I've been struggling...finally sharing
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- I'm just been really struggling lately. Things could always be so much worse, but I still thought I'd share some details of what's been going on. Maybe it'll make you (or others watching) feel not so alone. Life isn't perfect and we all deal with something!! I'm so thankful for you all though...truly!!!
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I bet you will like this quote, Shea. “Every one you meet is fighting a battle; be as kind as you can.” ❤️
I am so sorry you have been struggling Shea :( Your struggles are completely valid!! Everyone has their own set of struggles and no one can judge whether one's is worse than the other. Praying you're able to heal and get relief so soon.
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My heart hurts for you. I pray for healing for your mouth and your anxiety. Everyone struggles with something, and the people who follow you and care for you don’t judge you. You’re bravery for sharing your struggle is commendable. It’s not easy opening up about your problems, and I’m proud of you for putting yourself out there. Thank you for sharing your struggle. Prayers are going up for you now, because you shared.
I am very sorry that you have to go to this. Praying for a solution. Your struggles bring tears to my eyes. Hope somebody out there can really help you. We love you!
Shea - It is truly brave to share this with the world and I sympathize with your situation. I have my own health struggles and your words ring true on how suffering affects everything in your life. There’s no shame in that struggle and should not be a stigma associated with having health challenges. I believe one can find happiness even if they can’t find health and hope you find your way soon.
I appreciate that she understands how many blessings she has too. Anytime I struggle, I try to do the same thing.
Mouth problems can be such a misery and they are literally in your face so you can't ignore them. Sending courage and comfort your way. Just don't give up!
This might be my second comment on TH-cam ever…I love your channel, watch all your videos and have always actually admired your teeth! Who knew you had problems??? It takes so much courage to put feelings like that out there. Thank you for sharing and keeping it real. And please do an update video, sending you positive vibes and well wishes on this journey!
I’m new to your channel. Been a hygienist for 40 yrs so I totally understand what you’re going through. My heart goes out to you. Recently had to quit due to arthritis so you are right about everyone deals with something. Hang in there!
Oh Shea…can totally relate. After having twins (my 2nd and 3rd kids), my teeth went downhill fast. Root canals, teeth removed, cracked teeth…one New Years Eve a tooth that I had a root canal on FELL OUT. I, too, avoid hard foods for the same reason. I DREAD going to the dentist, knowing there will be more bad news. Thank you for sharing. I so appreciate you being vulnerable, and you’ve helped ME feel better about my teeth issues, because I feel some people think it’s because I eat unhealthy. Praying for you, girl. ❤️
I'm so sorry for your struggles. Will be praying for you.
Omg after my 5 kids my teeth just went to hell maybe it started before the fifth kid. Thank you for sharing I thought I was the only one
Omg! The dentist absolutely stresses me out for the same reasons. The weird things I don’t have kids my teeth just betrayed me!
Same!! It's embarrassing and scary that every time I am at the dentist, more and more work needs done. I'm to the point almost no tooth in my mouth hasn't had something. 3 crowns, two root canals, several fillings and chips. All happened within a few years of having kids. It's something I don't talk to anyone about
Aww, same-a month after giving birth to my twins a tooth died and it was the worst pain of my life. I’d do all my births in a row again rather than have had the tooth pain. Thankfully a friend told me to pull it instead of the root canal which can channel bacteria to your bloodstream but it was awful.
This makes me so sad to hear..🥺 *Sending many virtual hugs*
You're one of my favourite TH-camrs and watching you is like adding sunshine to my day.
I hope your teeth will heal soon and the pain and anxiety around that will go away.❤️
I swear you’re describing me exactly! Pregnancy ruined my teeth as well. I ended up having complete, 100% implants. It changed my life Shea. My entire world flipped and I became happy. I didn’t know I was so miserable and controlled by my teeth. People who have never struggled with teeth cannot understand how real it is. I wish you all the best. You are not alone.
Same, except I was all set to do what you did - go full implants - within a couple of months but had a tooth suddenly abscess in the middle of the night without prior warning. I went to bed just fine and, within a few hours, I woke up with my face swollen so badly that my nose was displaced on my face and my eye was bulging. Once I had the emergency taken care of and the tooth removed, I went to implement my plan only to be talked into a series of “fixes” by the dentist. It was never-ending and I spent far more on it all than If I had just gone forward with my original plan. Now, a few years later, I’m left with gaps from missing teeth and teeth that keep shifting and it’s all a mess. And, since COVID decimated a lot of my investment accounts, I don’t feel like I can safely pour out all that money and just do my original plan. So I struggle on and avoid the dentist’s office which is the stupidest course of action of all!
I know dentists always say you should try to hold onto your own teeth, but if they only cause you pain (physical and mental) and affect your “self” - your very being - I don’t understand that. When people have joints that are terribly painful and not functional, there’s no “You should try to hold onto your knee joint for life”! They do surgery to eliminate it and give you a replacement.
Good for you, Sonya, for doing what you knew would work best for you. I’m so glad it worked out well and that you’re happy and able to eat a steak instead of a hamburger! 😉
Seriously though, Shea, it’s something to consider. Make that appointment with the implant specialist in CT and get his/her opinion. It might be life changing for you.
This is such a supportive comment. Bravo.
How do such severe dental issues connect with pregnancy? I've never heard of this happening, so I'm just interested, if you don't mind answering. How awful! I'm glad you are much happier now!
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The developing baby needs huge amounts of minerals and vitamins to build its body - bones, teeth, connective tissue, etc. Its nearly impossible for any mother to take in enough nutrition to maintain her own body as well as build a new little one. Enter prenatal vitamins which have increased amounts of those minerals in particular, as well as vitamins to try to boost what the mother can provide. If she is unable to take in (or keep down) enough nutrition or those prenatal vitamins, her body will pull those from the easiest sources internally - her teeth and bones - and the developing baby will pull the released minerals and vitamins for necessary growth. Our bodies do a constant balancing act, keeping things at equilibrium. For instance, when you take in too much sodium, your body makes you feel thirst so it can dilute that sodium and then your body expels it in urine to keep the equilibrium. And it’s balancing everything, redistributing, as best it can everyday.
@@ktrain-hj6jm pregnancy can take a lot of calcium from your body to give to the fetus. I started having serious dental issues after my first pregnancy. Not uncommon at all.
Thank you for sharing with us, Shea. It broke my heart to know that you are not able to enjoy eating food, and have been dealing with this for so many years. Don't stop praying, God can and will make a way. Many prayers being sent to you. 💜
Oh my goodness- my heart just breaks for you. I know how important teeth are to our well being! I’m so sad this has continued for so long. I love that you shared your story with us.
