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- 🌟 Join Sh. Wael Ibrahim, Mufti Menk and DR Muhammad Salah in an enlightening discussion on s*xual rights and responsibilities in #Islam.
This video addresses misconceptions about s*xual intimacy between spouses, offering insights on marital intimacy, rights, and responsibilities.
Islam is based on authentic knowledge and clear guidance. This discussion offers exactly that, a clarity on how to maintain a healthy relationship within the Islamic boundaries.
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#Intimacy
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#DrMSalah
As a young muslimah, this topic needs to be discussed and to be made aware about. Thank you
for sure woman especially need it the most
@@ashdumpss3781aah… propably both of us need it the same but marriage isnt a competition or a battle there should be sakinah in the house
Please!!!!! We need a part 2!!I’m a revert. I’ve been Muslim for 4 months. I’m still learning and I loved that this was very informative.
What you want to know??
Part 2 will be coming up around October Insh a Allah. Keep following this page Insh a Allah and other Mashayekhs too
Mashallah
with whole family or just u
I am not Muslim, I am a Christian from South Africa. I came across this video by the grace of God I guess because I love listening to Muslim Scholars
It’s a very informative and eye opening video. Thank you Sirs
allahuma barik 🥰
MAy Allah guide you to The right path and being muslim
Im from south africa too my algortithm brought me here 😂
@@meygya9977You should still respect someone if they don't want to convert to Islam. Just saying
@@retroman5432yes we do respect… there is no one forcing anybody to revert towards Islam…
This is a HUGE problem in Pakistani and Indian Muslim couples. No one likes to talk about these important subjects which reaults in out of marriage relationships and unhappy lifes
Who told the elders about sex? They act all Innocent The men force the wife on the wedding night
Complaining of the unplanned pregnancies if it’s a girl
Bro, Indian and Pakistani cultures make no sense about anything. Let alone religion. 😂
Its just a modified form of feudalism
@@piqueny8872It's one of fear, the men should give some time to newly married bride to be comfortable
an good percentage amount of pak marriages are fasikh if I said it right, that they have lived 5+ years yet in islam the pact is not valid
That's actually to true. I feel like they try to keep u innocent minded but they don't understand that they are not educating us on our rights as woman . Same thing goes for menstruation. Everything needs to be a secret
This is a huge problem in Pakistan. A big one. Men can always find a second, third woman but Pakistani women are "sacrificing" in these marriages resulting in dissatisfaction and frustration and unhappy marriages.
"I protected myself from Haram for what?" So accurate!
Jazakallahukhair for covering this topic.
u also have a right of divorce and if not than khula.Just ask ur parents if u dont want to live with ur husband.
@ABUBAKAR-yi8eg The divorce wouldn't be necessary if the husband just satisfied their spouse. Secondly, getting remarried is difficult, and the new husband may be the same. The problem is a societal problem, not an individual problem. Getting a divorce does not fix it.
@@bz.t2742 what u gonna do if he dosent satisfy uu?
@@bz.t2742 its not that husband dont want to satisfy their spouses rather they cant.So just take a divorce if u cant be patient.Its better than being in haram relationships.
@@bz.t2742 if new husband maybe the same,it means u are a turnoff.
I wish I had access to these types of videos, by these highly esteemed and educated scholars of Islam, back in my time. It’s too late for me, but I’m glad that the youth of today have easy access to videos like these. May ٱللَّٰهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ grant hidayah to every couple, and may ٱللَّٰهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ reward the Shaykhs for making this video. أمين
Aameen Ya Allah
It's never too late !!!
Alhamdulilah
Aamiiin
Aameen
As a single Muslimah, I must say it was a very helpful video to understand the basics of physical intimacy of spuoses in Islam, the rights and the wrongs under the shadows of the Quran, and Hadiths, both shiekhs explained the topic well, I'm curious what could be in its next episode. May Allah bless you all, and may Allah grant us righteous spouses and forgive us all. Ameen Ya Rabbal Alameen!❤
Mufti plz talk about girls who were ra*ed in childhood, about their trauma, healing, fear.
I was 5, it still haunt me. Although I’m taking therapy now. Still I’m afraid of men.
I am afraid of even my father and brothers. Plz don’t take me wrong I see all men as beast. No matter how hard I try. As i was abused by my Mahram my uncle.
