women are complicated individuals. One day youre sweet the next day it appears as if she doesnt even know you like a stranger. Love yourself first. Women are just bonus
Ain’t so easy ... tried and failed all times ... when women loves you you really love yourself ... It’s always like that - bitter truth ... if you really love yourself then don’t get married ... 😃
@Vinyl Skitzo we've all been there brother haha. My girlfriend said she wants to marry me, then next day says I dont wanna get married. Its never consistent with them.
@@johnlove3032 That's not for marriage; that sort of thing is for dating and probably more close to the earlier stages. Bro probably there's something more going on with her.
@@medozaki8371 ...The statement was based on my experience as well, Just always look at the bright side of things. ...It ain't that easy, but you'll get through it... Eventually...🙂🙂🙂
Sadly it happens a lot. Look at the tinder posts on Reddit for proof. People don’t realize attraction is high in the beginning to promote mating in the first 6 months to a year. After that it’s not meant to be such an important part of a relationship. Most people have an infantile view of what we are and how we behave. There’s a hundred thousand years of mating selection behind every feeling and motivation we experience. This stuff doesn’t just come out of nowhere like we’re the first species to ever have sex.
The time you start chasing a woman look there's a Guy just like you planning to build a mansion, so why cry over a spilt milk whereas you can just focus on your dreams, it worked for me it can also work for you...
Having other romantic options is part of the story, but the key really is to not make her the center of your life. You are happy with or without her. You want her, you don't NEED her.
Hey Chris, I don't currently have a girlfriend but I have had a close female friend from long distance that's been the closest to me and I'd date her if we lived closer but anyway, after about 18 months of chatting, she went cold on me for whatever reason back in June. Our last conversation was good natured, so there was no problems. So as an experiment, I just went cold to. Then just a few days ago, she broke the ice and said how long it had been since we last talked. I really was never going to contact her again cause of my mistrust in females anyway, but she submitted to me and I know she gets lot's of male attention from other guys, but the bottom line is, women will gravitate towards the stronger, more confident male who can do without them.. It could have been a test, but whatever, she was the one reconnecting with me. You're video's prove this.
Rock N this is happening with my ex she comes and goes,just recently she text me “hey” after she stop communication and everything looked good we had sex and 3 days later she ghost me for no reason but I know her she goes back to her ex and there off and on so then she calls me,so I just tell come over for a drink I don’t waste money on her soo basically she’s just a “fuck buddy”..they always come back just get on ur purpose and they come back but never take them serious again,just used them for sex lol
If you do (chase them) they like that (thus disrespect you), but if you don't (they tend to come back). I call this a slave cell ("They want you to chase them & when you don't they come back")
If other’s opinions changes her feelings for you then you are with the wrong person. If love is real no one can change it and if it’s based on conditions then it’s not love dear...
If a woman pulls away she is basically beginning to shit test you . Once a woman starts that infantile behavior , it is time to dump her right then , and there ., no discussion .
This will always makes sense, think outside the box, do things a MAN should do, not what a BOY would do I.e Don't chase, it makes you look weak and also look like a fucking stalker, leave her be, give her that shock value, do the opposite of what she would expect and she'll come kicking your door down, just don't take her back if she has been treating you like a fucking doormat or been screwing all of her co-workers who say hello to her because she's the type of woman who requires validation and attention from males to make herself feel better because she is a cheating fuckstick to start with, keep your dignity, keep your self respect and move the fuck on!!
Chase your dream and women will chase u bro Im broken but i give her time to enjoy herself first im desperate but after 1 month im ok life must go on be strong everyday Thnks sir
Sunnyboy Judilla Sunny boy, I hope you are doing much better my brother?? It does get easier as time goes on, and there are a lot of women around here. You are a good person, don’t be hard on yourself & just know one day, she might realize this but it would be too late.
many women say the sexiest thing a man can own is a 12inch & knows how to use it very very very well sad but true underneath all the bull shit sorry dudes
Sacrifice everything for her that i had, Time, money, caring, honesty, faithful everything but she cheated on me with 4 guys. after 3years here i am with empty handed with broken heart. Hope you all have a better relationship ❤️❤️
Were together for 3 years. Each year around this time she pulls away. I always fought to keep us together and she would ask me not to give up on her. This year she did it again. She was being cold and heartless and just acting like she didn’t give a damn. Finally I’m done with it. I don’t give a damn anymore. Time to be single and just enjoy my life.
I am in the same boat with my partner (gf) of 5 minus 2 years LDR. She seems to fall off the face of the earth, cold, withdrawn and acting like I don't exist. I suspect there could be another person feeding her validations on the weekend. I actually mirror her actions. But I switch all that focus on myself. I've learned to NEVER make a woman the center of my world. You have to go into beast mode 🦁 Fitness, Finance, Family ... This helped me to level up 💪 Home Paid, Stack 💰, Hobby's, Travel 🧳
Hypergamy. Women go on a wave where for a period of time they want alpha secure confident aggressive types and another faze where they want secure reasuring safe types. The key is to be both and know when to lean more into one or the other mindset.
