how is it he's throwing his friend under the bus? or are you just an online troll saying irrelevant shit online because you'd never say shit to their face?
@@tryscience-px3fs she hopped on the vid on her own accord and she knew what the channel was about ...do you even know the meaning of "throw someone under the bus"?
Let’s say there are a lot of scammers like this worldwide especially in the Caribbean, Central and South America also throughout Africa. It’s very unfortunate however men in general have to be smarter and not fall for this. Great story Paul thanks for sharing 👌🏾!
They exist in the US too. Hiding body counts, playing the long game, hooking White Knights into marriage and being stepdads. It's not about being "smarter", it's about insecurity. Extremely insecure men fall these scams and there are a lot of insecure men in the West. I'm guessing 100% of single men would answer "no" to the question "would you get with a single mom" yet many do. They know the correct answer, but don't feel worthy of a woman without serious problems. They feel more secure with a single mom feeling she needs his money. Thinking you can be smarter than a scammer is how to be a target. I know I can be scammed. If someone asks me for money there's nothing for me to figure out. Is this a scam? Instead I know I can be scammed so I assume it's a scam and I say "no". Basically I say "no" to anything I didn't initiate. My phone rings with a number I don't know I don't answer. Text message I don't understand I delete.
1) Relationships are transactionable 2) Renting is cheaper than buying. my exs' cost me a fortune 3) always look poorer than what you are 4) keep your personal life and details to yourself 5) only give money that you do not expect to get back 6) manage your resources to ensure your freedom 7) be happy as a single person and love yourself first and foremost. 8) Have fun, life is short!
Hey Paul my dear friend, very interesting topic. This is a great and very informative video. Men, listen to this video please. And learn. Paul, you are approaching that 100k subscriber mark brother. I predict that you will surpass 100k subscribers in the next 24-36 hours. So here is an early CONGRATULATIONS on hitting that 100k subscribers milestone. You truly deserve it brother. I always have nothing but love for you and the beautiful Baby Mae. Stay safe and healthy brother 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️.
Meritocracy in action. Smart people can take advantage of others. Sensual Emotions, when used for a purpose (like Kate's) can easily overwhelm logic. CEO's. Religious People. Generals and Kings. Any Man on Earth.
My career was creating video games. I thought it a lot of fun to make a game as addictive as possible and to sell for the most money. I saw it as a game. And I told players this too in interviews. I always thought playing video games was a waste of time, but if people are going to waste their lives I may as well be one of the people they pay for that.
This is a very interesting story and a reminder to all the men to be very careful. I've been with my wife for 8 years. We have 3 lovely Phil/Am babies. We have a good relationship but even then I bought her some beach front property but I also bought me some in a relatives name with two 25 year leases. You have to be smart when spending cash in the Philippines.
I bet you're on the right track! Not only there are many girls like her, but there are organised agents teaching them what to do and how to take out of a Joe or many Joes pockets as much as they want.
There's a lot of women like her within 10 miles of your current location. You kidding me? Not telling partners about their past, body counts off the chart, getting men to be stepdads, marriage, divorce, alimony, child support, etc... Playing the long game is an old scam.
Great video… Very informative. We have to be self aware, and know when something is too good to be true. I feel bad for her and the people she hurt. Narcissistic people are everywhere, unfortunately…
It's the same everywhere. I met a girl online in the USA. She was attractive and kind. She was always finding ways to make money online without a real job. Our first date was church. I later found out she owned her home free and clear at 30 years old. I was more impressed. After while I figured out her background. She was working as a stripper and then a server at the club. I told her that the relationship couldn't continue if she kept that lifestyle. She found a normal job was to hard for her vs showing body parts and getting a load of cash. Needless to say, the relationship came to an end. She ultimately ended up with a man that paid her bills and I'm not even sure if they're still together to this day. She even claimed in the relationship that I wasn't a good enough Christian for her. It was like her new addiction. Yet she kept the same lifestyle.
Very smart young lady there. Scamming is an art, and we men get played like a fiddle over a good looking woman. You let us into the mind of the scammer, thanks for the insight Paul.
The thing I find sickening about this is it displays exactly why I will never fully trust any woman! We men have been used and abused by women most of our lives and once we reach that point where we have had enough, we get jaded and stop caring. We hear about men who treat good women terribly but what no one bothers to ask is how he got that way?
Thanks for sharing this story , some one out there may need the wisdom to protect them from the scam I agree only God can touch the heart and give help to the soul
I really have no idea about what her future may hold. But I would like to say I wish the very best for this person. I hope to life's journey she learns what she needs to learn. God bless you, Paul, and Baby Mae.
The point that your story makes is that you can never trust a Filipina. Even if she ever finds "mister right" she's going to lie about her past. She knows no man will accept her if he knows her past. Therefore, she doesn't really have a future. If she's smart she will put some of that money aside, because the day will come that she's too old for this kind of business.
There's only 2 types of people you can never trust, women and men. And I'm one of them. It's not just that you can't 100% trust others, a person should not trust themselves. I question my own thinking, motives, even more than I do with others.
You're right Paul, our Lord Jesus Christ can fill that void in our hearts. But how will they know unless we give our testimony, and God will handle the rest. Thank you for sharing and God bless you and wife.
This makes me think about the youtube video I made about how I was roommates with people that worked as scammers at the Chinese call centers. It was really eye opening to see how the whole operation works and I was actually bewildered that their employer actually makes millions of dollars from lonely men around the world in a single month.
Subscriber for many years but Paul I am on the fence on why you would associate with someone that does this to people. Sure they exist and everyone knows it but to make a video about this baffles me about you. This video glorifies her actions that she has done. And I think you were an enabler to a point. It’s a sad story but you can’t help everyone.
Well said my friend. Great insight i wish life had a sifter to filter the stones from the gems. Unfortunately mine has only given me stones. Congratulations on 💯K it's been a fun journey, and im proud to call you my friend and brother! Peace out Brother!
