SOCIETAL STEREOTYPES - S2E12 | The Honest Bunch Podcast ( FKA Frankly Speaking )

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  • Today we discuss common societial steroeotypes.
    have you been a victim of any? do you think there are any truths?
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  • @funsokayode2522
    @funsokayode2522 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Naomi is reinforcing the stereotype of pastors kids but vehemently defending Igbo stereotype because it concerns her. Well done warrior

    • @afolarinokusanya9537
      @afolarinokusanya9537 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You sef notice. Any 'negative' stereotypes,she asks "Where's the survey" but the one that sits well with her,that one na facts.

    • @naijarealty247tv5
      @naijarealty247tv5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She is obviously selfish and has a lot to learn and unlearn.

    • @naijarealty247tv5
      @naijarealty247tv5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@afolarinokusanya9537 gbam!

  • @chikodilianthonia7739
    @chikodilianthonia7739 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Naomi needs to unlearn and relearn a lot of things

    • @naijarealty247tv5
      @naijarealty247tv5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 1000X

    • @ENEsVLOG
      @ENEsVLOG ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just on point

    • @tinimii9260
      @tinimii9260 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Like 😂 she opens her mouth and I feel like my IQ drops a lil

    • @obed_dodo
      @obed_dodo ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is literally my mind. Her thoughts are very disappointing and quite frankly attempts to lower my IQ. SMH

    • @tamsworldmusic
      @tamsworldmusic ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No one said it better 😒

  • @Kingisdriving
    @Kingisdriving ปีที่แล้ว +9

    pastor daughter please live your life and do what makes you happy.. life na dice. great show guys..

  • @brownie_g
    @brownie_g ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I disagree, Pastor's Children are not the worst, it's because society has put a perception on how they are supposed to be.

    • @jephthahdavid1777
      @jephthahdavid1777 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      People have high expectations on them

    • @joshdiction
      @joshdiction ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Very true 📌

    • @yesfine40gmailcom
      @yesfine40gmailcom ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Speak the honest truth bra.They are not the worst but they come short based on the expectations

    • @brownie_g
      @brownie_g ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@yesfine40gmailcom why are you expecting from them, they are also human beings and they will make mistakes

    • @yesfine40gmailcom
      @yesfine40gmailcom ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brownie_g What they are doing is it right to call it a mistake,if you are fully aware of the consequence and still do it it's no more a mistake. And this is one of the reasons people say they are worse

  • @ogoro3066
    @ogoro3066 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "Your husband cannot be an odogwu and be complaining💅 " - Naomi 2022

    • @francisdestiny120
      @francisdestiny120 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Naomi and her rubbish talks

    • @gistwithgeraldine
      @gistwithgeraldine ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But she's right though I have an aunt married to an odogwu his family members are in his own sometimes we visit too but he no dey complain money dey excess if you don't have it's a different thing entirely

  • @giftiroh3682
    @giftiroh3682 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    NAOMI SHOULD ALWAYS ALLOW PEOPLE FINISH THEIR SENTENCES, BEFORE JUMPING IN

  • @pamelajibrin4281
    @pamelajibrin4281 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How am I just knowing about "frankly speaking" in 2023.... I have gone to watch every old video. Shebi I would have asked to be in the studio too.
    Nice work guys....

  • @Malingerer1505
    @Malingerer1505 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Calabar girls #1. Dem dey knack well well!

  • @mitchelled1709
    @mitchelled1709 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This podcast makes my day every single time. I would love you guys to discuss societal stigmatization. maybe focus on STIs

  • @silver_wireless
    @silver_wireless ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm in Enugu, and I don't mind coming over to be on your podcast in Lagos......... Been following you guys since day one and would love to be a part of it... ☺️

  • @damilolaakala1671
    @damilolaakala1671 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loooool... I love this show 🤣🤣🤣 Facts and hits flying up and down

  • @adediranabudu1122
    @adediranabudu1122 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Well done guys! Husband material my all time fav

  • @blessingnsembowo7495
    @blessingnsembowo7495 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Husband material's facial reaction is everything 😂😂😂😂

  • @yosolaoyewo6429
    @yosolaoyewo6429 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love you guys and actually want to be on the podcast some day. I disagree sha and I have my reservations about pastors children cause the society paints us as perfect, forgetting we are also humans…You can’t say cause you met one or two then all are same. Also I really love you guys and the show ..

