My best advice if she walks away just let her go. If she reaches you out still let her go. You deserve much better for your value and worth. JUST MOVE ON
This happened to me. Haha. I had panic attacks when she didn't call or reply my messages. I'd check my phone every 5 minutes. I'm trying to focus on my life now and be myself. Thank you for this.
So far so good. She hasn't called yet. She just responded to my Facebook posts and sent me a message. I ignored her. Can't stress myself and won't hold my breath. 😊
@@LPFSuleyman well it just plateaued. The feelings just waned. Was no longer interested her and I stopped checking my phone and I'm busy living my life.
People - “oh I did no contact and never heard from her again” Well chasing her wouldn’t have brought her back either - but it would have delayed your recovery, prevented your developed self respect, reduced any chance of meeting someone better and prolonged the inevitable.
Hey man, I’d have a question to this if I might: What kind of girls/ relationships was that? Was it also sometimes girls, that you’ve just known for very little/ short time for example? I’m asking cause in my case it is quite unusual. I’ve met this great girl in Lisbon 6 months ago, we just had 2 days there but it was very intense. Then, both back home, we kept in touch texting a lot, but then I did one of those crucial mistakes (chasing her too much) and 2 weeks later since then she backed off and it became an on & off- thing. I appreciate your answer, best regards
@@danielboehm7723 U supposed to pretend to be a friend first...and take it slow...move on with ur life tho.....im a women and i love attention from a hottie....by 2 weeks she should know if she wants u or not....
What I do is: I pull back until she reaches out. In that period of time I take the chance to go back on track, learn from my mistakes and improve myself to be a better man. Women love the idea of a man, not the man itself. If we act like a man, women never leave us. Conclusion: what we need to learn is essentially to be a MAN. Hence, we have every girl we want.
When she reaches out again.. Do you organise meeting up? And if they decline say there busy that weekend do you say all good let me know when your free
Let her walk. Also, learn to walk away and not care whether she contacts you or not. Respect yourself enough to know when to walk away. No anger, no drama. Just bounce and move on to the next.
The next can take years to meet. Have to be selective and then get lucky to meet a woman who you like who is available and also is into you, that takes years sometimes to find. It's been over ten years for me now with no relationship.
Yes, they do come back. True. But you don’t want a woman like that. Go date your backups. Ignore her. Move on. Put her at the bottom of your rotation. Never get serious with her. Make sure she feels your loss by truly pushing her away and moving away permanently. If things are meant to be, let it be on your terms. Trust me. Unless they feel the loss and feel the pain. They will continue to fuck with you. If a woman loves you, she will be by your side. Loyalty is what you want. Anything less is disrespectful to you. I married the woman who was always by my side through the thick and the thin and we are very happy together.
Same thing happened to me,girl was pulling back and fort for 6 months.Then i told her to kick rocks...you need someone who is willing,open to keep you same as you want to keep her.If not go fuck your self with someone else
She came back exactly after 10 days as you say in your guide. Everything was going great and then all of a sudden she pulled away for literally no reason. In those 10 days I was watching this video every 30 minutes and every 30 seconds 😂😂😂
@@mwyeh768 5 days for me, but things are still rocky, I’ve been keeping my distance and taking it slow. I don’t want to rush back into it, I told her unless we both make changes we will end up broken up again, she agrees, she’s going through a very traumatic time in her life currently and I think that also is effecting her decision making
It's obvious that if she pulls away for 3 weeks, that she is deciding on another option. I definitely wouldn't be there for her if she abandoned me for 3 weeks if we had started a relationship. I respect myself too much for that.
This guy is a god , i legit watched like 20 videos of u and actually the things u say is true , 5 days ago my girlfriend asked for space , without saying anything, i gave her the space . After 3 days she message me called me , i didn’t respond . On the 4th day she came to my apartment . Guys its a rough time ( couple Of days to weeks but when she comes back u would feel she wants u more ) Thanks for good tips
She leaves you. Go no contact till you get over her. Work on your mind and body, and get your money up. Have a great social life and post you being happy and let her come to you. That’s when you have all the power to make your next move.
3 months ago I watched this video. Before I started dating this woman I really liked. She started pulling away about 2 weeks ago, and I started no contact 8 days go. We’ll see what happens! New date on Saturday, and an old flame called me. Relax my brothers. Everything is fine.
It works!! Dating for 5 months and we got close, I made a few mistakes and she stopped responding to me. Went NC and 5 days later which is today, she messages me apologizing for being MIA and wants to talk like nothing happened
ANY MAN that panic in this situation, is the reason she left. he is not on HIS purpose, she became his purpose and that is not what a woman wants. she wants to chase you on your purpose, chase your time, your validation, your attention. Always feed a woman "scraps", NEVER give her all your time and make her know your every movement, she NEEDS to wonder about you to engage her EMOTIONS. The more you directly try to feed her emotional things, her emotions swtich off because that is not how her emotions work.
