Husband Reveals Secret To Wife He Says He Thought He’d "Take To Grave"

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  • @drphil
    @drphil  4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

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    • @mercymaestre1265
      @mercymaestre1265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The hesitation and the back and forth, his mannerisms, he’s just OFF. The making of a psychopath. You can tell he’s tormented with his lusts and desires. Eww 😷

    • @Twatshot
      @Twatshot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mercymaestre1265 love at first sight.

    • @tylerhynes0
      @tylerhynes0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Ttv-polar i love dr Phil from the 1st time i saw him on tv

    • @tylerhynes0
      @tylerhynes0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Phil hoping your good from Evangeline union city nj ❤

    • @aarongottfried5595
      @aarongottfried5595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      talk about snitching

  • @katiemadden9413
    @katiemadden9413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3089

    “I’m not gunna out your secrets...buUuuuUuut....”
    -that’s exactly what we’re gunna do.
    👏🏻

    • @ashleyfaye6087
      @ashleyfaye6087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      "but means erase everything I just said, and here's what I really mean" -Dr phil

    • @kai3220
      @kai3220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      gonna

    • @katiemadden9413
      @katiemadden9413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kai3220 thank you, grammar police-said no one.

    • @lokenelson3501
      @lokenelson3501 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭😭

    • @lelenicole5525
      @lelenicole5525 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      LMFAOO

  • @heatherfriedman1955
    @heatherfriedman1955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2053

    That was something I was gonna carry to my grave until I decided to tell the producer of the Dr. Phil show

    • @StealthMode3924
      @StealthMode3924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Not to mention the people who filmed the movies.

    • @furryhakhan
      @furryhakhan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      And people who watched them 🥴

    • @LunnaJannah
      @LunnaJannah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂

    • @LadyMFUnicorn
      @LadyMFUnicorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He told them so they can force him to tell her. He can't do it on his own.

    • @funnyusername8635
      @funnyusername8635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think he's told a LOT of people, especially people at bars.

  • @DannysHauntedJourney
    @DannysHauntedJourney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1590

    Should have just not told anyone if he didn't want anyone to know.

    • @elisemichaels1198
      @elisemichaels1198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      That would be too logic for simple folk.

    • @diamond852
      @diamond852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I'm sure the producers made him feel safe to unload. Pun not intended.

    • @jabrams6759
      @jabrams6759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's a heavy burden to carry

    • @Dimechanel
      @Dimechanel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LOL right

    • @zataishasims9732
      @zataishasims9732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@elisemichaels1198 😂 right 💯

  • @cristianremus4586
    @cristianremus4586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +889

    "I'm not outing you out" procides to out him in television

    • @Brachwah
      @Brachwah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Eh, in his defense he could've literally just left as Dr. Phil said. He had two options. Tell the truth and stay on the show. Or go home and see what happens.

    • @muneeraxx2360
      @muneeraxx2360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Brachwah and let everyone on tv think of the worst? lol he had no choice..

    • @Brachwah
      @Brachwah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@muneeraxx2360 You're right. Dr. Phil handled this situation rather poorly imo. It lacks empathy or any sense of privacy.

    • @StrawberryNinjaNibbles
      @StrawberryNinjaNibbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Brachwah but he’s the one that agreed & chose to attend a tv show… he’s also the dummy that told the producers something he didn’t want anyone to know… like cmon. No one forced him to say that (or do the thing to begin with).
      Dr Phil understood the wife needed help & was vulnerable to being re-victimized by her husband and his continued lies.
      This guy made his choice … again & again & again

    • @matth8278
      @matth8278 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Proceeds**

  • @jamesmeagher7424
    @jamesmeagher7424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +986

    His hands literally go ✊🤛🖐🤏👋🖖🤏

    • @rechoice9010
      @rechoice9010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ikr its almost a new kind of sign language

    • @krystynaa_
      @krystynaa_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😆😆😆😆😆

    • @loriedney2330
      @loriedney2330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Exactly! That's all I could pay attention to! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @tonyarutherford2731
      @tonyarutherford2731 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💀💀💀

    • @Augusttaffy
      @Augusttaffy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 I came to the comments to see if anybody was gonna point that out 😂😂😂😂

  • @Bigbaymonstermare
    @Bigbaymonstermare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    Nothing gets a person more curious than saying “there’s a secret that you don’t know and I don’t want to tell you”. Who in the history of people has ever said “okay then, we’ll move on”

    • @spec_wasted
      @spec_wasted 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I will say 'ok'

    • @sensimania
      @sensimania 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@spec_wasted Me 2. I'm not one of those people who pushes for information UNLESS the secret is being kept by my life partner. Husband and wife should have no secrets

    • @killerhit00
      @killerhit00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me, and people hate when I do that 🤣

    • @Bigbaymonstermare
      @Bigbaymonstermare 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sensimania that’s my point. If your spouse says it, they had better dish up!

