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  • @VannieBee
    @VannieBee ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Why do I feel like FK wanted to laugh while Dinma was doing her sponsored ad? I was personally laughing because her face was killing me. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @victoriaalabi184
      @victoriaalabi184 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      this is it. she looked like - you know that skit of "tell a touching story why you need funding and people sit with their parent and lie to get a reaction. She looked like the parent in those skits."

  • @MetrogypsieS
    @MetrogypsieS ปีที่แล้ว +113

    FK’s face during the BetterHelp yarns 😂😂😂

    • @auntydogo1888
      @auntydogo1888 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I was waiting for someone to say it. She is such a cute guest😂

    • @jessicaajuonuma7211
      @jessicaajuonuma7211 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought I was the only one that saw😅😅😅😅

    • @MetrogypsieS
      @MetrogypsieS ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@auntydogo1888 so cute, lokking so obedient 🥰

    • @ellaumoru8094
      @ellaumoru8094 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brooo😂😂😂😂

    • @whenhewrites
      @whenhewrites ปีที่แล้ว

      Walahi!

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    For that first daughter syndrome, Bobrisky's quote is key, "Good girl no dey pay o." When you are taking on everything for the family, they don't respect your boundaries or decisions to do something for yourself

  • @aishamundi8063
    @aishamundi8063 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Its the way FK is smiling at the camera while Dimma talks about Better help 😂

    • @IniMc
      @IniMc ปีที่แล้ว

      😅

    • @pearlchuks4336
      @pearlchuks4336 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Aswear it felt like she felt awkward and like please hurry up let’s get to business 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @daveszn4548
    @daveszn4548 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    "If I'm in a room, then I'm meant to be there"- FK's confidence should be studied👏👏👏

  • @ene2082
    @ene2082 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I could write a whole essay on the inter-religious relationship thing but let me just summarize it by saying the one place I don’t want to fight about certain things is inside my own house. I’d rather remain happily single.

    • @Aifedoyin
      @Aifedoyin ปีที่แล้ว

      Itp

    • @Aifedoyin
      @Aifedoyin ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Fluuuv lpp😊

  • @gbolajesuamusa
    @gbolajesuamusa ปีที่แล้ว +53

    After watching this I realize I have dealt with first daughter syndrome my whole life. Even though I am the only child, I am always being held responsible for everything and when I don’t do something perfectly, it always seem like I am irresponsible.
    Starting to get used to living my own life and not bothering whether or not I do things perfectly.
    Thanks Dimmah & FK for your advice ❤.

  • @VivianCbk
    @VivianCbk ปีที่แล้ว +77

    when dimma was talking about better help, fk was just staring into my soul 😭

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    That Femco dragging was insane because people flipped from support to insane levels of judgment and harassment so quickly

  • @johnangela1502
    @johnangela1502 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It was FK’s Passport face during the sponsored ad that killed me…she didn’t know how to act at the time, it was quite funny

  • @judithogboru3808
    @judithogboru3808 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Oh my goodness 1 hour 🙌🏾👌🏾 you’re feeding us well Dimma, thank you!

  • @CHRISTAEVER
    @CHRISTAEVER ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the vibe and atmosphere of this video. FK is definitely a vibe and energy to be with.

  • @prinsetz6697
    @prinsetz6697 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    FK is such a vibe. Dinma, you've got yourself a wonderful set of friends, won't even lie.

  • @tolulopearoyehun4471
    @tolulopearoyehun4471 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    OMG DIMMA !!! I have the exact same story. My little sister broke her arm at the playground and I was supposed to be taking care of her. My dad has also never hit me but I went to hide in the wardrobe in the guest room because I was scared shitless. I could relate so much I wanted to cry because that's such a core childhood memory for me. This video is amazing thank youuu

    • @therandombae9781
      @therandombae9781 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My sister fell from our verandah on the first floor to the ground floor when I was supposed to be watching her. I went to meet my mum at the staircase shouting that I've killed her child so she'll kill me too. Thank God nothing happened to my sister.