Praying this will all settle and you’ll be 100% healed. Sending lots of love ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story! We are always comparing our insides to other people's outsides (ie. Social medial). I have been struggling for about 2 years now with an acidic, burning mouth after being put on a medication for h.pylori (an overgrowth of stomach bacteria). This medication, which had 2 strong antibiotics, started causing my mouth to dry out and become extremely acidic and painful. I have been to dozens and dozens of doctors and oral specialists with very little help. Some doctors treat me very poorly when they can't figure out what it is or what to do. It has been a nightmare and I became extremely depressed for about 6 months. I feel for you and all of us who are going through any kind of health struggle, or any struggle at all. Sharing and kindness go a long way. So thank you.
Shea, you are not alone in going through this
Yes, she is not alone!
Hi Shea it is so refreshing to have such an honest account of your struggles with a very valid health issue, it will really help anyone who has to cope in daily life with something that may not be necessarily be a "visible" thing. It takes real courage to have talked about this!!
Thank you so much for sharing! I've been going through relatively the same thing with my teeth and I felt so ashamed and guilty. I was literally thinking about my experience at the dentist the other day and just felt bad about what is going on with my teeth. Not to mention the cost. But you have helped me tremendously by making this video. Thank you for being real and transparent!
I completely agree with you. 1 bad tooth can spoil your day but a non stop going on teeth problem can make a person miserable. I hope this stops for You at some point❤️
It'd be nice to see some vlogs from you Shea along with your regular content. This video was definitely inspiring for me even if I'm dealing with other issues and I think vlogs are a nice way to get to know TH-camrs on a deeper level. I hope your issues get better soon. Be strong 💪🏻
My history teacher in high school told us that for him, the advancement of science that changed history the most was the advent of modern dentistry. Before then, people lived lives that were hindered by tooth troubles, many lost their teeth before the age of 40, and still many others died because of infections that had started in the mouth. When that burden was lifted, it had a huge impact on people's lives and on society.
Even with blessings in life (thankfully), there is no apologizing to do when talking about one's suffering. I am in good health, but I do value health above all. Really above all. Because if I am not in good health, I can't care for my family. That's what keeps me up at night when I have health worries, and what motivates me to keep a healthy lifestyle.
If there is one positive thing that comes out of the covid pandemic, I hope it's a better awareness and compassion for those with hidden pain and suffering.
So very true,especially when no vitamin D and calcium in a poor diet in hard times.
It's truly challenging to have a "hidden" illness or struggle. And having an ongoing dental and/or oral pain & difficultly sure counts. Teeth, as you said, are how you eat, but also are part of how we talk, how we express happiness, anger - they are part of face. It's a true burden and I'm sure that sharing it is helping others, and I hope it's helping you.
I feel you, I am going through the same right now, I just want to be able to eat my food with no constant discomfort and anxiety, I have not stop journey for 5 years. Trying to be positive and hopeful it will get normal one day, it’s crazy how your video came out when I need it the most, thank you for sharing 🌸🙏🏻
🙏💕so sorry you are going through this. Saying a prayer for you.
Same. My CHIROPRACTOR is actually the one who FINALLY gave me some answers when ENT, dentist, neurologist, PCP, etc. couldn't.
I feel so bad for you! I haven’t even finished watching this yet, I just wanted to say something! I wish I could hug you, let you cry on my shoulder, I’d even pray with you! My heart goes out to you. I’ll definitely keep praying for you. (My girlfriend from school, ages ago, is going through a similar problem.) John 3:16❤️
1 Peter 5:7 "Cast all your cares on God, for He cares for you"
He walks with you, you are not alone
I relate to you more then you know. Thank you for sharing your story and being open.
Bless you Shea. You’re an absolute sweetheart. A pain in the mouth just nags and nags and can drive a person crazy. I hope this problem is sorted for you soon, what a horrible long journey you’ve been on !
Thank you for sharing your struggles makes you be seen as more human than you be seen as big thing, although you are a child of God. May God bless you and be with you as always .
It sounds to me that your body is taking calcium from anywhere it can, including your teeth, because fillings and root canals usually don't fail so quickly. It would be interesting to see what a bone density scan (for osteoporosis) would show as you maybe loosing bone density elsewhere in your body besides your teeth. ... Because this probably started during your pregnancy, you are more likely to be deficient. It could be calcium deficiency, but it could be one or more of the minerals that regulate calcium absorption or distribution. I would check with a doctor who knows about deficiencies. 💖🌞🌵😷
I was thinking the same, and the fact that Shae isn't eating well can further contribute to the problems. Furthermore there might be accompanying deficits in vitamins etc. so aside of osteoporosis blood tests in all directions would be advised.
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Good point.
I have severe osteoporosis and no trouble with my teeth, not saying she shouldn't have the test but that's not a symptom!
@@mkel858, oh! Sorry! When I mentioned osteoporosis, I was referring to the bone scan that they do for osteoporosis. As there are ailments that target all bones not just teeth, which would show up on such a scan. I guess I should have looked it up and said: the bone mineral density test. ... Now that I'm thinking about it, why at her age, did she need a bone graft to her jaw before doing the implants? And why was that so difficult? What ever is attacking her teeth is also attacking her jaw bone. I'd be really surprised if this is limited to her mouth. 16 cavities in 9 months is just not right. My mom got her first cavity at 47. Sending lots of love 💖 from sunny 🌞 Arizona 🌵🌞
I've never commented after watching so many of your videos, this is my first time. I'm so sorry you are going through this. I too can relate. You are right, we all have our own individual struggles. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. The Lord has got you... He sees you and wants to be your comfort and your answer ❤🙏
Shea, I completely understand how you feel about your teeth! I have always had really good teeth. At the age of 40 I got braces because my teeth were in such good shape. I am now 61. 2 years ago I noticed something was really wrong. My dentist did a root canal on one of my bottom teeth without really discovering what was really wrong. When I had covid, my teeth started bleeding. As soon as everything opened up again, I went to a new dentist. They discovered I had periodontitis. It has been two years now since I was diagnosed. I struggle with this because I had such great teeth at one time. I have always gone to the dentist 2 times a year also. Until covid. I went a year. So I understand how you feel about your teeth. Thank you for sharing and I will be praying for you. Please turn to the Lord and give it all to him. You are so beautiful.
Will say prayers for you and your health. You give so much joy and inspiration for others.
Just keep on keeping until God leads you in a different direction. 🥰
Im so sorry! I am a county dentist and I know how hard this can be. Topical fluoride toothpaste makes a big difference. And floss! Try chewing xylitol gum after means and drinking water after meals. And of course floss and interdental soft picks help a lot! Wishing you the best!!!
I am 59 years old and I fell and landed on my right cheek which shifted my teeth to the left. It knocked out my bridge and broke one tooth off at the gum line. Then 2 months ago a crown and tooth broke in half and had to have that one pulled as well. On Thursday I finally got my partial and it feels so good to have teeth again. Before that, it was difficult to eat and trying to avoid smiling is difficult. I feel so much better.. I wish you the best of luck and I really enjoy your videos. May God bless you.