Once she Cheated on me, She left me. She Tried to do as much damage as possible. For the one she did it, he Ditched her too after few weeks. Then she realised my love. She wanted to come back in life now. but now its been 4 Years she is chasing me and I am 100% certain I don't want her. Once no Always NO. No comeback and 2nd chance at my end.
What you do, if she reaches out .. take her on a fantastic date and fk her brains out and then tell her next day “thanks for the great night but I don’t see us working” :-)
So true. I had a date flake on me the other day. I did not respond to her text and 24 hours later she texted again apologizing and asking for another chance to go on a date with me. Maintain your masculine frame at all time. Sure, I was disappointed when she pulled away and cancelled the date but she didn’t and will never know that. Show no emotion,
@@k2HUFFyK2 About 8 days or so. I sent 2 messages and left her alone. Since then no more ghosting. Women do strange thing and either they don't realise it or they at least don't acknowledge it.
I know right. I was naturally thinking "fuck her Bcus I know I can do better if I want to" after she pulled away. She likes me so I know this is a test. She was starting to think I was weak is all. But either way I'm keeping my dignity intact.
F that. If she walks. You walk. And don’t look back. Especially if it’s your gf. Don’t reward that bad behavior by getting back with her after she takes her time to do whatever she wants.
7 years, 4 kids and i my kids mother decided she wants to move on.....we have 2 boys 2 girls. Im 37, shes 25. She's says its over and she knows i love her and want to be with her. Ill try this out,cause my calls,text,begging is just making her more powerful and i cant chase her no longer
Yeah dude, I fucked it up as well. She pulled away, I texted her every two to three days without getting interested replies from her back. Then after two weeks of minimal contact between us I lost my nerves on her because she did not even told me that she got her drivers licence and I made a fuss about her neglecting our relationship. One week later she broke up with me, saying she did not want to be in a relationship anymore. Well, that's what you get when you do not mirror her emotions.
@@chrisodom92 yeah bro , at that moment we realised they are just disrespecting us and treating us like trash. Which is really not worth it. Forgot friendzone , this is trashzoned :/
She won't always come back to you. If she doesn't that's okay. I'm going on a week, and I was thinking that I'm not really sure if I want her to contact me now.
@@hiteshjoshi9550 You won't believe it but after a yr and a half I got a text from her 3 weeks ago lol. We talk and text and she wants to meet up. I told her not now because of rising covid cases in Toronto
I cant believe im here, im supposed to be the big mac daddy ,playa playa.....how could i have strong tender feelings for my baby momma and feel like a sucka. I never thought i would feel the feeling of a broken heart. I want her back.
Nailed it! Just had this happen to me. Got told she needed space, I was a great guy and it was nothing I did wrong. She gets tagged on facebook 2 days later with dude she eventually ends up dating.
@@chad5617 That's why I refuse to look at her page. I've stopped looking at Facebook altogether. Got tempted to block her but was told not to because it makes you look petty and you're reacting on emotion. I left her on my page which is fine since I'm on Facebook like that anymore.
She’ll come back alright she’ll come back with kids that don’t belong to you,comes back with drama, or comes back seeking help like needing a place to stay, needs a ride somewhere, or others ways to use you then will manipulate you.
This is true. I was texting with a girl for a few days and then she disappeared out of nowhere. I didn’t react and I didn’t send any more messages for days and then she came back this morning out of nowhere (with a positive response too ahaha)
Did that for 14 months. Didn't talk with her for 14 months and then spoke with her and nothing had changed during all that time, still the same. They don't always come back.
when it happens half a dozen times in a relationship then it's time to give up, you can only walk away so many times when she keeps on pushing you away, it's mental abuse, no idea how these married men put up with it?
Trust guys, if she was a respectful girl she isn’t going to change, she’ll try distract herself weeks or months in the tables start to turn. don’t be fooled by the social media adding etc.
*Respect her need for time and focus on continuing to improve yourself. Confidence and emotional stability are key - don’t chase, just let things breathe.*
Bro your videos take away all my depression and anxiety thanks man 3 times she pulled away the fourth time she came back i sent a long ass message and she read and replied and said her mom blocked cause she doesn't like her talking to guys but while i was blocked she wished her ex a happy birthday so yeah i don't believe but she did come back everytime and the fourth time when i sent her a single longg ass message after she replied i unsent it next day and isolated myself since 3 months i haven't opened anything fearing i won't see her text and probably she will be with someone
Vaibhav Mehta my love came back to me and appologize and now we are happy together again. I can introduce you to the person who help me. He can also help you
this is me now i have a live in partner for 11yrs just got cold and pulled away from relationship for a month now.. im trying to survive and cope the deep attachment is killing me pray for me please
She went suddenly and came back after a month or so and then I messed up and she just cut me off and i think this is the last thread, she says she loves me but no more relationship with me ,its was like 4 years and still not over yet but i really wish i dont messup and if she doesnt come back anyways i have a full life and a career but still we both wanted to grow old together and marry each other and have kids 😊❤️ i love her a lot but this COVID and distance created a lot of misunderstandings and we both just cut each other off and blocked etc cuz its easier but when we met every other day in school we had to face each other and we always had our love for each other win over our petty problems! I hope 🤞 she comes back cuz i really love her like seriously 🥺❤️😊
My girlfriend rn lives about an hour and a half away from me she lives with her parents and doesn’t have a car. Shes not very good at communication but we always enjoy spending time together I’m trying to get a job closer to the area she lives but I’ve wanted to do that prior to even knowing her. I admit I’ve been a bit needy and it’s something I’m trying to fix. I feel this video is 100% applicable to me. Friends have given me different opinions on my situation some say I should drop her and move on others say just give her space maybe she’s tired or stressed. I love spending time with her so I’m going to hold off and give her space.
