An Advice for Non Hijabi Sisters - Sh.Yasir Qadhi
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ต.ค. 2011
- Question: - First I want to tell you that I am a Muslim, I believe in everything that written in the book of Allah (Quran) and everything He said but unfortunately I find it difficulty to convince myself with faraiz of Hijab. Do you have any advice concerning this?
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Respect to the sister for her honesty. May Allah guide her and keep her steadfast
He actually makes me proud to be a Muslimah in the West. May Allah BLESS Shiekh Yasir Qadhi & Grant his duas. Ameen.
Thank you for the encouragement. Living in the United States there is still a lot of difficulty for Muslima's to keep hijab especially in the smaller towns. We can always use encouragement from the Ummah.
Because of this difficulty, I am thinking of Niqab
I am sorry to say this to you, sister, but.. your hijab is too much at the back, you have to bring it forward... Also, when you wear hijab, make sure your hair cannot be seen...
I am surprised. Have you seen me? How can that be?
Khadijah Brown It can be seen from your picture.
ManouchecaHere sahar926 may Allah be with you .
aww that sister pulling her scarf to her chest after listening to yasir qadhi. was so cute may Allah bleeds this sister with hidayah
widad khan bless her and you. And bless all Muslims.
Jane Dughatir
Ameen ya Allah
@@Diamondraw4Real q11q1q1qq11
May Allah give me the strength and courage to wear hijab😢
Ameen🙏🏻
Ameen:)
I live in a small city in England and i started wearing hijab 2 years ago after years of telling myself rubbish to avoid being obedient to Allahs commands... I used to say.. I might get attacked!.. My husband wont find me attractive anymore... People will treat me differently... I wont be able to be fashionable.... Alhamdulillah.. All of the above have proven to be wrong.. Apart from one thing.. People DO treat me differently... Men treat me with respect and women look at me as none threatening and so are more friendly. I have made more good muslim friends and i feel more confident about my appearance than i ever have in all my life! SubhanaAllah ... I dont feel worried about if my muffin top is showing or whether i look slim and sexy enough... I feel beautiful in the eyes of Allah and that is a wonderful feeling sisters! Just do it! Dont waste another day...
sister u can wear whatever u want in front of ur husband( and only in front of him i.e in your house ), after all he is the only that Allah Blessed u with to have a relationship. And Assalamo Alikum hope u have a good day.
claire ali lol very nice. Your profile speaks otherwise, unless it is someone else on it
muslim women can wear whatever she want to her husband no hijab at home except if there is a guest(men)
claire ali i know this is really old. But i was wondering if you still wear hijab
claire ali that's gr8 ma'esha Allah 😊💖👍✌
It is not just about protection from men, We are so concerned with this concept, it is also about obedience to Allah swt. It is also about standing strong and proudly showing the world I AM MUSLIM alhamdulillah
yea, he actually said that too lol
Monique Hassan I agree with u. But the hijab is to distinguish between Muslims and non Muslims or women who would keep pure and those who maybe don't care about purity. Women need a guardian to protect them when they travel bc hijab won't if someone wants to harm you. The lamest excuse for not wearing hijab is that others shouldn't judge them and they know they believe in Allah!? But there's no compulsion in religion. Allah guide all Muslims to what is best ☺
WOW! Such humility! /s
In my opinion, just the fact that it is an order is enough
100% sister❤
Living and working in France.
Still struggling with hijab to be honest because I believe it’s important to not just following the exterior.
I bought a lot of veil, may Allah SWT gives to me the courage to wear them. Ameeen
May Allah SWT guide us and support us. Ameeen.
I love Yasir Qahdi response makes me strong very motivating speach and I pray that Allah guides us all and makes us a strong and to seek refuge from the evil in us and the evil consequences of our evil action. May Allah accept all our good deeds and forgive us for our sins. May Allah SWT bless us all and our families with his rahma, his love, his guidance, his protection in this world and the hearafter Ameen.
MA such an inspiring and powerful speech. The subject of hijab was tackled so beautifully. May Allah subhana wa taala guide all Muslimahs to the straight path. Ameen
plain and simple :-) Amin to all his du'as.
I love how the girl in pink hijab 3:46 takes her hijab and fixes it when Sh. Yasir says, "Dont take the headscarf and throw it behind you..."