What Islam says about us.
I want to get married now, I convinced myself after a long battle and struggles but still I’m afraid of men. How does it work in marriage, how my potential husband ll understand, that’s it’s not his fault, but I’m carrying scar from childhood.
Plz plz talk more, you know there are many like us but nobody talk about us. Even our mothers wanted us to keep quiet so that we won’t bring shame to family.
We suffer in silence whole our life. Only because suicide is haram I didn’t commit it. But there is no justice for us.
Only crying in silence and hoping to die soon.
@@Sara-nl6es InshaAllah we will address this next video.
So sad being female maybe I can feel your pain, May Allah reward you alot for your patience....If I suggest you sth I didn't moved through this situation but I also have sort of phobia ,It decreased alot when someone in love approached me
May allah make it easier for you sister the hardship you are going through...
Sorry to hear that ukhti....one of a young neighbourhood imam touched me in my private parts while teaching me quran when i was just 5 or 6....Eventhough that ,still haunt me to my adulthood,so i can imagine how serious your pain will be...But don't lose hope,not all men are the same and make plenty of duas to Allah to give u a righteous,loving spouse...May Allah give u all the strength and rewards for ur patience sis🥰🥰🫂🫂🫂
Assalamu Alaikum Sister, and to the other sisters in the replies. I am so sorry that such horrible things were done to you by men you were supposed to trust. Even those men who claimed to follow the Deen and then exploited an innocent child in this horrendous way. Lanatullah Alayhi on such predators lest they turn to Allah.
This pain is unimaginable for me, I cannot even bear the thought of going through something like this. But I can assure you my beloved sisters, those men are few and far in between, and you will get your justice on the day of judgement InshaAllah. But you should not let this trauma drive you to hate and fear all men. It is irrational to expect that all men would wish such visceral harm on you, just like if one/few women caused you harm wouldn't mean all women are evil.
There are countless, practicing, true Iman having Muslim men out there who outnumber such animals many times over. You have to have taqwah and tawakkul in Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala and take this leap of faith, and trust that He will align you with a husband who will do right by you in the truest sense.
Don't get me wrong, you will never find a perfect husband/wife because we humans are imperfect by design. It's very likely that the other person will not be 100% what you want. But that would not mean they would wish the same things on you like those lustful animals would. I sincerely wish that you all would receive the best partners fid dunya wal akhira.
You have one of the hardest tests I've ever seen. And I can assure you, the reward to get through this life with full conviction in Allah, will grant you such grand rewards, you would have not imagined such a thing in a million years. May Allah guide us all to what is most beloved to him. Stay strong for his sake
Please let mufti menk also speak 🗣️ ....we want to hear him more...or just organise questions for both of them differently
Yes, you're right.
Your are right
Please stop cutting off mufti menk. We actually want to hear him the most
YES! , people arent noticing this
So true 😣👍
Lol Mashallah he is so gracious, polite, and in control of his emotions to let the others talk.
If Prophet Muhammad SAWW talked and educated his companions about sexual life then why it’s so difficult for our Islamic scholars to talk about it… there’s so many problems in society bcz of sexual relationships between husband and wife. Scholars has the duty to teach what’s halal and haram and raised awareness about it specially in sceneries where people stuck in a marriage and fear to get divorced
True..! They're STILL Not Entirely comfortable talking about it... The other sheikh looked visibly defensive as soon as the host/ interviewer mentioned 'sexual...'.
Why?
What is this hypocrisy. Isn't this the biggest harm you've done to believing women??
Astagfirullaah..
You've Talked and preached about what women 'should be' and 'should not be', all these years...
Openly neglecting their existence as human beings capable of having sexual experiences rightfully.
Aren't you ALL responsible for the shame we carry???
You objectified us.
You created this perception that we are just things that should be changed and adjusted to suit the husbands and fathers and brothers needs.
What honour do we carry?
Why give us the burden of carrying your honor??
Can't you carry your own Honor..??
All those women who have been abused sexually, (especially by immediate family, including me, even today), can never believe a word coming out of your mouths,
we only believe in Allah. Not men.
We don't need you explaining the Qur'an to us. We don't need you at all.
Go to hell.
Hypocrites, took them too long....