never move for a girl. never get a new job for a girl. ur relationship (like anyones) will eventually end. do whats best for u, whats best for u without her cuz u need a life outside of her.
Chris thank you for your great and wise advises. I got your book for several months. Also I look to your videos several times a day, 7 days per week. This video is at same time maybe the best overall on line about When She Goes Cold. I applied your suggestion for pulling away till my girl gets back. And it's amazing how after a week she got back after a silent 7 days w no messages or calls. Also the positive hope you gave me was the best remedy to avoid my ansiety. You are definitely the best dating and relationship coach and adviser all over the planet. Thanks. Paulo from Lisbon, Portugal (Europe)
The girl I've been dating for a couple months has just pulled away about a week ago. Probably sent her too many texts asking to hang out but at the same time this isn't my first rodeo and I'm not surprised by this... I'm not going to pursue. If she reconnects with me thats fine, if she doesn't then it wasn't meant to be and thats fine too
If they find out you feel the same way, they suddenly lose interest like they never knew you. These fucking brainless creatures. I had a date with a girl that was a 9. Great first date. Second date she said she'll invite me over. I messaged her that I'm coming over. She blocked me 😂
I've been with my girl for 10 months. She went back home to SA for the summer. I'm ready to let her kick rocks. Now, she checks in with me from SA every 4 days, or so. I could tell she'll be back.
I was told not to make myself available. Once you do that towards a girl, she'll be happy the next time she sees you. I'm not saying be a jerk. In other words, it alleviates the pressure and expectations.
This video helped me. A guy pulled away from me for no reason. It's been 3 months. I contacted him the first 2 weeks of this. Then the next month, once. It's been a month of not going to him. Doubt he'd reach back. I had hopes ... but he would if he wanted to. You know... no answer is an answer and it's a strong one. I have to keep that in mind.
Yesterday my girlfriend pull away from me and yea I will take your advice and see if she comes back if she does I'm gonna reply to my own comments God Bless (. )
My gf just broke up with me because we had so many fights between us, once, twice here we go the third time she left but now I could not do anything to get her back...al it's over I'm so sad, I was insecure, jealous, sad for her actions... what could I do rn
If you step into the *Ring* against an *Experienced Fighter* and this is either your *First Match* or you had *Bad Coaching* in the past (e.g. romantic movies, love songs, etc.) OR you’re just *Out of Shape,* (haven’t been dating in a while) don’t be surprised if you get hurt - maybe real bad. And don’t take it so personally when you lose a few matches either. Even ugly or mediocre girls might be outclassing you at this stage. You can either give up, or learn and get stronger. 💪🏼
The thumbnail image cracks me up 🤣 grown ass dude laying on the bed staring at the telephone with a tear in he’s eye hoping that a chick calls him 🤣 mannnn, go play Xbox and enjoy yourself, don’t put your life on hold for anyone!
This is the situation where I am right now. Been together with a girl for a year, everything has gone well and we have become even closer in the last two months or so. But now, overnight, she seems to have gone to a weird state of mind where she tries to avoid meeting me. I can clearly tell that something is wrong. I guess I just have to be patient and control my emotions.
Why is it the first thing a guy thinks of when their women pull away is that they are seeing someone else and guys don’t say because they are, sometimes they have other things going on in their lives that they need to deal with, my woman is doing this to me now and I know she will be back just give them space but don’t ghost her if she contacts you just don’t chase her. My woman still tells me she loves me and misses me heaps but yet is still becoming distant
Thank you for your video. I am doing the no contact now due I am being needy and put my Gf first aLways and cared too much during the past months. Wish me luck 🙏🙏
I cheated on my girlfriend, another girl came up and kissed me. I didn’t tell the girl I was dating, so I understand that it is cheating. My girlfriend forgave me, but it was uneasy for a little bit. Two months later she decides to breakup again with me, saying she wants to focus on herself and she doesn’t have the time for me anymore. I am so confused and shook, feel like I’m not worth the time to be loved. I started to chase her, I feel like shit because she’s not reciprocating anything to me. Not sure what to do, but I will try this
We had a fight about very very silly thing ... and we stopped talking for 3 days till now ... i want her back cuz we love each other but one of us is waiting who’s to take the first step and talk to the other one ... what can i do sir i need your help
Social media will destroy your relationship
Yes. So many ways to cheat too. Texting apps, social media, snapchat, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, discord, etc etc.
