Anusja | Finding my birth mother
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ย. 2024
- A Belgian woman travelled 7000 kms for one meeting with her birth mother. Here's how her journey unfolded.
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Besides, mom and daughter here, did anyone notice how supportive her husband was in finding her mom out.
is that so tough.. every husband would do that for his wife
@@VinodKumar-mj5nm Well, I meant only for this woman here. Obviously, all the husbands who are willing to support their wives in every situation, are compassionate human beings. All the time it is not the case, right?
Yeah he is way too supportive
@@drnadiach1415 Why thank you ... :$
Ikr! He's such a rare ! 🥺
What about the mother who rise her so big, taken care of her for 27 years....
Hats off to her..
Yep , she is saying that she can show her kids who is her grandmother but she isn't, the Belgium lady who adopted her is her grandmother
@@cum242 - She said their INDIAN Grandmother. Try to pay attention
So true..I hope she’s content with her findings about her mom.
How many such kids realise the efforts of those who bring them up? Not to forget the pain when on growing up they at times become nasty.
God bless the Belgian parents who adopted her and giving her a good life. I salute them.
Buying a child nothing to salute. If they wanted to help, they could financially support the mother. That is something to salute.
@@anitahiawatha6060 what do you mean they bought her ? They adopted her, gave her a good life. Also adopting a child is not easy, so yeah they do deserve a salute.
@@anitahiawatha6060 you are a very hard hearted lady
@@mohamedgaba3289 aurengzeb ur ancestor was hard.
@@anitahiawatha6060 I am sure you are not greatful of anything in your life ,, wishing you speedy recovery get well soon lady 🙏🙏
Can we all appreciate the Belgium couple to raise so open heartedly
@Fire Heart a bengali adopted her
I am crying for those children who don't get adopted and never have any mother.
Very true...
i just cried bcoz I can't hold my tearsv😢
So true 👍
Den go ahead n adopt one ...don't waste tears !!
@@vardhaanshorts did i ask for ur advice?
The woman who helped through all this is very kind too..
She is lucky enough. She got a better place to live in and also see her mother .Just imagine what her life would be if she wouldn't have been adopted..
Right
whatever happening in our life is for our good life.
True 👍✅🥰
Before I say what I’m about to say, PLEASE KNOW THAT I’M IN NO WAY trying to be mean & I don’t mean this to sound like an attack on you!!! If at any point I make you feel this way, I want to apologize NOW because once again, I’m not trying to be mean & I’m saying this because I know that reading something online CAN come across the wrong way simply because you can’t tell the tone of something that someone types like you would when someone is actually talking to you in person!!!
With that being said, I agree with what you said BUT I wanted to point out that the way you worded the first line reads as if you think she’s being selfish because you say “she is lucky enough” & if that comment was about me, I’m just saying me as an example, I would think that you’re implying that I’m not thankful for having an easier life than what could have been.....!!!!!!!
Do you see what I mean? Again I’m sorry if I offended you because I wholeheartedly DIDN’T mean for that to happen! I also apologize for the long response but some people can be very nasty in the way they type over the most trivial of things & I just wanted to be really clear so that this didn’t happen in my response to you!!!!! 🙂
Then she would never want to see her mother again😂
Don't matter, it'll more better if she stays with her mother.
Deeply touching and respect your Belgian parents and your biological mother.
mani sutha Aur koi kaam nahi hai ke uske pass, bhai? Uski ab shaadi bhi ho gayi hai. Pati bechara piche piche phir raha hai.
@@MrSivansuresh lagta hai tere paas koi daya Maya nahi hai apne maa ke liye. Uss ladki ka sapna hoga apne maa ko dekhna jisne use janam diya toh kya galat hai usme. Aur shukar hai uska pati itna supportive hai uske liye. Varna tere jaise log ho toh ladki sapna dekhne se pehle hi tod de.
"Whatever the world will throw at me, I will manage. Because today I saw the example of a strong woman."