I'm a revert muslim Sheikh I’ve been waiting for this video from you and here it is. I highly appreciate you for covering the best info in this one video.The video is lengthy, but I’m glad that you covered the most part Alhamdulillah
😢😢😢😢SUBANAALLAH MY 16YRS OF PRACTICE AS A FAMILY LIFE COACH I PRAYED FOR THIS DAY,I WAS ATTACKED BY TEACHING SUCH TO OUR MUSLIM COUPLES BUT I ALWAYS HAVE IMMAN THAT ONE DAY IT WILL COME TO LIGHT....PART 2 IS NEEDED MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU ALL SHEIKS.
110% keep doing this type of video where it is in-depth and providing examples. As a revert, it is wonderful to see.
MashaAllah, this is a much needed talk amongst all Muslims. I have been married for over 20 years and have dealt with some of the issues mentioned throughout my marriage. It is not easy. May Allah continue to guide us all. Ameen!
I would still like to know what sheykh mufti menk wanted to say at the beginning when he was cut off 😅 but masha Allah for adressing these topics
Me too
Just wanted to give a feedback. Getting a right scholar who has time to sit for even an hour counseling or mediation is rare nowadays. The number of cases that needs help from a scholar or imam vs the number of available knowledgeable local imam or scholar are not proportional. Scholars are rare to find and their time to help people in need is also very very limited. There’s not much of Muslim scholar/counselor around also. It could be very difficult to get help nowadays. Please continue this unplugged episodes of various topics. We need more availability of imams and scholars in-person and online for guidance, advice and help in marital and other counseling. JazakAllahu Khairan!
This video is highly needed in this time.
There must . . . A must. . . Seminars like this before marriage. It must be a requirement.
I thought my handset lost the battery power but it was a portion of video which was mute JazakAllah brother in Islam nothing can me more wonderful than this a great input i hope the people will and married couples will rush to you Alhamdulillah it's great to see you talking about looking forward for more videos
Lol! I was thinking the same thing. The voice is missing for some reason.
@@mdarifRRT i changed my headset twice but found the video was muted for some reason
They muted this so the world don't hear the primitivism of muslim men...
Masha ALLAH Mufti Menk's smile is so amusingly contagious 😂 May ALLAH bless him
Thank you Shayukh, please do a part 2 and another series for divorce. I’ve had so many questions for so long and Alhamdulillah, this video answered a lot of it. I am very content with this video and the religion of Allah. Thank you once more for making me fall more in love with the deen.
Insh a Allah we will. Probably in October when we meet again Insh a Allah. So, stay tuned Insh a Allah.
@@ShWaelIbrahim
But here's my question. What do I do if my penis is small, 4 inches erect, and I'm impotent. I'm 22, ill, depressed, because I cannot get married due to this reason to the girl I love. I have hypogonadism, it's a sickness that messed up my puberty but I'm not sure if my size will increase by treatment as I've passed the age of puberty. People say size doesn't matter but it does, I'm not even average size, I'm below, and women desire a hard and strong penis for sexual intercourse to achieve satisfaction. I used to say I don't want to get married when I was small child but now what do I do? I want to get married, I want have a halal marriage and have halal sex but I'm only 22 and I'm suffering. What do I do? I want to die. I'm asking my lord to grow my private part and make me potent as no medication has helped me at all. Please Sheikh, Please anyone, help me. I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life, I don't want to die alone. I want to kill myself but I can't because this is haram.
@@---xx7vrdid you get my reply akhi
Please let mufti menk make his points barakallahu feek😊
I think there is no video as such in internet. Learn so much about such important topic in such a beneficial and blessed and transparent way. May Allah SWT bless you. I love the joke of Sheikh at the end" if you feel offended don't watch it, watch Kiyam Alayl" ...really refreshing to listen and learn from each one of you😊. Looking forward to your event in Zanzibar with Sheikh Hammuda insha'Allah. Hope he will be joining your great discussions in the unplugged
Would love to hear more from mufti Menk. I feel like on some moments, he was spoken ontop of. He articulates things so well tabarakallah
I felt that too
We request more episodes on this topic in more details and please let Mufti Menk talk more please.
Highly appreciate for bringing up this topic. This is very much needed.
Since the video was longer than 10 mins, I suggest you create chapters, so people can skip or jump back to a topic. It'll be very helpful, Thank you.
Longer is better it
Means more information.