There's a lady who's sure.... all that glitters is gold, And she's buying a stairway to Heaven. When she gets there she knows... if the stores are all closed, With a word she can get what she came for...🎵🎵🎶
I thought you were describing Claire M. Quitoy from Dumaguete. She is a headache, absorbed a year of my time that I cannot get back. I see no fix in Kate's situation as well as any others unless someone goes to jail. It is like a gambler, you hear about their Ups and downs but no scammer will cutoff their income publicly. Spiritually, they are headed for Hell. That cannot be changed unless forgiven. Which has to BE ASK FOR, turned away from and sin no more.. If they even know Christ, is another good question. If they come from a broken home, it seems to escalade rapidly. Kate will go on and train a younger, for a cut. Its endless. The HOLE cannot be filled. Their life is messed up from normal. The clock will OUT RUN them. They will have what's leftover. The looks fade to zip and BATTA BANG BATTA BOOM.. Then, Katy BAR THE DOOR. Lights out.
Paul, I don't usually respond to videos but I've watched several of yours that I found enlightening. Your recent ones, including this one, also strike me as showing a lot of wisdom. I think moving to the Philippines has allowed you to thrive in a way that was not in the cards in the US. I find your videos honest and very human. In fact, your insights could often apply anywhere and in many walks of life. Kate struck me as an exceedingly intelligent person. She came out of grinding misery and found a strategy to survive and perfected it to a very high level, using a resource that allowed her to do so far better than many means otherwise locally available, namely older expats searching for a woman or women, this with varying degrees of integrity. Kate's manoeuvres cut both ways: she was baiting the men, but some of them were not exactly pure in their motives. Kate was trying to survive and many of the men took advantage, or so they thought, of her vulnerability. For people judging Paul, saying that he was an enabler, please be careful. Unsavory people reveal themselves to be so over time. You will notice their shenanigans here and there but, only over time and in hindsight, does the extent consistency of their wrongdoings clearly appear to you. And for those who say women are all the same as Kate to some extent, I disagree. I've had a few relations with wonderful women. We broke up, but I had my part in this. Remember that the type of woman we're attracted to and how we act in return have a lot of importance. The fault may lay with one party only, but in my experience I've found this to be rarely the case. Both people bring their own baggage to the relation... As for where Kate is headed, I think she got out of her desperate poverty and its soul-crushing effects using means that she picked up in the world she knew. She is quite intelligent but that doesn't make her wise. I've known some exceptionally bright people who didn't end up in a good place. I hope she will become wiser. Although her environment and life trajectory thus far would seem to preclude this, you never know... God bless,
Hi uncle Paul. What a deep explanatory video. I watched this one more than two times. When diamond was digged to know its back history and origin, 😮😮😮😮 found that its coal. Thats why we always plan for the future.
Wow actually very sad…😢What a toll on her soul that must take…I hope and pray she does a 180 and settles down. I wonder if she will ever want to be with one man for true love? God can fill that hole in her heart ❤️…
@@AidaJof Hi Aida…I haven’t seen you in the comments lately as we both follow many of the same channels…I’m flying out of Michigan on Labor Day heading back to Dumaguete for a month. I’m going to retire in March and moving to Dumaguete.
True love is how 12 year-old girls think. "Whole in her heart" is how White Knights think. She has a great career and is doing well. God's speed to Kate.
I just watched your video on scammers in the Philippines and regards that one that you were talking about you’ve known for years. It’s just acquired so much material things it’ll never feel her desires and peace of mind. All I could say is I think that could happen to any human being Applies himself to go through hard times it’s a shame. I hate to see it. I mean, especially growing up his child going through that it is got to be very difficult and nobody can judge her for what she’s been through and the actions that she’s taken because I don’t think you’re gonna find two people, I’ve gone through the same thing the same way anyway thank you for your videos Robert
I have frequent conversations with a scammer also, but with a different circumstance. The Readers Digest version is.. This girl was in a house full of video sex girls who were also ruthless blackmailers. These girls and 2 Ladyboys would keep notebooks about their marks. They all had multiple profiles on Pinalove, and each bit of info that one would get on a guy, would be intertwined into the next profile that was made, like their own little algorithm for gaining info, like email address, Facebook friends, Twitter, Instagram etc. and had files on these guys. The guys will sometimes have many different girls that he's telling they are the only one, but they're all sitting in the same room laughing and collecting info like the CIA. You can be battling 24-1 odds if each girl has 4 profiles. She claims that over 50% of the time, one of the profiles will get the marks into compromising positions on video chat. Then it's payday. Once they get a friends list on any social media app, they'll find your relatives and workmates, then craft an email letting you know that your family is about to see you on your worst day unless you pay, and guess what... the payments don't stop.
Ive met foreigners here thats happened to, and actually me to a degree but no extortion on me because I know the game of the pinays. A neighbor of mine doesnt leave his apartment without a mask and usually some sort of disguise. Its kinda hilarious and sad at the same time. He told me hid in a mall bathroom for about an hour over an altercation and the girls said they calling the police. I met those exact gang of girls 3 years ago while vacationing. While he was telling me his story I showed him the photos of them and me. I thought he was going to have a heart attack right there. All the locals share info on foreigners here, they even have chat groups to share the info, photos, video of foreigners.
@@tman46544 I don't know how prevalent it is where you are, or in other parts but these girls are in CDO and it's a hotbed for this sort of activity. Any guy that uses his real name online is crazy.
Lots of scammers with fake pictures and profiles all over these dating sites. If there's one piece of advice to weed them out is a video call. Scammers will find 100 reasons not to do a video call as they want to remain hidden and use fake pictures. Typical excuses is their camera doesn't work, no good internet for a video call, no data for video and can only exchanges messages but if you can just sent them money for a data plan, etc. etc.
