Saved my marriage!!! 4 days ago my wife said she wasn't inlove with me anymore and wanted to separate. The next day I found this video. In only three day implementing the word my wife and I are feeling very different and are both fighting for our marriage.
@@mannyalicea8079 SUBMISSION of the wife is crucial. But it's not taught anymore. You are nothing but another manipulated man , subject to your wife's whims and changing emotions. You are not the ruler. She is. Too blind to see how you are being manipulated like Samson with Delilah ? The fact that she wanted to separate just shows how ungodly her moves are. Anyway marriage in the West today is a sad joke. No sin fix anymore. Not about sex and keeping away from sexual immorality , not about growing and multiplying , about MEN having their quivers full as the BIBLE says . It is about godess woman and her changing whims and feelings. It's not about her DUTIES anymore. Women in our brave feminist new world now just have duties in the workplace and submit to strangers. They have no duties anymore towards their husbands . It is PURE EVIL and God is not fooled believe me.
Keep your standards extremely high. Make them well known from the very beginning. Don't fall into the trap of getting emotionally involved with a woman, that is their domain and it's more susceptible to deception. And you would be surprised how easy it is to make terrible decisions because of a woman. You will know in your heart the choice is wrong, but you'll do it anyway because of a woman. It's Adam and Eve all over again, it happens all the time. So I would suggest that you stay strong, stay close to God, keep your standards extremely high, and make those standards known from the very beginning. Most men fall into bad relationships and marriages because they get emotionally involved early and start lusting, wanting sex... then you're trapped with her after that happens. But trust me, after you've had sex 1000 times it just gets old. You will wonder how you ever fell for it. But what never gets old is the peace you have in Jesus. If you stay close to God, she will stay close to you. Everything will be better.
@@logicaldude3611 This is the most powerful godly advice that I need to hear. A godly woman will be more attracted to a man that put God first before himself and her.
Im a 17 year old boy,I have a girlfriend,im really greatfull that God led me to this sermon,I shall treat my girlfriend who I very much intend to marry with honor and respect,I will make sure she knows that she is a 20 cow woman,I am very much blessed pastor,May the good lord continue to bless your marriage
@mosesjack4721 Can a man who respects a woman too much still perform sex to her ? Isn't there a huge part of the masculine psyche that is totally overlooked here ? Where does the Bible tell men to respect their wives at all ? provide the chapter please. Isn't respect linked to power and authority ? Isn't it the woman who is called to respect , and even fear her husband Ephesians 5:25 ? The Greek word translated by "respect" is phobos . Phobos = fear. Do naive modern men realise that the more they respect a woman , the less she will respect them ? How can men be so "blue pill" , so naive , thinking that man/women relationships are all about "love and respect" ? There is nothing further from the truth. The problem is , modern churchianity teaches all it takes to wreck marriages. It does not teach what the Bible teaches at all , even though it all look godly on the surface.
@@awakenedmama2101 He is 17. He is awfully young. What can he know anything about the marriage bed and what awaits him if he is not in control ?? Satan is behind this heretic preaching because married men are deprived of their GOD GIVEN right to sex just as Satan wants it. Do you realise how evil it can be ? When God opened my eyes to the war on men that was going on ..not among heathens but Christians , I could not believe my eyes. How will he do when his rebellious wife resist him in bed , the core of marriage ?? 1 Co 7:4 Yes God has opened my eyes to this ugly reality . There is something rotten in the kingdom of God ... War on men , on their sexuality , on their authority , on what they represent in God's eyes. Man = image of God and his glory 1 Co 11 War on God in fact. War on everything spiritual and moral in this decaying female-centric West. Btw I'm a woman who loves the sons of God and cannot stand the way they are treated today. A woman who cannot stand the way women are never ever called out for their rebellion and proud unsubmission as Vasthi was (Esther 1).
I’m currently in a bad marriage situation due to my selfishness and ego. If I have watched this sermon earlier I may have avoided neglecting her emotional needs and caused so much hurt to her. I only now can pray to God to show me the way to heal this marriage and to heal her heart. I will also learn to be a better husband through this sermon message
Your sermon completely changed how I look at marriage. My wife and I were about to get divorced, and I was so sure I was in the right. Your sermon has blessed me, thank God for you.
@@blakebunch4485 I think the most important decision a man will make is who to make his spouse. No matter what you do, some people will still love the world rather than God. Live and learn.
Praying for you and him. Also, sometimes a woman needs to pray for Gods healing, use the courage He gives to make a stand for your value. You matter. Neglect, poverty and emotional abandonment, or any kind of abuse is not the action of a god-following man.
@@anamazingtime8354 Proud rebellious females use the word" abuse" at all times like a magic feminist mantra in order to pose as victims and take over . Could not figure out how wicked my own sex could be until I read the Bible and confronted it with such evil teachings that call out men for imaginary sins (sexual abuse) but don't expose the real culprit , that is the wife who is unsubmissive , in and out of the bedroom.
So after listening to this, as a woman, I am both husband and wife. My husband is more like a malfunctioning wife. 6 years in and idk if this is God's plan.
@TheRevenant why would a man step up if the women don't seem worth it? It all starts from women. None of these societal issues started escalating until women embraced promiscuity. No man should "Step up" in this climate.
@KB-rh4qp You also take his FEMINIST LIES of "sexual abuse" ? It is demonic to its highest since according to the LORD who is not believed and served anymore , marriage is a sin fix , a shield against carnal temptations 1 Co 7:4/5. So , what's the point of marriage if sex is impeded ???????? Who ever impedes sex in marriage ? No one but Satan -and the rebellious wives who serve him. In other words , the horrible lie of servant leadership has led to this : Wife serves Satan Man serves wife
@valdenemayers7018 If you feel "blessed" it is because you love being buttered up and be treated as a victim when you are the guilty one. The insane modern focus on "abuse" gives rebellious women carte blanche to sin over and over .
This is the first time in 40 years that I have heard an annointed Pastor reprimand men very specifically about spousal abuse. It's about time. One can tell that your wife is happy and content. That alone makes me want to listen to more of your sermons. Thank you Pastor: you are both jewels. 🎉🎉🎉🎉👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Barbara
@@rockkstah2550 ....true. As a true woman, I respect my husband. And he is the head of the household. A Godly relationship is never 50/50. It should always be 60/40. Where the husband and wife discuss things, but the final decision is always the husband's. I have lived that way my entire life. Many women put me down, but they are miserable in their marriages, but my marriage is solid. Because God's Laws of Marriage are in my marriage.
I’m not a husband but I’m going through a break up from a 3 year relationship and I can see things I could of done better . God bless brother this was amazing
You have the humility to admit that. That’s a great start brother, nobody is perfect but if you have an open heart to Jesus, He will change you in all the right ways. Let Him be your guide, I believe He is already guiding you if He led you to this video. Wishing you all the best in life brother, invite God into your relationship and watch Him do amazing things.
Just remember to always forgive yourself. Don't beat yourself down and over think the past. You've learned from things that you could've changed and, things you couldn't. God forgives and loves you, unconditionally ❤❤❤
@bensmartinez4661 It is a blessing for MEN to hear that they cannot have sex with THEIR own wives as God wants it ? Are you suicidal ? Are modern men suicidal ? Do they have changed the TRUTH of marital duty to satanic lies of "sexual abuse" in marriage ?
Thats awesome that yall have a a Godly relationship. I just got married to my beautiful wife. I didnt know Gods word that well but i know God broght her to me. I know this bc i prayed harder than ever one night after a bad date and the next day i woke up to a message from my wife on Facebook. We where not friends on Facebook and she lived in the Philippines. We talked for 3 years i stayed faithful to her and she did as well as far as i know but i 100% believe her. I want my marriage to last forever so i need to learn how God want my marriage to be bc when we got married i truly believe that its a promise we made to each other and God and i dont want to break my promise to God. She has turned my life around so much she has helped me become more loving and and calmer. I love who i am now more than ever i find working is easier bc i am doing it for her to give her a better life its not pointless anymore i have a purpose and its her and God.
It was time that a preacher male talks about the role of a husband instead of always takking of the role of a Godly woman. Women need this message of the role of a husband. It was about time.
I think there are even more videos on how men should act godly toward their wives and in marriage than how women should act godly in a marriage. Just my opinion 😊 I might be wrong
It's better to just be thankful for both kinds of videos. Rather than create an object of contention from the emphasis of one over the other. Edit: I converted to orthodox Christianity, I find it strange to hold to doctrine that's directly linked to the reformers who had no relationship to the apostles, or the disciples of the disciples of the disciples, this individual here is clearly a product or protestant reformed theology and interpretations of scripture. I choose to follow the church fathers and the saints that are connected to Christ.
Thank you brother. I’m 21 and am just continuing to grow as a Christian man; I aim to be a masculine Christian man that can provide for my wife and family, and have been trying to find out how I can be a better leader for Christ for women figures in my life so I can be able to be ready for a relationship and eventually marriage. The 5 roles are powerful. What stood out to me ; at least one part because the whole video was crucial and I took a lot of valuable information from it was that labor pays the bills; not dreams . Amen. God Bless; thank you brother!
Enjoyed message so much. Left my husband after 37yrs recently. He is a narcissist and has verbally and mentally abused me. I always supported us and at times worked 2 jobs while he ran his own small engine repair shop. I went to church and took our 2 boys by myself. I can see clearly now I should have left sooner. I did everything for from cutting his toenails, setting up his meds scratching his back for hours every night etc just to have him call me fat and lazy and a wasted piece of skin. I feel so free now and such peace thanks to my boys for getting me out. Would love to have a husband like you described one day when I am healthier.
Wow. Sounds like you did absolutely nothing wrong in your marriage at all. You were perfect. Best of luck getting the absolute man of your dreams in your 60’s. You deserve it!
Yes there’s always two sides to every story. We have a lady in our church that sounds identical to this one. She got mad at me because I would not lend her emotional support and agreement in her bad mouthing her ex. I told her that I had not heard his side and Therefore I would take no side.
I just don't understand our pastor who basically took his side. I asked him to talk to him and said he would but after a while he would not respond to my text or calls. My church abandoned me when I needed them the most. My husband is very convincing and acts so much different in public. At home he would turn into another person. He is a narcissist. Why wouldn't God reveal this to my pastor. I'm so hurt
Wow! This message was not only for husband,but for me , my sons, and my daughters. Beautiful explain the role of a husband under guidance of what God mentioned in the Bible.
Pastor Vlad. I am 60 yrs old and married for 29 years. The principals you are teaching I have not heard for some time. It is so profound to have them reinforced with the powerful way you present them. Kind regards. Stadler
@@jaredshowers1 Show me where the Bible says that a married man cannot know his wife sexually ? Come on ! You realise how wicked this teaching can be ? Licking the boots of rebellious wives who are like decay in their husband's bones ? How demonic this can be !
I'm so Glad I found this video. I've caused so much pain to my wife over the last 2 years. She finally asked for a divorce last week. She's been telling me about God this whole time and I wouldn't listen until now. I'm praying it's not to late. And I can save us.
@MR33MARKELL HOLY women don't say anything against their husbands and don't divorce them. Modern women are as holy as a pair of used smelling socks. Please take a look at 1 Peter 3 and see who is the real culprit .
