Any married couple I've spoken to that's been together for 20 - 50+, they say they almost left each other multiple times but they WORKED it out like adults not file "irreconcilable differences" at the 1st sign of adversity.
I’m married now for 10 years, and I can tell you this is very very true. And every time I felt like we weren’t going to make it., I just think about today how happy I am that we did make it work. It’s not easy but it’s worth it.
Thank you for this. I’m praying that me and my husband stay together long after our kids turn 18. I don’t plan on divorcing over something silly though.
The economic environment is getting binary. Haves and have nots. If you're a millionaire with no one to pass it down to the state/government gets your assets. It's unfortunate but that's the reality. Kin Gap needs to be marketed to the blk community more. Invest in family like you do your education and finances.
THIS is true. Modern day women don't WANT TO WORK for anything from a man. They think quality men should work to even be in their presence, and in return they can just look pretty; as being equal.
This channel is great. I am a 58 year old white male. My last relationship of 7 years ended just under a year ago. Since then, I completely changed my mindset. I joined a gym and am in quite possibly the best shape of my life, my finances are my own and I am well off debt free, and I feel great about myself and take care of my appearance. I have my mojo from when I was in my 20's back. Now I find that when I go out in public I am actually attracting women without even trying or interested in doing so, they are coming up to me. True now, that these women are not 9's or 10's, but 7's and 8's, who are looking good and in fantastic shape in their late 40's and early 50's. I don't put on some show that I am something better than I am, but I do have a confidence in my mind that I am "ALL THAT". Thanks to the advice on this channel and some others, I am in charge of myself and no one else is running my life, and I am having a great time and on the right path.
Sorry for the brake up Brother but what you have done sounds amazing. I'm 31 now I went through my brake up of 5 years back in 2018. Just let you I worked on myself and now I'm living life. I'm from North London and now living in Madrid Spain, I have a new GF after 3 years and we are both working on ourselves together but because of what I'm doing....I now speak Spanish and learning new things everyday.....I keep working on myself because I also have at the back of my mind that my girlfriend could leave me at anytime.
They dont like men and dont really want us. They call it "dealing" bc marriage to them is just another way to get the bag (divorce). They deal with us till they get what tjey want
Yeah brother I noticed that too that respect factor just not their but as men we have to stop accepting any of the B's clipped early like Kevin said we can always start over with a woman they on a true time limit ,🙄
@@jermainetavaresjones-smith157 this is why I’m attempting to leave the dating game early. You don’t have explore every nook and cranny to figure out that trauma and debt await a great portion of the women that complain the loudest about us
Thanksgiving 2015, I was at the dinner table with my mom, and other family. Everyone single and everyone female. I looked at the table and realized I didn’t not want to end up older with no husband. What an awakening!
I have found that if you give a woman too many choices that she will be unhappy with whatever choice she makes. If you lead her and give little choices, she will be happier because any failure is not on her.
@@Osunshoney409 no treating women like little kids because even with ur own choices . Yah still find a way to blame a man so let us control ur choices so we can really get the blame .
I'm still amazed at the number of women who think that debt looks like success...and modest paid off assets look broke. The monologue and first part of the show broke the programming behind that down..Perfectly.
Wow, that's true, I had an older gentleman tell me one time, he was trying to date this woman, he owned his house , car, worked a full time job and had a side business, no debt, savings and she told him that he didn't have enough, and she was a average🤦🏿♂️
Kevin is helping us. Black women need to wake tf up. He isn’t the enemy. The real enemy is Feminist Becky who loves listening to Lizzo and Cardi B & ZADDY who wants to remove the black man from his family. WAKE UP
To the woman who says her husband wants her to stay home and take care of the kids...DO IT!...Take him up on that offer. When I got pregnant last year, I thought I could pop out this baby and be happy to go back to work. When the baby was born I didn’t want to go back. I cried but I had too because I pay half of the bills and I thought I could have it all and realized I couldn’t. Now my husband and I are working on correcting that. We have a second child coming and I can’t wait to permanently stay home with the kids next year.
Listen here woman If what you're saying is true Then good for you and your husband It would be nice if most women could realise what you have said here.
Me too! I used to be a preschool teacher before covid. I know all about childcare and I didn’t want my son to go 😂. Even the best caregiver can’t replace a mom.
@@tldoctor2497 My comment is AGREEING with her post. The point of this is mother's are best suited to caring for their young. Other people?...not so much. So the best place for a mother (especially a young mother like Jen) is to BE AT HOME with their own kids. The rest of us either have our own kids to care for, or are busy with life and NOT concerned with your kids (or Jen's kids for that matter). I applaud smart women like Jen and her husband for understanding what is best and then actually doing it. You know, walking the talk. Please tell me you understand this TL?
@@chiniwillly This is true but the flaw in your comment are the words “almost self-sufficient”. He is saying that you can’t take care of someone else if you cannot take care of yourSELF. 🤦🏾♂️
@@chiniwillly yes but that’s not the topic. Working a job where you aren’t even at a point of self sufficiency while also trying to take care of a kid puts you down in being poor. You are no longer close to self sufficient because you are trying to provide for two people with what could barely manage 1. I do agree that most average people could qualify for food stamps but most average people are living within their means and don’t particularly need it
Time Stamps 0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 Aerials by Guustavv 🎵 1:48 🎵 Mint Conditions Dusty Decks 🎵 3:54 🎵 Fly Shroom by Giants' Nes 🎵 6:53 🎵 Ten days by Dylan Sitts 🎵 9:02 🎵 Jacuzzi by Jobii 🎵 11:03 🎵 Better kind of bitter by Peachy Pavement, Jobii & L.M. Styles Feat. Milva 🎵 14:20 🎵 Good lies by Vividry 🎵 17:30 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Le Labo Santal 26, Fragrance of the evening Bond No. 9 Nomad and The Harmonist Desired earth 21:35 Monologue, Is it modern women's fault? 36:50 Order 66 50:10 When your mother dies, what is she leaving you? 1:07:08 📱1st Caller Lauren age 28, 2nd Caller Tyhesia age 44 1:20:00 3rd Caller Kay age 31, 4th Caller Maryum age 39 1:27:40 5th Caller Amanda age 42, 6th caller No name age 23 1:39:02 7th Caller Chini age 42 1:52:20 8th Caller Comyia age 23 1:57:56 9th Caller No name age 23, 10th Caller Imani age 24, 11th Caller Caurie age 30 2:07:55 12th Caller Kadiyatu age 21 2:11:50 Overtime
@@familyman4668 exactly! He went into Chemical Engineering!!!!! That is THE hardest of the disciplines and he qualified. Mad respect to the Godfather's intellect. IQ really does manifest and matter.
Idk if he's removed it since but he used to have videos about the "Alien" franchise included in his playlists as well. I think they were added accidentally but still funny. Yeah, Kevin is a geek which I think is awesome as well.
As a fellow Gen Xer I have to say that Kevin is spot on about baby boomers. They grew up with the world handed to them on a silver platter, and made sure that no one else that came after them, could ever have what they had. Selfish and greedy are terms that are far too kind to describe them.
That is exacty correct. As a fellow GenX I know the only thing I will receive from my parents are them needing me to take care of them. They are broke and think I will be their care plan. Not happening.
I am glad to see more miserable white women calling in. I know KS focuses on helping black men and women, and I respect that, but white culture is going in the same direction and his wisdom helps anyone who will listen to it.
@@H..M.. fr and these same BW will get upset because the beckys come with a certain respect for the Godfathers words ,so He doesn't have to curse them 😤
Bruh🤦🏾♂️ the Sisterhood is strong out here! The women on the call are in code so well that it’s hard for them to be honest about their Mothers (regardless the culture) It’s not disrespectful when you’re being honest.
My wife and I have already paid for 2 funerals for family members who couldn’t afford it, and we are going to have to pay for at least 2-3 more for other family members who don’t have a pot to piss in. Most people don’t save, and they don’t plan. You might not care what happens to you when you die, but somebody will have to deal with your carcass and it ain’t cheap.
Sorry for your loss, but tell family … if they can spend money on lottery tickets, cigarettes, beer and chips … they can get a cheap monthly insurance policy. Hell they ain’t trying to make someone rich… they just need to be buried.
KS: How much do you earn a month? Caller: Oh, like err, under, under a thousand. KS: So what you even doing on the internet? You don't have time to be watching these shows. You should be working. You need 2 or 3 jobs. We don't want to pay for your kids. LMAO! I don't care what anyone says, Kevin serves anyone who deserves it! Gov't assistance have made way too many woman comfortable.
Kevin is living rent free in my head I just walked back to my car saying “I don’t need a cookbook” and “I’m a PHD” and cracking up laughing. I know people probably thought I was crazy 😝
Thinking 🤔 about this my mother never taught me that i am strong & independent and don't need a man. She always said, " you're beautiful, but beauty fades, you need to be humble and know how to cook, clean, serve a husband & run a household, it doesn't matter how rich you get, if you can't look after your husband then the maid will take him". And she's leaving me a house and land asset wise.
Mr Samuels sir you are brilliant. There is never a dull moment on your live streams! The Star Wars vs western Gynocracy analogy blew my mind! Keep up the great work.
I dont even watch Star Wars but I was able to follow his parable. He is already a global icon content creator & is still building his name. I truly believe he will go down in societal history
how can these women say that they are married and they are on the phone chatting to a man stranger at midnight , most of them with small children?? My husband does not allow me to touch my phone at night, I don’t have kids, I’m 50 yo Would you please explain me?
