2 THINGS… 1. Thank you so much for your kind comments!!! So many of you totally understand what I’m trying to say and also appreciate my honesty. This makes me really happy. Thank you. 2. If you get a comment saying you won a giveaway - IT’S A SCAM!!!! Please ignore it & report the account!!!!
Your honesty is so refreshing! You don't need to answer anything that makes you uncomfortable! Some people don't have a filter, and will ask inappropriate questions.
Shae, as a Christian, it’s not about you not wanting to be told what you can or can’t do. As a Christian, we have to see what God says, not what the world says. Don’t worry about pleasing the world (which is what you did in this video). Be bold and do what is pleasing to God. Romans 12:2.
Shea, one of the reasons you are so successful is because you are you! Your personality is fun, humble and honest. Not everyone has these characteristics…..you are so much fun to watch, even when you are doing a serious video. I could be your grandmother and I just enjoy your channel so very much! Don’t change!
Shea, your “genuineness” is what matters the most. I’m somewhat appalled at the questions you’ve been asked, but you answered all the questions with grace. I’ve watched your channel for years and it’s almost like you’re a neighbor. You haven’t run me off. I still like you!
Plenty of pro-choice ladies are "pro-life" for themselves. It's more about whether you think your personal beliefs should dictate what others can or can't do. Love your content!!
@@studyhardplayhard5086, I didn't say I wouldn't do it because I think it's "killing." That assumption about my stance makes no sense. It's because I'm in a good position financially and emotionally (and in terms of family support) to raise a child if I were to get pregnant.
Hello from Vancouver Island, Canada. I am shocked at the audacity of these invasive, sometimes downright rude questions. People have no right to get so personal they ask about your private and financial lives. Shame on them for not being well raised. I'm sorry you felt that no one would still like you if you didn't answer these obviously uncomfortable questions. You have nothing to worry about in that regard but bravo to you for doing so. I hope we up here in Canada remembered our famous manners! 😅
My gosh, some of these questions are wildly inappropriate and I can't believe some people think it's okay to ask a complete stranger these things. You're a far nicer person than me because there is no way I'd ever answer these questions
Shea...WOW. You didn't have to do this and I'm humbled and in awe of you for putting yourself out there like you do. This was above and beyond anything that we deserve. I love you to pieces.
You don’t have to answer anyones personal questions about your life. Love your content but keep your life private… and “mysterious”. Your business is your business.
Omg yes...and in my upbringing..I boldly at 10 or 11 asked my dad what his income was....let's say after that I learned a valuable lesson..it's no one's business as its also socially inappropriate to ask political views blah blah...the ones that are asking should worry about themselves
OTOH, Shea’s an adult and makes her own decisions about whether to answer questions or not. I, too, think it’s rude to ask most of those things, but it’s totally up to her how she chooses to handle it. 🤷🏼♀️
She doesn't have to answer them but she definitely can if she wants to. Asking personal questions is rude and telling an adult what they should and shouldn't share is equally rude. I don't want to answer personal questions so I won't. If someone else wants to then that's their choice.
@@Lucinda_Jackson God bless I agree, I wasn't putting anyone down ..just think these questions shouldn't be asked...I think she handled them very well:)
Well done Shea. You did that brilliantly! As a British viewer, and committed Christian, American politics is very odd to us. In our churches everyone is very mixed and politics and the church dont mix ever. But we also have a third main party we can choose that sits in the middle 🤣 I agree with you on all your points!! So, keep doing you, coz it's great!!! PS. If you ever wanted to do a UK amazon haul... us Brits would all love that! 🤣🤣🤣
Sorry, I have lived in England. You may not realize how implicitly Christian your society is. (I am not Christian.) For example, your monarch is the head of the church. A certain number of seats in the House of Lords are assigned to clergy. Then at your major private institutions, like Oxford, huge funding goes to the chapels and choirs for each college. No other ethnicity or religion is funded comparably.
There is nothing more annoying than a fashion/lifestyle influencer trying to preach politics. I appreciate you having opinions and not trying to force them upon us, you shared your views so nicely ❤️
But Clara, do you Think fashion/lifestyle influencers are less entitled to speak about politics than anyone Else? You dont know what they know or are into in their lives?
@@linekristiansen7200 I don’t follow them for politics, I don’t want them to preach to me about politics. I think that is for political activists. Now, please don’t think I’m criticizing Shea, I like how she shared her viewpoints without preaching 🙂
We still like you after the video!! (Actually, we love you more b/c we got to learn more about you!) Thank you for the heart-to-heart session today. Appreciate your transparency~
Thank you for your comments about being democratic or republican and for the pro-life vs. pro-choice responses. I am with you in that area. There are some things that I do like and some things that I don't like on both sides of the issues. Some people may not like that, but it's the truth. I am so tired of the politics in the country that I've kind of stopped listening to a lot of them.
I'm old enough to have changed my mind about many things...and sometimes back again..lol. It's sad that more people don't have civil and interesting discussions and exchange ideas about life. We may even be able to solve problems. 😀
You should never apologize for your personal views whether people agree or not. Also, don’t feel pressured to answer questions that are private. You did a great job 👏
Girl i am SO with you on the politics and I think you said it very well. The parties have both gotten very intense and emotionally charged and there's hypocrisy on both sides, its so frustrating 💕💕
"Choice" is literally in the term. Pro-choice. It means you have the choice to keep a pregnancy, remove the pregnancy, put the child up for adoption, keep the baby and raise it, etc. Pro-choice was literally never about "you get an abortion, that's it". And that you support the same for other people with uteruses. So there you have it, hah.
Omgggg yessss pls do more of these. Sometimes we need to realize that youtubers are also human and have their own stories/perspectives on life aside from purchases, being influencers, etc. we love a healthy balance 🤍
I've been in the middle for a very long time, being in between republican and democrat, being told to “choose a side”. I have my beliefs, which align more on the right side if you will. I wish there wasn't a divide in this country, people are losing friends, family, supporters, etc over this. I agree it's not like it was a decade ago.