Obey allah n enter into jannah....no sorrow no worries
I feel more free, independent and beautiful wearing the hijab
Saba Jehan Keep telling yourself that & one day you might come to believe it.
you are lovely
Miss Martha True that!
Mashaallah
Abdus Shahid I too am entitled to my opinions and wishes and have every right to express them - back off yourself.
I miss this Yasir kadhi 🥲
I loved the honesty of this woman and no matter where we are in the world beauty is something Allah SWT has given woman and Allah SWT told us to cover to test us. This world promotes beauty and therefore if someone finds it hard I completely understand however Allah says in Surah Mulk he created life and death to see which is best in conduct.
His answer turned into an heroic speech, mashallah tabarak allah.
I love hijab speechless to explain how much I am glad that l am Muslim from Mauritius
They are very few people that roam this vast planet who are blessed with wisdom & almost perfect speaking abilities ! My brother ' Yasir Qadhi ' is one of those few wise men we have in Islam ! May ALLAH* AZAWAJAL* grant you paradise upon paradise in'sha'ALLAH !!!
Some women thinks that the Hijab is something that elevates them above other women and that is Just so wrong . Allah (swt) don't wants us to discriminate anyone .The Hijab for me works as a reminder as well , or helps us to remember Allah and that we should watch out for our behave . There are müslims sisters looking douwn towards other women because they don't wear a hijab . but in truth , the question is why we do it , what are the intensions behind it. it You wear it because you think that you are better then anyone else , then you are wearing it for your ouwn purpose not for sake of Allah .Only Allah(swt) knows what our hearts reveal and conceal. women without a hijab might be better in deeds then the ones without one . May Allah(swt) guied us and protect us from arrogance and ignorance . Amen.
You're right
Adriana Bonita inshaAllah. So all of us need to know why we are doing something. And then work towards a final good outcome. There's no compulsion in religion. ✌
Yes some women without hijaab may be better then women in hijaab
but the best women is the best in character and hijaab too...
Why not to choose the best.
True.But no one can push one for wearing hijab.Is forcing the part of goodness.
Adriana Bonita that’s not truth
Ma shaa Allah! shukraan for this beautiful lecture; because i know of a person that normally refer to Hijab as just been recommended by Allah and not obligatory(i.e it is not compulsory to use it). Am happy to see and hear this lecture!
Also precisely mentioned the difficulties of practising islam in western countries. Jazakallah for giving this clear lecture.
Congrats and prayers for you! May ALLAH shower His Blessings upon you.
Thank you for uploading and spreading the wisdom and beauty of Islam.
MASHALLAH .ALLAH bless you and you family for giviing such a rewarding advice.
Masha allah, clearly explained about the importance of hijab and also precisely mentioned on the difficulties of
Brother Qazi has delivered very beautiful and authentic speech on Hijab. May Allah grant our men and women the valour for Hijab. Aameen !
very beautiful advice to all muslim women. jasakallahu khayr ya sheikh yasir qadhi
may Allaah azza wa jall give us tawfiq to understand the Qur'aan and Sunnah.
this is amazing!! it is even influential to youth... i would know
Masha'Allah - this guy is good, I haven't heard him speak before.
It's difficult but we have to do it,not for people but for Allah.We have to obey our Creator,because He knows what we don't know.He guides and He protects.Men can never save ones soul.but with the obedience to our Creator.inshalah with all the converted Muslim sister's like me,May Allah grant us courage and strength in wearing our hijab,FOR He is our protector and guide wherever we maybe.,let the unbelievers do what they want.we are accountable of our own on the day of judgement,for THOSE who believe as well as those who don't believe on the last day.Subhanallah
Jazak Allah khair dear brother :)
So beautiful Advice & answer Subhan'Allah
Beautiful lecture Mashallah
May Allah make it easy for you ... A'ameen
Masha Allah, Shaykh Yasir.
Jazak Allah Khair
Alhumdulillah, when we mention what the Quran says it is automatically scientific and logical, SubhanAllah, The Quran is the most logical book in the world, JazakAllah Khair
Thank u soooo much brother for helping us
may ALLAH reward you abundntly sheikh
Jazak Allah
Realy Heart Touching .
Masha'Allah - I found that very cute!
Islam ☪️ is perfect 😭🥰
جزاك الله خير 😊
May Allah make it easy for you in all Islamic matters
What a honest Sister! hence this type of human beings still exist, Allah will always spare the world.
