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My advice is never follow anyone's advice for anything, I've seen beautiful girls with all kinds of guys, fat, shy, broke, etc, just go out and do something, many times you'll fail and others you will win but you will be in control of your life if you follow your own heart and intuition and not any "expert". Having control of your own decisions and feeling confident about them whether you win or lose is the best medicine brah
I'm 35 and only just started to get on this track. I was in a comfortable relationship for 8 years that ended in 2022. I didn't know any of this stuff growing up. I wish I did. At times I feel like it's too late, too old but I don't let it stop me from getting up everyday and go to the gym, learning combat arts, and increasing my skill sets. It's true comfortability is really what kills you...I am grateful I can see my faults now and what I need to improve on.
You are lucky you realise this at 35. I am 57 and only now ‘grew a brain’. Yes, I am in shock and fear but I tell myself it’s not too late and am trying to change! Be grateful you have time in your side bro!
It's all a matter of perspective. "It's never too late" might sound cliché, but if you have more than 5 years ahead of you, it's the best investment you can make into your future. Learn to love the pain. If you start loving discomfort, life is bliss.
The fear of cold approach and the way you articulated it made me realize that I was doing the right thing all along. My mistake tho was SHARING that experience with guys who aren’t get in that vibration. Cuz I got a lot of push back from other guys telling me I shouldn’t do that or that x is creepy. Which caused a negative feedback loop and made me stop doing it all together. Yet when you look at the guys that say that, their life is pretty mediocre. I love the part where you change the mindset from “I gotta get her to like me” or “I gotta get her phone number” to just “go and talk to her and you win” I’ll remember that from now on. Thank you Bulldog Mindset.
The same thing happened to me! I got a lot of push back from friends who have never been with a girl before. I'm going to start cold approaching again.
Once you embrace that lifestyle, you have to realize you are not normal anymore. Normal people won't understand you, and that's fine. Sometimes it's lonely but it's a part of the gift. Find peace in the knowing that deep down, they are jealous of you and they respect you for doing this, even if they laugh just take it like it's water against rock. Don't try to find their approval.
I got the guts to approach this girl in gym last night. She was working out with an older guy (most likely her dad) so I had to tread carefully. I approached her anyway. Did the whole "You look familiar" technique which didn't work and when I introduced myself anyway, she didn't tell me her name and gave a weaker handshake. I knew she wasn't interested but at least I tried.
Damn. Great content. Well shot. I wrote a love letter too in school to this Asian girl. She shared it w/ her friends & laughed at it. I found it crumbled up on the floor. I learned how to approach women but still hesitate from time to time even now at least 30% of the time. And then regret not making a move. It's constant learning.
My whole life changed when I made my first passive $1. To be exact it was $0.87, not even a dollar, but my whole world view shattered and my perspective changed. I did the math and figured out that after 7 years of investing I could completely replace my income with the dividends I was earning. Made my whole attitude change, my confidence level skyrocketed and I no longer feared losing my job. This translated into me being more assertive at work and speak my mind (in a productive criticism way) and I got more respect from the owner of the company up until I offered to buy one of his units and he laughed said he loves that and would love to help me follow in his footsteps. It all changed once I made my first 87 cents on my own. Don't underestimate how much your world view is holding you back.
That’s how I felt when I started trading in the stock market. The day I made my first $1000 I was mind blown that I could make more trading than some people do in one week of work. When a man gets his money game right, his confidence really does go up.
Amen to the point about your job feeling like they are just giving you a paycheck. I would have a shitty week of work, not get much done and still get paid. Was a very confusing feeling. Ultimately it means that you are expendable. They are basically choosing to pay people and at any moment they can choose to stop (lay you off).
Working in sales forces you out of your comfort zone everyday. You gotta make 100 calls today, doesn't matter what the people on the other end of the phone think, you just do it. You gotta walk into 25 businesses today, you'll probably get rejected at each, but to bad., Its gotta be done. Losing fear of rejection is the key to building confidence.
Havent been to this channel in awhile but damn you production value has shot up a million times. Definitely going to appeal to a broader audience and rack up views. Cha ching $$
I've conquered the fears and talking to women at the age of 22-25 then... I got sick and lost 2 years.. I'm 27 now..TRUST ME GUYS.. FOCUS ON MONEY AND GET UR MONEY UP... THEN focus on learning how to get good with women....
