Makes total sense. My husband is BLESSED because I’m always saying things like that to him. I kiss his hand, I rub the back of his head when we’re driving, I sit on his lap, I stroke his face, I always rub his back when we are standing in line, I flirt with him ALL the time. I tell him he always make me tingle! And it’s been nearly 30 years and it’s still GOOD! ❤️
I meet an “ average Kieth” a month ago. When I asked what he wanted in a woman he simply said “ someone who is nice to me” . That response almost brought tears to my eyes. 🥺
There's nothing like a woman who just simply brings peace into your life. After busting our ass all day, coming home to someone who can provide a sense of calm is priceless.
It's a good feeling. I work at least two 16 hours shifts a week, putting close to 60 hours a week, it feels good to come home to my wife who supports me. That's what motivates me.
This makes me appreciate my wife. She does all these things and more. I will never leave her. I don’t even look at other women. I just want to show my wife that she made a good choice in accepting my proposal.
@@Sagepage818 thank you for showing your husband that you appreciate him for being who he is, that's all MEN want to know. That's what I told my ex when we got married, but, it didn't register.
That's Whas Up... I'm glad my wife can say that her husband is a Master Welding-Engineer that takes care of her and our 2 boys. These women want a career man but find and have baby's with Losers. Pretty Sad
Yeah but with CIARA she had to deal with a guy who is a baby sperm daddy that was not responsible and her trust in men would have been devastated because one man could put all men as guilty by association but because she married a real king who will protect her she put her trust in that's why she's happy today than she ever been 🌹 !
I asked a girl I was dating to buy me a $20 sweater from her trip. She came back empty handed. She turned around and purchased a plane ticket to take her dog to a trip. I knew she was NOT the ONE,
That’s sad.. but I actually hear this a lot. I love gifting, and I remember dating this one guy and for his birthday I bought him this video game he had mentioned one time. He was so shocked and started crying.. because he said he never had a woman do anything like that for him. The amount of times he thanked me.. and I was baffled .. because I was like just for a video game? I didn’t even do anything spectacular.
Kevin got me out here being productive as hell 😂, lived in Chicago my whole life bullshittin around took a chance moved to LA a month ago an one week in got hired at LAX an in one month they already sending me to Dallas for work im literally working an vacationing at the same time ….. awe and by the way never been to jail, no kids , 27 yrs old , no loan debt …….. thanks Kevin all he telling yall is do the work nevermind the messenger listen to the damn message 🙌🏾💯
I got my masters in electrical engineering when I was 24 and broke into 6 figures 2 years ago at 30. New engineers start out at about 60 to 70k on average. How do you not know where your bf went to school? Sounds more like a never ending one night stand than a relationship.
I’m going to let you guys in on a dirty secret. Women typically stick with you when they don’t know everything about you. The moment these women know everything about you, the thrill is gone.
The night before my wedding I expressed some doubt to my mother about marrying my now husband. My mother gave me a piece of advice that is so on point that I tell it other woman: “he’s a man for the rest of your life, not a man for everyday fun times.” It puts life into perspective.
Shoutout to yo momma.....Instagram got girls thinking that men are for gifts and trips to Bali so they take pics and post “me and somebody son” . It’s very sad
As a married man, there are some painful and uncomfortable truths in this. Affection from wives is doled out like a saline drip; one tiny bit every now and again. But her coworkers, her shows, friends, hobbies, and interests get all the time and attention they need and then some.
the majority of working married women belong to white zaddy, not to some secondary husband. 8 -10 hours per day of her bowing to the influence of "boss" Competition from within the corp, competition from new prospective recruits to the corp, all ensure continued subservience;; annnnnd zaddy has his hand forever wavering over her "paycheck" This IS the master she serves
This video is INCREDIBLY INSIGHTFUL,,,,His quick and accurate analysis is AMAZING,,,I literally felt every bit of that woman’s pain (the one who hasn’t had a relationship in 8 yrs). I truly hope she’s better. Damm I miss this brother
My mom hipped me on to Kevin about two months ago…. This man is a total game changer. He needs support and protection because you can rest assured, they’re coming for him because he speaks the truth to power and folks don’t like that.
Ironically, when we start to get better, we also often get sad---because we start to realize how much we've missed out on, how badly certain people failed us, what the younger version of us actually deserved.....Healing involves healthy grieving. No way around it.
Kevin is killing it. I had an experience with a woman, who had a femininity disguise when it all was nice and easy, but as soon as some pressure came, it was out the window and I was looking at a dude, behaviorally speaking. It was crazy. I'm not sure there is a good solution to this really, because those kind of women, and there are a lot of them, practice this kind of behavior for decades unobstructed, because of the Pretty Privilege, so when the right guy comes along, she wants to make it work, but at that point it's like swimming against the current. She can do it for a little bit, but she always fails in a long run and the ugly tendencies come out, which she practiced through out riding the carousel. She knows how to spin plates and be a side chick, but has no idea what it means to be a wife. Also I think psychologically she is afraid to let go of the control, because she remembers how horribly she treated her simps on her SMV peak and she knows that boomerang always comes back.