But what if social media is the only way of your communication 😔
@@pudge9845get the interaction off social media as soon as possible
😂😂😂😂😂 yeah ne 😂
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She's only pulling away to see if you'll chase her .
Don't bother , they're testing to see how far she can push you
DON'T GIVE UP YOUR DOMINANCE !!!
Spoken like a true alpha that knows how to stand his ground and not give into women power moves
I just wish... I just wish I had known this 15 months ago...
How far does she wants to push you?
@@stefanenqvist1331 until you break and be her little bitch. Never give them your power or manhood
Dump her
My best advice if she walks away just let her go. If she reaches you out still let her go. You deserve much better for your value and worth. JUST MOVE ON
It's easy to say but hard to do when u start to love someone from the heart
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Yup, agreed. If she dare to walk away, then please never come back. She ain't deserve our time.
Well if she comes back why not fuck her then raid her fridge?
Thanks
This happened to me. Haha. I had panic attacks when she didn't call or reply my messages. I'd check my phone every 5 minutes. I'm trying to focus on my life now and be myself. Thank you for this.
Hey Umar, How did it all work out?
So far so good. She hasn't called yet. She just responded to my Facebook posts and sent me a message. I ignored her. Can't stress myself and won't hold my breath. 😊
did things get better between you two now?
@@LPFSuleyman well it just plateaued. The feelings just waned. Was no longer interested her and I stopped checking my phone and I'm busy living my life.
@@umarustrings do you know if she loves you still? You should ask her maybe she loves you, there's still a chance between you two
People - “oh I did no contact and never heard from her again”
Well chasing her wouldn’t have brought her back either - but it would have delayed your recovery, prevented your developed self respect, reduced any chance of meeting someone better and prolonged the inevitable.
Exactly!
well said
Fact
Bless this
Yup just means her attraction level wasn’t high enough.
I've seen girls come back and text me after MONTHS of me not talking to them.
The guy knows what he's teaching here. 👍🏾
Hey man,
I’d have a question to this if I might:
What kind of girls/ relationships was that? Was it also sometimes girls, that you’ve just known for very little/ short time for example?
I’m asking cause in my case it is quite unusual.
I’ve met this great girl in Lisbon 6 months ago, we just had 2 days there but it was very intense.
Then, both back home, we kept in touch texting a lot, but then I did one of those crucial mistakes (chasing her too much) and 2 weeks later since then she backed off and it became an on & off- thing.
I appreciate your answer, best regards
I had one come back after 6 years
@@danielboehm7723 that’s a very short timeframe. But it’s not impossible for her to get in touch with you.
@@danielboehm7723 U supposed to pretend to be a friend first...and take it slow...move on with ur life tho.....im a women and i love attention from a hottie....by 2 weeks she should know if she wants u or not....
it works, she pulled away and i pulled away, she got back to me after 1 week.
arcturuz78 what if she never comes back?
@@certifiedfinest5065 then she doesn't realise what she has & let her go..
Acharich Speaks but what if she’s a super valuable prize and you can’t lose her
Acharich Speaks like what if she’s the top 1% recipient of the genetic lottery
Certified Finest why dont girls thinks like this? Why only the guy had to put lot of efforts?
If she truly loves you she will come back
But if she doesn’t. Forget it
AND MOVE ON
Women don’t love for the same reasons men doo
This is true! She will come back, she will call period.
If she is out of better options she will come back. Then its upon you whether u want to take her again.
Personally i will not, no matter what.
So true
She will come back when u ignore her don’t worry
Just let them go and find someone who wants a mature relationship, if they come back it's a bonus.
If you love them let them go, if they come back nobody wanted them either 😂😂
@@TheaishDevil oh boy facts
@@TheaishDevil ...that's real talk!!! Well done brother.
@@ConservativeJuggaloPodcast wow!!!!!!!
its not a bonus,,,the grass wasnt greenier on the other side
What I do is:
I pull back until she reaches out.
In that period of time I take the chance to go back on track, learn from my mistakes and improve myself to be a better man.
Women love the idea of a man, not the man itself. If we act like a man, women never leave us.
Conclusion: what we need to learn is essentially to be a MAN. Hence, we have every girl we want.
XD🤣🤣
Yeh, a 3 PERCENT MAN!
When she reaches out again.. Do you organise meeting up? And if they decline say there busy that weekend do you say all good let me know when your free
Stay strong guys !!
As master Yoda said "Train yourself to let go.. of everything you fear for lose"
I dont care if she will come back or not..
Watching this video makes me stronger ..👊👊
👍🏿👍🏿...I was chatting with her nicely suddenly she didn't reply my message again, I'm even confused right now.
yeah 💪
Vanish and go man.
@@philanthropy7910 let her be, don't force woman nor beg for love.