@@GB2139 chances are their husbands already know who KS is. If that's the case, most won't have any problem letting their women talk to him bc KS is saying pretty much everything men usually say anyways
@@mr_willwhite8465 I absolutely agree, I think he'll manage to finish what Sista Sharazad Ali started in the early 90s. Just imagine how much further along we would be if women had listened to her 3 decades ago!?
@@mr_willwhite8465 I think you're right most men now know who he his and most agree with him. Its only the ultra feminine beta males, simps and combative "girl power" women who always have something to say about his "tone" but never challenge his point with any coherent logic!
I've started having the conversation with my 12 yo daughter, eye opening!!!! Before talking to her she thought she is suppose to grow up to be an independent woman😳 I have alot of work to do
A year ago I took about eight months of therapy.. It was difficult to get a quality man.. My insurance worked with a Dr who specialized in children.. A hidden blessing, I walk into his office and to my surprise, he was a Star Wars fanatic.. Being well versed in all science fiction film and literature, I felt comfortable.. We clicked immediately and began to use the Star Wars universe as a metaphor in our session speaking.. It was strange yet amazing.. True story, it’s interesting that KS does this.. Something very deep happening here..
@@bawsnitti Respectfully, isn’t that only an issue if he asks the doctor? A patient is free to share what they’d like. But I do see how it could be considered in poor taste to ask a patient.
I learn so much about female nature and delusion each show. I'm still driving to get into the Top 20% so it helps to see what the opinions of the modern woman is while making a come up.
I'm in the Top 10%, and trust me there is big difference. Also, as my value peaks, my attitude is different because I know these women will never be on my level, even with their multiple degrees. Since I don't know their past, I have to see them as 403s UNTIL they prove otherwise...as they offer little value beyond their ran thru "boxes." The one who loves LEAST controls the relationship. The less you care, the more they do. Protect your heart and wallet at all costs.
This show was excellent and eye opening! We need to listen to our fathers more! I mean truly listen instead of always trying to please our mothers all the time 🤦🏽♀️
A lot of people get themselves in trouble by trying to please other people in general. Please yourself instead of worrying about what others think. Why please someone else when it doesn't bring you happiness
@Kush Hazard 💯💯💯. EXACTLY. Think for yourself. Dont need mommy or daddy to think for you. Listen to them and end up with the wrong person. You gotta date who YOU like. Not who they like. It's you that's in the relationship, not them 🙄🙄
@@naturalhealthrevolution1518 I think your comment is not completely wrong 👍🏽however the part about choosing who you want to date, seems to come from your own personal experience! It does not apply in my life! But great comment nonetheless!
We as women need to stop caping for other women. There’s no code among us. None. The weave wearing needs to stop, the feminism/weight issues needs to stop, and the inability to take accountability, submit, be agreeable and pleasant need to be called out every time that happens. Stop trying to protect the ego of your “sisters.” We are not sisters. I don’t even know you.
Let's not forget those women who take out student loans only to use the money for things totally unrelated to education then expect her "new man" to help pay it back!🤔🤬
It's projection. They love to marginalize what we do when they know that they do little to nothing for the household. That's how they justify in their minds being so resentful and contemptuous.
I am ever grateful I stopped an MBA online program because the money just didn’t add up. Three years 60-80,000 cumulative for a 20,000 bump in pay. The system wants us in debt and broke because it limits mobility and options. However….that emperor photoshop has me in stitches. Lol.
You should've got the degree. $20,000 per year X 20 years in the workforce ----------- $400,000 over your lifetime ($80,000) degree investment ---------------- $320,000 net tuition without interest
@@AskAW or learn how to code from TH-cam and free pdf books and free meet ups and earn big money that way .... it's the 21st century, information age. buy a udemy course
If you go for the degree get your company to pay for it. There's no reason for you to continue to pay for extended college in today's market. Trust me I have a MSEE and a MBA. Be strategic with your time and money.
I am truly blessed. I am a 50 y.o. "FBI", making 6 figures, no student loans, no credit card debt, 750+ credit score!! Also not single. Recently engaged to my 50 y.o. HV man, making 7 figures a year. Living life like it's golden. Black love is absolutely beautiful!
@@chiniwillly they can but they don’t. You’re the biggest consumers of retail and social media. If you wanted a simple life the majority of average men would be desired by women.
Thank you for putting modern women degrees, income, and debt burden into perspective. I hope you can at least save a few from the 6 figure debt that these schools are selling with little to no value.
It’s very sad that women are raising unprepared daughters. It’s like a vicious cycle. Usually the mom raises daughter to be modern and independent like her because her mother told her that’s the way to go. Only to find out as a adult you’d rather be traditional but we’re never taught anything about being traditional. Traditional women know how to budget, make productive choices, realizes a good thing, is proactive when it comes to being financially savvy and always respects the and lives within her husbands means. It’s called cooperation
The avg black man makes $42,000 a yr. The avg black woman makes $38,000 a yr. Yet it’s crazy how the media pushes this narrative that the women are the breadwinners in our community. This is why men need to be willing to tell speak out and tell our truths. Like the saying goes, until the Lion tells his own story, the tale of the hunt will always glorify the hunter.
As a caucasian male, I have been blessed to be accepted as a family member in a couple African American families, I've had the privilege of picking some brains of the women of the Big Momma generation. One of the points I've heard is some accountability of, not being prepared for the time of choice. Choice of either having a man and working together, or not having a man and getting carried financially by Uncle Sam. The conflict of having choice was just that, having choice. According to some women I've spoken to, the newness of having a choice, made them reckless. Reckless in all of their decisions, for their kids as well. Having a man after making a choice, brought fear of accountability. They had said that, making a wrong choice suppresses the judgment of a man, hence "I can do bad all by myself", that's where it comes from. "I don't need no man" is said to come from the shame of knowing they messed up having no man, yet deflecting their strength, which is the S.I.G.N language the Godfather is always talking about.
Yes. That’s what ALL of this is about. They need us and feel trapped on this planet with us and they don’t like it. I don’t know whether men doing most everything since the beginning has engineered wxmen to be more like children or if their behaviors/decisions were the same (or worse, or have gotten better over time)… What say you?
Some Women can barely take the accountability, their mothers ain’t even trying to hear this! How dare you make them reflect on their poor choices and look in the mirror.
So true. They've given black women just enough so they find it easy to walk away from their marriages at the drop of a hat. Instead of for better or worse.
Even in the marriage contract there is power given to women to walk away from the commitment & get rewarded on top of that. It’s called «No fault divorce ».
Just when I thought I seen it all the snowbunny 🐇 called in and said she was a single mother on welfare living on a farm bcuz her baby daddy left her to be a COW WRANGLER 😳
Oh man I handled that really bad I was shaking so shy and embarrassed guys. I couldn’t hardly hear him too lol. I was trying to be honest and Kevin was of course rough on me. I do have a job… people DO live on hardly any money if you do it right. I live with my family, and we own our land… But man how you said it is the truth and it’s unfortunately pretty hilarious. Yes he left me to be with a younger woman and a bunch of cows yes. Hahahah Also I’m not single just to make a correction, not married but I have a bf. My god I was so on the spot I still feel like I’m STILL burning. 🥵
@@chiniwillly All of us who accepted single motherhood got burned on some level. It's a culture that's pervasive. Women have been handed a mess...and we made it messier. I like this show because I like the concept of men and women working to heal themselves...then coming together to heal each other. That's a beautiful thing when it happens, I've been blessed to have that experience, and it resulted in a 20+ year marriage. Anyhow, you were brave! 😂 almost no one comes out of a KS interview unscathed! 🌹
One of the weirdest things ever is a happily married WIFE telling their daughter to go to school and get a education to have their own money just in case and not to depend on a Man for much. From stay at home wives to working wives, they both preaching the same bullcorn!!! It’s on a much higher plain but it’s like somebody living a happy and content life and tell you it’s from God Almighty but then telling same said person to find their own path in the 🌎. 🤨🤨🤨
You can be educated and have a healthy marriage at the same time. I don’t see how one prevent the other. Some high value men want traditional stay at home wives, while others like to have women as successful or as educated as them How many couple forms in Ivy League Schools ?
One of the best ways to pay your college debt down while in college is to send those 8-9,000 dollar refund checks back to them as soon as you get them. It’s their money anyway. Stop spending it like it’s yours.
My mother always made it clear that her children were her retirement plan, no questions asked! She encouraged us to be single and highly educated. After I married my husband she was livid and did everything she could to break up my marriage. I had to choose between my husband and life over my mother. I chose my husband and family and have no regrets. KS is right, we treat our mothers as gods without questions. It took my husband to point out how destructive she was in order for me to see the truth. Question your mothers true intentions
What did your mom do to try to break up your marriage? My mom wanted to be single, highly educated but a single mother so I can give her a grandchild. I am glad I did not oblige.
"You are your mother's retirement plan" I felt that 😭 I'm literally planning if I should build her an inlaw suite on my property. She's a baby boomer and can't retire due to cost of living in my state. I'm squeezing my fiance a little tighter today🤣💞
@@braxton9192 he's very family oriented comes from a huge close family more than I so he's actually encouraging it and excited about it more than I lol. One of the many reasons why I said yes to his proposal he's a real man/keeper and not afraid to deal with real life issues instead of "bouncing" 😊💞
USC is one of the most expensive schools in CA. Others being Stanford up north. They don't call USC the *"University of Spoiled Children"* for nothing. It's a great school, and I'm a big fan of their sports program, but the school isn't for the common folk. Most who get degrees from USC and UCLA see themselves as being above everybody else. It's almost like a social status. Hence why USC was involved in that scandal in which rich people were paying bribes to get their kids admission.