You've simplified and presented well most of the great fears young men are facing today, I included. Thanks for the wisdom and advice, I gotta face my demons head on now.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive One thing to think about to my friend is sometimes it takes a while for videos to gain traction now a days... but the fact your vid is longer form and engaging means over time it will have a longer shelf life with higher chance of going viral
Great content. I have sent it to my three sons with a " must see" label. And in my almost sixties am planning to make a lot of profit of it too. Thanks, Bro!
Fascinating. I’m turning 30 next year and I’m already making changes to eliminate my comfort zone. I figured it’s sink or swim and if I sink, good riddance.
Great video man. Currently going through a hardcore reprogramming phase in life, learning to sit with uncertainty instead of comfort. And yes muay thai really does remove that fear of confrontation because you know how to defend your vessel. Also muay thai gets you SHREDDED.
Bull Dog you are a relatable guy I don't see you as a PUA or a Manosphere type Just a man who is trying to find his way through the struggle And sharing all his insight and wisdom along the way! You and George Bruno are the two dudes I watch the most And now you are on this awesome editing kick I am even more pumped for your videos Also if they ever made a live action Berserk I wish they would cast you as Guts! Instead they would probably cast some soy boy unfortunately :( I remember you talking about your mom passing and I hope your entire family is doing well I know she would be proud of the dude you have become! God bless
🔥 - change the goal - instead of expecting to get something out of an action, the goal often should be the action itself! isn't 80% of success is showing up!
I like your woman's attitude. She ain't looking for a nice guy. She's a confident badass woman who won't tolerate anything but a well rounded confident guy. Mad proud of you dude. You're such an inspiration. Now let's get back to it!
This was awesome! Didn’t want to admit it but those are actually one of my greatest fears.Watching from Kenya🇰🇪.💯💪🏾This message is necessary for all men.
Since Thanksgiving I've been trying to get my life back on track. Things got bad. I was no longer in shape, no friends, no lady, no job. Total loser! Watched a lot of stoic videos along with David Goggins clips which helped my thinking. Started being more positive (as best as I could). Started being more kind to myself and smiling more which I never did before. Right now I'm down 40 pounds and feeling better. I used to be a big couch potato and never went out for years, but after the New Year I started visiting some bars. Not to drink! I put myself in a position to see people and to be seen. I'd have one beer as a prop than anything else. Found a great cafe/bar that I loved, but unfortunately it permanently closed the other week. Hopefully I'll discover another place. Met several girls there and it felt good to talk to someone instead of being home alone. The work I put into getting into better shape paid off because women actually approached me! Got some numbers, but things didn't really go anywhere. It's ok though, more fish in the sea. Along with that, I got a few pieces of new clothing to fit me better and to make me look more stylish. A combination of these things have increased my confidence, but I still have to grow. Overall, I'm happy I took those steps and I'm a few steps ahead of where I was a year ago. But I still have many problems which I don't know how to overcome. Right now I feel like I'm a new guy in town and don't know anyone. I really appreciate your advice though! Gonna check out more of your videos and hopefully I can organize more aspects of my life and get back on track. Since the start of the year I started to reach out to old friends and some cousins that I thought were quality people and wouldn't be toxic. Mostly text messages or short messages on facebook. Wishing people a happy bday, a happy New Year, Happy Easter etc. Once in a while I'd say a random "happy Friday" or "have a good weekend" in an attempt to further reconnect, but when I'd suggest we grab a beer or coffee everyone was "busy". Some asked me for help and I was there for them. When I suggested we hang out they were also "busy". Not sure what to do about that. I guess the best solution for the moment is to focus on continuing to improve myself, but it would be nice to have a real friend. In respect to work, even though I graduated college I feel uneducated. Low self esteem. I got a part time job to keep me afloat, but it's not enough to accomplish my dreams. I guess I just gotta move forward one day at a time. It feels like I'm walking up a mountain and only took three steps ... and there's a mile which needs to be climbed. Any advice would be great. Thanks!
that approach clip was nice. really felt the awkwardness, and also the sensation of successful failure, because such experiences make you strong very quickly.
0:15 This is actually currently me, I am working my ass off to improve and fix this, recording myself and fixing those nervous habits and becoming more confident. But I can tell you, 99% of men are not approaching random women in the day, so we are a rare breed, if you master this skill you'll be on a level beyond most men. It is extremely difficult and intimidating to do.
I’m not a man but I really like this video. You are essentially leading and mentoring young men which is commendable. I also knew that was your wife during the acting part before she said so. 😂
Man, this video is transformational. I love the advice in it and I have made up my mind to conquer those three fears. Your situations relate to mine. Thanks for the advice and today, I choose to implement it.