You nailed. I married one but I had some patience built in and we had to through a lot fights to make for her to realize she was controlling, nagging, and esmaculating. I think she started watching KS secretly and she changed real quick probably because she saw how ridiculous modern women were on KS show and how it doesn't hold up. I had also told that if it wasn't for our friendship beforehand, I would have left. She also tried to make it look like I was the one controlling. Lol no more.
It's funny how I'm not Black but a dude all the way living in South East Asia but there's not a single video from Kevin that I've missed. Though I'm not relevant to the issues discussed here, I'm mainly here learning the ways Kevin speaks, the way he brings his points and makes the other side admit what they don't see. You can also learn humble from this man because he's trying to save the black community without taking credits for it, not once I've seen him bragging or being prideful.
@@driseyboy We need more people like Kevin to be honest, you know back in the days when people were living in villages, we all had a village chief/leader that makes decisions through his wisdom and knowledge. That's what Kevin's doing here. We need to bring that role back into this modern society. Someone who intervenes and tells us what's right or wrong because these days most of us living a life without consequences and shifting blames on everyone but us.
@@ShaunHensley People like Kevin will never be a slave to success, I mean it's good to have but they always know how to not let it get into your head. Though I wonder what has he been doing these past 50 years to only come now. Lol. I guess he grew with abundant of wisdoms.
My heart goes out to Janeth. Good Sis, please seek therapy to address the trauma and let that pain go. You're beautiful! You're valued! Don't allow yourself to be stuck in that head space. I'm rooting for you!! ❤❤
When he said “get something to drink “ I was just saying the truth is hard to digest. So many black women call others “pick me’s” and as someone who has a high value man, I can’t begin to say how insane that logic is. Because I’m feminine, fit, friendly, and will show my affection outright, I’m a pick me…… I guess I’ll die a happily married pick me. 🤷🏾♀️
Pretty sad that feminism still keeps pushing "women need men like fish needs a bycycle" agenda even after studies find that women antidepressant usage is skyrocketing.
Where does she break down crying though? I watched the whole thing but she looks like she wants to cry, but I don't see or hear her actually break down crying.
The woman that started crying just got the wake up call she needed. Was it harsh? Maybe, but being uncomfortable motivates you to do something. She already wasted 8 years, but I bet after hearing this she won't be wasting anymore.
Honestly he just saved her life, the fact that I saw that Jesus picture in the background just proved to me she got hurt and is religious , aka no sex until marriage .
Tough *love;* more useful than typical _“queen”_ pandering... _"Brutal honesty is a dumb term. Brutal should be associated with lying. You're a brutal liar.”_ - Patrice O’Neal
It’s absolutely no guaranteed that she might won’t Take a bunch of pills and ends her life. Probably won’t, but it won’t just magically erase her trauma some strangers tells her off. I hope she actually seeks professional support as it Will take a while.
This episode was really amazing. You got the full range of women. Ones that are combative, emotionally broken, and the example of a married women happy being herself. Keep doing your thing @kevinrsamuels 🙏🏽
Th problem is that too many modem women want the benefits of a traditional women while still being a toxic feminist and the 2 are NOT equivalent. It is the gender equivalent of do as as I say not as I do.
@@dookiebrains3824 I can only remember one lady who said they actually wanted to pay significant bills after giving birth to their first child for the rest of their life. Most women...even feminist have a problem going dutch on dates. The number one reason for divorce in America is financial concerns. If 50/50 was commonly accepted- these scenarios would not exist.
This isn’t the first time I’ve heard the “Black men can’t read & write” thing. I want to know why the most educated group in America son’s that they have full custody of can’t read or write. Sounds like they’re deliberately raise them that way, so they can’t make it own their own & will always have to depend on a woman (Their mother & other black women) for a place to stay. Notice how the girls are raised in the same house, but they have no problem with reading & writing & getting a degree.
@UCGYVH9YzfKqRTHXd_fZsFPw You’re a Nigerian male that ran from your home country because you failed there. The fact that you’re trying to give out life advice when majority of your people in Nigeria are struggling is ridiculous & you know it. Move along jollof before you get your feelings hurt.
To anyone wondering about why I left my second comment here is why. Right after I left my original comment, some Nigerian male immediately left a comment insulting black American men. I do not tolerate disrespect from no one, especially an immigrant that’s only in America because black men fought for his kind to be able to live in America & have a better life than they would have in their failed country they ran from.
The devouring mother is real. She will make Son-Husbands out of her sons and make them unable to leave the home. This is why sports are emphasized over education. They train him to get that first million for her.
This makes me EVEN more grateful i married the woman I did. Seeing some of these horror stories, damaged people, miserable people(no offense and g-d bless them I hope they find happiness), it makes me grateful.
Bruh, YT deleted my comment where I quoted The Godfather saying “See, women today are afraid to be vulnerable. And that’s feminine” You (@Mr Xavier) did comment but yeah.. YT have done what they know best. Just thought I should let you know.