The last 10 years I've worked as maintenance and an inspector in low income housing. Shit gets deep, single mothers living in ditry houses while home all day with their 16 year old that just had a new kid. They're just sitting their waiting to die...
I’m a 60k plus a year “PHD” blue collar man with no student loan. I have less than 3 years to pay off my mortgage. A college degree is overpriced and way overated.
This school debt is freaking insane he is so right about people with high as they’re not making any money. I am 23 and make almost 60 K a year with just a high school diploma. My fiancé makes 85K year and he has just a diploma as well and we live well!
If y’all ever wondered if this was still a men’s channel….worry no more 😂 the Star Wars references in this episode was spot on 😂. He even referenced the animated series (some of the absolute best Star Wars material). Well done Samuels
This is how deep the brainwashing is. Ask any man what he wants to do and he’ll say he wants to save enough to retire and do what he wants. Tell a modern woman you make $250,000 a year and she don’t need to work and they call it slavery. The best kept secret of being a stay at home mom/wife is that it is a part-time job and you get to spend 100% of your time with family and friends.
Normal and debt free simply looks and "feels" boring ... that's the trap our current society places to keep people spending and paying taxes, it all comes down to how bad do you want to win in life, excellent show 👏
The South African girl who called about the Bride Price-(aka: iLobolo). The girl and her boyfriend who proposed marriage to her went about things the wrong way altogether. The boy was supposed to go speak to his uncles from his father side of the family first. Then his uncles are supposed to go inform his parents that their son intends to marry a certain woman. Thereafter after a family meeting is held between the boy, his parents and his uncles, where the boy shall be asked about the girl and her family. And also they shall discuss his financial standing with regards to the bride price and if he shall need help with that. Then a letter is written with regards to "bride price negotiations" aka:iLobolo and a question of a probable date for those negotiations. The letter is then hand delivered to the girl's father who must in return cantact one of the boys uncles regarding the date to hold those negotiations. By that time the girl's father has already communicated the message to his own family( e.g: his uncles and brothers especially). Unfortunately here in South Africa these young women were raised by rebellious women who didn't want to adhere to the cultural practices and norms because they were sold the feminist movement story. So they taught their daughters how to be rebellious thereby leaving them ignorant of important things. Here South Africa as a young man if you raise these issues, you'll get cancelled or ganged up on by angry women and get labeled as a "misogynist", "chauvinist", "woman oppressor"...etc
Oh wow, I really learned something here. And I didn't know how bad it had gotten in South Africa with the feminist movement that it's actually actively interfering with marriage proposals.
@@nellzdablackkingmodern day feminism has had a somewhat toxic effect to some extent. Actually it messes up the woman's mindset and thereof her attitude towards cultural practices and norms regarding marriage and the dynamics of natural gender roles.
You are actually not giving the REAL representation of our culture. You are absolutely correct on some but not everything you are saying is true though
@@kkkkk3139yes I am actually representing my culture correctly as a "Zulu" man. You on the other hand are a "Motswana". Batswana do things differently just like any other black indigenous ethnic group in South Africa. So it is redundant to say that I misrepresent our "culture" when culture in South Africa is so diverse. What I mentioned in my previous comment was merely the tip of the iceberg, I didn't go into detail about what actually happens on the day of the bride price negotiations, for an obvious reason, being that the processes that take place at that event are very long with probable complexities.
This is the realest thing I ever heard Currently dealing with this now. It's called the sandwich generation. Taking care of our children and adult parents.
Why? Why did this lady think it was a good idea to get on such a public platform and disclose she has a four-year-old, receives food stamps, and earns less than $1,000 a month? I 100% agree with the question why is she even on the internet for something other than looking for employment. I feel sorry for her child. Also, I'm a Hispanic woman and what Kevin said at the end of that call was the very truth! Trifling comes in many shades. And quite contrary to what most people think, the percentage of white Americans receiving welfare is higher than the percentage of black Americans!
She needed someone like Kevin to give her a reality check....If someone like Kevin cannot change her mind about what wrong she is doing, then no one can...
Yep. A few of my post office worker friends told me how most of their routes were in white neighborhoods, and the amount of government assistant checks that they handed out there regularly......but thats never talked about.
False information. White folks receiving government assistance is NOT higher than black folks! That’s inaccurate! Last time I checked the SNAP website statistics, it didn’t show that! Fact check your stuff! 🤷🏽♂️
It should go viral, cause being with a man with kids while u have none as a woman can be draining on so many levels, Im guessing it feels the same for a man without kids being with a woman with kids
Surprised he even said that because that would rule him out from dating most females (since he has a child) AND he has also stated men should avoid women with kids. That would leave him with literally ZERO dating options lol. Where abouts did he even say this? Also a nan having a kid is nothing at all like a woman having a kid since the man isn’t raising the child the mother is. It doesn’t interfere with his life or potential mates life.
Studying for a degree is useful if it leads to a job that pays of the debt. Or even better if you have little to no debt after. Which is why many guys go into the trades. Sounds boring, but debt is low and you will be working right out of the gate. Instead of being super smart and... having 25+ years of debt repayments hanging over your head. Which you can't get rid off because they are protected!
Poor educational planning. Research the salary and field and speak with headhunters in the industry before signing up for the program. Some advanced degrees aren't required or acknowledged. The better thing to do is find a job that helps pay! I was blessed to have a job that provided 90% tuition reimbursement for my undergrad & grad while gaining experience. (No CAP)
Y’all don’t realize how serious it is when he asked what are your mothers leaving you. My sisters are in utter disarray 4 years later after her death. That happened to my oldest sister. Was basically my mothers insurance plan.
Colleges engaged in preditory recruiting….and it works because of failure in the home and failure in high schools… This is sociatle dysfunction…tragic…
Same way the Athletic system manipulate single moms and their sons who have no father influence To guide them. So they send their sons off to these coaches who will be "like a father to them" and these athletes produce a ton of money for these institutions. But the odds of them making it on a pro level is so small. Why not stay with your Father and work in a business or trade with him...
my sister and I came from Ghana. As soon as we got here our father advice us to pursue a career in healthcare. both sisters are nurses (they are both married) and I am a cardiac sonographer not married yet but living with my girlfriend. I feel Kevin when he said if a father was in the house, these ladies wouldn't be taking huge loans to go for social service degrees.
@@rossperreault833 Didn’t get to watch it all cause he removed it but pretty much he asked for men’s thoughts on the Brittney interview assuming they would agree with him (Spoiler: They didn’t) Kevin then tried to make the men look bad but apparently it didn’t work so he took the video down due to the majority of men disagreeing with him.
@@scaryterry8958 Kevin makes a lot of valid points for men and women. The thing that will be the fall will be him trying to controll the naritive when he is wrong. Take note when information is twisted or modified
@@rossperreault833 Yeah, I agree. Ironically enough, he just got done doing a show about SIGN(Shame, Insults, Guilt & Need to be right) language and how women utilize it against men but apparently he’s mastered it himself. One man on the overtime show had a valid point about how Brittney was promoting thot culture to women, but Kevin used his own SIGN language to insult the man and attempt to make man look silly when the guy was actually telling the truth! I believe another factor that will ultimately lead to Kevin’s downfall is his blatant hypocrisy and the many times he will contradict himself due to his own lack of integrity… He has no morals and as he stated in his previous show “The Real Deal With High Value Men” he believes that HVM can “Create their own rules” so he’s living in the same “Disney fantasy” he claims that modern women live in. Kevin has quite literally created his own world where he is never wrong and he’s hoping we as viewers won’t notice it… quite unsettling when u really think about it.
As a star wars nerd myself Im amazed kevin watched the clones wars. He didnt talk about another clone killed Fives when he found out the truth and tried to blow the whistle. Kinda like how white knights try to dystroy anyone that trys to tell the truth.
I work for the state..they pay my school..One free class per semester, and 2 classes I get a reimbursement, at the end of the semester they'll reimburse me...therefor I get a total of 3 classes free..That's all I'm doing..It may take me forever to get my degree ,but I'll be debt free..
Hmmm why am I a poster child for food stamps? What’s section 8?, ok I looked it up.. no I own the land I live on, and I work hard. I was trying to be honest with Kevin that this is the background I am from… and that I do get food stamps yes… but I’m doing much better than an average person on food stamps because of the sacrifices my mother and all us siblings made with living a little hard when we first got our land. Seems to me like this is what we should be doing to get people off of welfare… try to get them to elevate- get jobs get land and become tax payers themselves. I totally flubbed that interview. I was trying to be honest, and wanted to talk about much more…. but I was so embarrassed so shy and completely flustered. He just ripped me apart which isn’t too surprising I guess that’s what he does.
