years with someone instead of a night or a couple weeks is not an insult at all.
My mind is boggled. My mind is fekkin blown. How do men get ALL of that from what she said. I mean, I get it. If a man actually said to me, "I'm not looking for arm candy in a wife. " I'd be insulted on a number of levels, including my clearly low standards. But how is using male metrics an insult? Unless... it was always an insult... when you recognise the depth and breadth of male jealousy and hatred of women... it's just... wow...
There's literally a difference between arm candy and a wife, though. Arm candy is there JUST to look good and dress well/borderline sexy. Marrying arm candy would be stupid and shallow.
The more you understand about both sides the more you hate them both. I'm a guy and I have a problem with both men and women. Like I'm going through these comments and you can clearly see the hatred of a lot of women
@godleveleldritchblast5257 I, personally, believe there isn't hatred for men from women. There is disappointment. Being a decent human being SHOULDN'T be that difficult yet, somehow, too many men struggle with it. Obviously, with the ability to share knowledge, more women are deciding that in many instances, it just isn't worth the trouble to get involved with men. I think there's a story of a man who, rather than WASH himself, has broken up with his girlfriend and disavowed his first child. He views WASHING HIMSELF as a demand too far and would rather be alone than change. For his partner. You can't compromise with these sorts of mindsets. You can't reason with someone like that. It isn't possible and it isn't worth the time. We don't hate men. We just aren't interested in raising adults into decency. But something else entirely is happening with men. Hatred. Violence. Manipulation. A desire to destroy. A need to use and take. A resistance to giving. A reluctance to check one another. It is often more trouble than it's worth, interacting with men.
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“Women don’t like argumentative men.” This! ❤ We don’t. It is DRAINING
A lot of men are just not marriage material and the thought disturbs their demons 😟
They're not marriage material but they want you to think they are so you'll continue to chase and validate their egos.
Yes! You cannot turn a player into a husband....because liars lie and cheaters cheat.
That's the truth, if only more women could understand.
@@funbarsolaris2822"I can fix them" is a syndrome both sexes have. It just more often ends for men after they have sex with her.
Who told you to try?
@@funbarsolaris2822same as men hoping the hot crazy bitches wouldn't cheat on them or be loolaa but they can't stay away from them 🤷♀️
@@christopherbrown5409 no one dumfuk 😂
I once told a guy that he's very good-looking (and he was) and I wouldn't have a problem hooking up with him when I'm ready and boy... he was maaad.
Especially when I said I'm not dumb to think that I am the only one he's talking to. He never denied that he was talking to other women but instead said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore because I have a nasty soul.
I love being right sometimes. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why weren't you ready to hook up with him THEN?
@@christopherbrown5409 because he was hooking up with other girls? why should she want to? i thought men valued women who value themselves and don't give it up? if men want women with low body counts why should they be mad if she says no to s3x? he should in theory look at her better?
@@dangerzzzone2925 if all she wanted was a hookup, then that value talk goes out the window.
@@dangerzzzone2925idk maybe there was some kind of boundary respect going on like she knew he was sexually active with the other girls and was willing to wait her turn if he broke it off with the other girls. But not every girl wants to immediately be the other woman. 🤷🏻"Hook up" doesn't always mean sneaky link.
It’s because you had a want and desire and men hate that . and you made him feel like he was a woman , you know “prey”.
The Internet has helped women so much. They don't even have to do anything and the men tell on themselves. We've really learned a lot about their insight and how they see us by their own behavior and their comments. It's much worse than any of us thought it was and we thought it was pretty bad to begin with so that says a lot.
I've been thinking the same thing.
the same goes for women and even more so...social media has exposed your corrupted manipulative nature
I love that men tell on themselves all over the internet. It's still much worse than than I thought, they are all rotten to the core. But at least now I know the truth.
I think when men react to these things they show how they see women. Its very telling. Its why i don't date anymore. Id rather wash my hair.
Same !
🎶"I'm gonna wash that man right out of my hair..."🎶
Interesting that men collectively display high emotional intelligence and empathy when they’re the ones victimized.
I have ASD. Do you hate me for having low nonexistent emotional intelligence? Emotional intelligence doesn't even exist. You're just talking about intelligence and social skills.
@@Josh-sz8ipbro you can't use logic on them it doesn't compute😂😂😂
@@Josh-sz8ip she's just talking about empathy, and its just how society teachs men. its not about your autism, makes sense if you function differently, women have it too. I doubt all the men in the comments crying about it are autistic.
For real. 😂 It’s like magic.
@@Nonnitot no, men always do.
E.g. emotional displays, men realise that breaking down in tears and other kinds of public "falling apart" distress those around them and unsettle the people who look to them for emotional support so men try to be strong and stoic
Ironically this gets described as lack of emotional intelligence
Similar story with men not frequently saying compliments to each other - gets described as being emotionally dead but actually relates to being genuine where a statement like that is hard earnt, infrequently said and then remembered for life
If these guys heard the same dialogue from a woman about 'your woman wants to be your everything, you shouldn't even act like you THINK about other women to protect her ego' they would instantly classify that woman as 'crazy' and 'controlling'...yet we're supposed to put up with that, if not outright anticipate it. Yikes.
I was going to write the same type of comment. Women want this but are ‘crazy’ for wanting it! Meanwhile men think the same way huh?
Men can't conceptualize that women have the same thoughts and desires. It's wild.
I remember this story were girl was involved in fwb with multiple guys but then she meet op. She was extremely into him but i think her experience with men makes her push not to jump into bed on first time. They took it slow and till the time she start having relationship with him she completely cut contact with everyone and want to relationship with him. Later he got to know about this and he was angry that how dare she make him wait while she was ready to sleep with others easily. He wasn't happy by the end that while other men could easily goes under her pant he had to wait while she wants a relationship with him properly. They broke up but the ultimate truth is men don't like there own medicine at all. It wasn't a compliment for them or they see this wow at all.
She dodged a bullet when he got mad about not being able to sleep with her when he wanted.