"Need to survive"? 99.9% of Filipinos don't do sex work and survive. This "survive" stuff is White Knight talk. When interviewed most sex workers say give the same reason..."the money is fast and easy". Yup, sex work has danger. I was in the Army. Kind of dangerous. Then in construction. Kind of dangerous.
I know someone there nearly exactly as you have described. You nailed it at the end, she will never understand or accept love. Even when she has tried she always starts looking for her out or exit. In a way both a success story of survival and but yet a tragedy in the end.
Awesome story, Kuya Paul!!👍 I believe, from my experiences, these women are more 'opportunists' than scammers? They, like "Kate" had a meager life, and learned how to take advantage of people who were unaware of their vulnerabilities. Sure, it's scamming, and I feel it's wrong. But I also believe that I know why they do it. I've run into many people who have been in that situation, both in the States, and around the world. They're out there, everywhere! It's almost like they all read from the same script, and once you realize what their tactics, words and actions are, you can spot them almost immediately! 😲
That happened to me in USA with a woman from South Korea. She went back and I heard from her for a year then totally cut off. Your story would have saved ne a lot of emotional turmoil and money. I've moved on but it still hurts. Thanks
Hi Paul, enjoy your videos, thank you. Tough question! “A body in motion tends to stay in motion.” Sounds like Kate’s over compensating with her success acquiring wealth for the lack of love she received as a child. No I’m not a shrink! I suspect Kate’s future will look much like her past until she awakens to the needs of her void or she’s no longer able to compete with her younger, more attractive competitors. She’s mastered level 1; she needs to evolve to level 2 or consider her “end game” options!
Shallow society indeed. When women's looks go, men's interest disappears. By the same token, when men's money goes, women's interest disappears. Neither are interested in the person, in most cases.
Great story Paul, I dated a few strippers in my day, they also have the scammer traits. Twenty years later I happened to notice one of them as I was walking through a mall. She did not see me happy to say, but the gorgeous young person I once new had dramatically transformed into an even more so hardened and now weather beaten has been. She was also intelligent, but as they say, "you cant teach an old dog new tricks", and I believe that was her and many like her down fall. Great video by the way👍👍
Yeah, you eventually parted ways. Not before befriending, empowering, and even becoming an accomplice by providing your laptop. Even now you hide her. I think this says more about your character than hers.
Good point. But not everyone thinks what she's doing is wrong. The term "scam" is used but that's just White Knight talk. I didn't hear anything in the video that Kate was doing as being illegal in PH. No claims of prostitution was made. It's not illegal to provide sex to "generous" men. All I heard was she would say she needed something and these WKs couldn't wait to give it to her. The WKs only scream "SCAM!!!" when their money runs out. I'm 100% in favor of the work Kate is doing. These twisted men are looking for some woman to give money to so they can feel better about themselves. Findom is the term.
That's not a realistic assessment or solution. Shut her down, how? And what of the other million girls and guys pretending to be girls? Better, perhaps, to live and let live and learn the ways of the world.
she was on Pauls couch in a bikini with one of her facebook accounts . Dirty paul got scared he was gonna get busted for trafficking , now the operation goes through begging Maes Chanel
Very interesting video again, Paul. Great and sad story worthy of being told and developed in a film, a book or a documentary. The concept that you acutely describe as that impossible-to-fill hole points in the direction of one of the great themes of humanity, the rise and fall that we so like to see in fiction. In short, the human condition itself. Kate has a bad prognosis, it is written in her biography unless that intelligence she has helps her to deactivate the hole. To be more specific, I must admit that I am feeling disappointed with the Filipinas I find in this jungle that is the dating app. I am afraid that Kate's profile is the most common, especially when it comes to foreigners of our age. The question is how and where to find mature women who know how to build something together and value it. I think that could be the subject of your next video Paul. Again, thank you very much, your channel is one of the best there is and I find it very useful.
This story reminds me of a buddy who works in a casino. At the morning meeting, the floor manager always says...it's your incentive to get every dollar you can from the customer. As the hourglass of time gets less and less, it might be wise to vette the ladies even more....when I did so, she remained a friend but nothing more. All's fair in love and war, they say.
HI PAUL , This was both a helpful video and a VERYSAD story , not due to you relating it , but to HER LIFE. BTW , I/WE NEED PICS/VIDEOS LOL LOL . I read your comments and it seems like other vloggers , there are JEALOUS HATERS on these channels. Yes , I make dumb comments but neither jealous nor hateful. I hope this girl does not have a disease and passing it on,,, I think , as you commented , can she ever find/have TRUE LOVE , then again , can she find a guy willing to accept her past ? Again PAUL , I sincerely appreciate and enjoy all your videos. My best for you and MAE GOD BLESS CIAO
Are you saying she had plastic surgery that actually made her look worse? Sounds like she is kinda damaged goods for any relationship in the future. With all that she had been able to attain, she will do ok in the future. She has one house to live in, the second one to rent or maybe sell. As she gets older, she will always probably be able to get enough money for food and what ever she needs. It probably won't be as lucrative as it once was, however there will always be some "knight in shining armor" that likes to throw money at women. She will never work a normal job because she can make more from a fool that is willing to part with his money.
Theirs nothing more dangerous than a beautiful woman with a sharp mine she will end up with nothing in the long run Paul you are a great story teller thks for sharing that with all of us Ron from the states take care my friend
Kate is a Street hustler Survivor who is above average intelligence that could succeed at practically anything but because of her rough early childhood will never be able to actually bond Sincerely with a Man as she can't as her Oxytocin levels is so low from being abused and used. So the Victim becomes the victimizer and there is NO man that can change her chemical levels in her brain. Her future is bleak as she will eventually end up alone and have nothing but bitterness missing out on what truly matters
Good morning Paul there are people like your friend Kate who will never be satisfied with what they acquire chances are fair when it comes to happiness or contentment she will lose what she has acquired who knows probably sleeping in the back of a trike or worse but that is the lifestyle did she has had to live with you and m a y are blessed because you can relate to God and his grace that's probably something that Kate does not yet have sincerely jwm.