I love how you addressed the question of pro-life/pro-choice. I used to think I leaned centre-left but during covid, I realized how much I resented govt telling me what to do-including where I could go and what I had to put in my body. It made me open my eyes to right leaning people talking about govt over-reach. I think many of us encompass values that could represent either side of the political spectrum.
It’s so great that you and Josh work well together. I’ve heard horror stories about men managing or working with their wives and they feel unfulfilled and get jealous. As for the politics it sucks that you either have to be independent or pick a side from the two parties.
The more I watch you, the more I enjoy your videos. I would never ask anyone these questions, and didn’t think I would care about your answers. But you are true to yourself and that’s what is so fun about you!
Thank you for speaking out on pro choice. If you choose personally not to have an abortion but respect other peoples choice or necessity to have one or not have one you are pro-choice because you’re not forcing your beliefs . Thank you
By this logic, someone who doesn’t believe theft, murder, etc. is wrong should be free to steal, murder, etc. without us intervening? This would make sense for lesser and subjective personal convictions, but this principle doesn’t work with objective moral truths like this one. The taking of an innocent life, otherwise known as murder, is always wrong regardless of a person’s opinions and desires. You can’t be pro-life while also affirming a person’s “right” to kill their own child. If those leading the pro-choice movement truly cared about women they’d be appalled by the long term trauma endured by women who get abortions and would fight against it.
Yes, I would never have an abortion but I am speaking from a place of privilege. I could afford having another child, I haven’t been abused, and my life is not threatened. But to say everyone should do what I would do seems VERY WRONG.
This was so fun to watch you are so sweet and I find it hilarious how nervous it made you but I can totally understand. No matter what somebody believes or how they live their life someone is always there to judge and I think it’s so sad. We live in a world of such division it’s very unfortunate but we need to stay true to who we are! 💗🙌🏻
One of the most difficult things to do these days is to not be on one side of things. People want us to have a side, to be either pro-life or pro-choice, democrat or republican. The middle ground and the ability to pend to one side or the other depending on the circumstances is gold. Being on the fence is the hardest way to find balance, so much easier to have your feet on the ground and be blind to what's on the other side...
Girl! This level of honesty/sincerity is SO REFRESHING! Thank you for being you and for normalizing that these topics shouldn’t be polarizing!!! Appreciate this video more than you know!
How can someone ask if they're not happy that they don't have a baby girl?? There are many people that don't get a chance to have kids. Shea sounds very appreciative of what she has.
You are so fun to watch. Love your energy and how you appear on your videos. So happy and positive! I trust your opinion and have purchased some of your recommendations. Thanks for sharing and keeping me company!
I absolutely LOVE that you don't "buy" into the hype of designer bags. Not just bags even. You review all sorts of Amazon products, and honestly, which makes you relatable and keeps me coming back to your videos.
I am with you on politics. There are policies on all different political sides I like and hate but I don't want to say "I am a Republic" or "I am a Democratic" etc. because I don't agree 100% with all the respective parties' policies. When it is time to vote, I look at the candidates and make an informed decision based on my morals and thoughts about what would be good for the country.
I love that you donate all the things that you don't use !! I'm absolutely releaved especially since you buy a lot of Amazon, and they just burn everything that is returned. Kudos to you on that
YT is a lot of work. But u go girl! Working from home is really nice. The bottom line is that it is human nature to get jealous and that is why sharing specific details is not wise. I think it is wonderful if people can make a living with YT! But again for those of you who don't know or appreciate YT is work. But it can be very fun and fulfilling at times!.
Thanks for sharing!! I'm a new subscriber, and I enjoyed getting to know a little more about you. I appreciated your choice of words when you said your husband works WITH you, not FOR you. That says a lot!!! ❤️ Teamwork!
Firstly Thank you Shea for your honesty, Secondly, I just love watching your content, I couldn’t care less about all those questions people asked, the only thing I really have to say is that Politics and Religion are a topic that I don’t think should be spoken about on TH-cam, living in a different country to you, I have no idea how your government works and have absolutely no interest in it whatsoever, the same with Religion, just keep posting things you love and we love to watch. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️
Oh I really loved this video Shea! You are by far the most genuine person out there ... nothing ever comes across as bragging ... I'm so very happy for your blessings!
I think you rocked it . I’m late to finding you but I have been binge watching all of your videos and you’re awesome . Watched your video about your teeth and I have had some of those issues myself. It 🤬 sucks, glad to hear it’s better.Also I’m older than you but have been on the fence about VEGAMOUR but took the plunge and waiting on my 3 pack and a couple other of their products. Going to take before and after shots of it all . Thanks for the push 🤞it works for me. Your doing an awesome job, you go girl ❤
Shea, thanks for doing this video. I’ve felt so conflicted over the abortion topic, so to hear someone else say exactly what I’ve been feeling makes me feel less alone. It seems the only ppl who talk about it “have it all figured out.” It makes it feel like I don’t have a safe space to talk it out, because I’ll just get fussed at by someone who “has all the answers.”
It's not that we have it all figured out or decided for ourselves what's right and wrong; it's that God has already spoken on the issue of taking an innocent life and that it is inherently evil. We should confidently side with Him and align our will to His.
@@ashleykoenig920 As I said, directly from God's lips to you. We all have access to God's loving wishes for the world. He cares for everyone equally and his compassion is total, or at least that's my understanding.
@@vancouvercanadian1018 I was not disagreeing, but rather clarifying for other readers that I am not somehow more enlightened than anyone else, I know that's not what you were suggesting, just wanted to be clear :)
As a follower of Christ, I find that conservative values align closer with my spiritual beliefs. Economically, conservative political stances also make more sense for the betterment of society. The liberal woke stuff is really tough for me to gauge these days. I was all for Obama back then by the way. Anyway, people change, and there’s no shame in that.