YT is part of the BigTech *beast systems,* @@kennyking4554. We do what we can to share best practices, while they censor messages that resonate with the masses. They can't stop the truth brother, they can only hope to delay it! ✊🏽
And if they don't WANT TO... that's fine too. Not an excuse, Not every woman desires to fit into a mans mold. And every man isn't attracted to that TYPE.
I read somewhere many years ago that our ancestors practiced the wife/mother staying home and contributing to the mental, spiritual, health, and overall fortitude of her family! This was important in maintaining a strong family. But we were convinced that we can get more by being strong independent women!
A woman I was dating ghosted me because she felt my “energy was off”…whole time I’m smiling saying im fine. Women are very up and down. We just want consistency
This Is The Video That Should Go Viral! All The Jewels Dropped Here.. Women Around The WORLD Should Be Thanking This Man For This Level Of Transparency
Audio engineering will get you between $50-$60k. You have to be top flight to hit median of $70k. Anything over $80k, you're working for Spielberg or Universal Studios level.
Kevin’s tips/suggestions towards the beginning of the video are spot on. If my ex had been reliable, dependable, and affectionate we would have been married right now.
Kevin you were spot on in your messaging today. Thank goodness I learned these valuable lessons early on in life as far as catering to my man, being Affectionate, spoiling him all while staying in my lane. I hope others take heed to this bc this is absolutely true what Kevin was spitting out today. If you don’t believe him ask some of your make friends and they will co-signed on this!
Those women not knowing the basics of their BF’s life, education, his accomplishments and journey….yeah as a man in several serious relationships, i lived that.
Gon ask my girl when and where did I graduate from jus to make sure ....they’ll take the pipe raw and ask that you provide but don’t care how you do it.
Peace and Blessings to you Brother Kevin. This has been therapy for me as a Single Farther with one biological child. I agree with so far everything even your methods of questions. Keep going my Brother. I've been talking to alot of Brothers about your program and most Men are in agreement. Salute to you.
Tell us yes..this man never lied...I smile and clap..my husband loves this old head..spitting facts...of LIFE..WE 25 YEARS 💪STRONG OVER HERE..AM NOT THE AVERAGE WOMAN..I PRACTRICE WHAT I PREACH..
I really like kevin. You dont have to agree with everything he says or how but, you gots to respect it. He putting us all on game! Especially Black People.
I'm tearing up because I've been horrible. I have a good man and I have been completely out of line. I'm ready to be feminine and vulnerable. I'm totally writing him a note to say thank you. Kevin thank you for the real talk.
@@mikhenso_bvuma5426 I mean it's true. Ya know. I never realized how shitty most of us have been. It's getting worse too with how sensitive our culture is getting.
This is probably one of the best most valuable videos you've ever made! When all the videos out there tell women do be independent to not seem to eager and play games... this here is probably worth more than all videos combined as no one really says it! 🙏🙏🙏
40 min in the smartest shhh ever said out loud. Keep preaching godfather!!!! GD that summed it up in about 2 min. So simple. Wtffff is so complicated???!?!
I was so relieved when you mentioned being openly affectionate to your man. For the longest time I thought that doing these things would make me clingy and that the guy that I am with would respect me less.
The 31 yr old who hadn't dated in 8 years was my ex I broke up with yesterday. Nothing I did was enough and her ability to show me any emotion at all ended our relationship...
OG I’m 24 jus wanna say thank you. You have saved me in all honesty. Most men I kno in weak/false marriages to the point I was like I might never have a wife or kids but thank you OG !
That guy knows me better than I know myself. Its so true what he says. For me its so important that she shows me her love by touching, kissing me etc. Right now I do think about leaving her because she isnt doing it like it was before... (no consistancy)
You drastically helped that 31 year old Godfather. I hope she took heed to what you told her. I feel sorry for what she went thru, but she needs to seek help becsuse it's not over for her & you could see she isn't a bad person, just hurt.. but again.
As a 37-year-old single male, I can honestly tell you that this man is right on point. KS has led me to look in the mirror. I must put the work in to be the best version of myself. It will be a long road but I'll live with the results. I'll be grateful if it does happen but if it doesn't...it doesn't.
Makes total sense. My husband is BLESSED because I’m always saying things like that to him. I kiss his hand, I rub the back of his head when we’re driving, I sit on his lap, I stroke his face, I always rub his back when we are standing in line, I flirt with him ALL the time. I tell him he always make me tingle! And it’s been nearly 30 years and it’s still GOOD! ❤️
The recipe for keeping the fire burning! That's how you keep your man focused on you Sis.." Giving him attention" !!
It’s so damn simple. Blessings to your union sis, continued prosperity.
That sounds like the best way to keep the fire burning! Does he also reciprocate these "sparks" or is that not expected?
That's beautiful
Yes!!
I meet an “ average Kieth” a month ago. When I asked what he wanted in a woman he simply said “ someone who is nice to me” . That response almost brought tears to my eyes. 🥺
That is 100% of men (alpha males).
