Dating In Lagos | Menisms Ep. 1
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2022
- Everybody has an opinion of what the Nigerian dating pool is like. But have you heard a Nigerian man tell you about his Lagos dating experience? WILD!
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Definitely hooked on this podcast 👏🏾👏🏾…please keep the content coming ❤️
You'll get what's coming to you Ore !🥰🥰
Asin eenh I love it
We, women, have decided to ban male podcasters... but definitely not y'all. This was a great episode. Keep them coming.
You've got that right !
y'all can't ban nobody...we men refuse to let that happen...bigups to the mandem for menisms podcast, mazzaleen!!!
Lmao rough play 😂
Nigerian men need a voice to defend themselves from all these everyday defamation 🙂 It's only right for our pride & integrity
I love it! It's good to see Nigeria men talking maturely about relationships and situationships
YKTV
my homeboy went out on a blind date with a babe in a fancy restaurant in lagos last weekend and she ordered sea food platter, she doesn't even like seafood. fellas, beware of these women that want to experiment with their tastebuds at ur expense...shine ur eyes
😂😂😂 sorry this isn’t funny but you got me with “she doesn’t even like sea food”🤣
I miss being in a relationship but I meet someone and I crawl back into my shell. Thanks for this guys
This podcast is Fire! Big fan already n looking forward to more Episodes
This so amazing 🤩
Now this? nah this was top shelf elite stuff. Keep it coming!!!!!
Great stuff guys.. 👏
I love that part where Michael said, there's physical options but lack of options on other perspectives
I love how detailed you were with paying close attention!
Great job guys. I luv ur content very insightful am binging on dis😍😍🥰
This channel needs to blow. These guys get it. They get our frustrations out here. The ill- mannerism of some ladies out here is enough to make a man a sadist. But because some men have no class nor taste, the bad behaviour persists. It's an endless cycle and it's ruining a society that's otherwise known as 'cultured'.
Hmmm. Okay Tee. We hear you.
Nice one guys and the messages was well pasted correctly and simple which is being in a matured way .. more guys 👍🏾👌🏾
please don't stop this... I having been looking for a nigerian podcast for ages
I love this channel tho. So much wisdom, this is what a lot of young guys need. Glad I found this channel, keep up the good work☑
Insane stereotypes but wonderful conversation, already subscribed, looking forward to more clever conversations!
really enjoyed this
This is why I always say friendship first. Let's be friends without overthinking anything
We totally agree 👍🏾
THANK YOU !!! It's just the best way!
I want someone to explain how you can go from a platonic relationship (Friends )to a romantic relationship(lovers). I really wanna know!!
If I say you are my friend, I am not attracted to you in any way (sexually, emotionally, and physically). So I don't see how you can transition from friends to lovers.
@@alexandraagi9485 Hey! when you’re just friends with a guy, you get to truly be yourself because you’re not overthinking basic things. For example- putting on makeup just for the sake of or overthinking what to wear( not to say these things are not important but in the context of friendship, you can truly be free with your movements). As the friendship grows organically, you get to see the persons likes/ dislikes/ values/ character etc because again you’re friends and no one is trying to “perform”. When/ if feelings develop and you both want the friendship to transition into a relationship, you can now address this from a more informed perspective because you’re operating from a place of clarity.
Enjoyed this conversation.
I enjoyed this❤️
omo this is needed oh, ... heavy heavy
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 yaaaassss they’re learning the more honest you are with self and the person you’re dealing with the possibilities are endless
Such an amazing podcast... your views on stuffs are quite amazing 💯💯💜
It's so refreshing to hear these guys speak maturely as young men.. They spoke about what I call "rotational dating" and how most men are rotational dating all
the time until exclusive. I think this is an awareness women are coming to understand. And also when you take sex out of the equation in the "dating" process, it really makes things easier.
I swear...I can't believe they are below 30.....
I’m definitely hooked on this one. Thanks guys
Yes !! 💪🏾
11:37 Yes getting intimate way too quick takes away from properly getting acquainted past sexual intimacy. It can become the blind spot and in my opinion lead to a stagnant relationship.
You're absolutely right 👏🏾
Beautiful content 🔥👏👏..notification on 🥰
You're doing the right thing Jay Jay 🥳🥳
I was glued to the whole conversation lol . Wow . Definitely enjoyed this .