Wow...you brought up things that I totally agree with and feel the same about. I thought I was the only one who felt that way. I pretty much keep my thoughts to myself. I don't talk politics with hardly anyone. I try and just stay away from that subject. I really love your honesty and will continue to watch your progress on here, I love your content. I do not judge others because of their views or opinions, truth be told we all have them. It's not my place to Judge anyone for it. Thanks and may you have a Blessed day. P.S. your makeup was very beautiful today. Loved the pink shirt you had on.
Great video. I agree, its my body...just like everyone should have the option to choose to gte vaccinated or not. No one party of group should force people to get a vaccine
See Shea I’ve always had that internal debate on whether I was pro-choice or pro-life and be as I am a 20 year old female who went to an all-girls catholic high school being pro-life was always drilled into me and everyone else. As I grew up and going into college I learned that you can actually be pro-life or choice for yourself while simultaneously being pro-choice for the rest of the population. I too don’t like being told what to do and I don’t feel that it’s my right to tell someone else what to do with their own bodies. Especially considering that if we’re telling other females what to do about their pregnancies we’re also telling little girls who are put into these unfortunate situations to just sit there and accept their situation. Being pro-choice or life is a persona decision for yourself and I feel that that decision should be left to the public for them to decide on their own bodies. This is just a thought nothing to start an argument with anyone just my little grain of salt into the situation. If anyone wants to respond I would love to hear your thoughts as well as I am too trying to learn and hear about other’s opinions on the matter.
You can be pro-life for yourself and also pro-choice. Pro-choice is not pro-abortion. It saying that women should have the right to decide. Not some male who has never been in the position.
@@anniebekind4539 that has been my stance too on the matter if feel personally pro-life for myself while I also have some exceptions such as medical reason for either me or the baby. But also pro-choice for the female population as a whole. I agree I don’t understand why we have males make the decisions for us as women who have to go through the process to choose to keep or not the pregnancy. I think women should be the one who should debate this out not both genders as this isn’t related to their physiological abilities.
"Choice" is literally in the name. Pro-choice. It means you have the choice to keep a pregnancy, remove the pregnancy, put the child up for adoption, keep the baby and raise it, etc. Pro-choice was literally never about "you get an abortion, that's it". And that you support the same for other people with uteruses. So there you have it, hah.
No one likes to be told what to do.. especially when it comes to your own body, thank you for your honesty and your support in these very troubling times.
I think it’s amazing and very generous of you to donate and not sell anything - respect to you. I watch so many influencers in UK who live in big houses earn good money, talk about their extra properties they own and rent and yet sell their clothes - seriously DONATE be generous.
I always say I’m pro-circumstance. The unfortunate part of this is people telling me that there’s no in between to pro-life or pro-choice, and straight up telling me I’m wrong.
I am always shocked by the questions people ask. Would they really ask you those questions to your face? Probably not and why would they think it is appropriate? SMH. You handled it very well. Kudos to you.
Shea, I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant, and I would never personally get an abortion because I love my baby. But I hate using the term never because there are scenarios where it could be medically necessary. I just don’t think it’s my place to tell any other women what to do with their medical decisions, so with that I say I’m pro choice. I can understand where you’re coming from with what you said.
If you believe that woman should be able to choose what to do with their bodies even if that means some women may choose to do something that you don't believe that you should do for yourself, you are Pro-Choice 😊 Pro-Choice is not about believing all women should get abortions, it's about believing that all women should choose for themselves what is best for theor bodies.
while ignoring what's best for the body growing inside her, forced abortion is unnatural for a woman's body and stops the beating heart of the human growing inside her. I wish woman saw the power they have as the givers of life.
You are truly a joy to watch especially your enthusiasm about the subjects you choose to cover in your videos. As I fan of your content, I like you just the way you are. Keep on being "Shea".
This was well done and entertaining! I am also a “boy mom”, a house full of testosterone, even the dogs were male! My boys are 26 and 24 now. Do I wish I had a little girl? Kinda. But honestly, the boys probably fit my personality far better. I haven’t watched you in a while. This video brings me back.
Thank you for your honesty Shea😉I am a boy mom to 4 grown boys, 30,28,27 and 22. I am here to tell you that it is the best, they love their Momma and I am always getting hugs and kisses!
Shea, I personally think it is inappropriate for people to ask you personal or divisive questions. It is none of our business! I love that I have you to be my personal shopper. Please never share what you don’t want to! ❤
As a Christian, I completely feel you on the politics stuff. :/ it’s rough. I’m from Australia, but these issues reach us over here too. I get you for sure.
I appreciate you acknowledging that politics are hard! It sounds like you land on pro-choice for politics, but would not choose an abortion for yourself. I think a lot of people with uteruses are in this same boat, but the part where we don’t want the government making those choices for us is important!
Agree!The issue of if you agree with abortions or not, doesn't matter. It is the government taking away a women's right to choose and have safe access ,that is absolutely NOT RIGHT! The question should have been -Do you agree that a women has the right to choose an abortion and have safe access- Anyone, especially a woman who cant agree to that, really needs to do some hard thinking.
I hope you read this.. you said you would never CHOOSE abortion. That’s the thing. You had a choice. If you believe others should have a choice then that’s pro choice
Aww love you Shea! Thanks for sharing! Totally agree with your thoughts on politics. I'm always on the fence about things because I can see both sides. I'm also a Christian, I'm about to be 35 in a couple days & I'm a proud boy mama too!👬💙 Love your videos!
tfs. Love your channel. Not to nitpick but keep in mind, some women don't necessarily choose to have an abortion. If one of your pregnancies would have put your life as well as babies life in jeopardy, would you still say you would never choose that? I know what you meant when you said that of course but just keep in mind, there are other circumstances. xoxo
I stumbled on your channel a few months ago and I think you're such a little doll! You're smart, sweet natured (I can tell) and very honest with your viewers! I too am thin genetically and I'm 56 years old! That will stay with you forever and it's great! Who cares what people think! Keep up the great work and always be proud of what you do! XO
It does not stay with you forever for most women unless you really watch it. I was thin all of my life until I hit 63, (I'm 67 now) and then despite watching what I ate and exercising, I started to gain around the middle. I'm still thin everywhere else, but the belly fat is really hard to handle. I've never known any woman who was thin all of their lives that didn't start gaining wait after 60. I don't want to be negative just realistic. Estrogen drops dramatically after menopause, it's a whole different ballgame then. Unless you're a runner in your sixties and on.... you're probably going to gain some weight somewhere.
