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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ส.ค. 2024
- WHAT AN EPISODE!!
We had the amazing Naima B. Robert on the podcast to discuss her reversion story, a Muslim's perspective, understanding Allah's assignment for you, showing up in your life, can men and women be friends, nice guys finishing last and much much more!
A Massive Thanks to Sis. Naima for coming on the podcast, it was an absolute pleasure!
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Peace!!
I'm not even Muslim, but i enjoyed every single word that came out of her mouth. What a great podcast.
This is my first time to ever watch this sister talk… alihamdulilah for Islam. As Muslim ummah we need more sisters like her
Now I will start following her
Yeahhhh definitely! I think it would be nice to also if she collaborated with pearlythings as she always discuss about redpills stuff
I’m not a Muslim but born-again Christian, I don’t know why but I came across clips of this interview on Instagram. I was impressed by the topics she touches on about marriage and life, and loved her comments. This is the second interview of your channel I watched today. The third interview is in the queue. Thank you for sharing. God bless!
*Christians used to conquer the world. Today Christians have became tolerance and spinless.*
Allah planted the seed of islam in your heart, I hope you pursue it
The title is nothing compared to the actual conversation. The interview has much better content than it seems from the title. Really deep and thought inspiring, Masha'Allah.
"There's nothing random." I believe that too. Everyday, I give thanks for all the interactions I have, and how everything works out the way it should for the best. As Allah Wills. Alhamdulillah
I love her for the sake of Allah may Allah protect her and grant her jannah yarb !
I am amazed just to realize that Allah subhanallah ta’la put so much talent in sister Naima.
The more I listen to her the more i love her personality. She is really such gift of Allah for a muslims women and ummah.
As a brother this benefitted me a lot, especially the bits about how Allah will ask us about our skills and time
I'm not Muslim but I loved the talk
I was going to type the exact same thing.
May Allah SWT bless you and make your way clear for islam❤🤗
@@malikyasirawan5960Ameen
Really enjoyed this episode. Naimah is a much needed voice in the Ummah. Allah bless her
Ameen
I commend her on her understanding of victimhood, and the need to rise above it. Well said.
Salam if you want to hear more about the mindset of victimhood and how to combat it in Islam I would recommend the book Beauty Fee Sabililah
I love sister naima. I’ve been following her for while now and may Allah grant her jannatul firdous
Ameen! JazakAllahu khairan for your support!
@@NaimaBRobertTV Wa iyaakum
Ameen
This the woman TH-cam need to promote, and not that dark hair therapist who’s making the line between men and women more larger.
I send all my love to this woman, may God protect her on her journey
In a marriage both women and men should please each other. This is very important, but as individuals we shouldn’t be dependant on our partners to be happy. Happiness comes with contentment.
finally i found something talk about these point 😭
Finally people with Brain
These days, too many Muslims are obsessed over relationships and haram acts. Unfortunately, Jahili and ignorant ones dare to tell me that I am speaking against Quran and Sunna, when I try to educate them about the true purpose of life. I believe I am more qualified to discuss this topic than most people who are posting here.
Marriage and sex are never the objective of life for Muslims. Loving Allah is what matters. Loving God, loving humanity is what matters. Some people marry and then get heart broken. Many people stay single and are in love with their Creator. Allah is their everlasting friend. Even if someone finds marriage to be necessary, he or she should not convince everyone to marry just because we think it is right. Mariam the daughter of Imran was single. Asiya has the worst husband in the world which was close to not having a husband. Yet Allah loved them the most. Some Muslim scream at me don’t you dare make the halal into haram! I tell them don’t you dare blame Allah for it, when you are being tortured in those black sites.
The majority of those who were tortured in those black site prisons became non-Muslim and hated Islam, and blamed Allah for their tests. Not only were they sexually assaulted and tortured, they also gave up their Iman. This is what happens when Muslims engage in perverse and sick sexual relations and treat their wives or husbands as carnal flesh. I have interviewed thousands of ex-Muslims and they all admitted that they were very active in marital conjugal relations, and always tried new sick sexual style with their wives, in halal ways of course using sex toys and other deviations. Now, not only did they become ex-Muslims but they also preach against Allah and his Prophet.
Exactly
It is quite encouraging .
I think this was the best podcast I’ve ever seen.
Best podcast ever. I've listened twice to take notes cuz a lot of haqq said in it, many relevant things to think about. MANY THANKS, from Paris. Barakallahu fikum
Glad you enjoyed it!
I love her and everything she says.