100 percent related to my story actually. I have been in relation with my gf for the past one year. I chased her. Did everything. Now she is gonna marry with someone . But now I am not chasing her and not investing on her. Means going to right way. Thanks for ur motivational video. From Dubai and Pakistan. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Your videos are brilliant... Your advise is spot on... I didn't realise all the things I was doing wrong until you pointed them out... You have made my relationship a whole lot easier... Thanks Chris.
i did too but the 2nd time she broke up with me i went cold completely her first messages when she contacted me again was anger why you ignoring me you never loved me blah blah blah etc then it was love messages then stalking me constant messages constant calls but stay strong you will get them urges and the guilt to give in and text back dont do it eventually she will chase you i went cold for a good 3 weeks you're case might not work at all you handed her all your self respect she loved every bit of it fed her ego to the max hard to hear its true you gave her too much love. if you are back in contact keep it short and sweet no feeding her ego constantly no constant messaging back and forth all day everyday no more than 3 texts in the space of an hour dont message everyday have a day where you go completely cold you're a confident man and can live with out her and mysterious that will make her want you more and shes replaceable if she fucks off she will know it and think twice.
I'm currently having a situation where my gf wanting a break up like 4 5 times already and yt literally saw me scrolling on "how to be a man in relationship" and giving all this kind of content, I love yt for this.
I've been dating this girl for 3 months now. We've agreed to be exclusive some while ago. She's head over heels for me. She calls me, texts me everyday, tells me she loves and appreciates me so much. However the past 3 days I sensed a shift in her tone with me. She's slowly pulled away the sweetness and the lovey dove attitude. I immediately tuned it down with her as well. Since day one she saw me as strong and as someone who's happy with himself (she actually said I seem cocky to her sometimes) and I don't want to show any weakness now. So as I'm mirroring her behaviour, I stopped interacting. And now she just interacts with me once or twice a day with a hey msg and how are you and that's it. I'm not chasing nor panicking not showing any weakness or emotional reaction to the situation. But I'm weirded out, it's been 3 days like this and she obviously was so much into me. I wonder if she lost attraction or that if she'll just readjust her emotions and come back strong. I'm sure I never did things to turn her off like being needy, weak, too agreeable or too emotional. I wonder why the hell did this happen. I actually love this girl she's amazing and one of a kind after being in 6 relationships she just hits different. I don't want to risk losing her attraction. Am I doing the right thing?
I think it is just a Show of Power in the relationship.. the one who is able to wait and stay calm gets the upper hand.. Pitty I have learned it too late
My gf pulls away. I can feel it. But I'm taking your advice anyway. And I'm here just relax and chill. Never get panic or nervous. If she really love me, she will come back, if not then I can find another woman.
It did well. I didn't chase. She comes back to me. And telling me that I'm not the same as other guys. I didn't ask what she means but I'm getting it. I'm not that 95% most of guys chasing, This is legit and this is really helpful. This is a real man should be. Do your effort, but never chase and chase.
It’s not that complicated. Most women participate in groupthink and decide by consensus. They want their mate to have high status and will continually scan for it. If a woman senses weakness she’ll test you to see your reaction with her. If you stand up for yourself with her and don’t chase she’ll feel safe and know you’re capable of doing it in other areas of your life (business, family of origin, in public).
Not only that, but she'll see you as more manly and then draw the correlation that because you are, many more women will find you attractive & desirable. This will convince her you're a "catch" and confirm to her that she made a good choice and won't want to lose you. Yeah, women are fucked up.
I have an important question. Is it that women want men that don't care or is that they want men that are strong enough to walk away despite caring about them? That's a big difference.
Very logical hypothesis you have: Answer is women want a man who doesn't care so they can make excuses about how men aren't "ish" .... Then they want a man who cares enough to walk away from them so they can be alone and "figure out their journey." (Blah blah)... they both result in a man getting played smh
My ex who I am recently stressing about, left me after my grandfather's death (late month of June), she said she didn't know how to be there for me after everything i did. I am grateful it wasn't a worse situation because i really thought she was the one. I am 19 years old and so is she. She constantly reminded me i was single that we weren’t together and how she needed “me time” each time I questioned why? even though she stuck around sliding up on my instagram stories. We stopped speaking for good after i came back from my vacation last week, she completely admitted she didn't want me anymore. And the saddest part is, i still love her.
We were doing great. Then she went away for 10 days. Dynamic changed. I pulled away. We spoke. I told her, “this isn’t going to work for me. Are you in or out? I have options.” We are back on track.
I remember in psychology class that if you stop texting your gf for a week or so she will freak out. Women determine what they hear and men for what they see
For some reason this works. My long distance girlfriend some how is kinda starting to pull away so I applied this pull away thing. During the day I just sent her a message hoping she was good, called her once and that's it didnt do nothing else the whole day. At night she called, later she was out with her friends and just texting me what was I doing and then later text me she was home already. Sure will tell you It was kinda hard doing this but I had to. Made her miss me for a few hours and there it was, phone call and text messages. I'm still applying this, as for now it seems working.
Late reply but, TEXTING you is WEAK! Let her call or meet in person. This TEXTING is soooo lazy, but, society has made it a "thing ". WE reap what we sow.
The funny thing is all men know deep down when something is off with their woman. But we have all made excuses for the bad behavior and lived in denial at some point. 😂 Women are actually pretty easy to read if you focus solely on their actions. My last GF for example, made it gradually clear the last month we were together with her behavior. Initially, she started getting defensive and on edge all the time. Then it was breaking kisses a bit too soon and wanting less foreplay. After that, text response times took 4, 6, and 10+hrs. But the final nail? On one of our last nights when I left her place she said "See you later" instead of "I love you". That's when I knew she was checked out.
all nice and well, IF she already IS your girlfriend. With a girl you like and wanna be with, the same principles might apply, except that if you pull away or "let her be", she has the freedom to do what and whoever she wants. yes it might make you more attractive to her, but all that does is keep her interest up and options open, while she goes out and dates other people. meanwhile you are sitting at home, miserable, waiting for her to make a decision if she wants to be with you or not. It's a lose-lose situation.