Awwww😩😩😩😩
Yup girls can be really mean..catty vengeful
It's rare that any black woman even smiles or says hello.
That's all we want. Men can handle the rest
This was one of his BEST BEST SHOWS!!!! This cut SO DEEP! His energy was on point... So fatherly and caring.. I miss him so much. 😢
There's so many of them that touch home. All of it tends to be on point but many are just a Need to watch. The Godfather is indeed missed. ♾️🎩✨️
"Modern women have become the men they dislike". Wow, exactly!!
Ain't that some shit?
FAX!
Yes, they have literally become what they hate. They behave just like the fuckboys they spend so much time complaining about smh.
Being a man isn't all that when you're built to be a woman. Feminism destroyed at its highest level.
Yup. Too busy working, aggressive. Overly “WAP’d”, and broke.
There's nothing like a woman who just simply brings peace into your life. After busting our ass all day, coming home to someone who can provide a sense of calm is priceless.
It's a good feeling. I work at least two 16 hours shifts a week, putting close to 60 hours a week, it feels good to come home to my wife who supports me. That's what motivates me.
Best feeling in the world. A wife who provides peace makes a husband want to provide even more for the family.
BOOM!!
@@familyman4668 bingo 🙏🏾 it makes you want to do everything for the family easily 👊🏾
Say that again sr.
This makes me appreciate my wife. She does all these things and more. I will never leave her. I don’t even look at other women. I just want to show my wife that she made a good choice in accepting my proposal.
That's what I'm talking about brother. Shout out to the good hubbies, more of us than society gives credit to.
Congrats bro
👍👍
It would be nice, If more men think like you.
I take my hat off to you.
Tell your wife this also.
Amen bro, me too. We're extremely lucky.
Untreated trauma becomes a life filled with drama.
Facts! Good shit right here.
@@rickychairez1 🤜🏾🤛🏾
Mfing bars right there. Good shit.
💯
Rhymes so it's true. XD
I cannot live without my husband I thank God for him everyday ❤
Wishi could like this 1000 times ❤️👏👏👏👏👏
@@paulbunyan9436 Absolutely, tell him everyday how much I grateful for him and I say thank you to him single time he does everything for me.
@@Sagepage818 thank you for showing your husband that you appreciate him for being who he is, that's all MEN want to know. That's what I told my ex when we got married, but, it didn't register.
Awesome! and I'm pretty sure he can't live without you either. Happy marriage goes a long way ❤️
That's Whas Up... I'm glad my wife can say that her husband is a Master Welding-Engineer that takes care of her and our 2 boys. These women want a career man but find and have baby's with Losers. Pretty Sad
Ciara C= caring I = Interested A= Affectionate R = Reliable A= Good Attitude gems 💎 for life KS
Yeah but with CIARA she had to deal with a guy who is a baby sperm daddy that was not responsible and her trust in men would have been devastated because one man could put all men as guilty by association but because she married a real king who will protect her she put her trust in that's why she's happy today than she ever been 🌹 !
I asked a girl I was dating to buy me a $20 sweater from her trip. She came back empty handed. She turned around and purchased a plane ticket to take her dog to a trip. I knew she was NOT the ONE,
Glad you realized that sooner than later.
That’s sad.. but I actually hear this a lot. I love gifting, and I remember dating this one guy and for his birthday I bought him this video game he had mentioned one time. He was so shocked and started crying.. because he said he never had a woman do anything like that for him. The amount of times he thanked me.. and I was baffled .. because I was like just for a video game? I didn’t even do anything spectacular.
As they say. Actions speak louder than words.
@@ariamitchell9455 dudes get socks. Chicks want rocks.
Not all women, but many will squeeze you for all you got, without being reciprocal and remorseful about it.
10 pushups for every "i feel like" is going strong! I may have to throw in some pullups ;) lets get it
New IG challenge. 😁
@@ImpowermentGroup Brah we need a leg day lmao, got to balance this out....
They just feel everything and not think anything 🤔...maaad maaad
@@1reaper2 , you are in the spirit
U gonna be swolle 😂😂😂
Kevin got me out here being productive as hell 😂, lived in Chicago my whole life bullshittin around took a chance moved to LA a month ago an one week in got hired at LAX an in one month they already sending me to Dallas for work im literally working an vacationing at the same time ….. awe and by the way never been to jail, no kids , 27 yrs old , no loan debt …….. thanks Kevin all he telling yall is do the work nevermind the messenger listen to the damn message 🙌🏾💯
Keep up the good work Young Brother and welcome to Los Angeles!
No babies fam until at least 36 and you'll be super good
Keep going!!!!!!!!!!
Keep grinding! The purpose is coming bro!
Sharky Luv appreciate it yall 💯
"Whenever it becomes complicated, the truth isn't being told" Kevin just dropped big big gems with this one. Remember this!
Big gems!!! It’s not complicated!!!
No it isn't, the sad part is, they make it complicated.
