Table talk (what do you bring to the table )S1Ep4 | Bahd and Boujee Podcast
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- Welcome to the Bahd and Boujee Podcast,
Hosted by media personality Moet Abebe and Reality tv star Tolani Baj.
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I love this guy, he is so intelligent ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂😂.
Am so happy for their union.
Yhemmm and tharyor forever ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yemi is so intellectual, and chooses his words. As a big city boy in Lagos and Nigeria, he's always calm and expatiate more on each topic. You can tell by his countenance and reactions.
Am so glad this topic came up.
I mean my fellow women insulted me severally for saying men shouldn't think this way.
They said it is the reason am still single and will be for long.
i mean enough of gaslighting women with what are you bringing to the table.
Like i always say, a man should pray to be a provider, an all round provider and strive to be one.
Yes we know you can't and shouldn't kill yourself so after trying very hard whatever is left the woman can and should support you.
But not that before the relationship even starts, what are bringing to the table is the norm.
Then as usual, in the relationship he starts dropping his own quota smartly leaving her to hustle so much and too much 😢
Yhemolee is all that glitters,and na him still be the gold 😁😁
😂😂😂😂
Seriously yhemoleee killed this episode 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not me watching this after yhemolee wedding 😂
Yhemi's podcast appearance should skyrocket after this. He's good at these conversations...I didn't even know how I watched over 45mins of this clip
I'm always excited watching YhemoLee's interviews😂❤
This guy killed it, he's very diplomatic straight forward and uses the right words at the right questions. Tolani you are a whole vibe but in this podcast you seem dull wassup
She don fucc yemolee 😂
Until i read the comments, i didnt even notice that TBaj was pressing phone.
Oya Tolani next time press less phone
Don't u think it's really funny the way she didn't answer,maybe u should help her hold her phone
Life would be so easy if other guys can reason like Yhemmo Lee😩
But I just love this Tbaj babe sha😂❤️❤️Her confidence is a 100🔥🙌
He said sometimes “the woman doesn’t even know what she has brought/is bringing to the table “
Why is Tolani pressing her phone thou? And it’s not like the conversation is boring. You’re one of the host, and you’re pressing phone while your guest is talking. You can do better, the cast and crew could have cautioned her thou
NOT TO SOUND LIKE A HATER, THE OTHER HOST WHO CALLS HERSELF BOUJEE IS DOING TOO MUCH. THE FAKE ACCENT IS SO ANNOYING!!!! BE YOURSELF. TAKE A LEAF FROM TEE.
OH BTW, it’s pronounced as boo-jee not buu-gee. KEEP IT REAL PLEASE. ITS GIVING LOW SELF ESTEEM
My best so far , Yhemolee level of maturity and insight is deep. T baj pls next time drop ur phone and focus on ur guest , you were carried away more than half of the board cast . It’s disrespectful. Nevertheless it’s all love ❤️ gal
Tbaj keeps pressing her phone, that’s really disrespectful. You invited a guest and you are there busy on your phone. You might as well just go back stage if you are moody… it’s okay to be moody, no big deal.
She’s texting the producers and looking for the next question, this is her first show yea?
Baba said it's carpentery work it can shake😂
I think the alcohol really affected tbaj’s energy. It made her dull and maybe sleepy and I think that was why she was pressing her phone to keep her awake cos I do that too.
Tolani if the cloth no size you commot am nah ..you just dey drag am dey drag am
Please they should pay yhemolee he did justice to this episode 💯💛🥰
Walaiii, he dropped it so well. Nigga was fantastic in everything
Very impressive...
Yhemo Lee is just trying to be politically correct... Because he is in the midst of two women... He doesn't want to be dragged....
Livam😅😅😅😅
Yhemolee said something meaningful by saying peace. Because when you don't have money you give him peace, taking care of his kids is his peace of mind and a lot more so generally is peace. I think I love his choice of word. Peace
This Guy is such a secured Man❤… This is what we woman refers too as Positive Masculinity. He is Mentally Solid👏
You all are just doing this click bait thing LOL, if you want to hear the truth, Welcome an intelligent man and hear his opinion 0R Go to Fresh and Fit to hear your revealing truth. Yhemolee is a sociate, obviously he will not let A podcast tarnish his business cause you all part of it. YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE LMAOOOOOOOOO
You see this tolani baj, she's the representation of the bad friend to your girlfriend
Ahh 😂
She's just been herself, what's wrong in that? Always show the kinda person you are, even in public
The girl na baba nla werey 😂😂😂😂
And how is it affecting u🫤
Lagos Residents are not qualified to give relationship advice. Period!!!