YKTV. Real recognizes Real 😉
I’m really enjoying this podcast
Yes finally something for the men 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Love how healthy and evolved your minds are.
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Great production quality!
Thank you, Kind Sir 😇
I had a good laugh watching this 😂😂. Michael's perspective and stories are top notch.
That's our guy!💪🏾👏🏾
It’s a good thing the hosts of this podcast are mature men👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
This was an expository podcast, but I must say I don’t feel the generalizations is fair.
From the conversation you all been dating LEKKI ‘n’ VI babes.
Lagos is a big places and there are still sensible babes out there.
We agree. There are still many great women out there
Forget that thing, olosho don take over lagos. No be this same lagos.
Great content 👌🏾
Thank you Jare! Real recognizes Real !
We like topics like these plsssss do more
I love Michael’s brain. He is very level headed.
This channel go blow. Very matured conversations unlike the podcasts from the West. Having guests on might be great too.
OMG! I needed this for my books' research
You're welcome 💫
I like that they defining culture. Where you find yourself geographically is important especially in Africa.
That's one angle to look at things 🤔
Been here since noon.... extremely interesting!
I enjoy watching this
Thank you !!
I enjoyed this guy's....really enlightening
Yessir!
I’m really loving the conversation. I just wanted to correct something though, you said good sex is a pre-condition for you being faithful. Actually, sex isn’t always mind blowing and that’s not a bad thing. So maybe, you might have to reconsider your reasons for remaining faithful. Sex being great shouldn’t be a criteria for whether or not to be faithful to your mate. Just saying.
Other than that, the episode was really nice. It’s high time guys open up and have real conversations. Kudos❤️
I guess he meant sexual compatibility. Me for example, I hear men who cheat say a man is polygamous & I shut it down quickly.
When I do meet a girl I like, I plan to be faithful..that's why I can't afford not finding the one
Your point of view is respected 👏🏾
Someone has already stated what he prefers. Sexual compatibility still remains high in most people's list.
I feel like that applies more to females. If you can’t satisfy them they will secretly cheat
What of guys who feel like a first date is "the girl coming over to the house ". Big RED FLAG for most of us...
If you agree 👍🏾 say I
Well, going to someone's house for a first date, is not a date at all dear.
That one’s even insult😭😭
@@madeauxafrica can you say when is the best time to have sex in a relationship?
Michael’s voice is 🥰 lol I don’t have much to add besides that because I don’t live in Nigeria. Just here to listen.
I am not nigerian but i must say this podcast is gonna go a long way to make all ladies understand a nigerian man's mind in a different and more understandable perspective...love it love it love it❤❤🥂keep the episodes coming.
We couldn't have said it better ourselves!
The truth in this statement ☝️
I loveeeeeee this
There's more coming!
loved it
This love reciprocated my dear 🥰🥰
Like seriously, I gbadun(enjoy) this Tori(topic) I even have to gist with my friends abt it and am not gonna miss this show every Thursday
Nice perspective 😉👌🏼.
Loved this discussion, we need more men open enough to speak. Please do a mens mental health episode.
One men's mental health episode coming soon Jane!💪🏾
There is lowkey hope that you can get there faster! word!
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Definitely inviting some girls to come watch thissss
Yes! Share share share!!
Can't wait for the next episode. This is dope
Next week is just right around the corner dear!
I’m a fan😭😭😭
The guest is so beautiful.
😂👏🏾 okay!
Nice one guys. U just got a new subscriber
Thank you !!! More amazing episodes to come
This is making sense to me 👍
Michael is doing a great job🤞🥰🥰
Damn straight he is ! 🚀🚀
I'm an American woman who's newly acquainted with a Yoruba man ... listening to you guys is so funny, refreshing & very informative. I love it! Good work, guys.
Sonariwo, please allow the other gentleman,to finish his conversation. Good podcast.❤️
It's interesting to see men come out to speak about these things.
We have ourselves the real OG's
I love your podcast it’s a recent discovery and I feel bad I have finished every episode in a week you guys are amazing when you start doing live show kindly consider coming to Kenya 😊
Most definitely. Thank you🤗
Vulnerability is a good thing… I commend you good sirs.