Sigh...some guys will always care more about their status among men over the woman they claim to want. She dodged a bullet
Omg I remember this story. And the men in the comments on that Reddit post were just as unhinged
Dude, she realized she had a bad relationship pattern and decided she didn't want to repeat that pattern with a guy she genuinely liked. He totally took that the wrong way. She just wanted to build something long-lasting with him and didn't want it to fizzle out like her past relationships. She completely changed her behavior for their relationship's long-term benefit and he totally misread her intentions. What a dummy. She dodged a bullet.
Your willfully refusing to acknowledge the midset of men, no man will ever want to marry the girl that looked down on him and rejected him through his 20s, banging absolute a holes amd criminals lol, only for him to settle down to a sexless marriage where he just their to pay the majority of bills etc. No guy likes being made to wait like a good dog knowing dozens of guys, usually lesser men, are given the green light stright away. Its emasculating and a massive, instinctive turn off for men that is here to stay im afraid
You are right, it’s not a compliment to a woman. Unfortunately, older women, like my grandmother, would absolutely take it as a compliment. In fact, she sat all of her granddaughters down at some point and made sure we understood that “the boys are gonna go with the fun girls today, but when they are ready to settle down they will come back and marry the good girl.” It apparently was a compliment to women when their only option in life was to get married. I remember being so grossed out when she said that, but there was nothing I could say to make her understand. In her world, respect meant marriage.
That's gross. If you're attracted to men, I hope you find, or found, a partner who wasn't sleeping around and actually wanted healthy committed relationships.
That is how the older women in my family were. The things they used to say to my cousins and I were SO slimy, it is nice to know I was not alone getting the ick at it but unable to make them see reason or understand how disgusting that was.
Ughhh, I hope the BEST for Everyone seeing this!! No more nonsense, we are smart and intuitive and it stops with us,
SO proud of us for making it to these conversations and taking the learning on board!!
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Much Love to A Free Future!!
Marriage is legalized sw, not respect.
Marriage is essentially men owning women like property. It is domestic slavery.
@@Emptytopfloor THANK YOU!!!!
for real!
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Mirroring men is my main stragedy to deal with them. All that nonsence they talk about women I instantly apply to men.
it's incredible to see their reaction, bewildering even bc when YOU react like that...
You’re probably very bad at it
@@DarKuz92 mirroring is the only time I engage. Otherwise I look and keep scrolling or nod and ‘mhmm’ ‘okay’ ‘yep’ them into leaving me alone.
And then they bring out the main argument - “men and women are not the same” 😂😂 its exhausting honestly. How do you even deal with someone who thinks like that
@@Chinchapakdumdum men and women are the same in some aspects but different than others. In this case male and female sexuality isn’t the same at all. That’s kind of obvious. Do you think you experience the world as a man. That you have the same wants and desires as an average man? I’d say your point is far more needing of justification 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Omg i used to be frends with this one guy who used to flirt and was down to hook up with anyone but would always say stuff like " i am going to date and marry a girl only if she is a virgin and decent , a girl who doesn't have a history of hook ups or many relationships ".......when i heard him say that i was disgusted af ..the hypocrisy omg !!!!!!......and i slowly exited the friendship....he is such a misogynistic person.
I know a few guys like this. They’re all single and no one invites them to meetups anymore because they kept harassing Women.
lol those responses just expose how low of a regard they have for being a husband/being married😭 because she ain't said none of that
Are you saying women all communicate directly now?
@@christopherbrown5409 that lady ain't "all women" ,so let's get a grip and stay on topic babes 😘
@@zairedharma but she said "women", which is a generalising statement, right, honeybuns?
@@christopherbrown5409 no one said women here child. Also how triggered are you that you're harassing literally every women in these comments 😂😂😂
@christopherbrown5409 just say your a fuk boi, incapable of being hubby material, and move on.
Like it aint that deep bro.
Men categorize/compartmentalize women like this all the time.
Triangulation tactics to get us to jump through hoops and compete for them. I’m just my authentic self
Cos I don’t want none of them 😅
So you're telling me men are...shelf-ish? *ba-dum-tss*
@@shani.ninety 🎯
Women do the same. It’s not the categorizing, it’s the fact she insulted him, using categorization
"B-B-But its different for men! Biologically and evolutionary speaking-!"
B*tch please, they can eat what they cooked 🥱
They can dish it, but not take it. Walk away from this red flag.
Also exposes that that among men, there is no “social capital” amongst each other with being “husband material” or a “stable family man.” 😮😒
@@kittykatz4001 ooop!!! 🎯
Touché.
I mean, yeah have you not heard alpha fucks beta bucks?
@@greensciencegeekyeah he thinks he’s an oofy doofy now. She’s not with him because she’s attracted to him but because he provides resources and stability.
@@MarioMario-vy4bi I don't know man, my husband provides it all. I don't need to look anywhere else. I'm a lucky lady.
The power to define and label (also known as abuse, read some Patricia Evans books) women has been something men have reserved for themselves so they're just absolutely PISSED that women might also turn around and put them into boxes. If she had told this man hes not marriage material but she keeps him around for the sex and company anyway would similarly drive him and his male enablers bonkers.
I LOVE Patricia Evans ❤🎉
Not really; not every man wants to be marriage material, but every man wants to be fuckable to enough attractive women.
From the look of things, less so than being told he's the one settled for because he was financially stable
@@nedumnwanze4120 Where did she mention "financially stable"?
Why is she comparing him at all? If I told you I wouldn’t hook up with you if I saw you at a bar but I’d put a ring on it, wouldn’t you take offense?
“You’re being emotional, irrational, it’s not that deep” - LOVE THIS. I cannot even count the number of times a man has told me this. Looks like they were just projecting. 🤷🏻♀️
And dying alone surrounded by cats. Lol
@@ST-yc7uj for real! 🤣
Two different kinds of men. The man she said It to wasn't the kind of man to say it to women, which we know since HE DIDN'T SAY IT to her. You're looking at men as a monolith. Try to unlearn this sexist tendency.
I think they might be surrounded by dogs. Men who want worship and adoration seem to prefer dogs because dogs tend to offer those qualities. Even when people abuse them 😢.