@@supernaturalvictorieswithsunny No man can protect a woman if he does not rule over her. Genesis 3:16 What is preached today is pure nonsense. Yiu wonder why men today don't care about women ? Well , just look at how wicked women are in the West . How useless and worthless they have become. Why on earth would a man want to protect a woman who is unsubmissive and resists him in the marriage bed ?? Men always protect what is theirs , what belongs to them . Just as God . God protects and cherished his people until it rebelled . Israel rebelled and God had to punish them with violence. But men who are told the lie of "sexual abuse" will quickly turn away from their wives. You will wonder why marriages have fallen apart i the West. Well , look in the direction of women , mothers and wives as usual. The weaker vessel first in transgression who cherishes sin and false gods (Feminism , Humanism ) but who is never made accountable anymore.
@@supernaturalvictorieswithsunny To protect you from what ? From your sins and rebellion ? You realise this man takes the holy name of Jesus to bash and trash husbands who should be revered and feared ? You realise he teaches them that they have no right to sex with THEIR own wife ???? You realise that God gave ADAM a woman for him . Not the reverse. That marriage in the Bible is always about the MAN and what his wife does for him first and foremost ?
I am getting married in June and this was amazing! It made me cry and really dig deeper into how I can love my future wife. Thank you very much for this! God spoke through you with this
Praying for you and your new bride. I wish someone had told me this when I married so please allow me to offer you this advice. Communicate well and with grace and love. If she says to her friends, "we never fight" and you are only keeping your mouth shut so as to not rock the boat... you are instead building resentments that will implode your marriage later. And if you are building resentments and she feels that because you are non- confrontational that means she can't speak up... she'll be building resentments as well purely out of misunderstanding. So don't hold it in... by all means, calm down and think of how best to communicate your disappointments that are creating resentment- or rather WILL if they fester- rather than blowing up and watching her close off (as soon as she feels attacked, she's not hearing you... and vice-versa). Loving communications. Last piece of advice is more of a life lesson: feelings aren't reality. If you FEEL she doesn't respect you because she never keeps house or maybe she spends too much and it is a slap in the face of your expectations... feelings aren't reality. Reality is ONLY that she's not cleaning and she's spending more money. How she feels and how you feel aren't reality, and if you could read her mind you might even find that your feelings are contradictory. It's always better to communicate well rather than make assumptions that threaten your heart and peace. I will continue to pray for you and your bride.
@brandonbeck1946 "it made me cry" Dreadful how effeminate and weak men have become in that Western world. When I consider how manly , direct and straightforward biblical men were ! What have we done to deserve such wimps ? Biblical men would not wonder how they can "love" their wives . They had sex with them ! Like real men. They were not afraid of their own male desires ! They had plenty of children (Psalms 127/128) , their marriages were blessed unlike modern marriages. Men had such honour and ego that they would never cry or express their emotions that way in front of women What on earth have western men become ?
@@graftme3168 How is it going now ? Has she already started to resist you in the bedroom ? Don't worry. She has the blessing of the "pastor" in the video . A free pass to sin over and over as she wishes. You are the vile abuser if you coerce her into sex and bring her back to her senses and duties towards you (1 Co 7:4/5) but she is as pure as a snowflake , she is the "daughter of the king" , don't you know that you vile abuser ?!!! The guilty becomes innocent and the innocent becomes the guilty one. But it's ok , you just have to double down on "love" and let her control , emasculate and destroy you and your marriage.
@vaniquehouser5395 Incredible how such sermons fill women with pride and a sense of self satisfaction. Not inspired as usual. It's all about ME the goddess , my whims , my feelings . I as a woman need to be worshipped and obeyed in place of God.
Whoever reading this, God never sends you into a situation alone, God goes before you, He stands beside you, He walks behind you. Whatever situation you have right now be confident. God is with you. Amen !
I’m not saying god doesn’t love everyone and I’m not trying to troll, what does that apply to people like Hitler. Not asking if God loves him. On his mission as he is exterminating Jewish people. Does it really apply in both marriages that God is with both people going through it with them when one person is objectively and substantially abusing the other person. Because I think we all agree, it wouldn’t apply to Hitler. Or are we supposed to pretend like it’s both people in the situation or bad equally at fault I should say? Does this verse apply to the husband is literally beating his wife every day and she’s too afraid to leave because she may be murdered?
@@XolisileMnguni Righteous husbands who have no right to sex ????? Christ is not around anymore. It is getting clearer and clearer. His word is bashed , baffled , mocked , his dear sons are deprived of the rights God gave him .
Treat your wife like a queen and she will treat you like a king. The points of a good husband humbled my heart and not allowing women to come in to your marriage in times of trouble. Instead, lean to another men or married couple for guidance. Going to share with my spouse and correct and humble myself to give him grace. Finally, when you confirmed to give him space to walk around the neighborhood to clear his mind. Doesn’t mean hang out and drink at the bars right! 3:07
Amen amen amen 🙏🏻 how I wish I heard this before I married a “Christian” man I met in my teens. Who spent 17 years drinking, partying, abusing and abandoning his family. I left severely depressed and suicidal. I pray God gives me a second chance to experiece what a true Godly marriage should be. But this teaching has shown me not to accept anything less than a man who will lead.
Thank you for your response. I walked that road also, with adding cheating, and he married her a year later. I have gotten comfortable with being single. After this sermon, I also pray God allows me to experience a faithful Godly husband.
@@jacquelineluchion2956 Amazing how such "godly" women come on social networks to bash the husband they should revere and fear (Ephesians 5:25) , complain about everyhting , nothing good to say about him but never come close to the virtue of a Proverbs 31 woman ...
My husband has not provided for us in 15 yrs. I have been working and providing and I am stressed and tired. We are both christians but he does not think he has to work. This is a blessing listening to this message.
Why are men expected to provide these days? Women make just as much as men these days and graduate college at a higher rate. I expect women to provide just as much.
Oh man I never cried so deeply until I watched this because I am on my 2nd divorce and I can’t help but think that something is wrong with me (because that’s what my current husband says) but then I hear what pastor says and I kinda knew my husband wasn’t a Godly husband but in all the ways he described was EXACTLY what my marriage was lacking 😢 And I realized I’ve never had a Godly man in my life and maybe that’s why I’ve suffered so much 😭 Even after all this failure , I still can’t help but think that God will see my hearts deepest desire (next to being with God) and bless me with a husband who will only bring me closer to God and never dim the light God put in me ❤ Thank you Pastor
Your 2nd Husband? Unless the first two husbands died or you divorce because of infidelity God won't send you another husband because you are living outside of God's will. Whoever files for divorce (except for infidelity) and marries another commits adultery.
It's a common thg., happenned to me & others ive talked with from a Narcissist to put the blame ..I'm" crazy"but i stick w the Lord Jesus thru it all!!Husb/Wasband falls away.. actually googled this ..means they don't understand or have the right words to explain..
This felt like a huge blessing to listen to, i’m 24 and i want to treat my gf as honorable as you treat your wife 🫡 Pray for marriage coming soon 🎉!!!!!
@@Romns1513 Cherish her like a little 5-year-old girl but don't have sex with her like a real woman ! Married men have no right to sex anyway. They don't get married to keep safe from temptations by knowing their wives regularly , according to their needs. Feminist gospel of Satan .
@@Romns1513 Yeah and let her resist you in bed . Cherish her rebellion and do as if you had been created for her , not the other way around. Turn God's order upside down , blaspheme his word .
I'm just kinda starting to look towards God out of curiosity because of something huge that happened that changed my life. The takeaway for me here is that I am a long way from being the man I need to be. I'll listen to this a few more times because I started taking notes when you got my attention.
To, anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind right now. May clarity replaces confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life. God bless you ♥️ ♥️ 😢😢
This message really touched my heart. I’m in the middle of a divorce that I don’t want. The part about asking questions and really listening and allowing her to talk really spoke to me. I struggle with that. Thank you for your obedience to God and for speaking Gods truth.
I’m a step behind you, my wife doesn’t think I love her because of the listening suggestion. Men are typically problem solvers. You tell me a problem, I’ll give you a solution. They don’t want the problem solved, they want understanding, sympathy and a shoulder to cry on. My wife has all but left me, we’re still together as Christians, having made a pact in marriage with the Lord. I’m trying my best daily to work on the 5 Ls Pastor Vlad outlined. I’m praying for you David, and everyone else struggling with their relationships.
@@Sam_Mebaneperhaps watch the movie "fireproof" either together or alone. It's hard to save a marriage as you basically have to work through a backlog of failed communication.
@@dodopson3211 thank you! You're the second person in as many days to recommend that movie, which we own. We watched it together a few years back and I will make sure we watch it again together this week. We had a 4 hour conversation Saturday night and a fantastic guest preacher at church yesterday, RT Kendall which really hit home for us both (as well as the entire church by the looks of it). You are 100% correct in the failed communication department and I appreciate the advice! God Bless!
I'm just starting a new relationship and the man God put in my life is all what you spoke of. Thank you for speaking on this. It helped any doubt I had.
This was such a blessing, even though it was for husbands. I am not married. But this helped me to look at me to be the wife for this kind of husband. Thank you.
I’ve neverrrrrrr heard a pastor come right out the gate so strong about the role of men in marriage. WOW! 👏🏾👏🏾 the sermon about women was very helpful, and the tone was tender. This is direct and straightforward! They knew their target audiences for each topic!
Or pleeeese don’t. It’s severely lacking. All I heard from him was that men are to work hard and be good supporters, women are to be in obedience “in everything.” He didn’t even come close to what Vlad and Lana have revealed in their messages to men and women.
Seriously! It actually was targeted and I agree with you that the message for women was more tender. I didn’t think about this until you pointed it out. The Holy Spirit knows what he’s doing!
Imagine if young single Christian women knew to look for these qualities, many churches ONLY focus on the women's role. That why we need to seek the word ourselves
@@TheMelvinFamily-vs5sr If you seek the word for yourself , you will not see such thing as the "role of a godly husband" because the Bible never focuses on the man's conduct towards his wife but does eaxctly the opposite. And there's a reason for that : God made the woman for the man and because of him , to satisfy him first. The man was not made for the woman. All the sermons who butter up women and lead to massive henpecking cannot be inspired at all.
Im not married yet, but this sermon has dealt with me brutally. I'm glad that I've had the chance of seeing it as i will start to apply it in my daily life and in my life. Striving to become the man that Christ has set me out to be. Thank you so much.
Amazing, I immediately sent this video to my husband, we just got married and we started watching this series and we have received so many blessings in the form of lessons from this series. How to love and treat each other that is pleasing to God. I love it!
This was a blessing to me! I would always say if only she would treat me better I’ll treat her better. I now know that I need to keep serving her treat her like the Queen she is and she will eventually change and treat me the same! Thank you Pastor! This was well needed!
So you are under the expectations if you "treat her better" that she will change? That's still putting a condition on love..... How about considering serving God and then start to see how you view the world differently..... You can't "change" someone other then yourself for God.