Amazing Bro, well done on everything in that video! Watching this, I am very, very proud to know you and to be able to call you my mentor and you hit all three nails on the head! I too feel like a boy and a man, I am having my 20th next Wednesday and to celebrate, I am on the boat down to England to see my friend for an early celebration which is a big step toward independence as I am all on my own. I think though, calling you my mentor when I have missed both of the last membership calls (which includes the platinum later on in the day) isn't the most accurate and I shouldn't make excuses for that. To enjoy your company and grow as men, I will do my very best to make it to every call from now on with no excuses (unless he likely can't and even so, if I can't get the one at midday for you, then I can get the later one). I am learning to let go of my child side but it's not easy and I can see how conquering these fears will help. I have had my first training in Kung-Fu competition fighting which was great fun and in a few weeks, my teacher should get me doing slow sparring to practice my learned moves in different scenarios. On approaching girls, I told myself that I would be open to a relationship in my 20s so I am determined to go and talk to everyone at my next Christian convention so I can know that environment and (to a degree) control it which I know girls need to feel safe. I got to keep my options open so I look forward to talking to a lot of them, there is no harm in talking to more than one until you start dating one 😉. I hope you had a blessed Easter, man and praying the best on you all! Your friend Jack
Haven’t been to this channel in a minute and didn’t know you had a fallout with Anthony Johnson. I really hope you and you’re wife prove Anthony wrong and goes to show how wild the manosphere has become. Also love how you and your wife make videos together as it’s pretty inspiring!
I hope Amy watched this. Your story reminds me of mine from 6th grade. In gym class, when everyone was just sitting waiting for instruction, I had my friend (who is also named John) go over to this girl Stephanie I liked and ask if she'd go out with me. She looked over to me, looked back at John, and I could see her lips moving as she responded to him intently. He scooted back over (he went over there on his knees...) and said "Stephanie said she might have said yes if you asked her yourself, but because you didn't, no." One of my favorite childhood stories haha
I often wondered what I would do as a man in Ukraine right now when forced to join the war. But I think I simply would refuse to fight. It just means putting your life at risk for a completely avoidable conflict between people you don't even know personally. You only have one life, don't let it go to waste. And sure in some sense you can argue that's the opposite of 'being a man'. Men are replaceable, while women are not. A single man could rebuild a society, while a single woman could only produce one child per year. But I guess you could say in this way I'll happily not be a traditional man.
It's definitely not an easy question to answer. The big questions is could you fight for a cause you believed in or if you were in the situation could you bare it? It's not a question we can fully answer in ourselves until the situation presents itself, but we can prepare ourselves mentally and physically should the situation arise.
Violence question is not really about preparing for real violence. It is only about taking your inner animal for a walk (in places where there is no war or big crime percentage)
You definitely have some good relationship tips on your channel and on instagram with your wife And the transformation is inspiring Men can level up at any age.
I am 46, and this was part of my selfeducation in how to get rid of shyness: in order to be congruent I had assumed my emotions and started ( in some situations, in special when I could see the eye contact being stronger between me and her, when we cross each other’s path in the neighbourhood). Instead of the usual’s nodding “ hello” when close enough I’d be starting with this( I was 15 yo)- I am shy but I take a treatment for so I guess it’s ok we start talking. So we’ve started and asking each other how it’s going and so on. Then more and more flirting :)). At 16 I was lucky and a 23 yo babe threw my V badge under the buss. The thing I felt I had to master was to maintain a conversation simple, while I’d slowly ramped up the emotions in her. It was just instinctual. For a guy with a big chunk of imposter’s syndrome, constant anxiety, I’ve talked myself in to being a guy with pretty good experience when it came to dating women I felt were out of my league. The fact that I was training and looked muscular helped me too. But that helped me to keep my cool when there were guys around that tried to dominate the conversations etc.
regarding the money issue, i became self employed starting at age 6 when i got a job taking care of my little sister. i started returning bottles and eventually put up flyers in the area offering clean up service. I charged $3.50 an hour. The problem was that i worked really hard. I eventually came to realize im worth way more. today I charge at least $500/hr but I'll work for more or less depending on my level of motivation.