Shea… thank you for sharing 💕 we all love you!struggles are struggles and this is how you feel💕 you are so genuine. I have been following for such a long time. 🙏 for you💕
I’m praying for you! I have teeth issues too. It makes me very insecure. Due to stress, I cracked two molars last year and by wore down the enamel of my front 4 teeth. It was an awful experience. They have been fixed, but now I’m considering veneers. We are all fighting battles. Lifting you up in prayer and pray you’ll get resolution. 💛🙏💛
Hi Shea, You are so brave for sharing, thank you! I wish I could give you a hug.
thank you for your vulnerability and courage. your not alone and my heartfelt best wishes are with you Shea!
As a mental health professional, THANK YOU for risking vulnerability to talk openly and honestly about your struggles. Too often we minimize the connection between physical/dental health and mental health. You eloquently normalized common issues. Think about how awful it would have been without insurance coverage. I'm not ridiculing your message, only staying the devastating truth: Millions of people have no dental insurance or inadequate coverage with no access to life-changing care.
Insurance has no bearing on her issues! I have never had dental insurance, and have had very lengthy dental procedures done, very involved things in my mouth, and I have paid for all of it out of my pocket, and I have not a wealthy person, so don't say anything about insurance being her issue here.
I would definitely not have written your last sentence!! You are a mental health professional?? Then shame on you. She will feel even worse, as I do for the others that cannot have….things we have or in this case teeth fixed? Why point it out??? She is already struggling! Enough said!
What is your point? She should be grateful she has insurance because others don’t? You’re trying to make her feel as though it could be worse, no kidding Sherlock! I think she knows that and explained that very eloquently. Maybe you should rethink your profession love!
I get what you are saying. Ignore those who becoming defensive over something that is not their issue. She is thankful she is able to afford the care and it is true that millions can not. I can only imagine the impact it has on their lives and she acknowledges she understands that privilege she has and handled it with grace unlike some of those commenting.
❤Shea, you are so brave, authentic, and genuine! Do you even realize how strong you are? Coming out with your dental complications makes you even more powerful! I mean this from the bottom of my heart ❤️! I truly believe as always that you are not only highly intelligent because of your innovations with fashion, home and closet advise you are at the edge of becoming a professional. An icon that will stand the test of time. I am deeply sorry for this experience you have had to endure! Yet on the bright side you will get through this lengthy journey. You will hopefully realize that their are many things we as humans can not control. This may sound cliche yet my advise is to you Shea is when we are faced with life challenges we begin to understand that we must have faith to get through the difficult moments and years to realize we can only “ let go” and trust in whatever religion one believes in that you are not in control of life. Of course we all want to believe we can. I felt this way until at 50 when I went through my hell on earth years. I finally said I give up and I put my own faith in God. Since my own transformational mindset or reframing of my old thoughts I had to adjust and realize that it was the best decision for me. Nothing, and no one is without some major trauma in life. I have never met someone without something they have been through. It took me years to realize life is a roller coaster not the fairytales and “ life is like a bowl of cherries”. I was brought up this way. And that environment left me feeling many times like a failure. I had no idea what the real world was going to be until I discovered this. Today I feel freedom that I don’t have to be perfect! And I actually love me now that I have know this. I have become resilient and grateful for where I am today. Acceptance is the answer to all of my issues now. And having a firm foundation of faith has affirmed that I am worthy just as you are worthy. One must see life’s challenges as a way to build resilience and strength. A great book I recommend to you and others is the book “Bulletproof”. A former CIA female agent that reveals what I have learned. Shea, I believe in you as well as countless others. Your world will be transformed by this life event. And you will come out of all of it as a result of your experience! That I can guarantee! ❤ Melanie Ps. Keep on making and innovating it has changed my life in ways so inspiring I couldn’t thank you enough! 😊
100% hear you. Teeth are insanely important. Cosmetically, self esteem & nourishment not necessarily all in that order. I had braces for 3 years to correct a massive overbite issue which required 4 molars on the top to be pulled out to make room for the rest of the teeth. I vividly remember the comments I received just months after about how much "better" i looked & how people could see "massive improvement". the comments were not given maliciously whatsoever....but I held onto them internally for a really LONG time because i struggled with a lot of "teasing" in the past & self esteem issues. I'm so sorry you went through this & can relate to this video on many levels (not just pertaining to teeth) but just everyone struggles with different things differently even if you seem "privileged" for lack of better word. This shit matters & it sucks.
Your pain is your pain. No need to justify. Sending love.
Thank you for being so honest, transparent and real. We all have struggles but most of us try to cover them up and put on a happy face. No matter how blessed we are, and I am blessed - we all have tough things we go through. I truly hope and pray you get these issues resolved. It has to be so frustrating to not be able to eat and have healthy teeth.
Shea please do not diminish your struggles hon - I struggled with one root canal at 60yrs of age - had an inflamed nerve and deep infection that my trusted dentist of 30 years missed at 4 different aments - 4 others dentists later and I’m at a specialist orthodontist’s office for more rounds of root canal have had ongoing issues with 5 other teeth. If you grind your teeth please get a night mouth guard made up. Hang in there, get another opinion it might help xx
Shea, I can relate to what you’re going through on two levels. I have had issues with my teeth all of my life. Not quite what you are going through but it has affected me in so many ways especially my confidence and my self-esteem. I too have always been very thin. I have dealt with comments all my life as well. People saying “oh you are too skinny”and “why don’t you just eat more”. Believe it or not I have a hard time gaining weight. I also struggle with some health issues that people don’t know about. It is very hurtful when I hear these comments. I have never understood why it is OK for people to say “you are too skinny” but it is not OK to say to someone who is overweight, “you are too fat”. Why is there a double standard? I wish you all the best, and know that you are not alone. As you said everyone struggles with something. People need to remember that kindness is of the upmost importance. Take care.
I am so sorry Shea, I have been dealing with is problem non stop for 4 years. I have had implants, cadaver bone that failed loss of teeth deep cleaning because I had gum disease that you never would have know my teeth were as white as paper. I was shocked when I went to the dentist and he said I would lose teeth they were falling out. I had all implants crowns and a bridge put in. Finally after 4 years regular cleanings every 3 months ,4 of my teeth started hurting. I couldn't understand X-rays 3 times a year cleaning 3 times a year root measurements. To this day I am unable to eat anything hot or cold. Recently I just went through 4 root canals and replacing the crowns damaged by the root canals. I told my husband Im at my end, I will have all teeth pulled. I cannot even hold my mouth open anymore my jaw is just so tired. I understand and wish you the best.
You’re a joy and so appreciated!