Amazing and a much needed conversation. For the future episodes I would like to ask the following questions-
What acts inside the bedroom are permitted and what acts are prohibited?
And is including toys permissible?
All acts are allowed except to approach ones wife from behind meaning back passage, and approaching her during the period. Toys isn't an issue but the husband should help with that. Wife or the husband should not help themselves. With toys it shouldn't be the first resort. As it creates reliance on them. But if need then yes.
It’s true spouses should please each other but like the sheikhs said if the wife is exhausted from childcare, working (whether external or domestic) all day etc she can refuse provided it’s not a deliberate habit
Men should take note from that and help their wives out with cooking, childcare , work etc so she’s not exhausted
We want to hear more from mufti menk too x
Very benefficial video and a great reminder. May Allah bless you and reward you for your work.
I appreciate the sheikh so much that he talked about the pms point, i am a testimony as a girl that during periods /pms a girl needs the man emotionally much more than other days
The most important topic to talk about.We are waiting for the next episode.really appreciated.JAZAK’ALLAH
I'm a teenage and this part of islam is discussed with such a good manner I really appreciate your efforts and it was also really informative may allah keep us safe from wrong thing's we want a second episode........
Asoa sheikh. Firstly JazakAllah for shedding light on such an important topic.
I wanted to request an unplugged video series on the topic of; if a person is willing to quit the porn addiction, how can he do that and regain a healthy life(discuss the methods and ways). Because you told to get help from counsellor but not everyone has an easy access to a good one. If you also suggest a good diet for that, it’ll be also a great help. May Allah be pleased with us all and guide us all to the right path and bless us with health, iman and barakah in all aspects of life.
Jazak Allah Khair . Very timely video. Much appreciated. Please take up the issue of what is permissible by Islam in intimacy. We know what is prohibited for sure but there are some gray areas where if nothing is known from Quran and Sunnah then still provide some guidance based on Hikmah. It is necessary because of pornography, youth are chasing fantasies. Therefore provide a fence based on Hikmah so that they remain within decency and boundaries.
Masha Allah, what a beautiful and respectable discussion on marriage and intimacy. JazakAllah respected Shuyookh
Mash Allah thank you all for this video ❤️ Also can we please stop cutting off Mufti Menk. Habibi we want to hear his opinion as well. Allahumma Barik to you all❤️
this was AWESOME!!! May Allah preserve all of you and reward you for your good work and then multiply it. The ummah needed this video. Thank you barakAllahufeekum
I was shared a story of a couple who are in their 70s now but when they married a long time ago the night of their honeymoon she denied him and never had intamacy with hime ever again.. i was in shock like how on earth can someone be so cruel..they are still married but he cheated a couple of times and i can attest they have both lost their minds in every way possible..such a sad devestating story.
They should have divorced each other
I'm guessing it wasn't just the couple in the question who are responsible for this tragedy, but the overall societal structure that made solving the issue difficult if not impossible.
The man should have divorced. This is why men cheat mostly.
JazakAllah Khayr Brothers Alhamdulillah, this is lots of wisdom. Purely Quran and Hadith(Sunnah)... Ma'sha Allah ❤
Shiekh your channel helped me alot, in overcoming so many things in my life. I love you for the sake of Allah swt. 🫶🏻
Thank you. Islam is soo good. My Allah is so merciful and great.
ALLAHOUMA AMEEEN YAH RAHBI ALAHMIN
JazakAllah for this. But i wish Mufti Menk wasnt interupted so much 😕
The video is mute may be due to some reason but i got answer of so many questions in my head and so some reason i was not able to ask the local imaam i reverted to Islam long ago but believe me brother Wael Ibhrahim this video is absolutely amazing and answer to all my questions please keep it up
"Haram Marriage"... Subhan Allah, I never knew about this concept until now. It makes perfect sense. I'm saving this video to share with my children, and looking forward to future episode(s) on this topic.
Jazakum Allahu Khairan, gentlemen!
Please talk about specifics of what we can do and what we can’t do with our spouse and vice versa.
As far as I know anything except for anal sex or sex during menstruation
Rare video we need more discussion like this 🙏
This topic is also helpful to those considering marriage and not only to those already married. Thank you again. I am so happy this is being discussed. Jazakah Allah Khairan
Alhamdulillah. Extremely important topic. Sheiks, this is a service to Islam. Our beautiful religion does not shy away from taboo topics. Halal and haram are clearly defined, and every halal act with pure intention is an act of ibadah. Allahu Akbar.