  • @giftokeze4926
    @giftokeze4926 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts on the situationship. It’s the fact that it could have been SOMETHING that makes it hard to get over

  • @obindeborah1305
    @obindeborah1305 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Is it only me?? Fk has one interesting vibe and they make a great combo

  • @LyndaBeau_
    @LyndaBeau_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

    First time seeing FK,officially a fan,sooooo love her vibe and sense of humor

  • @okemsi
    @okemsi ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This first child/first daughter syndrome is a real thing and I could relate to Dimma but i saw the light like FK said..saying NO is the best way, just simply refusing to do things that you are being mandated and put yourself first always mehn..it works fr !

  • @amarah6430
    @amarah6430 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m super excited about this 💃🏽💃🏽

  • @theganiiyat
    @theganiiyat ปีที่แล้ว +2

    FINALLLLLLY!!! I left the video I was watching to rush here. I've been anticipating this

  • @peaceful_dolapo
    @peaceful_dolapo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thoroughly enjoyed this. Thank you, Dimma & FK! 🥰

  • @angelfortunee4302
    @angelfortunee4302 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am here for these edifying videos. Thanks for sharing . And the consistency lately, chef's kiss

  • @toniadelore
    @toniadelore ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dimma should have given FK a book to read during that BetterHelp yarns because FK wanted to laughhhh, her face was killing me please.

  • @aishahaa7321
    @aishahaa7321 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t wait to watch this!

  • @inioluwaosinaiwo200
    @inioluwaosinaiwo200 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omo, i can relate with this first daughter syndrome made me depressed at a point and like FK said, i literally had to start saying no even at work and i felt good sincerely. This video is so wholesome. Thank you Dinma for this video.

  • @VicksStyles
    @VicksStyles ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video didn't seem like an hour, i was enjoying the convo ❤

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    President FK looking good and cracking me up better, I've been itching for this video! 😂

  • @fareedahm7962
    @fareedahm7962 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this episode so much. Thank you for this!

  • @AbimbolaAjayi
    @AbimbolaAjayi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you both!
    Thoroughly enjoyed this video💜.

  • @ore.kaykay1698
    @ore.kaykay1698 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    nahhh FK is HILARIOUS! Another banger!

  • @Maaro_Muraro
    @Maaro_Muraro ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Definitely an amazing watch this Friday evening
    I absolutely enjoyed the conversation between you guys ❤

  • @teeihezue
    @teeihezue ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dimma promised and delivered! I can't believe I'm a minute late....
    Btw, I'm definitely loving this your chat series ❤

  • @evebanigo
    @evebanigo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good to see you ladies. I enjoyed this episode ❤

  • @preciousoluwemimo9124
    @preciousoluwemimo9124 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been waiting for this since forever. FK is always hinting it on the podcast.

  • @chibundoakupue
    @chibundoakupue ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think FK will benefit from some gen z chaotic aesthetic for her instagram. Just post photos. Do dumps and we will eat it up. No need for an “aesthetic” per se. And if you have a worthwhile tweet, make it part of the dump.

  • @adac.i4401
    @adac.i4401 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love listening to your conversations (Fk + Jola and Dimma), either jointly here or on the podcast because there is banter mixed with depth, then more banter and depth again. Like how Dimma spoke about Igbos and the bias of interreligious marriage (dating or being with a muslim) as an offshoot of the civil war.
    You are gorgeous and intelligent babes, and I love it ❤.

  • @solangette
    @solangette ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely enjoyed watching this video.

  • @Thedorisudeh
    @Thedorisudeh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Totally loved this video 🙌🏼

  • @myJesusfilledshishilife95
    @myJesusfilledshishilife95 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That conversation ,they had about first children i felt the pain returning of denying me things because i was the first child ,i mean i had to understand, to know better to always be an adult.... lately its my faith that has helped to forget ,and it hurts when both your parents are last borns they don't understand they just transfer their expectations from their own firstborns from their families to you.... i promised i will do better for my own first child

  • @mtmt3658
    @mtmt3658 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My babes ! I loved it😻

  • @teew28
    @teew28 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been waiting for this episode sinceeee!!!!!