Everyone is fighting a battle no one knows about. Your lovely and I wish you healing in your issues! That is very terrifying! I cannot imagine how scary that is. 99% of people are understanding. 1 % is pathetic and full of hatred.
I wasted 1.5 yrs my time and money going to dentist still couldn’t get fixed. TMJ, cavities , extractions, teeth fracture, guards, so many X-rays and I agree with you personally people don’t understand how much the teeth problems affect your daily life until it happens to you. I feel you. I hope you heal better🙏
Oh Shea, I feel so sorry and wish you a very good health and always joy with food. I always love your cheerful videos. You cheer us always up, so hopefully we can cheer you also a bit up and return the positive energy. Hugs from Germany
I wish you all the best dear. 💜 It must be very, very hard. Not being able to eat properly is a nightmare. You feel hopeless and scared and that feeling is the worst. Last year I heard I have a very rare cancer so I kinda know how you feel. Not knowing when and if it all will be over is scary. I hope we all will be well sooner or later. 🌸 Xoxo
Shea, my heart goes out to you. I will pray for you. ❤️ Keep your eyes on God He is faithful and is merciful.
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Thank you for sharing - may you know you are loved and cared for by God.( & your viewers too🙂)
You are beautiful! Everyone has issues young lady. 🙏❤
Hello Shea so sorry to hear about your struggles with your teeth. I wanted to say that you always cheer me up if I’m feeling a little down so I hope you can get things sorted and hopefully this will make your life better. And I think it was really brave to admit that everything is not perfect all the time. We all know this deep down but it’s good to be reminded.
I get it! I do!!! I wish you the best. The only thing I can suggest is drink lots of water, or at least swish with water. The other things is "pull" w ith coconut oil. Maybe check into Biotene.
Wow! I know it’s been a year since you posted this and I pray you are doing much better. I understand, currently in a similar situation and it is overwhelming. I’m taking care of my elderly dad so it’s on the back burner 😩😢
Same! Had all my root canals removed once I made the executive decision about six years ago. Improvement 100%.
People can be so quick to judge sometimes when they can’t relate to you. But I hope people can really touch their heart and at least try to understand more that we all go through something at some point in life. I will pray for you.
Wow. Powerful and yes, relatable. God continue to be with you.
Sweetie I go through a lot also , and it could be worse. I am 50 and I have been through alot about 2001 then 2003 and up snd down! I have panic attacks and anxiety and problems sleeping. I was told all the time it will get better. I also had fights with doctors because I know my body. And now that it took years for the doctors I’m disabled.I won’t take up any more of your time…
Don’t minimize what you are going through. This is a real struggle, and sounds painful. Just because everyone struggles does not mean your issues are less.
I know about your suffering! I have scleroderma, this autoimmun condition is very hard on your teeth. I went through a period of time about 7 years ago where my mouth was in such bad shape I ran high fevers and got really ill because of the infections in my teeth and gums. I had several root canals and implants too. You are so right about the implants, it is not a overnight process and not for the faint at heart. I also have a digestive issue, went to tons of doctors only to hear "there is nothing wrong with you". I finally found a Funtional Medicine Doctor; oh my goodness, what a change in my life!! He discovered I had a parasite, I'd had this creepy thing for at least a decade. My digestive system was poisoned with 100 percent yeast, and my liver cannot process red meat or any fatty foods. Trust me I know your frustration. As a result of all this stuff, I have had to become pretty much vegan and a soft food diet. However, I have lost 41 pounds, a good thing, and my digestive system is finally straightening out and for the first time in over ten years I am beginning to feel like I have a life. Sorry, didn't mean to make this about me. God bless and prayers.
I've had maybe four root canals and five extractions because the motors were too rotten for root canals and I've not had a problem except I have a hard time chewing raw vegetables and nuts. Teeth are necessary for good health. I microwave carrots. I think there are dental answers to be found. Keep researching and never give up.
I literally am going through similar teeth issues since having my first baby in 2017! 2 root canals, a bunch of cavities a broken tooth currently!
I am so stressed about all of these teeth issues! I more than understand!
I got all my teeth pulled and got wonderful dentures.. I have no issues now no pain best thing I ever did.
PS: there are tests that can be done for heavy metals and dental materials reactiveness in the body. Just a thought.
Thank you for sharing it with us. I have a similar problem! You are amazing
Thank you for sharing...you are just beautiful...xxx
I had so many teeth issues after my pregnancy, I went to a lot of doctors finally a doctor from out of the US told me it was because my son during pregnancy had taken calcium away from me, he needed this much calcium, because the prenatal vitamins I was taking wasn’t cutting it at all, I had an easy pregnancy myself. It was afterwards that I dealt with my teeth. Thank you so much for sharing, I take calcium / magnesium supplements ever sense and it’s gotten better. I struggled a lot when I had to get extractions, I so understand you on your food comment….Oooh and my son, is a giant he is tall, from behind his built looks like a grown man and once you look at his face you can see he is still a baby…I guess he really needed my calcium, I was producing a football player….lol Sending positive and loving vibes your way!!!
I really hope she’s seen this comment since considering her recent teeth struggles. You might want to send a message to her about the vitamins. This exact thing happened to my grandma when pregnant; she wasn’t getting enough calcium (vitamin d and k2 are important sisters to the calcium) and it made her teeth fall out.
We all have our struggles, I struggle with things too and feel guilty because essentially I have nothing to complaints about. What I do know, is we all feel better when we talk about it! You have helped others know they are not alone, and maybe even shed light on an issue for someone else. Prayers to you and everyone here who are struggling with their own issue.
Hi sweetheart, i have had the same exact problems as you, I won't get into details for you, all I can say is whatever will be will be, and you are gorgeous, don't let people get you down. Teeth are very important and painful, I know, you are just going to have to accept this horrible reality and be strong.
😢oh my dear. my name is Shelley, I live in Canada. I have been a registered dental nurse (retired now) for around 25 years. I have always worked for oral surgeon's. just listening to your awful prediciment a lot of things really jumped out at me. I have a lot of questions for you and a lot of suggestions depending on how you answer the questions. yes teeth are tied to everything including heart disease. but I sincerely want to help in any way I can. I live in Canada, close to Toronto. but if you are interested I would love to answer any questions you may have. I don't know how to get a hold of you & I am nervous about leaving my personal info on here. so if you could possibly think of any way to communicate please let me know somehow. God bless Shelley ❤
i hope you are doing okay now? you are very inspiring. thank you for sharing. xo
I can't even put into words how I know exactly how you feel. Going through almost the same issue. Cosmetically..perfect... On paper (x-ray)... a disaster. I'm never without an appointment to get something drilled, nerve damage, pulled adjusted... the only rest I get is the rest of healing in between appointments. AND NO ONE realizes how depressing it is.