As I'm dating am I dating my mother?🤣🤣🤣
That one got me
Tolani please leave your phone and host your podcast. You’re the host
Thank you o
I thought I was the only one that noticed it.
Mama was practically into her phone.
Big thanks to Moet Bebe and the guest for carrying the SHOW!
I think she’s reading questions from there
Has it occurred to you that she’s reading questions or jotting points for follow up questions?
She’s texting the producer and looking for the next question to ask, leave her alone
@@Bigurrstt_Delilahwhat if Moet wasn't around
Yhemolee always supporting shows, and being opening guests in podcasts
Why is tolani always on her phone, its quit distracting
Egbon you talk plenty nonsense for here we’ll Nah God say make e better for you sha you no go they talk this kind 🥲
Naa woman full this comment session,,,All of dem dey praise Yhemolee 😂
I love the chemistry between Tayo Nd yhemolee I really hope life can bring them back together 😊🤗
And life did brought them back together❤
@@masanwoolafolakemi5330 yesss am so happy for them they have a good chemistry 😍🥂love is a beautiful thing Nd that all I see between them
Finally there married guys 🎉🎉
Am glad my fave are married now
It’s official now happily marry
Not cool texting while discussion is ongoing but this episode is fire
She might be texting the producer, they’re clearly not wearing talkbacks 🤷🏾♂️
She’s texting the producer or loooing for the next question to ask
If you haven’t lived out of Nigeria or Africa you would think it’s normal for a woman to bring nothing to the table, this is not a matter of being poor or rich the average American lifestyle it takes two to survive in a household.
Mybbrother no mind dem , naija girls are hungry and that why they are not respected or appreciated enough and that why they are easily bullshitted
Lmaooo I see why Yhemmo Lee is thriving, the guy is very diplomatic 😂
😂 more like he is full of it!
The level of intelligence this man exudes is beyond me❤️
I love everything about this podcast
Yhemolee is such a big vibe 😊 from the way he talks and arranges his words I love you Yhemolee.
No go find work
😂😂😂😂
@@EndiongMbah77you we dey reply everyone na you wey no get work at all
He mistakenly called his ex , his gf omoo❤❤
T baj ain't comfortable in that dress
Was she thrown in it 😂
😂😂😂😂
It's men like Yhemolee that give these crop of ladies their mentality. But like he said, different people want different things. Being an independent woman means that you don't take bullshit from anybody because they are rich, and most importantly, you can walk away from a disrespectful relationship.
If all you bring to the table is your privates , I am sorry but you are not going to be respected in any relationship.
Yhemolee does not understand feminism if he doesn't like the concept of an independent woman.
It was funny seeing the guy jump all over, and the hosts not liking what they hear.
Feminist rest Ahbeg ..
Yhemolee is intellect nd sarcastic at it peak 🎉❤
in the other advanced climes, both partners in a relationship are at liberty and usually willing to share financial responsibilities and provision generally is not a fixed responsibilities of the man like we do in Nigeria entitled mentality
Women abroad are generally open to split financial responsibilities with their men according to their capability and unlike their Nigerian counterparts, they are not programmed to expect a man to foot all the bills.
Against this background, I'm of the assertion that it is improper for a woman to make demands for personal items in a relationship.
It is very common and a norm in Nigeria for a woman to ask a man to buy her a phone or pay for her hair or even pay her house rent.
Don't get me wrong, if you have an emergency as a woman, you can ask your boyfriend for help once in a while. But not to make the boyfriend your source of livelihood and maintenance.
I don't agree with what you said. Not all women abroad do that. Most of the women abroad ain't open to splitting financial responsibilities like you claim rather,they want men to foot all their bills and not bring anything to the table.
@@ogunladeomolola4348yes because I don’t do 50/50 and I’m American.
Thousands of men don watch this two people video and I don’t think they’ll have husband in their life, na only werey where don’t know what him want in life go later marry this very two girls 😒
This episode is everything ✨ Yhemolee is so intellectual *chef’s kiss
YL is a real man pls. I so much like this guy 🥰
😂😂😂😂 no go find work
I watch this interview sir you’re so intelligent I love the way you shut them up with their Alabosi questions..you answered them perfectly .I love your courage and boldness in the interview
You spoke well sir
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He won't read this busybody
I love the fact that this man is deceiving lot of girls.
