We're Meeting Our Biological Dad For The First Time | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

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    WHEN Carlie McMaster, 28, from Ontario, Canada took a DNA test, it was to find out some more about her medical history. But when Rylee Hall, 26, from Minnesota, USA, got in touch after also taking a test, the women found out they were in fact…sisters. It transpired that both Carlie and Rylee were conceived by sperm donation. After messaging back and forth, the sisters finally got to meet in person last year. They decided to start a podcast called ‘Our Daddy’s A Donor’ to create a space for donor-conceived stories. Rylee said: “Going forward I really hope we can hang out more and keep our relationship going strong like it is.” After a lot of research, Carlie and Rylee found their biological father and today, they’re going to meet him for the first time... How will they feel?!
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ความคิดเห็น • 104

  • @VinnieMack
    @VinnieMack ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Imagine he gets ticked off about something and on the first day they meet he says something like:
    “Because I’m your father and I said so..”

    • @derekrobertson60388
      @derekrobertson60388 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And imagine they be like “Oh yeah? Then we’ll sue for back child support!”

    • @heyitsryleehall
      @heyitsryleehall ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol doesn't work like that

  • @fabbi9548
    @fabbi9548 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I think it's a lot tougher to keep it a secret it's better to be honest as soon as possible.

  • @emolover1122
    @emolover1122 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    It's absolutely amazing what people are able to do today vs years ago 😊

  • @djgenius626
    @djgenius626 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    They look alike,,, wish them the best!!!

  • @cosmicgiggler7867
    @cosmicgiggler7867 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Me and my 15 bio siblings that I’ve never met would blow a video like this up 😂

  • @ClearwaterKB
    @ClearwaterKB ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My boys have known they were donor babies since they were tiny. At 10 & 12, they just now think they might want to meet their donor, who is open to it. I never wanted to hide who they were, or the great gift that allowed me to have them. I have never hidden who the donor was, have pics for them and keep in touch with their older half siblings. I feel for the girl who never knew, what a gut punch, but I know why her parents did what they did.

    • @taliabraver
      @taliabraver 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are smart to be honest with them,that would freak a person out if they found out later in life.

  • @agadorset5280
    @agadorset5280 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everybody in this documentary has my thumbs up. To me, the biological father was the one that delivered this miracle. His noble action brought the joy of life to a family that could not conceive. The joy and the hardship of bringing up a child could not and would not have been realistic without the biological father gift and selflessness.

  • @5thdimension625
    @5thdimension625 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    These secrets these mother’s keep from their children haunt them for life. Don’t hold the truth back from your children, it’ll cause way more harm.

  • @GeekG22
    @GeekG22 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Props to the brown haired one because i could never forgive my parents for keeping something like this a secret from me

    • @TheLauren1113
      @TheLauren1113 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You can still be angry and hurt but decide to maintain a relationship with your parents even after discovering such a big lie. She has had a few years to process the shock and anger.

    • @hughphillips1427
      @hughphillips1427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Life is to short to stay angry, you have to put yourself in the other person’s shoes to try and understand the situation.

  • @poppykok5
    @poppykok5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm not being critical or judgmental, but I felt a little sad for these lovely young women when I realized how underwhelmed & seemingly unemotional their bio Father was at meeting them...I expected him to be a bit warmer & more interested in getting to know them & learning about their lives & interests...I imagine it was somewhat more awkward for him in the beginning...Anyway, I hope they'll eventually have an enduring friendship & a sense of a special "connection" among them...

    • @isismalls3436
      @isismalls3436 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's not technically their father. He's not obligated to get to know them, he's just a sperm donor. He owes these girls nothing. That was the deal

    • @heyitsryleehall
      @heyitsryleehall ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Grant may look uninterested in the video but what they didn’t say in the video was that Carlie and I had been messaging and FaceTiming with Grant for months prior to our in person visit

    • @ClearwaterKB
      @ClearwaterKB ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You must have watched a different video. And I'm sure only minutes of a MUCH longer visit were shown... 🤷‍♀️

    • @mariaannhayes3257
      @mariaannhayes3257 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Imagine being filmed for such an important event in your life, especially when it looks like his life was pretty private or small. I think he did well! ❤

    • @agadorset5280
      @agadorset5280 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      II think he did a great effort in accommodating his two, newly found treasures and bringing them into his emotional world. He strikes as being a very tactful man of great finesse.

  • @CB-jv6cj
    @CB-jv6cj ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is amazing! I'm having a baby with a donor too, if everything goes well. He/she will know that he/she has been conceived with the help of a donor, but I am just so happy that these type of things are so common nowadays.