Poor thing 😢
❤❤❤ same. I am trying to not be so embarrassed about it.
Just because someone else might be going through a “more difficult” situation doesn’t invalidate your struggles.
Teeth are important! Don’t be so hard on yourself or rather, be gentle with yourself!
Well said totally agree!!
Agree. It’s a big deal!
There's a great young gal on tiktok that had all her teeth fall out, she wears dentures. She completely owns it ! Btw, I can never find a man and I got a brain tumor. Everyone suffers deeply it seems.
I’d look into what dental materials were used in the teeth that were causing the problems and make a note of it. You may have been having a reaction to one of those. I’m a hygienist and had a patient that told a story similar to yours. She said she finally figured out she had a problem with thimerosal. You could potentially react to any material including a variety of dental materials.
Also! Do you clench/grind your teeth? You said you have a cracked tooth in the front. Make sure you wear a night guard if so.
Any chronic thing is no small thing. I’ve had a season of undiagnosable life sucking health problems. I realized through it that I will always have a “thorn in my “flesh” to keep me dependent on God. I naturally default to trying to do it all on my own. And remember...
2 Corinth. 12:9 - But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.
Hang in there. This will get better.
Yes! My mom was allergic to one of the new materials used and it caused major issues.
My 35 y/o husband died from brain cancer last year, leaving me with our 3 babies to care for alone. Friends often preface every single struggle/complaint they have because we tend to compare. We can BOTH have struggles. Truly, we all do. We don’t need to compare our struggles but only to support each other in whatever they are. Sending you so many healing vibes ❤️💙❤️
Omg I’m so sorry 😢 I can’t even imagine
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Stay strong 💕
I am so sorry. I pray for you and your babies ❤❤
Keep inspiring others April. Sending love and hugs from so many of us out here.
Amen! It’s not a competition in hardships! We all need to be there for each other!
“It’s just teeth” but it’s affects your whole life.
It’s ok to be vulnerable and worry about your health. Hope this gets better for you, you’re a good person
God bless you Shea...also God will bless you with this like "this too shall pass" it's very strange that you mentioned Crohn's disease and not so strange that you would mention depression, I deal heavily with both. I just feel if you will keep the faith and of course keep praying but also just believe and speak the healing of your teeth into existence and don't speak any negative into the universe, as much as possible because that in itself is hard not to do. Okay, pretty sure I'm on the verge of rambling at this point so in closing I truly feel you will get to the other side of this! I love you, you were my first "subscribe" a few years ago when I started watching utube. I will keep you in my prayers Shea!!
I'm so sorry you're going through this, Shea. I'm sure your video will help a lot of people going through the same thing. ♥️ ~ Jennifer
Thank you for your honesty I also have dental issues I have had root canals retreated if failed. Sometimes an option.
Holistic is not a priority but the best trained and educated dentist is a priority
My “general/main” dentist is a prosthodontist which requires 3 additional years of education in restorative dental issues. He is in Miami My Endodontist is “best school” trained and recommended by my dentist.
I have had “nice” dentist but I want “the best” to be providing my dental care.
I’m not saying you dentist are not fabulous but education (plus the latest technology) can provide up to date care
I’m sorry to hear you are going through this
Body shaming is for bullies that are jealous
You are Beautiful
God bless you and you family❤️
Shea, please don’t minimize what you’re going through! Yes, we all have issues, but yours affects every area of your life. How can it not? I will pray for you, I promise!
Shea believe or not I do understand and I can totally relate. Everyone one does have problems but that has nothing to do with your situation or how your hurting. I really am sorry and Im going through something I never thought I’d have to deal with. Unfortunately it is life but that doesn’t make it any easier. I too am very blessed I’m so many ways but that doesn’t make the hard times easier at the moment. Know your in my prayers and the one thing I do know is God can literally do anything nothing he cannot handle. I’m hoping you get better and find someone or someway to get this situation handled and I know you will By the way sweet girl I love your videos, they make me happy 🤩
I’m sorry you’re going through this. Thank you for sharing. I’m praying for you!
Will put you on my prayer list that your health issues resolve soon. With all you’re going through you still have a beautiful smile and your videos bring a lot of happiness to your followers so remember you have thousands of people who care ❤️🩹Nancy
I’m a dental hygienist and thank you for mentioning that oral health is tied to overall health. There are so many things you can find out about your body by your oral health. I’m so sorry to hear that you’re dealing with these issues and not to minimize your concerns/frustrations. I hope everything gets figured out and you can eat how/what you want!
Have you ever heard of gums becoming numb after running/exercise? The dentist I've asked give me a blank stare.
@@terrjarvis8685 ....Do you have any other dental issue? Cavities, root canals, mercury amalgam fillings , have braces, bridges, gum disease??
The teeth are directly connected with your acupuncture meridians . It is now believed that this meridian system that runs throughout your body may be connected with our fascia tissue that runs throughout our muscles and all organs and also with our lymphatic system - the system to eliminate toxins in our tissues, organs via the blood which takes it to our liver, colon and kidneys for elimination. The vagus nerve in your mouth running down through your esophagus to your colon and another up from your 2 front teeth along roof of mouth down back of head tun through your meridians also. To put it briefly.
Meridians also fun from each tooth down to parts of your body.
So yes... your teeth and mouth could have an effect on your body ... muscles.... joints etc.
So it follows that if you use your muscles like in exercise /strenuous movement ... it may refer back to your mouth.
So look for any issues in your mouth. Mercury dental amalgam fillings can create very very bizarre conditions both in mouth and rest of body. A Biological Dentist may be the best to know about these things.
In the 1800s mercury fillings were banned by the THEN American Dental Association because they knew and experienced the detrimental effects of mercury on all systems of the body bc it attacks the nervous system and endocrine which then affects all other systems & organs. This they knew bc of the hazards it posed for mercury mining workers and gold mining and workers in the Top Hats manufacturing bc they used mercury to stretch the hat fabric. Many of these became insane or mentally unstable thus the adage “Mad Hatter” like you hear in the Alice and Wonderland tale.
But the pressure of the elites brought down that 1st dental association. And later the one we have now formed with the same name and they resumed the use of mercury amalgams which is 50% toxic mercury. Mercury is used to mine gold to separate it from the rocks and other mineras. I guess they need to use the leftover for something like they do with fluoride and other residual industrial waste. They chug it to the naive consumers and make more bucks out of it.
When my 8 mercury amalgams were installed within less than 2 months one of the immediate symptoms that happened was I began having a massive pain shoot up to my eye and brain FROM a molar next to one filled. If the pain lasted more than the 20 seconds I would have had to commit suicide bc all I can do is jump up and down holding my head until it subsided. Luckily it would only happen occasionally until one day it lasted longer .