For all those who argue remember that even if it is so that only god can choose who enters jannah or not, that is not the main point of the Video, its to show that hijab is part of islam and those who dont follow it rather choose to follow society then choose to live life islamically. If you dont wear hijab your making a decision to live life the way disbelievers are and their many parts of quran that say we shouldn't act as disbelievers do. trouble with hijab is only from selfish reasons
Very beautiful!
Even tho this brother has strayed, he's spitting the truth. May Allah bring him back to the sunnah
He has not strayed from truth only from "Salafi" cult
MashaAllah
Whery nice liture.
May Allah Bless for the posting for this video.
BarakAllahoefiekom.
Allah Oe Akbar!
Surah Mulk also says that Allah is The Mighty and The Forgiving As a muslim woman who covers up I know its hard and I still have the desire to look good however Allah says in Surah An-Naziat those who control their desire for fear of their lord, then Paradise will be their abode.
massha Allah
Whery nice liture.
May Allah Bless for the posting for this video.
BarakAllahoefiekom.
Allah Oe Akbar
Al Hamdulillah
doesn't the word "LET" (them wear headscarf) mean to allow? it doesn't mean "MAKE them wear headscarf" please someone who knows arabic explain
In my point of view: “Let them”seems like a word of own decision, instead of “make them” . But there is a lot of proofs that shows that it is commanded by the lord.
With Respect to Sisters!
God says,
[33:59] Surah Al Ahzab
O Prophet (Sallalaho Taala Alaihi wassallam)! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women, that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad): that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
ts very easy for muslim men to tell muslim women to cover up and be proud to be muslim as they walk around in there jeans and t shirts while Muslim women get attacked in the west while the hijab is supposed to "protect them". Also I feel there IS ambiguity.Firstly this verse refers to a certain time and situation,when Muslim women were being annoyed by hypocrites.The quran makes clear you should cover your chest but just because it says headscarves doesn't mean cover hair,women were already covering their hair.Hijab is actually causing women to get attacked and Muslim women who wear hijab still get raped,I'm sorry a piece of cloth can't stop criminals
+Hana Ismail So, you have a problem with the Prophet Muhammad, a man, giving orders? By the way, where did you study? I'm curious how you came to the conclusion of ambiguity. Do you have a professional profile listing your credentials?
Hana Ismali
Salam
I completely agree with your point, the fact is that they try to scare you telling that if you don't wear it you go to hell, but actually this is nowhere in the Quran.
Hana Ismail
May Allah guide you sister
You don't know the importance of piece of cloth
And you said cloth can't stop rapes or criminals
Let's first thing about porn on internet I read about it in the school books when I did not knew what pornography is
what is the purpose of such content available so easily
What impact does it have on human.
Off course you will agree short cloths makes a women more attractive.........isn't it.
That's how she is shown on TV
Why???
Because all know that women is more attractive then men
More beautiful then men...etc
And we are not show pieces that anyone will see our beauty...
Covering is for our benefit
It's our choice who can see us and who cannot
It's in our hands
SaSiNO97 _
Yes it's not there in the Quran that non hijaabi women will go to hell and the video doesn't say this too...
But still hijaab is important sister
May Allah guide all of us, even me to wear hijab the way we should
يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُل لِّأَزْوَاجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَاءِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ يُدْنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِن جَلَابِيبِهِنَّ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَن يُعْرَفْنَ فَلَا يُؤْذَيْنَ ۗ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا. سورة الأحزاب ٥٩
It's not only after after 911 but moreso after ISIS atrocities. I know, I live in the west. I ama proud hijabi. I shall never throw a tiny speck of my hijab away.I
Subhanallah
Modesty in the 7th century was not the same as modesty today. Back then, all women covered up not just Muslims. Khimar can mean different things in different societies and eras. The Quran says you should be modest to avoid insults, but wearing a hijab in western culture is going to attract insults (backlash). You can be modest (cover your body and act modestly), and still get respect if you don't cover your hair. A woman's face is beauty too but scholars don't say you need a face cover lol. And
Anyone please send the full video link
Aameen
ALHAMDULILLAH...Hijab is liberation for women. It is a privilege to be identified as a dignified, modest Muslimah. I LOVE HIJAB
Subhaanallah
We believe in Allah and the Qur'an which we can rationally prove. in that women are commanded to wear the Hijab. so we accept that. If you do not know, the Qur'an presents a challenge to all those who say it is false, produce something like that, and if you cannot at least a chapter, and for over 1400 years nobody has met that challenge. if they did, it would disprove Islam, but nobody has ever done it, which proves it is miraculous and from Allah. i sincerely advise you to look it up.
dear sis or bro dont worry about such kind of peoples keep practincing
I love how the woman standing beside her is attempting to adjust her khimar to cover her chest after he begins speaking. Allahu Akbar!!!!