Correct, I'm facing this exact scenario, had the the best 1st date of my life, and then when I asked her out on date #2 she went Radio Silence on me. I know I might have come a little too strong on her, and now I can only back away as she backs away, but just like you said, there's not enough investment from her side to hope for a return, or so I feel.
It's important to focus on YOUrself 💪 NEVER make her the center of your life. We have to love people to choose freely. They can choose to stay or leave. But when you're confident with yourself, stoic, unperturbed with the $H^T test women unconsciously throw at you. The Hypergamist woman will always choose the strongest and bigger better deal for her unborn child. wMGTOW ..I've learned to love women with arms length 💪🪨
In the same scenario as well 4 wonderful dates I let my guard down then she pulled the plug. Started out with flaky behavior then ghosted and finally reached out again to dump me im just confused as I didn't do anything I didn't overpursue or stalk her nothing . She just left right when we got connected. I feel like a failure
Funny enough, I just started giving my girlfriend space recently... She's been acting up for sometime now and even made a comment that I don't have other things to think of, other than think of her love
SAME! My girl is in college rn and she’s stressed asf and been super busy lately and we been distant lately but I’m giving her space and the upper hand..hope it all works out in the end.
Don't chase anytime. She wants you to chase even in the beginning of a relationship. Play it cool and give her a chance to be curious about you and miss you and want you more.
I’m so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
U might be right in ur own right and shld I say your experience But here's another interesting approach: give her your all , be the sweetheart be the great guy exclusively to her . Lay her best And at the back of ur mind knowing that shld she pull away , well it's her loss . At some point in her life she will regret ever pulling away from u n wanna try n come back but nigga don't take her back. I promise u this way u have more power to yourself n for yourself as a guy and at the same time being a true man who represent for our gender . It's high time we get out of the stereotypes tht the society has put men into
My ex who I am recently stressing about, left me after my grandfather's death (late month of June), she said she didn't know how to be there for me after everything i did. I am grateful it wasn't a worse situation because i really thought she was the one. I am 19 years old and so is she. She constantly reminded me i was single that we weren’t together and how she needed “me time” each time I questioned why? even though she stuck around sliding up on my instagram stories. We stopped speaking for good after i came back from my vacation last week, she completely admitted she didn't want me anymore. And the saddest part is, i still love her.
@@vreduct I learned at your age man. Given your story she still wouldn't be satisfied if you put a bullet thru your head. She's immature, and it doesn't get that much better when you're older... when a girl has to do something other than look pretty, they freak out. You're gonna go thru 30 girls before you find one with some values and half a brain. I can only advise you to be patient and don't believe the lies dumb girls like your ex spread on you.
@@gramcliches1980 it really means an lot to me that you replied, cause at the moment I feel stuck and even though I know I deserve better, my heart hasn't moved on I guess. I appreciate you taking the time of your day to reply with some advice that actually helps me, thank you.
This guy is great, he documents women in relationships like animals on Nat Geo lmaoo"The creature slightly stares and makes harsh remarks, the fight may blow up into an all out hunting session "
What if it’s the guy who pervs on other women on social media? What if it’s his lack of appreciation that causes her to pull away? Nothing is ever one sided... blanket statements don’t apply to every single person
What do you define as pulling away this girl hasn’t stopped texting me but she has started flaking on dates. I think when a girl stops texting you completely it means her interest is pretty low. But there are also stages some girls will still respond to your texts but will stop initiating and stop being the feminine submissive girls they are supposed to be.
I guess I already messed up, because I chased her :( I pour my heart out to her tho and she still pulled away, and we're engaged, and she's pregnant with our child...
I'm right into it right now. You help me to stay strong. Thank you for your book. It makes lot of sense and knowing that since is behind all this helps a lot to not fall back into the white knight habits.
My girlfriend told me that I changed and she said try to check myself and yeah thank you it works , SUB and NOTIFY already. -Philippines Update: 3days later I ask her to come in my house and when we met, I didn't talk too much to her ,30 minutes later ,She Cry .I thought she was raped because that's the first time I saw her cry so much and I ask her , what's the problem and she said I'M CHANGED. NOW I DONT KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO BECAUSE I CAN'T WATCH HER SO LONELY AND I'M SO PIT OF HER .Someone advice me what should I do ,she's only 17
No Contact is great after a breakup but in a relationship when times are cold , its better to give your loved one a call more than less (saved my relationship)
I'm trying this one out of curiosity: she's shown indicators of uninterest and pulling away so I made the last few things light and funnier, 100% positive, and now sent the last one. So that she expects more and more nice messages (instead of tailing off) but instead nothing will come. So she will eventually have to initiate someday.
Sacrifice 3yeras from my life for her, finally i loose myself. Its not about having many girls around us, its about being loyal to whose shared your soul. After loosing everything in my life , i found something and that was there is no love in this world among human.
Can all of these be applied for a long distance relationship? Especially if you're both so far and just can't physically be together, and she's pulling away and being distant.