Allahumma barak
May Allah swt protect her Ameen
@@Khadiyah01 Ameen
I love this sister she’s really speaking facts to us girls❤️🙌🏽
@1:24:52 first time listening to this pod. Listened to all of it on new years night. I’ll listen again & respond back in a year on how things are going. InshAllah
Subhanallah this is one of the most relevant talks I've ever heard. May Allah continue to bless you sister!!!! Thanks for another great interview Fairdinkum!! May Allah continue to guide you all!
the best thing a young man can do is learn his deen and ignore the women who show intrest in them. it drives them nuts!
At the fear of sounding like a feminist, I was just about to ask for more episodes with muslim female leaders.
Tbarak Allah, one of my favourite episodes so far.
definitely will be more to come inshaAllah!
Barokallahu Fiikum
I love this sister, as a muslim woman/ indonesian woman..I appreciate her contributes to dakwah in her country
May Allah protect and bless her
As a man, I agree with her thoughts (1:13:15) of a woman working towards pleasing her husband. Quite profound to hear this from a Muslim woman. May her sons rise up and call her blessed!
but there's nothing wrong if the husband try to make his wife happy because in islam the woman should respect her husband and make him happy and the husband also he should protect his wife respect her and make her happy
@@jihyokim612 exactly this people are forgetting it goes both ways
it's everything wrong with this theory dear friend!
Why a woman only should try to please her husband constantly and not both of them? They are a couple. Meaning that both should cherish and respect each other, not the woman only should sacrifice even her dignity for his shake!
Come on, that's a misogynistic mentality, very degrading for women.
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I have a bunch of quotes heres one. ummrahma5025 - "I just want us to have abundant love for each other. Enough that these questions and comparisons don't even come to play". Succeeding; Jihadconqueror21 - "Start by reject the taghuti laws and women taking advantage of their manmade laws. Tell them to be content with what Allah has allowed and decreed
Then tell women to stay at home and not go to colleges.
This will be a huge step and will solve almost all modern day issues. It's crazy right?"
sweettea1193 - "Ikr. Imagine resisting temptation all your life and keeping yourself pure for your husband only for him to deflower you and then start playing mind games... um, no thanks."
ummrahma5025 - "Wow two comments which reflect a whole host of modern day issues, which in the end really have nothing to do with my comment.
I hope you both heal."@@Dida16
"men who are not jelous of their wife are not masculine" but hey thats not misandristic is it? While the same woman says Just peraly things is obssed with men and chassing them. Women who chase men devalue themselves. Sure.@@Dida16
Sister Naima is really inspiring for me as a woman. I think Muslims have employed this idea of being humble to the point of debasement, which is really detrimental for a person's self esteem and confidence.
SubhanAllah there's IQ (Intelligent Quotient), there's EQ (Emotional Quotient) and then there's SQ (Spiritual Quotient) and Shaykha Naima Robert's EQ and SQ is very high. Top alpha female, mashaAllah tabarakAllah.
Please, stop exaggerating.
This is not appropriate.
stop this silly terminology like alpha.
What the heck💀 What kind of redpill bs is this?
IQ doesn't exist. Men and women of all races, financial levels, etc, can be intelligent, average, or below-intelligent, and this has been found throughout history.
Subhanaa Allah, what a beautiful message and reminder,Allah swt help us all take heed pf such beautiful message
I don't agree with her on a certain point when she said that in Islam the woman is the one who is obligated to make her husband happy and not the other way around In Islam the husband is obligated to make his wife happy and the wife is obligated to make her husband happy so I hope you make sure of your religious information before sharing it because because of your misunderstanding non-Muslims think that Islam is insulting to women which is wrong Just as men have an important position women also have an important position
True they’re talking like it’s some slave and master relationship
@@natureismylover1216 just imagine if non Muslims watch her they will think that islam don't support woman's
@@jihyokim612 that’s cuz this people twisted Islam for their misogyny mind they twist Islam to make it seem like it favors them
It’s more than insulting and you know it.
This puts non Muslims off
This is one of the best podcast I've ever seen, l really like sister Naima God bless her.
Glad you enjoyed it
19:00 subhanAllah I thoroughly enjoy Naima's content and find it incredibly beneficial, this has to be one of my favourite episodes, great job on getting this organised!👏
Really enjoyed this podcast it’s been so insightful, the fruit bowl analogy had me👌🏼👌🏼
Really liked this episode. Naima is real...alhamdulillah.
I am happy to serve my husband, nowadays it's seen as being weak but it takes a strong woman to admit it...
I am making a conscious effort to use the time Allah has given me to learn our Deen. Allahu Akhbar 😊
Glad to hear that 💪
You dont serve ur husband what….? You obey him and love him just like how he obeys love and protect you
Masha Allah this is a beautiful podcast, she is so full of wisdom.We need more of her in our society.May Allah bless all the Muslims ameen.
I saw a TikTok clip on her and now this is on my recommended too.