I have an really funny? anecdoc on an immature and emotional man : he's my brother, 23 or smth, he ate my bar of chocolate even though it's not a normal grocery store one and that it was hidden. i bought another one a week later and because he's not a good man overall, i wrote "don't touch fcker".
i was in my room the day after and i hear "who's done it?! It's (my name)? (My name) you fcking whre!" with some other insults sprinkled on top.
Yaddi yadda, my mom comes in my room and tells me that he got mad because he saw that i insulted him.
Bonus : my mom told me that he said "i'm not gonna hit her" and stormed in his room.
What a tantrum for a whole ass adult, and he only controlled himself not to hit me? For 1 insult on a chocolate bar???
Oooohhh you flipped that script and it was boss!!!! Men need to stop being so emotional and try being more logical !! You cleaned the plate!!😂😂❤
Testicular mantrums
right? they're so testerical
they're born more emotional, weaker immune systems, he's naturally transgendered (flips from female to male at puberty), and has to hack the mother to be seen as female in the womb or else he'll be killed more likely then live via natural rejection. Also you need to understand emotions before you can have logic these guys only have disassociation and fantasy he's either disassociated from his emotions or he's 1000% in his emotions and can't speak or identify muchless sooth them. And he has the dual masters of his dick and his ego and males say you can't have two masters so he's up shit creek here cosplaying as logical.
I am a teacher and the days the girls are absent are the worst. Boys and men are so emotional I cannot fathom where the stereotype came from that women were the emotional ones. My goodness, men are the biggest babies.
@@marajones1828boys are not men.
We are more sensitive. It's testosterone and dht that makes us able to withstand stuff women would get hysterical or outright kill themselves.
Women delude themselves out of psychological harm a lot more than men. Autistic people, which have an masculinized brain can't delude themselves. And suffer continuous gaslighting just by putting up with neurotypicals.
I wouldn't like you being my teacher.
You are the kind that left me to starve in daycare.
I can't help but feel the main misunderstanding at the heart of this is about sex. Like...men who are terrible people are great at sex, but good, solid men aren't? And they believe themselves to be the 'good, solid' men. So what are they saying about themselves?
I think the messaging men receive is that men who have access to a lot of women are top tier, marriage is mid tier, no women is bottom tier. So calling them the marriage type is calling them mid😂
The reason why women initiate divorce more is because we were sold the bigger lie (that marriage is actually top tier) and men are mad that we can be picky about marriage because we're taking away their consolation prize for not being playboys. We've downgraded many of them from mid to bottom (aka marriage to incel).
The gag is, they don't believe they're good men. They just want us to.
Also a woman signing up to have sex with ONE man for the rest of her life is supposed to be worse than her having a one night stand with him and never calling him back (meaning it was bad, or she was just using him for pleasure)? Most married men have more sex than their single counterparts too, so it's not even about women not "putting out" after they've gotten married.
It's also a compliment that someone literally wants to spend their entire life with you, only be intimate with you, have kids with you etc. but I guess males aren't always rational thinkers.
@@slothisasin8240 being married doesn't guarantee any of that subjective stuff in your last paragraph, ma'am.
@@christopherbrown5409 it doesn't garuntee that men won't be trash husbands and take their mask off and have the audacity to wonder why their wife doesn't want to touch him after already being used in every other aspect. You are so so sad bro. Get help.
I see what you did there. And now I know why my last relationship tanked. I told him how reliable and grown up he was. They don’t like that.
What was your sex life like?
I bet my soul that was not the issue
Ignore these two losers. They are in every single comment, being parots.
@@marv34001 easy to bet on something you have little of
4:36. This. Male logic never applies to themselves, only women.
Which proves that men have no logic whatsoever
It’s not the same logic that’s why. it’s not the same context. You know this
@@marv34001no, it’s nonsensical is what it is.
@@teacherella1338 it definitely makes sense. And I think you know that, women are just trying to gaslight men online for some reason
@@marv34001
It makes sense that women are valued after how much and reliably they can slave away, but for men to be valued after how much of a whore they can be??
I don‘t want to be in your head if that kind of stuff makes any sense to you. 😅
Says a lot about married men and what they think of their wives smh
Married men know sexual attraction matters for women too. She just told him he isn’t sexually attractive enough to be with if he wasn’t a good provider, leader, protector (husband)
@@nickthompson1812he is very much not any of those things. And even if he were, why is he angry about being a "husband material"? I'm sure he only chose her because he thinks that she is wife material,.......😂
@@canesugar911lmaoo thiss!!! But based on what I read from most males that commented in Twitter and reddit, seems like they would never understand this logic because all they know is "women have to accept being objectified by males and all the rules only applies to women and not us"
@@nickthompson1812most men aren’t protectors and providers. Women don’t expect that from men in 2024, since 50% of women earn the same amount of more than their man and the the other 48% earn a little bit less than their husband. Plus beauty fade away. When your wife will be 50 with 3 children and post partum body, it means that you won’t love her anymore because she isn’t young and attractive anymore?
@@nickthompson1812 do you realize that she didn't say any of those things?
Men like to say things like so and so is "girl I wouldn't bring home to mother" or she's"wife material" but get pissed when the script gets flipped 😂
The thing is, wife material implies both the attractiveness AND the stability, and lots of men do enjoy being called husband material in return for that reason. But what OP said was something most people, men and women, would take as "you're not that attractive to me sexually, but I'll settle for you because you're stable/loyal"
@@jonquilgemstone if being attractive means more to you then being considered a dependable, reliable person, that's your issue. I am not so vain as to think that there are not more attractive people in this world. Being someone that can be counted on, is a fat bigger compliment. I'm sure there are plenty of single parents (men and women both) that wished they had held out for a partner or at very least a co-parent that was dependable. Being hookup worthy is not a compliment. It means you are good for one thing only.
@@jonquilgemstoneyou men live in delulu land. We women, now damn well that we are not all Monica Belluci but you would like to be perceived as George Clooney. What’s being bad about not being considered the top 1% attractive people?
@lovejunkie490 we care about being YOUR top 1%, you daft cow!
Whenever the XYs start nattering about "evolutionary biology" I can't pay attention to their conversation.
They're going to strategize their way to Single Town and they should live there.
Oh no!! The HORROR!