She may never change. The sooner you realize that the better you’ll be. If you still have it in the back of your mind that she’ll change you’ll both be miserable :(
@jesusteevino6936 Nothing could be further from the truth. You Western men are such naive blue pill guys , lied to by the post modern FEMINIST church that has nothing godly and good to say to men , husbands and fathers anymore. You have no idea that a woman never reciprocates love and respect as men do. The more you trat a woman like a queen , the more she will despise you because you won't be a man in her eyes. That is why it is always women in every biblical instruction on marriage that are told to submit FIRST. Check your Bible instead of swallowing such non inspired sermons . It is the wife who has to be submissive to win her man to salvation 1 Peter 3 . NOT the opposite. Because the woman was made for the man. Not the man for the woman. That is also why the Bible never focuses as they do (this video is dreadful) on a husband's conduct towards his wife but always does the opposite. You have a Proverbs 31 woman but no Proverbs 32 man. Who can find a VIRTUOUS WIFE the Bible asks. Never who can find a virtuous husband . So , all that has been added to butter up females and go with the flow of their wicked rebellion is unscriptural , carnal , devilish. Just as this video when he blames a man for forcing himself on his wife when the treal culprit is the WIFE who resists her husband in the marriage bed that should be undefiled. But women today defile and spill everythign they touch because they don't keep their place anymore. Those so called pastors always put the emphasis on "love" and emotions , which allows females to take over so malicioulsy , so subtly but never a word about SEX anymore !! Sex , biblically , is the reason why God allows his sons to get married (1 Co 7:4) but it is completely silenced. Work of darkness. Devilish. Marriage is now a place open to all kinds of temptations (1 Co 7:5) . Cuckoldry is on parade . If MARRIED men cannot "force themselves on their wives" , sex is free and opened up for their lover's wives. Where on earth has male honour gone ? Where on earth has male sex drive gone ? Approved and blessed by the Lord . Psalm 127/128 Proverbs 5:18 . You are bashed over and over by all that wicked churchianity but you ask for more. Sounds that men today are so mentally feminised that they have taken on the masochistic part of the female psyche. He shall rule over you . I will greatly increase the pains of your childbearing Genesis 3:16 And the man in the vid says that a man who forces himself on his wife causes her pain ? !! lol Those men have no idea what delivery looks like !!!! A female body wets constantly so that the woman does not experiment too much pain in case of rape. Recent surveys have revealed that mystery. That's how God made up female biology. But men are totally clueless. They treat their women with kids gloves instead of taking them vigorously like real men. No wonder why marriages don't last anymore.
@jesustrevino6936 Sorry but you have it all backwards. Take a look at proverbs 31 and see how this wife behaves and why she is praised by the Lord. She's not a "queen "if she does not treat you as she should. She is to submit FIRST. Every marital instruction starts with "wives , submit" . ALWAYS. You'd know it if you read what is written instead of listening to those fallacious teachings who put women first and men second , giving men a fake status of leader , a mere figure head at the mercy of his wife's whims.
@@stevenrogersfineart4224 How about telling her about her DUTIES for a change ? How come the BIBLE -that is not preached anymore always starts off with "wives submit "and in anyway with what they dare to teach , which is highly unscriptural and emasculating ? Because the submission of wives is key to a blessed marriage. According to the BIBLE -once again not preached anymore in our brave feminist new world , any submissive wife can win over a man with harden heart 1 Peter 3. The contrary ( ie what they preach all the time !!!) is never ever to be found in the Bible . No where does the Bible tell men if they act that way they will win over their wives. Never. So , all those charlatans can preach what they want and like since no one checks in the Bible to see if it's accurate. We have become modern illiterate fools hypnotised by pulpits and videos but not people of the Word anymore. It is so SERIOUS that any shyster can show up in a pulpit and start to spew the feminist lie of "sexual abuse" in MARRIAGE , no one reacts vigourously . No MAN takes back his legitimate right and tell those shysters to mind their own business because what happens between a husband and his wife is private and only the Lord witnesses it and blesses it. No husband to stand up for their GOD GIVEN right to sex (1 Co 7:4/5) , no one who says as written that marriage guarantees free access to sex and is a sin fix , a shield against carnal temptations. I am appalled as a woman.
What an incredible reminder this is. I fell short on a couple of these and almost lost her, and now it's crystal clear why. Thank you for reminding me of my duty to be a biblical man.
Thank you Pastor Vlad. My wife and I both watched this sermon and your sermon on 5 Roles of Biblical Wife last week. Although we do have a good marriage, this has opened our eyes as to how much better it can be! I know I have a few things that I can most definitely improve on! God bless you and Lana, and your ministry!!!🙌🙌🙌
Thabk you so much. This message was something i needed to hear. For years in high school I had a girlfriend who cheated on me multiple times and it broke me. Then a month before graduation, a beautiful woman walked into the class i was in and then we ended up going to prom together. I felt something so strong with her and we loved one another. After five years being together we got married and that was the best thing because i got to marry the love of my life. Being with someone was scary because of the way I was hurt before. Throughout my life I had many family members who got divorces and that really affected me. One thing that I had to learn was that although those things happened it wasn't going to happen to me. I've been praying and rebuking everything that any of my family members had issues with I've been praying against that in my life and in my marriage. Everyday I compliment my wife on how amazing she does. She does so much for our daughter and I and I am so thankful that God brought her into my life. As her husband I always tell her how thankful I am and how beautiful she is. Being married to your best friend is the best.
You and your wife are a blessing to me! This was my very first time listening to your preaching and I absolutely fell in love with the way you both preach! I sent this sermon plus another two to my adult kids and their spouses I haven't heard from them yet but I'm praying they listen together as husband's and wives. My husband and I have been married 41 years and have never heard any preacher here present sermons of marriage as you do Pastor! I could just go on and on but I'll let you both know when I hear your other sermons, you can bet on it! May our God the Father continue to bless you one-hundred fold with more and more daily living wisdom!
@prisc2783 Are you too blind or too proud to see that he is just buttering up women instead of holding them accountable ? The church has gone down the drain in 50 years under feminist pressure . Demons have hijacked the church system. Western faith is a joke. Christ is not around anymore since gynocentrism is not his way at all.
I love the story of a guy who gave 8 cows because his wife is worth 8 cows not 1 cow. Christ died for us. We are worth His life and that’s just a heartwarming and comforting revelation to me.
As a woman, married for 25 years with 4 children, I have never felt so close to God describing me as a person as a daughter and valuable partner. 😢 If only more husbands could heed these lessons there would be less divorce. ❤🙏🏽 Thank you!
@@electric5hadowWhy do women file so frivolously? Because men dont initate it while they cheat and abuse, so the wives are fed up and leave. Women dont want to but what drives them to leave, especially Christian women, is due to narcissistic abuse from the husband who rather than acting as a Biblical leader, his demons take advantage of the household authority role and suppress his family. Because men stand in the way between diabolic and his family, they are more likely to be tempted by the Devil and the fact that many men don't fully commit to Christ, they fall under the Devils dominance and attack their families. Generations of husbands and fathers abusing wives and children, leads to children who have a distorted view of fathers and men in general, they become atheist and feminist. It isnt the fault of media and society that created atheism and feminism, it is the fault of failed male biblical leadership that set the fire on societys downfall, the media uses that to their advantage by adding fuel to sinister male roles. Fathers are supposed to be the pathway to God, Men are the closest in Gods image and if women and children dont have a Godly man as an example, their view of God will be distorted.
Samantha you choosing a lukewarm man was on you. No one has to end up with a selfish lover if they use discernment of the Holy Spirit when picking a spouse
This the type of sermon u wait a lifetime to hear. I'm so broken over the lack of care I've seen in marriage, fatherhood and church family. May I be able to minister to those who need it in my last season of life and share what I didn't know. Thank u pastor and yr wife as well. So blessed and affirmed by this sermon. Sometimes God is the only one that understands what you need❤
Thank you Pastor for calling a spade a spade…Never heard a Pastor call it as bravely as you do… Not a moment’s hesitation in consideration of tickling men’s ears or fragile egos. Or their inclination to infidelity… Can’t take my hat off frequently enough in salutation to you Pastor… Never heard you before but I have subscribed to your programme…
What stood out to me was when you said that the devil would send assassins to you to kill your marriage, and all the ways you talk about loving your wife. God Bless You. I needed to see this so I can treat my partner how she deserves to be treated. Amen.
I enjoyed your message. I messed up my first marriage and I am suffering for it. I am going to take this message to heart and apply it to my next relationship. Thank you.
If would’ve heard this message a year ago we didn’t get divorced for sure. But I will share this sermon with my kids. I don’t want them to make mistakes like I made. God bless both of you ❤
@mele0415 Yeah go on , tell your kids that a married man has no right to sex according to Jesus who lets his sons get married just to face a dead bedroom . Yeah tell them that abominable lie from the pit of hell and tell them that it is God breathed. Satan loves you.
I really enjoyed your sermon. I learned a lot, not just about the man but the woman. Not just about the husband role, but the wife's as well. It has given me clarity and peace about a lot of things. Thank you and may God continuously bless you and your family. 🙌🏿🙏🏾💜
@bobrichardson1017 "God intended me to be for her" Wrong as usual. God made the woman for the man. Not the man for the woman. This is false teaching. Feminism posing as Christian wisdom. It is wrong as can be. Does your wife obey you ? Does she do good everyday of her life ?
Thanks for your response. And yes she does. And while I agree with your pointing out that she was made for me and not the other way around, I also have to agree that I am to love her in such manner that Christ loves the church that he gave his life for it. That is a tall order. God continually does things for the bride of Christ. We must also continually be first in our home. First in our marriage. First to serve. First to be responsible.
@@bobrichardson1017 Responsibilities , duties ... as if a head only had duties . Have we ever seen a head with no right and power and just duties ? So , where have the rights of the husband gone in this day and age ? Especially his God-given right to SEX if you know what I mean ? Did not you hear this feminist blasphemer say that JESUS does not give permission to a MARRIED man to have sex with his own wife ? 1 Co 7:4/5 Proverbs 5:18 How can men remain silent and just take it ?! Just take the lie , the slap in the face without reacting , the amount of vitriol , of hatred ? And all this is done in front of us women and wives supposed to reverence our heads in awe !!!! It is pure evil brother. Even me a married woman who is in submission , I do have a right to sex (Exodus 21:10) ! All the more so my husband and ALL husbands who are in authority !! Men who don't stand up for their stolen rights are no men in my eyes sorry to say.
@@framboise595 “first” yes. Correct. I didn’t think that part was even brought into question. There is a list of priorities that God has given us. He is always the first. Always.
Everything about this sermon was amazingly helpful! As women, we need to hear this message just as much as men! Thank you for sharing what a godly man/husband should be like! I believe marriages will be much more blessed if we fulfill our specific godly roles as husbands and wives!! Thank you so much for sharing! May God bless you, your family, and your ministry!
What a wonderful sermon.. I'm 18 years of age and I am walking with the Lord Jesus in my life ..This sermon has really changed my paradigm on how to love and care for my future spouse just as Christ loved the Church .. I feel so overwhelmed with love that is pure just as the one God so loved me with and I'm going to preserve it for my God given wife .God bless you pastor .
Wow, praise God! Thank you! 🙌🏼 The beautiful 8-cow wife story reminds me of the Irish folksong Óró Sé Do Bheatha Bhaile, and in it, the phrase "b'fhearr liom thú ná caed bó bianne" means, "I'd rather have you than to have 100 dairy cows." Jesus paid the price for us, and only when we let that sink in and let His love change us, we will grow anew in Him. If anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation, because to be loved is to be changed for the better in continual growth, and you can continually grow in Jesus if you accept a relationship with Him! :)
Beautifully done, Pastor Vlad! This is also helpful for women to understand their husbands. "Good" is a perfectly acceptable response in their eyes. Many simply don't know better!