What if she pulls away every other week? I never chase and she always comes back but Im kinda getting sick of it. She gets mad over the littlest thing out of the blue, makes a big ass deal about it and pulls away. She pulled away again and is telling me contact her only when I’m ready apologize.
Girl I've been talking with for a few months, who previously had been texting me all day, now has started to text only at the end of the day, that too with low interest. How should I respond when she texts at the end of the day ? Should I reply with my usual enthusiasm or should I show low interest and respond late ?
She fucking another dude and it’s a matter of time before you realize this and get your heart broken. Slow down on connecting with her snd if your absence doesn’t change her attitude she was never yours it’s just your turn.
What if she said, "she lost feelings", and breaks up? Will I still have a chance? I pulled away the day she did, because I knew she needed space. But right before I pulled away, she broke up with me. So do I still have a chance?
No man, if she already broke up with you then the best thing you can do is look for other women. Do not text or call her again in any form, it will be useless and you will look even more unattractive to her. It sucks but it is what it is, if she broke up with you move on.
I just want to share a testimony here. Last week my GF start getting cold to the point were having argument about it what I did is I tell her that I won't meet her for 2weeks then she started to have some changes she crave for me and yesterday we have a bedtime nonstop 😆 yo this dude's wisdom is so dangerous.
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Golden rule: Don't make yourself too available.
Noooooo
Christopher Van old head , go home
Sachin Kumar Exactly. I was too available for her, and she left me now.
Santosh Ojha i hope you are doing good.
Nice one
women are complicated individuals. One day youre sweet the next day it appears as if she doesnt even know you like a stranger. Love yourself first. Women are just bonus
Going threw that now with my wife
I needed this message
Ain’t so easy ... tried and failed all times ... when women loves you you really love yourself ... It’s always like that - bitter truth ... if you really love yourself then don’t get married ... 😃
@Vinyl Skitzo we've all been there brother haha. My girlfriend said she wants to marry me, then next day says I dont wanna get married. Its never consistent with them.
@@johnlove3032 That's not for marriage; that sort of thing is for dating and probably more close to the earlier stages.
Bro probably there's something more going on with her.
If someone wants to leave, let them leave.
If it's a test, let them leave and take their test with them.
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This thing is gold , you have to practice patience and everything will be fine
words are cheap, actions are very hard to implement - this also holds true for the preacher
Thank you very much for this wonderful video
@@fitnesspoint2006 it’s doable, that’s the point. Don’t be pessimistic b
...If she Pulls away, let her go...
...You should never be afraid to let go of someone who doesn't feel lucky to have you...
Enough said.
that s very well said bro salute you for that
@@medozaki8371 ...The statement was based on my experience as well, Just always look at the bright side of things.
...It ain't that easy, but you'll get through it... Eventually...🙂🙂🙂
Jonathan Carreon wow thanks this was dope
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This!
"Don't respond, and don't chase." Simple but effective. Thank you for sharing this!
Only respond when they do but delay the response
@Not Convinced what?🤪🤡
Stay strong lads, I know it’s tough.
Hang out with friends, you’ll feel better around people who make you laugh
I don’t have any friends
lol you're not alone . anyway you have to become your own best friend first in anycase @@l750z_6
I never chase her... After someday she keeps coming back coz she also knows that it's hard to let go a bad boy who's a really good man :-)
Yeah after she is done getting boned by some other dude she comes back to you...that is NOT a victory in my book.
Haha yeah real bad! Ya gronk
@@fitnesspoint2006 Exactly!!!! enough said 🤔!!!!
Nah bro that could also mean she’s just using u not tryna be negative but that could be a major play
@@dlou9547 Using you for what?
After the mistakes, accept her wishes, and move on. let them feel the loss aswell, it’s not all about pleasing them if they don’t please you.
My ex-girlfriend pulled away and I pulled away the rest of the way.
Never put women on a pedistal because one day they will look down at you.
Best advice I'd ever heard was " treat a bitch like 7-up, never have never will"! Works great
@@juangutierrez4501 stay strong.
@@juangutierrez4501 me too bro
What if rhe pedestal is a birthday gift?
@@patrickrussell4109 how can you say that about a female?
Why would any man with an ounce of dignity and pride ever take back a woman who left him and went to another man?
Well said my brother
Sadly it happens a lot. Look at the tinder posts on Reddit for proof. People don’t realize attraction is high in the beginning to promote mating in the first 6 months to a year. After that it’s not meant to be such an important part of a relationship. Most people have an infantile view of what we are and how we behave. There’s a hundred thousand years of mating selection behind every feeling and motivation we experience. This stuff doesn’t just come out of nowhere like we’re the first species to ever have sex.
I let it happen to me. Like 20 years ago and I am still with her but having issues. Biggest mistake.
Been through 2 relationships, it is true! Don’t focus on your woman. Focus on yourself.
The time you start chasing a woman look there's a Guy just like you planning to build a mansion, so why cry over a spilt milk whereas you can just focus on your dreams, it worked for me it can also work for you...
Having other romantic options is part of the story, but the key really is to not make her the center of your life. You are happy with or without her. You want her, you don't NEED her.
God first. Too much dependence upon a woman is not healthy. In Christ is the ultimate act of Grace.
So how did you end up here¿🤔
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@@MANNY-cl4xb He's human & had to remind himself of that principle.