She is def a strong woman as she saved her child from being killed or pushed to prostitution which is usually the case for when a baby is is born out of wedlock. It gives me goosebumps
I don't think so because as usual a child born out of wedlock will always left at orphanage may be. Newborns are hardly taken to red light areas because they will never spent money to raise a child. So I think many child out of wedlock are being left in front of orphanages.
@@nabaninandi4140 yes, what u said is right and being killed, pushed to prostitution is too much in these type of situations
The woman was widow when she gave up her daughter for adoption. Please listen carefully to the narration before coming up with false assumptions.
@@jyotikijyoti we are not talking about the woman we are talking in general...
She made an enormous sacrifice to give her daughter a better life. That is the definition of an incredibly strong woman and an amazing mother!!! God bless her.
Hopefully anusja will help her mother..support her financially ..
She couldn't help her. If you watched the lady mentioned she had anusja out of marriage after she was widowed. In that sort of cultural setting she would have a lot of backlash and she would be on the streets and left for dead along with her child. So they had to go in disguise as surveyors so they could meet her and not let any of the community know, especially in her old age they would throw her out. That's the sad reality in such conservative societies.
Keerthana really? Thats horrible :(
It's not horrible. You just don't understand the culture. What is horrible is people in the west throwing their elderly parents into hospitals and nursing homes and never visiting them. This women gets to be part of society and her loved ones 24/7. Have you visited an elderly home in the west recently? Might seem like better care but not sure quality of life is there for those that never get visitors. This elderly lady will have 24/7 community support and visitors.
@@tengcansing9815 : not 100% according to me . They would gossip a week n all remains as usual as well.
@@k3nch3n3 in that filty vilage is not caring... sorry...
You all are so inconsiderate to judge her about helping or not helping her birth mother out. This is the ending they chose for the documentary. We don’t know what happened behind the scenes. Besides, she went there under the pretext of doing a survey. It was whispered to her mother that it was her child. No one else knew.
Absolutely
Agree. I’m so glad that this girl had a happy life.
So true my dear many souls are quite uneducated. May they see awareness sometime in their lives..I'm so happy she got what she wanted
@@meisha0392 wow how you spinned it on the survey. Like wtf can survey even matter when its your own mother involved. God I wish she would have helped her.
She spent a lot of money on travelling. They should have helped her. But I know most of the people in westren culture put their parents in old age home.
She says to her she is like ur daughter... Hug her / take her close...
Very emotional story. Belgian parents are also very important, they raised you very well. Your biological mother couldn't have raised you to this level in India.
Salute to your Belgian parents, we are glad to see one of our sister back in India after long time.
M crying to see this, how much sacrifice her mother did. We also respect to Belgium Couple who adopted and care this girl.
I don't know why people who get adopted are in search of their birth mother whereas the answer lies in front of them!! You might say that you are searching for the mother who gave birth to you from her stomach whereas there is your mom who gave birth to you from her heart 🔥
Adopted people feel rejection,and low self worth because they were given away,or abandoned. They need answers to why they were not good enough to keep.Also nowhere around them do they see anyone that looks like them,or reminds them of themself. It doesn't have anything against the parents who raised them and gave them a good life,they love and respect those parents. They feel more whole as a person once they have all the answers.
Yeah
@@reginaowens2971 they won't feel rejection if they r truly loved. That is a wrong assumption
@@lizhing8004 Iean that's probably a reason to adopt within races.
Otherwise the child will always be asking themselves as to why only they look apart from everyone in the family 🫤
Adopt with or without races it still doesnt matter. You'd only understand if you were adopted, period!
She is lucky to have a husband who was so caring and helping her in finding her mom...I think she should not leave her mom in that village but take her along with her...she is old and she is lucky to see her mom alive ...she should spend the last few years wit her mom..that would be a happy Ending..
No, not possible. Why would tip an old woman from her home, to move across the world and live in a society that is completely different? She was surrounded with family, had her own house, the family supports itself well enough to eat and the children can even go to school.