I grew up in the church and fell off when I left home. As a man all of these things seems like common sense to me. But I know it isn’t to some. Great message and this is the message men and woman need married or not!! Thank you!!!
@Shannon-im7re So MARRIED men need to hear what Lucifer wants them to hear ? That they have no right to sex ? See how wicked Vlad's teachings are from a biblical perspective ? Those who agree with such infamy have never opened a Bible at all. Nothing is more MALE CENTRIC than the Holy Bible. Why do you think male dominance is so under assault today ? Because Luciferians have hijacked the West .
i was scrolling through to listen to music. I am a divorced women and saw the caption of the sermon so I decided to listen I was blown away what a revelation for me, possibly would still be married if these were 12 years earlier. Thank you now I will listen to the 5 Roles of a Biblical wife. Love your preaching style and biblical scriptures to back up what you're saying I have subscribed and will listen to more sermons for sure.
We love preaching and it really help our marriage after listening and learn how to put into application. May God bless you and your family. I rank this teaching 100 percent. We really appreciated.
Thank you so much Pastor Vlad!!! Warmth Greating in the name of our Saviour Jesus Christ . I'm a young girl pursuing BA final year.. Enjoying & learning lots of lesson from your sermon..... 😇though I listen to all your sermon I never leave any comment. So, it's my first time leaving my comment😁 Lots of Love, prayer and blessing for your church and your family from India (Nagaland).....
It opened my eyes to what a true Christian husband and man should be. My mind is blown on how I couldn't properly understand Ephesians 5. It was like a lightbulb went off in my head. I'm 41 and married and I hope I didn't figure this out too late. I pray my wife forgives me and allows me to be a true Christian husband and man. Thanks for the message.
@michaelrichter8878 The almighty wife who runs the show and the simp who supplicates for forgiveness and begs for sex .. Satan's masterpiece. Modern unbiblical marriage at its highest. You realise this man said that JESUS does not allow married men to have sex with their wives when they need it to keep safe from temptations ? You realise how evil this teaching can be ? Can you tell us what men get married for from a biblical perspective ? Would you go to a restaurant that would tell you that you cannot eat ???????????????????
Love you're personality, honestly, sense of humor . I love your guidance,wisdom. I like how you delivered your message(visually see and felt). First time hearing from you and I'm truly blessed to have you impact my heart the way you have. Keep raising up true gentleman whom will commit to the Lord and their families. Thank you so much, may GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
what a wonderful teaching! I get a lot of things ,a pearl, out of this sermon. may God bless your ministry and helps you to reach and enrich many people. may God enlarges your boundary. and be a means of healing for many wounded marriages.
@abelnigussie566 It is "wonderful teaching" for MARRIED MEN to hear from emasculating pulpits that they cannot have sex with their wives because Jesus does not give them permission ???????????? If I were a man I would be horrified to hear such a satanic lie.
It was Validation and Confirmation that I am on the Right Path to HIS Glory!!! I AM PROUD TO BE THAT HUSBAND WHO FOLLOWS ALL 5 BEFORE I EVEN HEARD THIS SO THANK YOU SO MUCH for that Confirmation you have given me!
This was amazing. I sent it to my fiancé. What a blessing and it had me laughing too! You and your wife are adorable. May the Lord richly bless you both and you’re ministry.
@Tinkerginamama This is so amazing ! You have crate blanche from this "pastor" to do as you please in the marriage bed ! You can withhold sex , you will always be told the MAGIC FEMINIST MANTRA of "sexual abuse" if your husband wants take back by force his legitimate rights to sex. How amazing really ! What a blessing to realise that I am a woman and can do anything I want with no accountability from my husband who is 100%servant and 0% leader. Oh how amazing ! Satan has put everything upside down. Now I am the real leader and my husband is the hen pecked follower who marries for sex (1 Co 7:4) but is told that he cannot have sex . DEMONIC.
I started watching this sermon while my "husband" was on the couch playing on the phone and after 15 minutes or less he got up from the couch and started fighting, asking if I thought he was not a good leader. I think the holy spirit spoke to him
The fact that you put your "husband" in quotes tells me that there is some subtext there that you might need to work on as well. Not saying he's perfect, but my mother used to do the same type of thing to my dad (intentionally read certain scriptures to him, or listen to sermons in front of him that she would claim was "the spirit" talking to him), and everybody knew she was using things as manipulation tools toward him, and playing mind games. Not accusing you of anything, I'm just wondering out loud if that's what you may be doing. He's either your husband, or he's not, he can't be your "husband".
Don't talk passive aggressively about him or towards him. Convey your needs in a respectful manner. It seems to me that you play a role in bringing him down.
Don't talk passive aggressively about him or towards him. Convey your needs in a respectful manner. It seems to me that you play a role in bringing him down.
Don't talk passive aggressively about him or towards him. Convey your needs in a respectful manner. It seems to me that you play a role in bringing him down.
This was a blessing in reminding me to compliment my wife more, setting time aside for her and just paying more attention to the little things that mean a lot to her.
@aaronrelacion4169 Sure , marriage is all about those vanities to please females and put SEX on the back burner . For men who don't know their wives sexually , the Bible says , beware that another man does not come and take her .. Deuteronomy 20:7 God is good to his sons but modern pulpits are filled up with wolves in sheep clothing.
Thank you, thank you , thank you! This is exactly what I needed to hear. I have been in such a dark season of my life, this message randomly appeared on my feed at exactly the right time. God is so good! Amen!
@@boaphone6317 This is where you and me diverge. It does matter and a man can be moved. Why do you think in the old testament God warned the Israelites not to marry women from the nations around them? Because He knew it would cause the men to go astray. Look at what happened to Solomon in the Bible. It's important to be equally yoked and who the woman is are just as important as who the man is.
@@deadcell1 true to a point, solomon, king david and many others were led astray because thier eyes were no longer singled to God. Thier hearts led them astray not women.
@@boaphone6317 They went astray because of the influence the women had on them. God knew this and this is why He warned them. You are putting to much emphasis on the man as if he is absolute and cannot be shaken. If a man is stedfast it's by no merit of his own but rather God who gives him the strength to do so. The same goes for the woman.
Saved my marriage!!! 4 days ago my wife said she wasn't inlove with me anymore and wanted to separate. The next day I found this video. In only three day implementing the word my wife and I are feeling very different and are both fighting for our marriage.
I am happy to inform that my wife and I are better than we've ever been. Communication understanding and respect are crucial.
@@mannyalicea8079
SUBMISSION of the wife is crucial. But it's not taught anymore. You are nothing but another manipulated man , subject to your wife's whims and changing emotions.
You are not the ruler. She is. Too blind to see how you are being manipulated like Samson with Delilah ?
The fact that she wanted to separate just shows how ungodly her moves are.
Anyway marriage in the West today is a sad joke. No sin fix anymore. Not about sex and keeping away from sexual immorality , not about growing and multiplying , about MEN having their quivers full as the BIBLE says .
It is about godess woman and her changing whims and feelings.
It's not about her DUTIES anymore.
Women in our brave feminist new world now just have duties in the workplace and submit to strangers. They have no duties anymore towards their husbands .
It is PURE EVIL and God is not fooled believe me.
@@mannyalicea8079marriage is all about communication. Congratulations for saving your marriage.
Praise God!
Praise God
Absolutely love it! I’m 19 and trying to become a biblical man!
Keep going, brother!!! I will be praying for you! 🙏🏻✝️❤️
Zaa0😊0
We are on the same boat, warrior of Christ!
Keep your standards extremely high. Make them well known from the very beginning. Don't fall into the trap of getting emotionally involved with a woman, that is their domain and it's more susceptible to deception. And you would be surprised how easy it is to make terrible decisions because of a woman. You will know in your heart the choice is wrong, but you'll do it anyway because of a woman. It's Adam and Eve all over again, it happens all the time. So I would suggest that you stay strong, stay close to God, keep your standards extremely high, and make those standards known from the very beginning. Most men fall into bad relationships and marriages because they get emotionally involved early and start lusting, wanting sex... then you're trapped with her after that happens. But trust me, after you've had sex 1000 times it just gets old. You will wonder how you ever fell for it. But what never gets old is the peace you have in Jesus. If you stay close to God, she will stay close to you. Everything will be better.
@@logicaldude3611 This is the most powerful godly advice that I need to hear. A godly woman will be more attracted to a man that put God first before himself and her.
Im a 17 year old boy,I have a girlfriend,im really greatfull that God led me to this sermon,I shall treat my girlfriend who I very much intend to marry with honor and respect,I will make sure she knows that she is a 20 cow woman,I am very much blessed pastor,May the good lord continue to bless your marriage
Praise God. And may He continue to bless you 🙏🏼
@mosesjack4721
Can a man who respects a woman too much still perform sex to her ? Isn't there a huge part of the masculine psyche that is totally overlooked
here ?
Where does the Bible tell men to respect their wives at all ? provide the chapter please.
Isn't respect linked to power and authority ?
Isn't it the woman who is called to respect , and even fear her husband Ephesians 5:25 ?
The Greek word translated by "respect" is phobos . Phobos = fear.
Do naive modern men realise that the more they respect a woman , the less she will respect
them ?
How can men be so "blue pill" , so naive , thinking that man/women relationships are all about "love and respect" ?
There is nothing further from the truth.
The problem is , modern churchianity teaches all it takes to wreck marriages.
It does not teach what the Bible teaches at all , even though it all look godly on the surface.
@mosesjack4721
You will be soooooo blessed when you face a dead bedroom....
halleluYah may God bless u and your relationship and may y'all get married if its his will halleuYah amen
@@awakenedmama2101
He is 17. He is awfully young. What can he know anything about the marriage bed and what awaits him if he is not in control ??
Satan is behind this heretic preaching because married men are deprived of their GOD GIVEN right to sex just as Satan wants it.
Do you realise how evil it can be ?
When God opened my eyes to the war on men that was going on ..not among heathens but Christians , I could not believe my eyes.
How will he do when his rebellious wife resist him in bed , the core of marriage ?? 1 Co 7:4
Yes God has opened my eyes to this ugly reality . There is something rotten in the kingdom of God ...
War on men , on their sexuality , on their authority , on what they represent in God's eyes. Man = image of God and his glory 1 Co 11
War on God in fact.
War on everything spiritual and moral in this decaying female-centric West.
Btw I'm a woman who loves the sons of God and cannot stand the way they are treated today. A woman who cannot stand the way women are never ever called out for their rebellion and proud unsubmission as Vasthi was (Esther 1).
I’m currently in a bad marriage situation due to my selfishness and ego. If I have watched this sermon earlier I may have avoided neglecting her emotional needs and caused so much hurt to her. I only now can pray to God to show me the way to heal this marriage and to heal her heart.
I will also learn to be a better husband through this sermon message
I pray that your marriage will heal🙏
God bless you!!!!
Amen
Amen!
Let us know how things go brother!