Men would not be able to take the same amount of misogyny that woman take on a regular basis. Like if you treat a man like he treats you, he’ll feel offended and demand respect. This video did help me understand why my ex-boyfriend hated the fact that I used to say a celebrity who I knew I would never have any chance of meeting and or talking to was attractive more so than him.
Yep. They are such morons.
they can't take anything women take on a regular basis not even a cold!
Why would you call the celeb more attractive than him? That just SCREAMS "I gave myself a hall pass regarding him"
@@christopherbrown5409 you are projecting so hard bro. You are in delulu land
@@zedekiahking4169 IDK; OP never responded (out of guilt at being called on her whoredom?)
So "a man wants to be your everything" but telling him "I want you forever over all the other men" is an insult...somehow?
@@jojobookish9529 not every woman who wants to marry a given man wants to do so out of love.
@christopherbrown5409 that's not what she said...
@@maybemablemaples2144 that's not what she DIDN'T say either. Also, y'all add meaning and "context" to men's words all the time. Why can't we return the favour?
@@christopherbrown5409 sir you have problems.
@@maybemablemaples2144 yeah; existing with women.
Men triggered into high heaven. Again. They do anything and everything to avoid therapy. The projection is next level.
I made a mistake reading most of the comments from them and whewww The amount of males commenting in this video, that reddit posts and Twitter is disheartening. But it's so funny seeing them got triggered this bad tho, they really can't take their own medicine
talking and crying is for women
@@germanpatis9136
@@germanpatis9136 welppp speak of the devill, here's your example of another sad lonely incelll got triggerd lmao
@@germanpatis9136 lacking a touch of a woman is for you
"A man wants to be your everything." Too bad. They're not. They are just one part of life. Women date and hook up just like men do. They can deal with it or not, that's their problem. If he wants to manufacture outrage from her compliment that's on him.
Why do you think he should be happy just coming home to you?
@@christopherbrown5409 "I, ____, take you, ____, to be my wife (or husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part, according to God's holy law, and this is my solemn vow."
I guess these vows don't mean a thing to men like you anymore
Its almost like all human beings have the same kind of reaction when being objectified, divided by function, and not seen as whole.
Turns out we are more alike than not
That’s part of it but not the core reason. Though I acknowledge that woman care more about that it seems. The guy is worried he’s being primed for cuckoldery.
And oop wasn't even objectifying, she was praising him to the the heavens
@@olympiaelda1121 me comments kee getting deleted
Yeaaaaah, and when those catered to in a power structure get the same abuse visited upon them that they've normalized visiting upon others, they get exceptionally angry because" That's NOT SUPPOSED to happen TO ME! I CAN DO IT TO YOU, YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO DO THAT TO ME!"😅🙏👍❤️
The menz are throwing tantrums. Let them cry.😂
I’ve been told I’m too average for a guy I would find attractive but men always wanna date out of their league
@@Iam_Celene don't ever let that stop you. Whoever told you that was an idiot.
Oh no, they can't even maintain their own double standard, oh no boo hoo they tell on themselves with those negging words. They are using a strategy when they say those things, I love that you are here instead of settling for someone below your league. League, it's a fking sports term 😂 they're fake, they made it up.
"Leagues" don't exist
'Levels of Maturity' exist and that can't be seen with the naked eye.
That person who told you that is shallow or using slime tactics.
I'm glad you are here instead, you don't need that nonsense!
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I once said to a guy online, I'm only a 3. I'm not unattractive, but I lack a feminine look. I have a big head, short hair, bulky body. Then the guy told me, I should just look for a 2 or a 1, but OF COURSE I'm too high and mighty and won't chose those guys.
LMAO
He didn't say: Look for a 3 or a 4, nope.
I'm sure the guy would still look for a 8, even though he was only a 4.
Talking about those stupid numbers: I'm successful, talented, earn good money. A 2 on the male scale would be an overweight guy in his mother's basement who has no job and plays video games all day.
Men usually try to get women out of their league to break the rules for him. He will try to humble a woman and will not accept his own feelings of insecurity
@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty exactly
I vote we stop caring about these men's fragile egos 😂😂😂
I am 2 minutes in and already so angry at the misinterpretations of her compliment. 😭 Projection really is the root of all evil.
aren't these the same guys who always scream that "if i say something that can be interpreted in one of 2 ways, and one of those ways upsets you, i meant the other one"?
EXACTLY like omg i immediately had to pause the video because ppl were projecting like CRAZY and adding stuff that wasnt even there lol
Not projecting, it’s quite literally two different standards
@@m1ssb1mbetteit was
She literally read about female dual mating standards and then called it baloney. You can’t help these cognitively dissonant people.
I told a friend once: With all that women have been through in history. I'm surprised women haven't burned the world down
It's because we are natural born leaders and meant to connect with nature.
Men don't have that ability so they have no second thoughts about destroying anything.
But don't forget that nature and science is always on women's side. The amount of sp3rm men produce is decreasing, Y chromosome is disappearing. Many women today feels the urge to only have daughters.
2 billions ago, males didn't exist and female created them for genetic diversity. There was a time were males didn't exist and was where we started from.
If XY's only purpose is to genetic diversity, we had enough already., and maybe in the future we'll go back to not having males at all.
In the nature, the creature that harms females in their own species have been target for elimination because they're useless.
I'd say, Natural Selection is HAPPENING.
@dea9457 yeah, I'd love to see women NATURALLY reproduce without men?
Love is a form of _dominace_ to these men so when you flip the script, they freak out.
Because it's just that: dominance. Not love.
@@BlackRaven000 exactly. I sincerely believe this is why some men are so violently homophobic - the idea of another man wanting to treat them like a _woman?!_ They can't handle that. Must. Assert. Dominance.
If you really want to dominate him grab his balls and tell him you’re in control. Trust me we hate that.
They own you or they want to.
What we do with them is just points in their ego game, and we are not awarding points “fairly”
Their disdain for that shows how they really feel when they say it to women
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Except the women men do settle down with it's because they find the attractive and like them as a person. What she's saying is that she doesn't like him outside of what he brings to the table and would pick other men over him sexually.