I agree about learning a combat sport I boxed for a year and would spar but got concussions so now I just train for cardio but I think I sparred enough to remember how to old my own if it came down to it Also I’m a software engineer so getting more concussions would be counter productive lol
First video I've seen. Incredible. A 100 million people online offering something but 99.99% it would be the same stuff you get elsewhere. The journey outlined here is the most credible and inspiring thing I've seen online and the three keys absolute gold. And the value prop offered about becoming a 'real man' while becoming financially is the single most compelling one for men in today's society. Marketing wise, this is copywriting in visual and auditory form at the highest level. That transformation and the insecurities that were overcome to land a stunning lady is so admirable and respectable.
I always had this feeling, that I knew you somewhere, now I get it, I watch your videos in your channel simple programmer when you were still very young. I looked really familiar
John, your new content is absolutely crushing it. I watched your turning point video where you decided to prioritize and double down on it. From the content, to the footage, editing, and transitions, it’s made a meteoric leap. Keep it up brother!
Well said, I can tell you have built yourself up which is very good, glad to see it. Hardest thing to do is be good with woman and most men won’t be. It is best to be successful with woman and then money. That confidence you get from sleeping with a good amount of women is not purchasable or granted to most men. Good luck
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3 Insecurities
1.The Fear of Cold Approach
2.The Fear of Self Made Man
3.Fear of Violence
How do I overcome this?
Do it progressively
@@bekabeka71progressive overload. Take the smallest first step in the direction that you can handle.
My advice is never follow anyone's advice for anything, I've seen beautiful girls with all kinds of guys, fat, shy, broke, etc, just go out and do something, many times you'll fail and others you will win but you will be in control of your life if you follow your own heart and intuition and not any "expert". Having control of your own decisions and feeling confident about them whether you win or lose is the best medicine brah
Best words 👍
I mean, this is so underrated...
You tucking nailed it. I’m going to finally start approaching at 28
Best comment I've seen on this thread
I'm 35 and only just started to get on this track. I was in a comfortable relationship for 8 years that ended in 2022. I didn't know any of this stuff growing up. I wish I did. At times I feel like it's too late, too old but I don't let it stop me from getting up everyday and go to the gym, learning combat arts, and increasing my skill sets. It's true comfortability is really what kills you...I am grateful I can see my faults now and what I need to improve on.
Bro i feel you, straight on the point. Keep moving forward, just keep moving forward.
It's never too late 35 is still young.💪
You are lucky you realise this at 35. I am 57 and only now ‘grew a brain’. Yes, I am in shock and fear but I tell myself it’s not too late and am trying to change! Be grateful you have time in your side bro!
It's all a matter of perspective. "It's never too late" might sound cliché, but if you have more than 5 years ahead of you, it's the best investment you can make into your future. Learn to love the pain. If you start loving discomfort, life is bliss.
Are you me? We have the same name. I am a year younger than you and just got out of a 8 year relationship......huh
"I could do it if I wanted to". That summarizes the so-called "sigma male" mindset.
Exactly!
Sigma men have no interest in relationships with women
@@BulldogMindsetArchive are you on testosterone?
Nope.
Am a sigma male. Am confident when I approach ladies. The so called alphas and beta are so lousy.
The fear of cold approach and the way you articulated it made me realize that I was doing the right thing all along. My mistake tho was SHARING that experience with guys who aren’t get in that vibration. Cuz I got a lot of push back from other guys telling me I shouldn’t do that or that x is creepy. Which caused a negative feedback loop and made me stop doing it all together.
Yet when you look at the guys that say that, their life is pretty mediocre. I love the part where you change the mindset from “I gotta get her to like me” or “I gotta get her phone number” to just “go and talk to her and you win” I’ll remember that from now on. Thank you Bulldog Mindset.
The same thing happened to me! I got a lot of push back from friends who have never been with a girl before. I'm going to start cold approaching again.
@@kdckicksbutt3461where out in public or pubs?
Once you embrace that lifestyle, you have to realize you are not normal anymore. Normal people won't understand you, and that's fine. Sometimes it's lonely but it's a part of the gift. Find peace in the knowing that deep down, they are jealous of you and they respect you for doing this, even if they laugh just take it like it's water against rock. Don't try to find their approval.
@@wrcz Wel said! Normal is boring if you ask me.
I got the guts to approach this girl in gym last night. She was working out with an older guy (most likely her dad) so I had to tread carefully. I approached her anyway. Did the whole "You look familiar" technique which didn't work and when I introduced myself anyway, she didn't tell me her name and gave a weaker handshake. I knew she wasn't interested but at least I tried.