    • @victoriabapetel9339
      @victoriabapetel9339 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s why it seems like we are the so called “baddest” it’s just because of the expectations society has on us

  • @_blackdexter
    @_blackdexter ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The editor put Okafor's law as the episode title😂... Meridian Club Cream you do well😂

    • @ha_diza
      @ha_diza ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Him too like okafor's law😂😂😂😂

    • @_blackdexter
      @_blackdexter ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ha_diza 😂😂

  • @emmanuelbamidele6886
    @emmanuelbamidele6886 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Toun looking beautiful as always 😍....Nedu nah low key ashawo 😂

  • @degenius9799
    @degenius9799 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this show, pls invite more high ranking individuals from other facets of life. Like Finance, Academics, Business etc. not just from entertainment industry.

  • @winnermichael94
    @winnermichael94 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wish I could get to be on the podcast.
    I love the whole bluntness and energy that y’all exude.❤😊

  • @saniabdul-ghafaar5754
    @saniabdul-ghafaar5754 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I agree with Nedu about the stereotype of igbo women being wicked to their househelps

  • @chisomukandu1601
    @chisomukandu1601 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I like this Naomi shaa 🤣🤣🤣... She's clearly stereotyping this Cassie.

  • @vikthorjamz3941
    @vikthorjamz3941 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yeah... The fattening room is true but its mostly for brides to be... But it also to all girls,Some families do it too...

    • @cutejemuel1037
      @cutejemuel1037 ปีที่แล้ว

      No sir, fating room is for mother who just put to birth. They are kept there till when the family will take their child to church for dedication

  • @evolvegodzown1550
    @evolvegodzown1550 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    am in Lagos and would totally love to be on frankly speaking....Love you guys

  • @damiloladapherede6008
    @damiloladapherede6008 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is now my favourite podcast..lol. I love you Guys

  • @tochukwuiloka1074
    @tochukwuiloka1074 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Husband material 🔥💯 articulated you are a learned fellow bro I gat so much love for you ❤️ frankly speaking is the best podcast if you are not watching you are missing

  • @mikelis135
    @mikelis135 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "How can anyone see you like this and expect Godliness?" 😭😭😂😂😂 This wan leader geh no go kee person 😭😭😂😂

    • @chinagoziorji5427
      @chinagoziorji5427 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That was harsh of her like she is a saint

    • @adaezekwelu7727
      @adaezekwelu7727 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That part off me😂😂😂

    • @chiomaesther6218
      @chiomaesther6218 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don't even find it funny, that was really thoughtless

  • @favemoments
    @favemoments ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ahhh I’m so happy fans can now be guests 🎉🎉 and I can’t wait to be on the show. I’m in Lagos and I’ve already dusted my suit 😅
    Husband material said, ‘whether na the guy wey dey press or the woman wey dem dey press’ 😂😂😂 I died

  • @beckie1115
    @beckie1115 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Please have a session to discuss "tribalism" in Nigeria -could be in marriage or life in general. It is quite interesting

  • @ojeimoses9781
    @ojeimoses9781 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nedu dey always know person 😂😂😂😂

  • @favemoments
    @favemoments ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You can’t help but love big Nayyy 😂😂😂😂

  • @daprincehwc
    @daprincehwc ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If you're a pastor's child and you lack moral behavior and am not saying you have to be holy or spiritual but if your behavior is not different from that of a street girl then your pastor's parent might not be taken seriously. the problem with some of our youth today is they are selfish and will not willing to sacrifice anything for their parent, being upright is for your own good and safety.

  • @tochukwuiloka1074
    @tochukwuiloka1074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Calabar lady in the house is very honest. Nay nay shaa 😂😂 I dey Lagos oo make una invite me oo

  • @vickyeromosele8322
    @vickyeromosele8322 ปีที่แล้ว

    Naomi. Ur hair suits you mehnnn. Really nice. Please pastors children are not the worst and they are human beings bikonu!
    I dey Lagos oh so biko call me on board. Y’all are doing a great job.