Omg shout out to guinee/Guinea 🇬🇳, saw this on insta & I'm glad I watched this whole thing, on jarama (thank you) this video really influencing me, specially on this journey to find a wife. Thank you both beautiful souls may you receive your blessings for this episode
This video came up first and the thumbnail said MUST WATCH
And Naima b Roberts so i had to watch it
Watching from Mozambique 🇲🇿 and I think that it's an Interesting episode.
Keep doing and inspiring, may Allah accept it and give a Jannatul Firdous to all of us.
Allahuma Ameen!!
mashaallah this was awesome we need more of these conversations especially for the ummah
❤ mashallah sister jazakallah khair for such a powerful and beautiful speech. Allah swt has blessed you with the gift of islam. you are an inspiration for all the muslim women i really admire you and I am very impressed with the knowledge of islam that Allah swt has blessed you with. I pray to Allah that he grants us more intelligent women like you that value islam. May Allah rewards in this world and in the hereafter for your outstanding efforts of spreading islam in a beautiful way. ❤
MashaAllah i am also converted in islam 8 years ago and my islam name is Naima😍❤
This is a brilliant conversation overall. Thank you so much and May Allah bless you both, the team and your families for sharing this insightful, fair and encouraging podcast. Ameen.
Alhamdulillah for this episode! I've been praying for Allah to replace the Secular Rom Com's version of love with what Allah designed marriage to be and this episode showed up at the perfect time. I rarely comment on videos but I just had to. Can't wait to rewatch with my notebook this time! May Allah bless you both.
This REAL Muslimah is going to facilitate longevity in marriage, save alot of broken homes. May Allah preserve her! She speaks a wise approach....subhanAllah...never have I heard of a revivalist mentality before...sister....May Allah preserve you and may you see mountains and mou tains of good deeds on your s ales for lives and families you reach and help preserve from people who lend an ear to your approach.! Ma sincere salams !
This was awesome!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Insightful episode, Allahumma barik ✨
Thank you for this podcast. i came from IG to watch the full video. It is very insightful. Jazakallahu khair
Wa iyakum 🙏🏼
This is so inspirational and powerful, may Allah bless her and her family.
I love the colour coded books in the bookshelf 😅 41:38
Sooo excited to watch this, love sister Naima! Hoping she visits Australia again soon inshaAllah!
Mashallah beautiful, noor just radiating for her speech
Allahumma barak
Mashallah sister may Allah increase ppl like you
Amazing story sister naima I impress thanks❤
There's very few women this logical and sound minded. It's an extreme rarity.
Sometimes it who such women are around, persons who can inspire and develops the seed that lies deep within the female.This seed has been stifled out of fear of empowering females
@@raushanahmuwwakkil3231 Care to elaborate?
This woman is a saint.
What an amazing episode 👌🏽👍🏽
Masha Allah sister you are very sensible may Allah subuhanawatallah guide you and keep you going
Benefited a lot from you Sister, may Allah bless you
Very nice story to listen to you thank you!!
Yep its true nice men do finish last ! Women will forgive and give million chances to toxic abusive men and years of waiting for him to change! However with the nice man they get bored easily and cheat on him or leave him after one little mistake.
A man must be assertive, dominant, have leadership qualities, be able to fight and even if he's a nice guy after all these qualities his wife will be satisfied with him.
Not true
@Adam Khan a man is the maintainer of women. assertive and be in control. She should be submissive.
@@SalehRealist She should be subbmissive and obedient 100%
@@SalehRealist it's hard to be submissive to most men today
Mashallah sister keep up the good work
THANK YOUUUU 🍓🍓🍓🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻I LOVE THIS EPISODE SO MUCH!!!
WE LOVE YOU ❤️
Thank you so much for this
Mansha Allah🎉
Sister naima
wow, so insightful from start to finish.
Both should try to make the other happy. Nowhere it is stated that only the woman should try to make her husband happy.
Amazing story
Mashallah 📿 thank you!
Jazakalau khair
sister naima keeping it real
Insh Allah I'll be back in a year and let y'all know where I am at 😅
I'll check in to see!
@@NaimaBRobertTV I have 4 chapters to go to finish the rough draft; I'll try but I am not gonna lie, it's looking mighty challenging 😅
Masha Allah bless, great talk,subhan Allah 🥰
great one mashallah
May Allah protect her. Ameen
بارك الله فيكم و وفقكم الله لما يحبه ويرضاه آمين يارب العالمين
Allah bless you both my brother and sister. Ameen ya Rabb alaalameen
🙏🏼🙏🏼
I Love this channel 😊
Pls drop em timestamps :)
word
In shaa Allah
I need to cut back on TH-cam consumption. Particularly response videos and those dawah guys. Speakers corner people. I don't see much benefit from my watching them and I have gotten too distracted by that stuff. It reminds me of listening to gossip. I need to stick to actual scholars and avoid the carnival show others provide. It's compelling and gets views, but I can't help but think there is a bad side to that content. And the comment section, wow, it might be best if I don't read any comments.