Yes
This is way too interesting
You know the vibes!!!
Firee
dating in lagos is stressful...build urself kings, these women are not going anywhere...u will have them in surplus, just have money, girls don't care about love, just comfort and lifestyle...laloosh way
I like how the other other guy emphasized all he sees around are “bills”
😂😂 ofcourse you like that Rensey 😅 we do too !
Dating could mean getting to know each other, could also be being exclusive with a particular person, it all boils down to the context in which it is used.
Nicee podcast... literally alot of men don't voice out
all I can say is MENISMSSS!!!😫😫💪🏽💪🏽❤️❤️❤️please ride on brooosss I feel like saying I love you guys(no homo tho😂)
met one babe like that, ijgb babe oh...so we went out to eat...as "friends", bill came and I offered to pay then she said she will "pay for her own meal" because she is independent and she don't need no man controlling her or telling her what to do, I said ok no p...gave her the bill and then she saw what she ordered costs about 60k including tax, she now said I should pay because I'm a man, I told her that I believe firmly in the equal rights act where all men and women should and are treated as equals with equal responsibilities etc...safe to say I left and she was still there for a long while. CityBoiz are up for life.
Yup, I love the podcast. Really nice stuff
Glad you enjoy it!
learnt alot from this
There's a lot more coming. Just you wait 🤑
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Take care of yourselves Kings 🤴
🤣he said my current perspective. "Did you see that bill?"
Exactly 🔥..don’t be leading people on
Yesss. It's not right to lead people on😒 people sha !!
Nice, bro you see that part were she asked if you got the bills cover? Na bcos of Wetin yahoo boys don use their eye see🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
The kind of places you go will influence the kind of women you meet. The apple does not usually stray far from the tree. Interesting podcast! Dating is hard, but one thing people need to know... All that glitters is not gold.
Okay Smartie pants ! 👏🏾
Dating in Lagos sounds stressful for these guys. HECTIC🤧
It's stressful o, you can't imagine.
I will really like to join u on ur podcast.
Interesting
Very interesting!
Maybe in Lagos specifically, dating should be defined differently from relationships. So we not defining what's going on between us should be dating (casual), once there's a definition to what we're doing, that is we know we're boyfriend/girlfriend, then it's a relationship. Because I've been in more situationships because of lack of "definition." But never again sha, if you joke with me, I joke back, if you're serious, I'll get serious as well. Lol, no time.
It's so nice to see you air your views! 💪🏾
Wait ooo how am I just watching this??!!!😂😫
Ah ah😭😭 a male podcast.. berra just...😭💀
1:12 oya oya okay okay we shall see 🤣
Yeah I wanna see the vulnerable tings, I was watching a video and a man was talking about being sexually abused and I think it is IMPORTANT to speak on it!
Y'all should try and get Daniel Akpata cos he's good in these topics
I don’t feel like both party don’t have sacrifice their dreams either dating or married. I feel it should be support. If you have to leave your dream. Then you are not meant for each other
Hmmm... notes taken 📝
Dude in glasses sound like Burna 😊
We have to wait a whole weeek??!!😭😭😭🥺😩
Yesssirrrrrrriee😶😶😶
The honesty part is what most guyss get wrong
Please be straightforward!
Yes. Everyone should be straightforward. It makes things easier
While this is a very true about women. Many things they talked about men are also guilty of.
Everyone has been damaged from their past, it’s just difficult to find people that are both willing to agree to commit without overthinking until there is a reason. But why this is tricky is because nobody knows truly the intentions of another person. The dating scene is crazy everywhere not just lagos.
The dream sacrifice usually hurts more when it all ends. Cause after all that you still loose these people
🤔🤔 hmmmm.
Oh it hurts a lot!!
Walahi Lagos guys dey see shege too from lagos girl o😂😂😂survival of the fittest
Lol. I don’t have a sugar daddy ooo 😂 I love that you men have standards!!!
Still can't stop to imagine of that 100k bill🙆
And that miss late comer also, so bad, those are the ladies that like men saying we ladies are the same
Point of correction guys we ladies are not the same o, and I also believe that the guys are not d same too
Date friends👍🏾
please share the picnic location
We will ask Michael to drop the pin 📌
When is ep 2 coming out??
On Thursday!!