@Calvino Dablackalpacino agree
Ultimate mindset
Hey Chris, I don't currently have a girlfriend but I have had a close female friend from long distance that's been the closest to me and I'd date her if we lived closer but anyway, after about 18 months of chatting, she went cold on me for whatever reason back in June. Our last conversation was good natured, so there was no problems. So as an experiment, I just went cold to. Then just a few days ago, she broke the ice and said how long it had been since we last talked. I really was never going to contact her again cause of my mistrust in females anyway, but she submitted to me and I know she gets lot's of male attention from other guys, but the bottom line is, women will gravitate towards the stronger, more confident male who can do without them.. It could have been a test, but whatever, she was the one reconnecting with me. You're video's prove this.
Rock N this is happening with my ex she comes and goes,just recently she text me “hey” after she stop communication and everything looked good we had sex and 3 days later she ghost me for no reason but I know her she goes back to her ex and there off and on so then she calls me,so I just tell come over for a drink I don’t waste money on her soo basically she’s just a “fuck buddy”..they always come back just get on ur purpose and they come back but never take them serious again,just used them for sex lol
Bottom line long distance relationships don’t work. Also you need to make a decision if she is a girlfriend or just a friend
I'm is a very similar scenario!
But let's be honest,the dude knows what he's talking about!
He deserves subs.
If you do (chase them) they like that (thus disrespect you), but if you don't (they tend to come back).
I call this a slave cell ("They want you to chase them & when you don't they come back")
"95% guys chased, get nervous,"
Facts
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Witness
That is fact.. I almost chased back
Facts
If other’s opinions changes her feelings for you then you are with the wrong person. If love is real no one can change it and if it’s based on conditions then it’s not love dear...
If a woman pulls away she is basically beginning to shit test you . Once a woman starts that infantile behavior ,
it is time to dump her right then , and there ., no discussion .
I've tried this before, it work!! But sometimes its really difficult not chasing her, but I know I can😎😉
😀😀...u are right
Did she came back?
This will always makes sense, think outside the box, do things a MAN should do, not what a BOY would do I.e Don't chase, it makes you look weak and also look like a fucking stalker, leave her be, give her that shock value, do the opposite of what she would expect and she'll come kicking your door down, just don't take her back if she has been treating you like a fucking doormat or been screwing all of her co-workers who say hello to her because she's the type of woman who requires validation and attention from males to make herself feel better because she is a cheating fuckstick to start with, keep your dignity, keep your self respect and move the fuck on!!
Love the person , who deserves n also love u , life don't need drama , it need peace
I like your calm and asserting demeanor. It's correct and reassuring. Sub earned bro
Chase your dream and women will chase u bro
Im broken but i give her time to enjoy herself first im desperate but after 1 month im ok life must go on be strong everyday
Thnks sir
Sunnyboy Judilla
Sunny boy, I hope you are doing much better my brother?? It does get easier as time goes on, and there are a lot of women around here. You are a good person, don’t be hard on yourself & just know one day, she might realize this but it would be too late.
she left me 5 months ago, but still day by day i am becoming weak
@@kamrankhan-en1if be strong bro ist its hard but time will heal evrything find new friends in order to be hapoy
@@sunnyboyjudilla9065 yupp,, I agree,,
many women say the sexiest thing a man can own is a 12inch & knows how to use it very very very well
sad but true underneath all the bull shit
sorry dudes
Sacrifice everything for her that i had, Time, money, caring, honesty, faithful everything but she cheated on me with 4 guys. after 3years here i am with empty handed with broken heart. Hope you all have a better relationship ❤️❤️
I don't know what kind of magic this is but these video have an amazing healing and soothing effect.
The best.. helps so much with reassurance and peace of mind
Were together for 3 years. Each year around this time she pulls away. I always fought to keep us together and she would ask me not to give up on her. This year she did it again. She was being cold and heartless and just acting like she didn’t give a damn. Finally I’m done with it. I don’t give a damn anymore. Time to be single and just enjoy my life.
Stay strong king 👑
did it hurt knowing she could be with another dude? u know u get them visuals :(
I am in the same boat with my partner (gf) of 5 minus 2 years LDR. She seems to fall off the face of the earth, cold, withdrawn and acting like I don't exist. I suspect there could be another person feeding her validations on the weekend.
I actually mirror her actions. But I switch all that focus on myself. I've learned to NEVER make a woman the center of my world. You have to go into beast mode 🦁
Fitness, Finance, Family ... This helped me to level up 💪 Home Paid, Stack 💰, Hobby's, Travel 🧳
Hypergamy. Women go on a wave where for a period of time they want alpha secure confident aggressive types and another faze where they want secure reasuring safe types. The key is to be both and know when to lean more into one or the other mindset.
I agree with this. Why can't I be both. Balance. Use what I need when I need it. Then I'm everything.
give this guy a medal!
100 percent related to my story actually. I have been in relation with my gf for the past one year. I chased her. Did everything. Now she is gonna marry with someone . But now I am not chasing her and not investing on her. Means going to right way. Thanks for ur motivational video. From Dubai and Pakistan. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Same happened with me too
If she dips on you, great! Take a vacation. Tell her about it when she looks you up!
Your videos are brilliant... Your advise is spot on... I didn't realise all the things I was doing wrong until you pointed them out... You have made my relationship a whole lot easier... Thanks Chris.
My motto:
Dont chase them... Replace them.
