Men Wanting Multiple Wives MUST do this...

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  • Salaam/Peace,
    Coach Nazir shares what men must do when it comes to polygyny if they want to have a fighting chance.
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  • @PurplePillRiches
    @PurplePillRiches ปีที่แล้ว +34

    U don't have to be rich to be polygynous, but the man has to be financially stable. The man has to be goal-oriented and business-minded

    • @olivernavarro4765
      @olivernavarro4765 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You gotta be rich to live like that.

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How much income do you suggest a man regularly make per year to support, say 2 wives and 6 children each (12 kids total)?
      Say he lives in a big city like Toronto for example.

  • @soulstades9575
    @soulstades9575 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bro I’m not a Muslim but I acknowledge your wisdom peace brotha 💯🙏🏾

  • @NIM11a
    @NIM11a 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ASA 'Mano From Abrahamic Afro Latino Perspective Im very proud to see you standing Honorable and Character driven in something that has been practiced in my family whether approved, respected, or honored for four generations. The Men were loved feared honored and HATED yet they tried to keep families together and the bonds developed have not played out always harmoniously and some resulted in dissident reactive polyandry yet we still stand ALL. Muchas Gracias Don y Doñas por la verdad. Son Buena Gente. Gracias a Las Misericordias.

  • @papabear6364
    @papabear6364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Everyone thinks that a man in order to have two wives needs to be wealthy or of high status but the thing is if you find women who are humble and see you for the man you are and who you will become you can be poor and have two wives I mean back 8n the days men lived in tents and had two wives. People value money to much in this world and think that a man should only be valued when he has money but it's not about money its about your character and how you carry yourself and the way you look at life. Some of the humblest men have had 2 wives so money should not be an issue in this as long as you find women who are on the same page as you then it will all work out I'm sure you are well aware of this since you are actually experiencing this lifestyle.

    • @antoniobrown2689
      @antoniobrown2689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this statement!!!

    • @ram09568
      @ram09568 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! The woman described in Proverbs 31 is likely part of polygyny construct.

    • @50sezin41
      @50sezin41 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣 thjs is not back i days never get married u sht

    • @Marwadear512
      @Marwadear512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nowadays being poor usually doesn’t mean living in a tent, but living in a crime-ridden area where your kids’ lives and mental and emotional and spiritual health are constantly at risk, or having to eat cheap, poor quality food which hurts our families’ physical health, and also limiting our kids’ social opportunities.

  • @thepolychronicles6854
    @thepolychronicles6854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alhamdulillah my brother well said . May Allah swt reward you and your family for all your help. Ameen

  • @MateuszekPL-ze6tj
    @MateuszekPL-ze6tj ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Peace be with you brother!

  • @lameesabu
    @lameesabu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Perfectly said!!

  • @travelinvest6646
    @travelinvest6646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow great channel lol I’m not sure if it’s me but I’m young and wanna know if I wanna do it later but it’s important to get your money up before you do any of this

  • @victorsimmons7904
    @victorsimmons7904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you brother

  • @phoenixknight8837
    @phoenixknight8837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Barakallahu feek!

  • @olivernavarro4765
    @olivernavarro4765 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marshalla

  • @coolbreeze2373
    @coolbreeze2373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're doing exactly the opposite when you're marrying another next to her

  • @traveinmartinnolieslabpodc3238
    @traveinmartinnolieslabpodc3238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have two women I deal with the Bible however

    • @annewilliams4931
      @annewilliams4931 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well then you're not a true Christian are you!

  • @shonteealaran1149
    @shonteealaran1149 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband and I have a wife 💜🙏🤲

  • @임소희-p3k
    @임소희-p3k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alsalamualaicum where do your family live? I am curious because of azan..!

  • @rabbi619
    @rabbi619 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Coach should i tell a women before marriage that i want a second wife i was thinking that would any women marry me if i say that🤔 i know there are women but still how do i do this correctly or do i just do it and dont care about my first wife i may change my mind too.

    • @outstandingpersonalrelationshi
      @outstandingpersonalrelationshi  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's best to do it in advance because it allows her to know where you stand and you to also stand in truth. Many are open to it however if you aren't ready, simply inform any woman that you aren't opposed to polygyny but you just don't have the means or aren't ready for it just yet. A good woman will appreciate the honestly, even if she isn't yet ready to commit. Based on your question, I'm assuming you aren't married yet?
      If you are already married, then it's best to communicate your desire to marry again prior to marriage in order to keep trust and respect at the forefront of your marriage.