I ran to a dentist and told him that if he did not pull out the tooth I’d commit suicide right there. He then suggested he first drill a hole into the tooth supposing that maybe a gas had been trapped in it. He did and low and behold the pain went away and never returned and was the tooth that ever remained perfect.
A few years ago it became impacted though and got infected bc it was still a baby tooth. It was removed ... but before that the infection ran UP the same route I had felt at the time of those shooting nerve pains and it would end up swelling my whole body with also fatigue and muscle pain. I could “feel” the infection in my body. After the tooth was extracted my body went back to normal... I could actually feel the drainage from my forehead down my face, neck and body as I healed.
If you go on Facebook on mercury dental amalgams groups you will hear a lot of bizarre stories, even bi-polar and schizophrenia being resolved after resolving amalgams or tooth problems. One good one is Andy Cutler safe mercury detox (something like that).
@@terrjarvis8685 .... Also it would be beneficial to have a nutritional analysis blood work up to see what deficiencies in vitamins and essential minerals you’ve got going on. Regular doctors do NOT perform this only holistic practitioners do. Reg doctors do not study nutrition in college they’re just given 12-23 hours in SOME medical schools. Many Chiropractors do . Functional Medicine doctors and Naturopathic Physicians do. Insurance does NOT cover this either. It costs about $500 nowadays.
Deficiency in Vitamin Bs can produce gum and mouth mucosa issues , herpes simplex and dry lips and rashes . So a B Complex would be good to take giving yourself a 2 week break in between. Vitamin D3 too. Then look for those that work WITH Bs and D. Like vitamin C, A, and E. Vitamin C is essential for bone and collagen (D too). Vegetable /food based vitamins are the best.
@@terrjarvis8685 Omgosh. I am also a dental hygienist & do not know what that is about, but one of my best friends told me that when she runs she tastes blood. She does not have periodontal disease or any other significant dental problems.
I know you don’t need validation but I am so proud of you for talking about this. I continue to pray for you and your family. It’s okay to feel the way you do and you are loved no matter what ❤️
Our pastor says, "Comparison kills." It's so true! Our pain and struggles are real and we need to acknowledge them before we can work through them. Praying for you, @shea. 🙏
You may need to choose, implants completely. You are probably gonna deal with teeth issues for tne rest of your life ( it’s your AchillesHeel) .. of course implants have issues , but they are usually the same kind of issues all tne time...and after awhile....they become easy to deal with. I have had the root canals/ swollen lymph’s also..( of course like you I knew it was teeth, but they looked for salvia stones etc until they realized it was my teeth). My hubby has had implants for years..he says there are more pros than cons...( I’m thinking of doing the same). He said food isn’t as tasty as before, but after awhile it’s tasty enough..because you forget just hoe tasty it was before the implants. I have waay more problems with teeth and each year..I get closer to just pulling them all and getting implants. May for you it’s something to consider
I've heard, "Comparision is unhealthy." Nothing good comes out of it. It's better to focus on your good points and work on your faults.
It’s so true the saying that “Health is wealth” nobody’s life is perfect, thank you for being so honest. ❤️
that's what has happened to me. Compared to childbirth that was easy compared to my new normal I've had to get used to
NO
As a veteran of extensive dental work and a botched procedure, I wouldn’t diminish your agony at all in comparison to say, cancer. Dental work is excruciating for me, and I feel your pain. Thank you for your transparency.
I’m a dental/ortho assistant and I feel for you when I’m hearing about your story and your teeth journey. Teeth are small, but such a big part of your health! Your teeth look beautiful and are very healthy looking. Praying that you’re back to good health! Remember healthy teeth take time and it is a process, but I promise you it’s worth all the time and effort! 💕💕
Hi. Please consider a product called Theragel by Aroga. Have all your patients swish it before procedures. It kills the bacteria in the mouth so it won’t get in the bloodstream and is a pain reliever. So much more...Aloe & essential oils, FDA approved.
Aroga! Dr Bill “The Father of Aloe “
God bless ,
Janet from GA
I understand your pain! I had many years of dental problems and it does affect every aspect of your life. It did get better for me and has been for many years after multiple implants. Hang in there. It will get better!!!
I am going through similar issues. I wish you good health and a speedy recovery. God bless
you were downplaying your struggles so much and when you finally did mention what it was, i was shocked by the severity of it. Im so sorry youre going through this, chronic pain is the worst and it can ruin some of the happiest days. Wishing you the best of health
“It’s ok to not be ok”. A gentle reminder that we are all going through something.
You're absolutely correct that everyone has their own thing in their life. So, don't diminish yours. Thank you for sharing. I can't imagine that it was an easy decision to tell us. Pray that you heal and find relief quickly. Love watching your channel. Found you just by chance and so glad I did! Hugs!
Please never feel that your struggles are invalid because they are not as bad as others everyone struggles with something! Also I’m so proud of you for opening up about this ❤️
Edit: Thank you guys so much for the likes! I’m glad to see that people agree 🥰
You are right when you say that everybody has something they deal with. Even the most perfect appearing situation has a dark spot because that is life. The best approach is to know that applies to everybody and be kind since you may never know the degree of another’s suffering!❤️
I couldn't have said this any better!
Well said!!!!
Beautifully said 🙏💙
Your distress is real. Yes we all have stuff for sure. It's ok to be honest . you have had a horrendous ordeal that is not resolving. Grateful you have a great team of professional people . Baby steps your doing the best you can. Hugs from Canada
SHEA! Leaving my comment (story?) here to maybe offer some hope to you and others.
I'm in my late 20s now and I had jaw pain and bite issues from the first time with braces as an early teen. Got my braces off, but by my senior year of high school I suddenly had an open bite. My orthodontist put me back in braces, but by college I had an open bite AGAIN, even with intense retainers (and lots of gum recession as a result), and I was pissed. Things went on until my mid 20s when the jaw pain came back and it was *bad*. I could hardly eat, was on a soft food diet. Once again, my bite was getting worse, and I noticed my lower jaw and face was... really small? I basically had no chin. I was insecure about my face, my bite, and couldn't believe this was my life.
Lots of details later, but I ultimately learned I have a rare thing called idiopathic condylar resorption, so quite literally since my teen years my lower jaw bone has been eroding away. This caused my bite to open up and for my face to look super weird and unattractive. I am now waiting for a total joint replacement for my jaw. Only one tooth touches, my jaw joints are in pain every day, I am in braces for the third time, and have extensive tooth damage for all the years of orthodontic work. I have never had a defined and normal jaw line in my adulthood. All of this to say that, after finding the right care providers (and fighting insurance), the only life I've known of teeth pain, jaw pain, sleep apnea, etc. is about to end (for the better). Don't listen to the naysayers who are not walking in your shoes. Your mouth is critical to your wellbeing, and pain is never ok no matter where the pain originates. Continue to see the right providers, get other opinions, until this gets resolved. It CAN and WILL get better!