Good shit dude💯
Remember to have an abundance mindset, there's hundred of more women you can talk to.
@@GR-uc1gq of course
As a female, let me assure you, you opened up a door of possibility. You are no longer a total stranger to her now.
@@murphyshsu Well that's something I guess. It's not like that's gonna change her attraction or anything.
Today, it's my 30 birthday, and this video clicked with me like nothing, it's time to confront all of my insecurities.
Happy Birthday brother! Let's get it.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive Thank you, you're an inspiration to me and many, keep it going 💪💪
I hope you are doing things that make you feel uncomfortable everyday 💪💯
Damn. Great content. Well shot. I wrote a love letter too in school to this Asian girl. She shared it w/ her friends & laughed at it. I found it crumbled up on the floor. I learned how to approach women but still hesitate from time to time even now at least 30% of the time. And then regret not making a move. It's constant learning.
Failure is one of the most important parts of the success process.
Yeah, but still, that girl was shet.
That girl did you a favor.
What's wrong with black girls?
why are you folks not in Hollywood, perfect acting 💯
My whole life changed when I made my first passive $1. To be exact it was $0.87, not even a dollar, but my whole world view shattered and my perspective changed. I did the math and figured out that after 7 years of investing I could completely replace my income with the dividends I was earning. Made my whole attitude change, my confidence level skyrocketed and I no longer feared losing my job. This translated into me being more assertive at work and speak my mind (in a productive criticism way) and I got more respect from the owner of the company up until I offered to buy one of his units and he laughed said he loves that and would love to help me follow in his footsteps. It all changed once I made my first 87 cents on my own. Don't underestimate how much your world view is holding you back.
That’s how I felt when I started trading in the stock market. The day I made my first $1000 I was mind blown that I could make more trading than some people do in one week of work. When a man gets his money game right, his confidence really does go up.
Amen to the point about your job feeling like they are just giving you a paycheck. I would have a shitty week of work, not get much done and still get paid. Was a very confusing feeling. Ultimately it means that you are expendable. They are basically choosing to pay people and at any moment they can choose to stop (lay you off).
This is the truth!
Lol why would you complain for getting free money? An easy way to combat fear of layoff is have at least 2 jobs/gigs at any one time
This applies to mostly dead end jobs. When you work as a software engineer you hold stocks and equities which greatly boost your income
Working in sales forces you out of your comfort zone everyday. You gotta make 100 calls today, doesn't matter what the people on the other end of the phone think, you just do it. You gotta walk into 25 businesses today, you'll probably get rejected at each, but to bad., Its gotta be done. Losing fear of rejection is the key to building confidence.
Clicked out of curiosity. Stayed because this video is a gold mine.
Our grandparents back in the day never had this problem, and now it makes sense why
Havent been to this channel in awhile but damn you production value has shot up a million times. Definitely going to appeal to a broader audience and rack up views. Cha ching $$
I've conquered the fears and talking to women at the age of 22-25 then... I got sick and lost 2 years.. I'm 27 now..TRUST ME GUYS.. FOCUS ON MONEY AND GET UR MONEY UP... THEN focus on learning how to get good with women....
You've simplified and presented well most of the great fears young men are facing today, I included. Thanks for the wisdom and advice, I gotta face my demons head on now.
Wow, these vids will for sure get you to your 100k goal! Keep grinding John! They’re really good.
Thanks brother. I'm trying to make it so there is no way I can't make it.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive 💪🏻💪🏻
@@BulldogMindsetArchive One thing to think about to my friend is sometimes it takes a while for videos to gain traction now a days... but the fact your vid is longer form and engaging means over time it will have a longer shelf life with higher chance of going viral
He's at 307K? Or do you mean 1M?
@@ncfo20 No he mentioned in previous videos he wanted to get 100k views on newer videos
This new format screams high quality and your brand looks much more premium now. Good work!
Thank you. That is the goal.
Great content. I have sent it to my three sons with a " must see" label. And in my almost sixties am planning to make a lot of profit of it too. Thanks, Bro!
Fascinating. I’m turning 30 next year and I’m already making changes to eliminate my comfort zone.
I figured it’s sink or swim and if I sink, good riddance.
A video in this style on financial freedom would be great: contrasting an office job to the life you have now.
Great idea.
Great video man. Currently going through a hardcore reprogramming phase in life, learning to sit with uncertainty instead of comfort. And yes muay thai really does remove that fear of confrontation because you know how to defend your vessel. Also muay thai gets you SHREDDED.