@@C-R-l-M-S-O-N Either they both are insulting or both are a compliment. You think there aren't men out there who lowkey hate their wives and aren't attracted to them but settled because they can't get someone hotter and want a free maid to enslave in the home? Delusional
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@@C-R-l-M-S-O-N yeah right. Explain why 89.5°/• of OF users are married men and 32 million use Ashley Madison. They marry ones they aren't attracted to, keep them trapped inside to raise their children and take care of domestic tasks they don't want to do, while they step out with women they desire. Women and children are appliances to them. The children exist to carry on their 'legacy.' Sick stuff.
My thoughts exactly. Finally someone lectures men the way they have the audacity to lecture women! I absolutely love this channel.
2 minute silence for the woman who think he is a nice male 🤭💀 if he is throwing tantrum over this, he isn't husband material as she thinks he is 😂
All of the males mansplaining how this woman they've never met feels about her partner is why I can not take them seriously as a whole.😂
They always think they can talk for other people
@@Ourown311 they love being loud and wrong KNOWING damn well they're wrong
@@janepaige928 GIRLLL, the way so many males in this comment section got triggered about this video and that girl's post is alarming. They're just proving your point lmao
hypergamy, hypergamy, hypergamy, She needs to get a clue about the difference between men and women. The women obviously has been involved in hook up culture - cannot make a wife that has been run thru. Look at the # of porn actresses that R drug addicted, depressed, cannot stay married and die at an early age.
Projection. This is feminist behavior 101. Find the worst possible interpretation of someone's words and then respond under that presumptuous interpretation.
The fact that these men immediately jumped to provider when she said husband.....
This is why the ones who can't find a woman are crying all over the Internet about the money they make and they are still single while the men who did find a way to tie women down in marriage are probably close to losing their wives and they don't even realize it....
They do not get that they are actually going to have to learn to be decent human beings or learn to do their own laundry and give birth to their own kids because women are providing from themselves. Women are also taking care of everything else, including their husband's children...so why do they need men? If they are awful humans, what does a woman need them for? 🤷🏻♀️
You’ve nailed that one! Just like men can cheat but will call women al kind of names for doing the same 🤦🏾♀️
Girl you got logic…men do not like that.
And girl your probably a 304
Yes! This!
Idk, I think women have more logic than men!
And she's beautiful. It's a wrap.
@@Anne-pk8gs logic WHERE?
Ain't that funny, when you tell me the same thing and treat them the same way they treat us, males don't like it 🤭💀 i am glad she said that.
Also men telling on themselves again: as soon as you become their wife: you are unforkabke and invisible
Being considered wife material is almost an insult. I love when they say "there's women to look at and women to marry" so sir, you think your wife is ugly?? Why don't u want to look at her 😂😂😂
Wrong, obviously a man doesn't want his wife and mother to his children to have been banged by scores and scores of men. Even progressive liberal guys like myself, weary of right wing red pill stuff, would hesitate. Almost all men will. It really sounds like you don't understand men. No man wants to be the boring unattractive guy she has chosen to pay the bills with, you wouldn't want to be in that position either. Men respect and love the wife material the most as a general rule actually. Of course, before marriage, they want to have sex and a promiscuous girl would be the best person to do it with... who else? And good reason to be worry of marrying her if she's very promiscuous because men are always looking to get with women she'll always have easy options everywhere. Also it's mainly wives who stop initiating sex in marriage not men, that's beyond question
I've even heard then say things like american women are fat and they stuff there face I went all week without much of anything to eat that's the weird part about it there not even good at insulting women anymore they just lie and say shit to start an argument.
Just make sure that when you divorce the loser you get some of his assets ;-) All that unpaid labor women and girls do around the home better be paid.
It's the men who are in sexless marriages though
i think men want us to call them jezebels ❤😂
They do. Men like getting cat called and sexualized. Which is why they don’t understand why women don’t like it.
I have said similar. The Jezebel behavior suits them.
Meat stick😂
it's whoremonger. Harlot is gender neutral
@msmewiththat7532 but if we regard them as that, they hate that too
I once said something similar to guy & he interpreted it as I was deeply in love with him. Took at as a declaration. Where as I hardly knew him & just wanted to take it slow..men can be just so crazy & delusional how they get it all twisted in their minds.
I said this to my spouse also. I was trying to tell him I wanted a future with him but don't do hookups or casual.
The patriarchy has puffed them up enormously. They're too full of themselves, it cannot be undone. There's no coming back from this.
They know being wifey material is not a good thing. Thats what’s up.
Great video! Keep calling out the hypocrisy! There is so much hypocrisy in patriarchy. Also, patriarchy and its defenders are inherently illogical. "All women are crazy(insert any other insult here)" but "not all men"? This is stupid logic and thats barely scratching the surface.
these males think philosophy and religion are universal and it's just by men, for men, to men hardly a universal thing about it cuz you'd have to have women do their own philosophy and religions in a vacuum and see what matched there is very little universal due to one gender exists at the other's expense and mostly it's the women's expense.
I was wondering why this video has so many comments, because usually the decenter channels have a much smaller following than the red pill channels, and then I realized:
red pill has entered the chat and they are having emotions.
I laughed so hard about the "you're going to die alone, surrounded by cats" 😂😂
Or the This is why you are alone with no man. Again that belief that your value and worth is attached to having a man, any man, a piece of a man or the crumbs of a man.
Don't threaten me with a good time! 😹
Even cats don't like most men! 😂
@@KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoachingat the same time they'll devalue themselves and say "mens attention means nothing!!" Which is it sir???
And those guys are gonna die alone too, surrounded by beer cans, piss jugs, and empty takeout boxes. The cats sound better
The "reason" they don't understand the friend with benefits vs the husband when applied to them, is they know the explanation is a huge lie.
Why?
And PROVIDE doesn't JUST mean financial. It means physically, emotionally, financially, etc. We see the WHOLE picture not just PARTS
He's too sensitive & need to toughen up 🪖
Girl don’t panic. Stay calm and leave.
LOVE your take! Even cats at this point don't even want to be around these miserable, argumentative, sassy men. They like to project cats on women but cats love us gworls because we understand boundaries & consent. They'll die alone with some cactus plant that was gifted to them (because even with regular houseplants they can't handle the maintenance). 😂😂
Yup, they need company that thrives (or at least survives) in neglect
So no men understand boundaries or consent?