Your sermon completely changed how I look at marriage. My wife and I were about to get divorced, and I was so sure I was in the right. Your sermon has blessed me, thank God for you.
How goes the reconciliation?
Absolutely are you guys alright
@@aryikamcelvany7848 no, she ended up leaving anyway.
@@remingtondellinger3980
So now what do you think?
@@blakebunch4485 I think the most important decision a man will make is who to make his spouse. No matter what you do, some people will still love the world rather than God. Live and learn.
My husband really needs to see this message. Men and women of God please pray for our marriage 😞 14:10
Praying for you and him. Also, sometimes a woman needs to pray for Gods healing, use the courage He gives to make a stand for your value. You matter. Neglect, poverty and emotional abandonment, or any kind of abuse is not the action of a god-following man.
May our LORD and Savior JESUS CHRIST transform your husband
@@anamazingtime8354
Proud rebellious females use the word" abuse" at all times like a magic feminist mantra in order to pose as victims and take over .
Could not figure out how wicked my own sex could be until I read the Bible and confronted it with such evil teachings that call out men for imaginary sins (sexual abuse) but don't expose the real culprit , that is the wife who is unsubmissive , in and out of the bedroom.
@@syrwatdkhar6494
May our Lord Jesus Christ transform modern poisoned women.
So after listening to this, as a woman, I am both husband and wife. My husband is more like a malfunctioning wife. 6 years in and idk if this is God's plan.
10 minutes in & I’m in awe. This Pastor cuts no corners. He tells it like it is.
What's going on with husbands today?!🍇🌺🍇🌺🍇🌺
@@melaniemartin730 women aren't ladies
@TheRevenant why would a man step up if the women don't seem worth it? It all starts from women. None of these societal issues started escalating until women embraced promiscuity. No man should "Step up" in this climate.
You're not alone here
This preaching was trash
As a single man looking forward to marriage, I take all this advice not just one. Thank you Jesus!
@KB-rh4qp
You also take his FEMINIST LIES of "sexual abuse" ?
It is demonic to its highest since according to the LORD who is not believed and served anymore , marriage is a sin fix , a shield against carnal temptations 1 Co 7:4/5.
So , what's the point of marriage if sex is impeded ????????
Who ever impedes sex in marriage ? No one but Satan -and the rebellious wives who serve him.
In other words , the horrible lie of servant leadership has led to this :
Wife serves Satan
Man serves wife
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@KB-rh4qp
Do you realise that God made men with higher sex drives and that HE told men to get married and act on those urges ?1 Corinthians 7:4 ?
I am a woman, and I am truly blessed to hear this sermon.
God bless you Pastor.
@valdenemayers7018
If you feel "blessed" it is because you love being buttered up and be treated as a victim when you are the guilty one.
The insane modern focus on "abuse" gives rebellious women carte blanche to sin over and over .
This is the first time in 40 years that I have heard an annointed Pastor reprimand men very specifically about spousal abuse. It's about time.
One can tell that your wife is happy and content. That alone makes me want to listen to more of your sermons. Thank you Pastor: you are both jewels. 🎉🎉🎉🎉👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Barbara
What is a learner?🤲🤲🤲🤲
In to days world, anything that ruffles up a woman’s feather is considered emotional abuse.
@@rockkstah2550 ....true. As a true woman, I respect my husband. And he is the head of the household.
A Godly relationship is never 50/50. It should always be 60/40.
Where the husband and wife discuss things, but the final decision is always the husband's.
I have lived that way my entire life. Many women put me down, but they are miserable in their marriages, but my marriage is solid. Because God's Laws of Marriage are in my marriage.
@@DianeHasHopeInChrist there aren’t many Godly women like you around these days. Stay in the vine according to John 15 and you’ll do just find.
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I’m not a husband but I’m going through a break up from a 3 year relationship and I can see things I could of done better . God bless brother this was amazing
I'm going through a middle of 4 year relationship that's falling apart myself. We're on the breaking point of ending. Feels like a destroyed marriage.
Next time find a wife.
You have the humility to admit that. That’s a great start brother, nobody is perfect but if you have an open heart to Jesus, He will change you in all the right ways. Let Him be your guide, I believe He is already guiding you if He led you to this video. Wishing you all the best in life brother, invite God into your relationship and watch Him do amazing things.
Jesus please guide these men 🚹. In your guidance in Jesus name amen.
Just remember to always forgive yourself. Don't beat yourself down and over think the past. You've learned from things that you could've changed and, things you couldn't. God forgives and loves you, unconditionally ❤❤❤
I’m about to get married in a few months and this sermon is a blessing to me.
@bensmartinez4661
It is a blessing for MEN to hear that they cannot have sex with THEIR own wives as God wants it ?
Are you suicidal ?
Are modern men suicidal ?
Do they have changed the TRUTH of marital duty to satanic lies of "sexual abuse" in marriage ?
Congratulations 🎊 on yall wedding
As a married woman this really blessed me. I recognise a lot of these qualities in my husband and it makes me appreciate him so much more
Then you are blessed. They are rare.
A
Same here, I sent him a really nice text just voicing how much I appreciate his leadership in our family. We're blessed women!
Thats awesome that yall have a a Godly relationship. I just got married to my beautiful wife. I didnt know Gods word that well but i know God broght her to me. I know this bc i prayed harder than ever one night after a bad date and the next day i woke up to a message from my wife on Facebook. We where not friends on Facebook and she lived in the Philippines. We talked for 3 years i stayed faithful to her and she did as well as far as i know but i 100% believe her. I want my marriage to last forever so i need to learn how God want my marriage to be bc when we got married i truly believe that its a promise we made to each other and God and i dont want to break my promise to God. She has turned my life around so much she has helped me become more loving and and calmer. I love who i am now more than ever i find working is easier bc i am doing it for her to give her a better life its not pointless anymore i have a purpose and its her and God.
You are blessed. Praying God heals me and my marriage
It was time that a preacher male talks about the role of a husband instead of always takking of the role of a Godly woman. Women need this message of the role of a husband. It was about time.
I think there are even more videos on how men should act godly toward their wives and in marriage than how women should act godly in a marriage. Just my opinion 😊 I might be wrong
@@clintonibe not in Slavic churches
@@y.peffle2802 😮 didn't know that
@@clintonibe what's wrong with the women?💯💯💯💯
It's better to just be thankful for both kinds of videos. Rather than create an object of contention from the emphasis of one over the other.
Edit: I converted to orthodox Christianity, I find it strange to hold to doctrine that's directly linked to the reformers who had no relationship to the apostles, or the disciples of the disciples of the disciples, this individual here is clearly a product or protestant reformed theology and interpretations of scripture. I choose to follow the church fathers and the saints that are connected to Christ.
Thank you brother. I’m 21 and am just continuing to grow as a Christian man; I aim to be a masculine Christian man that can provide for my wife and family, and have been trying to find out how I can be a better leader for Christ for women figures in my life so I can be able to be ready for a relationship and eventually marriage. The 5 roles are powerful. What stood out to me ; at least one part because the whole video was crucial and I took a lot of valuable information from it was that labor pays the bills; not dreams . Amen. God Bless; thank you brother!
Enjoyed message so much. Left my husband after 37yrs recently. He is a narcissist and has verbally and mentally abused me. I always supported us and at times worked 2 jobs while he ran his own small engine repair shop. I went to church and took our 2 boys by myself. I can see clearly now I should have left sooner. I did everything for from cutting his toenails, setting up his meds scratching his back for hours every night etc just to have him call me fat and lazy and a wasted piece of skin. I feel so free now and such peace thanks to my boys for getting me out. Would love to have a husband like you described one day when I am healthier.
Wow. Sounds like you did absolutely nothing wrong in your marriage at all. You were perfect. Best of luck getting the absolute man of your dreams in your 60’s. You deserve it!
Yes there’s always two sides to every story. We have a lady in our church that sounds identical to this one. She got mad at me because I would not lend her emotional support and agreement in her bad mouthing her ex. I told her that I had not heard his side and Therefore I would take no side.
I just don't understand our pastor who basically took his side. I asked him to talk to him and said he would but after a while he would not respond to my text or calls. My church abandoned me when I needed them the most. My husband is very convincing and acts so much different in public. At home he would turn into another person. He is a narcissist. Why wouldn't God reveal this to my pastor. I'm so hurt
@@electric5hadowseems good to laugh at others misery.
That must be very patience al for you and God will lead you to recover from this.
Wow! This message was not only for husband,but for me , my sons, and my daughters. Beautiful explain the role of a husband under guidance of what God mentioned in the Bible.
People's marriages may be falling apart!☀️🌑☀️🌑☀️🌑
My wife and I had a beautiful relationship for many years.
And then, wr met!
If you say so.
Watched this as a single girl , praying to God my future husband comes across this 🙏🏽❤️
I was telling my sister the same thing
I'm a single boy. Are you still looking for a husband?
Pastor Vlad. I am 60 yrs old and married for 29 years. The principals you are teaching I have not heard for some time. It is so profound to have them reinforced with the powerful way you present them.
Kind regards.
Stadler
Maybe you should've been reading your Bible the whole time. 😂
@@jaredshowers1
Show me where the Bible says that a married man cannot know his wife sexually ? Come on !
You realise how wicked this teaching can be ?
Licking the boots of rebellious wives who are like decay in their husband's bones ?
How demonic this can be !
As a woman, I cried hearing this.
I am crying right now 😅
Amen
😢😢felt it too ♥️♥️
Me too!! Men need to year this! Such an anointed sermon 🙌🏼 all glory to God
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I'm so Glad I found this video. I've caused so much pain to my wife over the last 2 years. She finally asked for a divorce last week. She's been telling me about God this whole time and I wouldn't listen until now. I'm praying it's not to late. And I can save us.
@MR33MARKELL
HOLY women don't say anything against their husbands and don't divorce them.
Modern women are as holy as a pair of used smelling socks.
Please take a look at 1 Peter 3 and see who is the real culprit .
By far the BEST sermon I've seen on marriage in my LIFE!!! Praise God!
💯💯💯 I pray that God will send me a loyal husband to protect me. ❤
@@supernaturalvictorieswithsunny
No man can protect a woman if he does not rule over her. Genesis 3:16
What is preached today is pure nonsense.
Yiu wonder why men today don't care about women ? Well , just look at how wicked women are in the West . How useless and worthless they have become.
Why on earth would a man want to protect a woman who is unsubmissive and resists him in the marriage bed ??
Men always protect what is theirs , what belongs to them . Just as God . God protects and cherished his people until it rebelled . Israel rebelled and God had to punish them with violence.
But men who are told the lie of "sexual abuse" will quickly turn away from their wives.
You will wonder why marriages have fallen apart i the West.
Well , look in the direction of women , mothers and wives as usual. The weaker vessel first in transgression who cherishes sin and false gods (Feminism , Humanism ) but who is never made accountable anymore.
@@supernaturalvictorieswithsunny
To protect you from what ? From your sins and rebellion ?
You realise this man takes the holy name of Jesus to bash and trash husbands who should be revered and feared ?
You realise he teaches them that they have no right to sex with THEIR own wife ????
You realise that God gave ADAM a woman for him . Not the reverse.
That marriage in the Bible is always about the MAN and what his wife does for him first and foremost ?