  • @mosesegboh
    @mosesegboh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Naomi is something else sometimes I swear........lmaoooooo😄😅☺😂🤣

  • @makuochiijeh4958
    @makuochiijeh4958 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Naomi Naomi. I loved you in this episode😂😂

  • @darlingbiola
    @darlingbiola ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a huge fan of the show guys. Husband material is usually my fav as he always very passionate and makes the show very exciting and funny. For this episode though, Naomi talked sense and she looks fab!!

  • @dreamchazzie77
    @dreamchazzie77 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This question is always funny , Everything I follow today I learnt from the church mostly from looking at how my pastors kids treat each other back then . No be say dem no Dey bad , why not ? Aren’t they humans ? But should have morals ! Not be so so loose 🤷‍♂️

  • @lifelivinwithdebbie7038
    @lifelivinwithdebbie7038 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I follow this podcast and I love your contents ,it’s not only educating but it’s what happens in everyday life .. I’ll love to feature on your next podcast ..it’ll men a lot.. thanks again

  • @ayomikunmariam9810
    @ayomikunmariam9810 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I will really love to join on the podcast someday. I love this podcast

  • @liligoldfashiontv
    @liligoldfashiontv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First of all..I want to appreciate y’all
    Honestly you are doing well,please keep it up 👍

  • @lyndanonye4891
    @lyndanonye4891 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can't wait to be on this show very interesting

  • @adaezeadaeze3503
    @adaezeadaeze3503 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Naomi, well said about pastors' children's stereotypes matter.
    Naomi, if I see you I go give you big hugs. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @osikomayaademola8922
    @osikomayaademola8922 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm in Lagos and would love to be on the podcast. Love you guys 💯🤍

  • @dadajoseph4068
    @dadajoseph4068 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Husband Material get mad lines omo😂😂😂😂😂😂
    My best Podcast channel 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @marigoldamananaowei8098
    @marigoldamananaowei8098 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't expect holiness from pastor's kids, cos only the kids knows the truth about their parents. Many pastor's have disappointed their kids and outsiders wouldn't just know that

  • @chiamakanwachukwu8470
    @chiamakanwachukwu8470 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you guys. Honorable woman leader 🥰

  • @gistwithgeraldine
    @gistwithgeraldine ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way Naomi was looking at Cassie chaii 🤣🤣 I don't mind coming on the podcast to Franky speak my mind

  • @favemoments
    @favemoments ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m in Lagos and very very ready to be on the show 🥰🥰

  • @IseeDejo
    @IseeDejo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Naomi needs to unlearn and relearn a lot of things"🔃💯 But she made too much sense towards the end of this.

  • @jolloftales
    @jolloftales ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor 🤣 pikin's them na fire 🔥🔥, too much expectations on pastor's children make we no lie nobody saint pastor pikin or not

  • @mirax8566
    @mirax8566 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this episode very much

  • @Therealmrrk
    @Therealmrrk ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you guys 😍👍🏾

  • @gibszololo3937
    @gibszololo3937 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    For the first time in history Naomi did not talk nonsense 🙏🏾.

    • @francisdestiny120
      @francisdestiny120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for knowing she is a trash talker

    • @chiomaesther6218
      @chiomaesther6218 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Naomi is full of double standards! She still spoke nonsense

  • @vivianonyia7238
    @vivianonyia7238 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel one of the ways to help cub this stereotype by Landlords depriving single ladies the renting of apartment is by tell potential tenant(s) to send a recommendation letter to the Landlord's official email from their employers for those working in corporate organizations, NGOs etc and for those who are self employed (business owners, content creators, hand workers etc), should get an official verification to show what they do is legit. My opinion though but I feel this would help and it'll stop all unnecessary questions and embarrassment.

  • @chijiokenwaigwe2348
    @chijiokenwaigwe2348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice episode. Y'all killed it

  • @onlysamuel1
    @onlysamuel1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nedu too like bad thing Sha😂😂😂. Meanwhile I appreciate the directness of husband material.

  • @fagbohunifeoluwa3155
    @fagbohunifeoluwa3155 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The best podcast ever

  • @bascondavid
    @bascondavid ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks to the guests,.... Una try wella. To Naomi ❤️u

  • @justemmah2635
    @justemmah2635 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so love this show

  • @DeenChild
    @DeenChild ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please I was waiting for the hausa stereotypes but you guys skipped it. I really want to hear your takes on it. Hope you're continuing next week.