@@christopherbrown5409 There are a few exceptions but the majority do not and behind closed doors all bets are off.
As someone with a black thumb I gotta laugh at this.
@@Edelwiess1066 are you saying, then, that the vast majority of men are rapists?
Seriously, this is the kind of response I would expect from chronically online weirdos. All of the men I know, including my husband, would consider being told they are husband material as a great accomplishment. For normal people, it means that you are viewed more highly than other men.
But why do those lowly-viewed men still get sex?
If he criticizes or condescends you, say the exact same thing back to him.
The only way they learn is if they experienced the same kind of pain that they inflict on to others with their stupid jokes and negging
Where'd he say or do anything abusive?
That’s hilarious. Got called husband material (like wife material) and flipped their shit.
He got clowned
I think she was wrong. He is misogynistic and not husband material.
@@mishi144 misogynistic? Having standards means you hate the opposite gender. I’ll be sure to let women know to curve their misandry when they get abused by men
@@mishi144 yeah a man of quality that loved her in that way would have been honored. All she did was bring to light the type of man he truly was.
for the man to have been offended he likely was looking for hook ups a short fling when idea of marriage comes up these men run. The friends that are likely like-minded would also react negative thinking he got the short end of the stick they fear see a marriage minded women as clingy suffocating going to ruin their fun of sleeping around. The guy was likely dating around not serious, and they hope the women on their rotation is on the same page. Because if it was his dream girl he would have reacted with excitement.
Same with saying you're a virgin scares men so fast because they are only looking for access to your body with no strings attracted. Men with marriage in mind aren't disgusted with virgins waiting for marriage
They got shocked that a woman can have hook ups and think about her own needs instead of revolving all her life around men, just like they do.
All of patriarchy is 'do as I say, not as I do'
Men and women are different. Who knew? Rules don’t apply equally to both genders, even today. look at domestic violence, divorce, alimony child support, abortion. Women are now “ men shouldn’t make laws regarding women” like what? We benefitted you but you still hate us.
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Right bc women act like men then we are hoes. Or we play the game they taught us to play and we're gold diggers. Smh
The patriarchy of what?
Improper or unjust feminism is also a hypocrisy like patriarchy. But the society is collapSINg so no point arguing anymore
Men should learn to smile more often
Thank you for covering this topic 🙏 I wish I could say that I can’t believe this is still a conversation, but people really do speak to one another like this 👀
He got angry bcuz he doesn't want to marry her, and he now knows that's what she wants.
That doesn’t make men angry. Plenty of men waste enormous amounts of women’s time who they aren’t serious about
@@stephaniepanteraIt might have made him angry. Women aren't supposed to want anything, obviously.
Exactly. He wanted to feel like he was the one choosing, like he was at the wife store picking out the best wife-appliance he could afford. Owners choose the chattel, not the other way around.
@@BlackRaven000 haha fair enough
@@brandy4530 ohhhhhh that was SERIOUSLY well said.
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They are NOT the same and one is set up in that very way, like you said.
Blood is boiling, imma stop yapping.
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As a man....yep. I have to agree with you on the whole. It is hypocritical. I think i know why some men could find it insulting, but its just because they're interpreting the woman's comment through their male brain. Her comment could be taken to mean that she thinks he's undesirable sexually and she just wants him for his money and resources, which for a man would not be a great thing. But i think its just a misunderstanding.
That’s how they took it
I love the ending where for a minute you flipped the conversation and patronised men like they have been doing. Lmao it was so satisfying and hilarious. 😂😂❤
I’m so tired of what men want to hear for their fragile egos. 😂
And we are so tired of being told to do better and blamed for every problem in dating.
No, it really is that you cannot accept any form of criticism. You got the msg growing up you aren't good enough, so when your partner says anything about improvements in the relationship, you get triggered to that place that you aren't good enough. Since you have total disconnect from your emotions, and society condones blaming women, you go into offensive, making it impossible to build a life together.
Hell yeah same.
@@blueskies90210 bitchsplaining to the max, are we?
@blueskies90210 also, you literally just treated that guy as if he's not smart enough to explain his own reality.
MOST MEN HAVE TO DEAL WITH BEING TREATED AS THE INHERENT PROBLEM.
Great video, the dude clearly failed the test by his reaction if he interprets it as such.
@@i_m_ryn why are you shit testing your partner?
People who use debunked 'evolutionary biology' to support their opinion remind me of a train hurtling down a track to a washed out bridge, all the while denying they won't make it across the canyon. Don't judge me for being fascinated & horrified at the same time.
As soon as I heard the evolutionary BS I laughed. It's crazy how people put this much effort in justifying their bad behavior instead of improving themselves as people.
From what I understand this is the Madonna/farm tool excuse men make when they go out and drive up women's body counts on top of their own and have the absolute audacity to say he wants his wife to be a virgin. 😂
*men* are the ones stating this "biological need" b.s. like excusing their cheating but will straight up delete his wife if she does the same, its *all* illogical double standard, we *know* it is.
because supposedly, women can't use the same excuse. Because *now* its an insult and degrading to men. Even despite historical evidence pointing towards women being in very horrible positions if they *didn't* vet well for a proper husband.
So if anything I can see it actually mattering for women, not biological but as a social species and understanding our own society that women must do this for protection.
men are just doing it because they want a partner they *can* put in whatever position he wants to and she doesn't have the experience and/or economic ability to get away from him.
@@Ilovesushi123456 right
Fr, I'm so tired of this bs.
Whew chile!!! This woman is dropping all the dimes! I wonder how many men are going to listen to her advice 🤨
They won't because then they would have to admit they are the problem and need to change.
@@Ourown311 unfortunately I believe every word you said
@@Ourown311 men are the problem, but females are more willing to fuck hookups than potential husbands?