I wish allah give your courage to return to EAST. All americans will be happy. Hope you will do it soon. thanks in advance.
Are you a muslim? Than you must know that Allah (swt) told us to be knowledgeable and has commanded us to follow His law (sharia) on this earth. He has made clear what is haram and what is halal and He also made clear what will make you cursed and what will make you righteous by Allah. The only thing that's hidden is the heart, but a part of what's in the heart can also be shown through the actions. We can only judge and correct the actions on this earth before we're going to meet Allah (swt).
I NORMALLY AVOID SUCH LECTURES AND TALKS AS THEY SOUND TOO PREACHY AND PUT ME TOO SLEEP.. BUT THIS DUDE IS EASY ON THE EARS AND HE IS INCLUDING HIMSELF IN THE EQUATION WHEN HE IS DISHING OUT ADVICE. HOPE HE IS AS SINCERE AS HE SOUNDS.
Mansha Allah Allahu Akbar
HIJAB is real fashion and modernism
I honestly dont mind wearing the hijab, yes I was told by my parents to do so but it wasnt totally like a "my parents are forcing me" kind of thing. I've always known that I wanted to wear it but I always thought I'd wear it when I'm like in my late 20s or something.. or whenever the time comes for me to get married. I'm only 18 and started wearing it this year it's not bad or uncomfortable tbh but I live in a western country and the hardest part about it is the different treatment I get when I don it on.. I can feel people perceive me a different way and its almost like as if people are avoiding me somewhat. Although no one stares at me straight out I can feel the aura of people judging me a certain way and I hate that. That's why from time to time I do contemplate about taking it off though I dont reckon my parents will ever allow that to happen.
QUICK MAFS you should have a choice of wearing snd not wearing.
Why not black Niqabs for both men and women?
and also, we have to grow our beards and keep our garments above the ankles...everyone around me is clean shaven and drags their pants...but I do it because Allaah blessed me enough to allow me the priveledge of following the way of the Prophet Muhammad SAAWS and not the way of hip hop or pop culture...sister you should also feel blessed to be able to wear Hijab when most women nowadays have lost all sense of shame...May ALlaah grant you patience, widome, tawakkul and JANNAH ameen
shes beautiful
Allah has blessed you. To live in a time where your people are being bombed 😭
Im not a Muslim but this touched me.....I am a Christian I dress modestly as possible......alot of women Christians and Muslims SUPPOSED to dress modest and they dont smh
you know, us muslim men also have to deal with many things...we have to make Jihad when our lands are attacked, even in the scorching heat...if the companions could fight battles and risk their lives in thick armor in the dessert, I believe sisters can wear hijab and put up with it for a season...Allaah says that He did not make any hardship in islam, so if we find things difficult it is only because of our own internal weaknesses...
I like hijab because it is a halal dress
Mashallah great talk, and great answer. My only reply for my sisters in Islam and outside of Islam, the hair on a womans head is one of the many beautys of a woman among other parts which I don't need to mention. That's the reason for the scarf. Women are like a treasure. You dont flaunt ur treasure about for everyone to see it do you.
Anyway I don't want to upset anyone with my comment so forgive me if I have offended anyone.
I also went and read the book التحقیق فی الکلمات القرآن and I found out that khumur has many meanings and only one meaning is the headscarf. If they are forcing hijab on women, then it means they are taking benefits by that.
One of the first things most guys notice about a women is her hair. So it makes sense for females to cover their hair when told to cover their beauty.
Watching this clip amidst the #HIJABROW in India
Best explanation
as salam alikum, very good speech ...hijab makes woman modest and beautiful ...and other respect you with heart and mind due to wearing hijab . a s rahman . ge p banglore city 42
unbelievers are angry and jealous look at their comments..😀
many muslim scholars and religious muslims say that there's no compulsion in islam. so if there's no compulsion then hijab shouldn't be mandatory. and i am honest about it, i don't wear hijab at all.