I rarely write on these but really geeked out when he actually implied he watched all of the clone series. It was great. Probably next in line as best Starwars series after original movies
You ask the question at the beginning of the stream "Is it Modern W's fault?" I personally do not believe it is. Men and W have been told that W's have been oppressed for 120+ years. Over time, W's slowly believed they were oppressed by constantly being told they were, until most of the women who didn't believe they were oppressed, were gone. I recently saw a video from 1976 or so asking W's about F-ism and it's effects and a lot of them still had more "Traditional" values in some aspects, but that is almost 50 years ago at this point. One W spoke about how she feels things are going bad and she is scared for the future (which she predicted because her predictions are happening now, but I do not recall her exact comment, just that she was correct). When you have 120 years, which means 6 or so generations of W's who have been told they are oppressed, possibly having 3+ Generations of Single Moons, you just start to believe it, the Men will also start to believe it too, causing infighting between men. Men will then label each other based on their preferences, hence "Simps," "Betas," Alphas," etc.. Then over time you start adding that W's deserve more and more, and that Men deserve less and less until you get where we are today where Modern W's will say that male victims of false grapes deserve it for all of the injustice of the past, while simultaneously wanting to castrate all Men based on certain criteria such as castrating all men that are less than 6 feet, tall, have less than 6", are a certain race, etc. Then we see these crazy Modern W's who want to kill all men, blame all men for everything, etc. We also see how crazy and entitled they are to the point where they will destroy their homes, destroy their children, destroy everything for themselves and to feel happy. It's all SELFISHNESS and "ME ME ME ME ME!" In the end they have been turned into selfish, Narcissistic creatures and they don't even realize what they have become. That's the saddest part about it all... However... It's hard to feel sad when they wont recognize it, and will even argue against it. Not even that, but the fact they will cause so much harm is also something we cannot feel sorry for. Instead, it's time for the world to feel sorry for the men who have been destroyed by these succubi. The thing is, there are still a small subset of W's today that are "Traditional" in many ways, it is just much more rare than it used to be, and it is ever increasingly becoming rarer.
Yes to this!!! If I wasn’t melting from embarrassment and shyness I’d have articulated this! Oh man, Kevin is scary and sharp and ready to just tear you up. I feel this so much. I dunno really what the solution is tho. It’s a sad state of affairs. But man, I think we all need to be closer to our families and support one another.
@Tyler Harris men are victims and women are too… tho I’m a more roundabout way. What Kevin is pointing out happening to modern women- that’s how they’re getting screwed. Anyway it’s a powerless place to be to think you’re a victim. I never want to be a victim. I wanna be an owner of my life not be a victim.
People need to do the math on a degree program before signing up. It pretty much anyone’s fault who chose poorly on what the cost benefit equation looks like for a particular degree. Getting a degree with no plan on how to pay for it is dumb. Make choices to maximize the benefits and minimize costs. Engineering, computer science, and similar degrees have a high benefit to cost ratio.
I was raised by a single mother and grandmother. Me and my Sister were both taught not to depend on anyone but ourselves and to take care of any children we had, not marriage. It’s plenty of men that have no desire to abandon their children but still don’t desire marriage. Women taught that during feminism from the 70’s till today. We are the sons they created🤷🏾♂️
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Any married couple I've spoken to that's been together for 20 - 50+, they say they almost left each other multiple times but they WORKED it out like adults not file "irreconcilable differences" at the 1st sign of adversity.
I’m married now for 10 years, and I can tell you this is very very true. And every time I felt like we weren’t going to make it., I just think about today how happy I am that we did make it work. It’s not easy but it’s worth it.
Thank you for this. I’m praying that me and my husband stay together long after our kids turn 18. I don’t plan on divorcing over something silly though.
The economic environment is getting binary. Haves and have nots. If you're a millionaire with no one to pass it down to the state/government gets your assets. It's unfortunate but that's the reality. Kin Gap needs to be marketed to the blk community more. Invest in family like you do your education and finances.
THIS is true. Modern day women don't WANT TO WORK for anything from a man. They think quality men should work to even be in their presence, and in return they can just look pretty; as being equal.
This is true. The saying "marriage is work" isn't there for no reason.
Kevin is one man who truly cares about young black children. He actually speaks for them. God bless you Kevin!!!
Fax 📠
This channel is great. I am a 58 year old white male. My last relationship of 7 years ended just under a year ago. Since then, I completely changed my mindset. I joined a gym and am in quite possibly the best shape of my life, my finances are my own and I am well off debt free, and I feel great about myself and take care of my appearance. I have my mojo from when I was in my 20's back. Now I find that when I go out in public I am actually attracting women without even trying or interested in doing so, they are coming up to me. True now, that these women are not 9's or 10's, but 7's and 8's, who are looking good and in fantastic shape in their late 40's and early 50's. I don't put on some show that I am something better than I am, but I do have a confidence in my mind that I am "ALL THAT". Thanks to the advice on this channel and some others, I am in charge of myself and no one else is running my life, and I am having a great time and on the right path.
That's fantastic. Keep doing what you are doing.
Sorry for the brake up Brother but what you have done sounds amazing. I'm 31 now I went through my brake up of 5 years back in 2018. Just let you I worked on myself and now I'm living life. I'm from North London and now living in Madrid Spain, I have a new GF after 3 years and we are both working on ourselves together but because of what I'm doing....I now speak Spanish and learning new things everyday.....I keep working on myself because I also have at the back of my mind that my girlfriend could leave me at anytime.
Mike this was inspiring to read man. good on you man!
Excellent
Brother you need to travel around the world am
In Ghana in case
I’ve noticed that women tend to refer to being with men as “dealing “ with us like a chronic illness.
They dont like men and dont really want us. They call it "dealing" bc marriage to them is just another way to get the bag (divorce). They deal with us till they get what tjey want
Like they are handling dangerous or unstable chemicals! SMH
Yeah brother I noticed that too that respect factor just not their but as men we have to stop accepting any of the B's clipped early like Kevin said we can always start over with a woman they on a true time limit ,🙄
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@@jermainetavaresjones-smith157 this is why I’m attempting to leave the dating game early. You don’t have explore every nook and cranny to figure out that trauma and debt await a great portion of the women that complain the loudest about us
Thanksgiving 2015, I was at the dinner table with my mom, and other family. Everyone single and everyone female. I looked at the table and realized I didn’t not want to end up older with no husband. What an awakening!
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It's nice seeing people not knocking what he is saying. At least we can have a communication :)
I wish you well in your search.
@@paulbunyan9436 great questions Paul. I hope Katherine answers these smart questions and more.
The "follow up" is important to many of us.
I feel uncomfortable when I bring my wife to my family gatherings. Everyone is single and a bunch of kids with no husbands in site.
I have found that if you give a woman too many choices that she will be unhappy with whatever choice she makes. If you lead her and give little choices, she will be happier because any failure is not on her.
Real 💯
I don’t understand why treating a woman like an animal is something to be thought of???
@@Osunshoney409 woof woof
@@Osunshoney409 no treating women like little kids because even with ur own choices . Yah still find a way to blame a man so let us control ur choices so we can really get the blame .
@@Greatdebate112 maybe you should choose a better caliber of women so you won’t have to give a grown ass woman a choice… wth??? It’s bad out here
I'm still amazed at the number of women who think that debt looks like success...and modest paid off assets look broke. The monologue and first part of the show broke the programming behind that down..Perfectly.
Wow, that's true, I had an older gentleman tell me one time, he was trying to date this woman, he owned his house , car, worked a full time job and had a side business, no debt, savings and she told him that he didn't have enough, and she was a average🤦🏿♂️
Probably because what’s good is bad and what’s up is down with this generation.
Debt is good, but for the banks. Their purpose is to give loans.
You’re awesome ma’am.
Use somebody else to pay it.
Will Smith is leaving his kids over 350 million in wealth and assets. Jada is leaving them a red table.
Exactly!!!
😂😂😂😂😂. Damn
Which one is better: A struggle show on Facebook/Meta or Royalties on MiB/ID4/Bad Boys/ I am Legend etc.? 🤣🤷🏽♂️
I'd take the table because the table gives you all of the control and you could sign language your way to the $350m anyway
nah, jada is gonna leave the kids alot of 2pac memorabillia
Kevin is helping us.
Black women need to wake tf up.
He isn’t the enemy.
The real enemy is Feminist Becky who loves listening to Lizzo and Cardi B
& ZADDY who wants to remove the black man from his family.
WAKE UP
✔️✔️✔️ You on it. Thanks.
lmao more anti white bullshit, Rabbi Goldberg started feminism, not white people.
To the woman who says her husband wants her to stay home and take care of the kids...DO IT!...Take him up on that offer. When I got pregnant last year, I thought I could pop out this baby and be happy to go back to work. When the baby was born I didn’t want to go back. I cried but I had too because I pay half of the bills and I thought I could have it all and realized I couldn’t. Now my husband and I are working on correcting that. We have a second child coming and I can’t wait to permanently stay home with the kids next year.
Listen here woman
If what you're saying is true
Then good for you and your husband
It would be nice if most women could realise what you have said here.
Me too! I used to be a preschool teacher before covid. I know all about childcare and I didn’t want my son to go 😂. Even the best caregiver can’t replace a mom.
@@DeadlyKitten90 no one on the planet actually cares a FRACTION of what you do for your offspring.
@@mikesmith1181 her comment is relative to this thread, if you didnt care, you wouldnt have wasted thw time to comment
@@tldoctor2497 My comment is AGREEING with her post.
The point of this is mother's are best suited to caring for their young. Other people?...not so much.
So the best place for a mother (especially a young mother like Jen) is to BE AT HOME with their own kids.