  • @victoriat9145
    @victoriat9145 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just know this is going to be a wild ride 😂😂👏🏾

  • @felistusngesa456
    @felistusngesa456 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    In my 20s and struggling with all of the above.... you hit home. Lotsa love from Kenya

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dimma what is this editing? I laughed so hard when the screen changed colour at "black and white"

  • @theinfluentialprincess
    @theinfluentialprincess ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The video we have all been waiting for!!!!! 😭🔥
    This 1 hour+ is giving me joyyyy!😍😍 Let's feast 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @geraldeen
    @geraldeen ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this intro😂
    I can't wait to watch the complete video 😊

  • @lusiaodos3050
    @lusiaodos3050 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a really nice episode

  • @zeea6507
    @zeea6507 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Premium content. First Jola, now FK loved it 😍

  • @9jafoodie
    @9jafoodie ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG two of my favourite people, this is already my favourite video ever please.

  • @cateyesandcarrots2408
    @cateyesandcarrots2408 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys! I loved this video. ❤️

  • @ruthnwofor7063
    @ruthnwofor7063 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bro, the first daughter thing is sooooo real! I’ve stopped giving so much of myself - everyone will be okay. I need to live my life for me.

  • @chinwendueze1681
    @chinwendueze1681 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dinmma you're that one friend someone can have a warm, hot conversation with and it's so cool.
    Hi Fk dear 😊

  • @Gloria_Ukah
    @Gloria_Ukah ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video

  • @opusfezy9668
    @opusfezy9668 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thoroughly enjoyed this😍love FK so much. Dimma is forever gorgeous

  • @phoebenkansa8099
    @phoebenkansa8099 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Our President!!!!!!! ISWIS members where you dey?!!!

  • @ibitoyeolarewaju7498
    @ibitoyeolarewaju7498 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was Jola and now FK is here... I love this.

  • @peoplesperson4132
    @peoplesperson4132 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Fk is naturally a very funny person

    • @adwoaa7419
      @adwoaa7419 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s hilarioussssss

  • @S3H9A6
    @S3H9A6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Love Love FK as well! ❤️❤️🥳🥳💃🏾💃🏾

  • @estherndidi9593
    @estherndidi9593 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dimma your makeup is popping,I enjoyed watching you guys

  • @olives7596
    @olives7596 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I watched an old video of FK and Akah Bants. I laughed from the beginning to the end. I love FK’s sarcasm. She is very observant and hilarious

  • @AdaoraOA
    @AdaoraOA ปีที่แล้ว

    Been waiting for this video for so long😭😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @Chidinma-zu9dc
    @Chidinma-zu9dc ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When two intellectuals interact,it's a bomb

  • @ICE-Chisom
    @ICE-Chisom ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Was waiting for this for 2 years 🥺😭😭😭 since ISWIS 2020 episode with you ❤

  • @DamolaKayode
    @DamolaKayode ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ✨Who else but me! ✨
    I really enjoyed this! ❤

  • @user-tc1tb5qd6w
    @user-tc1tb5qd6w ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for bringing fk. Love her so much. Love you too dimma❤️ you guys are amazing.

  • @ruthfakorede
    @ruthfakorede ปีที่แล้ว

    My first time on this channel. Popped up on my feed. Loved the conversation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @franceswithajay
    @franceswithajay ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was really fun! FK is very funny 😂

  • @adewunmioyindamola6923
    @adewunmioyindamola6923 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this 👏

  • @uchechinjoku1402
    @uchechinjoku1402 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omo, that situationship pain is REAL!!!