    • @rabbi619
      @rabbi619 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@outstandingpersonalrelationshi Yes coach i am not married

    • @Reea577
      @Reea577 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What happens if the subject of poly always ends in fights? Slowly losing respect for my husband and having a difficult life because of it?

    • @roneishasmith4279
      @roneishasmith4279 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Reea577I feel this same way… I feel like this way of life should have been discussed with me and not assume I will be ok with it when he wants.

  • @nexstbob6911
    @nexstbob6911 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m on my way to get 701 wife to beat the world record

  • @okwirgeorge7172
    @okwirgeorge7172 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love my girl friend so much but I have got someone pregnant, am confused, what should I do?

    • @outstandingpersonalrelationshi
      @outstandingpersonalrelationshi  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sounds like you should consider getting your values and life aligned.
      We're pro-morals so we promote marriage. Cheating by being intimate with someone who isnt your wife isn't a wise and is indeed very destructive to your moral fiber and overall society as a whole.

    • @BQ900
      @BQ900 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@outstandingpersonalrelationshiabsolutely correct!

    • @Marwadear512
      @Marwadear512 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you love her then why are you getting another woman knocked up behind her back?

    • @BQ900
      @BQ900 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@outstandingpersonalrelationshi that person should gather all of them with a wise Imam or older couple for guidance on what’s best for the unborn child and everyone involved. Maybe he can have 2 wives?

  • @KrystelSpicerMindArkLateralThi
    @KrystelSpicerMindArkLateralThi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:52 women plural is an extension of your personal power, yet a woman is never asked if she also thinks holy the relationship between her and what good male friend she has, let alone is she asked if without either 2-4 single men as friends, since you won't allow a wife 3-4 pentam for your pride if she really feels like she has personal power. Why are you everything to a woman, thrice? Can you please explain this?
    You do seem like a very intelligent man, are you sure you aren't Pentam? There is nothing like the evergreen marriage at first sight type marital relationships sir. All that happens, is that you move out, & each see you once a weekend. Love can wreck harmony a little bit. We need male friendships sir. Or we need 2-4 Pentam other than you. All of you long term. So we can raise the giants who live as old as the trees. You need to stop protecting & start defending. You have your hand on a door handle that you'd be told off if you turned.
    Don't forget. Home team wins. Please be Pentam. This means not stalking, and it would also mean at your wife's need to be safe in their home without you. You must make men stop calling names. Women who become desensitised become those dreaded words. Now everyone's awake, for god sake don't let us realise you'd thought we were farm animals. Don't let women feel like that. What do you do? Put cotton buds in her ears? Should a man isolate his wife's like kim-jong? The world is waking up and you can't be being seen as though you think you're god, not trusting your women the less you trust men around you. If men were pentams, & friendship was off limits between you & your nesty's other pentams, then no man at all would mess with a woman they not know, at risk of upsetting one of their 3-5 pentams, what that man would not know isn't his brothers employer. There is a high chance that a pentam a man upsets would be somebody's employer. You could save all women. Or you could be pat on the back by all men.

    • @KrystelSpicerMindArkLateralThi
      @KrystelSpicerMindArkLateralThi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You do seem like a very intelligent man, are you sure you aren't Pentam? There is nothing like the evergreen marriage at first sight type marital relationships sir. All that happens, is that you move out, & each see you once a weekend. Love can wreck harmony a little bit. We need male friendships sir. Or we need 2-4 Pentam other than you. All of you long term. So we can raise the giants who live as old as the trees. You need to stop protecting & start defending. You have your hand on a door handle that you'd be told off if you turned. Don't forget. Home team wins. Please be Pentam. This means not stalking, and it would also mean at your wife's need to be safe in their home without you. You must make men stop calling names. Women who become desensitised become those dreaded words. Now everyone's awake, for god sake don't let us realise you'd thought we were farm animals. Don't let women feel like that. What do you do? Put cotton buds in her ears? Should a man isolate his wife's like kim-jong? The world is waking up and you can't be being seen as though you think you're god, not trusting your women the less you trust men around you. If men were pentams, & friendship was off limits between you & your nesty's other pentams, then no man at all would mess with a woman they not know, at risk of upsetting one of their 3-5 pentams, what that man would not know isn't his brothers employer. There is a high chance that a pentam a man upsets would be somebody's employer.