SEDUCE WITH YOUR VOICE: A Lesson in Resonance & Cadence | Public Speaking | The Means of Seduction

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    0:00 - Introduction
    1:20 - Seductive Voices
    2:03 - Resonance
    5:59 - Cadence
    7:19 - Seducers v. Average Speakers
    9:39 - Seductive Silence
    10:11 - Conclusion
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  • @TheMeansofSeduction
    @TheMeansofSeduction  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

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  • @pomly9
    @pomly9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11640

    The bottom line: before thinking of being a seducer you gotta learn to be a thinker

    • @aaronbynum8968
      @aaronbynum8968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +385

      But Not overthinker

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 2 ปีที่แล้ว +331

      @@aaronbynum8968 control your thoughts/attention. The mind like the body should constantly be worked on

    • @samuelgomes7424
      @samuelgomes7424 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@aaronbynum8968 the “overthinker phase”, is just a casualty phase, it may happen to everyone, I Guess! 🤔

    • @nathanaelito
      @nathanaelito ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Word 💪😎🤳

    • @sofiilopez8005
      @sofiilopez8005 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how

  • @boi-august5959
    @boi-august5959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9729

    Seduction is not all about , just looks or clothes , those are just the little bonuses.
    The posture , eye contact , the voice , the inconspicuous gestures are the key.

    • @Loading-lg6hs
      @Loading-lg6hs ปีที่แล้ว +32

      It's the very opposite actually

    • @leafyyy813
      @leafyyy813 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Can you explain what it is?

    • @bloodyhell47
      @bloodyhell47 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @@Loading-lg6hs not really , the looks add for sure but not everything

    • @VergilEdits
      @VergilEdits ปีที่แล้ว +114

      @@bloodyhell47 the looks is like 80% of the seduction

    • @mossgolemanimeservice599
      @mossgolemanimeservice599 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      ​@@VergilEdits not really , you can seduce being ugly, but not if you smell bad or are insecure.

  • @vuyox
    @vuyox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4640

    Basically this is on how to speak without anxiety.

    • @jordancartier504
      @jordancartier504 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      I have general anxiety...thank you 😌

    • @biblestudy4803
      @biblestudy4803 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      God bless you.

    • @user-vo7rz5kg8b
      @user-vo7rz5kg8b ปีที่แล้ว +18

      💀💀

    • @lghths
      @lghths ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😭

    • @alyxms5826
      @alyxms5826 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Weirdly I get aniexty but I’m able to control it

  • @nmjr547
    @nmjr547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4202

    Seduction is about self-control and timing.

    • @gison8405
      @gison8405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Well said.
      Im becoming a natural (a bit of a late bloomer at 31), so I must now say that your definition matches recent enjoyable interactions perfectly

    • @Diamond_tip
      @Diamond_tip ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks girl, I’m taking notes 📝 🤗

    • @EniyanValentine
      @EniyanValentine ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Interesting 🤔

    • @sdas7635
      @sdas7635 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No wonder, i suck at it.

    • @caramelhuman7300
      @caramelhuman7300 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It's so simple really tbh just be patient and pick the right time to say the right thing

  • @zainaliharry7828
    @zainaliharry7828 ปีที่แล้ว +2197

    "Speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence"
    Imam Ali a.s

    • @mazscsu
      @mazscsu ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Some of the greatest quotes ever are from the Great Imam Ali (AS)

    • @bbydeMoN7
      @bbydeMoN7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sounds like he mastered the voice

    • @HiHi-ek1dd
      @HiHi-ek1dd ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mola (AS)

    • @Rain-tg2ji
      @Rain-tg2ji ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How lovely❤❤❤❤❤

    • @hardikmahida4682
      @hardikmahida4682 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lao tzu said this, not Imam Ali.

  • @alexforce9
    @alexforce9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4858

    A big part of seduction with your voice is leaving the impression that you say WAY LESS than you have on your mind.
    Not that you are hiding, just that people must work a bit harder to know you.

    • @evelinaxxo9593
      @evelinaxxo9593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Nobody will work to find out what is in your mind, plus the fact that people love to think women are dumb(even if its the other way in mosr of the cases). On the long run we just end up misunderstood as usual.

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @@evelinaxxo9593 What do you even mean? "people love to think women are dumb"- what "people" ? If two women talk do both think the other one is dumb? lmao. Or you mean men?

    • @evelinaxxo9593
      @evelinaxxo9593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@alexforce9 women and men like to think women are dumb, there are studies in regards to that, lmao. All I am trying to say is that this whole "let him wonder whats in your mind" is very passe.