Thus guy is a legend. Been watching his vids for ages.
This video kept popping up in my feed but I refused to watch it. Am I glad I finally decided to watch it.
It's impossible to fail with this high quality content, youtube algorithm will start giving you credit
Big fan from Syria here
Very awesome video..and great sense of humor
Bull Dog you are a relatable guy
I don't see you as a PUA or a Manosphere type
Just a man who is trying to find his way through the struggle
And sharing all his insight and wisdom along the way!
You and George Bruno are the two dudes I watch the most
And now you are on this awesome editing kick I am even more pumped for your videos
Also if they ever made a live action Berserk I wish they would cast you as Guts! Instead they would probably cast some soy boy unfortunately :(
I remember you talking about your mom passing and I hope your entire family is doing well
I know she would be proud of the dude you have become!
God bless
Thanks John. I appreciate that.
🔥 - change the goal - instead of expecting to get something out of an action, the goal often should be the action itself!
isn't 80% of success is showing up!
I really appreciate the effort it takes to put a video like this together. The scripting, acting, editing, all of it. Well done. Earned my sub!
Thanks a ton!
This video is so on point for single guys over there. I struggle with 1 and have no purpose for 2. Started a year ago with 3 and I’m already 34.
I like your woman's attitude. She ain't looking for a nice guy. She's a confident badass woman who won't tolerate anything but a well rounded confident guy.
Mad proud of you dude. You're such an inspiration. Now let's get back to it!
This was awesome! Didn’t want to admit it but those are actually one of my greatest fears.Watching from Kenya🇰🇪.💯💪🏾This message is necessary for all men.
Awesome! Thank you!
"I'm helping MY HUSBAND shoot a video.." Way to go sis! we have a keeper right here
Great Video. Great Advice and Awesome Production!!!! Glad to see you continue to push the boundaries!!!!!
I appreciate that!
Amazing call to actions John - been a while since I listened to your content - this was great !
Great Scott Man. You earned one subscriber.
Becoming comfortable with rejection is a key skill.
I'm happy that Nicole has your back, John. Great content, as usual.
More to come!
Since Thanksgiving I've been trying to get my life back on track. Things got bad. I was no longer in shape, no friends, no lady, no job. Total loser! Watched a lot of stoic videos along with David Goggins clips which helped my thinking. Started being more positive (as best as I could). Started being more kind to myself and smiling more which I never did before. Right now I'm down 40 pounds and feeling better. I used to be a big couch potato and never went out for years, but after the New Year I started visiting some bars. Not to drink! I put myself in a position to see people and to be seen. I'd have one beer as a prop than anything else. Found a great cafe/bar that I loved, but unfortunately it permanently closed the other week. Hopefully I'll discover another place. Met several girls there and it felt good to talk to someone instead of being home alone. The work I put into getting into better shape paid off because women actually approached me! Got some numbers, but things didn't really go anywhere. It's ok though, more fish in the sea. Along with that, I got a few pieces of new clothing to fit me better and to make me look more stylish. A combination of these things have increased my confidence, but I still have to grow. Overall, I'm happy I took those steps and I'm a few steps ahead of where I was a year ago. But I still have many problems which I don't know how to overcome. Right now I feel like I'm a new guy in town and don't know anyone. I really appreciate your advice though! Gonna check out more of your videos and hopefully I can organize more aspects of my life and get back on track. Since the start of the year I started to reach out to old friends and some cousins that I thought were quality people and wouldn't be toxic. Mostly text messages or short messages on facebook. Wishing people a happy bday, a happy New Year, Happy Easter etc. Once in a while I'd say a random "happy Friday" or "have a good weekend" in an attempt to further reconnect, but when I'd suggest we grab a beer or coffee everyone was "busy". Some asked me for help and I was there for them. When I suggested we hang out they were also "busy". Not sure what to do about that. I guess the best solution for the moment is to focus on continuing to improve myself, but it would be nice to have a real friend. In respect to work, even though I graduated college I feel uneducated. Low self esteem. I got a part time job to keep me afloat, but it's not enough to accomplish my dreams. I guess I just gotta move forward one day at a time. It feels like I'm walking up a mountain and only took three steps ... and there's a mile which needs to be climbed. Any advice would be great. Thanks!
Looking forward to each upload. We all have an "Amy"
Thanks Josh. Can't wait to get the next one out.
that approach clip was nice. really felt the awkwardness, and also the sensation of successful failure, because such experiences make you strong very quickly.
