Nudity on Social Media, - S1 Episode 5 | The Honest Bunch Podcast ( FKA Frankly speaking)
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- On this Episode of , Nedu, Naomi, Adetoun and husband material discuss the growing trend of nudity across social media platforms.
join the conversation in the comments and let us know what you think.
Personally....I think people should be allowed to do whatever they want with their social media
Nudity inclusive
However....stop pretending that your social media is some sort of personal space
It's literally the public....just the online version
And if it was a body positivity thing....the people posting nude/semi-nude pictures won't be people that mostly fit into conventional beauty standards
Adetoun is my forever girl 👧 mehn!!!! Kudos to your womanly wisdom, I love and respect you!!! You’re intelligent and I respect you for that a lot!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Nobody wants to take responsibility for their actions these days. It's like putting yam outside and then getting mad that goats keep coming to eat it, while knowing fully well that goats would always come if you leave your yam outside.
As innnnn great example...if you like claim that you have right to leave the yam outside or it's your yam you can put it where you want, goat wey go come go come
Being confident in your body doesn’t mean you should go naked on social media. Present yourself how you want to be seen.
Body positivity was originally for deformed people whether naturally or accidentally.
Simple,I don’t no why people are supporting nudity
Personally, the editor is crazy for that silhouette effect when Nedu was demonstrating! 😂
I laughed too hard!!!!
🤣😂
Whalaiii🤣🤣
Nedu you're so filled with wisdom!!!
I love Toun! She doesn't talk much but when she does she speaks facts!!
Fact!!! The lady is very smart!!!!!
She has sense
Nudity attracts men who wants you just for your body. No matter how you twist it that's how it is
Most of the times…………..
They know the truth, but because they do it they're scared they'll be judged
Whoever Toun’s Man is, I envy that person!
He’s dating an Angel.
That girl is everything I want in a woman.
Naomi isn't sincere and realistic
You can be fully dressed and still address body positivity...you don't have to be nude.
The ladies that cover their body ain't confident about their body??? Nudity is corruptive, don't corrupt people's mind cos u are positive about urslf
Naomi isn't supposed to be sitted in this discussion,she is part of the societal problem and poor mentality 🙄
But whats the point of discussions like thos if they all have the same opinion? Its not really a “discussion” is it? You cant expect everyone to think the same way and it doesn’t necessarily mean one of them is wrong. Its literally about how people want to live
Hey dear the world cannot be viewed in the same way by every one.
100% so dumb !!!
@@nwannarichard3192 true... That's why we have stupid people and wise people...we all fall into one if the sides.
I agree
Toun is just plain amazing, thinks before she speaks, it's lit🔥🔥
I've never met Husband material in person but why is it so obvious he's supporting this so called "body positivity" just for the show, perhaps Naomi was alone and she needed a partner.
I didn't actually expect this from the lady in pink
Her head is correct 😹
Society no dey drag her brain with trends😹
You didn’t expect it? Then you haven’t been following the show. She is a very sensible female.
@@chideraalilionwu8913 I started following after this episode and realized she is the only reasonable lady on😹
@@chideraalilionwu8913 Naomi just they form right and wise when she dey talk rubbish
@@owiepurity no mind am, craze girl
Toun is an amazing lady - I love her principles. 😍😍😍
There is no woman who is in a respectable profession and position in society or plans to be, that will put her nude pictures or videos out there. Take it or leave it.
The girl in pink got my vote
You guys got me binge-watching.
Kudos👏👏👏✨💥💞.
Honestly! 😍😍😍
Naomi is good..there should be one person that’s opposite and she’s playing the script very well
That red light part totally killed me😂💔
I swear 😂😂😂
Naomi is talking nonsense
Body positive my foot, nudity is now synonymous to body-positive 😒, and also social media is not your platform it's public.
If you display nudity and people react to your nudity and you say the viewers are the problem then that's absolute rubbish. Your display plays a huge role in the kind of people you attract
In Nigeria when you see a shop that looks like a restaurant you'll walk in and ask if they sell food here.. same thing for girls that post semi nude or nude pictures men will walk into your dm and if you're down for hookup. So be wise.
i remember one day I was on turtle neck fully clothed and a guy approached me to say my boobs look nice, the issue is with low IQ men not the way you dress
The lady on blue is just a twitter mouthpiece. Please who ever is editing should put the twitter bird above her face next time
It's funny how Naomi thought Husband material was on her side. Oga was just catching cruise and playing devil's advocate🤣
Exactly
Naomi is so confused:
One minute she believes there are lots of guys who despite your nudity will come to for value
Then the next you're accusing same guys of having bad mind.