I am getting married in June and this was amazing! It made me cry and really dig deeper into how I can love my future wife. Thank you very much for this! God spoke through you with this
How's it going now that you've been married a few months?
Hopefully you got a prenup and protected yourself. It's a crazy world out there.
Praying for you and your new bride. I wish someone had told me this when I married so please allow me to offer you this advice.
Communicate well and with grace and love. If she says to her friends, "we never fight" and you are only keeping your mouth shut so as to not rock the boat... you are instead building resentments that will implode your marriage later. And if you are building resentments and she feels that because you are non- confrontational that means she can't speak up... she'll be building resentments as well purely out of misunderstanding. So don't hold it in... by all means, calm down and think of how best to communicate your disappointments that are creating resentment- or rather WILL if they fester- rather than blowing up and watching her close off (as soon as she feels attacked, she's not hearing you... and vice-versa). Loving communications.
Last piece of advice is more of a life lesson: feelings aren't reality. If you FEEL she doesn't respect you because she never keeps house or maybe she spends too much and it is a slap in the face of your expectations... feelings aren't reality. Reality is ONLY that she's not cleaning and she's spending more money. How she feels and how you feel aren't reality, and if you could read her mind you might even find that your feelings are contradictory. It's always better to communicate well rather than make assumptions that threaten your heart and peace.
I will continue to pray for you and your bride.
@brandonbeck1946
"it made me cry"
Dreadful how effeminate and weak men have become in that Western world.
When I consider how manly , direct and straightforward biblical men were !
What have we done to deserve such wimps ?
Biblical men would not wonder how they can "love" their wives . They had sex with them ! Like real men. They were not afraid of their own male desires ! They had plenty of children (Psalms 127/128) , their marriages were blessed unlike modern marriages.
Men had such honour and ego that they would never cry or express their emotions that way in front of women
What on earth have western men become ?
@@graftme3168
How is it going now ? Has she already started to resist you in the bedroom ?
Don't worry. She has the blessing of the "pastor" in the video .
A free pass to sin over and over as she wishes.
You are the vile abuser if you coerce her into sex and bring her back to her senses and duties towards you (1 Co 7:4/5) but she is as pure as a snowflake , she is the "daughter of the king" , don't you know that you vile abuser ?!!!
The guilty becomes innocent and the innocent becomes the guilty one.
But it's ok , you just have to double down on "love" and let her control , emasculate and destroy you and your marriage.
I am an unmarried woman but as you were ministering this, I felt the Lord Jesus Christ love for me and how valuable I am to Him. Thank you!
@vaniquehouser5395
Incredible how such sermons fill women with pride and a sense of self satisfaction.
Not inspired as usual.
It's all about ME the goddess , my whims , my feelings .
I as a woman need to be worshipped and obeyed in place of God.
Whoever reading this, God never sends you into a situation alone, God goes before you, He stands beside you, He walks behind you. Whatever situation you have right now be confident. God is with you. Amen !
Amen!
Amen 🙏🏼
Thank you 🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾
I’m not saying god doesn’t love everyone and I’m not trying to troll, what does that apply to people like Hitler. Not asking if God loves him. On his mission as he is exterminating Jewish people. Does it really apply in both marriages that God is with both people going through it with them when one person is objectively and substantially abusing the other person. Because I think we all agree, it wouldn’t apply to Hitler. Or are we supposed to pretend like it’s both people in the situation or bad equally at fault I should say? Does this verse apply to the husband is literally beating his wife every day and she’s too afraid to leave because she may be murdered?
My gosh! Glory! Unmarried woman here, & this is the one video I'll NEVER forget! Thank you Pastor!!!
May God bless us with righteous husbands
@@XolisileMnguni Amen!
@@XolisileMnguni
Righteous husbands who have no right to sex ?????
Christ is not around anymore. It is getting clearer and clearer.
His word is bashed , baffled , mocked , his dear sons are deprived of the rights God gave him .
Treat your wife like a queen and she will treat you like a king. The points of a good husband humbled my heart and not allowing women to come in to your marriage in times of trouble. Instead, lean to another men or married couple for guidance. Going to share with my spouse and correct and humble myself to give him grace. Finally, when you confirmed to give him space to walk around the neighborhood to clear his mind. Doesn’t mean hang out and drink at the bars right! 3:07
I prayed today about my relationship and God showed me this video. God is good!! Thank you sir
Amen amen amen 🙏🏻 how I wish I heard this before I married a “Christian” man I met in my teens. Who spent 17 years drinking, partying, abusing and abandoning his family. I left severely depressed and suicidal. I pray God gives me a second chance to experiece what a true Godly marriage should be. But this teaching has shown me not to accept anything less than a man who will lead.
I'm in a similar boat. You've got strength to learn to live on your own, plus with God, we'll never really live alone.
Thank you for your response. I walked that road also, with adding cheating, and he married her a year later. I have gotten comfortable with being single. After this sermon, I also pray God allows me to experience a faithful Godly husband.
@@jacquelineluchion2956
Amazing how such "godly" women come on social networks to bash the husband they should revere and fear (Ephesians 5:25) , complain about everyhting , nothing good to say about him but never come close to the virtue of a Proverbs 31 woman ...
My husband has not provided for us in 15 yrs. I have been working and providing and I am stressed and tired. We are both christians but he does not think he has to work. This is a blessing listening to this message.
Yep
Why are men expected to provide these days? Women make just as much as men these days and graduate college at a higher rate. I expect women to provide just as much.
@AndyCopperfield so you can not get mad if your woman starts acting like a man.
Oh man I never cried so deeply until I watched this because I am on my 2nd divorce and I can’t help but think that something is wrong with me (because that’s what my current husband says) but then I hear what pastor says and I kinda knew my husband wasn’t a Godly husband but in all the ways he described was EXACTLY what my marriage was lacking 😢
And I realized I’ve never had a Godly man in my life and maybe that’s why I’ve suffered so much 😭
Even after all this failure , I still can’t help but think that God will see my hearts deepest desire (next to being with God) and bless me with a husband who will only bring me closer to God and never dim the light God put in me ❤
Thank you Pastor
Hugs Stephanie 🫂. You're complete in Yahweh. May His love overwhelm you today. 💛 Things will turn around, for your good.
The right one for you is out there Stephanie! Let go and let God!
Completely understand you, 😊
Your 2nd Husband? Unless the first two husbands died or you divorce because of infidelity God won't send you another husband because you are living outside of God's will. Whoever files for divorce (except for infidelity) and marries another commits adultery.
It's a common thg., happenned to me & others ive talked with from a Narcissist to put the blame ..I'm" crazy"but i stick w the Lord Jesus thru it all!!Husb/Wasband falls away.. actually googled this ..means they don't understand or have the right words to explain..
This felt like a huge blessing to listen to, i’m 24 and i want to treat my gf as honorable as you treat your wife 🫡
Pray for marriage coming soon 🎉!!!!!
God bless you! 🙏🏼
You are on the right track! Your future wife will be so blessed, and will be a blessing to you. Cherish her.
@@Romns1513
Cherish her like a little 5-year-old girl but don't have sex with her like a real woman !
Married men have no right to sex anyway.
They don't get married to keep safe from temptations by knowing their wives regularly , according to their needs.
Feminist gospel of Satan .
@@Romns1513
Yeah and let her resist you in bed . Cherish her rebellion and do as if you had been created for her , not the other way around.
Turn God's order upside down , blaspheme his word .
I'm just kinda starting to look towards God out of curiosity because of something huge that happened that changed my life.
The takeaway for me here is that I am a long way from being the man I need to be. I'll listen to this a few more times because I started taking notes when you got my attention.
To, anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind right now.
May clarity replaces confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life. God bless you
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Thank you and likewise
Thank you ❤ needed to read that. God bless you and the one's you love
Thank You
Amen❤Thank you, needed this🙏
Thank you so much
This message really touched my heart. I’m in the middle of a divorce that I don’t want. The part about asking questions and really listening and allowing her to talk really spoke to me. I struggle with that. Thank you for your obedience to God and for speaking Gods truth.
Praying for you and your wife.
May God restore your relationship. Tell her how you feel, don’t give up
I am so sorry.
I’m a step behind you, my wife doesn’t think I love her because of the listening suggestion. Men are typically problem solvers. You tell me a problem, I’ll give you a solution. They don’t want the problem solved, they want understanding, sympathy and a shoulder to cry on. My wife has all but left me, we’re still together as Christians, having made a pact in marriage with the Lord. I’m trying my best daily to work on the 5 Ls Pastor Vlad outlined. I’m praying for you David, and everyone else struggling with their relationships.
@@Sam_Mebaneperhaps watch the movie "fireproof" either together or alone. It's hard to save a marriage as you basically have to work through a backlog of failed communication.
@@dodopson3211 thank you! You're the second person in as many days to recommend that movie, which we own. We watched it together a few years back and I will make sure we watch it again together this week. We had a 4 hour conversation Saturday night and a fantastic guest preacher at church yesterday, RT Kendall which really hit home for us both (as well as the entire church by the looks of it). You are 100% correct in the failed communication department and I appreciate the advice! God Bless!
I'm just starting a new relationship and the man God put in my life is all what you spoke of. Thank you for speaking on this. It helped any doubt I had.
This was such a blessing, even though it was for husbands. I am not married. But this helped me to look at me to be the wife for this kind of husband. Thank you.
I’ve neverrrrrrr heard a pastor come right out the gate so strong about the role of men in marriage. WOW! 👏🏾👏🏾 the sermon about women was very helpful, and the tone was tender. This is direct and straightforward! They knew their target audiences for each topic!
try Voddie Buacham he has really good info on this topic
Or pleeeese don’t. It’s severely lacking. All I heard from him was that men are to work hard and be good supporters, women are to be in obedience “in everything.” He didn’t even come close to what Vlad and Lana have revealed in their messages to men and women.
Seriously! It actually was targeted and I agree with you that the message for women was more tender. I didn’t think about this until you pointed it out. The Holy Spirit knows what he’s doing!
Imagine if young single Christian women knew to look for these qualities, many churches ONLY focus on the women's role. That why we need to seek the word ourselves
@@TheMelvinFamily-vs5sr
If you seek the word for yourself , you will not see such thing as the "role of a godly husband" because the Bible never focuses on the man's conduct towards his wife but does eaxctly the opposite.
And there's a reason for that : God made the woman for the man and because of him , to satisfy him first.
The man was not made for the woman.
All the sermons who butter up women and lead to massive henpecking cannot be inspired at all.
Im not married yet, but this sermon has dealt with me brutally. I'm glad that I've had the chance of seeing it as i will start to apply it in my daily life and in my life. Striving to become the man that Christ has set me out to be. Thank you so much.
Amazing, I immediately sent this video to my husband, we just got married and we started watching this series and we have received so many blessings in the form of lessons from this series. How to love and treat each other that is pleasing to God. I love it!
Hope your marriage will be amazing!
@Jennifer I did, too 😂
Thank you. Didn’t realize how much watering I was lacking. Didn’t realize my efforts were not catering to HER wants/needs. Pray for us! GOD BLESS!
Dang! This man’s on fire 🔥 love this preaching. So many weak, effeminate men today - a plague of our time
Huge Blessing to me as a single woman. I know my worth and I’m worth 10 cows too! I have value, I am Loved and I am accepted.