I gave her all the love and was completely focused, I’ve been chasing for the past 6 Months.😭
I have one perfect word for you
Idiot 👈
i did too but the 2nd time she broke up with me i went cold completely her first messages when she contacted me again was anger why you ignoring me you never loved me blah blah blah etc then it was love messages then stalking me constant messages constant calls but stay strong you will get them urges and the guilt to give in and text back dont do it eventually she will chase you i went cold for a good 3 weeks you're case might not work at all you handed her all your self respect she loved every bit of it fed her ego to the max hard to hear its true you gave her too much love. if you are back in contact keep it short and sweet no feeding her ego constantly no constant messaging back and forth all day everyday no more than 3 texts in the space of an hour dont message everyday have a day where you go completely cold you're a confident man and can live with out her and mysterious that will make her want you more and shes replaceable if she fucks off she will know it and think twice.
I'm currently having a situation where my gf wanting a break up like 4 5 times already and yt literally saw me scrolling on "how to be a man in relationship" and giving all this kind of content, I love yt for this.
I've been dating this girl for 3 months now. We've agreed to be exclusive some while ago. She's head over heels for me. She calls me, texts me everyday, tells me she loves and appreciates me so much. However the past 3 days I sensed a shift in her tone with me. She's slowly pulled away the sweetness and the lovey dove attitude. I immediately tuned it down with her as well. Since day one she saw me as strong and as someone who's happy with himself (she actually said I seem cocky to her sometimes) and I don't want to show any weakness now. So as I'm mirroring her behaviour, I stopped interacting. And now she just interacts with me once or twice a day with a hey msg and how are you and that's it. I'm not chasing nor panicking not showing any weakness or emotional reaction to the situation. But I'm weirded out, it's been 3 days like this and she obviously was so much into me. I wonder if she lost attraction or that if she'll just readjust her emotions and come back strong. I'm sure I never did things to turn her off like being needy, weak, too agreeable or too emotional. I wonder why the hell did this happen. I actually love this girl she's amazing and one of a kind after being in 6 relationships she just hits different. I don't want to risk losing her attraction. Am I doing the right thing?
I hope someone gonna respond... I see myself in the same kind of situation
@@pacha777 hey man, do you mind if we contact somewhere else and share our experiences?
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Man!!!!!
You're genius. I have this issue like 10 mins ago. After watching your video it was like boom....💥💥💥 she call me 25 missed calls.
I think it is just a Show of Power in the relationship.. the one who is able to wait and stay calm gets the upper hand.. Pitty I have learned it too late
My gf pulls away. I can feel it.
But I'm taking your advice anyway.
And I'm here just relax and chill.
Never get panic or nervous.
If she really love me, she will come back, if not then I can find another woman.
How did it go
How’d it go dude?
It did well.
I didn't chase.
She comes back to me.
And telling me that I'm not the same as other guys.
I didn't ask what she means but I'm getting it.
I'm not that 95% most of guys chasing, This is legit and this is really helpful. This is a real man should be.
Do your effort, but never chase and chase.
@@jsalhia niceeee
It’s not that complicated. Most women participate in groupthink and decide by consensus. They want their mate to have high status and will continually scan for it. If a woman senses weakness she’ll test you to see your reaction with her. If you stand up for yourself with her and don’t chase she’ll feel safe and know you’re capable of doing it in other areas of your life (business, family of origin, in public).
Not only that, but she'll see you as more manly and then draw the correlation that because you are, many more women will find you attractive & desirable. This will convince her you're a "catch" and confirm to her that she made a good choice and won't want to lose you. Yeah, women are fucked up.
Meanwhile she fucks her ex or someone else
Chris saved my life
I've been trying to make you love me. But everything I try just takes you further away from me.
Im sorry .. il try to do better :)
I have an important question. Is it that women want men that don't care or is that they want men that are strong enough to walk away despite caring about them? That's a big difference.
Doesn't matter, the end result appears the same to them.
@@gregoryg6999 perfect response. 👍
Very logical hypothesis you have: Answer is women want a man who doesn't care so they can make excuses about how men aren't "ish" .... Then they want a man who cares enough to walk away from them so they can be alone and "figure out their journey." (Blah blah)... they both result in a man getting played smh
My ex who I am recently stressing about, left me after my grandfather's death (late month of June), she said she didn't know how to be there for me after everything i did. I am grateful it wasn't a worse situation because i really thought she was the one. I am 19 years old and so is she. She constantly reminded me i was single that we weren’t together and how she needed “me time” each time I questioned why? even though she stuck around sliding up on my instagram stories. We stopped speaking for good after i came back from my vacation last week, she completely admitted she didn't want me anymore. And the saddest part is, i still love her.
Reduct go ghost on her. focus on yourself and make yourself a better man. do NOT contact her at all. she will be back
Tyler d Dumit thank you bro that’s what I’m trying to work on 🙏🏼 I really appreciate it
@@vreduct update?
@@cratusg 🤣🤣
@@vreduct what happend
We were doing great. Then she went away for 10 days. Dynamic changed. I pulled away. We spoke. I told her, “this isn’t going to work for me. Are you in or out? I have options.” We are back on track.
Women are like your shadow ... If you chase your shadow it will run away ... And if you run away it will chase you ... As simple as that 😬🤓
I remember in psychology class that if you stop texting your gf for a week or so she will freak out. Women determine what they hear and men for what they see
For some reason this works. My long distance girlfriend some how is kinda starting to pull away so I applied this pull away thing. During the day I just sent her a message hoping she was good, called her once and that's it didnt do nothing else the whole day. At night she called, later she was out with her friends and just texting me what was I doing and then later text me she was home already. Sure will tell you It was kinda hard doing this but I had to. Made her miss me for a few hours and there it was, phone call and text messages. I'm still applying this, as for now it seems working.