No matter how much u love her if she refused giving u time and attention let her go
Let her walk. Also, learn to walk away and not care whether she contacts you or not. Respect yourself enough to know when to walk away. No anger, no drama. Just bounce and move on to the next.
The next can take years to meet. Have to be selective and then get lucky to meet a woman who you like who is available and also is into you, that takes years sometimes to find. It's been over ten years for me now with no relationship.
It shouldn't take that long. If it's taking that long you're probably scared of something.
my ex girlfriend said she lost interest, i had another date within a week, ex starts blowing my phone up trying to arrange to meet.
Yes they want what other woman want, if you say she is the only one she will lose interest :D they are dumb
You are the maahn man
Just get back in the saddle. Good move
Lol
Girlfriend asked for space 2 weeks ago today. I haven’t reached out yet. No contact seems counterintuitive, but I’m putting my blind faith in it.
How’d it go?
Yes, they do come back. True. But you don’t want a woman like that. Go date your backups. Ignore her. Move on. Put her at the bottom of your rotation. Never get serious with her. Make sure she feels your loss by truly pushing her away and moving away permanently. If things are meant to be, let it be on your terms. Trust me. Unless they feel the loss and feel the pain. They will continue to fuck with you. If a woman loves you, she will be by your side. Loyalty is what you want. Anything less is disrespectful to you. I married the woman who was always by my side through the thick and the thin and we are very happy together.
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Same thing happened to me,girl was pulling back and fort for 6 months.Then i told her to kick rocks...you need someone who is willing,open to keep you same as you want to keep her.If not go fuck your self with someone else
@@zipeto The funny thing is, she probably got turned in by you saying that to her. She probably will keep chasing after you.
She came back exactly after 10 days as you say in your guide. Everything was going great and then all of a sudden she pulled away for literally no reason. In those 10 days I was watching this video every 30 minutes and every 30 seconds 😂😂😂
Lmao same here but it only took 3 days
@@mwyeh768 5 days for me, but things are still rocky, I’ve been keeping my distance and taking it slow. I don’t want to rush back into it, I told her unless we both make changes we will end up broken up again, she agrees, she’s going through a very traumatic time in her life currently and I think that also is effecting her decision making
😂😂
It's obvious that if she pulls away for 3 weeks, that she is deciding on another option. I definitely wouldn't be there for her if she abandoned me for 3 weeks if we had started a relationship. I respect myself too much for that.
This guy is a god , i legit watched like 20 videos of u and actually the things u say is true ,
5 days ago my girlfriend asked for space , without saying anything, i gave her the space . After 3 days she message me called me , i didn’t respond . On the 4th day she came to my apartment .
Guys its a rough time ( couple
Of days to weeks but when she comes back u would feel she wants u more )
Thanks for good tips
JWsha Mck you're a fucking beta male
Don't give up lol why is that
@@certifiedfinest5065 because fuck you bitch that's why
@@robertdavis2147 this dude has problems. Stop hiding behind a computer screen and talk to people with dignity. You pussy
@@robertdavis2147 you probly aint had pussy for years you wasteman
We men need to realize that she may not come back to you after she pulls away. It all depends on how attracted she is to you.
She leaves you. Go no contact till you get over her. Work on your mind and body, and get your money up. Have a great social life and post you being happy and let her come to you. That’s when you have all the power to make your next move.
Forget her
3 months ago I watched this video. Before I started dating this woman I really liked.
She started pulling away about 2 weeks ago, and I started no contact 8 days go. We’ll see what happens! New date on Saturday, and an old flame called me.
Relax my brothers. Everything is fine.
N wht if she doesn't come back !
@@IamSjit then he'll find someone else, easy as that.
Update?
@@rickychairez1 I bet he now has 2 girlfriends! Got the new and kept the previous one. Now that would be EPIC.
wtf happnd
Wow. I had a woman go cold on me for a few days and she ended up texting me as I was midway thru this very video!
It works!! Dating for 5 months and we got close, I made a few mistakes and she stopped responding to me. Went NC and 5 days later which is today, she messages me apologizing for being MIA and wants to talk like nothing happened
A must watch for those who beginning to fall in love.
ANY MAN that panic in this situation, is the reason she left. he is not on HIS purpose, she became his purpose and that is not what a woman wants. she wants to chase you on your purpose, chase your time, your validation, your attention. Always feed a woman "scraps", NEVER give her all your time and make her know your every movement, she NEEDS to wonder about you to engage her EMOTIONS. The more you directly try to feed her emotional things, her emotions swtich off because that is not how her emotions work.
Sounding like AMS
Excellent advice
Going through this now and I know better since my first failed relationship. Thank you for this timely reminder
What ended up happening?
Im on day 4 of no contact. Boy does it suck. But im free now
Toyboy Harris did u get her back?
I been in no contact for two months with my ex. Won’t be going back to her though.
Day 3 I wanna die lol
Day 5 for me
Well fuck me I just started day 1 boys, fuck this 😭😭😭
Once she Cheated on me, She left me.
She Tried to do as much damage as possible.