Amen 🙏🏽 sister
The Bride Price , yes!!
This was a blessing to me! I would always say if only she would treat me better I’ll treat her better. I now know that I need to keep serving her treat her like the Queen she is and she will eventually change and treat me the same! Thank you Pastor! This was well needed!
So you are under the expectations if you "treat her better" that she will change? That's still putting a condition on love..... How about considering serving God and then start to see how you view the world differently..... You can't "change" someone other then yourself for God.
She may never change. The sooner you realize that the better you’ll be. If you still have it in the back of your mind that she’ll change you’ll both be miserable :(
@jesusteevino6936
Nothing could be further from the truth.
You Western men are such naive blue pill guys , lied to by the post modern FEMINIST church that has nothing godly and good to say to men , husbands and fathers anymore.
You have no idea that a woman never reciprocates love and respect as men do.
The more you trat a woman like a queen , the more she will despise you because you won't be a man in her eyes.
That is why it is always women in every biblical instruction on marriage that are told to submit FIRST.
Check your Bible instead of swallowing such non inspired sermons .
It is the wife who has to be submissive to win her man to salvation 1 Peter 3 . NOT the opposite.
Because the woman was made for the man. Not the man for the woman.
That is also why the Bible never focuses as they do (this video is dreadful) on a husband's conduct towards his wife but always does the opposite.
You have a Proverbs 31 woman but no Proverbs 32 man.
Who can find a VIRTUOUS WIFE the Bible asks. Never who can find a virtuous husband .
So , all that has been added to butter up females and go with the flow of their wicked rebellion is unscriptural , carnal , devilish.
Just as this video when he blames a man for forcing himself on his wife when the treal culprit is the WIFE who resists her husband in the marriage bed that should be undefiled.
But women today defile and spill everythign they touch because they don't keep their place anymore.
Those so called pastors always put the emphasis on "love" and emotions , which allows females to take over so malicioulsy , so subtly but never a word about SEX anymore !!
Sex , biblically , is the reason why God allows his sons to get married (1 Co 7:4) but it is completely silenced.
Work of darkness. Devilish. Marriage is now a place open to all kinds of temptations (1 Co 7:5) . Cuckoldry is on parade . If MARRIED men cannot "force themselves on their wives" , sex is free and opened up for their lover's wives.
Where on earth has male honour gone ? Where on earth has male sex drive gone ? Approved and blessed by the Lord . Psalm 127/128
Proverbs 5:18 .
You are bashed over and over by all that wicked churchianity but you ask for more.
Sounds that men today are so mentally feminised that they have taken on the masochistic part of the female psyche.
He shall rule over you . I will greatly increase the pains of your childbearing Genesis 3:16
And the man in the vid says that a man who forces himself on his wife causes her pain ? !! lol Those men have no idea what delivery looks like !!!!
A female body wets constantly so that the woman does not experiment too much pain in case of rape. Recent surveys have revealed that mystery.
That's how God made up female biology. But men are totally clueless. They treat their women with kids gloves instead of taking them vigorously like real men.
No wonder why marriages don't last anymore.
@jesustrevino6936
Sorry but you have it all backwards.
Take a look at proverbs 31 and see how this wife behaves and why she is praised by the Lord.
She's not a "queen "if she does not treat you as she should. She is to submit FIRST.
Every marital instruction starts with "wives , submit" . ALWAYS.
You'd know it if you read what is written instead of listening to those fallacious teachings who put women first and men second , giving men a fake status of leader , a mere figure head at the mercy of his wife's whims.
@@stevenrogersfineart4224
How about telling her about her DUTIES for a change ?
How come the BIBLE -that is not preached anymore always starts off with "wives submit "and in anyway with what they dare to teach , which is highly unscriptural and emasculating ?
Because the submission of wives is key to a blessed marriage.
According to the BIBLE -once again not preached anymore in our brave feminist new world , any submissive wife can win over a man with harden heart 1 Peter 3.
The contrary ( ie what they preach all the time !!!) is never ever to be found in the Bible . No where does the Bible tell men if they act that way they will win over their wives. Never.
So , all those charlatans can preach what they want and like since no one checks in the Bible to see if it's accurate.
We have become modern illiterate fools hypnotised by pulpits and videos but not people of the Word anymore.
It is so SERIOUS that any shyster can show up in a pulpit and start to spew the feminist lie of "sexual abuse" in MARRIAGE , no one reacts vigourously . No MAN takes back his legitimate right and tell those shysters to mind their own business because what happens between a husband and his wife is private and only the Lord witnesses it and blesses it.
No husband to stand up for their GOD GIVEN right to sex (1 Co 7:4/5) , no one who says as written that marriage guarantees free access to sex and is a sin fix , a shield against carnal temptations.
I am appalled as a woman.
2 Thessalonians chapter 3:10 “if a man will not work he shall not eat”
When Vlad brought Lana onstage 😭❤ I love how he's just honoring her and lifting her up. God bless your union! A wonderful and much needed message.
What an incredible reminder this is. I fell short on a couple of these and almost lost her, and now it's crystal clear why. Thank you for reminding me of my duty to be a biblical man.
Needed this more than ever after feeling like I’ve failed as a husband 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is an experienced godly husband. I m not even married yet but I approve of all of this. Glory to God.
Godly or henpecked ?
Thank you Pastor Vlad. My wife and I both watched this sermon and your sermon on 5 Roles of Biblical Wife last week. Although we do have a good marriage, this has opened our eyes as to how much better it can be! I know I have a few things that I can most definitely improve on! God bless you and Lana, and your ministry!!!🙌🙌🙌
Thabk you so much. This message was something i needed to hear. For years in high school I had a girlfriend who cheated on me multiple times and it broke me. Then a month before graduation, a beautiful woman walked into the class i was in and then we ended up going to prom together. I felt something so strong with her and we loved one another. After five years being together we got married and that was the best thing because i got to marry the love of my life. Being with someone was scary because of the way I was hurt before. Throughout my life I had many family members who got divorces and that really affected me. One thing that I had to learn was that although those things happened it wasn't going to happen to me. I've been praying and rebuking everything that any of my family members had issues with I've been praying against that in my life and in my marriage. Everyday I compliment my wife on how amazing she does. She does so much for our daughter and I and I am so thankful that God brought her into my life. As her husband I always tell her how thankful I am and how beautiful she is. Being married to your best friend is the best.
You and your wife are a blessing to me! This was my very first time listening to your preaching and I absolutely fell in love with the way you both preach! I sent this sermon plus another two to my adult kids and their spouses I haven't heard from them yet but I'm praying they listen together as husband's and wives. My husband and I have been married 41 years and have never heard any preacher here present sermons of marriage as you do Pastor! I could just go on and on but I'll let you both know when I hear your other sermons, you can bet on it! May our God the Father continue to bless you one-hundred fold with more and more daily living wisdom!
@prisc2783
Are you too blind or too proud to see that he is just buttering up women instead of holding them accountable ?
The church has gone down the drain in 50 years under feminist pressure . Demons have hijacked the church system.
Western faith is a joke.
Christ is not around anymore since gynocentrism is not his way at all.
I love the story of a guy who gave 8 cows because his wife is worth 8 cows not 1 cow. Christ died for us. We are worth His life and that’s just a heartwarming and comforting revelation to me.
WERE WE REALLY WORTH HIS LIFE?
MAYBE TO GOD..HE IS DEEPER THAN US!... HE MADE US
@@MD-cd7em indeed...period!💯💯💯
@@MD-cd7em We’re not, but He knows our shortcomings and still chose to give His life for us
Thank you sir this is what I need in my husband and i no my God will build that man for me and direct him to me🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
As a woman, married for 25 years with 4 children, I have never felt so close to God describing me as a person as a daughter and valuable partner. 😢 If only more husbands could heed these lessons there would be less divorce. ❤🙏🏽 Thank you!
There would be less divorce if women didn’t file so frivolously. The onus is on YOU ladies.
@@electric5hadowWhy do women file so frivolously? Because men dont initate it while they cheat and abuse, so the wives are fed up and leave. Women dont want to but what drives them to leave, especially Christian women, is due to narcissistic abuse from the husband who rather than acting as a Biblical leader, his demons take advantage of the household authority role and suppress his family. Because men stand in the way between diabolic and his family, they are more likely to be tempted by the Devil and the fact that many men don't fully commit to Christ, they fall under the Devils dominance and attack their families. Generations of husbands and fathers abusing wives and children, leads to children who have a distorted view of fathers and men in general, they become atheist and feminist. It isnt the fault of media and society that created atheism and feminism, it is the fault of failed male biblical leadership that set the fire on societys downfall, the media uses that to their advantage by adding fuel to sinister male roles. Fathers are supposed to be the pathway to God, Men are the closest in Gods image and if women and children dont have a Godly man as an example, their view of God will be distorted.
@@electric5hadowAre you saying women jump the gun
@@MichaelMack-k9g Yes, they jump the gun and they take little to no responsibility for their role in the marriage breakdown.
Samantha you choosing a lukewarm man was on you. No one has to end up with a selfish lover if they use discernment of the Holy Spirit when picking a spouse
This the type of sermon u wait a lifetime to hear. I'm so broken over the lack of care I've seen in marriage, fatherhood and church family. May I be able to minister to those who need it in my last season of life and share what I didn't know. Thank u pastor and yr wife as well. So blessed and affirmed by this sermon. Sometimes God is the only one that understands what you need❤
Thank you Pastor for calling a spade a spade…Never heard a Pastor call it as bravely as you do… Not a moment’s hesitation in consideration of tickling men’s ears or fragile egos. Or their inclination to infidelity…
Can’t take my hat off frequently enough in salutation to you Pastor…
Never heard you before but I have subscribed to your programme…
One of the best sermons I ever heard about the biblical role of man. Thank you so much for this!!
Real words for a real man. Thank you for the great message!
Father GOD lead my life and Thank You for always been my provider ! Amen
What stood out to me was when you said that the devil would send assassins to you to kill your marriage, and all the ways you talk about loving your wife. God Bless You. I needed to see this so I can treat my partner how she deserves to be treated. Amen.
The way he honors his wife❤️
I enjoyed your message. I messed up my first marriage and I am suffering for it. I am going to take this message to heart and apply it to my next relationship. Thank you.
If would’ve heard this message a year ago we didn’t get divorced for sure. But I will share this sermon with my kids. I don’t want them to make mistakes like I made. God bless both of you ❤
@mele0415
Yeah go on , tell your kids that a married man has no right to sex according to Jesus who lets his sons get married just to face a dead bedroom .
Yeah tell them that abominable lie from the pit of hell and tell them that it is God breathed.
Satan loves you.
Amen. Can't wait to get my wife, I'll treat her the best🙏
how old are you? i have 2 daughters...well ...a woman who will have u will be a lucky one. God bless blessed man.
Amen ! I pray I receive a man who prays like this… can’t wait to fulfill God’s purpose with him ! God bless you
Indeed💯💯💯💯
Treat her like a queen and she will treat you like a servant. Just warning you, you have no idea what you're asking for bud.
@@johndummy3370I feel like you may have had a bad experience, just have to pray on it and God will bring you the right one for you.