Alhamdulilah I commend the brothers for speaking on topics like these including Hadith disciple. They are giving needed information.
Assalamualaikum
Am from Nigeria. And I will like to thank you Soo much for these effort. Among The issues here in my area is cleanliness of the body, miswak. If they always emphasize that the woman should be clean then why not also the men also. There's a lot that need to be addressed,. I only hope that these goes to those who really need it.
Jazakumullahu bikhair. Alhamdulillah
Thank you for mentioning it because society focuses on the hygiene of women but they rarely mention to men how to take care of their hygiene
I am a secular Christian, which in a spiritual landscape, is somewhere between Christianity and secular human culture. Many of these things are familiar to me from my parents congregation.
Actually, to be honest with you, these men reminded a lot about the wise men of The Christian congregation I went as a child. I can see that they have wisdom and patience in their hearts.
But I am also in the world and I know that some of these words are very troubling from that perspective. May God forgive our sins and bless us all with his wisdom and love. ,🙏
Masha'Allah very informative. We need more discussions on this topic so i recommend some more episodes to educate our young generation who has no knowledge what is allowed and what is not in Islam, since there is no discussions by aur scholars on this topic so they watch and learning from nonbelievers.
Wow what an educational talk. Young should be educated before marriage .
Thank you for this. Can you please talk more about ways to protect one’s self when single? Esp for women, since just deciding to get married isn’t realisiticlly in our hands. Asking for a friend 👀
protect one’s self in what way? if you’re not married this topic doesn’t really apply sister
@@shaylamariahunfortunately this is the problem.. unmarried people still have desires and needs. We cannot pretend otherwise. Given this is part of human nature, my question how can we manage those needs appropriately without committing sin? And saying ‘go get married’ to a women isn’t an a practical answer because this is not how most cultures works. I know patience and Istighfar is part of the answer, but would still be helpful if they address this directly. Perhaps there are greater promises from Allah to people in these situations that we’re not aware of, and knowing them would help keep us more grounded.
@@rtu8054okay i see. it’s known that when you give up haram for halal, allah blesses you in ways beyond our imaginations so for now maybe just keep this in mind until you’re able to find an answer that better suits what you’re asking inshallah
@@rtu8054 but honestly, if you’re looking for ways to manage your needs find a halal outlet to take your mind off of it. it you sit on the idea for too long, jinn can easily enter the body
@@rtu8054 fasting
Very important topic but please allow each one to finish his comments because you were cutting off each other too much. may Allah bless you.
46:03 I hope no one stays for the sake of the kids in a toxic/abusive relationship, pack your kids and go, Allah will help you raise them inshaAllah
I have been through that mess and whenever I spoken about it to my parents all I'm replied with is " to be patient "
The more patient I was the more children I had,
we ended up divorced I haven't remarried since.
Jazak Allahu Khayr for this. Especially the part explaining the cycles of women. And the high and dry thing. Have you all heard of Habeeb Akende? I don’t know if he is a scholar or anything but he is talking about intimacy in Islam. He has a book about kunyaza(an practice for helping women attain their bliss) and intimacy in Islam. It would be really interesting to see what the scholars say about these books. Jazak Allahu Khayr.
As you mentioned the widespread of sexual desire, what is the ruling of performing oral sex wearing or not wearing flavoured condom? And what can one do if thier spouse(husband or wife) demands it? I think it needs to be cleared in details amongst the youth (including me) unfortunately . I learned a lot today thank you so much.
I would.like to know too but all the answer we gets is yaaa it's haram or it may b allowed but it'd makrooh this and that not a straight answer
@@native5647 Good to discuss this issue in PART 2 of the video InshaAllah.
Oral sex is not the way of the Muslims. Should be avoided at all costs
@@ShWaelIbrahim when is part 2 coming
My fiancee is Muslim I was wondering the same about oral. I was also curious about couples using vibration devices in bed. Not inserted. Are those allowed?
Can't wait for part 2.