How rare and unique you are to actually realise this. Just look at the brainless bots constituting most of the comments. Sad our Ummah has gotten this brainless. Our Prophet actually said that near the End, our Muslim numbers will be many in number but weak (in Faith and Intelligence).
YESS THANK YOU THIS WHOLE CONTENT IS COMING FROM A WEIRD PLACE AND WE BOTH KNOW…..anywas can you recommend me some actual scholars
Whatever Allah tells you. You seem superficial and a "victim" type. Yes, YOU should have quit social media, not left a gossip comment against these people. Not very Muslim.
@@natureismylover1216 easy, type it in. Your not trying hard.
Yet your gossiping against these people. You don't consider her a scholar!? Silly.
@@Presiustajah Assalamu Alaykum this sister is not a scholar no one in this account is a scholar nor do they come close to it. Allhamdulliah My Lord has given me channels that have videos of the TRUE SCHOLARS the scholars don’t have TH-cam channels most of them have passed away and some are here. Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Allah does not withhold knowledge by snatching it away from his servants, but rather he withholds knowledge by taking the souls of scholars, until no scholar remains and people follow ignorant leaders. They are asked and they issue judgments without knowledge. Thus, they are astray and lead others astray.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 100, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2673
I Wish I could meet her one day
Love Naima my Zimbabwean sister it will be nice if you could visit us for a talk
It’s really easy to judge others. But we are not the judge. Allah SWT is. Alhamdulillah
جزاک اللہ خیرا
۞ يَسْتَبْشِرُونَ بِنِعْمَةٍ مِّنَ اللَّهِ وَفَضْلٍ وَأَنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُضِيعُ أَجْرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ (171)
- آل عمران
Will return in a year 🤞🏻 inshallah
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Barackallahfeekum
Although Prophet Muhammad (SAW) remarried after Khadijah (RA) and loved his wives. There are many evidences that no one else could replace Khadijah RA and she had a very special place in his heart. Source: Once Aisha (RA) asked him if Khadijah (RA) had been the only woman worthy of his love. The Prophet SAW replied: “She believed in me when no one else did; she accepted Islam when people rejected me; and she helped and comforted me when there was no one else to lend me a helping hand.”
So I disagree with the whole soulmate being a more non Muslim thing because we all have that one person who is for us whether it be in this life or the next. I feel like having no soulmate or multiple soulmates is weird so its not a unfamiliar thing to just really connect with that one person but this is just my opinion. Allah swt knows best!
The last comment left me in tears
Yes, means is waseelah (وسيلة) in Arabic.
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There is something sadly accurate at the 1 hour mark. (1:02). It is the truth about commitment.
The concept sold is commitment. Some say they want someone who will commit. Then they are surrounded by the ones who want to commit. But then they reject the ones who want to commit, so they can pursue the one who does not want to commit. Then they want to complain for the rest of their life how no one wants to commit. (The great lie to cover their own flaws.) But they still deny those who want to commit. But in the end they settle for and abuse the one who wants to commit because they are not the first choice, knowing full and well that they are the most sincere about the one that does NOT want to commit.
Keep in mind they are selling honesty and commitment knowing they are not offering honesty or commitment.
1:05-1:10 She mentioned something about 1 man & 1 woman being a Christian concept, but there were prophets who had multiple wives even within Christianity.
Realistically Christianity doesn't follow the lives of the prophets this is why Islam came and perfected the religion. They don't even pray like the prophets, they eat pork, drink etc etc.
1:06:04 She was spot on, on this topic.
Very nice and inspiring interview. For muslims men and women -- A ship in the harbor is safe , but that is not what ships are made for. We all have to find strengths that Allah has blessed us and see how we can use them to build strong communities. At the same time we should try as men and women to help people in need, and try to get rid of injustices that are unfortunately mostly of cultural values. As parents , need to raise strong children with good muslim values. Always have your hobbies as men and women. If you like to write , or make jewelry, calligraphy, wood working etc . Thats why muslims created beautiful Arts. Get away from that computer. Have good friendships with with your friends and brothers and other relatives. You must have seen those pictures from old times, when 20 people are sitting listening to one wise men on the floor. All old learned traditions made people humble. May be how to have a fulfilling life.
Did any of wifes of rasool Allah(sws) had conversations with any of shaba(rz) on any matter like this side by side sittings?
Great video
Where are these good guys sister?
You don’t see them they only appear when you ask Allah to give them to you
what a beautiful talk sister
Mashallah
1:20:00
Watching here from celly devero
من يريد تعلم شي في هذه الحياه يجده في القران كل شي (اللهم اجعل خلقنا القران)