The rest of us either have our own kids to care for, or are busy with life and NOT concerned with your kids (or Jen's kids for that matter).
I applaud smart women like Jen and her husband for understanding what is best and then actually doing it. You know, walking the talk.
Please tell me you understand this TL?
“Making a baby with section 8 and food stamps is reckless . “ let that shit go viral for all you women .
You can be working making money almost self sufficient Ans qualify for a little tiny bit of food stamps.
@@chiniwillly This is true but the flaw in your comment are the words “almost self-sufficient”. He is saying that you can’t take care of someone else if you cannot take care of yourSELF. 🤦🏾♂️
@@chiniwillly not if you have a job worth having you won't.
@@CArsonVevo by no means saying it’s perfect, but it’s a lot better than what a lot of people are doing
@@chiniwillly yes but that’s not the topic. Working a job where you aren’t even at a point of self sufficiency while also trying to take care of a kid puts you down in being poor.
You are no longer close to self sufficient because you are trying to provide for two people with what could barely manage 1. I do agree that most average people could qualify for food stamps but most average people are living within their means and don’t particularly need it
take away section 8, food stamps, wic, and welfare money and let's see how independent they really are 🤧
a lot of men, also depend on some of these things! I worked at a liberation program and a lot of them dudes rely on some of these services!
@@reese85 you mean the men you deal with.
@@jarellbrown824 lol another I’m a woman joke! Y’all dudes got issues yo
@@jarellbrown824 LMAOOOOO
@@reese85 but a lot of those men aren't the ones denouncing their women in exchange for them. That's the difference!!
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0:00 Pre show songs, 🎵 Aerials by Guustavv 🎵
1:48 🎵 Mint Conditions Dusty Decks 🎵
3:54 🎵 Fly Shroom by Giants' Nes 🎵
6:53 🎵 Ten days by Dylan Sitts 🎵
9:02 🎵 Jacuzzi by Jobii 🎵
11:03 🎵 Better kind of bitter by Peachy Pavement, Jobii & L.M. Styles Feat. Milva 🎵
14:20 🎵 Good lies by Vividry 🎵
17:30 🎬 Show starts, Candle of the evening Le Labo Santal 26, Fragrance of the evening Bond No. 9 Nomad and The Harmonist Desired earth
21:35 Monologue, Is it modern women's fault?
36:50 Order 66
50:10 When your mother dies, what is she leaving you?
1:07:08 📱1st Caller Lauren age 28, 2nd Caller Tyhesia age 44
1:20:00 3rd Caller Kay age 31, 4th Caller Maryum age 39
1:27:40 5th Caller Amanda age 42, 6th caller No name age 23
1:39:02 7th Caller Chini age 42
1:52:20 8th Caller Comyia age 23
1:57:56 9th Caller No name age 23, 10th Caller Imani age 24, 11th Caller Caurie age 30
2:07:55 12th Caller Kadiyatu age 21
2:11:50 Overtime
thank you sir!
Thank u
Impressive
Nice work sir.
@DeShawn do you know the name of the song by that lady Jen who made it for Mr. Samuels?
I love this dude is so comfortable in his Fame that his true nerd nature is starting to come out. This man is a black nerd and I am here for it!
He studied engineering. Even though he had to drop out...it requires a nerd typically to even choose it.
His true nature is indeed coming out if the removal of part 2 is anything to go by.
@@familyman4668 exactly! He went into Chemical Engineering!!!!! That is THE hardest of the disciplines and he qualified.
Mad respect to the Godfather's intellect.
IQ really does manifest and matter.
Idk if he's removed it since but he used to have videos about the "Alien" franchise included in his playlists as well.
I think they were added accidentally but still funny. Yeah, Kevin is a geek which I think is awesome as well.
I been peeping the late 80s/early 90s for a few months now. Star wars/DBZ/video games all been coming out
As a fellow Gen Xer I have to say that Kevin is spot on about baby boomers. They grew up with the world handed to them on a silver platter, and made sure that no one else that came after them, could ever have what they had. Selfish and greedy are terms that are far too kind to describe them.
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It may not have been INTENTIONAL, but that was the result.
YES!
That is exacty correct. As a fellow GenX I know the only thing I will receive from my parents are them needing me to take care of them. They are broke and think I will be their care plan. Not happening.
@@trisjaus2006 GOOD FOR YOU!! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!
There's no way a black woman watching this could say that Kevin hates black women... if they do, they enjoy living in their (detrimental) bubble.
Ding ding ding, now you are starting to see. Women LOVE living in their bubble. This is what all these conversations have ever been about.
I am glad to see more miserable white women calling in. I know KS focuses on helping black men and women, and I respect that, but white culture is going in the same direction and his wisdom helps anyone who will listen to it.
@@H..M.. fr and these same BW will get upset because the beckys come with a certain respect for the Godfathers words ,so He doesn't have to curse them 😤
Bruh🤦🏾♂️ the Sisterhood is strong out here! The women on the call are in code so well that it’s hard for them to be honest about their Mothers (regardless the culture) It’s not disrespectful when you’re being honest.
The sistahood has always been on code consciously and subconsciously.
@@mr.k9144 you right with that statement you still have to shake your head at that 🤦🏾♂️
My wife and I have already paid for 2 funerals for family members who couldn’t afford it, and we are going to have to pay for at least 2-3 more for other family members who don’t have a pot to piss in. Most people don’t save, and they don’t plan. You might not care what happens to you when you die, but somebody will have to deal with your carcass and it ain’t cheap.
Just donate their carcass to science so some first year nursing student can be dissecting it for their Intro to Human Anatomy class.
Don't claim the carcass. State buries them in Potter's field.
Sorry for your loss, but tell family … if they can spend money on lottery tickets, cigarettes, beer and chips … they can get a cheap monthly insurance policy. Hell they ain’t trying to make someone rich… they just need to be buried.
Nah that's not your responsibility and don't feel guilty about it.
Let someone else pay for it.
"You made a baby on food stamps, that's hella reckless" Lol that actually made me laugh
Funny and true
Right….lol…and he said “having a baby out of wedlock with slim sausage”🤣🤣🤣
All birth control did was stop responsible people having kids, the irresponsible ones were always going to be like this
I was howling 😂
@@oddstuff6137 yup. Like Gun Control, the good people might give their guns away, but the bad people definitely won't
We’re a community that passes on trauma, now let’s be a community that passes on wisdom!
agreed upon
Agreed!
Explain that!☝️😳
More like passing on an endless grift.
good idea
KS: How much do you earn a month?
Caller: Oh, like err, under, under a thousand.
KS: So what you even doing on the internet? You don't have time to be watching these shows. You should be working. You need 2 or 3 jobs. We don't want to pay for your kids.
LMAO! I don't care what anyone says, Kevin serves anyone who deserves it! Gov't assistance have made way too many woman comfortable.
with a louie vuitton bag
@@Thiiink Damn shame.
thats a fact though lol
Kevin is living rent free in my head I just walked back to my car saying “I don’t need a cookbook” and “I’m a PHD” and cracking up laughing. I know people probably thought I was crazy 😝
I go to a university and any time I see “PhD” I can hear the soundbit in my head, “I’m a PhD!” 😂😂
But did you..."Execute Order 66?"
I really miss the "afro circus" soundbyte. ☹
@@lordsagat2503 Oh yeah, that Panda
What about the overweight cartoon sound effect lol 😂
Thinking 🤔 about this my mother never taught me that i am strong & independent and don't need a man. She always said, " you're beautiful, but beauty fades, you need to be humble and know how to cook, clean, serve a husband & run a household, it doesn't matter how rich you get, if you can't look after your husband then the maid will take him". And she's leaving me a house and land asset wise.
Mr Samuels sir you are brilliant. There is never a dull moment on your live streams! The Star Wars vs western Gynocracy analogy blew my mind! Keep up the great work.
I dont even watch Star Wars but I was able to follow his parable. He is already a global icon content creator & is still building his name. I truly believe he will go down in societal history
how can these women say that they are married and they are on the phone chatting to a man stranger at midnight , most of them with small children??
My husband does not allow me to touch my phone at night, I don’t have kids, I’m 50 yo
Would you please explain me?
@@GB2139 chances are their husbands already know who KS is. If that's the case, most won't have any problem letting their women talk to him bc KS is saying pretty much everything men usually say anyways
@@mr_willwhite8465 I absolutely agree, I think he'll manage to finish what Sista Sharazad Ali started in the early 90s. Just imagine how much further along we would be if women had listened to her 3 decades ago!?
@@mr_willwhite8465 I think you're right most men now know who he his and most agree with him. Its only the ultra feminine beta males, simps and combative "girl power" women who always have something to say about his "tone" but never challenge his point with any coherent logic!
I've started having the conversation with my 12 yo daughter, eye opening!!!! Before talking to her she thought she is suppose to grow up to be an independent woman😳 I have alot of work to do
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A year ago I took about eight months of therapy.. It was difficult to get a quality man.. My insurance worked with a Dr who specialized in children.. A hidden blessing, I walk into his office and to my surprise, he was a Star Wars fanatic.. Being well versed in all science fiction film and literature, I felt comfortable.. We clicked immediately and began to use the Star Wars universe as a metaphor in our session speaking.. It was strange yet amazing.. True story, it’s interesting that KS does this.. Something very deep happening here..