    • @blueshanks1
      @blueshanks1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@evelinaxxo9593 it's mainly advice for men tho. Women like a mystery Man. Men don't really care for a mystery woman. Women generally talk a lot anyway

    • @evelinaxxo9593
      @evelinaxxo9593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@blueshanks1 Men talk more than women lol

  • @mrscocodolo
    @mrscocodolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7608

    I think it also helps to be well read, when you have an extensive vocabulary it’s a lot easier to seduce with just your voice alone

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +348

      Yes! I agree completely. Thanks for commenting this!

    • @NafAmer
      @NafAmer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      i do believe so!

    • @kidprince5351
      @kidprince5351 ปีที่แล้ว

      Females are naturally and instinctively attracted to male intelligence

    • @noirmanoir1061
      @noirmanoir1061 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      Yes. And it's not the long words that do it it's the short ones that lend to conciseness. It gives off the impression of refinement. Being too wordy comes off badly. A deep voice, refined vocabulary, upright posture, and a sense of humor is enough to get any woman, especially if you have a nice face.

    • @icyrose80s
      @icyrose80s ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Intellectual statement

  • @melina2120
    @melina2120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3340

    I love how she speaks about cadence and at the same time applies it herself. I didn’t notice the first time but when you really pay attention to she has a lot of well-placed pauses that highlight information she is giving.

    • @bmwright1991
      @bmwright1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      I thought we learned this as kids. Not taking anything away from her, but I thought we all naturally read and spoke like this as children (and then carried it into our adult lives). Like the pauses in a book, you do the same thing when speaking. But maybe that’s just me?

    • @T_T0_0
      @T_T0_0 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@bmwright1991 this is woke

    • @Ziru0Gaming
      @Ziru0Gaming ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Her voice sounds forced though, since shes reading off a script.

    • @brootal4234
      @brootal4234 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ok, but there was nothing seductive about her voice.

    • @caedon6543
      @caedon6543 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@bmwright1991 To tie something else into this; breathing. Most humans typically breathe wrong - lifting the chest and shoulders, essentially “top down” breathing when it is more or less supposed to be “circular.” You breathe in a 360 degree circle around your body, not top down, allowing for more air and less anxiety (breathing short is a part of fight or flight.) Every child will breathe correctly, but around the age of 5 is when variances occur, likely due to school. You see children enter an average 13-16 hours a day sitting, and they develop unhealthy habits to the small things like breathing.

  • @S.Georgia
    @S.Georgia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1608

    Angelina Jolie, Tom Hiddleston, Scarlett Johansson, kevin spacey are pretty seductive when they speak. I'm sure a ton of actors have this quality because they need to seduce the audience.

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      Learning how to use your voice is literaly part of the actors education. Its most obvs for theater actors. Plus some people have natural incline and talent to use their voice in varius ways.

    • @mariyammukhtar5750
      @mariyammukhtar5750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Cillian Murphy too....I guess

    • @johnroberts2517
      @johnroberts2517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@alexforce9 Yes, for example John Paul II before becoming a priest, he was an actor in theatre and he used his skills to seduce masses into his heretical teachings. People were struck when saw him. And he was the beast whose wound was healed and The Antichrist from The Bible, he was the 6th king of Vatican and an antipope, he was not a Catholic youtu. be/cn9t0m6eG4Q?t=3030

    • @cloud291
      @cloud291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      tom hiddleston😩😩😫😫😫gawd🥵🥵🥵😩😩😩😩😩his voice-😠😠😫😫😫😫😫

    • @vyvyan235
      @vyvyan235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@mariyammukhtar5750 especially Cillian Murphy...🥰

  • @MasculineDevelopment
    @MasculineDevelopment 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1227

    As someone who’s a practitioner of communication there are so many variables to consider to make a proper impact. I’ve come to realize that communication is 80% listening and 20% speaking in a way that’s understood by both parties. You have to have a purpose and be genuine in your intent. Just know if you ever come in contact with someone who communicates well know it took constant trial and error.
    This video was well done!

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Thank you for commenting with your take on this subject! It definitely takes a lot of listening.

    • @On_hunt
      @On_hunt ปีที่แล้ว

      No 😂 it's opposite

    • @omarramos8288
      @omarramos8288 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean you are a practitioner of communication? How do I learn that?