One of my favourite movies is I Am Not an Easy Man (2018) and I like your videos because it brings the same logic of "when tables are turned, men get mad". 😂
i don’t understand why men specifically got in an uproar, when they quite literally have the same categorization method for women on the 1-1 inverse. women you F, women you marry/take to meet your parents/whatever the man values.
she said he was the type of man she wanted to go the distance with. go through life married with. and a marriage between a non-asexual couple includes regular physical attraction + intimacy. companionship, compromise, communication, collaboration. the deepest trust you can have/share with another person. lifelong commitment to each other.
most men only envision divorce & the financial ramifications therein, when the concept of marriage is brought up. when if you are just an attentive all-in partner with your wife, and just idk ask her what she wants + actually follow through CONSISTENTLY in earnest + are marrying a woman you ACTUALLY LIKE, you probably won’t get divorced.
It’s because they perceive being “marriage material” as being a second tier “beta male”, they have it in their head women date and f**k around with alpha males because women ultimately desire these men the most but that women will then settle for a beta male once they’re willing to trade in this s*xual satisfaction for a stable provider “beta” who she can raise kids with. Thusly, being told they’re marriage material is being told they’re a beta, not an alpha and thusly are not the man a woman genuinely s*xually desires, which they find humiliating.
These insecure men desperately want to believe they’re the alpha s*x god that women desire more than any other man, as that’s what validates their ego more than being the “beta” chosen for marriage. The fragile egos of these men is built entirely around their sexual desirability.
Of course, it goes without saying that there is no actual basis for this alpha/beta male narrative, it’s completely unfounded nonsense made up by incels, but so many men have deluded themselves into believing there’s scientific credibility to “evolutionary biology” (there isn’t, it’s pseudo science that has already throughly been debunked by real scientists) but their belief in it is why they describe women like how you would an animal in a nature documentary, talking about how women have these basic, predictable instincts regarding mate selection.
Basically, these men are only mad at women based on incel’s biology fanfiction that incorrectly contextualises the motivations behind who women choose to date.
There’s also immense cognitive dissonance present in the way these men think, because despite their own insistence that women are biologically hardwired to want to initially f*ck “alphas” only to later marry “betas”, they also project a moral framework onto this that makes women immoral for this “natural” mating selection. It’s so stupid that it’s secondhand embarrassment inducing, but these terminally online redpill men genuinely believe this crap and judge women based on this 😬
Patriarchy created a world in which most women could only get resources through men, but that also created a world in which many men could only get sex through marriage. This led to all of the messaging and propaganda for girls to be making marriage to be this default goal that we all must strive for and quickly. Now that the messaging is changing average/below average men can't rely on social enforcement to get girls to marry young. They're mad cuz they have to try so much harder now
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Everyone gets categorized, the problem was that the woman insulted him. She didn’t just say he was great, and you know that. Many marriages are sexless and lacking attraction.
She told him that basically there are men who don’t have to work to have sex with her, and he isn’t one of them. That’s insulting.
@@marv34001wow, what a hurt teenager perspective
Ugh! Just be single and happy! Stop with the promotion of domestic servant to the females! Women loose their freedom in the bondage of marriage! Marriage benefits men more than women. Just live your lives, folks! Stay single and live in peace!
yes! so true, I say this and family members think I'm crazy and "unrealistic"
How?? Give me one example that doesn't involve children because as adults you decide to make them and one of you has to look after them.
Girl, you got that right. Just flip it. Doesn't sound so great then right. Amazing. Love your work keep doing what you do.
@@lfcatchall Thank you ☺️💗🙏
Except men DO typically like being called husband material. What OP said was different because it's the equivalent of men saying "hook up with hot girls, marry the homely girl because she's loyal". Saying what OP said would never be considered a full compliment by anyone, just backhanded at best.
If she had just called him husband material, he would have taken it as him being the full package. If she had worded it literally any other way, he might have taken it differently. But anyone, man or woman, would feel insulted by the way she said it.
This is hilarious and I hope she doesn't marry him
The projection is high asf and the delusion is in the next nebula over
Funny, I literally just spent the other night looking up what men mean when they said “that’s a girl you marry, not date” because I didn’t understand why
Who says "That's a girl you marry, not DATE"?
@@christopherbrown5409 Had to be there Autist
@@Edelwiess1066 excuse you?
@@christopherbrown5409Bro it's obvious you consume rage bait content that's mostly aimed in favor of men and you're telling me you've NEVER heard of that phrase. Stop capping.
@user-jn1ts4wl1c who the hell marries without dating? "Marry, not fuck" would make more sense, at least.
They just keep saying they want to use us and be with their bros.
UNO reverse card to the core!! 😂
😂 welp…. She said what she said…. I like how she made him the cat “lady” lol 😂
They're not the logical ones lol. They get super fragile when they get treated how they treat us. Hope she finds a better guy lol
They are such babies. Same way they get their heart broken once and go on decade-long rampage, whereas women get their heart broken the MAJORITY of the time with disappointing men.
You mean ran through by Chad?
@@marv34001Brother, the only one being obsessed with a supposed Chad is you. Jealous your dream boy left in the sheets with women instead of you? Its okey, do not blame yourself. Very specific type of man you are searching for though, but who am I to judge?
Congratulations coming out by the way! I hope you find your Chad you are looking for. 😽
@@peachwhite-333 uh, what the fuck are you talking about. Like I see you’re trying to be witty. But that type of insult doesn’t mean anything to me. You’re just babbling, this is white woman babble
@@marv34001sounds like someone wants Chad inside them
So glad that I don't care about the fragile feelings of males....... I match energy!
@@TrueBlueLibra ho, why are you here?
@@christopherbrown5409 to trigger your fragile male ego of course 🤣🤣🤣 it's what I live for
@@christopherbrown5409 to trigger the fragile male ego of course 🤣🤣🤣 and it looks like I succeeded. It's what I live for!
A topic that divides the men from the boys. A mature grown man wouldn't have any problem with your reasoning.
So other men can get free sex, but not him?
Only guys can hear a true compliment tgat she wants to be with him for life and somehow that's a bad thing to him? Wow, this is why I am done with the opposite sex and relationships in general. A giant waste of time. Center yourself in your life.
It's bad if she only wants his qualities and not his person
I think how she meant it was that she respects him more than just a hookup
Someone needs to tell those men to 'just smile more'
the poor girl thought she had a boyfrined who was worth marrying... the fact that he got offended with her genuine compliment is a red flag and she didn't destroy anything. he did.