Also, if you have not already, perhaps get checked for Sjogren's - an autoimmune disease that can cause tons of teeth problems.
Rooting (pun intended!) for you Shea!
I never comment but I want to let you know that I appreciate your honesty and humility. Your issues are real. Don’t apologize. Nine years is a long time to go through health issues. Everyone struggles with something .... you said this but it’s true.
💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏
Your teeth issues are valid! I can’t even imagine! You should never have to justify yourself or your health to anyone. Thank you for sharing your struggles. I hope things start to turn around for you.
I can just tell from this video you have such a pure heart!!!😭😭 I’m praying for healing in your teeth in Jesus name!🙏🏽💗
This took so much courage. Thank you I’ve struggled with this as well.
Going through anything chronic, especially when you have young kids, is tough. All you can do is move through step by step as it comes. That's all you can do through life as a whole. Thanks for being so transparent. If anything, it helps others to relate to you even more. Sending up prayers for you and sending you a big hug.
We may have all the things in life but sometimes there may be this unhappiness. Stay positive and things will be ok.
Shea thank you for sharing this. As someone who has suffered with bad gums, teeth, root canals and implants- it indeed can be very depressing! Here’s hoping you find some relief soon
Coconut oil With clove essential oil for brushing and oil pulling Everyday brushing, vit k2, dairy. Look into Weston Price. Not medical advice but what has helped me.
Just because someone’s struggles are different or “lesser,” that doesn’t make them easier. While I know what it’s like to have people making negative comments on your skinny-ness, I can only imagine how rough it is to deal with so many issues with your teeth, such a vital part of the body’s functioning. I hope you find your full happiness again - sending prayers your way!
Well said
Oh, Shea! 😞 You have briefly mentioned your teeth issues in the past. Clearly, it was not easy giving an in-depth explanation about your serious teeth concerns. Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your struggles along your journey. 🤗 I'm praying for you to find some answers and solutions. 🙌🏾❤🙏🏾
I feel you so hard on this. I've spent 10k on my teeth this year and I'm still not done. I'm tired of dentists and it never seems to end. I'm working on 5 implants, 2 sinus lifts and many bone grafts. I'm trying to hold on to my gratitude because at least I can afford these treatments. I'm generally upbeat, but there are bad days. I'll get past this and so will you. We are the lucky ones!!
I spent 35k in the last year root canals bridge 5 implants was so expensive and I have no dental insurance so I had to pay out cash for all this work..thank god I’m finally done!
@@tanyaperales6681 dental isn’t like medical. You get maximums they’ll pay out and you blow through that pretty quick. And they hardly cover the expensive stuff (implants) that’s usually the most expensive 😏
Thank you for sharing your struggle so honestly. I will be praying for you.
“But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
2 Corinthians 12:9 ESV
Be encouraged Shea, you are loved❤️
Shea, I'm so sorry to hear you're dealing with all this. I really recommend you see a therapist to work through all the conflicted feelings you are dealing with regarding this issue. I didn't have teeth issues but I had similar issues where I felt like I didn't deserve to feel how I was feeling and seeing a therapist REALLY helped. They can help you validate, understand, and unpack your emotions and you deserve that.
As a Dentist in both Connecticut and Florida, I have heard this type of situation many times. The best advise I can give, is to see someone that can diagnose why this occurred, how to resolve the problem and then restore your dentition to optimal form and function. There is a true oral/systemic connection that should be evaluated. Stress is a huge factor in many aspects of health including oral health.
Good luck in your quest for resolution and finding the correct team to treat you.
I am glad someone that knows about the topic replied! Also, I am not a doctor or anything, but I've heard about several women that after becoming mothers, they get a sort of calcium deficiency in their teeth. Is that even a thing? I know for a fact that both of my grandmothers had this (also, gave birth numerous times) and some other women of different ages.
Thank you Dr. "G M" for this piece of expert advice; I've been scared to even begin some light research on the topic of my own similar dental issues that I just *know* are present and will likely be worse than I expected, let alone to make my imminent dreaded dental appointment. Anyways...I appreciate so much to hear such relevant information from a credible professional today (without actually being on the phone/in an office with a local dental care provider), this comment, and Shae's video of course, gave me the push I needed to take my first step towards actually just biting the bullet** and schedule a consultation today. I apologize for this mellowdramatic, unwarranted 'personal issue' comment; I assure you that I'm speaking earnestly and perhaps for that reason, I felt strongly moved to express my gratitude. One never knows when they might actually be speaking life-changing words--so just had to let you and Shae know how much you helped a random person online today! Ha in a real way. OK I'm done now 😅😳🤞 Good vibes and all the best to you and yours.
**pun originally unintended ha & I do know how poor of a practice it generally is to "bite the bullet", chew the ice, etc 🙃
God bless yall
Flouride doesnt work and is not healthy
When i was pregnant w/ my child (1986, I read that, teeth will have problems during pregnancy. To make sure to take calcium supplements. I did experience a tooth problem so I made sure i took my supplements during pregnancy then all were good thereafter.