  • @seyifunmioye
    @seyifunmioye ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so fun to watch

  • @joyamaran5878
    @joyamaran5878 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can totally relate to the first born/ first daughter syndrome.

  • @augustaaziegbe8122
    @augustaaziegbe8122 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    FK and Dimma combo is fire I totally enjoyed this blog. I laughed and learnt a lot 😂
    I love FK vibes, the way she laughs us cute. Looking forward to more FK et DIMMA vlogs.

  • @oluwagunwaadedeji6423
    @oluwagunwaadedeji6423 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I left what I was watching on TH-cam in a split second for this video. No second guessing

  • @KwekuTheTraveller
    @KwekuTheTraveller ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It really wasn't always childrening enough for first daughters. I remember telling my friends I never saw Lion King as a child, all my siblings did and she asked me what i was doing with my childhood. It's just a lot of responsibility for the first daughter. I have an older brother but anytime my mom was leaving the house, she'd ask me to look after my siblings. It was the moment I wanted to play my mom calls me to attend to one chore or the other.
    Omo! I missed out on childhood a lot. Being born as a first daughter is an automatic responsibility

  • @awoyemiesther5046
    @awoyemiesther5046 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yasss. I loved this video🤩

  • @vacillatingfemme
    @vacillatingfemme ปีที่แล้ว

    My president!!!! Here for FK!!!!

  • @omolarasanni4975
    @omolarasanni4975 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so much fun. FK is hilarious

  • @snowym7188
    @snowym7188 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was great ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kikipatt9301
    @kikipatt9301 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are here!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @omuwaoyagwa9854
    @omuwaoyagwa9854 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Enjoyed every bit of this video. Jola first, now Fk. Can we have Mazino next? 🥰

  • @mylitcorner
    @mylitcorner ปีที่แล้ว

    This video fed my soul

  • @Chiithecreative
    @Chiithecreative ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2 smart ladies in a room!👏🏼 I enjoyed this wella! Meanwhile FK is hilarious 😀

  • @gbolajesuamusa
    @gbolajesuamusa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally, a long awaited video ❤

  • @ALPHAGLAM
    @ALPHAGLAM ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love every bit of this video 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰 more videos like this please🥰🥰🥰

  • @lynahlw
    @lynahlw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely can relate to you both, I am not even the oldest child but I used to be the yes go to child. Not anymore though. Clear boundaries are set now. Thank you for sharing 🤎

  • @ginikaubah
    @ginikaubah ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode is goated ❤

  • @ngozidibia7278
    @ngozidibia7278 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both of you gave good points.

  • @rhunoenaughe1026
    @rhunoenaughe1026 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my! I watched the entire video 😊

  • @judithmogekwu2453
    @judithmogekwu2453 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very lovely and relatable conversation…literally enjoyed every bit of it
    Well done girls ❤❤

  • @chibundoakupue
    @chibundoakupue ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My heart. I love you both❤❤❤

  • @LadiAbin
    @LadiAbin ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this so much mental health is so important

  • @chideraanele2261
    @chideraanele2261 ปีที่แล้ว

    FK is such a vibe....Enjoyed the video

  • @AmakaTheActor
    @AmakaTheActor ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A 1hour video from Dimma! Sign me up!!!!😁😁😁

  • @joyoffor558
    @joyoffor558 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this episode

  • @belindadestinykelvin6188
    @belindadestinykelvin6188 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting. I love this

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The Kai collective dragging got me, because if they focused on the tone of her reply, I could understand, but the fake life claims were unwarranted 😭

  • @lucianaagbaire2263
    @lucianaagbaire2263 ปีที่แล้ว

    The absolute best💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @christinenjuguna6464
    @christinenjuguna6464 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this conversation. Very fun to watch and I have learned quite a bit. Lots of love from Kenya!

  • @EuniceChidinmaImo
    @EuniceChidinmaImo ปีที่แล้ว

    My faves!

  • @Nanaesi_Oduma
    @Nanaesi_Oduma ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely love ❤❤❤