    • @Sun_plays_vr
      @Sun_plays_vr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some people would not want to know.

  • @stanharjak1491
    @stanharjak1491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3739

    The person who can't be trusted is Dr. Phil's Producer. LOL😁

    • @crystalchavez4576
      @crystalchavez4576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      😬 😬 🤷🏻‍♀️ lol

    • @mermaidgirl9232
      @mermaidgirl9232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      This guy has been on this show before but it was a different story with a different female.

    • @harryp.633
      @harryp.633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@mermaidgirl9232 which one?

    • @rebeccajelenawang4306
      @rebeccajelenawang4306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@mermaidgirl9232Don't know about this guy but wouldn't surprise me...Same with Jeremy Kyle. Same man,same first name too, it was about a DNA test.Of course it turned out negative.Have in mind these are all SHOWS.The producers can literally call up certain ppl.& ask them if they wanna play a character.Also, some of these shows take editing to a whole new level.All for the views.More views=more time on air=more💲(hows)

    • @mermaidgirl9232
      @mermaidgirl9232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@harryp.633... the bald headed guy.

  • @4WingedAngels
    @4WingedAngels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +696

    When you’re married, you’re a team. Period.
    There are no separate lives, and no secrets.

    • @JerseyDevilJerseyGirl
      @JerseyDevilJerseyGirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I totally disagree. Maybe there’s no secrets but you definitely need separate independent lives. You can be a healthy person on your own, without betrayal

    • @EverydayWithBobby
      @EverydayWithBobby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree.

    • @researcher-dj2sr
      @researcher-dj2sr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👍💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @shadowstarspammy
      @shadowstarspammy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@JerseyDevilJerseyGirl two become one in marriage

    • @autumntaco8722
      @autumntaco8722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shadowstarspammy to quote Carter from Halo Reach: "We're a team, that lone wolf stuff stays behind."

  • @heisenberg1898
    @heisenberg1898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +637

    As if Phil isn't a double edge sword. I'm not going to out your secret. Proceeds to throw him under the bus

    • @honestfishingdillow5088
      @honestfishingdillow5088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤔🤷‍♂️💀💩

    • @babyfarkmcgee-zax3785
      @babyfarkmcgee-zax3785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Not really. Dr. Phil said he wasn't going to say what the secret was, and he held true to that. Now, had he said "I'm not going to tell your wife you're hiding something" then that would be throwing him under the bus.

    • @Lulu-mj2fi
      @Lulu-mj2fi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      AS HE SHOULD

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lulu-mj2fi - right. Thats literally what they are all hear for

    • @StrawberryNinjaNibbles
      @StrawberryNinjaNibbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not exactly..
      the husband agreed & chose to attend a tv show… he’s also the dummy that told the producers something he didn’t want anyone to know… like cmon. No one forced him to say that (or do the thing to begin with).
      Dr Phil understood the wife needed help & was vulnerable to being re-victimized by her husband and his continued lies.
      This guy made his choice … again & again & again

  • @bekah3054
    @bekah3054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    In my opinion, if anyone likes to sleep around with multiple people (he or she should know this about themselves) then they DO NOT NEED to get married...ever. Stay single please and avoid hurting someone, avoid lies and covering stuff up. It should be common sense. 🤷💁

    • @gahishgahba2415
      @gahishgahba2415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Many girls have this same opinion as yours yet they still go for guys that will cheat on them rather than go for someone like me who will forever be faithful to them.

    • @bekah3054
      @bekah3054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@gahishgahba2415 No one can tell from the beginning, when they first meet someone, if they will cheat on them or not, but the individual person should know themselves, right? And what they like in a person, right? So just make it clear from the begining what youre looking for. If its just someones privates and not something meaningful, then make it clear from the beginning; is all I'm saying. Imagine all the heartbreak and years of the significant other guessing and suffering that could be saved if they did that. Since you Gahish, are that type of person (which wonderful btw) then just be upfront right when you meet someone.