Be praising him, and don't work on yourself. Just sit down and be expecting nowadays men to not expect any value you'll bring to the table.
I can't ask women like Tiwa savage or Simi, or other hardworking women out there because i know already what tbey can do, but me seeing you always rushing and caring to buy hair and dress nice always without doing anything, trust me I'll embarrassed you with that question.
I can't keep liability in my house. I have family as well to take care of
Funny enough, even the hosts of this show have work and value that they add besides p. Let the foolish be deceived, Tolanibaj has made money as a content creator (b4 BBN sef) , even if she may not have good character, she definitely has brain.
GOD bless you sir for this credible comment
You are the one who has actually made real sense so far. Misyarning wey Dem dey call podcast. Imagine that one saying she brings pussy to the table. Pussy na value?
When you want value you bring value too ya dig
Walahi Tolani is good nd brilliant lady she dey intentionally go mad like intentionally go crazyyyy but the real ground all man should pray for her type
Everything about this video be giving double standard.
Also, I can’t understand why women gets defensive when asked what they bring to the table.
Tolani is literally listening to Yhemo Lee say all these and noting points on her phone and imagining him for herself. Won’t be surprised if she starts chatting him up behind the scenes😂😂😂 or if we hear they started dating 😅😅😅 Madam, next time abeg drop phone when you have a guest cuz it’s disrespectful.
Has it occurred to you that she’s reading questions or jotting points for follow up questions?
Shining teeth like she even hears what he says
Exactly she is a desperate mid babe 😂😂😂always a side chick no guy can ever date her as the main and thats facts
@@puritymwangi2520you’re big fool for having that kind of stupid and demeaning mentality
This egbon just come here come cap 🧢
To be honest, Yhemolee is calm, well trained and values moral, the nature of his business has made him see a lot and tasted a lot, so if he is looking for a woman now, he would be specific on peace and provide . Also some women do not like to be a liability to a man. no matter what she would want to make her own money , no matter how big or small it comes.
In conclusion, Yhemolee, has respect, and he definitely knows what he wants in a woman. Prayer, tolerance, patient, communication, not being a critic and WISDOM from God is very important and many others. Lets just pray for an understanding human in our lives.
Yemolee I disagree that feminism is about women first. Feminism is about equal opportunity and right to pay, job, social status. Even before justice cases in family must and should be by the substances of the matter.
If two people do not agree to for a pattern things will always go wrong.
Until people begin to see relationship as partnership, accept seamless Role interchange na play we de play.
TogetherEachAchieveMore
Lol.
I heard it, l just laughed.
He was just trying to pander to the emotions of his listeners
I like the fact he listen to the questions digest it before opening his mouth ,that's how real men do,the fact he is comfortable ,his wife or babe needs to be comfortable 💯.....
What do you bring to a table is not a bad question to ask just that what you think this question is base on.
In a relationship what you bring to a table can be like what do you think that make our like better frim both genders.
One word to describe this man; Secure!
Yhemo lee speaks with so much sense ❤this niggah speaks with wisdom 🥰❤️🌹
Ashowo done become normal
The moment you showed up in this world, you are an ashawo dia. We are all ashawos. Lol
Baba dey give them lamba 😂😂
glorifying rubbish... see people role model! yahoo boys and ashawo dem
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And you watched it? Says a lot about you. Hypocrisy
Gosh. Yhemolee is really spilling facts, what???? A man so wise…. Where them dey see this kind man abeg😩
Omo look at what people are supporting chaii 😢
I think yhemo is a cool guy. I love his style. I'm not really feeling the thick lady. Men need respect and women too. Asking a woman what she brings to the table is totally disrespectful and a turn off
How is it disrespectful.?
Every one needs a value in a relationship. It mustn't be money.
If a woman can ask me what l do for a living,why can't I ask her what she brings to the relationship ( Table)
Sorry but tolani is bad vibes…
Yehmo lee keeps saying my women, my girls. Hmmmm Hmmmm okay ohh. Nothing anyone can tell me sha. He still loves Tayo , FULL STOP .