    • @MasculineDevelopment
      @MasculineDevelopment ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@omarramos8288 plenty of communication books out there.
      A basic one is “how to win friends and influence people”
      For people who feel like they talk too much there’s a great book called “you have 8 seconds”
      Then it’s about going out and talking to strangers for experience.
      Hope that helps

    • @ROCT1917
      @ROCT1917 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@On_hunt Seeing that you prioritize speaking over listening, how about you tell us all your reasoning?

  • @didijy8007
    @didijy8007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    Seduction without intent to manipulate is the consequence of Self Mastery and Feminine Energy

    • @derica818
      @derica818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Pls elaborate

    • @personnamed2764
      @personnamed2764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      self appointed gurus always make wild statements on YT

    • @warriorprincessharmony
      @warriorprincessharmony 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Seduction comes from the word Seduce, whose etymology stems from Latin's Seducunt
      which means 'to lead astray'.
      There is no seduction without manipulation.

    • @freightorchestratesolution9759
      @freightorchestratesolution9759 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hence manipulation doesn’t necessarily mean “bad” or “evil” . For ex you manipulate your pet to do what you need it to do, does it mean you hate it or have bad intentions?

    • @_hector__
      @_hector__ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@warriorprincessharmony Yes, lets apply the irrelevant definition from a literal dead language into out modern meanings

  • @KatyVLOGS12
    @KatyVLOGS12 ปีที่แล้ว +1030

    I just realized that this channel only has 3 videos all of which were released one year ago… author or creator, whoever you are, please make more :(( these are so interesting and I think useful esp for people who aren’t even trying to seduce but to appear less anxious😂

    • @diegoalaniz3244
      @diegoalaniz3244 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Seriously!! We need more

    • @gogetit083
      @gogetit083 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      It's part of seduction...give too much and people will lose interest

    • @juantorres4097
      @juantorres4097 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@gogetit083 mmmmmmm😂

    • @flamingaish
      @flamingaish ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me lmao 😭

    • @emrysmcwryn7902
      @emrysmcwryn7902 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She sounds like ShoeOnHead, which is a TH-cam channel.

  • @mrvictorian4004
    @mrvictorian4004 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🗣️ Most speakers have faults, some do's and don'ts are presented.
    01:22 🎙️ A seductive voice is pleasant, powerful for persuasion; focus on resonance and cadence.
    02:02 🗣️ Resonance enriches vocalization, projects depth, captivates listeners' minds.
    03:25 🌬️ Slow, sustainable breaths, open mouth, relaxed jaw create resonant speech.
    04:21 📢 Resonant voice feels good, emotions impact, leaves lasting fondness.
    05:17 ⏸️ Pause for impact, let intentions reverberate, engage target's mind.
    06:14 🎶 Cadence is rhythm, crucial for effective speech; seducers control emotions.
    07:54 🗣️ Unregulated emotions affect speech quality, seducers maintain composure.
    09:18 🔇 Seducers master rhythmic speech and silence, calculated cadence.
    10:29 🎤 To be a seductive speaker, observe, learn, practice; embrace silence.

  • @iemon7722
    @iemon7722 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I tend to speak in a higher voice when in an uncomfortable social situation .. but my voice deepens in a comfortable environment.

    • @emperornephew6487
      @emperornephew6487 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      People make fun of my voice when I'm super chill because i can make it super deep, unnaturally deep. When I'm under pressure, anxious. I'm not to be taken seriously

    • @mellovestodraw
      @mellovestodraw ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When I’m passionate I might speak higher and faster because I don’t want to ramble on too much

    • @Rainwithsun
      @Rainwithsun 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Interesting
      My voice deeper in an uncomfortable social situation but higher in a comfortable environment, especially with my mum

  • @tonguewarrior5020
    @tonguewarrior5020 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Talking in a "whispery" voice is the core element of seduction

  • @jungliejoo992
    @jungliejoo992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +858

    Please don't stop uploading.
    You guys are putting out some unique content.
    Waiting for the next video

    • @getsmartquick
      @getsmartquick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They conservative with a twinge of modernity

    • @maddy10014
      @maddy10014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      and it was their last video lol

    • @MrBertramLevaughn
      @MrBertramLevaughn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@maddy10014 it's a shame. I was good content

    • @maddy10014
      @maddy10014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@MrBertramLevaughn yes im subscribed even if they wont upload

    • @yahya_176
      @yahya_176 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@maddy10014still waiting? The Channel owner is guranteed a master of Seduction.