Fam, most ladies don't want to take responsibility for their actions
They want to SHOW but still want SANE men
They're modern women but they want a traditional man.
I swear she nor no wetin she dey talk
Naomi, shouldn't be on the program because she's not contributing anything.
Deitycole is filled with wisdom 💚I love toun so much💕
Husband material ashawo 🤣🤣🤣. Toun & Nedu Preach abeg 📢. Naomi Sit in front 🙂
Husband material is just catching cruise
If you want to look sexy, don't shout when boys ask for sex. Look at future you and set your standard
Naomi am so surprised at the direction you're seeing this from, nudity isn't body positivity let's be sincere to ourselves, what so ever we put on social media certainly have a future consequences yea you might make money out of it but in the future the advert effect will surely come up.
Social media is like an open market so whether you like or not whatever you post will definitely attract comments and I think when you talk about body Positivity it should solely depend on people who has certain skin disorder which probably isn't popularly accepted but they are still proud of it.
A lady does not even need to be naked to show her curves, the curves shows better when you dress well.
Imagination of the goods well packaged is the right way to go...
Mercy this, mercy that are you mercy? I will always say this, using ones personal experience as a validation or a yardstick for success in another is totally wrong.
Lastly,we are Africans, our cultural values defines our existence.
Nudity is bad and I don't support it but then I support a particular statement that husband material made where he said even if you are covered with parachute some men will still talk rubbish. Yes that's the truth because I am currently experiencing such nonsense. I don't post nudity and I don't act suggestively sexy, yet some men still enter my DM to talk nasty things. I got fed up to the extent that I either block them or give them a piece of my mind.
Well done to y'all, I love this topic.
I say NO to NUDITY
It’ll always be like that but the positive side of your body cover is that the situation could have been worse,so chillax,your “no nudity “mantra is working
Even women on wheelchair get attention. But don't be deceived- what kind of attention are you getting? Narrow is the way to eternal life.
In this case.. it’s clear men like that actually gat a problem but with nudity pictures, Tom dick n harry will slide in ur dm with different crazy nasty messages..
All I know is 2 wrongs don’t make a right.
Secondly, we can only control what we do personally, not what others do.
Nudity may not be the ideal image in our society, however, is that an endorsement of the entitlement most men have over a woman’s body? I do understand Nedu and Toun’s angle but it is very problematic.
Fully clothed women get harassed daily. Muslim women in their dresses - straight, shapeless, non-revealing have been catcalled in the streets. Not to talk of those who wear skinny jeans, or those who wear skirts.
Let’s be honest, nudity is becoming a growing trend, but men’s attitude towards women and their agency over their own body has been an issue for centuries. This is across culture, race, class, religion etc. Whether we like it or not it is being passed down, generations after generations. Therefore, perspectives like this do not help.
Again nudity is not ideal, but it is a way lesser issue. To look at it and present it as a warranted and expected cause for disrespect is just...🤦🏽♀️
I’m disappointed in this particular video as it gave power to the people who have always thought it’s ok to abuse their power and will continue to because somewhere in our society, there’s a place where they are justified.
This was about Nudity. Abuse is another topic. Nothing disappointing about this show.
Why Naomi con dey pained dey attack the Ade girl 😅… Mtshewwwww why you wan go church den sit down for back seat🙄 na you get double standard sef
Naomi na real character i swear 🤣
Again I say it, Naomi doesn’t have sense at all. ‘Tell me u are an ashawo without telling me u are an ashawo’
I like Naomi's point...she just doesn't know how to build her case...
Adetoun is so intelligent and wise!! I love you babes! So much respect for you dear!!
In simple Terms, Toun is a Lady and Naomi is a girl. Naomi had it all twisted, mistaking lasciviousness for confidence. She need to learn more about accountability.
We all know the right thing. The truth is just very bitter and we've carve a niche where we can express and defend ourselves. We go dey okay
morality in Nigeria is finished if adults like this can encourage such behaviour. Husband material you are just so wrong. You wouldn't encourage your daughter, sister or mum to do what you're encouraging other peoples children to do.