You’re so real. I am 100% pro choice and always have been. However, my love for your channel remains the same. The “choice” part of my views means I respect your choice to feel however you want.
I'm also pro choice, my personal choice is that there are very few circumstances where I would have an abortion myself but that said there are some instances where I may consider that option. I also feel that every woman has their own right to their own body and its no one's business but theirs and their physicians.
@@samanthahunter1759 Completely agree ….. it is YOUR body, YOUR choice. For me, it isn’t about “promoting abortions” it is a personal decision to be made by the individual.
@@studyhardplayhard5086 it’s a tricky situation- but I think of it like this- and so do most states. Generally speaking, I cannot report a pregnant woman who uses alcohol, smokes or does drugs for child abuse. Because the pregnancy (not child) the pregnancy isn’t a “viable life” yet. It can’t live outside the womb until it can. But again, not your body, not your choice. But I respect YOUR choice to not abort.
I’m with you, some of the controversial questions you answered are risky and I completely understand being nervous. But you are so clearly such a good person and I love you, your family and your content regardless of anything you could have said 🤍 I’m firmly pro-choice, I think the beauty of the word is it literally being your choice. Whether an individual believes in carrying a baby to term no matter what (or not) is their own business.
Thank you for answering questions, but I will say your personal life is yours and you are entitled to privacy no matter what you do for a living. I just appreciate the reviews and content you produce so thank you for that
I do applaud you for doing a brave video because I think it truly is. How sad is it that we live in a world where people are judged solely on their political beliefs? I would love to go back to making judgments about people based on the content of their character.
This 100%. Cancel culture is real-you could be the most caring, generous, compassionate and vibrant person but the minute someone asks you your beliefs/political views and you (even reluctantly) say something that the masses don’t agree with you’re automatically canceled 🥺
Yay!! Perfect timing as I was just running out to run an errand and this was a perfect one to listen to in the car! Love this Shea and how open you are. You and Josh have made such wise decisions and you deserve all the benefits of those decisions! 😘😘
I think you dealt with the questions amazingly. Some were a bit invasive, and it amazes me that some people are curious in that way! Still love you. By the way, I think you have so much energy - do you think you could pass some my way! Loved this.
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1. Thank you so much for your kind comments!!! So many of you totally understand what I’m trying to say and also appreciate my honesty. This makes me really happy. Thank you.
2. If you get a comment saying you won a giveaway - IT’S A SCAM!!!! Please ignore it & report the account!!!!
It’s not a scam. I just had to send her my visa number and mother’s maiden name to verify and then she’s promising to ship my the prize
@@IamReallySanta 😆 🤣 😂
I already liked you.. but this video made me like you more
How do you report it? I had that reply to my comment too.
@@staceysmith6655 press the 3 small dots to the right of the comment and you will get to chose reply or report.
Your honesty is so refreshing! You don't need to answer anything that makes you uncomfortable! Some people don't have a filter, and will ask inappropriate questions.
Shae, as a Christian, it’s not about you not wanting to be told what you can or can’t do. As a Christian, we have to see what God says, not what the world says. Don’t worry about pleasing the world (which is what you did in this video). Be bold and do what is pleasing to God. Romans 12:2.
Wow. Yes. I hope she reads this. Such a powerful comment🙏🏻
Shea, one of the reasons you are so successful is because you are you! Your personality is fun, humble and honest. Not everyone has these characteristics…..you are so much fun to watch, even when you are doing a serious video. I could be your grandmother and I just enjoy your channel so very much! Don’t change!
Ditto!
Shea, your “genuineness” is what matters the most. I’m somewhat appalled at the questions you’ve been asked, but you answered all the questions with grace. I’ve watched your channel for years and it’s almost like you’re a neighbor. You haven’t run me off. I still like you!
Plenty of pro-choice ladies are "pro-life" for themselves. It's more about whether you think your personal beliefs should dictate what others can or can't do. Love your content!!
This! ❤️
this makes zero sense. you dont believe in killing your own baby, but your totes ok with other people killing theirs? what kind of morals are those?
@@studyhardplayhard5086, I didn't say I wouldn't do it because I think it's "killing." That assumption about my stance makes no sense. It's because I'm in a good position financially and emotionally (and in terms of family support) to raise a child if I were to get pregnant.
@@MellyGats exactly
This. I support the right for women to be able to make the choices that fit for them. I decide for me, you decide for you.
Your honesty was refreshing. You can not want something for yourself but also understand that autonomy is important.
Hello from Vancouver Island, Canada. I am shocked at the audacity of these invasive, sometimes downright rude questions. People have no right to get so personal they ask about your private and financial lives. Shame on them for not being well raised. I'm sorry you felt that no one would still like you if you didn't answer these obviously uncomfortable questions. You have nothing to worry about in that regard but bravo to you for doing so. I hope we up here in Canada remembered our famous manners! 😅
My gosh, some of these questions are wildly inappropriate and I can't believe some people think it's okay to ask a complete stranger these things. You're a far nicer person than me because there is no way I'd ever answer these questions
Shea...WOW. You didn't have to do this and I'm humbled and in awe of you for putting yourself out there like you do. This was above and beyond anything that we deserve. I love you to pieces.
Honey Shea. You really didn’t have to answer anything private. You owe it to no one. Keep it private.