For the one she did it, he Ditched her too after few weeks.
Then she realised my love.
She wanted to come back in life now. but now its been 4 Years she is chasing me and I am 100% certain I don't want her.
Once no Always NO.
No comeback and 2nd chance at my end.
Good for you bro. A cheater will always be a cheater. You don't need a piece of shit like that in your life.
Just don't take her back ever, if she cheated on you....oh no way....
What you do, if she reaches out .. take her on a fantastic date and fk her brains out and then tell her next day “thanks for the great night but I don’t see us working” :-)
If you know for a fact that she cheated on you, hit and quit.
So true. I had a date flake on me the other day. I did not respond to her text and 24 hours later she texted again apologizing and asking for another chance to go on a date with me. Maintain your masculine frame at all time. Sure, I was disappointed when she pulled away and cancelled the date but she didn’t and will never know that. Show no emotion,
This happened to me a few days ago. Turns out she didn't lose interest, she was just being a woman
How long did she break up for
@@k2HUFFyK2 About 8 days or so. I sent 2 messages and left her alone. Since then no more ghosting. Women do strange thing and either they don't realise it or they at least don't acknowledge it.
This man gives me hope.
Man this video just fixed me. Thanks
If she stops contacting you forget her and start talking to other women you won't care
Great Advice
tooo responsive and reaching out without reciprocity is like getting on your knees and looking up to her
great analugy,thanks
Some women don't know who love her the most
This video made me feel better. Confirmed I was doing the right thing by no contact. Thankyou.
I know right. I was naturally thinking "fuck her Bcus I know I can do better if I want to" after she pulled away. She likes me so I know this is a test. She was starting to think I was weak is all. But either way I'm keeping my dignity intact.
I haven’t contacted mine in two months after she pulled away.
F that. If she walks. You walk. And don’t look back. Especially if it’s your gf. Don’t reward that bad behavior by getting back with her after she takes her time to do whatever she wants.
Is she takes more than a week to reply, simply walk away. DO NOT contact her, wait till she contacts you and respond, she will be aching for you.
But the question is do you think that she still have your number ??
New Thought damn my gf sum times go 6 days or more but never really over a week but I guess that's still a red flag lol
@@xonlytyrek3601 GF is now on 6 days no contact with me wtf...
@@TacticalxRecon any updates?
@@alfonsothirdy She died
There’s a dance of intensity and absence, and knowing the steps is the key.
7 years, 4 kids and i my kids mother decided she wants to move on.....we have 2 boys 2 girls. Im 37, shes 25. She's says its over and she knows i love her and want to be with her. Ill try this out,cause my calls,text,begging is just making her more powerful and i cant chase her no longer
@Cicero Progontus we back together and shes getting on my nerves. Lol wow. Ill never express my feelings like this again
Me: *pulls away*
Her: "oh, thank God"
😭😭😂😂 same bro
Hahahaha that's so mean..
🤣🤣🤣
You lost someone who didn't value you enough.
I give her space, she completely disappeared 😭😭
I should have watched this before I got my breakup.
lmfao
Yeah dude, I fucked it up as well. She pulled away, I texted her every two to three days without getting interested replies from her back. Then after two weeks of minimal contact between us I lost my nerves on her because she did not even told me that she got her drivers licence and I made a fuss about her neglecting our relationship. One week later she broke up with me, saying she did not want to be in a relationship anymore. Well, that's what you get when you do not mirror her emotions.
@@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204 most of us have made the same mistake. Now we know, never again! Good luck.
Thank you man for making me feel calm in this harsh moment right now
“Welcome to the world of women”
Bravo 6 going in
I like listening to this guy he makes me feel much better ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
she came back after 20 days it really work unless u do it properly
black cat were you blocked?
Same but I didnt want her back. Fuck that, I'm moving on
How you do it properly?
@@isoccerpluse Thats usually what happens. They usually want us back when its too late and we're no longer in love with them.
@@chrisodom92 yeah bro , at that moment we realised they are just disrespecting us and treating us like trash. Which is really not worth it. Forgot friendzone , this is trashzoned :/
She’s not yours, it’s just your turn!
I once read "The Pussy is never yours, you just take your turn"
Best thing I ever read
Exactly!
It's not my turn yet
Yeah pretty much
True
She won't always come back to you. If she doesn't that's okay. I'm going on a week, and I was thinking that I'm not really sure if I want her to contact me now.
This guy is brilliant. Take this stuff in. Very hard to do though when they unexpectedly pull away.
Going through no contact now. It's tough but I'm sticking by it. Nearly 2 weeks in. I hope it pays off or it's her loss
yep its her loss
Any updates bro ?
@@hiteshjoshi9550 You won't believe it but after a yr and a half I got a text from her 3 weeks ago lol. We talk and text and she wants to meet up. I told her not now because of rising covid cases in Toronto
@@romansxlv were u blocked lol
@@kendricklamar2023 Idk. Never called her. She made the first move. I deleted her from my phone
I cant believe im here, im supposed to be the big mac daddy ,playa playa.....how could i have strong tender feelings for my baby momma and feel like a sucka. I never thought i would feel the feeling of a broken heart. I want her back.