Very good story. I would imagine she will have to invest some of her ill gotten gains into a small business or an education to learn a skill where she can earn. When her looks are gone so will here ability to easily scam some poor lovesick fool so easily.
Well, she was already damaged goods at age 15... 🙄Nothing any White Knight could fix at a later time, really. It's a sad story but, tbh, I'm not sure if I feel sorry for her.
Sounds like that hole needs to be filled with Christ someone to pray for, Thanks Paul very interesting story, makes me appreciate what i have and pray mine works out like yours
Growing up Catholic and middle class in the US, I had instilled in me a very strong sense of what I would call decency. It set the rules for me for the game of life. I don't know if there was an earlier incident, but I feel like that trike driver set the rules of the game for her future. If he had just been kind, things may have turned out differently, but he exposed a young girl to an unvarnished, naked, no-bounds transactional experience. I don't like it, but after that I can understand why anything goes. I find myself having the thought of showing her that it doesn't have to be like that, but I've fallen into that trap before without any positive results. She would have to have an experience from an act of kindness that borders on religious to change her understanding of the human condition.
Great Vid Paul, informative. Question: So how can a good guy tell if he meets a girl like this? You said she learned how to play men, refusing $ in the beginning, played little miss innocent act, etc. How to spot a scammer VS a GOOD woman?
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 She sounded just as dangerous in person. Good thing I trust no one over here. Seems more and more like a winning plan.
I had a "Filipina" fisherman with a +233 country code. Took me hours before I realized it 🤣 A bit sloppy and most use icloud wifi calling to cover their tracks.
Voracious Monster what a way to say it. Since Kate has gone south with her looks and spirit and thinking about her past l wonder if she has HIV. This is sad but l think that this would be the next step to her way of living. I do feel sorry for her with not even knowing her ,, but this just proves how good of a story teller Paul is. Wow.
Why is it used car salesmen throw friends under the bus so easily
how is it he's throwing his friend under the bus? or are you just an online troll saying irrelevant shit online because you'd never say shit to their face?
@@ziezcogslaw8643 definitely a online troll
I get it
Paul Threw Clariss under the bus for a few views 😊
@@tryscience-px3fs she hopped on the vid on her own accord and she knew what the channel was about ...do you even know the meaning of "throw someone under the bus"?
Let’s say there are a lot of scammers like this worldwide especially in the Caribbean, Central and South America also throughout Africa. It’s very unfortunate however men in general have to be smarter and not fall for this. Great story Paul thanks for sharing 👌🏾!
They exist in the US too. Hiding body counts, playing the long game, hooking White Knights into marriage and being stepdads. It's not about being "smarter", it's about insecurity. Extremely insecure men fall these scams and there are a lot of insecure men in the West. I'm guessing 100% of single men would answer "no" to the question "would you get with a single mom" yet many do. They know the correct answer, but don't feel worthy of a woman without serious problems. They feel more secure with a single mom feeling she needs his money.
Thinking you can be smarter than a scammer is how to be a target. I know I can be scammed. If someone asks me for money there's nothing for me to figure out. Is this a scam? Instead I know I can be scammed so I assume it's a scam and I say "no". Basically I say "no" to anything I didn't initiate. My phone rings with a number I don't know I don't answer. Text message I don't understand I delete.
1) Relationships are transactionable 2) Renting is cheaper than buying. my exs' cost me a fortune 3) always look poorer than what you are 4) keep your personal life and details to yourself 5) only give money that you do not expect to get back 6) manage your resources to ensure your freedom 7) be happy as a single person and love yourself first and foremost. 8) Have fun, life is short!
Well said.
Renting is not cheaper than buying I have made almost 40k ,buying and living in the properties ,then selling. Last 5 years
@@Mark-bi4ppHe was talking about women not property lol
@Mark-bi4pp the last 5 years has been a great for the Philippine property market.
Renting a woman can be expensive too. I heard “rent to own wives” in Thailand and other areas are quite expensive.
There are still guys that will jump in eyes wide open thinking they can come to the rescue and fix it.
I figured it out. Kate's real name is Goldfinger.🥳🎉
Lol and nice hair, good one!
Hahahaha
Not money penny? Or pussy galore, a bond character.. look it up… lol
imagine goldfinger naked on dirty pauls bed with a lap top trying to be sexy for a dude . . . . it was probably Mark Thornton all buzzed up on V8
She sure has changed her appearance!
you're a great storyteller Paul
need more of this type of content
@@bigdaddy5104 yes and most of it is fiction
Hey Paul my dear friend, very interesting topic. This is a great and very informative video. Men, listen to this video please. And learn. Paul, you are approaching that 100k subscriber mark brother. I predict that you will surpass 100k subscribers in the next 24-36 hours. So here is an early CONGRATULATIONS on hitting that 100k subscribers milestone. You truly deserve it brother. I always have nothing but love for you and the beautiful Baby Mae. Stay safe and healthy brother 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️.
God Bless you my friend
Meritocracy in action. Smart people can take advantage of others. Sensual Emotions, when used for a purpose (like Kate's) can easily overwhelm logic. CEO's. Religious People. Generals and Kings. Any Man on Earth.
My career was creating video games. I thought it a lot of fun to make a game as addictive as possible and to sell for the most money. I saw it as a game. And I told players this too in interviews. I always thought playing video games was a waste of time, but if people are going to waste their lives I may as well be one of the people they pay for that.
This is a very interesting story and a reminder to all the men to be very careful. I've been with my wife for 8 years. We have 3 lovely Phil/Am babies. We have a good relationship but even then I bought her some beach front property but I also bought me some in a relatives name with two 25 year leases. You have to be smart when spending cash in the Philippines.