@@insuchaway
Doctor Patient Confidentiality agreement
It's inappropriate to even ask to break privacy
@@bawsnitti Respectfully, isn’t that only an issue if he asks the doctor? A patient is free to share what they’d like. But I do see how it could be considered in poor taste to ask a patient.
@@insuchaway No, I totally understand. I was only acknowledging how some could consider it in poor taste. But you won’t know if you don’t ask, right?
The Force moves in mysterious ways...
the deep mythology of our species often manifests in great works like Star Wars.
Might I recommend Joseph Campbell and the hero's journey?
The dream of "Having it all" has been the mantra. Meanwhile, the corporations are making a killing.
The ILLUSION Of INCLUSION!!!!😂
So many men started out as Anakin and turned to Vader through “hard lessons” to say the least.
I learn so much about female nature and delusion each show. I'm still driving to get into the Top 20% so it helps to see what the opinions of the modern woman is while making a come up.
You're not the only one. I plan on being in the top 20% within the next 5-7 years as well. I'll see you there, Big Dog.
I'm in the Top 10%, and trust me there is big difference. Also, as my value peaks, my attitude is different because I know these women will never be on my level, even with their multiple degrees. Since I don't know their past, I have to see them as 403s UNTIL they prove otherwise...as they offer little value beyond their ran thru "boxes."
The one who loves LEAST controls the relationship. The less you care, the more they do. Protect your heart and wallet at all costs.
You'll enjoy it here, I didn't even have a goal to be top 20%, it just happened that way because I was laser focused on my purpose.
Yes man make that come up👏👏👏👏👍
Iktr keep your eyes open!
This show was excellent and eye opening! We need to listen to our fathers more! I mean truly listen instead of always trying to please our mothers all the time 🤦🏽♀️
A lot of people get themselves in trouble by trying to please other people in general. Please yourself instead of worrying about what others think. Why please someone else when it doesn't bring you happiness
Shawtyy lemme Halla at u😋👀😍
Mostly everyone I grew up with didn’t have their fathers present. That’s one of the issues.
@Kush Hazard 💯💯💯. EXACTLY. Think for yourself. Dont need mommy or daddy to think for you. Listen to them and end up with the wrong person. You gotta date who YOU like. Not who they like. It's you that's in the relationship, not them 🙄🙄
@@naturalhealthrevolution1518 I think your comment is not completely wrong 👍🏽however the part about choosing who you want to date, seems to come from your own personal experience! It does not apply in my life! But great comment nonetheless!
"As a man, I can't change your plans until I change your last name."
God-Tier Wisdom!
We as women need to stop caping for other women. There’s no code among us. None. The weave wearing needs to stop, the feminism/weight issues needs to stop, and the inability to take accountability, submit, be agreeable and pleasant need to be called out every time that happens.
Stop trying to protect the ego of your “sisters.” We are not sisters. I don’t even know you.
Now they doing porno with bonnets on their head
@@victormuhammad1393 they’ll be alone as a result. Gross
He said...
"At 40! You made a baby on food stamps! ... that's hella reckless!!"
🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's about the coldest one liner I heard in a while
Let's not forget those women who take out student loans only to use the money for things totally unrelated to education then expect her "new man" to help pay it back!🤔🤬
Lol this is wild to
Whewwwww a word 💯💯💯
bruhhhh it's unbelievable and want the economy to forgive debt.......shorties be on trips and doing the most on the credit.
If he pays it that's on him🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol....that's me. No sense with those loan checks. Oakley shades, shoes, clothes: now here I am still paying for all that stuff.
First she said "i'm dealing with a man." Then she said she's married. I don't think a wife would initially use the term "dealing with." She's lying.
KS: “ Modern women you are your mothers retirement plan, but what is she leaving you?”
My mom left me a lot.
@@chiniwillly not really lol . A lot to you women is crumbs to us .
@@Greatdebate112 my mom left me my home and land our farm.
Toilet paper
Nothing.
I hate it when women say “all you do is pay the bills”, says the person sitting at home with the greatest technology in history to do housework.
It's projection. They love to marginalize what we do when they know that they do little to nothing for the household. That's how they justify in their minds being so resentful and contemptuous.
Well maybe women hate when men say all you need us for is our womb....
@@aubreygrant7676 who says that nonsense.
I am ever grateful I stopped an MBA online program because the money just didn’t add up. Three years 60-80,000 cumulative for a 20,000 bump in pay. The system wants us in debt and broke because it limits mobility and options. However….that emperor photoshop has me in stitches. Lol.
you can make 20,000 grand a year collecting cans and investing that money in btc or eth even during a bear market
You should've got the degree.
$20,000 per year
X 20 years in the workforce
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$400,000 over your lifetime
($80,000) degree investment
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$320,000 net tuition without interest
@@AskAW or learn how to code from TH-cam and free pdf books and free meet ups and earn big money that way ....
it's the 21st century, information age.
buy a udemy course
If you go for the degree get your company to pay for it. There's no reason for you to continue to pay for extended college in today's market. Trust me I have a MSEE and a MBA. Be strategic with your time and money.
Where I’m from, the average mba starts at 130kish salary, for a 120k investment. Maybe look at different programs with better networking
Today I learned that Star Wars is more accurate to our history than the Color Purple
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I am truly blessed. I am a 50 y.o. "FBI", making 6 figures, no student loans, no credit card debt, 750+ credit score!! Also not single. Recently engaged to my 50 y.o. HV man, making 7 figures a year. Living life like it's golden. Black love is absolutely beautiful!
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Congratulations 🥳
Wheres the family in that?
@LongBonez Experience thanks love!
Kevin is just too funny. I don’t understand how people get mad at this man just speaking facts and cracking jokes at the same time
Cause it's too real 🤣 people got used to being lied to so much, they dont even know they're being lied to 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Truth is to much like being RIGHT !
1:03:22 LMAOOOO As a man, I'm totally OK with a simple life, as long as I have a TV and a sandwich, I'm happy
Hey women can live a simple life too.
They can. But do they want to?
@@chiniwillly they can but they don’t. You’re the biggest consumers of retail and social media. If you wanted a simple life the majority of average men would be desired by women.
@@chiniwillly wow, you females really don’t understand your own gender do you. So lost
@@jasonBGI I do and I am 💁🏽♀️
6th letter of alphabet = F
“Execute Order 66” = Order FF
Friendly Fire
Fast Food?
Thank you for putting modern women degrees, income, and debt burden into perspective. I hope you can at least save a few from the 6 figure debt that these schools are selling with little to no value.
It’s very sad that women are raising unprepared daughters. It’s like a vicious cycle. Usually the mom raises daughter to be modern and independent like her because her mother told her that’s the way to go. Only to find out as a adult you’d rather be traditional but we’re never taught anything about being traditional. Traditional women know how to budget, make productive choices, realizes a good thing, is proactive when it comes to being financially savvy and always respects the and lives within her husbands means. It’s called cooperation
The avg black man makes $42,000 a yr. The avg black woman makes $38,000 a yr. Yet it’s crazy how the media pushes this narrative that the women are the breadwinners in our community. This is why men need to be willing to tell speak out and tell our truths. Like the saying goes, until the Lion tells his own story, the tale of the hunt will always glorify the hunter.
They can do that because women are head of households where no man is in the house
They can do that because women are head of households where no man is in the house
Those averages are depressing
The men are not in many of these homes though so they're not breadwinners like they used to be
@@Nash0303 real talk!
As a caucasian male, I have been blessed to be accepted as a family member in a couple African American families, I've had the privilege of picking some brains of the women of the Big Momma generation.
One of the points I've heard is some accountability of, not being prepared for the time of choice. Choice of either having a man and working together, or not having a man and getting carried financially by Uncle Sam. The conflict of having choice was just that, having choice. According to some women I've spoken to, the newness of having a choice, made them reckless. Reckless in all of their decisions, for their kids as well. Having a man after making a choice, brought fear of accountability. They had said that, making a wrong choice suppresses the judgment of a man, hence "I can do bad all by myself", that's where it comes from. "I don't need no man" is said to come from the shame of knowing they messed up having no man, yet deflecting their strength, which is the S.I.G.N language the Godfather is always talking about.
Yes. That’s what ALL of this is about. They need us and feel trapped on this planet with us and they don’t like it. I don’t know whether men doing most everything since the beginning has engineered wxmen to be more like children or if their behaviors/decisions were the same (or worse, or have gotten better over time)… What say you?
Some Women can barely take the accountability, their mothers ain’t even trying to hear this! How dare you make them reflect on their poor choices and look in the mirror.
So true. They've given black women just enough so they find it easy to walk away from their marriages at the drop of a hat. Instead of for better or worse.
All women
FACTSSSS💯💯💯💯
Not just bw
Even in the marriage contract there is power given to women to walk away from the commitment & get rewarded on top of that.
It’s called «No fault divorce ».
Just when I thought I seen it all the snowbunny 🐇 called in and said she was a single mother on welfare living on a farm bcuz her baby daddy left her to be a COW WRANGLER 😳
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I quit my job of 2 years & 3 months to smoke weed on my TH-cam channel full time 💀
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Oh man I handled that really bad I was shaking so shy and embarrassed guys.
I couldn’t hardly hear him too lol. I was trying to be honest and Kevin was of course rough on me. I do have a job… people DO live on hardly any money if you do it right. I live with my family, and we own our land…
But man how you said it is the truth and it’s unfortunately pretty hilarious.