What I learned, was that no money in the world can replace love and warm people around you.
Also: by being adopted, she doesn't know the language, so there is no way to communicate. So, would taking her with us still be a good choice?
Sadly, as this is already 4 years old, the mother passed away two years ago. But again, surrounded by family after having a full life!
AGATE INDIA yes ur right
Yes u right
Didn’t you understand? Her mother was widowed, when she got pregnant with this girl. She went away from her village to have her, so no one in the village knew about her “shame”. They couldn’t announce to the whole world about it because of it, and maybe this is the first and last time they’ll meet - so the woman can live in peace without raising suspicions and her daughter can live in peace after knowing her birth mother.
How I cried at this..the heartache of a mother having to give up her child and a child living without its mother..
That's the most painful thing to happen to anyone.
How come she live without here mother!!!! She is adopted and loved by her parents. So its wrong what you said about"Heartache of a child without its mother".
@@nazil8326 Hi Nazil...yes no doubt she was loves by her adoptive parents and she in turn loved them.But she wanted to know her real birth mother and wanted to find out WHY she was given up.Her pain stemmed from being given up.Then she found her real mother and circumstances did not allow her to acknowledge publically that this was her biological mother and that in itself was painful.
@@muffledalla3121 , right.
@@muffledalla3121 u r using all the wrong terms ..which is so demeaning to the adoptive mother ....it shd b biological mother instead of REAL MOTEHR
a daughter would only know the importance of the smallest stone from mum's home.....🤱🤱🤱😍🥰😘🤗
I didn’t get the fact why she was sorry of ignored by the mom. No excitement at all. She met her causally, hugged her and lied down. Is it cause she was out of wedlock..
@@reyccagajria3625 Probably not. Even when you know that few things are out of your reach, you still tend to strive hard in order to fetch it for self.... her purpose might have been to just have a glimpse of her biological mother.... and if I have observed it right she (the daughter) has repetitively spoken about it as well...🤔
Shivani Sharma I was referring to mom not daughter. I meant as a mom she stared smile and laid down. There was not that intense hug, cry or emotion after seeing her daughter after so long
Yes
@@reyccagajria3625 because she is old and do you notice the medicine...you can't say that mom is not happy to meet her children..
The moment she touches her mother hand I started crying
Me too
Ok buddy
Same
God bless the loving daughter wanting to meet her real mother. Such genuine people. Thank God for everything.
She is not her “real” mother, she is just her birth mother. Her real mother is the one behind all those years of support that has gotten her where she is today.
This is so sad she can't even tell people thats her daughter. Very touching.
Please take her with you, at this stage she needs someone to take care of her, I'm flooded with tears.😢
I think they silently met her . They didn't want the mother to be exposed as she gave birth when she was a widow ... I can't imagine the plight of the mother ..
are you pakistani
@@drmeghanabagalkotkar.official Yeah, the society is so patriarchal that many widows , abandoned women, sent back women or unmarried women hide their pregnancy and health concerns during pregnancy out of people's fears ,nnot receiving cares and guidance and medicines, during pregnancy, amd have to give birth in secrecy in a secluded often dirty unhygienic place with no care or guidance and are culturally forced to abandon their new babies in orphanage forest, trees or roadsides cos they have no male only guardian to attach surname to, cos 'Single mothers' and their children are often targets for violence in such a male dominated society.
So, she may have chosen to keep her mother's identity a secret , so that the village people cannot molest her mum.
I see these videos and I'm nothing but grateful. Being raised by your biological parents, being able to know my individuality and knowing where I belong is a blessing. I understand what she might be feeling when she realized she's adopted ❤
After watching these, I am happy that I have a happy family, maybe we are poor it doesn't matter anymore 😁
are you pakistani
You can be poor financially,and be so rich in love. Love matters most to me.
@@coldblue5158 Bharatiya
@@reginaowens2971 I do care about our GDP per capita , Indians don't deserve this much poverty ..... we will fix that shortly.