    • @GrafittiGlitter
      @GrafittiGlitter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@gahishgahba2415 “iM a NiCe GuY”

    • @ibrahimjouni3458
      @ibrahimjouni3458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@gahishgahba2415 not the nice guy LMFAO

    • @SummeRain783
      @SummeRain783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@gahishgahba2415 that’s because there are some guys who lie and pretend they won’t cheat. We’re trying to figure out a way to scope them out. No one wants to actually be with a cheater knowingly. So stop blaming people who don’t know

  • @easeondowntheroad7158
    @easeondowntheroad7158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    His hands are writhing with deception

    • @karentannreuther7398
      @karentannreuther7398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That are crack lol

    • @ScottCruz
      @ScottCruz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      that’s tweaker hands. Lol

    • @luitgi
      @luitgi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ScottCruz Totally...

  • @forestp334
    @forestp334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1952

    That's... That's it? He had a glorified Only Fans? I thought he killed someone 😂

    • @moonstar2385
      @moonstar2385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      ikr😂i thought it was gonna be a huge secret but that’s nothing LMAO

    • @happiness4295
      @happiness4295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      He’s just a gigolo

    • @Djeispark
      @Djeispark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      I thought he was going to say he used to be gay

    • @saniyaj4631
      @saniyaj4631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wait how did you even find out about this? 😂

    • @ZebraZabrina
      @ZebraZabrina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@moonstar2385 it’s not nothing, wtf? I’d break up with my man in a split second if I found out he ever did anything like that. That’s disgusting. I don’t want other women looking at him naked. I’m not sharing.

  • @shosho5306
    @shosho5306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    He’s a cheater. Went off with random strangers. Stayed out all night. He’s bi and more went on. He wants to get back to work in that industry and didn’t want the wife to know. Just leave. He’s a creep.

    • @lorrainebowsjasonlorraine7554
      @lorrainebowsjasonlorraine7554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      EXACTLY!!!

    • @ericschlebus6488
      @ericschlebus6488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You beat me to it… some kinky stuff was going on

    • @thenarrator1984
      @thenarrator1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's always two.
      She's a terrible wife.
      He's a terrible husband.
      ladies always blame the man
      White knights always blame the man.
      Men got broad shoulders.

    • @jayrowe1643
      @jayrowe1643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The "bisexual" part alone would have made me hand over divorce papers. That's disgusting lmaoo

    • @eleventyseven3742
      @eleventyseven3742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jayrowe1643 being bi is disgusting?

  • @tokesalotta1521
    @tokesalotta1521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    When a certified psychologist puts entertainment above his profession

    • @JennifuhhGilardi
      @JennifuhhGilardi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Pretty sure he isn’t certified anymoren

    • @XI24
      @XI24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @farewelljupiter
      @farewelljupiter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lol he’s not certified and he’s also not a psychologist. It’s a tv show

    • @khatdragon7694
      @khatdragon7694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@farewelljupiter at least do some research.His qualifications don't disappear because he retired. McGraw graduated in 1975 from Midwestern State University with a B.A. in psychology. He went on to earn an M.A. in experimental psychology in 1976, and a Ph.D

    • @farewelljupiter
      @farewelljupiter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@khatdragon7694 lol yeah and hasn’t seen an actual patient since then. He’s not a psychologist anymore he’s a tv personality

  • @ene1818
    @ene1818 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    That’s not all. You can tell that he is withholding even more information. His wife needs to leave him.

    • @Alexandra_Hill
      @Alexandra_Hill 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's either bi or gay....

    • @Alexandra_Hill
      @Alexandra_Hill 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's either bi or gay....

  • @wakeup6759
    @wakeup6759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    if my relationship had to go to the Dr Phil stage, I'd divorce my partner.

  • @robertpattinsonfan5658
    @robertpattinsonfan5658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    This is like the episode of Friends when they're all like "I don't know do they know do they know we know"

    • @morganjanelle4282
      @morganjanelle4282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mary T 😂✔ Phoebe: "They don't know that we know they know we know" (Coincidentally, that episode will be on Nick@Nite tomorrow night, lol.)

    • @robertpattinsonfan5658
      @robertpattinsonfan5658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@morganjanelle4282 lmao 🤣😆

    • @roxannemoser
      @roxannemoser 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know

    • @kaylinbrown5942
      @kaylinbrown5942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I loved that episode!