  • @kiera6326
    @kiera6326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    Is it a coincidence that I only just discovered the meaning of the word, “cadence” in a book today I was reading? It’s great to see you upload, Narrator, this instalment definitely exceeded my expectations!! Although these tips are valid and I would say instinctive on a certain level, they can be difficult to apply when you actually end up in these social circumstances, due to nerves or general situational awkwardness. I also think one of the best tips to apply in these endeavours, is to mimic the verbal and physical mannerisms of the person you’re with, even subtly- or to blink slowly when maintaining eye contact, especially when the other person is speaking, not just to combat fatigue, but to indicate attentiveness and comfort in company or surroundings. In cats, blinking slowly is used to gain trust, which I thought was interesting.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Kiera! Hello and welcome back! I hope all is well. I’m happy to see you here in the comments and grateful to know you’ve stuck with the channel.
      Yes, absolutely! I agree that mimicry is a subtle way to earn someone’s trust in conversation, and usually it lessens their discomfort to recognize similar phrases or body posture in the other person. I learned through trial and error that sometimes it really is worthwhile to camouflage and chameleon my way through conversation with particularly nervous or sensitive people. Before, I took such pride in my self-presentation that I thought it would be a disservice to reduce myself in any way that would not be “authentic”, then I realized this social game requires a certain degree of ego-displacement so as not to bulldoze over certain types of people. I realized, often, I just need to quiet down, nod, and collect data from the other person - effective seduction rarely seems to be about showing yourself off, it’s more about learning as much as you can about the target and leaving them with very little about yourself. I learned to save myself (my genuine self) for the few trusted people I know genuinely care about me, and that only giving concealed bits of myself to others was a good way to not only conserve privacy and intimacy but also emotional energy. Mimicry is a great way to calm someone so they almost don’t notice when you finally start speaking in your own voice and not with theirs.
      Also, interesting tidbit about cats! Thanks for sharing that and thanks for watching and commenting. Take care!

  • @___Emily__
    @___Emily__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    Amazing. Resonance and cadence seem so simple on the surface, but they’re actually powerful and hard to put into practice. It takes time and effort. This isn’t easy or common sense. Controlling one’s emotions to actually use the voice effectively (and then influence someone else’s emotions) is difficult but very useful advice.

    • @Phonetician_
      @Phonetician_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes right, it needs passion, proper guidance and consistent practice.

    • @Diamond_tip
      @Diamond_tip ปีที่แล้ว +9

      True you could also look up voice exercises, like singing warm ups and vocal stretches. I do it and it helps with your words coming out more clear and crisp w ease and less effort.

  • @alishaanimations3058
    @alishaanimations3058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +898

    Are you a mind reader?! I was just thinking about how my voice could sound so much cooler and alluring AND THEN THIS SHOWS UP

    • @bobdobric6787
      @bobdobric6787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      You'd be surprised at how well your smartphone knows what your thinking

    • @alishaanimations3058
      @alishaanimations3058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@bobdobric6787 that’s pretty creepy, but cool at the same time!

    • @nunomaianhi3891
      @nunomaianhi3891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@alishaanimations3058 Actually it's dangerous and invasive

    • @alishaanimations3058
      @alishaanimations3058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@nunomaianhi3891 Very true. In a way, the advancement of technology is extraordinary, but the intrusion of privacy isn’t cool :(

    • @siddharthsingh388
      @siddharthsingh388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Actually TH-cam is a mind reader

  • @MaestroBlight
    @MaestroBlight ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Why am I only now realizing how the word "seducer" could be replaced with "singer songwriter" and it still makes perfect sense?!
    This video is so meaningful for a songwriter who has been searching for his voice for decades and wants to do it right once and for all. I'm so glad TH-cam algorithms took me right here to a video I really needed to hear!
    Moreover, thank you to those responsible for the video content. I'm now informed as to what a singing voice needs to do. Not nasal. Resonance! It's where we hear the soul in Sade and the smooth personality of Mike Patton when he's at his best.