    • @Speedyskull15
      @Speedyskull15 ปีที่แล้ว

      On the amount of comments you leave maybe you should get a job first

    • @CB-jv6cj
      @CB-jv6cj ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Speedyskull15 You are hilarious. I honestly don't know what your problem is. Fyi, I do have a job, and a pretty good one too 😉

    • @xymzk
      @xymzk ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Speedyskull15 seek help for your misery

  • @laura6796
    @laura6796 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a beautiful story ☺️

  • @jessicagrover402
    @jessicagrover402 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was a beautiful thing ❤

  • @DC45193
    @DC45193 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I don't know about taking to grave.....the brown head girl took this way better then I would.

    • @Sweetyhide
      @Sweetyhide ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't think she did. She seemed really uncomfortable at that part of the video. Plus, she is on camera. Most people don't want to act a fool on camera.

    • @DC45193
      @DC45193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sweetyhide you right...she did look uncomfortable. But her podcast would be off the roof...it she kept it 💯. People want authenticity. This happened to my aunt ...aka..my mom bedt friend, but she was adopted. She found out she was adopted in her late 40s; again her mother was gonna take it to the grave. Let me just say that she went missing for 3 weeks , left kids, husband and would only talk to my mother her best friend. People gotta know where they come from. She questioned her skin color, eyes, build, everything and they always had a story from what my mom told me. People know.....why else you do a test...it's somatic.

    • @Sweetyhide
      @Sweetyhide ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DC45193 dang. Sorry about your aunt. That is messed up. I agree! People need to know as soon as they are able to comprehend.
      I took a DNA test but I didn't think I was adopted. I did it to find my heritage. My family always said there was Indian blood in our family.
      Somebody lied somewhere! 😆
      So there are other reasons to take a test.

    • @DC45193
      @DC45193 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sweetyhide haha yes. And I'm only implying people want to know something about their identity if they take those test. In search of something .

    • @AnnA-jd4xm
      @AnnA-jd4xm ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DC45193 My mother's mom as well! But then ancestry busted out her secret. LOL

  • @faith_God
    @faith_God ปีที่แล้ว +14

    May God bless them ❤️

  • @Raven24444
    @Raven24444 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The girls look like him

  • @virginianewman7738
    @virginianewman7738 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you guys are so much alike mannerisms nice you get along and collaborate

  • @mydailylife122
    @mydailylife122 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    God bless them 💓
    Hello from London

  • @ramjet4025
    @ramjet4025 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This dad was being very cautious, and its obvious that these girls don't regard him as being a key person in their lives or he in theirs. Its a classic example of a lack of values of fathers.

  • @judemccooey4987
    @judemccooey4987 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless y’all!!!

  • @Momof5grannytomany
    @Momof5grannytomany ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I. Glad you both meet each other and then found your bio dad even though one dad dad pasted away he would be proud of you sweetie

  • @ramjet4025
    @ramjet4025 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These mothers knew the donor was willing to be contacted, and the mother's failed to tell their daughters until they were adults.

  • @AnnA-jd4xm
    @AnnA-jd4xm ปีที่แล้ว +3

    100% selfish to not tell your child that they were donor conceived. smh

    • @T4Z.
      @T4Z. ปีที่แล้ว

      at the same time you need to accept that the mother felt as she had to because of the fact she signed a (possibly legal) document

  • @mb-en4id
    @mb-en4id ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The guy wasn't so emotional😶😔

    • @Yasi_nzi
      @Yasi_nzi ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Well just imagine you are like 60 years old and two strangers say hi we’re your daughters lol😁 You wont be able to feel like a mom or anything. As a matter of fact, it will give a more “strange” vibe than emotional one. I think he explained it pretty well, he said he has genetic ties with them and not a parenting role. The fact that he was open and welcoming towards them in the first place was far than enough.

    • @agadorset5280
      @agadorset5280 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Yasi_nzi My reading from the pictures is that he must have prepared his emotions too. He is, obviously, a highly intelligent man. I found him there, as a very warm person. I am sure that in the same circumstances i would be a wreck. He handled the whole air time brilliantly.

    • @Yasi_nzi
      @Yasi_nzi ปีที่แล้ว

      @@agadorset5280 True

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    @cezzanne490 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @adams115
    @adams115 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dads kooky

  • @moisemoisa5726
    @moisemoisa5726 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't imagine having children et threw them.Some parents make children without worrying about them.

  • @jacquelinevillarreal657
    @jacquelinevillarreal657 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cute girls!!! ✨💖✨

  • @user-mc5pl8js9h
    @user-mc5pl8js9h ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ugh meeting biological parents is a disappointment most of the time. There's just no parent-child bond.