Most of the time I would rest assured that it is because she is preoccupied by a different romantic intrist and just can't offer you an explanation.
Ron Farrell just happened to me. My gut was telling me this but she never could
Nailed it! Just had this happen to me. Got told she needed space, I was a great guy and it was nothing I did wrong. She gets tagged on facebook 2 days later with dude she eventually ends up dating.
@@chad5617 Yeah that's how it goes. Being red pilled suckes. But it's the ugly truth.
@@agroumoutis Yeah it's generally the truth of the situation.
@@chad5617 That's why I refuse to look at her page. I've stopped looking at Facebook altogether. Got tempted to block her but was told not to because it makes you look petty and you're reacting on emotion. I left her on my page which is fine since I'm on Facebook like that anymore.
She’ll come back alright she’ll come back with kids that don’t belong to you,comes back with drama, or comes back seeking help like needing a place to stay, needs a ride somewhere, or others ways to use you then will manipulate you.
This is true. I was texting with a girl for a few days and then she disappeared out of nowhere. I didn’t react and I didn’t send any more messages for days and then she came back this morning out of nowhere (with a positive response too ahaha)
Did that for 14 months. Didn't talk with her for 14 months and then spoke with her and nothing had changed during all that time, still the same. They don't always come back.
when it happens half a dozen times in a relationship then it's time to give up, you can only walk away so many times when she keeps on pushing you away, it's mental abuse, no idea how these married men put up with it?
Trust guys, if she was a respectful girl she isn’t going to change, she’ll try distract herself weeks or months in the tables start to turn. don’t be fooled by the social media adding etc.
*Respect her need for time and focus on continuing to improve yourself. Confidence and emotional stability are key - don’t chase, just let things breathe.*
My gf left me, I don't understand I was a good man, well good luck girl, wish u the best
You deserve better and I sincerely hope you did by now
Bro your videos take away all my depression and anxiety thanks man 3 times she pulled away the fourth time she came back i sent a long ass message and she read and replied and said her mom blocked cause she doesn't like her talking to guys but while i was blocked she wished her ex a happy birthday so yeah i don't believe but she did come back everytime and the fourth time when i sent her a single longg ass message after she replied i unsent it next day and isolated myself since 3 months i haven't opened anything fearing i won't see her text and probably she will be with someone
Vaibhav Mehta my love came back to me and appologize and now we are happy together again. I can introduce you to the person who help me. He can also help you
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ALL women pull back from time to time. Just focus on your purpose and the gym.
the gym is so important
this is me now i have a live in partner for 11yrs just got cold and pulled away from relationship for a month now.. im trying to survive and cope the deep attachment is killing me pray for me please
I will come back after applying this trick...
She went suddenly and came back after a month or so and then I messed up and she just cut me off and i think this is the last thread, she says she loves me but no more relationship with me ,its was like 4 years and still not over yet but i really wish i dont messup and if she doesnt come back anyways i have a full life and a career but still we both wanted to grow old together and marry each other and have kids 😊❤️ i love her a lot but this COVID and distance created a lot of misunderstandings and we both just cut each other off and blocked etc cuz its easier but when we met every other day in school we had to face each other and we always had our love for each other win over our petty problems! I hope 🤞 she comes back cuz i really love her like seriously 🥺❤️😊
The response you gave is absolutely amazing, it's so easy and natural, and this so much fun, thanks.
My girlfriend rn lives about an hour and a half away from me she lives with her parents and doesn’t have a car. Shes not very good at communication but we always enjoy spending time together I’m trying to get a job closer to the area she lives but I’ve wanted to do that prior to even knowing her. I admit I’ve been a bit needy and it’s something I’m trying to fix. I feel this video is 100% applicable to me. Friends have given me different opinions on my situation some say I should drop her and move on others say just give her space maybe she’s tired or stressed. I love spending time with her so I’m going to hold off and give her space.
never move for a girl. never get a new job for a girl. ur relationship (like anyones) will eventually end. do whats best for u, whats best for u without her cuz u need a life outside of her.
Wow I love this message. Need to hear this a thousand times.
Chris thank you for your great and wise advises. I got your book for several months. Also I look to your videos several times a day, 7 days per week.
This video is at same time maybe the best overall on line about When She Goes Cold. I applied your suggestion for pulling away till my girl gets back. And it's amazing how after a week she got back after a silent 7 days w no messages or calls. Also the positive hope you gave me was the best remedy to avoid my ansiety.
You are definitely the best dating and relationship coach and adviser all over the planet.
Thanks.
Paulo from Lisbon, Portugal (Europe)
Advice. No such thing as plural "advices" , at least not in English. ( You can in Spanish and other Latin ones)
I kind of like this guys style totally diff from AMS that im used 2 listening to. Subbed
Doctor Penne lmao
The girl I've been dating for a couple months has just pulled away about a week ago. Probably sent her too many texts asking to hang out but at the same time this isn't my first rodeo and I'm not surprised by this... I'm not going to pursue. If she reconnects with me thats fine, if she doesn't then it wasn't meant to be and thats fine too
let her come to you brother
Stay strong!