  • @kessa9755
    @kessa9755 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please do part two

  • @maddy247_
    @maddy247_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the fact that nedu is so real

  • @yosolaoyewo6429
    @yosolaoyewo6429 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m also in Lagos and I would love to be on the show 😌☺️😁

  • @vanelnebi1169
    @vanelnebi1169 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Husband material, nedu and detty always speaking facts

    • @IseeDejo
      @IseeDejo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I SE WHAT YOU DID HERE🤣🤣🤣

  • @jibrafotozstudio
    @jibrafotozstudio ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this program

  • @Real-gl1bp
    @Real-gl1bp ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Naomi is just somehow, they asked if cassy likes sex :
    Cassy: yes
    Naomi: pastors daughter
    Like tf she’s not supposed to have sex TF
    But you want to defend igbo people because you are igbo

    • @chiomaesther6218
      @chiomaesther6218 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That girl weak me I swear, I've always struggled to understand why she has to say the things she says, but empty brain is an empty brain

    • @naijarealty247tv5
      @naijarealty247tv5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Naomi has serious judgmental and selfish nature 😂 I also think she is not that very exposed to certain level of knowledge. So much for her to learn and unlearn.

  • @ijeomajanefrancis9792
    @ijeomajanefrancis9792 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I luv dis show 💓 💗

  • @yusufbabatunde9891
    @yusufbabatunde9891 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Big NÉE I SUPPORT YOU ON THIS ✊❤️

  • @chelracee1581
    @chelracee1581 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Guys my boo dey for Lagos and he might be a very interesting guest for your show trust me on this😂.

  • @mikelis135
    @mikelis135 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Give the man the bill o", 😂😂😂

  • @ruth_adewole_o
    @ruth_adewole_o ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree with Naomi a whole lot today

  • @joshdiction
    @joshdiction ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am in Lagos, and I’ll like to be part of one of your episodes

  • @jecintachioma9456
    @jecintachioma9456 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really nice topic 🎉

  • @blessingnsembowo7495
    @blessingnsembowo7495 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Cassie, she speaks her mind with straight up

  • @onimisibello5273
    @onimisibello5273 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AM A BIG FAN OF NEDU AND HUSBAND MATERIAL, ESPECIALLY HUSBAND MATERIAL RIGHT FROM WAZOBIA TV, I WANT YOU GUYS TO INVITE NKWOBI FOR YOUR SHOW, YOU GUYS ARE REALLY DOING WELL. THIS IS JUST THE STARTING POINT, IF NO BE THE FININACIAL IMPLICATION TO RUN A SHOW OF THIS MAGNITUDE, I FOR AY MAKE UNA DEY DO THIS SHOW EVERY DAY LOL. ONE LOVE

  • @charitynnaji1903
    @charitynnaji1903 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have never seen Nedu and husband material concentrate like they did when she was talking about sex and mindset. 🤣

  • @empire_fc_
    @empire_fc_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a guy in Lagos
    Big fan of the show watched every single episode aswell in both seasons guys
    I even have a very sweet topic in mind I’m sure you guys would want to hear

  • @DamilolaOtuniyi
    @DamilolaOtuniyi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m not sure if Naomi had something against the other lady or if she’s intimidated by her well it seem to me she is as she seems to be against almost everything she’s saying it’s quite hard to watch tbh 😕

    • @naijarealty247tv5
      @naijarealty247tv5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naomi has a funny way of displaying her lack of exposure and deep life experiences 😂😂😂😂

  • @okpegodson1675
    @okpegodson1675 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how calm Toun is

  • @jamessanusi8255
    @jamessanusi8255 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nedu ooooo you dey put this babe on the spot 🥺

  • @bettysamuel6214
    @bettysamuel6214 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love u all nice one my fave podcast
    I wish to be on dis podcast someday

  • @Bobcoolyoung
    @Bobcoolyoung ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey guys, I'm in Lagos and I'd love to attend your show. Naomi was on vibe on this one. I don't usually agree with her pov but I reckon I was too harsh on her in one of last comments. Nonetheless, I rock with you guys cos every single one of y'all are smart and I like how you spice your opinions with jokes. Would be a dream to actually be on set with you guys.