    • @lindagithaiga1974
      @lindagithaiga1974 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, like if they didn't want you in their life when you needed them the most🤷

  • @joschelei262
    @joschelei262 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Isaiah 14:21

  • @laurae2489
    @laurae2489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @MsDF936
    @MsDF936 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Crazy how the child has zero rights in this. That is so very wrong.

  • @33Chapter
    @33Chapter ปีที่แล้ว

    No lie this is interesting

  • @natscat4752
    @natscat4752 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice folk

  • @davidmarvy6788
    @davidmarvy6788 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is soo weird. Why would a man want to do this? He is really their father and their connection as father/daughter is real.

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 ปีที่แล้ว

      right

    • @carliemcmaster8065
      @carliemcmaster8065 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We definitely see him as more of an Uncle than a father figure. I had a father and a step father - there isn’t a void that needed filling. It is like finding lost family but we definitely don’t have a father/daughter connection in the traditional sense!

    • @mariaannhayes3257
      @mariaannhayes3257 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carliemcmaster8065 what a wonderful way to view it! It’s so neat that you get to be a part of each others lives and that you are and we’re so wanted in this world by everyone who gave you life and sustained your life 🥰❤️ If you choose to have your own children you will be a wonderful mother!

    • @carliemcmaster8065
      @carliemcmaster8065 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariaannhayes3257 thank you Maria! 🥰

    • @RoscoeB44
      @RoscoeB44 ปีที่แล้ว

      He probably wanted to help people that can't have children. You didn't think of that? There father is the person that raised them.

  • @thebungalawang6841
    @thebungalawang6841 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His daughters look resemble with him..!! ❤
    Amazing Story..! ❤

  • @PEPPERCHEESEGARLIC
    @PEPPERCHEESEGARLIC ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being jewish is not a race it a religion but that’s awesome that you two found one another threw DNA blood match 😃👍🏼

    • @heyitsryleehall
      @heyitsryleehall ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jewish is a race and also a religion❤️

    • @carliemcmaster8065
      @carliemcmaster8065 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s listed as Jewish in the DNA testing - we were reading our full background 😊

    • @maryjs4878
      @maryjs4878 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heyitsryleehall no Jewish isn't a race, it's a religion.
      The white jews and black jews aren't the same race.

    • @heyitsryleehall
      @heyitsryleehall ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maryjs4878 If jewish is only a religion then why is it showing up on BOTH of the DNA tests I've done?

    • @maryjs4878
      @maryjs4878 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heyitsryleehall the white Jewish DNA is different from the black Jewish DNA. Is Christianity a race? No it's not.

  • @johnnysanchez4456
    @johnnysanchez4456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great turnout,!

  • @SophiesFIT
    @SophiesFIT ปีที่แล้ว +2

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  • @ramjet4025
    @ramjet4025 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This story is very different to the mothers who told their children from an early age that they were from
    a sperm donor. Those cases have a far greater chance of meeting their real dad.

  • @MomoHibiki
    @MomoHibiki ปีที่แล้ว +2

    FIRST

  • @jonasalmgren8408
    @jonasalmgren8408 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hope you will take care and be dad to day

  • @TheNecessaryEvil
    @TheNecessaryEvil ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They were expecting a lumberjack and got a guy who looks exactly like a guy who would repeatedly go back to a government building to look at old pern and have tug time. Then he’s like, this is a clinic? 🤷🏿😂

  • @siikhwan3798
    @siikhwan3798 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm meeting a girl for the very first time and I want this channel to make a video of it. 🥱

  • @heyitsryleehall
    @heyitsryleehall ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh my gosh that’s me😂😋

  • @samanthav563
    @samanthav563 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They have the same laugh, it's making me emotional about how I have the same laugh with my sister 🥹

    • @agadorset5280
      @agadorset5280 ปีที่แล้ว

      Funny. The same impression sits with me after watching this priceless video.

  • @woodsonjane
    @woodsonjane 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sad for the parents who raised donor’s children.

  • @RoscoeB44
    @RoscoeB44 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't you consider your daddy to be the one who raised you and was there for you?

  • @moya2938
    @moya2938 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations

  • @johnyracercat
    @johnyracercat ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wasn't there a story about a sperm donor being sued for child support?

  • @ramjet4025
    @ramjet4025 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Both the biological mothers unfortunately show almost contempt for the child's right to know
    they raised their daughters subject to that underlying lack of values and, lack of honesty.
    After watching this video several times, it gives meaning as to why the father agreed to be on video
    and his subdued reaction. Its hard to tell if this was from the girls or the father but
    the mother's underlying obvious lack of values is disturbing.
    Some sperm donor dads do not want to be involved or are very cautious about being involved.
    That varies a great deal to the success stories we see where the children and their biological dads
    go on to great rewarding relationships.
    Lets hope these girls and their dad
    get to have their relationship.