My eyes also got tears when she met with her mother and started crying... I can also feel that far relationship between a birthmother and daughter ❤
I can so relate. This personal experience is akin to my own. I also was adopted. I wish I could find my birth father said My mother died in childbirth. I am from Trichirupalli, Tamil Nadu I was left at Catholic church in Trichirupalli. It would be a gift to find biological family.
@Mini Tnt thank you
@Mini Tnt I agree with you. And appreciate your reply 😊
Were are you now?? Even I'm from TN..
@@arumugamv2009 Melbourne, Australia
So do you not feel close to your adoptive family?
Very touching story. Great job, Anusja. Reminds me of a sweet girl I know around here. Also, the movie, 'Lion'.
Sam Ann yesss especially the ending
Me to
For everyone telling her to take her mother with her.....how can she? No one knows who she is and what their relationship is. No one knows she has a daughter and they did this whole "survey" thing so no one will suspect anything. As she said she just wanted her to know who her daughter was and she wanted to see who gave birth to her.
Exactly am watching this video now my feelings are same like u 😢😭
How can someone dislike this piece of happiness.
How nice! It's good that the daughter finally saw her mother, whether or not they see each other again, the daughter realizes that the mother gave her life and graciously gave her up for a better life...nothing could be better than that :). God Bless her
Heart melting but take her to hospital too please
Chansouda Lengsavath yah...helping her would be great...as she had her for nine mnth..n labour pain...
She couldn't help her. If you watched the lady mentioned she had anusja out of marriage after she was widowed. In that sort of cultural setting she would have a lot of backlash and she would be on the streets and left for dead along with her child. Her best course of action was to give the kid away. Thats why they had to go in disguise as surveyors so they could meet her and not let any of the community/family know, especially in her old age they would throw her out. That's the sad reality in such conservative societies. Besides its best to leave an old woman like her in their communal homes where they are comfortable and cared for modern medicine would put too much of a strain on them.
You people don't understand you live in a world far different from theirs. Why attack the young woman who traveled all the way just to find her genetic link. She doesn't owe that woman anything for just carrying her to labor, They don't know each other they're strangers. Her real mother is back home in Belgium. Besides there's nothing she could have done either way. Just because she lays on a bamboo mat out in her courtyard and moving slow with wrinkly skin isn't because she needs medical attention, it's because of old age. There's nothing you can do. She is a very old woman. Dragging her to a hospital won't fix anything it could actually have adverse effects they are probably used to herbal medications.
Dude! The whole family there looks fine? What are you on about? She is an old lady let her live her life. Leave the poor girl alone all she did was go on a search. If her mother really wanted to become acquainted she would have welcomed her with open arms not keep everything hush hush. They just whispered and went their own way. They had to act as surveyors not to gain the attention of the community. You are deluded man. Go and do whatever you want in. Give her rice I bet she's so poor! Oh poor woman boo hoo. Wake up dude many people live like her biological mother. They live amazing rich lives because that is their way of life. They are used to sleeping in the veranda, they live in huts in the country side doing cotton business. Just because it looks a certain way doesn't mean they are deprived of anything. Prejudice much?
Wonderful come let me clap for you! *claps*
I cried watching the video, the World is not fair. But everything happens for a reason. Stay strong & I'm happy that you have a good husband. God bless..
Am still crying
@@verygoodtrivedi8851 Don't cry, you're a strong woman.
So Caring husband and when he said "it just makes me happy to see that she is happy and she feels like she belongs here" I felt so much love and care in his voice ❤️❤️
That is so sad that even after 28 yrs, the birth mother can not openly acknowledge her birth daughter and she will have to die with that secret just because the society she lives in sees it as a shame.
Sad truth.. Unfortunately in India society is more important than family and heart
Bt y she cudn't achnowledge her daughter openly? Vats d prblm?
Ro Ja alright calm down there. She is just asking why she couldn’t openly accept her daughter. That could be because she didn’t understand or watch the particular part of the video. You’re getting way too rattled up over a comment that may have been a genuine question.