Ya Akkhi that's a generous giveaway, especially at these times when nowhere to go and seek help this is great help to brothers and sisters how to thank you guys finally some one has gather a courage to talk about it openly this is the biggest contribution and only Allah can reward you for this
Am not yet married but Alhamdullillah I get knowledge and is the best to so that when someone will to my home I'll have good questions to ask and may the Almighty guide us all🤲🤲🤲☪️ and our sheikh thanks for acknowledging us ... From Africa KENYA
i loved this podcast but please let Mufti Menk speak... he could barely get a word out and I was so interested to hear what he was going to say
Sheikh you solve 50 percent of my questions
Very beneficial video please make part 2
JazakAllah Khair for covering this topic in a Beautiful Way, Very Educative & Enlightening video on Husband and Wife Intimacy Rights in Islam. Made me fall in Love with Islam even more.
May Allah continually Guide us and keep us Muslims on a Straight Path, Ameen.
Such a beautiful talk... not graphical at all. May Allah reward all of you.
Allahuakbar, I think this topic would cover the very root of the problem in marriages. Big problems can be solved just through simple truth of understanding the meaning of the main problem.
This was such a needed discussion,very informative. Especially coming from scholars; couples will understand their is no shame in these topics.
Jazakumu Allahu khairan, we're anticipating more from you sirs.
Saving marriages within the Ummah will help the world so much. The divine union between man and woman is a foundation that should be protected as our humanity depends on it.
Marital rape is one topic that should be discussed and cleared …
There are videos about this topic as well and let me give the main idea its not allowed. It is haram .
But please do watch the complete video as there is much more we need to understand.
It was discussed. They said that it says in Qur'an you can not beat your wife, then expect her to go to bed with you. This makes it clear to me at least, that violence or mistreatment should not be followed up NY demanding sexual access and gratification. So, rape here is an act of violence, not simply an action that doesn't appeal to the wife at that moment. They made it clear that if the wife is dick or exhausted she has an excuse. But refusing the husband sexual access for no good reason makes Allah ANGRY with her.
I think it is important to distinguish between what the Sheikh say and what Anglo-Saxon countries say about what actually constitutes rape by definition. The American idea that consent can be withdrawn at any stage, even during the marital act itself, and if the husband doesn't stop it's regarded as rape. They don't even consider if he is capable of stopping at a late stage, so there is a question of nuance, definition of the term "rape", and more to consider. It is not a clear black and white situation and requires some discussion before issuing fatawaa.
Please make very detail series on this we especially young Muslims need this basic knowledge from someone authentic,
May Allah bless you all for your work ameen
What you shaikhs are saying makes sense and is from Islam ☪️
Please only one scholar at a time. Both have a lot to share, but an hour isn't enough for one scholar, much less two.
Salaams, maybe next time they can talk about young couples getting married who don’t know anything, maybe young men who are too hasty and harsh with their new spouses and young ladies who are afraid and aren’t ready.
And also talking about this stuff with perspective spouses.
SubhanAllah. Just what I needed to hear. May Allah reward all three of you. Very important topic. Hope to hear more about the topics you mentioned in the video in sha Allah
Salam to you all... May ALLAH unite you all in paradise like this.
i"ve learn lots from this conversation. lots off issues are in married becz we not educated on it..... i hope you sheiks can endevaour and continue educating us.
AssalamuAlaikum Mashallah!
I was born and raise as a Christian but when Allah guide me I embraced my Islamic Faith dig more the beauty of Sunnah of our Phrophet Muhammad (PBUH) Internalised the beauty of our Quran now I really understand the beauty of holisticly what is the meaning of Life the reason of being.
May Allah grant us all in Jannatul Firdaus.
Forgive us short coming. Jazakallah Khairun Shiek Mufti, Shiek Wael and Shiek Salah for helping the Ummah. Allahuma Ameen
Walykum salaam warahmathullahy wabarakathuhu. I would also suggest using Islamaqa info for Islamic questions. They have already answered many types. Very reliable and detailed information.
I just got married last month and also still learning slowly about marriage life according to islam, each others duty, husband and wife rights and so on. Thankyou for the video, i have learnt new knowledge. I wish to see more of the videos like this so can we have better understanding in terms of marriage life and sexual life according to Islam.
Marshall Mashallah, I hope you have a blessed marriage. I would suggest a series on marriage. Called marriage in the shade of the scholars. It is very good.