They make it complicated to lie
"I help more women in one week than you helped in a year...with the truth!" 🔥
A Latina understands 🏆
Facts could care less about feelings well said.
🌬🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥☄️
I got my masters in electrical engineering when I was 24 and broke into 6 figures 2 years ago at 30. New engineers start out at about 60 to 70k on average. How do you not know where your bf went to school? Sounds more like a never ending one night stand than a relationship.
Plus Kevin didn't ask if he had any other baby mamas
I’m going to let you guys in on a dirty secret. Women typically stick with you when they don’t know everything about you. The moment these women know everything about you, the thrill is gone.
I think she is confusing an electrician to an electrical engineer.
She’s a cap artist 🧢
What industry you working in brother ? King to King
The night before my wedding I expressed some doubt to my mother about marrying my now husband. My mother gave me a piece of advice that is so on point that I tell it other woman: “he’s a man for the rest of your life, not a man for everyday fun times.” It puts life into perspective.
Wise, realistic mother! 🏆👏👏
Shoutout to yo momma.....Instagram got girls thinking that men are for gifts and trips to Bali so they take pics and post “me and somebody son” . It’s very sad
Make enough daughters for my sons
Your mother gave awesome advice. Please have her teach more women if you can.
@Ron Y. - We’re Serbian - former Yugoslavia, but we’ve been in Canada since I was 7.
Kevin is a genius I'm not gone lie. I love listening to this man.
As a married man, there are some painful and uncomfortable truths in this. Affection from wives is doled out like a saline drip; one tiny bit every now and again. But her coworkers, her shows, friends, hobbies, and interests get all the time and attention they need and then some.
That last woman with the autistic son is wonderful! She is doing great things for her husband, herself, and her family.
Preach
the majority of working married women belong to white zaddy, not to some secondary husband.
8 -10 hours per day of her bowing to the influence of "boss"
Competition from within the corp, competition from new prospective recruits to the corp, all ensure continued subservience;; annnnnd zaddy has his hand forever wavering over her "paycheck"
This IS the master she serves
Wow, I told my wife this yesterday and you know what she did
She held the phone
I was like hello
She was like I’m here
@mike Walters Cool it may not be, yet factual it remains. He who has the gold has the power. Test her loyalty and find out this truth the hard way
“I want women who are relaxed in their feminine so men can go out and dominate in their masculine.”
Kevin dropped so many gems in this one!!!
YES
👏🏾
This video is INCREDIBLY INSIGHTFUL,,,,His quick and accurate analysis is AMAZING,,,I literally felt every bit of that woman’s pain (the one who hasn’t had a relationship in 8 yrs). I truly hope she’s better. Damm I miss this brother
My mom hipped me on to Kevin about two months ago…. This man is a total game changer. He needs support and protection because you can rest assured, they’re coming for him because he speaks the truth to power and folks don’t like that.
Ironically, when we start to get better, we also often get sad---because we start to realize how much we've missed out on, how badly certain people failed us, what the younger version of us actually deserved.....Healing involves healthy grieving. No way around it.
Y'all can talk shit about ks all you want but this man was helping women! Bringing them to reality!
Kevin is killing it. I had an experience with a woman, who had a femininity disguise when it all was nice and easy, but as soon as some pressure came, it was out the window and I was looking at a dude, behaviorally speaking. It was crazy. I'm not sure there is a good solution to this really, because those kind of women, and there are a lot of them, practice this kind of behavior for decades unobstructed, because of the Pretty Privilege, so when the right guy comes along, she wants to make it work, but at that point it's like swimming against the current. She can do it for a little bit, but she always fails in a long run and the ugly tendencies come out, which she practiced through out riding the carousel. She knows how to spin plates and be a side chick, but has no idea what it means to be a wife. Also I think psychologically she is afraid to let go of the control, because she remembers how horribly she treated her simps on her SMV peak and she knows that boomerang always comes back.
Great comment
Wow Facts
This shit to long Brodie
So spot on!
You nailed. I married one but I had some patience built in and we had to through a lot fights to make for her to realize she was controlling, nagging, and esmaculating. I think she started watching KS secretly and she changed real quick probably because she saw how ridiculous modern women were on KS show and how it doesn't hold up. I had also told that if it wasn't for our friendship beforehand, I would have left. She also tried to make it look like I was the one controlling. Lol no more.
It's funny how I'm not Black but a dude all the way living in South East Asia but there's not a single video from Kevin that I've missed. Though I'm not relevant to the issues discussed here, I'm mainly here learning the ways Kevin speaks, the way he brings his points and makes the other side admit what they don't see. You can also learn humble from this man because he's trying to save the black community without taking credits for it, not once I've seen him bragging or being prideful.
Man that’s facts brotha! This is work for our community
@@driseyboy We need more people like Kevin to be honest, you know back in the days when people were living in villages, we all had a village chief/leader that makes decisions through his wisdom and knowledge. That's what Kevin's doing here. We need to bring that role back into this modern society. Someone who intervenes and tells us what's right or wrong because these days most of us living a life without consequences and shifting blames on everyone but us.