    • @seyedearinahosseini39
      @seyedearinahosseini39 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @jessicamccrady5210
    @jessicamccrady5210 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It’s just insane that these people are already involved in embarrassing situations and they go publicly on national tv to expose them even more.

  • @rambojoe2323
    @rambojoe2323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1010

    Just so people don't get the wrong idea, this isn't therapy. A licensed therapist would NEVER break confidentiality about something like this unless he was bringing a dangerous STD into his marriage.
    Does this issue deserve to be brought to light? Yes I think it does, but a therapist is bound to not reveal these kinds of secrets. They would instead encourage the client to be honest with their partner.

    • @TheSystem.Co9
      @TheSystem.Co9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      That’s why Dr Phil doesn’t have a license to practice and hasn’t in 15 years

    • @TouchnotDAnointingof136DZion
      @TouchnotDAnointingof136DZion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I'm glad he did! I am thankful for Doctor Phill. She needed to know....
      It was a waste of time for her not to know everything.

    • @rambojoe2323
      @rambojoe2323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@TouchnotDAnointingof136DZion It is best that the truth come out.. I just don’t want people to get the wrong idea about therapy.

    • @heatherfriedman1955
      @heatherfriedman1955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@TheSystem.Co9 He doesn’t have a license anymore because there was no point in renewing it when he’s not seeing patients anymore he’s just doing a show you only need a license to see patients but she’s not doing there’s no point in renewing it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t know what he’s doing he definitely does

    • @kingkeltic4228
      @kingkeltic4228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@rambojoe2323 Nobody ever said or thought that the Dr. Phil show was therapy lol. I don't know why you feel the need to let everybody in the comments know what therapy is like and 98% of the time therapy doesn't even work.

  • @k-isfor-kristina
    @k-isfor-kristina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    "it was a long time ago like maybe 2003 but also maybe again this weekend"

    • @CCbeans
      @CCbeans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣 right!

    • @JakePower-oq7fo
      @JakePower-oq7fo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. Adult movies are also all over the internet, so it's not usually something one can keep a secret.

  • @DaeDaeDotNet
    @DaeDaeDotNet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Did you hear that tea sip 😂😂😂

  • @SLPJoe
    @SLPJoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    John Malkovich should play this guy in a Hollywood remake of this scene

    • @Raquel-kk3cd
      @Raquel-kk3cd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Heck yeah! LOL. I knew he reminded me of someone!

    • @kittymeowmeow93
      @kittymeowmeow93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg yesssss thank you!

    • @karenbougher1219
      @karenbougher1219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that is so true

    • @melaniefeltsfagan1227
      @melaniefeltsfagan1227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha yassssss

    • @crispythebird
      @crispythebird 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He sounds like John Malkovich. And he looks like a bald Jim Carrey

  • @hunterboyd3472
    @hunterboyd3472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +773

    Tells his girl he never cheated on her and yet also tells her that he made plans on doing some more “adult” videos later that weekend😂 pretty sure you’re cheating bud 😆

    • @haji818721
      @haji818721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Why? Is a stripper cheating on her husband when she works the pole?

    • @faithfoulkrod7474
      @faithfoulkrod7474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Most of the time they know they’re wife is a stripper.

    • @xoitlajeno4005
      @xoitlajeno4005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@haji818721 nah cuz they both know what's going on bruh. His wife had no clue he was doing this, thats cheating 😂😂

    • @xoitlajeno4005
      @xoitlajeno4005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Jamie Strand bruh wtf? 😂😂 wym? 😂 if y'all are into that and its consensual than its fine. For me its still kinda wrong but like at least y'all both know what's happening, so its not cheating. Like technically it is, but cheating implies you do something that your hiding so no one finds out, like when you cheat in a board game. And she didnt know he was going to do an adult film, so he was going to cheat.

    • @ignacioariellopez8491
      @ignacioariellopez8491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@haji818721 Relationships with strippers or porn actors or whatever, start with them telling their partner what their work is, way before the relationship is official.
      No porn actor or stripper or whatever hasnt told their partner about their job.
      It is cheating if your partner doesnt agree to have a relationship with you working on the adult industry, and you still do it and hide it.