Yes he left me to be with a younger woman and a bunch of cows yes. Hahahah
Also I’m not single just to make a correction, not married but I have a bf. My god I was so on the spot I still feel like I’m STILL burning. 🥵
@@chiniwillly All of us who accepted single motherhood got burned on some level. It's a culture that's pervasive. Women have been handed a mess...and we made it messier. I like this show because I like the concept of men and women working to heal themselves...then coming together to heal each other. That's a beautiful thing when it happens, I've been blessed to have that experience, and it resulted in a 20+ year marriage. Anyhow, you were brave! 😂 almost no one comes out of a KS interview unscathed! 🌹
One of the weirdest things ever is a happily married WIFE telling their daughter to go to school and get a education to have their own money just in case and not to depend on a Man for much. From stay at home wives to working wives, they both preaching the same bullcorn!!! It’s on a much higher plain but it’s like somebody living a happy and content life and tell you it’s from God Almighty but then telling same said person to find their own path in the 🌎. 🤨🤨🤨
@@halliekit9376 exactly
You can be educated and have a healthy marriage at the same time.
I don’t see how one prevent the other.
Some high value men want traditional stay at home wives, while others like to have women as successful or as educated as them
How many couple forms in Ivy League Schools ?
@@indirasebas5152 Sure you can but they not speaking what they live.
@@lashonmathis5777 Fear, Scarcity, and Lack smh
What's wrong with your daughter being able to support herself as a grown ADULT?? You males need to stop being offended by everything a woman does lol
One of the best ways to pay your college debt down while in college is to send those 8-9,000 dollar refund checks back to them as soon as you get them. It’s their money anyway. Stop spending it like it’s yours.
Nah, put it in bitcoin
🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣Say it loud for the dummies on the back row
Kevin better talk his shit “As a man, I can’t change your plans unless I change your last name.” Yes sir!
Thank you Kevin for confirming what I already felt, I need to stop dating men with kids. I'm over it too much drama
My mother always made it clear that her children were her retirement plan, no questions asked! She encouraged us to be single and highly educated. After I married my husband she was livid and did everything she could to break up my marriage. I had to choose between my husband and life over my mother. I chose my husband and family and have no regrets. KS is right, we treat our mothers as gods without questions. It took my husband to point out how destructive she was in order for me to see the truth. Question your mothers true intentions
What did your mom do to try to break up your marriage? My mom wanted to be single, highly educated but a single mother so I can give her a grandchild. I am glad I did not oblige.
KS, The show SONS OF ANARCHY is another perfect example of this topic. In the end , the son had to kill the mother because she got so out of pocket.
Excellent analogy 💯
I forgot about that...
It's actually a part of the show that bikers criticize for being exaggerated
@@HiHello-wz6bx I would hope so.
"You are your mother's retirement plan" I felt that 😭 I'm literally planning if I should build her an inlaw suite on my property. She's a baby boomer and can't retire due to cost of living in my state. I'm squeezing my fiance a little tighter today🤣💞
I pray he stays with you 😅
@@freshkid2149 🤣🤣🙏🏽
Are YOU going to build it?
I'ma be honest if I were your fiance I'd fucking bounce
@@braxton9192 he's very family oriented comes from a huge close family more than I so he's actually encouraging it and excited about it more than I lol. One of the many reasons why I said yes to his proposal he's a real man/keeper and not afraid to deal with real life issues instead of "bouncing" 😊💞
"Food stamps don't come from the food stamp fairy" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
USC is one of the most expensive schools in CA. Others being Stanford up north. They don't call USC the *"University of Spoiled Children"* for nothing. It's a great school, and I'm a big fan of their sports program, but the school isn't for the common folk. Most who get degrees from USC and UCLA see themselves as being above everybody else. It's almost like a social status. Hence why USC was involved in that scandal in which rich people were paying bribes to get their kids admission.
My dad raised me on Star Wars and used it to explain everything from politics to anthropology to me as a kid lol.
Gaawwwhhdaaaamn he’s dropping gems. “Order 66 caused girls to destroy boys. And Boys to destroy themselves.”
Bars. This is 100% facts.
The last 10 years I've worked as maintenance and an inspector in low income housing. Shit gets deep, single mothers living in ditry houses while home all day with their 16 year old that just had a new kid. They're just sitting their waiting to die...
I’m a 60k plus a year “PHD” blue collar man with no student loan. I have less than 3 years to pay off my mortgage. A college degree is overpriced and way overated.
This school debt is freaking insane he is so right about people with high as they’re not making any money. I am 23 and make almost 60 K a year with just a high school diploma. My fiancé makes 85K year and he has just a diploma as well and we live well!
What's your occupation
What do you guys do?
If y’all ever wondered if this was still a men’s channel….worry no more 😂 the Star Wars references in this episode was spot on 😂. He even referenced the animated series (some of the absolute best Star Wars material). Well done Samuels
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Lol. I think some of these women calling in complaining that their husbands want them to stay home are trolling.
True. Who complains about that?
This is how deep the brainwashing is. Ask any man what he wants to do and he’ll say he wants to save enough to retire and do what he wants. Tell a modern woman you make $250,000 a year and she don’t need to work and they call it slavery. The best kept secret of being a stay at home mom/wife is that it is a part-time job and you get to spend 100% of your time with family and friends.
They dont know how good they have it. To have a man and a man that doesn't want you to work.
Kevin, I’m not sure if you have a podcast but I believe you’re probably working on one. It’s definitely needed! 💯
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Normal and debt free simply looks and "feels" boring ... that's the trap our current society places to keep people spending and paying taxes, it all comes down to how bad do you want to win in life, excellent show 👏
Then sign me up for boring. I love seeing my assets increase every day and not having to worry about consumer debt.
The South African girl who called about the Bride Price-(aka: iLobolo). The girl and her boyfriend who proposed marriage to her went about things the wrong way altogether. The boy was supposed to go speak to his uncles from his father side of the family first. Then his uncles are supposed to go inform his parents that their son intends to marry a certain woman. Thereafter after a family meeting is held between the boy, his parents and his uncles, where the boy shall be asked about the girl and her family. And also they shall discuss his financial standing with regards to the bride price and if he shall need help with that. Then a letter is written with regards to "bride price negotiations" aka:iLobolo and a question of a probable date for those negotiations. The letter is then hand delivered to the girl's father who must in return cantact one of the boys uncles regarding the date to hold those negotiations. By that time the girl's father has already communicated the message to his own family( e.g: his uncles and brothers especially). Unfortunately here in South Africa these young women were raised by rebellious women who didn't want to adhere to the cultural practices and norms because they were sold the feminist movement story. So they taught their daughters how to be rebellious thereby leaving them ignorant of important things. Here South Africa as a young man if you raise these issues, you'll get cancelled or ganged up on by angry women and get labeled as a "misogynist", "chauvinist", "woman oppressor"...etc
Oh wow, I really learned something here. And I didn't know how bad it had gotten in South Africa with the feminist movement that it's actually actively interfering with marriage proposals.
@@nellzdablackkingmodern day feminism has had a somewhat toxic effect to some extent. Actually it messes up the woman's mindset and thereof her attitude towards cultural practices and norms regarding marriage and the dynamics of natural gender roles.
Very informative. It should be the top comment.
You are actually not giving the REAL representation of our culture. You are absolutely correct on some but not everything you are saying is true though
@@kkkkk3139yes I am actually representing my culture correctly as a "Zulu" man. You on the other hand are a "Motswana". Batswana do things differently just like any other black indigenous ethnic group in South Africa. So it is redundant to say that I misrepresent our "culture" when culture in South Africa is so diverse. What I mentioned in my previous comment was merely the tip of the iceberg, I didn't go into detail about what actually happens on the day of the bride price negotiations, for an obvious reason, being that the processes that take place at that event are very long with probable complexities.
This is the realest thing I ever heard Currently dealing with this now. It's called the sandwich generation. Taking care of our children and adult parents.
Kevin, this is for you. God gave you a platform use it wisely Nourish the people.
Please provide us with some context..?
What do you mean? Sylvia
Why? Why did this lady think it was a good idea to get on such a public platform and disclose she has a four-year-old, receives food stamps, and earns less than $1,000 a month? I 100% agree with the question why is she even on the internet for something other than looking for employment. I feel sorry for her child.
Also, I'm a Hispanic woman and what Kevin said at the end of that call was the very truth! Trifling comes in many shades. And quite contrary to what most people think, the percentage of white Americans receiving welfare is higher than the percentage of black Americans!
She needed someone like Kevin to give her a reality check....If someone like Kevin cannot change her mind about what wrong she is doing, then no one can...
Well, desperation guides you to all the improper places…
bro there are tons of ladies like that out on the streets right at this very moment! god bless america!
Yep. A few of my post office worker friends told me how most of their routes were in white neighborhoods, and the amount of government assistant checks that they handed out there regularly......but thats never talked about.
False information. White folks receiving government assistance is NOT higher than black folks! That’s inaccurate! Last time I checked the SNAP website statistics, it didn’t show that! Fact check your stuff! 🤷🏽♂️
I bet that clip of Kevin telling the woman that women without kids should avoid dating men with kids is going to go viral.
It should go viral, cause being with a man with kids while u have none as a woman can be draining on so many levels, Im guessing it feels the same for a man without kids being with a woman with kids
@@buyi249 exactly it go goes both ways with that. don’t be with someone who has kids.
@House of Guards sadly I have to agree. My friends keep walking into the same nonsense situations with men with kids, I dont get it.