I have broken or lost all of my teeth. I have 2 autoimmune diseases, lupus and sjogrens. Sjogrens syndrome is the name for the autoimmune disease that has been the primary destructive force that have destroyed my teeth and gums. I had never had a cavity until I was is my 30s. It was treated with a tooth colored filling, which became loose and fell out and was replaced repeatedly until I was convinced that I had no choice but a root canal and crown. I had gotten sick the last month before my kindergartener classes ended for the school year in May. I was unable to get out of bed for the entire summer vacation and was diagnosed with mononucleosis and Epstein Barr Virus. That was the end of any normal life and my health began to seriously deteriorate in so many areas that I couldn't believe I had no other diagnosis months later after the mono should have been long gone and yet I was falling apart and my joints, muscles, bones, skin, sinuses, throat, ears, glands, teeth etc. were in neverending pain and I always had fever and just wanted to sleep as I was exhausted 100 percent of the time and spent so much time trying to get any extra rest or sleep as I possibly could and felt like I was failing at life, crying in bed. I somehow continued raising my daughters, and kept teaching for another 7 years but I was in unbearable pain and the misery and exhaustion was depressing and I was terrifyingly gaunt, losing my hair, severely underweight and had developed a mouth full of cavities, cracks, constant ulcers, blisters in mouth, swollen taste buds, swollen cuts and 10/10 pain plus facial nerve pain, gum disease, parotid disease and insufficient and unhealthy saliva issues, and a failed root canal and for 2 years, I worked a 2nd job and put every dime left after bills and my responsibilities as the sole provider raising 2 daughters 100% of the time towards having every issue on my extensive treatment plan for every tooth treated, and completed, using monthly cleanings and fluoride treatments, sealants applied, several new root canals, crowns, fillings, bonding and extractions...only to have those teeth begin to fall apart and break ans and lose the new fillings and crowns in less than 6 months and I have been in a descent of pain, shame, infection, abscesses, extensive extractions and surgery for severe dental disease and infection in so much pain for almost 10 years now, as I am in absolute hell, and I no longer work or have any life or even a close friend or family member. My teeth break off at gum line.I have 8 badly damaged teeth left and they hurt all of the time. The dentists keep pushing me to go the implant route and I will never afford that. I have nothing but medicaid and I can't afford dentures, which 3 dentists said would not work out well. But I can't go through these cycles of sheer misery and agony while eating mush and still my teeth continue to break or crumble or crack and I have pain, infection, failed dental cleansing, suffer with major oral problems implication .I have broken or lost all of my teeth. I have 2 autoimmune diseases, lupus and sjogrens. Sjogrens syndrome is the name for the autoimmune disease that has been the primary destructive force that have destroyed my teeth and gums. I had never had a cavity until I was is my 30s. It was treated with a tooth colored filling, which became loose and fell out and was replaced repeatedly until I was convinced that I had no choice but a root canal and crown. I had gotten sick the last month before my kindergartener classes ended for the school year in May. I was unable to get out of bed for the entire summer vacation and was diagnosed with mononucleosis and Epstein Barr Virus. That was the end of any normal life and my health began to seriously deteriorate in so many areas that I couldn't believe I had no other diagnosis months later after the mono should have been long gone and yet I was falling apart and my joints, muscles, bones, skin, sinuses, throat, ears, glands, teeth etc. were in neverending pain and I always had fever and just wanted to sleep as I was exhausted 100 percent of the time and spent so much time trying to get any extra rest or sleep as I possibly could and felt like I was failing at life, crying in bed. I somehow continued raising my daughters, and kept teaching for another 7 years but I was in unbearable pain and the misery and exhaustion was depressing and I was terrifyingly gaunt, losing my hair, severely underweight and had developed a mouth full of cavities, cracks, constant ulcers, blisters in mouth, swollen taste buds, swollen cuts and 10/10 pain plus facial nerve pain, gum disease, parotid disease and insufficient and unhealthy saliva issues, and a failed root canal and for 2 years, I worked a 2nd job and put every dime left after bills and my responsibilities as the sole provider raising 2 daughters 100% of the time towards having every issue on my extensive treatment plan for every tooth treated, and completed, using monthly cleanings and fluoride treatments, sealants applied, several new root canals, crowns, fillings, bonding and extractions...only to have those teeth begin to fall apart and break ans and lose the new fillings and crowns in less than 6 months and I have been in a descent of pain, shame, infection, abscesses, extensive extractions and surgery for severe dental disease and infection in so much pain for almost 10 years now, as I am in absolute hell, and I no longer work or have any life or even a close friend or family member. My teeth break off at gum line.I have 8 badly damaged teeth left and they hurt all of the time. The dentists keep pushing me to go the implant route and I will never afford that. I have nothing but medicaid and I can't afford dentures, which 3 dentists said would not work out well. But I can't go through these cycles of sheer misery and agony while eating mush and still my teeth continue to break or crumble or crack and I have pain, infection, failure to even practice satisfactory dental hygiene, and waste away to skin and bones and suffer with major oral problems and the implications until tragedy occurs?
I had a similar circumstance after my pregnancy….went to the dentist- 9 cavities, over the years I ended up having teeth pulled, root
canals, a bridge etc. nightmare. I’m at the point now I don’t even want to go for a cleaning as I’m afraid of what they’ll find. I would cry myself to sleep over it….your teeth are such an integral part of your body. You are not alone-stay strong you will overcome this ❤️
Me too!!
Me as well
Me too and teeth problems truly cause depression 😔
Me too! 😢
Just discovered you tonight . Love your videos.
I must tell you about a product for your mouth. It will kill the bacteria in your mouth BEFORE you get your dental work done. From what I understand, this has happening for years. The bacteria in our mouth gets into our bloodstream while having work done; therefore causing all kinds of issues.
It’s called TheraGel by Aroga.
It’s made up of Aloe & essential oils. Swish and swallow! It continues do do great things in the body.
It’s also a great pain reliever ; trust me I speak from personal experience!! Go ahead and get the 6pack 8 ounce bottles. Great for skin and scars and burns!
It’s truly amazing!
God bless you and give you strength through your struggles. 🙏🌈🕊
“My cat is looking at me right now. She’s a lovely cat.” I laughed at that so hard. Thanks for sharing, sending you love and healing!
I laughed too 12:21 , I wish her cat had been in the shot for that 😻
Not seeing your cat on camera, miss him / her. Alas, perfection is pretty much impossible. Yes, go see the expert or consult on zoom before you commit.
Crying😭I lost most of my bottom teeth as a teen and it’s been extremely humbling and frustrating, painful and difficult to eat. Thank you for helping not feel so alone 💘
Wow. I can totally relate. I commented on Shea's teeth issues. So glad that I am not alone with these problems. Bless you.
My best friend was missing her bottom teeth, and was able to get a plastic Partial for her bottom teeth and it looks great and it wasn’t crazy expensive
@@joannquilala8801 thank you!
@@sheilads8761 implants work well! Just painful and look funny sometimes. :) I had a partial for a long time
Your struggles are valid like anyone else’s no matter how blessed you are.
Sucks you may think you could be dealing with “worse” issues but it’s sad you have to almost down play you situation just so people don’t come for you. Your teeth and having issues like that can consume your life. I am so sorry you are going through something so horrific.
I've been sick for 11 yrs. now from the after effects of having a bad stroke before my 39th b-day, left me unable to walk except for about 30 ft. @ a time using a wide-based quad cane otherwise I'm using a wheelchair. If you can you can walk use both arms and hands you are in much better shape than I am health does seem to be the best thing, I want to be able to indulge into all the hobbies I used to love today please stop complaining about your teeth dammit get a steno pad and write down your thankful fors
@@tracygaylor9505 how incredibly insensitive of you. I’m sorry you’re dealing with all that, but that doesn’t make Shea’s worries invalid. It’s not a competition of who has it worse.
Tracy Gaylor, I feel for anyone who suffers
But you’re being incredibly rude. You’re not the only one, some people just don’t go on about it. So please, just stop and listen to someone else. Then maybe we will lend you an ear when you need to complain :)
@@torihickman5726 Tori, you said it very well, that is so incredibly insensitive of Tracy!!! While I have empathy for Tracy's situation, there is no need for comparison. Shea was showing her humility and bravery by sharing her struggles with us. We are Shea's friends and we love her!!! Isn't that what friends are for??????
Before I had my daughter I never had a cavity and right after I started having a slew of problems. And I have pretty severe dentist anxiety. Very relatable and sending you some good vibes.