  • @queenk2738
    @queenk2738 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Voice- richness and depth
    Speak with intent
    Speak of their emotions, not with emotion
    - usually happens when something big happened and speaking with emotions can be messy (normal)
    Cadence- rhythm of delivery
    When to start. When to pause
    Tone & behavior, & smooth gestures
    Confidence, unwavering. Shows no fear
    Listening, and speak with intent
    Silence can left to emphasize the emphasis word (intent)
    Or echo the emotion
    To create warmth, comfort, familiarity
    - you want the target to walk away with a feeling

    • @888wealthy.
      @888wealthy. ปีที่แล้ว

      i love u for this. grateful

    • @blacklick9242
      @blacklick9242 ปีที่แล้ว

      Voice - richness and depth, speak with intent
      Speak of their emotions, not with emotions
      -usually happens when something big happened and speaking with emotions can be messy (normal)
      Candence - rhythm and delivery, when to star, when to pause
      Tone and behavior & smooth gesture, show no fear
      Confidence, unwavering. Listening and speak with intent
      To create warmth, comfort, familiarity
      -You want the target to walk away with feelings

  • @MikeCarmineA239
    @MikeCarmineA239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    This is why I pay the internet ! ❤️👏

  • @archstanton3763
    @archstanton3763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    A great voice to listen to is Jim Morrison, not just in his singing but also and more noticeable in his speaking. He had all the qualities mentioned in this video.

  • @TheMeansofSeduction
    @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +986

    Hello! Welcome to The Means of Seduction.
    How do you perceive people based on their voices, and what matters most to you when listening to someone else speak? Have you noticed any unique ways people react to YOUR voice? Do you often receive compliments for your voice, or hear complaints over the tones or speeds of your normal speaking voice? What vocal qualities do you find seductive? Have you ever intentionally altered specific qualities of your voice around certain people? For what reasons? Food for thought.
    Feel free to share your thoughts below.

    • @saraha.2111
      @saraha.2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Apparently I don’t speak loud enough, for some to fast and for others to slow. People also hear way to much seriousness in my voice and don’t know when I am making jokes.

    • @mahendrajain7621
      @mahendrajain7621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yess I often receive compliments on my voice. Most of them are.. your voice is attractive, your voice is sweet and you speak very politely , but I speak a lot😅 so may be thats why I am not able to seduce any specific one.
      P.S. I love your videos a lot. They are very unique and informative. Some people seduce like a pro but we didn't get to know how. But now everything is clear because of you. 🥰Please keep making these video. 🤍😊

    • @peyotekaiyote4312
      @peyotekaiyote4312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I work in a call center and get many compliments which is strange. I am intentional with a slow ( like I'm woosy or slightly high) but the weird part is I have a slight lisp and a high voice ...... but somehow they all say my voice is angelic or sounding exhilarating.

    • @shreyatiwari5106
      @shreyatiwari5106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whts that piano tune, could you tell me??

    • @RakhaGamming
      @RakhaGamming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanx sir for video... Pls upload next content...

  • @lexleonmusic
    @lexleonmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Perfect example of seduction powered by an exquisite voice. Been a long time since I felt so seduced by such precise selection of words.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hi, Alejandro! Thank you so much for watching and commenting! I appreciate your viewership and kind words. I hope all is well in your corner of the world. Take care!

  • @luciamarzi
    @luciamarzi ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I instinctively began to do all of this a couple months ago, and my sales raised. I really recommend it. ✨ ☺️

  • @susanzoeckler4926
    @susanzoeckler4926 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This made me realize that I sometimes do the opposite of what is recommended here. If I am in a situation in which genuine empathy & connection are what's called for (& maybe I'm coming across a bit too confident & know-it-all-y), I adapt my speech/breath patterns to allow for more emotion & more variation in cadence. Years of public speaking have given me a fairly resonant voice, so I'll dial that back a few notches, too.
    Sometimes I spook myself with this stuff! All you would-be seducers out there -- use your powers for good.😇

  • @laoisemeehan
    @laoisemeehan ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm told I'm a soft spoken and slow speaker, but it's 'measured.' I was always insecure that I spoke too slowly until, recently, a few remarked it was in a measured albeit pleasant way. The important thing I think is to be absolutely sure of oneself when speaking, even if or when you are unsure.

  • @sarafritsch123
    @sarafritsch123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I love this channel and what it teaches! I think you should include examples in your video however, of the voice or whatever thing you're talking about. For those of us who are learning, we don't always know what you mean so we need to be shown :)

    • @lolo54260
      @lolo54260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yes, i'm confused on the breathing and speaking with resonance. Could you make a video going in depth on this?

  • @fuinha9781
    @fuinha9781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This channel is the best thing I've been watching on YT! Thanks for the content... DON'T STOP!

  • @jimintae3284
    @jimintae3284 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    everything about this video is surreal (ur voice, explanation, words and it's framing, the clips used, music, aesthetics, theme, timings, siren vibes etc etc). tysm for making and sharing this work with us

  • @iiwokeup
    @iiwokeup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This was such a wonderful video. Your content is amazing. I was ready to binge watch them all and was surprised to see only 3 videos. You’ve gained a new subscriber and I look forward to your future uploads ❤️

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you so much! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and took the time to subscribe and comment. Take care!