  • @ukiyo1371
    @ukiyo1371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    you can tell he’s putting on an act, look at his face, he’s so animated, thats not natural behavior and you can see it a mile away

  • @gwen9471
    @gwen9471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    Imagine trying to have your cake and eat it too. People just don't seem to realize that a marriage means you and them are one person. I don't understand cheating, if you are not happy in your relationship than you should leave before unnecessarily hurting anyone else.

    • @strawberrysundae_megan
      @strawberrysundae_megan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It annoys me when people want both

    • @simplyme166
      @simplyme166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Couldn't agree more

    • @dmoney8502
      @dmoney8502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But you don't understand cheating? Ppl have been cheating since society started having relationships.

    • @strawberrysundae_megan
      @strawberrysundae_megan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@dmoney8502 and that doesn’t mean you should cheat

    • @dmoney8502
      @dmoney8502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@strawberrysundae_megan and that's true. But if you start asking questions and why people do things you would be asking questions all day

  • @wolf2966
    @wolf2966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I would’ve laughed if he said I was the one who ate the last pudding cup and didn’t put it on the grocery list

  • @ThousandLifetimes
    @ThousandLifetimes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Him being in adult films is not the problem at all it’s the fact he tried to do it again while currently married

  • @daze.d5462
    @daze.d5462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    The first few minutes I thought he was going to admit he was gay all along

    • @elviamay8518
      @elviamay8518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me 2!!

    • @stephaniemc9948
      @stephaniemc9948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think that’s still part of it..maybe they were gay porn films.

    • @SummeRain783
      @SummeRain783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or trans. I was expecting that

    • @iamsodone4299
      @iamsodone4299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      def got that vibe when he said he was hanging out with a couple and went to an after hours club with them.

    • @snax1234
      @snax1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @dreamydivine5196
    @dreamydivine5196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    3:36 "thats not your decision thats his" lmao well played phily, well played after you threw him under the bus 🤣

  • @TheGuru12163
    @TheGuru12163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Dr Phil outed him because he can see how much help his wife needs. She is so vulnerable and Dr Phil rightly has become her champion. He wants her to dump this low life so he is on a mission to make that happen by shock therapy!

    • @nickh9531
      @nickh9531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Eh, he mainly outed him because it makes good TV

    • @xinniethepooh7174
      @xinniethepooh7174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh god. You stink of pretentiousness, White Knight Eric Hay. Time to get off your high horse!
      “She is so vulnerable and Dr Phil rightly has become her champion”
      I was almost sick in my mouth, at such Narcissism.

    • @xinniethepooh7174
      @xinniethepooh7174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Do you happen to study psychology by any chance Eric? You seem like the type to brownnose themselves that hard.

    • @xinniethepooh7174
      @xinniethepooh7174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Enjoy your life of minimal social interaction, and constant bullying, you holier-than-thou
      W⚓️

    • @goaldineyelife6291
      @goaldineyelife6291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ehhhh that’s not the therapists job tho

  • @maryogie1941
    @maryogie1941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    My sympathies to the police interviewer if this guy ever gets arrested.

  • @heatherfriedman1955
    @heatherfriedman1955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Why would he tell the producer he obviously wanted to get caught otherwise keep we could’ve kept his mouth shut really easily

    • @StealthMode3924
      @StealthMode3924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe he felt like in order to admit to it, he had to be backed into a corner, not that that’s an excuse for lying. He clearly needs help.

  • @robynhawkins48
    @robynhawkins48 3 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    The parents shouldn't even be on that stage. They need to mind their own damn business

    • @wintersantiago2274
      @wintersantiago2274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      On tv?

    • @j.103
      @j.103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I can see them being concerned for their daughter but not on stage for sure. Then telling him to pack his bags, way out of line. Maybe that’s why the wife is weak….mama doing the talking….

    • @JennifuhhGilardi
      @JennifuhhGilardi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@j.103 well if she can’t come to that brilliant deduction herself she needs to have someone speaking sense

    • @4you1holdmybreath
      @4you1holdmybreath 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lololol im dead

  • @datsuntwosixty160
    @datsuntwosixty160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The people defending a compulsive liar like this is normal behaviour speaks volumes to their personality. This "man" for want of a better word couldn't be honest if he's life depended on it. When dr phil confronted him on it and gave him an ultimatium mimicked a child that was caught in the act on a continual basis yet couldn't own up to it with undeniable evidence, it is scary af to a personal that exhibits even close to normal behaviour and doesn't thrive off lying, cheating, bs.