@@ShaunHensley People like Kevin will never be a slave to success, I mean it's good to have but they always know how to not let it get into your head. Though I wonder what has he been doing these past 50 years to only come now. Lol. I guess he grew with abundant of wisdoms.
Exxxactly….. people get mad at him for telling the gospel truth. He just gives a different perspective… a more realistic one.
My heart goes out to Janeth. Good Sis, please seek therapy to address the trauma and let that pain go. You're beautiful! You're valued! Don't allow yourself to be stuck in that head space. I'm rooting for you!! ❤❤
When he said “get something to drink “ I was just saying the truth is hard to digest. So many black women call others “pick me’s” and as someone who has a high value man, I can’t begin to say how insane that logic is. Because I’m feminine, fit, friendly, and will show my affection outright, I’m a pick me…… I guess I’ll die a happily married pick me. 🤷🏾♀️
That’s not what a pick me is. A pick me puts other women down to make herself look better
@@Tmichellefit so in other words the women calling feminine women pick mes are pick mes?
Man that girl who broke down crying with the 8 years thing man that was raw... Good stuff
Pretty sad that feminism still keeps pushing "women need men like fish needs a bycycle" agenda even after studies find that women antidepressant usage is skyrocketing.
Whats the time stamp for it
1:52:30
Where does she break down crying though? I watched the whole thing but she looks like she wants to cry, but I don't see or hear her actually break down crying.
@kevinsamuels
Hey guuurl...I thought you only dated 10s? But that man in your bed was a 3 at best. He did look slim tho.
Classic Show! RIP KS!
Thank you so much KS 💪🏾✊🏾
I wish I heard this message 18 years ago!!! I'm imparting this knowledge on my children. Thank you x
The woman that started crying just got the wake up call she needed. Was it harsh? Maybe, but being uncomfortable motivates you to do something. She already wasted 8 years, but I bet after hearing this she won't be wasting anymore.
Honestly he just saved her life, the fact that I saw that Jesus picture in the background just proved to me she got hurt and is religious , aka no sex until marriage .
Tough *love;* more useful than typical _“queen”_ pandering...
_"Brutal honesty is a dumb term. Brutal should be associated with lying. You're a brutal liar.”_ - Patrice O’Neal
@@jshooper7819 Yeah, it was brutal to watch. I wish her the best, and hope she gets the help she needs to work through her trauma.
Well said!
It’s absolutely no guaranteed that she might won’t
Take a bunch of pills and ends her life. Probably won’t, but it won’t just magically erase her trauma some strangers tells her off. I hope she actually seeks professional support as it
Will take a while.
This episode was really amazing. You got the full range of women. Ones that are combative, emotionally broken, and the example of a married women happy being herself. Keep doing your thing @kevinrsamuels 🙏🏽
All I just want to say is, THANK YOU defending black men, the voice and voiceless ones. You are 100percent on point. THANK YOU!
My heart goes out to Janeth! I hope she she gets the helps she needs, and realizes the hope she has with healing!
Kevin is 100% right....😂😂💯
Th problem is that too many modem women want the benefits of a traditional women while still being a toxic feminist and the 2 are NOT equivalent. It is the gender equivalent of do as as I say not as I do.
Facts. 50/50 isn't naturally attractive to women in relationships, especially after children are involved.
@@familyman4668 what fucking relationships have you been in because 50/50 has never been an issue for mine
@@dookiebrains3824 I can only remember one lady who said they actually wanted to pay significant bills after giving birth to their first child for the rest of their life. Most women...even feminist have a problem going dutch on dates. The number one reason for divorce in America is financial concerns. If 50/50 was commonly accepted- these scenarios would not exist.
Bruh you right they are confused and delusional keep ya passport open and enjoy single and sane forever
This isn’t the first time I’ve heard the “Black men can’t read & write” thing. I want to know why the most educated group in America son’s that they have full custody of can’t read or write. Sounds like they’re deliberately raise them that way, so they can’t make it own their own & will always have to depend on a woman (Their mother & other black women) for a place to stay. Notice how the girls are raised in the same house, but they have no problem with reading & writing & getting a degree.
@UCGYVH9YzfKqRTHXd_fZsFPw You’re a Nigerian male that ran from your home country because you failed there. The fact that you’re trying to give out life advice when majority of your people in Nigeria are struggling is ridiculous & you know it. Move along jollof before you get your feelings hurt.
Educated black women hate intelligent black men
To anyone wondering about why I left my second comment here is why.
Right after I left my original comment, some Nigerian male immediately left a comment insulting black American men. I do not tolerate disrespect from no one, especially an immigrant that’s only in America because black men fought for his kind to be able to live in America & have a better life than they would have in their failed country they ran from.
@@roberthicks5550 Thank you 🙏🏾.
The devouring mother is real. She will make Son-Husbands out of her sons and make them unable to leave the home. This is why sports are emphasized over education.
They train him to get that first million for her.