I really enjoyed your sermon. I learned a lot, not just about the man but the woman. Not just about the husband role, but the wife's as well. It has given me clarity and peace about a lot of things. Thank you and may God continuously bless you and your family. 🙌🏿🙏🏾💜
My wife and I have been married for 27 years and I found this as a great reminder and a refresher of the man God intended me to be for her. Thank you!
@bobrichardson1017
"God intended me to be for her"
Wrong as usual. God made the woman for the man. Not the man for the woman.
This is false teaching. Feminism posing as Christian wisdom.
It is wrong as can be.
Does your wife obey you ? Does she do good everyday of her life ?
Thanks for your response. And yes she does. And while I agree with your pointing out that she was made for me and not the other way around, I also have to agree that I am to love her in such manner that Christ loves the church that he gave his life for it. That is a tall order. God continually does things for the bride of Christ. We must also continually be first in our home. First in our marriage. First to serve. First to be responsible.
@@bobrichardson1017
Responsibilities , duties ... as if a head only had duties . Have we ever seen a head with no right and power and just duties ?
So , where have the rights of the husband gone in this day and age ?
Especially his God-given right to SEX if you know what I mean ?
Did not you hear this feminist blasphemer say that JESUS does not give permission to a MARRIED man to have sex with his own wife ? 1 Co 7:4/5 Proverbs 5:18
How can men remain silent and just take
it ?! Just take the lie , the slap in the face without reacting , the amount of vitriol , of hatred ? And all this is done in front of us women and wives supposed to reverence our heads in awe !!!!
It is pure evil brother.
Even me a married woman who is in submission , I do have a right to sex (Exodus 21:10) ! All the more so my husband and ALL husbands who are in authority !!
Men who don't stand up for their stolen rights are no men in my eyes sorry to say.
@@bobrichardson1017
First to serve GOD (Christ). Not a woman !
@@framboise595 “first” yes. Correct. I didn’t think that part was even brought into question. There is a list of priorities that God has given us. He is always the first. Always.
Loved this message. It not only ministered to me regarding my husband but also as my role as a wife.
Everything about this sermon was amazingly helpful! As women, we need to hear this message just as much as men! Thank you for sharing what a godly man/husband should be like! I believe marriages will be much more blessed if we fulfill our specific godly roles as husbands and wives!! Thank you so much for sharing! May God bless you, your family, and your ministry!
01:01:00 Your closing made me tearful...Awesome stuff, so happy I found this channel!
Gonna make listening to this sermon part of my daily routine until it sinks in 😂
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Have fun with that I guess.
Nice congrats &good on you mate! Loyal and noble haha
How's the sinking in progress going?! 😊❤
This was such a beautiful sermon. My first comment ever on TH-cam - to tell you what a gift God has given you. Thanks for sharing!
What a wonderful sermon.. I'm 18 years of age and I am walking with the Lord Jesus in my life ..This sermon has really changed my paradigm on how to love and care for my future spouse just as Christ loved the Church .. I feel so overwhelmed with love that is pure just as the one God so loved me with and I'm going to preserve it for my God given wife .God bless you pastor .
All I can say is
This message was AWESOME🔥🔥🔥🙏🙏
Praise God for this message. I pray more pastors/preachers start speaking out about a man’s role.
Wow, praise God! Thank you! 🙌🏼
The beautiful 8-cow wife story reminds me of the Irish folksong Óró Sé Do Bheatha Bhaile, and in it, the phrase "b'fhearr liom thú ná caed bó bianne" means, "I'd rather have you than to have 100 dairy cows." Jesus paid the price for us, and only when we let that sink in and let His love change us, we will grow anew in Him. If anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation, because to be loved is to be changed for the better in continual growth, and you can continually grow in Jesus if you accept a relationship with Him! :)
Fantastic!!! Completely love the way you preach and bring understanding to people of God's word.
Beautifully done, Pastor Vlad! This is also helpful for women to understand their husbands. "Good" is a perfectly acceptable response in their eyes. Many simply don't know better!
I grew up in the church and fell off when I left home. As a man all of these things seems like common sense to me. But I know it isn’t to some. Great message and this is the message men and woman need married or not!! Thank you!!!
@Shannon-im7re
So MARRIED men need to hear what Lucifer wants them to hear ? That they have no right to sex ?
See how wicked Vlad's teachings are from a biblical perspective ?
Those who agree with such infamy have never opened a Bible at all.
Nothing is more MALE CENTRIC than the Holy Bible.
Why do you think male dominance is so under assault today ?
Because Luciferians have hijacked the West .
My dad has these amazing qualities as a fatherandhusband, I love him and miss him every day 😢
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This can be a book, Pastor Vlad. So blessed by this message. 🙏
I got a loving tell-off and encouragement from my heavenly Father today. Thank you Lord for speaking!
I want to like this video a hundred times. never heard a sermon like this before!! God bless you Vlad, fantastic video.
i was scrolling through to listen to music. I am a divorced women and saw the caption of the sermon so I decided to listen I was blown away what a revelation for me, possibly would still be married if these were 12 years earlier. Thank you now I will listen to the 5 Roles of a Biblical wife. Love your preaching style and biblical scriptures to back up what you're saying I have subscribed and will listen to more sermons for sure.
Thanks!
We love preaching and it really help our marriage after listening and learn how to put into application. May God bless you and your family. I rank this teaching 100 percent. We really appreciated.
I miss a word we love your preaching.
Many blessings to your and your marriage 🙏
Thank you so much Pastor Vlad!!! Warmth Greating in the name of our Saviour Jesus Christ . I'm a young girl pursuing BA final year.. Enjoying & learning lots of lesson from your sermon..... 😇though I listen to all your sermon I never leave any comment. So, it's my first time leaving my comment😁
Lots of Love, prayer and blessing for your church and your family from India (Nagaland).....
Hey I appreciate this message I feel convicted I have to play this on repeat! 🔁 I’m also married and looking to grow in my marriage thanks brother
It opened my eyes to what a true Christian husband and man should be. My mind is blown on how I couldn't properly understand Ephesians 5. It was like a lightbulb went off in my head. I'm 41 and married and I hope I didn't figure this out too late. I pray my wife forgives me and allows me to be a true Christian husband and man. Thanks for the message.
@michaelrichter8878
The almighty wife who runs the show and the simp who supplicates for forgiveness and begs for sex ..
Satan's masterpiece. Modern unbiblical marriage at its highest.
You realise this man said that JESUS does not allow married men to have sex with their wives when they need it to keep safe from temptations ?
You realise how evil this teaching can be ?
Can you tell us what men get married for from a biblical perspective ?
Would you go to a restaurant that would tell you that you cannot eat ???????????????????
Another simp in action
"and allows me to be "
Who is in control ? SHE is.
Just like in Eden.
Curse .
Love you're personality, honestly, sense of humor . I love your guidance,wisdom. I like how you delivered your message(visually see and felt). First time hearing from you and I'm truly blessed to have you impact my heart the way you have. Keep raising up true gentleman whom will commit to the Lord and their families. Thank you so much, may GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
what a wonderful teaching! I get a lot of things ,a pearl, out of this sermon. may God bless your ministry and helps you to reach and enrich many people. may God enlarges your boundary. and be a means of healing for many wounded marriages.
@abelnigussie566
It is "wonderful teaching" for MARRIED MEN to hear from emasculating pulpits that they cannot have sex with their wives because Jesus does not give them permission ????????????
If I were a man I would be horrified to hear such a satanic lie.
It was Validation and Confirmation that I am on the Right Path to HIS Glory!!! I AM PROUD TO BE THAT HUSBAND WHO FOLLOWS ALL 5 BEFORE I EVEN HEARD THIS SO THANK YOU SO MUCH for that Confirmation you have given me!
This was amazing. I sent it to my fiancé. What a blessing and it had me laughing too! You and your wife are adorable. May the Lord richly bless you both and you’re ministry.
@Tinkerginamama
This is so amazing ! You have crate blanche from this "pastor" to do as you please in the marriage bed ! You can withhold sex , you will always be told the MAGIC FEMINIST MANTRA of "sexual abuse" if your husband wants take back by force his legitimate rights to sex.
How amazing really !
What a blessing to realise that I am a woman and can do anything I want with no accountability from my husband who is 100%servant and 0% leader.
Oh how amazing ! Satan has put everything upside down. Now I am the real leader and my husband is the hen pecked follower who marries for sex (1 Co 7:4) but is told that he cannot have sex .
DEMONIC.
I started watching this sermon while my "husband" was on the couch playing on the phone and after 15 minutes or less he got up from the couch and started fighting, asking if I thought he was not a good leader. I think the holy spirit spoke to him
The fact that you put your "husband" in quotes tells me that there is some subtext there that you might need to work on as well. Not saying he's perfect, but my mother used to do the same type of thing to my dad (intentionally read certain scriptures to him, or listen to sermons in front of him that she would claim was "the spirit" talking to him), and everybody knew she was using things as manipulation tools toward him, and playing mind games. Not accusing you of anything, I'm just wondering out loud if that's what you may be doing. He's either your husband, or he's not, he can't be your "husband".
Perhaps he isn't her husband yet and is only her boyfriend or fiance right now?
Don't talk passive aggressively about him or towards him. Convey your needs in a respectful manner. It seems to me that you play a role in bringing him down.
Don't talk passive aggressively about him or towards him. Convey your needs in a respectful manner. It seems to me that you play a role in bringing him down.
Don't talk passive aggressively about him or towards him. Convey your needs in a respectful manner. It seems to me that you play a role in bringing him down.
This was a blessing in reminding me to compliment my wife more, setting time aside for her and just paying more attention to the little things that mean a lot to her.
@aaronrelacion4169
Sure , marriage is all about those vanities to please females and put SEX on the back burner .
For men who don't know their wives sexually , the Bible says , beware that another man does not come and take her .. Deuteronomy 20:7
God is good to his sons but modern pulpits are filled up with wolves in sheep clothing.
So good! Bless you for blessing us with this wisdom!🙌🏾🙌🏾
Perfect! Thanks for the description ,thanks Pastor Vlad, HungryGen and Jesus!
Marriage is never easy...period!🌙🌙☄️☄️
@@melaniemartin730
Never easy because of WOMEN who struggle for power instead of submitting.
This preaching needs to be translated in SO many language!!
Thank you, thank you , thank you! This is exactly what I needed to hear. I have been in such a dark season of my life, this message randomly appeared on my feed at exactly the right time. God is so good! Amen!
It takes a real man to utilize these teachings in his life. Thank u for taking the time to do the lords work.
So what does a real woman does?
All that a woman does...doesnt matter what it is. A Biblical husband cannot be moved.
@@boaphone6317 This is where you and me diverge. It does matter and a man can be moved. Why do you think in the old testament God warned the Israelites not to marry women from the nations around them? Because He knew it would cause the men to go astray. Look at what happened to Solomon in the Bible. It's important to be equally yoked and who the woman is are just as important as who the man is.
@@deadcell1 true to a point, solomon, king david and many others were led astray because thier eyes were no longer singled to God. Thier hearts led them astray not women.
@@boaphone6317 They went astray because of the influence the women had on them. God knew this and this is why He warned them. You are putting to much emphasis on the man as if he is absolute and cannot be shaken. If a man is stedfast it's by no merit of his own but rather God who gives him the strength to do so. The same goes for the woman.
Great message!!! ❤❤ To GOD be the glory!!!