You don’t have to answer anyones personal questions about your life. Love your content but keep your life private… and “mysterious”. Your business is your business.
This is 100%corect
Omg yes...and in my upbringing..I boldly at 10 or 11 asked my dad what his income was....let's say after that I learned a valuable lesson..it's no one's business as its also socially inappropriate to ask political views blah blah...the ones that are asking should worry about themselves
OTOH, Shea’s an adult and makes her own decisions about whether to answer questions or not. I, too, think it’s rude to ask most of those things, but it’s totally up to her how she chooses to handle it. 🤷🏼♀️
She doesn't have to answer them but she definitely can if she wants to. Asking personal questions is rude and telling an adult what they should and shouldn't share is equally rude. I don't want to answer personal questions so I won't. If someone else wants to then that's their choice.
@@Lucinda_Jackson God bless I agree, I wasn't putting anyone down ..just think these questions shouldn't be asked...I think she handled them very well:)
Well done Shea. You did that brilliantly!
As a British viewer, and committed Christian, American politics is very odd to us. In our churches everyone is very mixed and politics and the church dont mix ever. But we also have a third main party we can choose that sits in the middle 🤣
I agree with you on all your points!! So, keep doing you, coz it's great!!!
PS. If you ever wanted to do a UK amazon haul... us Brits would all love that! 🤣🤣🤣
Sorry, I have lived in England. You may not realize how implicitly Christian your society is. (I am not Christian.) For example, your monarch is the head of the church. A certain number of seats in the House of Lords are assigned to clergy. Then at your major private institutions, like Oxford, huge funding goes to the chapels and choirs for each college. No other ethnicity or religion is funded comparably.
There is nothing more annoying than a fashion/lifestyle influencer trying to preach politics. I appreciate you having opinions and not trying to force them upon us, you shared your views so nicely ❤️
She’s was asked by her fans… she’s volunteering to be vulnerable. Get it right or slide on by…
@@Icon_of_Design can you not read?!
But Clara, do you Think fashion/lifestyle influencers are less entitled to speak about politics than anyone Else? You dont know what they know or are into in their lives?
@@linekristiansen7200 I don’t follow them for politics, I don’t want them to preach to me about politics. I think that is for political activists. Now, please don’t think I’m criticizing Shea, I like how she shared her viewpoints without preaching 🙂
We still like you after the video!! (Actually, we love you more b/c we got to learn more about you!) Thank you for the heart-to-heart session today. Appreciate your transparency~
Thank you for your comments about being democratic or republican and for the pro-life vs. pro-choice responses. I am with you in that area. There are some things that I do like and some things that I don't like on both sides of the issues. Some people may not like that, but it's the truth. I am so tired of the politics in the country that I've kind of stopped listening to a lot of them.
Same here!!!
Some things are just personal. No need to answer those questions.
I'm old enough to have changed my mind about many things...and sometimes back again..lol. It's sad that more people don't have civil and interesting discussions and exchange ideas about life. We may even be able to solve problems. 😀
Same
I feel like majority of people fall somewhere in the middle. It’s ashame that we’ll never be able to elect an independent candidate.
I really appreciate your transparency, you are genuinely humble and honest. Totally love your channel.
You should never apologize for your personal views whether people agree or not. Also, don’t feel pressured to answer questions that are private. You did a great job 👏
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Girl i am SO with you on the politics and I think you said it very well. The parties have both gotten very intense and emotionally charged and there's hypocrisy on both sides, its so frustrating 💕💕
"Choice" is literally in the term. Pro-choice. It means you have the choice to keep a pregnancy, remove the pregnancy, put the child up for adoption, keep the baby and raise it, etc. Pro-choice was literally never about "you get an abortion, that's it". And that you support the same for other people with uteruses. So there you have it, hah.
Yes. This.
exactly lol people tend to think it's pro life or abortion. like, no. it's about choice HELLO
"choice" means you're ok with women killing their babies.
“Other people with uteruses…” lol. Don’t be afraid to use the word “women.” That is exactly what a woman is!
@@khristines4007 Including people in different circumstances takes nothing away from you. Remember that.
You shouldn’t have to apologize for your beliefs and views on life ! Thank you
Omgggg yessss pls do more of these. Sometimes we need to realize that youtubers are also human and have their own stories/perspectives on life aside from purchases, being influencers, etc. we love a healthy balance 🤍
I've been in the middle for a very long time, being in between republican and democrat, being told to “choose a side”. I have my beliefs, which align more on the right side if you will. I wish there wasn't a divide in this country, people are losing friends, family, supporters, etc over this. I agree it's not like it was a decade ago.
I feel the same way too. I lean more to the right also, but agree with some beliefs on the left. I do wish we could all agree to disagree.
I love how you addressed the question of pro-life/pro-choice. I used to think I leaned centre-left but during covid, I realized how much I resented govt telling me what to do-including where I could go and what I had to put in my body. It made me open my eyes to right leaning people talking about govt over-reach. I think many of us encompass values that could represent either side of the political spectrum.
It’s so great that you and Josh work well together. I’ve heard horror stories about men managing or working with their wives and they feel unfulfilled and get jealous. As for the politics it sucks that you either have to be independent or pick a side from the two parties.
It makes me so happy to hear about how you have found so much freedom doing TH-cam! You’re videos have been my favorite to watch for years and years
I WILL BE HONEST IF YOU ARE A CHIRSTIAN IT SHOULD BE EASY WHAT YOU ARE AS FAR AS PRO LIFE PRO CHOICE PERIOD......
Exactly! I wish she had the courage to stand up for being a true Christian! Not wishy-washy!
The more I watch you, the more I enjoy your videos. I would never ask anyone these questions, and didn’t think I would care about your answers. But you are true to yourself and that’s what is so fun about you!