I think when u r in a position of influence, u ought to talk about better values. This culture and encouragement that girls should see their financial well-being only in the pockets of men is sad and unfortunate. All those women who have become leaders in their various fields did not do so looking to men for their success. A woman’s beauty is the success she makes of her life and not how much gold she farmed from men. Don’t forget, He who pays must collect. The line between so called right to Gold dig and prostitution is very thin!!
well said, the matter go long in a number of years ohhhh... this entitlement mentality no go pay at the end oh.🤣🤣🤣
Yhemo lee well spoken❤
Before any man asks me what I bring to the table
He should tell me what I met on the table
Tolani just de press phone, thats kinda off. If you are acting uninterested what do you expect from your viewers, its your podcast girlllll, imagine your guest pressing phone like that
They're married 🎉 YLandTyour
Yhemo is so technical and smart with answers 👏
Yhemo lee should let me know that his friend that doesn't like sex😂
That's the type of man I want
T for thanks
Tolani leave your cloth aloneeee 😅 Nice one Yhemo, that's practically me you repped.
I’m coming back to this podcast my data don finish 😂 let me go find me a rich man 😮💨
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tbaj u for just change the dress now
This is rated 25++++😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why Tolani jus dey adjust clothe all through this vid😏
This podcast is really amazing tbh, Tbaj and MO are doing a fantastic job and you can't even take that away from them except you're a hater fr😅
The same guy wey tell you to not work go tell you what to wear, and men started changing when women demand help for house to takecare of the kids, and also when woman started marrying rich men asking for half of the man wealth
Yhemolee is capping
I can’t believe you siding this notion. One min you’re defending it and then the next you’re justifying it Bruv jump down from the fence
Basically this needs balancing.
if everybody get, nobody go ask. There are some men who like 50/50 and some who feel like they’re good on their own
What works for them works for them but y’all can’t come on the show here like tryin to shade ppl who push the narrative simply bcus you wanna just yourselves.
Likewise ppl ask this question bcus they seek immaterial stuffs like real time values not bum bum yansh or whatever y’all are screaming about
All I see is 3 ladies having a conversation
😂😂😂
A man is to respect as a woman is to love and Princess treatment.
How do you debate a woman seeking her husband’s blessing to somewhat ‘lead’?
She’s according him the respect just as he accords her love and Princess treatment…
Very wrong, That statement "A man is to respect as a woman is to love" is an upside down statement, it should be " A man is to love as a woman is to respect "
Yemolee is a basic dude with funds and was roped in by moe and tolani to be a muse for ridicule…how’s a known scammer a yard stake for the modern MAN 😂😂😂
You sabiiii
You have proof that YL is a scammer?
😂
@@olanipekuntobi5444 there are things we know but try to deny which is self deceit to be honest
Tolani pls stop pressing your phone, it’s annoying
The way he crack jokes with a straight face 😂😂😂
Tbaj is lie Neo did worse than that to you stop deceiving young girls
I think the alcohol is too much for tbaj
It’s always sweet until you experience heartbreak, then you will lurnnnnn. Ymoleee I hope your good heart is never taken for granted bcos most Nigerian ladies don’t really deserve “total honesty” without them taking you for a ride
I pray you meet the right one though
I bet to differ actually, the mere fact that he is factual & direct with his views & supposed way of life does not mean women would always take advantage of him or mess him up totally..That's been small-minded..
@@adeoladeborah3532 and where in this generation of ladies can you get that Ma
@@tutsypie I know what I mean when I said that. I hv heard women say they want their man to be forceful and a bit harsh on them, for them it’s the only way they can be “loyal and respectful to the man” These set of women see overly caring and romantic men as weak and as such cannot tame their excesses
@@alexegobi4276 To.each her own actually, i mean why would i want to be treated badly when i can have the princess treatment quitw often..i would neva understand that position.
59:57 Yhemo Everytime 🎉❤❤
Those are sexists not feminists
YL is just trying to play along and not kick against their opinion
Exactly.
Baba said it's okay to bring only bumbum to the table 🤣😅😅😅😅
Is sweeting Tolani so much, is sweeting me too
Why is that one sounding like she swallowed hot yam
If i don't dig gold wetin i go dig😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Really lovely podcast😊😊😊Lrarnt a lot🤗 it wouldn't be bad if it was sensored 😊
Yhemolee really killed this show
I wish to see him and thayour back the way they use to be like I love there companionship 😊
Stop simping bro 🤔
Am only watching this because of YehmoLee, no Homo ❤
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Yemo lee talk trash