  • @Amalthea16
    @Amalthea16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love your channel, so glad you’re back with another video! You also have a lovely voice ❤️

  • @BoReads
    @BoReads ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Really a shame there are only three videos on this channel. This advice, however, is like hitting pure gold.

  • @Tytyty511
    @Tytyty511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So happy that you posted a new video! Such great content, keep it up!🙌🏾

  • @IAmMrQ
    @IAmMrQ ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Calm is a superpower

  • @arlet101
    @arlet101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am sooo happy you uploaded ! Your videos are fantastic and are exactly about the topic I find fascinating ❤️

  • @sashashannon1419
    @sashashannon1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    I certainly need more videos. I'm trying to teach my younger sister (21) how to be seductive and you're much better at explaining than I am.

    • @weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006
      @weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      You sound like a wonderful pro-active sister 🥺 Feeling a lil jelly rn

    • @akshitagupta593
      @akshitagupta593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 the name you’ve chosen suits your personality

    • @framework333
      @framework333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Either you both are shallow, or your little sister must be ugly.

    • @Diamond_tip
      @Diamond_tip ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Tell her to read Art of Seduction* by Robert Greene it helps allot and actually puts you more at ease in your approach

    • @becky4489
      @becky4489 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      why are you teaching your sister this lol

  • @slumberlane1897
    @slumberlane1897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I know it’s not really on topic but I really like the music.

  • @jahnestakewman4237
    @jahnestakewman4237 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don't know what happened to this channel but I really hope they come back

  • @christiancardenas6811
    @christiancardenas6811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This channel is FIRE. Looking forward to the next one.

  • @teeheeteeheeish
    @teeheeteeheeish 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Some things I learned after ten years or so of a career that requires public speaking… eliminate filler words, speak slowly, plan pauses for effect and to regather your thoughts, and finally people lose interest at around 15-20 minutes even if the topic is interesting.

  • @starlightwhispers6781
    @starlightwhispers6781 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When you make others feel good and let them express all of themselves, they melt

  • @funshine817
    @funshine817 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Marilyn Monroe was a powerful seducer with her voice...one of the best, ever, imo.

  • @emilyklute1767
    @emilyklute1767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I saw this pop up on my notifications, and let me tell you I was so excited to watch it, and I’m 110% going to try and use these voice tricks

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello, Emily! Thank you for watching! I’m glad to have you here and happy that you found this video useful to your seductive journey. Wishing you much success! Take care.

    • @charmercaster275
      @charmercaster275 ปีที่แล้ว

      l
      l

  • @maitri5265
    @maitri5265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Everytime i thought about seduction, i think of Dota Von Teese. She is embodiment of seductiveness.

  • @destineyyy2809
    @destineyyy2809 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I find that saying words in a way that makes people use their imagination works extremely well.

  • @OO-ct4hq
    @OO-ct4hq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This whole comment section gonna seduce each other one day I'm afraid lol

  • @KatyVLOGS12
    @KatyVLOGS12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ahhh thank you so much for this channel, I have been wanting to find something like this for a very long time

  • @Zireael1410
    @Zireael1410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are finally back! Definitely made my day 💘

  • @adriana3598
    @adriana3598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    this is in perfect timing , taurus season ( taurus rules the voice ) 👌

    • @pistachio9529
      @pistachio9529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      being a Taurus during these seduction videos coming out right now is boosting my ego

    • @psychewhisper5181
      @psychewhisper5181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I'm a taurus & even being good at these things naturally I search for these more 😂

    • @itsmeharperjacksons6633
      @itsmeharperjacksons6633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Interesting I have a moon in Taurus and I have always been complemented on my voice

    • @thethmooteresa
      @thethmooteresa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@itsmeharperjacksons6633 samees!! ☆~☆sag with Taurus moon here ♡ love singing and voice acting, the voice really is amazing

    • @itsmeharperjacksons6633
      @itsmeharperjacksons6633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thethmooteresa I lovee pretending to do a voice acting role and I can sing a little lol

  • @marialisha3602
    @marialisha3602 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Seductive voice is just pleasant to hear
    It comes with deep long breadth and pauses and speaking from ur mouth

  • @niniisyours6325
    @niniisyours6325 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Listening to this video made me realize how much of a seductive talker I am. I get a lot of compliments on my voice and on my way of speaking. I also realized how I do calculate my speaking and get a lot of people to confess or open up easily. I didn’t know this until watching this video that I, myself, am the seducer.