Thank you for speaking out on pro choice. If you choose personally not to have an abortion but respect other peoples choice or necessity to have one or not have one you are pro-choice because you’re not forcing your beliefs . Thank you
By this logic, someone who doesn’t believe theft, murder, etc. is wrong should be free to steal, murder, etc. without us intervening? This would make sense for lesser and subjective personal convictions, but this principle doesn’t work with objective moral truths like this one. The taking of an innocent life, otherwise known as murder, is always wrong regardless of a person’s opinions and desires. You can’t be pro-life while also affirming a person’s “right” to kill their own child. If those leading the pro-choice movement truly cared about women they’d be appalled by the long term trauma endured by women who get abortions and would fight against it.
Yes, I would never have an abortion but I am speaking from a place of privilege. I could afford having another child, I haven’t been abused, and my life is not threatened. But to say everyone should do what I would do seems VERY WRONG.
Nah! The problem is planned Parenthood making million from abortion. That the issue
@wendie dox well said! Thank you
Yup
We still love you Shea!!! We all have our own personal opinions and beliefs ❤️❤️. Thank you for the honesty.
This was so fun to watch you are so sweet and I find it hilarious how nervous it made you but I can totally understand. No matter what somebody believes or how they live their life someone is always there to judge and I think it’s so sad. We live in a world of such division it’s very unfortunate but we need to stay true to who we are! 💗🙌🏻
Basically, this video just shows how blessed you are. Amen! Love it.
Totally amazed people feel they have the right to ask you these questions! You handled it with grace! ❤️
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One of the most difficult things to do these days is to not be on one side of things. People want us to have a side, to be either pro-life or pro-choice, democrat or republican. The middle ground and the ability to pend to one side or the other depending on the circumstances is gold. Being on the fence is the hardest way to find balance, so much easier to have your feet on the ground and be blind to what's on the other side...
I like that you are upfront but still have boundaries.
Girl! This level of honesty/sincerity is SO REFRESHING! Thank you for being you and for normalizing that these topics shouldn’t be polarizing!!! Appreciate this video more than you know!
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How can someone ask if they're not happy that they don't have a baby girl?? There are many people that don't get a chance to have kids. Shea sounds very appreciative of what she has.
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I’m pretty sure I know what you would be. I’m a California Republican so you can imagine how fun that is. 🙂
Just like being a democrat in the deep south not so fun
Try being a Dem in FL, I doubt u have it worse
@@angelaphillips4183 amen.
@@gigikc6503 ya'll have an awesome Governor! Desantis is a true patriot!
@@gingersnap3684 in Alabama, we long for a strong governor like Florida has!
You are so fun to watch. Love your energy and how you appear on your videos. So happy and positive! I trust your opinion and have purchased some of your recommendations. Thanks for sharing and keeping me company!
I absolutely LOVE that you don't "buy" into the hype of designer bags. Not just bags even. You review all sorts of Amazon products, and honestly, which makes you relatable and keeps me coming back to your videos.
I am with you on politics. There are policies on all different political sides I like and hate but I don't want to say "I am a Republic" or "I am a Democratic" etc. because I don't agree 100% with all the respective parties' policies. When it is time to vote, I look at the candidates and make an informed decision based on my morals and thoughts about what would be good for the country.
I think people love you more after this video Shea. Thanks for being open about your personal stuff! We love you and we totally catch your vibe 😉
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I love that you donate all the things that you don't use !! I'm absolutely releaved especially since you buy a lot of Amazon, and they just burn everything that is returned. Kudos to you on that
Right, I hope we can get to a point where we can respect others views even if they differ from ours. Lovely video!
YT is a lot of work. But u go girl! Working from home is really nice. The bottom line is that it is human nature to get jealous and that is why sharing specific details is not wise. I think it is wonderful if people can make a living with YT! But again for those of you who don't know or appreciate YT is work. But it can be very fun and fulfilling at times!.
I think you answered these (very invasive) questions with grace!! Good job Shae!!
Thanks for sharing!! I'm a new subscriber, and I enjoyed getting to know a little more about you. I appreciated your choice of words when you said your husband works WITH you, not FOR you. That says a lot!!! ❤️ Teamwork!
hi Shea! You are one of the hardest working TH-camr and truly deserve all the success. I’m so happy for all your success!
Shea, you are so nice to answer these very personal questions! People seem overly curious-but you handled it all with panache! You are a treasure!
Meh, she used the click bait questions on her cover but didn’t really answer
It sounds like you are open to differing opinions, so that’s nice.
I give you a lot of credit for your honesty.
Omg I loooooove this video!!!!! So genuine and real. Thank you for stepping out of the “let me please everyone” type of q&a. So refreshing.
Firstly Thank you Shea for your honesty, Secondly, I just love watching your content, I couldn’t care less about all those questions people asked, the only thing I really have to say is that Politics and Religion are a topic that I don’t think should be spoken about on TH-cam, living in a different country to you, I have no idea how your government works and have absolutely no interest in it whatsoever, the same with Religion, just keep posting things you love and we love to watch. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️
Oh I really loved this video Shea! You are by far the most genuine person out there ... nothing ever comes across as bragging ... I'm so very happy for your blessings!
I think you rocked it . I’m late to finding you but I have been binge watching all of your videos and you’re awesome . Watched your video about your teeth and I have had some of those issues myself. It 🤬 sucks, glad to hear it’s better.Also I’m older than you but have been on the fence about VEGAMOUR but took the plunge and waiting on my 3 pack and a couple other of their products. Going to take before and after shots of it all . Thanks for the push 🤞it works for me. Your doing an awesome job, you go girl ❤
Shea, thanks for doing this video. I’ve felt so conflicted over the abortion topic, so to hear someone else say exactly what I’ve been feeling makes me feel less alone. It seems the only ppl who talk about it “have it all figured out.” It makes it feel like I don’t have a safe space to talk it out, because I’ll just get fussed at by someone who “has all the answers.”