What a story! I suppose there are a lot of women like her in the Philippines.
I bet you're on the right track! Not only there are many girls like her, but there are organised agents teaching them what to do and how to take out of a Joe or many Joes pockets as much as they want.
There's a lot of women like her within 10 miles of your current location. You kidding me? Not telling partners about their past, body counts off the chart, getting men to be stepdads, marriage, divorce, alimony, child support, etc... Playing the long game is an old scam.
Also in the USA
just like baby mae only her I.Q. was not 37 like baby mae
@@darrenbrooks5369 🇮🇳🤝🇺🇸 Where do those irs and grants money come from? Oh yeah, now Medicare scams
Great video… Very informative. We have to be self aware, and know when something is too good to be true. I feel bad for her and the people she hurt. Narcissistic people are everywhere, unfortunately…
She's a quick learner, extremely smart, speaks multiple languages.... The Lord hath a sense of humor. She's a survivor.
The empty space we have is missing God and that relationship ❤❤❤! Its not things or money even a relationship with another will not fill that void
It's the same everywhere. I met a girl online in the USA. She was attractive and kind. She was always finding ways to make money online without a real job. Our first date was church. I later found out she owned her home free and clear at 30 years old. I was more impressed. After while I figured out her background. She was working as a stripper and then a server at the club. I told her that the relationship couldn't continue if she kept that lifestyle. She found a normal job was to hard for her vs showing body parts and getting a load of cash. Needless to say, the relationship came to an end. She ultimately ended up with a man that paid her bills and I'm not even sure if they're still together to this day. She even claimed in the relationship that I wasn't a good enough Christian for her. It was like her new addiction. Yet she kept the same lifestyle.
Church girls are a huge red flag. Born again virgins. Hypocrites. The only standard they have is a double standard
Church girls are a huge red flag. Hypocritical born again virgins. The only standards they have is double standards
Church girls are a huge red flag. Hypocritical born again virgins. The only standards they have is double standards
Very smart young lady there. Scamming is an art, and we men get played like a fiddle over a good looking woman. You let us into the mind of the scammer, thanks for the insight Paul.
@@gerrymcnally9344 Yes, because they know that lonely men are lonely because their brain is not big enough.
"We men". No need to drag us all down. You may think all men do the same as you, but nope.
Congratulations Paul On 100K...Ive been on board from the beginning...Thanks for Everything..
The thing I find sickening about this is it displays exactly why I will never fully trust any woman! We men have been used and abused by women most of our lives and once we reach that point where we have had enough, we get jaded and stop caring. We hear about men who treat good women terribly but what no one bothers to ask is how he got that way?
Good point 👍🏼
Thanks for sharing this story , some one out there may need the wisdom to protect them from the scam
I agree only God can touch the heart and give help to the soul
Never feel sorry for people like that. They have created their own place in hell. Cheers!
I really have no idea about what her future may hold. But I would like to say I wish the very best for this person. I hope to life's journey she learns what she needs to learn. God bless you, Paul, and Baby Mae.
Crazy people checking in
wow, what a story, thanks for sharing some of the scammer inner workings, I appreciate it!
The point that your story makes is that you can never trust a Filipina. Even if she ever finds "mister right" she's going to lie about her past. She knows no man will accept her if he knows her past. Therefore, she doesn't really have a future. If she's smart she will put some of that money aside, because the day will come that she's too old for this kind of business.
There's only 2 types of people you can never trust, women and men. And I'm one of them. It's not just that you can't 100% trust others, a person should not trust themselves. I question my own thinking, motives, even more than I do with others.
@@waterbug1135YES.
I’m here in America and I know two or three Filipinas that work at stores and they flirt all the time. I think it’s just part of the culture.
You're right Paul, our Lord Jesus Christ can fill that void in our hearts. But how will they know unless we give our testimony, and God will handle the rest. Thank you for sharing and God bless you and wife.
Great information I hope many expatriates learn from this
As time goes bye she will just adapt, but will never change.
I hope so. She's got a great career going. Why would she want to stop?
@@waterbug1135 Once she hits middle age she won't have many options
There's always another sucker, doesn't really change even with her age. @@Regi869
@@Regi869💯
YEP!
This makes me think about the youtube video I made about how I was roommates with people that worked as scammers at the Chinese call centers. It was really eye opening to see how the whole operation works and I was actually bewildered that their employer actually makes millions of dollars from lonely men around the world in a single month.
The name of the video was "foreigners in destitution in cambodia"
Why don’t you simply report these thieves, cause that’s all they are. I guess anything for views. Disappointing 🤔
Old man paul aka froggy love to ramble and ramble. He makes 5 minutes story. To 60 looong boring minutes. Zzzzzzzz
@@sentinel80good point.. Froggy loves to ramble.
@@jpHarkins-kb2vvthe old man is Sharper than you I saw your comment coming a mile away his video is good your comment is boring 😂😂😂
You are correct Paul. We all have a hole in every one of us. The only thing that can fill that hole is God
And what if there is no God....there is a thought
Thanks Paul, some good advice here
The farmer's daughter.......with a pitchfork! 😮 👿 🙏
Subscriber for many years but Paul I am on the fence on why you would associate with someone that does this to people. Sure they exist and everyone knows it but to make a video about this baffles me about you. This video glorifies her actions that she has done. And I think you were an enabler to a point. It’s a sad story but you can’t help everyone.
Well said my friend. Great insight i wish life had a sifter to filter the stones from the gems. Unfortunately mine has only given me stones. Congratulations on 💯K it's been a fun journey, and im proud to call you my friend and brother! Peace out Brother!
There's a lady who's sure.... all that glitters is gold,
And she's buying a stairway to Heaven.