  • @mountainousman
    @mountainousman ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish this account still posted!! This stuff is solid help in life

  • @Innerversal
    @Innerversal 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I absolutely LOVE the soundtrack underneath this.

  • @noemita494
    @noemita494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yesssss, you're back!!

  • @tistadasgupta5265
    @tistadasgupta5265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank God, a new video. I love this channel.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi! Thanks for returning to watch another video of mine. I appreciate your viewership and your kind words so much. I hope you have a nice weekend! Take care.

  • @cres4106
    @cres4106 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for the insightful video! I’m taking a course in management communication for my Master’s degree, so this was helpful. I've subscribed to your channel.

  • @hemasingh1373
    @hemasingh1373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Omygoodnesss what the hell from past week I'm trying to manifest new videos from your channel,damn!! I'm scared 😂
    Anyway welcome back again ❤️

  • @mrsallexx
    @mrsallexx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    May I ask again where did you learn this/can you give us some book recommendations that relate to your videos? You're doing an amazing job.

  • @emperorfulgidus262
    @emperorfulgidus262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Upload more often. Your content is gold.

  • @BrandiScarlet
    @BrandiScarlet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are truly glorious. This was utterly enlightening & so very captivating. (Instant subscriber) thank you for sharing with the world. I commend you graciously 💕🦄💕👌🏻👏🏻

  • @vaderz70
    @vaderz70 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I forgot how this saying goes but it’s something like people forget what you say but remember how you made them feel.

  • @lizkim8154
    @lizkim8154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Holy moly! a new video! finally!

  • @heavenrose2
    @heavenrose2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    if you taught a class i’d ace it! this is so entertaining and funny while also being very educational.

  • @ijwd424
    @ijwd424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have become irritated at my voice lately and have been figuring out a way to change the way I speak. Not in a way that would be unnatural to me, but rather in a way that would be more fluid, slow and alluring. When I'm around people, I for some reason become more nasal and higher pitched which really irritates me and I also speak much too fast at times (which affects my stutter). Thank you for the video!
    I also became interested in adapting vocal techniques from singing into my speech pattern like Marilyn Monroe did to help reduce her stutter :) seemed to work great for her

  • @bangtanwasseo5948
    @bangtanwasseo5948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love your videos! Please keep doing more 💕

  • @elton977
    @elton977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's about the depth and richness! Of the voice of the speaker.

  • @PrinceCharmingNY
    @PrinceCharmingNY ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Silence Gives way to the resonance that echo thrives in” Y E S . This one particularly stands out to me as I notice after a long speech … and I sit in silence for a while and try again … I sound soooooooo much better .

  • @vicenzoalbertoni3091
    @vicenzoalbertoni3091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This channel is AWESOME. Keep uploading!!!

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello, Vicenzo! I appreciate your support. Thanks for watching!

  • @lovelyA933
    @lovelyA933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your content so much!!! It's fascinating and unique, please keep making more videos!!!

  • @LiviaBrash
    @LiviaBrash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Cool video! Resonance techniques go a little deeper than this, it’s a very interesting area. I’m an opera singer and voice teacher, so really enjoyed seeing the perspective of this on speaking and seduction 🙏

  • @bunnyoncloud
    @bunnyoncloud 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    it would be more beneficial to follow up each point with an example :) thanks for the video !! love it

  • @idontkissassperiod7326
    @idontkissassperiod7326 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The semantics of this video goes so deep on describing a sultry seductive voice.

  • @evaosirus6055
    @evaosirus6055 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    People are often intimidated by me and I think it’s partially due to the way I use my voice, silence and presence in general. It’s interesting to connect that experience to the concept of a seducer. Haha someone asked me one if I had the jezebel spirit perhaps they were picking up on my seducer tendencies.