Surprised he even said that because that would rule him out from dating most females (since he has a child) AND he has also stated men should avoid women with kids. That would leave him with literally ZERO dating options lol. Where abouts did he even say this?
Also a nan having a kid is nothing at all like a woman having a kid since the man isn’t raising the child the mother is. It doesn’t interfere with his life or potential mates life.
@@TheOlzee his daughter is 21+ years old. I don't think I've ever heard him say his daughter causes drama in his life... 🤷🏽♂️
Studying for a degree is useful if it leads to a job that pays of the debt. Or even better if you have little to no debt after. Which is why many guys go into the trades. Sounds boring, but debt is low and you will be working right out of the gate.
Instead of being super smart and... having 25+ years of debt repayments hanging over your head. Which you can't get rid off because they are protected!
and as you know most people with degrees are not super smart
Kevin why did u take the Brittany video down??? Did you catch to much heat for not doing your research on her??
This Episode is so entertaining but yet important!!! This is my second time watching it and it still hits home.
Empress lord big momma! You kill me with your love for Star Wars. I respect that.
Poor educational planning. Research the salary and field and speak with headhunters in the industry before signing up for the program. Some advanced degrees aren't required or acknowledged. The better thing to do is find a job that helps pay! I was blessed to have a job that provided 90% tuition reimbursement for my undergrad & grad while gaining experience. (No CAP)
Y’all don’t realize how serious it is when he asked what are your mothers leaving you. My sisters are in utter disarray 4 years later after her death. That happened to my oldest sister. Was basically my mothers insurance plan.
Y’all can always get insurance for ur parents
Colleges engaged in preditory recruiting….and it works because of failure in the home and failure in high schools… This is sociatle dysfunction…tragic…
Same way the Athletic system manipulate single moms and their sons who have no father influence To guide them. So they send their sons off to these coaches who will be "like a father to them" and these athletes produce a ton of money for these institutions. But the odds of them making it on a pro level is so small. Why not stay with your Father and work in a business or trade with him...
my sister and I came from Ghana. As soon as we got here our father advice us to pursue a career in healthcare. both sisters are nurses (they are both married) and I am a cardiac sonographer not married yet but living with my girlfriend. I feel Kevin when he said if a father was in the house, these ladies wouldn't be taking huge loans to go for social service degrees.
Facts👍👍
I love the Star Wars reference. That was a good hook
KS was really teaching in this show. He gave so much information in his monologue. 🎯🎯🎯
Accountability is kryptonite, for Brittany Renner
42! Forty Two! Is there a “1” that someone forgot to carry or an exponent missing? Ain’t no way. No. What??!!?
Good livestream as usual godfather u are really a advocate for the black community.
Yup👍
En masse, the black family isn't leaving generational wealth; it's leaving plenty of generational trauma. 💯
It's leaving generational bills
Straight talk from Kevin. He is not lying, 2060 SS will be gone. Will be lucky if it's around in 15 years
HE DELETED THE OVERTIME BECAUSE THE MEN HURT HIS FEELINGS! 🤣🤣😂
GODFATHER IS ALWAYS RIGHT 👌🏿😭😭
Dang what did they say????
@@rossperreault833 Didn’t get to watch it all cause he removed it but pretty much he asked for men’s thoughts on the Brittney interview assuming they would agree with him (Spoiler: They didn’t) Kevin then tried to make the men look bad but apparently it didn’t work so he took the video down due to the majority of men disagreeing with him.
@@scaryterry8958 Kevin makes a lot of valid points for men and women. The thing that will be the fall will be him trying to controll the naritive when he is wrong. Take note when information is twisted or modified
@@rossperreault833 Yeah, I agree. Ironically enough, he just got done doing a show about SIGN(Shame, Insults, Guilt & Need to be right) language and how women utilize it against men but apparently he’s mastered it himself.
One man on the overtime show had a valid point about how Brittney was promoting thot culture to women, but Kevin used his own SIGN language to insult the man and attempt to make man look silly when the guy was actually telling the truth!
I believe another factor that will ultimately lead to Kevin’s downfall is his blatant hypocrisy and the many times he will contradict himself due to his own lack of integrity… He has no morals and as he stated in his previous show “The Real Deal With High Value Men” he believes that HVM can “Create their own rules” so he’s living in the same “Disney fantasy” he claims that modern women live in. Kevin has quite literally created his own world where he is never wrong and he’s hoping we as viewers won’t notice it… quite unsettling when u really think about it.
That’s what they say!
As a star wars nerd myself Im amazed kevin watched the clones wars. He didnt talk about another clone killed Fives when he found out the truth and tried to blow the whistle. Kinda like how white knights try to dystroy anyone that trys to tell the truth.
I work for the state..they pay my school..One free class per semester, and 2 classes I get a reimbursement, at the end of the semester they'll reimburse me...therefor I get a total of 3 classes free..That's all I'm doing..It may take me forever to get my degree ,but I'll be debt free..
Good for you
KS: Whats your name?
Girl: Kadiyatsu
KS: HADOKEN!!!!
White 42 y/o caller is the poster child for Section 8/ Food Stamps and/ or Social Welfare Programs.
If it was a man he’d be called a Loser.
Arkansas finest lol.... and I'm from Arkansas 🤦🏿♂️🤣
Hmmm why am I a poster child for food stamps? What’s section 8?, ok I looked it up.. no I own the land I live on, and I work hard. I was trying to be honest with Kevin that this is the background I am from… and that I do get food stamps yes… but I’m doing much better than an average person on food stamps because of the sacrifices my mother and all us siblings made with living a little hard when we first got our land.
Seems to me like this is what we should be doing to get people off of welfare… try to get them to elevate- get jobs get land and become tax payers themselves.
I totally flubbed that interview. I was trying to be honest, and wanted to talk about much more…. but I was so embarrassed so shy and completely flustered. He just ripped me apart which isn’t too surprising I guess that’s what he does.
@@bobbyharris6582 not from Arkansas
I rarely write on these but really geeked out when he actually implied he watched all of the clone series. It was great. Probably next in line as best Starwars series after original movies
And just like that....
Winter BEGAN.....
LMAO @ the Star Wars analogy. You, sir, are a king!
You ask the question at the beginning of the stream "Is it Modern W's fault?"
I personally do not believe it is. Men and W have been told that W's have been oppressed for 120+ years. Over time, W's slowly believed they were oppressed by constantly being told they were, until most of the women who didn't believe they were oppressed, were gone. I recently saw a video from 1976 or so asking W's about F-ism and it's effects and a lot of them still had more "Traditional" values in some aspects, but that is almost 50 years ago at this point. One W spoke about how she feels things are going bad and she is scared for the future (which she predicted because her predictions are happening now, but I do not recall her exact comment, just that she was correct).
When you have 120 years, which means 6 or so generations of W's who have been told they are oppressed, possibly having 3+ Generations of Single Moons, you just start to believe it, the Men will also start to believe it too, causing infighting between men. Men will then label each other based on their preferences, hence "Simps," "Betas," Alphas," etc..
Then over time you start adding that W's deserve more and more, and that Men deserve less and less until you get where we are today where Modern W's will say that male victims of false grapes deserve it for all of the injustice of the past, while simultaneously wanting to castrate all Men based on certain criteria such as castrating all men that are less than 6 feet, tall, have less than 6", are a certain race, etc. Then we see these crazy Modern W's who want to kill all men, blame all men for everything, etc. We also see how crazy and entitled they are to the point where they will destroy their homes, destroy their children, destroy everything for themselves and to feel happy. It's all SELFISHNESS and "ME ME ME ME ME!"
In the end they have been turned into selfish, Narcissistic creatures and they don't even realize what they have become. That's the saddest part about it all... However... It's hard to feel sad when they wont recognize it, and will even argue against it. Not even that, but the fact they will cause so much harm is also something we cannot feel sorry for. Instead, it's time for the world to feel sorry for the men who have been destroyed by these succubi.
The thing is, there are still a small subset of W's today that are "Traditional" in many ways, it is just much more rare than it used to be, and it is ever increasingly becoming rarer.
Yes to this!!! If I wasn’t melting from embarrassment and shyness I’d have articulated this! Oh man, Kevin is scary and sharp and ready to just tear you up.
I feel this so much. I dunno really what the solution is tho. It’s a sad state of affairs. But man, I think we all need to be closer to our families and support one another.
@Tyler Harris men are victims and women are too… tho I’m a more roundabout way. What Kevin is pointing out happening to modern women- that’s how they’re getting screwed.
Anyway it’s a powerless place to be to think you’re a victim. I never want to be a victim. I wanna be an owner of my life not be a victim.
Respect your perspectives"you cleared"🆙 a lot..
People need to do the math on a degree program before signing up. It pretty much anyone’s fault who chose poorly on what the cost benefit equation looks like for a particular degree.
Getting a degree with no plan on how to pay for it is dumb. Make choices to maximize the benefits and minimize costs. Engineering, computer science, and similar degrees have a high benefit to cost ratio.
KS was spot on with the studio apt analogy as long as we have Sunday Night Football. Simple living.
I was raised by a single mother and grandmother. Me and my Sister were both taught not to depend on anyone but ourselves and to take care of any children we had, not marriage.
It’s plenty of men that have no desire to abandon their children but still don’t desire marriage.
Women taught that during feminism from the 70’s till today.
We are the sons they created🤷🏾♂️