  • @teddyjam8134
    @teddyjam8134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    This guy is just selfish. Why would you keep that sort of thing hidden from your wife? He robbed her of choice!

    • @mariemunzar6474
      @mariemunzar6474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everyone has secrets, and yes this is a big one though could be he was very ashamed of his past and didn't want to hurt her with it, I agree he should have been a bit more honest though I don't know if she had to know everything. It doesn't seem like a very trusting relationship in any case, I think both he and the wife are flawed. Also it could be he wasn't thinking about your comment about robbing her of choice when he decided not to tell her. He doesn't seem like a very critical thinker in any case.

  • @cocodiamonddaze
    @cocodiamonddaze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    lol I would’ve shock the world and said “Well…LETS DO IT TOGETHER!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Djeispark
    @Djeispark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    *I thought he was going to admit his secret crack addiction because he was uncontrollably fidgeting like he needed another hit!*

    • @teezy7596
      @teezy7596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @hleniwefuneka7402
      @hleniwefuneka7402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @shosho5306
      @shosho5306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He does have a crack addiction.

    • @adamcraven3427
      @adamcraven3427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought he was jack the ripper

    • @Allinmyworld
      @Allinmyworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too! I thought it was a drug addiction as well

  • @Stevebaby123
    @Stevebaby123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    We need proof he did these movies. Let’s roll the film! 🍿

    • @jeorsea
      @jeorsea 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👀

  • @micheletuaolo5520
    @micheletuaolo5520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “Pack your bags, get out & move on!” NOTED 📝

  • @irefusepodcast
    @irefusepodcast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That left hand was giving me vertigo! That wasn't that big of a deal and she still went overboard. Girl, that's why he was going to take to his grave.

  • @isdrevenge8764
    @isdrevenge8764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    So I'm confused. Is he shooting PRN next week or leaving her

    • @GirlycarDawn
      @GirlycarDawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He figured as long as they were coming out there he might as well put his chance at restoring his marriage aside to sell his body for pocket change. That's what happened.

    • @StealthMode3924
      @StealthMode3924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m trying to figure out his name. I want to know if they stayed together

    • @CCbeans
      @CCbeans 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GirlycarDawn 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jaquuesmaske8495
    @jaquuesmaske8495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bro when he asked if he had anything that she couldn't know his face was priceless like faauckkkkk

  • @Al-ks2ym
    @Al-ks2ym 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    “And listen 👋 you don’t got to tell her” 🤣🤣

    • @stephaniezent7284
      @stephaniezent7284 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guy's a lizard. She fixed his messes. They deserve each other.

  • @vincentbruno8275
    @vincentbruno8275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love how dr. Phil says I’m going to out you but he literally outs him 😂😂

  • @n00n1n
    @n00n1n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This is proof positive that just because you're wearing a suit, it doesn't make you any less of a dirtbag.

  • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
    @ScribblebytesWorldwide 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love how they unlocked this videos comment section. I came back just for that!

  • @marinakaye8284
    @marinakaye8284 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Can see John Malkovich playing the husband in the Broadway play.

  • @natc6973
    @natc6973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The man is sick. Who builds relationship with that type of person

  • @coye10
    @coye10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "I wanna know what he knows that I don't"
    Well buddy that's not why we're here!

  • @StealthMode3924
    @StealthMode3924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    “I want so bad to be honest with you, but I feel like with my track record, if I am, you’ll see me as not being honest with you. If that makes any sense whatsoever.”

    • @philipchamp594
      @philipchamp594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Language of a narcissistic. All he cares about is his own self. Trying to send them on a guilt trip for a completely normal response.

    • @bell5662
      @bell5662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "by being honest with you i'll show that up until now i wasnt being honest and you'll stop trusting me"
      Also note how he said he wanted to know what dr. Phil knew before going ahead and admitting it. He was only ready to tell what Dr. Phil already knew... he had no intention of coming clean on his own.

  • @rugbydazz2264
    @rugbydazz2264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That was shocking he really wasn't given a choice.

  • @shannonmanu4959
    @shannonmanu4959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    lesson here is dont tell Dr Phils associate producer any secrets

  • @Amir-qu3kr
    @Amir-qu3kr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    credits to the man for sharing this

  • @jasonbarney4278
    @jasonbarney4278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “I’m not going to say the secret but you have one”……….so manipulative and obviously dramatized for tv.