  • @delphinedjomo
    @delphinedjomo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Where did this channel go? 😢

  • @naomia472
    @naomia472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes I’ve been waiting! And you did not disappoint......Like usual! Although you don’t post often your videos hold value! Unfortunately I don’t know your name to fully thank you properly. But I appreciate your videos Means of seduction! :) One love ❤️
    ps* I have an idea for the future when your channel expands you should do something similar to psch2go with multiple ppl talking or “taking over”..... so you can have richness and support! In return less stress and urgency! Just something to think about! Lastly another idea if you wanted a series would be showing individuals with seductive voices with different resonace and cadence and how they seduce like Marilyn Monroe or Audrey Hepburn etc. Considering your 12k supporters enjoy your videos so much I am sure they wouldn’t mind this idea! Anyways If you would like more ideas let me know! See you when I see you ;)

  • @dorothytran2926
    @dorothytran2926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I clicked for Louis Jourdan but stayed for the insightful commentary

  • @theteacherr
    @theteacherr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its true... Seductive isn't necessary but a beautiful or pleasant voice can do charms and some are naturally gifted, i remember i fallen for girls only with beautiful and pleasant voice when they speak, the tone... Not too high pitched but medium pitched soft warm tone of their voice made me fall for them...

  • @awannabesailormoon2234
    @awannabesailormoon2234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i hope you upload more, I absolutely love your videos ❤

  • @VanessaKanu
    @VanessaKanu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Liked this! I'd love more videos. Solid content 💜

  • @Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande
    @Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Now off to do some practicing

  • @Sanjivani8237
    @Sanjivani8237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was waiting for your content . Keep up the good work 🥰🤭✨

  • @Th4t_guy_
    @Th4t_guy_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Gotta hit this real quick, as I'm sure voice coaches already did. A little more closed jaw and lips with a lot of space in the mouth is what will actually provide a lot more resonance that's gonna bring out some good overtones. The overtones are what give the sound a little more brilliance and it's this brilliance that alludes to more depth. Think of Morgan Freeman's voice vs. James Earl Jones. Morgan's relies on a lower register, where, while James' sounds lower, his is much deeper and booming because of this small adjustment. It's usually hard to see them doing this in movies but that's what's going on. close the lips a tiny bit and make more space inside the mouth. Then you're resonating a lot more.

  • @HG-qo9cx
    @HG-qo9cx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally another video lol !! Great job.

  • @Devi_Shammuramat
    @Devi_Shammuramat ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Put simply, resonance is natural amplification of volume - a level which anyone new to vocalist training should take at least 6 months of the correct training to reach. Tho I must say that your voice is really good to listen to !

  • @selfmastery66
    @selfmastery66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Yaaayy..was waiting for so long

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for your patience and for sticking around. Take care!

  • @gecet.1828
    @gecet.1828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I WAS WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO SO LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

  • @1taljc
    @1taljc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    your videos are such a work of art

  • @dolly_alvarado
    @dolly_alvarado ปีที่แล้ว

    New favorite channel!

  • @MrOberon22
    @MrOberon22 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've been hearing different things about my voice over the years from quite many people. That it's apparently rather deep and very soothing and that they could listen to it for hours. Told me, I should consider doing podcasts or record meditation chants. But when I listened to my own voicemails, I was always disgusted by the sound of my own voice. So I always put these "compliments" down to "they're just saying this to make me feel good".

    • @tabby25hope
      @tabby25hope ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Interesting. Maybe there is a subconscious reason why you feel like that about your voice. You should analyze yourself, maybe think about past experiences connected to your voice or to other significant people from your life and the effect their voices has had on you. Usually we have a rejecting feeling towards an aspect of our inner world or personality and in manifests in strong dislikes towards exterior traits that we have.

    • @Ps.tokoni
      @Ps.tokoni ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is me. I get compliments all the time on my voice but I don't feel comfortable listening to a playback of my voicemail.

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Our anatomy makes us hear our voices differently. Perhaps recording yourself and listening could accommodate you to your external voice. Don't throw away a possible gift before you know what is. 👍

  • @jaspalmer1730
    @jaspalmer1730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love your videos and style! I was hoping to hear some voice examples though, but I know what you mean c:

  • @skillsphere9245
    @skillsphere9245 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ive noticed the black and white and early videos about development are the best and old gems for stirdy foundation

  • @jackalope2302
    @jackalope2302 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber. Your two full length videos are so informative I'm hoping to hear from next year

  • @RR-yq7jw
    @RR-yq7jw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Keep the quality up your videos are amazing 👍

  • @malaikaikram3602
    @malaikaikram3602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hope you remain consistent from now❤❤

  • @semekiizuio
    @semekiizuio ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quite interesting. Regulation of emotions plays major roles not just about voice but the person as a whole.

  • @marionangela
    @marionangela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am ready. Thank you for your efforts.

  • @COUNTDEVIL
    @COUNTDEVIL ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I genuinely love your content the way it was edited and your voice you definitely seduced me into wanting more content so please make more I will wait!:)