All those girls dat are always nude, when dey are tired of been nude on social media dey will now later say, dey are transformed to been a new person lolzzzz, my point here is buh they have succeeded in misleading some persons cos obviously, some people will still follow them to act that way cos they learnt from them. A woman who has a relationship with the HOLY SPIRIT, won't be naked on social media just because she's looking for validation from people that don't even care or know her. It's well.
You don't have to show your body for body positivity sha
It's how husband material is catching cruise and Naomi is falling for it😂
Likeeeee, she's clueless
Nedu multiple personalities sha...him go start with Queens English den before u know ...him voice done change to Oga landlard
Nedu you will live long..some of you panelists are like lawyers who hav a client that commit murder case and he still put up a case for him even though its glaring evidence..why dont all d girls get naked and dont wear anything and walk on d streets..i mean nothing like clothes..lets know who is d mad person
This tolu ahbi tonyi gal is so intelligent
I have noticed her opinion in all episode,it's always so matured...
She's too cool
There is a saying, Dress as you want to be addressed simple and short... You getti the point now....
Don't just support topics for the sake of having opposing sides of the argument
You can’t use your close minded minds to tackle big issues this is a culture I mean look at the fashion industry
This Naomi of a girl is a disgrace to womanhood,, toun I love you so much
Husband material is aways being sentimental towards women. Try dey talk true abeg 🚶🏾♂️🚶🏾♂️🚶🏾♂️
I swear I don't know when husband material is being sarcastic or not ahahahh
His been sarcastic.
Nedu God bless you jareeee
Toun is a classy babe oloun!!!
Husband material they promote for them. Baba dey enjoy the views. Gimme more.. please continue posting.
Yeah it's a choice but choices can be good, bad and Godly. Why is Gold valuable? Because is hard to find gold. If you're a girl that everyone has seen your nude or semi nude picture sincerely writing your value as a Lady is that people want your nude picture and cannot have it. The way people see you tell the world who you are? Number one thing a man is looking for a woman who can stand next to him that every single men want to see her sexy, hot even naked or semi naked but not a single man can say I had or used to see a lot that. It a choice but doesn't build trust, maybe not now but later in future. One thing you can't get back in life wrong choices after it made i.e time after it's gone. THE PAST CAN STEAL THE FUTURE YESTERDAY IS A THIEF IT CAN STEAL TOMORROW... All contribution made is the total balance
Nedu pls stop insulting women on this program
Why nedu they alwqys start conversation like better person🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the next tin vawulence
Why would a young lady post such on social media all in the name of body positivity. Only someone with low self esteem will do so. A lot of women care much about what people (who they barely know) think about them. They seek for validation online to feed their ego and feel good about themselves.
naomi my baby i no still support ur point, any girl posting showing body on ig, na market she dy sale,
nedu may ur wisdom continue to grow
but naomi mk ashawo no dy enter ur eyes my baby
lol
Husband material I know what you're doing 🤣🤣Osho advocate of body positivity
Soo if it’s body positivity you are claiming
Soo all the 500 posts are all for body positivity 😨😨
When will the body positivity end? After 10k post??
You know the truth but it’s hard for you to accept it even if you don’t want to stop posting like that
Omoh
Long response alert!!!!
Firstly, it is your data and your phone, you can post whatever you like online. However, how you dress is how you will be addressed.
Ladies that expose these body parts should STOP pretending that it's for themselves to feel good alone. Social media is not anybody's private platform, it is public opinion platform... Hence the comment section and dem and follow button.
The truth is everyone lady/guy posting anything at all (fully clothed or naked, singing or dancing or giving opinion) on social media is selling something, promoting something, driving something, influencing something. Nobody ever posts anything on a public platform for themselves alone. I don not see the sense.
Naomi, imagine you posted something and no single comment or DM, can you honestly say you won't feel somehow? you won't keep checking to see who liked your post? Don't lie o.
Nedu, I liked your question to Naomi, she can't be comfortable sitting at the front row in church, even the ushers are trained to divert distraction from man of God. Hahaha.
Have you not noticed that when all these celebs are visiting the queen or White house for something serious, they dress well?
If you post your n*pple and it is standing (not wrong in your own eyes) and I comment on it, letting you know how the sight of it is doing me, how is that now trash or wrong?
Husband material was twisting us left right and center. Haha.
