Sexual Dissatisfaction in Muslim Marriages with Aminah O'Rourke TMC 2:E6
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It might also be a good idea to talk about how women should look after themselves at home in terms of their appearance,smell,clothes etc. Husbands nowadays get to look at attractive women everyday at work, in the shop, on the news, social media etc. So if the wife is not making an effort in looking good for the husband it can also be a major factor...
Sister Amina is so eloquent, I am hooked to her words and her magnectic self-confidence 🥰😍❤
Peace and mercy of God I am a Muslim from Morocco. I liked the topic, sister, and your comment caught my attention. I have a lot of questions and I hope you will answer if possible
While this was good but what is lacking is the lack of references in the conversation. The story related to the couple on the camel and bunch of other stories...Always give references so we can double check
My sex life in my marriage is awful and makes me consider divorce…but then I get to reality that I have a daughter who needs her dad. It’s definitely a test, alhamdulilah
Maybe try and spice things up a bit....
Eww..a ho.. plan to divorce because of sex life..
Talk to your husband
Yes and nothing ,he like Ramadan with har ,he like go out,its very 😔 be with someone just children 😔
you can’t communicate with your husband?
I just loveeee your work in this part @naimaBRobert , you really put your efforts in this part and bring up these topics requires a huger courage. May Allah bless you. You are truly and inspiration. ❤️❤️❤️
Amina I love how you have bandaged your head, with a flower frill on the side.
Looks cool and trendy, I want to try wearing my hijab like that inshallah, one day!
Many scholars said tha the story about omar ibn alkhatab ( radhia Allah 3anhou) and his wife is false and have no references ( dalil). It Will be very beneficial if you check yours references before your speech.
May Allah guide us
Masha Allah. Great conversation
A matter that is rarely discussed - and there ought to be no unwarranted coyness when it comes to learning God's rulings for us - is masturbation.
Scholars across the Sunni legal schools, and figures like al-Shawkani too, have concluded masturbation is wrong and can make marriage compulsory for its practitioner. Sheikh Amer Jamil from Glasgow points this out in his pre-marital course.
Statistically, the majority of the general population, male or female, engage in masturbation. Muslim men and women are a subset of the general population. This is putting aside pornography.
Those who I know counselling in the field of pornography addiction report an increasing number of referrals from young Muslim women. This can be argued to be a consequence of our current generational lysistratic protest.
And Allah knows best.
Shorom shorom !! cracked me up 😅
I missed the last point, in nikah Quran said you can get counsel. At least dont contradict Quran and sunnah.
Asalamou alaikum. Best way to reach you sister Naimah
Assalaamu alaykum! Whats the name of the author of the book sister Aminah mentions? Did anyone get this?
اللهم صل وسلم على نبينا محمد
I wanted to add brothers are structural leaders, nisa being more sensitive can give their own detailed feedback, likely sign that they more monogamous too, sisters like good leaders, it can trigger their hypergamy at a sub con level, and being a good leader can open up one on one time, can be good for any couple.
السلام عليكم و رحماته الله ! I think when it comes to being intimate with spouse is this, ALLAH SEES وKNOWS WHAT WE DO !!! SO A SISTER IS THINKING HOW CAN i GIVE myself wholeheartly when our RABB IS WATCHING US THIS MAKES A SISTER VERY SHY IN SATISFYING HER SPOUSE AND NOT EVEN WANTING TO BE TOUCHED !!! ALLAH IS WATCHING EVERY MOVE we MAKE BEING INTIMATE, HOW CAN i SATISFY my husband in that way with HIM WATCHING...i THINK THATS THE MAIN REASON FOR SO MANY DIVORCES IN ISLAM.. A SISTER THINKS THAT WHAT KIND OF LORD WATCHES my husband and i being intimate !!!
Oh, i need to make a correction, intimacy just in bedroom is very boring!!! you know what!!! COMMUNICATION! COMMUNICATION! COMMUNICATION! TELL EACH OTHER WHAT you LIKE و DON'T LIKE BEING INTIMATE DON'T JUST LAY THERE LIKE A WATERLOGGED SISTER OR BROTHER! your SPOUSES CAN'T READ your MINDS !!! SOEAK UP--- you PROFESS TO CARE AND LOVE EAXH OTHER---START PROVING you LOVE AND CARE ABOUT you MARRIAGE !!!
السلام عليكم! There is a saying in the us. WHAT you WON'T DO ANOTHER WILL !!! TALK TO EACH OTHER---TELL EACH OTHER your NEEDS NOT JUST BEING INTIMATE BUT IN ALL PHASES OF your MARRIAGE!!! SIT DOWN FACING EACH OTHER AND LOOK IN EACH OTHERS EYES AND TALK NOT SHOUT NOT CRITISIZE !!!
Allah created sex for us, so don't feel that way.
Masha'allah
Asalamuenleykum sis, I was wondering if you have a podcast
Asalamualaikum sister Naima.
In Islam are we allowed to feel and think we deserve more or better? What is your opinion? In times of hardship can we wonder or question ?
You should always think that you deserve better as in YOU CAN DO BETTER. Everyday think about one way you can improve and have توكل الى الله. Allah increases whom He wills and restricts whom He wills. You can however desire the best reward, whether that’s the best job or best spouse or the best reward; جنت الفردوس.
wa.as.wr.wb.....
Naima B Robert, on 21:17 you made a mistake, you said there is no daleel in the sunnah the primary purpose of intimacy is for procreation and having children, there is, the hadith of the prophet where he said "Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations."
please do not post non islamic concepts
Pay attention to the word primary, she didn't say there is no daleel in the sunnah that the purpose, but she said the primary purpose.
There is a different between the two.
you understand it wrongly, yet you're saying she's making a 'non Islamic' statement?🙄 are for your real?
@@muhammadb6416 this is being abit silly, because the word "primiary" wasn't used in the hadith, if you look at the word "primary" it means most part, now if you look at the hadith the prophet is encouraging to get married here and the first purpose and reason he is giving is to increase numbers, so this here shows the most part of intimacy is procreation, so naimi is wrong about there is no daleel
@@sarahnovella4971 Mashallah sheikha, can you teach us the tafsir of the hadith then, are you going to reject it 😁😅🤣
@@samadmiah6427 you're basing your argument on a single hadith
32:05 I do think it's 4 months. not 4 days. otherwise there'll be divorces happening every week. lol.
It is WAJIB for a man to have sex with his wife every 4 months if he can otherwise she can request divorce. The sister in this video said it’s Sunnah to not wait more than 4 days but idk the reference for that. … I’ll let you know if I find it.
@@Mooodyyhhh I didn't realise it was wajib. Would you mind sharing the reference for that?
Also appreciate for you checking the 4 days. Keen to know if that is referenced in Hadith.
@@majidkhan89 Man is allowed to have 4 wives. If he spends one day with each, it would take 4 days to revisit the first. That's why 4.
@@fusuy58 that's a reasonable explanation, but does this mention in the Quran or hadith?
Assalam aleikum Honourable decent sister Na'ima B Robert
Basics of sex? Or sensuality?
Get a book. Read as much as you need to.
Women, men need to have sex - physical expression of love and a release. Marriage is to protect yourselves from Zinna, including pornography. Give your man, you will get 10x in return.
Why would you talk about all this on the Internet. We are living in strange times .fix up
why shouldn't they talk about this on the internet?🙄
@@sarahnovella4971 ask your husband your dad or your brother why or evn your son if hes old enough to understand
@@johnwickr678 why ask your son about sexual dissatisfaction
@@shahee6579 so what if there son sees this video?you see my point.
Why not? are you ok?