  • @tobynduka6711
    @tobynduka6711 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whether na the guy wey Dey press or the girl wey dem Dey press😂😂😂😂😂

  • @0konkwotochukwu432
    @0konkwotochukwu432 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love you women leader . Big Nene for life. You always speak facts

  • @fabrelax
    @fabrelax ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice Content, Love this

  • @jameswilson320
    @jameswilson320 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it

  • @kingsleyjohnson4902
    @kingsleyjohnson4902 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This stereotype about pastors children do the worst shouldn’t be blamed on the parents totally cos these children grow up from Christian homes and backgrounds,and grow up to become a direct opposite of what they were while growing up, how do you blame the parents for the decision taken by the children? Is it fair to say the parent are at fault?
    Secondly,enough of us trying to single out the pastors children out for any bad character when we ourselves as children can even do worse than them at their age,isn’t that double standard?? I believe a sane pastor will try to bring their children in the best possible way of the lord but sometimes, these children leave their homes and prolly gain admission into the university and become a direct opposite of who they were in their fathers house,who then will you blame? It’s just so unfortunate that the pastors children are the ones people raise the bar too high for,even when the bar should be for everyone and not just them.
    Finally,if you like open pikin head pour anointing oil inside,wetin the pikin go do weda good or bad na wetin the pikin go stil do las las and the preaching or prayer or home training of any pastor or parent no fit stop. Las las na the pikin go decide how hin want him life to be cos it get to a point when the child spends more time with the outside world more than the time they spend with their parents and that’s always the moment when these children makes crucial decisions on how their life will be.

  • @daddy-jay8346
    @daddy-jay8346 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fattening room is mostly for new mothers. Not only the efik and Ibibio people do it, but the Carlabari people from Rivers state also do it.

  • @d.v.n3222
    @d.v.n3222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in Lagos and I love the podcast.... I'll like to be on the show sha

  • @destinyrichard5592
    @destinyrichard5592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in Lagos, would really love to be part of an episode.

  • @gaimmedia
    @gaimmedia ปีที่แล้ว

    The Best 💥💥

  • @ndubuisiajaegbu1891
    @ndubuisiajaegbu1891 ปีที่แล้ว

    Edu onye ikpókirikpó!!! invite me ooooh 🤣🤣🤣

  • @akoladehamzat720
    @akoladehamzat720 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m in Lagos and would love to be part of the discussion… ❤️

  • @ogbodoprince1678
    @ogbodoprince1678 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE YOU GUYS SHOW!!! I AM A STUDENT OF THE PRESTIGIOUS UNIVERSITY OF LAGOS, I ALSO LIVE IN LAGOS!! I WOULD LOVE TO BE ON THE SHOW TOO!!
    I HOPE I CAN COME OVER AND EXPERIENCE THE BEST PODCAST IN NIGERIA!!! AND THE WORLDDD!!!!!

  • @chinonsoclement4187
    @chinonsoclement4187 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Dey lag ooo make una choose me ... love ur program so much

  • @blessingaminu7773
    @blessingaminu7773 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'd love to be on the show,cos I really enjoy d conversations and topic.

  • @jephthahsly2407
    @jephthahsly2407 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor's kids needs to be cut some slack biko. Societal expectations is not doing justice to them; anyone can be bad and anyone can be good not withstanding whether he/she is a pastor's child.
    On the fattening room thing it's a preparation process for young women ready to get married; they're kept in a room, away from direct sunlight and fed properly while a substance is applied on the to give them bright skin color so they'd look thick and clean for potential suitors throughout the searching period.

  • @davisual3505
    @davisual3505 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love you guyssssss I'm in Lagos and i would love to be on the podcast

  • @cutejemuel1037
    @cutejemuel1037 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Woman leader, fating room is not for brides to be but for women who just put to birth. They will be kept there until the baby is grown enough to be dedicated. Am an akwaibomite. You guys didn't mention that calabar girls can cook and take care of their men, calabar has the best delicacies in Nigeria

  • @udokankwocha4080
    @udokankwocha4080 ปีที่แล้ว

    Their parents forget to pray for their kids. They get caught up in saving the public, that they forget theirs

  • @stellapeter3551
    @stellapeter3551 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys so much