Your a breath of fresh air, I wish I had someone like you to talk too everyday, I think my life would be less frustrating, and would think things through with out getting mad at my self, you have a wonderful gift 👌love your videos
I have often thought of jealousy as some unmet need in myself. Once I see that I am not working to meet my own needs, I can move forward. This was a good suggestion, Brendon. :)
No matter how good you are to someone and that someone doesn't appreciate it, it means your with the wrong person. Only the right person will appreciate what you do and do the same for you. I love your advice. Thank you. You've helped me so much tonight.
Brendon, you are the best!! Thank you thank you thank you! I've met this guy...And we fell for each other right away, but after a week he flew to another country (far far away) for several months. He's there now and I'm flying to visit him in 3 weeks but OMG these 2 months that we haven't seen each other were sooo difficult for me because of my jeaousy. Because of my insecurity. I couldn't stop thinking about my previous experiences and how much it hurt. After watching this video I feel much better. I know how to talk to myself about it now. Thank you!!
Anna Kozlovskaia. Anna, I'm Brazilian and I do not speak English well but I understand everything. I had a big problem with jealousy because of past traumas. But I identified where it all began and decided to go back in time and release forgiveness for the person who hurt me. We need to step back and then move on. We have many memories inside us that are real trash and are useless. Give up the memories and live that love that you have available to you today and be happy. Kisses. God bless you.
No jealousy, no hate, no harmfulness just safety, security, healthiness, real ethical justice, timelessness, truth, serenity, miracles, love, holiness, nice circumstances circumstances
Gay Hendricks in his book The Big Leap would say it is an "Upper Limit Problem". When you are successful and you aren't used to being successful - you don't know how to just enjoy that success you "find problems" to bring you back down to your old unhappy self. Find the things that make you happy in life - make YOU feel fulfilled in life and stay there just as long as you can...
To always say “with or without the person I married I’m fine” as you suggest … Can get to be draining. If you see after years of marriage that your wife is attracted to men from another race - Although she may not be acting on it. It is something hard to “not focus on.” Much as you try to focus on your qualities.
Wow I really needed this today because I feel like my sister gets all the attention and I got a little jealous and I remembered this video I will be happy no matter what I will love no matter what I will be kind awesome and amazing and confident I will not be afraid to show my love for people thank you I needed this today
Wow! Your message is very encouraging and very powerful.. I really learned so much from your video. I could keep on listening watching your video on and on . You make me feel stronger 👍 Thank you for sharing this powerful video.
If you don't compare yourself to others you will never be jealous. The world is rough and mean. As Jordan Peterson said, "the world is against you . . . obviously." But as I told my own subscribers, many times the greatest enemy in life can be yourself. And you make yourself an enemy by comparision to others. If you make 80K a year and have 200K in the investment arenas you will feel badly if you have a friend who makes 250K and has a million in his. But you will feel good about yourself if you compare yourself to someone who makes 30K and has nothing in his accounts. But maybe that 250K person works 80 hours a week and hasn't had a vacation in ten years. The point is, your journey is yours. How much you want to work and gain to get the greatest benefits you can from your short time on earth---and most of those benefits, my friends, are not financial. Hope this helps someone----Charles
That's fine when your from the same country and race. I'm white now live in Africa, there's such a big difference in emotions feelings. I show mine, I show my love happiness my sadness pain hurt, whereas the majority of Africaians don't, the think it's weakness, especially males, women to don't always show their true selves.
Ok so, what do I do when my gut is telling me there's cheating, and they keep denying it after the adult conversation? All I want is to take off, I don't want to continue, also, I have been cheated on before by the same person. But love promises never stop. I am done and my jealousy is destroying me.
Your a breath of fresh air, I wish I had someone like you to talk too everyday, I think my life would be less frustrating, and would think things through with out getting mad at my self, you have a wonderful gift 👌love your videos
Don't waste your time on jealousy
Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind
The race is long and in the end, it's only with yourself
how did u know that I needed to hear this today??! thanks
same here :o
he read minds :D
Same😅
Mw too
I have often thought of jealousy as some unmet need in myself. Once I see that I am not working to meet my own needs, I can move forward. This was a good suggestion, Brendon. :)
Best advice on jealousy I’ve ever heard. Thank you.