@@kebrah yeah Even i could not understand the story until i read this comment... that was a genuine question...
kebrah please don’t tell me to calm down. Then she should have asked the question properly where it could be understood.
Iam touched by the kindness of of her parents who adopted her and her brave husband who encouraged her to visit the mother. Thank u all
I am crying😖 If I would be her I would have taken my mother with me because she was living in a bad condition.
Ya even me.... Soo bad she left her mother there itself... It's soo weired.... Then y the hell she came all the wasy
Yeah! Maybe she thought to keep her secret of baby safe because they mentioned that when her mother gave her to them, she was widowed and nobody in that family knew about her.
@@mahamrana2408 soo weird
GOD knows best! What the matter was? We do just pray that,may both live happily.
None of you judgemental asses know what transpired after this moment, behind the scene... Stop assuming things, because you are being ugly! Just because you, wouldl do things a certain way, doesn't mean everyone should 🙄
I cried and cried watching this reunion. I would take my Mother away with me if I were her. Love and blessings to them both. I respect her Husband too who brought her so far to help her reunite with her Mom. There still are some good people left on Earth.
Birth mother is everything ❤ but I beleive paalne vala peda karne vaale se zyada bada hota hai, ❤ the one who owns you and take care of you is more bigger than the one who gives birth and leave
That birth mother dint even give her a hug or showed any happiness of seeing her daughter after long time. I think she should be happy and grateful to her adoptive parents who gave her true love and this good life to her.
I salute everyone here right from the biological mother who gave away her child for the better tomorrow for her, her adopting parents who are even more loving than a normal biological parents with a big heart to the ever loving and supportive husband to even the ACT. Thank you all.
as an adoptee this was so special. We just want to be able to look at someone who looks like us, we want to know our ancestry, we want to know our genetic line. My parents are my heart and soul, but their ancestors are not my ancestors
😒
srry just the end of the comment I'm rolling at :/ if you except it in ur heart then they probably are but eh, that's u.
I GUESS A PERSON IS NEVER SATISFIED
Exactly.
Yet in real life none of that matters in the least.I met my bio family and just had complete disgust.I want nothing from them and if I never saw any of them again it would not bother me.Oh yes what a connection.Rubbish
@@chetyoubetya8565 not all are bad people
Appreciate the efforts of the lady who helped with the reunion of the mother and daughter.
She was born lucky that she was not homeless, and found such a adorable parent and husband..orelse she would have been one of them from his own family...my eyes were full of tear seeing her mother in such condition. After giving up a child still life was so hard for her mother .
May what her mother went through and had to give her child to someone like this...doesn't have to happen to any other mother
That's what patriarchy does. A woman who births a child after being widowed is outcasted or traumatized by society. Atleast in rural areas it's prevalent. That's sad. Painful. But thanks to angels like her Belgian parents.
I'm thinking about her how she is feeling after seeing her mother is not able to get basic necessities of life despite being she has well living standards life . This is worst feeling for any child😫.
I literally cried watching her meeting her mother..
It was such a nice momemt
Dont forget the one who raised, nurtured you and supported you. They are your real parents.
The people judging the girl saying she should've "taken" her mother with her are ignoring the fact that it's not a piece of cake to just "take" someone away.
The meeting itself was done in the guise of a survey and what if the mother wouldn't want to leave her place and go with her ?
It's just so sad to see people passing judgement instead of being happy that she finally found her roots.
May their families stay blessed. ❤️
I am blessed to have a strong lady in my life... who is my mother n my mother raised me single handedly...She worked so very hard n still at this age also she is working just for my happy n stable life... My mother is the best feeling in my life... No matter whatsoever the reason cud be my mom Will never ever leave me for any kind of societal pressure... She is such a strong lady... So every mother should be brave n strong to raise her child with no fear of societal pressure... I feel so!
Hearts touching reality video...
Same I still doesn't not see my Father yet..
Tears are not stopping,well something even my daughter has the same story'for her life even.