Literally just rewatching every episode forever
This makes me EVEN more grateful i married the woman I did. Seeing some of these horror stories, damaged people, miserable people(no offense and g-d bless them I hope they find happiness), it makes me grateful.
There's *no* excuse ladies! Being physically fit, feminine, cooperative, etc is _fully_ in your control; something _every_ abled bodied woman can do.
Bruh, YT deleted my comment where I quoted The Godfather saying “See, women today are afraid to be vulnerable. And that’s feminine”
You (@Mr Xavier) did comment but yeah.. YT have done what they know best. Just thought I should let you know.
I miss the good old days pre 2008 when the average female , including black females , weighed under 140 ...
YT is part of the BigTech *beast systems,* @@kennyking4554. We do what we can to share best practices, while they censor messages that resonate with the masses.
They can't stop the truth brother, they can only hope to delay it! ✊🏽
And if they don't WANT TO... that's fine too. Not an excuse, Not every woman desires to fit into a mans mold. And every man isn't attracted to that TYPE.
@@skaijohni2809 smh
This brother did such a thorough analysis and work among black relationships and families. Time will continue to tell. May he rest in peace.
Hands down this was the best show you have done and that is saying a whole lot. THANK YOU for caring enough to help us!
Caller: 2 years isn’t a long time.
Kevin: Bish what???!
It’s not when you think you have forever ♾
I read somewhere many years ago that our ancestors practiced the wife/mother staying home and contributing to the mental, spiritual, health, and overall fortitude of her family! This was important in maintaining a strong family. But we were convinced that we can get more by being strong independent women!
If only woman knew how much this man is lacing us with some GEMS!!!
ME: ✍💅
They not hearing u sis💯👌🏾🤦🏾♂️😂😂 Men are too SIMPLE to be having these Unnecessary problems with Modern women
I think they are listening...just not broadcasting it to the masses.
The only women that don't like Kevin are toxic women who take no responsibility
Exactly
Mannnnnnn I Held My Chest In Awwee.. This Man Is The Work Of An Angel.. So Refreshing To Hear
It’s sad that the 31 year old was holding back tears, but I’m glad she heard what was needed to be told to her
Kevin was necessary. Even now he is a companion to women, guiding us on our path to be better.
A woman I was dating ghosted me because she felt my “energy was off”…whole time I’m smiling saying im fine. Women are very up and down. We just want consistency
You dodged a bullet bro, God is goood
@simon kilface as a woman perspective that how females are today this is why I don’t deal with females myself I don’t have none female friends
when she hits wall and comes back, with no options and male attention. Don’t take her back.
@simon kilface I know that
@@ms.camillewarrenempress31 you sound like a walking red flag
This Is The Video That Should Go Viral! All The Jewels Dropped Here.. Women Around The WORLD Should Be Thanking This Man For This Level Of Transparency
His best show so far and that’s saying a lot. This show was deep and sad. We gotta fix our Culture!
best show yet. You just keep getting better. You are learning, growing teaching right along with us. thank you.
She tried to get away with the music "engineer" being a real engineer 👷🏾♀️!!!!! I almost died!
Audio engineering is def an actual trade.
It actually is 🤦🏽♂️
I don’t think she really knew the difference though.
You’ll make way more money in the Music industry especially if your good
Audio engineering will get you between $50-$60k. You have to be top flight to hit median of $70k. Anything over $80k, you're working for Spielberg or Universal Studios level.
Kevin’s tips/suggestions towards the beginning of the video are spot on. If my ex had been reliable, dependable, and affectionate we would have been married right now.
“You are giving all of the attention that you should be giving to your man to your friends lives”
She's not the one, sorry bro. My ex did the same thing
One of his best monologues!
Got me feeling like a player in the tunnel before a championship football game.
**Love and Affection!**, Reliable, and Honest. These are gems!
Kevin you were spot on in your messaging today. Thank goodness I learned these valuable lessons early on in life as far as catering to my man, being Affectionate, spoiling him all while staying in my lane. I hope others take heed to this bc this is absolutely true what Kevin was spitting out today. If you don’t believe him ask some of your make friends and they will co-signed on this!
One of your best shows Kevin. This was a must for making women and men aware of what’s needed in a healthy long lasting relationship.
Those women not knowing the basics of their BF’s life, education, his accomplishments and journey….yeah as a man in several serious relationships, i lived that.
That is so strange to me..I can't believe that women are really out here dating men that they don't know!
She was making it up on the spot
Gon ask my girl when and where did I graduate from jus to make sure ....they’ll take the pipe raw and ask that you provide but don’t care how you do it.
They only know how many baby mamas they have! That’s it🤣😂🤣
But we get in trouble for forgetting some made up holiday
”You attract what you think that you are”. Pretty deep, and most likely true.👍
The advice for the 31 yr old was priceless. Her therapy started with this call.
Kevin you are talking the got dame truth Preach my Brother he took us to church this evening
Peace and Blessings to you Brother Kevin. This has been therapy for me as a Single Farther with one biological child. I agree with so far everything even your methods of questions. Keep going my Brother. I've been talking to alot of Brothers about your program and most Men are in agreement. Salute to you.