  • @manutebol6806
    @manutebol6806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Out till 5A and on a TV show?!? He’s a beast.

    • @helenamerant8275
      @helenamerant8275 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts 😆😆😆😆 he is nearly hanging in there

  • @darleneromero510
    @darleneromero510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I haven’t laughed this hard in a long time ☠️☠️💀💀

  • @wendyjohnson6268
    @wendyjohnson6268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Hes on something

    • @velvetthunder3856
      @velvetthunder3856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yeah, those hand movements are sus

    • @darkened666death
      @darkened666death 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Looks like a coke comedown

    • @lyndsay369
      @lyndsay369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol yeah this dude is def coked out

  • @olinewman
    @olinewman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    The movie was called 'Doing John Malkovitch.'

    • @50.newnotes
      @50.newnotes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂

    • @justinkrann7406
      @justinkrann7406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Best comment

    • @mirka6931
      @mirka6931 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha. I was trying to figure out the name of that movie! So spot on !!

  • @NaveedAhd
    @NaveedAhd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Give this man a oscar for most suspicious acting

  • @dianecandoflamtaps9557
    @dianecandoflamtaps9557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I know some people are joking when they Dr. Phil put him on the spot about his secret. But it would be bad in my opinion for him not to confront the idiot!! If he’s sneaking around her back cheating on her, lying to her, she needs to know so she can move on with her life!! The guy is a pathological liar, she’d be crazy to stay with him!!

    • @RehanChowdhury-ol1pv
      @RehanChowdhury-ol1pv ปีที่แล้ว

      don't blame him if he is cheating on the way she treats him

  • @lilyb8577
    @lilyb8577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Man that secret wasn’t even that bad😂

  • @dannij7081
    @dannij7081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "I want to know what he (Dr. Phil)knows that I don't know ."- Husband with a secret.

  • @casazavala9691
    @casazavala9691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    1:57 total FRIENDS moment 😂

  • @joeyarrow2341
    @joeyarrow2341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Everyone has secrets he just said what he was actually trying to hide he was honest about his secret and all of us commenters here we have secrets like that too... We are no Angels

  • @annafranc8081
    @annafranc8081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    The fact that he wanted to cheat on her shows he doesn’t love her. I’d divorce him if I were her

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The urge to cheat has nothing to do with love. Its actually the 'control' you have that has everything to do with love.
      You do not cheat because you do not want to hurt your loved one, not because you do not feel the temptation

    • @lucianaromulus1408
      @lucianaromulus1408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@melmel7011 If you have the urge or thought of cheating, its time to move on. No excuses

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lucianaromulus1408 Life its not like that. I'm not saying cheating is ouk but temptations do come.
      I'm just wondering how old you are to not know this

    • @lucianaromulus1408
      @lucianaromulus1408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@melmel7011 no temptations do NOT come. Only immoral people say that. If you're easily swayed stay single, you don't deserve commitment.

    • @lucianaromulus1408
      @lucianaromulus1408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@melmel7011 I'd say 31 is a good age , including going through a marriage ...long distance relationships, etc to know this 🤣 only the immoral excuse such behavior.

  • @jessvolina6007
    @jessvolina6007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Am I the only one that thought he was gonna ask her to be in one? She said “you’re sick” I thought “he didn’t even ask you to be in it!!” But seriously that’s horrible.

  • @carleyanneart8068
    @carleyanneart8068 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When I was 18 and started working in corporate offices, there were so many people who were married that were sleeping with their work colleagues, it really upset me a lot. Dr Phil takes cheating very seriously! As far as I can tell though, it's pretty common!

  • @12thGenNewton
    @12thGenNewton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Dr. Phil put John Malkovich in makeup and gave him a quick backstory and thought we wouldn’t notice, huh?

  • @匿名希望-p7j
    @匿名希望-p7j ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Dr.Phil&Viewers!
    As a Japanese noticer,I admire Dr.Phil squeezed the insight&honesty culture which my country would be enlightened but didn't grasp it in the United States!
    Dr.Phil,thank you for exampling that!

  • @heyho7506
    @heyho7506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "I wanted to take to my grave the fact that I secretly made porn for the entire internet to not see." Top tier logic.