Thanks for being real, loved the video
Always! Thank you.
0:15 This is actually currently me, I am working my ass off to improve and fix this, recording myself and fixing those nervous habits and becoming more confident. But I can tell you, 99% of men are not approaching random women in the day, so we are a rare breed, if you master this skill you'll be on a level beyond most men. It is extremely difficult and intimidating to do.
I’m not a man but I really like this video. You are essentially leading and mentoring young men which is commendable. I also knew that was your wife during the acting part before she said so. 😂
Very well curated and aligned with the path of my life. Thanks Man
Very true brother
Man, this video is transformational. I love the advice in it and I have made up my mind to conquer those three fears. Your situations relate to mine. Thanks for the advice and today, I choose to implement it.
This video is next level! Thank you for this
Amazing Bro, well done on everything in that video!
Watching this, I am very, very proud to know you and to be able to call you my mentor and you hit all three nails on the head!
I too feel like a boy and a man, I am having my 20th next Wednesday and to celebrate, I am on the boat down to England to see my friend for an early celebration which is a big step toward independence as I am all on my own.
I think though, calling you my mentor when I have missed both of the last membership calls (which includes the platinum later on in the day) isn't the most accurate and I shouldn't make excuses for that.
To enjoy your company and grow as men, I will do my very best to make it to every call from now on with no excuses (unless he likely can't and even so, if I can't get the one at midday for you, then I can get the later one).
I am learning to let go of my child side but it's not easy and I can see how conquering these fears will help. I have had my first training in Kung-Fu competition fighting which was great fun and in a few weeks, my teacher should get me doing slow sparring to practice my learned moves in different scenarios.
On approaching girls, I told myself that I would be open to a relationship in my 20s so I am determined to go and talk to everyone at my next Christian convention so I can know that environment and (to a degree) control it which I know girls need to feel safe.
I got to keep my options open so I look forward to talking to a lot of them, there is no harm in talking to more than one until you start dating one 😉.
I hope you had a blessed Easter, man and praying the best on you all!
Your friend
Jack
Thank you. I needed this video
High quality and great editing! Well done . Subscribed to yu 👊🏽
Thanks for the sub!
I love the new style of content. 🔥
I'm 33 years old, and what you say from 0:50 to 1:08 is exactly how I feel
Good to hear I was not the only one.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive Yeah, it's all too common nowadays.
I’m 33 and finally started to understand what being a man is. I’ve been lost all of these years
This is gold man, superb high quality of all aspects. Thank you!
😂😂 awesome editing
Thanks brother. Hired a top notch editor and we spent a lot of time going through revisions.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive rock on!! Fantastic stuff man. Keep it up!!
This video is gold.
I like the quality of this video and the message. Good editing, nice sound effects, music... everything!
Thank you brother
among all the self improvement channels this is only man i could relate to, hes spreading hidden facts. Keep encouraging him we need him
Haven’t been to this channel in a minute and didn’t know you had a fallout with Anthony Johnson. I really hope you and you’re wife prove Anthony wrong and goes to show how wild the manosphere has become. Also love how you and your wife make videos together as it’s pretty inspiring!
these videos are actually high quality, keep going man you gonna blow up soon
Thank you.
The video that i didint search but is what i need rigth now
It really triggered my mind, highly motivated me for first time.
I hope Amy watched this.
Your story reminds me of mine from 6th grade. In gym class, when everyone was just sitting waiting for instruction, I had my friend (who is also named John) go over to this girl Stephanie I liked and ask if she'd go out with me.
She looked over to me, looked back at John, and I could see her lips moving as she responded to him intently.
He scooted back over (he went over there on his knees...) and said "Stephanie said she might have said yes if you asked her yourself, but because you didn't, no."
One of my favorite childhood stories haha
Amazing video and edits! 🔥💪
Thank you 🙌
I often wondered what I would do as a man in Ukraine right now when forced to join the war. But I think I simply would refuse to fight. It just means putting your life at risk for a completely avoidable conflict between people you don't even know personally. You only have one life, don't let it go to waste.
And sure in some sense you can argue that's the opposite of 'being a man'. Men are replaceable, while women are not. A single man could rebuild a society, while a single woman could only produce one child per year. But I guess you could say in this way I'll happily not be a traditional man.