It's not that we have it all figured out or decided for ourselves what's right and wrong; it's that God has already spoken on the issue of taking an innocent life and that it is inherently evil. We should confidently side with Him and align our will to His.
@@ashleykoenig920 directly from God's lips to you
@@vancouvercanadian1018 Through His inspired, authoritative, sufficient, inerrant Word that we all have access to, yes.
@@ashleykoenig920 As I said, directly from God's lips to you. We all have access to God's loving wishes for the world. He cares for everyone equally and his compassion is total, or at least that's my understanding.
@@vancouvercanadian1018 I was not disagreeing, but rather clarifying for other readers that I am not somehow more enlightened than anyone else, I know that's not what you were suggesting, just wanted to be clear :)
As a follower of Christ, I find that conservative values align closer with my spiritual beliefs. Economically, conservative political stances also make more sense for the betterment of society. The liberal woke stuff is really tough for me to gauge these days. I was all for Obama back then by the way. Anyway, people change, and there’s no shame in that.
Wow...you brought up things that I totally agree with and feel the same about. I thought I was the only one who felt that way. I pretty much keep my thoughts to myself. I don't talk politics with hardly anyone. I try and just stay away from that subject.
I really love your honesty and will continue to watch your progress on here, I love your content. I do not judge others because of their views or opinions, truth be told we all have them. It's not my place to Judge anyone for it.
Thanks and may you have a Blessed day.
P.S. your makeup was very beautiful today. Loved the pink shirt you had on.
Great video. I agree, its my body...just like everyone should have the option to choose to gte vaccinated or not. No one party of group should force people to get a vaccine
You’re so refreshing Shea, please don’t change stay true to yourself.
See Shea I’ve always had that internal debate on whether I was pro-choice or pro-life and be as I am a 20 year old female who went to an all-girls catholic high school being pro-life was always drilled into me and everyone else. As I grew up and going into college I learned that you can actually be pro-life or choice for yourself while simultaneously being pro-choice for the rest of the population. I too don’t like being told what to do and I don’t feel that it’s my right to tell someone else what to do with their own bodies. Especially considering that if we’re telling other females what to do about their pregnancies we’re also telling little girls who are put into these unfortunate situations to just sit there and accept their situation. Being pro-choice or life is a persona decision for yourself and I feel that that decision should be left to the public for them to decide on their own bodies. This is just a thought nothing to start an argument with anyone just my little grain of salt into the situation. If anyone wants to respond I would love to hear your thoughts as well as I am too trying to learn and hear about other’s opinions on the matter.
You can be pro-life for yourself and also pro-choice. Pro-choice is not pro-abortion. It saying that women should have the right to decide. Not some male who has never been in the position.
@@anniebekind4539 that has been my stance too on the matter if feel personally pro-life for myself while I also have some exceptions such as medical reason for either me or the baby. But also pro-choice for the female population as a whole. I agree I don’t understand why we have males make the decisions for us as women who have to go through the process to choose to keep or not the pregnancy. I think women should be the one who should debate this out not both genders as this isn’t related to their physiological abilities.
"Choice" is literally in the name. Pro-choice. It means you have the choice to keep a pregnancy, remove the pregnancy, put the child up for adoption, keep the baby and raise it, etc. Pro-choice was literally never about "you get an abortion, that's it". And that you support the same for other people with uteruses. So there you have it, hah.
Ask God to show you His thoughts on life 😊
1 Corinthians 6:19
“What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?”
This was fun! You are just too cute! I cannot believe some of the questions people ask. You seem really genuine to me. ❤
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There’s never a reason for someone to message a stranger or anyone for that matter that they should “eat more” or comment on their body in general!
No one likes to be told what to do.. especially when it comes to your own body, thank you for your honesty and your support in these very troubling times.
problem is, when you're pregnant, its no longer just your own body. you have no right to kill another
@@studyhardplayhard5086 Actually, no one has a right to take my body against my will...even corpses can't be forced to give up their bodily autonomy.
Probably best to go based on what the God says not what we think. As a Christian we are called to be like Christ and represent Him.
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Your honesty is refreshing. You both clearly work hard for what you have and give to charity; seems like the 'American Dream' to me! xx
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I think it’s amazing and very generous of you to donate and not sell anything - respect to you. I watch so many influencers in UK who live in big houses earn good money, talk about their extra properties they own and rent and yet sell their clothes - seriously DONATE be generous.
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Your vulnerability is your super power......Never doubt that or shy away from it!
I always say I’m pro-circumstance. The unfortunate part of this is people telling me that there’s no in between to pro-life or pro-choice, and straight up telling me I’m wrong.
That’s the very best thing I’ve heard, because it really is about circumstance.
I love that term, pro-circumstance. I am going to use it too. Such a great way to state my feelings on the subject, xoxo
I think its disgusting ppl ask those very personal questions! Why does anyone need to know that, you don't even know these ppl?
I appreciate hearing from you. You are pretty much like most of us on the difficult issues.
I am always shocked by the questions people ask. Would they really ask you those questions to your face? Probably not and why would they think it is appropriate? SMH. You handled it very well. Kudos to you.
Shea, I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant, and I would never personally get an abortion because I love my baby. But I hate using the term never because there are scenarios where it could be medically necessary. I just don’t think it’s my place to tell any other women what to do with their medical decisions, so with that I say I’m pro choice. I can understand where you’re coming from with what you said.
If you believe that woman should be able to choose what to do with their bodies even if that means some women may choose to do something that you don't believe that you should do for yourself, you are Pro-Choice 😊 Pro-Choice is not about believing all women should get abortions, it's about believing that all women should choose for themselves what is best for theor bodies.
while ignoring what's best for the body growing inside her, forced abortion is unnatural for a woman's body and stops the beating heart of the human growing inside her. I wish woman saw the power they have as the givers of life.
Loved this! Thank you for your honesty and holding your ground with boundaries. 👍🏻
You are truly a joy to watch especially your enthusiasm about the subjects you choose to cover in your videos. As I fan of your content, I like you just the way you are. Keep on being "Shea".