I like Yasir Qadhi's art of speaking.Kindly if he will keep my statements inview,are they wrong.
Simply amazing. MashaAllah
@mrtomjoy whats in the heart manifests itself through actions
you are now learning and very correct,, one could say the entire universe is muslim cause it submits to god through its laws. "islam",, on the other hand is where us as "muslims" differ from christianity,, judiasm,, that is were the complications come in but its not islam that seeks complications but man who does.
This is true, I cannot get a job in the west with my hijab. I have to take it of to get a job.
damn.. this brother merked it!
Why is it that in Muslim countries men are very lustful towards western women but Muslim women seem to wear the hijab? if we are to take as fact your assertion that a hijab is a women's duty to Allah in protecting her modesty. Then surely the same standard should be expected of men when " averting their eyes". It seems in many Muslim countries that women are held to a much higher standard when it comes to following the Quran, is this a cultural issue? I am not Muslim but it struck me when visiting Muslim countries that is seems to be much more culturally accepted when men act in contrast to the Quran than when women do.
I respect your honest opinion; But yes men are commanded to lower their gazes as Muslim men.
Kris S Dear Kris. Men never lower their gaze at all in Islamic world.They keep focusing on Americans and British girls to lure them into Islam religion of not peace at all. THey fool women and forces them to wear from the starts and whoever refused or complains will be all dead. This is true
Kris S youre right as this is totally a cultural problem. dont look at the relgion as faulty, but look at the faulted people who practice it. the men seem to be much more lustful towards women in general and this is because of the patriarchal culture surrounding these lands. if you look at the governments in power, they are secular in nature and dont actually follow islamic law like they claim to. in fact saying that these are "muslim lands" implies that these are proper islamic states. these men are simply very bad at practicing the faith that they speak so highly of. if you actually look at what islam teaches, the message is actually very beautiful, but look at the people said to represent this faith, its truly saddening to see such a poor representation of such a beautiful faith.
Well said brother
Quran is the words every Muslims mens and womens have to obey strictly. If the - Evidence from the Qur’aan of which :
Allah says (interpretation of the meaning is true):
“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means”
[al-Nisa 4:34]
it means - and Allah knows best - that men are held liable for handling the affairs of women and are responsible for the women under their care. A husband, therefore, has the responsibility of taking care of his wife, protecting her, defending her honor, and fulfilling her needs regarding her religion and her worldly life.
I want to ask the real Muslims men only whoever can answer my questions decently without lying. Where were you lusted & shameless Muslims guys when on one occasions a huge Muslims womens including girls & infant(baby girls) were forced to stand fully naked in front of Kaaba in Mecca Medina? Why you guys just stand there helpless in front of those foreign enemies. None of a decent Muslim's men came out and help those helpless Muslim womens at that time. May I ask why? Are u guys all blind at that time. Didn't Allah says you hv to protect your own women when they are in need. Now after this incidence ,you forced the womens to wear burqa to represent modesty of Islam just because of this incidence happens which put u all Muslims guys in big shame? Is that true? Don't tell me oh I never heard of this stories b4. Didn't ur grand father told u this happens 100 yrs ago? Only one men with her pregnant wife came out to help these poor womens and yet these shameless what so call himself a real Muslims men just stand there and watch them both husband and pregnant wife being executed by foreigners. Are u still calling yourself a true Muslims men after hearing all these stories?
@wtfotw how so? The question was to where in the quran does it tell to wear a hijab or khimar as the quran calls it and he showed it. How did he not answer the question?
HIJAB IS MODESTY IN WALK ,TALK,,DRESS AND GAZE. BOTH FOR MEN AND WOMEN.
There has been a lot of controversy about the topic of the hijab. From my understanding and from what I have read and heard, the Quran does not explicitly say that the women should cover their hair. In Arabic, خمار is a piece of clothing that covers the face and NOT their hair. I do wear the hijab alhamdullilah, because I believe that wearing hijab can be inferred from what is mentioned in the Quran and hadith.
i see a lot of these scholars including zakir naik talking about hijab for women what about men as a muslim man I am not sure if my dressing is correct I can't find a video on youtube i wonder why
I just say, may Allah give him Jennah al-Firdews. Amin.
@sidkings why don't you post anything that says she can't wear what she want's m8?