It's definitely not an easy question to answer. The big questions is could you fight for a cause you believed in or if you were in the situation could you bare it? It's not a question we can fully answer in ourselves until the situation presents itself, but we can prepare ourselves mentally and physically should the situation arise.
If my country is attacked, I will gladly fight. Thousands of lives were lost for the land I live in. Now how can I turn my back and run away?
Ukranian men cant refuse to fight. The only way is that your job is very important. Which is not common.
Violence question is not really about preparing for real violence. It is only about taking your inner animal for a walk (in places where there is no war or big crime percentage)
your video content quality has improved
You definitely have some good relationship tips on your channel and on instagram with your wife And the transformation is inspiring Men can level up at any age.
the key is in the self identity.
beatiful video, really. thanks big bro!
This video is gold
I am 46, and this was part of my selfeducation in how to get rid of shyness: in order to be congruent I had assumed my emotions and started ( in some situations, in special when I could see the eye contact being stronger between me and her, when we cross each other’s path in the neighbourhood). Instead of the usual’s nodding “ hello” when close enough I’d be starting with this( I was 15 yo)- I am shy but I take a treatment for so I guess it’s ok we start talking. So we’ve started and asking each other how it’s going and so on. Then more and more flirting :)). At 16 I was lucky and a 23 yo babe threw my V badge under the buss. The thing I felt I had to master was to maintain a conversation simple, while I’d slowly ramped up the emotions in her. It was just instinctual. For a guy with a big chunk of imposter’s syndrome, constant anxiety, I’ve talked myself in to being a guy with pretty good experience when it came to dating women I felt were out of my league. The fact that I was training and looked muscular helped me too. But that helped me to keep my cool when there were guys around that tried to dominate the conversations etc.
This video is so freaking motivating
Stay with urself nd follow ur intuition, everything will follow automatically, without tactics
Thank you
regarding the money issue, i became self employed starting at age 6 when i got a job taking care of my little sister.
i started returning bottles and eventually put up flyers in the area offering clean up service. I charged $3.50 an hour. The problem was that i worked really hard. I eventually came to realize im worth way more. today I charge at least $500/hr but I'll work for more or less depending on my level of motivation.
Love it John!
Thanks brother!
I agree about learning a combat sport I boxed for a year and would spar but got concussions so now I just train for cardio but I think I sparred enough to remember how to old my own if it came down to it
Also I’m a software engineer so getting more concussions would be counter productive lol
Haha. true.
Did you do hard sparring?
@@kdkdkdbdkddn3 how else do you think it’s possible to get a concussion from boxing?
@@MaxxG94 how many times a week did you spar lol?
@@kdkdkdbdkddn3 2-3 times a week
Love this guy. Really transformed himself. Would love to meet you some time, brother.
Good video John!
This may be the most helpful video video I’ve seen in terms of self reflection and development
Keep making videos with this type of quality man. Your going to blow up
Thanks, will do!
I’m a 52yo guy & this video really resonated with me mate, well done & great content!👍
Fantastic message, great editing and color grade! The colors sit nicely. Really nice skin tones at the desk scene.
Thank you very much! My editor nailed it.
John i love you new style of video creation! And thanks for the good content too!
Solid solid video. Job Well done. John
First video I've seen. Incredible. A 100 million people online offering something but 99.99% it would be the same stuff you get elsewhere. The journey outlined here is the most credible and inspiring thing I've seen online and the three keys absolute gold. And the value prop offered about becoming a 'real man' while becoming financially is the single most compelling one for men in today's society. Marketing wise, this is copywriting in visual and auditory form at the highest level. That transformation and the insecurities that were overcome to land a stunning lady is so admirable and respectable.
Appreciate it 👍
I always had this feeling, that I knew you somewhere, now I get it, I watch your videos in your channel simple programmer when you were still very young. I looked really familiar
John, your new content is absolutely crushing it.
I watched your turning point video where you decided to prioritize and double down on it.
From the content, to the footage, editing, and transitions, it’s made a meteoric leap.
Keep it up brother!
Amazing video brother! Thank you so much❤
Advice from the Punisher 🔫
You don't need my like and my comment. U R successful right now. Argentina here
thank you frank castle
Well said, I can tell you have built yourself up which is very good, glad to see it. Hardest thing to do is be good with woman and most men won’t be. It is best to be successful with woman and then money. That confidence you get from sleeping with a good amount of women is not purchasable or granted to most men. Good luck
"I saw you over here"😂
You are one of my mentors, I listened to simple programmer audio book 9 years ago.
Love this content