I always love hearing big you tubers encouraging about the potentials and opportunities on this platform!
This was well done and entertaining! I am also a “boy mom”, a house full of testosterone, even the dogs were male! My boys are 26 and 24 now. Do I wish I had a little girl? Kinda. But honestly, the boys probably fit my personality far better. I haven’t watched you in a while. This video brings me back.
Thank you for your honesty Shea😉I am a boy mom to 4 grown boys, 30,28,27 and 22. I am here to tell you that it is the best, they love their Momma and I am always getting hugs and kisses!
Shea,
I personally think it is inappropriate for people to ask you personal or divisive questions. It is none of our business! I love that I have you to be my personal shopper. Please never share what you don’t want to!
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Thank you for respecting other peoples choices.
Thanks Shea for your honesty, you are so much fun and I love your channel.
As a Christian, I completely feel you on the politics stuff. :/ it’s rough. I’m from Australia, but these issues reach us over here too. I get you for sure.
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I appreciate you acknowledging that politics are hard! It sounds like you land on pro-choice for politics, but would not choose an abortion for yourself. I think a lot of people with uteruses are in this same boat, but the part where we don’t want the government making those choices for us is important!
Agree!The issue of if you agree with abortions or not, doesn't matter. It is the government taking away a women's right to choose and have safe access ,that is absolutely NOT RIGHT! The question should have been -Do you agree that a women has the right to choose an abortion and have safe access- Anyone, especially a woman who cant agree to that, really needs to do some hard thinking.
What a REFRESHING honest and authentic video ! Thank you for that 🙏🏻🙏🏻
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I hope you read this.. you said you would never CHOOSE abortion. That’s the thing. You had a choice. If you believe others should have a choice then that’s pro choice
💯 she just lost me 🥺
Your just not nice
If the mother’s life is in danger only.
Shea for President! Love you girl!
You handle that like a pro! Thank you for the review on your car, I have been on the fence, and hearing other owners helps 😊
Aww love you Shea! Thanks for sharing! Totally agree with your thoughts on politics. I'm always on the fence about things because I can see both sides. I'm also a Christian, I'm about to be 35 in a couple days & I'm a proud boy mama too!👬💙 Love your videos!
tfs. Love your channel. Not to nitpick but keep in mind, some women don't necessarily choose to have an abortion. If one of your pregnancies would have put your life as well as babies life in jeopardy, would you still say you would never choose that? I know what you meant when you said that of course but just keep in mind, there are other circumstances. xoxo
You are my fav TH-camr! 🎉thanks for being open!!
I stumbled on your channel a few months ago and I think you're such a little doll! You're smart, sweet natured (I can tell) and very honest with your viewers! I too am thin genetically and I'm 56 years old! That will stay with you forever and it's great! Who cares what people think! Keep up the great work and always be proud of what you do! XO
It does not stay with you forever for most women unless you really watch it. I was thin all of my life until I hit 63, (I'm 67 now) and then despite watching what I ate and exercising, I started to gain around the middle. I'm still thin everywhere else, but the belly fat is really hard to handle. I've never known any woman who was thin all of their lives that didn't start gaining wait after 60. I don't want to be negative just realistic. Estrogen drops dramatically after menopause, it's a whole different ballgame then. Unless you're a runner in your sixties and on.... you're probably going to gain some weight somewhere.
And it should be weight not wait! Sorry!
You’re so real. I am 100% pro choice and always have been. However, my love for your channel remains the same. The “choice” part of my views means I respect your choice to feel however you want.
your choice kills children
I'm also pro choice, my personal choice is that there are very few circumstances where I would have an abortion myself but that said there are some instances where I may consider that option.
I also feel that every woman has their own right to their own body and its no one's business but theirs and their physicians.
@@samanthahunter1759 Completely agree ….. it is YOUR body, YOUR choice. For me, it isn’t about “promoting abortions” it is a personal decision to be made by the individual.
@@barbaralaffey2333 but its not just your body. its the body of a child. you have no right to take the life of another.
@@studyhardplayhard5086 it’s a tricky situation- but I think of it like this- and so do most states. Generally speaking, I cannot report a pregnant woman who uses alcohol, smokes or does drugs for child abuse. Because the pregnancy (not child) the pregnancy isn’t a “viable life” yet. It can’t live outside the womb until it can.
But again, not your body, not your choice.
But I respect YOUR choice to not abort.
I’m with you, some of the controversial questions you answered are risky and I completely understand being nervous. But you are so clearly such a good person and I love you, your family and your content regardless of anything you could have said 🤍
I’m firmly pro-choice, I think the beauty of the word is it literally being your choice. Whether an individual believes in carrying a baby to term no matter what (or not) is their own business.
Thank you for answering questions, but I will say your personal life is yours and you are entitled to privacy no matter what you do for a living. I just appreciate the reviews and content you produce so thank you for that
I do applaud you for doing a brave video because I think it truly is. How sad is it that we live in a world where people are judged solely on their political beliefs? I would love to go back to making judgments about people based on the content of their character.
This 100%. Cancel culture is real-you could be the most caring, generous, compassionate and vibrant person but the minute someone asks you your beliefs/political views and you (even reluctantly) say something that the masses don’t agree with you’re automatically canceled 🥺
Yay!! Perfect timing as I was just running out to run an errand and this was a perfect one to listen to in the car! Love this Shea and how open you are. You and Josh have made such wise decisions and you deserve all the benefits of those decisions! 😘😘
What a great comment!
Shea, I love you for your honesty and I value your opinions. Your love of creating content shines through in all of your videos! 💕
Being pro choice isn’t about only abortion. It’s about a women’s right to make her own choices.
I think you dealt with the questions amazingly. Some were a bit invasive, and it amazes me that some people are curious in that way! Still love you. By the way, I think you have so much energy - do you think you could pass some my way! Loved this.