Hope she helps her mom out instead of just meeting her and leaving ... Omg i could cry after watching this video
Only a daughter understands mothers pure love n I felt really happy that she got a chance to meet her mother
Lot of tears behind.........
Mom is mom....
Heart melting... That moment couldn't imagine.. She should take care of her mother..
This video made me cry..be blessed..
The blood relation never be changed i cried this human behaviour or emotion.
So emotional and great at the same time that she found her mother 💕
I am so glad you were able to see you Mother. This video brings me tears of JOY.
adopting and raising childrens as our own is such a challenging job but the child wants to find birth morther ,this is much heart breaking
This makes me cried 😭 a lot!
What could be more heartbreaking for the Belgian couple who adopted and raised this woman? They gave her everything but still she wants to show her children their biological grandmother. I'm like why? Those who raise you are your parents...
Why not? Seeing her biological mother is great thing but it doesn’t mean , she is deserting Belgian parents . They are still her dear parents.
@@dharmag2726 no it's not like that tough it seems.. Imagine you don't have your own child and adopted a one and gave everything you can.. Love, education, care.. But when that child one day takes interest in searching for her real mother.. That hurts...
Eastern Eclogue hmm may be
@@sunitaborpatra179 yes you are right ..I am planning to adopt and I am concerned about this
@@naturelover8121 it’s just a part of that child’s life that cannot be erased, but there is so much more they can get to live and that the adopted parents get to live with their child. N if ever the child does go to meet their biological parents, they would surely come back n be more grateful and still love n even respect so much
_"I have so much if you in my heart."_
And I have so much of tears in my ears.
Why in ears??
@@Itz_YourCorgihappens when you're laying down and crying your eyes out both at the same time lmao
May god give u all the courage ,first time i cried for a stranger....no one can replace the place of mother may your mother live a very long life...may god have mercy on all her difficult times....may god give u the never ending joy and peace....god feel her with your love....jesus
as an adoptee from Delhi myself. im now 21 years old and I have been on the journey looking for my family all my life. :'( I hope I have this chance one day
She can't do anything about it. Her mother can't accept in front of everyone that its her daughter because if she does that it will affect her current situation. Her mom probably got married to someone else and truth of her having daughter when she was widowed might ruin everything for her. The woman told her secretly that its her daughter.
Rashi Koranne ...true!!! Losing the luxury of sleeping in the dirt in a poverty stricken area would be SUCH a lost freedom!!! Its shameful that her daughter would leave her mother lying in the dirt outside a dump of a home, when the daughter leads a western life!
Rashi Koranne ....the point is this!!! Her mother was laying outside ON the DIRT road, and living in absolute poverty. HAD HER MOTHER GONE WITH HER she would no longer have to live in such SQUALOR!!!!😖. Maybe she DID have ....OMG! You totally miss the opportunity AND my point, as this daughter did!!!
@@sharonhamilton9496 her mother has her own house and she will not leave it.
That is sad
But she can help her mother and whole family indirectly
This gave me tears! 💗😭 I'm glad she got the closure she needed to get on with her life. Hope she can support her mother 💗🌼🌼
So sweet they found each other, and the fear poor daughter had was not knowing ifshe was alive is so understanding, as for keeping it a secret I guess it's not a secret anymore and the burden of not knowing how or where her child is must have taken its toll on the poor mothers heart, now that she met her and knows she is well and doing great must be such a relief. God bless them all.
After watching this seriously it’s better to spend more than 1 lakh for ivf then to break your heart because your kid whom you loved so much now wants to know birth mother. Thank you for posting this video and making my mind clear
Beautiful girl ..... she made me cry. One thing can you help your birth mother financially ... little bit it will make huge diffrence in her life. Also you still need to be kind and caring for your adoptive parents as they gave you amazing life. Bless you.
Let us pray for every single child born in this world would have a mother .🙏
A daughter never gives up on they mother. And a mother never gives up on they children. This is called "Love" unbinding never break's. Thank you for sharing your story..it must really hurt you to see your mum again.. U not alone we are with you.