Who said it was genuine?
My bf's ig following and 🌽 consumption is definitely keeping him out of the husband zone.
Why aren't you sleeping with him? Why are you still with him?
@christopherbrown5409 it's on an individual to exercise seggual discipline
@@ashleyfield705 so why are you still with him, if you find him sexually undisciplined?
If that's all it took to destroy this relationship, then it wasn't built on a solid foundation in the first place. She should cut her losses now and stop wasting her time with someone who is this insecure.
Why do you women hate insecure men? Just curious. I got bullied and realised after that chicks would just hate and laugh at me just for showing emotions.
0:55 ahhhh so the same line used in women and was told to be a compliment, isn’t actually a compliment. Did they finally admit the words they say is BS. 😂😂😂😂
Ha! You said something here I absolutely 100% agree with.. men never think for one second it could ever be their f'n personality we are turned off by. Cause let's just keep it 💯 most women can score cash and aren't looking for a beta provider. We will even overlook quite abit of physical flaws just as long as he's good vibes. Cause at the end of the day us women just want someone to vibe with. A lot of men ain't hearing it cause of Ego and insecurity so they follow some redpill schmuck grifters.Some pay me $10k by my course so you can be hated and awkward and turn off women like we do. This has gotta be misery loves company thing idk.
This reminded me of a conversation I had recently with a friend half my age. Her and I were sitting at a restaurant and I was expkaining my dating process.
I told her that when I date men, I put them into one of 3 categories.
"Nothing", "Just for Fun", and "husband material".
I went into great detail about what each category meant and why. And the percentage of men that generally end up in each category.
Let me tell you, it made the men at the very next table uncomfortable to hearing me have this conversation with my friend.
The very same men, who very likely did the same thing with women.
Bc all humans do this. We're not going to marry every person we end up in bed with or date. Just one. If you even decide marriage is your overall end goal.
Edit: pkease forgive any misspellings you may find. I typed this out while having a nosebleed.
If ur poly u might end up in a non legal "marriage" wit 2 or 3 lol
Side note we need 2 let ppl decide how many ppl dey want 2 marry, sure der can b a "reasonable" cap 2 avoid fraud but what does it matter, if I want 2 marry my wife n mayb l8r a husband
Anywho dats just a side note n ur sentiment still applies 2 poly, not everybdy u f u want 2 marry n or have a long term relationship wit, agreed, just a few of dem lol
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But there is something deeply dishonest with that kind of pragmatism
@@oreocarlton3343 I'm being deeply dishonest by being honest in recognizing that not all men make good husbands, or that they can't do anything for me based on my needs and wants, and that some only are looking for bedroom fun?
Interesting. I'm going to need an explanation for that one??
@@Rose-kj7rz if you are going for any of the 3 categories, its being dishonest not to go all out on one category but calculating and later switching, if you want to get married, why are you sleeping with anyone?
@@oreocarlton3343 are you really implying that my freedom to choose what I want, when I want (like men do) is an issue?
Why should you care anyway? I'm never going to meet you. I'm never going to date you. You're just a stranger on the internets.
And I don't owe you answers to how I choose to conduct my personal life and who, or if I choose to sleep with anyone.
Have a good day.
My legs are well rested from retiring from the pick me dance 💃 😂
im gay and hearing about this stuff is so wild. the dynamics in opposite gender relationships are so complicated lmao praying 4 u all!!!!
Send help😂
Seriously trying to sell homo relations as anything healthy is craaaaazy. I've seen it my entire life and that's just Marketing. Y'all's as f'd up as everybody else if not more so sit down.
If my girl told someone that she was with me because I'm kind and didn't mention my looks, I'm out. Period. I want to be with someone who is with me for my looks. I work hard in the gym for my six pack, 17 inch ultra defined arms, 6 feet tall and long Mohawk braided down the center. I get cat called by women who walk by with their friends
7:57 Let’s not forget that a lot of them are good diggers! They’ll easily be a pest that will best and rest on your dime if you’re foolish enough to be tricked into giving them a soft life.
I did not understand the insult at all...
Wanting to spend the next 25 years with someone instead of a night or a couple weeks is not an insult at all.
It's cuz they understand the underlying insult when they say it women.
@@Devonthe12thmoon no, but not being deemed sexy enough for the night or few weeks IS.
Even if you're not into casual sex... Imagine rejecting a guy by saying... You're not husband material or hookup material.... ❤
There’s nothing biologically predisposed about either of those things lol. Our real ancestors lived in huge family groups
My mind is boggled. My mind is fekkin blown. How do men get ALL of that from what she said. I mean, I get it. If a man actually said to me, "I'm not looking for arm candy in a wife. " I'd be insulted on a number of levels, including my clearly low standards. But how is using male metrics an insult? Unless... it was always an insult... when you recognise the depth and breadth of male jealousy and hatred of women... it's just... wow...
There's literally a difference between arm candy and a wife, though. Arm candy is there JUST to look good and dress well/borderline sexy. Marrying arm candy would be stupid and shallow.
@@christopherbrown5409 You are hopeless.
@@Edelwiess1066 how so? Arm candy is there for A PURPOSE; ergo, they're not to be seriously planned for.
The more you understand about both sides the more you hate them both. I'm a guy and I have a problem with both men and women. Like I'm going through these comments and you can clearly see the hatred of a lot of women
@godleveleldritchblast5257 I, personally, believe there isn't hatred for men from women. There is disappointment. Being a decent human being SHOULDN'T be that difficult yet, somehow, too many men struggle with it. Obviously, with the ability to share knowledge, more women are deciding that in many instances, it just isn't worth the trouble to get involved with men.
I think there's a story of a man who, rather than WASH himself, has broken up with his girlfriend and disavowed his first child. He views WASHING HIMSELF as a demand too far and would rather be alone than change. For his partner.
You can't compromise with these sorts of mindsets. You can't reason with someone like that. It isn't possible and it isn't worth the time. We don't hate men. We just aren't interested in raising adults into decency.
But something else entirely is happening with men. Hatred. Violence. Manipulation. A desire to destroy. A need to use and take. A resistance to giving. A reluctance to check one another.
It is often more trouble than it's worth, interacting with men.