When she gets there she knows... if the stores are all closed,
With a word she can get what she came for...🎵🎵🎶
Interesting story, this will surely help upcoming scammers learn the correct scam method.
SO SAD THAT SHE HAS NOT FOUND SOMETHING TO BRING HER HAPPINESS AND LOVE
As a professional cynic, I very much appreciated your narrative. Thanks.
I thought you were describing Claire M. Quitoy from Dumaguete.
She is a headache, absorbed a year of my time that I cannot get back.
I see no fix in Kate's situation as well as any others unless someone goes to jail.
It is like a gambler, you hear about their Ups and downs but no scammer will cutoff their income publicly.
Spiritually, they are headed for Hell. That cannot be changed unless forgiven.
Which has to BE ASK FOR, turned away from and sin no more..
If they even know Christ, is another good question.
If they come from a broken home, it seems to escalade rapidly.
Kate will go on and train a younger, for a cut. Its endless.
The HOLE cannot be filled. Their life is messed up from normal.
The clock will OUT RUN them. They will have what's leftover.
The looks fade to zip and BATTA BANG BATTA BOOM..
Then, Katy BAR THE DOOR. Lights out.
Christ has and continues to be the ultimate scam as clueless empty hole people continue supporting the fraud.
Paul, I don't usually respond to videos but I've watched several of yours that I found enlightening. Your recent ones, including this one, also strike me as showing a lot of wisdom. I think moving to the Philippines has allowed you to thrive in a way that was not in the cards in the US. I find your videos honest and very human. In fact, your insights could often apply anywhere and in many walks of life.
Kate struck me as an exceedingly intelligent person. She came out of grinding misery and found a strategy to survive and perfected it to a very high level, using a resource that allowed her to do so far better than many means otherwise locally available, namely older expats searching for a woman or women, this with varying degrees of integrity. Kate's manoeuvres cut both ways: she was baiting the men, but some of them were not exactly pure in their motives. Kate was trying to survive and many of the men took advantage, or so they thought, of her vulnerability.
For people judging Paul, saying that he was an enabler, please be careful. Unsavory people reveal themselves to be so over time. You will notice their shenanigans here and there but, only over time and in hindsight, does the extent consistency of their wrongdoings clearly appear to you.
And for those who say women are all the same as Kate to some extent, I disagree. I've had a few relations with wonderful women. We broke up, but I had my part in this. Remember that the type of woman we're attracted to and how we act in return have a lot of importance. The fault may lay with one party only, but in my experience I've found this to be rarely the case. Both people bring their own baggage to the relation...
As for where Kate is headed, I think she got out of her desperate poverty and its soul-crushing effects using means that she picked up in the world she knew. She is quite intelligent but that doesn't make her wise. I've known some exceptionally bright people who didn't end up in a good place. I hope she will become wiser. Although her environment and life trajectory thus far would seem to preclude this, you never know...
God bless,
Thanks for sharing Paul, much appreciated! No judgement here. Greetings from NYC.
Hi uncle Paul.
What a deep explanatory video. I watched this one more than two times.
When diamond was digged to know its back history and origin, 😮😮😮😮 found that its coal. Thats why we always plan for the future.
Well said
Wow actually very sad…😢What a toll on her soul that must take…I hope and pray she does a 180 and settles down. I wonder if she will ever want to be with one man for true love? God can fill that hole in her heart ❤️…
I hope she sees the light🙏
@@AidaJof Hi Aida…I haven’t seen you in the comments lately as we both follow many of the same channels…I’m flying out of Michigan on Labor Day heading back to Dumaguete for a month. I’m going to retire in March and moving to Dumaguete.
True love is how 12 year-old girls think. "Whole in her heart" is how White Knights think. She has a great career and is doing well. God's speed to Kate.
@@marcrichard7251 I wish you all the best🙏
I just watched your video on scammers in the Philippines and regards that one that you were talking about you’ve known for years. It’s just acquired so much material things it’ll never feel her desires and peace of mind. All I could say is I think that could happen to any human being Applies himself to go through hard times it’s a shame. I hate to see it. I mean, especially growing up his child going through that it is got to be very difficult and nobody can judge her for what she’s been through and the actions that she’s taken because I don’t think you’re gonna find two people, I’ve gone through the same thing the same way anyway thank you for your videos Robert
Fascinating woman ! I would have loved to have known her through her journey.
I have frequent conversations with a scammer also, but with a different circumstance. The Readers Digest version is.. This girl was in a house full of video sex girls who were also ruthless blackmailers. These girls and 2 Ladyboys would keep notebooks about their marks. They all had multiple profiles on Pinalove, and each bit of info that one would get on a guy, would be intertwined into the next profile that was made, like their own little algorithm for gaining info, like email address, Facebook friends, Twitter, Instagram etc. and had files on these guys. The guys will sometimes have many different girls that he's telling they are the only one, but they're all sitting in the same room laughing and collecting info like the CIA. You can be battling 24-1 odds if each girl has 4 profiles. She claims that over 50% of the time, one of the profiles will get the marks into compromising positions on video chat. Then it's payday. Once they get a friends list on any social media app, they'll find your relatives and workmates, then craft an email letting you know that your family is about to see you on your worst day unless you pay, and guess what... the payments don't stop.
Ive met foreigners here thats happened to, and actually me to a degree but no extortion on me because I know the game of the pinays. A neighbor of mine doesnt leave his apartment without a mask and usually some sort of disguise. Its kinda hilarious and sad at the same time. He told me hid in a mall bathroom for about an hour over an altercation and the girls said they calling the police. I met those exact gang of girls 3 years ago while vacationing. While he was telling me his story I showed him the photos of them and me. I thought he was going to have a heart attack right there.
All the locals share info on foreigners here, they even have chat groups to share the info, photos, video of foreigners.