The only person on TH-cam that I feel like I'm actually conversing with. I keep nodding and burrowing my forehead HE FEELS SO REAL
No matter how good you are to someone and that someone doesn't appreciate it, it means your with the wrong person. Only the right person will appreciate what you do and do the same for you. I love your advice. Thank you. You've helped me so much tonight.
Brendon, you are the best!! Thank you thank you thank you!
I've met this guy...And we fell for each other right away, but after a week he flew to another country (far far away) for several months. He's there now and I'm flying to visit him in 3 weeks but OMG these 2 months that we haven't seen each other were sooo difficult for me because of my jeaousy. Because of my insecurity. I couldn't stop thinking about my previous experiences and how much it hurt.
After watching this video I feel much better. I know how to talk to myself about it now.
Thank you!!
Anna Kozlovskaia. Anna, I'm Brazilian and I do not speak English well but I understand everything. I had a big problem with jealousy because of past traumas. But I identified where it all began and decided to go back in time and release forgiveness for the person who hurt me. We need to step back and then move on. We have many memories inside us that are real trash and are useless. Give up the memories and live that love that you have available to you today and be happy. Kisses. God bless you.
Dude, that was AWESOME!!! If you’re still out there and you can read this, I thank you from the bottom of my heart!!
Jealousy is just normal in every couple but learn to put limitation on it.
What would you say in the case where the girl says that she's got only guy friends and no girl friends?
@@nishantpradhan1340 oof same
Brendon, your energy in this particular video was through the roof!!! Amazing content 😄 Thank you so much for sharing!
Best advice and insight on this subject by far. Thank you for this!!!!
My therapist recommended me this video and wow I feel so much better!!!! I needed to hear this today
Wow! Your transparency is very refreshing. Fear is the true factor.
Fantastic video Bredon! Well done!
Please make us a video on "how to love yourself". I never really understood what that meant exactly. Thanks! 😁
Great video. Its something a lot of people have to work on constantly. I envy people who have no jealousy....they lead a much more happy life.
Seriously this is exactly what I needed today. Wow.
I'm 42 and I still get hurt over my girl thank you more on this please most dateing people say if you treat them to nice women cheat on you
Wow 😊 You are a great man! Your words effected me in a highly positive sense. Made my day. Thanks . Keep guiding us ❤
1) awareness
2) remember your strengths
I love how this man talks
Thank you so much for taking your time into making this video, This is very helpful and eye opener!
Thank you so much! I understand it right know and what i must do " love my self first"
No jealousy, no hate, no harmfulness just safety, security, healthiness, real ethical justice, timelessness, truth, serenity, miracles, love, holiness, nice circumstances circumstances
You are truly amazing. You are a great support person and show how to be open about yourself.
absolutely love. simplicity and conviction. thank u.
Oh I see. I finally understand this whole Jealousy thing. It never made sense to me.
I love you so much you don't understand how much you're helping me change
🥺hopefully it helps me
Girl I agree
Brendon! Your content and energy rocks!!! Thanks a million!
Gay Hendricks in his book The Big Leap would say it is an "Upper Limit Problem". When you are successful and you aren't used to being successful - you don't know how to just enjoy that success you "find problems" to bring you back down to your old unhappy self. Find the things that make you happy in life - make YOU feel fulfilled in life and stay there just as long as you can...
To always say “with or without the person I married I’m fine” as you suggest … Can get to be draining.
If you see after years of marriage that your wife is attracted to men from another race - Although she may not be acting on it.
It is something hard to “not focus on.” Much as you try to focus on your qualities.
Wow I really needed this today because I feel like my sister gets all the attention and I got a little jealous and I remembered this video I will be happy no matter what I will love no matter what I will be kind awesome and amazing and confident I will not be afraid to show my love for people thank you I needed this today
This was spot on for me today! Thank you Brendon!
Dude , you made my day , took out all this stress , I love you
my god your perspective makes dealing with things easier
Thank you for helping me take care of my side of the street.
This is amazing advice!!!! You are so good Brendon!! 😀👍👍
3:53 is the key take away for me here, thanks Brendon 🙂
Brendon I love your pep talks! You are amazing.
Can you make a video on self conflict with careers and worrying about money?? Love your videos and i find them very helpful!
He looks so good. I'd enjoy having lunch with him. This is so helpful! Thank you Brendon
it goes through my bones thank you so much sir brendon.
Wow! Your message is very encouraging and very powerful.. I really learned so much from your video. I could keep on listening watching your video on and on . You make me feel stronger 👍 Thank you for sharing this powerful video.