This guy looks like a Doctor for Relationship. Well he’s saving lives. Mine actually.
This advice always works
She pulled away 6 days ago after telling me she has really missed me lately. I don't get it...
Tactical x Recon exact same thing happen to me man 🤦🏽♂️
Same
If they find out you feel the same way, they suddenly lose interest like they never knew you. These fucking brainless creatures.
I had a date with a girl that was a 9. Great first date. Second date she said she'll invite me over. I messaged her that I'm coming over. She blocked me 😂
I've been with my girl for 10 months. She went back home to SA for the summer. I'm ready to let her kick rocks. Now, she checks in with me from SA every 4 days, or so. I could tell she'll be back.
I was told not to make myself available. Once you do that towards a girl, she'll be happy the next time she sees you. I'm not saying be a jerk. In other words, it alleviates the pressure and expectations.
This video helped me. A guy pulled away from me for no reason. It's been 3 months. I contacted him the first 2 weeks of this. Then the next month, once. It's been a month of not going to him. Doubt he'd reach back. I had hopes ... but he would if he wanted to. You know... no answer is an answer and it's a strong one. I have to keep that in mind.
thank you so much for helping me through this. You have given me comfort in my life. I appreciate all your videos.
I dumped her two months ago and fell amazing. Enough going on in the world who needs one more problem
Women almost never come back. Never happened to me! This video is just about making you feel better...
This is why “The dog is a mans best friend...!!!!”🐕😎😇
Absolutely true. My border collie would never...
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Yesterday my girlfriend pull away from me and yea I will take your advice and see if she comes back if she does I'm gonna reply to my own comments God Bless (. )
So what happend dude? Did she come back?
@@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204Naaa
My gf just broke up with me because we had so many fights between us, once, twice here we go the third time she left but now I could not do anything to get her back...al it's over I'm so sad, I was insecure, jealous, sad for her actions... what could I do rn
coach you are the best
If you step into the *Ring* against an *Experienced Fighter* and this is either your *First Match* or you had *Bad Coaching* in the past (e.g. romantic movies, love songs, etc.) OR you’re just *Out of Shape,* (haven’t been dating in a while) don’t be surprised if you get hurt - maybe real bad. And don’t take it so personally when you lose a few matches either. Even ugly or mediocre girls might be outclassing you at this stage. You can either give up, or learn and get stronger. 💪🏼
The thumbnail image cracks me up 🤣 grown ass dude laying on the bed staring at the telephone with a tear in he’s eye hoping that a chick calls him 🤣 mannnn, go play Xbox and enjoy yourself, don’t put your life on hold for anyone!
Honestly I clicked the video because the thumbnail had me busting up laughing too 😂
He probably got the thumbnail under a video titled man plays Xbox😂😂😂
Man that will have you doing that for real
This is the situation where I am right now. Been together with a girl for a year, everything has gone well and we have become even closer in the last two months or so. But now, overnight, she seems to have gone to a weird state of mind where she tries to avoid meeting me. I can clearly tell that something is wrong. I guess I just have to be patient and control my emotions.
Why is it the first thing a guy thinks of when their women pull away is that they are seeing someone else and guys don’t say because they are, sometimes they have other things going on in their lives that they need to deal with, my woman is doing this to me now and I know she will be back just give them space but don’t ghost her if she contacts you just don’t chase her. My woman still tells me she loves me and misses me heaps but yet is still becoming distant
Thank you for your video. I am doing the no contact now due I am being needy and put my Gf first aLways and cared too much during the past months. Wish me luck 🙏🙏
Thank you man for this is exactly what I've wanting to know. Good video keep up the good work man
I cheated on my girlfriend, another girl came up and kissed me. I didn’t tell the girl I was dating, so I understand that it is cheating. My girlfriend forgave me, but it was uneasy for a little bit. Two months later she decides to breakup again with me, saying she wants to focus on herself and she doesn’t have the time for me anymore. I am so confused and shook, feel like I’m not worth the time to be loved. I started to chase her, I feel like shit because she’s not reciprocating anything to me. Not sure what to do, but I will try this
You are a legend man.
It does suck when your girlfriend says she’s gonna call you back and you don’t hear from her for hours or until the next day.
Really needed to hear this. Thank you!
I needed this, this cuaritine made my girl pull away 😢
Just to say thank you!
Fernando Bernardes did u get ur ex back?
We had a fight about very very silly thing ... and we stopped talking for 3 days till now ... i want her back cuz we love each other but one of us is waiting who’s to take the first step and talk to the other one ... what can i do sir i need your help
If you guys are wondering the guy who’s was on the comic crying is a caricature of me
I'm not chasing, how is gonna chase me if I've blocked her....my question is, " should I unblocked her"?