24:00 Women are in most need during their ovulation not pms (premenstural syndrome, not periods btw). This is also the time she most likely is going to be pregnant. (That's why the body wants sexual intercourse, so she can reproduce). Ovulation phase happens after about 2 weeks of their periods/menstruation. Also during pms women easily feel irritated because their emotions are going crazy due to fluctuations in hormones. So she will need comforting and understanding even though she doesn't understand herself sometimes. PMS happens few days before their periods.
I see whenever mufti menk tries to speak , the other sheikh takes over 😢
The feedback from this episode… please allow mufti menk to speak more and stop cutting him off respectfully
Jazakumullahu khairan for this video.
JazakAllah brother Wael and every one in the video may Allah bless them with unlimited favours
As a married man sometimes you can't openly ask questions to the Sheikh can you please provide the form where only married couples are allowed to ask questions JazakAllah Khair
Video is full of information and I learned so much from you guys Alhamdulillah
Thanks brother im listening with my better half
JazakAllah bro
جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ
Allahhumma Barik Brother
Almighty bless you all Aameen keep sharing as much as you can
Wow, you can see the frustration in them from seeing all the couples who need help with their issues 😢 What good men. Allah help them to continue to teach compassion and understanding between men and women 39:51
Much appreciated, jazak Allah khair. Few points and a few possible topics : 1) the mic cuts off sometimes, maybe subtitles can make up for those moments? 2) please don’t move to another topic before both scholars had their say 3) many women’s virginity/past is questioned before marriage, what’s the Islamic ruling? 4) can you ask your (future) partner to be to be tested for std’s? 5) what’s the Islamic ruling on contraceptives? 6) what’s the Islamic ruling on oral sex? 7) what’s the Islamic ruling on sex during the wife’s pregnancy?
جزاکم اللہ خیرا
Subhanallah, I'm only halfway through the video and am so thankful for such a beautiful way of speaking on an important topic.
Man you have shaken me there is so much to learn and understand May Allah forgive my sins and this is eye opening reminder brother i request you please don't forget to upload more videos
I'm glad you are duscussing this. My wife tries to dodge intimacy at every occasion. When it does happen she puts in the minumum effort and goes straught back on her phone afterwards.
Follow the quran... sleep in seperate beds etc until she comes around
This type of Video is so needed by Muslims we can finally learn in a modest way but still stating things clearly. May Allah swt reward you dear mashaeikhs.
If you didn't want Mufti Menk to speak, why did you invite him to this episode in the first place? Allow him to speak… Or are you just trying to gain popularity by riding on Mufti Menk's fame?
Don't ignite, when he is ok with it, he is happy, he is not complaining, it's okay. Everybody said in the video and three of them were right.
they love eachother in brotherhood and are friends, just try and respect that @@tisch9233
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jazak'Allah kheir for such an important topic usually not taught by parents. May Allah give us tighyous spouses and the coolness of our eyes. Ameen!
JazakAllah Sheikh i was looking for the video but i don't know you uploaded here it's very helpful for the couples and i forwarded to all my friends who are married
JazakAllah
I will encourage my husband to watch this video we must keep sharing this one to others
@@SaenSayi hope you got the answer there is answer of your question listen to it carefully
@@Dr.Rudabafor sure go a head they have decided to bring more videos over the matter Alhamdulillah
@@iqrahFark90 JazakAllah i heard what he said Allahumbarik beloved Alhamdulillah for the solution it's a mercy of Allah
After a long wait finally our sheikhs decided to bring it up to the surface and educating us in this matter of life which most important for the married guys جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا
Thanks Alot Brothers And keep it coming in the next episodes… We need it more than ever and May Allah guide us All and May Allah bless all three of you and the crew behind and the listeners Ameen♥️
“8 years and 9 years know more than what we talked about”😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you very much. This is very educative. As you said in the later part concerning bringing another episode, we will be looking forward to that. Jazakallahu khairan❤❤❤
Thank you so much. This was so educational. May Allah guide us unto the right path
Aameen
Asslamualaikum,plz sir talk about giving some time to newly bride after marriage to be comfortable,I have heard that some forcefully do this,that horrifies me.
Salam Alaykum dear brother.
May Allah reward you all for making this video
I would appreciate it very much if they could talk about what to know for men before getting married/ meaning doing halal act just like prophet Muhammad have said
If they could talk about this
Meaning educating men before they get married
May Allah bless and reward you brether