Omg ! been searching for this for a while ! Just Love u Brandon !
Good stuff Brendon! Very strong points.
Thank you for this. Honestly and truly. It's exactly what I needed to hear.
You are amazing! Thank you so much Brendon!
Wow! I like your approach👍you make me feel stronger with your advice. Thank you for sharing it.
wow, this video made me cry, the words touched me and opened my mind differently. thankyou for this video (':
My pleasure thanks for commenting
You really made me realize,how i can turn things around in my life,with your powerful Words.
Tks so so much :-)
This is a tricky one. Thank you Brendon.
I love this video, I'm so going to try this and I can't wait because I know I can do it! Thank you for this!
Thank you for this video! You always lift me up! Thanks Brendon!
If you don't compare yourself to others you will never be jealous. The world is rough and mean. As Jordan Peterson said, "the world is against you . . . obviously." But as I told my own subscribers, many times the greatest enemy in life can be yourself. And you make yourself an enemy by comparision to others. If you make 80K a year and have 200K in the investment arenas you will feel badly if you have a friend who makes 250K and has a million in his. But you will feel good about yourself if you compare yourself to someone who makes 30K and has nothing in his accounts. But maybe that 250K person works 80 hours a week and hasn't had a vacation in ten years. The point is, your journey is yours. How much you want to work and gain to get the greatest benefits you can from your short time on earth---and most of those benefits, my friends, are not financial. Hope this helps someone----Charles
This made total sense sir!!!
Thank you so much..
Wow...this really helped..words are so powerful..i can feel the energy
Brendon you are wonderful anoud for me it's very important listen y!!!! Thanks for sharing your experience and knowledge. Love
They might leave, but you won't be rekt.
You are always spot on, I truly appreciate your videos
Uh oh... Listening in 2022.. The Chad will love this video advice.
just what i need it to hear!thank you so much👏🏽🙌🏽
Great time management tips. Do a video about it and also I liked the videos where there was music it made the videos more watchable
Great advice!! Now, how to overcome envy? What to do when we feel others have it all and we don't?
Paul Gardiner Great answer. Thanks!
Paul Gardiner Arguello UP TOP 🙌🏾
Great response Paul. That helped me too. Thanks
Thanks Brendon..Just More Recharged Again
Wonderful idea. Thanks brother.
Awesome stuff here! 💜💜💜
Thanks Universe and thank you. I'm Grateful.
So happy I found this today, Thank you.
I needed to hear this today. I have always been insecure and had low self worth etc. Thanks Brendon x
I love your videos. I am Brazilian but I watch your videos and love it. Thank you for everything. God bless you.
Wow..this video is what I need..thank you!
Awesome Brendon!!
My man, thank you for all of your wisdom ☺️🙏❤️
thanks for this message brendon
What If its both? Both earlier behaviour but also insecurities?
Ive always been waiting for your next video :-)
nice background btw
Great video, very helpful. Thank you!
I need this I love my ex so much she means the world to me I love her so much and I don’t want to ruin what we have from my insecurities
What happened
How about jealousy of others- not within a relationship, but jealous of what others have that you don't have- how do you heal that?
I actually listened to you! You are amazing!
This is beautiful man!!
You are doing a very great job bro. Thanks a lot. Keep it up
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Excellent Brendon, thank you!!!!!
Thanks. 👍🏻 Great video
Awesome answer, Brendon !!! :)
I'm seeing someone who has a lot of options and I have none....it drives me crazy.
Thank you. You inspire!
Oh my go im crying right now thank you so much! U helped a lot
Thank you!! ❤😂
I needed this today, thx u
What to do when you're feeling inferior to others?
I Don't Have To Work And Volunteer Its a Free Country
That's fine when your from the same country and race.
I'm white now live in Africa, there's such a big difference in emotions feelings.
I show mine, I show my love happiness my sadness pain hurt, whereas the majority of Africaians don't, the think it's weakness, especially males, women to don't always show their true selves.
thanks. .....
Such a great and joyful video
Thank you brother
Ok so, what do I do when my gut is telling me there's cheating, and they keep denying it after the adult conversation? All I want is to take off, I don't want to continue, also, I have been cheated on before by the same person. But love promises never stop. I am done and my jealousy is destroying me.
So what if my jealousy is over something that my husband does everyday and he refuses to change
Thank you it really was a beautiful way to help
Very helpful......thanks bro