That old hands are the hands we never let go
This entire story made me cry incredibly.. I could feel the pain of the daughter and sorry for her mother too..
Her husband is A GREAT PERSON..!!
God Bless All..!!🙏🙏🙏
This made me cry.biological parents no matter where they are and no matter where they belong too.our soul is always connected to them
Guys read the text or listen to the conversation. They are making it as a secret as she has a baby as widowed. It's a big shame in a conservative places. They tell person around they are doing surveys. The lady was whispering to the mother telling her that she is her daughter...
We never know what happened afterwards, but I'm sure she is taking her with all her ability without causing any problems
merry1402 indah yeah right
She could always take her mother back to her country if she wanted to. Immigration laws in European countries allow that.
I am of indian origin and I find such ways a tragedy of India. Inequitabke treatment of women and people by caste is beyond disgusting. Such ways will always hold India guilty for crimes against humanity
H DB I don’t think so.Corruption and overpopulation are the main culprits.Other causes are the patriarchal system and Victorian era “morality” .The situation would be the same even if she were higher in the caste hierarchy
Hi,why they whispered to the mother instead of telling to everyone that's her daughter..i dunno why they blur the face also
Wow her roots are Maharashtrian and she is marathi ❤️ tears in my eyes
I feel sad for her foster family raising her up so well as their own and when she is grown, she wants to somehow see her own of blood! I’m adopted too and life is never easy growing up as a foster child coz Im always treated differently compared to their own but somehow I moved on never want to see my biological parents. I never excused anything or blame anyone for sympathy. I found my soulmate from my homeland and will settle with him there soon .. Jai Hind 🙏
Lots of love, be happy always.
Agarta Mahajan Lots of love to you 🙏😍
Mekhala Naik Why dont u adopt a child and feel it .. then u talk about rights here!
Mekhala Naik As I said why don’t u adopt a child and feel it! Don’t try to be a keyboard warrior defending other people rights and stuff! Speak the truth if u are adopted too lady
Mekhala Naik Fact it down if u are in situation otherwise neither stay away from trying to give your two cent fact here coz it ain’t needed so mind it!
This is so beautiful. I don't understand how people can leave negative comments on this too. Anusja is so beautiful and so kind. Her foster parents raised her well.
Thankful to God for living with actual parents. Story like this are heart felt and nothing can fill the gap of child and parent. Forget the other side of the world.
Paida krne wale se paalne wala bda hota h🙏
She was looking at you like that because she saw herself what a beautiful sight❤ she knew who you were you were soooo loved that's why shw did what she did😚❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤
Why she didn't stay with mother at least one day..
Village is unknown for her and her family. Its only a part of meeting with her mother as she is survived.
The child was born outside of marriage. The mother gave the daughter up right after birth to hide her from the family. She couldn’t stay with the mother bc the mother has another family that doesn’t know about her existence. That’s why they did a fake “survey” and randomly talked to other aunties in the village. So 1) the attention wasn’t on the mother and 2) so the village doesn’t know that the mother gave birth to a daughter that was later put out for adoption. That’s why they only whispered to each other too. And why the mothers face is blurred. She was a “secret child” so she came and left secretly too. Sad situation for the daughter. She can’t stay with her mother bc her mother hid her from everyone
@@hafsa7266 Thanks for helping me understand. You got that right.
@@hafsa7266 why don't you listen to the narration before coming out with false comments. Did you hear what was said at 2:49?? Did she say widowed or out of marriage?
@@jyotikijyoti widowed woman that has a child(obviously not her dead husbands) is the same as a woman having a child out of wedlock.
God bless you! You are blessed to have a birth mother who gave you up for a better life for you. And your Belgian parents raised you to be awesome.
Very sad story. Thanks to the parents who adopted this girl and give her a great life also a good husband. The woman who gave up her child was strong she did the right thing.