@@tman46544 I don't know how prevalent it is where you are, or in other parts but these girls are in CDO and it's a hotbed for this sort of activity. Any guy that uses his real name online is crazy.
Lots of scammers with fake pictures and profiles all over these dating sites. If there's one piece of advice to weed them out is a video call. Scammers will find 100 reasons not to do a video call as they want to remain hidden and use fake pictures. Typical excuses is their camera doesn't work, no good internet for a video call, no data for video and can only exchanges messages but if you can just sent them money for a data plan, etc. etc.
@@franciscoaguilar123 Make them pan the room on that video call also. Even make them show ID.
There's no way I'm reading that book
You’re admitting to enabling a scammer and potentially causing harm to her victims?
What do you mean? How the hell did this old dawg enable her?! He just listened to her games.
@@SS-tr1th He gave her a laptop and a place to scam people so how the hell don't you get it?
I thought I was the only one that knew about the hole in ourselves. Glad to know someone else knows it too.
Loved the Video Paul😂
You can understand her need to survive. Unfortunately, she will probably get sick.
"Need to survive"? 99.9% of Filipinos don't do sex work and survive. This "survive" stuff is White Knight talk. When interviewed most sex workers say give the same reason..."the money is fast and easy".
Yup, sex work has danger. I was in the Army. Kind of dangerous. Then in construction. Kind of dangerous.
I know someone there nearly exactly as you have described. You nailed it at the end, she will never understand or accept love. Even when she has tried she always starts looking for her out or exit. In a way both a success story of survival and but yet a tragedy in the end.
So, she's pretty much like every other women.
lol!😂 👍🏼 YEP!
Sadly... Almost my exact same story Paul. Still reeling from the heartbreak!
Awesome story, Kuya Paul!!👍
I believe, from my experiences, these women are more 'opportunists' than scammers? They, like "Kate" had a meager life, and learned how to take advantage of people who were unaware of their vulnerabilities.
Sure, it's scamming, and I feel it's wrong. But I also believe that I know why they do it. I've run into many people who have been in that situation, both in the States, and around the world. They're out there, everywhere!
It's almost like they all read from the same script, and once you realize what their tactics, words and actions are, you can spot them almost immediately! 😲
Lots of guys pretend to be Filipina women too to get money from old desperate men.
lol!, yeah, those old guys will become Gay for a night just to get some type of booty🤣
wow,,,,,,,great story paul.
The same thing happens here in the United States! Same old same old! FYI
A lonely old fool and his money will soon part ways
That could be you one day
@@sentinel80 you know to each their own,I'm not here to judge,but I would rather my life play out a bit more" naturally"
@@sentinel80exactly
A lonely young fool never has any money
Any age get hit
She will get it in the end, when she least expects it.
The trouble here in the US is the FBI won't do anything even if you file the IC3.
Another great video, Paul! Wolf in sheep clothing...who said a sucker is born every minute?
That happened to me in USA with a woman from South Korea. She went back and I heard from her for a year then totally cut off. Your story would have saved ne a lot of emotional turmoil and money. I've moved on but it still hurts. Thanks
Sounds like she leveled up. Congrats to her.
Why is this not getting more views.
Hi Paul,
enjoy your videos, thank you.
Tough question!
“A body in motion tends to stay in motion.”
Sounds like Kate’s over compensating with her success acquiring wealth for the lack of love she received as a child. No I’m not a shrink! I suspect Kate’s future will look much like her past until she awakens to the needs of her void or she’s no longer able to compete with her younger, more attractive competitors. She’s mastered level 1; she needs to evolve to level 2 or consider her “end game” options!
Shallow society indeed. When women's looks go, men's interest disappears. By the same token, when men's money goes, women's interest disappears. Neither are interested in the person, in most cases.
Great story Paul, I dated a few strippers in my day, they also have the scammer traits. Twenty years later I happened to notice one of them as I was walking through a mall. She did not see me happy to say, but the gorgeous young person I once new had dramatically transformed into an even more so hardened and now weather beaten has been. She was also intelligent, but as they say, "you cant teach an old dog new tricks", and I believe that was her and many like her down fall. Great video by the way👍👍
Yeah, you eventually parted ways. Not before befriending, empowering, and even becoming an accomplice by providing your laptop. Even now you hide her. I think this says more about your character than hers.
Good point. But not everyone thinks what she's doing is wrong. The term "scam" is used but that's just White Knight talk. I didn't hear anything in the video that Kate was doing as being illegal in PH. No claims of prostitution was made. It's not illegal to provide sex to "generous" men. All I heard was she would say she needed something and these WKs couldn't wait to give it to her. The WKs only scream "SCAM!!!" when their money runs out.
I'm 100% in favor of the work Kate is doing. These twisted men are looking for some woman to give money to so they can feel better about themselves. Findom is the term.
That's not a realistic assessment or solution. Shut her down, how? And what of the other million girls and guys pretending to be girls? Better, perhaps, to live and let live and learn the ways of the world.
she was on Pauls couch in a bikini with one of her facebook accounts . Dirty paul got scared he was gonna get busted for trafficking , now the operation goes through begging Maes Chanel
Paul is just as bad as Kate.
Great video 👍
wow, just wow!
Very interesting video again, Paul. Great and sad story worthy of being told and developed in a film, a book or a documentary. The concept that you acutely describe as that impossible-to-fill hole points in the direction of one of the great themes of humanity, the rise and fall that we so like to see in fiction. In short, the human condition itself. Kate has a bad prognosis, it is written in her biography unless that intelligence she has helps her to deactivate the hole. To be more specific, I must admit that I am feeling disappointed with the Filipinas I find in this jungle that is the dating app. I am afraid that Kate's profile is the most common, especially when it comes to foreigners of our age. The question is how and where to find mature women who know how to build something together and value it. I think that could be the subject of your next video Paul. Again, thank you very much, your channel is one of the best there is and I find it very useful.