We all need to be honest and stop shaming men cos they are attracted to what they see; it is only natural. Yes, I agree that some men/women are perverted and would give you a befitting feedback on your post but even a pastor has to make effort to stay away from such sights so they are not distracted.
It will be super awkward to hear that someone DMed Michelle Obama or Oprah winfrey that they want to l*ck her n*pples or that their *ss is soft etc. Those kinds of men/women would not even go to those kind of pages because the content they readily consume is not there..
Toun and Nedu you have my respect!
Its Ok to wear a nice and fitting dress but if its too revealing, always use the mirror before you step out. The mirror will tell you if its suitable for your outing. As a man, there are so many times I wear a cloth & I have to check the mirror to remind myself if its OK. There are clothes for party, church, meetings and so on. Common sense should be common but its rare.
I disagree. People only see what they want in that mirror. It's all about the mindset of the person seeing that reflection.
@@jobi-j Exactly. They are free to wear what they like. Just sharing my own opinion.
Naomi is always at the wrong side of ethics.
I swear she's really annoying
I swear 😅😅
@@Purple-lavenderstudio yeah she is. I hope this is a learning moment for her. Do better Naomi, Be better.
First argument, how can you say it’s your page, so we should not have issues with it? On public space? Are u kidding me? You can make it private or rather leave it in your phone and not post it at all.
The fact that u deliberately posted nudity on public media simply implies u have a market to sell. We men pick up that message n of course we’ll look n want to touch. But like Ned’s said, don’t expect anything serious. You’ll only be good for the bed n passes.
If nudity was a good thing, Tacha and what have you that you are mentioning, would have held on to that life and not Change. The thing is, these people regardless of how they started their brand (strategy or not) eventually changed. This should tell you that, nudity isn't a good thing. PERIODT @
The issues Paul had were because he was once Saul.
Naomi you have no point.
What kind of body positivity 😒😒
Abeg let's be real here the ladies that show off there bodies hv an angle, let's stop covering up, that Kizz Daniel challenge was a perfect example.
Naomu Imagine if ur niece saw it. Are u really showing her good upbringing. If ure not an olosho then do it in private not in public. Stop saying things like it's my page. Page that is for public viewing. Madam dy think before you talk for ur future oo
The lady on blue is reading her script from twitter
Toun is just too mature. She's the opposite of Naomi in so many ways. How can you be nude and say it's body positivity and then get angry when the men only talk about your breast and bum bum and you foolishly say it's for yourself. Women should stop this.
Anything you're doing respect yourself very important.
Husband material saying don't conclude. The truth is dress how you want to be addressing. Husband material knows it but just wants to argue
Lol. This Naomi's opinions are not very smart.😂
why am I feeling this is staged especially from Naomi but, if not ehnn... problem dey o
U already know how a woman body’s look like with or without covering..so what’s the big deal..
For me , ladies should reduce opening their body online, no matter how you want to make it look right, is wrong, simple
Do we even know if tasha is building her wealth also through prostitution. Because when she went to big brother people who knew her said she is a big prostitute in port harcourt 😊
how you dress is how you will be addressed. you'll hardly wear a military uniform and be addressed like a security guard
Husband material is just catching cruise. From his hearts of heart, that's not his position. 😀😀
first time... Toun is making sense.. in the whole podcast series! Nna ehn
I don't know why This Naomi is amongst this panelists, she is so daft and always on the wrong side. I weep for the person wey go settle with her
This women leader is always coming from the negative side I hate the way she thinks she is a bad influence
It has nothing to do with body positivity. The way you dress is the way you are addressed
To me, I believe I don't have to dress have naked to attract any guy
I don't wanna dress sexy outside but to look elegant and smart
No be by cover oo..tho nudity and decency is all about first impressions
I think this toun lady was raised by men. She is very intelligent and cultured. She acts like a lady and think like a man. Naomi needs to learn a lot from her, I really don't know how naomi was picked to be a regular speaker on this show. Her opinions her always repugnant
UNCLE NEDU FOR PRESIDENT!!!
Hello..please the next topic should be on premarital sex..
I’m going to where wat I want to wear..not for anyone..not for any ill intentions..
nedu is right
Then why do many ladies feel getting more followers depend on how she dresses or how more naked she feels.
Me I’m just loving the colour coordination from both sides in this episode. Whether it was planned or coincidental, I’m here for it ☺️
15:27 Look at her face saying it's a lie. She doesn't even believe herself