Just wondering...how the adoptive parents wud feel if thy get to know their kid want to go to birth parents...wht if the kid rejects u for biological parents...is it right? Just thoughts..no offense to anybdy..
I don't think thar will happen. For her the whole life adoptive parents are her mom and dad. If that is a teenage kid things may be different. She grew up with her adoptive parents for 28 yrs and for her they are her parents. But her life she was curious and wants to meet her real mom which she did. I am sure she will be thinking about her real mom more now and sure support her financially too. Wonderful husband who is supporting her.
There is an Oscar nominated film - Lion.
Please watch it and you will know your answer.
I'm sure parents who adopt are aware of this the day they adopt the baby. But at the end of the day, if a child wants to go back to their blood family is it fair to keep her/him away? They never got the choice in the first place. They didn't choose to be left for adoption. And if they have been so loved by their foster family, how can their heart ever want to leave their family behind for a biological family who left them alone when they were just a baby.
I am adopted and also very curious to find my family. But I'll never leave my parents who adopted me.
Take her with u and take care of her
Dheeraj Kumar why should she when she didn’t take care of her daughter
Actually the thing is she could not afford to take care of her. So when approached upon she has agreed to give away her child for her better future as she was widowed .
If not for her adoption she would have ended up living in the same slums as her mother. Hope you understand the point.
Btw even if she didn’t take care of her it’s the duty of the child to take care of the mother , since Giving the birth itself is a Godly thing. I rest my case. :)
Dheeraj Kumar oh
she looks poor i would help her as much as i can if its my mother
Due to poverty she gave her daughter to other parents. In india still very much poverty.
Thank you TH-cam for recommending this 🤞❤️
It's very touching story but missed to see a strong hugs and embrace that would never end with mother and Anusja with emotional sentiments, after meeting years later and finding your own mother in that condition. I really pray and hope that they took care of their mother financially and gave her proper dignity at the end of her life🙏🙌
You are having a very supportive and caring husband feeling so happy for u
Be grateful to the step parents who brought u up
And i am crying too😢😢😢
Wish I could see my dad 😢
royal blue awww
Stay strong
royal blue what happened?
TheGaming Savage GamingTM finding mom or parents is not harder than finding your biological father isn't it ?
royal blue yah true bro...be strong..n be with yua.mom
N love her always
I'm 45 year old. TH-cam if filled with thousands of videos. But I cried for the first time watching this video... .this is humanity. God bless her family for their support and everything she got.
I had tears in my eyes to see the love a daughter has for her mother...God Bless you for not forgetting the lady
God wanted this woman to be adopted. She would have never survived that type of poverty
She could have helped her mother without leaving her like that
Her mother also left her
@@ilovemyindia8331 that cud be out of helplessness she was a widow. and who knows what mental, financial state she was in that ended giving her own daughter away.
I am sure she would have definitely helped, just that not captured in camera! No one can leave mother like that
What are you talking about lady??? Her mother left her. Are you blind or deaf or what??
Even if she helped her financially there is no need that she requires to broadcast on tv...
For some stupid people saying "she could have take her mother with her" watch this video carefully IT'S A SECRET THAT SHE IS THE MOTHER OF ANUJSA" so they did a fake survey too!!! The mother probably has another family!!! Watch this video with some brain
I agree with u👍
I didn't understand
What do you mean ?
@@vivekasthana4989 people in the comments are saying that she should take her mother with her. But its a secret that the lady is the mother of anusja so how she could take her mother with her
@@Manaahh hmmm , understood , thanks
You are already a strong woman ..... Leaving behind a comfortable and safe life just to see your mother ... who left you when u were young needs a strong heart dear... And I'm proud of you knowing that you wanted to know your roots and wanted to see her . Great.. hats off to your husband tooo... he is a man of good heart.... all the best for you both .....Have a happy life ahead.
Oh God!! I cried too. I love you mummy, I've always been rude to you but in last 1 year i got to know how wrong i was. I am sorry. After watching this I realized Mother is the most precious person anyone can have. And I am privileged to have one amazing mother.