Hi, Paul very interesting. I met somebody about 4 years ago in dumageti, where you're at on the internet. Sounds like her. Her name to me was juny le
I feel sorry for Kate. How can anyone really live with inner peace and contentment while scamming lonely men out of their money?
This story reminds me of a buddy who works in a casino. At the morning meeting, the floor manager always says...it's your incentive to get every dollar you can from the customer.
As the hourglass of time gets less and less, it might be wise to vette the ladies even more....when I did so, she remained a friend but nothing more. All's fair in love and war, they say.
I worked in 14 tech startups. We had the same goal.
HI PAUL , This was both a helpful video and a VERYSAD story , not due to you relating it , but to HER LIFE.
BTW , I/WE NEED PICS/VIDEOS LOL LOL . I read your comments and it seems like other vloggers , there are JEALOUS HATERS on these channels.
Yes , I make dumb comments but neither jealous nor hateful.
I hope this girl does not have a disease and passing it on,,,
I think , as you commented , can she ever find/have TRUE LOVE , then again , can she find a guy willing to accept her past ?
Again PAUL , I sincerely appreciate and enjoy all your videos.
My best for you and MAE
GOD BLESS CIAO
Thank you 😊
Are you saying she had plastic surgery that actually made her look worse? Sounds like she is kinda damaged goods for any relationship in the future. With all that she had been able to attain, she will do ok in the future. She has one house to live in, the second one to rent or maybe sell. As she gets older, she will always probably be able to get enough money for food and what ever she needs. It probably won't be as lucrative as it once was, however there will always be some "knight in shining armor" that likes to throw money at women. She will never work a normal job because she can make more from a fool that is willing to part with his money.
I can save her 🤣
Only now do I really understand your smiles from 24:20 to 24:40 in one of your older interview. 😁
Old dog you are as guilty as she is! 🎉😢😅
Paul, that is a very sad story.
NICE VIDEO,
Theirs nothing more dangerous than a beautiful woman with a sharp mine she will end up with nothing in the long run Paul you are a great story teller thks for sharing that with all of us Ron from the states take care my friend
Kate is a Street hustler Survivor who is above average intelligence that could succeed at practically anything but because of her rough early childhood will never be able to actually bond Sincerely with a Man as she can't as her Oxytocin levels is so low from being abused and used. So the Victim becomes the victimizer and there is NO man that can change her chemical levels in her brain. Her future is bleak as she will eventually end up alone and have nothing but bitterness missing out on what truly matters
Could be worse things than being rich in the Philippines. But yea, only God can fill that void she's been swallowed by.
Size 11s on chopsticks from your thumbnail ? 😄
Good morning Paul there are people like your friend Kate who will never be satisfied with what they acquire chances are fair when it comes to happiness or contentment she will lose what she has acquired who knows probably sleeping in the back of a trike or worse but that is the lifestyle did she has had to live with you and m a y are blessed because you can relate to God and his grace that's probably something that Kate does not yet have sincerely jwm.
Very good story. I would imagine she will have to invest some of her ill gotten gains into a small business or an education to learn a skill where she can earn. When her looks are gone so will here ability to easily scam some poor lovesick fool so easily.
Well, she was already damaged goods at age 15... 🙄Nothing any White Knight could fix at a later time, really.
It's a sad story but, tbh, I'm not sure if I feel sorry for her.
Sad story? She's killing it. Kate is the hero in this story. WK got what they wanted, a woman to give money to (Findom).
@@waterbug1135 🤔
God helps those who help themselves. 😇
You are very well spoken, I enjoy your videos.
Scammers grow bigger as long as crazy stupid men entertain them.
Sounds like that hole needs to be filled with Christ someone to pray for, Thanks Paul very interesting story, makes me appreciate what i have and pray mine works out like yours
I can relate...only flip it.....lmfao!!!
Great video Paul. I love your natural curiosity
Climbing Up The in this situation is very Smart to survive
Thank you for sharing this video. I have a question for you, can these scammers tell you that they used to be, say like " teachers "?
They can tell you anything, not proud of it but I got scammed 20 yrs ago and she said she was a nurse
Paul, it's not shallow for men to be attracted to nubile women. It's how God made us. To help keep the human race populated.
Growing up Catholic and middle class in the US, I had instilled in me a very strong sense of what I would call decency. It set the rules for me for the game of life. I don't know if there was an earlier incident, but I feel like that trike driver set the rules of the game for her future. If he had just been kind, things may have turned out differently, but he exposed a young girl to an unvarnished, naked, no-bounds transactional experience. I don't like it, but after that I can understand why anything goes.
I find myself having the thought of showing her that it doesn't have to be like that, but I've fallen into that trap before without any positive results. She would have to have an experience from an act of kindness that borders on religious to change her understanding of the human condition.
Great Vid Paul, informative. Question: So how can a good guy tell if he meets a girl like this? You said she learned how to play men, refusing $ in the beginning, played little miss innocent act, etc. How to spot a scammer VS a GOOD woman?
Online is dangerous, much better in person
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 She sounded just as dangerous in person. Good thing I trust no one over here. Seems more and more like a winning plan.
pretty common story in the abject poor Philippines
I had a "Filipina" fisherman with a +233 country code. Took me hours before I realized it 🤣 A bit sloppy and most use icloud wifi calling to cover their tracks.
Kate's a bright star that was on a bath of burning out a long time ago. She'll survive the best she can like she's always done. That's what we all do.
Jail time when her charms no longer work. Criminal activity.
Voracious Monster what a way to say it. Since Kate has gone south with her looks and spirit and thinking about her past l wonder if she has HIV. This is sad but l think that this would be the next step to her way of living. I do feel sorry for her with not even knowing her ,, but this just proves how good of a story teller Paul is. Wow.
These kind of people are so warped someone like her will never trust...