Late reply but, TEXTING you is WEAK!
Let her call or meet in person.
This TEXTING is soooo lazy, but, society has made it a "thing ".
WE reap what we sow.
The funny thing is all men know deep down when something is off with their woman. But we have all made excuses for the bad behavior and lived in denial at some point. 😂
Women are actually pretty easy to read if you focus solely on their actions. My last GF for example, made it gradually clear the last month we were together with her behavior.
Initially, she started getting defensive and on edge all the time. Then it was breaking kisses a bit too soon and wanting less foreplay. After that, text response times took 4, 6, and 10+hrs. But the final nail? On one of our last nights when I left her place she said "See you later" instead of "I love you". That's when I knew she was checked out.
This is so straight foward. Hitting the nail on the head.........kudos
all nice and well, IF she already IS your girlfriend. With a girl you like and wanna be with, the same principles might apply, except that if you pull away or "let her be", she has the freedom to do what and whoever she wants. yes it might make you more attractive to her, but all that does is keep her interest up and options open, while she goes out and dates other people. meanwhile you are sitting at home, miserable, waiting for her to make a decision if she wants to be with you or not. It's a lose-lose situation.
Correct, I'm facing this exact scenario, had the the best 1st date of my life, and then when I asked her out on date #2 she went Radio Silence on me. I know I might have come a little too strong on her, and now I can only back away as she backs away, but just like you said, there's not enough investment from her side to hope for a return, or so I feel.
@@jlecampana she probably doesn't care that much dude
@@jlecampana update?
It's important to focus on YOUrself 💪 NEVER make her the center of your life. We have to love people to choose freely. They can choose to stay or leave. But when you're confident with yourself, stoic, unperturbed with the $H^T test women unconsciously throw at you. The Hypergamist woman will always choose the strongest and bigger better deal for her unborn child.
wMGTOW ..I've learned to love women with arms length 💪🪨
In the same scenario as well 4 wonderful dates I let my guard down then she pulled the plug. Started out with flaky behavior then ghosted and finally reached out again to dump me im just confused as I didn't do anything I didn't overpursue or stalk her nothing . She just left right when we got connected. I feel like a failure
I can’t thank you enough for this video, this makes the most sense in this situation. 💯💯
From India: Real feed n these videos helps men all over and especially not 2 get into depression
Thank you so much Mr, i had this problem today but when watching this video oh my God my problem is solved. Thanks for your video
One of the best channels on the Internet
My gf says I always make here depressed when I don’t know what I done
It's time, my dude.
Yep
rockkiller124 I subscribed to your TH-cam account
@@bensmith2540 Thanks man, really appreciated for support
Bro same, I do al this shit wrong but 60 hours a week iPads and phones aren’t good enough 😂
Why would you wanna chase her in the first place. When the same reason that made her want to leave before, will also make her want to leave you again
Just bought his book it’s absolute gold 😊😊
Funny enough, I just started giving my girlfriend space recently... She's been acting up for sometime now and even made a comment that I don't have other things to think of, other than think of her love
That is not a good sign. Just chat her less and if she asks what is the problem just tell her that you are busy.
My girlfriend is happy with me but when she is stressed she just changes her whole mood 😭
SAME! My girl is in college rn and she’s stressed asf and been super busy lately and we been distant lately but I’m giving her space and the upper hand..hope it all works out in the end.
Ak47 Boyz fully mate same here
Don't chase anytime. She wants you to chase even in the beginning of a relationship. Play it cool and give her a chance to be curious about you and miss you and want you more.
I’m so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
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This has really helped me
thank you Chris. You are the best
Reject her before she rejects you, that's what I say!
I love u man , you helped so much 🤲👊🏾
Now I know why I lose my gf yesterday😭
MM Ariful Hasan sorry bro it'll get better.
I just got blocked
Ur mad 😂
She did a total 360 on me as speak it hurt so bad butt gotta keep pushing
She's at Church, right?
Never,(never!!!) love the same woman twice.
This man is a living legend .
Thanx for posting,This video has changed my life #100%
U might be right in ur own right and shld I say your experience
But here's another interesting approach: give her your all , be the sweetheart be the great guy exclusively to her . Lay her best
And at the back of ur mind knowing that shld she pull away , well it's her loss . At some point in her life she will regret ever pulling away from u n wanna try n come back but nigga don't take her back.
I promise u this way u have more power to yourself n for yourself as a guy and at the same time being a true man who represent for our gender .
It's high time we get out of the stereotypes tht the society has put men into
sikhumbuzo chikai yes you are right. I was in the same situation. I did my best. Now it is her los!
You're absolutely right.
You saying she will regret is wishful thinking. Some people go through life without any karma.
This is legit, I did this and my girl went back to me
Question is do your want someone who will run when things getting tough?
My ex who I am recently stressing about, left me after my grandfather's death (late month of June), she said she didn't know how to be there for me after everything i did. I am grateful it wasn't a worse situation because i really thought she was the one. I am 19 years old and so is she. She constantly reminded me i was single that we weren’t together and how she needed “me time” each time I questioned why? even though she stuck around sliding up on my instagram stories. We stopped speaking for good after i came back from my vacation last week, she completely admitted she didn't want me anymore. And the saddest part is, i still love her.