  • @jungefrau
    @jungefrau 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My secret: i use swerve in my cookies & tell my husband I use real sugar. 🤫

  • @nolimits300
    @nolimits300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    HE HAV'TO SAY IT TO HIS WIFE
    HE'S NOT MARRIED WITH YOU LADY "PACK YOUR THINGS AND GO"

  • @naeemalewis14
    @naeemalewis14 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way the husband's breathing speed changed😂😂

  • @ditavalerio615
    @ditavalerio615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    If your going do something you at least have to
    Have the balls to face your imperfect self

  • @so5502
    @so5502 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So does he think if he gets paid, it's not cheating?

  • @mrblacktrh
    @mrblacktrh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That’s a great John Malkovich impersonator.

    • @ashalily5
      @ashalily5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see it.

  • @delloffthewall
    @delloffthewall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dude wanted to multitask with his secret while on a trip to Dr. Phil to talk about that secret.

  • @kristopherryanwatson
    @kristopherryanwatson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "i want to know what you think you know that i don't know..."
    "i want to know what he knows that he's not sharing that we don't know..."
    "i'm wanting to know what he knows that we don't know"
    jesus, can the level of confusing idiocy descend any less ?

  • @deniseowens1163
    @deniseowens1163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That wasn't Dr Phil's right to open up this man secret.

  • @jessicalarose4261
    @jessicalarose4261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    With all that hand movement I’m sure he’s high 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @Empressbee79
    @Empressbee79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dr. Phil: I’m not here to out your secrets but I’m here to out your secrets.
    *Swirls water in glass.

  • @dizzybizzy8284
    @dizzybizzy8284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    No one knows that except all the people that saw his video probably on PH 😂

    • @ebelu6505
      @ebelu6505 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why in ph

    • @Tkdanso
      @Tkdanso 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Smart one.

  • @rozsagabor4616
    @rozsagabor4616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When she says wow at 4:45 I love the older guys reaction :D he is like "shssss, don't interrupt, he might stop telling us the story, and it's very interesting!"

  • @peterjg001
    @peterjg001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love this guy 👑

  • @-roejogan-
    @-roejogan- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn that producer went around telling _everybody_ hahaha

  • @MarkousMajorSurf
    @MarkousMajorSurf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bless her heart.

  • @BrookeBrewster517
    @BrookeBrewster517 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think he made a movie with the couple, but that’s just me. 😂😂😂😂Doing pawn in the past really isn’t earth shattering.

  • @Kiki-ys5rj
    @Kiki-ys5rj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Nobody's gonna know... they're gonna know...how would they know

  • @TheRealLindaLee
    @TheRealLindaLee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can think of worse things people have done..

  • @kelseyjohnson4433
    @kelseyjohnson4433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Girl just leave him…. It’s not even worth it…

  • @LitReese_
    @LitReese_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thought he was gonna say he's gay 😂

  • @EPrimeify
    @EPrimeify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The issue is not doing porn. The issue is letting your partner know about it early on. Not everyone is gonna be okay with it, and that’s okay. Gender not relevant.

    • @matthewmcdonough5601
      @matthewmcdonough5601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gender is relevant in my opinion. Men respond to being cheating on worse than women. Men don’t seek the same social support as women after a stressful situation.

    • @CCbeans
      @CCbeans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right on!!!

    • @missmoanypants
      @missmoanypants 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!

  • @Tenyearslater13
    @Tenyearslater13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Way he moves his hands tells everything

  • @LondonTom007
    @LondonTom007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hat off to the guy for getting it off his chest and being honest. Atleast now he can be at ease and the moving forward decision is hers. He hasn't done anything illegal. He's trying to make ends meet. most men would have lied about something like that until their dying days. So respect

  • @socialhandgrenade8621
    @socialhandgrenade8621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He reminds me of John malkovich
    Even his voice

  • @ciarashelley7816
    @ciarashelley7816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ok but why tell a producer you have a juicy secret 😂 they're gonna want to PRODUCE that for views

  • @flaco12150
    @flaco12150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who tf just sipped in my ear @2:39😭

  • @Candy-ji1sr
    @Candy-ji1sr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I didn't recognize his face but something rang a bell!!!!.

    • @punchtop9449
      @punchtop9449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s because he wouldn’t look at you

    • @morganjanelle4282
      @morganjanelle4282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Candy If he was doing _porn,_ they probably never showed _his face_ much _anyways._ (lol)

  • @sarahs2288
    @sarahs2288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    2:58 Dude’s lies drove Dr. Phil to start pounding scotch. 😂