Tell us yes..this man never lied...I smile and clap..my husband loves this old head..spitting facts...of LIFE..WE 25 YEARS 💪STRONG OVER HERE..AM NOT THE AVERAGE WOMAN..I PRACTRICE WHAT I PREACH..
Love it when Godfather brings the painful truth. Thank you Mr. Sameuls.
C. I. A. R. A. Another powerful broadcast!
Shout Out from Kankakee-Chicago, IL, USA! Coach you are 1000% right!
Damn that frustrated clap was him thinking "God damn we lost another soul"
I really like kevin. You dont have to agree with everything he says or how but, you gots to respect it. He putting us all on game! Especially Black People.
BOOM!!
No lie told…
So y can’t the world understand that too them man is literally the only person telling it how it is🤦🏾♂️
@@Sid4mvp everyone don't think the same and some just don't want to accept reality.
I second that 👍🏿
I'm tearing up because I've been horrible. I have a good man and I have been completely out of line. I'm ready to be feminine and vulnerable. I'm totally writing him a note to say thank you.
Kevin thank you for the real talk.
Sounds like a women in her 30s that just hit the wall. 🐕🐕🐕🎺🎺🎺⚰️
@@mikhenso_bvuma5426 I mean it's true. Ya know. I never realized how shitty most of us have been. It's getting worse too with how sensitive our culture is getting.
You will always lose money chasing women but will NEVER lose women chasing the bag 💰💰💰...
Pass around the collection plate cause this brother preaching a good one today !!!!
This was the best episode in a while. Kevin was teaching class.
This is probably one of the best most valuable videos you've ever made! When all the videos out there tell women do be independent to not seem to eager and play games... this here is probably worth more than all videos combined as no one really says it! 🙏🙏🙏
I crack up every time he says “You can’t make this shit up!”
No guys with sense can't be getting with being in a bad place about this bullshit ,_ 😐 it is very interesting the line of jive
40 min in the smartest shhh ever said out loud. Keep preaching godfather!!!! GD that summed it up in about 2 min. So simple. Wtffff is so complicated???!?!
Brother Samuels you have given women the cheat code to getting and keeping a high earning,high value and successful man.
That's like saying there is a cheat code to get and keep a super model.
Lol as a high value man why would you get married so they can take half your shit in a couple years no thanks
@@5slowtv319 prenuptial
@@Kay.D not even a prenuptial just have the ceremony and change names but don't sign any papers. Getting the government involved is pointless.
I was so relieved when you mentioned being openly affectionate to your man. For the longest time I thought that doing these things would make me clingy and that the guy that I am with would respect me less.
Another good episode!!
Great show and it's 100 % true us men are attracted to women who show clear interest in us, no doubt about it.
Kevin. You are literally speaking the story of my life right now. You hit it on the French toast head.
Great show love your content you have truly open my eyes there is no hope
Another AWESOME program packed with wisdom and knowledge!!
.On point 💯 .. Much appreciated....Stay blessed!! 🙂
The 31 yr old who hadn't dated in 8 years was my ex I broke up with yesterday.
Nothing I did was enough and her ability to show me any emotion at all ended our relationship...
OG I’m 24 jus wanna say thank you.
You have saved me in all honesty. Most men I kno in weak/false marriages to the point I was like I might never have a wife or kids but thank you OG !
Kevin is on fire 🔥.
29yrs of marriage and I totally agree with Kevin. ❤
I love the way he defends us as Men against women like the one around the 1:40:00 🛡 💯
That guy knows me better than I know myself. Its so true what he says. For me its so important that she shows me her love by touching, kissing me etc.
Right now I do think about leaving her because she isnt doing it like it was before... (no consistancy)
Wow you are just……… god send, we really need content like this!
Sir, you are a jewel to be cherished by the black community. You are so needed.
You drastically helped that 31 year old Godfather. I hope she took heed to what you told her. I feel sorry for what she went thru, but she needs to seek help becsuse it's not over for her & you could see she isn't a bad person, just hurt.. but again.
“Matour” always gets me 🤣🤣
Let's be real. The human realm judges unfortunately. Self improve and get active help. Victimhood makes failures.
We need you brother. And thank you for all you do. I appreciate you!!! You’re speaking nothing but facts!!!
Thank you KS for this video. It makes since.. So sorry we lost a valuable key in the black community!! RIP🕊️
Kevin put so much truth in first 48 mins that this needs to be made a cirrculum in school
For modern women is the school of hard knocks.
This instead of CRT
This is hands down one of the episodes he's done! Lots of gems sadly when it comes down to women this will still fall on deaf ears
preach kevin dude its so true...nigel lombard from cape town ,
south africa
This brother is a national treasure
As a 37-year-old single male, I can honestly tell you that this man is right on point. KS has led me to look in the mirror. I must put the work in to be the best version of myself. It will be a long road but I'll live with the results. I'll be grateful if it does happen but if it doesn't...it doesn't.
This is the best show I have ever seen on here Nice