@@vreduct I learned at your age man. Given your story she still wouldn't be satisfied if you put a bullet thru your head. She's immature, and it doesn't get that much better when you're older... when a girl has to do something other than look pretty, they freak out. You're gonna go thru 30 girls before you find one with some values and half a brain. I can only advise you to be patient and don't believe the lies dumb girls like your ex spread on you.
@@gramcliches1980 it really means an lot to me that you replied, cause at the moment I feel stuck and even though I know I deserve better, my heart hasn't moved on I guess. I appreciate you taking the time of your day to reply with some advice that actually helps me, thank you.
Legit she started two days ago. Been following these videos as a contingency so let’s see how it goes!
This guy is great, he documents women in relationships like animals on Nat Geo lmaoo"The creature slightly stares and makes harsh remarks, the fight may blow up into an all out hunting session "
lmaoo
@@excelibous lol this guy farts pimp powder bro loll
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The thought of knowing when she comes back she got layed by other guys doesn't sit well with me.
I broke up with mine when she pulled away.
Did it work?
足球帝 no. she was with her ex weeks later.
@@youngmonaco2039 same thing happened to me. i really am done with women
What if it’s the guy who pervs on other women on social media? What if it’s his lack of appreciation that causes her to pull away? Nothing is ever one sided... blanket statements don’t apply to every single person
What do you define as pulling away this girl hasn’t stopped texting me but she has started flaking on dates. I think when a girl stops texting you completely it means her interest is pretty low. But there are also stages some girls will still respond to your texts but will stop initiating and stop being the feminine submissive girls they are supposed to be.
Never Chase When There Even Worth It In The First Place
I guess I already messed up, because I chased her :( I pour my heart out to her tho and she still pulled away, and we're engaged, and she's pregnant with our child...
Sorry hear that I'm going thur it to I'm fuk up 😥
Are you sure the kid is yours? Not being a jerk; just being real.
I'm right into it right now. You help me to stay strong. Thank you for your book. It makes lot of sense and knowing that since is behind all this helps a lot to not fall back into the white knight habits.
My girlfriend told me that I changed and she said try to check myself and yeah thank you it works , SUB and NOTIFY already.
-Philippines
Update: 3days later
I ask her to come in my house and when we met, I didn't talk too much to her ,30 minutes later ,She Cry .I thought she was raped because that's the first time I saw her cry so much and I ask her , what's the problem and she said I'M CHANGED. NOW I DONT KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO BECAUSE I CAN'T WATCH HER SO LONELY AND I'M SO PIT OF HER .Someone advice me what should I do ,she's only 17
Ferry Boy Channel dude dont date her if she’s 17 .
She is 18 now and sometimes we have some trouble
No Contact is great after a breakup but in a relationship when times are cold , its better to give your loved one a call more than less (saved my relationship)
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I tried that she won’t answer
Just what I needed. Thanks for this!
I do not want a woman who pulls away; and I don't want a woman who basis our relationship on how many women I may be able to have.
Thats true strength
This video helped me a lot ❤️😍 thank you!!
How did it helped you? Did she come back to you?
I'm trying this one out of curiosity: she's shown indicators of uninterest and pulling away so I made the last few things light and funnier, 100% positive, and now sent the last one. So that she expects more and more nice messages (instead of tailing off) but instead nothing will come. So she will eventually have to initiate someday.
I know o f a woman who help me get my ex back.💢
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She pulled away..i ddn't chase her and neither did she
And Now she is engaged to someone😒😒
All thanx to this vid!
So I chasing is good??
😅
Man that's brutal!
Sacrifice 3yeras from my life for her, finally i loose myself. Its not about having many girls around us, its about being loyal to whose shared your soul. After loosing everything in my life , i found something and that was there is no love in this world among human.
Can all of these be applied for a long distance relationship? Especially if you're both so far and just can't physically be together, and she's pulling away and being distant.
She's with another dude getting bone.
I learned a lot from my last mistake patience works much. Reduces stress less anxious happiness
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I pulled away when women didn't even notice me.
I just got out of a coma she said she loved me n has feelings
What if she pulls away every other week?
I never chase and she always comes back but Im kinda getting sick of it. She gets mad over the littlest thing out of the blue, makes a big ass deal about it and pulls away. She pulled away again and is telling me contact her only when I’m ready apologize.
Girl I've been talking with for a few months, who previously had been texting me all day, now has started to text only at the end of the day, that too with low interest. How should I respond when she texts at the end of the day ? Should I reply with my usual enthusiasm or should I show low interest and respond late ?
She fucking another dude and it’s a matter of time before you realize this and get your heart broken. Slow down on connecting with her snd if your absence doesn’t change her attitude she was never yours it’s just your turn.
Let her go...if she wants to be with she will come back. If not, you were never meant to be
What if she said, "she lost feelings", and breaks up? Will I still have a chance? I pulled away the day she did, because I knew she needed space. But right before I pulled away, she broke up with me. So do I still have a chance?
No man, if she already broke up with you then the best thing you can do is look for other women. Do not text or call her again in any form, it will be useless and you will look even more unattractive to her.
It sucks but it is what it is, if she broke up with you move on.
Nuh... someone else is busy fuckin her
I just want to share a testimony here. Last week my GF start getting cold to the point were having argument about it what I did is I tell her that I won't meet her for 2weeks then she started to have some changes she crave for me and yesterday we have a bedtime nonstop 😆 yo this dude's wisdom is so dangerous.